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EP #58 - The Compton’s Survive An Insane Car Wreck + Dad Hacks For Babies On Flights | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: Sure, you're ready. Ready.
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  Speaker 2: We got a lot to talk about on this, Yes, this,
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  Speaker 2: we just talked about how we need to get started
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  Speaker 2: recording because this is gonna be a long one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: This today's episode. This is Operation this is Operation shot Collar.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Two week vacation in Italy. You had a week vacation
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  Speaker 3: down in thirty eight. Yeah, done at Grayson Beach greaton
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  Speaker 3: beach great and beach great.
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  Speaker 1: I say Grayson Grayson great name too and low key.
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  Speaker 3: They're kind of similar Italy. It's like the beaches on
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  Speaker 3: Italy very much remind me of thirty eight big time.
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  Speaker 3: Anytime in thirty eight. It's like, do I feel like
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  Speaker 3: I'm in Italy?
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  Speaker 2: You jokingly you have gotten flak on the internet for
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  Speaker 2: saying thirty eight is the Italy of the United States.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, it is, come on, come on. I know,
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  Speaker 3: like it's funny and I know I get I know
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  Speaker 3: he get joked on for it. But I'm thinking, dude,
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  Speaker 3: it's if you've been to both, it's right there, go there,
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  Speaker 3: just go there, just go there.
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  Speaker 1: Tell well he's wrong. Yeah, yeah, if you don't agree.
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  Speaker 3: Because I just went to uh, I think it was Carol, Carol,
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  Speaker 3: Caroli something somewhere close to Venice, but the beach of
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  Speaker 3: carol Ah and it I'm looking out at the beach
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  Speaker 3: by the way that's saying there powder incredibly soft powder. Sure,
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying, you don't even need to take along, like
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  Speaker 3: when you're washing off your feet when you come on
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  Speaker 3: like the boat walk of the concrete and got the
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  Speaker 3: little shower, it trickles off. Bro it's powder bong, dc mo.
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  Speaker 3: It was phenomenal. I thought it was a thirty eight
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  Speaker 3: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of four the Dads.
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  Speaker 3: I hope the coffees. I do hope the vibes are hotter.
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  Speaker 3: We have a lot to talk about on today's episode
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  Speaker 3: again vacation Breakdown. We got a ton a ton of
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  Speaker 3: comments that flooded in on our social media's at for
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  Speaker 3: the Dad's Pot and our YouTube comments and our Spotify comments.
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  Speaker 1: And since your.
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  Speaker 3: Boy was international, I am curious because a few fellow
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  Speaker 3: mates on the travel patim on the back say, hey,
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  Speaker 3: I love the for the Dad show. So if you
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  Speaker 3: just could in Europe, in Europe, oh yo, if you
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  Speaker 3: just could for me PT six audience, Mama Team six,
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  Speaker 3: Mal Team six whatever, all of the team sixes. If
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  Speaker 3: you can just comment where you're commenting from. I would
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  Speaker 3: personally enjoy scrolling the feed and seeing how far we
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  Speaker 3: have reached. I would like that checking in from blank Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 3: but again, people's been hitting us up on socials, YouTube, Spotify,
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  Speaker 3: It is a strong community. We have a lot of
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  Speaker 3: stuff to read throughout the show. If you want to
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  Speaker 3: be featured on the show, again, all you have to
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  Speaker 3: do is comment on YouTube, comment on Spotify, on our socials.
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  Speaker 1: Our boy Deep he.
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  Speaker 3: Grabs them, gives us a bunch of massive rollodecks to
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  Speaker 3: speak to when we are on the show. That's how
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  Speaker 3: you get featured. We also have a hotline six on
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  Speaker 3: the Dads. You call and leave a voicemail win loss
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  Speaker 3: event to the boys. Whatever you want to do. Let's
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  Speaker 3: dive in. Where do we want to even start?
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  Speaker 2: Man Well, I sent you a tweet that I thought
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  Speaker 2: was hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: Oh the freezing.
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  Speaker 3: We do have a you know this isn't part of
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  Speaker 3: the the new dad shout outs that we have coming
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  Speaker 3: up on the show.
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  Speaker 1: But Saram did send me on the ft D.
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  Speaker 3: Here we go. We have a new dad alert. This
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  Speaker 3: one is from our boy, Adam Singer. Congratulations, congratulations Adam.
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  Speaker 3: He says, it's Friday. This is on X my man.
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  Speaker 3: Adam Singer says, it's Friday. We should post some good
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  Speaker 3: news to the timeline God willing. I'm gonna be a
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  Speaker 3: father in November. Get over your oh shit, not nihilism. Nihilism,
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  Speaker 3: what does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: An nihilist is I've seen this, yeah, but you know
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  Speaker 1: the memory. I'm not that. I'm not sure. I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a Sean McVay brain.
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  Speaker 2: An nihilist is almost in the belief of nothing like
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  Speaker 2: you're you're, You.
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  Speaker 1: Don't want any of the isms at all.
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  Speaker 3: You just strip yourself away, get over yourself, get over
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  Speaker 3: your nihilism and have a kid. It's why we're here
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  Speaker 3: after all. Come on, shout out, Adam Singer. This isn't
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  Speaker 3: written in Before the Dads, This isn't tagged by the
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  Speaker 3: old Papa Team six community. This is something we just
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  Speaker 3: came across on the internet and just a phenomenal reply
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  Speaker 3: by Freezing Cold Takes. Freezing Cold Takes on Twitter says congrats,
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  Speaker 3: and then drops a couple screenshots of Adam Singer in
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  Speaker 3: the past. This is Adam Singer responding to people in
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  Speaker 3: twenty twenty twenty twenty one and their comments of Adam
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  Speaker 3: Singer responding to people about having kids, saying things like
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  Speaker 3: I already don't want kids. This is why we don't
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  Speaker 3: have kids and don't want any or or don't have kids.
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  Speaker 3: Don't buy any physical things ever for any reason. Do
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  Speaker 3: whatever you want in markets, or have no kids and
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  Speaker 3: do whatever the hell you want. Just know that every
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  Speaker 3: time I pause, that means he's doing another comment. This
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  Speaker 3: I'm reading this is six total comments, and I'm sure, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: there you go, production, production, production. This is why I
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  Speaker 3: have dogs and no kids. This is why we don't
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  Speaker 3: have kids. Problem solved. But now years later, five six
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  Speaker 3: years later, Adam Singer is now having a child. He
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  Speaker 3: came back around God willing get over your nihilism, then
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  Speaker 3: have kids, He replied to Freezing Cold Takes underneath Oh
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  Speaker 3: did he I have changed my mind on this important topic.
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  Speaker 3: That's like last week with Greg what is something that
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  Speaker 3: you feel like you had an opinion? That you had
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  Speaker 3: an opinion on a long time ago and have now
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  Speaker 3: changed your mind.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is Adam Singer. Now he's changed his mind.
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  Speaker 1: That's gotta be I mean, that has to be.
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  Speaker 2: Parenthood kind of summed up as far as I haven't
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  Speaker 2: experienced it too much, but there are so many things
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  Speaker 2: that I held as truth when I was late teens, same,
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  Speaker 2: early twenties, and now I'm just like, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 2: my whole world has been blown up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You know, being a young lad back in the day,
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  Speaker 3: it's when you were gonna have kids. You're gonna have
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  Speaker 3: a boy. He's gonna play every sport. He's gonna be
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  Speaker 3: the best, he's gonna be in the he's gonna be
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  Speaker 3: playing in the big leagues. When people cancel plans, what's
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  Speaker 3: so hard about canceling plans?
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  Speaker 1: Like, you got a.
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  Speaker 3: Kid who cares, figure out a way to get a babysitter.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you kind of judge your you judge your mates. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you judge your boys when they have to cancel on
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  Speaker 3: the bus.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody mowned and growned.
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  Speaker 2: When Taylor was like, yeah, hosting a family dinner like
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  Speaker 2: weekly is pretty difficult. Everybody's like, oh, oh yeah, no,
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  Speaker 2: Taylor's like, what you got ring Wall your kids got
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  Speaker 2: there is hard?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, you don't get it.
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  Speaker 3: It is you see a true progression of how it
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  Speaker 3: is your preconceived notions as you get older, when you
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  Speaker 3: get close to having kids are getting married. Then when
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  Speaker 3: you do get married, you complete buds training and you
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  Speaker 3: become a true Pop Team sixer. Your mind changes all
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  Speaker 3: the time, so you can't hold it against.
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  Speaker 1: Him, dude.
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  Speaker 2: Special shout out to Kevin who we met at eighth
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  Speaker 2: and Roast. They were getting their anatomy scan.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was crazy. Sherman and I were getting a
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  Speaker 1: coffee yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: This was crazy dude at the favorite watering hole, coffee
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  Speaker 3: hole eighth and Roast over off of Charlotte.
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  Speaker 1: No free shoutouts, all the free shodows, no free shoutout
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  Speaker 1: because I did take an l while I was there,
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  Speaker 1: just oh mass well. The worker was like, oh what
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  Speaker 1: are you got going on the just working a little bit?
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  Speaker 1: Oh what do you do? I was like, oh, we
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  Speaker 1: have a podcast, and like oh, so you don't really work.
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  Speaker 1: I laughed it off, just kept walking.
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  Speaker 2: Right before that, he goes and what's the day on it?
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  Speaker 2: He's like, well, and so he like, you know, it
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  Speaker 2: takes a sharpy. What do y'all got going on? And
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  Speaker 2: as he like literally says, oh so no work, puts
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  Speaker 2: a period behind will and puts see you work.
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  Speaker 1: I sat down next to Sherman, I have my coffee.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so fucking pissed off.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that that truly fucking fired me up. That
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  Speaker 2: got me mad.
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  Speaker 1: But when we were there, what was his wife's name is? Kevin?
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  Speaker 1: Oh No? Did start with the A. I thought I
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  Speaker 1: started with a K, like Kelsey starts with k no.
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  Speaker 2: But it was like it was like Kaylee or Kayla,
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  Speaker 2: like I had an a sound to it.
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  Speaker 3: Either way, Hey Kayla Yahyayla and Kelsey God, I hate
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  Speaker 3: it Kylie. She was so fired up. Kevin was in
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  Speaker 3: the bathroom. Sherman I sit down, and it's you have
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  Speaker 3: the entire coffee shop to pick a spot to see,
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  Speaker 3: to pick a spot to sit on. Sherman, I just
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  Speaker 3: choose to sit on like the love seat where we're
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  Speaker 3: just directly next to each other, arms touching, and we
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  Speaker 3: just sit on the little love seat next to the
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  Speaker 3: j O. She pops up over our shoulder and she's like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: my husband he's in the he's in the bathroom right now.
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  Speaker 3: We actually just got done with our visit on like
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  Speaker 3: having a baby. We're going in for another appointment here soon.
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  Speaker 3: And he loves your guys' show. He's gonna hate me
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  Speaker 3: for this. He's gonna hate me for this. And we
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  Speaker 3: just talked shop. Kevin came out. We congratulated him on
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  Speaker 3: completing Buds training and now becoming a future member of
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  Speaker 3: Papa Team six.
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  Speaker 2: He was stoked, and then we we literally just talked
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  Speaker 2: about their anatomy scan. It was so funny how weird
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  Speaker 2: the timing was of them leaving the anatomy scan seeing
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  Speaker 2: their baby for the first time. This guy listens to
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  Speaker 2: a dad podcast because he's having said baby and is
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  Speaker 2: excited about it. Sees the two hosts of the dad
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  Speaker 2: podcast and it is like, yeah, I just saw you know.
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  Speaker 2: You saw my daughter rog him over to the barista
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  Speaker 2: and be like, this is work, buddy, this is work.
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  Speaker 1: This is what I do.
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  Speaker 3: You see the impression we're making all about the show.
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  Speaker 1: Kevin, you shouldn't have done that.
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  Speaker 3: That would have been brilliant, But that was That was
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  Speaker 3: a cool moment too, because Kevin's by like both the
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  Speaker 3: guys are right here. There's they're literally with nobody else
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  Speaker 3: and they're sitting arm in arm next to each other a.
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  Speaker 2: Park bench sized love seat, like we're talking the tiniest
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  Speaker 2: love seat. Will and I went there to like talk turkey,
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  Speaker 2: and obviously we're gonna sit across from each other, and
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  Speaker 2: Will just parks it on that bench and the other
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  Speaker 2: bench was comically far away if we were to talk,
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  Speaker 2: so I had to Papa Squad next.
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  Speaker 1: I had to Papa Squad. Now it does you know?
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  Speaker 3: I wonder if Kevin feels the same way because we
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  Speaker 3: have a follow up here from last week. We had
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  Speaker 3: somebody on Instagram make a comment four days ago.
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  Speaker 1: It's now edited, but it's it says Will and Sureham.
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  Speaker 3: This is from d lazy Will and sure Him act
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  Speaker 3: like raising kids as rocket science and they're in they're
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: try to uncrack the code. He even edited it and
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  Speaker 3: still couldn't spell it right. And they're trying to crack
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  Speaker 3: the code.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, he's saying it's easy, and I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: he's saying.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like it's a negative vibe in the comment section.
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: He definitely feels like that. He's just like they're sitting there.
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: They're trying to figure out how to do it. You
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  Speaker 2: fucking do it, dude. Oh, it's a show all about
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  Speaker 2: how to do something that's super fucking eas It's.
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  Speaker 3: Comments like those that just like internally make you boil
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  Speaker 3: for a moment because I just Barista. Yeah, it's probably
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  Speaker 3: the Barisa on a burner account that make you boil
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  Speaker 3: because it's like you just know, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, that's not what we do. We're not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: We're not doing that. We're enjoying the moment.
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  Speaker 2: We're in the moment right now, and we're just talking
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 1: That's all we're doing.
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  Speaker 3: Yere like, oh so good, you guys talk about fatherhood.
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  Speaker 3: Try making a moocha? Yeah, have you listened to the show?
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  Speaker 3: And if they say, no, hey, how about how about
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  Speaker 3: go and just check out the show? You would know
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  Speaker 3: that you wouldn't say a comment like that if you
• 11:43
  Speaker 3: just checked out the show. No, I'm good on that. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: you're just projecting your own bullshit. You just want to
• 11:48
  Speaker 3: be a hater for no goddamn Reese, will sure try
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  Speaker 3: making a frappuccino.
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  Speaker 2: Tell me how easy that is? We have another flashback?
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  Speaker 2: Or what do we call it greg Or.
