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Is it an insult or a compliment to assume someone did surgery for their glow up?? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang wake up and the club.
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  Speaker 2: On nine four seven.
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  Speaker 1: Friends.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you know, as this was happening to me, I
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  Speaker 3: didn't know whether to.
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  Speaker 1: To celebrate or to be a little bit insulted. This
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  Speaker 1: is why I'm bringing.
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  Speaker 3: This this story to you, Johannesburg, and you will tell
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  Speaker 3: me exactly what was happening in this moment.
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  Speaker 1: So, doing my makeup for the Loto.
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  Speaker 3: I do the lotter on Wednesday nights and Saturday nightst
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  Speaker 3: So doing the.
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  Speaker 1: Lotter and then there's a new makeup artist, so walk in, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: how are you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm an La and then she introduces herself like we
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  Speaker 3: kind of hit it off, and that's like, that's saying
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  Speaker 3: a lot because I usually like, I'm very quiet when
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing makeup as well because I'm in my head
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  Speaker 3: right right. So and then in five minutes of doing
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  Speaker 3: my into doing.
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  Speaker 2: My so she's friendly. You guys are going along, friendly.
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  Speaker 1: Good energy.
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  Speaker 2: You're meeting for the first time.
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  Speaker 3: First time every first time ever. And then she was like,
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  Speaker 3: sis can I ask you something? So like my eyes
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  Speaker 3: opened up immediately because I'm like, oh girl, we are
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  Speaker 3: ten minutes old you and I let's not be asking
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  Speaker 3: must not be asking anything, but I'm just like, you
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  Speaker 3: know what, the first five minutes were really good with
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  Speaker 3: this lady, so tell you what you can ask me.
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  Speaker 3: So she's like, ah, I'm gonna go. I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: do gastric bypass. Okay, gastric bypasses. That's surgery where you
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  Speaker 3: cut your tummy so that you can lose weight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they make it smaller and make it smaller.
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  Speaker 3: So I think either they take out your smaller test
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  Speaker 3: or your bigger test, and either way, you.
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  Speaker 1: Have listen for food to go through, so you eat
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  Speaker 1: and it's gone.
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  Speaker 4: But it's sort of like the point is that it's
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  Speaker 4: sort of a forced way because you feel full very fast, right,
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  Speaker 4: so it's a forced way for you to stop eating more.
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  Speaker 2: So I presume she's a bigger girl.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, she is a bigger girl.
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  Speaker 3: And then she says, yeah, I'm going to do this
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  Speaker 3: gastric bypass. So I'm like, oh, okay, what are you
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  Speaker 3: doing it? No, No, I'm going to turn And I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I heard that those doctors are at the base, So
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  Speaker 3: I just so. Then her question, so I just want
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  Speaker 3: to know is it safe should I do it?
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  Speaker 1: Or you know, how was your operation.
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  Speaker 2: How was how was your how was your castic bypass?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what she's asking you?
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  Speaker 3: What was your immediate reaction?
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  Speaker 1: Did you giggle like you giggling now? Or were you No?
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  Speaker 3: I was firstly that that is a full story.
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  Speaker 2: We don't know.
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  Speaker 3: So I was just like, Okay, maybe I didn't hear right,
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  Speaker 3: because there's somebody who could just be asking your opinion
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  Speaker 3: as per.
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  Speaker 2: What you know about what you think about it.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm like, no, I get the feeling she was
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  Speaker 3: asking me like, how did my gastric bypass go? Which
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  Speaker 3: would be an issue because I've never had gastric bypass, but.
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  Speaker 1: Now so many things go in my head. Am I
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  Speaker 1: looking that good?
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  Speaker 5: That?
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  Speaker 3: Could I've lost that much weight that people are going
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  Speaker 3: around saying that I had gastric bypass?
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  Speaker 4: So she obviously assumed that you must have had some procedures. Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: because you've lost a lot of whight. Yes, Like, so
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  Speaker 4: did you clarify then? Is that what she was asking
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  Speaker 4: She wasn't asking your opinion on the surgery.
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  Speaker 3: She's just asking No, I continue this conversation, and the
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  Speaker 3: more I continue the conversation because now I want to
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  Speaker 3: extract information out of you, do you know to get
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  Speaker 3: to a point where I understand what you are saying.
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  Speaker 2: That you got me curious.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's like, hey, I'm locked into here.
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  Speaker 3: And really, the more we talk, the more she keeps
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  Speaker 3: on referring to how my operation went and how my
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  Speaker 3: gastric pipass. Then I was like, oh, okay. Then she's like,
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  Speaker 3: where did you do yours? And I was like, Cissy,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have gastric bypass because I like my food.
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  Speaker 3: What I can tell you is that my aunt had
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  Speaker 3: the surgery and she can only eat three grapes before
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  Speaker 3: she's full.
