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- 0:00SPEAKER_02: Welcome to OpenTabs, our,
- 0:05SPEAKER_02: usually twice weekly,
- 0:06SPEAKER_02: we've been a little slacking lately,
- 0:09SPEAKER_02: but our Substack Live,
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- 0:12SPEAKER_02: our feeds, and our brains each week.
- 0:14SPEAKER_02: Hi, memes.
- 0:15SPEAKER_02: Hi.
- 0:16SPEAKER_02: Yes, sorry to our community for being a little bit lax while Megan
- 0:21SPEAKER_01: is out.
- 0:22SPEAKER_02: It's been a very, very busy few weeks, so for no else.
- 0:27SPEAKER_02: But we're back, and we're going to make up for it by talking about three stories today.
- 0:31SPEAKER_02: We usually just do two.
- 0:33SPEAKER_02: So we're just going to dive straight into it.
- 0:37SPEAKER_02: The first one is this really interesting article from Vox.
- 0:41SPEAKER_02: The cost of youth sports is out of control.
- 0:44SPEAKER_02: And Melissa,
- 0:44SPEAKER_02: I know you have anecdotally talked about this on calls
- 0:48SPEAKER_02: before this article even came out.
- 0:50SPEAKER_02: And I was like,
- 0:51SPEAKER_02: I saw it and I was like,
- 0:52SPEAKER_02: oh, we need to talk about it because you are famously a sports mom.
- 0:56SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 0:57SPEAKER_01: I mean, I think
- 1:00SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I don't even know.
- 1:02SPEAKER_01: It's so funny that you've even brought this up because I went on a walk this morning.
- 1:08SPEAKER_01: It was actually for Swell, which was really fun.
- 1:11SPEAKER_01: And it was a 10K before 10A walk.
- 1:13SPEAKER_01: Big group of moms in the area.
- 1:15SPEAKER_01: I ended up walking with my one friend, Ann, for a while.
- 1:20SPEAKER_01: She was actually, we interviewed her on Swell, too.
- 1:24SPEAKER_01: She's part of Benefit Cosmetics.
- 1:26SPEAKER_01: She has a really cool job there.
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: And we were just talking about how to think about sports for our boys.
- 1:34SPEAKER_01: And I feel like,
- 1:36SPEAKER_01: you know, again,
- 1:37SPEAKER_01: for anyone who listens or watches us on here,
- 1:40SPEAKER_01: you know that I like stress over this because it is really hard to navigate.
- 1:46SPEAKER_01: And I feel like we're in a time of change right now with how kids are in sports.
- 1:53SPEAKER_01: And it's hard to Figure out where to support and where to sort of dial back as a parent.
- 2:00SPEAKER_01: So for example, my son Wally, he's an athletic kid.
- 2:05SPEAKER_01: Like he can pick up, he has really good hand-eye coordination.
- 2:08SPEAKER_01: So it really doesn't matter if it's dodgeball or if it's baseball or if it's soccer
- 2:12SPEAKER_01: or something.
- 2:13SPEAKER_01: He's pretty good at doing all of the things.
- 2:19SPEAKER_01: What happens is,
- 2:20SPEAKER_01: is that in like in a town,
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: there's like A rec program that like anyone, recreation, like anyone can do.
- 2:28SPEAKER_01: And then there are club teams,
- 2:30SPEAKER_01: which is, you know, I've seen, I saw how you like have broken these bullets out, Em.
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: And the club teams are like,
- 2:37SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: for the,
- 2:39SPEAKER_01: theoretically for the kids that like want to level up and really lean in,
- 2:43SPEAKER_01: they are astronomically more expensive.
- 2:46SPEAKER_01: Like, let's just say like if you do rec, like Lucy is in rec, she's, it's 250 bucks.
- 2:54SPEAKER_01: If Wally goes over to his club team, you know, lacrosse is like over $1,000.
- 3:00SPEAKER_01: It can go up for the year.
- 3:02SPEAKER_01: I think soccer is like $4,000.
- 3:05SPEAKER_01: It's just dramatically more expensive.
- 3:08SPEAKER_01: And I think where the problem lies in,
- 3:11SPEAKER_01: and this is funny because it's actually making me think of another article you have
- 3:14SPEAKER_01: that I don't think we're talking about,
- 3:15SPEAKER_01: but it's like mom algorithms are targeting moms.
- 3:20SPEAKER_01: You don't know where to sort of lean in or where not to and how to guide your kid.
- 3:25SPEAKER_01: So, like,
- 3:26SPEAKER_01: for example,
- 3:26SPEAKER_01: like, of course you want to pick the things that your kid wants to do, right?
- 3:35SPEAKER_01: So there's just that.
- 3:36SPEAKER_01: And then it's kind of like if you're going to do the club,
- 3:43SPEAKER_01: it sort of overtakes your time, right?
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: Like, this weekend Wally has a soccer tournament all weekend.
- 3:50SPEAKER_01: Which means other things he can't do, you know?
- 3:53SPEAKER_01: And then there's also like, well, we're not going to do that.
- 3:59SPEAKER_01: You know, we're not going to like participate in this.
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: We're going to like have a more chill existence.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: But then there's this anxiety of like, okay, great.
- 4:09SPEAKER_01: Maybe that's how you grew up, you know, and you're like thinking back to your own childhood.
- 4:12SPEAKER_01: But then you're like, is everyone just leveling up though?
- 4:17SPEAKER_01: Meaning that like,
- 4:19SPEAKER_01: Are you doing your kid a disservice if you sort of don't have them in it at all,
- 4:23SPEAKER_01: right?
- 4:25SPEAKER_01: And what's interesting is that like we've actually experienced
- 4:28SPEAKER_01: that firsthand too more recently with swimming.
- 4:31SPEAKER_01: Like we live in an area where in Northern California, swimming is a big part of the culture.
- 4:36SPEAKER_01: Like there's kids in swim team and there's kids in like water polo.
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: It's like a big thing in this region.
- 4:43SPEAKER_01: Wally's not the biggest swimmer.
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: It's okay.
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: I'm not losing sleep over this.
- 4:47SPEAKER_01: I didn't swim growing up, like, competitively at all.
- 4:50SPEAKER_01: So we took him out of it.
- 4:52SPEAKER_01: We didn't, you know, it was like, let's prioritize other things.
- 4:55SPEAKER_01: And then it was interesting because he ended up in this,
- 4:57SPEAKER_01: like, duathlon thing for fun with all these swim team kids.
- 5:03SPEAKER_01: And, like, he could barely, like, finish it, which is fine.
- 5:05SPEAKER_01: That's okay.
- 5:07SPEAKER_01: The point being, though, is that we debriefed it with him after.
- 5:09SPEAKER_01: We're like, bud, Let's just, like, up-level a little bit.
- 5:13SPEAKER_01: Like, we don't have to, like,
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: whatever,
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: but let's just get back into swimming so you feel confident when you're
- 5:18SPEAKER_01: in situations in open water with, like, kids.
- 5:22SPEAKER_01: So it sort of just has me, a type A mom in person, like, spinning, you know?
- 5:28SPEAKER_01: Like, I just don't know.
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: I'm feeling a little bit at a loss.