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  Speaker 3: Greg's Got a Lot of Love Love Greg episode.
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  Speaker 2: Uh Mike Beviquah eighty four on YouTube. I think Greg
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  Speaker 2: and I read the same parenting book. I have a
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  Speaker 2: fifteen year old daughter, and I found myself agreeing with
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  Speaker 2: Damn near every bit of advice, question, success, failure, situation
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  Speaker 2: that he brought up. She's my stepdaughter, and my wife
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  Speaker 2: tells me that she and I have a weird relationship.
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  Speaker 2: But it's good to note that it's actually pretty normal
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  Speaker 2: since it looks exactly like Greg and his daughters minus
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  Speaker 2: the front row at the Taylor Swift God stirt, I
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  Speaker 2: haven't done that yet. Great, so don't forget to take
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  Speaker 2: out the trash. They never forgot to take out the
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Mike. This was from Maggie Moo on YouTube,
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  Speaker 2: Top three sold. Nothing beats Grandma Maxine playing checkers. Greg
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  Speaker 2: is the best.
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  Speaker 1: Oh let's go, Maggie Moo, Meggy Moo. I take that,
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  Speaker 1: Grandma Maxine. That's that is a story. That's a story, dude.
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  Speaker 3: The teeth falling out in the middle of checkers, going
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  Speaker 3: into a stroke.
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  Speaker 1: What would your grandfather?
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  Speaker 4: Saying?
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  Speaker 1: It good?
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  Speaker 3: He's like, uh, Mac, you gotta move and I'm there, Mac, move.
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  Speaker 1: And she's just kind of.
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  Speaker 3: Sitting there quietly and I'm just sitting there. You know,
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  Speaker 3: I forget how old I said. I was like seven
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  Speaker 3: eight ors something like that.
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  Speaker 1: Damn it, Mac, scene you gotta move. Then her teachers
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  Speaker 1: fall up. I was like spread into the living room crying.
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  Speaker 1: Bro Mac and my grandpa.
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  Speaker 3: And again for people that are newly tuned in, my
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  Speaker 3: grandpa at this time was legally and I can laugh
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  Speaker 3: like these are my grandpa. Yeah, yeah, my grandpa was
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  Speaker 3: legally blind and my grandma was legally deaf, like she
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  Speaker 3: had insane antennis for like hearing aids.
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  Speaker 1: My grandpa had these specs.
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  Speaker 3: On that he just could Yeah, he can only see
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  Speaker 3: like silhouettes.
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  Speaker 1: So they complimented each other. Well, he just say he
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  Speaker 1: just saw that the silhouette wasn't moving.
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  Speaker 3: He just saw the silhouel as a movie. And I
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  Speaker 3: was like, Grandma, it's your turn. He's like, Mack, you
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  Speaker 3: gotta move, damn Max, you got And then I run screaming.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously I'm telling the story over again. I run screaming
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  Speaker 3: into the living room. My grandpa again, since he's legally blind,
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  Speaker 3: he still doesn't nessarly know what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Grandma just rocked back. Grandma back, seen rock back
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  Speaker 1: and her teeth falling out, and he's like, I haven't
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  Speaker 1: her teeth fellow, her teeth fellow. We gotta call it's
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  Speaker 1: just us three in the house.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to help get her in the car
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  Speaker 2: and stuff. Right, Where did your dad come over?
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  Speaker 3: No? No, this was like they had to get they
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  Speaker 3: had to roll in the bed, the stretcher and everything
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  Speaker 3: into the house.
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  Speaker 1: Which was the story where you were actually.
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  Speaker 3: The skinny one to like get it through the door
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  Speaker 3: on the way out. But they had to get her
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  Speaker 3: on the stretcher. Oh my gosh. And she was good
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  Speaker 3: from it, she was, Yeah, she survived.
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  Speaker 1: What was the story?
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  Speaker 2: Where was it mac that fell out to pick up
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  Speaker 2: when your dad was backing up?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, now this this is from my dad. Like I
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  Speaker 3: wasn't there, but my dad said he was taking her
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  Speaker 3: to a hair appointment. My grandma she would always get
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  Speaker 3: a perm. She always have all the old women they
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  Speaker 3: love to get the popes. She'd be wearing it was
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  Speaker 3: a gown every day, some floral gown and then she'd
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  Speaker 3: rip a perm.
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  Speaker 5: Huh.
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  Speaker 3: But my dad was taking her to the beauty salon
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  Speaker 3: one day. Yeah, it was I never knew of my
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  Speaker 3: dad taking her to her hair point. It was always
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  Speaker 3: my mom. It really was just always my mom. So
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  Speaker 3: this is like one of the very rare times my
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  Speaker 3: dad had to take her to her appointment.
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  Speaker 1: But it's his mother, his mother, it's my dad's mom.
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  Speaker 3: And he gets her up into the gets her up
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  Speaker 3: into the truck, helps her start to get in, and
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  Speaker 3: then as he kind of seventy five percent fully gets
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  Speaker 3: her in, he thinks she's going to finish getting fully
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: in the truck.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: He starts walking around to the other.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Side, and as he gets into the car and slams
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: and slams in side of the door, she tips out.
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: Brother.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: That had to be the driest thud of all times.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Like a very subtle, very small little hill in the
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: front yard. So she landed in grass. Oh no, she
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: landed on the sidewalk and then rolls in the grass. Yeah, yeah,
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: damn it.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: Back.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that one might have got her. That one might
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: have got her.
• 16:14
  Speaker 6: Hip.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: There were a couple of times she cracked it. She
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: cracked she corracked her. Oh no, back this one, yes,
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Greg goes in top three, So top three.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: So this one comes from stupendus.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: STUPIDU says six.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Soed boys get out there and wash that truck at
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: night when the daughter is coming home from the date.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: Excuse is that it was too hot during the day
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: and I didn't want any water spots. Don't forget to
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: ride that chalkway, boys, don't forget it.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: That's some game from stew That's some game. That's some game.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Fifteen minutes in, I already told my husband he needs
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: to watch love Greg's outlook, especially a look ahead, since
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: he has older kids.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: BS.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: He isn't too bad to look at either. That one
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: comes from E. M. K. Burd O. She is defender,
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: not too bad to look at.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: She wouldn't subscribe to Youth Youth Sports Inc. Let me
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: go get a look at old Greg. Oh, he calls
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: the games all on Sundays Fox. Okay, Greggy boys football
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: thing ain't too bad, ain't too shabby.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: Kind of like this stuff.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: The biggest take because I even went home after we
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: recorded that episode. It was telling my wife because we
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: we we don't talk about it like often because we
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: know we're kind of far off from it, But every
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: now and then we bring up the idea of like
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: technology and phones and iPad, like just yes.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: When is gonna be the age? And you kind of
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: like we're years out.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: We're doing the thing where we're gonna where we think
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: in our heads we're committing to something early. Now we're
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: obviously not obviously, but chances are we're going to change her.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Mind by the time we get to whatever that point is.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But something.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: I took away from Greg's episode was when he talked
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: about failing inside the house that really like resonated with me,
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: is like, you know, they're going to get exposed to
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: a lot of things, and when we were on the
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: topic of like tech and phones and everything else, he's
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: like wanting them to fail inside the house so that
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: way they're at least around you to talk through whatever
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: the issues that might arise from those things that they're
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: getting exposed to.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that was that was a good one.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: That was one where I was like, uh, oh, I
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: can get on board. I could be talked into something
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: there with the idea and the philosophy of they're failing
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: around us, so we get to help be the teacher
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: in those moments.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like one of those very first it
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: was like one of your first three lessons of the week.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Was that horse trainer talking about like the your grip
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: on the reins of a horse is like your grip
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: on the reins of your child, of like allow them
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: to fail to be there when they fail to help
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: them learn from failure.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, it all kind of coincides with that.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: This is the rocket science. That's the rode we're trying
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: to crack from my man.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: D L A Z.
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got to figure it out, though he does.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: He figured he gotta you give him a phone. Yeah,
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: rocket science. Father they take the crack and the cold.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: These two guys discovered fatherhood.
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: Oh by the shirt lead the comment what a phony dude,
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: what a bus a cash grab dude, I can what.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: I would love to meet people like that though, because
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: you know he's it's those people that would be like, oh, well,
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: what's all.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, You're never going to meet them. Ever,
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: the negativity that I've experienced online throughout the years, I've
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: never never met any of these people or have been
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: told things like that in person, ever, Yeah.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Because it would be crazy, like if somebody like truly
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: came up to me in the grocery store and was
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: like Dad podcasts be like, oh yeah, yeah.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: You a scientist, had another poopy diaper again a great
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: show kid, and just walked off.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I would belly laugh.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: I would belly laugh in that moment because I would
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: so like that was incredible.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: You gotta say, oh, somebody needs a nap.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Somebody didn't get there, ba ba, I got an extra
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: binky in the pocket.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: You need a binky.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: Hey, that's my dad, by the way, that's one of
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: my dad acts, binking in the pocket.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: I put a bankie in the pocket when we were
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: going out onto the beach because I was like, I bet,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: I just bet that that binkie's gonna hit the sand.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Jill already has six extras in the bag, very packed,
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: but she doesn't have a quick draw mcgral binkie right there, dude,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: that feeling, there was no better feeling. And you can't
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: tell tell anybody about the sneaky beankie. It just sits
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: in your pocket. You don't let anybody know about it.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: And then when that one beankie gets dirty, Oh.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, sweetheart, I got when I put one in
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: my pocket when we were at the You don't have
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: one you didn't prepare.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: We did you get that one? We'd you find that one?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Is it even clean? You know if dad stays on
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: his toes, hey, you know, I stay ready.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: But that was why my dad hacks. It's a good
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: dad hack. Extra banky dude. How was vacation? Let's not
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: have into vacation, dude. Vacation was so good. It was
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: crazy fun. It was very resting and relaxing, like we
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: did a time. Jill is a mover and a shaker
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: and a doer, wants to go on it adventures, very
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: much like Charles.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I was going to say, I feel like you're just
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: breaking down my wife right now.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: There was a lot every single day we're doing stuff,
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: but there was a lot of relaxing stuff that we
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: also did of just like hanging out pool side for
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you know, two to three hours. We were letting Scarlet
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: take naps as long as she wanted because Jill was
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: under the assumption of and people can take this as
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: a dad hack or a mom hack or like whatever,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: but she was like, Scarlet's not going to sleep that
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: well anyways because she's in a new spot. Yeah, let
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: her just take some long naps in her new little
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: pack and play bed that we got for her little crib,
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: And so Scarlett was taking like these two and a
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: half hour naps, three hour naps, and we just let
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: her nap once instead of two in a day, so
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Jill and I would get to have like three hours
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: to ourselves of just like hanging out by the pool,
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: getting to be a couple.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Dude. It was unreal.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Got to go probably my favorite moment of the trip.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I had this like awesome moment, dude, where we got
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: to go to this part of Greaton Beach where like
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: the true National Park is or the state park, sorry
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: of it's like a hected beach. So the beach quite literally,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I've been going to this beach since nineteen ninety three
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: when my grandmother was living down the road. That beach
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: in its dooms looked the exact same as if you
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: took a picture from nineteen ninety three, it's exactly the same.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Got to go there with my aunt on my mom's side,
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: her sister and take Scarlet there for her to like
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: see the ocean for the first time and experience that
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: with like a sunset come in, dude, and I had
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: like a crazy moment out there I was balling crying,
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: and not like audibly crying, like it was just coming
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: down quietly, and I was keeping it to myself.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: When you say balling crying, Like the the viewer and
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: the listener they're thinking they're shaking. They're thinking you're shaking.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, they've seen me where I on here.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: It was a very it was a very controlled you know,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: tears just kind of streaming down my cheeks. But I
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: had sunglasses on, so nobody was really like a strong
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: stone crust, oh dude, And it was like it was
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: like healing almost. I can't describe that feeling of like
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: getting to show my daughter a place that formed me
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: as a young individual, of like showed me what love
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: was from a family members showed me what adventure was.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: And being brave enough to go deep in the ocean,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: and learning how to do cartwheels on the beach and
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: playing with my grandma, and like all these little moments
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: are all tied to like this little stretch of beach
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: and I like got to take my daughter out there,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: and then I got to we set her down the
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: sand and she literally screamed at the ocean and started
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: crawling towards it like a baby sea turtle. She was
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: obsessed with the water. I'm sitting there just you know,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: the silent tears coming out. I'm biting my lip. I'm
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: so proud of her, and I'm so stoked in the
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: moment of like, oh my.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Gosh, she loves this place. I picked her up.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I found a little sandbar probably like forty or fifty
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: feet out into the water, and just held her on
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: the sandbar and I was just talking to her. I
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: was like, your dad loves this place more than anything
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: in the world. This is my favorite place. Like everything
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: around here, this is like what I love to look at.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: And when I think of my happy place, I like
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: think of here. And I love you more than that, Like,
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: I love this place even more because I've gotten to
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: take you here now, and I hope you love it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy it, and we're gonna have like
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: a ton of fun in the years ahead, hopefully of
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: continuing to like come to this spot and make memories.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: If you love this place as much as I do,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: you might be a camp in girl. Yeah, you might
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: be a sports camp girl, which is fine, But if
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: you love the beach, we can come here whenever you want.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: When you laid that on her? What she say?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: She went, So she was on this shoulder right here,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: and she was sitting there and she was looking out
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: into the ocean and she put her finger out and
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: she pointed and she went.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, down. I said, that's right, honey, that's right.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: And I kissed her on the cheek.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Dude, I give her a little kiss my phone because
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: I took this note.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I can't wait too. That mean England's over there.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and we beat their ass. Dad she did, Honey,
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: we were bikes.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I had, uh.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: Like a similar moment where we're sitting there and we're
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: laying on the bed, mama shower, and I want to say.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: Scotty was already down to sleep and Rue was going
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: to do a sleepover with us, like sleep in our bed.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: And Rue and I had gotten back from one of
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: the little shows that they do down the down in
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: the kids club are the hotel area where they're.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Doing like a metal razy dude. It was nuts, it
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: was nuts. Those look so set.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they were epic. Rue was enthralled looking at all
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: these things going on. She's engaging. Anyway, we're on the
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: back end the tail end of the trip and I'm
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: laying with her in bed. She's got her pjs on,
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: she's got this she wanted to wear like a two
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: two over top. This's like rough two two and I'm
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: a sweetheart, we can't. We don't see if you're going
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: to sleep in our bed, you're not rocking it to
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: to to bed.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Oh damn. She took it off, but she's.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Like holding in bed and I'm laying and I was like,
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: and I'm trying to like set the tone because Rue's four,
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: Like we're having some conversations at this age. It was like, hey, sweetheart, Candet,
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: I tell you something, and she was like what. I
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: was like, come closer, and she like nestles up to me.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: I was like, I love doing vacation with you so much.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: I've had so much fun this week and I just
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: want you to know I love you so much and
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: I can't wait to keep doing stuff like this with you.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: And I'm just trying to have a moment with her,
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: and she just looks at me and she goes hey dead.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: Then I go yees, sweetheart, thinking we're in the moment,
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: and she goes, can I snug on my two tuo?