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  Speaker 2: Right, So then.
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  Speaker 3: Then we started there and then she was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: why did I think you had gastric bypass.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, I don't know, but I don't know
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  Speaker 1: whether to be insulted.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yes, yes, I always say when once I've lost
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  Speaker 5: the weight, I want to be so skinny that it
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  Speaker 5: starts rumors about my house. You don't wonder is he ill?
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  Speaker 5: Should we be monitoring him?
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  Speaker 1: Is he on daily on daily supplement?
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  Speaker 6: Yes?
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  Speaker 5: I think it's a compliment. And she says to you,
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  Speaker 5: I mean money well spent. That's what this lady was
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  Speaker 5: saying to you. That listen, whoever chopped you up, They
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  Speaker 5: did you go.
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  Speaker 2: You are a success story.
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  Speaker 3: Guys, I am a weight loss success story. They should
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  Speaker 3: put me before and after for herble life or something
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  Speaker 3: like that.
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  Speaker 2: They've been using online. Don't worry. Don't you sell gummies online?
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  Speaker 7: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that theory.
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  Speaker 3: I am selling weight loss gummise. Oh one one eight
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  Speaker 3: eight thirty eight ninety four seven. There's a lady that
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  Speaker 3: thoughts that assumed that I did gastric bypass and that's
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  Speaker 3: how I lost the weight.
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  Speaker 1: I'll ask you.
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  Speaker 3: Now, is that a compliment or should I be insulted?
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  Speaker 2: Would you feel it's a compliment to you? I would,
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  Speaker 2: I would love it.
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  Speaker 1: I would feel like that's a compliment. So it's compliments
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  Speaker 1: all around in here.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's an insult. Yes, because I'll tell you why.
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  Speaker 4: Because in her mind she feels that surgery is the
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  Speaker 4: only way you could have done.
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  Speaker 3: This, which is of which there is nothing wrong with that.
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  Speaker 1: No, you got the surgery way. Piece thumbs up.
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  Speaker 3: You've got the money, you've got the time to recover.
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  Speaker 3: And also the thing is I had a little bit
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  Speaker 3: too much information, like I knew exactly and I was
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  Speaker 3: like no. At the hospital in Turkey, they might tell
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  Speaker 3: them that there's a there's an aftercare house, tell them
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  Speaker 3: that you want to.
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  Speaker 1: Stay there for two weeks.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what you did?
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  Speaker 7: Right?
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  Speaker 5: She got her said shame bless and there was a
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  Speaker 5: little too embarrassed to say so. Her aunt had the procedure.
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  Speaker 5: But here's what I got from her experience. There's a
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  Speaker 5: house where you go to rest and recouver it.
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  Speaker 3: And that's where you need to rest and recover it.
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  Speaker 3: Because I said, don't move to another hotel where you
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  Speaker 3: buy yourself, because then if you need painkillers, what happens.
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  Speaker 3: Trust me, stay at the aftercare place.
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  Speaker 1: Just pay extra.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sure they'll charge you extra, and that's where you stay.
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  Speaker 1: So now to this point, she's under thinking, oh yes, she.
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  Speaker 2: Was too embarrassed to admit the truth.
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  Speaker 1: And it's fine.
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  Speaker 3: These famous people hate the media. It really does treat
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  Speaker 3: them differently when they found out that they've had some
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  Speaker 3: self geray, oh one one eight thirty eight nine four seven.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody assumed that I'd had gastric bypass.
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  Speaker 1: Should I be complimented?
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  Speaker 3: Should I feel complimented or should I feel insulted? And
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  Speaker 3: how would you feel if somebody was like, oh my word.
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  Speaker 1: You look great, when did you have your boop job?
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  Speaker 3: You know, oh, if you've been if you've been doing
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  Speaker 3: squats in the gym and somebody's like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: My word, when did you have your bb ol?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Where does it land on you? How does it make
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  Speaker 3: you feel?
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  Speaker 2: I would be insulted. I would.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I was initially, and then in I
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  Speaker 3: was like what, I'm like, what insults me about this?
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  Speaker 3: Let me just help this go out and give you
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  Speaker 3: the information. But then and I was when I was
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  Speaker 3: driving home, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like a man as actually a complimenting?
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  Speaker 1: No what ye?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm in two minds. Help me decide
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  Speaker 3: which mine should I go with.
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  Speaker 1: I think that the compliment.
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  Speaker 5: Honestly, it should.
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  Speaker 8: Actually be proud that somebody looks at you and thinks
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  Speaker 8: you had surgery. It's like guys that go to the
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  Speaker 8: gym and they train naturally and when you look at
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  Speaker 8: them and you're like, nah, these guys definitely a steroids.
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  Speaker 3: So I would also take it a little bit as
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  Speaker 3: an insult because I have a family member who did that,
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  Speaker 3: and now, because she's skinny, she has lots of opinions
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  Speaker 3: about my body.
