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So what is the 3-6-9 RULE?!? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, we need a contestant to play a game to
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  Speaker 2: win tickets to see Zane in Las Vegas Tunited State
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  Speaker 2: the Park, MGM gas card and tickets to the show
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  Speaker 2: called eight seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna play that right now. We also just announced
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  Speaker 2: they just Bruno Mars tickets. We got Bruno Mars so
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  Speaker 2: I love the way this unfolds. Two days ago, Bruno
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  Speaker 2: posts I just finished my album. Uh today we got
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  Speaker 2: tickets to give away to his concert.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know the details of the concert. Do we eat, Nick?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: I've gott pulled up here. The Romantic Tour featuring Bruno
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  Speaker 3: Mars uh April fourteenth at State Farms Stadium Anderson Park
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  Speaker 3: will be joining.
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  Speaker 4: As well as Leon Thomas. So huge, cool, that's wild.
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  Speaker 4: That said State that's the State Farm Stadium tours. The
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  Speaker 4: stadium tours are so what did that stuff?
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  Speaker 1: I remember? It was like a big deal a long
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  Speaker 1: time ago. Was it Beyonce?
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  Speaker 5: I think she did it for the Lemonade tour? She
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  Speaker 5: did a stadium tour?
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  Speaker 1: Wow? Was she the first one I.
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  Speaker 5: Remember seeing her? I think at the Chargers Stadium in California,
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  Speaker 5: and I remember being like, this is absolutely insane. I've
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  Speaker 5: never experienced anything like it. So she may have been
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  Speaker 5: one of the first I.
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  Speaker 1: Went to a football game at a stadium.
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  Speaker 5: Remember when they used to do that?
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  Speaker 1: All right?
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  Speaker 2: Eight seven seven nine seven.
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  Speaker 6: So this is for yes, just in case someone fact
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  Speaker 6: checks us, Elvis Presley played stadium.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Adriana, good morning, good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you were playing the Zay game for tickets, he'saying
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  Speaker 2: in Las Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we switched things up today.
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  Speaker 7: Guys.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, these are Zane or Insane song lyrics. So some
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  Speaker 3: of these some of these lyrics or is from Zain's
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  Speaker 3: actual music. Some of them are ones I just made up.
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  Speaker 3: And let me tell you, I'm really proud of the
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  Speaker 3: ones I made up to. So just get ready, we're
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  Speaker 3: gonna start with John Jay Zay or Insane. I found
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  Speaker 3: my life between a first kiss and a last goodbye.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's Zane.
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  Speaker 3: You think that's Zane's amazing, and you know what, You're right,
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  Speaker 3: It is.
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  Speaker 7: Sane to our right music.
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  Speaker 3: I immediately am like, should I just lie and say
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  Speaker 3: it was my lyric? Okay? Rich, just hirt, I've been
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  Speaker 3: racking my brain calling your name, trying to decide between
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  Speaker 3: passion and fame.
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  Speaker 8: I kind of feel like that's from pillow Talk. I
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  Speaker 8: think that's Zane. Okay, uh, it's insane.
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  Speaker 7: You just made it up.
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  Speaker 3: That is a lyric. I feel the women swooning.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, as you should have.
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  Speaker 1: Someone's been through relationship up and downs.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Peyton, it was real to me. Damn waiting
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  Speaker 3: to hear from you but only getting spam.
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  Speaker 5: That is almost like so obvious that I feel like, hmm,
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna say that's insane. I don't think Zane checks
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  Speaker 5: his spam folder.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, and you know what, Peyton, You're right, that is
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  Speaker 3: one that I made up. So good job. Rich on
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  Speaker 3: the board.
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  Speaker 8: Peyton on the board, Oh no, I got mine wrong.
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  Speaker 8: I'm definitely not wait yeah no wait sorry John J
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  Speaker 8: on the board. Rich is wrong. Kyle, you give and
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  Speaker 8: give and I take it for granted. Now you're gone
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  Speaker 8: and I'm just not broken. I'm feeling heavy handed.
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  Speaker 2: Hm.
