Latest / Mornings with the Holy Spirit / Severing Ungodly Alignments That Keep You Bound
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- 0:01Some of the battles you're fighting,
- 0:04they're actually not just emotional.
- 0:06They're spiritual attachments. They're
- 0:08soul ties. And you may never have seen
- 0:10it that way. But that's why some battles
- 0:12don't stop because you've got an ungodly
- 0:15attachment, whether from the past, even
- 0:18decades past or the present. And we've
- 0:21got to learn how to see and break these
- 0:25soul ties because they hold us back from
- 0:26God's best. Check out my new course,
- 0:29Breaking Toxic Soul Ties. This is going
- 0:32to take you deep into breaking the ties
- 0:35and healing from the ties. Go to
- 0:38schoolofthespirit.tv/courses/soulties
- 0:42and get it right now. Now, let's get
- 0:45into today's broadcast.
- 0:47You know, the Holy Spirit is so
- 0:49faithful. So many of our problems do
- 0:52come through people, don't they? They
- 0:54do. I mean, yes, the enemy antagonizes
- 0:56our mind at times. They call those vain
- 0:58imaginations in 2 Corinthians 10:5.
- 1:01But a lot of what we run into in the
- 1:05realm of trouble or stress or, you know,
- 1:08betrayal, it comes through people. And
- 1:10so, the Holy Spirit said something to me
- 1:12many years ago. And I'm going to share
- 1:14it with you because it's going to help
- 1:16you. And it leads right into what we're
- 1:18praying about today. So, put on your
- 1:20spiritual ears. Here's what I heard the
- 1:22Lord say. People don't always prove
- 1:26trustworthy,
- 1:27even those who call themselves
- 1:29Christians. But you can always trust the
- 1:32Christ who created them. When you enter
- 1:34into new relationships, be discerning,
- 1:37but not suspicious. Believe the best and
- 1:41know them by the spirit rather than by
- 1:44the flesh. Remember, Samuel thought Elab
- 1:47was the best choice for the next king of
- 1:49Israel. But the Lord looks at the heart.
- 1:52Ask father to show you the heart of the
- 1:55person and his heart for them and it
- 1:57will change your relationship dynamics
- 1:59and as far as it depends on you be
- 2:02trustworthy.
- 2:04Amen. We have to know people by the
- 2:06spirit. So many times we're not looking
- 2:08past what we can see. We're not looking
- 2:10past the words they speak to us. We're
- 2:12not looking past the promises they make
- 2:14that they later break. or not
- 2:16understanding that some people have good
- 2:19intentions, but they have bad habits.
- 2:22Other people have bad intentions from
- 2:24the beginning. Sometimes people change
- 2:27and they started out well and now all of
- 2:29a sudden they've been hurt, they've been
- 2:30wounded, they're operating in the flesh
- 2:33or worse under demonic influences like
- 2:36Jezebel or Python or fill in the blank.
- 2:39And so we really do have to know people
- 2:41by the spirit because
- 2:44alignments,
- 2:47they matter in your life. And if you
- 2:49listen to my uh broadcast about what
- 2:51God's saying in this season, you'll know
- 2:53that alignments are a key thing that we
- 2:57need to pay attention to. Watch your
- 2:58alignments. Listen, scripture references
- 3:00are in the devotional. Pick up your copy
- 3:02of Mornings with the Holy Spirit at
- 3:04jenniferlair.org or wherever you find
- 3:06books online. Now, the prayer starter
- 3:09from the devotional. Lord, you're
- 3:11trustworthy even when people are not
- 3:14trustworthy. Give me a discerning heart
- 3:16so I can enter into new friendships with
- 3:18those you've called me to befriend. And
- 3:20above all, help me show Christ's love
- 3:23even when it's not returned. Well,
- 3:25that's the standard, isn't it? Praise
- 3:27God. Well, with that jumping off point,
- 3:29we're going to pray today about toxic
- 3:32alignments because some of you have some
- 3:36and you haven't discerned it. We're
- 3:37going to pray all that and more in
- 3:39today's mornings with the Holy Spirit.
- 3:41This is Jenniferlair. I'm walking in the
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- 6:25get into some some uh agreement here
- 6:28before we pray for the next uh 30 40
- 6:31seconds. I want to get you on the same
- 6:33page because there are relationships
- 6:36that God uses to sharpen you, right? To
- 6:39strengthen you, to to to move you
- 6:41forward, and then there's alignments
- 6:44that look spiritual on the surface, but
- 6:47they just quietly drain your peace and
- 6:49they dilute your discernment. They pull
- 6:52you out of your assignment. And some
- 6:55people call it, well, it's just a season
- 6:56or it's a personality clash. But, you
- 6:59know, sometimes it's a it's a toxic
- 7:01alignment.
