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Romeo In The Morning 6-16-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: What did you send me here? Eight four, two, five
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven? What up?
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  Speaker 2: Rome?
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  Speaker 1: As a parent, do you think it's easier to raise
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  Speaker 1: a boy than a girl?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, one hundred percent. It's easier to raise a boy
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  Speaker 4: than a girl.
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  Speaker 1: Why why would you ask me that question? Boys are
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  Speaker 1: far easier to raise than girls. Absolutely, especially with today's
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  Speaker 1: drama filled social media. Everybody wants to be an influencer.
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  Speaker 4: Nonsentence.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say it's one hundred percent easier to
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  Speaker 1: raise a boy than a girl, especially especially in today's society.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe thirty years ago as a fifty to fifty about
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  Speaker 1: the same. But no, all right, eightpot two four, seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven. Somebody was asking me what exactly? Did they
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  Speaker 1: ask me?
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  Speaker 5: Hey?
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  Speaker 6: Rome?
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  Speaker 5: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: They said, hey Rome, as a parent, do you think
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  Speaker 1: it's easier to raise a boy or than a girl?
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  Speaker 1: One hundred percent? It's easier to raise a boy than
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  Speaker 1: a girl, especially with the social media?
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  Speaker 4: Uh, good morning, How what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Yes? Oh my gosh, year olds? So they the girl
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  Speaker 5: is so much harder to deal with, knowing I have
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  Speaker 5: a sixteen year old, and I started over and I
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  Speaker 5: had now I have a two year old. It's so
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  Speaker 5: much easier than my sixteen year old. You know, they
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  Speaker 5: have the difference, But you are right, and that's society.
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  Speaker 2: She wants her family, but in ten she wants her tat,
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  Speaker 2: she wants all this stuff.
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  Speaker 7: And I'm like, and my nephews are so different, and
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, I don't want none of that. I'm just
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  Speaker 7: like I And then I'm having another girl, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 7: I'm not the hospital for I wanted another boys.
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  Speaker 2: But boys are terrible, don't get me wrong. But girls,
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  Speaker 2: their attitude, their attitude for me.
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  Speaker 4: Do you let me ask you this question though.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think that in the eighties girls were harder
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  Speaker 1: to raise the boys.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think so.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think so either. I think today's today, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because they were raised different. It's like, okay, they know
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  Speaker 2: what they have to do, you know, you know, so
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  Speaker 2: they were trying different. It's and then it's the mother
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  Speaker 2: that's that's you know, teaching them too.
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  Speaker 7: So okay, I mean it comes with it starts from home,
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  Speaker 7: like they say.
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  Speaker 1: So, I agree with you, but I think I think
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  Speaker 1: it's far worse today for for for girls to raise
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  Speaker 1: girls just because of just because of social media, just
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  Speaker 1: because of what's going on with social.
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  Speaker 5: Media and all the drama.
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  Speaker 2: But he says, she's saying like this boy, yeah so much,
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  Speaker 2: so much.
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  Speaker 4: A right, appreciate it?
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  Speaker 2: You do.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she's right. I think.
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  Speaker 1: Before I think when it comes to raising kids, before
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  Speaker 1: social media, girls were probably easier or probably about the
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  Speaker 1: same as boys. But after social media, it's probably much
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  Speaker 1: harder to raise girls. Talking about raising boys raising girls,
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  Speaker 1: which one is tougher because we'ren't what's going on, Coromeo.
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  Speaker 8: So you're still talking about the girls or the boys easier?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, what's up?
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  Speaker 8: But like, in what aspects are.
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  Speaker 5: We talking easier?
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  Speaker 8: Because I have four boys, I don't have daughters, but
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  Speaker 8: I do know my friend she has all the girls.
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  Speaker 8: No no sense. So I'm like, you know, comparing apples
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  Speaker 8: to apples. But it's like, in what aspects are they easier?
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  Speaker 8: Do you think the boys?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I just think boys bring less drama to the party.
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  Speaker 1: They might bring more chaos and more headaches and more
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  Speaker 1: nonsense in a sense of because they do goofy things,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and they get in, they get into you know,
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  Speaker 1: they jump around a lot, so to speak, and get
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  Speaker 1: in the messages. But women just bring emotional drama to
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  Speaker 1: the table for no reason all the time.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you know you women.
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  Speaker 8: Are emotional blacky, I need that emotional drama, I know
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  Speaker 8: what I'm like, it's so fun here, like so like
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  Speaker 8: my boys are so bored. Well, yeah, they're boring. I
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  Speaker 8: guess that is that is easier, right, because they're boring.
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  Speaker 8: But uh, they're expressive, like the food like she was
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  Speaker 8: talking to the girl earlier was talking about they want
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  Speaker 8: the girls want a tattoo is this you know? But
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  Speaker 8: the boys they eat a lot. And then also like
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  Speaker 8: you know, you can go to like the sort like
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  Speaker 8: Forever twenty one and like get you know, a kew
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  Speaker 8: outfit for a reasonable price, but the boys they want
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  Speaker 8: like that name brand.
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  Speaker 2: That's you know what, You're right.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not going to argue with you. You're absolutely right,
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  Speaker 4: but I was gonna say, you know how you know
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  Speaker 4: how you women.
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  Speaker 1: Are with your emotional drama, and then you had to
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  Speaker 1: say that's what I missed, emotional dramas.
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  Speaker 8: I think that's what I'm walking in my household is
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  Speaker 8: because it's like I'm like, man, like whatever her households
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  Speaker 8: she's like so annoyed about. They're just it's so frustrating
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  Speaker 8: for her. But like, you know, I mean, I'm like, wow,
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  Speaker 8: it's so alive over here.
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  Speaker 4: Already.
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  Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven seven. Somebody asked me if
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  Speaker 1: it was easier to raise a boy or a girl,
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  Speaker 1: and I would say yes, in today's society, it's easier
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  Speaker 1: to raise a boy than it is to raise a girl.
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  Speaker 1: But social media really does screw uh, you know, really
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  Speaker 1: does throw a monkey wrench into the program with all
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  Speaker 1: these girls trying to be you know, influencers or never
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  Speaker 1: getting a break from the drama of just being a girl,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 4: And and this.
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  Speaker 1: Is what somebody said, Hey, rom that girl who just
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  Speaker 1: called talking about she has all boys and her friend
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  Speaker 1: has all girls. Did she say she misses the drama
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  Speaker 1: of being a girl. Yeah, that's what she said. That
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  Speaker 1: and that, and that's why I say.
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  Speaker 4: It's not it's it's harder to raise girls.
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  Speaker 1: But part of the problem is, as it comes to this,
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  Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of moms out there that
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  Speaker 1: like the drama that they missed that high school, that
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  Speaker 1: popular girl, that mean girl that this boy likes, that
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  Speaker 1: boy type drama that is created.