- 5:33SPEAKER_01: And it makes you think all the way ahead to, like, okay, he's 8.
- 5:40SPEAKER_01: Of course, they've got to go through puberty.
- 5:44SPEAKER_01: By the time they get to high school, it's a completely different environment than youth sports.
- 5:50SPEAKER_01: Are they going to burn out?
- 5:53SPEAKER_01: Who's really going to make it to the pros?
- 5:56SPEAKER_01: But you are forced to think of all of this now.
- 6:01SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's interesting.
- 6:02SPEAKER_02: And I feel like you've obviously talked a lot about Wally's involvement in sports
- 6:07SPEAKER_02: and being a sports mom.
- 6:09SPEAKER_02: And in previous episodes, you talked about Kim Kardashian is producing a show about sports moms.
- 6:15SPEAKER_02: I think they're the mothers of these young boys who go to a private school
- 6:21SPEAKER_02: that specializes in baseball in Arizona.
- 6:24SPEAKER_02: And it's kind of like the baseball version of Dance Moms.
- 6:28SPEAKER_02: And then I know you have mentioned like you're seeing a bunch
- 6:31SPEAKER_02: of like youth sports influencers,
- 6:34SPEAKER_02: like youth golf content producers and they're getting sponsorships and these,
- 6:42SPEAKER_02: you know, 13 year old kids are talking to colleges and like getting scouted already.
- 6:49SPEAKER_02: And I think it's so interesting that youth sports has really come to the forefront.
- 6:56SPEAKER_02: I feel like this has been brewing for a bit, but it's really hitting this year.
- 7:01SPEAKER_02: Like the other week I was at a sports bar and
- 7:05SPEAKER_02: the Little League World Championship was the game that was playing at this bar.
- 7:10SPEAKER_02: And I was like, that's so interesting.
- 7:14SPEAKER_02: And this article from Vox talks exactly what you just said.
- 7:17SPEAKER_02: A lot of parents and also kids are experiencing FOMO because other kids
- 7:22SPEAKER_02: in their class, their friends are in these private leagues.
- 7:27SPEAKER_02: And also what comes with that is the risk of burnout.
- 7:31SPEAKER_02: And unfortunately,
- 7:33SPEAKER_02: as always,
- 7:34SPEAKER_02: when something becomes very popular,
- 7:36SPEAKER_02: Private equity has come in to monetize every aspect of it from their talking
- 7:42SPEAKER_02: about uniforms.
- 7:43SPEAKER_02: I saw a clip.
- 7:44SPEAKER_02: I'll make sure to find it and hyperlink it here.
- 7:48SPEAKER_02: But this guy was talking about they don't want parents to film video at
- 7:53SPEAKER_02: the games anymore because they want to film it themselves and then charge for
- 7:58SPEAKER_02: the tape after the games.
- 8:00SPEAKER_02: So parents can't go and just take videos of their kids at their baseball games.
- 8:07SPEAKER_02: Just kind of mind-blowing.
- 8:09SPEAKER_02: I grew up, I mean, we grew up in the same place.
- 8:12SPEAKER_02: Like sports were not a thing.
- 8:14SPEAKER_02: I did soccer,
- 8:16SPEAKER_02: but it was more of like a social thing when I was little because my friends did it.
- 8:20SPEAKER_02: It was more for fun.
- 8:21SPEAKER_02: And I had one friend who did,
- 8:24SPEAKER_02: we called it travel soccer because she was traveling around the state.
- 8:29SPEAKER_02: And it took up her whole weekends.
- 8:30SPEAKER_02: We like didn't really see her on the weekends because she had a game.
- 8:34SPEAKER_02: But she was like the only person I knew who did that.
- 8:38SPEAKER_02: Did she end up playing like in high school?
- 8:43SPEAKER_02: She played in high school and she was like the star of our team.
- 8:47SPEAKER_02: She decided not to do it at the college level.
- 8:51SPEAKER_02: She decided to do sports.
- 8:53SPEAKER_02: I think she got burnt out of like the pressure of it
- 8:58SPEAKER_02: because she started doing travel when we were like eight.
- 9:04SPEAKER_02: I think really young.
- 9:06SPEAKER_02: But she still loves it.
- 9:08SPEAKER_02: She plays in a club league now.
- 9:10SPEAKER_02: We're 29.
- 9:12SPEAKER_02: But she decided not to play it for her university because she was like,
- 9:21SPEAKER_02: I'm not enjoying it anymore.
- 9:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 9:26SPEAKER_02: But she was able to, like, regain her love and she's still doing it now.
- 9:29SPEAKER_02: But it's just such a different environment from, you know, 15 years ago.
- 9:34SPEAKER_01: I mean, I think where I'm landing on it,
- 9:41SPEAKER_01: and again, I'm not, this is, like, such a fresh conversation.
- 9:43SPEAKER_01: Like, I am not, I don't have the answer, let me just say.
- 9:49SPEAKER_01: And I think in 10 years' time, when these I feel like
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: where I'm landing, and it does suck.
- 10:08SPEAKER_01: I'm not saying that this is right or wrong.
- 10:11SPEAKER_01: I think that in a given season,
- 10:14SPEAKER_01: it's best if you have your child just in one of these elite clubs where it's like...
- 10:24SPEAKER_01: One tournament team.
- 10:24SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 10:26SPEAKER_01: right now,
- 10:27SPEAKER_01: like even I have Wally in advanced lacrosse and he hasn't even been able to attend.
- 10:32SPEAKER_01: And it's like, he's so tired and like, I don't know.
- 10:36SPEAKER_01: And so, and it's not even lacrosse season, right?
- 10:39SPEAKER_01: Lacrosse is actually in the spring.
- 10:42SPEAKER_01: He's going to have to choose between baseball and lacrosse.
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: Sort of sucks because he's really good at both.
- 10:47SPEAKER_01: And like, I kind of wish lacrosse was fall and then he could do baseball in the spring.
- 10:54SPEAKER_01: I feel like with hand-eye coordination and stick work, that actually would make sense.
- 10:58SPEAKER_01: I feel like lacrosse players would be good at baseball and vice versa because of
- 11:03SPEAKER_01: the way you play it.
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: I don't know why that sport is actually a spray sport.
- 11:10SPEAKER_01: I think in a given season, you can relate in one tournament team.
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: I think it's incredibly healthy and data.
- 11:17SPEAKER_01: Everyone says you should be playing other sports.
- 11:20SPEAKER_01: You shouldn't specialize too early.
- 11:23SPEAKER_01: There are some kids here who are like, I am a baseball player.
- 11:28SPEAKER_01: Hard stuff.
- 11:28SPEAKER_01: And I play it five days a week.
- 11:31SPEAKER_01: And that's what I do.
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: And I think that's actually really unhealthy.
- 11:34SPEAKER_01: For body, I think...
- 11:37SPEAKER_01: There are stats that say baseball players,
- 11:39SPEAKER_01: especially pitchers,
- 11:42SPEAKER_01: that motion of throwing the ball like that, it can really damage your arm.
- 11:48SPEAKER_01: So I think it's one of those,
- 11:52SPEAKER_01: I feel like it's one rack,
- 11:54SPEAKER_01: which is really hopefully filling the bucket of playing with your friends.
