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Socrates Philosophies & Hypothesis : Book 2 The 12 Principles 2 to Attract & Keep Any Woman · The Bull Brotherhood

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And I want every man to be able to find a woman
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he wants. You might not want the sexually free
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and crazy woman that my wife is. You might want
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an ultra -conservative virgin until she gets
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married, only one man, the rest of her life,
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never cheats, and that you can achieve these
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principles. You might want the dirtiest lady.
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I literally prayed to my Heavenly Father, y 'all.
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to give me the biggest slut possible, an ethical
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slut, a loyal one, for those vanilla people,
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like, how does that work? Well, I would challenge
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you to look up the word cheating and not find
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the word deception in it. and ethical non -monogamy.
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Podcast, where we talk power, pleasure, and the
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leave a lasting impression. If you're here, you're
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not just curious. You're ready to elevate. So
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to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
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-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. It's
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your boy, Socrates. And today, I'm going to introduce
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a new series. I did not realize it, but about
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a month ago, I ended a 30 -year journey. Let
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me actually see. Actually, 35 -year journey.
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When I was 19, Me and my best friend at the time,
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we were broke. We weren't the most popular boys
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in school. We didn't have a car. We did not know
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how to hustle. My dad, who was a major drug dealer
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in my town, would not allow me to, which is I'm
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really blessed that he didn't, but back then
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I hated that. So we had to find creative ways
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to get women. And the first thing we did was
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we bought this book on tape in the library called
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Light Her Fire. And that started a 35 -year journey
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of me studying dating and marriage, anything
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from pickup to how to find your... most conservative,
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good Christian woman in the church to pimping.
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I've read probably over 300 books on the subject.
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Seminars, mentors. I've studied pimps. I've studied
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guys with, Just serious game. I studied people
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in the early years of white guys being bulls.
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And recently, I spent about four or five years
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doing research on the red pill and their perspective
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on dating and marriage. And I have come up with
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12 principles that... I believe can help any
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man find, attract, and keep happy a woman. Now,
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how did I come to this? I've said it before on
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these episodes, failure, failure, failure. I
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failed at marriage. I failed at dating. I failed
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at attracting women. I failed at keeping women
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happy. But one thing I never did is I never gave
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up, and I always learned from my mistakes. And
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the last 10 years, I started seeing a tremendous
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amount of success. And that's because for 25
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years, I failed and I researched and I studied.
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And I had some successes and I built on those
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and I failed some more and I researched and I
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studied and I developed these principles. Now,
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you're saying, Socrates, this is a lifestyle
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podcast. And you guys are a niche of a niche.
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You guys are an interracial hot wife space. You
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know, I don't know if me and my wife has announced
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it, but I'll probably announce it here unless
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she objects. We are now poly. So I have now engaged
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in or being a part of every kind of relationship
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there is. I mean, for 46 years of my life, I
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think, 45 years of my life, I was monogamous
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in monogamous relationships. And I would say
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to ultra conservative Latin women, like first
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generation, second generation Latin women, very
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old school traditional women. And I've seen.
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I was in ministry. I've seen the most conservative.
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Let's just get married for Jesus or for, in our
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case, Yahshua the Messiah. Let's be married so
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we don't be a stumbling block to those who believe
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marriage is a big deal because in my religion,
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the paper doesn't really mean anything, like
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who married Adam and Eve type of thing. But what
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I have come up to is Learning these principles
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through what I'll call the mixed dating and marriage
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strategy. I have taken dating advice and principles
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from people like John Gray to people like Barbara
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DeAngelis, which was at one point married to
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John Gray. All the red pill guys, you know, the
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five love languages. the Christian dating advice
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to the game, which is about, you know, pickup
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artists, to, you know, how to throw parties and
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get women, even if you're not good looking or
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have money or fame or whatever. I've read the
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books on those. I have researched those things.
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And I'm going to bring you 12 principles that
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I think, and I'm going to make a crazy claim
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here, revolutionize every kind of relationship.
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One of the things that the Bull Brotherhood wants
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to do is move away from just the niche of the
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interracial hot wife space and the ethical non
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-monogamy space, which is a niche of a niche
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of a niche, to universal principles. Because,
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like I said in the beginning, About a month ago,
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that 35 -year journey, that chapter ended and
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a new chapter began. And that was my son reminding
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me that me and my friend, my best friend, were
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mad scientists with this shit. And it brought
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back memories of reading all those books, of
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going to seminars, and of taking courses, of
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wedding crashing, of... All kind of things that
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we could do to try and be successful in attracting
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women and keeping them happy and, you know, having
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serious relationships of being in marriages and
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the sort. And I'm going to make some crazy claims
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here. And I would love people's feedback. I would
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love pushback on this one. Normally I don't want
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to be arguing and disputing with people, but
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this is going to be the beginning of. Teaching
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other people these 12 principles. I already have
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some friends locally that are working on this
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almost scientifically, doing each part, giving
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me feedback. And these principles will work whether
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you are a bull in the lifestyle, a cuck in the
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lifestyle, any kind of position that you can
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think of in vanilla or lifestyle. Polyamory.