- 7:03Not every connection is covenant. And we
- 7:05treat some that are when they're not.
- 7:09Not every open door is God's door. Not
- 7:11every opportunity is an assignment. And
- 7:14if you keep finding yourself, you know,
- 7:16constantly recovering for after
- 7:18interactions with the same people,
- 7:20you're you're compromising your goals,
- 7:22you're confused, uh it's time to get
- 7:25serious about breaking these toxic
- 7:26alignments. I was a toxic alignment. Um
- 7:29well, what is a toxic alignment? It's a
- 7:32it becomes a yoke, you right? It's an
- 7:34agreement. It's a rhythm of influence.
- 7:36When you when you have an alignment,
- 7:38that person is influencing your life,
- 7:40right? And it should be a positive
- 7:42influence. But I was in a in a toxic
- 7:45alignment once. And when I tried to
- 7:46leave that toxic alignment, I did leave
- 7:48that toxic alignment. I was told that I
- 7:51had no anointing of my own. That I would
- 7:52wander around the mountain the rest of
- 7:54my life. I would never fit in anywhere.
- 7:56And all that did was was prove how toxic
- 7:59it was all along. Right? And so these
- 8:02toxic alignments, they're they're toxic
- 8:03to your whole life, to your
- 8:04relationships, uh to to your finances,
- 8:08to other friendships, to to to to to
- 8:11everything. It's just flatout toxic. And
- 8:14so over on my website, I've got an
- 8:16article that talks about these toxic
- 8:19alignments, why they're so dangerous,
- 8:21and uh you know, some of the signs that
- 8:24you're actually in a toxic alignment. I
- 8:26don't have time to go through all of
- 8:27that right now, but please, if you're if
- 8:29this is bearing witness and you're
- 8:30wondering, well, do I have a toxic
- 8:31alignment? Go check out that article at
- 8:34jenniferlair.org.
- 8:36It's in my blog and it's really going to
- 8:38set some things in order because some of
- 8:40you have these toxic alignments and
- 8:42that's why things don't move right in
- 8:43your life because you're being pulled
- 8:45down. You haven't discerned it yet. It
- 8:47takes a while to discern it, especially
- 8:49if if the person started out right or
- 8:51the church started out right or the
- 8:53network started out right or the
- 8:54employer started out right and something
- 8:57shifted in a negative way and they
- 8:59became toxic. you know, a water, you
- 9:02know, water in our cities, uh, it's it's
- 9:05clean and it's healthy, right? Until
- 9:07some toxin is introduced into the water
- 9:09system. And so, please go check out that
- 9:11article. I want to get right into the
- 9:13prayer. So, begin to pray in the spirit.
- 9:16Let's stir ourselves up in our most holy
- 9:18faith. And let's praise God because we
- 9:20are in alignment with him. That's our
- 9:21primary alignment. We need to appreciate
- 9:24what he does in our life. So, Father, we
- 9:26praise you. We are grateful. You are a
- 9:29good father. There's no God like you,
- 9:32Jesus. You are awesome. You are mighty.
- 9:35You are holy. You see all things. You
- 9:38know all things. And we are grateful to
- 9:40be in alignment with you. We thank you,
- 9:43Father. We ask you to forgive us of all
- 9:45of our sins, God. If we have engaged in
- 9:48a toxic alignment, would you would you
- 9:50forgive us for for missing the warning
- 9:52signs for for not heeding your voice,
- 9:55for not for not for not allowing
- 9:57ourselves to to to to come in line with
- 10:00your counsel, doing things our way? God,
- 10:02forgive us. Forgive us, Father, in the
- 10:05name of Jesus. And Lord, open our eyes
- 10:09to any and every toxic alignment in our
- 10:14life, God. It might not look toxic, but
- 10:16that doesn't mean it's not toxic. And
- 10:18Lord, we don't want to be suspicious. We
- 10:20don't want to go on a witch hunt. We
- 10:21don't want to see something that's not
- 10:23there. We don't want to get taken out of
- 10:24a true godly alignment because of the
- 10:27enemy deceives us or because of our own
- 10:30offense or because we were we were asked
- 10:34not to do something or offended somehow.
