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Episode 49"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: The tree is real, it's about to go down. Wake up,
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  Speaker 1: wake up, and when pivot turn it down. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight because of
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  Speaker 1: who did I don't know lose the worst thing you
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  Speaker 1: can deal with tracts. Welcome to the Follow Alert Show
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  Speaker 1: featuring your lifestyle specialists he Burns, Solo and Ferrari Simmons.
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  Speaker 1: The tree is real. Yeah, getting in outside and it
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  Speaker 1: is cold, like style specialist Kenny Burn Ferrari Simmons, I
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  Speaker 1: am the Queen of Brunch, so Solo, Yes, Alert, Bunch,
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  Speaker 1: new venue Alert all that. Wait wait, wait, the new
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  Speaker 1: title is what Susan the Queen of Brunch. That's what
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  Speaker 1: they called me. That's what they called Queen Grunge. I
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  Speaker 1: was like to Queen of Brunch. That's what they said
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  Speaker 1: and water Big Seas because it was the grunge. But
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  Speaker 1: it's the Queen's Yes, the Queen of is what they
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: said that. This week is a whole new thing right. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: the weekend after Thanksgiving we're doing open bar as a
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  Speaker 1: welcome to the party. The day after Black Friday, come
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  Speaker 1: by drinks, open far yeah, show out. Yes, we will
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  Speaker 1: be at Atlantis Ums in Buckhead reservations. Yeah's deejaying again.
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  Speaker 1: He killed k Saturday. Yeah good, yep ye, yeah, he
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  Speaker 1: actually got on the mic this time. I remember last
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  Speaker 1: week I was saying that I wished he would get
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  Speaker 1: on the mic, and he did and the crowd loved him.
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  Speaker 1: He took us everywhere. We were in Vegas, we were
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  Speaker 1: in Florida. Yes, yes, yeah, I love me a nice
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  Speaker 1: little He did such a great job. You did such
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  Speaker 1: a Spanish said too that I haven't tried that. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta do it, working on it. And he played some
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  Speaker 1: of the new African jams and I sent him some
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  Speaker 1: Afro beats like I was like, go ahead, Rory, Like
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  Speaker 1: it was a great party. It was great this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Uh man a d J. All weekend. I didn't host
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  Speaker 1: one thing. I did, um man I did. I was everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah I did on Sunday on something in my favorite party.
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  Speaker 1: How does it feel when you see people post Rory
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  Speaker 1: DJ and you know still like I'm still getting used
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  Speaker 1: to the accolades, but you know, I just gotta still
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  Speaker 1: work on my transitions, like in between song, Yeah that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna come. I'm only four months in, yaou say, but
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  Speaker 1: that ain't even something take knowledge ply. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying that nobody even pays attention to that. I
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  Speaker 1: think it's a personal thing. I think from from hanging
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  Speaker 1: out with you last Sunday at Oak and then Saturday
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  Speaker 1: at the brunch, I feel like you did a lot
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  Speaker 1: of practice in that week. Like I like, I understood, man,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Every day Sunday was great,
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  Speaker 1: but then Saturday I was like, oh, Ship, like he's
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  Speaker 1: really in his bag. Like and I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: maybe because you got on the mic, maybe you were like,
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  Speaker 1: you know a little bit more. Yeah, every day, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm constantly getting better, so I just try to make sure,
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  Speaker 1: like facts perfect. I was like, damn, he killed it.
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  Speaker 1: So how was your weekend? It was great. It was great.
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  Speaker 1: Got weekends with Tie together. Yeah, I had a really
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  Speaker 1: good time. It's been dope, just kind of you know,
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  Speaker 1: transitioning and going into stuff with me. Friday and I
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  Speaker 1: have a new event that we're working on, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: scouting locations for that. So I'm excited. It's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of good stuff going on, like food if you like food,
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  Speaker 1: porn if you like food, port, if you like music. Yeah, working,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we want to work with a lot of
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  Speaker 1: upcoming artists because that's already in his lane. And then
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  Speaker 1: you know the way, alright, alright you not just want
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  Speaker 1: to give your little teaser a little something. And so
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  Speaker 1: this weekend, yeah, we are taking this weekend off. This
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  Speaker 1: begins coming back on what you said. It was an
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  Speaker 1: open bar. Who's doing the open going to be great
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  Speaker 1: goose and do say so we got good stuff. It's
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  Speaker 1: not the cheap stuff. Yeah, so shout out to you guys,
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  Speaker 1: and shout out to Atlantis for how for me put
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  Speaker 1: that together? Luther Na everybody over there, Yeah, us over there, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Uncle Lutheran, Miguel roll, Uncle Luther in the game everywhere,
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  Speaker 1: everywhere coming. Yeah, I love it. I love it. It's great.
