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- 0:00Welcome to reformed thinking. I mean, what if that migraine
- 0:03you woke up with today or that persistent stomach ache you've
- 0:07been dealing with all week has absolutely nothing to do with
- 0:09stress at work? Oh wow, that is a heavy question
- 0:13to start with. Right, but what if those
- 0:15physical symptoms are actually, you know, the physiological
- 0:18check engine light for a spiritual vacuum?
- 0:21It sounds totally jarring when you put it like that.
- 0:23I mean, we are so conditioned to treat the body and the mind as 2
- 0:28completely isolated systems. Yeah, totally separate, like
- 0:31compartments. Right.
- 0:32But the text we are looking at today argues the exact opposite.
- 0:36Well, not exact, but the complete opposite.
- 0:38It argues that your biology and your theology are on a collision
- 0:41course every single day. It's intense, yeah.
- 0:44And that is why we are doing this deep dive today, tailored
- 0:47specifically for you, the listener.
- 0:49We are opening up Lesson 7 of John C Broger's Self
- 0:52confrontation, a Manual for in depth biblical disciple Show a.
- 0:56Massive, heavy manual. Oh, it really is, and we're
- 1:00asking a core question that basically haunts almost everyone
- 1:05who is trying to better themselves.
- 1:06How does real structural, permanent change actually happen
- 1:11in a human life? Because let's be honest, we have
- 1:14all tried the generic self help route.
- 1:17Oh, absolutely. The books that tell you to like,
- 1:20manifest a better reality or just try harder.
- 1:23Or, you know, believe in yourself.
- 1:24And the results are almost always exhausting and temporary.
- 1:28So temporary. You keep the habit up for what,
- 1:30a week? If you're lucky and they are
- 1:32temporary because they rely on the assumption that you already
- 1:35possess the materials necessary to fix yourself.
- 1:37Which is a huge assumption. Right, but Brozier's manual
- 1:40takes a drastically different approach.
- 1:42It lays out a highly specific blueprint for dismantling old
- 1:46habits and constructing a new mindset.
- 1:48And it relies exclusively on a scriptural framework to do it.
- 1:51It doesn't pull from pop psychology at all.
- 1:53Not even a little bit. The anchor point for this entire
- 1:55discussion, the baseline for everything, is Ephesians 4.2224.
- 2:00OK, let me just read that section so we have it fresh in
- 2:03our minds. Go for it.
- 2:04It says that in reference to your former manner of life, you
- 2:08lay aside the old self which is being corrupted in accordance
- 2:12with the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed in the
- 2:15spirit of your mind and put on the new self, which in the
- 2:18likeness of God, has been created in righteousness and
- 2:21holiness of the truth. So look at those verbs.
- 2:23Lay aside the old, renew the mind, put on the new.
- 2:28Those three actions basically set the agenda for everything
- 2:31we're going to look at today. They really do.
- 2:33But before we get to the actual mechanics of how to lay aside
- 2:36the old self, we really have to deal with a massive
- 2:39prerequisite. Right, the elephant in the room.
- 2:41Exactly. I mean precisely that the text
- 2:44makes a stark claim about where the ability to change actually
- 2:48originates. Because if we are not using the
- 2:50generic self help method of, you know, trying harder, what is the
- 2:55actual engine driving this change?
- 2:58The manual asserts that true, lasting change is initiated
- 3:01exclusively through the regenerating work of the Holy
- 3:03Spirit. Exclusively.
- 3:04That's a strong word. Very strong without salvation,
- 3:08without becoming an entirely new creation, you possess 0 capacity
- 3:13to genuinely alter your nature. None at all.
- 3:16None. Broger points to John 3.5 to 6
- 3:20where Jesus explains the absolute necessity of being born
- 3:23of the Spirit. He also brings in Titus 3.5,
- 3:27which details the washing of regeneration.
- 3:29So to put it bluntly, behavior modification is kind of a scam.
- 3:33A total Stam. At least, you know, in the
- 3:35context of eternal structural change.
- 3:37I mean, sure, you can force yourself to act nicer for a
- 3:40week. You could bite your tongue when
- 3:41you want to yell at someone in traffic.
- 3:43Right, you can manage the symptoms.
- 3:44Yeah, but that is just painting over Rust.
- 3:47The underlying structural integrity is still totally
- 3:49compromised. That is a highly accurate way to
- 3:51view it. Trying to change your actions
- 3:53without a new nature is. It's like trying to rewrite a
- 3:57software program using a broken keyboard.