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or ultra conservative, you know, religious beliefs.
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So I'm going to read, what we're going to do
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is we're going to talk about all 12 in succession.
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And then I don't know if I'm going to do it on
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this one or the next one. I'm going to go down
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each one and break down what it means, each principle.
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We're going to talk about it. So number one,
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this is the opinion of Socrates, not Siren and
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not Brian, nobody in my squad, none of my mentors.
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I don't even know if Brian knows I'm doing this
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just yet. He'll know before it comes out, but
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this is 35 years of me learning these principles.
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The lifestyle was the cap. The lifestyle gives
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you a window into women that no other kind of
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dynamic does, in my opinion. The closest I would
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say I learned a lot from the P. Diddy trials.
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Again, no Diddy. Lifestyle has nothing to do
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with what he did. He only fucked with actually
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one lifestyle person out of all the five male
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escorts. And out of the five, I think only two
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were actually male escorts. But what it taught
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me is that people in the lifestyle, men who do
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like male reviews, male strippers, pimps, players,
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people who work with madams, people who do massage,
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really attractive, especially what I know of
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black men, but I'm sure it's of every race. and
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physical trainers, they see a side of women that
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most society doesn't. And when I got into the
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lifestyle, I saw women's sexuality free and open.
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And one of the first things was debunked is,
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you know, that these women are unattractive or
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that these women are desperate or that they're
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broken any more than any other group is or any
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other people out there are. that the marriages
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don't last. And being in this lifestyle, I've
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met people who have been in this lifestyle for
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30 years and their happiness level could not
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be higher. I have been plugged into as many studies
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as I can get the feed on. And now with ChatGBT,
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I run those studies through chat and have it
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given me a synopsis of those things. So I have
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been watching and studying the lifestyle for
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10 years. And not just talking to people and
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going to parties. I mean reading as many books
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as I can on it. I follow evolutionary psychologists
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that talk about it. This is a passion of mine.
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And what I've done is taken the principles I've
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learned from lifestyle and combined them with
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all the other principles when it comes to what
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kind of man you should be to attract the kind
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of woman you want. to keep her and to keep her
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happy and for you to get your needs met. And
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that is really hard to do, ladies and gentlemen,
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really hard to do. And I want to share these
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principles and I want pushback. I want people
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to question them. I want people to. challenge
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my claims because I'm about to make some crazy
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claims. I'm about to tell you, if you're a bull,
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this is what I know. This is the closest thing
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to my experiences. And I know a lot of my mentors
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tell me, talk about your experiences only. Well,
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as a researcher, I don't do that. As a researcher,
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I talk about my experiences and the experiences
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of the people that I know that are succeeding
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in the things that I want to do. And I talk to
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them so much and I get so much other evidence.
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I feel comfortable speaking about things that
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are not my experience. And I will also stand
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on these are my summations or not assumptions,
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but principles that I've learned that I've been
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able to glean from all these other people that
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are living the life I want to live. So. It has
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come to head all the things I've learned. from,
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you know, the Goggins husband and wife company
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to John Gray, who's one of my favorite authors
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on the subject, to, you know, the author of No
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More Mr. Nice Guy or The Game or Rollo Tomasi
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and The Rational Male or even a lot of books
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that women read. I haven't read a lot, but I've
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read a few. So these are the things that I believe,
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if you're like, for example, a black bull, you
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are able to get women to voluntarily and willingly
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and consciously say, you can do whatever the
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fuck you want to my pussy. You can do whatever
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you want to my body. You own this. From that's
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cool thing we do when we go to a party to, you
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know, like masters managing their slaves. And
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I'm, you know, somebody into black history and
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not into race play as much as some of my friends
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are. That stuff makes me uncomfortable. But I've
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experienced that recently. And I want every man
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to be able to find a woman he wants. You might
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not want the sexually free and crazy woman that
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my wife is. You might want an ultra conservative
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virgin until she gets married. Only one man the
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rest of her life never cheats. And that you can
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achieve these with these principles. You might
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want the dirtiest slutty. I literally prayed
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to my heavenly father, y 'all, to give me the
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biggest slut possible. An ethical slut. A loyal
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one. For those vanilla people, like, how does
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that work? Well, I would challenge you to look
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up the word cheating and not find the word deception
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in it. There's no such thing as cheating without
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deception. I have a loyal woman who we agree
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on who we play with and we don't, and she's loyal
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to me. But I love her sledding herself out. I
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love it. So any other kind of man that I'm not,
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I have seen, heard, experienced, or researched
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other people using these principles in different
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ways and not even using all of them. I'm saying
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if you learn these 12 principles and you master
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them, and I'm in the process of mastering them,
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you can get any kind of woman you authentically
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want. Right? Because if somebody asks, well,
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who's your celebrity crush? Oh, it's J -Lo. But
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do I actually think I'll ever get to play with
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her? Maybe, but most likely not. Right? But the
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woman I want authentically, and I've wanted for
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a very long time, I am married to right now.
