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USING YOUR EX'S BIRTHDAY AS YOUR BANK PASSWORD feat.TheGirlsBathroom · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. What is the triangle method?
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  Speaker 2: What's that? Of course, my eyes lips. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: that you told me that. No, I did not you did.
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  Speaker 3: There's a difference between hanging out and quality time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and the relationship back. Quality of time is so
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  Speaker 2: important as planned has to be quality quality.
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  Speaker 3: If you see a friend after a while and so yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you ask how they're going, and I was like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I've been. I was hanging out with this girl. It's
• 0:28
  Speaker 3: kind of like, I mean, were you dating her? What
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  Speaker 3: were you like? We know what you mean, Like you
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  Speaker 3: were obviously sleeping with her and going on dates, But
• 0:34
  Speaker 3: did you ever call it a date?
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  Speaker 1: Did you ever make it clear? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: He told me it was his childhood dog's birth. Relatable
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  Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig Akad
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  Speaker 3: and my partner in crime, Audie Clark, a k a. Mummy,
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  Speaker 3: And today is a very special episode because we have
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  Speaker 3: some guests we do.
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  Speaker 1: It's a very special guess and I'm going to say
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  Speaker 1: the first one is Sophia. And you said that, I'm
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  Speaker 1: purpose to Cinsia chin Chin.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry apologize for.
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  Speaker 1: The pronunciation, but welcome to the Relatables podcast. Were so
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  Speaker 1: excited to have you on here. Yeah, you guys the
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  Speaker 1: girls bathroom and you guys are currently touring Australia.
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  Speaker 2: We haven't started yet. Well, actually, when this goes out,
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  Speaker 2: we probably will have.
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  Speaker 3: When do you When did you get here?
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  Speaker 2: We got here like two days ago, so we're still adjusting.
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  Speaker 2: We're still adjusting to the time of first time in Australia.
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  Speaker 1: First impressions, love it, love it.
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  Speaker 2: We do love it. We're just getting a grasp on
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  Speaker 2: like the Australian man and just trying to set them
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  Speaker 2: out here for reason, it is like mullets.
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  Speaker 4: Mullets, Yeah, but also like the tams are incredible.
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  Speaker 2: We have just we have I've learnt something, We've learned that,
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  Speaker 2: you know, because we think everyone is just so attractive.
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  Speaker 2: But then we're like, hang on, let's try and picture
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  Speaker 2: them without the tan. Yeah, just take away a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: It would be we.
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  Speaker 2: Get tanned, blindnesses, gorgeous.
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  Speaker 1: Well, where you guys are staying in Sydney? Is it
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  Speaker 1: near any of the beaches?
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  Speaker 2: No, but we've been going to Bondit a minute drive Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's where you're going to see Like everyone,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think of Bond.
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  Speaker 2: It's massive, very used to watch Rescue?
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  Speaker 3: Is that worldwide?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Is it? Actually?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? We would watch it on Channel four maybe yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And border Force.
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  Speaker 3: Border Force is popular.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And we had to go through the the Border
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  Speaker 2: Force and it was like they had such graces. Bag
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  Speaker 2: she's a bit dodge.
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  Speaker 1: But is there anything you want to see while you're here?
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  Speaker 1: When you're time?
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  Speaker 2: We want to see we've not seen the opera house yet.
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  Speaker 2: We haven't seen that house. Yeah, definitely going everywhere. We're
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  Speaker 2: doing Sydney, were doing Perth with Brisboe.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, in that order?
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  Speaker 1: Do that you can do you know what?
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  Speaker 2: Walk? Oh yeah, yeah, we could do that. Wow, that
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  Speaker 2: sounds a bit too adventurous first, but we could be.
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  Speaker 3: Opened probably How long are you in each place? Like,
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  Speaker 3: are you guys super busy? That's good?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So we've got three more nights here than we're
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  Speaker 4: in Perth for what like four nights or something?
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  Speaker 2: And then but we are back and we do have time.
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  Speaker 2: Try to squeeze as much and as we can. We've
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  Speaker 2: been to d balls.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even know because you guys don't even to
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  Speaker 3: what was that?
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  Speaker 2: We knew yet? We know we were going to love crazy.
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  Speaker 2: We were not expecting the queue halfway down the road.
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  Speaker 2: Nightspots very it's very hard music bowl.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't mind Yochi, but I'm not a big
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  Speaker 3: ice cream fan. I know, I know it's your yogurt.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's yogurt, but I'm just like I'll do
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  Speaker 3: a little bit of the yogurt and then I just
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  Speaker 3: like brownies and stuff. Me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm very simple. I'm just like brownie like Eminem's like nothing.
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  Speaker 2: See, I don't trust people who put gummy.
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  Speaker 1: Bears, neither do I.
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  Speaker 2: I just think that's I saw a girl and she
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  Speaker 2: had like sour sweets and I was like, that's a
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  Speaker 2: weird choice.
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  Speaker 3: I would not accept. My girlfriend likes doing it because
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  Speaker 3: she likes it when they go super hard and then
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  Speaker 3: you have to chew them, and I was like, that
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  Speaker 3: is worse.
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  Speaker 2: So she wants to crunch.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she wants to the frozen yogurt to like freeze
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  Speaker 3: the loll and I just was like I tried it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it's sill, taste good, but I just don't
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  Speaker 3: like it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it is marvelous creations in the ok like
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  Speaker 1: the chocolate.
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  Speaker 2: And it's like all differ for stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's got popping rocks, it's got like Lolly's in it.
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  Speaker 3: It's all like it's just like a bunch of different stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's popular.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe I don't like that. I was going to say
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  Speaker 3: that you could relate to that as well, because.
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  Speaker 2: We've had some or did you like Yeah, Penguin Bar
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  Speaker 2: to England?
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  Speaker 3: I have, I haven't where about I went. It was
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  Speaker 3: in twenty twenty three. I went to London.
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  Speaker 2: Nice.
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  Speaker 3: I like London. Yeah, and then we caught the train
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  Speaker 3: up stayed in York.
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  Speaker 2: Did you get to the Viking Center In York?
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  Speaker 3: We went to the baths. Wait maybe is it called bath?
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  Speaker 2: There is a place called bathe, but we say bath.
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  Speaker 2: Other people say bar.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we say bath y. I went to the bars
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  Speaker 3: and then we went to Scotland, flew to Ireland and
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  Speaker 3: then yeah, I did the whole UK, which is pretty
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  Speaker 3: I really liked it. We want to go back.
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  Speaker 1: We want to go this year the middle of the
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  Speaker 1: end of this year.
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  Speaker 3: We'd love to whereabouts in England are you guys from
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  Speaker 3: We live.
