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FULL SHOW: We call Megan's Daddy · Jono, Ben & Megan - The Podcast

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  Speaker 1: With the John and Ben Podcast. Cheers to Dilma making
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  Speaker 1: the world a better.
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  Speaker 2: Tea music rumor going on the band Oasis, who have
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  Speaker 2: been split for fifteen years. They broke up after a
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  Speaker 2: gig in Paris. Thirty years since the this week, since
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  Speaker 2: the anniversary of.
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  Speaker 3: The album definitely maybe wow, thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Years ago the rumors that the brothers, the Gallagher Brothers
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  Speaker 2: might be bearing the hatcher and potentially playing some concerts
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  Speaker 2: in Wembley Stadium.
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  Speaker 4: They reckon ten gigs in Wembley.
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  Speaker 2: If it happens, which is more than Taylor Swift did
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  Speaker 2: obviously on the Erra's tour.
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  Speaker 4: But who knows.
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  Speaker 3: It could just be publicity for thirty years of the album.
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  Speaker 5: Or's got to get there yet too, because the.
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  Speaker 4: Brothers that ultimately and sibling and bickering just have been
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  Speaker 4: bickering for decades and.
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  Speaker 6: As soon as they start like rehearsing and they're just
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  Speaker 6: gonna get arguing, what was.
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  Speaker 4: It about while?
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  Speaker 2: But really just all through social media they just bag
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  Speaker 2: each other all the time.
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  Speaker 4: I saw a video there's someone came up to Liam
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  Speaker 4: and was like, oh, you know, if you were John
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  Speaker 4: Lennond of the band, what was no He's like Yoko Ono.
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  Speaker 4: They're just constantly throwing stones at each other, aren't they.
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  Speaker 4: But it'd be good to see. There'd be a lot
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  Speaker 4: of you know, white middle aged people there.
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  Speaker 2: Ninety thousand is Webley at Wembley Stadium, so if if
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  Speaker 2: they did ten gigs and sold out, that's close to
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  Speaker 2: a million people. Nine hundred thousand people would see them.
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  Speaker 2: So well, I find out hopefully later this week, if
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  Speaker 2: that's going to happen. Didn't you pee next to one
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  Speaker 2: of the brothers?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? Was it not? Yeah? I can't remember which one.
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  Speaker 4: I don't It's hard to tell, but we were over
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  Speaker 4: in Europe for work and there was We're going to
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  Speaker 4: a football game and it was like a Heineken thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and walked into the toilet, just like one of those
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  Speaker 4: porter commons too, you know how they check them on
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  Speaker 4: the grounds of festivals.
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  Speaker 3: And things, so sort of temporary, sort of urinal situation, not.
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  Speaker 4: Poor to loose, but like you wander on into us
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, there it is. It is
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  Speaker 4: right next to me, and you can't help but look down.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, surely he would have had access to somewhere better,
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  Speaker 6: you would.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, standing Steed John O. Yeah, I did I stow,
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  Speaker 4: I s I store, I steered?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely maybe this morning glorious is Wonderwall.
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  Speaker 4: Said anything to you like you know you do it syrup,
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  Speaker 4: You know you do it subtly, a side eye. You know,
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  Speaker 4: you gotta. You can't help the look. If you're peeing
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  Speaker 4: next to a famous person, you're gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Look right you You like to give it, but you're
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  Speaker 2: surprised that he did it out in public.
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  Speaker 4: Didn't in Poenix?
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  Speaker 3: Do our mate Bryce from the Rock?
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  Speaker 4: I think he looked. It's just curiosity, human curious.
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  Speaker 5: It's so weird to me that guys even do that.
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  Speaker 3: What they call a trop coward, you know. So there
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  Speaker 3: you go into the.
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  Speaker 4: Just you know, just to put it's just a bit
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  Speaker 4: of privacy and looking at.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, to give you some bit of a
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  Speaker 3: pep talk as well.
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  Speaker 4: Trough is the most disturbing place that sits on Earth.
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  Speaker 4: I think a means urinal trough. Yeah yeah, the rules.
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  Speaker 5: There, No, you can't touch shoulders, like it's.
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  Speaker 2: Just stair straight to head generally generally and if there
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  Speaker 2: is space, you normally would give yourself, you know, space
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  Speaker 2: from the.
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  Speaker 4: Other perce like conversation, how's it going?
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  Speaker 7: Good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty good out of there?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah good, you can.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not too Sometimes it's better to wait to
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  Speaker 2: your washing your hands or something like that rather than like.
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  Speaker 4: I made the fatal a seat the other day with
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  Speaker 4: their boss, Met Anderson walked in, Uh, he was troffing
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  Speaker 4: it and walked. I initiated a conversation, and then he
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  Speaker 4: obviously felt obliged to continue on the conversation. And then
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  Speaker 4: I was like, okay, I'm not going to stand next Tim,
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  Speaker 4: So I went into the cubicle, but the conversation keep going.
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  Speaker 4: The doors just yeah, I shouldn't. It was too deep
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  Speaker 4: for the the environment around. Who's listening to this trough here?
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  Speaker 4: Well it's a stand up situation. Yeah, and the splash
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  Speaker 4: for the trough too. How much went to a trough
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  Speaker 4: and jandles on it.
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  Speaker 1: It was Confronts the John and Ben podcast.
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  Speaker 2: John was you're away one day when you mean and
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  Speaker 2: I were talking about it in relation to Father's Day.
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  Speaker 2: At what age can you stop calling your dad daddy?
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  Speaker 2: You know, like there feels like there's a certain point.
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  Speaker 4: That it doesn't have other qnnotations reach.
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  Speaker 2: It feels like it's something so it's cute where the
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  Speaker 2: kids are young, but when they get a little bit older,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like if I'm calling Givin my dad, dadd
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  Speaker 2: Hey Daddy.
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  Speaker 6: And do you think that the parameter moves if you're
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  Speaker 6: like a girl or a boy.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe maybe you get long? Isn't your Netflix account?
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  Speaker 2: Daddy was talking about the same and it's it's creeps
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  Speaker 2: me out because I can't get an emails going.