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  Speaker 4: And I think I think there's a lot especially in Rosdale.
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  Speaker 1: I think a lot of those moms live vicariously through
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  Speaker 1: the through the drama of their girl.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I think they like it, you know. But yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but I but I do.
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  Speaker 1: I do want to say this though, I do think
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  Speaker 1: that it was it has changed.
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  Speaker 4: I think that raising raising kids and so.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say the seventies, the eighties, even the nineties was
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  Speaker 1: uh was probably about the same no matter what gender
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  Speaker 1: they were. But once we've reached this internet era and
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  Speaker 1: this social media era and this influencer era, and this
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  Speaker 1: idea that these girls cannot get away from the drama
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  Speaker 1: at school because it's all over social media. Their boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: went out with this girl or was hanging out with
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  Speaker 1: that girl, and that just is thrown in their face
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  Speaker 1: because they're always following each other. I think that's really
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  Speaker 1: when it's changed that there, uh, that girls are harder.
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  Speaker 4: To raise, all righty four two five, four seven to seven?
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  Speaker 4: Uh what did he say?
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  Speaker 2: I mean?
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  Speaker 4: And this is uh.
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  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, so I don't I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: just think boys, I mean, even though boys eat more,
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  Speaker 1: boys are are a little less dramatic. They might you know,
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  Speaker 1: you might want to up your insurance because your boys
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, their girls are far harder to raise. Somebody
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  Speaker 1: asked me if it was easier to raise boys or girls, Right,
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  Speaker 1: it's gotta be boys, especially in twenty twenty six, Corny,
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  Speaker 1: How what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Hey, Romeo, I just want to say I agree with you.
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  Speaker 6: I have two daughters and a son, and he's in
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  Speaker 6: the middle.
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  Speaker 2: That kid, he's so easy. The girls.
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  Speaker 6: I take blood pressure medication.
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  Speaker 2: So you now, how old they get older?
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  Speaker 6: It doesn't get any better.
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  Speaker 4: How old are your daughters.
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  Speaker 6: Twenty two now and sixteen and my son's nineteen.
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  Speaker 1: At what point did the daughters become harder to raise?
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  Speaker 1: At what age?
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  Speaker 2: I say, around when they started in middle school?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 1: They were just sweet angels from when they were born
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  Speaker 1: till about what ten to eleven?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, I love them so much, so but.
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  Speaker 4: I get it. I get it hard.
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  Speaker 2: They are hard, and.
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  Speaker 4: You said they're still hard even. How's the twenty one
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  Speaker 4: year old now? Does she still live with you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: She went to college.
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  Speaker 6: Oh sure, I'm say, and it was you know, a
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  Speaker 6: bit much, you know, just like so she came back home,
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  Speaker 6: but now she's, you know, living her best life back
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  Speaker 6: home and trying to figure it out, and he's attorney
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  Speaker 6: for her, so I think that's kind of helping her.
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  Speaker 2: Oh good, good little dress.
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  Speaker 4: So all right, well perfect, Well, thanks for coming. I
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  Speaker 4: appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, girls are easy to raise when they're running around
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  Speaker 1: in their little addresses and Tutuo's loving on. You just
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  Speaker 1: wanted to hang out and once they hit that middle school, huh,
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  Speaker 1: and you gotta worry about them. Already four two pop
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven Ego, Morning Romeo. You'll be
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  Speaker 1: surprised at the amount of dudes out here gossiping being
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  Speaker 1: more dramatic than of females. I prefer my female friends
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  Speaker 1: because they more straight up than most guys. Okay, already
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  Speaker 1: four two pop four seven to seven? Hey, roam, I
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  Speaker 1: have two boys twenty and nineteen, two girls thirteen and ten.
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  Speaker 4: The boys were so easy.
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  Speaker 1: My oldest daughter has been giving me so much grief
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  Speaker 1: since she turned eleven. Pray for us girls, mom, Pray
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  Speaker 1: for us girl moms.
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  Speaker 4: I am man.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, man, I feel bad. I feel
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  Speaker 1: bad for you guys, but you know that'll be all right.
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  Speaker 1: At the end of the day. You'll you'll have conversations
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  Speaker 1: about how difficult, it was, but you'll get through it.
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  Speaker 1: Look at how many how many good people are there
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  Speaker 1: are around right now?
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  Speaker 4: All righty four two? Pop four or seven to seven?
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  Speaker 4: What have we got here?
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  Speaker 2: Yo?
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  Speaker 5: Rome?
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  Speaker 4: Off topic?
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  Speaker 1: You thought LA had fake ask? Oh hold on, get
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  Speaker 1: to that good morning?
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  Speaker 2: Help?
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  Speaker 4: What's going on right now?
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  Speaker 5: What's up?
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  Speaker 1: I was going to achieve? If you've still got slots
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  Speaker 1: for sure? That Data Olympics?
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  Speaker 4: Oh for Thursday?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you can get in.
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  Speaker 4: What's your name?
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  Speaker 1: Man?
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  Speaker 2: George?
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  Speaker 4: All right, George, you're in. I think I got only
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  Speaker 4: a couple of slots left. But all right, George, associated George.
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  Speaker 4: You and your child? Okay, you and your son? Thursday,
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  Speaker 4: seven thirty in the morning, the boulevard.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, sounds good.
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  Speaker 4: All right, so you're in the Data Olympics. This happening
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  Speaker 4: this Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: You win in a barbecue, you win some gift cards
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  Speaker 1: from Fresco Meet Market, Fresco, Mexican.
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  Speaker 4: Grill, uh Mega Nutrition, Kerne Oil. What else is that it?
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  Speaker 1: I'm probably missing something. Bulkyard threw in a grills going down.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll do that on Thursday.
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  Speaker 4: I do got to get a couple of more Dad
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  Speaker 4: teams though, good morning, Romeo.
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  Speaker 2: Is your girl Shadiva, How are you? I? I'm doing
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  Speaker 2: pretty good. I hear you talking this morning about raising.
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  Speaker 4: Females versus boys.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have one boy and three girls. So my girls.
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  Speaker 2: My son is thirty six. My girls are thirty three,
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  Speaker 2: twenty eight, and sixteen. Romeo, I do not know how
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  Speaker 2: I survived the little girls. Listen, you have to be
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  Speaker 2: not of this world. You have to be a warrior.
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  Speaker 2: Like for me to still be mentally okay, I don't
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  Speaker 2: even know of they let me tell you. So let's
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  Speaker 2: see this little still. My oldest is thirty three. I
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  Speaker 2: remember her eighth grade, her graduation. I kept her and
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  Speaker 2: her friends, a couple of friends. We went to make
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  Speaker 2: thee the shop for her graduation dress and we're on
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  Speaker 2: the vccuator and I'm like, she's.
