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Episode 57 - Some Tips That You Should and Can Do When You Lose Your Job. · You Minding Your Own Business

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  Speaker 1: I hope you guys are doing well. Me I am
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  Speaker 1: doing okay despite my circumstance. And I wanted to make
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  Speaker 1: today about people that have lost age jobs, people that
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  Speaker 1: right now are going through right now, the worst of
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  Speaker 1: the worst right now and trying to figure out how
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  Speaker 1: they're going to be above water, wondering if there's even
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  Speaker 1: a light at the end of the tunnel. People that
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  Speaker 1: are right now being told today that this is their
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  Speaker 1: last day. People that are losing their apartments, their cars,
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  Speaker 1: their homes, losing everything because everything right now is falling apart.
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  Speaker 2: Everything is rising, food prices are.
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  Speaker 1: High, clothing is high, everything is high.
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  Speaker 2: Housing is even high.
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  Speaker 1: I was looking at some houses that I know that
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  Speaker 1: are not worth three hundred and fifty three hundred and
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  Speaker 1: forty thousand far as a house, and I was looking
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  Speaker 1: in different areas to see about a house, and it
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  Speaker 1: just blows my mind how expensive the houses are.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, good gracious.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to debate, do I want to go
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  Speaker 1: back home to North Carolina and get a house, or
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  Speaker 1: do I want to go to Georgia and buy a house.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta look in Georgia to see how much.
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  Speaker 1: Their houses are, because I found two of them. One
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  Speaker 1: is like three hundred and forty thousand and then one
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  Speaker 1: is like three hundred and ninety some thousand. But the
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  Speaker 1: houses are both nice, and you wouldn't think it's so
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  Speaker 1: much space in a house when you first look at it.
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  Speaker 1: But then again, i'd have to go in there and
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  Speaker 1: look at the houses and then see as far as
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  Speaker 1: you know, actually seeing the house, and then determining from
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  Speaker 1: there if it's something that I want. But let me
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  Speaker 1: say this, a lot of people right now are panicking
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  Speaker 1: because they are basically feeling like everything that could go
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  Speaker 1: wrong is going wrong.
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  Speaker 2: They went to work and then was.
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  Speaker 1: Told their last day is Friday, told they were losing
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  Speaker 1: a job, immediately out their husband or wife is cheating,
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  Speaker 1: finding out that they're getting divorce, your child is in
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  Speaker 1: the hospital because they have some type of cancer or
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  Speaker 1: because they're sick. Regardless of what it is that you're
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  Speaker 1: dealing with, we are going to go through challenges. But
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  Speaker 1: the one thing I learned through my own situation, I
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  Speaker 1: was on vacation, I was visiting my family, and I
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  Speaker 1: was working remote and I was told our last day
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  Speaker 1: was going to be January.
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  Speaker 2: Ninth, right when I was coming home from vacation.
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  Speaker 1: I was getting ready to actually go on a week
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  Speaker 1: vacation on.
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  Speaker 2: A cruise, right before I lost my job.
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  Speaker 1: I came home and I was like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: what am I going to do. The first thing I
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  Speaker 1: did was I waited a couple of days just to
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  Speaker 1: get settled, just to deal with what was happening, and
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  Speaker 1: taking the time to just breathe a little bit. And
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  Speaker 1: then I said, well, after I get my last check,
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  Speaker 1: then I filed funemployment, which is what I did. Got
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  Speaker 1: my unemployment, so I'm not spending any money. Most of
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  Speaker 1: the stuff that I got on the firm. I am
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  Speaker 1: almost paid off, so that's.
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  Speaker 2: A good thing.
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  Speaker 1: But I've been putting applications in every day, and I
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  Speaker 1: would say out of those applications, I would probably say
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  Speaker 1: about a good eighty percent of them have told me
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  Speaker 1: no or I haven't heard anything else from them. I've
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  Speaker 1: had people call me about jobs, but I haven't heard
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  Speaker 1: anything back from them about it. But yet they want
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  Speaker 1: the last of your Social Security number. And most of
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  Speaker 1: the ones who have called have been people there from overseas,
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  Speaker 1: not people from America.
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  Speaker 2: But one lady did call me.