- 12:00SPEAKER_01: Wally's club team, he doesn't know anyone.
- 12:02SPEAKER_01: Well, now he does because he's been doing it for a year and a half.
- 12:04SPEAKER_01: But like last year was brand new.
- 12:06SPEAKER_01: He's the only one from our town that made this like one team.
- 12:08SPEAKER_01: And like, I think there's character building there.
- 12:11SPEAKER_01: You know, it's like making new friends.
- 12:14SPEAKER_01: And this is like a whole different group.
- 12:17SPEAKER_01: And like this group is intense.
- 12:19SPEAKER_01: And that's what that environment is.
- 12:22SPEAKER_01: Rec should be more like, I'm with my buddies and win or lose, whatever.
- 12:28SPEAKER_01: He's on Rec soccer right now.
- 12:30SPEAKER_01: Or it's not Rec.
- 12:31SPEAKER_01: It's still club soccer.
- 12:32SPEAKER_01: He needs to be in Rec.
- 12:32SPEAKER_01: But he's in a club soccer team and they're not winning.
- 12:37SPEAKER_01: But it's like his bracket, they're playing gold teams.
- 12:42SPEAKER_01: These teams are all practicing three or four times a week.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: His team practices twice a week.
- 12:47SPEAKER_01: And it doesn't mean the kids are less talented.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: It's just they're just not doing it as much.
- 12:52SPEAKER_01: Logging last time.
- 12:55SPEAKER_01: But he doesn't seem to be bothered by the winning or losing, which I think is cool.
- 13:00SPEAKER_01: And then, yeah, and then you got to do other stuff.
- 13:03SPEAKER_01: Like, that's why I like swimming.
- 13:04SPEAKER_01: Like, I think just throwing in a swim, he's not going to be a swimmer.
- 13:08SPEAKER_01: I think it's really good to move your body in that way.
- 13:11SPEAKER_01: You know what I mean?
- 13:11SPEAKER_01: Where, like, Lucy and Teddy are both in gymnastics.
- 13:16SPEAKER_01: No one is going to the Olympics here.
- 13:18SPEAKER_01: Maybe Ted is.
- 13:21SPEAKER_02: Yeah, Ted's starting.
- 13:24SPEAKER_02: I love my daughter wholeheartedly.
- 13:28SPEAKER_01: Her cartwheel is like a bear hop.
- 13:30SPEAKER_01: And she has been in more gymnastics classes than anyone I know.
- 13:33SPEAKER_02: And it's great.
- 13:35SPEAKER_02: Like, I don't, you know, that's not the point.
- 13:36SPEAKER_01: You know, the point is to really feel strong and to build muscle.
- 13:41SPEAKER_01: And, you know, I was talking about this with my brother earlier.
- 13:44SPEAKER_01: Like, that's why I was late on this call.
- 13:46SPEAKER_01: But my dad went through a stroke like two years ago.
- 13:48SPEAKER_01: And he's in his 70s.
- 13:51SPEAKER_01: And like, I don't think that generation...
- 13:54SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 13:55SPEAKER_01: really thinks like our younger generations do about like your physical body
- 14:01SPEAKER_01: and how like I really do believe in today's world where it's like you have
- 14:06SPEAKER_01: to train like an athlete at every age, really.
- 14:08SPEAKER_01: Like you should be like you can't take things for granted.
- 14:13SPEAKER_01: Like I was talking to a mom friend this morning also about grip.
- 14:16SPEAKER_01: Like, grip strength.
- 14:17SPEAKER_01: You know, grip strength is, like, actually a huge indicator of longevity.
- 14:21SPEAKER_01: And I've, like,
- 14:22SPEAKER_01: she was like, yeah, like,
- 14:23SPEAKER_01: don't wear gloves when you lift weights
- 14:26SPEAKER_01: because everyone is lifting heavier weight now.
- 14:28SPEAKER_01: She's like, because they can actually, like, decrease your grip strength.
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: She's like,
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: tape up the weight because you want to be able to do,
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: like, you don't want to diminish the grip strength.
- 14:37SPEAKER_01: I was like, that's so smart, thoughtful.
- 14:39SPEAKER_01: And, like, I see my dad now in his...
- 14:42SPEAKER_01: You can't take things for granted.
- 14:45SPEAKER_01: You can age really fast if something happens.
- 14:48SPEAKER_01: It makes sense when you think about it,
- 14:52SPEAKER_01: but I don't think we were all raised in this way where you want to be ready
- 14:56SPEAKER_01: for anything that can come your way,
- 14:57SPEAKER_01: whether it's illness, whether it's This year I broke my foot.
- 15:03SPEAKER_01: I've never broken a bone.
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: It was not on my radar.
- 15:05SPEAKER_01: I was impervious and I'm not.
- 15:07SPEAKER_01: Or I fractured my face.
- 15:10SPEAKER_01: And I do think I've healed knock on wood pretty quickly because of how I take care of my body.
- 15:18SPEAKER_01: And going to tennis and going to workout classes and lifting the weight and doing
- 15:24SPEAKER_01: the hikes and all of that.
- 15:27SPEAKER_01: I think it's coming down for me where it's like if we have this amount of time
- 15:32SPEAKER_01: to do recreational activities,
- 15:35SPEAKER_01: it's kind of like I think I just have to be more intentional on his behalf.
- 15:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 15:41SPEAKER_02: And as he keeps doing it, he'll get older.
- 15:44SPEAKER_02: He'll figure out what he likes and what he doesn't.
- 15:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 15:48SPEAKER_02: But yeah, it's really interesting.
- 15:50SPEAKER_02: I'm really interested to see.
- 15:51SPEAKER_02: I have to check when Kim Kardashian's show comes out,
- 15:55SPEAKER_02: but I feel like this is only the beginning of it.
- 16:00SPEAKER_01: I mean, I want to send this.
- 16:02SPEAKER_01: I think this is a good reminder because I do want to send this to my friends.
- 16:05SPEAKER_01: I think everyone's going to want to watch it and see.
- 16:07SPEAKER_01: But yeah, I mean, it is a thing.
- 16:11SPEAKER_01: And it just makes me sad for the pressure on the kids,
- 16:16SPEAKER_01: though, because there is A whole psychological aspect to it too.
- 16:21SPEAKER_01: The pressure, which is like, again, I am a bit of a tiger mom with certain things.
- 16:28SPEAKER_01: Like, you know, my kids play instruments and I feel pretty strongly about making them do that.
- 16:32SPEAKER_01: Is that something my kids want to do?
- 16:34SPEAKER_01: Maybe, probably not.
- 16:37SPEAKER_01: But, so I think that there is something to this a bit.
- 16:42SPEAKER_01: And like,
- 16:43SPEAKER_01: I think Being able to support your child into doing something at an elite
- 16:47SPEAKER_01: or higher level,
- 16:49SPEAKER_01: whatever that is, it could be math, could be chess, could be like whatever.
- 16:53SPEAKER_01: I think that that's actually cool to coach them through like the, oh, this isn't fun.
- 16:57SPEAKER_01: I don't want to do it.
- 16:58SPEAKER_01: But yeah, I don't know.
- 17:02SPEAKER_01: I don't know what this is going to like lead to.