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  Speaker 1: The new frdist campaign is on the way. I've seen
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  Speaker 1: those nice colors. I cannot because we're still learning. You know,
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  Speaker 1: the fashion online game that we did that pop up
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  Speaker 1: for the first one, everybody's like it was a star
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  Speaker 1: and we made all these denim jackets and cutting soap
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  Speaker 1: sweatpants and then it was like, wait, that was spen.
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  Speaker 1: I spent thousand. I don't want to do that off
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  Speaker 1: the top. It's gotta be easy with it. All like everything.
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  Speaker 1: We kind of made a smaller delivery sold out quicker
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  Speaker 1: it was more, and so that's the blueprint we're taking.
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  Speaker 1: So we've got three different color ways, six different items,
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  Speaker 1: and I think it's six or seven if and it's
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  Speaker 1: coming really so I think we might drop it anything now. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: speaking of dropping that, all black on black, he drops
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  Speaker 1: black Friday Ferons dot Com go ahead and pre order
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  Speaker 1: right now. Okay, lad, I'm like, actually, the only person
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  Speaker 1: not wearing a head here, I do. I do. Rio's
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  Speaker 1: got the polka dot one on that. Yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 1: need that. I'm sure. I'm sure we compare with it
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  Speaker 1: with a b rnist and we should do a bond
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  Speaker 1: it away. I gotta give him weight and I'm already.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta give things the way the people that big
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  Speaker 1: we should do a bose is always stealing from me. Man,
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: show the world I said it. I never put him
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  Speaker 1: on Front Street, put the Nike logo on the screen
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  Speaker 1: next to my logo. And he's coming to my house
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  Speaker 1: now shooting my family. Man, I'm getting nervous. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: just want to say, Rory, if you're gonna getting nervous,
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  Speaker 1: local is like on the side though, if you see
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  Speaker 1: It's not like you can't make notice uses for that
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  Speaker 1: more cartoonist yours is very youth. You know what I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. I'm gonna I've been seeing this a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if real started or not, but I've
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  Speaker 1: been seeing a lot of it on the instant. On
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  Speaker 1: the instant, I've been seeing a lot of logos with
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  Speaker 1: the beard in the face. I ain't gonna say that
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  Speaker 1: with me too today that might be like, Okay, what's
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  Speaker 1: the new one? Who got it? Who else? I've seen
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  Speaker 1: like four people and they actually been like, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: snap them and show you. I don't know about having
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  Speaker 1: by the time episode is done, but I'm gonna snap
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  Speaker 1: the show. Literally, you gonna be like, huh, that's your face,
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  Speaker 1: that's you. And now it's time for In case you
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  Speaker 1: missed this case, you gotta watch. I'm telling you, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, in Balling Nation, uh Donald Donald Donald dump
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  Speaker 1: is a literal piece of ship. I mean, did you
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  Speaker 1: see his comment? I have to read this to ball
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  Speaker 1: Nation in the case you want, literally, I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand how such a tragic situation like happens in California,
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  Speaker 1: right and yet you come with the most insensitive statement
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  Speaker 1: in the history of statement. Let me just say this
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  Speaker 1: for the record, I am not shocked, No, but I
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  Speaker 1: am shocked because how Okay, let let me read it.