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  Speaker 1: I did send her what times were for me, but
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  Speaker 1: I hadn't heard anything else from her since she reached
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  Speaker 1: out to me. So, like I said, you know, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have your share of ups and downs. And there
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  Speaker 1: are people that's been out since twenty nineteen that have
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  Speaker 1: now came on social media and said, I really don't want.
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  Speaker 2: To go back to work.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people are coming to the realization that
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  Speaker 1: maybe it's not meant for them to work and recognize
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  Speaker 1: a five job. I had somebody that when I had
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  Speaker 1: posted my travels.
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  Speaker 2: Of you know, I did like these. You know how
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  Speaker 2: you can.
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  Speaker 1: Put a bunch of videos and then do the auto
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  Speaker 1: clips and they will post from the videos. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I did today. And yesterday somebody said, well, it looked
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  Speaker 1: like your cruise was boring, and I responded by saying,
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  Speaker 1: I've been on Carnival as well, and Carnival there are
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  Speaker 1: people that are standing around.
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  Speaker 2: They're not partying. What are you talking about.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know anywhere that I've seen where every single
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  Speaker 1: person in that place starts dancing. My old thing is
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  Speaker 1: people are too worried about other people and not worried
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  Speaker 1: about themselves. Now, mind you, I thought about going into
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  Speaker 1: travel agency, and when I get done with this, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to watch somebody talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: But there are two ways to be a travel agent.
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  Speaker 1: Either you can go through somebody else and you get
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  Speaker 1: a percentage, or you can go through someone else and
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  Speaker 1: basically have your own travel agency and somebody will help
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  Speaker 1: you to do that. Now I would say this, I
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  Speaker 1: would say, work with someone else, but still have something that.
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  Speaker 2: Is of your own and get your own certification.
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  Speaker 1: Not only that, learn about the different types of cruises.
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  Speaker 1: Try to build your own connection so that way you
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  Speaker 1: can build When you do build something up your own,
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  Speaker 1: you're able to take your clients with you. But if
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  Speaker 1: you have a non contractual then it's gonna be kind
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  Speaker 1: of hard to do that. Even though people should be
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  Speaker 1: able to make their own choice far as whether they
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  Speaker 1: want to go with you or whether they want to
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  Speaker 1: go with someone else, that's really up to them. But
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  Speaker 1: what I will say is you have the right to
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  Speaker 1: choose whether or not which way you want to go.
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  Speaker 1: But I would say, do your research before you decide
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  Speaker 1: to do anything.
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  Speaker 2: So we all noticed a tax season. I filed my taxes.
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  Speaker 2: They were approved. I'm just waiting to say when I'll
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  Speaker 2: get my money.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't checked today, but when I get it, I
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  Speaker 1: am investing in becoming a travel agent. I am investing
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  Speaker 1: in my coaching business. I am investing in motivational speaking.
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  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, the rest of the weekend, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to be focusing on doing a bunch of you know,
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  Speaker 1: writing and stuff for my book because I decided to,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I think I know what direction I want
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  Speaker 1: to go in it.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm going to continue.
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  Speaker 1: Just writing and just letting the book write itself, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just going in and just writing and then going you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, continuing on.
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  Speaker 1: Now, am I gonna use chat GT that thing, the
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  Speaker 1: chat thing, yep or whatever else is gonna help me
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  Speaker 1: to write the book, Yes, because I might take some
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  Speaker 1: information from it as reference.
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  Speaker 2: But that's about it.
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  Speaker 1: But I have jewelry in there, so I got a
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  Speaker 1: look to see if I can find something to put
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  Speaker 1: jury in so I can start sending off some jewelry
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  Speaker 1: and stuff and start selling my jury.
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  Speaker 2: But it's about really coming up with a plan.
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  Speaker 1: But I would say, while you're not working, get some sleep,
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  Speaker 1: just be just do nothing for a couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: Because when's the last time you haven't done anything where
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  Speaker 1: you didn't get up, go to work, be in front
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  Speaker 1: of screens or whatever you did, go home, take care
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  Speaker 1: of kids, and then turn around and cook dinner and
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  Speaker 1: clean up your house.