- 17:05SPEAKER_01: Like, I think the question is like,
- 17:08SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 17:08SPEAKER_01: I certainly think right now,
- 17:09SPEAKER_01: like I get all this speaking of gymnastics like stuff in my algorithm
- 17:12SPEAKER_01: and it's like gymnastics from the 70s versus like, you know, the Olympians now.
- 17:18SPEAKER_01: And it's so, it's so different.
- 17:20SPEAKER_01: So, you know, it makes me wonder like what, what is baseball?
- 17:24SPEAKER_01: Like what is the MLB going to look like in like 20 years, 15 years, 10 years?
- 17:29SPEAKER_01: I don't think it's that far away, honestly.
- 17:30SPEAKER_01: Like these kids are eight plus 10.
- 17:33SPEAKER_01: Oh yeah.
- 17:34SPEAKER_01: Boom, you know.
- 17:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 17:36SPEAKER_01: Like, would it be at a higher level?
- 17:38SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
- 17:39SPEAKER_01: Or is this, like, all for naught, you know?
- 17:41SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 17:43SPEAKER_02: Or how will, like, the media aspect change?
- 17:47SPEAKER_02: Like, we're seeing youth sports influencers.
- 17:52SPEAKER_02: What is it going to look like when these kids start getting into college?
- 17:57SPEAKER_02: And professional sports,
- 17:59SPEAKER_02: like we talk about the Savannah Bananas all the time and how they've figured out how
- 18:03SPEAKER_02: to merge sport and media, sport and entertainment.
- 18:07SPEAKER_02: I wonder if that could be coming to traditional pro sports, but yeah, it's interesting.
- 18:16SPEAKER_02: Okay, next topic I want to talk about, this one's very fun.
- 18:21SPEAKER_02: So this was included, this article we're going to talk about right now.
- 18:27SPEAKER_02: I included it in our Monday Cultural Gems Roundup,
- 18:31SPEAKER_02: either this past Monday or the previous Monday.
- 18:33SPEAKER_02: And it was the top clicked link of that email.
- 18:37SPEAKER_02: So I feel like I felt like we should pull it out and talk about it.
- 18:41SPEAKER_02: So this article is From Wired,
- 18:45SPEAKER_02: it's about Brendan Sinclair and how he has created a cult internet following based
- 18:51SPEAKER_02: on his love of Olive Garden, the restaurant.
- 18:55SPEAKER_02: It's really fun.
- 18:57SPEAKER_02: Brandon is
- 19:01SPEAKER_02: one of just 50 people in the world who have an Olive Garden Lifetime Pasta Pass.
- 19:07SPEAKER_02: So this means he gets unlimited pasta, toppings, breadsticks, and soup and salad for life.
- 19:14SPEAKER_02: He doesn't have to pay for it, I don't think.
- 19:16SPEAKER_02: He just tips.
- 19:19SPEAKER_02: And this is something that Olive Garden has been doing for a bit.
- 19:22SPEAKER_02: So I think it was at the beginning of summer,
- 19:27SPEAKER_02: they sold a batch of 10,000 unlimited pasta passes.
- 19:31SPEAKER_02: I believe those only lasted for like three months for $100 a piece.
- 19:36SPEAKER_02: And they sold out within silence.
- 19:38SPEAKER_02: Temporary pass.
- 19:39SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 19:39SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it was just temporary.
- 19:40SPEAKER_02: It was a permanent.
- 19:42SPEAKER_02: However,
- 19:42SPEAKER_02: the first 50 people that bought those original Yeah,
- 19:51SPEAKER_02: they got the opportunity to, for $400, upgrade to a lifetime pass.
- 19:57SPEAKER_02: And Braden was one of those people, although he does suspect, he's like, I have DMs.
- 20:04SPEAKER_02: He's like, I feel like they might have just given it to me.
- 20:09SPEAKER_02: He's like, I don't know if I was one of the first 50 people to sign up for this.
- 20:14SPEAKER_02: They're smart.
- 20:16SPEAKER_02: They're very smart.
- 20:18SPEAKER_02: Is he an influencer or is he like a normie?
- 20:22SPEAKER_02: He's a normie.
- 20:23SPEAKER_02: And this all took off.
- 20:25SPEAKER_02: So he got his pass.
- 20:26SPEAKER_02: He then upgraded for $400 to his Lifetime Unlimited Pass.
- 20:30SPEAKER_02: And he has created a website, lifetimepastapass.com, where he tracks his visits.
- 20:37SPEAKER_02: He goes to different franchises.
- 20:39SPEAKER_02: He tracks the different meals he's eating,
- 20:41SPEAKER_02: the calories,
- 20:42SPEAKER_02: how much he's spending on tipping,
- 20:45SPEAKER_02: how much the meals cost themselves,
- 20:47SPEAKER_02: his favorite orders,
- 20:49SPEAKER_02: restaurant locations,
- 20:50SPEAKER_02: and then people on the website can vote on what he orders
- 20:54SPEAKER_02: on his next Olive Garden visit.
- 20:58SPEAKER_02: He started doing this on this website.
- 21:00SPEAKER_02: He's not even posting about it to social media,
- 21:02SPEAKER_02: but he decided to post about it to Reddit
- 21:05SPEAKER_01: where it went viral, took off.
- 21:09SPEAKER_02: And when he posted it- This is like Reddit perfect.
- 21:13SPEAKER_02: I know.
- 21:14SPEAKER_02: This is like the perfect- Reddit eats stuff like this up,
- 21:17SPEAKER_02: like hyper niche kind of like fixations that people have always do really well
- 21:21SPEAKER_02: on Reddit.
- 21:24SPEAKER_02: And when he posted it on Reddit,
- 21:26SPEAKER_02: more than 700 people have since then,
- 21:29SPEAKER_02: 700 people have voted on what he should order next.
- 21:32SPEAKER_02: So he has an audience of over a thousand people who are engaging with his website
- 21:37SPEAKER_02: and tracking his Olive Garden meals.
- 21:40SPEAKER_01: Does his pass let him get anything on the menu or does he have to...
- 21:45SPEAKER_02: I think it only applies to pasta, breadsticks, soup, and salad.
- 21:51SPEAKER_02: So I think if he gets like...
- 21:54SPEAKER_02: A protein, you know, like entree.
- 21:57SPEAKER_02: I believe he has to pay for that.
- 21:59SPEAKER_02: I don't believe that's on it.
- 22:01SPEAKER_02: But he has said a lot of times he goes to these restaurants.
- 22:04SPEAKER_02: And since a few of these lifetime passes, only 50 people have them.
- 22:10SPEAKER_02: A lot of times the restaurant, like they don't know what it is.
- 22:13SPEAKER_02: They think it's fake and they have
- 22:15SPEAKER_02: to like call corporate to confirm that it's a legit pass.
- 22:22SPEAKER_02: And it's so much fun.
- 22:24SPEAKER_02: And it's like totally gamified the Olive Garden fandom and his love of Olive Garden.
- 22:31SPEAKER_02: I haven't seen the brand.
- 22:33SPEAKER_02: This is like new.
- 22:36SPEAKER_02: This article went out in Wired,
- 22:38SPEAKER_02: I think maybe a week and a half ago,
- 22:40SPEAKER_02: but I'm waiting for Olive Garden to like do a
- 22:44SPEAKER_01: formalized thing with him.
