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A Quick Stop At Johnny's House: Can't Take Rejection! · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: Seventy six now looking for a high today of eighty six. Right,
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about this story off the air, did we
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  Speaker 1: mention her name?
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  Speaker 2: I go Okay, so our girl Tessa who listens from.
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  Speaker 3: Utah, who was a rock star on the cruise, Yes,
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  Speaker 3: she was.
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  Speaker 2: She was posting about how some dude was like coming
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  Speaker 2: up and like hitting on them and they kind of
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  Speaker 2: like just turned them down, and he was so upset
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  Speaker 2: by them turning him down that he like took her
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  Speaker 2: purse and threw it, and she issues, Yeah, she said, like, well,
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  Speaker 2: in the process of taking her person throwing it, which
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  Speaker 2: she said was very heavy, he almost hit her friend
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  Speaker 2: in the head by throwing it. Oh my goodness, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: you're really not hurt?
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  Speaker 3: Wow, Like you're really that angry. I'm you know, it
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  Speaker 3: gotta be kind of hard.
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  Speaker 1: If you're you're a woman that people find attractive, then
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  Speaker 1: it got to be hard for you just to go
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  Speaker 1: out and have a good time because people just assume
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  Speaker 1: that if you're out, then it's okay for me to
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  Speaker 1: hit on you, you know that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 3: And sometimes it's not like that.
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  Speaker 1: But if you always use my method, it will never
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  Speaker 1: ever happen because you only go after people to go
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  Speaker 1: after you, so you ain't got to worry about snatching
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  Speaker 1: somebody's person throwing it into the wind. It's embarrassing if you,
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  Speaker 1: for a guy, you've gotten the courage up to actually
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  Speaker 1: go talk to someone. Yeah, and then you get the
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  Speaker 1: courage up and then you say hey, you know, blah
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  Speaker 1: blah blah, and they go, I'm not interested. Then you
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  Speaker 1: just pretty much turn around and walk away. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: all you can do.
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  Speaker 2: Like, did you think that that was going to like
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  Speaker 2: change her mind?
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  Speaker 3: Or did you throwing up the bag?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 5: So but they've always told me, is it can't be
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  Speaker 5: personal because they don't know yeah, exactly, So guys have
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  Speaker 5: to learn to not take it personally.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: You don't know me, so it can't be personal. You're
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  Speaker 5: just not interested, and that's okay. It depends on how
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  Speaker 5: they say it.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think throwing someone's bag is ever the answer.
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  Speaker 5: But I mean, if you're mean to me about the rejection,
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  Speaker 5: now it's become personal. So do expect a little bit
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  Speaker 5: of verbal back at you, because now you've made it personal.
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  Speaker 5: If it's just no, thank you, I'm not interested. I've
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  Speaker 5: seen some that's on me to walk away.
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  Speaker 2: And we all know Testa she's got she's got a personality,
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  Speaker 2: and she says how she feels, you know, so like
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how she I don't know her situation,
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  Speaker 2: but that still doesn't.
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  Speaker 5: You know, you should never throw someone's bag or be
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  Speaker 5: overly rude on a rejection. Now they like I said,
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  Speaker 5: they throw the first punch. Now I got This is
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  Speaker 5: when I used to hang out.
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  Speaker 1: I was with a guy and one of my boys,
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  Speaker 1: and he was talking to a young lady and she said, well,
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  Speaker 1: what do you do? And he told her his occupation
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  Speaker 1: and she just turned it back to him. I was like, yeah, wow,
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  Speaker 1: so that's rude. Wow. And then I was like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: why didn't you just tell her what you did? He goes, no,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want someone like that, right,
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  Speaker 1: if she just wants me for what I do, why
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  Speaker 1: would I want to talk to.
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  Speaker 3: Her because his surface level is yeah, but what she
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  Speaker 3: don't know? Yeah, it was.
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  Speaker 1: It was a crazy I was sitting there and she's
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  Speaker 1: like and she's like, yeah, so what do you do?