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  Speaker 2: In London, but we're from Nottingham, which is like in
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  Speaker 2: the middle.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Robin Hurd vibes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's from that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh really exactly.
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  Speaker 1: But the essence of today's episode is going to be
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  Speaker 1: all about the girl's perspective gorgeous.
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  Speaker 3: Because yeah, we have like a big female audience, but
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  Speaker 3: we just give our perspective of course. So sometimes they'll
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  Speaker 3: ask us something, we'll.
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  Speaker 2: Go, well, that's literally like us because we're like, we
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  Speaker 2: need to just call up a man, right, we're opposites.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, give a male audience or female audience.
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  Speaker 2: We have a female audience, but the female wants to
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  Speaker 2: know the man because like we're just guessing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they ask us about the mind of the man.
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  Speaker 3: But then sometimes they ask us about things but to
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  Speaker 3: do with females, and we go, oh god, we don't know, we.
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  Speaker 1: Need some extra help.
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  Speaker 2: To save the day.
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  Speaker 1: But firstly, we just wanted to ask like a lot
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  Speaker 1: of dilemmas and dms we get is like building confidence,
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  Speaker 1: confidence as a young person online social media, putting yourself
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  Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, and we just wanted to ask how
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  Speaker 1: you guys sort of started because you started back in
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  Speaker 1: like twenty thirteen to forteen YouTube channel. Yeah, and we
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to ask anyone who is like thinking about
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  Speaker 1: putting themselves out there on social media, like how you
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  Speaker 1: start or how do you consistently staying motivated.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's something that you can think about for
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  Speaker 2: such a long time, and it's like by the time
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  Speaker 2: you spent thinking about it, you could have just started. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Like you can think like, oh, I should to start
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  Speaker 2: that YouTube all blacks. You just got to do it.
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  Speaker 2: I know one's going to do it for you. But
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  Speaker 2: it's scary easier these days as well with TikTok because
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  Speaker 2: you can so instantly. Because I remember like we would
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  Speaker 2: have to sit and edit, buy a camera and buy
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  Speaker 2: like yeah, buy a camera, but we would always say,
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  Speaker 2: just go for it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and people are going to like people are always
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  Speaker 4: gonna have something to say. People are always going to
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  Speaker 4: have something to say. And it's as long as it's
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  Speaker 4: something that you want to do and you believe in
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  Speaker 4: and if if if you're having fun, I think that's
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  Speaker 4: the most important thing, Like you enjoy it and you're
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  Speaker 4: having fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So like do what you want to do. Don't
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  Speaker 2: let other people tell you, because I think that's more
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  Speaker 2: the fear of it, like oh my god, what like
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  Speaker 2: we do take the pic like it's embarrassing, you're going
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  Speaker 2: to do that? Yeah, we had all of that.
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  Speaker 3: We kind of got I wouldn't say we did. We
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  Speaker 3: get that much.
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  Speaker 1: We sort of owe a lot of our confidence to
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  Speaker 1: each other.
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  Speaker 3: Because exactly we had each other.
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  Speaker 2: So we kind of had a scapegoat exactly like my god,
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't start an.
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  Speaker 3: I know I wouldn't. I wouldn't have done it.
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  Speaker 2: But when you're in.
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  Speaker 4: It together, it is much easier. So people who are
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  Speaker 4: doing and I do look up to them because that's
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  Speaker 4: a lot to take.
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  Speaker 2: Very brave.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like what you said when you said you
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  Speaker 3: have to enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: You have enjoy yourself. I don't force yourself.
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  Speaker 3: If I ever give advice, I was trying to say, like,
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  Speaker 3: if you like the content.
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  Speaker 4: Exact exactly exactly, if you like it as someone else
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  Speaker 4: is going to enjoy it too.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, don't make content for people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and don't try and be like someone else, because
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  Speaker 2: like they already exist, like they're already doing that. So like,
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  Speaker 2: just try and just be genuine to what you like.
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: Just be yourself. No one is you, because that's.
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: Sort of how you found the premise of your show,
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  Speaker 1: just talking about things you usually talk about.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think we still have the YouTube channel and
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  Speaker 4: then naturally, I think because we are best.
• 9:00
  Speaker 2: Friends, people were like, oh, like I need a friend
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  Speaker 2: to ask about this. Do you guys have an opinion
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  Speaker 2: on this? Like I feel like I can't ask my
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  Speaker 2: friends about this, so I'm going to ask YouTube instead.
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  Speaker 2: So we naturally people were just sending some stuff in
• 9:15
  Speaker 2: toowards and just asking. Started on SNA Snapchat. We used
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: to go hard on Snapchat, like back.
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  Speaker 4: In the day, really yeah, to send us like Snapchat
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  Speaker 4: of the Snapchat.
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  Speaker 2: Messages videos like answer the snap Everythingtube video.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah that is honestly, that's funny. And so how long
• 9:33
  Speaker 3: did you do YouTube before we started the podcast?
• 9:36
  Speaker 2: I mean we still do YouTube now, but I think
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: we started the channel when I was sixteen, seventeen. I
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: am now twenty six, so it has been like ten years.
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: But we started the podcast maybe like five or six
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  Speaker 2: years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what made you want to do that?
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: It kind of grew from like yeah, so it would
• 9:54
  Speaker 2: start with like Chinsei was saying, like the dms on Snapchat,
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  Speaker 2: and then because we used to post like three Cube
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: videos a week, we used to go hard on YouTube.
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: So we were like, oh, this could be its own video,
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: like just us answering like these people's messages. So we
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: thought like, oh, we need a name. Let's do like
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: boy talk and gil Talk and whatever. So it kind
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: of just became a YouTube series like a boy talk video,
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: a girl talk video, and then we were kind of
• 10:18
  Speaker 2: listening to podcasts ourselves and kind of getting into podcasts,
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: and then we thought it could just be its own.
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: I think we got to start podcasts, but I remember
• 10:27
  Speaker 2: at the time we were like, is anyone going to come
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: over from YouTube and like listen? It was like, oh,
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone really cares like it's something
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: different because it was obviously just audio back then, like
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: no one used to film their podcasts, and it was, oh,
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: well they can't watch us, like it's just going to
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: be through.
• 10:43
  Speaker 3: I remember the first.
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: I saw you guys pop up on were like for
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: you page. I can't remember if it was Instagra or TikTok,
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: and it was your outfits and I was like one
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: of these girls doing on their podcast, like how you
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: guys dress up?
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: Is it the Grinch?
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  Speaker 3: Maybe?
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  Speaker 1: Said the guy thought, where do you get that done?
• 11:05
  Speaker 4: We have an amazing prosthetics skills amazing, It's called Georgia.
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: She's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I always like look at podcast and see what other
• 11:11
  Speaker 1: people are doing, and.
• 11:12
  Speaker 3: Then what they.
