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Donell Rowlings Vs. Corey Holcomb, KeKe's Church Lady Outfit, Why Get Married, NBA AllStar & More · What More Can I Say?

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What's up y'all? Welcome Twitter, Can I say podcast? I'm on your
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whole song with Ponus episode What Rider one forty six. All right, let's
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introduce the first lady of the pod, the only lady of the pod.
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Key key, She is fluffy and fine. I messed up your thing.
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I'm sorry. It's okay. I'm not I'm not feeling well. It's okay.
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I'm just happy that we made it here too. Yeah, thank thank
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you. Zachkik. Why do you look like you're about to singer neo song?
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Well? I have on my little church outfit today because I went to
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support the kids. Shout out to the United Voices of Chicago. I went
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to a like symphony orchestra. Ko even it's given. I can sing,
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and I got a solo. There you got. I might drop on neo
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soul album. You never know. I don't know, you know, look
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like like some type of sandal wood. I don't know, but I take
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that all right. Here's the funny man at the pot, my little bro
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man. What's that exact book? I don't like your intro today? Come
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give me there you go? How y'all doing today? Y' all? All
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right, I've had better day other than Kiki going to church. Yeah,
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I've had that bonus under the weather. This pod is gonna be interesting,
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it is it? I can already tell Yeah. I mean that went to
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All Stars, so I was out a lot. I wasn't because I was
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just scrolling down Instagram. I see you with a basketball like you're posing as
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if you play like I did. First time in four years I played.
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Hi, you can't tell him that I was walking around. I was bouncing
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around. What y'all want, y'all would have walked somewhere else. Let's go
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a year before that when it was in Salt Lake City and we was doing
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all that walking. Yeah, I was so mad, so mad, because
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that ain't nothing worse to try to act like you not hurt when you hurt
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or I was hurt, but yeah, so what you just pushed through it?
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Would you be like, y'all, we should get it, we should
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get an uber like definitely, okay, definitely. I caught Tone one time
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at a festival, right it might have been like the Silver Silver Room Block.
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Oh that was that one or something we were I saw him at the
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Silver Room Block party. He had posted up, but it was like a
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post, and I thought he was just like posting. I wonder why he
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was staying right there. He was like, yeah, that hip ain't gonna
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go all the way in there. Oh he didn't want to lock up,
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he just posted up. He just took a break. That was when I
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realized I really needed it, needed a civil room black or party. I
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was like, yeah, time, yes, it's time, it's time.
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So no, this shout out to modern medicine, shout out to my doctor,
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doctor de la Valley and everybody that was They got me right. But
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it was a good title, and he did it good. They just were
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missing, like I said, like they was. I was setting it on
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a post I did on Instagram. They were missing a little bit longer party
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hours. You should have extended it. They needed some athes that went a
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little longer. Uh maybe more valet, but you know that was it.
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How long How long did the parties? They three? How long you want
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to be in there? No, all start parties going to six in the
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morning. Now that's not now, nobody need to part twelve to two twelve.
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Then they had like these afthes that's real cool, Like like six you
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don't go out to like eleven or twelve. Ain't that much partying in the
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world. You do not need to be nowhere from three from ten pm to
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six am, y'all thinking when y'all leave that if you go outside at ten
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that ten pm, that's nothing. Well, what time you get in to
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the party? Party by twelve thirty and then you leave it at six in
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the morning. You get that twelve thirty that you talk and you maing left
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for about an hour. Then you have a little drake and everybody look,
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you look up, it's two thirty. Now you got to keep it going
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because the party if it closed it three, it's over at two thirty.
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Then you move on to the athletes to get there at three or two forty
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five, and you stayed at it. You don't stay to six. You
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stayed up about do that about about an hour and a half. Nothing good
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happens at an after party. I'm gonna tell you that right now. I
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have never had a successful after after party is where hood people go, and
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that's what hood people. Oh yeah, definitely the heavy dress after parties,
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the afters. Cool people go to the app I must not be cool.
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I've been to an after I've been to one, but I don't need to
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be know what to six in the morning. You've been to one, been
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at after parties before, yeah, absolutely, like late late ones, yes,
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not till six in the morning. I've never for several dollars, don't
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think it's maybe because the way you dress right now after church, that's what
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you mean. O'clock clock after that really is very much shut in. What
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you had to do. Yeah, you remember that at church, not that
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church. I did them at school. I know you a p K.
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So you at church? Yeah, yeah, I never did that at church.
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That's what I don't need to spend the night at nobody's church. At
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a church and school lock in, that's a lot. You gotta be a
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different type of dedicated to serving the youth to sign up to be a uh
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supervisor on a locking Yeah, ain't no way, my girl. I ain't
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locking in with none of love the Lord. But all right, well we're
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talking about today, y'all. Well I'm sad I got a heavy heart today.
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Talk about it? Why? Because Wendy Williams is very sick. She's
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very ill. She's it's not funny, Zach, It's really not funny.
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He's playing the Valoulin. But it's not funny giving her the right background.
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God, I don't need your music, Okay, I need you to pray
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for Wendy. She's going through They're saying that she was diagnosed with dementia.