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  Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, this is what I do. She goes
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  Speaker 1: back turned. I'm like at that point is that okay
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  Speaker 1: to dump a drink on the head? Far, that's too far,
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  Speaker 1: that's too far.
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  Speaker 5: It is okay to say, and it's okay to call
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  Speaker 5: her like a broke bage or something like that.
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  Speaker 6: That's what.
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  Speaker 3: I don't need your golden digging man anyway, but dump
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  Speaker 3: a drink. No, that's physical.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody knows how to regulate their emotions anymore.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, I used to have a friend. I told you
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  Speaker 5: all about him. He would he would swing at every
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  Speaker 5: pitch the girl walked by, he was to hang on
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  Speaker 5: a second.
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  Speaker 3: He would run after and baby girl, baby girl. He
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  Speaker 3: would come back.
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  Speaker 5: He would do it probably ten I'm not kidding, ten
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  Speaker 5: to fifteen times a day because I worked at the mall.
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  Speaker 5: He would come back with three to five numbers and
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  Speaker 5: the other and when they said no, he'd be like cool,
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  Speaker 5: gotcha and he run back and sit down.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: That's great average, But he knew, yeah, I'm cold calling.
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  Speaker 5: If they say no, whatever, if they say yeah, cool,
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  Speaker 5: But that's how you got to handle it.
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  Speaker 2: My favorite is when they'll like try to talk to
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  Speaker 2: me or whatever, and this hasn't happened in a while,
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  Speaker 2: but like I'll be like, oh no, like I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not interested. I'm with somebody whatever, and they'll be like,
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  Speaker 2: well you ugly anyways.
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  Speaker 5: Well you've hurt me, You've hurt my feelings, and I
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  Speaker 5: can't walk away with this hurt.
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  Speaker 3: You need to feel someone's hurt.
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  Speaker 5: But I'm not interested. Isn't a feeling hurt her like you?
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  Speaker 5: It's like someone going to asking you do you want to,
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  Speaker 5: you know, buy solar or whenever at your house they
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  Speaker 5: knock on the door. You say, no, it's not personal.
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  Speaker 5: I just I'm not interested in solar today.
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  Speaker 1: What if I'm walking towards you and you go, I
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  Speaker 1: don't even waste your time? Is that person throwing well? No,
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  Speaker 1: nothing is physical. Yeah, why do you touch you?
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  Speaker 5: You still a physical action. All you to do is
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  Speaker 5: respond with the same level of verbal if you if
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  Speaker 5: your person is sitting there, I ain't touch you.
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  Speaker 2: Back up, not touch anybody or the property or their things.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to you like I talked to my
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  Speaker 2: seven year old.
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  Speaker 5: You can respond with equal or lesser value is what
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  Speaker 5: you can respond with. Okay, so, and then you can
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  Speaker 5: respond with something snarky back in her.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, bitch, like there were even.
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  Speaker 5: Girl, I was just coming to tell you that you
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  Speaker 5: ugly at head, that's all I was coming for. But
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  Speaker 5: I cool and then turn around and walk away.
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  Speaker 3: Fine.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, I want to find out when you had to
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  Speaker 1: handle a situation like that, when someone did not take
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  Speaker 1: your turn down lightly?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 1: You told someone, hey, I'm I'm not interested and they
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  Speaker 1: just went too far. Excuse me, you ugly anyway, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't want to talk to you. I'll trying to talk
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  Speaker 1: to your friend, but she's talking to somebody. Whatever the
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  Speaker 1: insult will happen. When did someone not take your turn
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  Speaker 1: down lightly? Because you know what, if you're not my type,
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  Speaker 1: you're not my type on the state. You got to
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  Speaker 1: understand everybody has a type. If you're not it, it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean you're a bad person. They just are not
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  Speaker 1: interested in you.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody would have to come and close my mouth. If
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  Speaker 2: somebody took my purse and through, I'd be like, is
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  Speaker 2: that okay?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: When you throw the purse, do you stand there and
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  Speaker 1: wait for the reaction or do you walk away? Because
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to find out how what hey, how about this?
