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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Special · Inspiring Human Potential

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Guess how the amazing Universe always works.
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We are going to change up our intro and at first, I wasn't
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sure. And then I was like, you know
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what, wait a minute, let me go revisit that.
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I am expanding Consciousness intro and just hearing the first
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couple minutes of a. Okay, yes, it is time for an
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update especially with all the new episodes that you'll be
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hearing. And the integration of
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trauma-informed and somatic informed, as well as the somatic
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experiencing informed upcoming mine site.
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So, all of the lovely addition to our human elements, the
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intro, this one's going to be kind of short, and I'll revisit
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them. Probably, according to when time
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will ask me for a new one again, in the meantime, anybody who's
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new welcome, you can find in really the description of all of
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the podcasts since their standard.
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The nation of what we're all about.
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And so, I'm just going to break it down, where enlightened Soul
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age group. And so people who are in their
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5D self empowered and letting State of Consciousness, and what
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this means and human terms is people who are functional
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adults. They are differentiated selves
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differentiate itself. You can find that in family of
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origin, therapy stuff, and we also Have mindfulness brain and
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mind frame. So we are able to use our lovely
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brain and the neuroplastic way and just using words to describe
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Concepts that my regular listeners know about, but that
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anybody who wants it's in, you know, you would want to know
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about, otherwise you can't follow the conversations also
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and like mental age, when people are in their ventral vagal
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system. So we are always safe and social
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with Humanity. In fact, we love humanity and
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Life to death, the death of us. In fact, we're all still
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breathing for now, right? And I wake up tomorrow.
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I'm still breathing and we don't suffer.
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We actually experience emotional pain in its natural form,
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allowing it to flow and do its thing and we don't sit and
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create stories. There's a way that I can explain
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this. By the way, it's always
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Neuroscience, psychology education and we only have love
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Cycles, but I do look at those who might have shame Cycles
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because I know that everyone is always going to be looking to
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expand. So there are people who will
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choose move out a 3D 4D and or other Soul age groups and so
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they will begin to be able and see wait a minute, my body heart
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and mind. They speak something.
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And I actually want to listen to it, I want to be the grown-up
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version of myself. So taking those emotions and
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sting, you know, I'm going to pay attention to what I think
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and feel and I will be able to move forward with respecting
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others by being able to be Economist because see, when you
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are a functional do. That means you're forgiving and
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nuanced because you're Using again, your mindfulness brain
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and I forgot you're in a state of physiological compassion.
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You're actually able to sit in your psychological floor.
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It's called a neocortex. It has six neurons to for the
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hearing now, to for the implicit memory stuff that every human
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being body holes, and it goes all the way back to fishies.
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Thank you Dan Siegel, for that explanation.
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They meet in the middle where there's other two neurons, which
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creates our subjective reality. So everybody's emotions or based
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for our own self survive, Evil, but it comes in begin since we
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were little. So again, when you are in the
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enlightenment still age group, you're actually aware when the
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implicit memory stuff is coming off and you're able to sit in
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this zero place. And understand, I'll wait, these
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are my motions in to talk about them and in every one of our
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episodes, we look at different things to inflame.
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So mates, over Soul because I have a person who's also in that
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community of the mystics. Mystical is a terrorism
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metaphysics. So besides the human elements
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and oh spirituality. Sadhguru lovely, yogic Sciences.
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He's the one who I learned from. They took his inner engineering
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course and I also did some Bobby Korean.
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I'm doing another thing with him.
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So I listened to him when it comes to spirituality.
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He's my room of choice and the other subject matter experts,
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I'd aim as I as it goes, but long story short, we're in a
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physiological state of compassion.
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So we know how to be able and sit with a orange and apple.
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And actually, Enjoy our conversation.
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You get to learn about this and more from both the perspective
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of again, Mystic as well as a person.
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It's the infinite higher human consciousness expression.
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Potential etc, etc. That's why in our growth is All
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Me, What comes forth and we don't have regret.
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We don't have any of that, we don't suffer again, we don't sit
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in our Temple Junction. So explain all these things and
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more through our topics. There's also subscription-based
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model content, for those who want to Learn to put into
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practice because there are some episodes that are for practice
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and then there's also the light workers life that's where I
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share my personal, Claire stories, and relate it to you
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from an indictment. So age group perspective we do
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have, I'm Consciousness expanding Consciousness but I
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evaluate month to month, we have at least one episode, you can
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sign up. It's a five or six dollars in
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dollars Euros would be probably not more than six year olds and
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in other currency. And I'm not sure what that would
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be but meantime thank you for tuning in to the intro and I
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hope you stay for the episode and if not thank you for
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stopping by and I share with you my unconditional love and wish
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you the best. We have some Enlightenment
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special since the channeled guidance is very important for
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some of you The aspect of Free Will, and the aspect of knowing
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that we choose how to treat each other is what I want to touch
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upon for a little bit. And this is where when we look
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at this sentence that came to share with you, how trauma has a
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bunch of death chases before it needs itself home.
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The thing is, the trauma comes up as biological rudeness for
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those who have recurring patterns, that are in shame
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blame fault Revenge cycles. And this is where every time,
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that those Cycles appear, an individual will have had their
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free will to choose how to handle that energetic.
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Charged State, as with my attachment style friend.
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I noted to you, I was able to walk them to a path of them
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being Being at the very least a moderated embodied self
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individual in that moment, the recurring pattern for them was
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their story. And so finished the dialogue
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with the person even though they had been settled in, and even
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though I said, hey, go do something that makes you happy
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right now, it's ideal because that's where the nervous system
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and you being able to be in your own seat.
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So here's where you get Start. Choosing people choose all the
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time, how to use their energy? Their emotions.
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This is where it's not just this conscious thing though, in a
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philosophical weight, which is why people they may do
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Enlightenment, all they want the mantles are all out there.
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I can see them. Every time, they're treating
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each other like shit. Every time somebody is creating
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some ego sensitive topic and yelling and I am, somebody who
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has studied again, political science.
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I know, so Society, I know sociology, I know this entire
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topic. Which is why it's all very
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disappointing. Because they want to be in
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trending topics. They want to be talking about
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Phi, D and love and, but all I see is a lot of hate going on.
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That's all I see. And bickering, by the way, all I
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see is trauma being used with each other, but I hear a lot of
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beautiful words. Oh yeah.
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So again, we bring together all because this is where tangibly
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speaking. Somebody might not be able to
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meditate. Because before meditating, they
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need an actual somatic sensory motor therapist.
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Or at the very least, some knowledge that they have
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unresolved trauma. My attachment style friend is a
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perfect example and she's not the only one who is in a state
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that is basically acceptable because Society watches all
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these movies because these people think that generalized
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statements are to be used with each other.