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And as a documentary coming out this weekend, there's a video with her and
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Black China and Wendy. I'm black trying to interview a Wendy will She's not
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interviewing her. She went to go visit her. She went to go visit
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her because I was about, like they letting anybody into this thing. No,
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no, no, that's their real friends in real life. Really,
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yeah, And she went to visit her and check on her, and she
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tried to have a regular conversation with Wendy, and Wendy couldn't even like comprehend
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that they were speaking. It's that bad. And I know you have feelings
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about Wendy Williams, but I mean I don't have I mean, because I
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get it, it's still when you know, at that time, I was
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Dayton Phaedra and it was a obviously she's the more famous person. So she
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was just like she just tried to try to play me a little bit when
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she said I didn't like it. I like it, But I mean I
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wish her. I wish anybody to be like this, right, like to
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go for what she was so like this, you know what I mean?
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Like I maybe if she had like a cold s I laugh at it,
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but not this, right, I wouldn't ever do that. Yeah, it's
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pretty devastating. What do you think think this is karma? Is a lot
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of people on the internet, I said, and you've seen the key key
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that's saying this is karma. Well you said it before the podcast started.
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But I like how you switch and trying to put the question on. I
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like how you switched it up once we got here. Well, I have
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to be honest. I am in my church outfit today. I want to
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right here. Is it karma? She has done horrible things to people in
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the sense of trying to ruin their public image? Is it karma? Anybody
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of them? People came in her first? Can anybody ruin your public image
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with things that are not true? Yes, But if it's not true,
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it's not true, that's not your image. Well, you know somebody can
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just any accusation can ruin your public image, whether it's true or not.
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That's true. But you think she deserves to. This is her common She
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deserves one thing about it. My grammy, my granny, go had to
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mention one thing about it. I know my grain didn't deserve it, my
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grandma, right, So not me, me, me, me did not
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deserve it. So if she got the same thing that Mimi had, it
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don't come with deserving it. Okay, But do you believe this what good
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things come to good people? Yes? I do. Do you believe when
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you put certain type of energy out in the world it comes back to you?
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I do believe that. Well, I'm done talking. That doesn't mean
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that she deserves He's so spicy. I can never fix my mouth to say
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that somebody deserves them. And I'm not defending what Wendy did in her career,
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but I am going to acknowledge the fact that she's in icon in the
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media industry and men and women like to it, would like to be like
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her and following her footsteps. Nobody wants to ever give her the credit for
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what she did, but a lot of people, all of us, try
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to mimic the person that she was on the air. So let's let's give
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her that. At least I give it to her, said she deserved to
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say she deserved. I just say when you do good, goods comes back
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to you. When you're do bad, bad comes back to you. I'm
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not saying this is her bad. I'm just saying, we know you watched
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it. You've seen it. Yes, you see her do and say certain
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things that you were like, oh boy, that's tough. Yes, that's
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tough. So what I'm saying is this, I mean, look, I
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know people have done bad things, and I'm not surprised when bad things happen
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to him. You're not surprised when when they like the dude that may did
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some wild stuff growing up, or was getting over on people or doing people
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wrong for no reason, or doing stuff or and something bad happens to that
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person. I'm like, I'm like, I'm not surprised. Do I wish
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it on them? No? Yeah, I think I'm not surprised. But
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I'm a little sympathetic in that regard. And I feel like a lot of
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like I'm in different I know, because I really wasn't around truly, for
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she wasn't my era, but she was like an icon. You know,
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I've done my homework or whatever. But what I'm saying is I don't think
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it's fair to say you deserve this because you did X, Y and Z.
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We've all done things that we're not proud of in our careers and in
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our past. It doesn't mean you deserve something. But I do think what
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everybody should do is look at Wendy Williams's life as a lesson. Okay,
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to look at it and say, you know what I'm saying, Things will
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come at you real fast. If you don't protect yourself, things will come
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at you real fast. If you don't make friends in the industry, and
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if you move a certain way, think people will not be sympathetic to your
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situation. So I just feel like it's very sad to see. And now
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I mean I'm heartbroken about it. I do feel like it's sad. Do
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I want to see Wendy Williams again? Be like this? Nah, that
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ain't cool. Yeah, that ain't cool. But when on the flip side,
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I am able to look at the other side of it and say,
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when somebody says, hey, you know this person has done a lot of
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things, She's done good too. She's done a lot of good for people
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too, Are you surprised when when when when with certain energy comes back.
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No, I mean I'm indifferent about it. I just look at it like
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this, two things can be true. You can look at her from nobody
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is just one one way, okay, Like he loves Wendy because of who
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she is as a journalist, as a woman in media, than what she's
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accomplished in the field that she is in. And that's what the eyes that
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you're looking at Tona is like, Hey, you have said some nasty things
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about people, and you've built this career off of negativity. So being negative
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something negative happening to you, I'm not empathetic necessarily empathetic to it. I
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think that's I think both of y'all have a point. You know what I'm
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saying, Just because you just because you sick, don't mean I have to
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feel sorry for you. Absolutely I feel sorry for it. It's not unncessarily
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talking about you. I'm just saying the idea, like how people can in
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general. You know what I'm saying, just because somebody has done something that's
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happened to somebody, we've take it off, Wendy Williams. If somebody has
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like a parent who mistreated them or something, and then that parent ends up
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in the nursing home or something, and then that child doesn't visit said parent.
