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Parasocial Relationships + Dating In & Outs · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: Incredible news every time for real.
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  Speaker 2: Or a fake headlines? Refreshing news with the Billy and
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  Speaker 2: Lisa on Kids one.
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  Speaker 3: Away really fake headlines? Here can you spot the fake headlines?
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  Speaker 3: First one Billy and Lisa. The headline reads, giraffe named
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  Speaker 3: Gracie goes missing for nearly two weeks.
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  Speaker 2: I think I saw this story.
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  Speaker 3: Sound like, Bill, did you see it?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, but I think maybe I did, or
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  Speaker 4: maybe it was a dream. But I think it's real.
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  Speaker 3: So do I you a great Bill? Yes? It's always
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  Speaker 3: a good idea to go with, Lisa. A three year
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  Speaker 3: old giraffe named Gracie has been missing for nearly two
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  Speaker 3: weeks after escaping her enclosure. This is at a ranch
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  Speaker 3: in Texas Hill Country, roughly one hundred miles west of
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  Speaker 3: San Antonio. They gotta find Gracy, Buddy, Texas.
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  Speaker 5: Authorities in south central Texas are looking for a missing giraffe,
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  Speaker 5: and it's not missing from the zoo. The Real County
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  Speaker 5: Sheriff's office says the young draft named escaped from a
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  Speaker 5: ranch about two hours from San Antonio. Gracie has been
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  Speaker 5: spotted on multiple game cameras at different ranches, but by
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  Speaker 5: the time someone went out to look for her.
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  Speaker 3: Well, there was nowhere to be found.
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  Speaker 5: And although there are circulating rumors online that Grazie has
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  Speaker 5: been found, the Sheriff's office as that Gracie.
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  Speaker 6: Is still missing.
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  Speaker 5: Her owner is offering a five thousand dollars reward for information.
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  Speaker 2: How can they have a giraffe as a pet.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know the laws down there in Texas, but
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't sound like the owners in trouble for having
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  Speaker 3: the giraffe.
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  Speaker 7: Right, Gracie escaped because she didn't want to be in
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  Speaker 7: an enclosure.
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  Speaker 3: I know, Okay, I know you wouldn't like this story. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: So the helicopters have searched nearly seventy five hundred acres
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  Speaker 3: and have yielded no results. And like the person just said,
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  Speaker 3: a five thousand dollars reward.
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  Speaker 6: And Gracie's probably living her best of life.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I know. And it's sad. I get sad when
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  Speaker 3: I go to zoo's. I like the zoo. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 3: look you just kind of get sad.
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  Speaker 2: I gets really sad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, not get me start. Don't get me started on
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  Speaker 3: SeaWorld either. I have a named after me, Billy Billy
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  Speaker 3: the giraffe.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, Billy the giraffe is tall and thin, as tall
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  Speaker 7: as a house.
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  Speaker 3: From Toes to Gin. My son Billy is roaming free.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah he's not in an inclosed Yeah. Shout out to
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  Speaker 3: Billy the draft there. Next headline here man arrested for
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  Speaker 3: selling robot lawnmowers that were just to wind up toy
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  Speaker 3: with scissors taped to them.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna go fake on this. I'm going fake on
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  Speaker 6: the fake landscaper over there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, give you yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So my wife says to me, like a month ago, Hey,
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  Speaker 3: for Father's Day, what would you think about one of
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  Speaker 3: those robot lawnmowers that they have? You just set it
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  Speaker 3: and forget it. And I said, why would you insult
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  Speaker 3: me like that? Come my own grass? All right? My
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  Speaker 3: lines are straight. I don't need the robot.
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  Speaker 6: Do you have a sit on?
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  Speaker 3: Drive on? I have a John Deere.
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  Speaker 6: There you go.
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  Speaker 2: I love that for you. That's so cool.
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  Speaker 6: You're sitting there all proud. Okay, look at me, everybody,
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  Speaker 6: I'm coming long way. I got my own John Deere. Now, okay,
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  Speaker 6: how you doing?
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  Speaker 3: Yesterday I was cutting the grass. My friend came over
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  Speaker 3: and he's just looking at me on the on the
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  Speaker 3: moor and he's like, look at you. Yeah I do.
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  Speaker 3: I like. I like looking at the grass when I'm done.
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  Speaker 6: You can't live in New Hampshire without a John Deere.