- 3:59Oh, that's a good way to put it. The inputs are fundamentally
- 4:01flawed from the start, so the manual stresses that you must be
- 4:04a new creation in Christ as the starting point.
- 4:07Or ground floor. Right, only after the Holy
- 4:09Spirit regenerates the heart are you actually capable of making
- 4:12biblical changes in your thoughts, your words, and your
- 4:15actions. But OK, this brings up an
- 4:17interesting tension that I saw in the text.
- 4:20The manual notes that effective biblical change is a continuous
- 4:23process. Yes, Principle 27.
- 4:25Right Principle 27. It points to Romans 5.6 to 9 to
- 4:30show that the debt of sin was paid at the cross.
- 4:33The old self was crucified, but the daily reality of
- 4:36sanctification, of actually acting like a new creation, is
- 4:40ongoing. So here is my pushback.
- 4:41Bring it. If the Holy Spirit is the one
- 4:44doing the regenerating, if this requires divine intervention
- 4:47from top to bottom, why am I still struggling?
- 4:50That is the big question. Why does the manual play such
- 4:52heavy responsibility on the believer to become a doer of the
- 4:56word as mentioned in James One? Why is the burden on me to do
- 4:59the heavy lifting of changing my habits?
- 5:01Well, it is the classic tension between divine enablement and
- 5:05human obedience. OK, untack that.
- 5:06You see this heavily in Broker's use of James One, Which calls
- 5:10the believer to take action. He also references John 15.4 to
- 5:155. You know the analogy of the vine
- 5:16and the branches. Oh right.
- 5:18Jesus says the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it
- 5:21abides in the vine, The SAP, the life force, the energy that all
- 5:26flows directly from the vine. It doesn't generate its own
- 5:28life. Right, but the branch is still
- 5:30the thing producing the fruit. It's the mechanism.
- 5:33So the distinction is really about capability versus
- 5:35execution. Spot on.
- 5:37Before the regenerating work of the spirit, I am just a slave to
- 5:41my own desires. I do not even have the option to
- 5:43genuinely please God. I'm dead in the water.
- 5:45Completely dead. But once that regeneration
- 5:48happens, the chains are cut. I am free, but being free means
- 5:53I now have the terrifying responsibility of choosing my
- 5:55master every single day. Yes, that is it.
- 5:57You are no longer forced to obey your old nature, but the old
- 6:01nature still yells at you. Oh.
- 6:03Yells loudly. It really does.
- 6:04It still tries to give you orders.
- 6:06So the continuous process of change is waking up every day
- 6:09and consciously deciding to ignore the screaming of the old
- 6:12self. And instead yield to the
- 6:14strength provided by the Holy Spirit.
- 6:15Exactly. OK, let's say I accept that
- 6:18premise. The engine is the Holy Spirit.
- 6:19The chains are cut. I am genuinely capable of
- 6:22change. OK.
- 6:24But then Monday morning hits. I spill coffee all over my
- 6:27shirt, I am late for a massive meeting, and I snap at my
- 6:31spouse. We've all been there, right?
- 6:33How does this manual translate the grand theology of
- 6:37regeneration into the gritty reality of a Tuesday afternoon?
- 6:41Well, this is where we get into the core mechanics of the whole
- 6:44book. Brozier lays out a highly
- 6:46practical 2 step process for daily living.
- 6:49The put offs and the put ONS, right?
- 6:51Principle 28 says that to put off an old habit, you must first
- 6:54accurately identify it. You cannot fix a flaw you refuse
- 6:58to look at. That makes sense.
- 6:59The manual instructs you to use the Bible as a diagnostic mirror
- 7:03to actually judge your own life. So it's about identifying the
- 7:06rot. Identifying the rat.
- 7:07You cannot just vaguely say, oh, I need to be a better person.
- 7:10That does nothing. Vague goals lead to vague
- 7:13results. You have to look at the text,
- 7:16look at your reaction to the spilled coffee and say that was
- 7:19sinful anger. Yes, you have to name it
- 7:21specifically. But identifying it is only the
- 7:24first step. The manual says that once you
- 7:26name it, it requires repentance, confession, and immediate
- 7:29abandonment. An immediate abandonment.
- 7:31That is key. You do not negotiate A ceasefire
- 7:34with a bad habit. You don't slowly taper off.
- 7:37No, you do not try to slowly taper off your anger or your
- 7:40gossip over a six month period like it's a diet.
- 7:44Proverbs 28.13 makes it clear he who conceals his transgressions
- 7:49will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will
- 7:53find compassion. You confess it as a violation of
- 7:56God's standard and you drop it. You drop it completely.