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  Speaker 1: Donald Trump says there's no reason for the massive, deadly
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  Speaker 1: and costly forest fires in California except that forest management
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  Speaker 1: is so poor. Billions of dollars are given each year
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  Speaker 1: with so many lives loss, all because of gross mismanagement
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  Speaker 1: of the forest remedy. Now or no more FED payments.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that that has to be one of the
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  Speaker 1: most insensitive statements ever. I mean people, First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I camp fire technically supposedly, reportedly, allegedly right whatever had
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: started these fires, right, they spread crazily because of Santa
• 7:58
  Speaker 1: ana wins right disaster like never. I'm talking about. My
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: friend's house was just like missed. Literally you can spit
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: out his window to the neighbor fully burnt to the ground.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, people literally stayed like in their car, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. And he makes those types of
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  Speaker 1: remarks like how how does he get away? Like Donald Trump,
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  Speaker 1: he has been doing it. He The only difference is
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  Speaker 1: like he's always seemed to target a certain group of people.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like only that certain group of people seem
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  Speaker 1: to be super outraged, and now that he's attacking the firefighters,
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  Speaker 1: a large majority of those people are feeling that outrage
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  Speaker 1: now and and now that they're speaking out about it.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not shocked. Like he's always been insensitive. He's
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  Speaker 1: always said some bullshit or you know, some some irrational
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  Speaker 1: ship at the wrong time. Always he's been consistent in that.
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  Speaker 1: I think he responded like I always he's running this
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  Speaker 1: country like it's a business, and that you know what
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  Speaker 1: I think it is Kamala Harris, So she's you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I I just I just feel
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  Speaker 1: like if you don't know who Kamala Harrison, she is,
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  Speaker 1: um a senator from California or whatever. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if that's her district or not. But I gotta
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  Speaker 1: I gotta look at it at some undertone on management,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and like, but my thing
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  Speaker 1: is this that's so insistive. People lost their lives, their homes,
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  Speaker 1: their worldly possessions there, you know what I'm saying, Their memories,
• 9:20
  Speaker 1: they're momentum like that, How could you even fix? And
• 9:23
  Speaker 1: then to say no more fair support, bitch, you know
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  Speaker 1: you don't like I just want somebody to open hand him.
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  Speaker 1: He is a fucking clown, like as they fucking even
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  Speaker 1: the Puerto Rico situation when he's doing a jump shot
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  Speaker 1: to the paper towels like it like it's all a
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  Speaker 1: joke to him. So insensitive he has absolutely Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: the reporters to the black reporter, Oh, I'm gonna tell
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: you what he didn't do. Everything, I'm gonna tell you.
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what he didn't do. He didn't
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  Speaker 1: come from Michelle Obama. Yeah, me. He Now, he looked
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: did you see it? You saw him basically get a
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  Speaker 1: question on at the White House. They said, so you
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: heard Michelle Obama bas she said she would never forgive
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  Speaker 1: you for putting that type of energy out there in
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  Speaker 1: fear of her kids. No, he did exactly. He didn't
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  Speaker 1: say nothing about her. He was like, yeah, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm never gonna I'm never gonna forgive
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: your husband, like yo, seriously, seriously, and I'm saying this.
• 10:22
  Speaker 1: I'm saying this is this is what's gonna happen. This
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: is what's gonna happen. There's gonna be a race war, right,
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  Speaker 1: It's not gonna be race black and just white. I'm
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: telling you, black and brown against white. It's gonna be
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: the white people that ain't with the bullshit, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, and the black and brown and
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  Speaker 1: every other against that dying breath of fucking the diamondality.
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: Like that's what we need, that's what we need. Nobody
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: wants no war. But it's like, the ship is ridiculous.
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: You saw the dude with the news shirt that voted right,
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: he was a doctor. This type of person is in
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: the medical field, in a hospital that looks after and
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: character human beings. So you mean to tell me he's
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: going to vote with a Confederate flag new shirt on,
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: and yet he's not missing the sample, blood tests or
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: IV that needs people order, like come on now. But
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: my point is your it's gotta be something gotta gives.