• 11:19
  Speaker 2: As dressed up as boys?
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah that was I saw the photo.
• 11:22
  Speaker 2: I think you look like legitimate man. Yeah. We went
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: on Boohoo man and we ordered all the outfit. We
• 11:27
  Speaker 2: did fake change. Yeah, we love dressing up as fun you.
• 11:31
  Speaker 3: Guys, have you heard of the Basement podcast?
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 11:33
  Speaker 2: I love the Basement.
• 11:35
  Speaker 3: Been the guy Joe san I was. I remember watching
• 11:37
  Speaker 3: him when I was like thirteen. Wow. But they did
• 11:40
  Speaker 3: like a drag episode where they dressed up as drags
• 11:42
  Speaker 3: and they looked like perfect.
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: Did they look beautiful?
• 11:48
  Speaker 3: I mean no, It was honestly so funny.
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  Speaker 1: But before we get into the juiciest bits of the episode,
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: we have a couple of like reoccurring topics that come
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: up on our podcast. We can't really figure out what
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: they are. There's two in particular, and we want to
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  Speaker 1: know if you guys can help us. Okay, the first
• 12:08
  Speaker 1: one is what is the triangle method?
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  Speaker 2: What's that? Of course, I eyes lips. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: that you told me that, No, I did not, you did.
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  Speaker 2: The triangle method is when you want to kiss someone
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  Speaker 2: and you go, you go, I I lips.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like, you look, we had something to do
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  Speaker 1: without the Bermuda triangle.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think I'm right. It's yeah, because we asked
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: girls like, how do you make the move? And they're
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: like the triangle method, and our audience told us what
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: it was. It was looking at eye. You looking at eye,
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: look in their lips, ey, eye lips, I eye lips.
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: You to look for that constant movement.
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like, yeah, the eye contact the lips.
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  Speaker 3: That makes a lot of sense, to be fair, Yeah,
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: that does make a lot of sense. That's a good one.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: If you're trying to smooch for the first time. What
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: do you call snogging?
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  Speaker 3: In Australia, we would called a hook up?
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  Speaker 2: Well, for this is so it's just like.
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  Speaker 1: Passionately, when we were young, we called it a hook up,
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  Speaker 1: which is I don't know why.
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  Speaker 3: I also think that a hookup should stand for like sleeping.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but my parents they say pash.
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  Speaker 2: That's like a George is it a Newcastle? Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: My sister she she's Canadian, she says french kiss for
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  Speaker 3: a makeout, French kiss for like just like a little
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  Speaker 3: like text universal.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have a specific word for snog. Is
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: its own things like you're snug in a club, we would.
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  Speaker 3: Say hook up. We would say hook hooked up, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I hooked.
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  Speaker 2: If you actually hooked had sex.
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  Speaker 1: With someone, hook kind of like goes across both.
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: Because that's such a difference. Oh yeah we hooked up. Okay,
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: well did you kiss or did you have.
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  Speaker 3: If one of our friends was somewhere and we were like,
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: how was your weekend and he said, oh good, I
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: hooked up with X y Z, I would be like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: he's kissed with passion snob, snob this lady, and then
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  Speaker 3: to say we were just like like, we don't have
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  Speaker 3: a word really for.
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  Speaker 2: Like just like I don't know how you.
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  Speaker 3: Navigate that made love? I think all those like well
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  Speaker 3: we say we slept with someone, like I slept with Yeah, yeah,
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: slept with them. You wouldn't say yeah kissed.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: Saying snow, I feel like snog snow. Yeah we were snogging?
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, SnO sounds fun. Do you have snob? Yeah?
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: Someone snobby?
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah with a snob?
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: That okay? What is the double hair tuck?
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  Speaker 2: What around the ears?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what.
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  Speaker 3: Because we did a question on our Instagram and it
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: was subtle signs you give when you like a guy.
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  Speaker 3: So one of them was the triangle, and then one
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  Speaker 3: of them.
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  Speaker 2: Was, yeah, like fidgeting with your hair. But I think
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  Speaker 2: that's more. That's more you're more conscious of, like I
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: want to look nice. I'm just trying to keep my
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: hair fixed. So that is always a sign for a guy.
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  Speaker 2: If a girl likes you, it's like trying to make
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  Speaker 2: her hair look good.
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  Speaker 3: Cool?
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  Speaker 1: Do you have anything else if you're like if a
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: guy liked you, or do you like a guy?
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: So you would do.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Something that sounded like we were going probably like the
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: the were like physical touchy. We would not with each other,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: but like hand on the knee, hand on the shoulder,
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: experts expert.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: You know that might be where I got that thing
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: you didn't agree with.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: Oh really, what are we chat?
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: What are we chat? How do you guys feel about asking?
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: What are we never?
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Never that you should never be confused?
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: A massive debate on all saying that we will.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Die on this hill? Are you confusing women?
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: No? Because I got a baited by a TikTok, then
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: it's being confirmed. I finally agree with your audi and
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: this guy said how to have like the what are
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: we chat without actually saying what are we like those
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: words and one of them, what can I remember when
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: one of them was like you could say, oh, someone
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: asked me the other day in public, I don't know,
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: or like, if we're in public together.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: I could say this, this is.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: How like a girl should ask it without saying the
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: actual words what.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: I should never have to ask. We should never have
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: to ask.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: But no, the guy, so he said, you could say,
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: if we're in public together, like you've been hanging out,
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: we have another chat. If we're in public together and
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: I'm introducing you to someone, I just want to know
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: how I should introduce you. And so then it's like
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: it's like kind of it's like that saying what you're asking.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: But then also it's like I'm going to say you're
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: my friend.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: And good point. It's a good point. I said.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: If you're like scared to ask, like you're probably not
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: in the opposition exactly, you shouldn't have to ask exactly.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: It should be easy by yeah, yeah, my girlfriend just
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: asked me, like she didn't even ask me.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: She just said, like, are you sleeping with anyone else?
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: Because I'm not, And I was like no, bold and
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: I just liked the boldness. I was like, oh no,
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: yeah yeah, and then I remember when I was young.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: How do you guys feel? Do you reckon? You need
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: to be asked to be the guys girlfriend?
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah, many proposed to.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Be my Valentine or gidding.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Up, Yeah, it has to happen. We're actually not here
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: for Valentine's we're seeing other friends of Valentine's. I've then
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: got fiance and were taking them away. Right, Oh, yes,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: you have Australian friends. You have Australian seeing them on
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Valentine's Day?
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: How do you know them on Instagram?
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Have you never met in person?
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: But like she's got a fiance and just hanging out
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: with us on Valentine appreciated.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: They've had enough Valentine's okay. One of the last one
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: we got the other day actually, and it was someone
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: sent in like a voice message, and I think the
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: question was what do you love about being a girl?