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  Speaker 2: Take the time to just beef for a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Go for a walk, go for a drive, go and
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  Speaker 1: have you some coffee, Go and just sit and just
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  Speaker 1: beef for about a week. And then next week just
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  Speaker 1: figure out what your next movie is gonna be. Not
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  Speaker 1: saying don't continue looking for another job, I'm not saying that,
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  Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is this time around, you are
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  Speaker 1: no longer gonna let nobody pull.
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  Speaker 2: The rug from up under you.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna say to yourself, you know what, I am
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  Speaker 1: going to have a safety net. I'm not giving up
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  Speaker 1: my safety net. The best thing to do right now
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  Speaker 1: is if you can go to the gym, work out,
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  Speaker 1: go for a walk, go for a drive. Even if
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  Speaker 1: you don't go shopping, just go to the mall and
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  Speaker 1: walk around and find something that is gonna be something
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  Speaker 1: that represents.
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  Speaker 2: What you're gonna want when you go back to work.
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  Speaker 1: So, for example, you may say I'm gonna want a
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  Speaker 1: new car, go to the dealership and look at one,
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  Speaker 1: find out which card that you won't might be a
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  Speaker 1: new version of it.
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  Speaker 2: But what car do you want.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say you want to buy a house, start looking
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  Speaker 1: for it because this time around, not only you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have your job, but you're also gonna have multiple strings
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  Speaker 1: of income. So you might document your journey in a book,
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  Speaker 1: you might document journey on podcasts, my documentary, journey on them, YouTube,
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  Speaker 1: or whatever you're gonna do, and you might start getting
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  Speaker 1: views because what you're going through may help others. Now
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  Speaker 1: you start to get views, Now you start to get followers.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're getting into these different things, and now you're like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 1: this is cool. It's just like I have a TikTok
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  Speaker 1: and a Facebook and a YouTube and Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Can I do and X get all of that?
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  Speaker 1: But I said to myself, you know what, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: create a coaching channel on TikTok. I got one on
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  Speaker 1: Facebook and YouTube, but I decided that every day I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna work on each one of the channels.
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  Speaker 2: Because on.
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  Speaker 1: YouTube, I have four different you know channels that I have,
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  Speaker 1: So starting next week, each one, I'm gonna work each one.
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  Speaker 1: So I might spend one day working on one, one
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  Speaker 1: day working on another, one day working on another.
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  Speaker 2: Then after that I'm not gonna do no.
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  Speaker 1: Strolling unless I'm gonna buy something. And then I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to put my phone down and I might get up
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  Speaker 1: and go.
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  Speaker 2: For a walk.
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  Speaker 1: Get up since whatever needs to be done in my house,
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  Speaker 1: make breakfast, do my normal routine.
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  Speaker 2: That's it, sit down, maybe watch.
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  Speaker 1: A movie, get back to reading a book, and getting
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  Speaker 1: back to getting my eyes back to where they need
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  Speaker 1: to be. Because this morning I woke up they were hurting,
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  Speaker 1: so I knew it was times like social media break
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  Speaker 1: But if you have enough commentary and enough content, then
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  Speaker 1: this is when you start promoting.
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  Speaker 2: People to it.
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  Speaker 1: So now you can take a break, because if you
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  Speaker 1: have enough content, you want to build the content you
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  Speaker 1: already got before you do anymore, because all you're doing
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  Speaker 1: is wasting your time. So don't stop doing what you're
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  Speaker 1: doing because right now you have no views or right
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  Speaker 1: now you have no sales.
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  Speaker 2: Just keep doing what you're doing.
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  Speaker 1: You may have to add things, may have distract things,
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  Speaker 1: but once you figure out a rhythm and you start
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  Speaker 1: getting people, you're gonna start.
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  Speaker 2: Getting a bunch of people.
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  Speaker 1: And then the question is are you gonna be able
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  Speaker 1: to handle all those people are coming into your platform
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  Speaker 1: or come into your channel. I'm trying to figure out
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  Speaker 1: a way that when I promote certain products that I
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  Speaker 1: can add it on my Amazon store so I start
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  Speaker 1: making money that way. So again, you know, while I'm
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  Speaker 1: sitting here, it's gonna be studying because I'm taking some
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  Speaker 1: more courses as far as coaching for holistic and some
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  Speaker 1: other things.
