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256 - HD Profile Series: Line 6 - The Role Model · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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flow without sacrificing results.
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Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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according to your human design.
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I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
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I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and it is our final episode of the Profile Line series.
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I'm actually sorry to see this one go.
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I've really enjoyed talking about the Profile Lines for the last couple of
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weeks with you guys on these episodes.
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Like I've said before, this is one of the most impactful pieces of human design.
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I think that it tunes you into how to embody your design more than any other
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one thing in your human design chart.
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So obviously we have human design type, which is really important
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because that gives you your strategy.
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It knows how you are meant to move through the world, how your energy gets used, how
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people experience it, what it's like for people to be in aura with you, how the
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universe speaks to you and delivers you the things that are in alignment for you.
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Your authority that helps you decide whether the things that
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come to you through your strategy are truly aligned for you or not.
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And then the profile though, is who you're here to be.
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So when you get into that world of being over doing.
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How do I be this highest version of myself?
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Well, your profile tells you what the highest version of yourself will act like.
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It tells you what your path is going to look like, and it clues you into a lot
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of information and ways that you can go about understanding whether you are
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in high expression of who you're meant to be, and whether you are ultimately
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walking the path of your purpose.
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Or are you denying parts of yourself that will help you get there
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faster, and easier, and meeting the right people along the way.
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Which is what human design teaches us.
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It's all geometry.
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We are all on this path, living our lives and hopefully bumping into the
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people, and the experiences, and the opportunities that will help us go
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along the path toward our purpose.
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And not away from it, not taking us on detours around it.
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Now we can do that with our conditioning, where we have
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something that we are avoiding.
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We have ways that we behave to protect us, that keep us from living that
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purpose path, where we're not listening to our strategy and authority, where
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we're letting the mind lead us, or we're letting our trauma lead us.
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So human design is this beautiful tool that helps us figure out
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what is in alignment for us.
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And profile, like I always say, is the biggest bang for your buck in my opinion.
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I think it is the clearest open window to how you start to live more in
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alignment with who you were meant to be.
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Every step that you take to embodying your profile just feels more and
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more like you're coming home.
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It feels more and more like yeah, I get this, I see how I
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really am destined for that.
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And your profile can be scary.
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They're big shoes to fill.
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The potential of every profile is incredible.
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But a lot of times if we're not naturally doing it, if we're not living in alignment
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with those gifts, we might be shying away from them, we might be playing small.
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And if we are playing small, if we are hiding, if we are not stepping boldly
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into what it means to be our true profile, to be truly us in this world, then we're
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going to find that things are just not working out for us the way that we want.
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That can result in us working a whole lot toward things, feeling like we're
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showing up, but nobody's listening or nobody's buying, or I don't know why
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I'm just not making the right contacts.
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There might be a way that you're meant to make contacts that you're trying
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to go about it another way, because someone told you to do it that way.
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We're going to talk about the six line today, line six, top of the hexagram.
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Every gate has six lines in it.
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That's really what we're talking about.
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So your conscious sun gate will have six lines.
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So we have the opportunity to have lots of different lines throughout.
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We all have them.
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So as you listen to the series, you probably heard some things in
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lines that were not part of your dominant profile where you're
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like, oh, that resonates with me.
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Well, look at your chart and see if you have lots of those lines
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down the columns on the gates along the sides of your chart.
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Do you see a point 3 a lot?
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Then that might be why the 3 line really resonates with you, but you're a 2/4.
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These are ways that you can start to play with this.
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But when we talk about these lines, and we're talking about the main profile,
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this is going to be your strongest energy.
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This is going to be the role that you are dominantly playing in your life.
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This is the one that you're really going to want to embody.
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So the 6 line brings us to the end of it.
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We have 6 lines and then we move on to the next gate we would shift over
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into after you come out of the 6 line.
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They're all special, but the six line is unlike any other.
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The six sits on top, and it's almost like it's sitting on the
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roof or the spire of the building.
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Where it gets a completely different vantage point than the rest of us.
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It is looking backwards and forwards.