- 7:59But OK, if I just drop the bad habit, I have created a massive
- 8:02void. Yes, you have.
- 8:04This is what fascinates me about the manuals approach.
- 8:07It introduces what we could call the law of replacement.
- 8:09I like that term. Stopping a bad habit is
- 8:11insufficient. It is like taking off mud soaked
- 8:14clothes. You cannot just stand there in
- 8:15the freezing cold you'd. Freeze to death.
- 8:18Right, you have to actively put on a clean, warm jacket.
- 8:21That is a perfect analogy. Nature abhors a vacuum, and the
- 8:25human heart operates on the exact same principle.
- 8:28So if you just stop. If you simply stop doing a bad
- 8:31thing, you leave an empty space in your life, your schedule, and
- 8:35your mental energy. And something is going to fill
- 8:37it. Always that space will
- 8:40inevitably be filled, usually by the old habit just rushing back
- 8:43in, or by a new, more subtle flaw taking its place.
- 8:47It makes me think of writing software.
- 8:49OK, how so? Well, say you have a legacy
- 8:51operating system full of bugs. Yeah, you cannot just go in and
- 8:54delete a line of code that runs a core routine.
- 8:58Let's say the routine for how to handle stress.
- 9:00Right, because the system needs to know what to do.
- 9:03If you just delete that bad code, the whole system crashes.
- 9:05The next time stress occurs, you have to write a new clean line
- 9:09of code to replace it. The bad habit is the corrupted
- 9:12code. Yes, you always write a new
- 9:14routine. That is a brilliant way to frame
- 9:16it. The system requires an
- 9:18instruction. If you leave a blank space, it
- 9:20just defaults to the old corrupted backup.
- 9:23Which is why we always fall back into the same ruts.
- 9:25Precisely. The manual gives very specific
- 9:27scriptural examples from Ephesians 4 to demonstrate this
- 9:31whole replacement protocol. Let's run through these examples
- 9:34because they show just how aggressive this replacement
- 9:37needs to be. Yeah, let's do it.
- 9:38The first one is falsehood. The put off is lying.
- 9:41So what is the new line of code? Ephesians 4.25 says to lay aside
- 9:46falsehood and speak the truth. OK, speak the truth.
- 9:50Right. The replacement for lying is not
- 9:52silence. If you have a habit of
- 9:54stretching the truth to make yourself look better at work,
- 9:57you do not just take a vow of silence during meetings.
- 10:00Just sit there with your mouth shut.
- 10:01No, you actively look for opportunities to speak what is
- 10:05factually, transparently true. Even if it makes you look
- 10:07average. You have to practice the
- 10:09opposite action. Next is stealing.
- 10:12The put off is obvious. Don't steal.
- 10:14Right. But the replacement, according
- 10:17to Ephesians 4.28, is working with your own hands so that you
- 10:22will have something to share with one who has need.
- 10:25Which is a massive paradigm shift.
- 10:28It really is the opposite of a thief is not just someone who
- 10:31stops taking things. No, the opposite of a thief is a
- 10:34philanthropist. Wow.
- 10:36Yeah, you shift your entire economic worldview from being a
- 10:39consumer who drains resources to a producer who provides
- 10:44resources. It requires a total
- 10:46reorientation of your motives. You are no longer looking at
- 10:49people and asking what can I get from them?
- 10:51Which is the each mindset? Right, you are now asking what
- 10:54can I give to them? That completely flips the
- 10:56script. It really does.
- 10:58The next example is unwholesome speech.
- 11:00Ephesians 4.29 commands us to let no unwholesome word proceed
- 11:05from our mouths. Oh, no gossiping, No tearing
- 11:08people down. Exactly, and the put on is to
- 11:11use edifying speech that fits the need of the moment to give
- 11:14grace to those. Who here?
- 11:15Imagine how this alters office dynamics for family dinners.
- 11:18Oh, drastically. If your default setting is
- 11:20sarcasm, complaining, or, you know, cutting people down
- 11:24disguised as, I'm just joking. Just a joke, right?
- 11:27You have to stop, but you cannot just sit there silently stewing
- 11:31while everyone else talks. No, you have to actively scan
- 11:34the room, find a way to build someone up and speak words of
- 11:37grace. You have to inject life into the
- 11:40conversation. The final example from Ephesians
- 11:424 tackles bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, and
- 11:47malice. That is quite the list.
