Latest / NFL Game Previews / Manti Te'o on Jay-Z Experience, Surviving Training Camp, and Polynesian Football HOF (ENCORE)
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- 0:04Speaker 1: What's up people, it's your boy, Cam Jay back with
- 0:07Speaker 1: another episode of Off the Edge with Cam Jordan. Now,
- 0:10Speaker 1: as we gear it for another exciting season, I wanted
- 0:13Speaker 1: to reflect on some of the incredible guests I had
- 0:15Speaker 1: the pleasure of sitting down with last season. But hey,
- 0:17Speaker 1: don't worry, though, I got you new episodes coming your
- 0:20Speaker 1: way real soon. Relax, I got you. But in the meantime,
- 0:24Speaker 1: in between time, let's rewind and play back some of
- 0:28Speaker 1: my favorite interviews from season one. This week, I'm bringing
- 0:32Speaker 1: you a heart to heart interview I had with the
- 0:34Speaker 1: Notre Dame legend man Tito, the Saints' former player, as
- 0:39Speaker 1: he shares with me his journey of overcoming adversity and
- 0:42Speaker 1: ultimately inspiring millions. So sit back and take a listen.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Super excited bro that you're even tapping in. It's my dog,
- 0:59Speaker 1: you know, my but up, my oos my man didn't
- 1:01Speaker 1: walked over to the house and left some food on
- 1:03Speaker 1: while we was playing, you know, back in the gap.
- 1:06Speaker 1: But when I tell you, I'm excited to have you
- 1:08Speaker 1: on the podcast, Bro, like strictly because you know, one
- 1:11Speaker 1: we were teammates, but two because you're you're an honest,
- 1:14Speaker 1: positive force to be reckoned with, Bro, and like you,
- 1:17Speaker 1: I feel like you don't get enough flowers as it is,
- 1:19Speaker 1: and you probably do, like I'm not sure. You know
- 1:21Speaker 1: you out Utah. You rolled down your window and it's
- 1:24Speaker 1: probably snowing outside. You know, I'm not meant for the snow.
- 1:26Speaker 1: But ooh, I say, uh manti tal. You know, Bro,
- 1:30Speaker 1: everything that you did in college over at Notre Dame
- 1:32Speaker 1: was spectaclar. You know you played there. You were should
- 1:36Speaker 1: have been in my mind, a Heisman Trophy winner. You
- 1:38Speaker 1: had a Heisman push. You know, I'm saying a runner
- 1:40Speaker 1: up if you will. But the the things that you
- 1:43Speaker 1: did in college were absolutely special.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Bro.
- 1:45Speaker 1: You know you look down and you were gonna have
- 1:47Speaker 1: accolades for days. You talk about the Maxwell Award, you know,
- 1:50Speaker 1: the Walter Camp Award, you talk about the Lot Award,
- 1:53Speaker 1: the Chuck I can never get the that Linebacker Award,
- 1:58Speaker 1: Merik Award. Bro. Like what in college there was no
- 2:01Speaker 1: no reward untouched that you didn't have. Bro, You're a
- 2:04Speaker 1: unanimous All American. Like I say, you you should in
- 2:06Speaker 1: my mind, you should have been a Heisman Trophy winner.
- 2:09Speaker 1: But you know, it just is what it is.
- 2:10Speaker 2: Bro.
- 2:10Speaker 1: You get drafted in the second round to the San
- 2:13Speaker 1: Diego Chargers. Does that feel weird that you know it's
- 2:16Speaker 1: not San Diego no more? Are you ready? Ye, La Chargers?
- 2:20Speaker 2: I know I always rep San Diego's you know, you know,
- 2:22Speaker 2: you know how it is. You know, even even when
- 2:25Speaker 2: I was playing, you know, with New Orleans, I was
- 2:27Speaker 2: still living in San Diego. I would send you the
- 2:29Speaker 2: pictures of my tacos at oscars, you know. And so you,
- 2:32Speaker 2: you and the family are supposed to come out many
- 2:34Speaker 2: at times. And then we moved and you refuse to
- 2:37Speaker 2: come out here in the cold snow, So we're gonna
- 2:40Speaker 2: have to link up in San Diego.
- 2:43Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna get out there.
- 2:44Speaker 2: Bro.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Are you out outside of City Park where you at somewhere?
- 2:48Speaker 2: We're in Lehigh right between Propo and South Lake, And yeah,
- 2:53Speaker 2: we gotta take you on the slopes. I know, you know,
- 2:54Speaker 2: you know, you got the elite level of athleticism. The
- 2:59Speaker 2: only lineman, know, the only d lineman that I know,
- 3:02Speaker 2: leads the conditioning and the half gasser, so you definitely
- 3:05Speaker 2: could make it down the hills.
- 3:08Speaker 1: I look see that, but I'm not I'm not conditioned
- 3:10Speaker 1: for snow film.
- 3:11Speaker 2: Bro.
- 3:11Speaker 1: We played that one game in Cleveland, and it changed
- 3:14Speaker 1: my like it solidified my perspective on nobody should play
- 3:18Speaker 1: in colde games. But it also changed my life in
- 3:20Speaker 1: terms of I was like, I can't be in America anymore.