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Like it's a stuffy tonight.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: I was like, you get off me, dude, Get off
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: the bed.
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, get off the bed. After the magic show. This
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: was either the night before or two nights before. I
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: was like, dude, Rue, I like grab her hands and
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at her and I go, dude, how much
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: fun did you have today? Because we were on the beach,
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: we had the water sides and stuff like that. How
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: much fun did you have today? And she just looks
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: at me because she goes, look at your nose when
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: I do this, and she just like grasp my nose.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Get off, I.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Said, Scarlett, you see that sand dune over there. You're
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: uncle Jordan and I. When we're little kids, we would
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: go play armymen on that sand dune with these little
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: green army men. We play there for hours and we played.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: There's so much that if you go and dig in
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: that sand dune because it's protected and they don't get touched,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: you could probably find some of the army men that
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: we played with. I've been able to find some throughout
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: the years. And she looked at me and she went
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: and I just fell the nice the hell you, Hanna,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: What the fuck was that?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Dude? That's her cracking a coal one of that man,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: that was her cracking a cold.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: One moment, I look at my wife, so why are
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: we doing all this vacation? She she ain't gonna remember
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: any of this stuff.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: Why are we doing this? It just needs to be
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: you and me. Let's get a sitter. What do we
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: do leave the kids for two weeks?
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: She doesn't get it.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: Hey, Scarlet, by the way, has been doing dramatic squeezes
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I literally wanted to bring this
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: to the podcast because I was.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Like, do babies do this?
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Where she'll just grab food when we eat with her
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: at dinner, and she'll squeeze it in her hand like
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: super hard, and she'll look at me. She'll just lock
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: eyes with me and start going and then all of
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: a sudden she'll go and like sit up and have
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: like the nicest smile.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I'm like, is she constipated? Like why is she doing that?
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Do your kids do that at all?
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: They would go through like Scotty both through like when
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: they're around that age, Like I feel like they're just
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: getting used to being able to like figure out something
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: else that's new, like being able to squeeze, because they
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: would do that or like smush food or like just
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: be violent with food, yes, or like when they can
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: finally learn to drink and they're just like downing it
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: over and over, or they're just learning to tip it
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: back and they just keep tipping it back over and
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: over just because, Yeah, they're Like Scotty, now she can
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: learn that the milk can drip out of her bottle,
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: so she'll just sit there and like shake the bottle
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: and have fucking create a mess.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Scotty's a wolverine. Scotty.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: The whole reason we called this episode or I called
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: this episode Operation shot Collar, is because that is what
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: needs to be on Scotty's neck. Scotty, she is an animal.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: She's an Australian cattle dog. She needs to run. She
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: needs to move, yeah, at all times.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: And heard the people into an area where she can
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: interact with them.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: Climbing everything. She's just a busy body. Scotty's hard. Even
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: before we went on this two week vacation, my wife
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: brought it up to me and she wanted to do
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: big vacation. I'm like, sweetheart, it's going to be so
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: tough with Scottie, like she has shown us time and
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: time again, whether it's a thirty minute car ride, an hour,
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: four hours driving to thirty eight. She's shown us time
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: and time again.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: She don't give a fuck man because Scotty, don't give
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: a fuck because Scott and Zilla.
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: She don't operate like that. No, she's very different than Rue.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Ru wasn't like a perfect sweetheart child. But Rue is
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: much calmer. Yes, she had a much calmer personality than
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: Scotty did. Yes, she could sit and relax. She's got
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: more patience to her. Scotty, doesn't we go on this
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: adventure the flights. I'm just telling you it's ain't going
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: to be a walk in the park. Yeah, and boil
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: was not.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Hey, there's a tweet because you're about to get into
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: a story and it's gonna answer this guy's question.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah. This came from Connor Sears.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: Connor said, Hey, I need some dad hacks from the
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Sikas out there. About to go on my first flight
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: on Thursday with my two month old. Any tips or
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: hacks that you would have for your boy. Much appreciated.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: That's a good one, good writing. Who's that from Connor
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Sears x dot com formerly Twitter.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: I would say the number one because it's a two
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: month old, so you're very much in the newborn you're
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: in the newborn phase. I would say, I don't know
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: when his flight is, but if you can time it
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: to where whether you delay the bottle or if you're
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: going and the it would be an early bottle. Whenever
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: you take off, whatever you're gonna do, time the bottle
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: as you're ascending out of the air, because it helps.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: It helps keep their ears what from pop? It helps
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: keep their ears from popping.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Or their ears to pop.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because at that age too, it's like
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: after they get the bottle, it's usually you bottle, they
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: fall asleep or take a nap, but hitting the bottle
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: as you're taking off to minimize as much danger as possible.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Two month old, I don't feel like is as bad
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: now again, two month old might even be easier.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Might but we don't want to put that on travel.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: We don't want to put that on we know, we don't.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: We don't family shod we don't parent shame, We don't
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: parents shame.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: When we traveled with Scarlett, uh, right around that two month, Yeah,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: we sleep deprived her right before the flight. So whatever
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: that little stretch of two hours was that she would
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: have napped.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Play play play play play play play play and you
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: are staying up. And as soon as you get on
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: the plane, and that plane gets on the tarmac, baba baba.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: That's you cooking. You're cooking right there.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Because they're gonna ears, are gonna pop, they're gonna eat.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: And then they Yeah, and if it's if it's an
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: early flight, that's all good. Like we would still you know,
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: we wake Scotti orrew up even earlier, early, because they're
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: still gonna be tired. But to your point, you play
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: with them, You keep them up because you know they're
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: gonna fall asleep again. Yes, Jack, keep them awake. I
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: know you want the bottle. You might give them, uh
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: and I'm guesstimating. Obviously it's been a minute. It's been
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: over a year since Scotty's been in that range. But
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: let's just say, you know, they have a five ounce bottle.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I'm making this up.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: You might give them an ounce before you make the
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: trip to the airport, if they're fussy, if they're pissed off,
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: if their rattle just enough, just enough, like hey, you
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: can have a little snack. But the main event. The
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: main course is gonna happen when you take off? Oh yeah,
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: on the plane.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and we're gonna get that tummy full. Yeah,
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: you're gonna be.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: Hungry and you're gonna be sleepy. Yeah. Yeah, that's the
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: meve Connor.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: What's the myth with Scott Zilla that when there's gonna move.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: It's hang on and prey.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: Hey you're laughing, dude, I I have, I have. It
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: never felt like the right time of telling Charro because
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: we were even over. The travel back was a full
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: twenty four hours because a flight got delayed. We were
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: in the airport, the first airport for a few hours.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: We landed in Newark. We were delayed so much we
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: had to rebook the second flight all the way back.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: We had to rebook the Newark flight. No, we're supposed
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: to be in Nashville by six pm on Saturday. Yeah,
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: we didn't take off from Newark until nine thirty at night.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: We landed in Nashville at eleven pm. Italy time is
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: seven hours ahead, so we essentially operated a full twenty
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: four hours. Because our first flight in Italy was supposed
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: to take off from Venice at eleven am. That didn't
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: happen until one thirty, so we were delayed quite a bit.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: We spent probably a total of eight hours in airports. Yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: and then obviously the long flight from Venice to Newark
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: it was a grind.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: That's not even delayed, that's just derailed.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you were asking, how do you there's no
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: stopping Scottie the whole saying you can never stop him.
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: You can only hope to contain him. That is scott Zilla.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: Fortunately there was a sickoh a tier one. Johnny shout
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: out Johnny from Buffalow, who was sitting next to us,
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: that I'm just having a rapport with him before we
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: get on the plane. I see that he's sitting next
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: to us, so I'm just saying, hey, Johnny, this one
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: right here. She's gonna be hard. You're gonna hear. I
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: just want to apologize that. He's like, oh, buddy, he
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: had his girlfriend with them, maybe fiance, maybe wife, I
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: don't know. And we were doing the old joke he
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: needs some birth control. This will be the birth control.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: It's a ping punk ball in the tornado.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Unfortunately, the family behind us, they had a young
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: maybe eight nine months old, so we were kind of
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: we were in a good we weren't alone, but we
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: were just letting people know this one right here.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: Hey, if you hear crying when we're over the Atlantic,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: that's me.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: And my wife who's listening right now.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: The respect that I have for her, yeah, the guilt
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: that I hold because she had to be the one
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: that dealt with Scotty.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: The majority of the time.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: I did my best, and I could even tell when
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: she's at her breaking point. She's like, you take her,
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: you gotta take her, and I'm taking I know I
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: got to take her, and in just in the back
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: of my mind, I also know she's gonna be screaming
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: for you again when this happens.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: And it's not minutes and minutes.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: This isn't the Rolodex where we travel and Charlie does
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: everything with the kids. Like again, RU operated a little
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: bit differently. This parental preforation that Scotti has for mom
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: right now is obsessive. And I felt so bad for
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: my wife because I snuck a thirty minute nap in.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: She stuck no napping during.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: The duration of that I thought four hours an eight
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: hour flight, Yeah, Charlie didn't really Charlie didn't really sleep
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: on that tomorrow because Scotti just wants Charle. But then
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: she wants Charles and she's on Charroo. But again she's
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: a busy body. She wants down. Charlie just wrestles with
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: her the whole time because Scotty wants to stand, she
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: wants to do stuff. And even when you're wrestling with her,
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: Scotty's got that grin, that little shit grin and laugh
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: that you're playing with her. And then she gets to
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: a point to where she's mad and you just put
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: her on the ground to wur She's walking up and
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: down the aisle. We're letting her run around. But Scotty's
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: not scared to make friends. So Scotti will the couple
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: in the back that like the eight nine month old,
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: she's like baby baby. I'm like, yeah, baby. She just
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: wanted to play with that baby the whole time. And
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: then she, the sweet mother of the child, starts doing
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: high fives with Scotti.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: Thank you mother of that child, Thank.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: You mother of that child. And she did phenomenal. But
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: in our head, it's like, you don't want this baby
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: just sitting here. You don't want Scotty just in there.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: You're doing high fives for hours hours, but Scotty will
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: do that. Grab Scotty and Scotty's just again you're fighting
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: with her.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: The whole time until you can get her down.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: For some that Scotty maybe on the duration of that
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: twenty four hour travel probably slept a total of three
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: hours four hours.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Oh perfect, good, yeah good, But it was.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: The flight home was extremely, extremely, extremely difficult. It almost
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: there were moments to where we made comments to each
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: other this might have ruined our entire vacation because we're
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: gonna need another. We're gonna need another, We're gonna need
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: soft tissue, deep tissue massages. We almost need another vacation
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: from this hell that we've put ourselves in traveling back
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: from Italy because of Scotty.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Scotty.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: I love you, We love you, Scotty love Scotty's dad
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: loves you.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Scotty is a shitload of fun. Her personality is incredible.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: She has a blast. But she just does not sit still. Breakfast,
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: doesn't sit still, has to get down dinner, sees a slide,
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: side slide, doesn't eat.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: She's got it.
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: She's again when I say Australian cattle dog, Yeah, she's
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: like an animal where you have to let her down
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: and just feed her on the side of the table. Yeah,
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: you just have to let her take bites. Yeah, so
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: she can run around, climb stairs. And again she's only
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: twenty months old, so you're still having a monitor at
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: all times because she could easily slip.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: She slept and felled plenty of times.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, and it is right back to it, if
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: not faster and more after it.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: After she falls, that's not gonna slow her down.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: And some she takes a thump and she just gets
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: right back up and tying, and I like, well, we
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: stop breathing because right or just like watching her and
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: observer he she gets up and keeps it moving, Like
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: is she gonna cry?
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: She's not gonna cry. She's tough as shit, she is.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: I've never seen anything encapsulate a child's personality like that
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: video of the bounce House where you were poolside, and
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Will has this video where he's filming Scottie from super
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: far away and Scotti is purposefully jumping into this ballpit.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: That is like she that toy was like a big
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: girl toy.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: You're talking about the bounce house. Yes, there is no ballpit.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: Oh there, she's jumpings even more sense. She's jumping off
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: the bouncy house onto the ground perfect like there's no.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Ballpit at the bottom, good two feet.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she just continually climbs and is jumping and
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: is basically just putting her legs out completely straight, hitting
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: her butt on the ground. On one of them, she
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: hits and you kind of see her head go and
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: you behind.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: The phone, oh, you kind of just watch her.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, her head pokes out
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: from uh, underneath the bounce house and she looks at you.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: And just hit my smiling.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: She's a psycho, she's a wolverine man because she's trying
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: to jump off the bounce house and hit the bouncy
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: part with her butt and kind of propel herself.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah for her.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: One time she hits the bounce house and just poured
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: face chest on the ground. She pops back up, gets
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: back on it. Yeah, she's uh, she's tough. With the
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: vacation a plus. Good vacation was a plus. So we
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: hit three different spots. We were gone for two weeks. Yeah,
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: so we did like three or four nights in Austria.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: And while we were in Austria, we're like in the Alps,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: the whole time.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: So we hit On one of the days we go
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: out hit the gondola, We climbed some mountains. Another day
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: we go out to Hallstat Holstat Halstat, which is essentially
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: where Frozen got inspiration for. So we wanted to take
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: Ru to go see you know where Frozen was. This,
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: This is where aarondel is. This is where Hanan and
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: Elsa are. She sees the castle or not the castle,
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: but the church with the big clock ship. Where's the castle?
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know. We gotta find them.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: But we went there for a day, took a trip
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: that was amazing. Then we go over to the the.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Dolomites, Dolomites, Dola meat, the Dolomites, the Dolomites, the.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: Sunweese hotel resort, phenomenal, phenomenal spot.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Everything's like farm, the.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: Table they have like lama walk, so Scotty, she loves
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: her stuffy the lama. That's her safe space. So they
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: have lamas there. Scotti is in all Islamas. We get
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: to go on a lama walk. Rue gets to ride
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: like a pony Trill rode a horse. They go on
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: a horse walk.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Oh damn. Yeah.