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And I'm happily married. Does that mean we don't
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have problems? We have all kinds of problems,
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y 'all. We argue like cats and dogs. We got good
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friends that'll tell you. But I am extremely
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happy in this marriage, and I know because I'm
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the one who asked for the divorce for all the
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marriages I failed, and I knew because I was
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looking for her. And I just thought the person
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I was marrying was her. So let's get into it.
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I've been rambling long enough. So there's 12
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principles. I'm going to go through 12. They're
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sequential, meaning you master one before you
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master the other. The order sometimes even baffles
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me, but when I really sit down and think about
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it, They all make sense. So these are 12 principles.
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And let me tell you why they're principles. Some
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of them might not sound like principles, but
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they are. And the reason why they're principles
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is because guess what? If anybody's prescribing
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anything for you to do, and it's really specific
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on do this, go here, say that, they're giving
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you wrong advice. Let me just tell you straight
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up. Reason why is there's too many variables
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out there. One of my mentors talks about it.
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He doesn't like to speak on a lot of things because
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of that. There are too many variables. And that's
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right. But the answer to me for variables is
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principles and questions. When there's a variable,
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there's principles you can follow and questions
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you can ask to make it not a variable or make
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it where the choice of those variations of options
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or things that can happen become clear. So let's
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start. One. The first couple of these are ones
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that really have anything to do with the woman.
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It has to do with setting yourself up as the
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kind of man that a woman would want to live a
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life with or submit to you in kink world or fuck
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you that night and never see you again. So one
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is choose a victorious mindset. over a victimhood
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mindset. Number two is choose intelligent authenticity.
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Number three, start a journey of finding or living
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a life of vision, purpose, and plan, whether
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that vision be large or small. Number four, be
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intelligently selective. Even when you're married,
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you can do that. Even when you've already selected
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and chosen the woman you could be with, you could
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do that. Number five, have a frame or framework
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for her to live into so that you can frame her
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experiences. Number six, men have sex drives,
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women have sex responses. I already talked about
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one of these in an episode earlier. Number seven,
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be a self -sustained servant. Number eight, women
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speak the language of heart and connection in
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relationships, and men speak the language of
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the mind and logic in relationships. Nine, women
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are the prize, gentlemen. Women are the prize.
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So men's job is to provide. Protect, please,
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lead, and love. And we get the opportunity to
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be the prize's preference. Number 10, commit
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to sexual discipline. Number 11, this is the
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big one, guys. And you're like, why is this number
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11 so big? It's because when you do all 10, And
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you add these last two, this is the two that
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will get a woman, the woman you truly and authentically
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want or the women that you authentically want
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and truly want. Not the ones that you're going
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to be able to brag to your boys you snagged.
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I bagged this baddie. No, I'm not talking about
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that. I don't have any advice for you if that's
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what you're trying to do. I'm talking about the
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kind of playmate you authentically really like.
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Even if she's a baddie, that's fine, and you
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authentically really just want that baddie, and
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you can never tell anybody you played with her,
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okay, fine. But I'm talking about any aspect
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or any dynamic. Number 11, validate all of her
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feelings, but correct the bad behavior and reward
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the good. And the corrections or checking a woman,
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should be about 20 % of the time, and the rewarding
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should be about 80 % of the time of the feedback.
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And then number 12, pursue sexual mastery of
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all day game. Now, they are in order. So one
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is more important than two and two is more important
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than three and they affect one another. So it's
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not that you have to do these things to a woman
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in that order, but you have to get at least a
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basic understanding of each one and know how
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to live a daily life of each one in order for
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you to see the benefits of number two. So for
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example, and let me say this too. I'll go back
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to what I mean by sequential. What's my audience?
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I probably should have started this way. My audience
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is those lifestyle or not vanilla or whatever,
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but men who I did self -identify and I'm talking
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to my woke liberal friends. I'll say it in your
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language and I'll say it in everybody else's
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language. I'm speaking to cisgendered men who
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self -identify as masculine. And I'm speaking
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in regards to men who are looking for cisgendered,
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could be bisexual, cisgendered women, biological
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women, who I self -identify as feminine. Now,
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all the other categories and all the other possibilities
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and all the other caveats that people want to
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give. I'm not hearing that shit. Why? I've said
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it before. I'm not an expert on those things.
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I am a libertarian politically. So that means
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I believe in your freedom to do and be over the
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fuck you should want to do and be. So I'm not
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speaking on those things because I don't speak
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on things. I don't have good, solid evidence
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and experience or personal anecdotes or personal
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experiences. So if you don't identify with those
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things, in other words, for everybody else, if
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you think of yourself as anything other than
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a masculine man who wants to be the head of a
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household or believes there are certain traditional
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roles for men and women, it could be loose, like
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my wife's a boss bitch. I'm not ultra -conservative
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in that way, but I do run my household. I do
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have the final say in what happens. We do have
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some traditional roles of masculine and feminine
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and what those mean. If it's anything else, like
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one of my favorite books I recommend every man
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to read, and if you don't believe me, listen
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to Nipsey Hussle, is called The Way of the Superior
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Man. And in there, he really breaks it down as
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far as like, hey, we can talk about the feminine
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in any body or... sexual orientation or whatever,
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and we can talk about the masculine, you can
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talk that way. But since I don't understand how
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those translate in the trans community, in the
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gay community, in non -binary community, I'm
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not speaking on it. So unless you want to contact
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me personally and get to know me and educate
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me on a level that I can ask you a thousand questions.
