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102: Gotta Catch Em All (Part II) · Wine & Audacity

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: What's up y'all coming in before the theme music again,
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: because we intro in the second part of this episode,
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: gotta catch them all. I don't think we we we
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: actually came up with the context for that, so you
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: don't y'all won't know it until I think towards the
• 0:20
  Speaker 1: end of the episode.
• 0:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, boom boom boom.
• 0:26
  Speaker 3: Lord Jesus here go to theme music, y'all.
• 0:35
  Speaker 2: M h m.
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  Speaker 4: It took long because we took pictures, like we just
• 0:57
  Speaker 4: saw her.
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  Speaker 2: We've been laughing and ship and then it's like sends
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: the music hit and then it's like, yo, that's what
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: that's what it's like.
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  Speaker 5: Yo.
• 1:04
  Speaker 6: I looked at it. I was like getting it from there.
• 1:06
  Speaker 4: I was trying beautiful in the world.
• 1:08
  Speaker 7: Excited and then what we understand. I don't think I
• 1:12
  Speaker 7: probbed with them, but when I got to it, I
• 1:14
  Speaker 7: was excited.
• 1:17
  Speaker 3: It was him.
• 1:19
  Speaker 8: And then when we know what you mean? So when
• 1:23
  Speaker 8: we got inside, I don't know that reference.
• 1:25
  Speaker 5: When we got inside, you just still out.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know that you.
• 1:29
  Speaker 8: Were still outside in the car and Jay J went
• 1:32
  Speaker 8: and the wedding coordinator was like by lining up, So
• 1:35
  Speaker 8: I was like, bro, I looked at him and I
• 1:37
  Speaker 8: was like, bro, you're good. He was like, I got nervous, yo,
• 1:39
  Speaker 8: I thought you wasn't showing up. And it was like
• 1:41
  Speaker 8: I said, nigga, I was gonna get ahead, and I
• 1:44
  Speaker 8: was gonna get ahead. I said he was a little
• 1:46
  Speaker 8: past and I was gonna get up here, and like
• 1:49
  Speaker 8: I said, looking at Roy, and then I was like fun.
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  Speaker 6: And then when we got.
• 1:52
  Speaker 8: Outside afterwards, when he was going to take pictures and
• 1:54
  Speaker 8: Pops pulled me up and said, tough as you are,
• 1:56
  Speaker 8: and you were there the first one to start crying.
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  Speaker 3: I said, don't do me.
• 2:00
  Speaker 6: I said, this has been a long time coming.
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  Speaker 8: You don't understand, Like, how was y'all like I was
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  Speaker 8: getting married.
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  Speaker 7: Like what was your view of the wedding?
• 2:06
  Speaker 8: I always wanted to everything turned out it's always going
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  Speaker 8: to be some kind of hiccup.
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  Speaker 6: And what pissed me off is I do the people.
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  Speaker 6: So that's what made me made. I called his sister
• 2:16
  Speaker 6: and let me tell about your mother fucking. So that's
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  Speaker 6: what pissed me off.
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  Speaker 8: But I feel like if anything that's like there, it's
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  Speaker 8: always rather it's a wedding or a baby shower, birthday party,
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  Speaker 8: it's always going to be some kind of hiccup.
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  Speaker 9: But the.
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  Speaker 8: My my goal was to make sure you didn't panic. No,
• 2:37
  Speaker 8: we're gonna take on me, Me and Kendy got this.
• 2:38
  Speaker 8: We're gonna take on this angle. Can't He got on
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  Speaker 8: the phone, said, I got this. Candy got on the phone.
• 2:44
  Speaker 8: Cook at pressure going in. She was like, yeah, Priencess,
• 2:50
  Speaker 8: She's like, hurd, I got it, don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 8: Five minutes later, can't even like I meet you at
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  Speaker 8: the venue. I see you in a minute.
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  Speaker 6: Can't mother jove up there.
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  Speaker 8: By the time we got we was gonna know we
• 3:02
  Speaker 8: weren't playing that ship. No, but the hardest day work
• 3:05
  Speaker 8: DAYD put all this money in y'all not not not nothing,
• 3:07
  Speaker 8: like this is gonna suck their day up.
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  Speaker 6: I was so excited about your getting thought I was.
• 3:14
  Speaker 6: I was at work, like.
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  Speaker 7: The only thing was the Bachelor. She wanted to be
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  Speaker 7: at your bachelor.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: I was like, I'm going to I said both. I said,
• 3:23
  Speaker 8: I'm going to both, I said, And then I found that.
• 3:25
  Speaker 6: I was doing it the same day. I said, y'all
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  Speaker 6: dirty basket.
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  Speaker 5: I say, because it's the sister of the groom.
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  Speaker 8: Like my mama was on the phone like why do
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  Speaker 8: you think you get to go to boat we had
• 3:40
  Speaker 8: that time.
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  Speaker 6: I was drunk as a damn skunk.
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  Speaker 4: We had.
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  Speaker 6: We had so much snipper we had to bring liquor home.
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  Speaker 6: We had to bring food home for two days.
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  Speaker 8: We had so much ship we ended up bringing stuff home.
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  Speaker 10: Because the highlight of the bachelor party was.
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  Speaker 3: Sevon.
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  Speaker 10: Tevan had never been to a strip club before.
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  Speaker 3: He yo yo yo.
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  Speaker 11: We The funny part is when we first walked in Tevan.
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  Speaker 11: I looked at Tevan. Tevan looked like he was a
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  Speaker 11: kid toison my nigga like. Tevan was like and then
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  Speaker 11: he and then he touched me on the side. He like,
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  Speaker 11: he like, bro, he like, so can we touch him?
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  Speaker 10: I was like, I was like, you got I was like,
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  Speaker 10: I don't. I don't know, you know, I haven't been
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  Speaker 10: to a strip club in a minute.
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  Speaker 11: So I'm like, but if they I mean, I was like,
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  Speaker 11: go ahead and just you know, try to you know,
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  Speaker 11: just like pokem or whatever, man.
• 4:40
  Speaker 10: Chest drive drive to see what they say.
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  Speaker 11: If they say, if they say, if they don't move
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  Speaker 11: your hand, then yeah you could touch them.
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  Speaker 4: And my mind, don't touch the girl.
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  Speaker 11: Tevan had the same This is how you know when
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  Speaker 11: it's someone's first time at a strip club. Temon had
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  Speaker 11: the same stripper for like at least a good forty
• 5:04
  Speaker 11: five minutes. I mean he's just like just like Tamon,
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  Speaker 11: Like I was like just throwing the money, like I'm like, okay, nigga,
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  Speaker 11: like you about to pay that woman.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, who getting married next?
• 5:22
  Speaker 2: Because he first snacks and some juicy juice?
• 5:29
  Speaker 4: Juice?
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  Speaker 7: What about you?
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  Speaker 5: Now?
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  Speaker 7: Was the wedding was good?
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  Speaker 3: It was.
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  Speaker 1: It was the first wedding I had been to in
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  Speaker 1: at least but like maybe seven eight years.
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  Speaker 6: The last wedding you look now I think about right
• 5:45
  Speaker 6: now that I.
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: Think about it, Yeah, that was the first one I
• 5:47
  Speaker 1: had been to. Definitely post pandemic, but it was the
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: first one I've been to maybe like no, no, no, that's
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  Speaker 1: a lot.
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  Speaker 8: I think the last wedding I was it was the
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  Speaker 8: kids wedding.
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  Speaker 1: The wedding I went to a wedding of February twenty next,
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  Speaker 1: twenty twenty. I remember because that was the last event
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  Speaker 1: I went to before locked saying y'all.
• 6:01
  Speaker 6: That's right, because you were supposed to meet us.
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  Speaker 3: I met y'all stay before the wedding.
• 6:06
  Speaker 1: No, you might have said codo, Yeah, I stopped stopped
• 6:09
  Speaker 1: by cold. I was like, hey, y'all I got the gun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And that was no social of course, nobody knew what
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  Speaker 1: social distancing was. Nobody had mask on. It was like
• 6:18
  Speaker 1: two hundred people there and I was like, it's cool.
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  Speaker 3: And then a week later.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, but yeah, you know, ship was shut down.
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  Speaker 3: Everything was but no, the wedding was beat us.
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: I really enjoyed being included and just being able to
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  Speaker 1: go and see y'all, you know, into the next phase
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: of your life together. And I was watching Rob when
• 6:41
  Speaker 1: he got when when you round round to the corner,
• 6:43
  Speaker 1: he was.
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  Speaker 7: Like, everybody watches the room. They were like this want
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  Speaker 7: to tell.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, nope, nope, but I ain't gonna lie, right.
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  Speaker 1: I mean you you you ain't catch it. I didn't cried,
• 7:00
  Speaker 1: but you didn't catch this rod. I was like, hey,
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: what's up, Tabo. He was like, it's eleven man.
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  Speaker 3: I said.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, here's what your niggas.
• 7:09
  Speaker 3: I was like, I look like you ain't seen some years.
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  Speaker 7: Man was like.
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  Speaker 4: Sixteen, y'all winky oh. He looked at me, was like.
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  Speaker 6: Now you called the nigga by his nickname.
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  Speaker 4: What about you man?