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  Speaker 6: Well, I could see that lyric being written about GID,
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  Speaker 6: so I will say, sane.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, and that's incorrect. That's one that I made up,
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  Speaker 3: so made up.
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  Speaker 1: I just took from an email from your wife.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, you play these games with me all the time. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: all right, well do you get the game, Adrian?
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  Speaker 7: I hope I get it. I'm nervous, rightfully, So okay,
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  Speaker 7: this one's yours.
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  Speaker 3: It's a thin line. I'm seeing the pain, seeing the pleasure.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody but you, body but me, body but us bodies together.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's him.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know, sure, let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, after one round, we've got Payton on the board
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  Speaker 3: and we got John Jay on the board and Adrian
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  Speaker 3: on the board. Round two kicks off with John Jay
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  Speaker 3: like a champagne hurricane. I lost all my senses back
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  Speaker 3: to the bar, only to see you left me the expenses.
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  Speaker 2: It's I want to say, zaying, but damn it, Nick,
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  Speaker 2: I could see you doing that too.
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  Speaker 1: You're so good. I'm gonna go Nick. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: go zaying.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that was, in fact tricky, Nick. John Jay.
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  Speaker 2: Head open. He set you up with a record label.
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  Speaker 2: It's pretty strong, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Rich You thought you had me, didn't you. When you
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  Speaker 3: lied to my face. I could see the truth every
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  Speaker 3: step of the way. I knew how you fooled me.
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  Speaker 3: Boo boo, because you put boo in there. I think
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  Speaker 3: it's insane. I'm gonna say insane. Yeah, you're wrong, that
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  Speaker 3: is that's it.
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  Speaker 7: Makes a better songwriter than way better.
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  Speaker 3: All right, big goose egg in this game today, Rich,
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  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, but that's how another day. That's how
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  Speaker 3: good you are at this, Peyton. Now we're back in
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  Speaker 3: my bed. You said to take it slow, but my
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  Speaker 3: heart is pumping fast and I don't know I can
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  Speaker 3: let go. Hmmm, Peyton, that was me that. Let me
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  Speaker 3: tell you, I am a dad, a master here, Kyle.
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  Speaker 3: I love to hold you close tonight and always. I
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  Speaker 3: love to wake up next to you.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna say.
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  Speaker 7: That is my bad.
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  Speaker 3: That was a text I sent you, Yeah, my dad,
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  Speaker 3: it's okay. I gotta delete that one to Joey Bradfish. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: uh Adriana, if you can get if you get this,
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  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry for this one, uh adri I you
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  Speaker 3: can get this, You're gonna win the game. You're gonna
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  Speaker 3: go see Zaye in Vegas.
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  Speaker 7: My name is Zane.
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  Speaker 3: My name is Zaye, and this is my song. If
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  Speaker 3: you thought this was real, you would be wrong.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, that's wrong.
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  Speaker 3: That's insane.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna shut you up.
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  Speaker 2: You got tickets to go see Zaye in Las Vegas,
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  Speaker 2: a two nights stay at the park MGM, and one
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  Speaker 2: hundred dollars guest car to get you there.
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  Speaker 1: Congratulations.
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  Speaker 5: Oh I'm gonna cry a little cry.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh my god.
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  Speaker 7: I want to tell my best friend Dandy. I'll be
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  Speaker 7: like Daddy, were going, all right, I'm so happy.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on, you know, I thought of another game during
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  Speaker 2: that game or just something to do is to all
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  Speaker 2: of us to write lyrics, one lyric, one lyric, and.
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  Speaker 1: We have the guess who writes the lyric.
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  Speaker 2: Because I was thinking if I was in charge of
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  Speaker 2: playing this game and it was either a Zaye lyric
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  Speaker 2: or John J.
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  Speaker 1: Lyric, John J. Lyric would be like, how are you?
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  Speaker 9: I am fine, So I couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't do it, Okay, So now again real quick,
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  Speaker 2: that was Zane. Now, Nick, what is the details of
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  Speaker 2: the Bruno Mars sing because we're gonna come up with
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  Speaker 2: a way to give way Bernda Mark tickets.