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  Speaker 4: Movie then like, Daddy, yes, you know a lighter tone
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  Speaker 4: is what's Givin Boyce's number? This's call this give my
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  Speaker 4: daddy live. Given boys. It's not called Kevin Live.
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  Speaker 6: No, she's my Dad's in my phone is daddy? And
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  Speaker 6: like if I yeah, I.
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  Speaker 5: Think sometimes I'll be like, hi, Diddy, all.
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  Speaker 3: Right, call it yeah good, my dad live. I'll call
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  Speaker 3: him tomorrow after we played tomorrow.
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  Speaker 4: We need to eat it there.
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  Speaker 2: He's worried about calling Kivin live because he loves does
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  Speaker 2: love a chat.
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  Speaker 3: He's a great chat.
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  Speaker 6: My dad's a safe see. You can confirm the it's daddy.
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  Speaker 6: You called your dad daddy only if I want something.
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  Speaker 6: Otherwise it's just dead. But I'd be like hid.
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  Speaker 4: You know I've never called John Boy daddy. Uh? When
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  Speaker 4: you were little, I think he would have drop me
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  Speaker 4: out if I started calling him diaddy. Just a simple
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  Speaker 4: edition of a D and a Y.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny that.
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  Speaker 5: Hi, diddy, how are you?
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  Speaker 7: I'm good.
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  Speaker 5: Hi. What what are you up to?
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  Speaker 8: Oh me? Yeah you already.
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  Speaker 4: I'm giving you some content.
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  Speaker 2: We're just talking about whether it's unusual to still call
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  Speaker 2: you your dad daddy and you know, at an adult age.
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  Speaker 3: What what what are your thoughts? Are you okay with
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  Speaker 3: me and calling your daddy?
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  Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, it's got all the colin But yeah,
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  Speaker 8: sometimes about.
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  Speaker 4: John John, I call you daddy, daddy, big daddy.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah. Your granddaughter calls me poppy.
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  Speaker 4: That's cute. That is cute. Yeah, good, well, thank you
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  Speaker 4: for answering the phone.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, got a problem.
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  Speaker 4: What's the review of the show this morning?
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  Speaker 1: In a way?
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  Speaker 4: Not?
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  Speaker 8: It was pretty good? That was good. That was good good? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 8: you know enlightening, enlightening.
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  Speaker 4: That's good.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good room for the day.
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  Speaker 4: This program has never been called in lightning. I feel
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  Speaker 4: like you're just plucking words out of a dictionary or that.
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  Speaker 4: But I love it.
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  Speaker 3: I love all right, Daddy.
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  Speaker 2: That Jona and Ben podcast seems worth actor filming a
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  Speaker 2: new TV show doing some sort of out there things,
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  Speaker 2: pushing himself to the limit, and it's.
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  Speaker 4: Called limit listens. The first season I watched a few
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  Speaker 4: of and he went swimming through icy waters and some
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  Speaker 4: crazy part of the world, and then he did some
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  Speaker 4: other stuff, but it was all crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and now he's on stage doing some more crazy
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  Speaker 2: stuff with d Sheher and he's playing drums live and
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  Speaker 2: concert in front.
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  Speaker 4: Of thousands of people. He doesn't know to play drums.
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  Speaker 2: No, he just looked drums to play one song in
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  Speaker 2: front of each share and pack stadium.
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  Speaker 3: Have a listen.
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  Speaker 4: He makes some noise with.
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  Speaker 9: Chris hams Worthy.
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  Speaker 4: It seems like he's doing a better, far better job
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  Speaker 4: than I would have predicted him to for someone who
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  Speaker 4: had thought it was going.
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  Speaker 9: To be really good.
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  Speaker 5: And it does sound like it's just he's like Simon Couch.
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  Speaker 4: They were not expeting Dave Roland, and you know, Dave
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  Speaker 4: Roland rolled out. He's just learned the drums.
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  Speaker 3: It's great.
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  Speaker 5: There's something that Chris Hemsworth.
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  Speaker 4: Can't do for Yeah, they did a great job.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday we had a meeting with someone at worked with
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  Speaker 2: johnno and I hain't seen this person for a while.
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  Speaker 2: If you're going to describe them in a guess who game,
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  Speaker 2: I would say glasses brown here.
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  Speaker 3: That would be two of the things, is the personal
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  Speaker 3: glasses and brown here.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, obviously I would say the same thing. His name
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  Speaker 4: is Johnny Wilde. Great guy, great name too, Johnny Wilder.
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  Speaker 4: I'd love to be called Johnny walk Can you call
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  Speaker 4: me Johnny Laser? Johnny Johnny. I feel like you're never
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  Speaker 4: going to call me Johnny Laser. But yeah, so we're
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  Speaker 4: meeting this person.
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  Speaker 2: Men seen him for a while and waiting for him
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  Speaker 2: to walk through the reception area, and then I was like, oh.
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  Speaker 4: That's him, And I did the big wave in the
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  Speaker 4: kay and I didn't say the name, but I went
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  Speaker 4: you listen to know. I remember, You're like Johnny wild
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  Speaker 4: Could I say that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Well, as I got closer anyway, I noticed that Johnny
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  Speaker 2: wild wasn't wasn't waving back quite as happily as I
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  Speaker 2: was waving.
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  Speaker 3: It was sort of more of a sort of hey, mate,
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  Speaker 3: what's going on?
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  Speaker 7: Then?
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  Speaker 3: And as I got closer and closer degree and I
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  Speaker 3: realized that's not him.
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  Speaker 4: It was Gary Gary from Nick's Door.
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  Speaker 2: Glasses on Carrie Gary. As I got closer there's Gary.
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  Speaker 2: Gary's like looking at me, like, why are you so
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  Speaker 2: like good? Is he giving me a nickname?
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  Speaker 7: Now? I like it?
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  Speaker 4: It's cool name. Did you come back from the only
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  Speaker 4: similarity between Gary and Johnny Wilder's glasses.