- 22:45SPEAKER_01: Literally like words out of my mouth.
- 22:47SPEAKER_01: And like, what does Olive Garden do with him then?
- 22:51SPEAKER_02: I mean, he already has a lifetime pass.
- 22:53SPEAKER_02: I feel like it would be really fun.
- 22:55SPEAKER_02: He's already traveling to different—and I don't know how far he's traveling.
- 23:00SPEAKER_02: Maybe it's just within his state right now,
- 23:02SPEAKER_02: but he's going to different franchises and restaurants and then rating them.
- 23:06SPEAKER_02: I feel like they should take him on a tour of around the country
- 23:11SPEAKER_02: to every Olive Garden, and he should document that experience.
- 23:17SPEAKER_01: One thousand percent exactly what they should do.
- 23:21SPEAKER_01: When we post this, you need to like pull that out of the shop.
- 23:27SPEAKER_01: They should have,
- 23:30SPEAKER_01: it should almost be like a mini documentary series and he could like have a YouTube
- 23:35SPEAKER_01: and like super niche and it's just like exploring each of
- 23:39SPEAKER_01: the different Olive Garden franchise, like every single one and like interview.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: Are they franchises where like people own them?
- 23:47SPEAKER_01: Is that what it is or is it, I don't know.
- 23:51SPEAKER_01: I don't know if they're franchises, or just every restaurant.
- 23:54SPEAKER_01: That's so fun.
- 23:56SPEAKER_01: You can interview the different people that work there.
- 24:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I feel like it would be so fun.
- 24:02SPEAKER_02: It reminded me,
- 24:04SPEAKER_02: one of my favorite YouTubers,
- 24:06SPEAKER_02: Eddie Burback, did a series where he became fixated on the Rainforest Cafe.
- 24:12SPEAKER_02: And he did a cross-country road trip and he ate at every single Rainforest Cafe restaurant.
- 24:20SPEAKER_02: I thought that they were just in Disney World.
- 24:22SPEAKER_02: They're apparently everywhere.
- 24:24SPEAKER_02: And they're even like a couple in Canada.
- 24:26SPEAKER_02: So we went up to Canada for this.
- 24:27SPEAKER_02: And he took, it was just him and another content creator They documented their journey.
- 24:35SPEAKER_02: I think that they did it over a little bit over a month.
- 24:39SPEAKER_02: And they documented their car breaking down and all the different restaurants.
- 24:45SPEAKER_02: And they raided the different rainforest cafes.
- 24:50SPEAKER_02: And at the end, they voted on their favorite.
- 24:52SPEAKER_02: It was very fun.
- 24:53SPEAKER_02: And the video Last time I checked, which was a while ago, had well over 6 million views.
- 25:00SPEAKER_02: And I think that he ended up extending it and he maybe did another.
- 25:04SPEAKER_02: He might be doing another restaurant.
- 25:07SPEAKER_01: I was going to say, like, similar, like, first of all, I love that example.
- 25:15SPEAKER_01: I was also going to say, you know what comes to mind for me for something like this, too, is...
- 25:21SPEAKER_01: I wonder if Olive Garden does any, like, regional specialties also.
- 25:26SPEAKER_01: Like, kind of reminds me a little bit of McDonald's.
- 25:29SPEAKER_01: Like, I think McDonald's has really capitalized on, like,
- 25:33SPEAKER_01: theirs is more global,
- 25:34SPEAKER_01: but like, oh, if you go to McDonald's in Japan, you can get the shrimp burger.
- 25:39SPEAKER_01: Like, if you go to McDonald's in Canada, they have poutine.
- 25:42SPEAKER_01: If you go to, you know what I mean?
- 25:44SPEAKER_01: Like, there's different cuisine in different regions that sort of It inspires people
- 25:51SPEAKER_01: to check out every McDonald's and it's like,
- 25:54SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 25:54SPEAKER_01: I don't know if they have like a passport thing,
- 25:56SPEAKER_01: but I know that like so many different,
- 25:58SPEAKER_01: like the national parks have a passport,
- 26:00SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 26:01SPEAKER_01: where it's like you go and you get a stamp and it's like,
- 26:03SPEAKER_01: okay, I went to blah, blah, blah, you know?
- 26:06SPEAKER_01: And like one thing that's cool I've heard about like,
- 26:11SPEAKER_01: I think the McDonald's headquarters is in like the Midwest.
- 26:14SPEAKER_01: I feel like it's in Chicago or something,
- 26:15SPEAKER_01: but like You can go to,
- 26:18SPEAKER_01: they have a restaurant,
- 26:19SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 26:19SPEAKER_01: a McDonald's there you can go to and they highlight different menu items from around
- 26:24SPEAKER_01: the world at like different times.
- 26:26SPEAKER_01: So you can go to that location and then order like,
- 26:29SPEAKER_01: you know, in Hawaii you can get like You know, guava donuts or something.
- 26:34SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
- 26:35SPEAKER_01: Or like they have spam for the breakfast.
- 26:38SPEAKER_01: You know, it's like spam and eggs.
- 26:40SPEAKER_01: So like if I were Olive Garden right now looking at this,
- 26:43SPEAKER_01: I don't know if they have a regional kind of thing,
- 26:45SPEAKER_01: but I feel like I would consider that.
- 26:47SPEAKER_01: I would be like,
- 26:48SPEAKER_01: and I don't even know how many Olive Gardens there are,
- 26:51SPEAKER_01: but like if you look across the country,
- 26:53SPEAKER_01: like maybe make regional things and then A,
- 26:58SPEAKER_01: do the documentary like we were talking about.
- 27:00SPEAKER_01: He should go to each one and highlight each one or whatever.
- 27:03SPEAKER_01: It would be cool if he had different food to review at each one.
- 27:08SPEAKER_01: Even at a minimum,
- 27:09SPEAKER_01: if they're releasing something new, have him review it and do a restaurant review.
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: And then also,
- 27:17SPEAKER_01: how fun would it be if they did something where it's like people could Like eat
- 27:23SPEAKER_01: with him or like do like an event at Olive Garden where it's kind of like
- 27:27SPEAKER_01: the Tink's, you know, Rich Mom Walk.
- 27:30SPEAKER_01: It's like what we just did for Swallow, what I was talking about earlier, 10K before 10A.
- 27:34SPEAKER_01: Like so fun if he got his community to like come and like,
- 27:39SPEAKER_01: you know, add a certain location and whatever.
- 27:41SPEAKER_01: I mean, I just think that there's so many fun ideas you could do with a creator like this.
- 27:50SPEAKER_01: And I think the only downfall is if Olive Garden doesn't do anything.
- 27:55SPEAKER_01: That would be so lame.
- 27:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's very fun.
- 27:59SPEAKER_02: And it's just one of those lighthearted internet stories that we don't see as much anymore.
- 28:06SPEAKER_02: And yeah, I think he tracks every meal he eats.
- 28:10SPEAKER_02: I feel like he could do a meal special at Olive Garden with his favorite pasta,
- 28:16SPEAKER_02: soup, salad, toppings.
- 28:19SPEAKER_02: It's infinite.