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It's one thing. When you're looking at it,
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academically and what generalized stuff does even
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though here is where I've always disagreed with the entirety of
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doing averages, Because you averages it's a bullshit.
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I don't care what you want to tell me about quantitative.
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Here's where thank you for existing again.
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Academic Community because their people are saying, hey hello
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qualitative. Mmmm now you and wanting to
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exclude it we think you're kind of dumb for doing it and really
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wrong, you know and so we have a little bit going on right now
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which is why there's a balancing in our lovely world on feminine
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and masculine finally. The feminine is like okay You've
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done enough of your damage here, you masculine.
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And it's not because of men or women.
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It's that the masculine energy wants to expand and it also
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needs to be analytical. This is the left brain, the
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feminine is intuitive knows what works knows what doesn't trusts
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her own guts and goes with it. Trusts her own home but it is
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clear to me as a human being who does love my lovely mind and my
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lovely body. This is why differentiate itself
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people the actual adult people the It's old age with people.
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They're all here like okay wait wait all of you side.
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You got a point here now that stop the bickering though
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because we can see clearly that you are you know the only reason
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again yogic Sciences is now a term is because science actually
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has an update ought to prove what yoga has been saying.
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Neither of them is better than the other and that's what the
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framework in our case is doing the ihp framework of the human
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spiritual spiritual reality. Elements moving beyond belief
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systems. And so this is not to disrespect
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any type of subject matter or any discipline even though if
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you ask me is it disrespectful to talk about knowledge?
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No, this is the part. I would say that.
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It's disrespectful to dumb down information, the way people do
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and actually keep on thinking that mythology and stories is
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what works mythology and stories is what's kept people in the
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masses. Excuse me.
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So I will be doing what's on popular and saying aye.
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I think that people have a very good way of understanding if you
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explain it to them better now that they may not want to do it
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the same way, a child will want to do it.
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Well, here's where structure comes into the mix and here's
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where we hope not to get there because that will look like a
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pretty boring world. But hey if we do have to get
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there, which is exactly where for as much as I again, am not
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pleased with what I see. It's not because of them, not
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trying every person does the best.
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They And same thing goes with system.
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I already know where life has it doesn't ever had towards death
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death is part of the transformation that people want
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to keep thinking, well, it will head towards the Lord.
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No, not necessarily because again, we're not in that
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spectrum of the Middle Ages anymore.
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And the reason people keep just thinking that we're going to
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attack each other's because they're all in a survival brain
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mode, which means you're not in the seeing from the flow of Life
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mode, which is where, again, here's where Enlightenment still
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age group is. So, We're not afraid because we
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actually know that life doesn't ever lead us to somewhere where
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it's not expanding. The only people who doubt and
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here's all those masculine so that's why there's no if their
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amateur masculine there with amateur feminine already and
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they're in the enlightenment so they Japan.
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They're basically saying it'll be great, it'll be good it'll be
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fine without knowing anything and they're okay with the pink
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tinted glasses. Okay.
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So here's where an Enlightenment so age of persons act because
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consciousness This is a stream of flow that never in the years
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that we have been in existence, has that itself to its own
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demise. The only people think that are
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the ones who are in separation consciousness.
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They're the only people who keep thinking about the same shit
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over and over and over again because they keep living the
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parts the karma. So yeah, it's natural for people
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to keep thinking we're going to tack each other because that's
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what they're going to see. So if people want to stay in
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separation Consciousness, here's where Enlightenment already
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knows. We're not doing anything about
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that one. We will not be wasting our time
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on the big. Oh, let's talk about what's
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going to happen if a thousand years from now.
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No, you don't know. And really today is what's
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important right now Oh, so how about we help each other?
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That's where we're at the 5dc. Light worker is here to support
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expansion of consciousness. So is said Bruce or a lot of
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other people. So the Frameworks of different
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number of gurus and Yeti idea. They're all doing the same thing
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for me. Sharing what I share allows me
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to know that I try to support actual individuals who are their
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own thinkers to be themselves and to move into path.
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That goes beyond some belief system.
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The fact that you can't I understand that Consciousness is
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not a magic power and that its energy.
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It's a guy I have to laugh. I have to laugh but I'm not
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laughing in a way of. I don't understand these
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teachers know, I understand where they are at.
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In fact, I can understand quite clearly where they are at and I
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think if they got a little bit information then and out of
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their stories. So out of belief land, I think
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that they would be able to see Annie Even bigger picture.
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But again, their role is what they are doing and that is where
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we need subject. Matter experts to be so devoted
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to their belief that we get the accumulation of information,
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every part is going to contribute to the whole when you
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can see the whole and the parts and you know, the flow of it,
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there's no questions. So the part about choosing
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though, Here's where every human being gets to choose again.
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And again and again how to use their own mind.
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Now, it may be challenging for those who have unresolved
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trauma. As I was putting out with my
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attachment style friend, but they still have a choice and it
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is thanks to Consciousness. My lovely Divine masculine, and
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the making that I can say, because of what I know that,
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that is where they have support. Need me to have an even more
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presence in what I've always thought.
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Because For the Longest Time, all I've seen is people who do
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not actually move into their Consciousness.
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Again, identity is not the same as you being a conscious human
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being, you will represent the life you are, you will represent
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the vibration. You will represent the identity
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to a t like the teachers do and like all these other sole troops
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do You are not a conscious being yet conscious being means, I
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know, I think, I know, I feel I know why I act, and I know what
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I learned from my past, and that is where the power comes in.
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Is I learned from my past, the only way you're going to grow
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Consciousness, if you learn, which is not sitting in regret
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and wallowing in the sorrows and saying and finding excuses for
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why you're going to do it again. And again again which is where
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attachment cell friend bringing them back into the mix.
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I don't want to crap on them. But still the fact that you can
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Say to somebody who's suggesting to you.
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I think you need more support. That you are not going to do
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this because all Humanities crappy.
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Why should you is one indication you're in an inner critic
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because nobody said your crappy to theirs.
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What does what, what do other people have to do with how you
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are experiencing your life? So, the choice is simple.
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How do I want to treat another human being?
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This was completely disregarded, the part of this other human
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being doesn't want me around. Doesn't you know, all of what
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this other Even being specifically spoke to this
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individual was disregarded. Now, again, it's very
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explainable on a human scale. Psychologically, speaking, the
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individual is in a shame blame for Revenge Loop.
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So this is why the death and of trauma, the death chases or
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chances, I keep forgetting the word because it was yes, the
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Beth chases before arriving home.
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So before you can actually see your own self home is the self
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of View and pure Consciousness, which we all are.
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And so this specific story with this one individual, that's
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structural dissociation, is what took place?