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And we can have an intellectual and deep conversation
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about these aspects. Don't hit me up. Because
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I'm just not speaking about that. So back to
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the sequentialness of it. I'm going to go over
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some of the aspects of choosing a victorious
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mindset over a victimhood mindset. And then I'm
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going to talk about how that affects choosing
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intellectual or intelligent authenticity. So
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a man who chooses a victorious mindset does.
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one of these things or all of them if possible
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but he thinks positively he doesn't have a victim's
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mentality doesn't have a focus on what can go
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wrong focus on all the bad now there's a difference
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between a negative sorter and a negative person
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a negative sorter is someone who looks at all
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the things that go wrong first in order to be
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prepared to handle it in order to be able to
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overcome And then they're more comfortable seeing
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how can they win. They're go -getters. They're
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still going to think ultimately this is going
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to succeed, but they're usually talking about
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and thinking about and meditating on and responding
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to the negative first. But a negative person
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is just negative no matter what. You plan ahead.
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If you're going to be victorious, it's not just
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about thinking positively, having a great attitude.
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It's about actually planning for it. You seek
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wise counsel. Right? You have people on your
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team that helps you. How can I be victorious
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in this court case against this, you know, my
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baby mama, against the government, against a
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foe? Right? How do I avoid a victimhood mindset?
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I always use the example, if I'm robbed and I
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didn't have security and a gun and they come
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in and rob my house, let's say I wasn't home.
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I've seen many people get robbed, and now they're
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not safe anymore. They can't relax. They don't
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ever feel safe anymore, and they've been traumatized.
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And anything that happens that makes it look
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like there's going to be a bad person coming
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in their house, they're triggered. And look,
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I'm not talking about that. If that's your mentality
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and you believe that, that's what you do, great.
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Those who choose to say, you know what? Instead
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of feeling that way, I'm going to get security.
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I'm going to get cameras around my house. I'm
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going to buy a gun. I'm going to learn self -defense.
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We're going to have protocols for this. That
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is a victorious mindset response to being a victim
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of a crime. Right? The Obstacle is the Way is
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one of my favorite books. It just basically means,
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you know, my dad taught me, look at life's challenges
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as going to the gym. And what do we call gym
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exercise now? One of the things you call it is
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resistance training. And the way one of my physical
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trainer mentors taught me is to go slow so that
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when you're lifting that weight up and you have
29:20
the right posture and you're doing it correctly,
29:21
then you're giving it the resistance it needs.
29:25
And then when you go slow down, you're actually
29:29
giving it resistance and you're doubling your
29:31
efforts. You see a lot of people at the gym,
29:33
they're damn near rocking themselves. to get
29:37
the exercise in. They're using more momentum
29:39
than they are their muscle groups, right? So
29:42
it just means look at everything that way. If
29:45
you have challenges in your life, look at it
29:47
as something to build your strength, right? When
29:50
you're building muscle, you're having little
29:51
micro tears in the muscle and it sends a signal
29:53
to the brain saying, we need more muscle. When
29:56
you overcome and you overcome and you look at
29:59
obstacles as a way to strengthen you, doesn't
30:01
mean you should. Run into them. You should avoid
30:04
most obstacles as possible, but in life, there's
30:06
going to be obstacles you can't avoid. You look
30:10
at it as obstacles away, right? This philosophy,
30:13
it's better to be a warrior in a garden than
30:15
a gardener in a war. Now, that doesn't mean a
30:18
warrior violently. You might do well in court.
30:21
You might be that person who is a social justice
30:24
warrior. You might be the kind of person that
30:27
sticks up for bullies. But the mentality of being
30:31
prepared for a spiritual war, a mental war, a
30:34
social war, a physical war, a fight between you
30:38
and a guy in a bar or protect your family. The
30:42
mentality for me is I'd rather be a warrior in
30:44
the garden, which I'm going to get into gardening.
30:47
You know, be able to defend myself, whether it
30:50
be spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically.
30:54
And then to be a gardener. And be in a war and
30:57
you'll not be able to defend yourself, right?
31:01
Strategize, build up a war chest. In other words,
31:04
my drug dealing ass dad, Tauby, he was like,
31:08
he would keep an attorney on retainer at all
31:12
times. And what I've noticed about him is people
31:15
would get arrested for the same thing he did.