- 10:36Lord, no. Sharpen our discernment to
- 10:40recognize the wrong connections and the
- 10:43right connections. so that we don't get
- 10:45it twisted. God, Lord, Lord, expose
- 10:48hidden motives behind unhealthy
- 10:51relationships. God, Father, forgive us
- 10:54for ignoring your warnings about certain
- 10:57people. God, we look back and we can
- 10:58see, oh, you tried to tell us, you tried
- 11:02to show us, you tried to make it clear,
- 11:05but we just looked past it. We didn't
- 11:07give heed to it, God. Forgive us for
- 11:09that, God. And forgive us, Lord, for
- 11:12staying connected out of fear or out of
- 11:16guilt or or or out of people pleasing.
- 11:18Lord, forgive us for for for allowing
- 11:21any other voice or any other alignment
- 11:24to be more important to us than our
- 11:27alignment with you and your voice, your
- 11:29direction, your wisdom in our life. Oh
- 11:31God, we repent for any compromise that
- 11:34we made to keep a relationship.
- 11:38Lord, you are our most important
- 11:41relationship. You are our only good. You
- 11:44are our standby. You are our advocate.
- 11:47You are the lover of our soul. You are
- 11:49everything to us. So Lord, help us to
- 11:51stop putting people above you, making
- 11:54idols out of personalities when you are
- 11:58our everything. God, cleanse our heart
- 12:00from any need for approval that would
- 12:03trap us in Jesus name. Lord deliver us
- 12:07from the fear of man. Oh God in Jesus
- 12:10name and strengthen us in our inner man
- 12:13that our spirit would would would be
- 12:16would would take the lead over our soul
- 12:18over our emotions. Lord we want to obey
- 12:21you even when it costs us emotionally
- 12:24even when people don't like it. God,
- 12:26give us courage to walk away from what
- 12:30you didn't send or to walk away from
- 12:34what you're done with. Father, reveal
- 12:37every ungodly agreement that we made
- 12:40with toxic influences. God, reveal it so
- 12:43we can break it. We don't want it. We
- 12:45want to flow in the river of fire, the
- 12:48river of life, the river that you've
- 12:50ordained for us, not this toxic river,
- 12:52the river of control, the river of
- 12:54abuse.
- 12:56So in the name of Jesus, come on. In the
- 12:59name of Jesus, come on, say this out
- 13:01loud. In the name of Jesus, I renounce
- 13:05every covenant I formed outside your
- 13:08will. Come on, renounce these things. I
- 13:11renounce every agreement with
- 13:14manipulation, with control, with
- 13:17intimidation in the name of Jesus. I
- 13:20renounce every agreement with confusion
- 13:23and double-mindedness. I renounce every
- 13:26agreement with strife and contention. I
- 13:30renounce every agreement with gossip and
- 13:33slander. I renounce every agreement with
- 13:36compromise and moral drift in the name
- 13:40of Jesus. I renounce every agreement
- 13:43with spiritual dullness. I renounce
- 13:45every agreement with excessive soul
- 13:48dependency. I renounce every agreement
- 13:51with every unhealthy loyalty in the name
- 13:55of Jesus. We break these toxic
- 13:58alignments and in the name of Jesus.
- 14:02Lord, help us Lord to discern these
- 14:05these these emotional bonds that drain
- 14:08our strength, our vitality, that keep us
- 14:11wandering in circles. God, help us to
- 14:13detach our hearts from relationships
- 14:17that keep us unstable. Father, I ask you
- 14:20to help us to see and uproot every hook
- 14:24of control in our emotions in the name
- 14:27of Jesus. And Father, heal those wounds
- 14:31that made us tolerate toxic treatment.
- 14:35Lord, help us to restore our boundaries
- 14:38where we allowed constant access to the
- 14:41wrong people and teach us to love
- 14:44without losing ourselves. God, teach us
- 14:46to honor without surrendering our
- 14:49discernment. God, give us wisdom to
- 14:51discern covenant from convenience and
- 14:55help us to distinguish assignment from
- 14:58attachment in the name of Jesus. Lord,
- 15:02oh God, we ask you to to to to expose
- 15:05counterfeit connections that that
- 15:08masquerade as destiny helpers. Lord,
- 15:11unmask the the the flattery that's
- 15:13designed to ensnare us, to trap us, to
- 15:17get us to let our guards down, God, in
- 15:20the name of Jesus. Deliver us from
- 15:23relationships that are built on the
- 15:26praise of man instead of the truth of
- 15:28your word. God, deliver us from
- 15:30alliances that are built on common
- 15:33offense, common bitterness, oh Jesus.