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  Speaker 2: That's like, what, this's my first time And that was
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  Speaker 2: like the first time I've seen this nigga since I've
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  Speaker 2: been back, like and first first of all, I was
• 7:37
  Speaker 2: like what how Because when I got the invitation, my mother,
• 7:43
  Speaker 2: my mother in law, was like, you got something that
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: I got mad. She said, She's like, yeah from from
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: from running Rodney Damn that nigga. But I was like, okay,
• 8:00
  Speaker 2: it's like like I said the first time, like first
• 8:02
  Speaker 2: time saying everybody, you know, everybody being together like your
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: Craig through the.
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  Speaker 4: Ship Craig the I was like, who the fuck is
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  Speaker 4: this nigga?
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  Speaker 12: They got taller three year should have been d Trump
• 8:13
  Speaker 12: is like god damn, somebody Dan still look the same,
• 8:20
  Speaker 12: still look the same.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he just hes just the big nigga. I was like,
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  Speaker 4: god damn.
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  Speaker 6: I said, I'm sorry what yo?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he could have spit you. You could have
• 8:35
  Speaker 4: went he could out bro, Like.
• 8:37
  Speaker 8: Here's my thing. I say, I said, we ship not
• 8:41
  Speaker 8: comor if you wanted to see. When I first seen him,
• 8:43
  Speaker 8: I was like, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Don't don't for bad. All three of my nephews looked like.
• 8:48
  Speaker 3: Me, yes, something like your mother the nephews and your son.
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  Speaker 6: Was like roy, I was like the oldest one. Tristan.
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  Speaker 6: Tristan got robbing the old face.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah he was the first one's thinking back what you
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: was just saying, like how many people do we know?
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  Speaker 3: How he should have been married anywhere near that long?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know too many.
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  Speaker 7: Married.
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  Speaker 10: Tevon sham been mrried for a minute, but.
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  Speaker 6: Like new Tate will be the first one off the
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  Speaker 6: brothers to get married. For some reason.
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  Speaker 8: Has always been the family man, even though.
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  Speaker 10: He's not the oldest, is always always.
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  Speaker 4: Always been the oldest show.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah he might not be the first born, but has
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  Speaker 11: always been.
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  Speaker 6: He's always he always took he did yo.
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  Speaker 2: Tevan the one that won the water house came around
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  Speaker 2: his neck while we was out here running like we
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: was all here running running ramp it like how are
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: you gonna get out?
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  Speaker 4: I got it like I got it all right, don't
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  Speaker 4: even worry about the Tayan Tavon got the key.
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  Speaker 10: Tevan and his voice I can hear him now.
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  Speaker 3: They don't this up.
• 9:54
  Speaker 10: I'm like all right, damn Max Dame.
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  Speaker 11: But Tevan he like as like one thing I noticed,
• 10:03
  Speaker 11: like even like even before leading up to the wedding,
• 10:07
  Speaker 11: like talking to other married men.
• 10:12
  Speaker 10: You know, that's that's been in the game, been in that.
• 10:14
  Speaker 11: Game for like for years, but in time put their
• 10:17
  Speaker 11: time in, like they talking to them helped me help
• 10:21
  Speaker 11: help me get through get through that process as well.
• 10:24
  Speaker 10: You know, just leading up to the.
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  Speaker 11: Wedding, it made like I didn't really listen to the
• 10:28
  Speaker 11: ones that was like, you know, right, don't do it,
• 10:32
  Speaker 11: don't do it, welcome to hell, you know, ship like
• 10:35
  Speaker 11: it's gonna be terrrit's going you know this that whatever.
• 10:37
  Speaker 11: I didn't really pay attention to them because at that
• 10:40
  Speaker 11: moment I had so many, so many people that was
• 10:43
  Speaker 11: in love around me, you know what I'm saying, and
• 10:46
  Speaker 11: that their words was way more powerful than what I
• 10:50
  Speaker 11: was the negativity that I was hearing about it.
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: But I think I hate that though, Like I don't
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: I don't like the like I don't like the idea
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: I'm because you see a lot of people get together
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: and then they then they get then they get married.
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden it's like they separated or
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: they getting divorced, and it's like, yo, like now once
• 11:12
  Speaker 2: you say once, we once, we say, I do know,
• 11:14
  Speaker 2: we locked in for we locked in for a life
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: like I don't give a fuck if you mad at me.
• 11:20
  Speaker 8: I told my mother and her husband, and I said,
• 11:22
  Speaker 8: y'all get mad at each other.
• 11:23
  Speaker 6: Y'all got another big somebody going to But.
• 11:26
  Speaker 2: But the crazy part, I mean, but the crazy part
• 11:28
  Speaker 2: is that you you realize, yo, You realize your once
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: you married, yo. Like, even if you get mad and
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: you leave, you still you still gotta go back in
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: the house. I still I still got You're still gonna
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: get back, like y'all still gonna be said, You're still
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: sleeping in the same bed, Like I.
• 11:42
  Speaker 11: Told, you get mad at me, pick up the sticks,
• 11:44
  Speaker 11: let's run the game.
• 11:45
  Speaker 4: Of I mean, but I mean, but no, But that's
• 11:51
  Speaker 4: that's that's real ship though.
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: And I think that marriage now isn't really looked at
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  Speaker 2: the way that it was when we were younger, like
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: the way that it was younger.
• 12:00
  Speaker 4: And we see it on TV.
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: You see that stand power, you see those you see
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: those family members, like you see those those married couples
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: like uh like like like Cliff, like Cliff and Claire Huxtable.
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: You see that they yeah, they they are. I mean,
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: for me, it showed the happy, the happiest side being married,
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: whereas though you watch good times, you see that other
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: side of you see that other side of being married.
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: I mean, granted they didn't like granted they didn't know
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: was I Granted they didn't argue, they didn't argue like that.
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: You know, they didn't argue like like you know, like
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: you said, but you see but you but you see
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: that they have trials and tripulations and they get through
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: that ship like Viv and Viv and over Phil like
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: you saw the real you saw the real side. Yeah,
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: you saw the real side, like I think, so searant
• 12:54
  Speaker 2: just got to dance her phone.
• 12:57
  Speaker 7: But yeah, but first of all, I wasn't gonna give
• 13:02
  Speaker 7: up my last name for nothing, So I like, I
• 13:05
  Speaker 7: really we really had to think about like how marriage
• 13:10
  Speaker 7: is because I like a lot of my family members.
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  Speaker 7: I come from name no, but I come from a
• 13:17
  Speaker 7: family that are it's a lot of married couples. So
• 13:20
  Speaker 7: I've seen some of my family from like twenty years
• 13:23
  Speaker 7: and then getting divorced and getting remarried. So I've been
• 13:26
  Speaker 7: through the ones who have just been together, never got married,
• 13:30
  Speaker 7: but they just cohabitated each other. So or again, like
• 13:34
  Speaker 7: my grandparents, they were married.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: The ones that the ones that got that was married
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: and got a divorce. Be the ones that you should
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: that you really are talked right.
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  Speaker 7: No, But like with my aunt, she was one of
• 13:43
  Speaker 7: the ones that I actually went through it with her.
• 13:47
  Speaker 7: As far as I was just listening to her, I've
• 13:50
  Speaker 7: seen it, like I was of an older.
• 13:52
  Speaker 4: Age with you. My mother did the same ship.
• 13:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, so it was like and you know, I was
• 13:57
  Speaker 7: that shoulder or whatever, even though I was younger than her.
• 14:00
  Speaker 7: But you can tell, like the pain it was like.
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  Speaker 7: But even after that, she always would say I'm meant
• 14:07
  Speaker 7: to be married, like she she was just a wife
• 14:11
  Speaker 7: or whatever. So but yeah, so I weren't from her
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  Speaker 7: experience of like, you know, what to expect or what
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  Speaker 7: I would want from out of a marriage if I
• 14:20
  Speaker 7: decided to go through with it. So I didn't walk
• 14:23
  Speaker 7: into it like with Ronnie, like this is all I
• 14:25
  Speaker 7: want to do is just get married. I'm like, no,
• 14:27
  Speaker 7: like we need like I want to be locked in. Right,
• 14:31
  Speaker 7: it's work, not like just like just the wedding day,
• 14:35
  Speaker 7: like it's the before and after.
• 14:38
  Speaker 4: That's the realization right there.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: Once y'all, uh, once y'all, you know, once y'all had
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: that argument and he be like.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: But I can't leave because because.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: That ain't like, ain't no walking like, ain't a walking
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: away because it's different like a couple of days off conversation.
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  Speaker 7: Though it's like I know what I want, but it's
• 14:58
  Speaker 7: like are you are you able to stick around? And
• 15:02
  Speaker 7: when it gets hard, because your track record is that
• 15:05
  Speaker 7: great when it gets hard, you're ready to walk away.
• 15:08
  Speaker 7: I'm tough enough to stick it out, but I'm not
• 15:10
  Speaker 7: sticking it out by myself. You know, if I don't
• 15:13
  Speaker 7: mind fighting for somebody that I love, but I need
• 15:15
  Speaker 7: somebody to fight for.
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  Speaker 3: Me exactly because.
• 15:23
  Speaker 10: When he was like.