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  Speaker 3: He was wearing a hat, and I was like, maybe
• 9:44
  Speaker 3: he's wearing a cat.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, coming in, it was quite far away.
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  Speaker 2: As I got closer, It's one of those things, you know,
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  Speaker 2: when you get closer, you're like, oh God, that's stopped.
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  Speaker 4: He was blaming the backlights. He's the light pouring through
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  Speaker 4: the windows.
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  Speaker 3: The next behind it megized glasses.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe he's a week away from you know how they
• 10:01
  Speaker 4: look down their nose and had the spectacles at the
• 10:02
  Speaker 4: end of their nose. A week away from there. It
• 10:05
  Speaker 4: just let me walking into a room and you're going,
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  Speaker 4: Chris lux it.
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: A lot of people think that the hats that jonaan
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  Speaker 1: Ben podcast.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know how you feel about this friend of mine.
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  Speaker 4: He's married, happily married. Kid's been married for i'd say
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  Speaker 4: over ten years. But he was telling me he's just
• 10:20
  Speaker 4: gotten into helping his younger WORKMATEE who's sort of late
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  Speaker 4: twenties flirt on Tinder. So helping him script messages back
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  Speaker 4: and forth the banter, and he said, it's working a tree,
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  Speaker 4: you right, And he's like, I've still got it. He's
• 10:36
  Speaker 4: still got And that's what you want when you hit
• 10:38
  Speaker 4: your forties, you want to know you don't want it,
• 10:41
  Speaker 4: you just want to know you still got it. That's
• 10:44
  Speaker 4: and that just wonders for a midlife crisis self esteem.
• 10:48
  Speaker 5: How do you guys feel about that?
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  Speaker 4: Weird?
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  Speaker 1: Do you?
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't if you went home to Andrew and said, hey,
• 10:55
  Speaker 4: I've been flirting with dudes on Tinder. How would Andrew
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  Speaker 4: sit with that?
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  Speaker 5: What's the time?
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  Speaker 4: But I've still got you, just not in the car yet.
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  Speaker 5: I do this with my friend.
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  Speaker 4: It made me feel like a million dollars.
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  Speaker 3: So the thing is is that I.
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  Speaker 6: Don't like, there's no want from me, but it's like
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  Speaker 6: it's almost the fact that I don't care.
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  Speaker 5: So you're like, la la la la, you say whatever,
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  Speaker 5: and it's the devil may care confidence. I think that
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  Speaker 5: gets the bites Sometimes I reply as.
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  Speaker 4: Her, Yeah, what they need, well, what we need to
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: do is set up like social media dating platforms for
• 11:34
  Speaker 4: married something soho. They don't want to have a fairs,
• 11:37
  Speaker 4: but they just want to feel good about themselves, like.
• 11:39
  Speaker 3: A chat GPS is a bot thing, maybe spots and
• 11:42
  Speaker 3: not real people.
• 11:43
  Speaker 4: You're like, oh, you're struck out with that one instadat
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: or Mama Graham where people are like, oh, you know,
• 11:48
  Speaker 4: I'd give that a hone. Yeah, you just want to
• 11:51
  Speaker 4: know your honabook. Is that what you want to Is
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  Speaker 4: it what you're wanting?
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  Speaker 5: Megan, I guess that you've still got it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And also on this occasion you're probably helping out someone there, right, Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Because when you like you're in it, you're so worried
• 12:02
  Speaker 5: about should I say that?
• 12:03
  Speaker 3: Should I not say that?
• 12:04
  Speaker 5: But when it's when it's me, I'm like, just write whatever,
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  Speaker 5: Just go for.
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  Speaker 4: A relationship, coach. This isn't the same categories when you
• 12:11
  Speaker 4: get id at the zup market, isn't it when I
• 12:13
  Speaker 4: get ideas? We have all been id in the supermarket?
• 12:20
  Speaker 5: Mine was like a couple of weeks ago.
• 12:22
  Speaker 4: Can I see your d series that you're up on?
• 12:24
  Speaker 4: The wanted posters on the.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: Wall with them the heads that John and Ben podcast.
• 12:29
  Speaker 4: Driving to work now you see some interesting stuff on
• 12:31
  Speaker 4: the roads, don't You would have too when you were
• 12:33
  Speaker 4: working the day shift, megan and peak our traffic?
• 12:35
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, especially gridlock traffic.
• 12:37
  Speaker 4: Would you multitask, like if you're sitting on the motorway,
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  Speaker 4: that's good time to me, Like you can get stuff done.
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: You're you get stuff off you to do list? I do, yeah,
• 12:47
  Speaker 4: but not not away gridlock traffic. Are you are you
• 12:50
  Speaker 4: trying to get some stuff while driving eight hundred k No,
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  Speaker 4: but well it.
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  Speaker 6: Does when it's like grid You don't know what gridlock
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  Speaker 6: traffic's like, sitting there going like two caves.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but did you do other stuff? Were you what
• 13:04
  Speaker 4: do you get more? Were you getting morning preparation done
• 13:07
  Speaker 4: while on your commute?
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  Speaker 5: I would have a beverage and do my lipstick.
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  Speaker 4: That was about it. Sorry, guy shaving this morning? Right
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  Speaker 4: the lights?
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  Speaker 3: Phous? Yeah? It was well, yeah, that is.
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  Speaker 4: You're really running late, aren't you. Yeah? He had a
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  Speaker 4: flannel and everything. Okay, flannel, but again that probably saves
• 13:26
  Speaker 4: him five minutes if he's having to do that at
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: home in the bathroom. Do that on the go that
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  Speaker 4: it does?
• 13:31
  Speaker 3: Would you shave your legs in the car?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Just asking, I don't know, I'm just for once.
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  Speaker 7: Would us.
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  Speaker 4: Something that was unrelated to the what we were talking
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  Speaker 4: about your legs. We speak to somebody. She was shaving
• 13:54
  Speaker 4: your legs all the way away. She was on the
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  Speaker 4: way to work.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe think of it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it does what I try to shave. I guess
• 14:01
  Speaker 4: we didn't get into the details, but yeah know she's
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: what I also love about trampet lights in this country
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  Speaker 4: tour is the reads doesn't mean anything to anyone nowadays.