- 11:49It is a toxic cocktail. And the replacement for that
- 11:52entire toxic cocktail is kindness, tender heartedness,
- 11:55and forgiveness. But implementing these
- 11:57replacements guarantees massive internal friction.
- 12:00The manual even warns about this.
- 12:02Yes, it brings in Galatians 5.1 Sam.
- 12:05For the flesh sets its desire against the spirit, and the
- 12:08spirit against the flesh, for these are in opposition to one
- 12:11another. Total War.
- 12:12Total War. When someone insults you, your
- 12:15old code demands retaliation. The new code demands
- 12:18forgiveness. And the moment of conflict
- 12:20between those two sets of instructions is just agonizing.
- 12:23It is, but Brodger points out that that friction is the
- 12:26sensation of genuine change happening.
- 12:28If there's no friction, you probably aren't changing.
- 12:30So we have these paired actions. Put off lying, put on truth, put
- 12:35off stealing, put on giving. A direct 1 to 1 swap.
- 12:38Right, but there was a fascinating anomaly in the text
- 12:41that caught my eye sometimes. There was no specific put off
- 12:45attached to a command. The manual lists a whole series
- 12:48of stand alone put ONS. Yes, these deal with what
- 12:52theologians often call sins of omission.
- 12:55OK, explain. That we are conditioned to think
- 12:57of sin purely as a positive action, like doing something
- 13:00wrong, breaking a rule. Act of rebellion, right?
- 13:04But James 4.17 states therefore to one who knows the right thing
- 13:08to do and does not do it, to him it is sin.
- 13:12So failing to do the good you were commanded to do is just as
- 13:15damaging as actively doing the bad you are forbidden to do.
- 13:18Precisely. We might be completely ignorant
- 13:20of God's will in an area, or just, you know, lazy,
- 13:22complacent. Exactly.
- 13:24The manual lists several of these stand alone positive
- 13:26commands. Matthew 28 making disciples.
- 13:29Colossians 3. Doing all things in the name of
- 13:32the Lord Jesus. Ephesians 6.
- 13:34Putting on the full armor of God First Thessalonians 5.
- 13:37Rejoicing, always praying without ceasing, giving thanks
- 13:41and everything. I actually admit when I first
- 13:43read that list I felt exhausted. It is a lot to take in.
- 13:47Doesn't dumping a massive checklist of standalone positive
- 13:51actions risk overwhelming the listener?
- 13:54I mean, doesn't this turn spiritual growth into a crushing
- 13:58rigid checklist where you are just trying to hit your quota of
- 14:02rejoicing for the day? If you approach it as a way to
- 14:04earn God's favor, yes, it would absolutely be a crushing burden.
- 14:08It would be legalism. Complete legalism, but we
- 14:11established in the beginning that the debt is already paid.
- 14:14These actions are the fruit of a saved life, not the root.
- 14:16The root is regeneration. Right.
- 14:18Functionally, these stand alone actions act as a protective
- 14:21shield. OK, break that down for me.
- 14:23How does the mechanics of that shield work?
- 14:26How does praying without ceasing protect me?
- 14:29Think about the physics of human attention.
- 14:31Your mind has a finite amount of processing power at any given
- 14:35moment. True if you are actively obeying
- 14:38the command to give thanks and everything.
- 14:40If you're actively scanning your frustrating day for reasons to
- 14:42be grateful to God, how much processing power is actually
- 14:46left to run the routine of bitterness?
- 14:48Very little. You literally can't run both at
- 14:51full capacity. Exactly, If you are aggressively
- 14:54engaged in making disciples, pouring your energy into helping
- 14:57another person grow, how much free time do you have to indulge
- 15:01in selfish ambition or self pity?
- 15:03It is a crowding out effect. Yes, you are saturating the
- 15:06calendar and the mind with so much constructive obedience that
- 15:11the old self simply cannot find an empty room to set up shop.
- 15:15You are leaving no oxygen for the old habits to breathe.
- 15:19They just suffocate. But what happens when someone
- 15:21refuses to do this? Well what if a person hears all
- 15:24this about put offs, put ONS and standalone commands and says no
- 15:28thanks. I prefer a living for myself.
- 15:29I want to hold onto my anger. I want to keep my selfish
- 15:32habits. It doesn't end well.
- 15:34The manual transitions into a terrifying diagnostic of what
- 15:37self focus actually produces. It really does.
- 15:39Brochure makes a direct, unflinching connection between
- 15:42focusing on self and total systemic collapse.