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  Speaker 7: Hell yeah, like and then I saw it. I'm an
• 15:28
  Speaker 7: action based type person. You can talk whatever, but if
• 15:32
  Speaker 7: I don't see no action behind it, it just fall
• 15:34
  Speaker 7: on deaf is And then I'm gonna hold you to
• 15:36
  Speaker 7: a candle.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: That was the thing that was the thing for me
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: that I had to work on making sure my actions
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: are to make sure my action reflected my words.
• 15:45
  Speaker 7: But yeah, no, that because that's a big thing for me.
• 15:48
  Speaker 7: And then Ronnie he rose to the occasion, so he
• 15:54
  Speaker 7: kept showing me how much he kept showing up for
• 15:57
  Speaker 7: the relationship to me that kind of like, you know,
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: like I'm gonna keep showing up. So that kind of
• 16:06
  Speaker 7: made a decision. Well, you know, reassured me that's what.
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: I wanted to do.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you this though, like do you feel
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: like yo? I mean cause I told I told I
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: tell people all the time, and they asked me, like
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: how I feel about it? I'm like, Yo, I listen,
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: I love this person. I hate this person like yo.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Sometimes Yo, we like Yo, I want to fight with
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: this person every for the rest of my life. I
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: don't I don't care. I don't care who it is
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: who come up unless it's patted about.
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: But he got a society. It's like you're being married.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Like being married is like Yo, you're married to You're
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: married to your best friend. Like y'all gonna fight, y'all
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: gonna argue, y'all gonna love, y'all gonna love just as hard.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: And it's like, yo, that ship, Like that ship is
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: what we did it every day.
• 16:59
  Speaker 7: Like we did we did a crying together like in
• 17:02
  Speaker 7: one in one sitting, me and Ronnie can argue, laugh
• 17:05
  Speaker 7: about it, crying about it, and then we all both
• 17:08
  Speaker 7: apologize to each other.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: But I don't realize we cry cry?
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: Did we did?
• 17:18
  Speaker 6: We didn't we and then we made love?
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Never made love before. So any questions?
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Any more questions either y'all have before we wrap up,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: but before I issued up the final question.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: Before we move on, because yeah, I'm bad, no good?
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: Any final question feel like a two pottle?
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: No any advice? God, I feel like I'm loud of
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: sh it all of a sudden, about to hit the
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: dame thing. Any advice? What's some advice y'all will give
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: a couple that's about to get married.
• 17:58
  Speaker 7: Take your time, ain't no rush plannet. Do it exactly
• 18:03
  Speaker 7: how you you two envision it, regardless of who agree
• 18:06
  Speaker 7: and who don't do it. Do it y'all way, because
• 18:10
  Speaker 7: it's y'all, it's your wedding. It is your day, and
• 18:13
  Speaker 7: y'all going to remember it the most. Everybody gonna just
• 18:16
  Speaker 7: remember the food and whoever they was doing it with
• 18:18
  Speaker 7: after the.
• 18:24
  Speaker 11: I mean, okay, for one thing, we I proposed to Sena,
• 18:34
  Speaker 11: but not of course, not last year, the year before last,
• 18:38
  Speaker 11: and then we had already planned. We got married last June,
• 18:43
  Speaker 11: so she know when I Sheena had already I had
• 18:47
  Speaker 11: came on from working.
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: I was proposed.
• 18:49
  Speaker 8: I got a phone call the next day, like since
• 18:50
  Speaker 8: you want to be a brides man?
• 18:52
  Speaker 11: Had Sheena had that ship laid out, like I'm thinking, Okay,
• 18:56
  Speaker 11: we're gonna have we gonna I'm opposed to it. We're
• 18:57
  Speaker 11: gonna get married in like two years, give it like
• 18:59
  Speaker 11: two about year and a half two years?
• 19:01
  Speaker 10: Hell no, no time. We getting married next year.
• 19:06
  Speaker 11: But anyway, now some of the device I would give,
• 19:09
  Speaker 11: give to give to the people that's getting ready to
• 19:12
  Speaker 11: get married or whatever would be. Don't don't don't pay
• 19:17
  Speaker 11: much attention to all the extra people around, like, because
• 19:22
  Speaker 11: you're not going to please everyone.
• 19:23
  Speaker 10: Everybody's going to have a problem.
• 19:25
  Speaker 11: Oh I'm not why you why I'm not in the wedding,
• 19:27
  Speaker 11: or why I'm not doing this, or why I gotta
• 19:29
  Speaker 11: do that. Don't don't fall into that, because if you do,
• 19:33
  Speaker 11: it's going to stress you out and it's going to
• 19:35
  Speaker 11: upset you. Like I went through that semi with my family.
• 19:39
  Speaker 11: Sheena went through it with her family at one point,
• 19:42
  Speaker 11: and and and and and it hurts it really, it
• 19:47
  Speaker 11: really hurt me. It really hurt me because especially when
• 19:50
  Speaker 11: it was like you know, people that I was like
• 19:52
  Speaker 11: the closest with, you know, like the family, like my
• 19:55
  Speaker 11: you know I would. Yeah, so try not to don't
• 20:00
  Speaker 11: fall into that, you know, don't fall into that. And
• 20:02
  Speaker 11: also communicate always communication with you know, our strugg communication
• 20:09
  Speaker 11: is something that I struggled with for a very long
• 20:12
  Speaker 11: time because, like I said, we all grew up.
• 20:15
  Speaker 10: We always born.
• 20:16
  Speaker 11: We was born in the eighties, raised in the nineties.
• 20:18
  Speaker 11: We saw the men doing everything pretty much like don't
• 20:22
  Speaker 11: don't men, don't cry. We just tough whatever have we
• 20:25
  Speaker 11: tough in that ship up and we just make it
• 20:26
  Speaker 11: happen emotional.
• 20:30
  Speaker 10: But now now, no, it's okay.
• 20:32
  Speaker 11: It's okay to look to your wife or look to
• 20:35
  Speaker 11: your husband because it's your partners now, y'all, y'all not
• 20:38
  Speaker 11: just separate, y'all, y'all won So.
• 20:40
  Speaker 8: Fuck that happy wife, happy life ship. No, it's happy spouse,
• 20:42
  Speaker 8: happy house.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: Yes, and you'll sleep at them.
• 20:46
  Speaker 10: You sleep at them.
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: They say you sleep better when you sleep next to
• 20:49
  Speaker 8: somebody you love anyway, true, I mean true.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: But as far as like, as far as the vice
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: schools to people that's about to get married, I'll say,
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: premarital counseling is is key.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: It like yo.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: But before before Keith's uncle agreed to agree to officiate
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: our wedding. He was like, you know, I want to talk,
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: like I want to sit down, we want to talk
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: to y'all. We met with him probably, we met with
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: probably four times at different parts that I'm at, different
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: parts of the year, and you know it, it does
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: give you a little perspective of your expectations, their expectation
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: of you, your expectations if you have any expectations, and
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: you know, just keep trying to keep an open line
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: of communication, like and don't be afraid to be honest
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: with that, with your personal because it's about to be
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: you know, you're about to be about to be stuck
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: together for the rest.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Of your lives.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Questions and never be afraid to have like you gotta
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: have the hard conversations and you have to be able.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: You had to.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: You had to approach it with humility and stop and
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: they'll put your ego aside. You gotta you really gotta
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: let go of that ego because this person is going
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: to see you. This person, this person can't see you
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: see you at your worst. They gonna see you at
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: your best, and they're gonna be the one that's going
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: that's gonna pick you on, pick you up, like pick
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: you up even if you're feeling some kind of way,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: and always be honest about your feelings, like if you
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: always I don't want to, but what I'm saying, I mean, listen,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I mean ship nigga, you know, like like I ain't
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: the one, like I'm not the one to talk like
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to talk about how I like, how
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I feel if or if I'm feeling anything, and it's
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: it's it was hard, like it's it's hard, I mean
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: even like even hard for me to admit.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: That I got it. I got it, like yo, I.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Don't like talking about feeling sometimes like I don't do
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: that and it's not and it's not and it's not
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: a situation of like you know that taxic ship like
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: men don't cry type ship. But it's like, yo, I
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: still I can't. I can't sit here like I gotta
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: like yo, I gotta. I got a lot of shit
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: to do, like I have ship to do, like yo,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: even like even when like even.
• 23:08
  Speaker 7: With like my question to that point, though.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: It's not shame, it's for me.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: For me, I don't I think I don't give myself
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: enough time to feel feelings because I still, like yo,
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I still gotta get them and go to work. I
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: still gotta get up and do like I still gotta
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: get up and do like life like life still has
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: to go on. And it's like while I do take time,
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: like while I do take time, like yo, take time
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: to grieve and ship like that.
• 23:33
  Speaker 7: But but are you scared though to face them? Because
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: sometimes it be to the point where like you, yes,
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: you do have to work and you have family to
• 23:43
  Speaker 7: take care of. But sometimes I feel like some men,
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: it's scared you face because they don't they don't want to,
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: they don't like what they see in the mirror, nah
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: to the effects of it could be a trauma that
• 23:55
  Speaker 7: you're running from, like as far as mentally running from
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: trying to avoid.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: I think no, I think I've just been trained to
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: just keep going, like yo, I gotta keep going, like
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: even like even with like you know, even like even
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: with them, if they came to me and they feel
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: some kind of way, it's like, yo, I try to
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: keep going for them, just for them to keep going.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: If I mean, you know, if I'm feeling some kind
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: of way, if I'm really feeling some kind of way,
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: like I think the one thing that the one thing
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: that that that really broke me was when T died.