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: And they said hair code. When it's up, Like apparently
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: all girls know their hair code. When it's up, it's
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: time to party and when it's down, you're not. And
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: so we didn't know.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I would say opposite, opposite down. It's like party.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Let's go let your hair down. Australia as.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Thought that hair up meant like he throw me on
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: the business.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: Do you know Sometimes Yeah, I would actually prefer my
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: hair up if I was going to party because it's
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: out my face. It's secure, true, it's gelled, it's hairspray, true.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Can move around, true boogle. See hair up for me?
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Is work out?
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: Okay? Fair?
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Sophia would rather her down there.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my girlfriend puts her hair up when she's hot
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: and bothered, over stimulated. Your neck being covered actually like
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: heats you up.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Imagine wearing a scarf in the heat.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: It's a good point actually, and.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: It's sticking to sticking to the back of your neck.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: And we'll finish this segment with what do you guys
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: love about being a girl?
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Friendships? Yeah, we love all the girly things. Yeah, girlfriendship.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: You know what a lash lift is?
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: No lash lift like it makes you lashes curly.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: I was going to say lashes longer. That was a
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: good one.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well they look longer because they're they're like yeah there,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: and they're like, we love a lash we love lasht
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: do have that?
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Is that what we call?
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I feel like, I feel like I've heard
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: it said, but I've never asked what it is.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: We just love being a woman, We love supporting women. Yeah,
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: the girls are the girls. Yeah, the girlies.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: I have one more question, sorry before we move on. Yeah,
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: the other day, we already know we're talking about things
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: that we would love but never admit. Oh okay, and
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: one of them that I thought of is a thought
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: of a slumber party. And so we went into this
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: whole thing like slumber parties sound amazing. Guys sleepovers when
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: we were younger, if we offered, if we said, like,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: you're sleeping on the floor, let's we're sleeping on the floor.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: We would never share a bed. Let's if we said
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: let's have a bake off, like, it would be like no.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: If we said let's have a fight, it would be
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: like no.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: But we were just getting it from movies, so we
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: want to know. It's like a slumber party of real.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Sorry, we have sleepovers watching film.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: A face mask may face mask everyone doing a face mask?
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Ye, ordering that would be a real If we lived
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: in Australia.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: That would be what if you got in London?
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: To be fair, we've got pink and snow, No.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: It's called snow.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Let's go.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Next we're going to be calling this facts or false.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: And like I said, this is the girl's perspective. And
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: these are the juiciest topics that are always reoccurring on
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: our podcast, and we know where we stand on these ones.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: And all we have to say is facts are false,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: and we can elaborate if we want so. Facts are false.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Girls and guys can be best friends.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Facts, facts, facts. I think I would just severe.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: To emphasis on best yea emphasis on best I think false. Yes,
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: we say falses because come.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: On, emphasis on best, Like we understand guys and girls
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: can have friends.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, sorry, I take that back, emphasis on best
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: friend false?
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we you can disagree.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, best friends. Yeah, I'm picturing like a group of friends,
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: not a double.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: A friend who says, oh, well my best friend Susan
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: probably yeah.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I meant to be like you can Susan can be
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: your mate, can be your mate.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Biggest hill that we're willing to die on. And we also,
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: like if we've been proven wrong plenty of times, but
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: we're just like so stubborn about this one thing.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Do you guys have female friends?
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: We actually don't really.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe why you're dying on that hill. It's kind
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: of like it's because we don't have like boy best friends.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: And I think it's like when you can't relate to something,
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: you just like, Yeah.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: The way I look at it is like, my dad
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: has never told me he's going to hang out with
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: his friend.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: So true, has your dad got a female best friend?
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Probably not.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: I don't even know if he has even mates.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: My dad's friends are my mum's friends.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, fact or false? We disagree on this, Okay. There's
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: a difference between hanging out and quality time.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah. In the relationship back, quality time. Quality time is
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: so important, has to be quality.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Quality spent he reckons like watching TV and stuff.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Is no, No, that's not quality. It could be classed
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: as but it's.
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: Like quality time is like no devices, no TV, like
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: we're doing something, like we're talking. You know.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: It's like when you live with someone, right, you can
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: see them before work in the morning, you see them
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: after what you're sleeping in the same bed, like you're
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: hanging out. Yeah, it can still get to the weekend
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: and be like, oh, let's do something, let's let's go on,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: let's go out. For breakfast date. Let's have quality time.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I've seen you every day, but like we haven't had
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: quality time?
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right, see make the effort.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just like. But when we argued about it, right,
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: Adie's argument was it could be as the small as
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: small as going for a walk together. Yes, but you
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: need to say like, like we're planning on going for
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: a walk together. So what I'm saying is like, if
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: you want to walk on a whim, is that still
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: quality time or not?
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? It's like yeah, but it feels quality.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: But if you plan to watch TV together, like we
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: are going to watch this movie tonight together, is that
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: quality time?
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I think But if you watch a movie on a
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: whim like everyone always does, is that still quality time?
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Or hanging in well, you might go on your phone
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: like you might be like not that invested. It's like,
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: let's sit down and watch something together. Is yours not
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: quality time? It doesn't sound like.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: It mine or I do like my own time?
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Right, that's not a love language.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say you're just gift giving.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: No mine, what's is it? What's acts of service?
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, mine, I think mine's definitely acts of service.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: So you like to receive you feel loved when things
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: are done for you or you show no, I show
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: love that.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, how do I receive love?
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Quality, afimation, gift giving? What are the other ones?
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: Do you know what yours?
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I I am acts of service both ways.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: Okay, I I read mine's definitely acts service, acts of
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: service towards me. I also would love maybe because I
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: like to give it.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, quality time, affection, everyone's them all quality time.
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: You could hang out with someone all week, but like
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: you still can feel like you've not seen them or
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: like her quality time.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: That's a good point. Actually, sometimes me and my girlfriend
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: could go through a phase where we're like, oh, we're
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: hanging out, but we miss each other.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I want to connect.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: And then yeah, we've never actually said let's send quality time,
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: but we just say, like, let's spend time.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: So maybe you know what your girlfriend's love language is
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: because you should probably figure that out. You could do
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: the quick to do that. It's a fun little activity.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we did it, like ages ago.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: I actually asked her the other day.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: It's actually a really good thing to learn about your part.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: It makes life easier.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Asked something. I think I think one of her main
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: ones is going to be what's opening like cardoor and
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: stuff for? Is that actually?
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: Because I asked the other day, I said, what's the
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: thing that you like the most that I do? And
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: she said opening the car door? Yeah, and like the
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: So maybe she's actual service and taking.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Care of that's like thoughtful.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: Because she also loves to just like be alone. Yeah, yeah,
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: alone time and we're not huge touchy feely act of
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: service people. Definitely, what's yours?