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You know what I'm saying that you can't tell that child not to feel
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that way, you know what I'm saying. But I'm pretty sure it's somebody
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who loves that parent who's like, damn, I wish that didn't happen to
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them. Yeah, it's both ways, it really, it really is both
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ways. But I do hope throughout the rest of her life, which if
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y'all seen the clip, it looked like it's any day now. I just
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wish. I hope people in media can put their I don't know opinions aside
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and just give her her flowers for what she accomplished in the door she kicked
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down because a lot of us and whether people want to admit it or not,
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would love to follow in Wendy Williams footsteps and would love to have the
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balls to do half the things she did. Fair fair enough, it's fair
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enough. Uh So leading into that the Corey Holgm thing, Zach, and
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it's the same in a sense where you got Corey who's been Wow. I
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don't know if these clips have been out for a while, he just starts
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seeing them, But Corey been letting everybody have it in a in a major
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way. What do you think about it? I'm not a fan of where
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comedy is right now. Why y'all so mad? I have no idea,
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why y'all. I'm supposed to be happy comic, supposed to be telling jokes
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and making people laugh. Attention comics. We are not gangsters. We don't
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beat up people, we don't threaten people, Like, why are we doing
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this? And then when we usually do do those things, it'd be usually
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used to have to hear about them stories about a comic that you knew was
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out here gangster for real? Like you're talking about silly ass too. You're
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like, yeah, he really is about that. You wouldn't even know because
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that's not even what we present. That's not how we make money or anything.
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But negativity is really been selling lately, you know. But I do
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have a different perspective on the Corey Holcombe and Donille Rawlin's thing that happened.
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Okay, this situation, I believe it is Donille Rowlin's fault. I'm not
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blaming Corey for it. And I know Cory always it seems like he's always
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inside. I don't know but from the behind the scenes from a comic who
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was actually there at the show. What happened was Donelle Rawlins had headlined the
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show before. This was at the last show, the late show, the
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midnight show, and Corey Holcomb came later for the later and was like they
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was like, like Corey said in his on fifty one to fifty, a
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lot of people don't want to follow me. I don't know if you know
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how people talk like, don't nobody want to follow me? I don't know
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how it was, but Corey was going to last. Okay, Donelle went
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up before Corey did his spark. The light came on. If you don't,
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the light means it's time to get off stage. Random light, which
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is not a thing you should do. You know what I'm saying, ran
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the light do this thing or whatever. They said. Corey Holcomb got on
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stage and started doing his jokes and you know his type of comedy, it's
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just that brass in your face whatever, and he started doing jokes on like
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with Kat Walliams was saying, if you took a D. You know,
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if you in more than three movies, I know you didnet took a D.
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He was saying, something to that to that regard, right, And
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they said that, Donelle Rawlins yells out the crowd, I ain't took no
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nothing, and then Corey responds, Nah, you just famous cause of Dave
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Chapelle. Shut up. You know what I'm saying on some back, and
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that's how they start the back and forth, and that's why they yelling back
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and forth. That's not Corey Halkins's fault. I was on stage doing my
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stuff. If you don't like my stuff and you think it's about you,
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wait till I get off stage. But to yell on stage and think I'm
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not gonna respond when I got the mic in my hand, it's absolutely ridiculous.
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Yeah, that's ridiculous. Come on, man, y'all is too y'all
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comics is getting too tough. It all started and everybody want to say it
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started with Kat Williams. Naw, it started with Will Smith smack, Chris
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rock It just seemed like this whole I in a comedian world, you know
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what I'm saying. I'm like, what like, I'm not laughing at Chris
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Rocken smack. I'm just like, this is this is the monkey that started
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everything. It's been downhill since comics used to be a monkey. It was
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tight the monkey start disease. Who can tear down each other? Who can
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go on club Shay Shane tell, tear down each other and tell the truth
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next, and that ain't That's not it, man, get back to the
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jokes. Get back to being funny. Mike Epps just put out a funny
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special like it especially, just put out on that. Check it out,
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like, get back to it actually being funny. And then even with Mike
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Epps getting into it with shunning sharp, he came back. They squashed it
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Like that's how comic should squash the stuff. You should squash it and then
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make jokes about the situation. Then he got back on stage and kept talking
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like you should. Should nobody be able to stop you talking on stage.
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But at the same time it should stay there or if y'all gonna go at
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it, he said. Shannon looked like Medea was hilied. Man. You
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said big free to you said, he said, He said, he hugged
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Shannon, he said the most, he said, But I had that thing
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on me. You know, it's just funny, but it was funny,
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Big Freedo funny. Keep it funny. Why are y'all trying to be tough,
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because let me tell you, if comedy is starting to go to fighting,
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I quit cause I never wanted to fight, but Zach I ain't fighting
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nobody. Look, buddy, let me ask you a question that either one
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of y'all can ask it. I'm saying in the fact that Corey Holko was
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talking about Donelle Rowlins in a sense talking about the comics to go on tour
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with Dave Chappelle. He's made some comments about that, and maybe Donille Rollins
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was like, you know what, I gotta get my He couldn't take it
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no longer. That's what That's what it seemed like he was fed up about
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it, because he really was in the in the in the clips that I
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saw, was talking about I'm a beast, you know, letting people know
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that I do comedy. You're talking about we all has beings of you know,
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the people that he go on the road with. Uh So, I
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think that was one of the things I just got off stage. They know
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you're a beast. Down Rawlins is a beast. Corey Holcomb is a beast.