• 24:30
  Speaker 8: Hmm.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: I think that's the that's the one time where like
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: he had seen me like really cry and I did
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: not know how to feel that to that, like I went,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I went.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: To work like I want to work.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: I tried my.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: Loss and it's like, yeah, I want to work.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: I try my best, like I try my best, but
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: put my best face forward, like even because.
• 24:55
  Speaker 7: You haven't really properly A grieved that death.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: No, I did, and in the craziest way though, like, uh,
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: what you want to say, No, watching like I remember
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: I remember watching Uh it was like the final episode
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: of the Girl in mes World and how they everybody
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: was accepting that they they were gonna leave or damn,
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: like like the like the Matthews, We're gonna leave or whatever.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: And you know she came in and she made that
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: made that decision, like she was like working on like
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: how to make that decision. And for me, it was
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: like just accepting the fact that it was a possibility
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: to that right they were gonna leave like they were,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: they were gonna leave. They won't leave New York and
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: you know, go to I think like Germany, some shit.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't remember where they were going,
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: but it was like it was like a drastic life change,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: and for me it was just like I just seen
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: I mean I seen like the growth in that and like, yeah,
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: this was the dracted life change.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: But they not.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: But you know it something comes with it, like something
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: like you know, something good always comes from it. And
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: it's okay, Like it's okay to not be okay with
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: with just happen, Like it's okay to not be okay
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: with what just happened. It's okay to not be to
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: not feel it to it's okay to not even want
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: to get up and like yo, just sit there and
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: it's like, yo, I just took a long walk, Like
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I took a long walk.
• 26:13
  Speaker 7: So are you still struggling with your emotions or you?
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm still like I'm still like I mean,
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I'm still me, Like I mean, I still like I
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: still feel like I still you know, I feel it,
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: But how I deal with it is different, like it
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: might be.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: It's it's it's not. It's not as many jokes.
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: It's like avoidance.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: It's not as it's not as many jokes as I
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: used to like yo, I do, like I do talk
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: about it like I do, like I do, talk about
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: it more if it's like if it's like whenever it's
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: like whatever's really bothering me?
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: Or I'll bring it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: With so I want to I caught something. I'm not
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: sure if anybody else caught it, but just listening to
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: how you explain that. You you talked about rationalizing the feeling,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: but you didn't talk about actually feeling and working through the.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: Feeling, right, no no, no, no no no no, but
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: It's like I do, like I do talk I mean,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: I do talk about like how I'm feeling, like what
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: I'm feeling, and but I think I think my issue
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: is that sometimes like I don't it's like I have
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: to talk about it and I put it out like
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: To talk about it, put it out there. This is
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: what I'm feeling, this is how I'm feeling.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Hell, I might even like might even start crying, like
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: you know, crying and I'm crying at that moment. But
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I think I still work on I mean, I think
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: it's still in me to be like all right, alright,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: a crowd about it like a crowd about it, and I.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Mean I'll sit.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because it's like I mean, because it's like
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I'm not because I'm not helpful to her still being
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: like that, because she still feels and it's like I'm
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: trying to open my up, like I try to open
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: up my like open up myself enough to like open
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: up myself enough to feel what she felt, like yeah,
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: I can empathize, but I I need to like really
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: empathy thought like you don't feel what she feels, and
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: then be in that like being that moment, and I
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: struggle with I mean, I struggle with it sometimes, like
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: I struggle with trying to be in the moment because
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: then it's like all right, okay, all right, we in here,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: like we here like you know, allow her to you know,
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: and she's crying and like, you know, just feel it.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: But then it's like all right, I gotta get up,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: like you know, we gotta we gotta get up. We
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: gotta keep them moving, like we gotta keep it moving.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: And I'm saying and I apologize, like I apologize because
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: it's like I don't want you to feel like or
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: like I don't care, like I never want you to
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: feel like I don't care because I do.
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: Like yo, like I said, you you my life for us,
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: like you the thing that keeps me tethered to you.
• 28:37
  Speaker 11: What was you about to say around well, help because
• 28:40
  Speaker 11: I'm I'm I feel you in that cause I'm I
• 28:42
  Speaker 11: struggle with that ship to you, bro. And but like
• 28:45
  Speaker 11: one thing, one thing that that helped me, and I
• 28:49
  Speaker 11: didn't realize how much it helped me until after we
• 28:52
  Speaker 11: tried it.
• 28:52
  Speaker 10: Men. Me and Sheen was off on the.
• 28:55
  Speaker 11: Same day, I think on a Saturday one day, and
• 28:59
  Speaker 11: she and it was like, bait, let's just turn off
• 29:03
  Speaker 11: our phones, turn off the TV, don't play the game.
• 29:06
  Speaker 10: I'm not getting on TikTok.
• 29:08
  Speaker 11: You just shut out the whole outside world for about
• 29:11
  Speaker 11: an hour or two.
• 29:12
  Speaker 10: No, I think we did more. We did about four
• 29:14
  Speaker 10: three other it was.
• 29:15
  Speaker 11: Like the whole yeah, about five hours and we just
• 29:18
  Speaker 11: sat and we.
• 29:20
  Speaker 10: Just sat and talked.
• 29:21
  Speaker 11: We didn't because like I said, like you said, like
• 29:23
  Speaker 11: work with work out everyday life and everything, bro, we
• 29:26
  Speaker 11: can you need time to check in with one another.
• 29:31
  Speaker 11: And that was our moment to check in with one another. Man,
• 29:34
  Speaker 11: it was and that was so it was so such
• 29:38
  Speaker 11: a relief for me and I know it was a
• 29:41
  Speaker 11: relief for her too, but it was such a it
• 29:43
  Speaker 11: was such a relief for the both of us.
• 29:45
  Speaker 10: Bro and it and it like helped. It helped us
• 29:48
  Speaker 10: a lot. It helped us.
• 29:51
  Speaker 7: And then we also like put it in in place
• 29:54
  Speaker 7: like in the beginning of like we're not gonna judge
• 29:56
  Speaker 7: each other, like if you talking, I'm gonna shut up.
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna just let you go off.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: We for us, uh, I mean for us, for us.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: We when I was when I was doing door Dash,
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: That's that's what that was our moment.
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: Like Yo, we like we be in the car, Like
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: we be in the car, We'll turn on uh.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: We we was listening to uh the little episodic episodic
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: on podcasts like the Marble Wastelanders, like we listened to
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: like we listen we went through the whole like we
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: went through the whole series, or we'll just listen to
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: We'll just listen to like podcasts and it's just like
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: talk and I think, Yo, when you know that was
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: my road, like that was my road dog.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: Like I used to take her with me because you know,
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: I parked the legally.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: And be like hey, look to sit here, you know,
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: sit here, till I come back out and be like
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: all right, look he he on his way walk I
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: can move the cars like hopefully no make move car
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: because I can't move the car.
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: I'm like, don't worry about that, just stay here, be good.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: But I enjoyed that because that was like, you know,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: we we ain't in the house. We ain't really something said, yeah,
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: we ain't in the house. Ain't really like we're not
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: really on the phone. But then it's like, yo, we
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: we found new places to eat, like we're going to
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: different places. We find new places to eat, and you
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: know that's that's kind of like where we connect like
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: we can always.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: But I mean it's not. I mean it's not just
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: a fool.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: I mean like even like even with like the quarantine,
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: like uh, she discovered like she discovered new hobbies and
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: it's like, yo, I'm helping her to the point even
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: like when she started, when she started dabbling doing makeup,
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm the I'm the dummy, you know what
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. I love her like yeah, like like I
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: let her like I let her try out whatever, you know,
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: and try out whatever on me, or we.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: Even did vice versas. I let him do my makeup?
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: How that turned out?
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: Oh my god, like a Drake queen from the eighties,
• 31:53
  Speaker 7: like this just how you look like like I did
• 31:58
  Speaker 7: pretty good.
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: Okay, we ain't getting the call back.
• 32:09
  Speaker 7: Right the first.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: I was excited.
• 32:14
  Speaker 10: I think it's like serious, serious looking and everything.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: But you know what I'm done.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: I started helping. I started helping her. I started like,
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: I started helping her making her soaps.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: I started helping her with doing her little houses and
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: ship like that. Like we even dabbled in like doing
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: the edibles and stuff like making edibles and like that
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: was that was that was a way to like really
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: connect and like step outside, like step outside of myself.
• 32:43
  Speaker 10: Like that's what we're trying.
• 32:45
  Speaker 11: We're trying to figure out something that we can do together,
• 32:48
  Speaker 11: like we thought about doing We even thought about doing
• 32:50
  Speaker 11: the podcast.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Do candle making. Try Try Try try candle making.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Like she just asked me last night that I won't
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: go I won't go make uh, I won't go make
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: my own like cologne, cologne and perfume.
• 33:07
  Speaker 8: I was like, my cousin and her husband just did that.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to have.
• 33:12
  Speaker 11: That ship because I've seen somebody do that ship on
• 33:14
  Speaker 11: YouTube on a YouTube video and.