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  Speaker 2: But then I'm also gonna start making.
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  Speaker 1: Jewelry because I'm about to go through this weekend the
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  Speaker 1: containers to find the one that got the jury in
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  Speaker 1: it and start going through it, and I might go
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  Speaker 1: on Live going through it and then ask it going
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  Speaker 1: on live showing me just trying to make stuff, make bracelets,
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  Speaker 1: and showing me actually making stuff, and who knows, somebody
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  Speaker 1: may say, you know, I would love for you to
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  Speaker 1: make me a bracelet.
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  Speaker 2: I would love for you to make me this.
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  Speaker 1: So when I get my taxes back, I'm gonna invest
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  Speaker 1: in getting some stuff so I can start sending off
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  Speaker 1: products for the stuff that I bought. I want to start,
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  Speaker 1: you know, getting my money back as far as all
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  Speaker 1: the jewelry that I bought. So again, you know, it's
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  Speaker 1: all about planning and then also a schedule stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: So every day I'll be doing something where it'd be
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  Speaker 1: a day of just doing jewelry, a day of just
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  Speaker 1: you know, doing juicing, exercising.
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  Speaker 2: There'll be a schedule.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm working on now because I got a
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  Speaker 1: nice calendar book. So that's what I'm about to work
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  Speaker 1: on now. But again, this might be the time while
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  Speaker 1: you're not working to figure out how you can make
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  Speaker 1: other streams of income that have nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: a job. How much money do you want to make
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  Speaker 1: before you quit your job permanently? How long do you
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  Speaker 1: want before you just say you know what I'm giving
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  Speaker 1: up this job. So for example, you may say, like myself,
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  Speaker 1: twenty thousand a month, which is reasonable, So twenty thousand
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  Speaker 1: a month starting off. Once I do that for a
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  Speaker 1: good two years, then I'll quit when I start making
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  Speaker 1: twenty thousand. When I start making thirty fifty thousand, then
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  Speaker 1: I might quit before then. But I'm not just gonna
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  Speaker 1: go because I made twenty to fifty thousand dollars a
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  Speaker 1: month and say Okay, I'm just gonna buy a brand
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  Speaker 1: new house.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm not doing that. I'm stacking up my money.
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  Speaker 1: While I'm living in the apartment that I'm in to
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  Speaker 1: make sure that I have a safety net. Then I
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  Speaker 1: can say, okay, I have now within three years, over
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  Speaker 1: three hundred thousand dollars. And now I can say, okay,
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  Speaker 1: now I can buy a house because now I can
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  Speaker 1: pay for it outright without doing a down payment or
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  Speaker 1: doing a huge down payment where the payments.
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  Speaker 2: Will be cheaper than what they are.
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  Speaker 1: So again, it's really about planning. Then it's about while
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  Speaker 1: you're not working, find out what works for you, won't
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  Speaker 1: or will not work for you. Work on your health
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  Speaker 1: and wellness, work on your healing, work on recovery, work
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  Speaker 1: on the fact that you just spend more time with
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  Speaker 1: your kids.
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  Speaker 2: So even though.
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  Speaker 1: Yes you're not working, but you are still working, still
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  Speaker 1: got kids take care of. Still gotta make sure they good.
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  Speaker 1: But put it in the Higher Power's hand. Regardless of
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  Speaker 1: what religion or spirituality that you serve, just make sure
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  Speaker 1: that you let him lead. He can't lead if you
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  Speaker 1: keep trying to take over.
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  Speaker 2: Let him lead.
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  Speaker 1: So even though things right now may seem very difficult,
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  Speaker 1: may seem very hard, doesn't mean that it's not a
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  Speaker 1: light at the end of the tunnel, because it is
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  Speaker 1: because I'm the one also.
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  Speaker 2: Going through it.
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  Speaker 1: And you gonna have negative the people that's gonna want
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  Speaker 1: to see you in a certain place so they can say, Cee, see,
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  Speaker 1: I told you this wasn't gonna happen for her. But
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  Speaker 1: then when it does, people want to bring up stuff
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  Speaker 1: that happened twenty thirty years ago. Or because you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do for these people what they want you
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  Speaker 1: to do, they want to tear your life apart.
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  Speaker 2: That's to be expected.