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: You know, if your light goes green, you almost have
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  Speaker 4: to wait, look both ways, don't you. People just run
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  Speaker 4: run there's green as go oranges getting go faster, and
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  Speaker 4: reader is like, how brave are you're feeling? Yeah, you're right.
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  Speaker 3: You don't want to anticipate on a green just to
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  Speaker 3: go straight away, because.
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  Speaker 4: It's a common occurrence when you're light goes green that
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: someone comes honing through the industries. Get rid of it,
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: get rid of the lights. So we'll just do our
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  Speaker 4: own thing. It's when the lights aren't working.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, when they're flashing, everyone's like, who's going.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: And everyone's into everyone's out there in the middle.
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  Speaker 4: The road rules completely drop out of your head, don't they.
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 4: I freeze too when there's a siren behind it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Panic. The great thing to is when those lights are
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  Speaker 4: flashing orange. If you are behind a car, is brave
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  Speaker 4: enough to just get out on the intersection you you know,
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: you get into the estate the resk and you yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's hard for them to turn the tide. One set
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  Speaker 4: of slip streams.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Going the hits that John and Ben podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Father's Day on Sunday and John, you wanted to open
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  Speaker 2: up the lines I know one hundred hits four four
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  Speaker 2: eighty seven and talk about the dead dinner disasters.
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  Speaker 4: Now we're front for it to say not every dad
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: is shocking in the kitchen. You know, you do all
• 15:22
  Speaker 4: the cooking in your household, don't you a lot of it? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and then you get annoyed when people come and spray
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: tomato sauce all over your meals and sometimes seasoning it
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: without trying it all. Yeah, you know it's like, yeah,
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: I'll just first, and then if you decide.
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: It's like, what you know, it's seasoned to per fiction
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: out of this kitchen.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: A little bit.
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: But yeah, you've given me grief before about you may
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: be self conscious. Actually, sometimes when I would cook dinner
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: for the.
• 15:50
  Speaker 10: Kids, chuck a couple of the Korean skis in the
• 15:52
  Speaker 10: microwave thirty to four give sausages thirty to forty seconds
• 15:56
  Speaker 10: on high on the super white, super thick white bread,
• 16:00
  Speaker 10: sauce all over it.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: That's a dead dinner. And well Ben was that you
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: can't Well that's sacrilege making sausages.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: In the putting a fry, you know, doing that already
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: something It's like, oh check it, wait, is there any
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: water involved?
• 16:16
  Speaker 5: Or they just like dry saucy, just.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: A sausage, just puts cranses on a plate, you pokingly,
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: you know, slice a little hole on them, you know
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: what I'm bursting. Yeah, it is a fine line between
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: them being cooked and bursting and exploding the microwave. Yeah. No,
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: I feel like I've offended the Krensky sausage in Slovenia
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: with their originator. I just you know, recklessly checking them
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: in a microwave. So now I do them in the pen,
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: and every time I put them in the pan, I'm
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: thinking of Ben Boys. He shamed me out of my microwave.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: Andrew your husband, very good shift, he next.
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: Level, right, Yeah, he's a very good cook, very good baker.
• 16:47
  Speaker 6: Actually you've sampled one of his cakes.
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I've seen the things that you've put some in
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: sacram as well.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: It's like it's well, you guys ran a cafe, so
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: cafe quality food at home really, isn't it?
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 16:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah, when he does it, he does it for Instagram.
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: He doesn't often cook for me.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Instagram.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: The things, you know, it's a highlight reel of someone's life.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: You're getting marm toast pretty much. Eight hundred the hits
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: Dad dinner disasters have have Have they caused your food
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: poisoning the dad's ahead of Father's Day? Have they burnt
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: down a kitchen? My dear John Pry a huge fan
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: of kippers on toast. He came from you know, cold
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: hard Britain hard, something's some form of a ten. So
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: I love sardines as well, and every time Mum would
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: be away for the night would be like kippers and
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: sardines on the same same John, You don't have to
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: eat like you're in a war. Other food has been invented.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: One of the hits that John and Ben podcast Dads
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: in the kitchen having a shocker now.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Kevin Boyce, what was he like? Your father's behind
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: the tools.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: The Devils now now and again he's got a sort
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: of you know a few meals that he does, well
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: your report, Yeah, and now and again and then around again.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: He'll be off and boil the crap out of some
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: silver beaks or something.
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: Bob's lovaballs. So you know, sometimes you get the silver bean,
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: your meal will be sitting in a puddle. They wouldn't
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: quite drain it properly.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, somewhere along the line steaming the vigies. Didn't you
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: really get to that generation? You know, you know you
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: could like steam. It never saw kind of a little
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: bit crunchy that night, mate, put the broccoli on when
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: we put the meat on.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: You know, it was broccly mean to be white dead
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: dinners ahead of Father's Day. Oh eight hundred hits telephone
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: number now, Bruce, welcome, Hell are you?
• 18:40
  Speaker 8: I'm not too bad, mate, Sadly I'm ringing to dob myself.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: And oh.
• 18:45
  Speaker 8: I'm not out of the kitchen at home anymore. My
• 18:48
  Speaker 8: freshness or time into the kitchen. I remember those old
• 18:51
  Speaker 8: big bean pies that you spend, those big square boxes,
• 18:53
  Speaker 8: that family pie. Yes, I managed to get one of
• 18:59
  Speaker 8: those that it said stick an oven at one hundred
• 19:01
  Speaker 8: and eighty degrees, so I did, but nowhere to tell
• 19:04
  Speaker 8: me to take it out of a box.
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: Sometimes I read instructions on things and it's really like
• 19:10
  Speaker 6: broken down step by step, and it's because of you.
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: It's because of people like you.
• 19:16
  Speaker 8: I don't even break it down now. The next time
• 19:18
  Speaker 8: I decided to put something in the oven, I didn't
• 19:20
  Speaker 8: realize those nissing curtains we had one next to our oven.