• 33:15
  Speaker 8: They went to a class and then you get to
• 33:17
  Speaker 8: pick your sense and see they tell you what's smell
• 33:19
  Speaker 8: good together and all of that stuff they did.
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: I was like, I just had a lot of cooking classes.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I just told he, No, I just.
• 33:29
  Speaker 8: Making class uh that we were supposed to do while
• 33:32
  Speaker 8: we was doing vacation.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, back today, at gonna lie to you though, I
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: told her. I told her I was like, listen, in
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: a couple probably a couple of months, a couple of
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: weeks to a couple of months.
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: So I'm I'm gonna be making I'm gonna make my
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: own wine.
• 33:48
  Speaker 8: And she was like the later for his party she
• 33:50
  Speaker 8: does it started.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: She was like she was like wine. I was like, I.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: Was in jail right and let us sit outside. By
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: three weeks.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: Now I had some minute refrigerator like for like for
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: like ship like almost too much.
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: No.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: I had the fruit sitting there like it was like
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: peaches and like peaches and pineapples just sh right. I
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: had that ship sitting and refrigerator for like three months.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: Everything like every day like I like I burpened. But
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: then it's like then I was like I ain't trying
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: this ship no.
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: No, I did know I said there. I was like
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: I picked up.
• 34:34
  Speaker 8: That.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm throw that out. But yeah, so
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: whatever wraps up our segment about marriage. Get married. Yeah,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: do the damn thing.
• 34:47
  Speaker 10: Bitch is healthy.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: I'm if it's you married, I don't want to.
• 34:53
  Speaker 6: I don't.
• 34:53
  Speaker 10: I don't condone any I can team.
• 34:56
  Speaker 8: Of you know type right, don't be don't be a candred,
• 35:01
  Speaker 8: don't go marry young jock.
• 35:04
  Speaker 10: Don't.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: I'll say this, yeah, no more loving hip hop reference
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: love and hip hop good.
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you this though. I mean, I'll say this.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Uh, just Jesus, like I said, just be mindful, just
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: be just just open yourself up to accepting, you know,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: accepting that sometimes you your person not going you, your
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: person ain't gonna like you. Don't necessarily mean they don't
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: love you. I mean human, you know y'all gonna like
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: y'all not. I think y'all gotta think I'm.
• 35:37
  Speaker 7: Looking at these tiktoks right.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Say, like, so you tell me I can't be an
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: alpha male and take care of and tell my woman
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: with the dude, I.
• 35:48
  Speaker 8: Mean unless you want sure damn lemonade the.
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: Man and what I say, go.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, no, that's cool, you know, but no, no, no, no, no,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: but that's cool. Go and be bring not but you
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: can be the alpha male and you can be on
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: that ship that you that what you say goal, But
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: you gotta but you gotta be able to take everything
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: and come with that ship because that that's a that's
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: a lonely motherfucking life bro.
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: Like you might.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: You want to tell her everything that you do, but
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: you still but you gotta make sure made sure she's good.
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: No, you made sure she's good and everything.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: I pay all the bills in that na off.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: He ain't even got you want for nothing.
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: Mile Ingrellent.
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: Hey, my man pins, we can write that check.
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: Paying all my bills.
• 36:46
  Speaker 6: I give it to him and to give it to
• 36:48
  Speaker 6: me anything.
• 36:49
  Speaker 8: Woo woo.
• 36:50
  Speaker 9: How is that?
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Flee?
• 36:54
  Speaker 9: All all about that I'm from and all the while.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: I'm a little frighten.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: No, But in all seriousness, to wrap up this segment,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: if marriage is for you, I think it's really good
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: to surround yourself with like minded people who are where
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: you want to be and you can poke their brains
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: and ask questions. Be it if you are you know
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: you're considering marriage, you're newly wed, you've been married five years,
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: ten years, or you just got divorce because Nigga got
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: on your nerves and you want to get rid of
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: me sometimes.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: But oh yeah, don't judge those people that got divorced
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: Sho like Nigga, they've been there.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: Look at Broke Broyan Levans.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: Oh, Nigga called me. Now call me Brando.
• 37:47
  Speaker 6: Brand He's a dicky not.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: On my watch. Nephew's a good got a.
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: Snipe the hood. You'll have to see me because who
• 38:07
  Speaker 6: you talking to?
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: Rondo put in all seriousness.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: If marriages for you, surround yourself by like minded people
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: who want what you want, who can counsel you and
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: take your time. Like Sheena said, you know, there's no rush.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: If you truly want to spend your life with somebody,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: don't rush into it because day and day have then
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: be in your face looking at you like right.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: When I looked at him when you starting, how are
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: you breathing like that?
• 38:37
  Speaker 6: Did you fu? You need?
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: You need an enemy?
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: H don't show because she's gonna do something. She's gonna
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: do some ship.
• 38:47
  Speaker 11: That's why the whole little bitch she's gonna get.
• 38:55
  Speaker 10: That ship.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, yo, you're and your wife beefing or
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: that cut you.
• 39:04
  Speaker 10: She holds what you said.
• 39:08
  Speaker 8: Uh uh huh got me fucked up?
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: Gerald?
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: So what we what we're doing for this Q and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: next second? I tried to warn you advance.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: We can.
• 39:28
  Speaker 6: All right, y'all before we get started.
• 39:29
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• 39:36
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• 39:39
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  Speaker 6: All right.
• 41:00
  Speaker 8: The first question that's coming from Reddit, from the relationship
• 41:02
  Speaker 8: at vice thread.
• 41:05
  Speaker 6: Don't, I really don't. I don't give a fuck it off?
• 41:09
  Speaker 8: Okay, coming from a relationship with vice thread on Toxic
• 41:14
  Speaker 8: Reddited Toxic Reddit, and the title is fiance male thirty
• 41:19
  Speaker 8: seven gave me a gave me female thirty four ultimatium
• 41:22
  Speaker 8: ultimatum really to get married. I still want to marry him,
• 41:26
  Speaker 8: but he won't give up on it. Please help. So
• 41:30
  Speaker 8: I met Mark, my fiance, three years ago. It was
• 41:34
  Speaker 8: one of the hardest times in my life, but he
• 41:35
  Speaker 8: made it better for me and I was in love.
• 41:37
  Speaker 8: We got engaged five months ago and we're wedding planning.
• 41:41
  Speaker 8: We were wedding planning until the ultimatum before I met him.
• 41:45
  Speaker 8: I was married to Jared Male thirty four. We were
• 41:47
  Speaker 8: together since college, and naturally we got married and wanted
• 41:50
  Speaker 8: to settle down. A year until our marriage, I got
• 41:52
  Speaker 8: pregnant and eventually gave birth to a little girl named Flora.
• 41:56
  Speaker 8: I was so overjoyed, as was Jared, and it felt
• 41:59
  Speaker 8: like our family was complete. However, as Lana began growing,
• 42:03
  Speaker 8: I noticed her becoming more attached to Jared than she
• 42:05
  Speaker 8: was to me. She would cry non stop if I
• 42:08
  Speaker 8: was trying to hold her, but the moment he held her,
• 42:11
  Speaker 8: she'd stop. Clearly, she's a daddiest girl. It happens, ma'am.
• 42:17
  Speaker 8: Her first word was dadad, and everything seemed to be
• 42:21
  Speaker 8: for her dad and not me. I'll admit that I
• 42:24
  Speaker 8: got a little jealous and was hoping she'd come around
• 42:25
  Speaker 8: to me eventually, but she never did. After three years
• 42:29
  Speaker 8: of feeling like I meant nothing to her, I no
• 42:30
  Speaker 8: longer wanted to be around her, as it was painful
• 42:34
  Speaker 8: and I was resenting her. I served Jared divorce papers
• 42:37
  Speaker 8: and signed away my custody to him, agreeing to pay
• 42:40
  Speaker 8: child's report. Since I no longer wanted to even see Laanna,
• 42:44
  Speaker 8: I decided to start over and that's when I met Mark.
• 42:46
  Speaker 8: First of all, let's pause right here, bitch, fuck you sorry,
• 42:50
  Speaker 8: like fucking okay.
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: He never knew the full.
• 42:57
  Speaker 8: Story because he because he knew I was uncomfortable with
• 43:00
  Speaker 8: talking about it, but he knew I used to be married.
• 43:03
  Speaker 8: He knew nothing about the kid and thought my payments
• 43:05
  Speaker 8: were alimony to Jared. However, he somehow found out either
• 43:09
  Speaker 8: do one of my friends, or contacted him. So far,
• 43:14
  Speaker 8: nobody has fessed up and Mark won't say, and it's
• 43:16
  Speaker 8: been rough. Mark said that he wants me to try
• 43:19
  Speaker 8: a reconciliation with Laana, and it's upset that I abandoned her.