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  Speaker 3: This morning we literally just found this out because the
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  Speaker 3: tours announced this morning. Bruno Mars bringing his Romantic tour
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  Speaker 3: to State Farm Stadium in Glendale April fourteenth, and we
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  Speaker 3: have tickets today, we have a pair of tickets tomorrow,
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  Speaker 3: and we're gonna have tickets all next week as well.
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  Speaker 7: That's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna come up with a way to do that.
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  Speaker 2: But coming up next, rich what's the relationship thing? We're
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  Speaker 2: what's the relationship thing?
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  Speaker 8: Well, they call it the three six nine rule for relationships,
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  Speaker 8: and if you started a new relationship, this is sort
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  Speaker 8: of your checklist to know if you want to stay
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  Speaker 8: in or maybe just get out of the relationship if
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  Speaker 8: they don't meet these criteria.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we will inform you and teach you about relationship
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  Speaker 2: next John Jay and Rich one four seven Kiss FM,
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  Speaker 2: John Jay and Rich Before we get to the relationship thing,
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  Speaker 2: because what is it, rich The three six nine.
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  Speaker 7: Relationship three six' nine relationship.
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  Speaker 2: RULE a couple of. Things, one we've Got brunomar's. Tickets
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  Speaker 2: we also Got Renaissance festival tickets about an hour from,
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  Speaker 2: now but we Got brunomar's. Tickets we're trying to figure
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  Speaker 2: it out in the next half, Hour so you got
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  Speaker 2: to keep. Listing in, fact you could probably even participate
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  Speaker 2: whatever this is right.
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  Speaker 1: Now explain, This richard Bear all.
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  Speaker 8: Right so the psychologists, people the relationship people have gotten
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  Speaker 8: together and they say you should have a timeline for
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  Speaker 8: your relationship and they call it the three six nine timeline.
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  Speaker 8: Rules so it's basically a rough timeline to help you
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  Speaker 8: see if it's like maybe progressing your relationship or if
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  Speaker 8: it's time to get.
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  Speaker 7: Out it's not a strict, rule just.
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  Speaker 8: Guideline, so like they, say the first three, months that's
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  Speaker 8: your honeymoon. Stage this is the new couple. Phase you're
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  Speaker 8: getting to know each, other things feel. Easy it's too
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  Speaker 8: early to make big. Commitments but you really shouldn't have
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  Speaker 8: any big fights within the first three months or that's
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  Speaker 8: a red. Flag four to six months that's the conflict.
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  Speaker 8: Stage that's when it starts showing, up like you may,
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  Speaker 8: fight you may see habits that you didn't notice. Before
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  Speaker 8: test how you solve problems, together how you handle. Conflict
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  Speaker 8: here tells you a lot about if you're. Compatible four
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  Speaker 8: to six, months you should have your first fight and
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  Speaker 8: fix it like relatively. Calmly seven to NINETH.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you should do it and then we
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  Speaker 2: should discuss. It, okay, yeah go, ahead, Right i'm still
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  Speaker 2: on three. Months you should be just great in the
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  Speaker 2: first three, Months, OH i, know But i'm Thinking i'm
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  Speaker 2: going over my relationship And i'm going, okay, wait first
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  Speaker 2: three months WAS i there?
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  Speaker 1: WAS i? Not there? WAS i went? There, okay that's.
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  Speaker 1: Interesting so now where are you?
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  Speaker 8: Now now you're in four to six. Months this is
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  Speaker 8: still the first year that you're, dating and you should
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  Speaker 8: probably have a, fight but you should probably be able
• 10:18
  Speaker 8: to work it out without it blowing up in your,
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  Speaker 8: face okay or else that's a bad news. Thing and
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  Speaker 8: then seven to nine months, in now you've seen enough
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  Speaker 8: of the good and the. Bad this's the point where
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  Speaker 8: you decide if you can build a future together or
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  Speaker 8: is it better.
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  Speaker 7: To end the.