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  Speaker 3: No, you can't, No at all. You don't belong all right,
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  Speaker 3: next headline here, the headline reads bar owner fights proposed
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  Speaker 3: thirty minute drink rule. You just get the headline.
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  Speaker 2: That's all, is real.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll you're both going real, just a gut feeling,
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  Speaker 3: that feeling. All right. This is local, buddy, and your
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  Speaker 3: your hometown, Billy Costa, Cambridge, Massachusetts. There's a bar that's
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  Speaker 3: thinking about they're limiting. They're thinking about limiting bars and
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  Speaker 3: restaurants to serving gets one drink per thirty minutes.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: So that would mean the tables wouldn't need egg timers
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  Speaker 3: or hourglasses to enforce it.
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  Speaker 2: God, that's too much.
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  Speaker 6: Too much work.
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  Speaker 2: That's too much work.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh god.
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  Speaker 6: I don't usually drink more than one drink per thirty minutes.
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  Speaker 8: But I really don't like when people will tell me
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  Speaker 8: what to do, so I'm not a huge of that rule.
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  Speaker 6: I think it sounds like a strange rule. Little back
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  Speaker 6: in Obad you have people get too much.
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  Speaker 3: That's when you have to stop just from out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 3: And honestly, I haven't read the.
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  Speaker 9: Bill, but I know the base is off it and
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  Speaker 9: it sounds a bit crazy, and I don't know how
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  Speaker 9: you could implement it.
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  Speaker 6: But how could you place every person in.
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  Speaker 3: The in the bar. It's just impossible.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it sound the Tartan army wouldn't like that.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, man, no no, But you know, I
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  Speaker 3: do get it. You know, sometimes people drink too much.
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  Speaker 3: Things happen.
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  Speaker 6: There are other ways.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, people get wasted, you know, Bill.
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  Speaker 6: I'm sorry, that's just who I am. I just really can't.
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  Speaker 3: That's literally a half a drink he gets like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's crazy. God. Yeah. One and he's loopy.
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  Speaker 2: And we're back with a Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: Do you know what a parasocial relationship is? Well, we'll
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  Speaker 3: tell you what up everybody, it's to Billy and Lisa's show,
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  Speaker 3: Welcome back, and yeah. A parasocial relationship is a one
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  Speaker 3: sided emotional relationship, usually with a celebrity and artist and athlete,
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  Speaker 3: where you know who they are, you love them, but
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  Speaker 3: they have no freaking idea who you are. This is
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  Speaker 3: a good conversation it's go to the.
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  Speaker 2: Talkbacks morning guy, especially Billy.
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  Speaker 6: Listen, I'm over the moon this morning.
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  Speaker 10: It's National Manday, and I just found out how to
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  Speaker 10: define my relationship with you, Billy.
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  Speaker 2: I guess we're in a parasocial situationship.
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  Speaker 6: He oh, I'm feeling it. Yeah, I'm feeling it.
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  Speaker 3: Let's go to Kim and Walpole on line one.
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  Speaker 6: Thank Kim. Parasocial relationship have one.
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  Speaker 11: Hi, I was gonna say the same thing. My friends
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  Speaker 11: and I genuinely feel like we're friends with you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys.
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  Speaker 11: We text about you, we talk about you. And then
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  Speaker 11: I finally got to meet Billy at Lisa's book club
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  Speaker 11: and you know, I introduced myself. We took a picture.
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  Speaker 11: Then your son came over and you were so sweet.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, oh, this is my friend, Kim cup Meeter.
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  Speaker 2: It is adorable.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I think a lot of it is the nature of
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  Speaker 7: this Shilly Lisa Morning Show. I mean, all of us
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  Speaker 7: were very open about everything in our lives and people,
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  Speaker 7: I mean they know our children's names, they know our dogs' names, they.
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  Speaker 2: Know and the kids were born. Yes, we're on the air.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. And that's not that's not a negative thing. No,
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  Speaker 3: not at all, Not at all.
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  Speaker 6: It's a good connection. I'm feeling pretty good right now.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm feeling pretty good too.
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  Speaker 11: For any of my original one directioners out there, I
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  Speaker 11: just think we remember being in college and the day
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  Speaker 11: that I found out that Sane was leaving, I cried
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  Speaker 11: on my way to class. I was so heartbroken.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, indeed, you feel such a connection.
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  Speaker 6: I just thought of another one.
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  Speaker 7: I always always always thought Justin Timberlake was such a superstar.