31:17
They get 20 years, he'd get two. People I know
31:20
that make a lot of money, they eventually just
31:23
have a good attorney on retainer. Right? To be
31:30
prepared. Have a strategy in life. And these
31:34
all can be small or big things. You can start
31:36
small. If you're a negative person, you can just
31:39
start thinking of one thing you're going to be
31:40
positive about and observe that. You can plan
31:43
ahead for rainy days. You can have a war chest
31:47
for a little bit of savings, even if it's $100
31:50
in an account. Maybe you save $100 a year, but
31:54
it's a little bit if something happens. Have
31:56
an exit strategy plan and be nimble and adaptive.
32:00
Those are the principles I believe in in choosing
32:03
a victorious mindset. Now, what does this have
32:04
to do with getting the bitches? What does this
32:07
have to do, Socrates, with getting women? Well,
32:11
women love confidence. It's a magic serum. It
32:20
is when you have confidence. It comes through
32:25
your pores. It literally goes through your pheromones
32:27
and women can smell it. That's not a metaphor.
32:30
That's science. When you walk into the room and
32:35
say, I'm going to be victorious here. I'm going
32:37
to plan things ahead. I'm going to go to a lifestyle
32:40
event or I'm going to go to church and I'm going
32:43
to walk around as if the victory is mine. That
32:48
affects women. That affects people around you
32:51
and it affects yourself. You show up differently.
32:54
You show up differently. Now, why did I do that
32:59
before choose intellectually authenticity? First,
33:02
let me explain what intellectual or intelligent
33:05
authenticity means. I've known a lot of people.
33:09
I've always admired authentic people because
33:13
it never came natural to me. You know, I share
33:17
a lot of my struggles of learning who I was.
33:20
And I'll talk about it now. I consider it like
33:23
a tree. My roots are what I call chat black.
33:28
That means I was born in Chattanooga, Tennessee,
33:30
and I am a nigga. Right. I was raised by ghetto
33:36
ass black people who call themselves nigga. And
33:39
I was also raised by sophisticated black folks
33:43
that call themselves. African Americans. But
33:47
my roots are chat black. However, I'm mixed with
33:52
all kinds of different races. I grew up around
33:54
different races and different cultures and different
33:55
people. I consider my trunk and my trees and
33:59
my leaves and my fruit to be a smorgasbord of
34:05
different things. It took me a very long time
34:08
to be authentic about that. But I've seen people
34:11
who are just authentic anyway, but they steamrolled
34:13
over it. They were authentic in all kind of different
34:16
scenarios. They were the same smotic asshole
34:20
in church as they were at work as they were in
34:23
a lifestyle party. But what I mean by, excuse
34:28
me, what I mean by intelligent authenticity is
34:33
like no matter who you are, no matter what culture
34:37
you're from, I've seen people act a certain way
34:43
around their grandmother. And act a certain way
34:45
around their homies that they're smoking and
34:47
drinking with. And act a certain way around women
34:49
they're trying to get in their pants. And it's
34:51
not the same. And I've seen people keep their
34:55
same general idea of who they were. throughout
35:02
those things. They just calibrated certain things.
35:04
When you're around your grandma, you ain't talking
35:06
about sexual shit that turns you on. You're not
35:08
talking about your sexual fantasies. But when
35:10
you're on Telegram in a group that you feel comfortable
35:12
with, you might be talking about all kinds of
35:14
nasty shit you don't want the world to know about.
35:16
Right? When you're in school, you know how to
35:18
conduct yourself. When you are with certain family
35:22
members, you know how to conduct yourself. Intelligent
35:25
authenticity is just the same way. Sometimes
35:27
we get around friends we want to impress or women
35:29
we want to impress or people we're worried about
35:32
what they think about us and we decide to do
35:34
something different. We decide to do either just
35:37
steamroll authenticity and this is how the fuck
35:39
I am. You better get used to it. Or we start
35:42
faking and being inauthentic. The key is, and
35:47
we'll be talking about more of these. I'll be
35:49
doing 12 episodes of this. The key... is to know
35:54
who you truly are and calibrate that. I'm still
35:59
at work in my business. I'm still a nasty, stag,
36:04
bull, polyamorous freak, you know, who is proud
36:12
to be an ethical non -monogamy. I don't talk
36:15
about any of that stuff at my job with my employees,
36:18
with my customers. Those things don't come up.
36:22
But let me be in a setting where I feel comfortable
36:26
with my lifestyle, family, and friends, and I'll
36:29
bring that shit up all day. So when you walk
36:33
into a room and you have just this aura of yourself
36:37
of I'm going to get the victory, even if I make
36:40
mistakes, even if I fail tonight, I'm going to
36:45
get the victory, that makes you show up a certain
36:48
way. When you walk into the room. When you're
36:52
intelligently authentic, but you don't have a
36:55
victorious mindset, and I've met people like
36:57
that, it changes you. You're not the same person
37:02
when you walk into a room and say, I'm going
37:05
to claim victory. So you have a victorious mindset
37:08
first, and then you walk into the room and you
37:11
are intelligently authentic. One, for all of
37:16
my WUSA people, my law of attraction people,
37:18
my people that believe in. They studied these
37:24
things and the highest vibration a human man
37:26
can admit you would think would be love, but
37:28
it's authenticity. Why? Because anything you
37:31
do that's inauthentic lowers your energy. So
37:40
I don't want to talk about all the other ones,
37:42
but I did want to talk about how these principles,
37:47
these 12 principles. If you were to take one
37:50
and master one for a month, just get the fundamentals
37:54
down, at the end of the year, you would be insanely
37:57
surprised at the kind of responses you're getting.