- 3:22Speaker 1: I left it and we lived in Spain this off season.
- 3:25Speaker 1: Because of that Cleveland game. I said, I was like, Babe,
- 3:27Speaker 1: pack it up, take off, We're taking all four kids,
- 3:29Speaker 1: are your homeschooling, and we're leaving.
- 3:31Speaker 2: See just a little a little cam slight flex right there.
- 3:35Speaker 2: I decided I'm going to go to Spain. Pack your
- 3:37Speaker 2: stuff up. See a lot of us can't make those
- 3:40Speaker 2: type of decisions, bro, you know, so.
- 3:41Speaker 1: You packed up a mood of utah. You were like
- 3:43Speaker 1: this breeze feels too good.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Yo, okay, okay. But my decision was it was because
- 3:50Speaker 2: of living purposes. It was like, I don't have the
- 3:52Speaker 2: cam type of tax brackets, so we got to get
- 3:55Speaker 2: out of these high taxes and go to a lower
- 4:00Speaker 2: I did. I didn't just say let's go to Spain.
- 4:03Speaker 2: You know, yeah, we're not there yet.
- 4:07Speaker 1: Freeze like I frolt.
- 4:08Speaker 2: It was.
- 4:08Speaker 1: It was negative twenty eight. It was the coldest game
- 4:11Speaker 1: in Saint's history. The second coadest game for Cleveland, and
- 4:14Speaker 1: I said, wait, the fact that it was the second
- 4:16Speaker 1: coadest game for Cleveland, I should not be here.
- 4:18Speaker 2: Well, you remember I went to college. Oops. You know. Yeah,
- 4:22Speaker 2: the negative temperatures, you know, it's ridiculous. Yeah, yeah, I.
- 4:27Speaker 1: Learned close that you chose. You're like, ooh yeah, no, no, no, anyway, bro,
- 4:32Speaker 1: So let's let's just say. You know, you got drafted
- 4:36Speaker 1: to the San Diego Chargers. We just moved past that,
- 4:38Speaker 1: you know, get us to the Saints.
- 4:39Speaker 2: You know.
- 4:39Speaker 1: You you come on to the team. What year was it,
- 4:42Speaker 1: twenty seventeen.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty seventeen, Yeah, there was seventeen.
- 4:46Speaker 1: To twenty nineteen. Bro, you're on the Saints for a
- 4:48Speaker 1: few years. Bro, you come in and you bring automatic
- 4:51Speaker 1: juice like I've never seen. I've never seen somebody come
- 4:54Speaker 1: in and mold so well with the team. You know,
- 4:57Speaker 1: like it was like you just like coming off of
- 5:01Speaker 1: a fresh team whatever that was. You came on to
- 5:03Speaker 1: the team and everybody just fully embraced you, and or
- 5:06Speaker 1: you embraced us. Yeah, and bro, what was that like
- 5:10Speaker 1: the first day, the first day that you came in there,
- 5:12Speaker 1: I said, right next to you, I was like, all right, bro,
- 5:13Speaker 1: me give me the real story.
- 5:14Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And you know, honestly, like
- 5:17Speaker 2: you said, I brought the juice, but honestly, the team
- 5:19Speaker 2: brought the juice back to me, you know what I mean.
- 5:21Speaker 2: So that was what was so beautiful about being in
- 5:24Speaker 2: New Orleans. It was it was the locker room. It
- 5:27Speaker 2: was the personal relationships that I had with you, with Craig,
- 5:30Speaker 2: with Alex you know. And then came in the next year.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Detroit right now, Davis is that guy you know, Craig
- 5:41Speaker 1: Robinson used to bring that juice bro, You and him.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Yah, yeah, you know, And so it was, it went,
- 5:49Speaker 2: It went both ways. You know. I'm forever grateful to
- 5:52Speaker 2: all my brothers over there at New Orleans for kind
- 5:56Speaker 2: of helping me to resurrect my career because I played
- 5:59Speaker 2: some I played the best spall that I played in
- 6:01Speaker 2: New Orleans. And I had everything to do with, you know,
- 6:05Speaker 2: the the pat that I took personally to get back
- 6:09Speaker 2: to where I needed to get to, but the people
- 6:11Speaker 2: that I surrounded myself with the people in that locker
- 6:13Speaker 2: room that helped me to you know, once once you
- 6:16Speaker 2: sat next to me, we had that conversation I remember
- 6:18Speaker 2: I was sitting in my locker. We had that conversation.
- 6:20Speaker 2: It was like all right, it was like, oh, let's
- 6:22Speaker 2: go play ball, you know what I mean. And that's
- 6:24Speaker 2: that's where the first time that I felt that people
- 6:28Speaker 2: saw me as a teammate, you know, and not just
- 6:31Speaker 2: a news clipping, you know what I mean. And my
- 6:33Speaker 2: play was able to raise from there, and man, I
- 6:36Speaker 2: had I had the most fun playing over there in
- 6:39Speaker 2: New Orleans, and especially that we got we got to
- 6:42Speaker 2: go back to California during the preseason and we played
- 6:45Speaker 2: you know, we had a joint practice against the Chargers and.