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  Speaker 6: Do you remember when the story broke last when he
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  Speaker 6: was on the balcony? Yes, and I think New Orleans.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. They said he was having an.
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  Speaker 6: Affair, and I was like, oh, I hope this is
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  Speaker 6: the end of Justin timber.
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  Speaker 3: That's sad, Captain Mike.
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  Speaker 8: I must admit I never heard a parasocial before in
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  Speaker 8: my life, but I believe I'm developing a parasocial relationship
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  Speaker 8: with the Princess of Protocol, the lovely Lisa Donovan from Milton, Massachusetts.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, are you feeling at least? I didn't think this
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  Speaker 6: was going to be about us.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's not.
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  Speaker 12: I have a parasocial relationship with my best friend Dolly Pardon.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 6: I can see that people adore her.
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  Speaker 3: You can see that too.
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  Speaker 7: I've definitely had a parasocial, really relationship with John Gotti.
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  Speaker 3: Rest in peace. They don't make men like that anymore. Nowadays.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone's a snowflake. They melt under pressure. Okay, that came
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  Speaker 3: out of left field. John Gotti, Yeah, oh my god.
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  Speaker 3: Remember you know that John Gotti once wore a Raiders jacket,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and so there's a picture of him wearing it,
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  Speaker 3: and I think the former owner of the Raiders or
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  Speaker 3: the current owner has it framed in the office of
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  Speaker 3: wearing the Raiders jacket.
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  Speaker 7: And you can if you think back to the days
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  Speaker 7: when the Sopranos were huge, I bet a lot of
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  Speaker 7: people had James Gandolfini Tony.
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  Speaker 3: Sopranos, including your son Alex.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, my son Alex has watched the entirety of The Sopranos.
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  Speaker 7: That's multiple seasons, probably eight or nine times. Yeah, start
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  Speaker 7: to finish. He's a bigger fan than I am. I
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  Speaker 7: thought I was a big fan. Yeah, bigger.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm in a parasocial relationship with the
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  Speaker 4: characters in every show that I binge watch or every
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  Speaker 4: book that I read.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's weird because they're not real people.
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  Speaker 6: It's true.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, maybe this should have been the word of
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  Speaker 3: the year.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm thinking that it was a negative thing,
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  Speaker 3: which it can be. Obviously it could turn into something negative, but.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like an obsession.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you just that's what That's what music and TV
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  Speaker 3: and what we're supposed to do is evoke emotion and
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  Speaker 3: connection and connection.
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  Speaker 10: Definitely.
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  Speaker 12: Karen Reid would probably be a local parasocial for a
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  Speaker 12: lot of people. I was at an event last week
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  Speaker 12: and I heard she was there. I immediately searched the
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  Speaker 12: room so that I could get an opportunity to just
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  Speaker 12: walk up to her and kind to try to have
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  Speaker 12: a normal conversation with her.
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  Speaker 2: That's a very that's a really good one.
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  Speaker 6: I think we all had parasocial relationships to Karen.
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  Speaker 4: I also think Mel Robbins probably has a lot of
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  Speaker 4: people that have a parasocial.
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  Speaker 3: Relationship with her, right, yep, absolutely absolutely, because Mel think
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  Speaker 3: about what she talks about, she connects with people. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but Karen Reid, it was the pink people.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, it was massive crowds of pink polarizing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeahah, all parasocial. Let's go to Kristen and have line one.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, Christen, parasocial, you got one?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah. So I am someone who's active in online communities,
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  Speaker 10: and I've noticed, like with streamers like someone like zal
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  Speaker 10: Kerrey or excuc people will come to their defense on
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  Speaker 10: arguments that they're not even a part of yep, and
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  Speaker 10: so I feel like that's uncomfortable for them. I've definitely
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  Speaker 10: seen some streamers talk about how they're uncomfortable with the
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  Speaker 10: facts that some people will be parasocial on their behalf.
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  Speaker 6: That's a good one too, any others or just that one.
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  Speaker 10: I just think in general, just anything on the internet
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  Speaker 10: when people come to the defense of someone else when
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  Speaker 10: they're not even responding to the argument.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's a good example.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, yeah, that's a negative one.
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  Speaker 6: But the trolls I think are opposite of parasocial.
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  Speaker 11: Well, then I guess you could say I'm feeling parasocial
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  Speaker 11: about Whitney Levitt leaving Dancing with the Stars, like not, Okay,
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  Speaker 11: I feel personally victimized.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think any of us watch Dancing with
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  Speaker 3: the Stars, but I believe.