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  Speaker 5: Down for me.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm looking down at her and I said, what
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  Speaker 2: is that on your neck? She she grabbed her neck
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  Speaker 2: in the exact spot that I'm seeing this rent mark
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  Speaker 2: on right. I had to hold it together because I
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  Speaker 2: had to hold it together because I'm like, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to jail. I was God.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like, we're in Nazi.
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  Speaker 2: There's cameras. I'm hampering you when we're home, so I'm
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  Speaker 2: thinking the whole time, what am I gonna What am
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  Speaker 2: I gonna do? So she is the best thing, says
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  Speaker 2: ice cream okay to her dad. She is a daddy girl.
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  Speaker 2: She can't do the wrong. She is just all of this.
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  Speaker 2: So when we hit up the car, my next up
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  Speaker 2: compact fell out of her hers and I.
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  Speaker 5: Was like, I have to see how my book.
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  Speaker 2: I said, oh, she's falling to cover it up makeup,
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  Speaker 2: and she didn't cover it up good enough. So I
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  Speaker 2: diet in and I told her dad. I said, hey,
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  Speaker 2: get a rock child, prefer me the white one. And
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  Speaker 2: he was like what. I was like, you're calling me
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  Speaker 2: to the back. So we get to the back where
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  Speaker 2: in my room. I said, I would like to even
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  Speaker 2: take that tile and just start to wipe your daughter's
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  Speaker 2: neck on this side. And won't be If I knew
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  Speaker 2: this was going to happen, I wouldn't even did that
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  Speaker 2: brother like that. He literally got physically sick. He could
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  Speaker 2: start throwing up.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: She almost took out.
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  Speaker 4: That's great, that's pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: All right, your lady had in their parent.
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  Speaker 4: Later remember when Hickey's were in fashion. Are Hickeys still think?
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  Speaker 4: Let me see you off topic? Would you send me here?
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  Speaker 1: Yr Rum? This is off topic. You thought l A
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  Speaker 1: had fake ass fans since the New York Knicks one
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  Speaker 1: they passed. They said on the news they've been selling
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  Speaker 1: eighty thousand jerseys per minute. It's a lot of jerseys.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone is the Knicks fans, now, I wouldn't be surprised.
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  Speaker 1: We see them all over Bakersfield. Well, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: there's no faker fan than LA unless you come to Bakersfield.
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  Speaker 1: I have not seen one Nick anything in Bakersfield, not
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  Speaker 1: even I haven't even had a Nick fan call me
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  Speaker 1: or text me talking about they're a Knicks fan. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna see that. But I will
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  Speaker 1: say this, New York is the biggest market in the country, So.
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  Speaker 4: What do they have?
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  Speaker 1: How many people do the Knicks do the does New
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  Speaker 1: York have?
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  Speaker 4: Has?
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  Speaker 1: How many millions of people? So eighty thousand a minute
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  Speaker 1: seems it doesn't seem right. That seems a little off.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna double check you math. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: gonna take your word for it or double check where
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  Speaker 1: you got that information. But yeah, I could see that,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's I just don't think anybody's jumping
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  Speaker 1: on Nobody likes me if you're not in New York
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  Speaker 1: likes New York. I mean, the people in New York
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  Speaker 1: suck like look how and they wear it as a
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  Speaker 1: badge of honor that they're jerks.
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  Speaker 4: That's New York man. You come New York man, We
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  Speaker 4: it's hard New York. You know how we do New York.
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  Speaker 1: You're just know, you're trying to justify the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you guys are a bunch of jackasses and treat people
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  Speaker 1: like crap.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, no, I so I don't see a whole lot.
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  Speaker 1: Of people jumping on a New York bandwagon, you know,
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  Speaker 1: unlike let's say the Lakers.
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  Speaker 4: The Lakers are fun, well they were.
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  Speaker 1: The Lakers were fun and flashy, the West Coast man,
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  Speaker 1: you know, fun and sun hot chicks and cool people,
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  Speaker 1: unlike New York who are just a bunch of you know,
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  Speaker 1: weird looking people who are jackasses.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, no, I don't. I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe what you're saying, but maybe.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not going to disagree with your numbers.
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  Speaker 1: I obviously heard it somewhere, So but I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I don't think those are bandwagoners buying Nick jerseys.
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  Speaker 4: That might be New Yorkers that are.
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  Speaker 1: Bandwagoners buying Nick jerseys, nets fans buying Nick's jerseys, But
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  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't think they're.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. Hey, good morning, Rome.
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  Speaker 4: What do you got here?
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  Speaker 1: If you have a coworker that you see and work
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  Speaker 1: with every day, he's in the biggest uh rat. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's the biggest rat, tells on everyone and makes a
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  Speaker 1: lot of enemies, but the big boss loves him at work.
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  Speaker 1: He acts cool with me, but he is known to
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  Speaker 1: backstab everyone. Should I keep my distance or be cool
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: with him?
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Well? Why would you?
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: First of all, what do you guys do? That kind
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: of plays a role on what you do? You know,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: if you're what kind of profession or job, or you
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: said he sucks. He must suck up to the big boss.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: So he's cool with the Big Boss, snitches on everybody
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: at work.
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: I would just avoid him.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Why not? Why would you hang out with him if
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: you know there's a possibility of him snitching on you?
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Why would you want to hang out with a dude
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: like that, to be honest with you, Yeah, why would
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: you just keep your distance?
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: Already? Fourteen bout four seven to seven.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: What's the upside of being cool with somebody who has, uh,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: who has priors of snitching people out? And how come
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: nobody smacked him in the face. I mean that's why
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I said, what kind of job are you guys working
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: at where this dude could snitch on fools and uh
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: not get socked in the face. That's uh, I must
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: start working the oil fields already four two five, four
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: seven to seven.
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, let's see what he said. Merch not jerseys,
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: My bad on that.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, this is the guy who said eighty thousand jerseys
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: they're selling a minute.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: And what it's say it says.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Following New York history blah blah blah, fifty three year
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: way merchandise generated and unprecedented frenzy eighty thousand figures. Eighty
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: thousand figure wasn't isolated. Fanatics recorded a peak demand over
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: eight thousand orders per minuted. No, eight thousand orders per minuted, Okay, yeah,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: so yeah that makes sense. I mean I wouldn't call
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: that bandwagoning. That's just people buying, buying stuff, Yo, roam.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: You're gonna do Monster Truck giveaways? Yeah, I got tickets
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: to Monster Truck. Keep listening, we'll get those later. I
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: got a couple of things I want to.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: Talk to you guys about. I just don't know which
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: one to go with. First, go with what happened yesterday.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Yesterday I was out playing golf with a couple of
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: friends of mine and their kid. And the kid just
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: graduated from high school. It's a son a couple of
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: my buddies. And he brought one of them, brun.