- 15:35Common hurts, common wounds, common
- 15:38demonic influences. Oh God, deliver us
- 15:41from connections that are fueled by
- 15:43criticism and cynicism instead of
- 15:46edifying exhortation and comfort. Oh
- 15:49God, pull us out of circles that
- 15:51normalize sin. Oh Jesus, pull us out of
- 15:55environments that punish holiness. Oh
- 15:58God, pull us out of atmospheres that
- 16:01grieve your spirit in the name of Jesus.
- 16:07And Lord, Lord, help us to walk away
- 16:11from partnerships that dilute our
- 16:15calling. And Father, would you would you
- 16:18would you would you realign our steps
- 16:20with your perfect will, oh God? Lord,
- 16:23purify our discernment from from from
- 16:26from suspicion and and paranoia. We
- 16:29don't want to walk around
- 16:32looking to see who's out to get us. We
- 16:34want to walk around looking at you who's
- 16:36for us and you will show us what we need
- 16:38to see. So Lord, give us a balanced
- 16:41wisdom. We don't want to walk in
- 16:43fear-based reactions. We don't want to
- 16:45go on a witch hunt. No, let the peace of
- 16:47Christ rule in our hearts according to
- 16:51Colossians 3:15. And Lord, teach us,
- 16:54teach us to follow peace without
- 16:57ignoring truth. Teach us to follow truth
- 17:01without forfeiting the love walk. Lord,
- 17:03restore our spiritual senses to detect
- 17:08danger early, dangerous alignments,
- 17:11toxic alignments. Train us to recognize
- 17:13patterns, not just moments. And and and
- 17:17show us these repeated cycles that that
- 17:19would signal an unhealthy tie, an
- 17:22unhealthy alignment. reveal relational
- 17:25patterns, Lord, that we keep repeating,
- 17:27that keep getting us in trouble, and we
- 17:29keep doing it, we keep repeating it, we
- 17:31keep repeating it. Oh, God, would you
- 17:33help us to break that cycle? We break
- 17:35the cycle of of tolerating toxic people.
- 17:40And Father, clo, we close doors even
- 17:43now. We close the doors that we opened
- 17:46through disobedience. A and in Jesus
- 17:49name, we cancel the enemy's access
- 17:53through wrong alignment. And we we we
- 17:56shut down every demonic assignment
- 17:58attached to toxic alignments. We cancel
- 18:02every plan to drain our joy, to drain
- 18:04our peace, to drain our focus. We cancel
- 18:07every strategy to distract us from our
- 18:10assignment. We cancel every plot to
- 18:13isolate us through relational warfare in
- 18:17the name of Jesus. We cancel every trap
- 18:20of emotional manipulation. We cancel
- 18:23every trap of of spiritual intimidation.
- 18:26We cancel every trap of false guilt and
- 18:29condemnation in the name of Jesus.
- 18:36Somebody, the lights are starting to
- 18:38come on. You're starting to see it.
- 18:40Yeah. this toxic alignment. It's got to
- 18:42be broken. Father, give us wisdom and
- 18:45protection as we set out to break these
- 18:49alignments to to to remove oursel from
- 18:51relationships with networks or churches
- 18:54or people that are flatout toxic. I
- 18:56don't mean merely imperfect. I mean
- 18:58abusive, deeply toxic. Lord, give us
- 19:01grace to make clean exits without chaos.
- 19:04To walk away with honor, not with
- 19:06accusation. Help us to avoid unnecessary
- 19:09arguments and endless explanations. God,
- 19:12help us to guard our mouth from venting
- 19:16that creates more bondage and keeps the
- 19:19healing power that you have for our
- 19:21souls at bay. Lord, guard our hearts.
- 19:24Help us to guard our hearts from
- 19:26bitterness as we step back. Father,
- 19:28forgive those who harmed us. Lord, we
- 19:32release resentment into your hands.
- 19:34Lord, we refuse revenge and we choose
- 19:38righteousness. Lord, Lord, and Lord,
- 19:40help us, Lord, not to continually think
- 19:43about the memories, the the traumatic
- 19:45relational moments through the toxic
- 19:47alignments from which we're walking
- 19:49away. God, heal betrayal wounds and keep
- 19:51us guarded. Lord, I keep us guard. Lord,
- 19:55help us. Restore trust where it's been
- 19:58damaged. Help us to trust people. Maybe
- 20:00not those people, not that alignment,
- 20:02but we don't want to be distrustful the
- 20:04rest of our lives. Father, we break the
- 20:06power of control and dominion over our
- 20:09decisions. We break the power of
- 20:12intimidation that silences our voices.