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It can see each of the lines and it can look forward into the future.
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The potential for it is great wisdom.
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So it has this bird's eye view of life for most of its life.
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And we're going to talk about the three stages that the six goes through,
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which makes it completely unique.
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No other line has this same path that the six does.
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These specific milestones throughout the life of anybody who carries a six line as
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one of their prime gift profile numbers.
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Let's talk about who gets a six line.
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If you are a 3/6 profile, a 4/6, a 6/2 or a 6/3, this episode's for you.
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This episode will pertain to you if you are any of those profiles.
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In traditional human design, the sixth line is called the role model.
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It's the only one that doesn't sound kind of awful.
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The investigator, I guess, is fine.
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But the rest of them don't sound terribly fun or appealing.
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But the role model actually sounds kind of good.
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It's like, oh, you're a role model.
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I could live with that.
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That doesn't sound so bad.
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Just like I gave all the others, I give them kind of an archetype
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of my own, because I think that it helps to understand.
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With the six, I think it's the potential to be a role model.
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And what can confuse people is they think that they need to be perfect all the time.
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And that is the mark of a six.
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They can be a little bit perfectionist type, particularly about themselves.
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They can be perfectionists and not terribly forgiving of mistakes
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for themselves and sometimes for others, depends on the person,
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but definitely for themselves.
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I find that sixes can be very hard on themselves.
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And part of that can be trauma from that first stage of life, which we're
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going to talk about in just a second.
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But I want to tell you the archetypes as I look at them, because I think
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they can help you see how the doing can lead to being, because
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that is what this is all about.
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The more you are acting like your profile, the more you are stepping
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into that character that you are here to play in this life, the
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more you become that character.
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And it's not about slipping on a skin that doesn't belong to you.
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It's about stepping into your potential.
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And it's about stepping into your purpose and claiming it and owning it.
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So that's the difference that I want to draw.
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We are not talking about faking it.
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We are talking about really stepping in and saying, I am meant to be this.
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How am I denying that?
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How am I not owning it?
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And how can I more fully step into it with power and with
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some form of acceptance of it?
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So the archetype that I gave the six of being, that if you were being this as a
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six, you will start to become the higher version of it, you can become the role
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model, is the archetype of the wayfarer.
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And a wayfarer is traditionally known as like a traveler, somebody who's
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making their way through life, maybe not knowing where they're going, but always
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picking up something along the journey.
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That they're not focused on necessarily the result.
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It's like, I'm going to walk to walk.
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And I'm going to trust that the journey itself holds greater value
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than I could ever find on my own.
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That it needs to be walked in order to be realized, in order to be
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understood, in order to be seen.
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So by living life as a wayfarer, as a six line, you have the
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potential for your business, for your brand to become the sage.
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Really what we're talking about is, you have to live your life as a six.
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It's imperative for the six to live their life.
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If you're a 6/2 or 6/3, you have that transpersonal profile.
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You have that need to share, the need to connect, and you may not feel
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necessarily like you want to connect with people all the time as a six.
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The six is known to be aloof, can go arrogant at times, but just
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sort of reserved, pulled back a little bit, close to the vest.
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But you have to engage with people in order for your purpose to be fulfilled.
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And even if you're not, they're going to find you.
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That transpersonal profile, that 6/2 6/3, is going to need people,
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need outside connection, in order for the purpose to be fulfilled.
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Now if you have the six in the back, you have that 3/6 or the 4/6 profile,
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it'll be different for each one of those.
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You are going to have this role model potential, this sage potential.
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It's going to be something that other people see in you more than
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maybe you see it in yourself.
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That can be a valuable thing to understand.
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Whereas if you have that in the front, this is going to be very
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much how you go through life.
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If you're a 6/2 or 6/3.
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You're going to be very identified probably with this entire
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thing that I'm talking about.
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So let's talk about those three stages of life that all sixes go through,
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no matter where you have a six.
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And if you have a six in any gate in your chart, like I'm a 5/1 but
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I have a lot of sixes in my chart, I have a lot of six line energy.