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Mine's probably words of information?
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, words, Yeah, that's how you show well, that's how
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: you receive all both both.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I'm definitely show it that way saying it
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: or doing like I write, like poems with my girlfriends
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: and stuff so much shut shut how I show.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: It's so nice.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: My story I wrote before I started dating my girlfriend.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: How long have you been with your girlfriends?
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Mine's a bit over a year.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, mine's also just a bit over.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: A year's d online? Like, what's the dating scene like
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: in Australia.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: We both met on Instagram?
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah we both you guys slide in My girlfriends live in,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: but how did your girlfriend slide in? I feel like
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: girls are curious about like how do girls make the
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: first movie good? Like to Receive?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: I think her d M was not good, but it
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: helped it because you guys would know because you're like
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: on social media and online personality. If you get a
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: d M from like a random or something, you probably
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: won't reply. But I knew of this girl because she
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: was from where I grew up. And she just meshed
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: me and said, why you're always on my for you page?
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Right there?
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: Also, yeah, good or bad? I think that no matter
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: what you say to someone that actually wants you to
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: message them, they're going to reply. Said hey, and you
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: would have said hey, So.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I I will admit IDM first, but I like to
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: really preface it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: She followed me first, so that's perfect because that was
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: her making her so she's a genius.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Had me like a book. She followed me, I followed
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: her back, and then she liked a story of mine.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: She did it just like the classic classic way. I
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: messaged Oddy and I said, oh, she likes a story
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: of mine, like I have to. I have to message her.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: And then, actually, you know, you said it first, which
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: is bad. If she said wait until she posts one,
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: wait until she posts like a bikini story. I reply
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: that I said, you did say I would.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Have never said bikini. I would have said I would
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: have never said bikini to throw me under her. Do
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I remember it that because I'll admit he told me
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: to message her out of the blue and say, guess
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: the number between one and ten and whatever she says,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: just say crazy.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: I was thinking of that too. We must be so mates,
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: and it's like I like that. Yeah, Like it's not
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: a bad one, it's not a great one. But she
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: just obviously wanted me to message her. Yeah, so the
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: rest was history. Yeah, funny, alright.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Next one, facts or false? Does heart matter when dating?
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: We're quite false.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: More women, they just have to be taller than you.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I mean my dad is smaller than me.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: So I've been around small little my whole life, little
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: small man. Like I think if there was a.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: Smaller guy, I don't but he was attractive, like I think,
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: I don't think I would have a problem with it.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to go out with someone who was
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: smaller than me. But I'm five ft five and I
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: feel like, but if you were just taller than me,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I'm fine, Like you could be five for eight, don't
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: need a six foot five you know cool?
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, good tonight.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: That's interesting to know. Yesterday we asked my sister this question.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: She said, yes, it does.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: It's nice and someone's like towering over. Yeah, it makes
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: you feel small, feel more, Yeah, like we want to
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: feel tiny, fair enough.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: Fact or false? Farting is fine in front of your partner.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Fact. I think you should be able to fight, should
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: not be judged if someone's been really about it, that's disgusting.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: Don't ever do that yet. Then it's like you're like,
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: not on the first date when we've been living together
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: for four years to do?
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: What's a time frame for you?
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Do?
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: I think once you said I love you, it's like
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: little we can be ourselves. Yeah, you and I've got
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: a bad belly.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Everything already. And last one facts or false? Guys should
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: pay on the first date.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Yes, please? Yes, agreed only because like like me and
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Chintz always say like, whoever suggested should kind of be
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: the one to pay if you take out. Yeah, if
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: you've said to me, I want to take you out
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: of booked this table eight pm Friday, gorgeous. I'll be there,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: but like you're taking me out of course. Likewise, if
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I said, I really want to go to cinema. I
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: want us to watch this film, like I'm going to
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: book it for us tickets.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, agreed. Whoever asks the other person to go
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: on the date, Yeah, like okay, fact or false. When
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: the guys areking you to hang out or go on
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: a date, he should call it a date other like
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: not called a hangout, but.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Yes, because you want to. You don't want to be
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: confused with oh is this a date or not? Yeah,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: you want it to be clear.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: We've been trying to say that. It's been coming off
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: heaps on the podcast.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: They're trying to be like they're trying to be easy breezy, like, oh,
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: let's hang out on Saturday. Na, I don't know. It's like, yeah, okay,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: if it's just the two of you, then I'm thinking
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: it's a day.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, no, I agree. I kind of look at
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: it as like.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't get if you're if your friends already, then
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: you can be confused.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: See that's funny because we asked Joanna, my sister, this yesterday,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: and she said, if I think if you're already friends
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: and someone says, oh, do you want to just like
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: hang out one on one because they kind of feel something.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Then that's fine.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I said, if you're thinking about kissing him, it's a date.
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: True, Yeah, if you want to kiss him, it's a date.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: Because we yeah, like we even have friends that if
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: you see a friend after a while and they say yeah,
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: you ask how they're going, and I was like, oh, yeah,
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: I've been I was hanging out with this girl. It's
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: kind of like, I mean, were you dating her? What
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: were you? Yes, Like we know what you mean, Like
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: you were obviously sleeping with her and going on dates,
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: But did you ever call it a date? Did you
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: ever make it clear? It's an interest?
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: That's what girls want. They just want to be They
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: want to be told it needs to be clear if
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: they want to be confused communication.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: There's like a huge stigma of that. Girls have like
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: the most confusing brains ever. Does that annoy.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Actually way more straightforward?
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: That's what we're going to say, Yeah, because I annoy
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: you that that is kind of a things complicated.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Ye see, we think men are all over the place.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Like.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I think it really just like I think, like sometimes
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: I speak to my boyfriend about this, like men and
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: women are just genuinely we are wired so differently, like
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: we think like a boy will do something different and
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: a woman would look at that and think, oh, well,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: that must mean that, but it doesn't actually mean that,
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: Like women are from Venus and MANI from literally and
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: it is actually true, like we are wired so differently.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: Okay, guys, next up his dilemmas, which is going to
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: be very fitting because you guys do a lot of
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: dilemmas as well. And everyone listening. If you want to
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: send one in, it will be in the description of
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: our video to Google doc. It's all anonymous, and yeah,
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: we can help you out. Okay, I'm sorry, it's long.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: This is eating me up. I love you guys. Let's
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: go love you guys, and would value the opinion. I
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: found out my boyfriend of a year living together for
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: eleven months has.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: See they moved in after a month, right, what the
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: hell happens? Moved in after a month?