• 19:25
  Speaker 8: I never really noticed that, and then we weren't. Master
• 19:27
  Speaker 8: Browner closed to the oven door. Next week, the alarm's
• 19:29
  Speaker 8: going off. It was on fire as well as curtain,
• 19:31
  Speaker 8: So that would be the second and final time. The
• 19:35
  Speaker 8: last time was I cooked bacon and the egg only
• 19:38
  Speaker 8: bacon the eggs, apparently, and I watched the family sneaking
• 19:42
  Speaker 8: out to the bin, every one of them think a
• 19:44
  Speaker 8: bit thing. I wasn't watching as they tipped it.
• 19:45
  Speaker 7: Into a bin.
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: So somehow managed to put a curtain inside it of
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: it and sit it alive.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Hier so wonderful effort. We're going to reward you with
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: some hell pizza because it sounds.
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: Like you need to get that to the You're a
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: danger in the kitchen.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: I have a good Father's day, but appreciate that there
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: and I go. I've been banned from baking chicken making chicken,
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: gave myself food poisoning on the barbecue. You can't get
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: the heat. Apparently the plate doesn't get hot enough to.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: Kill the you need a thermometer. Yeah, dad, I was like,
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: I like.
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: My chicken medium in the middle. Yeah, I've been banned.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: Band from cooking chicken. Takes you out too, That's that's
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: a seven day roller coaster. That is Campbell beacter sick.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: You know, yes, you've had it.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, it's not fun. It's not fun. Yeah, but yeah, right.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: There's a guy on Instagram. Remember it was eating raw
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: chicken though, Yeah, and he seemed to be fine.
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: We haven't heard from him, that's right.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: We put that up on Facebook. We got scolded for
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: being irresponsible.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: It wasn't us, it was we won't say it was
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: a good idea or anything like that, but he was
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: doing it.
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: But you're right, maybe he's doing a hundred days of
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: raw chicken. Maybe it's no longer. I haven't said that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: Our condolences the hits Ben podcast something yesterday on the show.
• 21:04
  Speaker 6: That's it was just a passing comment and you two
• 21:07
  Speaker 6: both like stopped me in my tracks and we're like, whoa, whoa.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Whoa unusual. I mean I could I could see what
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: do what you do? You, but it is probably a
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: bit more unusual compared to all other people.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: Do you explain your theory when approaching lawn mowing in
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: your house?
• 21:23
  Speaker 6: So I my mum mows the lawn, and so I
• 21:27
  Speaker 6: quite like mowing the lawn too. I've just like, I
• 21:30
  Speaker 6: don't know, it's quite started.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: It is satisfy, the job's done.
• 21:35
  Speaker 6: My husband doesn't like it when I mow the lawn
• 21:37
  Speaker 6: because I am like a free spirit.
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: So a lot of people they get quite finicky and
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: they get like like it's be in lines, everything to.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: Be mathematical process up and down?
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: What do you do?
• 21:53
  Speaker 6: So sometimes I go one way and then I'll go
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: down the other way. And then we've got a washing line,
• 21:59
  Speaker 6: so I go round it in a circle, and then
• 22:01
  Speaker 6: I like to make the circle go out wider circle
• 22:06
  Speaker 6: the other way. And sometimes sometimes I've done like sort
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: of a zig zag.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just feeling the vibe free spirit. The lawns will
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: kind of get done in the end.
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I just feel the vibe. When it comes to
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh there's a pet over there.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: I'll go do that.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: I can see if Andrews looking out the window, how
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: that would that would raise the anxiety levels.
• 22:25
  Speaker 5: Sometimes he comes home and he's like the lawns.
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: I was like, yes, you are welcome, because there's clumps
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: of grass that you've overplaced anything by doing it or not.
• 22:36
  Speaker 6: I don't think you generally get it all. But I
• 22:38
  Speaker 6: don't do the edging, which he is annoyed about.
• 22:42
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: I pride myself of much in life, but because probably
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: I don't have many other things to cut in my life,
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: but the lord as well, and up and down straight lines.
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: But the day you've come fast, a day passes and
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: you can't tell you no, you're right. It's grown a
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: little bit.
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: Beans very anti grass. He shaved off his dreadlocks and
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: became now he's just got the backyard of Wimbledon.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: It's it's a it's a game changer. It's a game change.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: My lawn is very short, and even that's a part.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I just can't be bother doing that at the front,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: you know, like it's tiny, it's maybe ten minutes.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: Would you mow it in lines?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, there's not much to kind of go back and forth.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: So yeah, because I'm kind of with you, Megan, I
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: can kind of take it or leave it. Which way
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: you do it, it's kind of gets done. I get
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: a bit frustrated when out the front of the property
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: because I do a little bit that kind of goes
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: onto the neighbors, and then I'm.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Like, who do how far do I go? My wife's
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: always you've got to mow the whole thing.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Do you got to be a good nighbor. You can't
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: have that pessive, agressive line down the boom.
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: I'm fine with mowing the neighbors boom, but my husband's like,
• 23:40
  Speaker 6: don't do it because that you know they'll look at
• 23:43
  Speaker 6: it zaggy boom.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: No.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it does a Pandora's box once you do open
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: it up. It's like you bring in one of your
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: beautiful cakes in here that you've made. Yeah, okay, would
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: I start cutting that? In the circles?
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Straight Lives that John wan Ben podcast.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: So what's the little eck that your partner has?
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: That's it just starts again on your ne's not in
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: a bad way, but just a little comical act that
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: because Megan, you think you've got one?
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, should I tell you what it is?
• 24:11
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: No, we don't worry about that, don't worry about that,
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: because our fine team behind the scenes here have tracked
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: down your partner, Andrew Peppers, and he joins us on
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: the phone. Now, Andrew, how are you good?
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Good?
• 24:22
  Speaker 8: Good?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: To?
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: What do I owe the pleasure?
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: Oh?
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: You don't know what we're calling it? Okay? Arranged?
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Okay? Well now does does Angel know about this potential
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: thing that you're talking about?
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Have you discussed it?
