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Ask Yee- · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Morning. Everybody is d J Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy.
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Speaker 1: We all the breakfast club. Is time to ask yee hello?
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Speaker 1: Who's this? Yeah? Hardy oh hey style stay bean, I'm
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Speaker 1: the all biggest fan though. Uh, what's your question? Though?
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Speaker 1: For Angela? Stop at envy? That's terrible. Let's go what's
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Speaker 1: the guy? Uh? I got my baby mama. She keeps
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Speaker 1: dming me. She doesn't have your phone number? She do,
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Speaker 1: but I guess she did a lot messenger and uh,
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Speaker 1: you usually don't need a tense me out the blue
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Speaker 1: light that but was like, what are you doing? And
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Speaker 1: then she'll coming short. I don't know what she wants.
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Speaker 1: To be honest, I give him money and I'll take
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Speaker 1: care of her. But I don't know if she's jealous,
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Speaker 1: she's trying to get back with me. What do you
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Speaker 1: want her? Hay me? I mean I want everything, but
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Speaker 1: to be honest, Uh, I can't see it with her.
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Speaker 1: That's why I don't really reply her back like that. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so then it doesn't It doesn't matter what she wants.
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Speaker 1: What matters is what you want. I mean true, So
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Speaker 1: if you don't want to be with her, don't be
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Speaker 1: with her don't matter if she wants to be with
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Speaker 1: you or you don't can't figure out what's her motives.
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Speaker 1: That none of that matters if that's not who you
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Speaker 1: want to be with. All right, well, guys, just shout
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Speaker 1: out my instagram is the mego underscore, Oh my god
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Speaker 1: and sliding him DMS. He'll answer him. I've seen that
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Speaker 1: drink Champs yesterday. I love me for YouTube, probably like
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Speaker 1: three years ago. Your nammy was on there talking about
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Speaker 1: some meat and booty. Oh yes, and he was talking
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Speaker 1: about eating booty. Y'all kill me, man, I love the
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Speaker 1: breakfast club. All right. I feel like sometimes y'all throw
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Speaker 1: shade at me, at you. We don't even know you. You
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Speaker 1: You might on Twitter, man, shut up? Okay, hey, thank you.
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Speaker 1: That's a little shady. It's the audacity of man. Why
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Speaker 1: you're doing shade at him? All right? Take care? When
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Speaker 1: the middle of as he would you want to go
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Speaker 1: to Let's do Mikita online nine mkita? Good morning, Hey,
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Speaker 1: how y'all, I'm good. So hey, okay, So I wanted
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Speaker 1: to assum so I pretty much I was in a
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Speaker 1: relationship and then I got pregnant. And when I got pregnant,
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Speaker 1: as I had my baby, everything pretty much shop went left.
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Speaker 1: Like I was kind of being like a little abused,
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Speaker 1: And what's a little abused? Um? So I have been
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Speaker 1: like kids before in my face, but only like once
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Speaker 1: we get in like a real strong argument and he
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Speaker 1: just don't know how to control his temper. But if Makita,
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Speaker 1: don't downplay what happened to you, weren't a little abuse,
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Speaker 1: you were abused. Oy, Okay, Makita hot people. But I
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Speaker 1: have a daughter with him, and I don't want to
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Speaker 1: take my daughter out of his life. And when I
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Speaker 1: went over his house to pick my daughter up and
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Speaker 1: he had a girl there, and it made me feel
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Speaker 1: wanting him best. So I kind of tried, but it
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Speaker 1: would feel negative and just negative energy. You know, I
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Speaker 1: wouldn't be positive and right and feel loved and everything. Game,
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Speaker 1: I guess it's like what am I whether like you now?
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Speaker 1: Like ho's like you're over these feelings or Makita baby, listen,
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Speaker 1: First of all, it's okay for you to have these feelings.