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: We go out to what is it loose loosen, loose on.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: We make a trip there for a day to where
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: we go and have a picnic. We're out, you know,
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: around just playgrounds, enjoying ourselves. But the Dolomites incredible. Yeah,
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: and then we our third stop was Carol Carole Carole Carole,
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: which is by like an hour outside of Venice. It's
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: on a beach, so we got a beach vibe, we
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: got the mountain vibe, we got the beach vibe, and
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: there was a well, there's water slides at each hotel,
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: which I didn't know about. Y'all were ripping those water slides, ripping,
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: bro y'all were ripping those waters.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Rue loves the water slides.
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: There was one that you can't go on, like the
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: first part we were at in Austria. They had it
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: was like this water park, this indoor water park game
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: five or six different slides. I'm talking simple ones, medium ones,
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: ones that are two that are three stories up.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, one of them you had to do on a
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: raft because in the middle of the in the middle
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: of the water slide, it's like this half pipe you
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: get shot out into, you know, then you go back
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: in the total then you come out the exit on
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: like a little half pipe before you come up. And
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: then the other one was just like a speed demon
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: one all enclosed circular, going all around the little indoor
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: water park area.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and the ones on the third.
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: Floor you couldn't ride if you weren't at least nine
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: years old.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Oh damn hits them both?
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, how'd you swing that?
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: They don't have great security there. Come.
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: It was more like asking Rue, hey, would you want
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: to do this? I would hold her on the one
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: with the raft I went down at first. You can
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: kind of my own instinctual guest could do this one
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: or not if she wants to. We could do this
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: one where I hold her Yeah, yeah, but the other
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: one no, or you can't go on that one.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: She didn't want to.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: On day one, Parks, we were with our former neighbors
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: that were good friends with shut Out.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Shot at the Paler's. Paler made Travel. She's a travel
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: agent who helped put this trip together.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: For that I forgot about it. She's as stud Megan.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: They have two kiddos around Roue's age, Parks who's five,
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: Livy who's four, and Parks He's he's one that gets
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: after it. He doesn't want to do the big dog slide.
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: It's the red slide, big red slide. He doesn't want
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: to do it. This is on day one, so I'm like, good,
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: you wouldn't want to do this one anyway. It's dark
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: the whole way down, it's fast, it fucking jerks you
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: around a little bit, and again you've got to be
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: at least nine to get on this one. Day two
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: comes around, Rue gets an itch that she wants to
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: do it, so we're going on to the top and
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: I'm like, man, I really don't know. I'm saying, I
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: really don't know. I'm I can kind of push the
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: boundaries if I'm like, I think Ru could do it
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: if she if she's confident and she wants to, then
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: I would be more instinctual on like letting her do it.
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: But I'm like, let dad do this one again because
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: I've done it like several times, and I'm like, I
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: don't think this is gonna work. So I'm sitting there, well,
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: would I tell her to like cover her eyes the
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: whole time down? YadA, YadA, YadA. So I go down first,
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: speeding all the way down. They have this monitor that
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: shows you your times on how fast you get down
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: to the bottom. Me and my boy Brian, Brian Paler,
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: we're trying to like break our records from the day before.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: We're trying to get sub seven sub seven seconds on
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: getting all the way down that side on the big
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: red slide.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Sub seven.
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: That's hard to do it, hard, hard, my boy rookie.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: No.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: So I go down the first time because I'm trying
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: to test it out for Rue. I'm trying to go
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: as kind of as slow as i can to see
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: what I could tell Rue if she as go on this.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: I get to the bottom of my wife Charles. She's
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: standing in the hold in Scottie. I get out of
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: the water and I'm like, man, I'm gonna be honest,
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: I don't think I don't think Ruth should do this.
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: I think she could get hurt, even if she wants to.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I don't think she should do it. Yeah, And she's like, well,
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: she's up there right now. She's with Brian though. So
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: I'm at the bottom and I look all the way
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: up and I'm like, Brian, Brian, he like looks over
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: the rail and I go, don't let her do it.
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: He looks down at me and goes she's already went down.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: No panic and su me because I'm like.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Oh God, like this isn't gonna be good. Ruth's flying
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: down this slide.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: I get in the water because there's about ten feet
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: of like narrow water that you get int too, where
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: it's like up to shin level that like you're like
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: standing in there as you explode into the water. I'm
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: like standing there, waiting on just looking at the dark
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: abyss of this tunnel of this red slide for Rue
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: to come out, just wondering, Oh my god, is she
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: crying already? Like what's happening? I hope she's okay. She
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: shoots out of this slide, standing there and she's underwater
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: for a second. She comes up and I go, I go,
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: how was it? And she's like she's like stands up
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: and gets everything together.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: She goes good and she rips that thing for the
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: rest of the day, Oh dude.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: And honestly a massive relief because I was, legitimately I
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: was like, no, I ain't no way, Brian, no, no, no,
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: shut it down.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: She's already on slide bro shout out Brian.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Shot just real probably just following him up the stairs.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: He's like, hey, where's your dad at I told her, sorry, I'm.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Gonna let daddad test this out for you. I'll say
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: you can do this. But she didn't wait for my signal.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: She's like, oh, Brian could tell me if it's good
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: or not. Brian, go down it. Yeah, sure kid.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: These slides are long enough to where it's got stop
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: lights up above at the entranced lifeguard.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: So once you yeah, there's no lifeguard.
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: So once you go, it's sitting there on red light
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: and it gets to the bottom, then a green light's like, hey,
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: let's the next person know that they can go.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Shout out Italy. I like that.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: Ye dude, that's so epic. What a coming of age
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: moment because that's the type of stuff that you bring
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: to the lunch room where you're like, oh, by the way,
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: went down and slide that you have to be nine
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: to go down?
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. She loved it, bro, And I'm
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: talking every spot was. There's pros and cons to each spot,
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: but we loved them all. Like the trip was incredible.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: We got hit. Oh my god, it's been so long.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: I forgot about that. When we left Austria. The driver
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: that we had that was chauffeur in us to is
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: a four hour drive. Again, all of the travel, so.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: Traveling there, four hour drive.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: From Austria where we were at to the Dolomites was
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: four hours. And then from the Dolomites down to the beach,
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: yeah that was an hour outside of Venice and Cairole, that.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: Was a four hour drive. Yeah, so all of the travel,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: that chaos, that stuff is exhausting and it's hard as fuck.
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: Beauty full sights though, I'm sure beautiful sits.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: I got a little car sickness because again, you're just
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: in this and you know your boy's gotta you're in
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: the you got a little things are crazy at driving
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: narrow roads. And we left the first stop Austria to
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: go to the Dolomites. We weren't even outside of the
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: street off of our street from the hotel. When we're
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: about to embark on this four hour drive, our driver
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: pulls out, he kind of got He slow rolls a
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: stop sign and we get fucking smacked by a car.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you got hit by You got in a car wreck,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: bro on your vacation. We got in a car wreck.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: And this dude, he was already talking a little too much,
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: like being too super nice. I'm like, bro, just listen,
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: it's gonna be a long drive. Like just we got
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: four hours, man, yeah, rud. They're like they're already complaining
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: a little bit, like we got a ride ahead of us.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: You got a ponytail, we get it.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that little fucking rat tails got that should have
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: been the tail right there.
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: May is not.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: He ain't got this bud. Yeah, we're not even now,
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: we haven't even left the area.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: And we pull out and I feel him kind of
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: slow roll this stops sign, but I'm not necessarily looking,
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: and I see my wife because she's on the driver
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: side of the van, and so is Rue in the
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: back seat in her car seat. And I hear Charles
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: start to say something. I look over and again it's
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: he stops. It's a highway to where cars are flying
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: probably going forty miles an hour, thirty forty miles an
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: hour on the on this mountains. Yeah, kilometers they do
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: the km's there. I canna meat there, And Charles says,
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, I look over and I see this car
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: coming to where it's inevitable. What's gonna happen unless they
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: rip it to the left. But there's on coming traffic
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: coming the other way, and just sure enough, everybody's able
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: to stop, but this car smacks us on the front tire.
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: We get show gage shot like, we don't know what
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: the fuck happens. We're all paying it. I'll look over
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: at char you all right, look over at Rue. We're
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: checking on the kids, everybody.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: He was cool.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: He looks back to us as everybody, Okay, buddy, what
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: the fuck was that?
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: We get out of the car.
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: The bumper and everything smashed in his car? You can
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: he could barely back it up. He's like, car's broken.
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: Car don't work. He can't drive us to the Dolomites. Now,
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: he came from I forget where he came from, but
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: it was a five hour drive for him to come.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: Whatever company he's with.
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: I'm like, how far were you to get to us
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: because we're kind of out there in the Alps, and
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: he's like, it took me about five hours. I'm like,
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: oh my god, look at chart. I'm like, I don't
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: know if we're fucking getting to the Dolomites today because
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: I don't how the company works.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I have no clue.
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: This is like a smaller town that we're in when
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: we were in Austria and.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: It was bad.
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: The other car that hit us, their cars, their front
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: of the cars like smashed in. Fortunately she lived like
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: right around the corner. Her mom bikes down. No, yeah,
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: cops come everything, and We're just kind of standing on
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: the side of the road. They're talking Italian and shit,
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: and I'm just thinking, how are we going to get
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: out of here? And we megan or traveledger who they
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: were still there. They were about to go to Germany
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: for a couple of days when we when we were
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: going off to the Doomites. And fortunately we just found
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: this big this taxi service that had a vehicle that
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: was big enough that we just paid euros to like
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: we got to get there, Like, we can't stay back,
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: we can't just hang back. We had no clue how
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: we're going to get to the Dolomites. Cause he's fucked,
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: he's scared for his life. He's like, I'm gonna get
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: fired him. Oh yeah, you probably should. Yeah, like you
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: got a family in the vehicle. Yeah, And buddy, I
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: saw it. I don't know what you said in Italian
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: to everybody else and what the lady was saying that
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: was I don't know what went down, but you slow
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: rolled that stop sign. Yeah, And he was scared for
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: his life, and he's like, let me try in. He's
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: trying to call his company and my boss blah blah
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: blah and say, hey, we're gonna get a taxi.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be all good.
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: He's like, no, please don't do that, like, please let
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: me get I was like, buddy, how long is this
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: driver gonna take to get here? You took you five hours?
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: Like where's this other guy gonna come from? He didn't know,
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, we're just gonna get this taxi. He's like,
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: I don't have the money to pay for your taxi,
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: and like you don't have to pay for the taxi.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: We're just gonna get the taxi. He's like, you might
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: tell my boss that. I'll tell your boss whatever you want.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: Or like, are we gonna ask for a refund? Like yeah,
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: you're goddamn right, we're gonna ask for a refund. We
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: didn't get out of the parking lot. We just got
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: in a car wreck, buddy. Yeah, and uh, anyway, we
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: take the taxi, we get to the Dolomites.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: And god, yeah, I don't know where that or that guy.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: He seemed like scared enough. I don't know, like what
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: the company is he worked for, But dude, we got
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: smacked by a car.
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: Shout out to y'all staying in it and hope for
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: the best for that guy.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: But I hope he's not professionally driving for a while.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he started. I could tell he felt bad. Clearly
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: he's yea, he felt bad. I'm with you. I'm just
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: trying to figure out. We get to the Dolomites, bro,
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: We're all good. Everybody's safe. Nobody's dinged up. Could have
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: been bad bad if you a couple more feet for him,
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: that's his door. Yeah, any farther, that's my wife. Any farther,
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: that's Rue in the back. Yeah, we were We were lucky.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: He was lucky. He was lucky. He was lucky. Yes,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: we were lucky. He was lucky.
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: Like it very unfortunate situation. But at all the spots
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: we're at due incredible time. Well honestly so, it was
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: just so nice to be kind of gone. It takes
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: a few days to get fully checked out because we're
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: seven hours ahead, get fully checked out out of everything
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: back home, when I was never really fully checked out
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: because there's stuff going on here at the shop moving parts.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: That happened.
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: But as far as like getting to enjoy vacation, getting
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: to be with the family, just us four taking on
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: all these different all these different stops. The cost is
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: it's it's expensive and exhausting and it's very chaotic at times.
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: But the payout, the getting to see Ruin, Scottie and
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: us just have a good time over in Italy, it
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: was a plus.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: What what was your krack of cold one of the trip?
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Would you say?
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: Crack cole one hard man and crack a cold one
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: is brought to us by Biologo.
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: Of course, when we look at these new new and
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: improved cans, you got classic grape I'm on right here,
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: the new flavors Raspberry Subert. But you got a little
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: ginger ass. Someone tagged me seeing that ginger ail is
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: the top dog.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: They're pretty stinking good.
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: Yes, Ollipop of course is still doing it's buy two
• 56:24
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• 56:33
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• 56:38
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• 56:46
  Speaker 1: Check them out. Shout out to you drop, Thank you ollipop,
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you ollipop.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: I don't like have a distinct crack a cold one
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: because we did some cool shit man Venice personally, Oh,
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: tell me about the dude. The architecture beautiful, the city wonderful.
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: I hear all everywhere. It's marble flooring everywhere.
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean the stone there's marble all the
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: streets and things like that. Very narrow, it's all water.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: There's no like car traffic anywhere. It's very cool to experience.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: Hot day yeah, upper eighties, round ninety okay, very hot day.
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: We spent an entire day there because Charro she wanted
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: to shop there because again, if you shop like over there,
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: you can get purses and stuff.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: Like that for cheaper. Oh way cheaper, yeah, way cheaper.
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because that's where going on that she wanted
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: the girls to see Venice, and it was again hot.
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: I wasn't. It's not an experience that I would do again.
• 57:47
  Speaker 3: I'm glad I did it, but would I go back
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: and do it again? Probably not really? Yeah, Venice, Yeah, Venice,
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: VENI veniez ch.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: That's that's surprising you did, did you know?
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: Maybe it was because of just the overall experience of
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: having two kiddos with us. I was because you're doing
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: nothing but walking the entire time. And I'm not talking
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: just walks like you gotta because again it's it's like water,
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: it's canals and shit like that. Ever, so there's bridges
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: with stairs to go over top. So we had the
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: stroller and I'm having to carry the fucking stroller over
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: all of the bridges and stairs. Some people would help
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: out every now and then, but it's just it's your
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: it's your boy bending over our root.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: Can you get out? Can you walk over the thing?