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All the comics that are talking about each other are really good at what
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they do. They are What are we talking about here? Mm hmm.
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Who are you? Who are you trying to prove this to? I don't
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know. You should be you might be in a better financial position than Corey.
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I don't know that. Zach Zach fear Zach's that's kind of It's just
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it's just I don't want to fight. And then now it's gonna turn into
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you gotta fight to get on stage. Now it's only gonna be big on
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stage. Slim tied comedy used to be a place where to dominate. Yes,
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that was well, that was lane. We could be funny, we
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can be small, we ain't ain't gotta be big. We could be skinny.
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We can all and win in that lane. Now you gotta be tough.
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No, that's not all a go back, So you okay. So
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here's the thing I hate when Donelle Rawlins is a comedian. Yeah, he
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but it seemed like he couldn't take a joke. So am I like ton
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just made the point of he couldn't take it no more. I don't like
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that. Like, if I've offended you, tell me that I offended you
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in the moment, you know, after that, don't wait three four years
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and then just unleash on me and I don't even know why we fight,
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you know what I'm saying, Like you could have told me that you had
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a problem with me two months ago. Yeah, don't don't show up at
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my set or at Big Jam. You know what I'm saying. You ain't
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been you at Big Jam with a sign in the crowd like I you know,
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like, don't do that. Tell me you got an issue with me
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right then and there. And that's what it seemed like has happened between the
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two of them, according to your inside source who was at the show,
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Like why would you do that that? Somebody said. I was like,
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you know, I was confused when I saw it originally. But when you
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tell that backstory, like why you do that? I have a problem with
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you, Kiki. You don't always say that I'm not black? Oh my
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god, it hurts him. It hurts it hurts I apologie bothers myself who
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shave. I will give you the proper apology when you take the twenty three
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in me, Okayna, the proper apology when you take the damn test,
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because I don't know who in your life is lying to you. You know
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what I'm saying they don't want to tell you the truth. But I know,
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I know you got some Hispanic family members out there, and I'm not
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gonna let that. I'm not gonna let you walk around and denial. So
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when we take the test and if you come back that you don't have no
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Latino in you, you will never hear me utter another old eye your way.
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Okay, how many how much Latin? How much Latin it gotta be
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in it for you to say if if it's if it's one percent of Latino
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in this man, I'm not sorry for a damn thing. Okay, you
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know what I'm saying, like I don't know, And let me just say
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I don't know who watched the pod because see tall tall, I you know
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what I If you take the test, friend, I will stop. I'm
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telling you I don't have anything. I know you're telling me. Did you
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ever take up twenty three? I did? I just don't know idea with
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the results. This is your man, and he not even not even convinced
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Zach with me. I'm taking it. I'm taking it on the pie.
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Do it live bro right, don't try to I gotta see you do it
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because I don't want you to get Zach the test and they come back you
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Zimbabwe or whatever that got going on. I want your full report. Yeah,
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this man went to see Bernar Boy, and I know they probably related.
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So I don't want no shenanigans. You gotta do it right here on
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the pie and I will apologize and I will never talk about your corn stand
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future, none of that. I'm gonna leave it. Just leave it alone,
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alright, I'm doing I'm doing it. How to hell I get one
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hundred percent? You have We're black, Okay you have to be, Yeah,
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you have to be. We're black. Were talking about what care I
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gotta look like all black girls? That that got baby head. I got
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a little Indian, I got a little Indy and sometimes like I got a
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little Korean. But other than that, I'm like, yeah, I'm seeing
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my ass shot. We are about to get canceled. But I'm glad you
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told me on this episode. So now I know, all right, I
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don't do that again until I get until I get well, you're not gonna
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do it again until I get talking for anyway. So it was a question
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that I had on the show Yes today and this is we This is two
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guys having a conversation, so it really didn't did work? Right? Ki?
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Ki? What do you think men get out of marriage that they can't
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get outside of marriage? What? I look, I'm asking a question.
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You about to fight? You know what? I respect this question and this
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is not I don't want to fight, Tom, This is not to you,
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but I just respect this question from a man who was seriously seeking a
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future of marriage. I don't believe you will ever be married, So it's
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like, why are we about to Why am I about to fight and to
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go down this road with you? And you ain't. I don't want to
23:48
be married. I do, I do, I do, But this question
23:56
do you want to be married? I think it's the dollar thing I say,
24:00
tell me, I think I think the godly part of it doing the
24:04
doing, uh, the questions and the college called in and like that's the
24:08
right thing to do God, under God's eyes. But like if you're just
24:12
saying for some other stuff, then I can't you know I'm doing you're doing
24:17
it for God? Yeah, I'm doing it for and that's I do most
24:19
of my life. That's that's that's the reason, that's that's most of the
24:22
things I do. That's no better reason for you to do your life for
24:26
good. Oh yeah, that's why I'm so lucky. I'm glad the six
24:30
am parties got you. You out here, did it want a party?