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: His son just graduated high school.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Getting ready for college, eighteen years old, you know, pretty
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: excited about life, what he's about to go through.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: And he asked his dad if he could do something.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: I don't know what it was.
• 19:35
  Speaker 5: Go.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: He wanted to go somewhere like out of town, out
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: of state or something with his buddy and they were
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: gonna drive. And his dad said no, and I laughed
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: and I said, man, and we were just messing with
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: our buddy.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: We were like, man, remember when we were eighteen, boy,
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: we got to do whatever we wanted. And the kid,
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: he goes, he goes.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: He looked at his dad with a straight face and said, well,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I'm eighteen, dad, What if I just I could just go?
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: What are you gonna do? If I just go?
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I'm an adult now? And the look on my boy's
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: face was like and he really did have the best
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: comeback ever. He goes, go ahead, you go ahead. That
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: was all he said, and you could see his son's
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: face just changed to Oh my god, what did I
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: just tell my dad? And we were laughing.
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: It was just so funny because you guys, remember the
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: first time you.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Challenged your kid, I mean your kid challenged you, or
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: you challenged your dad. Remember when you turned eighteen, you
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: were a man, right, you can do whatever you want.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: The problem was you were a man in number, You
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: were a man by societal standards, but you weren't really
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: a man. You didn't have money like a man and
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: live like a man. You couldn't afford a man's lifestyle.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: But boy, do you remember the first time you challenged
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: your mom or dad because you were a man now?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: It didn't last very long for his son, It was funny.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: He shut up pretty quick after his dad just said
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: go ahead.
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: Then, alright?
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Eight fourteen four seven to seven? Yo, Rome, Hey, you're
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: talking about the rom subjects it's not when the boys
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: became a man and stood up to their parents. It's
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: when these girls become adults they stand up to their moms.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: That's when it really goes down.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Romeo. My sons were fine when they turned eighteen and
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: became adults. But once my daughter turned eighteen, she thought
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: she could do whatever she wanted. Tried to check her
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: mother about going out after she was, about going out
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: whenever she wanted, even though she still lived at home
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: and we were still paying the bills for her.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, her mom was not having it and went down
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: at my house. Rome What.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying these kids in general, these kids become adults,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: right and you know, they think they can do whatever
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: they want, but they ain't got nothing. They still don't
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: got nothing. They're still living at home. Okay, you're eighteen,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: good for you, but you still ain't got nothing. Hey, Romeo,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: you're a man now. You can do whatever you want,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: including pay for all your stuff.
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: Well, that's what I'm saying these kids.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: These kids, they want to be adults when they turn eighteen,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: but they ain't got adult money. You can't be an
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: adult too. You got adult money, or you got an
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: adult living situation. If you still living at your mama's house,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: you can't tell her what to do. You can't tell
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: her what you're gonna do. But these kids, they'll sure
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: try right earning fourteen by fours in this seven he roam.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: I remember when I was eighteen.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't have those problems because I moved out right
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: after I graduated high school. I was eighteen years old,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: got me a job, moved in with a couple of buddies,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: and haven't lived with my parents since I don't have
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: a beef with my parents.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: I just wanted to get out on my own, all right.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, hey, yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. Then
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: you Once you do that, you can do whatever the
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: hell you want right you out. You're an adult, you
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: on your own, I get it. But you can't sit
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: here and act like you're an adult when you still
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: when mom and dad are still paying the bills, when
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: mom and dad are still feeding you, when mom and
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: dad are still you know, paying that car insurance, that
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: phone bill.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta just suck it up and play by
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: their rules. Coming. I remember when I moved out.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I moved out at eighteen too, when I was after
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I graduated high school though I was. I think I
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: was young when I graduated high school, so might I
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: might have been seventeen when I moved out. But I
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: moved out and my dad didn't even change my room.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Did I lived with my buddies for about a year,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: and then I moved back in. I moved back home.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I was still in college at the time, so yeah,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I'm in college. Now I'm gonna go out.
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: I'm a party.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Life gets expensive when you live on your own.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: My dad didn't even change my room. He left it
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: the exact same way.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: And when I when I called him and said, hey, Dad,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: you know, he said, yep, come on back. I didn't
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: even He even made a point to tell me that
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: he didn't change my room because he knew i'd be back.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: But hey, I tried.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Didn't work out already, fourteen four or seven seven? Your
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: kids ever pop off to you now that they're an adult,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: or do you ever? You know, when's the first time
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: you told your parents I'm an adult. You can't be
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: an adult you're still living at home.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: Hey, Dad Olympics.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: We got the Dad Olympics coming up on Thursday over
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: at the Boulevard, And what do we got We got
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: four events, right, we got you and your kids, dads
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: and your kids, whichever one you think will be the
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: most competitive. To help you win, we're giving away. I
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: don't even have the list of things in front of
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: me we're giving away, but we got I.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: Know a little bit.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: We're putting together prize packs for first, second, and third.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: I know that the first price is gonna get a
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: brand new grill from the bulkyard. Plus we're gonna throw
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: and I think one hundred dollars worth of meat in
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: or one hundred dollars gift card to Fresco Meat Market.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: We got some gift cards to Fresco Mexican Grill.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Fresco Meat Market.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: This is a big one, by the way, and I
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: know everybody's kind of downplaying it, but current oil. We
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: got some gift cards that you guys are gonna win
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: for oil changes, things like that, things that actually can
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: act pretty expensive sometimes and you don't want to do
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: it yourself. Plus, we got Mecha Nutrition our guys over
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: at Mecca. We love Josh over there. I'm gonna get
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you guys some card supplements. I believe I'm missing something,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: but we'll figure it out. Probably give away some monster
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: truck tickets also on Thursday, So we got four events.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: You and dad, you're gonna do this. You're gonna laser tag,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do the rope course. You're gonna hit that.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: See how hard you can hit that punching bag game,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: you know the one where you hit the speed bag
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and I hit seven thirty two. I don't even know
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: if that's good or bad, although some young kid hit
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: nine something right in front of me, which kind of
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: is embarrassing, But hey, what are you gonna do? And
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: then we're gonna do a version of bowling for you
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: guys to win. Okay, So I need a couple of
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: more dads. We're looking for twenty teams. I think I
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: got eighteen teams down. So if you're interested, I guess
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: you still got a chance to get in.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: Where's my boy at? You know what's messed up?