38:04
What we're going to do is we're going to go through
38:06
these, we're going to talk about them, and I'm
38:10
going to try to share, you know, the research
38:13
I found on why these principles work and how
38:17
they fit. But I'm really excited about them,
38:20
especially like, for example, number eight, women
38:23
speak the language of the heart and connection.
38:26
When I saw that, I started listening to women
38:29
in a completely different way. I started seeing
38:34
how, and this is going to be crazy, man. One,
38:38
men claim, and I'm going to debunk this, claim
38:46
that they're more logical. My claim is that men
38:52
are no more logical than women are. It's just
38:55
that men are more inclined to use logic as a
38:59
way to understand the world. And when I understood
39:05
that in a relationship, the most illogical thing
39:09
to do is to bring logic and the mind into a relationship.
39:16
which is based on emotions and connection. And
39:22
I'm sorry, gentlemen, but women are right when
39:24
they think of us as stupid. Because guess what?
39:27
If you are a masculine man or a feminine woman
39:32
and a feminine woman, you've heard this. A man
39:35
can build a house, but a woman makes that house
39:40
into a home. Why? Because... It takes logic and
39:47
science and numbers and facts and linear thinking
39:51
to build a house. I've been in construction.
39:55
I've done everything except for plumbing and
39:57
electrical. And I'm telling you, to read a plan,
40:01
to be a project manager and put together a project
40:07
to build a bunch of homes, especially in mass
40:09
production, and to do that. requires logic, logic,
40:14
logic. To design that home, to decorate that
40:19
home, to make that home memorable, to make that
40:23
home feel good with energy and love doesn't mean
40:26
men can't do it. Women are way more inclined
40:30
to turn that house into a home. And what men
40:34
do is we use logic. to try and explain, justify,
40:40
and operate into a relationship that's based
40:44
on emotions and connection. That is the dumbest
40:47
thing ever. It's the most illogical thing to
40:49
do. Just like when we have examples of women
40:54
trying to use emotional understandings for things
40:58
that are logical, for tangible things, for real
41:02
-world scenarios, right? But I would submit this.
41:08
No matter who you are, if you're teaching sales,
41:11
if you're teaching how to get a woman, if you're
41:13
teaching about relationships, if you're teaching
41:15
about interpersonal relationships between straight
41:17
men, friendships, that's all about connection
41:22
and heart. I love some of my boys. I love some
41:26
of my boys so much, I would do almost anything
41:29
to have their back. That has nothing to do with
41:33
logic. If y 'all ever seen a TikTok or... And
41:38
I know this is real. Everybody thinks it's funny,
41:40
but this is real because it's happened to me.
41:42
You ever seen a TikTok situation where, you know,
41:47
and I know it's all acting, but it's representing
41:49
something of how men would really react. You
41:51
get a man comes home and he thinks he's catching
41:56
his wife cheating. Now, what does a man do? Does
42:02
he look at his wife and say, well, this woman.
42:07
Promise me vows in front of God and everyone.
42:11
We married. We have kids. We live together. We
42:15
have all these things that are commitments to
42:17
each other. And she violated that. Does he start
42:22
attacking her? You ever seen a prank where the
42:27
man went after the wife or the girlfriend? No.
42:31
What does he do? He goes after the dude. Now,
42:34
I never thought about. how stupid and illogical
42:39
that was until one time I used to work at a nightclub.
42:42
I was a VJ. And after every Friday night, we
42:46
would all go to Denny's or, you know, IHOP or
42:49
whatever and all chill. And there was this really
42:54
beautiful girl. She was a stick figure, you know,
42:58
but she was beautiful, skinny as hell. And I'll
43:02
tell you stories about her because there's a
43:03
bunch of stories I can tell about her. I used
43:06
to give her rides home every now and again. No
43:07
big deal. I got a lot of women at that time.
43:10
I had a lot of women I was approaching at the
43:12
club. The woman would approach me. This is one
43:14
of these baddies that she did not approach or
43:17
give you any kind of signal besides dancing,
43:19
you know, sexually with you, erotically with
43:23
you. And she did it with every good -looking
43:25
guy in there. I didn't take it in serious. So
43:28
one day I was taking her home, and she's like,
43:30
you going to fuck me or what? And I was like,
43:33
yeah, sure, 100%. So we got to their house. And
43:38
when I tell you, growing up how I grew up, when
43:41
I get to somebody's house, I am looking around
43:43
at your fucking house. Not to judge you if it's
43:46
clean or dirty or nasty. I'm looking around.