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I just it was told to.
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: Me, I love.
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: Do you know what this is? Andrew?
• 24:43
  Speaker 12: It's Meghan brushing her teeth with her eyes closed.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: Oh are you doing? Your eyes closed?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 24:50
  Speaker 11: Who does that?
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: I said, that is quite unusual. You're right, so what
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: you just I never really.
• 24:58
  Speaker 6: Thought about it, but I closed my eyes. I concentrate
• 25:00
  Speaker 6: on where I'm brushing. But I brush my teeth for
• 25:03
  Speaker 6: like probably a good like minute and shut the entire time.
• 25:09
  Speaker 12: We do everything sort of together, right, so we call
• 25:14
  Speaker 12: it the bed time parade. It's moisturizing under our cream,
• 25:17
  Speaker 12: the whole lot, brushing teeth and I'm standing there brushing
• 25:20
  Speaker 12: my teeth, just looking at her, and Megan's brushing it
• 25:23
  Speaker 12: looking at the back of our eyelids, very lonely.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: You guys are again almost inducingly cute. Even do your
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: bid time good night ritual to got a cute.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Name for it was like some people go to bed separately. Ye,
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: never done before?
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: Really because andrews it doesn't get up as early as you.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: That's no, it still still goes to be with me.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 25:48
  Speaker 12: But the one thing to do separately is brushing teeth.
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: Apparently doesn't look at it, doesn't want to look at it.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: That's so weird.
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: That's a little unusual.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Gave it.
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: It took thirteen years to like weird you out about
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: something I thought.
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: The e was going to be. I couldn't think I
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: could love you anymore.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, really, it's hardly a c I'll be saying cracks
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: are in the relationship.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: We're not really.
• 26:16
  Speaker 8: Since we come clean.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: Wow, if you got an Andrew's here we go.
• 26:21
  Speaker 6: Is it the fact that every day you have a
• 26:23
  Speaker 6: new business venture where I have to sit down and
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: listen to your new business idea. Or it could be
• 26:29
  Speaker 6: that even when I mow the lawns, you still get
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: upset because I might run and round in circles rather
• 26:33
  Speaker 6: than in straight lines.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Or it might be.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: I want you more about these business features. What do
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: we got on the auto? Got on the boil today?
• 26:42
  Speaker 6: Andrew, Hey, our last business I'm just saying, there's one
• 26:47
  Speaker 6: out of a million.
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: He's talking about the cafe.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: There was a good business venture.
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: You wanted to start a hotel chain one time.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, we just need to pay.
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: The mortgage first.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: Love it, big ideas, love it, Andrew, gonna have a
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: great day mate.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: All right about that johnaan Ben podcast.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: What's the little eck that your partner has?
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: That's it just starts again on your new It's not
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: in a bad way, but just a little comical act.
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: That because Megan, you think you've got one?
• 27:15
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: Should I tell you what it is?
• 27:17
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: No, we know.
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: Worry about that. Don't worry about that, because our fine
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: team behind the scenes here have tracked down your partner,
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: Andrew Peppers and he joins us on the phone. Now, Andrew, how.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Are you good?
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Good?
• 27:29
  Speaker 8: Good to? What do I owe the pleasure?
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: You don't know what we're calling? Okay? Arranged?
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, now does does Angel know about this potential
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: thing that you're talking about?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: Have you discussed it?
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah it was told to me.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: I love Do you know what this is, Andrew.
• 27:50
  Speaker 12: It's Meghan brushing her teeth with her eyes closed.
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: Oh are you doing? Your eyes closed?
• 27:57
  Speaker 11: Who does that?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: I said, this thing that is quite unusual.
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: You're right, so what you just I.
• 28:04
  Speaker 6: Never really thought about it, but I closed my eyes
• 28:06
  Speaker 6: and I concentrate on where I'm brushing.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: But I brushed my teeth for like probably a good
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: like minute shut the entire time.
• 28:16
  Speaker 12: We do everything sort of together, right, so we call
• 28:20
  Speaker 12: it the bedtime parade. It's moisturizing under our cream, the
• 28:24
  Speaker 12: whole lot, brushing teeth and I'm standing there brushing my
• 28:27
  Speaker 12: teeth just looking at her, and Megan's brushing it looking
• 28:30
  Speaker 12: at the back of our eyelids, very lonely.
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: You guys are again with volmost inducingly cute even to
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: your bed time good night ritual.
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: Got a cute name for it, was like some people
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: go to bed separately. Never done before really.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: Because Andrews, it doesn't get up as early as you.
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: That's no, it still still goes to be with me.
• 28:54
  Speaker 7: I do, but the one thing to do separately is
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: brushing teeth.
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: Apparently, look at it doesn't want to look at you.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: That's so weird.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: It is that's a little unusually gave it.
• 29:07
  Speaker 5: It took thirteen years to like weird you out about
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: something I thought the e was.
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: Going to be. I couldn't think I could love you anymore.
• 29:14
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: Really it's hardly a cra I'll be saying cracks are
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: in the relationship?
• 29:18
  Speaker 7: Were not? Really since we come clean?
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: Wow, if you got an Andrew's here we go.
• 29:28
  Speaker 6: Is it the fact that every day you have a
• 29:29
  Speaker 6: new business venture where I have to sit down and
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: listen to your new business idea. Or it could be
• 29:35
  Speaker 6: that even when I mow the lawns, you still get
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: upset because I might run and round in circles rather
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: than straight lines.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Or it might be.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: Many I want you more about these business ventures. What
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: have we got on the auto? Got on the boil today?
• 29:48
  Speaker 12: Andrew, Hey, our last business venture got this house.
• 29:52
  Speaker 5: I'm just saying there was one out of a million.
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: He's talking about the cafe.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: There was a good business venture.
• 29:57
  Speaker 6: You wanted to start a hotel chain one time. I
• 30:00
  Speaker 6: was like, God, I just need to pay the mortgage first.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: Love it, big ideas, love it I you You're going
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: to have a great day.
• 30:07
  Speaker 7: Mate, all righty, buddy?