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: I gotta carry fucking thirty pounds we got on this stroller. Yeah,
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: because your backpack up like you got all the bells
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: and whistles to last a day out there, because you
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: take it. We took an hour drive to get out
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: to Venice. Once you're in it, you're there. We're taking
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: the gondolas. The gondola ride was wonderful.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I bet that was sick. So sick did they seeing
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: it all?
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, now that you say that, they
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: kind of pissed me off that they didn't.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what what's up with that?
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: Sing to me in a delly or Venetian guy was
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: It's very clear that they do Venetian over here.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah he's different. Hey buddy, you do whatever you want.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: He doesn't like the tourism that's taking place in Venice.
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: He's like ever since the nineties, ever since like COVID.
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, last thirty year has been a bit of
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: an uproar for the locals. Oh yeah, commercialize it a
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: little bit.
• 59:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: There there was some airbnbs, airbnb's, there was some big
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: music festival that really sut them off.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's got some he's got some stuff in the basement.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah that he was sharing inventing to us
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: as we're tourists coming over there.
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: Hey, you keep our city alive and are able for
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: us to pay for our livelihood.
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: But also fuck you don't come here.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you're our bread and butter, but we hate you.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: But the fifteen thousand steps, the ninety degree heat again,
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: would I do it again?
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: Probably not.
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: That Venice feels to me, probably equally to Paris, as
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: like a city of romance, a romantic place for you
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: to go there with Charro. You're sitting down to dinner.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: The glasses of wine are cheaper than the glasses of
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: sparkling water. You got a full belly, Apasta. You're holding
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: your girl's hand underneath the moonlight. You're walking over these bridges.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: You're you aren't even walking anywhere, dude, You're strolling. That's
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: what Venice.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: If it was me and my wife, yeah, in September, yeah,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: I would go again.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're right.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: A lot of what I'm saying is baggage and PTSD
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 3: from the day we had. I'm glad we did the day.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: I'm glad the fame, I'm glad we decide. I'm glad
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: my wife leads us to do heart stuff and sweetheart,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: as you're listening right now, I'm not saying I want
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: I want you to just continue to lead us. And
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: then when I bitch and moan about it every now
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: and then, you remind me you like doing heard stuff.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: I do enjoy that we do heart stuff, yeah, every
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: now and then. Yeah, And you love her, Oh I
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: love it.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: I love my wife.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, love her. She is a fucking rock star. Yeah,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: But a lot of that is the PTSD. Of the
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: entirety of the day because I'm like, when we fucking
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 3: getting back, like the kids are getting Scotty chasing birds everywhere. Yeah,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: we're trying to enjoy a nice lunch, which we were
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: in the shade, and we enjoyed a nice lunch like
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 3: in this big like open area where the church is
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: sitting there.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: It's like one of the historical spots.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're like the oldest cafe sits to where it's
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 3: just like outdoor umbrella. You know, they got the umbrellas,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: they got the seating. Let Scotty run around chase the birds.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 3: The seagulls that we heard are aggressive. Oh they are
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: very Scotty, a little more aggressive. Yeah, even in thirty
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: eight the goals are aggressive. They know where oh buddy, yeah,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: I know where they get get picked up from our
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: table and it's like birds and seagulls just coming to
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: fight over the bread. Yes, no, oh shit, like grabbing
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: the kids getting away.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: Jill went into the ocean with Scarlet and the bag
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: was unintended and I had like a towel kind of
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: laid over me, and I was underneath the umbrella, so
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: the birds thought I was sleeping and I saw them
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: laying and start working their way yeah over to our bag,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: and I gave them.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: A little He took off real quick. Yeah, my crack
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: a cold one.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: Jill and I got to do a date night and dude,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: epic epic date night of like feeling young and like
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: hanging out with your beach crush kind of date night.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: It was fun, dude. We took bikes all the way
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: from our rent house. We were like way back back
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: back by the Public if people have been to thirty
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: eight by the Public's grocery store near Watercolor.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: We're in.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: So that's like pretty inland from the beach as far
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: as like staying on thirty A. But it makes the
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: bike ride that much more fun because you're getting to
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: go through all these little trails and stuff to get
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: to Seaside. And we took the bike trails like in
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: the pitch black and just had our little iPhone flashlights
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: as we're going down these little sandy as all the
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: way to Gosh, buddn Allies. I was about to say,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: I've been there so many times. To button Allis. We
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: went up on the rooftop deck of budonn Allies. It's
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: like pitch black, but you can like hear the ocean,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: but you can't really see it. And the date night
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: was on July fifth, I believe because there was still
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: some fireworks like going off just randomly on the beach.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: There would just be like a little bottle rocket or
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: a little artillery shell or like a Roman candle would
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: just like go off in the distance. And uh, Jill
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: and I a.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: Little cheat code.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: This isn't a dad hack per se, but it could
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: be if you're on a budget and you want to
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: save a little money for date night. Jill nice is
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: a dead heck, it's a dad hack. It's a date heck,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: it's a date hack, dude. Jill was like, because we
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: had eaten a little bit before we went out, and
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 2: she was like, hey, the would you want to just
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: split the file at? And I was like, yeah, that
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: actually sounds pretty good. And then when we ordered the
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: file at some of those steak places will be like, hey,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: do you want a lobster tail or a crab cake
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: with your file at? It's only this much more. And
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: then when we were splitting the crab cake in the flea,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: we ended up getting the crab cake with it. I
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: was like, dude, that's the ultimate date hack of all
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: time is get the nice, expensive filet and then only
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: for a little bit more, you get a whole lobster
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: tail or a whole crap cake with it, and then
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: you just split that.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: That's basically two.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, ah Nath and dude, it
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: was so good just eating those crab cakes, having adult bevies, giggling, dude,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: as we're like riding our bikes back and just like
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: all the young energy that's down there. There's a lot
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: of families with like kids, but there's a lot of
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: teens too, and just all these teens like running around
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: and like getting into trouble and flashlights everywhere, and you
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: just hear people like in the distance yelling and having
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: fun and just like riding down those little trails with
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: you know stuff, Dude.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: It was fun. That was like a really solid.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: Day night and just getting to like as much fun
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: and dude, as easy as Scarlet takes it on us
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: like a.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: Knock on wood.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: It's just like the continued story of Scarlet is just
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: she will not stop taking it easy on us. It's crazy,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: Like that's awesome. It's awesome, like the entire vacation. It
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: was just like all smiles, all giggles, I want to
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: do anything and everything. Oh, we're going to a restaurant.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna cry once. I'm just sitting there.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: Like, dude, how blessed are we? This is crazy?
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: And getting to see my grandparents or her grandparents interact
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: with their that's really cool.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: How h How hot was it out there? It was hot.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: I was gonna say when when we were over in
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 3: Italy and they were like a couple of hot days
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: because they had like heat warning stuff in.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: The Italy portion.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: When we were in Austria where the Palers they came
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 3: from Italy before they got to Austria, and they're like,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: hopefully it cools down, because there was like a heat wave.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: Like the Europeans they don't believe in ac very much
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: at all, right, so you're kind of sweaty. But we
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: fortunately were in a week where it was like in
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: the eighties. But I guess the week before was like
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: in the nineties and they were having like all these
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: heat warnings and everything else. But when I checked the
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: weather app for Italy to like look ahead, it first
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: popped up on Nashville and I want to say, in
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: Nashville last week, did it ever hit one hundred? I
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: know it was in like the upper nineties, right, I
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 3: saw it was like that all week long. I was like, fuck, man,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: it is hot. So I'm sure down in Florida it
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: was probably hot ast shit too.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: It was super.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 7: Third of July was ninety seven. I think the feels
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 7: like was like one oh six. When I was on
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 7: the golf course, dying felt good though, Yeah.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: Especially when you get in those shade portions. But yeah, dude,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: that hot man, Like you're like that sticky what Then
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: when you get done, you're driving back, you just.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: Feel so goddam you just feel so like, you know,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I need a shower so bad.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 7: Now there's a good feeling of like really really hot day,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 7: whether you go spend all day outside and it is
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 7: that come home and you take me like a four
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 7: o'clock nap to hit the couch after a good shower
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 7: and you just you're out.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: We might be one of the best feelings ever. We
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: had that.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: After our Venice day, because that was like, that was
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: a long day. We spent all day over there in Venice,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: and then when we're traveling back, we get back. We
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: go to dinner right away, like we changed real quick.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: Go to dinner right away. You can tell we're ready
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 3: to get to the bedtime portion and put the kids down,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 3: and then you just get a moment. Oh yes, Scotty
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: was already knocked out, ready to go. Ru wanted to
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 3: see one of the shows, the magic shows that they
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 3: were doing downstairs. But when you hit the shower afterwards
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: and then get in the bed, oh that's a.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: Crack cold nothing like it. Incredible.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: My Sunday getting back, We got back on Thursday, came
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: into the office Friday. Then Sunday I did this huge mowing.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: I was telling Chef I had this huge mowing day
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: because I had a lot of catching up to.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: Dude.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: PG six would have been not happy with the way
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: my yard was looking, and I gave it the royal treatment, dude,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: Like I really moved for a long time out in
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 2: the sun. Didn't put any sunblock on, Shame on me.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: But I got that sun kiss dude on Sunday from
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: being out like that perfect amount of time where it's
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: not like a true sunburn, but like the sun zaps. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: came inside just like Jill let me nap on the couch.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: You hit that cold shower after you've been like outside
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: like that. You gotta do it right away, right away.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: But first zap yourself with the hot water. Stop the burn.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: Then the cold water, dude.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because you wait too long in the ac you
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 3: start to get a little cold.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Then the idea of a cold shower gonna
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: leave your brain a little bit. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: And then get on the couch. Dude.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm literally like wincing in my seat right now.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: It was like one of the best naps ever.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 3: You're not only wincing your seat. I see Deeke over there,
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 3: he's gripping. Oh, he's got something to get off of
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: his chest.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: I genuinely was just curious how Bochi went. Oh how well,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: Dude him as a whole story he did for Scarscar's
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: first birthday that his dad almost ruined that I would
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: love for him to recap on the show.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you, dude, Deeke, Thank you okay, dude.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 3: And by the way, I know, a couple of weeks
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: I went by Scarscar did turn one.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: One July third, Happy birthday, Happy belated birthday to scarscar
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: first birthday, Dude, you want a dad hack hubachi ubachie.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 6: Dude.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: It's it's a such a good.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: Meal and it's not the most expensive meal in the world,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: and you feel like you're having fun doing it. And
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: Scarlet was losing her her fucking mind, dude the entire time.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: How was she when the fire happened. It was the
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: perfect amount of like stoicism in her face where she
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: was intrigued and impressed but like really studied.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: It and wasn't scared at all.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: No, and like it was kind of like leaning forward,
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 2: like she was in her high chair and she's leaning
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: forward the entire time, looking like this. And then oh, dude,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: this was the other great thing is her word that
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: she was fixated on all week was dadad And we're
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: staying with my parents, so I look like dad of
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: the sentry because every five seconds is just literally dada
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: dada like during the hibachi, like and she's looking over
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: at me and being like ah, Like a couple of
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: times she would squeeze her fists and yell at me,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: so like let me know, like check this shit out,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 2: check that shit out, dude. He did the fire torches,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: he lit like fire torches on fire and was juggling
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: the fire torches and scarlet the entire time, had her
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: hands up like this and just wasn't smiling, wasn't screaming,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: and was just locked in watching her enjoy that hibachi meal. Dude,
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: like she was truly in hog heaven. And then we
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: and I'll get into the story of my dad almost
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: he didn't ruined hibachi night, but it's a funny story.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: We forgot to get Scarlett a cake. We forgot to
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: get Scarlett a cake.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: And I didn't even.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: Think about it. Jill didn't even think about it. It
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: was just a collective everyone forgot.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you go and get a cupcake or something.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: Habachi guy after he does the torches, he goes, all right,
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna start cleaning up. I hope you guys had
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: a good night, you know, gives us a little bout
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah biania, start cleaning up, Please enjoy your meal,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: and goes back to like his truck was one of
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: those mobile Hibachi services, so they like come to where
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: you're staying.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: Oh shit, that's all Stuard.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: It was so sick and not expensive at all. Like
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: you're pretty much kind of paying what you would for
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: actual it was just like a twenty dollars service fee
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 2: for the base.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: I was gonna see it maybe like an extra thirty
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: bucks on top to come to your house and du
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: who bought you? That's awesome? It was so sick. So
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: he sneaks off to his truck. We're just kind of
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: sitting there.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: He comes around with birthday cake and candle and starts,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: happy birthday to you, and I'm like, oh my god,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 2: I totally forgot about the cake. Sets that cake in
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: front of Scarlet. Scarlett doesn't know how to blow it out,
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 2: so we blow it out for her, but we made
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: it like she blew it out, take the candle.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: Out, attacked it. Dude.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: I got some videos, so I'll send to you, Chef.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: I have never been more proud of my daughter in
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: my entire life. I've told you on this podcast that
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: she does like that little demon voice where she just
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: constantly will go like because I do it to her,
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: and she'll do it back, and she thinks it's funny.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: When that cake got in front of her, she literally
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: started going like an animal over its prey and she
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: started throwing her face into the cake She's never had
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: cake before in her life, and she knew I throw
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: my face in this. She gave it some test kind
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: of like yeah, put her mouth on it, and she goes, oh,
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: I know how to eat this, and just start slamming
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: her face into it and before each time going am um,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: and it's just taking the icing off of this cake
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: and looks up at me like she did during the hubachi,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: and the sugar was starting to hit her, like after
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: three or four minutes, and she did one of those
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: hand clutches and truly like set up. Have you seen
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: the cotton candy girl that jiff that's like super famous
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: on the internet where the girl has the cotton candy and.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: She's like does that show chef will pull it up?
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: I will?
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: Scarlet did that like full on sugar rush and looked
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 2: at me and went and like did a warrior scream,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: like look what I just did to this cake. Dad, God,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: I was proud of my daughter. It was incredible. What
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: a birthday. It was a birthday. And then the story
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: that's so funny, dude, is I was going to do habachi.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: Just is this one with your dad? This is with
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: my dad.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: I was going to do Hibachi to surprise my family
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: for Scarlett's birthday. Do the mobile Hibachi service. I'm getting
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: all this stuff, like, I'm filling out the menu to
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 2: like get all this stuff for it, and all I
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: need is the address of the house. And I'm like, Dad,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: what's the address of the rental home? He goes, No, Son,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: you can't send stuff to the rental home. This is
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 2: all via texts. Can't send stuff to the rental home.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: You have to send it to this renting place and
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: then you go pick up your package there. I go, Great,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: not looking to send a package. I'm looking for the
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: address of the rental home.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure, it's kind of like this whole ordeal.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: They really told me they don't want people shipping packages
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: because the namehood.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: They don't want any drivers. So it's got to be
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: to the to the rental office. Dad. Again, Great, I
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: love that. I'm not I'm not sending. Nothing's getting delivered.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Nothing's getting delivered. I just need the address.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: I need the address for something that I'm wanting to
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: do for Scarlett's birthday.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Well, what is it?