- 6:51Speaker 1: You might as well like hit your hit your Hoker film,
- 6:54Speaker 1: and like I was like, all right, this clearly meant
- 6:56Speaker 1: something to him.
- 6:57Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think it was a It was a
- 7:00Speaker 2: benefit because then we got out of that humidity, you know.
- 7:02Speaker 2: And I remember man Sean was trying to make he
- 7:06Speaker 2: was trying to make a point, you know, that that year,
- 7:09Speaker 2: and I was just like, I remember thinking to myself,
- 7:11Speaker 2: I was like, so the year that I signed here,
- 7:13Speaker 2: you decided to bring the team back to New Orleans.
- 7:16Speaker 1: We had just done like three off seasons in Northern
- 7:19Speaker 1: Virginia with all those training camps with Northern Vidia where
- 7:22Speaker 1: it was like sixty five and Sonny seventy sunny, and
- 7:24Speaker 1: we had like three years of back to back, back
- 7:27Speaker 1: to back to back losing seasons of seven to nine,
- 7:29Speaker 1: seven and nine, seven and nine, and he was like,
- 7:32Speaker 1: you know, the older kid down was like, this is
- 7:33Speaker 1: the way you guys want to play. Tom Benson came down,
- 7:36Speaker 1: was like this is the way you got. You'll never
- 7:37Speaker 1: go back to Virginia again. And Sean Payton was like,
- 7:40Speaker 1: you heard what he said, Now let's double down.
- 7:42Speaker 2: And I was like Jesus that you came in. Bro.
- 7:46Speaker 1: He came in and like we went days of straight hitting.
- 7:51Speaker 1: You know, we had to run off the practice field
- 7:53Speaker 1: because were running out of time at practice in that
- 7:55Speaker 1: training camp. So by the time we hit Cali Bro
- 7:58Speaker 1: for that joint practice, everybody was like, how this it?
- 8:01Speaker 1: This all you guys? Do you only have thirty plays?
- 8:05Speaker 2: Come on? No? I remember I remember who was it.
- 8:09Speaker 2: He came off the edge and just thumped the running
- 8:12Speaker 2: back and I remember thinking like Mark and I know
- 8:15Speaker 2: it was Marcus remember, and there was like a whole
- 8:17Speaker 2: little ruckus that broke out, but I don't know.
- 8:19Speaker 1: They were upset, like Marcus that comes off hills this
- 8:23Speaker 1: running back and George's are like, this is not how we.
- 8:25Speaker 2: Practice like this how we practiced. So no idea, but
- 8:31Speaker 2: it was that I have that level of confidence that
- 8:35Speaker 2: because of what we went through, like you stand no chance,
- 8:38Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And that's what I felt like.
- 8:42Speaker 2: It helped us to get into that mentality of man, like,
- 8:45Speaker 2: there's no way that you guys went through what we
- 8:48Speaker 2: went through, Like having thirty forty plus people. I remember
- 8:51Speaker 2: after practice, like forty of us in there with Ivy's
- 8:53Speaker 2: just it looked like a scene from a movie.
- 8:56Speaker 1: And I walked by everybody like I'm you know, I
- 8:58Speaker 1: don't cramp up, bro, So I just walked everybody. I'm like, weakness, yeah,
- 9:02Speaker 1: you know. I was like, look at you, you and
- 9:04Speaker 1: your ivs.
- 9:04Speaker 2: Bro.
- 9:05Speaker 1: You're like you're you're taking two bags? My guy? What
- 9:07Speaker 1: was that was the name? Devaux whatever? Devro's got like
- 9:11Speaker 1: three bags in bro. There's there's guys hurting everywhere. I'm
- 9:14Speaker 1: just like, weakness, can't do it.
- 9:17Speaker 2: It went from it went from a fashion statement, you know,
- 9:20Speaker 2: like everybody coming in with advisors on. By day two,
- 9:24Speaker 2: the advisors are.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Off sleeves everywhere.
- 9:27Speaker 2: It's just trying to survive. You know, you took out
- 9:29Speaker 2: two pairs of cleats, three pairs of socks, like at
- 9:32Speaker 2: the at the second like special teams period, everybody was
- 9:35Speaker 2: switching out their socks, switching out their cleats, like switching
- 9:38Speaker 2: out gloves. You know, it was to switch out those fleets. Bro.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Like a training a training camp in New Orleans when
- 9:44Speaker 1: it's it's like ninety eight degrees one hundred percent humidity,
- 9:48Speaker 1: You're you're practicing for two and a half hours, Bro,
- 9:50Speaker 1: an hour in your shoes like you're stepping in it
- 9:52Speaker 1: feels like you gotta puddle your shoes. You bring two
- 9:55Speaker 1: or three pairs of codes to practice, just so like conditioningwise,
- 9:59Speaker 1: you're not moving under water. But Bro, that's crazy. But
- 10:02Speaker 1: I really want to start off with, first of all,
- 10:04Speaker 1: congratulations on you know, all your success, bro, starting with
- 10:07Speaker 1: Notre Dame of course, Polynesian Hall of Fame. You know,
- 10:11Speaker 1: it's like even even your high school, isn't the force
- 10:14Speaker 1: Buckner from your high school too out in Hawaii? Like
- 10:17Speaker 1: you know, I can't. I'm not even going to attempt
- 10:19Speaker 1: to say your high school prep school. There you go,
- 10:24Speaker 1: you got it in there in there, Bro, But like,
- 10:28Speaker 1: I just want to how does it feel, Bro, to
- 10:30Speaker 1: to know that you become an all time great at
- 10:33Speaker 1: Notre Dame?