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Speaker 1: It's okay that you were jealous that he had another
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Speaker 1: woman at the house. It's okay that you feel a
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Speaker 1: way better to You're a human being and that's fine,
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Speaker 1: but I would say you should be thankful that you
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Speaker 1: are not with this man anymore, and I would say
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Speaker 1: run and keep it moving. And just because y'all not
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Speaker 1: together doesn't mean he can't be a father and that
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Speaker 1: he's not going to be in your daughter's life. He
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Speaker 1: can still do those things, but you don't want to
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Speaker 1: raise your daughter around somebody that's abusive to you that
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Speaker 1: you're making excuses for that. I think that right now
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Speaker 1: you should be so happy that you're not with him anymore,
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Speaker 1: and that the I know that it takes a long
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Speaker 1: time because only time can heal those wounds that you're feeling.
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Speaker 1: But it's okay for you to mourn the death of
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Speaker 1: a relationship. It's over. And then what if, like I
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Speaker 1: don't I'd be telling him like I don't want him.
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Speaker 1: I don't want my child around thirty who people that
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Speaker 1: he has around him because they just are enemies to
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Speaker 1: me or do so like me or whatever, And he
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Speaker 1: feels feel like, pretty much, just forget what I say,
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Speaker 1: Like there's no respect. So here's the thing. Do you
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Speaker 1: feel like your daughters in harm and harm's way? Okay,
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Speaker 1: so it's gonna be. It sounds like This is an
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Speaker 1: emotional experience where you don't want your child around people
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Speaker 1: who you don't like, and you want him to respect that,
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Speaker 1: but that's a hard thing for you to enforce. And
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Speaker 1: if you feel like your daughter is safe and she's okay,
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Speaker 1: and that he's doing a good job as a father,
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Speaker 1: you yourself are gonna have to deal with those because
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Speaker 1: you can't really tell him who to be around, you know,
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Speaker 1: and all those things. I think it's a different question
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Speaker 1: if it's a safety issue, But if you feel like
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Speaker 1: your daughter is safe and being treated, well, that's the
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Speaker 1: top priority. Okay, Well, thank you. You definitely help me
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Speaker 1: clear my mind. Then just know which way to go, mckitta.
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Speaker 1: I can't wait till you find somebody who loves you
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Speaker 1: and values you the way that you deserve to be
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Speaker 1: valued in your relationship. And I think that sometimes certain
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Speaker 1: things are a blessing. Like anytime you think I want
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Speaker 1: him back, I want to get back with him, just
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Speaker 1: remember how abusive he was and remember that he has
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Speaker 1: other girls that he's dealing with. And don't go back
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Speaker 1: and backside, because it's gonna take you even longer to
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Speaker 1: get out of that hole. You halfway out of it.
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Speaker 1: Now keep going. Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta, We love you,
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Speaker 1: love y'all to thank y'all, listening to y'all every morning.
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Speaker 1: So all right, thank you, thank you. Sorry, all right,
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Speaker 1: but let's go to another line. Hello, who's this and
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Speaker 1: shou Land going from Regina. What's up? Bro? What's your
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Speaker 1: question for you? I'm about to go to jail and
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Speaker 1: do three years. And you know, my girl said she
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Speaker 1: send you to work with me, whatever, but we had
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Speaker 1: infidelities before coquter texting people and stuff. She said, whatever did.
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Speaker 1: But I don't know if I don't know if I
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Speaker 1: should go with a clear mind or you know, just
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Speaker 1: try to hold it down with her, with you, um,
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Speaker 1: being that she's already had infidelity issues while you were
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Speaker 1: home and not locked up, and you've caught her texting
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Speaker 1: and doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want
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Speaker 1: you to be stressed out in jail thinking that your
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Speaker 1: girl is going to hold you down, right, That's what
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Speaker 1: I was saying to That's one of the same things.
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Speaker 1: Great as she does, but you have to be realistic
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Speaker 1: with yourself. You know you are about to go away.
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Speaker 1: You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna
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Speaker 1: have a lot of freedom, and imagine every day you're
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Speaker 1: trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know,
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Speaker 1: you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind
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Speaker 1: and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and
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Speaker 1: I have to be prepared for the fact that she's
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Speaker 1: not gonna do this bid with me, or you have
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Speaker 1: to just let her know it. Look, I don't even
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Speaker 1: expect you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess
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Speaker 1: I might just break it off, all right, no problem.
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Speaker 1: Good luck to you in jail trying to keep it real.
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Speaker 1: Yeah right, you need a little more than luck. Geez,
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Speaker 1: all right,