24:36
I'm gonna have a look. But look, but look, I go to
24:37
the athletes that I go to church. It's people that don't do nothing to
24:41
go don't go to church. That's true. Church whatever whatever they got going
24:45
on, I'm gonna get up, like I've been missing church because I've been
24:48
having a crazy schedule. I'm gonna I'm gonna be in there this Sunday.
24:52
And that's the thing I said, Like people like they don't live their life
24:56
a certain way or whatever. How you live your life and you don't go
24:59
to church, like I want to hear that. Don't talk to me like
25:03
you don't go with you don't go worship, Like yeah, I might go
25:06
outside and I might be outside, but I take that moment to get things
25:11
right with myself, and I use that to get me through the week.
25:14
Like how many times y'all prayed in the shower, how many times y'all have
25:17
meditated? How many times y'all get up and pray? How many times y'all
25:19
you thank God for something that's happened in your life. Come on how many
25:26
times? Yeah? Like come on, give it. But I'm just saying,
25:30
like, so people talk about me and look at my life and look,
25:33
yeah, I ain't gonna lie. I made tons of mistakes, but
25:37
I've also had a number of wins. A number of wins, and there's
25:42
number God, Like I got on a sitcom. I'm from Provenstown the country.
25:48
Who wasn't playing myself? And who put you in that position? God?
25:56
God, Man, I love this. People are seeing the other side
26:00
of toll. We know Zach is a PK them the worst, but no
26:07
I tell anybody like when people ask me, like they really get to and
26:11
I always said, man's God. Yeah. Like I met a lady on
26:14
the train that gave me an internship at a radio station, like come on,
26:19
dog, Like how do you like? Come on dog? And it
26:23
turns out to be my life's work. Like what Like it's what you were
26:27
creative? You know what I mean? Like that's the thing. I like,
26:30
I ain't stupid enough. I went to death Stoppers and I was on
26:33
my ass broke, ass broke when I talked about all my ass broke broke,
26:41
And next you know, Tim Hennessy came through. Next thing, you
26:42
know, loan started coming off. Next, you know, everything starts shaping
26:47
up next. You know, I'm cool. So we gotta find you a
26:51
wife. That's the only thing you haven't tapped into yet. We got to
26:55
get you a wife. If you say you can hear, you got to
27:03
get you a wife. That's the last thing on you. That's the thing,
27:04
the thing you haven't checked off yet. And then you have the answer
27:07
to your own question. The best reason to get married is because of God.
27:11
It's different kind of blessings and different kind of favor that will come to
27:15
you when you live your life according to it is I got my outfit of
27:22
my Sunday outfit of it is a different type of favor that comes with following
27:26
God's word. So when we're outside of the word and we're dating and we're
27:30
doing what we all do, and you know, we just living a life
27:33
out here, you're not gonna touch some of the favor and blessings if you
27:37
were in a committed relationship and truly married to somebody that God sent you.
27:41
So I think it's a lot of benefits to being married. I don't know
27:45
because I ain't never been there yet. But you know, I give me
27:48
a husband, I think it'll be a great union. I see when I
27:53
see people that are paired up dope adult pairing, you're usually both dope.
27:57
Yeah, if they look happy, they look happy. But but to speaking
28:03
to just to the lower part of the question, it is a lot of
28:08
times that women coming away, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna make your
28:12
house a home. I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do that. And
28:15
I'm like, yo, like that, ain't that that? Ain't that?
28:19
Ain't like you? My house is a home, you know what I mean?
28:22
Like everything that you talking about right now is I can order and I
28:29
can get done myself. What ain't we gonna do to make like our lives
28:33
better? Like outside of like that the stuff. So what would you want?
28:37
What do you? What do you? What do you want in a
28:40
wife? Because I feel like men, Oprah, Oh my god, I
28:48
gotta put some game on y'all. You really was going somewhere. I thought
28:51
I was really finn get to the bottom and really find out what tone is
28:55
needing. So here's this, man said Oprah. A lot of time,
28:57
this is what I'm saying it's yeah, because you have experience. I have
29:02
experience. You know what I'm saying. I may I might be the only
29:03
person on the pot who was once man. Okay, can we still got
29:07
Tom? Don't do that. He's trying to flex on us. We got
29:12
he about to get married her big. Everybody keeps saying, I don't know
29:15
why y'all putting marriage on me. I think you will tell me this.
29:18
I like marriage. I feel look like you got a little wife out.
29:22
You definitely look like you're about the car. You're gonna pick the kids up.
29:27
Y'all come there looking like a bomb every week. Okay, I hate
29:33
y'all. Definitely look like you. You put on a show like you can
29:38
make up. You can make of me like you look like you're like,
29:41
Yeah, I better come eat this dinner like a good dinner. Better come
29:49
show me, y'all. Come come. I hate y'all. Let me call
29:56
my husband telling them to be a little late. That's what you look like.
30:00
You say, what husband? If you're out there, I can't hold
30:07
on. You asked you to stay a little long hold on. Let me
30:08
call my husband a little late. Yes, that's that outfit you got off.
30:15
Yeah, can you go get a little Yeah, you go get a
30:18
little girl from the school. I gotta stay a little her late baby.
30:22
Yes, I'll see. Okay, I hate you, all right, you
30:25
definitely got I've never coming in here dressed up. Y'all won't bring us changes,
30:30
he said, a shout. The fact it does look like she got
30:36
a shout. I didn't know what to do, came race forced to day.