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  Speaker 1: And I also want to say this too, because I've
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: been going hard saying white people and I'm not talking
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  Speaker 1: about all white people. I'm talking about the white people
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  Speaker 1: it applies to. Let's get that understood. I ain't talking
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: about the white people that it applies to, because this
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: is getting ridiculous. This is getting like past the point
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: like we as black brand we were not racist. We
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: were always treated you know what I'm saying, unfairly through
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: the lens of racism. Now I'm starting to feel racial,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: like I am like, I am like, it's not even
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: like and I know, like my white friends aren't with
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: the bulls it. I know that they're on the right
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: side of history. But at the same time, like you
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: got friends, my wife friends got friends that are with
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  Speaker 1: the bullshit. I know this, of course I know this,
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: and it's starting to bother me because you gotta pick
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: a place. It's almost like I can't funk with you
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  Speaker 1: if you're not on the right side of history. I
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: can't pick a side right now. You got to pick
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: a side. And I don't even want to do that.
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to say that, but it's so evident,
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: even like the lady, the lady, Mississippi Senator Cindy Smith said,
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: if he invited me to a public hanging, I'd be
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: in the front row. And when you hear her talk,
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: she sounds like the racial era. Confederate flag hangs in
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: her yard. They've had the most hangings ever. You're right,
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: Octavia Byrne said that the leader of the free world
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: gives you that energy and that space to go crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't rebute it. Everybody is subjing to losing their brain.
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: But everybody out there and watch your bags because they
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: are looking to lynch someone. They don't. They don't they
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  Speaker 1: listen if that listen, Please don't y'all, y'all don't want that.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all listen. Listen all y'all in Rule America that are
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  Speaker 1: standing up for the bullshit. These inner cities are not
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  Speaker 1: run by y'all. These inner cities where all the corporations are,
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  Speaker 1: where all of your people are in these high ranking musitions.
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  Speaker 1: That's city, that is inner city. Don't do that, man,
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  Speaker 1: Do not do that. Y'all. Don't let me get on anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of black face, Um brought this up. Don't go
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  Speaker 1: to any agency that I'm telling you because all that
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  Speaker 1: it's all rural. Everything that's all this bullshit is in
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  Speaker 1: the rule spaces in the fucking woods. I gotta stop,
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: all right. You mentioned this to when we got in
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  Speaker 1: to day the black faces real the black faces is
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: called back what's it called black fishing? Blackish? It'sn't. That
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  Speaker 1: came really popular on Twitter where they were exposing uh,
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  Speaker 1: white women or non minority women who are using the
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  Speaker 1: best sorcery ever and contouring their faces to look like
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  Speaker 1: black women. And I mean, of course, yeah, they're doing
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  Speaker 1: everything in the collar bone. You know that. You know
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: how we contour, they're doing it with our shades and
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't rental. I mean, yeah, you can set it
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  Speaker 1: to make sure that it doesn't wash. I mean, you know,
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: wipe off on somebody when you hug them, like they're
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: setting powders that will keep it in place. But yeah,
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: you put the showers though they had like it was
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: a real white girl. And then it was their lips
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: weren't even puckers. So they're parking their lips and and
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: putting on. Yes, what you do with the lipstick is
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: you just draw it outside of the line. You're making
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: your lip line. Her lips were plump, put on sen right,
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: But but they're using the the makeup and the contouring
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: to make it look more plump. Really, yes, real sorcery
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  Speaker 1: is really Yeah, makeup artists have figured it out, like listen,
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: yeah sorcery. Oh no, it's there's been a lot of sorcery,
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  Speaker 1: Like a lot of there are a lot of papers
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  Speaker 1: that after taking a woman home now and peeling off
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  Speaker 1: them layers backs, yeah you know for you right man? Yeah,
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I'm done with that home with all the models, you'd
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: be shooting rio because the unwary, because they come and
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  Speaker 1: they gotta put the makeup on. Yeah, studio. If I had,
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: you know, single Hayes it out here with all this sorcery, right,
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: these would be smokenogle. Hey listen, I'll be looking at
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  Speaker 1: people and I see them in person, it'd be really
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: freaking me out. You gotta carry wet now, you did
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: not every woman from now. Don't come rushing up to
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: me up. You just said a powders you your setting
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  Speaker 1: powder investing that it's worth it thinking that makeup all
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  Speaker 1: on my every event? Man, it be be Look, I'll
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  Speaker 1: be trying to do the Churchill didn't end up on
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  Speaker 1: your hood end up? Come on, and why all the
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  Speaker 1: makeup y'all? Come on, sir, just do the air kisses.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Just oh nah, But I'm just saying the makeup kiss
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: so you don't touch him. Have y'all seen the other
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: The comedian on Instagram funny Marcos what He's fighting? Underscore
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Marco underscore that mind he's gonna get knocked then out.