- 10:33Speaker 2: Bro?
- 10:34Speaker 1: Like everything that you did, Bro. You know, you throw
- 10:37Speaker 1: the stats out there and there's a reason why, you know,
- 10:39Speaker 1: four years, four hundred and thirty seven tackles, you know,
- 10:42Speaker 1: ranked third all time and in the in history there, Like,
- 10:46Speaker 1: how does it feel to know you put such a
- 10:47Speaker 1: phenomenal college crew together to even have a chance to
- 10:50Speaker 1: go to the league, Like that's always been a dream
- 10:52Speaker 1: of mine.
- 10:52Speaker 2: So for you, well, I think it goes back to
- 10:55Speaker 2: the saying, like you always want to leave the place
- 10:58Speaker 2: better than when you found it, you know, And for
- 11:00Speaker 2: me to be able to do that in my way
- 11:02Speaker 2: and the fashion that I did it. Obviously, Notre Dame
- 11:04Speaker 2: is one of the most stored football programs in the country,
- 11:07Speaker 2: and I just literally went in there to you know,
- 11:11Speaker 2: continue the dominance that my father Thomas, since I was little,
- 11:15Speaker 2: to you know, really stick to my routines and you know,
- 11:19Speaker 2: hopefully the result would be what I wanted it to be.
- 11:22Speaker 2: I mean, the result was always success just based off
- 11:26Speaker 2: of the work ethic. And so for me to do
- 11:29Speaker 2: that and to have an impact on people off of
- 11:31Speaker 2: the field was exactly what I would want my career
- 11:36Speaker 2: to be like while I was at Notre Dame, and
- 11:39Speaker 2: it's a special place. And it's nice now because we
- 11:41Speaker 2: literally just got back from South Bend this past weekend.
- 11:44Speaker 2: I took my wife and my babies out there. And
- 11:47Speaker 2: you know what's nice is my wife didn't know the
- 11:49Speaker 2: Notre Dame me. You know, she knew the NFL ME
- 11:52Speaker 2: and you know, unfortunately the NFL ME didn't it didn't
- 11:55Speaker 2: reach the heights of the Notre Dame ME. And so
- 11:58Speaker 2: when we go back to South Bend, she gets to
- 12:00Speaker 2: see like the plaques, the murals that all of the
- 12:03Speaker 2: trophies and.
- 12:04Speaker 1: College there's not many people reached that level of success,
- 12:07Speaker 1: not like there's there's only a few cats, you know,
- 12:14Speaker 1: like not too many of you. You heard what I said,
- 12:16Speaker 1: third and third in all times the tackles.
- 12:18Speaker 2: Now, like yeah, yeah, it was, it was it was
- 12:21Speaker 2: up there. It was like that that was what we
- 12:23Speaker 2: like to as a summit. You know what I mean
- 12:26Speaker 2: when people when people talk about reaching the summit, like
- 12:29Speaker 2: in my life for that time, like that was the
- 12:32Speaker 2: summit of college football. You know what I was able
- 12:35Speaker 2: to achieve and attain on a personal level and on
- 12:38Speaker 2: a team level, you know, to to make it to
- 12:40Speaker 2: the national championship. You know. Obviously we got whooped up
- 12:43Speaker 2: on by by Alabama, you know, and you know, I had,
- 12:46Speaker 2: I had, I had. I had a bad taste of
- 12:49Speaker 2: Alabama for a long time. And then I met Duce
- 12:51Speaker 2: Stews and and you know, just to know Mark and
- 12:54Speaker 2: I'm like jeez, and then you know, too went there
- 12:57Speaker 2: and so it was one of those things, honestly to
- 13:00Speaker 2: have my family experience it with me, to people to
- 13:05Speaker 2: know my name, my last name, and to recognize my
- 13:07Speaker 2: family in public, Like that's for a kid growing up
- 13:10Speaker 2: in a small town in Hawi. That was everything that
- 13:13Speaker 2: I wanted it to be, to have that type of impact.
- 13:15Speaker 1: Yeah, I still don't understand this whole. Like I was,
- 13:17Speaker 1: I'm from Hawaii, and then I lived in San Diego
- 13:20Speaker 1: and then I moved to Utah. I'm like, I'm gonna
- 13:22Speaker 1: talk about this forever, like nothing but nothing but breeze
- 13:26Speaker 1: and views of ocean, and like now you're.