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  Speaker 6: Producer I do.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, Okay, actually I have been watching of the Stars.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't watch it last night, so that was a
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  Speaker 9: major spoiler. But she's one of the secret lives of
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  Speaker 9: Mormon Wives girls. There was two on this season. Now
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  Speaker 9: they are both gone, and she was actually a really
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  Speaker 9: good dancer, so I'm surprised that she got eliminated. But
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  Speaker 9: people are very polarized by her because she's kind of
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  Speaker 9: annoying to people. So spoilers, but that's okay. I can
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  Speaker 9: understand where that's coming from. Because a social media slash
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  Speaker 9: reality star, I feel like those people fall into that
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  Speaker 9: category of people getting obsessed with them.
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  Speaker 6: Is the Alligator kids still in it?
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  Speaker 9: Yes, Robert, Yes, he's still there.
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  Speaker 2: When Yeah, he's really good. Yeah, people love him.
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  Speaker 7: The Irwin kids, both kids are doing something bindy bendy
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  Speaker 7: Irwin and yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay, well now you're going to walk the
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  Speaker 3: episode now.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm still going to keep up with I want
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  Speaker 9: to see Robert, and I like a couple other people laying,
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  Speaker 9: like a couple of people that I like.
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  Speaker 6: So I didn't picture you as a dancing with the
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  Speaker 6: stores person.
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  Speaker 9: I I, yeah, I don't know why i'd like into it,
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  Speaker 9: And I like judging people about stuff that I know
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  Speaker 9: nothing about.
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  Speaker 3: So right, and you're not a dancer right.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 6: I got no.
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  Speaker 1: Moods from the Planet Fitness Kiss one o eight Studios.
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  Speaker 2: We're back with Villy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: So on the Billion lidsa show we Love to Keep
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  Speaker 3: You update and all the things going on that's an entertainment, news,
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  Speaker 3: pop culture and also dating a lot of people still
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  Speaker 3: looking for love dating on the app. So you might
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  Speaker 3: ask yourself what's in and what's out for dating in
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  Speaker 3: twenty twenty six. Well, I'll let this girl sell it.
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  Speaker 1: Weekend dates are out? Will me be accepting dates on
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  Speaker 1: Tuesday to Thursday? Here, I'm going to do more bits
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  Speaker 1: on first dates and less oversharing.
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  Speaker 2: Oversharing is literally the number.
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  Speaker 1: One mistake that I've made in twenty twenty five, and
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  Speaker 1: I know I can do better.
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  Speaker 2: Ano they're out staying too long on a first date.
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  Speaker 1: Always find myself in the position on a first date
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  Speaker 1: where like I can't find my way out and going
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  Speaker 1: into every single date in twenty twenty six with a
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  Speaker 1: hard out in our drink states and out are walking
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  Speaker 1: slash coffee dates. So with a drink state, like you're
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  Speaker 1: sitting at a table, the waiter comes and they say, oh,
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  Speaker 1: do you want a second drink, you can always say no,
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  Speaker 1: I have to go home. Also, you go on a
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  Speaker 1: coffee date, the cafe is busy, you don't have a
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  Speaker 1: place to say, You're standing outside like it's it's so
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  Speaker 1: much easier to just do a drink.
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  Speaker 6: State.
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  Speaker 1: In is making out or having sex on the first
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  Speaker 1: date twenty twenty six. Out is unfortunately ugly boys on
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  Speaker 1: so many dates with the ugly boys. In twenty twenty five,
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  Speaker 1: Things is that boys are always going to screw you
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  Speaker 1: over something might as well be hot twenty twenty six.
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  Speaker 1: In is ghosting people after the first date. Don't need
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  Speaker 1: a paragraph explanation of like why you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: go out with me. I've been burned by this in
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  Speaker 1: the past. The first date you literally don't know the person.
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  Speaker 1: There's no first kiss or makeout suck, you can go stuff.
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  Speaker 6: I'm confused. So sex on the first date is yes,
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  Speaker 6: So no.
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  Speaker 3: That was an inn. Yeah that was an inn.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was definitely an in.
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  Speaker 6: Definitely sex on the first day.
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  Speaker 3: So at least you can run through these again maybe
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  Speaker 3: and I can.