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  Speaker 3: Now? Do I stand there or do I just walk away?
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  Speaker 3: After I thought he should walk away because if she
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  Speaker 3: calls the police, then they're gonna take you.
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  Speaker 1: your turn down lightly? They did something stupid, or they
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna have to do something, all right.
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  Speaker 1: A good friend of the show said that she told
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  Speaker 1: the gentleman, Hey, you know I'm not interesting did It's
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  Speaker 1: not funny took took a purse and just threw it.
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  Speaker 2: It's like kind of comical though, because it's like I've
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  Speaker 2: never heard of that before, and that's how unhinged the
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  Speaker 2: world does.
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  Speaker 1: And I guess I'm just trying to think because I'm
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  Speaker 1: pitching in my mind again. Do you once you throw it?
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  Speaker 1: Do you walk away slowly? Do you run away? Do
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  Speaker 1: you stand there and look for reaction? I mean, what happened?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: It just reminds me of like a bully, like like
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  Speaker 2: o'doyle rules, like yeah, Adam Sailors.
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  Speaker 5: I would run like Napoleon dynamite.
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  Speaker 3: But really does that work?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 1: You know what that aggressive of yous just show just
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  Speaker 1: made me more attractive to you? Hey, this is my name. No,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't work like they but end up going going
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  Speaker 1: to jail? Uh so when did that happen to you?
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  Speaker 3: From Orlando? Hey, Tiffany, good morning? Hid morning Tiffany.
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  Speaker 1: Winning in a situation where someone you rejected them and
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  Speaker 1: it didn't go well?
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  Speaker 6: So so I dated a guy? Uh well, here's my
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  Speaker 6: boyfriend for like maybe like on and off for a year,
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  Speaker 6: but every time he can't one every time he got mad,
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  Speaker 6: it was like an explosion of his emotions and.
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  Speaker 4: He'd leave in a big huff and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 4: And so the most recent time he came back, I
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  Speaker 4: always called him. Every time he called me, I'd be like, oh, look,
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  Speaker 4: I've seen a ghost, because he would just pop up
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  Speaker 4: after like ghosting me. And so the most recent time
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  Speaker 4: he came over and to like put up my TV,
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  Speaker 4: set up the internet, like he was being really sweet,
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  Speaker 4: and then he was like, you know, you're not seeing anybody.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not seeing anybody. And I was like, how do
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  Speaker 4: you know what I had going on in my life?
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  Speaker 6: And so he was just like, you know, we can
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  Speaker 6: you know things are not working out for me and
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  Speaker 6: I know you already and all these things, and I
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  Speaker 6: was just like, I've done a lot of healings since
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  Speaker 6: we broke up. I've done all these things, and I
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  Speaker 6: just can't. I'm not interested, like we can be friends.
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  Speaker 6: And as soon as I said that, he grabbed all
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  Speaker 6: his things. We had walked on dogs. He grabbed his dog.
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  Speaker 6: He left in a big huff and everything slammed the door,
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  Speaker 6: and I was just like stood there in awe. I
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  Speaker 6: was like, what just happened? Like, we had a great time,
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  Speaker 6: not interested in dating him, but.
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  Speaker 5: It was.
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  Speaker 1: Can I tell you a little something. Here's the deal.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad nothing physical happened. He just took his dog
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  Speaker 1: and left. That's cool.
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  Speaker 5: But you know what he wanted. You know, he wants
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  Speaker 5: to be your boyfriend. And you called him over to
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  Speaker 5: put your TV up and all that good stuff. His
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  Speaker 5: thing is, okay, she might she's trying to let me
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  Speaker 5: back in, and he you know, he says, hey, let's
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  Speaker 5: get together. You put me, You put him in the
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  Speaker 5: friend zone, but he ain't want to be in the
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  Speaker 5: friend zone.