- 20:16We break the power of gaslighting that
- 20:18makes us doubt what you showed us. We
- 20:21break the power of accusation that
- 20:23follows us after separation. Lord, we
- 20:26break the power of shame that tries to
- 20:28pull us back. We break the power of
- 20:30doubt that tries to make us think we
- 20:32made the wrong decision. We break the
- 20:34power of manipulation the through tears
- 20:37or threats or pressure of any kind. God,
- 20:40in the name of Jesus, we break the power
- 20:43of coercion in ministry relationships.
- 20:46We break the power of control in family
- 20:48relationships. free. Break the power of
- 20:51toxic loyalty to spiritual uh
- 20:56churches and ministries and and and
- 20:58networks in the name of Jesus. That
- 21:02toxic loyalty has got to go in Jesus'
- 21:06name.
- 21:07And we break the power of fear in Jesus
- 21:11name. Lord expose every every jezebel
- 21:15like control wherever it operates around
- 21:19us in the name of Jesus. We expose uh we
- 21:24ask you to expose absilike betrayal and
- 21:28sabotage in Jesus name. Expose koralike
- 21:32rebellion and divisive influences in the
- 21:36name of Jesus. Expose Saul like jealousy
- 21:41that targets our favor in the name of
- 21:44Jesus. Expose Delilah like seduction
- 21:48that drains our strength in the name of
- 21:52Jesus. God expose that spirit of
- 21:56Leviathan that twists words and twists
- 22:00motives and launches accusations against
- 22:03us in the name of Jesus. expose that
- 22:07python spirit that tries to squeeze our
- 22:11spiritual breath that tries to that
- 22:13tries to just just just release waves of
- 22:16witchcraft that operates in divination
- 22:19that tries to expose us. Lord, help us
- 22:22help us, Lord, to be more discerning.
- 22:24We're asking you to expose religious
- 22:27control
- 22:29that demands compliance
- 22:31over conviction. Lord, expose
- 22:35counterfeit humility that hides pride
- 22:38and domination. Father, Father, deliver
- 22:41us in the name of Jesus from every
- 22:45spirit that rides on toxic
- 22:48relationships. And and Lord, would you
- 22:50give us the boldness to help to to to to
- 22:54confront what you've what you've called
- 22:56us to confront when you've called us to
- 22:59confront it in the way you've called us
- 23:01to confront it? And Lord, give us the
- 23:04right words.
- 23:06Give us the right timing. Give us the
- 23:09right tone. If you call us to confront
- 23:11it, we want to do it the right way. Help
- 23:12us to speak the truth in love without
- 23:15fear. Help us to to refuse toxic access,
- 23:19but not to be nasty about it. Lord, give
- 23:22us give us firmness
- 23:24without hottiness. Lord, give us a a
- 23:27tenderness toward the soul of the
- 23:29people, the souls of the people that are
- 23:31just become toxic, but without being
- 23:33weak. Lord, teach us to say no, without
- 23:37apologizing for our obedience. Teach us
- 23:39to enforce our boundaries without guilt.
- 23:42Teach us how to stop rescuing people at
- 23:46the expense of our own assignment. Teach
- 23:49us to stop overfunctioning
- 23:52in dysfunctional alignments. Huh? Lord,
- 23:56cleanse our hearts from the need to fix
- 23:59every network, to fix every church, to
- 24:01fix everyone. Deliver us from any kind
- 24:04of savior complex and unhealthy
- 24:06responsibility that we've taken on. God,
- 24:09deliver us from codependency in any
- 24:12shape or form. God, Lord, deliver us
- 24:15from emotional addiction to drama. Oh
- 24:18Lord, help us. Lord, deliver us from
- 24:21that emotional addiction to intensity,
- 24:23to drama, to to to hearing all the the
- 24:26the the No, we don't want that. Lord,
- 24:28deliver us from from craving validation
- 24:31from from people. Deliver us from false
- 24:34comfort or familiar dysfunction. Deliver
- 24:37us from any kind of loneliness that
- 24:40pushes us into the wrong company. Any
- 24:42kind of desperation for an alignment,
- 24:45for a for a covering that pushes us
- 24:47toward the wrong network. God, deliver
- 24:49us from desperation that chooses speed
- 24:52over discernment. Deliver us from
- 24:55impatience that ignores the red flags.