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Wow, I don't know how I feel about that.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: Who initiated that? Is living at yours? Does he have
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: a job.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: When we first started doing our dilemmas, we would be like,
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: we just need.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: More, yeah, and we just were like, honestly, we're just
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: gonna have to go with what they give us so hard.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: It's so hard.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Okay. I found out that my boyfriend, every year living
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: together for eleven months, has his ex'es birthday as his
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: phone pass code.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Okay, have we not similar to this? I was at
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: the hairdressers once, right, I'll keep the show. I was
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: at the hairdresses once and I was just like, people
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: were just talking and this woman was saying, I had
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: the biggest fight with my boyfriend last night and my
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: ear is prick. This is a naturally. I was like,
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: oh my god, what's about to go down? And she
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: was like, I found out that my boyfriend's phone pass
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: is actually his ex's birthday. And I was like, oh,
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: that's and she was saying, how like her boy She
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: was arguing with him about it all night, but he
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: was just like, oh, no, it's my phone bus what.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I don't even think about it, Like I'm not thinking
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: about what it is. But she was like, no, no, no,
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: that's your exes birthday.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: But you are.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: In January, I asked him why he used the same
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: date for his bank pin and phone code, and he
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: told me it was his childhood dog's birthday exactly continued
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: to tell me. Continue to tell me this whenever it
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: was brought up. Fast forward six months and I asked
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: him if he remembered my birthday. We celebrated it together
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: two months prior. He could not tell me what my
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: birthday was. I then asked. I then asked him if
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: he remembered his ex'es birthday, and he said.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Yes, he should love lied that.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I then asked if her birthday was the pin he used,
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: and he said no and told and told.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Me her birthday was in a different month. Obviously, I
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: went on her Facebook and checked. He lied and has
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: been lying for six months.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: Dump him, Yeah, we don't like liar. Ump him, like
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: liars are really scared exactly if you're gonna lie something
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: as insignificant as your phone password honest from the start.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Honestly, this gets I think this gets a little worse.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: He cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: him and I and him and I have had multiple
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: arguments regarding him telling me if she's messaged him, et cetera.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: Thought that had come to an end because he blocked
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: her and our relationship was in a good place. They
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: dated between fifteen to nineteen years old. We are now
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: twenty three. Is he still in love with her? Or
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: is he just or is this just some cruel thing
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: designed to hurt my feelings? I'm so confused. He's now
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: changed it to my birthday, deleted all the photos of her,
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: deleted all the photos of her, and is going to
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: therapy to address the compulsive line. But is that enough?
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, something that's growth.
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: Yep, we live together and are in a very serious relationship.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: What should I do? Ps He set her birthday as
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: the pin to our joint bank account.
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: So it wasn't even a thing that like, oh, well
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: I've had this for years.
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: You know, blah blah blahh this was a new thing.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe he has had it for years, and then like
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: just for the joint one that they just got.
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: He also made it that he doesn't forget.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: No, okay, but he is trying to change the therapy
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: therapy thing is actually, see, the thing is like I
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: could kind of understand the initial lie like oh, it
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: is my dog's birthday, but then like because I've caught
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: you out and you're panicked, but then I would hope
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: that like actually like maybe the day after you would
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: be like, Okay, look I'm sorry, like I actually haven't
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: been honest about something like blah blah blah, but like
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: he just kept digging. He just changed it straight away,
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: just as soon as I've gone, oh what is that?
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: Just change it? Yeah, like you just didn't need.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: To lie even we should probably even.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Just tell her that that it was that and I'll
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: change it now. I'm so sorry.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: I know I didn't even like I didn't. I wasn't
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: really making the connection anymore, like, oh sorry, like you
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: being honest and they were sorting it out.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but he also.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Forgot birthday, yeah, for so long, and there lies about
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: if they I would go, I would get rid.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: I like what you said, where else is he lying?
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: We have this whole thing where I listened to a
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: few of your episodes before this, and I noticed that
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: you guys put in like we are not professionals. Any
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: of this advice is just subjective, yeah, and we always
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Our whole thing is like we've never said to someone
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: break up because like we will ten times yeah by
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: all me, Like you definitely can. But our whole thing
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: is like people actually might do it, and we've.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: Called off wedding.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: See we're so scared of that. That's a wild.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Because it is still their choice in the end, like
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: that you guys like said this, but we always say,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, what's your gut saying this?
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: One's pretty heavy?
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I just think, like you, the last thing
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: you want to be doing in a relationship is worrying
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: about your partner's ex. And I think it's something that
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: maybe is She's kind of normalized it for her because
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: it's always been a bit of a like itch in
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: her mind, and I just think, like that is not
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: there for no reason, like no smoke without fire, like,
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: but I think if you're feeling something in like your girl,
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: it's probably probably true.
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: How do you guys feel about keeping So he had
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: photos and he hadn't.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: On his instat We hate that delete what about.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: On his phone? Just like memories from when he was
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: with other people?
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: And I don't mind because I'm probably guilty of because
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: I don't I've got so many pictures on my camera.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I don't really go back, but like they shouldn't be
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: on like your public profiles, and like I don't want
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: you to be strolling back and having a look. But
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: if they were on there from like twenty eighteen, like
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: on the it is what it is. I don't really
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: care about that, that's funny.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know my I've spoken to my sister
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: about this a few times and she said that photos
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: of X's it's like, she goes, it's just like such
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: a huge part of your life. She obviously doesn't have
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: it on Instagram, but to keep me in a camera roll,
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: She's like, oh, that was also my life.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: True.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: I don't want to delete the memories of my own life.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: Just he was there, yeah, and I was just like, nah,
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: I just agree, get rid of the Yeah. For me,
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: it's just like I have a tactic of getting over
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: someone and that's getting rid of everything and yeah.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Raising everything. Yeah, me too. And I think like the
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: way that you're wired is like how you want your
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: partner to be as well. Yeah, otherwise I think that
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: can create like, yeah, tension.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: Well we have a follow up.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're lucky we found this in there.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Hi, besties. So I'm the girl whose boyfriend
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: had his ex'es b DA as his password. Basically, we've
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: been working through it and doing fairly well, except I'm
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: still really struggling to wrap my head around it and
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: have a lot of anxiety. Fair, Oh no, anyways, his
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: birthday party was on the weekend, and your girl got
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: black out and ended up shouting at him in front
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: of his friends. It's so embarrassing, and I know all
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: his friends must hate me. Now keep in mind this
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: party was not on his actual birthday. My dilemma is
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: that I'm so fucking anxious about seeing his mates again,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: knowing they hate me. From a male perspective, how would
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: you feel about me? They don't know about the situation
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: because he wouldn't tell them stuff like this to make
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: himself look bad.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: I'm worried they will never get over this. What would
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: you do if you were me? And what would you
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: do if you were my boyfriend? Thanks Kings.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, so she's confidence is key. Everyone makes mistakes. Get
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: strong consists of sometimes everyone's had that anxiety of like,
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: oh my god, sure everyone thinking yeah, oh yeah, everyone's
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: had that.