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  Speaker 6: It was the same song and dance that we do
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  Speaker 6: every single time we get we hang out, we get close,
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  Speaker 6: all these things. You ghost me. I'm like, cool, I'm
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  Speaker 6: moving on. But this time the difference wasn't I was
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  Speaker 6: for it.
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  Speaker 4: The difference was, oh, you flip the script. I learned
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  Speaker 4: what I what I'm worth, and that was.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so in the past when you say let's get
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  Speaker 1: back together, he ghosted you. Yeah, and then you flipped
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  Speaker 1: the script on him.
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  Speaker 5: Oh hand like that, Okay, I got you.
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  Speaker 3: I goes you. You don't know me. I'm a ghoster.
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  Speaker 3: You're the ghost.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, Hey, if you're thinking about taking him back, no,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you why.
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  Speaker 5: As soon as you take him back, he's gonna ghost you, right,
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  Speaker 5: because he just wants to get the upper hand again.
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  Speaker 3: When does it end?
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  Speaker 5: That's always a joke. Who has the relationship? Yes, and
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  Speaker 5: you were like, hey, I'd like to get back with you.
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  Speaker 3: You know what.
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  Speaker 1: I was just sitting here thinking, I don't think I
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  Speaker 1: want to, and he'll walk away with Okay, I got her.
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  Speaker 3: Don't play that game.
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  Speaker 4: I am happy I'm in a relationship and someone who
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  Speaker 4: doesn't do those games.
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  Speaker 3: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: Good for you. I'm happy for you, Tiffany. But if
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  Speaker 1: I was him, I just snatched that TV off the wall.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you would. I wouldn't break it.
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  Speaker 3: I just say, yes, it was his TV.
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  Speaker 6: He gave it to me because he said my TV
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  Speaker 6: wasn't thinking up.
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  Speaker 3: I take the TV home with me.
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  Speaker 1: Of course it wasn't big enough because he was planning
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  Speaker 1: on being over there watching that TV.
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  Speaker 3: That's why he came in to you. Oh I had
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  Speaker 3: to take him my TV home again.
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  Speaker 2: What I'm gonna tell my seven year old? These are
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  Speaker 2: intrusive thoughts. We don't act on them. You could picture
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  Speaker 2: yourself ripping it off the wall.
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  Speaker 5: Just No, I wouldn't rip it off. Yeah, my TV,
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  Speaker 5: it's my TV. I'm taking it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to take the TV. Yeah, I don't even
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  Speaker 1: tell you. I'm gonna ahead and take my TV, right,
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  Speaker 1: you understand?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 5: Cool?
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  Speaker 3: And I gotta take the TV. You know that. He's like, no,
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  Speaker 3: you don't take the TV. Hey, I'll put you a
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  Speaker 3: little thirty two inch back up. That's fine. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: take the TV back. Will that have been cool? Tiffany?
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  Speaker 4: No, I expecuted it.
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  Speaker 6: There were times I thought I was like, man, we're
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  Speaker 6: gonna break up and he can take that TV away
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  Speaker 6: and then I'm gonna have.
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  Speaker 3: To go back to whatever I Hey, are you wenting
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  Speaker 3: the TV with your new man?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 1: Not yet, by Tiffany, Bye bye right okay.
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  Speaker 2: So Cheryl from the live stream, she said a guy
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  Speaker 2: burned her with a cigarette when she turned him down
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  Speaker 2: and walked away.
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  Speaker 3: What yeah, And she said.
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  Speaker 2: Il yeah, I didn't realize what happened as I was
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  Speaker 2: walking away, felt stinging, feeling like on my side, and
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  Speaker 2: she looked and he had burned her.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I called it police. I have to call it,
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  Speaker 3: have to call it. Law You going down.