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  Speaker 4: Tackle them to this I'm saying, Okay, she's saying out
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  Speaker 4: are coffee dates. Basically she's saying in or like meeting
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  Speaker 4: someone for drinks.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, the coffee kind of confused me. I thought coffee
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  Speaker 7: dates were good, Well, not really sure they were. We
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  Speaker 7: talked about that. Yeah, they were kind of popular for
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  Speaker 7: a while, coffee.
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  Speaker 6: Dates because it's not that much of a commitment.
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  Speaker 3: It's a lunch thing. Yeah, you know midday that are
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  Speaker 3: going on at night okay.
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  Speaker 4: Also, out is oversharing according to this woman, which I
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  Speaker 4: kind of agree with.
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  Speaker 6: And you never talk about like a nex or something.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no, just yeah, keep it close. She's also said
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  Speaker 4: that a heart out is sorry, an inn is ghosting
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  Speaker 4: after the first date. If you don't like the person,
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  Speaker 4: you don't and you don't have to send like a
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  Speaker 4: whole like paragraph on why you don't want to see
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  Speaker 4: them again.
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  Speaker 3: This is just after a first date. You meet them
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  Speaker 3: one time.
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  Speaker 4: Than right, She's like, you don't have to like get
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  Speaker 4: into why just it didn't work out?
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  Speaker 2: And then she said out are ugly boys.
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  Speaker 3: That was her.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I think she said those in the first date,
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  Speaker 7: it's fine and unless they're ugly, well our ugly boy
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  Speaker 7: were ugly boys and well less producer Riley is single.
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  Speaker 3: She's on the dating apps. Do you agree with this
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  Speaker 3: list or what.
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  Speaker 2: I actually agree with a lot of it.
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  Speaker 9: I think that I understood what she was saying about
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  Speaker 9: the coffee dates, like especially when she was like, if
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  Speaker 9: there's no if you're going to a busy coffee shop
• 15:17
  Speaker 9: and there's nowhere to sit, that's so awkward. Like if
• 15:21
  Speaker 9: you're going to a bar, there's most of the time
• 15:22
  Speaker 9: of place to sit. And then she was saying like,
• 15:24
  Speaker 9: then you have a heart out. If a waiter comes
• 15:26
  Speaker 9: over and they're like, you want another drink and you're
• 15:28
  Speaker 9: like not feeling it, you can be like, oh no,
• 15:29
  Speaker 9: I'm good, I gotta go. It's like easier than being
• 15:32
  Speaker 9: like at a coffee shop, you finish your drink, should
• 15:34
  Speaker 9: we still be sitting here?
• 15:35
  Speaker 6: What are we doing?
• 15:36
  Speaker 9: But the ugly boys thing? I agree, Why would you
• 15:39
  Speaker 9: waste your time on an ugly guy?
• 15:41
  Speaker 6: Well, it's a drink thing.
• 15:41
  Speaker 7: A second drink, though, could make the opponent a little
• 15:44
  Speaker 7: more attractive.
• 15:45
  Speaker 9: It, I mean, it could.
• 15:49
  Speaker 7: At least attractive enough just for that.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: I also agree with her on out weekend dates. I
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: think that meeting someone for the first time during the
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: week is actually a much better strategy. Yeah, because then
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: if you like them, then you can make a weekend
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: date for the second date exactly.
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, but what if you like work during the week
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: and weekends are your time where you can date, That
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: would make a weekend date more more sensible and more sensible. Right, yeah,
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: I work week I go out on the weekends. You know.
• 16:17
  Speaker 9: I think what she's saying is that you don't want
• 16:19
  Speaker 9: to waste your weekend, Like if the date is bad,
• 16:21
  Speaker 9: you're wasting your weekend. Like Chapelone said, never waste a
• 16:24
  Speaker 9: Friday night on a bad date.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Oh, and you don't know, you don't know what it's
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: going to be.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: A bad date exactly, So you go on a Tuesday
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: and then then you roll into Friday with some hope.
• 16:34
  Speaker 6: Chapel Roon said, Yeah, she has.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: A song of red Wine super Nova. She has a
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: lyric in that about it.
• 16:40
  Speaker 6: Okay, I agree with anything Chapel Roone says.
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: So I also have this list here of the ten
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: mistakes that people make with their dating profile. So I
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: was kind of going over these with producer Riley on
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: what she thought about them. Number one is using humor
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: as a shield, so trying to be funny. You know,
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: people like funny, That's what I'm that's what I think.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: But maybe if you you are not funny, but you're
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: trying to be funny, maybe.