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  Speaker 1: I promise you I saw that this week. I you
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: laughed on hard, you pee a little bit. It wasn't
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: really funny. It was really fine at just out of
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  Speaker 1: nowhere that played for a second. I was on my head,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: oh man, speaking of on my head. Uh, if you
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  Speaker 1: believe in the rhetoric on Instagram, the falsities that people
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: paint these pictures, you would believe that Jaden Smith, it's Tyler,
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  Speaker 1: Creator of the Creators, boyfriend, that this is what this is.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say, Tyler the Creator is the
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: gust friend and the love that I love him so
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  Speaker 1: fucking much. I don't want to tell you guys something
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: I want to tell you. Tyler doesn't want to say.
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  Speaker 1: But Tyler is my motherfucking boyfriend. He said that, but
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: he was playing. Yeah, if y'all believe that, because you
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: even saw when they panned over the Tyler but he
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: panned over to Tyler Creating and Tyler was like, nah, nah,
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  Speaker 1: that this happened at the Camp flog naw at the
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles. Yes, And apparently Kid Cutty
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: and Kanye West what they're doing. The goats kick, Kanye
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: performed his get Me Out of the Sunk and Place
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  Speaker 1: dance Please Help Me, Help Me dance trying to break
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I felt like he was trying to break off. I
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: felt like I was watching a real crazy for him
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  Speaker 1: and the things like it like ain't nothing, like nothing
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  Speaker 1: has happened. So he's back? Is he bad? Trump? Yo?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you a living in the woods, stay there
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: with that bullshit. I'm trying to tell you, um, ladies
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: and gemmen, on a positive note, as we in in
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  Speaker 1: case you missed, got the opportunity to see as as
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Angela rides so affectionately refers to forever first lay Shell Obama.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: She did a special with Robin Roberts, and she has
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: a new book called Becoming, and yeah it's pre ordered
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: like the sales and like whatever. And she's not only
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: going on a book tour, y'all. Her book tour starts
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: at the man that's the one in Chicago United Center.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: She's doing stum, I'm not stadiums, but she's doing arenas
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: for her book tour sold out and guess who's narrating it,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Oprah Winfrey. Nice. I'm just saying, God, sen Michelle Obama,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: please I love her to death. She's our forever first lady,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: and she's talking about some really incredible things in this book.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: She's always talking lusting for Barack Obama. I'm just real woman.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: She she was talking about her journey Princeton and Harvard,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: how she and then they had these kids that came out,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: you know, basically like I'm here because that you and
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: because you went here and I know you know how
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: you were raised. And it's just such a beautiful example
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: of hope. You know, I've never I don't think i've
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: ever said this before, but Michelle Obama is the perfect
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: example of yeah, confidence all around college still like she
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: has her individuality, and she also admitted that everything is
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: so Peter Kane, you're talking about grounsling, You're talking about
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: how the things she had to work through, Yeah, she had.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: And I did not know she had a little bit
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: dunker dumb back then because Obama posted that picture. I
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: didn't know this food black woman typically this fool. Just
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: to get to compound just you know, I'm just saying,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: she's just a full day of packs. Sir. This is
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: father flaw, father flaw, sir, This is not your birthday.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: This is not your birthday, says is not it. Don't
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: don't do that. Don't do not do that to our
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: forever first night. I believe she's forty six years like
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: he's the epitome. I'm sorry, fifty six forty six. You
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: got it right. She is not thirty six, thirty six.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: How about that he's fifty six. I believe six. She's
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: she's our forever first day and now it's time for
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: baller man man, this ship about to get serious. Message
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: this ship. I'm scared. I'm always scared when one for
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: ours about to do his man serious. Seriously, y'all listen
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: to what I'm about to say. Should you stay for
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: the kids? M should you stay for the kids? According
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: to fairy tales, first comes love, then comes marriage, insert
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: a couple of kids, and boom happily ever after. But
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: in the real world, what starts off as a beautiful
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: journey between two people can quickly turn into an unexpected
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: adventure or even a nightmare. The wide i optimism, especially
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: when your reality fails to live up to your expectations.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Long before people get into a place of firmly deciding
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: upon separational divorce divorce, they try to keep it together
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: for the sake of the kids. But why we tend
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: to convince ourselves that the children are committed to our