- 15:45Systemic collapse. He lists a cascade of mental
- 15:47results that occur when you refuse to direct your thoughts
- 15:50toward pleasing the Lord. The list is brutal.
- 15:52I'm going to read some of it. Hatred, rebellion, resentment,
- 15:55selfishness, jealousy, fear, pride, lust, anger, doubt,
- 16:00anxiety, and deceitfulness. It's a heavy list.
- 16:03And he ties every single one to specific scriptures.
- 16:07First John 3.15 for hatred, Philippians 4.6 to 7 for
- 16:11anxiety. He is painting a picture of just
- 16:14total internal misery. And he notes that this internal
- 16:17misery never stays internal. It always leaks out.
- 16:20Right, it spills over. It leaks into unbiblical speech
- 16:22and actions, lying, hostility disputes, and eventually severe
- 16:27external sins. But the most striking claim he
- 16:30makes is the connection between these internal thoughts and
- 16:33physical breakdown. This is the part that totally
- 16:35stopped me in my tracks. I bet he lists bodily damage
- 16:38resulting from these unbiblical thoughts.
- 16:40Heart malfunction, migraine headaches, high blood pressure
- 16:43ulcers, insomnia, stomach disorders, kidney disease, and
- 16:46venereal diseases. It's quite the medical chart.
- 16:49I need to push back hard on this.
- 16:50I figured you would. Are we supposed to read this as
- 16:52a direct 1:00 to 1:00? One medical diagnosis?
- 16:55If someone has a stomach ulcer, is this manual claiming they are
- 16:58definitely harboring unconfessed sin?
- 17:01Are we blaming every illness on a lack of spiritual discipline?
- 17:05That's a vital question. We have to look very carefully
- 17:08at Brosier's phrasing here. OK, what does he actually say?
- 17:10He says these unbiblical actions may result in bodily damage.
- 17:14He is not making a blanket universal statement that every
- 17:19physical ailment is a direct punishment for a specific sin.
- 17:23OK, so it's not a direct formula every time, right?
- 17:26We live in a fallen world where bodies naturally breakdown,
- 17:29people get sick. However, he is drawing a
- 17:32profound, I mean a deeply significant theological and
- 17:35physiological link pointing heavily to Psalm 32.
- 17:39Let's dig into Psalm 32. Prime example.
- 17:41David is writing about a period in his life where he was
- 17:43covering up his own sin, refusing to confess it.
- 17:46The Bathsheba situation. Probably, yeah, he writes.
- 17:50When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away through my
- 17:54groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was
- 17:58heavy upon me. My vitality was drained away, as
- 18:01with the fever heat of summer. That is not a metaphor.
- 18:04You don't think so? No.
- 18:05David is describing literal physical distress caused by
- 18:09spiritual rebellion. Brosier is illustrating that
- 18:12human beings are deeply integrated creatures.
- 18:15Integrated. You are not just a soul driving
- 18:17a meat suit. Your biology and your spirit are
- 18:20hopelessly intertwined. So think about the Physiology of
- 18:23maintaining a lie. OK, Yeah.
- 18:25If you were covering up a massive failure at work or
- 18:27hiding an affair, you are constantly monitoring what you
- 18:30said to whom. You're managing multiple
- 18:32realities. Right.
- 18:33You are making sure stories align.
- 18:35You are dreading every single phone call, your sympathetic
- 18:38nervous system is locked in fight or flight mode for weeks
- 18:41or months on end, and your. Body is flooded with cortisol
- 18:43and adrenaline. The biological result of that
- 18:46sustained spiritual rebellion is massive.
- 18:48It wears down the machine. It tears it apart.
- 18:51If you are consumed by hostility, your blood pressure
- 18:54will rise. If you are paralyzed by anxiety,
- 18:56your sleep cycle is destroyed. Which leads to chronic insomnia,
- 19:00which. Wrecks your immune system and
- 19:02your stomach lining. So Roger's not playing doctor.
- 19:05He is pointing out a structural reality.
- 19:08Choosing to hold on to the old self is a literal assault on
- 19:11your own physical well-being. Absolutely.
- 19:14Focusing entirely on pleasing yourself ironically destroys
- 19:17yourself. The refusal to change is fatal
- 19:20on multiple levels. It really is.
- 19:22This brings us to a harsh practical reality though.
- 19:25Even if I understand the mind body connection, even if I have
- 19:28the Holy Spirit as the engine, failure is just inevitable.
- 19:31We are. Still in the flesh.
- 19:32Right, I am going to mess up the put offs and put ONS, yeah.