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They were reliving a charge state which I presented to them.
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Calm them down, got them out of this mode and they following
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though, chose to take action to try and go Converse.
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With an individual who had spelled out more than once.
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I don't want to converse Now, here's where the way that you
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guys do already know this story, they want and done.
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They made themselves out to be the good guy from being in the
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middle of, you know, maybe I was too much, so the inner critic.
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No, no, no, I'm going to pass the Hot Potato, the outer critic
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and now I'm going to deny it by in the in this case they found
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all information that supported their Theory.
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They in fact, completely transformed everything.
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Oh, and they withdrew with. I'm right, they're wrong.
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I'm the victim, they're not and nobody's a victim by the way,
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because nobody got hurt. And both people have unfinished
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business because both people were not able to maintain a
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ground of consistency. So here's where.
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If I can, I can share that there are moments where there's been
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similar things taken place. Where, yeah, I got accused of
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things that were completely. Off.
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But what I did do was listen and that means the minute you tell
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me that I am bugging you, and that I am imposing myself upon
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you, me a human being. I will hear that and I will back
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off. I will never contact you again.
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I will never even, you know, remote you.
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You are no longer in my bath is where it is at.
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So the minute, a person, speaks their truth, is the minute that
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you will hear them. If you're an adult, you do not
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Actually go and impose yourself but this is where it needs to be
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made. Clear?
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So for me, what I can know is I was not made clear of things in
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situation that I found once. I was made clear of it.
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I it's like okay now it's clear now I got it but until the
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Moment of clarity arrives you can't get it.
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Right? Because in and out isn't clear.
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So when people do their in and out this is a very different
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story and in and out as something that those who are in
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their adoptive child, they love doing So transference trauma.
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Here's where we have the little recurring themes that people
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like to do with each other. So Enlightenment stage, we don't
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play games, we don't do shit like that.
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It's a waste of our time. We are not trying to impose
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ourselves on people but those who are not here.
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This is where they get very much into this mix of drama land.
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And they don't realize that what they're doing is unfinished
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business. And here's why I use my
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attachment style as a friend friend as an example.
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It's because they actually Actually, I they need support
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because of what and how it worked out.
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But when the time came to admit it to themselves, all they had
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to say was other human beings are crappy.
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Why should I work on me? Not to mention that.
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They've done therapy. They've done meditation.
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They've done all of it. They keep it doesn't work.
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If this is the point of how trauma needs time, and this is
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why the spirituality and spiritual Community should not
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in any way shape, or Form say oh do me and don't do therapy.
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No, fuck that. That's not true.
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Some people, they will need medication.
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Some people they want medication.
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We have signs for a reason and to exclude this because your
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belief system says that in your land of Mythology, yada yada
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yada yada and that does not suffice.
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This is the part and so far as much as I may not be linear, and
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I am actually very nonlinear. We all are, but I know that I'm
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definitely a Again, feminine intuitive.
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I will say this, I've never excluded signs.
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Never would that would be stupid, it's part of History,
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it's part of what we use and it's part of things that get us
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to learn more. So the people who believe in
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stories, they are children because the only people who will
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only take a story is an individual who wants to have
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something be true, because they want to be taken care of.
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They want to believe and here's why, you know, that word
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believe. I don't use it as much but I do
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believe in life. Let's see.
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Life is dark energy and dark matter.
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That's what life is and this Akash.
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It's a word that incorporates empty space.
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They should start just using empty space but I can use many
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words again, it's a framework, we are not speaking truth.
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We are speaking a whole of Dimensions that people who are
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inclined to be in this enlightened Mental age group and
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or at the very least a five-day human being meaning, I use my
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brain, I'm a differentiated person I'm not following some
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leader. I'm not following some
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conspiracy theory, I stay grounded.
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It is very straightforward honestly.
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Like I really think that people don't understand what I don't
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like and that's why I've made the subscription-based model
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Compton because Claire's do not give you special Pat.
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We don't have special powers. We are nothing more than energy.
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And this is why the conversation has to move Beyond beliefs.
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And I again knew that there was some way I was going to get to
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help Humanity. I didn't realize it would be
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through a bunch of stuff that even I, as a teenager, if you
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would have asked me about Claire's, I would have known of
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them only through, you know, Saints and church and stuff like
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that. I didn't have any relationship
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with the metaphysics as a tourism World until I got older
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and not, because I thought it was sinful, because that all
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that since shit is Oh shit. I mean, I still didn't say, I am
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disappointed in the entire institution, I don't care what
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the academics who are theologians, they're all in
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their ego. The same way that any other
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person who wants to just again, teachers have their role.
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Those of us who see the bigger picture, like, what are you
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doing? You're not even matching the
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word of the person. Like, how are you even here?
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How did you exist? Why well, what happened in the,
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how many people could read and write in the Middle Ages?
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Let me ask you this. So here's where when people keep
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talking about. That's not half school.
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I'm like, okay, you really want people to be dumber than what
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they already are because apparently people don't even
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know how to discern information so much so that they blame
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internet for their ignorance. Do they not know the three dots
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that are not know, like this is where Kane colleague.
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Gets it back seat. If we have to spell out things
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to people, that's why the structure exists which is why I
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take my hands away. I don't want to be a part of it,
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but I know that it exists and I will always follow it and I know
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that it will represent the people.
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So At the end of the day, what I want to try to do is definitely
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create more conscious conversations and it's not with
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you go sensitive people and it's not with people who want to stay
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in their belief land. Either belief land is beautiful.
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It's beautiful to have. It's beautiful to stand behind
24:25
what you believe in and then to be able and actually have
24:27
conversations about it but we want to talk about belief.
24:31
Well, again, physics shows that everything in the universe is a
24:36
sound. I don't need the word Akash, I
24:38
don't even need Add the word empty space elements, I can use
24:41
physics. Again, it exists, I can use
24:44
mathematics, I can use the entire scientific Community.
24:47
I'm not a scientist, but I can use the entire scientific
24:51
Community to make a case and to transform every single one of
24:54
the stories that is out there. The point is not that because
24:58
this is what the masculine is like to do.
25:00
They like to try and prove points but what they don't
25:02
realize is, you're not going to ever prove anything because the
25:07
hole is bigger than the, Some of its parts and by dissecting it,
25:11
what you get lost in is in the parts land, which is where
25:14
people get lost. So, when again, this, this, this
25:17
instructors, talking to me about this experience, which I'm not
25:21
sharing because I have to maintain certain levels of, you
25:24
know, not disclosing. You can take the class for
25:26
yourself if you want, but when they're describing this and
25:29
they're talking about it, the power, it reminds me of my 4D
25:33
friends who also have their stories and when they're talking
25:37
about their stories and their Experiences.