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on in the farming industry.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: But my watermelon guy he showed up in two years.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: In two years, my watermelon guy ain't hooked me up.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: And you know, it's a hundred and four outside one
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: hundred and two. There's nothing more refreshing, nothing more refreshing
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: other than cucumber water with little vodka in. But there
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: is nothing more refreshing the watermelon.
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: And my boy.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know where he's been. I don't know what's
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: going on. Is there something, did something happen? Have watermelons
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: become more expensive and harder to get?
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I really don't know, but.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, although I did get one the
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: other day from somewhere maybe uh where did I get
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: it from? But there is nothing more refreshing when you
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: come in from a one hundred and two degree weather
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: one hundred and four degree weather than ice cold watermelon
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: out of the fridge. Nothing, nothing cools you off faster
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: or is more delicious.
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: And my water guy, and you know who you know,
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: who you are.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing if you're keeping him
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: for yourself. I don't know what's going But it's been
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: two years.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: I'm just letting you know.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: It's been two years since you showed up at the
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: house with a watermelon, or at least two I'm just
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: letting you know. I was out with some friends the
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: other day, my buddy and his wife, and he was
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: telling me how he's got to go out of town
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: for work for like six months.
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: He's got to go out of town six he has
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: six or whatever. He think he's gonna be longer than that.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: But apparently he's got to do. And I know a
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: lot of you guys.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Deal with this, right, especially cats in the oil fields.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: You guys gotta go.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: You guys will spend a lot of time away from
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: home for work. Well, this fool's got to go to
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Child Chilla and he's trying to sell me on Child Chilla. Oh,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: you got to come visit me in Child Chilla. They
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: got this, They got Child Chill. Ain't got nothing for anybody.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to go there unless you have to, unless
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: it's state mandated.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: You know, nobody's going to Child Chilla. I don't know why.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I don't even know why he's going there. They're building something.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I'm just I don't know what it is. But this
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: clown's trying to sell me on Child Chilla. You gotta
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: come visit me. I'm gonna stay at the motor home
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: park and he's got to stay there for.
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: Like it's gonna be. I said, just just come home.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: Why would you?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Why would you if you got to work Monday through Friday. Well,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: why would you stay there any longer? And you have
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: just come home every weekend? The hell's wrong with you?
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: There ain't none in choud Chill. I'd an aunt vacation
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: there a while back for a few years. But yeah,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: there ain't not cha Chilla sucks. Don't nobody want to go.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: CEOs and criminals. It's all you got in chow Chiller.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Ain't none to offer, none to offer, So stop.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: Trying to sell me on going to visit you and
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: Chacha my buddies. His wife won't even go visit him.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: She's like, why would I go there?
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Just come home?
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Throw me outside? Thirty four point?
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Well, the reason I brought it up because I was
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: just curious how you guys, some of you guys handle that,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: how your wives handle your husband's being out of town
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: so long when they have to go out of town
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: for work.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: I was just curious, throw me outside.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of curious how there, how she's gonna handle it,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: to be honest with you, or how he's gonna handle it.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: Who's gonna handle it worse?
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Then?
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: I don't think this has ever happened before. Hey, good morning, Romeo.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: You were talking about your my husband going out of
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: town for work. My husband will leave for six months.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Sometimes he'll come back at least twice a month. Now
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: he goes out of state, so he has to fly back.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: But it's not bad.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I got the kids. I deal with the kids, so
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: we hang out a lot. I get time to spend
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: with my family. But I do miss him when he's gone.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: But yeah, Rome, that's how we deal it. That's how
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: we deal with it. But he does come home a
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: couple of weekends a month.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: Well, where does he go to? What state?
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: How far away? I mean, I know, you guys do it,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I know what happens. I'm I'm kind of curious how
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: my friends are going to deal with it because I
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: don't think they've ever been apart that long. I mean,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: they've been together since high school. I think, something crazy,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: and then they've never they've never been apart that long. Like,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I don't even think they've ever been maybe a day
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: at the most. Some of of you have never been
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: apart from your spouse more than a day or two.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: And then your spouse is gonna go out of town
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: for six months. I mean, I mean it's only it's
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: only up the road. Though it's only just outside of Fresno.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: You can drive back whenever you want, right, But I
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: know some of your some of your husbands go to
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: other states.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: What where do they go for oil?
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: North Carolina, South Carolina, Texas, places like that. I mean,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: you can't just come home whenever you want. So, yeah,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I wonder if it's nice. I wonder if it's uh,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: how do you guys handle it? All?
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: I wonder how my friends are gonna handle it. The
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: good thing is I get to see how they how
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: it all plays out.
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: So buddy of.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Mine and his wife, we're going to see what happens
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: because he's got to go out of town. He's never
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: really worked out of town before, but apparently for some reason,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: it's got to go work out of town.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: He thinks he's going to be six to six months
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: to a year.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: But I mean it's just down the road, just outside
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: of Fresno at chat Chilla. But I guess he's, you know,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: gonna work twelve hour day. He's got to stay there
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: for I mean at least Monday through Friday. Rights, what
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: is that a two and a half hour drive. Nobody's
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: making that drive every day. But it's funny because he
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: was trying to convince us all we need to go
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: visit him, and we're like, well, when would we come
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: visit on the weekend?
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: No, why wouldn't you just come home? And he's telling us.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: He's telling because he's trying to get me to go
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: up there to play golf in all kinds of nonsense.
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: And his wife is like, why would I go visit you?
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: You just I'm not going to come up during the
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: week She got her own responsibility. She can't just roll
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: up there during the week. So but when the weekend comes,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: why would you go? Why would you go there? Somebody
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: give me one legitimate reason, and I might understand, But
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: why would you go there? Why would anybody go to
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: chow chill Unless you're going to visit a relative.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: Why would anybody go there? You can just come home
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: for the weekend. It's that simple. And he's trying to
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: sell us. Oh no, everybody.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: And what's what's funny is I guess all the other
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: wives of the guys that got to go to a
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: group of them are.
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: Down, let's go partying chow chilla.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Seriously, nobody's that dumb, at least my at least my
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: buddy's wife's smart.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, I'm not going there. You can just
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: come home the hell yeah.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four seven to seven. What do
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: you guys do when you're out of town? I mean
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of you, A lot of you wives. Your
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: husband's got to go out of town for work.
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: I mean a lot of you. That's the business, right.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four seven to seven eight Romeo,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: my husband says, you want my time or you want money.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: I mean that's a that's a tough I mean, yeah,
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: that's uh, yeah, that's tough.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: How much time do you spend a part though? I mean,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: when you marry somebody, don't you marry him for their time.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: First or there?