30:44
They tail you just look like a mother. Well okay, take that,
30:48
take that, baby, take that, take it. You come.
30:51
You're just becoming in your woman for a woman. I'm still but I want
30:56
to tell y'all this, this is my issue with with my is. I
31:00
have no issue with marriage. Marriage isn't the problem. It's the people who
31:03
trying to get married, Okay, okay. It's the women who don't know
31:07
who only want to be wives because they think that's just the next step,
31:12
like they don't really have a reason. I ask women, I'll be like,
31:15
why do you want to be married? And I'm gonna tell you.
31:18
A big red flag for me is when I hear because I always wanted to,
31:22
I I see what you don't realize that you are getting ready to be
31:26
in a role of servitude. Yeah, okay, it's not about I know.
31:30
More so, if I ask you why you want to be married,
31:32
and all I hear is I red flag you're not ready to be married.
31:36
Okay. Now if I ask you do you want to be married, and
31:38
I hear, we serve, because that's really what it is. A wife's
31:45
job is to serve her husband, and a husband's job is the server wife.
31:48
That should be the first thing on their mind. How can I make
31:51
her life better? As a husband, and the wife should be saying how
31:53
can I make his life better? If you got two people waking up like
31:56
that, they gonna be on the same page and they gonna be all right.
32:00
But everybody in their own opposition, they're trying to do their own thing,
32:04
have their own reasons and insecurities of why they want to be married,
32:07
and that be the problem. It ain't marriage marriages at the issue. It's
32:10
y'all not it's people not knowing that this is a servitude role on both ends.
32:17
You are in service mode. You are not not about you a little
32:24
bit. I mean that's good, that's good stuff. Be a woman my
32:29
age and like my all my girlfriends, like we at the point of like,
32:31
okay, we're gonna either be getting married or we're not, either we
32:35
having kids or not. And a lot of us have those reasons that you
32:38
name, which are stupid. I always wanted to I want y'all rule to
32:42
perform in my wedding. That's really what's the biggest reason I really want to
32:45
get married. I have a big wedding with y'all rule. Yes, come,
32:52
so you' yes and you don't get care. I don't know if I
33:01
need case. I saw case recently and I, you know, no disrespect,
33:05
but I don't know. I don't know I can say case I was
33:07
saying that it was yeah, yeah, but no, I really want you'll
33:10
root it for my wedding. And that's one of the biggest reasons why I
33:13
want to get married. That's a rare flag, like you just explained.
33:15
You know what I'm saying. I ain't getting there because I want to cook
33:17
for somebody and I want to be there for somebody. Actually, I don't
33:21
want you in convenience with me. I would just like to have a big
33:23
party, which ill rut in. So that is why I know I might
33:27
not be ready. A lot of women they want the dress you talk about
33:36
the wedding, the dress, the ring, the moment, the pictures,
33:38
and I wanted to take cute pictures. That's not that's you know, that's
33:43
not the role, right, Like you gotta you gotta find somebody that's like
33:45
if they get sick, if they if they lose their job tomorrow, and
33:51
you gotta be the health care taker. You gotta financially support them on hundred
33:54
percent? Are you willing to do that? And until you until you feel
33:59
like that about somebody, then I don't think you need to get married.
34:00
That's the fact a woman told me. She said, I said this was
34:04
the best answer. Why. I was like, why you want to get
34:07
married? She was like, because I'm a nurturer and I want to nurture
34:10
and raise children and my husband, like not raise her husband, but she
34:16
wants to be of service to be and that's literally what she wanted to do.
34:21
She just felt like she her fullness was not happening because she felt like
34:24
that's who she is. But that's gonna be a good wife to somebody.
34:29
But I think that's a certain person though, Zach. I think because I
34:31
one of my best friends, he would he his whole thing is, yo,
34:37
I want to be a husband, so I want to be That was
34:40
it. I'm a husband. He got him a wife and he been they've
34:43
been married for a thousand years. But that is what he wanted to do,
34:49
and that that that is that person. But I think it's more people
34:52
that be like, you know, I don't know what I want to do.
34:53
You know, I wait, And I mean you eventually find that,
34:59
find that that that that mentality where he's just like yo. Because for me,
35:00
I didn't I ain't gonna lie. It was like it was only at
35:06
one point in my life, I really and I proposed to Trinity Mom.
35:08
Now that was the thing like that was like and now it's and and and
35:12
I messed it up. But I knew, I know what it. I
35:16
know what it feels like with okay, what it feels like. But I
35:20
also understand, of course, when you do that, you gotta be willing
35:23
to sacrifice everything and sacrifice, doesn't you know? You gotta be in a
35:27
sacrifice. When somebody super fine comes and tries to hogh, let you just
35:31
ry it was nice meeting. I holler let you later and keep it pushing
35:36
until you and say, until you can keep it pushing on on on what
35:39
everybody likes is sex, then you ain't ready. I think that's true.
35:44
I think. I mean, well, I have a friend who who's who
35:49
is married. He's been married about eight nine years now, and he's one
35:52
of the people he was he was, and he's in our he's in our
35:55
industry, so y'all can relate to this. He was in he's in our
35:59
field. I mean, was out all the time on women. He met
36:02
this girl and I remember when he met her, he was like, I'm
36:05
gonna marry her, and he knew he wanted to marry her. Right,
36:07
long story short, they ended up getting married. Now, one thing he
36:10
stopped doing. The urge never stopped for him to you know, like you
36:15
said, turn down that fine chick or keep it pushing. He doesn't put
36:17
itself in position to where that woman is gonna be there. He goes out.