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: But I think, okay, so how do we face the
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: friends again?
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: I would just well, I think this is where I
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: sorry about last time. I was a little bitter, But
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: I know I also think, like you're you should be
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: allowed to like make a mistake in front of your
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: boyfriend's friends and them not like turn on you. Like
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: that makes me think that your boyfriend doesn't speak positively
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: about you to his friends, hating you. I don't like that.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Like I think that your boyfriend's friends ideally should like
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: think really highly of you and I like you, and
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: like if if you like act a bit like crazy
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: one night, they're not going to like judge you for it.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: But unless I don't know, that makes my that makes
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: my brain would go to like, oh, his boyfriend, my
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: boyfriend like moans about me to his mates. She's fucking there.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's ricky again.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: I just think it's confident, like make it if.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: We were the friends and just knowing like what you
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: just said, guys don't talk to their guy friends kind
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: of about their relationship at all, good or bad.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: And I definitely wouldn't judge and think she's the worst
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: after doing something.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there's always two sides, and I feel like
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: most people know that, like most people can see like
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: to judge off one yeah. Yeah.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: And also I think like we are levelheaded enough. Maybe
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: some people aren't. But the way I would think is like, oh,
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: she's not yelling at him for no re like there's
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: something we don't know. It's private to them.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Like if I say, because you always see couples fighting
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: on a night out and you're just like, oh, they're
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: obviously having a couple's fight. Yeah, like that's just between them.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it keeps different of them.
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: Had we had had a conversation a while ago, I
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: think we had it on the podcast. So it was
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: kind of it was like, good, we guys don't talk
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: about it good or bad, right, Like if we've done
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: something bad, we actually we don't tell our friend about
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: fights we've had with our girlfriends. And then also we
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: don't ever say like anything super good, and if we're
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: gonna say anything, it is about the fight. Like he's like, well,
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: me and my godfriend had the biggest fight the other day, right.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: And so then with guy friends that I feel like
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: the reason that it's always like oh the old ball
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: and chain like that that thing about how guys with
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: at the ball and chain the girlfriend or the wife
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: or whatever is because a guy only talks with guy
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: friends rarely, but if it is something, it's the bad stuff.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: And so it was like kind of hard to do,
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: and I think I would wich more guys would do
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: it is like, and I don't know if girls do it.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: I'm sure they do, but it's like, tell them if
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: your girlfriend is like the best girlfriend you've ever had? Yeah,
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: just tell your guy friends kind of you know, it
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: doesn't have to be a whole big thing. Yeah, at
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: least they know that.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: So then they can have some sort of unbiased opinion
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: when you do bring up a fight and you go, oh,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: when you told me this, Yeah, so it's like you're
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: mad at her now, but also she's the best.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: Girlfriend ever had. Not.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Just think if you're hanging out with your friends, like
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: as a couple, they see you like they know you,
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: like they see that you're but I do. And also
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: you like if they know you as a friend, they
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: will know you're happy. Yeah, Like I do kind of
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: feel like that's normal. Like you do go to your
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: friends when it's like, oh, I guess, what are you
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: really pissing offlah? Lah? And you might not be like,
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: oh my god, we did this week. Yeah, Like that's
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: like a couple of stuff.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I think I just said, like, best the best girlfriend
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: ive ever had. I feel like you should know that
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: just in case I ever say she's.
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: Been a bitch. Yeah, you know, like we have a
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: massive fight. I'm like, oh, she's pissing me off. Yeah,
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: it's like something that you should know. Yeah, and it's like, yeah,
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I just thought it was funny and
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: I just like kind of thought, yeah, no one ever
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: talks about the great times.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is interesting. Yeah, because everyone loves a moan.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's relatable for girls. You reckon, They're like, yeah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: we love yeah.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I think so.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, not to like be harsh, but I've I've noticed
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: English people love them.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Oh we do. Yeah, Karens. Do you have Karens?
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: We have yeah, Okay, do you have community groups like
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: on Facebook?
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Karens go him.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Like they'll complain about everything.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we do love a moon people love them.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: It's so easy moment.
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: That's all we talk about is the well, yeah it's
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: so drizzly and so do you think you leave? But
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: it's like, we would never leave me.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think we could leave for a
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: little bit, but we would always go back. Yeah, like
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: it is the best. We do love you do want
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: it to be, but I do. I do find it
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: fascinating when Australians moved to England and they like, what
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: are you doing?
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: So does England appeal to you to live or do
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: you like love the sun and the sea.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: I love the sun and I have to live near
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: the ocean, I think growing up, I think just the
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: amount of vitamin D supplements to take if I lived
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: in England, Yeah, and expensive, but I've been. When I
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: went there, it was the back end of winter and
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: it was God, I'm not gonna lie, I've never felt
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: it this. It was like it zero degrees one day
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: and I was dying.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: What like months was it back end of December?
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: No, maybe it wasn't even the best is like the worst.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: It was like it was like May.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah it was.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: It was crazy, yeah.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: And it was it's lighter.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: We didn't give much rain and so the week we
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: spent in London, I was like, oh, I can see
• 45:45
  Speaker 3: myself being here. But then everyone I remember coming.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: I think people think that like in England it rains
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: every day and it doesn't like we don't actually get
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: that much. There can be periods of like rain, but
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: it's not like it's rain and its just cold and gray. Yeah,
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: it's not right.
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: So yeah, we I don't know something about the sunshine.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no sunshine. It's just a gray cloud. But
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: we're grateful to have like a blue sky dough.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Maddie, our manager, she lived there for like seven years
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: and she did say like she loved it. She obviously
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: she loved London, but she said it is like you
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: wake up, it's dark, you get on a bus to
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: go to work, it's dark. When you get in the office,
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: it's you're in there all day. And then you leave
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: the office it's dark. Yeah.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: You slip on the ice yeah, and you get on
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: the bus it's gross and wet because it's like dusty frosting.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: She said, it's just like so rough.
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: After a while, you're just like, no wonder, it's just
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: the weather sucks. Yeah, But Australia, I'm gonna I'm not
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: gonna lie back into summer. I'm sick of it. So
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: I enjoy the heat while you enjoy it.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: But thirty five degrees day like constantly gets.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, when you coldest it gets like when.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: It does get cold in Sydney, I reckon.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: The coldest it gets is like I reckon. There's a
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: few zero days the morning, the morning is zero. When
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: I lived at my parents' house in the twenty seventeen
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: I had ice on myere Winshield one seventeen No Cold
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: Sydney in the morning. It is one hundred percent zero.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: After I will dial on this. Okay, we actually need
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: to bet something on this. Okay, forfeit? Okay, can you
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: guys use a forfeit?