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: togetherness and that that's and and actually that's completely false.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Children thrive in households where the adults are genuinely happy.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Read that again, Children's rive in households whether the adults
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: are genuinely happy. If your relationship has turned toxic bill
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: with constants, are you in and dis discontent? Be be
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: clear that the kids are have picked up on it too,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: So if you aren't, if you aren't really hiding anything
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: from them, then why are you delaying their inevitable Often
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: when people say they are staying for the kids, they
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: truly aren't. They're only using this this phrase as an
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: excuse to justify complacency, beer of loneliness, failure, or dread
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: of starting over, whatever the reason, If you consider the kids,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: then you should try being honest with yourself, make a
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: commitment to identifying your own issues and work on resolving them.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Your kids are never never as fragile as you think,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: and can be resilient behind but beyond comprehension. Yeah, no,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's a good idea to stay for
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: the kids. Quote unquote, I do believe that children are
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: sponging is I think they are very pure and they
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: need to have pure, genuine energy around them, especially as kids.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Um So, no, I think that if if it's best
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: for you guys to not be together, then maybe take
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: that time apart and learn to co parent and teach
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: your child that all relationships are different. However, the love
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: that we have for you has not changed. It's the same.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: But I don't want to be in an unhealthy relationship
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: because I think that wouldn't allow me to be the
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: best mother that I could be. Give them a sense, Amen,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: what do you think? I think if anything turns toxic,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: that's the time that you really should kind of and
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: explore possibilities of you know, they're inevitable, like, Okay, listen,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: figure out how to co parent, but let's try to
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: make sure that we communicate in a way that doesn't
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: affect the kids. Yeah, you know, I think you can
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: work on it and try to get it better. But
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: if it's one in terms toxico, I'm talking about when
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: the toxic are you in, it could get physical and
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: then out of kids are being affected, probably sting out
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: in class or school and stuff like that. That's when
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: you really got to be like, you know what, cover
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: steps back. I don't think it has to get really bad,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you know, for you to know that it's time to go.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: But I do think that if it's if this is
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: not someone that you are genuinely in love with anymore,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: your child knows that my parents aren't really in love, Like,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: something's not right about that. You're actually I think you're
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: teaching your child that it's okay to be in a
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: relationship with someone that you're not truly in love with,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: and then that cycle continues. So I agree with that.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I think that, um, you know, toxic To the point
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: of uh Ferrari's point, I think toxic is uh you know,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: if you can't anything less, if you have exactly, if
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: you have any if you can't have pleasant moments in
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: front of your children, if your children don't constantly see
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: you guys in a positive light, there's an issue. Um.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: But to bar point he just said, you have to
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: also try to you know what I'm saying. When you
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: meet somebody and you fall in love with somebody, the
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: majority of the time you've put in you should have
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: put in the work to kind of investigate families and
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: you know, live with the person long enough, or at
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: least stay with them long enough to see how the
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: energy is and what the you know, what the ying
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: and the yang is, because that's what the relationship really is.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: But like Ard said, those things will provide a blueprint, Uh,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: provide a formula in which you can kind of like
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: check back to every time you think you're getting off course,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, or add on to the
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: positive to help continue to build upon. But you know,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I think that toxic. You gotta go at the end
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: of the day. But if there is work to be done,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: do the work. Do the work. If a man putting
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: his hand on you, if a woman's putting her hands
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: on you, if y'all can't say a nice thing to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: each other, the sight of the person just you know,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: skin curling, then this time ago. But if it's your
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: man lost his job, you know what I'm saying. But
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: you can hold it down as long as he gets right.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: That's the balance. I think a lot of people have different,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: you know, ulterior motives these days in relationships, both sides
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: um So I think that once you kind of identify
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: the blueprint, keep adding on to that blueprint, and that
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: will be the formula that your kids interviews in one
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: of that you know, yeah, yeah, I will say this,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: you know, not that obviously my relationship is and anything