- 13:28Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, Well, when the milk goes from
- 13:32Speaker 2: twenty dollars a gallon in hoy and you come over there,
- 13:35Speaker 2: and as five dollars, You're like, yeah, you know, the
- 13:38Speaker 2: the temperature I could deal with, you know what I mean.
- 13:42Speaker 1: My duck is a stretch. It a lot farther.
- 13:43Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, bro.
- 14:02Speaker 1: So let's talk about the Polynesian Hall of Fame, bro,
- 14:04Speaker 1: because like now there's there's you're part of the living legends.
- 14:08Speaker 1: That's that's in there now. Palmalu would probably be the
- 14:11Speaker 1: first name to come to my mind, and now.
- 14:13Speaker 2: The second name is gonna be Man Thanks.
- 14:16Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm just saying, like when you're when
- 14:18Speaker 1: you're when you're in that same breath Polynesia Hall of Fame,
- 14:22Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm a joke, but like, well the
- 14:24Speaker 1: Rocks in there too. But but in terms of football,
- 14:29Speaker 1: Troy Palus, you him, you know you're probably up next
- 14:33Speaker 1: is probably Marcus Mariota, like you know, the four probably
- 14:37Speaker 1: you know, it's gonna be Eavy Company.
- 14:39Speaker 2: Yeah, DFO is definitely going to be in there, Tour
- 14:41Speaker 2: is definitely gonna be in there. Tlana is definitely gonna
- 14:44Speaker 2: be in there. You know, obviously there's still careers are
- 14:46Speaker 2: still going but to be in the Polynesian Hall of Fame,
- 14:51Speaker 2: it's a big deal because now life comes full circle.
- 14:55Speaker 2: You know, Like when I was a little kid, Troy
- 14:58Speaker 2: was my example of oh, I could do it, you
- 15:00Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like to see Troy play at
- 15:02Speaker 2: play at USC and for him to be drafted to
- 15:05Speaker 2: the Stealers and watch his career you know, go as
- 15:07Speaker 2: it went and you know, hall of Famer, you know,
- 15:10Speaker 2: Pro Football Hall of Fame. For me growing up as
- 15:13Speaker 2: a little kid, and I look up to those type
- 15:16Speaker 2: of individuals, you know what I mean, like, man, if
- 15:18Speaker 2: Troy can do it, I can do it. You know,
- 15:20Speaker 2: there's a way to do it because he's he's kind
- 15:21Speaker 2: of blazed that path. For me now to be in
- 15:23Speaker 2: that position and understanding that, you know, there's there's kids
- 15:27Speaker 2: back at home, there's kids around the world that's looking
- 15:30Speaker 2: up to me and say, hey, man, Ti, I did it.
- 15:32Speaker 2: I could do it. And I think, you know, for
- 15:34Speaker 2: for like to come full circle that way just goes
- 15:38Speaker 2: to show that all the hard work and the sacrifices
- 15:40Speaker 2: that myself and my family you know, put in, you know,
- 15:43Speaker 2: it all paid off. And hopefully, you know, we'll be
- 15:45Speaker 2: able to push the script with allowing younger the younger
- 15:49Speaker 2: generations to say, hey, we can do what he did
- 15:52Speaker 2: and more. You know what I mean, Let's let's take
- 15:53Speaker 2: it higher, let's take it further, and then hopefully the
- 15:57Speaker 2: next generation comes around and pushes that even further. And
- 16:00Speaker 2: that's kind of what that Polynesian Hall of Fame means
- 16:04Speaker 2: for me. It's it's it's a it's a celebration that
- 16:07Speaker 2: all the hard work was was was worth it. But
- 16:10Speaker 2: at the same time, it's just another flag up there
- 16:14Speaker 2: to tell those kids that's behind me, to say, hey, bro,
- 16:17Speaker 2: like you could do the same thing, they'll take it further,
- 16:19Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
- 16:19Speaker 1: Big legacy. Yeah, it's legacy.
- 16:26Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, And that's what it's all about,
- 16:28Speaker 2: you know. So you know we all can relate, you
- 16:30Speaker 2: know with that is like when we die, like obviously,
- 16:34Speaker 2: the only thing that stays here is our names and
- 16:36Speaker 2: the stories that people tell about us, and you know,
- 16:38Speaker 2: their interactions with us, you know what I mean. And
- 16:40Speaker 2: so I always wanted those interactions and those stories to
- 16:43Speaker 2: be positive, you know, to be like, man, my life's
- 16:46Speaker 2: better because I met mantime, my life's better because I
- 16:48Speaker 2: met Camp and I and you know, you know how
- 16:51Speaker 2: I feel about you. You know, you know that the
- 16:53Speaker 2: impact that you've had on me and my family, and
- 16:56Speaker 2: you know, when a document documentary came out, like it
- 16:59Speaker 2: was one of the first that I text, you know,
- 17:01Speaker 2: just say hey, it's like I wouldn't be where I'm
- 17:03Speaker 2: at if it wasn't for you personally, you know, like
- 17:06Speaker 2: taking all of us to the jay Z concert, Like
- 17:08Speaker 2: you have no idea. So I like, how much that
- 17:12Speaker 2: concert changed my life, Like where I was at that time,
- 17:15Speaker 2: and you invited me just being around the fellas, I
- 17:18Speaker 2: was like, okay, cool, like getting to know my teammates.