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  Speaker 8: Things has anybody dipped out in the six to seven
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  Speaker 8: MONTH i KNOW i, Have like you kind of get
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  Speaker 8: a look at your future and you're, like, EH i don't,
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  Speaker 8: KNOW i don't know If i'm.
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  Speaker 5: In, YEAH i feel Like i've had plenty of talking
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  Speaker 5: stages that go that. Long, yeah it's LIKE i don't
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  Speaker 5: even want to bother getting into a. Relationship that's.
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  Speaker 7: Good at that.
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  Speaker 8: Point you can talk for seven to nine. YEARS i
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  Speaker 8: think that's. Good that's not. Bad, well the takeaway is
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  Speaker 8: it's not really, scientific but it's like a calendar to
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  Speaker 8: avoid you either rushing into big decisions to fast or
• 11:01
  Speaker 8: staying too long in a relationship that is not good for.
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  Speaker 8: You so within the first seven months you should know
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  Speaker 8: are they good to keep or DO i need to move?
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  Speaker 7: On so follow. That we'll post that up at Jun
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  Speaker 7: jinrich dot com.
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  Speaker 2: Too it's funny BECAUSE i think one of the things
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  Speaker 2: somebody said to me early on is, like if you
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  Speaker 2: can go away for a weekend and get, along you
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  Speaker 2: should be.
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  Speaker 7: Good, YEAH i was going to say.
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  Speaker 6: THAT i think on there somewhere should be like you
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  Speaker 6: need to take a trip. Together, yes, sure that's such
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  Speaker 6: a big decider on whether or not you should move,
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  Speaker 6: forward because you really get to fast forward seeing the real.
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  Speaker 8: THEM i remember a psychologist or a counselor saying the
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  Speaker 8: four seasons rule is. Good so in four seasons you
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  Speaker 8: should have a, trip in a, fight and like some
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  Speaker 8: type of problem solving that you have to do, together
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  Speaker 8: and then you know if they're good enough to keep
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  Speaker 8: or to. Ditch SO i think that's. Good within a
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  Speaker 8: year you probably, know, right you should so get.
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  Speaker 2: This i've been married and with my wife for a
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  Speaker 2: really long, time AND i feel LIKE i know everything about,
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  Speaker 2: her AND i think she should know everything about, me,
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  Speaker 2: RIGHT i mean it reminds me Of. Peyton you said
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  Speaker 2: you've been With kaden for five years and just found
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  Speaker 2: something out about, him, right?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah five?
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  Speaker 5: Years, YEAH i had no, idea AND i swear up
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  Speaker 5: and down he's gaslighting. Me apparently he's lactose. Intolerant that's
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  Speaker 5: news to. Me that man needs a carton of ice
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  Speaker 5: cream in a. Sitting how does he, say like a lactose,
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  Speaker 5: pill but.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe he goes to the.
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  Speaker 7: Toilet, well how does that come? Up, HEY i just.
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  Speaker 7: CAN'T i can't have.
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  Speaker 5: TO i don't remember how it got brought. Up he was,
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  Speaker 5: LIKE i can't eat. That i'm lactose. INTOLERANT i was,
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  Speaker 5: like since, witch.
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  Speaker 3: Is he?
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  Speaker 7: REALLY i don't.
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  Speaker 8: KNOW i was, like was he not?
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  Speaker 6: Drier if he was messing with?
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  Speaker 5: YOU i think he was being, serious AND i think
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  Speaker 5: he's seriously trying to gaslight me that he's lactose Intoler
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  Speaker 5: has he been.
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  Speaker 2: To a doctor and been? Diagnosed, like, no you're probably.
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  Speaker 5: Right he probably does just go straight to the.
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  Speaker 1: Back has he gone to the.
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  Speaker 5: Doctor he's been to the doctor Since i've known, him
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  Speaker 5: but Never, no that's.
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  Speaker 7: Never BEEN.
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  Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are lactos in. Tolerant
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  Speaker 2: you just deal with. It and then and also he
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  Speaker 2: realized at some POINT i gotta start beating.