- 28:20SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 28:21SPEAKER_02: Infinite what they could do.
- 28:23SPEAKER_02: So I'm watching their accounts because I'm very...
- 28:28SPEAKER_01: I love it.
- 28:28SPEAKER_01: If you see them post anything about it, like, I mean, this is hilarious.
- 28:32SPEAKER_01: This is infinite tour of Italy.
- 28:37SPEAKER_02: You know what?
- 28:38SPEAKER_02: And the funny thing is that Olive Garden has had this, like,
- 28:41SPEAKER_01: funny thing about it for a while.
- 28:42SPEAKER_01: Like, I remember a long time ago...
- 28:47SPEAKER_01: When I lived in New York City, I was like, I think it was even before I lived in the city.
- 28:50SPEAKER_01: Like, I think it was a long time ago.
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: I was like, I have to go to the Olive Garden in Times Square.
- 28:55SPEAKER_01: And it was like a thing.
- 28:56SPEAKER_02: Am I right?
- 28:57SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah.
- 28:58SPEAKER_02: No, it's definitely a thing.
- 29:01SPEAKER_01: And I don't know why.
- 29:03SPEAKER_01: More so than like any other chain, I would say.
- 29:07SPEAKER_02: No, it's 100% a thing.
- 29:09SPEAKER_02: I know a New York City influencer, Jazz, I forget her last name.
- 29:16SPEAKER_02: She goes to the Olive Garden Times Square by herself because she's like, I want breadsticks.
- 29:23SPEAKER_02: I want breadsticks.
- 29:25SPEAKER_02: Like Alfredo Pasta.
- 29:27SPEAKER_02: And the best place to get it is the Times Square Olive Garden.
- 29:31SPEAKER_02: And it's true.
- 29:32SPEAKER_02: It's so funny in there.
- 29:33SPEAKER_02: I go, actually,
- 29:35SPEAKER_02: me and my friends,
- 29:36SPEAKER_02: when we go see movies, we will meet at the Times Square AMC a lot.
- 29:41SPEAKER_02: And we will go to Olive Garden before or Applebee's.
- 29:46SPEAKER_02: And it's just really funny and kitschy.
- 29:49SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 29:50SPEAKER_01: You know what's so funny, though?
- 29:53SPEAKER_01: I think it, like, used to be, like, more, like, oh, this is, like, a cost-effective meal.
- 29:58SPEAKER_01: And it's, like, not that cheap.
- 29:59SPEAKER_01: Yeah, no.
- 30:01SPEAKER_01: You know what I mean?
- 30:02SPEAKER_01: Like, I think that that's actually a misnomer with that.
- 30:04SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
- 30:05SPEAKER_01: I want to say for, like, the Times Square one, it might be more expensive.
- 30:08SPEAKER_01: I don't know if it's, like, high stuff.
- 30:10SPEAKER_02: It probably, I mean, it's New York.
- 30:12SPEAKER_02: I just remember
- 30:14SPEAKER_01: going, though,
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: and being,
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: like, whoa, this is not, like, I thought this was, like, a cheap meal out.
- 30:18SPEAKER_01: It wasn't.
- 30:21SPEAKER_02: They really sell you on the unlimited breadsticks, and that's how they get you.
- 30:28SPEAKER_02: Looking at their Instagram, they're very into the memes.
- 30:32SPEAKER_02: I'm not seeing Breeden, and I want to see him on there.
- 30:36SPEAKER_02: I know, they need to get on that.
- 30:39SPEAKER_02: Hopefully they're doing something behind the scenes.
- 30:42SPEAKER_02: But yeah, very fun, and I will be following along to see what they end up doing.
- 30:50SPEAKER_02: Third final topic, YouTube is investing in community management.
- 30:56SPEAKER_02: So the typical journey for a creator on YouTube has been to build their following on
- 31:02SPEAKER_02: the platform and then once they get to a certain point,
- 31:05SPEAKER_02: they usually have to Outsource community engagement to a platform like Discord
- 31:11SPEAKER_02: or Patreon because YouTube, you can't DM.
- 31:15SPEAKER_01: You can't share videos with each other.
- 31:17SPEAKER_01: You can't DM on YouTube?
- 31:18SPEAKER_01: I don't even know if I knew that.
- 31:20SPEAKER_02: You can now.
- 31:21SPEAKER_02: Now you'll be able to.
- 31:22SPEAKER_02: Now you can.
- 31:23SPEAKER_01: It's so silly that you haven't been able to.
- 31:26SPEAKER_02: I know.
- 31:26SPEAKER_02: You could share a video via social media DM.
- 31:31SPEAKER_02: I could send somebody a YouTube video via Instagram DMs, but there were no DMs.
- 31:37SPEAKER_02: Within the YouTube app itself.
- 31:39SPEAKER_02: So that was the typical thing.
- 31:40SPEAKER_02: A creator would get to a certain point and then they'd have to go to Discord
- 31:44SPEAKER_02: if they wanted to chat,
- 31:45SPEAKER_02: you know, directly with their fans or Patreon if they wanted to paywall some of their content,
- 31:51SPEAKER_02: do voting, you know, just go a little bit deeper with engagement.
- 31:55SPEAKER_02: So YouTube wants creators to be able to stay on their platform.
- 31:59SPEAKER_02: They kind of want to be a one-stop shop for people.
- 32:03SPEAKER_02: So they're expanding their features to do members-only communities.
- 32:09SPEAKER_02: So a few years ago,
- 32:10SPEAKER_02: YouTube started like YouTube premium subscriptions where you can pay
- 32:14SPEAKER_02: to get paywalled content from creators on the platform.
- 32:18SPEAKER_02: So now Creators can have communities specifically for their paid subscribers.
- 32:25SPEAKER_02: You can now do direct video sharing.
- 32:28SPEAKER_02: There will be group chats in the app.
- 32:30SPEAKER_02: You can send reaction GIFs in the comments because it was just text.
- 32:35SPEAKER_02: And you can also do voice-to-text comments on TV and more interactive live streams.
- 32:42SPEAKER_02: So it's interesting that YouTube was kind of the OG social platform.
- 32:49SPEAKER_02: I feel like Instagram,
- 32:52SPEAKER_02: Twitter, X, TikTok,
- 32:55SPEAKER_02: these newer platforms came up and were able to kind of supersede
- 33:00SPEAKER_02: or get more creative with their features and kind of overtook YouTube a little bit.
- 33:07SPEAKER_02: We've talked about how we feel like it lost a bit of its shine and felt
- 33:10SPEAKER_02: a little complacent and I feel like this is them Trying to build
- 33:16SPEAKER_02: that audience out more,
- 33:18SPEAKER_02: keep people on the platform and keep their creators happy since so many
- 33:22SPEAKER_02: of them are jumping ship for other streaming platforms.
- 33:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I mean,
- 33:27SPEAKER_01: I was going to say,
- 33:27SPEAKER_01: I feel like that's exactly like writing films like they're trying to course correct
- 33:33SPEAKER_01: for innovations they haven't made.
- 33:37SPEAKER_01: I mean, I think this goes back to like A theme we've talked about with YouTube
- 33:43SPEAKER_01: where it's like, you know, they have enjoyed being in the position they've been in.