- 19:35How does the manual instruct us to handle those inevitable
- 19:38missteps? The manual has a specific
- 19:40section called Prayer and Action, and it leads with a
- 19:43statement that will offend a lot of modern sensibilities.
- 19:46Oh, let's hear it, it says prayer alone will not bring
- 19:49about the fullness of God's plan for your life.
- 19:52Prayer alone will not bring about the fullness of God's
- 19:55plan. Wow.
- 19:57Yeah, we are so trained to think that prayer is the ultimate and
- 20:00only required response to any problem.
- 20:03Just pray about it. I'll keep you in my prayer,
- 20:05right? But this says that's not enough.
- 20:07Prayer is essential. It is the first action you must
- 20:10take. But if it is the only action you
- 20:12take, you are violating the very commands you are praying about.
- 20:15It is like a man drowning in a lake.
- 20:17OK, someone throws him a life preserver.
- 20:20He stares at the life preserver, refuses to grab it, and prays
- 20:24fervently that God will save him from drowning.
- 20:26It's absurd, right? The prayer is useless if you
- 20:28refuse to engage the mechanism of rescue provided.
- 20:31It's like a farmer praying for a harvest but refusing to plant
- 20:34seeds. Exactly.
- 20:36You cannot just pray that God will take away your anger and
- 20:39then make 0 effort to put off angry reactions and put on
- 20:42kindness. You have to actually do the
- 20:44work. You have to participate in the
- 20:45process Action must follow communication.
- 20:48So when failure happens, when I give in to the anger or the
- 20:52anxiety, what is the precise protocol for recovery outlined
- 20:56in the text? Brochure lays out a clear 2
- 20:59directional path for biblical restoration.
- 21:01The first direction is vertical. OK, vertical.
- 21:04Between me and God, yes. You must acknowledge and repent
- 21:07of your sins to God. He points to 1st John 1.9.
- 21:11If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to
- 21:15forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
- 21:17unrighteousness. So that vertical confession
- 21:20restores unhindered communication with God.
- 21:23That's step one, But the protocol does not stop with a
- 21:26private, silent prayer. Which what we all want it to be.
- 21:30Because it's easier. No, the second direction is
- 21:32horizontal. You must confess your sin to
- 21:35those against whom you have sinned.
- 21:36The horizontal direction between me and people.
- 21:38Right, he cites James 5.16 confess your sins to one another
- 21:43and this is driven by the command in Matthew 5.2324 where
- 21:47Jesus says that if you are presenting your offering at the
- 21:49altar and remember your brother has something against you.
- 21:52You leave the offering. You leave it, You go be
- 21:54reconciled to your brother first, then come back to the
- 21:56altar. That is incredibly
- 21:58confrontational to human pride it.
- 21:59Crushes pride. It is so much easier to sit
- 22:03alone in my room, quietly ask God to forgive me for snapping
- 22:06at my Co worker, and then walk into the office the next day
- 22:09pretending nothing happened. Just smooth it over, right?
- 22:13Why is this public relational confession so critical to the
- 22:17process of change? Well, the manual highlights 3
- 22:20specific results of this horizontal confession.
- 22:24First, it acknowledges God's lordship.
- 22:27How so? You are submitting to his method
- 22:29of reconciliation, not your preferred method of sweeping it
- 22:32under the rug. You're doing it his way.
- 22:34OK, that makes sense. Second, it encourages harmonious
- 22:37relationships. You cannot have genuine,
- 22:39unhindered fellowship with someone if there is unconfessed
- 22:42sin sitting in the room between you.
- 22:43It just breeds resentment. Always and the 3rd result.
- 22:47Yeah, what's the third? It demonstrates the reality of
- 22:49Jesus Christ to outside observers.
- 22:51As a witness. Think about it in a world where
- 22:53everyone justifies their behavior, deflects blame, and
- 22:57refuses to admit fault. Everyone just gets defensive.
- 23:00Right. So watching a Christian humble
- 23:03themselves, look someone in the eye, admit they were totally
- 23:06wrong and ask for forgiveness, that is a shocking witness.
- 23:09It really is countercultural. It proves that a new nature is
- 23:12actually at work. But recovering from failure is
- 23:15brutal work. To prevent this constant cycle
- 23:18of failure and recovery, the manual provides a concrete
- 23:21methodology for fortifying the mind.
- 23:23Yes, the section on renewing your mind establishes the
- 23:27parameters of the battlefield. The battlefield of the mind.
- 23:29It warns that Satan, the enemy will continually and repeatedly
- 23:33appeal to yourself oriented feelings and desires.