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  Speaker 5: few good stories. Someone said, uh, Lola texted and said
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  Speaker 5: there was a time when a boy her senior year
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  Speaker 5: walked up and asked if they wanted to go out
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  Speaker 5: and I told him no, I'm currently dating another woman,
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  Speaker 5: and he did. I'm sure raise heard a million times.
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  Speaker 5: How do you know you don't like man? If you
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  Speaker 5: ain't have one like this, I can change you, all right, Right,
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  Speaker 5: you ain't found the right one exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Go to Excel Instagram. It'll tell you exactly what you
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  Speaker 1: need to do if you want to win those tickets.
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  Speaker 1: You got to be available Friday morning at eight o'clock.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Brian.
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  Speaker 5: Forty five percent adults say they don't know how to
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  Speaker 5: do what they say. They don't know how to make
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  Speaker 5: new friends. So they've got friends obviously that they've had
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  Speaker 5: for a long time or whatever, but they don't know
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  Speaker 5: how to go out and make new friends. So there
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  Speaker 5: was a friendship educator somebody who I guess facilitates friendships. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: on TikTok, and they were dropping some tips, like joining
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  Speaker 5: a weekly activity, like it could be like a run
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  Speaker 5: club or whatever it might be.
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  Speaker 3: They say, you have to stick to it every week. Friends.
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  Speaker 5: Familiarity gets you to wear Oh I saw that guy,
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  Speaker 5: Yeah for the last four weeks, let's talk to him
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  Speaker 5: or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: They say.
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  Speaker 5: Most people are scared, so they say, be brave. They
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  Speaker 5: they are scared to just reach out and meet new people.
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  Speaker 3: They say.
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  Speaker 5: Younger people have never had to do it because of technology,
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  Speaker 5: so they've never actually had to cold call meet somebody,
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  Speaker 5: so they don't know how to make new friends. Wow,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not great at it. I'll be honest.
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  Speaker 1: He is my thing, and it may sound kind of
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  Speaker 1: kind of arrogant, but I don't have time for new friends.
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: I said the same thing. I don't have a slot,
• 13:48
  Speaker 5: no available for my time. I'm finding I gotta find
• 13:50
  Speaker 5: time for the friends I already have. I've already had
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  Speaker 5: personal relationships with I gotta find time for us to
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  Speaker 5: hang out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife kills me all the time.
• 13:59
  Speaker 5: She says, I don't foster friendships, and I don't, and
• 14:01
  Speaker 5: it's because I'm busy or so I don't. They're out
• 14:04
  Speaker 5: of mind and I don't. I don't hit him up enough.
• 14:06
  Speaker 5: Sometimes I do hit them, going, hey man, I'm a jerk,
• 14:08
  Speaker 5: i haven't talked to you in a week. I'm sorry.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: And I'll hit my friends and say, hey, it's totally me.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: It's one hundred percent of me, you know, on the
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: grind and trying to raise a sixteen year old and
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: I've just been busy, and then when we get together,
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: you have a great time. So for me, it's not
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: important that I meet new friends. Same so I currently don't.
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: I don't see myself trying to foster that. So I
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: couldn't give you any advice on how to meet a
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: new friend because I think the last time I had
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: a new friend was probably ten fifteen years ago.
• 14:37
  Speaker 5: My two newest friends were because they are in relationship
• 14:40
  Speaker 5: with people that my wife has friendships with. Yeah, and
• 14:43
  Speaker 5: so I default we all landed together and they're friends
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: of mine.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: Now, that's the same thing with like when I started
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: dating Kim and then like her friend group I got
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: to know, and same with like her knowing my friends
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: so yeah, I don't know. I think it's very hard though,
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: when you have like a family, and like you said,
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: I've been trying to have your own relationship and your friends.
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: How many years ago you've had a new friend or how.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Long has it been, I mean, honestly one that I
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: actually like hang out with and.