- 24:58God, deliver us from the spirit of
- 25:00rejection that attracts more rejection
- 25:04in the name of Jesus.
- 25:07In the name of Jesus, God, help us.
- 25:09We're asking and we thank you that you
- 25:11will help us because you are our helper.
- 25:15So Lord, restore any parts of our
- 25:17identity that was that that that allowed
- 25:20us to to tolerate or led us to tolerate
- 25:23just being treated roughly and and
- 25:25wrongly in Jesus name. Lord, restore our
- 25:29confidence so we can walk away when
- 25:32honor is missing. Relationships in the
- 25:34kingdom should be about honor. They
- 25:36should be about love. And when that is
- 25:38consistently missing, God, help us to
- 25:40see how how wrong that is. Yeah. We all
- 25:43have bad days. We all have bad weeks or
- 25:45even bad seasons. But this toxicity,
- 25:48Lord, it laces so many uh networks and
- 25:52churches and workplaces and and
- 25:54relationships in the body of Christ.
- 25:55It's not your will. You told us to walk
- 25:57in love. Walk ye in love. So restore our
- 26:01self-control in emotional conversations,
- 26:04God. Restore our focus when distractions
- 26:07multiply. My God, restore our spiritual
- 26:10appetite when toxic voices have dulled
- 26:13us in Jesus name. Restore our prayer
- 26:16life
- 26:18after relational fatigue. Lord, restore
- 26:21our joy after draining connections.
- 26:24Restore our hope after repeated
- 26:27disappointment. God, in the name of
- 26:29Jesus, restore our strength like in
- 26:32Isaiah 40 verse 31. In Jesus name we ask
- 26:37you and Lord send us godly alignments.
- 26:39Send us godly mentors. Send us godly
- 26:42leaders. Send help us find godly
- 26:44networks and communities where we can
- 26:46find safe counsel for our life. Lord
- 26:50connect us with covenant relationships
- 26:52that sharpen us. Connect us with people
- 26:55who love truth and not drama. Lord
- 26:58connect us with leaders who honor your
- 27:00presence. Connect us with relationships
- 27:02marked by integrity and purity in the
- 27:05name of Jesus. Connect us with builders,
- 27:08not users. Connect us with encouraers,
- 27:11not not accusers. Lord, connect us with
- 27:14peacemakers, not strife carriers. Lord,
- 27:17connect us with mature believers who
- 27:19correct us in love. Connect us with
- 27:21intercessors who guard and not gossip.
- 27:24In the name of Jesus, we ask you,
- 27:26Father, sanctify our our our our life
- 27:29from toxic alignments. Lord, sanctify
- 27:32our workplace from unhealthy alliances.
- 27:35Lord, sanctify our church relationships
- 27:37from manipulation and control. Lord,
- 27:40sanctify our communications, our texts,
- 27:42our calls from toxic soul entanglements.
- 27:46Lord, sanctify our schedule from
- 27:48relational distractions in our minds,
- 27:50from replaying toxic conversations and
- 27:52our emotions, from lingering attachments
- 27:55that you didn't ordained in our
- 27:56decisions, from pressure and
- 27:58intimidation that are not of you, God,
- 28:00to our finances, from partnerships you
- 28:04didn't authorize.
- 28:06Lord, give us the grace to forgive
- 28:08without reattaching. And help us not to
- 28:11repeat old cycles. Teach us that
- 28:13forgiveness doesn't always mean access.
- 28:16Teach us that mercy is not permission
- 28:18for realignment. Teach us that love is
- 28:21not bondage and teach us that peace is a
- 28:25boundary, not a feeling. Lord, establish
- 28:28us in wisdom for every new relationship.
- 28:31Let our yes be directed by you and our
- 28:34no be protected by you. We declare our
- 28:36relationships will align with purpose
- 28:39and purity. And we declare every toxic
- 28:41alignment is broken in the name of
- 28:45Jesus. We thank you Lord. We receive
- 28:48divine realignment, divine order, and
- 28:51divine connections in the name of Jesus.
- 28:55And we give you all the praise, all the
- 28:58glory, and all the honor in Jesus' name.