25:39
They're like, yeah. And this and this and you know,
25:41
and they're describing. In fact, here's one story can
25:44
try and share because it's my own related to my own personal
25:48
person sharing with me. So nothing.
25:51
Work-wise nothing, you know class-wise okay.
25:54
So here's the scene. Okay, this is a scene, this is
25:57
something that has been described to me.
25:59
It's my personal day to day life shit.
26:01
Okay, so here we go, not my not Maria's story.
26:06
And being described something on the Ascension.
26:09
This, there's a peak of Ascension dates, and Peak energy
26:12
day, so they sting took place on this day, I was feeling.
26:17
So, you know, charged, I forget all the specific words but all
26:21
of a sudden as the I was in a house that had negative energy.
26:27
I already told the person I want to be in this house.
26:30
It has bad energy. It's something's, here, there's
26:32
a spirit here. There's something.
26:33
I know it, I'm intuitive, I know.
26:37
I don't want to be here. So in the meantime, they're
26:39
still there. These two people are actually
26:42
arguing yelling at each other and I'm being described the
26:48
scene as if this is, okay? So I'm being told something
26:53
while I'm thinking of the individual and the other
26:56
individual knowing their own family of origin history.
26:59
So their own trauma what they lived in their households
27:03
because I had been given knowledge of this for them.
27:06
Them. Obviously, I know them, a
27:07
lifetime. The person that they're with,
27:09
they've known them for 23 years now.
27:11
And so they know their story of family, and so both have
27:16
traumatic households, okay. They have parents who basically
27:21
were aggressive towards each other and insulting towards each
27:24
other and aspects that are not healthy.
27:27
This is chaos and rigidity on healthy minds and healthy,
27:31
parents, traumatized people, traumatized children, obviously.
27:34
So we have trauma. Right here playing out in the
27:37
moment, and I'm being described the scene from like the Matrix,
27:40
but it's not a scene, because this is for deal and for you,
27:43
okay. So, here's where I'm thinking
27:45
structural dissociation in the meantime, but obviously, I can't
27:48
spell that out the same way with my attachment style friend,
27:51
because they don't believe in the psychology.
27:53
Apparently, I'm boring. So, here you go.
27:55
That's what people will do when you tell them something about
27:58
the human body. Oh no.
27:59
It's not that it must be what I'm saying.
28:01
Okay fine. Go further, go for it.
28:05
No, I don't even I'm bothered. This is the part.
28:07
So I don't bother speaking to people.
28:10
The only person that I actually get the opportunity to speak to
28:13
with my thoughts is conscious Divine, masculine the making
28:16
because they listen, they hear me.
28:18
They're curious about what I have to say.
28:20
Other people. They're not actually curious,
28:22
they just want me to hear them. They tell me what they already
28:25
know. So here's where remember we
28:27
learned or I learned with Albert Wang that one psychologist
28:33
Eugene whatever. Where if a person enters the Of
28:36
any therapist, the minute that they enters the minute, you'll
28:39
know, if you'll have success or not, and it's only if they're an
28:42
open mind, if they come in with preconceived notions, they're
28:46
not listening which is something I had already read from Carl
28:48
Rogers in one of the books that I read for the first part of the
28:52
inner growth mindset book. So I already know what it means.
28:54
When people don't listen, I just got like 100 gazillion
28:57
confirmation of how I'm never listened to because of
29:00
preconceived notions which is again, okay.
29:02
It's cute to me that my loved ones, know me so well that they
29:05
can tell me. Who I am and every moment of my
29:08
life and what I think and feel it's so awesome.
29:10
So there you go, you know, it's like, it's something you get
29:13
used to. It's nice to have something
29:15
different every now and then to be able and actually Express
29:21
because there's so much always that is able to come from those
29:25
of us who think on our own. And it's not because it's better
29:29
or worse. That's the point.
29:30
It's just we think different things so I'm being described
29:35
the scene. As if it's something positive in
29:38
again, I'm thinking what? Wait, why are we not exploring?
29:42
What just happened? In a way of serious.
29:44
Like you both need to go together to couples therapy.
29:47
I don't know. Do something with therapy.
29:50
Not this, not the for deal and of this story.
29:53
But let me finish the description.
29:54
So I'm being told there's negative entities in this house.
29:57
I told them that there's a negative something so why are
30:00
were yelling at each other or getting into whatever argument
30:03
that people who apparently? Get into the All Glass shatters.
30:09
So the glass of, I don't know what shatters and then the light
30:12
bulb shatters and then the glass that they're holding shatters in
30:16
it just breaks in their hand. And wind goes flying all over
30:19
the place. Nobody was II meeting and said
30:22
as anybody hurt. Nobody was okay, good.
30:24
Nobody was hurt great. But they wanted to keep telling
30:26
me this story because to them, they're connecting this to their
30:31
special powers. Okay?
30:33
Like I'm trying to make this very clear.
30:35
Because here's where there are no special powers going on here.
30:38
What's going on is, oh, I've seen a glass by the way, blow up
30:41
all of a sudden. This was at the pub that I hang
30:43
out. And they explained to me how
30:45
sometimes this actually happens, and it has happened more than
30:47
once. So that glass will have a point
30:50
where it can shatter and sometimes it's just overused, it
30:54
gets old and it shatters and something makes it shatter, it's
30:57
not anything specific, but I saw this happen to a person who was
31:01
part of the group were chit-chatting.
31:03
In fact, wow, I think I told you About it because this guy he was
31:07
going to drink his drink and now she's putting it right near his
31:11
lips, the glass shatters into a million pieces, thank goodness.
31:15
He had glasses on nothing got caught.
31:17
So you know, again as this woman is telling me that her glass
31:22
shatters in her hand, I'm thinking I bet you that glass
31:25
was old, you know, like I'm connecting the dots to what I
31:29
learned mathematically. Speaking scientifically speaking
31:32
about how glass can shatter and again, it's not Not because I
31:35
don't have clears, I get it. What we have when it comes to
31:39
energy but I don't need the story.
31:43
This is where I can actually have a many different ways to be
31:46
interpreted in the meantime and said, the individual is honed in
31:51
on the idea that there's negative energy in the house and
31:54
negative spirit in the house that day.
31:56
And this person are creating this ball of energy in a
31:59
specific way. And they're talking about it as
32:01
if this is. Again, something that is
32:03
magical. And they use the word Karma.
32:08
They use a lot of different words but I don't see anywhere
32:11
in this picture. Any words of we should look into
32:16
working with our attachment wounds and Trauma history.
32:20
Like this is the part. And again I don't find working
32:24
with yourself to become an adult boring.