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  Speaker 1: When you get back on your feet, you're gonna have
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  Speaker 1: people that's always gonna remind you of the past version
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  Speaker 1: of you that wasn't very pleasant. That was very negative,
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  Speaker 1: so they're gonna remind you of that. It's about how
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  Speaker 1: you choose to handle it, not everybody else. So at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, yes, it's hard for some people.
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  Speaker 1: They have a spouse, they have the help, or they
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: got a roommate. Other people are doing it by themselves.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Some people are going back home and they're just moving
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: back home after their.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Leases are up.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: But people are really going through it right now. They are,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: and I pray for every single person that is going
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: through something, just like people that are going through illnesses
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: and diseases.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: I want people to.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Know there are ways that you can find cures, but
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: it's about finding it before it gets too far gone.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Some people don't find out till they gat stage four,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: it's already too late. That's because they didn't have the
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: insurance to go to the doctor. They didn't have insurance
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: to go to the dentists and go get stuff.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Done, so they couldn't get it done. And now the
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: dead things happen.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: You abuse, trauma, You got a whole bunch of drama
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: going on. So is it really worth it? No, because
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: it ain't. So your happiness should begin in with you
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: and not with anybody else.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: So I know it's not easy.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I know it's hard wondering how you're gonna pay Peter
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: to pay Paul aka bills, But they don't want you
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: to that even if you did have a regular job,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: you don't even have the time to even enjoy a concert.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: You don't even have a time to even go on
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: a seven day vacation. If you go back to work,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: then the copays and deductibles are so expensive as far
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: as going to the doctor that you don't even have
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: universal health care.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: So, of course, is this going to be easy.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: No, because it's not anybody that says these journeys are
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: easy and there's not other things that's gonna come in between.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Think again, should me give an example. Now we had
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: bad Bunny on the Super Bowl, right, and now you
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: know Chris Brown says that he wants to put his
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: hand in the ring for being a super Bowl, And
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: somebody said, why shouldn't we have K pop artists or
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: those different artists to actually perform at the Super Bowl.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: That would be interesting to have K part K pop
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: artists like what's some kids' names?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Uh, straight kids and all these other different artists to
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: perform at the Super Bowl.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: But are they gonna do it?
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know, because it would definitely be some controversy
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: considering everything that's going on between China and Korea and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: the United States and all of Asia. So I don't know,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: But would it be interesting to have these artists, as
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: far as Asian artists to perform at the Super Bowl.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: It'd be very interesting and it would definitely be a
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: fu to politicians and mega if they did, because that
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: would be really insane.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: But I don't know.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: But if they did, Bad Bunny, who's to say that
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: they wouldn't have straight kids or a bunch of straight
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: a whole bunch of K pop artists performing at the
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Super just so it can hit multiple other countries with
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: these prides. They already talking about putting the NFL in Brazil,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: so I mean, anything is possible. So again, you know,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: the NFL is looking at Chestnut Checkers. They're like, look,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: if everything right now go on, we gotta figure out
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: where we're gonna put the NFL just in case everything.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Goes wrong in the United States. You're thinking, not thinking
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: God saw video on YouTube with Travis Kelcey and the
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: other quarterback from the Kansas Citty Chiefs and they're supposed
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: to be playing in Brazil because they're talking about doing
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: something with the NFL gonna be in Brazil.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: That is gonna be interesting. But do you hear anything
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: about it?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: No?
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: Did anybody turn about it on TikTok?