- 29:02Amen. And amen. Come on, somebody. God
- 29:05is good. God is good. I've had toxic
- 29:10alignments in my life. And then what
- 29:12happens is with the toxic alignment
- 29:14often comes a toxic soul tie. If you've
- 29:17been around people for a while, you've
- 29:19shared their their life with them, it
- 29:21becomes a toxic soul tie. And you know,
- 29:26you have to ask yourself if you if you
- 29:28know how to fight, you know how to pray,
- 29:30and you just keep feeling stuck, you
- 29:32have to ask yourself, what is keeping me
- 29:35stuck? I'm telling you, ungodly soul
- 29:38ties are one of the enemy's most
- 29:41overlooked weapons. You need to hear me.
- 29:43They slip in quietly. They wrap around
- 29:45your emotions. They drain your spiritual
- 29:48strength before you even realize what's
- 29:50happening. So, if you felt stuck or
- 29:53confused or unable to move forward, a
- 29:56toxic soul tie may be the root. And I
- 30:00want you to go check out the the uh web
- 30:03page for this and read a little bit more
- 30:06about it because in this course we're
- 30:08going to expose the unseen warfare
- 30:10behind these bonds and show you the path
- 30:13to freedom and clarity and healing. Many
- 30:17people don't realize listen they don't
- 30:19realize they have unto toxic soul ties
- 30:22or they said oh I broke that. Listen
- 30:25guys I have to I have to dispel a myth
- 30:27here. Breaking a toxic soul tie isn't
- 30:30always as easy as saying, "I break this
- 30:33toxic soul tie in Jesus name." Listen,
- 30:36there is deeper than that most of the
- 30:37time.
- 30:39That's why you broke it and you feel
- 30:41like you need to break it again because
- 30:42it's not really broken. That's why you
- 30:44broke it, but you still feel the same
- 30:46way. You nothing's changed in your soul.
- 30:49Why? Because you didn't break it. It's
- 30:50not broken. It's It's not what you
- 30:52think. It's not just saying a few words.
- 30:55I'm telling you. And in this uh in this
- 30:57uh course, you've got to go grab it. Uh
- 31:00if this any of this and the bonuses that
- 31:02are there for you at enrollment right
- 31:03now, we're going to look at what is a
- 31:05toxic soul tie, how soul ties form, and
- 31:08guys, it's way more than you think it
- 31:10is, why toxic soul ties are so
- 31:12dangerous, signs you're bound by a toxic
- 31:15soul tie, and how to break free from
- 31:18toxic soul ties. You've got to check
- 31:20this out. Go to
- 31:21schoolofthespirit.tv/courses/soulties.
- 31:23TV/courses/soulties
- 31:26and read more about it and ask the Holy
- 31:28Spirit if this is something that you
- 31:30need to enroll in. Many of you, this is
- 31:33your problem. This is your issue. This
- 31:37is the uh course that's going to set you
- 31:41free. When you follow the teaching and
- 31:43do what I teach, you will break free
- 31:46once and for all. So, please go check
- 31:48that out. Breaking Toxic Soul Ties
- 31:52at schoolofthespirit.tv/courses/breaking
- 31:59toxic soul ties. Amen. And amen. God is
- 32:03good all the time. All the time. God is
- 32:06good. Blessed be the Lord. Amen. Who
- 32:10always causes me to triumph. Hallelujah
- 32:13to the lamb.
- 32:23I was just looking at something over
- 32:24there. Anyway, God is good all the time.
- 32:27I would really encourage you to check
- 32:28that out. I think there's a good number
- 32:30of you on here, probably probably most
- 32:33of you on here that need that. These
- 32:35toxic soul ties keep pulling you back
- 32:37like a magnet, and that's why many times
- 32:39you don't advance anyway. So, check that
- 32:41out.
- 32:43Amen. Amen. Amen. God is good all the
- 32:46time. all the time. God is good. There's
- 32:48also the um the uh free training which
- 32:51is coming up. It's going to be uh about
- 32:53six weeks from now. So, I'm telling you
- 32:55about it really early, but there's a
- 32:57free training about six weeks from now
- 32:59on um uh Angels of War, and you're going
- 33:02to find that over there at
- 33:04jenniferlair.orglive.
- 33:07Guys, be sure to join with us this year
- 33:10at Awakening Prayer Hubs. It's time.