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  Speaker 9: So in mind.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, you used the cheat code to get them? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I would fell as if it's intrusive, like I'd be
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  Speaker 3: like what, No, I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't rate it as a compliment. But guys,
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  Speaker 1: is it a cheat code? Though?
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  Speaker 3: If you did gastric Bypaths to lose weight because you
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  Speaker 3: it's one hundred thousand rand either way, you work somewhere,
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  Speaker 3: you work to get that money and then you're going
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  Speaker 3: to do that surgery. Is it a cheat code?
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  Speaker 5: There's also nothing wrong with the cheat code, guys. We
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  Speaker 5: don't all have to do things the same way. That's
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  Speaker 5: the thing, because you know it's the cheat code. If
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  Speaker 5: you could, you'd also do it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, there's there's there's no like glory in the suffering.
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  Speaker 5: It's not an illegal thing like when even goes, oh
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  Speaker 5: what you got you got surgery? Oh you took one
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  Speaker 5: of the g LP whatever. Well, yes, you can do
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  Speaker 5: it as well.
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  Speaker 2: Just go to the doctor get it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't need a visit to do it.
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  Speaker 3: Just go, Cheryl, just go Errol, You and Edenville, what
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  Speaker 3: do you think insult or compliments?
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  Speaker 7: I think it's a compliment. I mean, my wife flushed
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  Speaker 7: forty cages in a year, hard work in the gym,
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  Speaker 7: and everyone's like, you're amazing, what did you do? And
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  Speaker 7: she's like, I hate right, training hard. I'm consistent, and
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  Speaker 7: that's that's and that's that on thatment.
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  Speaker 4: And and if I mean you, you know your wife
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  Speaker 4: very well, Errol. If someone had to say to her
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  Speaker 4: she had surgery, where did she have it? She would
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  Speaker 4: see it as a compliment.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, because she's looking at a lot of weight and
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  Speaker 7: she's loving it. People are noticing.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, and whilst we hear, how are you feeling about
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  Speaker 3: this weight loss, Errol?
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  Speaker 1: You got your brand new bird? Hey, hey, hey, I don't.
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  Speaker 7: Mind she it looks perfect to me.
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  Speaker 3: Oh where do we find more of you?
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  Speaker 7: The internet.
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  Speaker 3: And the club.
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  Speaker 10: I definitely think that was a good compliment. So Ever
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  Speaker 10: since I had my baby, I've been losing so so
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  Speaker 10: much weight and everyone thinks I'm on a glp II.
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  Speaker 10: And if they want to take it that way, oh,
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  Speaker 10: then they should losing weight in any form, whether it's natural,
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  Speaker 10: whether it's surgery, whether you got sick or you got depressed.
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  Speaker 3: Honey, it has an achievement. This losing weight is the
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  Speaker 3: most perfect thing that we are facing.
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  Speaker 2: And literally started award.
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  Speaker 5: My my wife is so advert that you went for
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  Speaker 5: the procedures, like she just worked out, Like there's no way.
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  Speaker 2: You're saying that it's not true.
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  Speaker 3: So evidently then evident this is the thing that's going
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  Speaker 3: around that guys, gastric biper surgery. I wouldn't be able
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  Speaker 3: to go pizza tasting like we did.
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  Speaker 1: And you can't eat three pizzas in one day. No,
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  Speaker 1: you can't.
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  Speaker 3: Literally, I'm telling you, guys, my aunt went on that thing.
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  Speaker 3: When we have burgers, she removes everything and she just
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  Speaker 3: has the petty and even then she can only eat
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  Speaker 3: half the petty.
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  Speaker 1: You eat half and you fall. I think you eat regularly,
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  Speaker 1: but when it's it's.
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  Speaker 3: Literally in intervals, but you can only eat two nuts,
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  Speaker 3: three grapes and half a nachi and then you're like
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  Speaker 3: I'm full.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Look, it's a very intrusive surgery that I mean, obviously
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  Speaker 4: it's a serious thing. When they when they snip off
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  Speaker 4: your stammered, it's a lot, it's but this is the
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  Speaker 4: this is the question. Are you insulted by this or
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  Speaker 4: are you complimented? You know what you said it earlier,
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  Speaker 4: like it doesn't matter if the cheat code or whatever
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  Speaker 4: you've used to get there, The point is that there's
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  Speaker 4: still discipline involved. Yeah, some of it's more suffering. Yeah
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  Speaker 4: so And if someone had to say that to me,
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  Speaker 4: I'd be like, Oh, this is all the hours in
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  Speaker 4: the gem I spent in all the do you know?
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  Speaker 3: Gastric bipass surgery is definitely not the cheat code. The
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  Speaker 3: amount of discipline you have to apply to your life
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  Speaker 3: afterwards is insane. There are certain food you will never
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  Speaker 3: eat again. What I mean, I cannot sign up for that.