• 17:05
  Speaker 9: Yeah, Like if you're not funny in person, then it's like,
• 17:08
  Speaker 9: well who is that guy?
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and you might think you're funnier than you really are.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: That's the thing, and then bomb most people do.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this one's interesting, this one. I think a Bill
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: with this one mentioning your pets are kids in a
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: way that dominates your personality, like talking about your dogs?
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: Are you talking about titis?
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: But you know, if you're on a first date, Bill
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: and you're like a.
• 17:32
  Speaker 7: Good boy, Yeah, no dog baby talk on a first date,
• 17:36
  Speaker 7: I think because you never know how they're going to
• 17:38
  Speaker 7: receive it.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Okay, So Riley, what if a guy has a picture
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: their profile picture as them and their pet.
• 17:44
  Speaker 9: Okay, so we were talking about this. If you're with
• 17:47
  Speaker 9: your pet, that's fine, but I hate when men have
• 17:51
  Speaker 9: just a picture of their pet, like you're only you
• 17:54
  Speaker 9: only have six options for a picture, and you're wasting
• 17:56
  Speaker 9: one on your dog. Yeah, your dog is cute, but
• 17:58
  Speaker 9: I don't care what your dog looks like. I care
• 18:00
  Speaker 9: what you look like exactly.
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: But some of these dating websites use that as a
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: way for people to connect. So if you're a dog
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: person and this person is a dog person, then that's
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: like a check in the right box.
• 18:10
  Speaker 6: But now, because a dog person can't be with a
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: non dog person, right, But.
• 18:14
  Speaker 9: Put a picture of the two of you, you and
• 18:15
  Speaker 9: your dog, just your dog.
• 18:17
  Speaker 6: Yeah, or just leave your dog out of it.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: It's a first date.
• 18:20
  Speaker 6: They have no right meeting your dog.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: That's true too. Okay, so the picture with you and
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: your pet, you and your dog, is not just the dog.
• 18:28
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what we.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Think, right, Okay. Also on this list using group images,
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: so meaning your picture is you and like six people. Yeah, oh,
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: like a wedding picture, any picture of you and your
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: friends instead of just you.
• 18:43
  Speaker 9: Well, we were saying, me and Katie were actually talking
• 18:45
  Speaker 9: about this because half the time it's a group picture
• 18:48
  Speaker 9: and you're like, that's the hot one, and it's never
• 18:50
  Speaker 9: that guy, it's always his friend. It's the ugliest guy
• 18:53
  Speaker 9: in the picture. That's who you're looking at.
• 18:55
  Speaker 7: That was the first thing I thought of, What if
• 18:56
  Speaker 7: it's somebody in the picture to say, oh, who's that right?
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's him or not exactly. You're
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: like your friend is hot?
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Is he single?
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: It's so.
• 19:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: I know this with the first day, and I don't
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: think it's working out. Who's the guy?
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well he's married, you know what I mean? I
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: do like that one. That one's interesting, all right, last one?
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: Long checklists. Oh those are a definite no no. So
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: when you have checklists in your bio, you know what
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: I mean? So about you, Yeah, it's very long with
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: things you're looking for. I'm looking for this and that.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: That is such a red flag. Yeah, because you're never
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: going to be all those check marks.
• 19:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly.
• 19:38
  Speaker 9: Well, can we go back real quick to the kissing
• 19:40
  Speaker 9: and sex on the first date, because I mean sex
• 19:43
  Speaker 9: is obviously like in the moment, if you want to
• 19:45
  Speaker 9: have sex with them, go ahead. I fully agree with
• 19:47
  Speaker 9: the kissing thing because I want on a date semi
• 19:49
  Speaker 9: recently with a guy and he was a bad kisser,
• 19:51
  Speaker 9: so I didn't go out with him again.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I have to say, I think kissing
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: on a first date is totally fine.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: It's a important.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: What was bad about there was too much tongue?
• 20:04
  Speaker 9: Yeah, like we were just there was it was right,
• 20:08
  Speaker 9: like we kissed it differently and it was like, I'm
• 20:10
  Speaker 9: not going to spend the time to make you a
• 20:12
  Speaker 9: good kisser to me, Like you might be a good kisser.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: To somebody else, but you're not for me.
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: You're a good kisser.
• 20:18
  Speaker 9: Maybe that's and that's fine.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: That's why we didn't go out again.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: You weren't compatible in that egg exactly what was he like?
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Too aggressive? Was he an aggressive kisser?