- 33:13It's time. Many of you have been on the
- 33:14fence for years. We are going to be nine
- 33:17years old this year. We're in over 130
- 33:20nations this this this year and we're in
- 33:24almost every nation of the earth. Think
- 33:25about that. What God is doing. Don't you
- 33:27want to be part of something as an
- 33:29intercessor where you're somebody's got
- 33:31your back? Where you can build true
- 33:33relationships? You know, we just had our
- 33:34intercessors invitational and um some of
- 33:37these uh ladies and gentlemen have been
- 33:39coming around for years now and they're
- 33:41so excited to see each other and they
- 33:42see each other on Zooms. Most of our
- 33:45prayer meetings take place on Zoom. It's
- 33:47not something you have to open your
- 33:48house for. You you you join on Zoom.
- 33:50Amen. You you have a Zoom or Google Meet
- 33:53or whatever it is. Some of you, it's
- 33:55time to join. It's time to to make the
- 33:58time. You see the as I prophesied on
- 34:02this past Friday night, the the map's
- 34:04going to probably look different. I
- 34:05really strongly believe in the next
- 34:06number of years the map's going to look
- 34:08different. It could look different this
- 34:09year.
- 34:12Why? Because
- 34:15people are are snatching land. You know,
- 34:17Russia's in Ukraine. China's looking at
- 34:19Taiwan. It's only a matter of time
- 34:21before the map starts looking different.
- 34:23We need to be on our knees. We need to
- 34:25be crying out for revival because people
- 34:27are dying and going to hell in battle.
- 34:29People are dying and going to hell, you
- 34:31know, because of uh uh uh wicked laws
- 34:34where they're getting their heads cut
- 34:36off because they stole a loaf of bread
- 34:38or whatever. You know what I'm saying?
- 34:40It's uh we need revival. We need to see
- 34:42an awakening, a great awakening. I'm not
- 34:44talking about revival in your church.
- 34:46That's fine. That's good. We'll take
- 34:47that. But unless it goes outside the
- 34:49four walls of the church,
- 34:52come on. Anyway, go to awakening
- 34:54prayerhubs.com. There's a introduction
- 34:56video. There's all kind of stuff.
- 34:58There's all kind of questions.
- 34:59Everything you want to know is is put on
- 35:00the website about what it takes. Amen.
- 35:03We train you, put you with a regional
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- 35:08And if you want to help fuel the
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- 35:14We do need your help to advance to fuel
- 35:16the mission. We really do. So, consider
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- 35:24heavily going into these translation
- 35:26projects even deeper. And uh it's not
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- 36:30Amen. And amen. And Father, we're
- 36:33grateful for all of the all those who
- 36:35are sewing today. We are grateful.
- 36:39We thank you Lord that you bless this
- 36:41offering back to the givers in Jesus
- 36:44name. And father, we thank you Lord for
- 36:46all those under the sound of my voice.
- 36:48All those who send in prayer requests.
- 36:50All those who uh are reading my books
- 36:53and listening to my videos and watching
- 36:54my social media. Father, all the school
- 36:57of the spirit students, the Ignite
- 36:58Accelerator, uh the Global Freedic
- 37:01Center, the Awakening Prayer Hubs
- 37:03leaders, Awakening House Church leaders,
- 37:05Awakening House of Prayer leaders, the
- 37:07web church members, and our local
- 37:09assembly here in Fort Lauderdale
- 37:11Apostolic Center, Awakening House of
- 37:12Prayer. Father, I thank you that you
- 37:14bless us indeed. Enlarge our territory.
- 37:16Let your hand of power rest upon us and
- 37:18keep us from evil and causing pain. We
- 37:21thank you. We bless you in Jesus name. I
- 37:24thank you, Father. I thank you, Father.
- 37:26I thank you, Father, for today. I thank
- 37:29you, Father, that you heal bodies, bring
- 37:31home prodigals, deliver people from
- 37:33evil. God, send labors in the paths of
- 37:36our lost loved ones to speak words of
- 37:37life. Strengthen us as we go. Help us to
- 37:40discern everything going on in our
- 37:43midst. Help us to make right decisions
- 37:44that glorify you. We give you all the
- 37:46praise and all the honor and all the
- 37:48glory in Jesus name. Amen. And amen.
- 37:52Guys, remember, please go look at it.
- 37:54I'm I'm convinced that this course, this
- 37:57is for many of you. You're stuck in a
- 38:00cycle that you cannot see. Go to
- 38:01schoolofthespirit.tv/courses/soulties
- 38:06and get in on this today. awakeningp
- 38:10prayerhubs.com. Join the movement. I'll
- 38:12see you guys on the other side.