- 23:36He targets your desire for comfort and self justification.
- 23:40And the only viable defense against that is a dedicated life
- 23:43of obedience to God's Word. That's Shield.
- 23:46The text maps out five specific ways, 5 distinct inputs that you
- 23:50must use to interact with scripture to develop a resilient
- 23:53Christ like mind. Let's walk through these because
- 23:56this is how you actually write the new code we talked about
- 23:58earlier. Perfect.
- 23:59The first input is to hear the word.
- 24:01Romans 10.17. Faith comes from hearing and
- 24:05hearing by the word of Christ. OK, practically, what does that
- 24:08mean? Practically, this means placing
- 24:10yourself under the faithful preaching and teaching of
- 24:12Scripture. You need external voices
- 24:14proclaiming the truth to you. You cannot be an island you.
- 24:17Can't just isolate yourself with a Bible and a podcast.
- 24:20You need the church. Exactly.
- 24:23The second input is to read the word First.
- 24:26Timothy 4.13 speaks to giving attention to the public reading
- 24:30of Scripture. This is the daily discipline of
- 24:33actually running your eyes over the text.
- 24:36Just getting familiar with what it says.
- 24:37Right baseline literacy. The third is to study the word.
- 24:41Which is different from reading. Very different.
- 24:43Second Timothy 2.15 commands the believer to be diligent to
- 24:47present yourself a proof to God accurately handling the word of
- 24:51truth. So reading is like checking the
- 24:53weather forecast? Yeah, studying is understanding
- 24:56the meteorological pressures causing using the storm.
- 24:59You investigate principles, you trace doctrines, you learn the
- 25:02context. That's a great analogy.
- 25:04You're digging into the why and the how.
- 25:06The 4th input is to memorize the word.
- 25:09Memorization that feels so old school.
- 25:11It does, but look at Psalm 119.11.
- 25:15Your word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin
- 25:18against you. Treasured in the heart.
- 25:20The manual suggests reviewing memory verse cards throughout
- 25:23the day. It is about having the precise
- 25:25replacement code instantly available in your brain the
- 25:28moment the temptation hits, rather than having to go find a
- 25:31Bible to look it. Up, because when the anger
- 25:33flares up, you don't have 5 minutes to go grab your Bible
- 25:37off the night stand. By then the damage is done.
- 25:39You need the code loaded in RAM ready to execute.
- 25:43OK, the 5th and final input is to meditate on the word.
- 25:47Joshua 1.8 says This book of the law shall not depart from your
- 25:50mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night.
- 25:53The pinnacle of the five inputs. I want to stop here and really
- 25:56press into this because the lines between studying and
- 25:59meditating often blur for people.
- 26:02They do get confused a lot. If studying is analyzing the
- 26:05nutritional label on an apple, what is meditating?
- 26:08Meditating is eating the apple and letting your digestive
- 26:11system turn it into actual kinetic energy.
- 26:13Or taking it internal. Yes.
- 26:16When you study a passage on anger, you might look up the
- 26:18original Greek root words. You might read commentaries on
- 26:22the historical context. Gathering facts.
- 26:25That is intellectual comprehension.
- 26:27Meditation is taking that comprehended truth, turning it
- 26:30over in your mind and forcing it against the specific contours of
- 26:34your life. You ask the brutal questions.
- 26:38How does this verse about anger indict the way I spoke to my
- 26:41kids an hour ago? Yes, you ask, what specific
- 26:45change must I make today in my tone of voice to align with this
- 26:49text? So meditation moves the
- 26:51information from abstract theology into a direct personal
- 26:54application for the very specific sins you were trying to
- 26:57put off. Exactly.
- 26:59Berger says that by diligently executing these five inputs,
- 27:02hearing, reading, studying, memorizing, and meditating, you
- 27:06provide the necessary conditions for the Word of Christ to dwell
- 27:08abundantly within you. And as you continually practice
- 27:11this, especially in known areas of weakness, the spirit of your
- 27:14mind is renewed. The code gets rewritten.
- 27:17But Brochure refuses to let this remain A theoretical exercise.
- 27:20Oh, he brings down the hammer at the end.
- 27:22He does. The manual closes with a highly
- 27:24aggressive seven day homework challenge.
- 27:27The study guide for Daily Devotion requires the reader to
- 27:30actively execute these principles in real time.
- 27:33It moves from the classroom to the laboratory.
- 27:35The core of this homework is a daily log.