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: The hats that jonaan Ben podcast.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: We had a very interesting DM Megan. We thought we
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: should do a bit more following up on it.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: Someone slid into the DMS. Now they were a friend
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: of a particular lady hunting child support.
• 30:24
  Speaker 6: So yeah, she her friend was she broke up with
• 30:28
  Speaker 6: her husband. They had while they were together an embryo
• 30:32
  Speaker 6: which they planned to use, although they broke up, so
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: she then got permission from her ex husband to use
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  Speaker 6: the embryo. She had a baby two years down the track.
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  Speaker 6: The child is too and she now wants child support
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  Speaker 6: when part of the agreement was that he didn't want
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  Speaker 6: any part of the child's life.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Now this was sort of upsetting her friend, who was like,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know if I should say something because she
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: didn't believe that she should be seeking child support payments.
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: Her words where she felt like she'd trapped him.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and this was the feedback from you my eyes.
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  Speaker 13: Surely you'd get something written down to say that it's
• 31:08
  Speaker 13: not it's not going to be my child kind of thing.
• 31:10
  Speaker 13: But the time's here on her maf he didn't want
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  Speaker 13: to him anymore kids or if he's in another marriage
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  Speaker 13: with kids young or understanding.
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  Speaker 14: Her friends should help their friend should tell her one
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  Speaker 14: hundred percent that it's not right. He's done her a solid,
• 31:24
  Speaker 14: you know, he's been a good guy and said, yeah, okay,
• 31:26
  Speaker 14: that's cool him in his demands or whatever you want
• 31:29
  Speaker 14: to call them, and then she's just gone totally against that.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: Now, Xandra, we are trapped down. The team tracked down
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  Speaker 4: a reproductive lawyer.
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  Speaker 5: Someone who specializes in this kind of situation.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: Xandra joins us on the phone.
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  Speaker 11: Good morning to you, Good morning.
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  Speaker 4: M lovely. Now just to clarify, we're not paying per
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  Speaker 11: No, no, no, absolutely not all right, okay, because we
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  Speaker 11: come on Ben's credit card.
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  Speaker 4: He's got sixty three million views on the internet at
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  Speaker 4: the moment. Got any money is all the other of you, Xandra.
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  Speaker 4: Now you've heard the scenario legally, we're just you know,
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  Speaker 4: quite interested to know from a legal standpoint, where does
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  Speaker 4: everyone sit.
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  Speaker 11: Well, look, absolutely, in terms of the ex husband, who
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  Speaker 11: I think is one of your listen, has just said
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  Speaker 11: did her favor you know, he is exposed. He's exposed
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  Speaker 11: for to paytriot support. In terms of he's consented to
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  Speaker 11: her using the embryo, and I assume is on the
• 32:32
  Speaker 11: birth partificate, which then of course makes him a father
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  Speaker 11: and a guardian. In saying that, though there would be
• 32:41
  Speaker 11: grounds to argue that with I d and apply for
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  Speaker 11: what's called an edmen reviewed. But yeah, I mean, I'm
• 32:49
  Speaker 11: not going to sound like Annoyer here, but it's exactly
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  Speaker 11: what I am. It's so important to get these, to
• 32:55
  Speaker 11: get something documented, and get an agreement, and get the
• 32:58
  Speaker 11: independent advice before and that everybody knows.
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  Speaker 2: Get it in writing, get it right, because what's the
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: thing a verbal agreement? I guess it is kind of
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: like he said, she says, or whatever the situation is.
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  Speaker 11: Right, Yeah, absolutely, but also to just get that two
• 33:13
  Speaker 11: lawyers each, get your own lawyer, get independent legal advice,
• 33:17
  Speaker 11: get it documented in an agreement. It doesn't cost a lot.
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  Speaker 11: We do these quite regularly with beef. They call donor agreements,
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  Speaker 11: and everybody knows where they stand that. You know, you're
• 33:27
  Speaker 11: not going to be a parent who's got the responsibility
• 33:30
  Speaker 11: day to day. You're not going to go on the
• 33:32
  Speaker 11: birth certificate. You're not going to apply at a later
• 33:35
  Speaker 11: stage to be a guidian. But you know, important for
• 33:37
  Speaker 11: the guy in this scenario not going to be responsible financially.
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: So I've heard from the friend, and we know that
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: there was no official contract, so it was a verbal agreement.
• 33:48
  Speaker 6: But she's not sure if he is on the birth certificate,
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: say he's not, but they only have a verbal agreement.
• 33:55
  Speaker 6: Where would they stand with child support in that scenario.
• 33:59
  Speaker 11: Yeah, that it would be really difficult for her to
• 34:01
  Speaker 11: get child support in that scenario. And so that's key.
• 34:04
  Speaker 11: That's the key. That is he UNBURSTI or not. If
• 34:08
  Speaker 11: he's not, then that's going to make it very difficult.
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: Well, Xandra, if anyone finds their life falling apart, how
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  Speaker 2: Sam Whitelock's got a brand new book out it's called
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  Speaker 2: A View from the Second Row and he joins us
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  Speaker 2: right now, Good morning, Sam, how are you?
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  Speaker 7: Good morning?
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  Speaker 4: Are interview Interviewing number. What about this book of yours? Mate?
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  Speaker 8: What are we up to today?
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  Speaker 7: I think it's about six or seven talking about which
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  Speaker 4: So we can learn before we move forward. Worst question,
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  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, because probably I'm not saying it's going
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  Speaker 7: You want to be.
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  Speaker 3: One thing I noticed in your book as well.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, when you made a hundred games for the All Blacks,
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: which is a great honor, and you played many more
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  Speaker 2: after that, you've got like what one hundred and fifty texts.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's it's like a regular thing or just
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  Speaker 2: for special games that you get so much texts when playing.
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  Speaker 4: For the All Blacks.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, it can be, but it's it's not every week.
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  Speaker 7: I remember my first game I played. I had one
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  Speaker 7: of the games that you always dreamed about, and I
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  Speaker 7: and it was it was so humbling. And about three
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  Speaker 7: test matches later, I think I got one from my
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  Speaker 7: now wife Mum and I think Nana. So I went
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  Speaker 7: from three hundred messages so it is a good way
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  Speaker 7: to keep you pretty grounded.