36:22
Now, he don't drink because he know when he gets drunk, he
36:24
start looking for women. You know what I'm saying. He don't unless he's
36:29
with his wife, you know what I'm saying. So it's like he doesn't
36:31
go out like that, you know what I'm saying, because he knows if
36:35
he gets in those situations, he'll that'll probably make him want to drink,
36:37
and then that'll make him want to get on. So he creates boundaries within
36:42
himself to respect his marriage because he cares that much while he's sober and in
36:45
his right mind. You know what I'm saying. I like that. But
36:50
for me, I think I want to just be able to say no.
36:52
But it don't matter what. But when have you ever been able to say
36:57
no? I haven't. I have been in relationships, bro, I have
37:00
an honesty and it's real stuff. I've been in relationships where I'll be like,
37:05
you know what, I'm cool. I'm not gonna and it ain't it
37:07
ain't worth it have my phone, it ain't worth it doing this because like
37:12
I said, like if I I ain't the if I get with somebody,
37:17
that's my that's that's you girlfriend number two. Like I don't really be the
37:22
dude, Like I'm just knocking everything down. Like so if I'm getting ready
37:25
to rock out with somebody, I'm gonna keep rocking out with that person.
37:30
So it might be like it could turn into five relationships, oh my god,
37:35
at one time, because I'm not just gonna leave everybody alone. I'm
37:39
not gonna leave everybody along, so I would it's been I say, hey,
37:45
that starts out defending himself, But criminals, I'm just saying, it's
37:49
really saying you have been able to say no. He said no, he
37:52
said all the time. I got exactly honestly, stop playing with me,
38:01
bro with me? Doog like now you want to? Now you y'all playing
38:06
with me? Okay, go ahead, you telling me that? And I
38:09
know you, bro, I know you. You just like you just like
38:15
hey, don't know me? You know me? You know me. Yeah,
38:24
I'm saying is look, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna throw you out
38:30
the window. Now. He threw you out there? He did. He
38:32
did throw me out that not like he think I was trying to make a
38:43
point. No, I know. My point is this is that brother,
38:47
you know you know you like you ain't just like hey, you if you
38:55
started liking somebody and then somebody else gives you an opportunity, you're gonna like
39:01
them too, and you're not gonna throw that. You're not gonna throw her
39:05
away either. That's all I'm gonna say. That is so dangerous what that
39:10
means. But I will tell you what you let me tell you what you
39:13
said you do, he said, just like he got fat girlfriends, you
39:15
be triends too, and then five plus five is ten and both of y'all
39:21
can quit. You to lie because you told him, me told on you,
39:23
but I never. But but my thing is, I've been in situations
39:25
where I'm saying, I know that's the potential of a happening. Doesn't happen
39:29
all the time, no, but I'm saying there's a potential of that to
39:31
happen. I've been in relationships where I just been like, yo, I'm
39:36
cool now, I'm cool now. When things I will say this, when
39:39
things start to get funny, then that's what I get funny that there's that.
39:44
Okay, there's that because at the end of the day, and what
39:49
I've realized is this is that you cannot catch a woman cheese. You just
39:52
can't. You it's a little mistakes. If it feels I would say,
39:57
if it feel weird, it's probably weird because but if you think you're finished
40:00
catcher, bro, it's just it's too hard to catch, y'all. It's
40:05
not. It ain't even worse. And then you're gonna make us feel stupid
40:07
for trying to catch absolutely a lot of times out of ten, y'all made
40:13
us cheat anyway, We just you understand. We're just trying to stop giving
40:22
them that on the own women who treated don't tell me this is this ever
40:28
happened to you where you have maybe even had to turn down turn down a
40:35
woman who was trying to cheat on they dude with you. Oh that's a
40:37
fact. Tell me all them, dudes. It's the reason that it's a
40:42
reason I don't know them was just cheating because they wanted to. Oh yeah,
40:45
I don't. I don't for dudes that do that. They're specializing that.
40:50
I never understand that. Dude, dudes, I don't understand to do
40:53
that if you not even saying your friend. But you in that community,
41:00
right, and you know that this is this guy's girl. She bad as
41:05
hell, and she been with them, and then she breaks up, she
41:07
breaks up, they break up, and then you slide in and now you're
41:12
gonna day that and y'all still gonna be in the same community. I don't
41:15
understand that guy, but hey, the each is on, and I don't
41:17
understand the guy that want to date the girl that got they want to even
41:22
go after the girl they got somebody, because a lot of dudes are not.
41:28
They not finna touch that girl. They're not gonna touch it. They
41:31
mad as her letter, they hate her. They going crazy, they put
41:36
but the violence part, the violence is coming your way. It's coming to
41:40
the dude. Oh, I see what you're saying. OK. So what
41:43
I'm saying like so like it's a lot of more. I almost bet more
41:49
than half of the interactions, violent interactions that happen between men are over with
41:55
over women. And you do and and you mess with a dude's girl,
42:00
Bro, he is not going to like it's crazy dudes that been violent on
42:05
women, which you got a problem. They not that vialance and that violence
42:08
is not happening towards them. They waiting to get into it with you.