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know that's a good I think you gotta
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: have a certain kind of relationship to have to have
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: a husband or a wife that that's gone all the time.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I have a buddy who he was always here and
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: his wife was always gone. She ended up having an
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: affair and leaving him. They got divorced. But you know,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I think that's a possibility. Already four two potful or
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: seven a seven eight. Rom My man works in Alaska.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: He literally just got home at two am. He'll be
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: home for two weeks, then gone for six because he's
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: working over I broke my ankle, so now it's a
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: little tougher for me and the kids. Luckily, I have
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: one teenager who's a big help. But usually he's gone
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: two weeks and home two weeks, so he works a
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: little over fifty percent of the year.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: Been together twelve years. I mean two weeks, two weeks
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: and two weeks is not bad, right, I mean that's
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: a that's not bad? Or two, five, four or seven
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: to seven? What's going on?
• 35:03
  Speaker 6: What's rom seahawk glue?
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: A ern?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: So are you still talking about how to deal with it?
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Whenever you have to work out of state or something?
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: You never got a job hold on.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: But back in twenty fourteen, I had a job in
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: the oil fields. Oh okay, and they wanted me to
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: go to New Mexico. Okay, it's a random spot. And
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: this is how you deal with it. You just tell
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: them no, and that's it. They're not gonna like it,
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: but you tell them no, and you know, nobody has
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: to deal with anything about you leaving anywhere. Of course,
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: most of these guys just say, yeah, we'll go anywhere.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: You want me to for whatever long you want me to,
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: and they just go and they end up staying there
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: and living there. Okay, And then if that were to
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: happen now, the real question would be how would wast
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: will do without me being here?
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: I don't know, Louie. It would be devastating to the city.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: This city would suffer, man, the city would suffer. Okay,
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: all right, you have a good one.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Remember you're taking from You're taking advice from a guy
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: who doesn't have a job. Just remember that already four two,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. I mean, sometimes you gotta do what
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: you gotta do.
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: For work, right, And I just I don't know. I mean,
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: I'm I'm gonna guess.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: That a lot of you wives are used to it
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: by now, right. It's been probably going on for a
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: long time. But this is the first time that my
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: friends are gonna be a part this so long, it's
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: gonna be interesting. Even though technically it should be Monday
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: through Friday. He'll be home on Friday, leave Monday, come
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: back Friday. But he tried to convince us all to
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: go to child Chilla to hang out.
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: Well, bring your ass home. What's wrong with you?
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: What did you send me here already four two, seven
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: to seven Rome. My husband at the time, now divorced,
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: was making the most money ever about seven years ago,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: working up North Bay area. He would come on Friday
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: to Sunday evening. I loved it though though it made
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: us I thought it made us closer and miss each
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: other a bit. But no, he started flipping out at
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: every chance he could. Insecurities really took over, and then
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: the jealousy of our own children. It almost seemed like
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: he was calling. He was calling at specific times because
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: he knew I didn't have free time, like right after
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: work for me, getting the kids, making dinner.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: Bedtime, accester, after all that.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I would try to call and he would be asleep,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: so to say the least, it didn't work. We ended
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: up separating, and he ended up quitting because he got
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: a girlfriend a girlfriend a month or two after we split,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: and he wanted to be in town. Oh for that,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, mind. You took about thirty dollars to
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: took about a thirty dollars pay cut, pay cut, and
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: they lasted less than six months. Some people can't handle
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's kind of crazy, right, Well,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: we'll see what my friends do. They're pretty solid couple.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, they're pretty legitimate couple. I think they'll be
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: all right. I just he's trying to get us to
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: go visit him on the weekends in chow Chilla. Who
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: the hell goes to child Chilla for anything. I don't
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: even like driving through child Chiller when I got to
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: go up north. That's how pathetic that town is. Just
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: And I'm God bless his wife for just telling no,
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not going up there. You can come home, see,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: because you can bring your ass home already four two five,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: four seven seven. Yeah, And I agree with what you said.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: It is tough for some people, I think, to live,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: to live apart to work a part you know. I
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: don't know if it's.
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: Just because of jealousy, but I mean, when you get
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: with your partner, don't you give with them so they're.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Around all the time, so you can see them every day,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: not so they can work out of town alrighty fourteen
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: five four or seven seven?
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: Oh No, Rome, it's not bad at all. After twelve years,
• 39:19
  Speaker 4: we have a system.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I love the two weeks on, two weeks off because
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: my job allows me to choose my own schedule, so
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: when he's home, I can be off.
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: Every day as well. Oh that's a good. Yeah.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: We tend to do barbecues, go on trips, travel. Believe me,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: we make the most of it together. Sure, I I
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: just it's got to be hard for most people. Right.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: You marry a man and then he's gone half the year.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: And I know a guy, by the way, I know
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: a guy who travels a lot. Sells guy travels a lot.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: And it's fun, by the way, when he's having a
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: hard time finding a woman in Bakersfield because he's.
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: Gone so much.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: He's gone, I think, you know, half the month, maybe
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: a little more than half the month. And all these
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: girls he's dating or meets think it's great, you know,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: because they're divorced. They got to raise their kids, they
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: got and then he's gone. You know, I get to
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: see him when he comes home, and I can just
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: live my life care free while, you know, and do
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: me until it gets serious.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: Once it gets.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Serious, is wheneverything changes. Why are you gone all the time?
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: It was gone all the time when we met, so yeah,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: I could speak. It's probably difficult for most people. You
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: probably got to be a special.
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: Kind of character.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: To marry someone who's gone half the year working out
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: of town with the Boulevart put together some contests for
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: you dads to play with your kids. Okay, now there's
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: four events. There is the hold on that I'm telling
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: you the four events. I want to look up what
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: the prizes are. So the four events are gonna go
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: like this. You're gonna play laser tag. The lower the
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: lower scores in laser tag are gonna get eliminated. Then
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do the rope course, all right, the lowest,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: the slower times are gonna get eliminated. Then we're gonna
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: do the punching bag thing where you hit the speed
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: bag as hard as you can and the lower scores
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: are gonna get eliminated. And then the final round is
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: gonna be bowling, at least a version of bowling that
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do with you and your kid.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: And the winner is going to win a new barbecue.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: So we're giving away new barbecue from let me see,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: I got the prize in front of it. First place
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: is the barbecue from the bulkyard. Second place, you get
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: a cutting board, a dry drip tray, drip tray container,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: and lyd third place, you get a gift box of
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: seasonings and rubs. Okay, then we got Mecca gonna get
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: you one hundred dollars gift card, fifty dollars gift card,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: twenty five dollars gift card. Fresco Mexican Grill. We got
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: some thirty dollars gift cards for you. Fresco Mexican Meat Market.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: We got one hundred dollars gift card, a fifty dollars
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: gift card, a twenty five dollars gift card. This is
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: the one that is really kind of it is kind
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: of a sleeper prize Current Oil Change one hundred and
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars coins, Good Towards Oil Change and Services one
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: hundred and twenty dollars gift coins. So we're gonna give
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: it out some prizes, okay. Plus we'll have some monster
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: truck tickets for you as well. Now it's just a
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: day for you to have fun with your kids, Okay.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: At the boulevard, I have seventeen teams right now.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: I need twenty. Well, I'm trying to get twenty. So
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: I had to have one team.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Backed out because the kids had summer school and it
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: couldn't be late for summer school.