• 43:23
  Speaker 8: He doesn't understand the pain I went through realizing the
• 43:25
  Speaker 8: baby I gave birth to didn't love me, and thinks
• 43:28
  Speaker 8: I can just solve this like it's a sitcom and
• 43:31
  Speaker 8: everything can be happy in the end. Mark has given
• 43:34
  Speaker 8: me the ultimatum they either I try reconnecting with Laanna
• 43:37
  Speaker 8: or he's calling off our engagement. He said he doesn't
• 43:40
  Speaker 8: want to marry someone who will casually drop her kids
• 43:43
  Speaker 8: off or what he thinks is an inconvenience. I don't
• 43:47
  Speaker 8: think Lanna even remembers me, honestly, and it'll be too
• 43:50
  Speaker 8: painful for me if I tried to talk to her again,
• 43:52
  Speaker 8: because of all the memories before I walked out of
• 43:54
  Speaker 8: her life. I really want to marry Mark, but I
• 43:57
  Speaker 8: don't want anything to do with Laana that anything I
• 44:00
  Speaker 8: can do to convince him not to push the ultimatum anymore.
• 44:06
  Speaker 6: My sister said it.
• 44:07
  Speaker 7: You go to hell and you die, because that's a
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: did beat mama. That's a did beat mom right there.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: If this was a dude, he'd be my baby don't
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: like me, she ain't never liked me.
• 44:19
  Speaker 8: Well, maybe it sounds the children have discernment that they
• 44:23
  Speaker 8: don't know how to understand, and they don't know what
• 44:25
  Speaker 8: to do with a lot of times, if a child
• 44:27
  Speaker 8: don't like somebody, it's a reason behind it.
• 44:29
  Speaker 6: And clearly lyne knew you wasn't ship.
• 44:31
  Speaker 7: But I think that because she was a baby.
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: Don't like you about to say like nobody was just.
• 44:38
  Speaker 7: Like you, trying to just cover up the fact that
• 44:40
  Speaker 7: you just didn't want to.
• 44:41
  Speaker 8: At some points, all parents think they kid take that.
• 44:43
  Speaker 8: I told you all the story of how when Trade
• 44:45
  Speaker 8: was a baby he had college.
• 44:46
  Speaker 6: He kept crying. I was crying with.
• 44:47
  Speaker 8: Him, and his grandmother came and took him and said, Seana,
• 44:49
  Speaker 8: you exhausted, lay down, taking nap. I got the baby.
• 44:52
  Speaker 8: But I was like, but he hates me. You can't
• 44:56
  Speaker 8: hate you when he toddless. When the teenagers.
• 44:58
  Speaker 7: Sometimes when they do not even like hating you, it's
• 45:02
  Speaker 7: just like you can't communicate verbally.
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: With there, and you don't know what I'm saying.
• 45:06
  Speaker 7: We internalized, oh my baby hate me.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: Nothing in your story said anything about the baby hating
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: her post part I thought it was in the beginning.
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: No, it was. I mean that's what it sounds like.
• 45:19
  Speaker 8: Well, the bit's got post postpartum because the times away
• 45:22
  Speaker 8: they writes to their baby.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, you don't like me, bitchual you you ain't
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: getting no to it.
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: You want your daddy, but you can your dad.
• 45:30
  Speaker 7: It was like, look just reckon to how we can continue.
• 45:33
  Speaker 7: And you still say no.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: Because least.
• 45:38
  Speaker 5: Run Mark.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: It's like your your dad.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: You that butt hurt yo, like you you that butt
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: hurt that.
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: Because that's what it was. It's like you butt hert daddy, pretty.
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: Girl.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: I'll be honest. I do notice that.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: I mean I do notice that women don't Some women
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: don't like the fact that they can't really do.
• 46:08
  Speaker 8: Much and the fact that she was able to sign
• 46:10
  Speaker 8: custody over tam girl, I feel like, I don't know
• 46:12
  Speaker 8: what your name is, but I'm going to call you Karen.
• 46:14
  Speaker 6: Fuck you.
• 46:15
  Speaker 11: I would like to know what the judge said when
• 46:18
  Speaker 11: I would know what the judge said when they when
• 46:20
  Speaker 11: they did.
• 46:21
  Speaker 10: During the whole core process, I wondered.
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: Why why do you want to give up custody? Don't
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: like me, right?
• 46:31
  Speaker 7: I mean, I can understand you giving like a few
• 46:34
  Speaker 7: feelings though, because it's some parents that are honest to
• 46:37
  Speaker 7: be like, look, I really just don't want kids.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 46:39
  Speaker 7: If you want the responsibility, okay, that doesn't make it right.
• 46:43
  Speaker 7: But if you know you're not going to be a
• 46:45
  Speaker 7: prayer rather you just had the child with the other people.
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: Respect, that respects behind.
• 46:51
  Speaker 7: Right, it's the reasoning behind it. If the husband said, look,
• 46:55
  Speaker 7: we can do this, like I want you to have
• 46:57
  Speaker 7: a relationship, and he like that, that is the ultimating
• 47:02
  Speaker 7: between us being together or you know, you being by yourself,
• 47:07
  Speaker 7: you basically like like, you're gonna end up resenting the
• 47:10
  Speaker 7: kid because he's forcing you to have a relationship you
• 47:13
  Speaker 7: don't want to have with the child, So you might
• 47:15
  Speaker 7: as well just give that man up to somebody that
• 47:17
  Speaker 7: deserves them and going about your goddamn business.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: Hey, little baby, I gave you up about five years
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: ago and you're about six.
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: How you doing. I don't care. I'm just hit. Look,
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: let me be talking a little bit. Just sit here
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: and play your game.
• 47:30
  Speaker 6: Just sit here and smile, bitch, so this man can
• 47:32
  Speaker 6: marry me, pick up to pick him up again.
• 47:47
  Speaker 8: So far you will just take pictures for social media.
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: You go to have.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Man, it's crazy, but it's crazy because like I didn't
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: like I said, I didn't hear anything about the little
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: girl like not liking you. You just didn't like yo,
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: you just didn't you, I guess. I mean the ya,
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: it probably was PPD and you were going through that.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: You were going through that little about that you you
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: know that you just felt like the world was against you.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: You can't do anything and whatever it is that you're,
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: whatever it is that your husband was doing, that's that's
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: what he was doing.
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: Like he did it like you know, I understand that.
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: I understand that envy.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Like yo, she been crying like yo, she been crying
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: for life an hour, I mean for thirty forty minutes.
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, kids, Karen.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: But for me, now you get Now you're getting with
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: someone who doesn't understand why you don't like why you
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: why you did that? And because and you probably did,
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: you probably gave you probably gave him the word read
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: like you probably give the reason like you get him,
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: like you wrote in your story and.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: None of that ship makes sense, like none of it
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: makes sense.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: And he's asking you like, yeah, he asking you, like, Yo,
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: what's the like, what's the reason?
• 49:00
  Speaker 7: Just say you don't you didn't want the key, you
• 49:02
  Speaker 7: didn't want to have the kids, or.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: You were or you were in or you were in
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: too deep, like yo, you didn't like you didn't think
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: that the ship was going to pan out the way
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: that the pan out the way that it did, and
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: you weren't you were not prepared for your kid to
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: take to.
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: Damn, that's what happened. You was prepared.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: You weren't prepared for your kid to take to the
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: father because you because you felt like because you gave
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: birth and you gave birth to them, you carried them
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: for nine months and you were looking.
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: For was dead too. And I was like, not even
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: it's not the first yet, it's not the first word. No,
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: it wasn't the first word.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: It was the fact that, Yo, she carried I carried
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: you for nine months and this is how you treat
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: me like this, how you this, how you treat me?
• 49:46
  Speaker 7: But as an adult, how do youize that your child
• 49:50
  Speaker 7: hate you when they can't talk them?
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: Tell you know what I'm saying, like, but that's what
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: I'm saying.
• 49:55
  Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying.
• 49:56
  Speaker 4: You don't feel that bomb.
• 49:57
  Speaker 7: I felt like, excuse you really just didn't want that child.
• 50:02
  Speaker 7: You tried it and it wasn't for.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: You, or you ain't like or or you didn't because
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: you didn't get that bond. It's like now you don't
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: want nothing to do with them, So I'm that's I mean,
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: that's also for a selfish reason.
• 50:13
  Speaker 8: Though, Yeah, i'ma I'm gonna do something I rarely do
• 50:16
  Speaker 8: before I move on to the next question, I'm gonna
• 50:17
  Speaker 8: read out some of the comments that people left for her.
• 50:23
  Speaker 8: I don't used to read the other comments, so somebody
• 50:26
  Speaker 8: said heart. One of the comments was tell your doctor
• 50:29
  Speaker 8: what's happening and expo a referral to a psychologist to
• 50:32
  Speaker 8: help you figure this all out. Also see a social
• 50:35
  Speaker 8: work or a family lawyer to find out if it's
• 50:37
  Speaker 8: even possible for you to contact Laanna. If Mark wants children,
• 50:41
  Speaker 8: it makes perfect sense that he wouldn't want to marry
• 50:43
  Speaker 8: you unless you unless you show you a parent who
• 50:46
  Speaker 8: stays and does the hard work. Do you want more children?
• 50:49
  Speaker 8: How response? I would like to have more children because
• 50:52
  Speaker 8: I feel like this thing, this time, things would go
• 50:55
  Speaker 8: right and they would actually love me. And if they
• 50:58
  Speaker 8: don't right, that should have been the following because the probably.
• 51:03
  Speaker 8: So here's another one. You're pretty messed up. Divorce your husband,
• 51:07
  Speaker 8: abandoned your child, and then hit your child from your
• 51:10
  Speaker 8: current partner. I'm surprised that her partner wants anything. To
• 51:15
  Speaker 8: her response, legally, she isn't my child. I was all
• 51:19
  Speaker 8: right as her parent years ago. I felt no reason
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: to mention her since I know she'd never be in
• 51:24
  Speaker 8: my life again.