• 20:25
  Speaker 9: A lot of tongue And that's not to say that
• 20:27
  Speaker 9: that's not always good. It just wasn't working for me.
• 20:31
  Speaker 9: And I was like, I'm not going out with you again.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: Sorry, what you want to ease into it? There's your
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: little tongue before you just kiss without tongue. Well, it
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: depends on.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: How this was like, depends on a lot of facts.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: A lot.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: It's kiss and we're back with Billy and Lisa in
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: the Morning.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Welcome back to the show. Everybody, just in here, Billy
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Lisa wrapping things up on a Wednesday. I want to
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: remind you if you missed any of the show today,
• 21:01
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• 21:03
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• 21:06
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• 21:08
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• 21:11
  Speaker 3: don't you? But we get out of here at Lisa
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: a list in front of you of something well that
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: I love so much, right, fitness.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: Most fit and least fit cities. So thirty five factors
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: went into this list. Residents, activity levels, chronic disease rates,
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: to parks, air quality, transit and recreation access. So that's
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: what they sort of, you know, based it on. So
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Boston is on the top ten fittest cities.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: We made the top ten. So we are at number ten.
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: Oh so we just made it, just made it, okay,
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: But we're in okay. Other cities like the top five
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: or Denver was number five, Seattle was number four, Minneapolis
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: three d C. Was number two, and then Arlington, Virginia
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: was number one. And it's the second time it's been
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: number one.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Wait Arlington Virginia.
• 22:03
  Speaker 6: Yes, what are they doing? They got it.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: They have a lot of parks, they have a lot
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: of walking and biking trails, public transportation. Rates of obesity
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: and chronic disease are also measured, so they score the highest.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, don't sleep on walking. Walking is one of
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: the most important things. Oh yeah, if you just walk,
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: you'll see a help benefit.
• 22:21
  Speaker 6: Absolutely, and more and more people are walking.
• 22:23
  Speaker 7: We walk more than we jog now because we can
• 22:26
  Speaker 7: burn more more calories.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if you walk more of an incline.
• 22:29
  Speaker 6: They want, it's less stress on the knees.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. You know, well we may top ten. That's
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: pretty good. It's not bad. Yeah, that's pretty good.
• 22:38
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but I wonder what the scale of fitness is,
• 22:40
  Speaker 7: like what are they basing it, you know, like how
• 22:42
  Speaker 7: fit exactly?
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: Well, it's again, like Lisa said, it's like, you know,
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: the chronic diseases and access to recreational activities exactly. So
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: like Arlington must they have a lot of parks apparently
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: and outdoor things to do.
• 22:54
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I think we should be way higher than ten.
• 22:57
  Speaker 7: This is a fifth city. I don't care what they say.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: If you want to be fitter, you have to be
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: like Lenny Kravitz. Did you see that story? So okay, yeah, fitness.
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: He's on the cover of Men's Health. He works out
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: in the leather pants, no joke. There is a picture
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: of him with his trainer lifting.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: He's got some big dumb bell whatever that whatever you
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: call that.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: On a bench machine, you call that yeah, I didn't
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: see the picture. Oh my god, dumb bells are a barbell.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: It was a bar bell.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: And he's literally like in black leather pants and he
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: does it on purpose, he said, because if he can
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: fit into those pants, he knows he's okay.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: He's sixty two now.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: He says he's fitter now than he was when he
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: was fifty. He also fasts all day and doesn't eat
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: until four pm.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it. That's nothing new. People have been fasting
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: for centuries, but it's very popular now. A lot of
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: health benefits to fasting.
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: Well, he's got an eight pack, he does. That's sixty two.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: Look at the pictures now. So he has leather pants on.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: He's also working out with his sunglasses on normal.
• 23:57
  Speaker 6: So basically, however he or whatever he's wearing.
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: On stage, he's working out, and he works out and
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: sometimes he'll run in jeans.
• 24:07
  Speaker 6: Really kind of weird. Well, everybody's got a weird thing.
• 24:11
  Speaker 6: You have a lot of weird.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: Fitness is just you know, on the topic of you know,
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: weird gym things. Jim hacks things you might see in
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: the gym. Yeah, listen, I spent a lot of time
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: in the gym I've seen a lot of things. I'm
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: weird myself. Yeah, you know, I've done the whole tape
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: my mouth when I'm doing cardio to try to only
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: breathe through my nose.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Gym, you have your mouth taped.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: I've done it. I don't do it anymore. The first
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: I've heard of this run my mouth to sleep.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 24:35
  Speaker 7: My wife does too, and he wears the eye patches.