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: Keep up with.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll say since I met started dating Cam.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, which is sad because it's like we meet people
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: all the time, and like you know, on the cruise,
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: I met a lot of new people and I would
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: love to hang out with them, but it's like I
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: just don't have I'm only in communication on social media
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: because I don't have time.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: And the same thing.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: I've met some new people, but then if I want
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: to hang out with them, they're gonna have to hang
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: out with my old friends and my old friend Like,
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: well what are these people?
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Right, and they may not have any in comment
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: or whatever, right Yeah.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So for me, I don't have any any advice
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: on that. Maybe that's a good problem to have, Like her,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I got so many friends I can't keep up with. No,
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: I've established friendship throughout the year that have withstood the
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: test of time, and I feel bad that I don't
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: have time to nurture those relationships. So I'm not if
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: it would be like us dating. I don't have time
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: for you. I'd love for you to be my friend,
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: but your friends do things. I don't have the time
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: to do those things, so I don't.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: I agree.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: So meeting a new friend of sleeping.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's why people are making friends with Chagibc.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: It is because it's right there in the palm of
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: your heads.
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: It's right there. I get it. I get it.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: So we want to find out from you. You know,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: as an adult, how do you make new friends? And
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: how often do you make new friends? I mean, you know,
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: if you knew the town, there's a couple of years ago,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people knew to the area. You
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: find yourself in a new relationship situation where you lost
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: half your friends to you know, the significant other. But
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: the question to you is, as an adult, how do
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: you make a new friend? And there's people right now
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: saying I'm listening because I would love to make new
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: friends and I don't. And one thing I found out
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: is that the loneliest person in the world was.
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: As adult men. Yeah, that are extremely long like middle
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: aged young men. Yea, men like eighteen to thirty fours.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, are the loneliest people because they won't tell people
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: that they all long right, just kind of just host
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: up by themselves, by themselves. Four oh seven now or
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: nine one on six seven eight seven seven nine one
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: nine one on six seven ex El Mobile four one
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: o sixt seven last Street social media wake up. We
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: want to hear from you, as an adult, how do
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: you make new friends? And how often do you make
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: new friends? All right, there's people listening for some suggestions,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: so if you have them, please share them. Four oh
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: seven now one nine one o six seven eight seven
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: seven nine When five percent of the adults say they
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: don't know how to make a new friend, so when
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: to find out from you as an adult, how do
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: you make a new friend and how often often do
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: you make a new friend? Let's go to Orlando and
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: talk to Karen.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Hey, Karen, Hey, all right, you got suggestions on how
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: people can meet new friends?
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: I do?
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead?
• 17:40
  Speaker 7: Probably not? Well, how's the say. I'm a New Yorker
• 17:46
  Speaker 7: and I think people in Orlando are pretty friendly.
• 17:51
  Speaker 8: So I guess I'll just tell you my last situation
• 17:55
  Speaker 8: where I met I probably seem to be friends. I
• 17:58
  Speaker 8: was at TG Max getting some stuff and then this
• 18:02
  Speaker 8: like lady was talking and she's like, oh this price
• 18:06
  Speaker 8: and blah blah blah, And I was like, don't you
• 18:07
  Speaker 8: love when that happened, so organically we just started talking.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Really it led to this whole converse.
• 18:12
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it led to this whole conversation. We found out
• 18:16
  Speaker 8: that we both have only children son, Yeah, and collected
• 18:22
  Speaker 8: her number. Really, and we're meeting up this week.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that is so cool. That is so cool. Are
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: you new to the area? Is new area?
• 18:32
  Speaker 7: No?
• 18:33
  Speaker 8: No, my son is. But my son is seven, so
• 18:37
  Speaker 8: I've probably been here eight years now.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 18:39
  Speaker 8: It's like my second kind of tour being in Orlando.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, but you met someone and he's like, hey, let's
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: get together. You look, I can tell in your voice
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: you're looking forward to possibly having a new friend.
• 18:49
  Speaker 8: Yeah. And I also it's it's also like she we're
• 18:55
  Speaker 8: talking about like sirtuality and religion because my parents are
• 19:00
  Speaker 8: two different religions. So I was like, I need something
• 19:03
  Speaker 8: for my son because.