32:26
I would say that at the very least a person should be very
32:29
very willing and wanting to become the mature emotional
32:33
version of themselves. If There's answers to why there
32:37
are recurring patterns of suffering this is suffering,
32:41
because that, that is not. That is not a sense of ease in
32:46
the body. If you, and I are yelling at
32:49
each other, it means we're in hyperarousal, which means we're
32:52
in fight flight, which means we're not.
32:54
Safe together means we don't feel safe together.
32:58
Means we feel that we need to attack each other, which is
33:01
something if you've witnessed it, this is normal again.
33:04
This is where normal Rising that trauma is unresolved and that we
33:08
can resolve it. It can only happen if people
33:10
stop talking about each other's biological rudeness as evil, or
33:16
as energy vampires or as dark, or has, or like this story?
33:19
Karma, do we need more words? And these words for 14 and this
33:23
is not cutting it and nor is Shamanism or Tantra or yoga, or
33:28
any in the spiritual or spirituality, because you don't
33:31
have the human elements. You're going to keep the
33:33
stories, the stories. Are what keep children in.
33:38
So here's where ain't no false light, it's called you not
33:41
growing up. So the minute that the
33:44
attachment style friend began to go from, maybe I didn't because
33:47
you know there's only so much blaming you can do before your
33:49
body is going to be like fuck this shit.
33:51
I'm not going to blame myself. Why?
33:52
Because any kids going to be pissed that's what kids do.
33:56
We all get angry for the adult not meeting our needs and we're
34:00
going to be pouting about it. Why didn't you meet my needs?
34:02
You should have met my needs, your the parent, you know?
34:05
Soon as they as an individual who is a child of a parent.
34:09
I will say that I have worked with that.
34:11
I forget what year it was when I'm like, you know, my mother's
34:15
a person. So I just need to and I'm pretty
34:19
sure she's the one who pointed it out to me.
34:21
And I'm like, fine, fine, I'll grow up, you know, like, I'll
34:24
grow up if I have to, but this is where people with their
34:28
relationships. They don't actually do that.
34:30
They think that they can treat each other too.
34:35
Be each other's parent. That's not partnership.
34:39
That's not anything. I would want ever.
34:41
Like, this is the part don't baby me and I'm going to baby
34:44
you, that's ridiculous. And uncalled for, and boring,
34:50
and diminishes everything that it means to become a human being
34:54
who's an adult. But this is because we, when you
34:58
have good relationship with your emotions, let me specify.
35:01
So your brain is not taken over by some Thing that is reactive
35:06
or recurring, you're an autonomous adult.
35:09
And so you build relationships and this is why all of my
35:12
relationships are beautiful. But I can say that, I definitely
35:16
enjoy the conscious ones and having those conversations
35:20
because I get to actually Express the depths of who I am
35:26
versus having to play, if you will.
35:29
It's not a part, but it's where the minute that somebody's egos
35:32
in the middle. I'm restricted because I got a
35:35
baby in front of me. Who's going to begin to
35:39
basically, why not me? Which to me intellectually
35:42
speaking? I'm not interested in whiners.
35:44
I don't want to have that conversation.
35:47
It might as well be a monologue because what they're really
35:50
going to start doing is transferring their energy as
35:53
well, by the way. So here's where the individual
35:55
when they were telling me their story or the attachment style
35:58
person, there is no way for me to move into spectrums of, let
36:03
me dismantle. I don't want to dismantle your A
36:04
story to your story, but I did present in all situations.
36:08
You know, I would really consider again, somatic sensory
36:14
motor therapy for the one with her boyfriend, whatever he want.
36:19
You know, I don't know if they have names for each other yet,
36:21
but the other I said, you know, maybe this can help you and in
36:25
both cases there was complete ignoring.
36:29
So that's where people stay with their stories and in fact they
36:34
go from Being able to be nothing more than their teenage versions
36:39
with each other but what they do end up with is probably soul is
36:43
somehow they get to play out their parents or wrote their
36:46
perfecting parental roles so they got to love each other.
36:50
However, it is they wanted to be loved.
36:52
I hope that's my hope. That's my hope for them.
36:54
But their Free Will is where they all chose, how to treat
37:00
each other. So, in this case, the woman
37:03
justifies, Her mannerisms and a her every single Choice.
37:09
Well, her boyfriend as well as for the attachment style friend.
37:13
Well, luckily that got caught in the but I think it would have
37:17
been very not positive, had it continued but luckily, it didn't
37:22
but they have completely simply called the other person.
37:27
The manipulator the narcissistic impotent manipulator essentially
37:32
and here's where you will. That are bad.
37:35
That whenever I found myself in similar situations, very few
37:40
times but yeah, I got I got accused of things that are
37:45
completely untrue but it's where, when you understand a
37:49
recurring pattern, shame blame fought Revenge cycles and the
37:53
part about people being in chaos or in this hard which means
37:57
they're just going to stick to their story.
38:00
So here's where the adoptive child is and they don't have an
38:04
integrated. Brain.
38:05
They don't have flexibility. They don't have adaptability of
38:08
down have energized now they got a belief system and it's a
38:10
flawed one at that, it's a very flawed one because they've made
38:14
assumption over sumption with their own mental prison, which
38:18
is an inner critic, outer critic denying and withdrawn.
38:21
And here's where though they're sticking to their story.
38:24
That's ego. That's Pride.
38:26
It ain't a false light. It's just people who are too
38:29
stubborn to actually grow up and recognize that they don't know
38:34
her. Thing about people and you
38:36
telling a human being who they are.
38:38
Should not even take place anyways, because this is where
38:42
your body I'm a body and you and I didn't have the same
38:45
subjective experience. You don't have my organized
38:48
system. I don't have yours and don't
38:50
tell me how to think or feel or who I am or what I am or why I
38:54
do what I do because I can spell it up.
38:56
The reason people don't trust each other because they all are
38:58
adaptive children, who are too harsh unforgiving, and really,
39:01
they have their protector lenses on.
39:03
So, when they're looking to each, Other.
39:04
They're looking for the perfect parent.
39:06
And/or, parents. Take care of me, redeem me.
39:09
The ones who find their regroups.
39:11
Yeah, you better bet they end up in.
39:13
Like, when I got to hear about this, a cult with tantrum, like,
39:16
oh my gosh, I can only imagine the people who are in that one
39:21
and I'm not talking about people from the culture, I'm saying
39:26
from the West, okay? So as an American and Italian.
39:30
So European American North America, I'll specify how how
39:34
does that sound? Specify because that way, we can
39:36
be sure from this angle in 2023. OK.