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: like that. But my mentality was to never let my
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: kids grow up in a single parent home like I did.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: So that was on me to figure out that formula
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: and how to keep that going. I think that that's
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: another thing. You go into something thinking like anything wrong
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: can happen in relationship. You're leaving room open for the bullshit.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: You're leaving room open for disaster to potentially strike. I
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: had in my mind from date from the door, I'm staying,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure they see a healthy household, and
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: everything since has been that effort, putting forth that effort,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: because it's that first work. It's the hardest job you
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: will ever have, but the most rewarding. Of the same time,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: I think you're making that decision up front made you
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: work on the relationship harder. It was like, if if
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: we are having a lack of communication, what can I
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: do to fix it? You know, because you already decided
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: that you wanted to stay together. You don't want your
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: kids in a single family, you know, single parent household.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: So that's yeah, because marriage is about being selfless, not selfish,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: and not time for comment creeping creep. Okay, I want
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: to have a little fun with common creep into I
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: want to play a game with common creep. The PicTel
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: is real to me. So follow nation. You guys actually
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: have to d M me your guests, and the best
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: guest wins a prize. Okay, fifty cent posts a photo
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: of Joel Santana. That's that's a little suspect. He's missing
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: a couple of teeth. Season, please put that on the screen.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: And and and that's what I was like, you know,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: let me go see if he has a tattoo on
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: the side. I don't. I don't think that's it. I
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: don't think that's yeah. So um it says it says
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: damn it man. Well, fifty says, damn it man. Just
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: say no to drugs. This is going too far now,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: no teeth, Jesus Christ, positive vibes now, yeah, no, it's
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: not good. So then fifty posts a selfie of himself smiling,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: and he says, right now, I want you to thank
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: God for the small things you have in your life
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: that are great to know, like your teeth that lean
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: ain't no joke, positive vibes. Then Joel's post a photo
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: of himself all all smiles and he says, good photoshop.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: But next check whatever. I don't know what it is. No,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: of course, I mean fifty got like everybody has. But
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: are here's the ones? Are are jewels like dentures like
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: they come on. That's that's what it looks like. The
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Juveneers come in and out. Yeah, there's a permanent order.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: They come in medium size guys. Like everyone's acting like
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: they're all extra large, like get it in the only
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: under the extra large it's out there, look at your
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: old teeth. And then Johnny Blaze, Johnny Blaze actually talked
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: about that. She she was saying how she got when
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: she got her Veneers, like she's in the process of
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: getting them like shaved down because they're big. Big Soft
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: is going to come back with a response. We don't
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: know what he's gonna do. It's either going to be
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: another photoshop photo or he's just I don't know if
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: it's photoshop. I don't know, but I was the comments,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: of course, and a couple of people on ball Nation
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: we're saying that they've seen photos of him, like USh
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: out of jail and he didn't have teeth. I haven't
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: seen this photo. I tried to find it. I didn't
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: see it. I don't I don't know where it is.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: But I'm curious to know how fifty is gonna clap back.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Whoever has the best fifty clap back DM me d
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: bet fifty clap back at underscore sulo. I'm not gonna
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: tell him. I'm announcing next week. Yeah, announced on episode Damn,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: episode fifty. Huh, this is forty nine, but next week
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: is fifty, So I'm gonna announce the winner on the
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: episode fifty. How that worked out? I got a man,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I got a baller mail that's in my actual d M.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. It's a real like real life
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: like someone man. You gotta find it for next week
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: episode Jesus episode some real advicement. Okay, alright, alright, we
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: got him and now time just said follow nation. The
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: satisfaction from money is a temporary damn. If you didn't
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: hear me in the back, it's Satisfacshion from money is
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: a temporary feeling, uh that immediacy if that purchase makes
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: you feel like a motherfucker, don't it. It makes you
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: feel like that everything you don't did then came full circle.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: But guess what, That feeling, too, shall pass. What stays
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: with you is the substantive pieces that money cannot buy.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: What keeps you whole, keeps you happy. Take it from
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: a real play. The dream is real. Ball Nation, go forth,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: be happy, Peace Its will