42:12
They might even try to get into it with you on purpose to give them
42:15
a reason to fight you. Yes, it's like that's the thing. I
42:17
was like, I don't mess with none of that. That ain't that ain't
42:21
that. Don't get my rocks off. I don't think I'm the best dude
42:23
because I took his girl. No, that's dangerous. And I've never because
42:29
I was like, maybe you ain't never seen somebody really get their lights turned
42:31
out over over that and I and I definitely have, I definitely have.
42:37
I've seen it more than once. Dudes get their lights turned out over over
42:40
messing with somebody. Check you know what I mean, Like, think you're
42:45
getting over into that dude running up on you. Yeah, women, we
42:49
only cheat because y'all. No, we ain't gonna say that y'all chee because
42:52
y'all want to cheat. No, No, y'all definitely got some just like
42:55
a lot of PP. So I mean it's it's a few bad apples and
43:00
no, it's at but women, for majority of us, we are reactors.
43:05
We only react to what y'all giving us. So y'all are the kings.
43:08
Y'all leave the way, and if y'all want to have a great relationship,
43:12
then be great to me. I'll be great to you. You cheat
43:14
on me, I'm getting my look back. I believe that. I always
43:17
believe that. Yeah, so you guys control it, you control the environment.
43:22
I'm not gonna say all the time, but y'all do some stuff,
43:25
do crazy stuff, especially the work husband stuff and all of that. I
43:29
don't play that. I don't play that. I don't play hood, work,
43:30
husband, work wife. I got a lot of brothers that ain't my
43:34
brothers, but I ain't got no work husbands. I don't do no work
43:37
husband, no work wife. And my man come home to me, he
43:39
got a work wife. We got a misunderstanding. I don't do that.
43:43
Don't play with me like that. No real wife. I ain't no wife,
43:47
So I be damn if you got a work wife and I ain't even
43:51
your real wife, big tim, I'm sorry. Why did you do that?
43:54
I'm sorry if you got outside, better not let me find out about
44:00
I was trying to gas slight because no, because y'all wouldn't go for y'all
44:05
woman having no work husbands every day. Oh all right, man, let's
44:10
go ahead. Final thoughts. Oh, okay, we're here so fast.
44:16
Final thoughts. I don't really have any shout out to the film. Keep
44:20
running it up. I love y'all. Shout out to the big nasty girls.
44:22
I heard y'all slid in tones d ms. Keep running it up.
44:28
Yes, just going there and put fat, hashtag fine and fluffy in his
44:30
his DM. Just go ahead. M hm, that's what that's wild?
44:36
Yeah, that is hilarious. All right, exact book. Final thoughts Uh.
44:45
Final thought is man, continue to support us. We love y'all.
44:47
We do, we really do. And shout out the earl earls, earl
44:59
riding. Yeah, writer, what happened to him, our videographer? Why
45:05
we shouting him out? I don't know, man, he just been fresh
45:07
lately, you know what I'm saying. Look how clean he be coming in
45:09
here. We think about it. I ain't never seen nobody come in here
45:13
and shoot. Yes, yes, he'd be here clear, got the a's
45:17
all today. I see your boy. He got like big Sean swag today.
45:24
Yes, he's shooting blogs. I come in here, the camera on
45:29
body camp, not a police officer body camp, his own body camp.
45:31
Oh well he shoots blogging, he's blogging. Yeah, I'll check out writer
45:36
blog. I don't know what he's gonna do with this damn blog, but
45:38
I know I'm with that right out with it all right, thoughts. I
45:45
appreciate y'all again. Shout to the big and nasty girls. Uh also shout
45:51
out everybody that was following me while I was at All Star. That was
45:54
pretty cool. My numbers was up. I was looking, so I know
45:57
it was a lot of the potfam. Uh appreciate y'all and the next part
46:01
I'll have more energy. Sorry about that little feeling a little under the weather.
46:06
I ate a lot of cheese. Some of my ears a superclog.
46:07
I gotta go now, I gotta go to the doctor. It's bad.
46:12
It's bad. It's how we gonna end. And you know you're not supposed
46:15
to each e you know, you know you're not supposed to eat. You
46:19
ate an all star O. We did a I had a waffle house.
46:24
Let me ask you this to can you like whatever medicine they give you at
46:28
the hospital, can you just keep it on you so when you know you
46:31
so what happens? They it's the ear nos of throat. Doctor's nasty because
46:37
of a major ear wax build up. And it's nasty. I never heard
46:44
of it. They go inside my ears, so nasty. Dog, it's
46:47
so nasty. And it's from the dairy. That's crazy. I have never
46:52
heard I mean, I've never heard of that. Yeah, it just builds
46:55
up, and it just builds up, and it just like that's just one
46:59
of the one of the things that it does. So I can't really hear
47:01
anything. I felt like that, Remember, I was like, well,
47:05
is he okay? Yeah, I had a whole conversation about you before we
47:08
started, and I don't think you heard anything I said. No, I
47:12
didn't. It's dangerous, it's crazy. All right, let's go ahead and
47:16
do it. You know, I know what it is. What boy,
47:17
can I say