39:40
Culturally speaking. I'm talking from over here, I
39:43
can only imagine those who end up over there and thank you,
39:47
Peter Levine for soon. Coming out with your book on why
39:51
the pros and cons of psychedelics is important for
39:54
people to note, particularly when they don't know anything
39:57
about their own unresolved trauma, I can't wait to purchase
40:00
that book and read it and then present information.
40:04
So here's the thing. Free, will you choose every
40:07
second of your day? How you're going to behave with
40:09
somebody and making up an excuse?
40:12
Which is what you do when you make up a story doesn't cut it.
40:15
You just sit and specific cycle. And so when we see, grown-ups is
40:20
very clear who they are, and it's very clear who they're not
40:24
with the Ascension energies about and the times we are in,
40:27
you can better bet that. Luckily there are more
40:30
individuals who are open and accessible.
40:34
Expanded because of the trauma experts.
40:37
Now that we have techniques and tools such as Beyond
40:40
mindfulness. And so here meditation,
40:44
mindfulness yogic Sciences, belief systems, blah blah blah,
40:49
the holistic Community, great. They're giving tools for person
40:53
to maybe achieve a state of well-being.
40:57
I say, maybe why? Because again, trauma let me
41:02
read the sentence has A bunch of death chases before it leads
41:07
itself home. There will be those recurring
41:11
patterns and so when you're being presented, my attachment
41:16
style friend and the other story, this is where I
41:20
understand why both are doing their same cycle.
41:25
This year again, it's doesn't make me happy to know that my
41:29
loved ones suffer because their body actually suffers They get
41:35
sick, they get depressed, they get sad there in suffering and
41:39
this is where, you know, sadguru talking about sometimes when he
41:43
says certain things. You know, it's not that
41:46
straightforward because you don't break a cycle.
41:50
If the person is not aware of how they function and that their
41:54
actual brain wires, so the dark and bright sides.
41:59
And so not knowing that some people gun cannot Mindfulness
42:05
yet because their body cannot sit still with the energy and
42:11
needing a way to let it out. You know, in a healthy modality
42:15
and then being given the psycho education is very important to
42:19
help a person, feel normal and not evil or bad, or something's
42:23
wrong with me. This is where people use these
42:25
words with themselves when they get angry or when they do, when
42:29
they realize that their their Cycles are unhealthy, they don't
42:33
want to be near people. They Love.
42:35
This is why when shame isolates itself, it's not always because
42:39
it wants to, it's because they're unworthy in a way that
42:45
they acknowledge, and they don't want their loved ones to suffer.
42:50
And that's what makes us sad the ones who are connected to
42:55
Consciousness because we don't want them to isolate because we
42:58
know we can help them, but they need to believe in themselves,
43:01
which they don't. And it's a catch-22.
43:04
Me too, I think is the word. So there's nothing we can do.
43:07
Our hands are tied. Our hands are tied.
43:10
When a person is in recognizing, and I've shared with you, the
43:15
story, I think it was today the other day forget, but we'll
43:20
close out with that story. The story is where the level of
43:27
intelligence from the intellect. Was enough for the individual to
43:34
know that they didn't want to have their loved ones suffer,
43:42
but they made a choice without giving us the choice.
43:47
And, and you don't do that. But this is where shame doesn't
43:51
care because shame will do that. They will say, I want to avoid
43:56
this person suffering because I unhealthy and I Find that
44:01
bullshit to say the least. Bullshit, bullshit bullshit.
44:06
Which is why though, there's no point, it doesn't matter.
44:10
They won't give you the option. The option will not be given
44:14
this person literally have to erase their email.
44:17
So that I would not be able to reach out to them.
44:19
I'll never forget that day. That was the day.
44:21
I learned something very important and I just left
44:25
because I would never have stopped writing them.
44:27
The same thing with if they were still alive, I'd be filling
44:30
their ear. All of this psycho education and
44:33
I'd be like imposing trying to impose myself on on, on saying
44:38
go, let's go together. Let's do something.
44:40
You know I would have I would have done everything in my power
44:44
and that's where again, people will talk about blocking and
44:50
chakras and all this stuff and that's not where we're at.
44:54
No, this is this is not where we are at their, nobody's chakra is
44:59
blocked. When people talk about About
45:01
anything that is limiting Consciousness.
45:04
It makes my mind, like, wait a minute.
45:06
So even again, when I think of the teachers they're all great
45:09
and dandy until they presents limitations, some of them are
45:13
not. They are presenting.
45:16
Simply what they've learned and that's where it's the academics
45:20
that are empowered, who are presenting?
45:22
What they've learned openly and they're not discarding anything.
45:26
They're saying we're adding to what already exists.
45:29
So we I am adding To whatever already existing.
45:32
Don't delete anything and these are not truth.
45:35
These are Food For Thought, plus perspectives and stories from
45:37
one indictments will a jury person to those who either want
45:41
to, you know, tap into your higher human consciousness,
45:43
experience potential or not, you know, you guys get to choose
45:46
that. But in the meantime, food for
45:47
thought and saying, okay, move beyond the belief system.
45:52
And so here's the deal. Nobody actually blocks
45:55
themselves people. If they run away, if they go
45:58
away, it's because they don't want to do whatever.
46:01
Ever it is. They chose not to want to do and
46:03
sometimes they think they're doing a good thing and we will
46:07
know that they think that and it's bullshit.
46:09
So we won't ever give up on our loved ones on.
46:11
Peep on Humanity, we meeting the conscious people, we don't back
46:16
off because there's no reason for us to and which is why this
46:19
person when they did, what they did.
46:21
I was like man, I swear that I knew I knew they will.
46:24
They had imparted on me a very important lesson because of the
46:29
love, they hold held. And because of the level of
46:34
mind. So the words they use when they
46:38
were presented with the opportunity to rekindle were
46:43
words that they spoke to me, I got to talk sense into them and
46:48
said, don't be a stupid moron. We love you and there's nothing
46:51
for you to be ashamed about and that's that's that's that.
46:55
So stop being an idiot. You know again I didn't know
46:57
about the whole house. Shame deflects itself.
47:01
But even with knowing it, I wouldn't have changed a thing of
47:04
how I dressed it, anyways, because this is the part where
47:08
their little game was not something they were fond of and,
47:15
and here's where again, when you love people, you try to protect
47:19
them. And in this case, they would
47:22
talk to me because they knew I didn't suffer from this whole
47:26
thing because again, we don't suffer immature, feminine with
47:30
their own masculine because we are Connected to Consciousness
47:33
which means we know we're not here to tell people what to do
47:35
with their life. This is why even my friends, one
47:38
of my friends, particularly She shares with me her sufferings
47:43
because she knows that my nervous system doesn't enter
47:46
suffering. This is the thing.