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  Speaker 3: I cannot sign.
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  Speaker 2: The categorically state for that fight in the car.
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  Speaker 3: You did not I did not have gasping bibars surgery.
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  Speaker 1: Candace, you didn't be known you.
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  Speaker 3: Is it a compliment?
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  Speaker 1: Should I feel insulted?
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  Speaker 9: Good morning in Rena? You should be absolutely so complimented.
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  Speaker 1: Really tell me why?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 9: So see, I've also lost a substantial amount of white
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  Speaker 9: mm hmm. And the one day in the office, a
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  Speaker 9: lady walked up to me and she looked at me
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  Speaker 9: up and down and discussed and said, Candice, you should.
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  Speaker 6: Eat a burger.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, And I had the biggest smell on my face
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  Speaker 9: and I said.
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  Speaker 3: That's what state is like. He just wants people to
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  Speaker 3: beg him to eat black. Please have something, just have something,
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  Speaker 3: have something.
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  Speaker 1: I wont say to me. I want to say it.
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  Speaker 3: I want to say to Tempigillia and send you that
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  Speaker 3: I want to be sotain that like I can catch
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  Speaker 3: rain with my with my collar bone.
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  Speaker 9: You know the crackiness flow like woods.
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  Speaker 6: You're cracking the flow woods.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, Candice, you're convincing me that I should be complimented.
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  Speaker 3: Here sunny Ceilin sent and wrap it up for us.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think?
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  Speaker 6: Good money? And thank you so much as my step
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  Speaker 6: time on the radio.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome you like that a lot out of the woodword
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  Speaker 3: you come.
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  Speaker 6: I'm forty four years old, I mean swenteen. I had
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  Speaker 6: my first sager it's called Mammy make Over in the
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  Speaker 6: public hospital in twenty twenty one. It went well, and
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  Speaker 6: then last year tourbe I went to take it to
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  Speaker 6: six there and there, and then I went again in December.
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  Speaker 6: I took my sister for BBL. So I don't think
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  Speaker 6: it matters because we have different bodies. For example, I
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  Speaker 6: have two babies. My summy was taking so I had
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  Speaker 6: to cut it off. But the experience for me was good.
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  Speaker 6: There was no special hotel or room or extra k
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  Speaker 6: from the medical team. It was successful and I can
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  Speaker 6: do it again because when you lose weight or when
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  Speaker 6: you cut off that little extrasin, it feels good.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. But now you you said you did your mummy makeover.
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  Speaker 1: That's like a three sixty eight.
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  Speaker 3: They do tummy, they do boobs and they do yeah
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  Speaker 3: yeah okay. But you said you did it in a
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  Speaker 3: public hospital. Did you have to pay for that?
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  Speaker 6: Yes? Okay? One they do.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay. And then you went to Turkey twice.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I went to Yeah in October twenty five. I
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  Speaker 6: went to Turkey to redo because they do it better
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  Speaker 6: and good.
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  Speaker 1: And you look good right now banging.
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  Speaker 6: I'm twenty four and I look during the five. Wow, girl,
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  Speaker 6: I will do it again. It's just that for Gatwick Pipers,
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  Speaker 6: they it's a it'sific weight. That's why I didn't do it,
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  Speaker 6: but I could do.
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  Speaker 3: It, okay. And then when you fly back on the flight,
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  Speaker 3: is it are.
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  Speaker 1: You not like in pain?
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  Speaker 3: Because I feel like if I have a headache and
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  Speaker 3: I take a.
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  Speaker 1: Flight, it's it's it's unpleasant.
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  Speaker 3: But now if you've just had surgery and you fly
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  Speaker 3: back from Turkey.
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  Speaker 6: How is it The pain is bearable. You can go
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  Speaker 6: at the back and exercise it bearable. That's why I
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  Speaker 6: went in October and I went again in December. It's manageable.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: No, No, what you're saying is the pain is worth
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  Speaker 3: it when you look hot, when you can wear the
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  Speaker 3: clothes that you want, and when you can post and
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  Speaker 3: look flat.
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  Speaker 1: Because it's not unbearable, it's worth it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Well there you go, yeah, and look like each to.
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  Speaker 1: Their Oh yeah, if everyone chooses.
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  Speaker 3: The pat Sometimes the pain is waking up at four
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  Speaker 3: in the morning to go run and do squads, and
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  Speaker 3: sometimes the pain is being in pain for ten weeks
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  Speaker 3: whiles you recover.
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  Speaker 4: But your question started at the beginning of this hour
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  Speaker 4: with is it a compliment or not?
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: I think everyone agrees what a compliment? What a compliments?
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: Back to making your morning and La and the Club
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: on nine four seven