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  Speaker 8: Geese, yeah and you realize also that ice cream is
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  Speaker 8: delicious and it's worth it Suggest.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay So i've been with my wife a long time
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  Speaker 2: AND i know certain things like she doesn't like, eggs
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  Speaker 2: which blows my. Mind and every once in a while
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  Speaker 2: it comes up and she And i'll be, like how
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  Speaker 2: do you not like? Eggs but we've been together a long.
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  Speaker 2: Time but something happened the other day which just blew my.
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  Speaker 2: Mind it's kind of completely changed my perception of my
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  Speaker 2: relationship with my. Wife And i'm going to take it
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  Speaker 2: back to. YOU i know there's a couple people here
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  Speaker 2: in this room that have done this, before And i've
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  Speaker 2: never done. This AND i thought it, though were you
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  Speaker 2: those people that post like happy, Birthday you're my rock
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  Speaker 2: and they have like a whole post of Stuff you're my?
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  Speaker 2: Rock and IF i, WOULDN'T i always, thought, yeah you're my, rock,
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  Speaker 2: Right so what does that?
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  Speaker 1: Mean you're my?
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: Rock you're the, Person you're the person in their, Life
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  Speaker 2: you're their, person.
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  Speaker 7: Right unless you're holding them down in the.
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  Speaker 2: River if there's issues in your life and your, relationship
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  Speaker 2: you're the. Person and SO i always thought, THAT i
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  Speaker 2: never said, That i've never posted, it BUT i just.
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  Speaker 1: A given to.
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  Speaker 2: Me. Then my wife is my. ROCK i would THINK
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  Speaker 2: i am her, rock but, ALAS i am not her.
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  Speaker 1: Rock, no who. Is she even told Me i'm not
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  Speaker 1: her rock.
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  Speaker 7: Rock i'm with.
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  Speaker 1: You AND i haven't even had not.
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  Speaker 2: Had this conversation with her to let her know how
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  Speaker 2: HURT i am And i'm not her. Rock and so
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: her sister got really ill and right before we went on,
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  Speaker 2: vacation had to have open heart, surgery, right and so
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  Speaker 2: her and her sister had a bunch of moments together
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  Speaker 2: where before. Surgery you, know her sister's name Is, brooks
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  Speaker 2: and she was in there before she going into the
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  Speaker 2: emergency room crying, Going, brooks you can't.
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  Speaker 1: DIE i love, You you're my, Rock you're my. Rock
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  Speaker 1: and then later And brooks is, Like i'm not gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Die by the, way she's out of the, hospital she's home,
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  Speaker 2: now she's doing.
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  Speaker 1: Great she's, recovering And blake's telling me, later so, YEAH
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  Speaker 1: i just you, Know brooks is my. Rock she's just my.
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  Speaker 2: Rock And i'm, like, oh you, know trying to be supportive,
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  Speaker 2: husband going like.
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  Speaker 1: My, SISTER i love my, sister but you're not my.
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  Speaker 7: Rock you're my, rock.
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  Speaker 5: And then and then and.
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  Speaker 1: Then here's what my brain.
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  Speaker 2: Man i've been doing a bunch of interviews on, podcasts right,
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  Speaker 2: Like i'm the guy getting.
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  Speaker 1: Interviewed they've asked me a bunch of.
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  Speaker 2: Stuff no one has actually asked me about my, relationship
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  Speaker 2: which for the most part is pretty. Successful we've had
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  Speaker 2: some ups and downs in our. Relationship there' stuff you gotta,
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  Speaker 2: word you gotta work hard at. Relationship AND i have
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  Speaker 2: be there, rock make sure their rock is somebody.
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  Speaker 7: Else which she tells you that you're not her, rock you.
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  Speaker 1: Rock so that tells Me i'm not her.
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  Speaker 2: Rock What i'm, Saying, Yeah Like, Kyle i've heard you
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  Speaker 2: That, No i'm not going to change anything, because LIKE i,
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  Speaker 2: said you should have a successful. Relationship that's the key
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  Speaker 2: to not be the other person's.
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