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: I guess, but you know it is what it is.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Kids got responsibilities. They can't show up. So I need
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: a couple of more teams. I need three more teams. Dads,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: if you want to come down with your kids on
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: Thursday down at the boulevard seven thirty in the morning,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: We're gonna go till ten am and then the Boulevard
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: said they will hook the kids up with some gift cards,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: so you guys can play and hang out for a
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: little while. But we're just looking to have a good
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: time Thursday morning at the boulevard. Now, I need three
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: more dads. I need three more teams a dad and
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: your child. Kid has to be under eighteen though, but
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: I need three more teams right now eight four, two,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: five four or seven to seven. If you want to play,
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: let's do it.
• 43:23
  Speaker 6: Hello, Hey, what's up?
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Hi?
• 43:25
  Speaker 8: I was calling for my daughter and my husband.
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they can participate. Can they make it on Thursday?
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 43:35
  Speaker 8: My husband works, he's off that day. He's off that day,
• 43:39
  Speaker 8: and my daughter should have had summer school.
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: So how old your daughter can damn you're making them
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: go win the prize? What's your husband's name?
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: All right? Cool?
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: So so he's in, just make sure that he shows
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: up on Thursday with uh, with your daughter. Are you
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: gonna come as well?
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna go the kids watch.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:01
  Speaker 8: Sure.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: We'll have gift cards for the kids to play things
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: like that also, so it'll be a good time.
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: Hold on one second, okay, okay, all right, So there
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: you go.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: I need two more two more teams. Two more teams, right,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: two more dads with your kids. We're gonna have a
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: great time. Like I said, you can come down with
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: your family, bring your other kids.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: We're gonna hang out.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: We're just gonna have some fun at the boulevard on
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Thursday morning. Watch dads compete for Dad Olympics. So anybody
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: else you want to come down and compete. I need
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: a couple more teams the four two, four, seven to seven.
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: To the contest oh on Thursday.
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what's your name?
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: Fabian? Fabian? You got a kid or you just I
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: do eight years old? All right, Fabian, you're in.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: You just got to be able to go to the
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: boulevard on Thursday morning, seven thirty and we'll compete.
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: Is your eight year old athletic?
• 44:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Do not think you know?
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: Damn all right, brother, hold on a second. Okay, yeah there,
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: all right, So we're down to the nitty gritty.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: We only got one spot left, one team left for
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: the Dad Olympics on Thursday at the boulevard. Man, we
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: just need one more team or we only have one
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: team left, one spot left for a team.
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: If not, then we'll do nineteen teams going great, Man,
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: what's up.
• 45:30
  Speaker 5: The left bottle or what for?
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: I got the last spot open? What's your name?
• 45:36
  Speaker 6: Phillip?
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: Philip? Yeah, all right, Philip? You and who you bringing? Center? Donner?
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: My son? All right?
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: Howld your son Kevin? Okay? Cool? Well, all right, Phillips.
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: So you're the last spot, all right, all right, So
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: we're gonna do a seven thirty, seven thirty over the
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: boulevard Thursday morning.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, sound good?
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: All right, brother, hold on a second, okay, okay, all right,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: So I got twenty teams. I got twenty dads and
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: their kids ready to go the boulevard on Thursday morning,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: seven thirty.
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: We're gonna hang out, We're gonna have a good time.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna do laser tag, We're gonna do the
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: rope course, we're gonna do the punching bag thing that
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: and then we're gonna do some bowling. All right, So
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: we got a lot going on the Dad Olympics. We're
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: doing it at the Boulevard on Thursday, alright, eight four twent.
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: Five four or seven to seven.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Hey, roam, I was hoping I can ask you a question.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about right now, but
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: last night my daughter, who is seventeen year olds and
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: am I seventeen years old, and my wife got mad
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: at me, and they were still mad at me this
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: morning at breakfast. I want you to tell me if
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I was wrong. My daughter is seventeen. She was going
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: out on a date and a boy was picking her up.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: We were sitting there waiting. I kind of wanted to
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: see who the guy was. She starts to head for
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: the door and I said, where are you going? She says, oh,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: my date's here. He just texted me that he's here,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: so I'm going I'm leaving. She said bye. She said
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: bye to us, and I said, hold, await a second,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: why is he not coming to the door. And my
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: wife said, that's just how they do it now you're
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: so old. I said, I don't care. I want to
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: know who my daughter's going out with. She got embarrassed
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: in that, so I told her she couldn't go unless
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: he walked to the door and said hi. Well he
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: didn't want to do that, Rome. So now my daughter
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: and my wife are both mad at me.
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: What do you think, Rome? Did I do the right thing?
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah? How do you do the wrong thing? Looking out
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: for your daughter? And why is your wife okay with that?
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: It's like how I mean, I understand where your wife's got. Well,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: that's just how they do it. No, okay, that doesn't
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: mean how they do it is right. How about you
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: have a little respect? Why couldn't this guy have a
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: little And why is your daughter? I can't believe your
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: wife did this? Why isn't your Why doesn't this guy
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: have enough respect for your daughter? What are you gonna
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: just whistle at her and she comes running? Because that's
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: pretty much what it is. He couldn't walk up, knock
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: on the door, say hi, introduce himself. Yeah, no, I
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: think you're absolutely right. And for instead of your wife
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: and your daughter being mad at you, you should be
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: pissed off of them, and you really should be mad
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: at your I understand your daughter she don't know no better.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: You're trying to teach her better. But what is your
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: wife teaching her by doing that?
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying that?
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that don't summay right there, bro, I mean you
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: should be mad at your wife that go home, start
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: a fight with a wife actor ask her what is
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: she teaching.
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: Her daughter to?
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Just some guy whistles and she comes running, Because that's
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: really what your teacher. Meet me outside. I'm here, meet
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: me outside. That's the type. That's the type of daughter
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: your wife wants to raise. Okay, So no, I think
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: you're absolutely right. And the other question then I have
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: now is once once, did did your daughter tell the dude, hey,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: my dad said you got to come to the door
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: and he decided not to?
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: Or did she just get embarrassed and what and what
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: she had to say? Something?