47:47
We all communicate with our nervous system and so people
47:51
when they realize intuitively speaking only because some
47:55
people they think they know you again there will do preconceived
47:59
notions so they think automatically that you must feel
48:02
the world the way they feel it. If they suffer, they think you
48:05
suffer and here's where anyone who is again, not Were acting
48:11
with people by thinking, they know everyone, they will listen,
48:16
they will pick up on the fact that a person doesn't suffer and
48:18
they will know therefore that it's a safe space that they can
48:21
unload. They can let those burdens
48:25
because they are getting to unload with the person who's in
48:27
the 5, DC, light worker. And like mental age.
48:31
That's what we get to do. We are lightworkers all but the
48:34
ones were in the indictments will age group.
48:36
We are actually safe spaces for those who want the corrective.
48:40
Variances, so they want to unload the understand
48:44
intuitively speaking. This is not conscious, this is
48:47
unconscious and so I have people they know this and they will
48:52
unburden and I'm happy when they unburden because it doesn't
48:55
cause me suffering. I'm happy to be a sounding board
49:00
when they don't grow. Well, that becomes different
49:04
because then they just get into this pattern and it's more about
49:09
you're using your time. And effectively, and really all
49:12
I am to you is something that you can offload, but you're not
49:17
changing anything about your circumstances, you're just
49:19
staying, shut down in your, you know, your stuff and it's not
49:25
about the energy, it's more about the way they want to talk
49:28
about the world or the way they keep, you know.
49:30
It's at a certain point, there's a disconnect with that's like,
49:33
okay, no, we we don't have the same ideas here and now I'm just
49:37
being, you know, used if you will, which is fine it.
49:40
And but it's a waste of your time.
49:44
And usually, this is why distance happens by the way.
49:47
In those cases, it's natural because people will feel they
49:53
want to unload in a way that creates the energy that they're
49:57
looking for, which they won't get.
50:01
So because they don't want to grow up their harsh unforgiving.
50:04
They want to stay in chaos and not willingly.
50:07
This is where they're disembodied and moderated and
50:10
body. Itself, there just regulated,
50:12
excuse me and moderated. Embodied self is in a pattern,
50:16
there, recurring pattern, so they live their nervous.
50:20
System is used to something too. So it seeks the same.
50:23
Remember that as a vendor coax quote.
50:26
Trauma people have trauma. They have heartbreak and
50:29
gutwrench. The reason why people will go
50:32
and try to numb, and they will try to avoid is because it's
50:37
hard to feel the trauma memory because it's spiky.
50:40
It's not pleasant. And so there's again, these are
50:45
all Catch-22 is, I think is the expression, which only if they
50:50
want to expand, will they keep the connection with you?
50:54
Because this is in time, I see this, the ones who don't expand.
51:00
There's a recalibration of the relationship because there's a
51:02
disconnect of interests, intellectually, emotionally and
51:05
physically period, and it doesn't, we don't do anything.
51:08
I have never had to do anything. People will not be satisfied
51:12
with the exchange because they're looking to have a match
51:15
with their vibration, which I'm not.
51:17
I'm not a match. I don't have anything to say
51:21
that is negative about life, and I don't feel negative about life
51:25
at all. It's a gift, so there's that.
51:29
And again, the only time transference happens, Is very
51:36
few and really it's again and necessary to spell out.
51:42
But I will always try and have tried to share something to
51:47
bring people to a place that supports them.
51:51
Which is why, as I was closing out with the one story that last
51:56
conversation where this person before, they did eventually die
52:02
alone. They were, they were very, they
52:05
were very humorous to me. In fact, so humorous, though,
52:08
and disconnected, because they talked about how you should do
52:11
this as a job and I'm thinking, you know, what I do as a job,
52:14
what are you talking about? So, this is what happens when
52:17
people start to basically enter and solidify their recurring
52:22
pattern, they just stay that version of themselves.
52:27
It's not good or bad because again, every one of us does the
52:29
best when you can understand attachment wounds trauma.
52:33
History and the body. Here's where people who know
52:36
this stuff you're not going to leave a human being ever.
52:41
That is open to wanting to spend.
52:43
This is why we don't enable, we will wait and patiently support
52:48
people because the wiring isn't one day and that's done, it
52:52
requires years, it requires a person's willingness to work
52:56
with, they're very charge C and here's why we just, we don't, we
53:02
don't You pointing fingers, we do, let's learn how to be loving
53:10
because love is what is needed. And love means you and your
53:13
ventral vagal system when people are in their biological
53:16
rudeness, which is where the 5 DC again light worker in the
53:19
enlightenment silly true comes about.
53:21
So long story short, as we wrap up, the people who I used a
53:26
stories, neither of them have moved beyond their attachment
53:29
wounds or their trauma history. The One who passed away, never
53:34
got over there. Shame cycle, they definitely
53:36
thought they did the best they could to keep people safe.
53:40
Bullshit story. But hey, you know, it is what it
53:42
is. At the end of the day, everyone
53:44
chooses, if they're going to hide away in their cave and just
53:46
sit there and I have compassion, I do.
53:49
But see here is where the compassion is wear year after
53:53
year, after year, after year, you get choices.
53:55
Knowledge is gained that people. Want their stories stay with
53:58
your stories. The psycho Educators in the
54:00
meantime have moved into very great Terror.
54:03
So, any human being who actually wants to talk about their own
54:06
life and suffering? I don't understand why, they're
54:09
still not very clear on specifics.
54:12
So, when I see the mental health, Advocates, that are
54:14
yelling at the narcissist and sociopaths the ones who go on
54:17
those pages and say you should die.
54:19
Well, they obviously don't know what mental health is.
54:22
They obviously don't know what it means for person who is in a
54:25
diagnosed, those who are diagnosed because, you know,
54:28
they use those words by the way, like everyone ho-hum this.
54:31
I'm not, yeah, you're nothing. If you were one of these words,
54:35
you'd be diagnosed because you would have had to go to get some
54:39
support, you would have, you would have brought yourself to
54:41
learn something because if you're low functioning as the
54:44
lovely sociopath lady loves to point out, whether it's
54:48
sociopath or narcissism or psychopathy, a low functioning
54:51
one will not do. Well, in society, they will get
54:54
in trouble. Low functioning is for a reason.
54:58
They're not smart in the head. They don't actually know how to
55:02
handle their emotions. Since the high-functioning learn
55:04
how to handle themselves, which is why they're high functioning
55:07
and usually, they're members of society and nobody knows any
55:10
better because they actually do have the brain to know how to
55:15
coexist and usually it's because they found it to their
55:17
advantage, to be a part of society and, or they got taught
55:21
and or a lot of different probably equations here.