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: No? They ain't said your words, because again, these billionaires
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: are preparing for this downfall in the Nina States.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: They're preparing for it.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: So many of these billionaires have had to basically deal
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: with humong is lost and a lot of these billionaires
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: have lost businesses from COVID nineteen up until now, and
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: they're still losing businesses.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: But what's even more crazy is is the reason they're
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: doing it.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: What it is is right now, fast food restaurants and
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: certain other jobs cannot keep employees in these jobs. So
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: what they do is they find out the fact that
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: certain fields need positions.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: So they lay you off.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Why because it makes you desperate and it makes you
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: go run and try to get a job, regardless of
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: where it is. But gen Z is proving that they're
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: not settling. I'm not going to work for McDonald's. These
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: kids don't even want to work for McDonald's. Majority of
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: people that work in McDonald's. Are not even young people
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: no more. It's older people and people with disabilities that.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Work in McDonald's.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: These young kids don't even want to work in McDonald's
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: and they don't.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Majority of the ones you see are the ones that
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: probably never went to college, or the.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Ones that never went the high school, or people that
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: just got out of jail that are working at fast foods.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: So they're trying to get people to work fast foods.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: So by laying people off, that means you're making it
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: so they're that.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Scared where they have to do any and everything. So
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: because every time they put.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: An application in the field they're actually went to school for,
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: they're being rejected crazy enough, so that means.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: They have to do what they have to do. Well.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: You have companies like you know, countries like Denmark to
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: saying you know what, y'all can come here, you ain't
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: gotta stay there. You got companies, you know, countries and
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: companies outside of the United States is saying you come here,
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: you don't have to stay there.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: If you got a degree and.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: You want a better work right balance had you can
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: come here. You got people going to Thailand. There was
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: a girl that was in Thailand, but unfortunately has to
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: come back because when her and her girlfriend broke up,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: she now doesn't have enough money to stay in Thailand,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: so now she gotta come back.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: To the United States. And they're even messing to the
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: passport bros. When it comes down to.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Them bringing people to the United States as far as foreigners.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: And then we all know what happened with ice and
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: what happened to the two Caucasian people that lost their.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Lives due to ice. We all know this.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like I said,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: you need to pay attention what's going on. And for
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: some of us, we ain't meant to be a part
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: of society standards, we're not meant to be a part
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: of it at all. Lot of people going in different directions.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: And you know, if you know anything about a stock
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: exchange and you know how to go ahead and start
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: your stocks, by all means, go ahead.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: If you have somebody can help you with stocks, and
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: by all means go ahead. Cryptocurrency. If you know somebody
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: can help you in cryptocurrency, then hey, do your thing.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: But if some of us who don't know nothing about that,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: we ain't gonna take risk. And yeah, you're gonna have
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: a bunch of people to scam artists, con artists that
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: are gonna manipulate, bamboozo and lead you astray and basically
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: take everything they can take from you. But the way
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: the world is now is the haves and the have nots,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: and they are trying to keep at have nots. So no,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: they're not trying to let you be better. No, they
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: don't want you to get better. Do y'all know understand?
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: They make billions of dollars off you being sick. They
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: make billions of dollars off the vorce. They make billions
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: of dollars off women being single mothers. Y'all don't understand
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: they make billions of dollars off this dozing. If they
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: really care, then they will get rid of the second
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: send these people.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: They're not gonna do that.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: So again, when you start looking at things for what
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: they are and you start paying attention, you're like, well, dang,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know how I missed all this stuff, But
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: this is while you at home. You just sit back
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: and observe, Sit back and just watch, because I'm telling
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: you you gonna see a lot of things and you're
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: gonna be like, well, dang. So now take the time
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: to heal, take the time to sit still, take the
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: time to while you are not working, be actually productive,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: travel a little bit, take some time to just be
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: spend some time with your kids.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Why you can pay her everything.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: Because like I said, I seen people that just got
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: off one cruise and now going on to another cruise
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: when I was on Margaritaville.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: These people, these.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Older people that can retire, the baby boomers are probably
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: gonna be the last one that's gonna be able to
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: retire because the between gen X and gen Z, they're
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: not gonna be able to retire.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Why because there's nothing in their savings.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: A lot of people in gen X were no different
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: than gen Z as far as jobs were concerned, and
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: weren't at jobs long enough to retire. Some people haven't
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: even weren't even at a job for six months. Some
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: people were only at jobs like six to eight years.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: So they're not gonna have a lot of retirement that's
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: gonna be enough to.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Be able to pay their bills. And that's just the
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: reality of it.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: So this is why now you gotta start having multiple
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: streams of income. This is why you have to keep
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: your houses and keep everything that you bought, because that