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: He probably dodged a bullet on that one. What kind
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: of dude.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Let's say your daughter did say, hey, my dad said
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: you got to come to the door, I can't go
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: and that dude decided not to. You should be glad,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: in fact, the whole household should be glad that your
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: daughter's not dating that idiot. Yeah, I think I bro,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: I think you did everything right, and I think your family,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: your wife and your daughter need to take a step
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: back and understand their role. His dad, he was telling
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: me his wife and his daughter, seventeen year old daughter
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: are pissed off at him from last night because the
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: guy was going to take his daughter out and I
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: guess he just texted so she was gonna leave, and
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: the dad was like, nah, he needs to come up
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: and and and meet it, meet us, right, And so
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: I guess the kid never came. So the girl, the
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: daughter didn't go out on a day. Good morning, How
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: Hey, that's a really good parentinge.
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: I love what that guy did there. Well, yeah, it's
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: kinda yeah.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah. It's like he can't get off the car go
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: knock on the door and ask for his daughter. Like
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: come on now, man, you're really you're really not going
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: to do that.
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: I know who you are.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: I didn't say I said, at least say hi, I mean,
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: I mean, I mean yeah.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: I mean because one of my pet peeves is only
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: going to pick me up. I hate it when they
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: pull up honking.
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Hey, I'm outsiry, you know what I mean?
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: Well, I've got that's old school. Honkin's old school Mexican.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: When you pick up, when you pick up a coworker
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: for work, honk once show you there. Second honk means
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: you're about to leave. In the third honk, you're driving away.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: So that's old that's different.
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I get it.
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: You know what, I think the guy is old school
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: of Mexican man because he probably did that honk one.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: She didn't come out Hong Kong. She didn't come out.
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: He's hard.
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: I'm gone, Oh now they text, all right, get out
• 51:34
  Speaker 4: of here.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if you're picking somebody up for a date,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: and I don't even know how often that happens, but
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: even a even a at least a seventeen year old,
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: if your seventeen year old daughter is going to go out,
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: you should at least the guy should at least come
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: to the door introduce himself, you know what I'm saying.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: So I don't have a problem with dad, but I
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: don't understand is the mom's life. For the mom to
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: say that's just how they do it and kind of
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: degrade her husband in a sense, is that's a little
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: strange to me. I mean, what kind of daughter are
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: you raising to say it's okay for some guy to
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: just come by honk or whistle or text, and she
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: just goes running out to him. I mean, what kind
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: of mom are you? So this guy he sent me
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: a text message a few minutes ago. He's talking about
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: his daughter. I guess his daughter was going to go
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: out on a date. She's seventeen years old. And apparently
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: the guy didn't come up to the door. I was
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: gonna pick her up, but didn't come to the door,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: and so the dad was like, nah, you're not going.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: So he's telling me his wife and his daughter mad
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: at him day. He's wondering if he was wrong or not.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: And apparently the mom said no. They just text nowadays
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: to let you know they're out front. And the dad
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, that's.
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: Not good enough, and so he didn't allow his daughter
• 52:54
  Speaker 4: to go out. So now they're man.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: But I the question is the mom, you know, I
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: guess the dad. You want to know who's taking your
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: daughter out. You might want to say hi, just you know,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: look at the face. So if you got to, you know,
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: if the police ask for a sketch, you know who
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: you're talking about. I means something, but it's the mom
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: who tried to just justify it like it was nothing,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: and basically.
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: All it is is a guy driving up. I mean,
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: is that how the mom lives?
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: The guys can just drive up, honk twice and your
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: daughter has to run out and get in the car.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: The mom all right, eight four two five four or
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: seven to seven zero Rome, you were talking about the
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: dad and the mom and the daughter going out the mom?
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: Is she a Bakersfield mom? Because you know, you can't
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: turn these hoes into housewives. So now the mom's home,
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe she is.
• 53:44
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Eight poort two? Oh wait eight port two five four
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven room. He's probably a lot older
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: than her. Ask for that driver's license, especially if you're
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: picking her up. Some people will drive illegally. What are
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: you talking about? He's probably older.
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. I don't know where you're going
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: with that, but okay, yeah, I don't know.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: I would think if a guy was gonna pick you up,
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, how many of you would accept that, even
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: if you were an adult. If you're just a twenty
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: seven year old woman living somewhere and some guy comes
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: to pick you up on a date, are you making
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: him come to the door, or you just when he
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: texts I'm out front, you just run out there. Yeah,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: that's a dumb ass move. Once you set that precedent,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: you're just an idiot at that point. Hey, Robio, I
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: just want to let you know what's going on in
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: this world. I am a thirty two year old single man.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: These women have no respect for themselves anymore. You don't
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: even have to pick him up. You just text them
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: and tell him to meet you, and they come over quickly.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: You don't even have to know them anymore. You just
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: go on a website or a dating app and you
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: got him like that. I'm just trying to hip you
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: to the game, Romeo. So what you're talking about is
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: kind of old school. That's not how it works anymore.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: These women have no respect for themselves.
• 55:11
  Speaker 4: I don't think that. I don't know if it's respect
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: for yourself.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I could see how you put
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: that they have no respect for themselves because you just
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: snap your fingers and they come running. But I don't
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: think they see it as like that. I don't think
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: women see it. I think they see it as independence
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: and they're in control. I don't think they see it
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: in the same way that this this dad sees it
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: when he's with his daughter. You know what I'm saying.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I think they see it as I think women today
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: don't see it as men snapping their fingers and them jumping.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: They see it as them, you know, them being independent.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: You know, all right, you would know you're in the game.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: All right, what'd you send me here?
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: Eight fourteen five four seven to seven year Romeo. I've
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: been married to my husband for twenty two years, and
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: You're right. These women do be playing themselves. These women
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: don't have These women nowadays don't have any respect for themselves.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: They let these guys get away with anything. We raised
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: a boy and two daughters, and let me tell you,
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: I make sure that boy opens the door.
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: I make sure those.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: Daughters get treated treated well. You can't just whistle and
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: have them come running like you just said. I will
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: literally sit in the car until my husband opens the
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: door for me. He still opens the door for me
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: when I get in, and opens the door for me
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: when I get out. That's what a real man should do.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: So Romeo, I totally agree with you. Well, it wasn't me,
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: it was the guy somebody that texted before you texted
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: and said that these women don't have no respect for themselves.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: He's out in their game, said he's thirty two. You
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: don't even gotta, you know, pick him up anymore. You
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: just whistle or snap your fingers and they come running.
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: You know, I guess there you go. I guess, I
• 57:14
  Speaker 4: guess that's the game nowadays.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: These women don't have enough respect for themselves to have
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: a man actually go out of his way, you know,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: come to the door, say hi, meet the parents, or
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: at least come to the door and pick her up
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: in the morning every morning.
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: More ninety four point one