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: I know it gets a zero morning. I'm saying morning.
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: I'm not anytime.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: I'll add a next clip. Okay, we'll think of it
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: out of here and we'll put it in the episode.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I know it gets a zero in the morning, all right,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: and I'm saying morning. So you don't twist my words.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: You always, I would say anytime, day whenever. Alright. Up next,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: we have a reoccurring segment on our podcast that is
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: things girls where regularly that can't be comfortable, and that's
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: where everyone sends in on our ig question things.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: And there's a.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: Couple of ones that we want to debate that are
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: they actually Yeah, these ones we thought of.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: We swear that like girls always admit that it's not
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: that bad. It's it's that we are sure. It's I
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: think we're used.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: To being uncomfortable. Yeah, but is it.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Worth the pain? That's what we want to okay pain.
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, So the.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: First one is things girls were regularly they can't be comfortable.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Spicy lip closs.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, tingly lip plump. That's fine.
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: I quite like the feeling of that. It's a bit like, oh,
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: it's like a little bit of a thrill because you feel.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Like I actually I actually don't like it myself, but
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: I think people like it because it makes your lips
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: feel like they're swelling up. They mean, that's the whole
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: purpose of.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: It, like to make your lips look that you've had
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: a little bit of like maybe enjoy it.
• 48:34
  Speaker 4: We've got the Charlotte tevery one that gives us a
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: little spicy space.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it.
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: You don't like it?
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, because my physical pain.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know what one we have we have, like
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: you probably have the same brands there, but yeah, I
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: went and bought one. We've tried it before and the
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: post terrible. It's called like max pump something. We got
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: it from a makeup shop and my my sister my girlfriend,
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: but they both like swear that they actually kind of
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: enjoy the feeling.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't hate kind of like minty tingly. Have
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: you guys done the period simulated.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: We've done an age Agay, we did it, but we
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: did it with one of so we did it with
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: the little machine that's actually to try and help period
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: cramps or like a muscle like us.
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: Just put it somewhere and we turned it up and
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: it was bad. But I don't think we've been doing
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: We need to go to.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, women are just used to paint. It's like men,
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: like when you like pluck your boyfriend's eyebrows. They can't
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: handle it.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: So much.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just not used to it.
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: It's always blackheads that need to be coming out, but
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: I swear they don't because it leaves it I'm bleeding. Yeah,
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: it's like if I'm bleeding after a black it comes out,
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: it didn't need to come out.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: My next one, this one, we this could be things
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: girls where they can't be comfortable.
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: Biker shorts as long as they're not digging as long
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: as a giant yeah too small. There's a thing about
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: a seam going through your vagina, like a seam the
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: camel and creating the camel, the camel, camel just checking
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: ye see, going down into the vagina like that is
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: not comforting.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: Leggings, especially if a legging is then too small. Things
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: are getting uncomfortable. Yeah, it's digging in. Digging in is
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: the world. We don't want to dig in comfortable. Yeah.
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: The reason we didn't even think of that of being uncomfortable,
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: that part of it we thought of just like circulation.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, where boxes, like there's a little mini.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: Short true.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Skins in the skins, it's like sports skin on top
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: of your skins you wear them for it.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: Would be like skims. I would assume it's like if
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: you're going for a run or something you don't want anything. Okay,
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: last one, this one, I think when we did it,
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: we got a little news article written as.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Of like, guys think this wasn't nothing. Bad things go
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: as where they can't be comfortable.
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: G strings.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: Oh you can't feel super you mean like super material
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: going up.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Comfortable.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: It's like you can't feel it. You genuinely can't feel it.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: If you can feel it, you should try. Yeah, true,
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: if you can feel it, it's too tight. Get a
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: bigger sign, get a bigger interesting guy Mark, he wears
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: things all the time. He loves it. Yeah, just get
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: right up the boom. It's almost like when you wear earrings.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Like you can't really feel your earrings yet because you're
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: so used to them being in it's like a tampon.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: Obviously you guys have never tried that, but like you
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: shouldn't be able to feel them at all.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: If you can feel, it's not high enough exactly.
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: But we actually did a question and we've thought of
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: them before ourselves, and then we said, let's ask everyone
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: or the listeners, because you're like ninety on Instagram that
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: are females, So we said, what is things girls where
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: that aren't comfortable? And so many of them were tampons.
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: We didn't we obviously thought that, but we can't say.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: They're not high enough. I know why your ladies are
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: struggling because you don't have applicators. Here is this is why,
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: this is, this is what happened. Let's break your down.
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: Tapas Pearl, our favorite, our favorite regular, the blue applicator.
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: So it's got like a plastic blue almost like case
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: on its exact slippery it goes obviously not we're not
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: going into the skin. No, not we're going into the vagina.
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: But imagine like you know when you're doing a syringe,
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: what because that's how you insert yeah, so you So
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: it hasn't applicated to us. So it's like like this
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: and it's smooth. It's like plastic, so lovely slips in
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: and then you can like like like a syringe push
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: it up, so then the actual tampon is then released.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: But here you can call the plastic. You guys don't
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: have the plastic applicators because it is about the environment
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: plastic and they just go in the bin. So the
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: girls have got to actually get it, and then how
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: do you do that? We have to bring our own
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: tampons because we didn't want to.
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: Question.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: And the only reason we don't have probably not sure.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah you have to be I mean I saw one
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: TikTok where it said that, yeah, that's so true. We
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: could be really running.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: I could be Fake'll have to have one.
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll have a lot. That would explain though, why
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: everyone thinks tampons are paying because they have to go.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah right, okay, actually I didn't know that something today.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, every day is school day.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: The more you know, thank you everybody for listening. You
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: know what we usually do, call one of you lovely
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: baddies and you outrow the episode. But it seems fitting
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: could we please ask you guys to outro our episode.
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we are honored to be having this opportunity to
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: out This means a lot to us, and let's give
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: some pearls of wisdom.
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: We'd like to end our episode with a quote, and
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: maybe we asked them their favorite quote. Yes, what is
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: your favorite quote? What quote do you live by?
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: May you always have lots of love to share and
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: good friends who care.
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: That one Oh before we leave, we have one.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: There, you get them.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: It's going on.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: We wanted to say thank you for coming onto our podcast.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Jesus.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Matches my outfit. Oh my god, oh my god. Beautiful.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: They also have a quote on the back that open
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: for the first time. That's the only size we have left,
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: so we have a.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: Big T shirt always. Hey, thank you guys. Love it's
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: got hearts on it.
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: I love that we're all here for the first time.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: So give yourself a break. Thank you having us guys.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: It's crazy. Bye.