43:48
If I'm dating women, I'm looking to see, are
43:51
there pictures of a man around? Are there pictures
43:53
of you and your family? Like even back then,
43:56
this is like in the early 2000s. Even back then,
44:01
I was like, you know, I'm leery because I've
44:03
seen all kind of shit. So I looked around. There
44:08
was not one single indicator that she was in
44:13
a relationship. And I asked her like not that
44:16
night, but earlier she was in a relationship.
44:17
She told me, no, I smashed. Y 'all, I smashed.
44:23
I did a pretty good job, if I say so myself.
44:26
And. And we were sitting there basking in the
44:30
glow. And, you know, she actually lit up a cigarette.
44:32
You know, back then they would light up a cigarette
44:34
after I don't smoke. So we were just chilling.
44:37
She looked at the time and said, oh, you got
44:38
to go. My husband's going to be here anytime.
44:40
And I was like, bitch, what? You didn't tell
44:44
me you had a husband. Oh, yeah, yeah, you had
44:46
to go. I didn't know. I didn't think it was going
44:47
to last as long. You got to go. Man, I tell you,
44:50
I think I ran out without my shoes. I grabbed
44:53
on just my pants and a shirt and I was gone.
44:56
Now, let me ask you this. I want you guys to
44:59
really think, how many guys would have attacked
45:03
me? An innocent dude who had no idea this bitch
45:08
was married. How logical is that shit? We're
45:13
not even going to talk about, later on when we
45:15
get to this, I'm going to talk about a guy named
45:17
Daniel Kahneman and his work on proving that
45:21
we're all just nervous systems. That's where
45:25
your emotions come from. and we make emotional
45:30
decisions, and we justify with logic. We're not
45:34
even talking about that. I'm just talking about
45:36
how many people know that that guy would have
45:39
attacked me, and I would have been fighting,
45:42
maybe even defending my life, and it's rare,
45:45
but we all know it happens, because this bitch
45:48
lied and was deceptive and put me in a situation
45:52
where, and at that time, y 'all, I was, let's
45:55
just say, We wasn't going to fight. Let's just
46:02
say it would not have ended in just throwing
46:04
blows. That's how fucked up of a situation she
46:08
put me in. So when men, and ever since that day
46:12
happened, I was like, are men really that logical?
46:17
Or do we do things and we call them certain?
46:20
So we get angry. We're not called that in emotion.
46:23
I've seen plenty of men get jealous. angry, frustrated,
46:27
insecure. Those are emotions. We're just more
46:33
inclined to be, use the mind and logistics to
46:39
navigate the world. So these things like, well,
46:43
women are the prize. I'm the prize. Men are the
46:47
prize. No. When you can understand how these
46:52
things really work. Do you understand that? No,
46:56
what you want to be is a man, a man who has all
46:58
kind of options. A man can get any woman he wants.
47:00
He's not the prize. He is the prize's preferences.
47:06
They're choosing him to protect them, to lead
47:10
them, to provide for them. And not always physically.
47:13
One of the things I, and financially, one of
47:15
the things I loved about John Gray, and we're
47:17
going to be talking about John Gray a lot. Not
47:19
all those crazy books and people got all fucking
47:22
stupid about the title. We know men are not from
47:25
Mars and women are from Venus. And we know there's
47:29
different varieties of relationships and not
47:32
every woman is a feminine woman and not every
47:34
man. We understand that we're talking generalities
47:37
here. Right. One of the things that he explained
47:42
is that coming up, he predicted this in the in
47:45
the 90s. Look, women are getting more. It's actually
47:49
Moore's Law. But we'll talk about that later.
47:53
But women are getting more independent. They
47:55
don't need a man to protect them anymore. Black
47:58
women are the largest growing gun owners. And
48:04
then women ever, all kind of women, white women
48:06
are second behind them in the largest gun owning
48:09
growth. Technology is going to get to a point
48:12
where you can have, I don't know what you're
48:14
going to stun guns or those little things that
48:17
shock you. They're going to be so small and so
48:19
powerful that women are going to eventually get
48:23
to the point where they don't even need us to
48:26
protect them. They make their own money. And
48:31
I know that, look, you know, there's weight classes
48:34
for a reason. I'm not saying that women now can,
48:36
you know, handle a 6 '4", 250 -pound muscular
48:41
guy, and she's 5 '3", and, you know, a buck -oh
48:45
-five soaking wet. I am saying, though, that
48:49
what was predicted, John Green predicted, look,
48:52
men are going to need to provide emotionally,
48:55
protect you emotionally. And men are going to
49:00
need to start getting involved and helping out
49:01
around the house and learning how to support
49:05
women on a different level. And look, I'm traditional.
49:11
I'm the breadwinner of the household. I wasn't
49:14
when I met my wife. I was broke as fuck. You
49:20
know, I'm very traditional in certain areas.