55:24
So what they again, do, if they're high functioning is be
55:28
members of society, they have emotions, they have
55:31
personalities. They're not evil this, Is where
55:33
we're looking to destigmatize every single group.
55:36
Nobody's evil, they have situations of the, as I learned
55:42
in mindsight unhealthy. So if it's structural and
55:46
functional, there's medicine to help people with that, when it's
55:51
not because of the environment and even if it's because of the
55:55
environments, there are still certain number of years for
55:58
person to rewire their own brain.
56:00
And that would require them to have the willingness Enos to
56:03
work with their charge states to work with their own mindfulness.
56:08
Okay. And here's where somatic sensory
56:11
motor therapy or mentorship coaching.
56:14
This is the depends on the degree, but if I use like my one
56:18
friend, the actions they took following our interaction is
56:25
what leads me to know and say and that's why I said to them.
56:28
I think you should look into this.
56:32
The person who I also shared that with or who just knows I'm
56:36
in the field is another individual and they have stuff
56:39
going on and they are able to unload with me and know that I
56:43
am okay with that and I can handle because I don't suffer.
56:45
So again, they will easily tell me things while in the past they
56:49
did not. And this is one of my closest
56:52
friends who for like a year or something.
56:55
I had to accept that they distance me and they told me
56:59
they told me why and This is the part where when people tell us
57:05
go away, I don't want you. We will be sad but we will
57:08
listen because we don't want to impose anything.
57:11
We will be sad because we will have wanted to support.
57:14
It's like my one friend who didn't reach out and he killed
57:18
himself. That makes me sad when I think
57:21
about it but the psycho Educators make me know.
57:25
That I couldn't have done anything.
57:28
Even if he had reached out and he didn't And so it doesn't even
57:32
matter. And the way he went out, they'll
57:34
remember I celebrated him, I still to this day.
57:37
I think of the way that I got informed of him leaving and I'm
57:41
like, that's so like him. Like I smile even though I'm not
57:45
in a good way, not in a good way, but I smile because his
57:47
personality and I wish he would have reached out.
57:51
This is what makes me sad. When people say they want to
57:54
help each other and then they actually don't nobody chooses to
57:59
be in trauma, and Ali people will distance themselves either
58:03
because they feel ashamed, and they feel bad or because they
58:06
think they're protecting their loved ones.
58:08
And in both cases, they're wrong for those of us who can handle
58:12
them. Obviously, there are those who
58:14
will distance themselves because they can't handle it because
58:17
they need their own therapist and or their own finding out
58:20
about themselves. This is the part people don't
58:22
actually relate to their life as a human being too.
58:24
Busy trying to think about being an enlightened one or a special
58:27
one, you know. So I do use the terms because as
58:31
a person Who looks to support people who want to achieve.
58:33
Enlightenment is a really cool. So, a true, and it's way better
58:37
than being lost in some belief system of all of these things,
58:40
they're, they're way better when put all together and we'll talk
58:45
more about that. But in the meantime, for people
58:49
that are going through whatever recurring patterns, then right
58:54
now they can thinking of that one friend that I want to have a
58:58
conversation with when I get home.
59:00
Because there's stuff going on with them, I just hope that
59:04
they're willing to do to work because if they're not well I'll
59:09
have to be straight with them about that.
59:13
So we Unconditionally Love people for who they are, but we
59:16
also like to sit down certain types of.
59:21
And in this case, it's only because the person specifically
59:23
asked me to help them that I need to make things straight
59:26
because if they're not really interested in becoming a version
59:29
of themselves, That can have well-being then it's okay.
59:32
I don't have to share with them any of the information and or
59:35
try to get them to do certain exercises.
59:38
But if they're serious, then they need to do more than just
59:41
cognitive therapy because they're rewiring is not going to
59:44
take place and here's where the body's intelligence always leads
59:47
us to our next step. And so this is why they are open
59:51
and receptive to the energy. This is what leads us to know
59:55
the people in our over Soul, who is wanting to expand?
1:00:00
And it's about being straight and usually, since we're
1:00:04
authentic, we don't lie. There's no reason for us to
1:00:06
survive because that's not what a relationship is.
1:00:09
If you can't tell me, fuck you, fuck you.
1:00:12
And this is where this person actually can.
1:00:14
So, this is a nice thing. So they can be spiteful and a
1:00:17
bit of an asshole but they'll be aware of it.
1:00:22
And that's the difference when you can be aware of it and admit
1:00:24
it, you know, the story, remember, the one with the, the
1:00:28
coin that we found. Well, I found this coin or he
1:00:32
found it and I said, oh, I can use it because this one cent
1:00:36
saved me in this other occasion, but they were in a bad mood.
1:00:40
And so they teased me about it. They said, oh yeah, I forget the
1:00:43
comment, but I said, well, you know what?
1:00:45
Guess if I play the lottery and win, I'll give you some money.
1:00:49
I'll give you because you found it.
1:00:50
And they said, no, you shouldn't give me an actually don't give
1:00:54
me anything. Not even you shouldn't, because
1:00:56
I'm being mean to you right now. This is again, the difference
1:01:00
when a person is aware, they will take ownership of it.
1:01:04
This doesn't mean they're crapping on themselves or not.
1:01:07
The first step is taking ownership of your recurring
1:01:09
patterns and that's where it begins, then finding people who
1:01:12
can support you is next. And that's why whenever
1:01:15
somebody's talking about mental health, but they're yelling at
1:01:18
each other and then they're talking about trauma, dumping,
1:01:21
blocking people, canceling, their not into mental health.
1:01:24
If they were, they'd have more compassion because they would
1:01:27
have had information. At this point.
1:01:29
So learn to be compassionate. Obviously, like I said not,
1:01:32
everybody is a restored, embodied self.
1:01:34
So get it. Not everybody's connected to
1:01:37
Akash and Consciousness so there's not the ability to
1:01:40
sustain it because your own body needs you first.
1:01:43
But for those of us who are in the enlightenment that age group
1:01:47
were, definitely a okay with supporting people.
1:01:50
And when they think they're doing us favors, we will let
1:01:52
them know you're not doing us a favor by being isolated.
1:01:56
That makes us suffer but In a way of being sad, not suffering,
1:02:00
sad, because we will pick up and know that you are sad as our
1:02:04
Claire's grow. Before Claire's groan.
1:02:06
Oh, so, like, with way back when I didn't have the same level of
1:02:11
in Global Network that now I do now is, you know, my oversold a
1:02:16
collective, all of this beautiful.
1:02:18
And luckily, with the trauma experts, they know, we're moving
1:02:21
in a good direction to help people resolve those who are
1:02:25
ready to be in that next space for themselves.
1:02:28
Yes, but be loving be supportive.