- 27:38You are instructed to carry a worksheet with you throughout
- 27:40the day, and you must identify at least five specific incidents
- 27:44where your core problem manifests. 5 incidents a day.
- 27:49The instruction is blunt. Begin to identify at least 5
- 27:52incidents in which you recognize the problem that God wants you
- 27:55to work on. Think about the psychological
- 27:57shock value of this exercise. It's.
- 27:59Massive. We are brilliant at minimizing
- 28:01our own flaws. We justify our explosive anger
- 28:05as righteous indignation. Or we justify our vicious gossip
- 28:09as just processing. Right, I'm just venting, but
- 28:12writing down 5 failures a day forces you to see the raw data
- 28:16of your own disobedience it. Strips away all the excuses.
- 28:19The manual explicitly tells you to identify the logs in your own
- 28:23eye, referencing Matthew 7. It completely shatters the
- 28:27illusion that you are basically a good person who only
- 28:31occasionally slips up. It forces absolute honesty.
- 28:34You do this logging for six days straight, accumulating data on
- 28:38your own failures 6. Days of logging your worst
- 28:41moment. Yeah, and then day 7 introduces
- 28:44pattern recognition. The instructions for day seven
- 28:47say to look at the list and circle the activities,
- 28:50situations, locations or people that appear at least twice.
- 28:54You are hunting for your triggers.
- 28:56Analyzing the data right? If you review your logs and
- 28:58realize that four out of the last five times you engaged in
- 29:02unwholesome speech you were in the break room with a specific
- 29:05Co worker. You have identified a
- 29:06battleground. If your incidents of anger
- 29:08consistently happened during the evening commute, you have mapped
- 29:11out the enemy's territory. And once you know the triggers
- 29:14for the old self, you are no longer a passive victim.
- 29:18You can proactively prepare the put ONS.
- 29:20You get ahead of the strike. If you know the commute makes
- 29:22you furious, you do not just get in the car and hope for the
- 29:25best. Because hoping doesn't work.
- 29:27Right, You get in the car already meditating on verses
- 29:30about patients. You load the new software
- 29:33routine before the system is even stressed.
- 29:35That is the ultimate application of a renewed mind, and the
- 29:39manual gives a final, sobering warning about this process.
- 29:43What's the warning? If you consistently fail, if you
- 29:47keep logging the same failures and never see progress, you are
- 29:50instructed to go back and audit your 5 inputs.
- 29:54Audit the supply. Line.
- 29:55Are you actually hearing, reading, studying, memorizing,
- 29:58and meditating? Because if you are consistently
- 30:01failing, there is a breakdown in your supply line.
- 30:03You are trying to fight a war with an empty rifle.
- 30:06Wow. Let's synthesize this entire
- 30:08blueprint. It's a lot to pull together.
- 30:10We started by asking how real change happens.
- 30:12The answer this manual provides is comprehensive.
- 30:15To say the least. Change is not a self help
- 30:17project, it requires the Holy Spirit as the engine.
- 30:20The total baseline. It demands aggressive
- 30:22replacement. You cannot just stop bad habits.
- 30:26You must overwrite them with active righteous deeds.
- 30:28You have to put on the new clothes.
- 30:30It requires constant discipline intake of scripture to rewrite
- 30:34the minds default responses, and it requires immediate,
- 30:38humiliating confession to God and to others when you
- 30:42inevitably stumble. It is a total system overhaul.
- 30:45It addresses the supernatural origin of change, the daily
- 30:48gritty mechanics of habits, the severe physiological damage of
- 30:52refusing to change, and the practical steps for recovery.
- 30:56We began by talking about the X-ray machine.
- 30:58When it comes to human behavior, the water is usually muddy.
- 31:01Very muddy. This manual clears the water.
- 31:04It provides the X-ray, it shows you exactly what the old
- 31:07corrupted code looks like, and it hands you the precise
- 31:09scriptural syntax required to write the new code.
- 31:12You're not just guessing anymore.
- 31:13And that leads to a highly practical challenge based on the
- 31:16text. Leave us with it.
- 31:17Consider your very next moment of frustration today.
- 31:20For you, the listener, it might be a rude e-mail, a difficult
- 31:23conversation, or just a delay in your plans.
- 31:26Something that spikes your blood pressure.
- 31:27Right, according to the framework we have examined, that
- 31:30moment is not a random annoyance, it is a live,
- 31:33measurable diagnostic test. It is the moment the code runs.
- 31:37Exactly. Will you let the old system
- 31:39crash or will you execute the new routine?
- 31:41Which self will you put on?