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: I say, Karen, actually, that's what literally to that statement.
• 51:31
  Speaker 6: Bullshit.
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: Even still, I'm.
• 51:33
  Speaker 8: Not telling somebody that you previously gave birth.
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: I mean, playing Devil's advocate.
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: It's like I'm not gonna mention the kid that I
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: that I that I don't claim.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: But at the same time, but you knew.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: Aund so, just so just to hear what else you
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: hide just to up, you might hit. You might hear
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: this from my mom or or one of my family members.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: I got a kid that I mean, I got a
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: kid that I gave up, that I gave up, like
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: you know, like.
• 52:08
  Speaker 8: I just gave to day she signed, she should be
• 52:13
  Speaker 8: about maybe ten or eleven. I actually seen that thought
• 52:17
  Speaker 8: out of the day I recognized grandmother, like, hey, are
• 52:24
  Speaker 8: you changed your mama?
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: That's the head.
• 52:30
  Speaker 7: Should have been a conversation like look even right, even
• 52:35
  Speaker 7: if you came from like a shameful like look like
• 52:39
  Speaker 7: at the time, give us some type of explanation of
• 52:42
  Speaker 7: why you didn't want the reason I mean, you know
• 52:44
  Speaker 7: the reason why you didn't want the relationship with that
• 52:48
  Speaker 7: Oh well you understand, like that's not helping like make
• 52:53
  Speaker 7: a for him to make a future future with you
• 52:57
  Speaker 7: with kids. It's like, okay, so what if our daughter
• 53:00
  Speaker 7: or somebody do something so you're just gonna get up
• 53:03
  Speaker 7: and leave, give me, Like, but if you give some
• 53:16
  Speaker 7: type of explanation and like help them understand what your
• 53:21
  Speaker 7: perspective was of making that decision and might make it
• 53:24
  Speaker 7: a little bit easier for that relationship. If you felting
• 53:29
  Speaker 7: at the time that you really wasn't gonna be a
• 53:31
  Speaker 7: good parent. That's one thing or whatever. But and then
• 53:34
  Speaker 7: you say, look, and then how you felt about the
• 53:36
  Speaker 7: fall at the time, you felt like that was the
• 53:38
  Speaker 7: best situation for the child. Sometimes that is the best
• 53:41
  Speaker 7: because you will resent the child if you keep the child, and.
• 53:43
  Speaker 6: You could right.
• 53:52
  Speaker 7: The child that you did. At least birth has a
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: family with the with their their kids, putting them into
• 54:00
  Speaker 7: of the system. Right, so at least the childers with
• 54:06
  Speaker 7: their birth father. But to not have a conversation with
• 54:10
  Speaker 7: your parents about that, and y'all about to say, hey,
• 54:13
  Speaker 7: I'm about to marry you.
• 54:15
  Speaker 6: You talk about you want more children, right.
• 54:17
  Speaker 7: That should be a conversation.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: I pushed out, maybe if you're talking about if you're
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: talking about having other kids, you kind of got to
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: put that out there.
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: So your son, so your son and daughter.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: Like your first you said that look stupid or years
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: later going to going down and path what you mean
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: brother and sisters?
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 54:47
  Speaker 6: Ring you could child come home?
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Like uh so, junior, Yeah, I forgot to tell you
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I had I had a daughter before.
• 54:57
  Speaker 8: This girl just came up as my sister, ancestry mom
• 54:59
  Speaker 8: or your side.
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: He's the only run in that family.
• 55:04
  Speaker 6: How did you get it too?
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: You got sick of tra What you mean her mother's
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: got the same name. That's really interesting.
• 55:15
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but that definitely should have been.
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, looks like my mom and that picture with you
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: in the hospital.
• 55:24
  Speaker 8: So fuck you, Karen, Mark run Jared, good job being
• 55:31
  Speaker 8: a good dad, Lonna, you deserve better, hopefully your dad
• 55:33
  Speaker 8: to find a new wife. You'll get a new mommy,
• 55:35
  Speaker 8: and she's everything that you always told for while somebody
• 55:41
  Speaker 8: and Karen, I hope you hit your baby toe on
• 55:43
  Speaker 8: the end of a metal uh bidial? I think more
• 55:49
  Speaker 8: than dollars them just like seven fifty now, Oh yeah,
• 55:57
  Speaker 8: don't don't want don't get extra me? Why moving alone?
• 56:12
  Speaker 8: Cineradi and Sena are here. Of course we're going to
• 56:16
  Speaker 8: Brandon's favorite three at six Brown Chicks.
• 56:18
  Speaker 6: Of course we are. Of course we're gonna do it.
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: Okay, act like he don't like him, but or he
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: loves him.
• 56:27
  Speaker 8: Leaving Las Vegas with my wife, we were in line
• 56:30
  Speaker 8: to board the plane. TSA agents approached and informed that
• 56:34
  Speaker 8: I was trespassed from the airport for a incident back
• 56:36
  Speaker 8: in May. My wife defends me, saying that I wasn't
• 56:39
  Speaker 8: in Vegas in May, but the agent gave her a
• 56:41
  Speaker 8: copy of the paperwork and the police report. In May,
• 56:44
  Speaker 8: my wife was recovering from heart surgery and I slipped
• 56:47
  Speaker 8: out of town with my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I
• 56:49
  Speaker 8: were fighting at the airport in Vegas. Pissed my wife
• 56:53
  Speaker 8: took my jacket and wallet and bought in her flight.
• 56:55
  Speaker 6: I was arrested.
• 56:57
  Speaker 8: She didn't accept my calls, she didn't put money on
• 57:00
  Speaker 8: my books, and I couldn't return home. I searched Facebook
• 57:03
  Speaker 8: and wrote to single women in the area. Three months later,
• 57:06
  Speaker 8: my pen pal put money on my books and picked
• 57:08
  Speaker 8: me up from jail. It's been a year and she's pregnant.
• 57:11
  Speaker 8: She's okay, but I don't want this woman. I want
• 57:13
  Speaker 8: my wife. My wife walked away from me. That void
• 57:16
  Speaker 8: is still there. I want to go home. What to
• 57:19
  Speaker 8: do first?
• 57:21
  Speaker 10: She ain't walk away from you.
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: You ain't got no id, no jacket.
• 57:34
  Speaker 6: No, I don't like it like that?
• 57:39
  Speaker 8: She all And then you're gonna have the audace.
• 57:43
  Speaker 6: The mother.
• 57:45
  Speaker 8: The utter nerds to get on Facebook and find somebody
• 57:48
  Speaker 8: who will dumb enough in the.
• 57:51
  Speaker 7: Area and single bit.
• 57:59
  Speaker 10: Maybe you should with the last the last girl.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: Should neither motherfucker popped on Mofucker popped on Facebook on
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: the Facebook personals, Hey, hey, uh man, sounds like ship
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: incarcerated man.
• 58:16
  Speaker 4: Seeking seeking like my like my single lady. You know
• 58:19
  Speaker 4: you gotta be putt.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: You gotta have money, and I just need money on
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: my books and somebody to talk to because it's very.
• 58:24
  Speaker 6: The man got me.
• 58:26
  Speaker 8: The man got me locked down for a crime I
• 58:28
  Speaker 8: didn't commit.
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: Because you know Jesus, because it gets really really lonely
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: in here, and I just need somebody to talk to.
• 58:36
  Speaker 8: Well, he better go find him some jelly out of
• 58:39
  Speaker 8: fuck and you find him a nigga that's going you get.
• 58:44
  Speaker 6: Or the hot way.
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: I know who you are.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: I know who you are, Chris Hands. I know your name,
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: but I call you Chris Hands.
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: But all right, I mean she's pregnant with my kids baby.
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know legit. Possibly she.
• 59:04
  Speaker 8: Didn't give me, you know, change in my books to
• 59:07
  Speaker 8: give me something I didn't say.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: And you already in collegetable business niggas like, wait a minute.
• 59:15
  Speaker 8: You know she got him out of jail, she put
• 59:17
  Speaker 8: money on his books, and then she picked him up
• 59:19
  Speaker 8: from jail when he got released.
• 59:20
  Speaker 7: What are you up again?
• 59:22
  Speaker 8: He apparently he was trespassed from the airport. Okay, he
• 59:24
  Speaker 8: got into the tr with the bitch he snuck off with.
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: Alright, check me off. So here here's my thing. Why
• 59:30
  Speaker 4: do y'all do this?
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: Ship?
• 59:32
  Speaker 9: Right? See?
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: You get so no, no, no, no, not y'all.
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: Why am I in it?
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: I don't understand. Be in jail and did you find
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: somebody to talk to? And then you get off? Then
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: y'all get off. Then y'all get all close and ship
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: until to the point whereas though now when you get out,
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: you ain't got nowhere to go, so you need somewhere
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: to stay house talking.
• 59:51
  Speaker 4: You're dumping now you don't locked up.
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: She's pregnant this close to him.