- 17:20Speaker 2: But then the spiritual journey that that concert had on
- 17:25Speaker 2: me because obviously jay Z was going through his stuff
- 17:26Speaker 2: with Beyonce, and you know, he had a lot of
- 17:29Speaker 2: people like saying this about him. And I remember he
- 17:31Speaker 2: started off the whole thing with his dialogue and the
- 17:33Speaker 2: narrative and he went through to kill jay Z stuff
- 17:36Speaker 2: and I remember like just thinking about it and listening
- 17:38Speaker 2: to him, and I'm like, man, those are some of
- 17:40Speaker 2: the things that go on in my head, you know
- 17:41Speaker 2: what I mean. And then when he ended it with saying,
- 17:44Speaker 2: you can't heal what you don't reveal, like bro, that
- 17:46Speaker 2: was just it was mind blowing to me. And I'm
- 17:49Speaker 2: like bro, Like, that's what I got to do. And
- 17:51Speaker 2: so from that moment on, it was like my whole
- 17:54Speaker 2: life kind of took a one eighty of Man, I'm
- 17:58Speaker 2: looking about I'm looking at this the whole the wrong way,
- 18:01Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And it had everything to
- 18:03Speaker 2: do with that concert. And then you look at how
- 18:05Speaker 2: I played ball that year and look at you know,
- 18:07Speaker 2: and everybody would come to me, it's like, man, that's
- 18:09Speaker 2: a Notre dame man titness playing. I was like, well,
- 18:11Speaker 2: in order for me to get here there there are
- 18:13Speaker 2: events that needed to take place, you know what I mean,
- 18:15Speaker 2: in order for me to get to display this this
- 18:17Speaker 2: the space mentally and emotionally, and that concert that you
- 18:21Speaker 2: took me to had it was a big, big part
- 18:24Speaker 2: of that healing. And so like again, it was like,
- 18:28Speaker 2: I never forget the people that was there for me,
- 18:30Speaker 2: and you was obviously one of those one of those people,
- 18:33Speaker 2: and that's why I had to I had to pay
- 18:35Speaker 2: my respects to you. And you was the you know, like,
- 18:37Speaker 2: like I said, one of the few people that I text.
- 18:39Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Bro. You you hit me and
- 18:41Speaker 1: I didn't even know the impact, you know, Like I'm like, yeah, bro, Like,
- 18:44Speaker 1: you know, like if I'm in if I'm in a
- 18:46Speaker 1: Switeen D line and the suite A, you know, the
- 18:48Speaker 1: defense is always welcome. We even open it to the
- 18:50Speaker 1: office sometimes, you know, Like I'm all about that defense
- 18:53Speaker 1: camaraderiecause I think that makes the team better when you
- 18:56Speaker 1: know what your brothers are going through, you know, like
- 18:59Speaker 1: we bleed together. Why would I not you know, why
- 19:01Speaker 1: would I want not want to know more about you
- 19:03Speaker 1: as a person. You know. So it's always it's always
- 19:06Speaker 1: that idea of building family, But just that how did
- 19:09Speaker 1: you even navigate? Like, bro, Like why do those words
- 19:12Speaker 1: hit you so hard that when you when you when
- 19:15Speaker 1: that documentary came out earlier this year, Like how did
- 19:17Speaker 1: you navigate that emotional aspect of sort of having to
- 19:19Speaker 1: relive through everything? Right?
- 19:21Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Well, you know it goes back to that
- 19:23Speaker 2: saying that jay Z said, you can't heal what you
- 19:25Speaker 2: don't reveal, you know, and there's a lot of healing
- 19:27Speaker 2: that occurs when you can verbalize things, you know what
- 19:30Speaker 2: I mean. I didn't realize how heavily I was I was.
- 19:34Speaker 2: I was holding everything in and you can't heal it
- 19:37Speaker 2: when the poison is inside of you. You know, you
- 19:39Speaker 2: have to bring that poison out. And the amount of
- 19:42Speaker 2: healing that I did all the way up to that
- 19:44Speaker 2: point was enough for me to be comfortable in certain
- 19:48Speaker 2: certain circles. You know. There there was a time where
- 19:50Speaker 2: I wasn't comfortable in public. Like I literally would just
- 19:54Speaker 2: go to work, do what I had to do, come
- 19:56Speaker 2: home and just be a hermit. Like I didn't want
- 19:58Speaker 2: to be around anybody.
- 19:59Speaker 1: I just must have because like is looseid I know
- 20:02Speaker 1: in New Orleans, big people person, big heart.
- 20:05Speaker 2: Person, you know what I'm saying, Like, but but what
- 20:07Speaker 2: you need.
- 20:07Speaker 1: I'm here for you. I got you some food at
- 20:10Speaker 1: your front door. I knocked on your door, like.