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Every single one of those gates goes through this process.
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Every single one of those gates goes through this maturation process that
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we're going to be talking about.
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So the three stages of life is incredibly important to understand because we're
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talking about that wayfarer sort of role, understanding that the journey matters.
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Well, the six line goes on a journey of its own.
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Over the course of its life, it starts out from birth until 30 years
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old, it operates like a three line.
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But it's not a three.
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It operates like a three.
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It is finding its way through life through experimentation.
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Through trial and error.
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through trying things out and them maybe not going so well.
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Life bumps into you, you bump into life, and that's how you learn.
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But the six is not a three and doesn't necessarily have that same resilience
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that the three has to shake it off.
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The six can take it personally.
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The six can be very hard on themselves.
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I should have known better.
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I should have done better because it knows that there is
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this greater potential for it.
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I think every six is born with this feeling of, I'm going
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somewhere and I don't know where.
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Life's going to take me on a journey.
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Life's going to take me on a ride.
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And I don't necessarily know where that ride is going, where
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that journey leads ultimately.
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So they can be very hard on themselves.
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Sometimes with sixes, they can end up getting really down on themselves, down
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on the world, pessimistic, just not really feeling terribly hopeful about
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life if the first 30 years were rough and they beat themselves up for it.
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Right?
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They might get into trouble, they might have gotten into a relationship that
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they don't feel like they can get out of now, can feel really stuck by the
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choices that they made as a three, and then when you get to the age of 30,
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30 to 50, they climb up on the roof.
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So life was bumping into them, they were bumping into life for those first 30 years
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and now they say I've had enough of this.
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I'm gonna go climb up on the roof and I'm gonna watch everybody
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and I'm gonna observe life now.
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And I'm going to reflect and become more introspective.
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This is where the inward journey begins.
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The first 30 years of life is an outward journey.
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Let me try this, let me do this.
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Oh no, that broke.
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Ah, what happened there?
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It can be really rocky, can be really rough.
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And then that second 20 years, the 30 to 50, that second phase, They're
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saying, let me reflect on this.
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This might be where they learn to meditate.
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They settle down, the family grows, they start to settle into a career, all those
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things that come with a Saturn return.
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But then also maybe removing themselves a little bit from the action, paying
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more attention to themselves, to their process, maybe reflecting
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on those first 30 years, and then also observing things around them.
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They're starting to pay attention to other people in a different way.
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This is also when other people start to see the potential of their
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gifts starting to come through.
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You start to see how this person has this potential to help in some way.
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And it's not a problem solver like the five, it's different.
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It's a much more spiritual leadership than tactical practical leadership that
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you get with the five, but leadership all the same and people sense that.
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So they start to get recognized for it at this stage, when they're on
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the roof, people start to notice this, if they are interacting enough.
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Then we go up at the age of 50, the Chiron return, they come off the
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roof, they come down off the hill to be Buddha, to be the sage, to say,
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I did it all in my first 30 years.
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I watched it all, reflected on it all.
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In that 30 to 50 range.
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And now here I am with all the wisdom that this journey has provided me, has imparted
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on me, and I'm ready to share it with you.
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I'm ready to tell you.
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Here's my book.
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Here's my course.
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Here's why if you have a six line, one thing to pay attention to
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always is just what phase am I in?
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It's really going to affect you.
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Obviously we all go through phases.
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These are astrological cosmic events that are happening.
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So, around 30 we have that first Saturn return which puts us all
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into a different phase of our lives.
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But then when we hit 50, we hit that Chiron return.
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That is another phase for all of us.
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But this is a much more drastic, defined moment for a six line.
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So, after 50, it's time for wisdom and it's time for sharing.
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To really own your wisdom and to share it.
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Now, not every six is ready to come down off that roof.
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They're like, I'm good.
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I don't like what I see in the world.
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I don't like what I see here.
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I don't think people will listen to me.
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I don't think I'm being valued.
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I don't really want to do it.
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I'm scared.
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Any of those can be at play.