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, So it's a surprise that's going to be for
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: Scarlett and the family and I'll let you know on
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: the day what it's going to be, but right now
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: I'm prepping this. It's a surprise, all right, So if
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: I could get that address, that'd be sweet. My mom
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: then says there's like three hours of no reply, and
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 2: my mom goes, hey, papasherm we call him. He's also Sherman,
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: Hey publisher, can we get that address? Still no reply.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting there talking to Dieg. I'm like, what the
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 2: WTF question mark is going on? Whole day passes, my
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 2: dad doesn't send the address, so I'm still waiting for
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: the address of this rent house that we're going to
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 2: and the first text from my dad that next morning.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I'm thinking about it could.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 2: Be fun to do a mobile hibachi service for Scarlett's
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: birthday for dinner. They actually can come to your house
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: and they can do it. I found this mobile hibachi service.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: It's the exact same one that I was looking to do. Dude,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: I went up to Deeke. I mean, I was not
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 2: actually heated at my dad. I was pissed, though. I
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: was pissed because I'm like coming into that age where
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 2: I like I can plan stuff, I can do stuff,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: I'm a dad too. Now, Dad like I can make
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 2: some moves. I'm like, you read my freaking mind, dude,
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 2: and you beat me to the punch. And then at
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 2: that time, my Dad's like, hey, I'll treat you know,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: like this is my idea. I would love to treat
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: for dinner. So I'm like, okay, like twist my arm.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: You know this sucks.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: But dude, just getting beat out by your getting out
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: daddd by your dad. Isn't that kind of a testament
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: to how like father, like son.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 7: You guys both had the same I would be tripping
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 7: out going Hey we both had great minds, think alike.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, great minds, think alike.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: I Also, I was just seeing how much I'm like
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: my dad, dude on this trip of worrying for Scarlet. Yeah,
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: and I'm trying to really put a button on that
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: of like not try not to worry too much with Scarlet.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: And I'm seeing a little bit of my dad come out.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: It was so funny watching my dad because he was
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: a worry wart with my brother and I with Scarlet.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: It's times ten. You were talking about the heat. Thank god,
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: Jill's a nurse. He told us we couldn't go outside
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: one day, Like he told Jill it was too hot
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: for us to go outside, and Jill was like, it, no,
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 2: it's not. He's like, it feels like one oh five
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 2: and it's this and blah blah blah, you can't. She
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: can't go out to the pool, and Jill's like, she
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: absolutely can. She'll be in the shade, she'll be in water,
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: so her body temperature will be down. I bring a
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: waters so she's gonna be hydrated. I also have fruit
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 2: snacks and she's gonna be eating blah blah blah. She's
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: gonna be fine. And my dad is just pacing through
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: the kitchen for the next hour thinking that my daughter's
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: gonna die of a heat stroke. But then once I'm
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: outside and I'm like watching Scarlet in the pool and stuff.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: I've even am kind of to myself like, hey, is
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: it too hot for it? Because it you know, blah
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: blah blah. I saw the way that Jill had to
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: talk my dad down, so I'm like, I don't want
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: to be.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: Worry war Dad. I'll chill. Don't need two of them,
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: don't need two of them. I'll chill out.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: Jill gott in this golf cart that we rented and
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: just put Scarlet in her lap and like buckle the
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: seatbelt around Scarlet like in her lap.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: And in my mind, I was like, I don't know how.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: I feel about that, but it's okay, it's okay, everything's
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: safe and it'll be fun. I'm driving the golf cart
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: and it'll be all right. And my dad comes out
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: and like sees that, and I could tell my dad
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: was biting his tongue so hard. We pulled out onto
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 2: the main road. My dad, whoa, whoa, wait, what are
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: we doing where we just she's not in the baby seat,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: she's on a baby seat. And my mom thankfully was
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 2: there to kind of pat him on the leg and
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: be like it's okay, like everything will be good.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I would love to see I would love to
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: see your stress level over in Europe, because if you
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 3: get a cab or something, there's not a baby seat,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 3: you just have him on the lap.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: Dude, you had Scotty in the lap during that wreck. No, no, no, no,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: Scotty was in a car seat. You're talking yeah yeah yeah, yeah,
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just in like casual, like you get a cab
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 3: or something like that, or a taxi, you just be
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 3: used to sitting them like on your lap.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, first time you're kind of like, oh shit, is
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: this is this even legal? Oh? But that's funny.
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 3: I do have a question please for the Papa Shirm story.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 3: It sounds like this is before you guys went to
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 3: Florida and you were trying to play the bachi. Yes,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: So my question why didn't you just give him a
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 3: shout on the phone when he when he's call up
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 3: day after the second response he gave where everybody with
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 3: their parents would get frustrated because they're doing the thing
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 3: that something's like, hey, I don't need you to tell me,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 3: I just need the address. When he gives you the
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 3: second reply, why not just when he's trying to explain
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 3: it and you're trying to be like, hey, it's a surprise.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 3: At that moment you pick up the phone and say, hey,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 3: I'm doing this thing. Maybe even tell him.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: That about your idea so that way he doesn't get
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: to where he quote unquote out there. Yeah, that's a
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: good question.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 2: I would say that that week I was like very
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 2: heavily editing, and my mind was very much heavily on
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: editing slash prepping for trip to where I would look
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: up and like hours had passed because I was getting
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: so blocked into work.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: I don't think it was like a true avoidance of
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 3: my father. It was more so I'm just like, okay,
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 3: I just simply need the address. Let me just send
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 3: me the fucking address. When he did drop the BATCHI
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 3: how did that go? Did you get on the phone
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 3: with him, ma'am? Yeah, and I called him cocksucker.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: I was like, that was the surprise that I was
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 2: going to do. So that's actually kind of crazy, uh,
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 2: that that happened that way. But you know, he very
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: much he doesn't want to step on my toes and
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 2: he doesn't want to He knows that he can be
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: a control freak sometimes, yeah, and be a worry ward sometimes.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: And he has done a very good job of allowing
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: me to be a dad in places that I need
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: to be a dad. And so he was like, oh, well, son,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: you know, if it's I'll set it up, I'll get everything,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: and you just vin moo me like that way, you're
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: paying for it. If you want to pay for it,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't want to take that. Like he's
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: very much like he does a good job of realizing, hey,
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: I don't want to step on my son's toes here.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 2: Like the Atlanta trip where we're going for the Baylor
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 2: Auburn game, I had like gotten hotel stuff planned out.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: My dad is already booked.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 2: He's already booked and unbooked four different hotels for the trip,
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: and each hotel was like closer and closer to the stadium,
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: because I was telling that that the stadium is like
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: not the nicest part of town. No offense to Atlanta,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: It's still they're great.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: It's a great city, but.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: There's some other places where I was like, hotels would
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: be great. My dad's more convenience wise. I want to
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: be directly out of the stadium into a hotel. And
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: he's very type A and so once he gets on
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: those type A things, starts booking, unbooking, booking unbooking. That's
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: when I kind of put my hands up. I go,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: he's going to be a big old ball stress if
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 2: I try and come in here and change stuff.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: I'll let Dad choose the hotel.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: Got you, So that a little bit of that played
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: into the Habaji thing, But no, no part of me
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: was like truly pissed at him.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if that makes sense, just momentarily. Yeah, because you
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 3: were trying to execute I you're trying to execute. Yeah,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 3: you simply needed the address.
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: I had a huge dad loss by the way, on
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: the trip, Yeah, a massive dad loss. We went to
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: the dad loss.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: Is that much more fun because this was directly before
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: our pictures, our family pictures on the beach. If you've
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: ever seen me smiling in a photo, you can know
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: when I'm truly smiling and happy in a photo. My
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: eyes are very dead in these family photos, and I'll
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: send some to Chef where he can put them up.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 2: I'm forcing a smile in these photos. You can see
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 2: it in you can see it in my eyes. I
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: had a major dad loss.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: Please share. Pt. Six is going to fry me on this.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: That's okay.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: When we set up our lease house in spring Hill, Tennessee,
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: Property Management Group, some of our utilities are also paid
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: through the website that we pay our rent too.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: You set up all your utilities water, gas, and electric,
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: it's all three different companies and internet, and you have
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: to show proof of all these things to the rental company.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: So in the process of showing proof to the rental
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 2: company that I had set up these services. I had
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: put all of these services in my brain that they
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: all get paid on this one website. One of the
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: services gets paid individually. Well, that would be the electric bill. Oh,
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: one of the guests, that would be the electric bill.
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 2: And as we know, wonderful suite, incredible and he can
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: land them watch out, ladies. Intern Chris, Yeah, was at
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: my house and I got a great text. I'll send
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: that as well, the screenshot to chef Hey Sherman. The
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 2: power's out at the house and I'm looking at the
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: breaker box.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, and he's watching your house.
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: He's got the boys over, doesn't.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 2: He he's got the boys over, he's got my dog's there.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 2: And the power just goes out.
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: And it's in the nineties. Oh in Nashville, Tennessee. Hot.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: It's hot, and we're about thirty seconds from taking family photos.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: And I see that text. I call him instantly.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 2: I say, hey, can you look at my neighbor's houses
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: on either side and across the street and tell me
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 2: if the power's on.
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: He goes, oh, yeah, you know, everybody's got their lights on.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: It looks like I go, it's a really good impression. Okay,
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: I'll go look. I'll go look, Sherman. You know, Sherman,
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: It's fine. This happens all the time at my house
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: growing up. We'd lose power all the time. It's really
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: no big deal, no big deal. We're just playing UNA
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: in the living room.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 7: No.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: Truthly, he was being so sweet, like, this is literally
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 2: the conversation.
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: Do I need to go check the break There's a
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: breaker box on the outside of the house.
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 2: I can look at. I go, Chris, it's not that man. Uh,
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: let me hold on one second. I hang up, and
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 2: I fucking lost it when I got off the phone
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: because it all the dots were connecting. I was like,
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: it's got to be power, like the power bill. It's
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 2: got to be that I haven't been paying the power
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 2: bill rather, you know, however I set it up or whatever.
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: And so I lost my cool in the moment and
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: was like.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: Fuck, dude, why would this happen?
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 7: This?
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: Of course, this fucking happens the last day. It was
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: our last day of vacation.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: And as I told you all on this podcast before,
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: Jill told me, if we ever come back to a
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 2: house without power, I will leave you.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: She gets very angry because Sherman has a sherman has
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: made this mistake in the past when we were at
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: an apartment complex. Now you like, hey, Sweeter, you might
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: get your wish. Yeah, you might get your wish. Honey,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: you get a new man. So I lose my cool
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: in the moment.
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 2: Jill has saw me to calm down, but she's also
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 2: saying how embarrassing this is.
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: For poor Chris.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: My mom and dad are there, and again I'm always
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: trying to illustrate to my dad. I've got it, I've
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 2: got things covered. I'm a dad. Now, I'm a full
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 2: grown ass man. I can handle it. And I could
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 2: tell that Dad was really trying to stay hands off.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: He was like, I do not need to interject in
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 2: this moment. And then realize that the power bill was
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 2: on a separate app that I had to download that
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: I remember setting up because this was two months ago
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 2: and I had a fraud alert with my debit card
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 2: at the beginning of June, so this.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: Was a while ago.
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: Not realizing when I have that fraudle for those three
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 2: days that I didn't like get it reset with my bank,
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: my autopay hit for my power bill on the app.
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: When I downloaded that app, I also said, would you
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: allow this app to send you a notification? No, because
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: I do that with every single app. So the app
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 2: had been sending me notifications since the beginning of June
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 2: of We tried to process your auto pay and the
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 2: bill didn't go through. And so what what was that
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: July like seventh or like eighth?
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so full month. It was like a sixty dollars bill. Dude,
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: that was two hundred and ninety one dollars. Yeah. Did
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: you have to call to get it back on? Yeah?
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: So so how did this all?
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 2: How the Thankfully to Chef's point, I called Chris. I
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: tell Chris, hey, I fucked up majorly. This is the situation.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 2: Just paid the bill. I'm going to try calling the
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: company da da du Hang tight, We're gonna get you
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: a hotel room. We're gonna put you in a hotel.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: And he, of course, Chris is, I can just go
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 2: back to my place with with your dogs. I just
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: take him because he's got his own place in Tennessee.
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, Chris, where like, we don't want
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 2: you drive in, you know, with the dogs and all
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 2: that stuff. There's a hotel right down the road that
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 2: you can go and come back on. I hang up
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 2: with him, and I go trying to find the number
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 2: of this power company because it's seven pm. Power place
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 2: is closed. I'm getting voicemails. I'm like, God, I'm cooked.
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: This is the part where I'm really freaking out, the
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 2: part that was a huge dad loss, because Jill's just
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 2: watching me unravel in this moment. And thank god, spring Hill,
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 2: Tennessee has an auto system that right when you pay
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 2: it comes back on in like ten minutes. So as
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: I'm like calling all these numbers that I'm trying to
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: find for this power company, I just get a text
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: from Chris and it's like, let there be light and all.
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh my god, you're kidding. He was like,
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, everything's back on. Everything's good, and dah dah dah.
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh. So Jill really chalked
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 2: it up to, Hey, all that stress, all that dog
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 2: cussing that you're doing, all that bad attitude that you
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 2: had that you went into our family pictures with, and
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: then we get out of family pictures and you're able
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: to resolve it in twenty minutes, and like, I don't
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 2: want to see, like, don't unravel in moments of stress,
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: like be a problem solver and just solve the issue
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 2: at hand. You complaining about it is not going to
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 2: fix anything, especially in front of your daughter, in front
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 2: of me, in front of your parents, Like you could
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: have handled that way better. Yeah, because I lost my cool.
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 2: You could see it in my face and the family pigs.
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: I was not having it.
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 2: Dead in the eyes, dead in the eyes. Still great
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 2: family pigs because Scarlet and Jill look so cute and
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 2: sweet on the beach.
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're looking at you, looking at the family the ladies. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: that's a tough that's a tough l. It was a
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: tough l in front of the people that you love.