- 20:14Speaker 2: You And that's that's the that's the evolution of it all,
- 20:19Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like that was who I
- 20:21Speaker 2: am at my core. I'm a guy who I love people,
- 20:24Speaker 2: I love, you know, having great experiences with my friends,
- 20:28Speaker 2: creating memories with my friends. You know that the hermit,
- 20:31Speaker 2: that's not me, you know. But in order for me
- 20:34Speaker 2: to get from the hermit to the guy who was
- 20:36Speaker 2: just you know, love was excitement, was just enjoying the
- 20:43Speaker 2: process and being grateful for the day. Like there was
- 20:45Speaker 2: a transition, and and and and a journey that that
- 20:48Speaker 2: I had to go on, and a lot of it
- 20:51Speaker 2: had to be done by myself, but there are key
- 20:54Speaker 2: moments where I needed somebody to be there with me,
- 20:56Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And so like you're one
- 20:58Speaker 2: of those guys, Craig is one of those guys. Alex
- 21:01Speaker 2: is one of those guys that I really leaned heavily on.
- 21:04Speaker 2: And you said something that that that was so real.
- 21:08Speaker 2: You said, you, I want to know I had all
- 21:12Speaker 2: of these experiences, You would have all of these experiences
- 21:14Speaker 2: with the team, the defense to to know what they're
- 21:16Speaker 2: going through, right. I think what took it a step
- 21:20Speaker 2: further was you don't even you didn't even know the
- 21:22Speaker 2: impact that you were making. You didn't even know what
- 21:25Speaker 2: your teammates are going through. But because you had them around,
- 21:29Speaker 2: you were doing healing form that you didn't even know
- 21:32Speaker 2: you were doing. You know what I mean. That's the
- 21:34Speaker 2: quality of a great leader, you know what I mean,
- 21:37Speaker 2: Just somebody that understands that what happens on the football
- 21:41Speaker 2: field is just a result of all the things that
- 21:43Speaker 2: we've done together at dinners, you know what I mean,
- 21:46Speaker 2: all the things that we've done on the on the
- 21:48Speaker 2: practice field. Man, you guys would play. You would play
- 21:52Speaker 2: Smash Bros. Like for hours. Bro, Like I remember, like
- 21:55Speaker 2: your nigga gonna call and I'm your neighbor, So yeah,
- 21:58Speaker 2: you gotta go out there.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Can't go home before you broke with the boys, Like
- 22:05Speaker 1: after I need I need that.
- 22:07Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gonna see my truck in the driveway and
- 22:10Speaker 2: she'd be like cavade home yet like something he he
- 22:14Speaker 2: still plays Smash Bros. Yeah, So it was. It was.
- 22:21Speaker 2: It was a special transition. It was a special journey,
- 22:24Speaker 2: and it was a journey that you know, made me
- 22:27Speaker 2: into who I am moves to to really appreciate genuine relationships,
- 22:31Speaker 2: appreciate good people and bro. Like again, our locker room
- 22:35Speaker 2: was special, bro, you know and that's what I always
- 22:37Speaker 2: tell people, Like the locker room in New Orleans is
- 22:42Speaker 2: what made the success of our team, you know, like
- 22:45Speaker 2: how close we were and so and now I always
- 22:48Speaker 2: watch my boys, always watch the guys on Sundays, and
- 22:50Speaker 2: I'm like, they gotta have fun again, you know what
- 22:52Speaker 2: I mean, You have fun, celebrate you know what I mean,
- 22:55Speaker 2: just bring that energy. Got so we was like we
- 23:01Speaker 2: were like I don't care what nobody says we was
- 23:03Speaker 2: the one who started that turnof for sure, I.
- 23:05Speaker 1: Think I think that's just that's that's already known, like
- 23:08Speaker 1: the same started that. I don't know, but like that
- 23:11Speaker 1: happened from from us. Yeah, but you know, Craig Robertson,
- 23:14Speaker 1: we out there with the big bucket of flowers, Like yeah, flowers,
- 23:18Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We get an interception and
- 23:21Speaker 1: like running in and everybody rallied behind it, and that
- 23:24Speaker 1: for sure is the same thing. Like they still do
- 23:26Speaker 1: it as long as it's to a close end zone.
- 23:28Speaker 1: I'm with the jog, Like if you're the thirty and
- 23:30Speaker 1: we go to the you know, we go to the
- 23:32Speaker 1: end zone. Beat if we had the thirty and you
- 23:34Speaker 1: turn around and you jogged seventy no no no, no, no, no,
- 23:37Speaker 1: no no no. I see what sideline?
- 23:40Speaker 2: You know what? That reminds me of Remember when we
- 23:42Speaker 2: had that goal line stand against Atlanta and I recovered
- 23:46Speaker 2: that fumble. I remember we're on the goal line twenty seventeen.
- 23:50Speaker 2: That happened, that's twenty seventeen. That was a second. That
- 23:53Speaker 2: was the second Atlanta game. Remember I picked the ball
- 23:56Speaker 2: off and I started to run. I ran to the
- 23:58Speaker 2: opposite side of the field. Remember as I'm running, I
- 24:01Speaker 2: remember watching the clip and your face was like, ooh,
- 24:03Speaker 2: so would love I'm with your dog. But right later, yeah, yeah,
- 24:11Speaker 2: that probably was a bad, bad decision for me to
- 24:14Speaker 2: run to the opposite.