• 19:03
  Speaker 6: We haven't really done much.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: With him in that area and all listen to TJ mag.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it Wow, Ray would do something like that, Max,
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: I see somebody talking, I'm moving away, fast, moving away.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Paisley from Orlando, Good morning, Good morning.
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: How are you guys doing.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: What's your suggestion as an adult to meet new friends?
• 19:28
  Speaker 7: My suggestion is being open, kind of like what Karen
• 19:31
  Speaker 7: was saying to having new and random conversations. I found
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: that after recently moving here in January, the most like
• 19:40
  Speaker 7: eusiest conversations I've had with making friends is in random situations,
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: especially like out and about at like bars and stuff.
• 19:47
  Speaker 7: Or I go to Disney a lot because I have
• 19:48
  Speaker 7: an annual pass and just talking to people while in line,
• 19:51
  Speaker 7: and I've met a lot of my friends through that.
• 19:53
  Speaker 8: Really kind of awkward sometimes, Yeah, I like you see
• 19:57
  Speaker 8: a couple of weeks.
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: Ago, I met a girl and her boyfriend and we
• 19:59
  Speaker 7: actually exchange numbers and we have plans to go get
• 20:01
  Speaker 7: drinks and as.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: You know, that's cool, Paisley, And it's cool that do
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: you think like that?
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: But if I met somebody like that, like they want
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: me to hook up with them, they swings, that's trying
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: to trying to swing with me. They would even know
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: that because you frequent swing your place as well. I
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: mean one time more than me just saying I.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Went once time, good morning, Oh good morning. I suggestions
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: of how to adult to me a new friend.
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I just kind of want to second everything that
• 20:37
  Speaker 6: everyone else says. Just go out there, be yourself. It's
• 20:40
  Speaker 6: okay to smile at strangers. It's okay to give a compliment.
• 20:44
  Speaker 6: I'm also originally from New York and I've been in
• 20:46
  Speaker 6: Florida for about fifteen years, and I agree with the
• 20:49
  Speaker 6: first caller. You know, people down here are just a
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: lot more open and friendly. But I also made a
• 20:56
  Speaker 6: lot of friends in New York too. It just kind
• 20:58
  Speaker 6: of got to walk the walk, talk to talk nice,
• 21:01
  Speaker 6: give a compliment. I met a new friend a couple
• 21:03
  Speaker 6: of months ago. I just like meeting people and talking
• 21:06
  Speaker 6: to people. Everyone has a story. You know, we have
• 21:09
  Speaker 6: a lot more in common than we think we do.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: You know, had to give it to you somehow smiled
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: at me, smiling right.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: Wrong you?
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, hey, how you doing? I didn't know you listened? Right?
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Let's see here. A lot of people said that their
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: work people become that their their best friends, like their coworkers.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Several years I've become friends. I have good friends that
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: I've never met in person. I just talked to them
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: through like teams, which is really weird. Yeah, that's pretty
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: much a lot of people are just saying through work
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: and then through works coworkers and their friends.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised the three calls that we had to say.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: They're like, go out there and put yourself out there,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: smile at someone, have a random conversation, which is all
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: things I don't do right.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: Well, people, they said, and listen to the podcast. What
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: happens if you do that? And then they don't want
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: to be your friend? Can you throw their person?
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Absolutely? Listen to the I mean that's rejected them with
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: your cigarette?
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Can I do that?
• 22:03
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• 22:09
  Speaker 5: book clubs. Yeah, and then they said they sign up
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: for a lot of events. There's tons of free events,
• 22:15
  Speaker 5: pop up workout classes. Uh, just seminars, pet events and
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: anything like that. Okay, but then when.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: You do that, you have to talk to you put
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: yourself out there and talk to someone and you like.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: The young lady at TJ Max said she's looking forward
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: to meet a brand new friend. That was pretty cool.
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• 22:31
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