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 3: That you wanted to prove you got it, your grown
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 3: ass man, grown ass man that doesn't know how to
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 3: pay the power bill.
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 1: Hey.
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 2: I asked Chris if he let you know and how
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 2: he let you know? Because I did alarm him that
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 2: like this is a situation in which your wife could
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 2: leave you. Yeah yeah, he said he did you justice
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 2: and everything was okay.
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: Justice.
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But then I asked him about posting all the
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 2: videos online. He's like, well, I didn't think of that one.
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well, Jill doesn't have Twitter, so he so
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 2: he is fine. And no point that I think grace
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 2: was served by Chris. He could not have been more
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 2: gracious in that moment.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: Truly.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: If somebody's gonna be staying at your house and watching
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 2: your house and your power go out, you want Chris
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 2: in that house.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: It's Chris. You want to entered.
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 2: Chris.
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 3: Chris is a sweetheart heart. He was talking a little
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 3: bit of ship on the vacation. I was kind of
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 3: crapped on Will a little bit. Oh he did, he's
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 3: taking an end zone.
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: But it wasn't a good one.
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 1: He did about the resorts.
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like, uh, what was it seemed judgmental
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 3: on his just from the get go. He saw the
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 3: first photos.
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he saw the first couple of things that Will
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 2: was posting, and he was just like I just thought, like,
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 2: you're spending two weeks in Europe and you're not leaving
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: the resort.
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so resorts and yeah, fair question, like he doesn't
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 1: know what he doesn't know? He's walking with Wamas. Why
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 1: is he doing that? Yeah, like, oh, they're not going
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: to leave the resort. Why you come to Disney and
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 1: then now you're in a resort there. Yeah, it's probably
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: more expensive.
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 3: And he's a you know, he's innocent, he doesn't know
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 3: he's a he's a goon beret. He's a goom beret.
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 3: And I kind of just asked him questions and let
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 3: him talk most of the time. And it's like, well,
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 3: that's an interesting take. I appreciate you.
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: And get to the answer too. And he's like, well
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: then you know, you posted other stuff and I'm like, okay,
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: they're doing I'm like, so.
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 3: You're just judging the vacation a whole time, which again
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Chris, what would you He's like, you know,
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 3: we go backpacking or get you know, go out and about,
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 3: and yeah.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, yeah, we've done it.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 3: We did a bunch of stuff like day excursions, like
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 3: you know, two different days at each different spot. We're out,
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 3: we're out going, we're out exploring, like we're out doing stuff.
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 3: Not that I got to defend my position, but I'm
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 3: curious and fascinated. Like, Okay, so you got some judgment
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 3: going on on a two week vacation out in Italy,
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 3: which is fair because he also brought up which I
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 3: know parents and people have the question in their mind,
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 3: like why go on trips if the kids aren't going
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 3: to remember.
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: It's like your story at the beach where you're.
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 3: Telling Scarlet, I'm showing her where I'm going, us going
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 3: to Italy, Like there is a part of you. It's like, oh,
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 3: they're not going to remember the vacation. But I feel
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 3: like what's valuable and this can be like the the
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 3: like the lesson, the lesson of the week. But I'm
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 3: thinking of my head.
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: I kind of like Chris talk and I'm not like
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 1: responding to him back, and I'm kind of busting his
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: balls because of spress. You know, he's trying to walk back.
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 3: I see you guys. It seemed like an A plus.
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 3: It was like an awesome you know, nine out of ten,
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 3: ten out of ten vacation.
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, yea, it was.
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 3: It was a phenomenal vacation. I think the trip like
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 3: traveling with your kiddos.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: I asked Chris.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, if you and your wife want to travel,
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 3: like my wife a core value of hers that Like
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 3: when I think about my wife, I think of adventure.
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: She loves to travel.
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 3: I'm more of a like a home body, even though
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 3: I would say evidence wise, Willie see might be the
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 3: most traveled in the office. But with Charro I see adventure.
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 3: She wants to vacate. She wants to go and see
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 3: the world. She wants to go and just see stuff
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 3: and explore and experience. And she's also firm on she
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 3: doesn't want the kids to hold us back on doing
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 3: things just because we have kids. Like I get like
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 3: from Chris to standpoint, you can do a lot of
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 3: stuff around America, which we have done a lot of
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 3: stuff around America, but Charlie also wants to get international.
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 3: Do some of the noses going to be No, it's
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 3: going to be exhausting, but still wants to choose, like,
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 3: let's go to these other parts of the world because
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 3: she wants to see them. She'll love for the kids
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 3: who experience them and for the for people that think, like, well, yeah,
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 3: but they're also not going to remember.
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: That's fair.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't think. I don't think the trip's value
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 3: is in memory as much as it is also in capacity. Yeah,
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 3: Like I feel like something I take away from it,
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 3: like when I think on it is like the kid
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 3: that travels, you know, that's on has taken ten different flights,
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 3: has eaten different foods in different parts of the country,
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 3: different parts of the world. The kid that's that's sleeped
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 3: in unfamiliar beds and unfamiliar settings. I feel like it
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 3: cultivates a different baseline for kids who don't or for
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 3: parents and people who don't travel for where like for example,
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 3: like when we got back, Ru this morning wants to
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 3: like make her breakfast now because every breakfast you'd go,
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 3: you go downstairs, you'd go whether they have a little
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 3: buffet or a little menu to select from. Ru's exploring
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 3: the I want to go and get her orange juice
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 3: on her own, going to get her food on he all.
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 3: She's very independent, wants to do things on her own.
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 3: So this morning she's like, Dad, I want to make
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 3: my yogurt. Can you get out my kid's knife and
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 3: my kid's cutting board. I want to cut the strawberries.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 3: You want to do these different things to where there's
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 3: like her sense of wonder and her sense of like
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 3: doing different things. She's not bringing it back because she
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 3: remembers now that, hey, I did these things over over
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 3: in Europe, like I want to do my own confidence. Yeah,
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 3: it builds confidence, It builds like you know, a lot
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 3: of the like the episodic memories that they're gonna have. Yeah,
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 3: she's not gonna have those, but a lot of like
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 3: the trips and everything else. I feel like a kid's
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 3: understanding of identity in family, identity is the patterns and
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 3: repetition that they have doing other things to where that'll
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 3: be kind of cultivated in them that they will have
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 3: for themselves as they get into the next phase of
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 3: their life, even though they might not remember the trip
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 3: to Italy, the fascination I have, which I love when
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 3: I listen to your story about you talking to Scarlet,
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 3: about you having all these memories and love for that
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 3: the beach, whether or not, I mean, she's one, she's
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 3: gonna remember that conversation or not. The idea and hope
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 3: is something I told Chris. I was like, one day,
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 3: I hope, I hope we cultivate something with my kids
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 3: to where when their parents they want to go back
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 3: to some of these spots that we visited, that they
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 3: see photos in that they went and visited when mom
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 3: and dad took them to those places, that they want
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 3: to take their kids to it and remember like, oh
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 3: my mom and dad, we did this photo in this
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 3: place and now they're giving it to their children and
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 3: to the point because again you can just call it what.
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 6: It is.
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 3: Very exhausting, it is expensive, it is fucking chaos. But
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 3: choosing to do like letting our kids know, we choose
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 3: to do these big, hard things with each other because
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 3: again it's like when it's just you four, or when
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 3: it's just you and the family and you're in the
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 3: middle of that chaos, that shit is fucking hard, that
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 3: shit is difficult, but you are doing it together like
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 3: the whole thet strength of the wolf is in the pack,
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 3: and the strength of the pack is in the wolf,
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 3: like you are cultivating a lot of these things with
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 3: your family. So those are a lot of the takeaways
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 3: that I almost you're almost when I sit and try
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 3: to reflect on it in like the hard moments when
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 3: we are on vacation of just having that perspective. I
• 1:38:12
  Speaker 3: know there was one moment which is like a crack
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 3: a cold one with Charo to where we were sitting
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 3: there by the pool. We were having a moment to
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 3: read your boy, by the way, whether you want to
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 3: include audiobooks or not, two and a half books down, Hey,
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 3: come on, yeah, yeah, one read one listen to one
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 3: and a half Listen to come On. But we were
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 3: sitting there reading pull Side because the kids were in
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 3: the kids club where they're like playing, they're doing alto crafts,
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 3: they're doing all these things to where mom and dad
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 3: can have a moment and she's like, we're doing a babe,
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 3: and I just look over at it and I'm.
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: Just like, dude, we really fucking are just doing it.
• 1:38:45
  Speaker 3: Like this shit is hard, and sometimes I like resent,
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 3: Like I like resent you for it because we're in
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 3: those moments of suck and I know you're leaning on
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 3: me and I'm leaning on you, and I know you
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 3: have to take a lot of the brunt of the
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 3: kiddohs because they're just it's mom a lot. I was like,
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 3: but it is cool because if it was just me leading,
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 3: there would be a lot of the reasons that I
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 3: would have to wait to travel would be, you know,
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 3: you're chasing the next thing ambitiously career wise. Hey, once
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 3: we get to this dollar amount, or once we get
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 3: to this status, or once we get to this position.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: Then we can look back and travel.
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 3: But the fact that we've knocked out a lot of
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 3: these different spots that Charles wanted to go see and
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 3: do and take our kids to and how much experience
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 3: our kids have had in airports and traveling and doing
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 3: things to where you got to You gotta be durable,
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 3: You got to be like pliable and learn on the
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 3: fly and be fluid, and shit's going to be rocky
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 3: at times. But the fact that we are choosing to
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 3: do those things, it's like, it is sick that we're
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 3: just out here right now in Italy. Yeah, reading a
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 3: book next to the pool, and our kiddos are just
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 3: having a blast.
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 2: It's like those action movies or those spy movies where
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 2: you'll have like the two spies or the two action
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 2: heroes with you out there and they be like, hey,
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 2: remember Portugal, Like, oh god, we're not doing Portugal, are we?
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're doing it.
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 2: And then they're like, do some crazy motorcycle jump. Hey,
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 2: that is like what you're doing with Trial right now,
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 2: is you're like building that callous if you will of like, hey,
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 2: remember the ship we went through in Venice.
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 1: Due to thousand percent.
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 3: And then when the kiddos get old enough and you
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 3: can give them shits for how hard it was with
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 3: them in those moments and laughing about.
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 2: We can handle this because this doesn't even touch the
• 1:40:29
  Speaker 2: car wreck in the fucking Alps and having to figure
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 2: all that stuff out.
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 1: This is easy.
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good for the parents too, and great minds
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 2: think alike. Will my lesson of the week, Take your
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 2: kids on adventures big or small. Let's go, dude, big
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 2: or small. I put bike rides, fishing hikes, swimming, a
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 2: late snack trip before bed, a beautiful spot to watch
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 2: the sunrise or sunset. Just those little adventures so you
• 1:41:00
  Speaker 2: can take if you're on a budget, or the bigger
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 2: adventures of like a vacation, take your kids on those,
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 2: because it dude, being a counselor at a summer camp
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 2: and seeing the kids that we would go on these
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 2: like week long truly, like week long canoe trips down
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 2: the White River in Arkansas, and you can see it
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 2: in the kids that have been out doing hikes and
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 2: doing all that stuff. And you put them in a
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 2: canoe and you hand them an ore and they're like, okay, yeah,
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 2: like I could do I could do a canoe. You
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 2: hand them a fishing pole, They're already got the worm
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 2: halfway on the hook. You're like, kiddo's got it. Yeah,
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 2: he's got it. Even if he's ever fished before, he
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 2: gets it. He knows what he needs to be doing.
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 1: He's got it. And then you got the other kids.
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 2: I'm wet, I'm wet. You're like, yeah, dude, you're wet.
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 2: You're outside. Welcome to the outdoors, you know what I mean. Like,
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 2: it builds a lot of character, and it builds a
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 2: lot of experience for kiddos and does little adventures right.
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 1: In that confidence aspect too.
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 3: I know there were a few times where we're leaving,
• 1:42:04
  Speaker 3: you know, we drop them off a kid's clip for
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 3: a couple hours, and they'd be kind of beside themselves,
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 3: kind of sad. Scotty would just Scotty was tough. Hey, Ru,
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 3: Rue was being a great big sister. Say sweet up
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 3: before you go playing in your area. It'd be sick
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 3: if you could say in this baby area right now.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 3: To help Scotty just adapt and know mom and dad
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 3: is going to be gone, and you just you be
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 3: her friend, like yeah, be the familiar face for her,
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 3: because again, they're around kids where it's like other languages,
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 3: other stuff. Ru'd come out of it and tell us
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 3: about one friend that she made, and again it's like
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 3: over there in Europe they know about four or five
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 3: different languages at a time. It makes me feel like
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 3: us just knowing English, it makes me want to learn
• 1:42:41
  Speaker 3: a new language. But it's fascinating to me that the
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 3: Europeans can just be fluid in all of these different languages.
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 3: But to know you're you come out of it, and
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 3: Rue tells you about a friend she made, and just
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 3: the confidence that I feel like Ru has garnered from
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 3: stuff like that, Like she now looks at waiters and
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 3: waitresses wants to tell her tell them what her order
• 1:43:00
  Speaker 3: is when she used to be very shy about that.
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 3: And even something as simple as wake enough to go
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 3: see a sunrise and stuff like that, to where you
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 3: got to get them up early. They don't really know
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 3: they're complaining they're doing this, dude, I just want to
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 3: take you to go watch the SunFest sept forst say
• 1:43:12
  Speaker 3: it's gonna be worth it, It's gonna be worth it.
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 3: Then you get there, you watch the sunrise. Maybe it's
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 3: not even they're doing things where it doesn't feel like
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 3: it's worth it, but just going through those little moments
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 3: of friction to start to create patterns and repetition for
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 3: whether they're gonna remember it or not, like it will serve.
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 3: It's going to serve not only you, but serve them,
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 3: serve the family, serve all of that stuff.
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 2: So and help give them some identity in themselves of
• 1:43:37
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't know if I can do this.
• 1:43:39
  Speaker 2: What are you talking about? When you were do you
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 2: not remember and Italy when you went down the red slide? Yeah,
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 2: that red slide's way bigger than this thing.
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, you're.
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 3: Right that, Oh sweetheart, This forty minutes is gonna fly by. Hey,
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 3: a little bit ago, it was two hundred minutes when
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 3: we were gonna get there. You took a nap. One
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 3: hundred minutes went away. If you lay your head down now,
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 3: maybe you'll sleep through the red.
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: Just be patient. We're gonna get there soon.