• 59:56
  Speaker 6: They gonna change the.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: You patty motherfucker. Oh oh all right, all right, always on, no,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: I'll take that.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 6: I always on something.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: Because because because as somebody we knowing that one day,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: one day locked up at one point.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 6: I had me one No, I had me one that.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: Was locked up who was locked up?
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 7: You had.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 6: You know, we would havegether and then.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 8: He got locked up. Oh yeah, child, listen, I had
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 8: visiting jail. I had visited jail since my daddy was
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 8: locked up and having to go visit the nigga and
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 8: get all pand I sent back to the car because
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 8: they said my pants were see through and I had
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 8: luckily had some leggings in the car. They put them
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 8: underneath my pants.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: Like Seana took that long trip on that bus, bro.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 8: I ain't taking no bus. Niggas was locked up. I
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 8: could have did no longer, but right little twenty five ride.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 8: Put a little change on your book for you call.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: We can talk any night.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 6: You go, sweet yo.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 8: She was part of the family and that that was it.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 6: I never again.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 8: And that was the longest four or five months. He
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 8: was gonna be locked up for like four or five
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 8: months on the old weed. Judge, that was a long
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 8: ass four or five months. You hear me, how bitch
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 8: is doing years?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 10: Years?
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: Years?
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Actually women get these women get married to them niggas
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: in that's in jail because you know that niggain't going
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: away going nowhere.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 7: But they got they definitely got booty in, so they
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 7: ain't gonna stop nigga from you.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 8: Sure got a nigga name Chquan and they.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: Stay off blue sky.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 6: Mm hmmm mm hmmm.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 8: Mm hmm.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: Walked in something they got he was.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 8: And these pitches are losing their jobs behind this ship?
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 8: Are you behind prison day?
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 7: No?
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: Are you bullshiting?
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 3: And somebody was recording he was like, they.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 6: Going these bitches to jail.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: Bullshit, You should work with a nigga.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 8: And Bookings had like you them bitches ended up fighting
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 8: and that's how the ship came out.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 6: They need it in the parking lot. And it's guffing
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 6: because he's all of them.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 8: He got this one bringing is doping, this one bringing
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 8: his money in and both I'm great.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: I mean, we we walked. My brother had cell phones
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: while he was in jail.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 6: Jam everything.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah, niggaws you what's the fun You mean you just
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 8: seen the new Jamie Fox movie.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: Now you got a bunch of preson. Now he got
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: a bunch of prison base. Don't take time.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 4: The grid.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 6: They can go to hell for the grind.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: Go to hell today.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 6: Two that last question.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: Y'all know me? Done?
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, we're staying on.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: Six brown chicks gotta go out with a bang.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: Jesus married.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 6: Of course, I'm not gonna lie.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 8: I worked hard to pull or tease away from his
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 8: plump baby mama bitch. We don't do no plump shaming.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 8: Brown here listen. Won't do no plump shaming around.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 4: First of all, we.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 8: Are dating seriously. It's been a year and I chose
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 8: autis to be my husband. He hasn't proposed yet, but
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 8: I call him my husband. I've introduced him to my
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 8: friends as my husband, and he's never corrected me about this.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 8: I forced him to do the TikTok Suspect challenge, where
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 8: a couple just got describes the partner and shared secrets
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 8: about them on video. I said, suspect wants to marry me,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 8: but he's too afraid to propose because he's.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 6: Scared in his fat baby mama.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 8: Or T said suspect can get dick, but never a
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 8: ring because she feels entitled to everything but contributes nothing.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 8: He knew that hurt me because I'm in between jokes.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 8: I responded, suspect left his fat baby mama for me.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 8: Or said, suspect is delusional. She thinks my baby mama
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 8: won't be my wife. We didn't have a conversation after that.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 8: It's been two weeks and I'm concerned that he went
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 8: back to his baby mama.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: I want this man. He's mine.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: Advice, Dizy bitch, do not want you He told.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 8: You you better leave that man baby Mama alone.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 6: Always.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 8: You ain't said nothing about baby Mama for a Why
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 8: what does she do?
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 10: I mean one say that he would marry.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 4: First of all, that's what he told you.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 10: That makes it, That makes her now a threat. That's right.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 6: Why he called you delusion. First, he told you can
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 6: get the dick, but not a ring man.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 9: One more thing.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 7: He's paying all bills, so that's probably what you want to.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 8: Jimmy has five, he gives away three apples.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: Jimmy had left. He's not thirty three.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 7: He's still getting pussy from the baby mama.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 6: He is the baby. I'm probably just mad at him
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 6: right now.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 7: The way he's going to keep you around is he
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 7: gonna keep having your uh what is it going at
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 7: each other?
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: No, no, that's not that's not. First of all, I
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: can't stand you dizzy bitches.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 10: I hate that ship.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: This this thing here.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 9: He gave me.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: You know that he giving you, He giving you dick,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: He banging your bills. And so you think that you
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: are entitled to this man. You said I chose him
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 2: as my husband.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: Was he a pokemon?
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 4: Like I choose you?
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: He got to have title, got to catch him.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 4: Mom chose.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: And Brandon said no, But Brandon said it. Brandon said it.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: Brandon said it. You chose him as your husband, But
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: did he choose you?
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 8: The Bible said he who found a wife, find up
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 8: a good thing and find favor with the Lord.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 10: And you weren't that good thing?
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 13: Sliding in this humble, breakdown crab that you half his
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 13: in boom, hit a bird, hit a little piece of burber.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: Is in first.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 4: No, the problem is.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: But the problem is is that you think, because you
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: probably built the way that you built, that he wasn't
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: gonna do it. Now, if a nigga got a baby
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: mother and he said he already chose, he chose her
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: as a wife, He said you were entitled.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: You know how he got do it slightly? A little
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: forty dollars to pay your bills. Forty dollars, you know
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 8: But you know what I'm saying, I wish I had
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 8: a forty dollars bill in this motherfuck.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is is that you here, You know,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: all he got do is pay a bill, give you
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: a compliment. He probably he probably get he could probably
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: get it from you. But the baby mother got his
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: kid and she cooked.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 8: For scratch because she probably got that little pizza army
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 8: right here, bomb hands, take the salad.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 6: He ain't leaving.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 8: He ain't leaving his baby mama for you, and she
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 8: give him shade in the summer and heat the winner.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 10: And the cat good.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 4: That nigga diving and this food some good.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 6: Coots you, sir Murninge and all this.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: Listen, slow cook, slow cooking, crawling off the bone, these
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: motherfucking rolls and Hawaiian, bitch.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: You talking about you better set that ship Hawaian your father,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 4: damn it, love handle.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 7: You bitch, respecting You told that ship to your baby,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 7: to your fae.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 3: No no, no, no no, it's some truth and enough
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: to tell honest.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 4: He did not take a shot until she took a shot.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 5: You.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 10: I mean, it's a it's a no no no no
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 10: no no no no.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 4: Bitch, But you're not. But what you're not gonna do.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: You're gonna try to embarrass me on this camera. I
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 4: got something fuzy, bitch.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: We're both gonna be embarrassed.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 6: Key keeping.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 10: Like and don't post that ship.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: Off me.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 7: But you ain't gonna post that you paint.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 6: Ain't no fun when the Rabbits got the gun.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: Look at you stupid sliding down.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: The wall.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 6: Like old R and B video.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 8: You know what she never did.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 6: I chose him.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 4: He ain't trying to be the very best.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 9: No one ever was, for real.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 7: Go get a different baby, daddy.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 9: Ain't no one, not nigga, What the catch?
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 4: That was your real test?
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 5: Ego?
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 8: Deflated like mother fucking Marrio when he used to step
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 8: on a mushroom.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 3: I'm the only one that caught this, nigga just thought
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: started wording the damn themes of the.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 4: Pokemon want to be the very best.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 6: I'm done.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 9: Catch You can't catch that one at all.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: I think we're gonna wrap up here because it's going
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 3: down a rabbit hole. We're gonna able to come. Hey yo,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: roan sheen to thank you all for coming over.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 7: For having us any time we gotta come back.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: Yes, you'll get them here for just the Q and
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: A episode.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 10: Yes, just hit us up.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 3: Let us know, sure say less put the best about
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: that be?
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 10: I know, yeah, Mom, I know you love it. I
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 10: know you listening. I'm gonna love you.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 3: Thanks, thanks for listening.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 8: Man. I thought what I would say that I apologize
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 8: for my filthy mouth. But you know me for about
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 8: thirty years. You know I ain't got no good.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 4: Sense, mommy, she apoloied.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: Definitely did. It's called it? Like I said, do you
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: have any foinal works when we were at.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 4: Gotta Catch on Math, if you.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 3: Have any.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: Everything for a dick, feel free to sit that I
• 1:11:32
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• 1:11:34
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• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: A gmail dot com. You can find us all over
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: the internet. We are on Instagram, TikTok and x at Wonderpot, Underscore,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: Facebook and YouTube at Wine and Audacity the podcast don't
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: forget that, Amper said, and we are on blue Sky,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: which is probably now our most active social media care
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: at Wonderpot because they don't.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 3: Allow us to use underscores.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah hey, but yeah, We'll be back next week with
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: the all episode, but until now, be easy, be safe,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Happy New Year again his own yeahs fucking February, Hey, love,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: and we'll catch y'all on the flip side.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 8: Bye y'all, bays, Thank you.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 7: Eric,