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: And what does your mum what's the typical text from
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: your mum like? Because my mum would.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: Be like, oh, did you did?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, but here's a couple.
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  Speaker 4: Of work ons.
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  Speaker 7: Mums a little bit that way. She'd just because mum
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  Speaker 7: used to, you know, watch us as people, not actually
• 36:14
  Speaker 7: the team at the time. She'd watch us come flying
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  Speaker 7: into a ruck and then we'd get up and be
• 36:19
  Speaker 7: glumping a bit. She'd be all worried. So sometimes she'd
• 36:21
  Speaker 7: actually have to ask who scored that try because she's
• 36:24
  Speaker 7: not actually watching the game. She's watching us, and it's
• 36:28
  Speaker 7: got kids.
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: Probably understands that she's watching as a mum. You're looking
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: a little tir.
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: Don't be afraid to come off if you need a break.
• 36:37
  Speaker 7: Therefore, you need to hear Causs and we've.
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  Speaker 3: Got Sam White lock with us. This new book, View
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: from the Second Row is out now now. Sam Quickfire Questions.
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  Speaker 3: Last book you read?
• 36:48
  Speaker 7: I'm currently reading this Shan Wallace, The Dark Destroyer book.
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  Speaker 3: You're a friend of the Chase A. Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I was lucky enough to meet Sean a couple of
• 36:58
  Speaker 7: years ago and started off a bit of a friendship
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  Speaker 7: and seeing him a couple of times and we've been
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  Speaker 7: in the UK and he's a mess of or yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I love that. Pretty cool. You know, as a team
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  Speaker 7: we had a bit of a mock chase thing against
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  Speaker 7: him and he absolutely smoked us.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, definitely, and definitely bring him along to the
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  Speaker 4: pub QUZ next time you're in London.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, best photo in the box.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of photos, and have to be the
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  Speaker 2: one where you're standing over John Key, right, and you
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: look like you're from looks like I Fight out of
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Lord of the Rings and he's.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Like a hobbit and you're just like one of the
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  Speaker 3: bigger Hawks or something.
• 37:32
  Speaker 7: That's probably one of my favorites, the John keyth photo.
• 37:36
  Speaker 7: We had some heaps of finals that I got married
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  Speaker 7: about a year later and the photographers like, right, we're
• 37:41
  Speaker 7: going to do the reverse John Keys. That made my
• 37:43
  Speaker 7: wife look real tall and me tiny and bet that
• 37:45
  Speaker 7: it was a pretty cool monament.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: Is it weird when you know you guys are all
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: getting changed, you're half naked, you know, the Prime Minister
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: walks into the change room.
• 37:54
  Speaker 7: Here, sometimes you walk into the sheds and sometimes here's
• 37:58
  Speaker 7: royalty there and white Crockett tells a good story about
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: meeting Prince William and his wife Kate, and he's standing
• 38:06
  Speaker 7: there with his players are on tie white top, but
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  Speaker 7: he's only in his should shake.
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  Speaker 4: It feels like someone should be holding them at the door.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: Just a couple of minute, I will congratulations on the
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  Speaker 4: book in such a stellar career, and before you go,
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  Speaker 4: one grim story that you couldn't put in the book.
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  Speaker 4: He's we're not going to play that on the heads
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  Speaker 4: and he's not.
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  Speaker 7: Going to tell it on that's more a photo. I
• 38:37
  Speaker 7: talk about the injuries and Ethan stood on my ear
• 38:40
  Speaker 7: and the doctor could put his finger through it. So
• 38:42
  Speaker 7: I've got a part of it on my phone. You
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  Speaker 7: see the doctor's finger through my ear?
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, you come in? Can we sick? Can
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  Speaker 5: I see it?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 38:54
  Speaker 7: Or the kids on my phone have a blood folder.
• 38:57
  Speaker 7: So all the injuries are different.
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  Speaker 2: Like one of the horse that magazine making the day
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  Speaker 2: they had the sealed section like a little section of
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  Speaker 2: the box that you could have ripped over the grim
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  Speaker 2: photos or something if you.
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  Speaker 4: Wanted to, but not a Sam white lock. So be
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  Speaker 4: question was questioned from the last five.
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  Speaker 7: I reckon that one about the what's the story that
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  Speaker 7: you didn't put in, Oh yeah, was probably the bed Yeah.
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: Kind of throw out the India.
• 39:24
  Speaker 7: But you did.
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  Speaker 1: Well.
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  Speaker 4: Were pretty much wrapped you up.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: We haven't had a good.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Question the heads that Joan ben podcast.
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  Speaker 4: Prince William I'll talk about his holiday beard, that.
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  Speaker 3: He had a beard.
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  Speaker 4: Beard.
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  Speaker 3: It's like a beard to sleep on, a beard on
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  Speaker 3: his face.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, look good, look at a bit of stubble and
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: shave the top of us hidin.
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  Speaker 6: a beard.
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  Speaker 4: Just give like, just gives a guy a peer of clippers. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're right, from one to another, from one balling white
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  Speaker 4: Prince Philip Peter's a combover, isn't he.
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  Speaker 4: She works with Joe every day and unfortunately Joe doesn't
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  Speaker 3: Just sit in this moment. I could save you, but
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  Speaker 4: We can.
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  Speaker 3: going on.
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  Speaker 4: He's come through.
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  Speaker 13: She has made the sweat.
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  Speaker 5: Has he been any complaints audible complaints from her so far?
• 42:29
  Speaker 11: No? No, not at all.
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  Speaker 7: Night she's been coine, enjoying the music and the chair.
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  Speaker 4: But we'll be checking them. We'll be chicken sporadically throughout
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  Speaker 7: I think I think she's a bit nervous.
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  Speaker 4: Quitz, Well, you can work together as a team.
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  Speaker 1: We do.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, we sit literally a couple of meters away.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, great, well love you guys probably know what it's
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