• 1:44:02
  Speaker 3: Just all of this stuff that is fucking exhausting in
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 3: the moment, it's just it's like embracing the fucking suck
• 1:44:08
  Speaker 3: like the good dude it is because.
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 1: We go ahead. I'm just gonna say, we're also the same,
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 1: like I know me, I'll sit there back. Yeah, why
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 1: do we like? This stuff is exhaust hell.
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 2: Getting Scarlet to the beach, just getting her to the
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 2: beach ship, all the things you gotta take and car.
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: And be prepared for.
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 2: Will shout out Jill, shout out Jill, like just love you, honey,
• 1:44:35
  Speaker 2: and you're an absolute demon on getting stuff prepped.
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 1: A true sick out.
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 3: I'll be standing there like, oh, we just need the
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 3: water bottles and a couple of snacks. Let's hit the voicemails.
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 3: Six and one the dads you want to call in
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 3: leave a story, event, win, lost whatever. Six on one
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 3: of the dad's call evil voicemail. Well, I'm worried about
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 3: this first one. I just saw the title of it.
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna spoil it. I'm just gonna hit play. Okay,
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 1: this is not gonna be good boys.
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 5: Cole Lighter and Calling from the Great White North Rocky
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 5: Mountain House, Alberta, Canada. A little late to the party,
• 1:45:11
  Speaker 5: but I had to tell this story because my wife
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 5: forgot Father's Day. Sunday night or Sunday morning, I guess.
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 5: Wife comes in at five point thirty in the morning,
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 5: baby monitor in hand to ask me to get up
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 5: with our daughter. So of course I get up. No problems,
• 1:45:31
  Speaker 5: nothing like going to watch a little Sunday Morning. Miss
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 5: Rachel learning how to count again because I'm a oil
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 5: real dad. Not long after that, my son, four year
• 1:45:41
  Speaker 5: old son gets up, comes and joins the party, making breakfast,
• 1:45:45
  Speaker 5: having a good time. Not long after that, my wife
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 5: gets up, not a word said nothing. We go a
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 5: couple hours when from the kitchen I hear, oh fuck,
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 5: I forgot it's Father's Day. Oh just wandering?
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 7: Do we?
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 1: Uh?
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 5: Obviously I still have that in the pocket that I'm
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 5: or do I use it on a little golf trip,
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 5: a little a little bit of this, a little bit
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 5: of that. Obviously, shockwave happened.
• 1:46:17
  Speaker 1: Because she felt terrible because of course, yeah, love.
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 5: The pod voice, keep it up that out.
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 1: Oh man, he's in a good spot. Oh great, it's
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 1: you know, it hurts in the moment, but just look
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 1: look what you can now.
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 3: Read right like you all the experts tell you everything
• 1:46:38
  Speaker 3: is a negotiation, and look and look inside your house first,
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 3: like every conversation you're having, you are negotiating with your wife,
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 3: with your kids, with your loved ones, with your kiddos. Yeah,
• 1:46:47
  Speaker 3: and now in the game, cards are stacked a bit,
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 3: cards are stacked.
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 1: Look at that, yeah, because that's on top. Yeah, Dad's
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 1: on top.
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 3: Whether you want to take us any data of his choosing,
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 3: because he now has the leverage any whether it's a
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 3: golf trip, whatever it is, whatever you want it to be.
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 1: You now you now have that. Hey, honey, I'm I'm
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 1: headed out. I'm going golfing. No, honey, remember we have
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 1: what huh Oh that's weird. What Now he does need
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 1: a plan.
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 3: If you're going to just give any power to wifey,
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 3: just make sure it's planned. But you're now not confined
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 3: to a day that was already specified. Yes, now you
• 1:47:29
  Speaker 3: have a rolodex of your choosing. Yes, you you don't
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 3: have a Trump card?
• 1:47:35
  Speaker 1: Uh? If you will?
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 3: You just you have a you can plan accordingly. You
• 1:47:39
  Speaker 3: have a Father's Day card that is now you can
• 1:47:43
  Speaker 3: use it whatever day you want.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll cash this in. Yes, similar to a shockwave coupon.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so bummer that sucks.
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  Speaker 2: That sucks, but also congratulates, gives him a Father's Day
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  Speaker 2: coop or sorry, a coupons, a shockwave coupon, a shockwave
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  Speaker 2: and to put a bow on it, to put a b.
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  Speaker 1: On it, just because we hope you haven't a good father.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, we want to celebrate. We want to make
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  Speaker 1: this right with you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, shout out Canada oil he was an oil field guy. Yeah, Alberta, Canada, Alberta, Canada.
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  Speaker 1: Roughneck. Here we go, last voicemount.
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  Speaker 4: Fella's what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: How we doing?
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  Speaker 4: I was just listening to the last episode and you
• 1:48:24
  Speaker 4: guys are talking about Shirm getting best at Ever. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: first off, sherm, congrats. Maybe deserve, maybe not deserve to
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  Speaker 4: see a beast. But I was thinking through Father's Day
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  Speaker 4: a fellow pet sixer myself. Notice all these other dads, Okay, no,
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  Speaker 4: his best dad ever, best at ever? And I want
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  Speaker 4: to know, as as a gamer, as as someone that
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  Speaker 4: likes competition, what the fuck they did to deserve best
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  Speaker 4: at ever? You know, you have a guy out here
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  Speaker 4: who's been a dad for six months.
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  Speaker 1: You know, God bless him.
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  Speaker 4: He's in the transies. Were you telling me that's the
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  Speaker 4: best ad ever.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna sit here.
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  Speaker 4: And so I told my wife, you know, if you
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  Speaker 4: put a little post out there, she said, I'm the
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  Speaker 4: best dad to our son.
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  Speaker 1: Well obviously because competition is very low. Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 4: At the end of the day, we need to cut
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  Speaker 4: back on the old best dad everything. It's not you sure,
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  Speaker 4: we'll give it to you, buddy.
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  Speaker 1: Six months ain't no year. Six six months ain't no year.
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  Speaker 1: And thank you. I'm undeserving.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I hated bringing in that uh framed photo
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  Speaker 2: that said best at Ever. Like it killed me on
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 2: the inside to like bring that in here and display
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  Speaker 2: that on my desk because I don't want to rub
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  Speaker 2: it in people's face.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to rub in our faces.
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  Speaker 2: But if Jill is giving that, like if I received
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  Speaker 2: that award, I'm gonna display it. But I don't go, Hey, Truman, young,
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  Speaker 2: best at ever.
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  Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. I'm not that guy. I'm not kidding.
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  Speaker 2: You could be, but you choose not to choose to be.
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  Speaker 2: And nor do I think I am the best at ever?
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 2: I know I'm you know we said we stay here
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 2: on this podcast. We joke a lot, right.
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 1: We have a lot of haters out there, A lot
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 1: of haters out there. We sat on this podcast. Doo
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  Speaker 1: thinks he's the best dad Animore. He got a one
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 1: year old. It's a coffee monk, dude, get over your seat.
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  Speaker 1: That doesn't mean you're the best dad. Ain't rocket science,
• 1:50:21
  Speaker 1: You ain't cracking no code. What's the name on it?
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 1: What's the name. Oh, so what are you doing today? Working?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Working? Nice?
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  Speaker 6: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any kids too? Oh so you're your dad? Yes, okay,
• 1:50:36
  Speaker 1: that shi it's easy. So so what do you do
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 1: for like, oh, we got a podcast? Oh so not
• 1:50:41
  Speaker 1: really work?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're not working. But dude, shout and shout
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  Speaker 2: out to this guy and I get it there. Nobody
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  Speaker 2: is the best dad ever? Maybe Dan Gable was Dan
• 1:50:54
  Speaker 2: Gable a dad?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he.
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  Speaker 2: Fathered a lot of sing children. He did, so maybe
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 2: Dane Gable's the best dad ever. And we'll just we'll
• 1:51:05
  Speaker 2: leave it at that. And we got to frame those
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 2: his best dad ever? I do?
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 1: I do? And I couldn't, you know.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to look Jill and Nys and go, honey,
• 1:51:13
  Speaker 2: I didn't earn this, Like who voted on this?
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't just go to Walgreens and go buy
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  Speaker 2: this and then you know, title me the best at ever?
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  Speaker 1: Was There's a lot of hardworking dads out there. What
• 1:51:25
  Speaker 1: does I say to Will?
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  Speaker 3: What does that say to the other dads who have
• 1:51:28
  Speaker 3: not only father children, but have raised them to be
• 1:51:30
  Speaker 3: adults and they're successful adults and kids that they're very
• 1:51:34
  Speaker 3: proud of and happy with. And their kids are like,
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 3: you know, you got some weathered, experienced fathers out there.
• 1:51:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're pushing eighty right now. They did a hell
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  Speaker 1: of a job. Speaking of best dads.
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  Speaker 2: Ever, I would be remiss if we didn't close with
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  Speaker 2: the congratulations to Jeremy Klomp bringing in his sweet, sweet
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 2: baby girl, Miss Laney, Miss.
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  Speaker 1: Laney, Lady Club, Lady Clump, and Lindsay Jeremy.
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  Speaker 2: Congrats, guys, we had another baby in the office and
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 2: it's a sweet baby girl named Laney Klump.
• 1:52:05
  Speaker 1: We got the curse still alive. Come on, baby, you
• 1:52:07
  Speaker 1: work in this office. You have daughters. Come on, you
• 1:52:10
  Speaker 1: have daughters. Man Taylor or Taylor should be popping here
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  Speaker 1: any moment. I know.
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  Speaker 3: So that could either happen this week next week. But
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 3: another congratulatory will be coming soon. But shout out the Clumps.
• 1:52:20
  Speaker 3: Shout out baby Laney. Another thing I would another thing
• 1:52:24
  Speaker 3: that I would need to say, big shout out to Dominic.
• 1:52:30
  Speaker 3: I met Dominic at the Newark Airport. I believe we
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 3: were about to get on our flight to Nashville. I'm
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 3: talking exhaustion at the time. I'm rolling ruin our little
• 1:52:38
  Speaker 3: Pulley suitcase. She's crying, Mama had to go change Scottie.
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 3: But we're finally getting to that nine thirty flight.
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 1: It's been We're on the last leg of the whole flight.
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  Speaker 1: So I hit my man.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, hey, are you willing. I look at him
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 3: with the dead look. I'm like, oh, yes, sir, kind
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  Speaker 3: of smiling like you see this.
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  Speaker 1: One crying like.
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  Speaker 3: Man, he wanted to pull out his phone and just
• 1:53:00
  Speaker 3: say that he's been listening before the dads, going to
• 1:53:03
  Speaker 3: pull out his phone and show and show his kid.
• 1:53:05
  Speaker 3: And he was just fired up to meet me and
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 3: talk about for the dads. And when he was talking
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 3: about his kiddo, he was legitimately was garnering like tears
• 1:53:17
  Speaker 3: in his eyes talking about I felt like I was
• 1:53:23
  Speaker 3: in the moment with him again. Exhaustion was we we
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 3: were we we were on e yeah, and I was
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 3: sharing the moment with him. I wish I could have
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 3: been in it with him even more because it was
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 3: very fleeting, like charl walks like, hey, we got like
• 1:53:35
  Speaker 3: the priority, the priority boarding with the kiddo's. We need
• 1:53:38
  Speaker 3: to get up, we need to get out. Yeah, but
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 3: shout out Dominic. It was a phenomenal interaction. And to
• 1:53:45
  Speaker 3: see him legitimately tear up as he's talking about his
• 1:53:48
  Speaker 3: kids just want to talk about the show and everything else.
• 1:53:51
  Speaker 3: That was very heartwarming. And I appreciate you, Dominic for
• 1:53:55
  Speaker 3: introducing yourself to me.
• 1:53:57
  Speaker 2: Let's go huge shout out to you. He'll main anonymous
• 1:54:01
  Speaker 2: because I didn't get to meet him. Only shout out
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  Speaker 2: I got in thirty eight guy driving by in a
• 1:54:05
  Speaker 2: golf cart, Hell yeah, sir, Hell yeah, as the golf
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 2: cart flies fast and I just turned and so on that.
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  Speaker 3: Last leg from Newark to Nashville, Scotty was starting to
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  Speaker 3: like fall asleep.
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  Speaker 1: For like ten twenty minutes at a time. Then we'd
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 1: have to get moving.
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 3: We're trying to hold her off to fall asleep on
• 1:54:21
  Speaker 3: the plane, but she gets so where she's beyond exhausted,
• 1:54:24
  Speaker 3: crying like screaming. I'm talking bloody fucking murder, screaming to
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 3: where we're trying to get to the point.
• 1:54:30
  Speaker 1: Where we're leaving.
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 3: We're we're leaving the dock or whatever from the airport
• 1:54:36
  Speaker 3: to drive out to take off the fly. So that's
• 1:54:38
  Speaker 3: like a good ten to twenty minute process. Scotty is screaming, wrestling,
• 1:54:44
  Speaker 3: choral wrestling, holding her, shaking or doing the physical. I'm
• 1:54:47
  Speaker 3: holding her, I'm like sweetart like keeping a low voice.
• 1:54:49
  Speaker 3: We're round everybody. The flight attendants are sitting up there.
• 1:54:55
  Speaker 3: Everybody's trapped in. You can't be on the ground whatsoever.
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 3: Scotti is just beside herself, bro talking. We went through
• 1:55:01
  Speaker 3: war there at the end. But to the point where
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 3: we get off the flight, A couple of gentlemen come
• 1:55:05
  Speaker 3: over and just pat like, you guys did good, because
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 3: that's one where no.
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  Speaker 2: Man, that's when you know, dude, when you're getting physical
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  Speaker 2: pats on the physical pats.
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  Speaker 3: Hang in there, dad, Yeah, Hey, you guys did a
• 1:55:22
  Speaker 3: great job because we stayed composed and poised, like got
• 1:55:25
  Speaker 3: a little and a couple of violent shakes in there,
• 1:55:27
  Speaker 3: like please, Scottie, for the love of God, just fall asleep. Yeah,
• 1:55:31
  Speaker 3: but couple, you guys did good in there.
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  Speaker 1: You did it. We did it. We're live.
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  Speaker 3: We're finally getting on the other side of the jet
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  Speaker 3: lag too. Take the trash out, take the trash out.
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  Speaker 3: Love you appreciate you. We will see you next week
• 1:55:44
  Speaker 3: and we will come and shout out a lot more.
• 1:55:46
  Speaker 1: Of the comments. We love you, guys, We love you.
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  Speaker 1: Take up the trash. Where are you from where? Yeah,