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: was the whole point, was to be able to keep
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: what you bought, and that way you wouldn't have to
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: worry about buying something else and you can actually enjoy
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: your money and be able to retire. Only thing you
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: have to do is just pay whatever taxes that there are.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Now, if you even.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Think about trying to get another house, then you're gonna
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: get somebody.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Else to move into the house.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: The way things are right now, nobody can afford to
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: buy a house right now. They said a lot of
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: realtors didn't even sell anything last year, So a lot
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: of people didn't even make money last year because people
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: couldn't even get a house because people credits are so bad,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, student loans and nothing. So there's so many
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: different things that go on that you really got to,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: you know, sit there and think about.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: But what I will say is.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: That despite all of that, you're gonna have to have
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: a plan, and you're gonna have to have a safety net.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: So those of y'all that lost your jobs, please make
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: sure you have a safety net. Please make sure you
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: have something for a rainy day, because now you just
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: can't be I sold everything now I paid off everything.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Now I want something else. Now, if your car is
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: broken down, you need to get another car.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I completely understand, because it's more expensive to get another car.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I mean to fix a car, then they get a
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: new car.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Got it, But a house. Keep your house.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Because there's no point now you can rent it out,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: but just know you need to have something that can
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: be passed down for your children just case something happening.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: They need a place to stay. That's the whole point
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: safety in it. And a lot of kids don't understand that.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: You know, you might want to keep.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: That house because you never know if you may have
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: to move into that house because you have no place
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: to stay. So it's important that you understand that because
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying give your kids stuff for free, not
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: saying that, but when it comes to a house, you
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: want to have something that if your needs, your nephew
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: or your child is in a situation or bind, they
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: have a roof over their.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Head and a place to stay.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: That is just something that is extremely am So if
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: and when you go back to work, make sure it's
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: time around you put some money aside. Don't just go
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: because you went back to work and start spending money.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Don't just because you start making twenty thousand dollars a
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: month then you just start spending.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: Above your means.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Stack your money up, put your money back into your business.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: When you're making money where you can afford to put
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: money back in your business, and you have enough money
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: to really enjoy it, then you can spend it. But
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: don't go buy all this stupid stuff like Louis Patan
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: and something because it got a name on it. Just
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: remember how you were before you basically started making money.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Don't forget what happened before you started making money. Don't
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: forget that because again you're gonna be reminded of that.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: People are gonna remind you of your past anyway. People
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: gonna remind you of who you were before any of
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: this happens. So just understand that it's not easy. So
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: you have people that are trying to buy, you know,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: houses in other countries, you know, then it's also about
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: trying to you know, become a citizen. So in Thailand,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I have not known anybody to become a citizen over there,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: and people been trying. So I would just say, you know,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: understand that it's not easy. It is a lot of work,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: but it could be anything. Your health and wellness should
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: also be while you're not working.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Focus on that.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Focus on being healthy, focus on taking care of yourself,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: focus on sleep, focus on exercise, focus on dieting first,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: focusing on reading, educating yourself, focus on you know, your
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: mental health, psychological health, focus on you know your children,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: you know, being able to make time with them.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So is it easy?
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: No, not at all. But you're gonna have a lot
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: of people talk about these you know they're gonna be
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: talking about. All it is is what thirty days. You
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: can do this in thirty days, You can do that
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: in thirty days. But those are just temporary solutions. Those
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: are not permanent things that's gonna help you later on
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: down the line. So yeah, they are temporary, and yes,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: these are things you can do for right now. But
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: when it comes down to permanently doing something, permanently being successful,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: then understand that you got to find something that you
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: can maintain and you've got to be realistic when you
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: go back out here. So don't think that you won't
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: go backwards, because you will, And then don't tell the
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: world that what you got going on never let the
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: left hand know what the right hand does.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: So just keep on moving, keep doing what you're doing.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Don't let none of this stuff stop you from your greatness,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: but understand that you gotta take it one day.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: At a time, one step at a time.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: So with that being said, I hope this information helps
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: you out. And with that being said, I thank you
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: guys for joining me for this episode.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I'm your old Scott Zashamayama.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: And until next time, just remember every journey that you
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: go on can either pass or fail. That's really up
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: to you, not up to everybody else.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: It's up to you.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: If you mind your own business and focus on yourself,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: then you'll be amazed what.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: You can accomplish.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: But if you're trying to be like everybody else, do
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: like everybody else, think like everybody else, act like everybody else,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: and be where everybody else is, you never gonna make it.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: But that being said by y'all, oh,