49:23
I have dom -sub relationships. But does it mean
49:28
my wife can't fucking kiss? That woman can make
49:30
good money. And she was a single mom, handled
49:33
her shit for 10 years. But I know my job is to
49:40
provide and protect and please and lead and love
49:43
from a masculine perspective. And if I can't
49:47
do it financially, I do it other ways. If I can't
49:50
do it physically, I do it emotionally, mentally,
49:52
or even spiritually. We pray over each other.
49:54
I pray over that woman every morning. So these
49:57
are the principles we're going to be talking
49:58
about, and I'm guaranteeing you, gentlemen, I'm
50:03
guaranteeing you, right, that I can't promise
50:08
you results, but what I can promise you is that
50:11
attracting women, getting them into the relationships
50:17
you want, making them happy and them making you
50:23
happy your chances will increase you know we're
50:30
not going to talk about the basics wash your
50:32
ass we're not going to talk about that show up
50:34
in decent clothes right don't be a fucking idiot
50:38
right don't mistreat women right i don't recommend
50:44
any philosophies that make women less than other
50:48
people, I believe in equality, even though women,
50:52
their muscle mass is not the same, their bone
50:54
density is not the same, their height is not
50:56
the same, their overall strength is not the same.
50:59
Between Moore's Law, which is technology doubles
51:03
in effectiveness and gets smaller every 16 months,
51:11
a lot of things that men were inclusive in doing,
51:16
women can do because of technology so these are
51:21
skills we're going to need for the future when
51:22
women can have choices in the red pill community
51:26
they're asking women to lower their standards
51:28
hell no if you really look at evolutionary psychology
51:32
and what they're explaining women are pushing
51:34
men to evolve right that's brian morgan's favorite
51:38
word i think We should not be lowering our, women
51:43
should not lower their standards and men should
51:45
not be telling women to lower your standards.
51:47
We should be raising ours. We should be stepping
51:51
up our game. Because everybody expecting a woman
51:59
to lower their standards, there's a guy out there
52:01
like me that said, no, I'm stepping my game up.
52:04
I can still be a masculine man. I can still be
52:06
a breadwinner. I can still be all these things,
52:08
but I could shift. and adjust my approach. So
52:13
this is going to be the beginning of a 12 -part
52:15
series. Right now I'm just calling them the 12
52:17
principles. And I can't wait to hear, you know,
52:23
your feedback and your pushback. And I want women's
52:30
perspective. I want men's perspective. And like
52:33
I say, if you're gay or trans or non -binary
52:35
or, you know, vanilla, I want to hear from you.
52:44
But if I haven't experienced those things, I
52:47
haven't done deep diving research on them. The
52:49
only thing I'm going to do is ask questions and
52:51
listen. But your criticisms will be falling on
52:54
deaf ears because I'm not talking to you. Right.
52:58
So if you want to come along and have a conversation,
53:01
I'd love that. So that's what I got for you guys.
53:04
I think there was almost an hour. I really appreciate
53:08
you guys hearing me out. You know, we're going
53:11
to continue to to move towards Patreon and continue
53:16
to do some events. We're excited about announcing
53:18
some events we're going to be doing and expanding
53:22
into video and all of those things. So we're
53:25
really excited about 2026 and I'm really excited
53:28
about this segment. You know, I get to deep dive.
53:31
And why am I doing this? I'm doing this because
53:33
instead of talking to you about salacious things
53:35
we do. I do some nasty shit, y 'all. I do some
53:39
amazing things. I have been in rooms and scenarios
53:42
that are amazing. Dream come true type stuff.
53:46
Stuff that I thought only rappers and millionaires
53:49
got to do. And I would rather show you how I
53:53
got here and you have your own memories than
53:57
to sit here and talk about, you know, the time
54:00
I've had reverse gang bangs or... You know, women
54:04
say you own this pussy, you know, do whatever
54:07
you want. Or, you know, I don't want to, I'm
54:13
not bragging. I don't want to brag. I want to
54:14
say, look, I want men out there of all races,
54:18
of all dynamics, of all ages, as long as you're
54:22
above 18, to have access to some of the men that
54:28
I know are living a great life, lifestyle or
54:32
not. to the stuff that I'm living. This is about
54:38
showing you how, right? And if there's other
54:42
ways to do it, this is not the only way. I'm
54:44
not selling capital T truth here. You want to
54:46
know what my capital T truths are? Hit me up
54:48
privately and I'll talk to you about my religious
54:50
beliefs. This is not science. I have too much
54:53
respect for the scientific community. There might
54:55
be some scientific studies that suggest things.
54:59
And that's how the scientific community talks.
55:02
I will be definitely talking about that. But
55:04
this is from research and my personal experiences
55:07
and watching my mentors and watching other people
55:09
do it and asking people a thousand questions.
55:12
If you guys know me, you guys know I use the
55:14
Socratic method. So I'm really excited about
55:18
this, y 'all. Hit me up. Let's hear what you
55:21
got to say about it. And we'll talk to y 'all
55:23
later. We'll see you next time.