- 33:49SPEAKER_01: And
- 33:52SPEAKER_01: I think they landed at the right time and they make a ton of money
- 33:57SPEAKER_01: and they can pay people all like really well.
- 34:00SPEAKER_01: And I think that they definitely have maintained It's funny,
- 34:08SPEAKER_01: I can't really think of a time where,
- 34:11SPEAKER_01: at least for me,
- 34:12SPEAKER_01: and I actually think you might feel differently,
- 34:16SPEAKER_01: where YouTube was the number one social platform.
- 34:19SPEAKER_01: I'm a millennial, and it was Facebook to Instagram, really.
- 34:24SPEAKER_01: I think TikTok has popped up,
- 34:27SPEAKER_01: maybe spent a little bit of time,
- 34:29SPEAKER_01: but I think Instagram really still, as far as millennials, is the main platform.
- 34:38SPEAKER_01: Um, and I don't think YouTube has ever been there, um, for us.
- 34:44SPEAKER_01: And so, I don't know.
- 34:46SPEAKER_01: Like, I, I just, I think this is great.
- 34:49SPEAKER_01: I think it's good that they're doing this.
- 34:52SPEAKER_01: I think it's hilarious that they don't have these features.
- 34:56SPEAKER_01: I know.
- 34:57SPEAKER_01: Like, the DMing thing is really wild to me.
- 34:59SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 35:02SPEAKER_01: Also, this idea,
- 35:03SPEAKER_01: like you said,
- 35:03SPEAKER_01: like Discord,
- 35:04SPEAKER_01: like the fact that people were going off platform to go do that,
- 35:07SPEAKER_01: like why they wouldn't try to foster that kind of engagement on there is...
- 35:12SPEAKER_02: And this has been happening.
- 35:14SPEAKER_02: Creators have had to do this for, you know, 15 years.
- 35:17SPEAKER_02: It's like, why?
- 35:19SPEAKER_02: I just, why now?
- 35:21SPEAKER_02: I wonder if Netflix coming in and like very blatantly poaching creators
- 35:27SPEAKER_02: from their platform was kind of what lit the fire underneath them.
- 35:32SPEAKER_02: But I'm just like, Creators have had to outsource community engagement for over a decade.
- 35:41SPEAKER_02: What was it about 2026 that they were like,
- 35:45SPEAKER_02: okay, now's the time we actually have to invest in these
- 35:49SPEAKER_01: additional features?
- 35:51SPEAKER_01: I think you just hit the nail on the head.
- 35:52SPEAKER_01: It's the talent.
- 35:56SPEAKER_01: Again, for so long,
- 35:57SPEAKER_01: it was always the platform that creators would graduate to, especially TikTok.
- 36:05SPEAKER_01: Yes, you've gone viral on TikTok, but YouTube is where the money can be made.
- 36:12SPEAKER_01: I think right now, with the creator economy, where we're at in the evolution of it, is that...
- 36:21SPEAKER_01: The opportunities for creators are now beyond social platforms.
- 36:26SPEAKER_01: So Opportunity is on Netflix,
- 36:28SPEAKER_01: it's on Dear Media, it's books, it's like so many different things.
- 36:37SPEAKER_01: And so YouTube
- 36:41SPEAKER_01: has kind of become a stepping stone as opposed to the
- 36:49SPEAKER_01: The pinnacle, yeah.
- 36:50SPEAKER_01: The pinnacle.
- 36:53SPEAKER_01: And so I'm sure, I mean,
- 36:54SPEAKER_01: this feels silly to me that, I mean,
- 36:59SPEAKER_01: it's a way to sort of probably like address what creators have complained to them
- 37:04SPEAKER_01: about, you know.
- 37:08SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I don't know.
- 37:09SPEAKER_01: I mean, I'm skeptical of all the platforms.
- 37:13SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I wonder.
- 37:15SPEAKER_02: They don't innovate that much, though.
- 37:17SPEAKER_02: They really don't.
- 37:18SPEAKER_02: This is the first, like,
- 37:21SPEAKER_02: I feel like true innovation that has come to the platform
- 37:25SPEAKER_02: since maybe they started enabling live streams, which was 10 plus years ago.
- 37:31SPEAKER_02: I feel like, I think the word is complacent, like you said.
- 37:36SPEAKER_02: And I just wonder if it's too Because now creators have been on Discord and Patreon
- 37:43SPEAKER_02: or Substack for how many years now?
- 37:46SPEAKER_02: And it's like, okay, I'm going to move this audience back over to YouTube now.
- 37:52SPEAKER_02: I don't know if that juice would be worth the squeeze for them if they're
- 37:57SPEAKER_02: so comfortable on these platforms.
- 37:59SPEAKER_02: And to your other point, YouTube was definitely...
- 38:03SPEAKER_02: Like, I would say Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or Vine when I was using it.
- 38:09SPEAKER_02: Or Vine.
- 38:10SPEAKER_02: I was a real, like, YouTube fan.
- 38:13SPEAKER_02: It was, like, empty, kind of mindless consumption.
- 38:16SPEAKER_02: But me and my friends and my roommates in college,
- 38:19SPEAKER_02: any time we had dinner, we would have to pull up a YouTube video.
- 38:23SPEAKER_02: And we would all sit down and watch it.
- 38:25SPEAKER_02: And it was, like… It was so wild to me.
- 38:27SPEAKER_02: Like, not my experience at all.
- 38:29SPEAKER_02: Which is great.
- 38:30SPEAKER_02: I, like, didn't eat a meal without watching a YouTube video.
- 38:34SPEAKER_02: It's so crazy.
- 38:38SPEAKER_02: And it was a part of our daily routine and it got like it had my full concentration.
- 38:44SPEAKER_02: I felt like super hyper-connected to the creators that I watch because they're
- 38:49SPEAKER_02: a part of my, I felt like I was eating dinner with them every day.
- 38:53SPEAKER_02: They're part of my daily routine.
- 38:54SPEAKER_02: It was much more deeper than like the surface level Instagram follow in my life.
- 39:00SPEAKER_02: And I'm not sure.
- 39:01SPEAKER_02: I think it's a combination of getting older and kind of aging out of that.
- 39:06SPEAKER_02: A lot of the creators I watched back then now are married and have kids
- 39:10SPEAKER_02: and can't dedicate the time to YouTube that they used to.
- 39:14SPEAKER_02: But I also feel like A lot of those creators now have podcasts.
- 39:19SPEAKER_02: So if I want to consume content from them,
- 39:22SPEAKER_02: I'll listen to a podcast while I'm answering emails or, you know, doing my laundry.
- 39:29SPEAKER_02: It's moved to different And YouTube is definitely now,
- 39:35SPEAKER_02: if I'm scrolling through Netflix or HBO and I can't find anything,
- 39:39SPEAKER_02: it's like, oh,
- 39:40SPEAKER_02: well, I guess I'll just look at YouTube and see if there's something random there.
- 39:45SPEAKER_02: It's become what was a part of my daily life that's become an afterthought.
- 39:51SPEAKER_01: Oh, my God.
- 39:51SPEAKER_01: You know what's so funny?
- 39:56SPEAKER_01: In a totally different way, that has been my relationship with the Real Housewives.
- 40:02SPEAKER_01: Really?