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But it's important that you come down off the roof.
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You can't live the rest of your life on the roof as a successful six line.
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You have to go through these stages, and you have to at least
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come down and start to share.
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Does not mean that you have to share it with a big audience.
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Does not mean that you have to make it your career.
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But it does mean that you have to go through all of this and
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start to recognize, what have I learned and what do I know that
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might be useful to other people?
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And not just throwing that to the side.
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It's a time of great acceptance.
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This is me.
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Warts and all, and I have something to offer, even if maybe it doesn't
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look like it to the outside world.
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Really imperative.
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And what can happen with people who have a 6, and looking at what stage you're in as
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a 6 line, are you in that first 30 years?
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Are you really trying, are you really allowing life to bump into
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you, and are you allowing yourself to let it roll off when it does?
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Not beating yourself up, not getting in your head about whether it was
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good or not good, or right or wrong, or if you should have known better.
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Can you learn the lesson?
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And can you move on from that?
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And then the 30-50.
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This is where you're really going to want to reflect.
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You want to turn inward.
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You want to allow yourself that time.
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You want to allow yourself that space for reflection.
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And notice what's happening.
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And a lot of people ask me, do I have to wait till 50 to share?
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You don't have to, but six lines are a lot like Nonna's sauce, like the old
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Italian grandmother that has the sauce or the stew, or a Latin grandma that's
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making the mole that takes like four days to cook so that all of the flavors marry
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properly and it all comes together and tastes the way it's supposed to taste.
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And if you only do it for half the time or if you only do it for part
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of the time, it still tastes good, but it's not what it could have been.
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To me that's six line percolation.
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That's the stewing of all the stuff.
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That's the journey, the wayfaring that has to go on.
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You have to be wandering, you have to be collecting your experiences.
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And that does happen over time.
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Now does that mean that you are doing nothing and have nothing to share and
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have no wisdom to impart until you're 50?
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Absolutely not.
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It's just going to be different when you hit that 50 mark.
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It's going to be a whole new level of flavor that you add.
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And we don't necessarily know how that will happen.
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Meaning we don't know what will be different because it's the
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journey and it is the changes.
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You don't know what will be healed at that 50 year mark that
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you had no idea was even there.
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These transition moments can be, sometimes they can be chaotic, sometimes
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they can be traumatic, sometimes they can be really eyeopening, but they
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can carry some real world shakeups.
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That's what these transitions are about.
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We don't know what they will bring.
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And for the six line, it's ultimately about your journey.
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It's ultimately about your reflections, your deeper understanding.
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about what works and how can we move forward.
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The six line is about moving forward.
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It's always about transformation.
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It's always about innocently looking forward and saying,
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this is what I've seen.
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This is what I know, and here's what I know about the way we need to go forward.
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That wisdom to be able to say, we don't need what we've always had.
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I know it's been broken.
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I've broken it myself.
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I've had time to think about that, and here's what we need to
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do to make sure that we're moving forward in a positive direction.
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It has to have hope, it has to have optimism, in order for the six line
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to really reach its full potential.
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So, I hope that you found this useful.
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I hope you liked the series, please I would love for you to let me know.
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I've really enjoyed delivering it.
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I honestly, I hope that you keep going with working with your profile and what
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those two lines look like together, because that's a whole different ball
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game when we start to marry them and we get the full profile of what you are.
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You can go super, super deep with this, but I highly recommend that you work on
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embodying and integrating this information into who you are, because that is where
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you start to see the benefits of human design beyond the knowledge, beyond the
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knowing, beyond the information is the integration and the implementation of it,
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where you're embodying it in your life.
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That's where you'll start to see results, and that is where you'll start
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to see real change in your life, where people are reacting to you differently,
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where you're bringing a new level of yourself and your work to the world.
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Things like this with the podcast and you're out there and
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find somebody, someone who knows what they're talking about, who actually
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has embodied their design themselves, who is living this, not just reading
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about it and regurgitating information.
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I highly encourage you to work with somebody so that you can get guidance on
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