• 24:38
  Speaker 7: It's kind of creepy.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: You use it while you work out, while you're running
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: or doing cardio.
• 24:43
  Speaker 11: If you were next to me at the gym with
• 24:46
  Speaker 11: your mouth tap looks Honestly, I would look at you.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I've done that.
• 24:50
  Speaker 7: I've also lista would immediately pick up her phone and
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: call me.
• 24:54
  Speaker 6: I next to me on the treadmill and he's got
• 24:56
  Speaker 6: his mouth taped.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: This is why this is a judgment fore zone for
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I don't judge anybody in the gym because I'm weird myself.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: I've done the multiple layers of clothes, so a whole
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: sweatsuit with t shirts on while doing cardio. Yeah, burn
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: my short Yeah. I did have the sauna suit once,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: you know, the big inflatable suit that you wear you
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: got work. I don't know you sweat more doesn't really work.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: I'm not sure.
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: In hockey when I've played, like in prep school and everything,
• 25:21
  Speaker 7: a lot of the guys would show up after the summer.
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: They put on some weight.
• 25:24
  Speaker 7: Drinking beer and everything, and they wore a rubber suit
• 25:26
  Speaker 7: underneath their hockey gear.
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and would sweat for hours on the ice and
• 25:30
  Speaker 6: they get back.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I almost passed out because I took too
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: much pre workout. I've done that a couple of times.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: What's a pre work Workout's like a powder you put
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: into water, has caffeine other things in there to kind
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: of give you energy. But if you take too much
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: then it can be bad.
• 25:45
  Speaker 6: Do you wipe down the machines?
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: Absolutely?
• 25:47
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you have to.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: I mean that's an etiquette thing that's you have to
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: wipe it is.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: But I have a question for all of you.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: You know, they have the mats that you do stretching
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: on after you use the machines that you've wiped down.
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: I always noticed that not many people wipe the mat
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: down when they're done stretching, And if you think about it,
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: it's totally gross because you're already sweating and then you're
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: laying down on the mat, and then you get up
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: and you leave, and then somebody else comes in and
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: they're like, it's like, so, how many people actually wipe
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: down the mat?
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: You can? You can actually see the sweat outline of
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: their body.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: You can't.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: I've seen that before.
• 26:21
  Speaker 7: Even a better question, how many people wipe down the seat.
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: At a spin class when they're done?
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Well, you're supposed to.
• 26:29
  Speaker 6: I know you were supposed to. How many people do
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: you think too or just get up and go?
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Like the classes that I take that I take spin
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: classes and they have someone that comes in and wipes
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: them down, you have to worry about that. That's a
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: person that wipes at the place at drive that's in
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: their job tusking. Yeah, yeah, you don't wipe down your
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: own machine. There.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: I appreciate it they do that, which is nice.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to know the last one? Yes one?
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's a safe space here, right, it's just
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: before talking. I say that all the time.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: So when I would be training, you know, say legs,
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: you know, and squatting heavy weight, I don't really squat
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: heavy anymore. I had to workout part in his zeb
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: and we found that when we were going for a
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: heavy lift like very heavy okay. When I would go
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: down and now I'm giving everything.
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, this is like the toenail thing.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean Hill he talks about it too. So
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: when I go down for that last rap, he would
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: go down, he'd be spotting me. He'd squat down behind me.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Ah okay. And then when I get to the bottom,
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: as I'm gonna push up, he would blow on my
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: neck and the cold air or the air on my
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: neck would actually give me power to stand back up.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Its sound. Look at Riley's face. It sounds crazy, but
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: it worked.
• 27:47
  Speaker 7: This relationship that you have with Zeb ultimately gonna go
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: to a very strange It's just it's.
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: It's on the verge of madness.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: It's it's about having edge. That's all these things are about,
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: trying blows on your neck and edge.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I know it sounds crazy.
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: Your No, we don't work out together as much anymore.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: I don't do that heavyweight any longer.
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: And don't you play Ella Langley when you're trying to
• 28:14
  Speaker 6: get that final No.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: That's that's okay. That's the new blowing on the neck.
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Oh come on baby, Yeah, it's a part in the
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Choose in Texas at the end. So if I'm listening
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: to the song, I try to time it to get
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: to my you know, heavy rep and motivation.
• 28:29
  Speaker 6: You are so strange.