- 40:03SPEAKER_01: It parallels your YouTube experience, but think of it as the Housewives.
- 40:11SPEAKER_01: The minute I saw the first one, I was in my 20s living in New York by myself.
- 40:18SPEAKER_01: I went from college to living by myself for four years before I then was like,
- 40:21SPEAKER_01: I need a roommate again.
- 40:25SPEAKER_01: I loved that show and like I think the early versions of like the New York one,
- 40:33SPEAKER_01: New Jersey, like all of it.
- 40:35SPEAKER_01: And now it's so funny because you see it's like all part of like nostalgia content
- 40:39SPEAKER_01: from like the 2000s.
- 40:42SPEAKER_02: But now it's so funny because like my husband, you know, Jeff likes it too.
- 40:50SPEAKER_01: Especially when we're really tired and it's like a Tuesday and it's like
- 40:54SPEAKER_01: The kids have taken forever to put down to bed and it's like already 930
- 40:57SPEAKER_01: and it's like, okay, let's just like put on Housewives and like zone out.
- 41:02SPEAKER_01: And I can't watch it now.
- 41:04SPEAKER_01: Like I cannot.
- 41:06SPEAKER_01: Like he had on one of the, it's like the group trip where they like mix them all together.
- 41:13SPEAKER_01: Ultimate girls trip.
- 41:16SPEAKER_01: And I forget.
- 41:18SPEAKER_01: I was just like watching it and I was just like, this is painful.
- 41:21SPEAKER_01: This feels like, A form of acting now, like it doesn't feel at all authentic.
- 41:31SPEAKER_01: I'm anxious watching this and I don't feel invested in these people.
- 41:36SPEAKER_01: Like it feels too, I don't know.
- 41:39SPEAKER_01: And like, I don't know.
- 41:41SPEAKER_01: And again, I feel like I have been a huge Housewives fan and I don't know what it is.
- 41:47SPEAKER_01: I think it's,
- 41:48SPEAKER_01: we've talked about it on this show before with Megan too,
- 41:52SPEAKER_01: about just how like,
- 41:55SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 41:55SPEAKER_01: in today's, like,
- 41:57SPEAKER_01: media consumption world,
- 41:58SPEAKER_01: like, you can't, like, jump into a community in the way that they did back then.
- 42:05SPEAKER_01: That is, like, uninterrupted with the drama and everything.
- 42:07SPEAKER_01: Like, now everyone is so hyper-aware of, like, all the things.
- 42:10SPEAKER_01: And so it's just funny, like, For me,
- 42:15SPEAKER_01: the relevance, like, just, it's, like,
- 42:16SPEAKER_01: it almost feels like the same relevance thing has changed for you with YouTube.
- 42:21SPEAKER_01: And, like, I don't know what that means.
- 42:22SPEAKER_01: Like, YouTube seems to always sort of figure it out and survive.
- 42:26SPEAKER_01: But, like, I don't know.
- 42:31SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
- 42:32SPEAKER_01: Also, I will say, though,
- 42:34SPEAKER_01: too, before I, like, I do also love this idea of just, like, we are who we are.
- 42:39SPEAKER_02: Like, they're a
- 42:39SPEAKER_01: little bit Reddit in that way where they're, like, eh.
- 42:44SPEAKER_02: No, they're definitely right.
- 42:47SPEAKER_02: You definitely, that's a very good point because I am criticizing YouTube for not innovating.
- 42:53SPEAKER_02: And then I will roll my eyes.
- 42:56SPEAKER_02: What about,
- 42:57SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 42:57SPEAKER_02: social media apps becoming everything apps and them all merging into the same.
- 43:01SPEAKER_02: So that is a very good point.
- 43:03SPEAKER_01: Like hypocrites.
- 43:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 43:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 43:05SPEAKER_02: That is a very, very good point.
- 43:08SPEAKER_02: I just think I don't know.
- 43:10SPEAKER_02: Maybe if they were investing more in their creators, it felt more like an ecosystem back then.
- 43:20SPEAKER_02: They would do YouTube Rewind every year where they recapped the year on
- 43:25SPEAKER_02: the platform, and it would be the 20 biggest creators on the platform in one video.
- 43:32SPEAKER_02: They got criticism for one.
- 43:34SPEAKER_02: People really didn't like it.
- 43:35SPEAKER_02: And then they stopped doing it.
- 43:37SPEAKER_02: And I feel like that's kind of when it stopped feeling like this is
- 43:42SPEAKER_02: a connected ecosystem and I know all these people who are creating content
- 43:49SPEAKER_02: on this platform.
- 43:51SPEAKER_02: Now I feel like it just feels more disconnected and Not like they're investing
- 43:59SPEAKER_02: in their creators in the way they used to, but I think this is a great step.
- 44:06SPEAKER_02: And it'll be interesting.
- 44:08SPEAKER_02: I'm genuinely interested to see how it plays with creators.
- 44:12SPEAKER_01: Is it rolling out now?
- 44:14SPEAKER_02: I believe they've started rolling out some of the features.
- 44:18SPEAKER_02: I think communities are now on, but not all of them.
- 44:21SPEAKER_02: So I think it'll probably be over the course of the next month or two that these features are.
- 44:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we should look it up and see if Wubi and Fadi has any sort of
- 44:30SPEAKER_01: But they're like YouTube kids, I guess.
- 44:32SPEAKER_02: I know.
- 44:32SPEAKER_02: You can't do anything with YouTube kids.
- 44:34SPEAKER_02: If you're a kids creator on YouTube, people can't comment on your videos.
- 44:39SPEAKER_02: You can't post community notes.
- 44:42SPEAKER_02: It's very annoying.
- 44:44SPEAKER_02: I get it, child.
- 44:45SPEAKER_02: You know, it's all moderation and safety for kids.
- 44:49SPEAKER_02: But as a creative, it's a little frustrating.
- 44:53SPEAKER_02: You don't have as much, as many options.
- 44:57SPEAKER_01: Yeah, like discoverability and stuff.
- 44:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 44:59SPEAKER_02: But I think this is a good step for them as much as I'm complaining about it.
- 45:07SPEAKER_02: And yeah,
- 45:08SPEAKER_02: it'll be really interesting to see if this kind of invigorates creators on
- 45:12SPEAKER_02: the platform and audiences.
- 45:14SPEAKER_02: But yeah.
- 45:16SPEAKER_01: Yay.
- 45:17SPEAKER_01: Great conversation.
- 45:19SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much, Em.
- 45:21SPEAKER_01: Great stuff to discuss.
- 45:23SPEAKER_01: I'm still like, I need to follow Brayden.
- 45:27SPEAKER_02: I know.
- 45:28SPEAKER_02: And it's a website.
- 45:29SPEAKER_02: How fun.
- 45:30SPEAKER_02: I'm going to have to keep, that'll be one of the many tabs that now live on my page.
- 45:35SPEAKER_02: Well, thank you so much.
- 45:40SPEAKER_02: And we will be back next week.
- 45:42SPEAKER_00: Yay.
- 45:43SPEAKER_00: Amazing.
- 45:43SPEAKER_00: Okay, thanks.
- 45:44SPEAKER_00: Bye.
- 45:45SPEAKER_00: Bye.