- 24:15Speaker 1: You want to go, you want to go ninety seven yards?
- 24:18Speaker 2: We're still the conditioning testing now. Yeah, this thing.
- 24:27Speaker 1: You talked about emotional intelligence, you talk about just the
- 24:29Speaker 1: quality of of knowing who you are.
- 24:31Speaker 2: Bro.
- 24:32Speaker 1: You found that over the years, But like, how did
- 24:35Speaker 1: how did that come about? Or what is it now
- 24:37Speaker 1: that you have a unique perspective on what it is
- 24:40Speaker 1: to be because you've lived at the highest peak of
- 24:42Speaker 1: what the athlete is when everybody's looking up at you.
- 24:44Speaker 1: You're still balling everything about it too. You've had setbacks whatever,
- 24:48Speaker 1: you know, the whole the whole cat fit situation to
- 24:51Speaker 1: coming back and we're getting drafted second round two playing
- 24:54Speaker 1: your type of your brand of football here with it
- 24:57Speaker 1: or here previously with the with the normans saying like
- 25:00Speaker 1: what did that all take it to you? And how
- 25:02Speaker 1: do you look at the status of mental health now?
- 25:06Speaker 2: Well, mental health to me, right is when you're mentally healthy.
- 25:09Speaker 2: It's I like to think that there's not a lot
- 25:12Speaker 2: of voices in your head. You know, those that are
- 25:15Speaker 2: that are mentally unhealthy, it's because they have so many
- 25:18Speaker 2: voices in their head. They're kind of they kind of
- 25:20Speaker 2: get lost, they get lost in the source of like
- 25:23Speaker 2: man like whether it's they're they're they're at a certain peak,
- 25:27Speaker 2: right and they think that there's something that they're not
- 25:30Speaker 2: or they're at a valley and there's so many critics
- 25:33Speaker 2: in their head that they can't just they can't seem
- 25:35Speaker 2: to shake it. And so I've been at both right
- 25:38Speaker 2: right now. The journey has allowed me to identify all
- 25:42Speaker 2: of those voices, identify the sources of those voices, and
- 25:45Speaker 2: get them out right. But now that the only voice
- 25:47Speaker 2: that I hear is mine, and when my.
- 25:50Speaker 1: Voice is like social media, your girl, your family, you
- 25:54Speaker 1: know what. Oh I got to take care of my parents. Oh,
- 25:58Speaker 1: like I need to be I need to be this
- 26:00Speaker 1: nicole of a player for me to be accepted. Yeah,
- 26:02Speaker 1: you know, there's there's all types of pressures that are
- 26:05Speaker 1: equal voices in the head. You said, you said voice.
- 26:08Speaker 1: It made me think about the first time we ever
- 26:09Speaker 1: had a conversation. I was like, all right, before you
- 26:11Speaker 1: before you be a mic and call these plays girlfriend
- 26:15Speaker 1: imagination or was she like that? That's they So, yeah,
- 26:19Speaker 1: the voices are surrounding you.
- 26:22Speaker 2: Yeah, well they're they're pressures and and they're also they're
- 26:26Speaker 2: the critics, and they're also the fans, you know what
- 26:28Speaker 2: I mean, because when you're living extreme, Yeah, whether they're
- 26:34Speaker 2: dragging you or whether you have just like ten sacks
- 26:37Speaker 2: one game and they're like telling you the greatest thing ever. Yeah,
- 26:41Speaker 2: like both both extremes are dangerous, you know what I mean,
- 26:45Speaker 2: especially if it's not the beliefs that you have in
- 26:48Speaker 2: your head, like the fact that I know who I
- 26:50Speaker 2: am to a point where there's nothing that the praise
- 26:54Speaker 2: or the criticism can sway me.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Yea.
- 26:57Speaker 2: That is why I mean, like men mental health and
- 27:00Speaker 2: you being so sure of what your identity is, who
- 27:04Speaker 2: you are as a person, that you're not swayed either way.
- 27:08Speaker 2: Like that's you know where I feel I got to
- 27:11Speaker 2: that I that I know who I am. There's nothing
- 27:14Speaker 2: that you could tell me that's going to sway that.
- 27:17Speaker 2: Because I was swayed a lot, and when I kept swaying, swinging,
- 27:21Speaker 2: eventually I felt face flat, you know, and so I
- 27:24Speaker 2: had to literally pick myself back up and figure out,
- 27:27Speaker 2: you know, from score one, and build myself up from
- 27:30Speaker 2: score one from Brooke one. And again I had to
- 27:32Speaker 2: do a lot of it by myself, but there were
- 27:34Speaker 2: people that helped me to to to to to build that,
- 27:37Speaker 2: you know, whether it be my family and my parents,
- 27:39Speaker 2: my siblings, my friends like yourself, my wife, you know,
- 27:42Speaker 2: my kids now you know. So it's a journey that
- 27:45Speaker 2: everybody must take. It's a journey that you know, I
- 27:48Speaker 2: hope that it doesn't take people as long as it
- 27:50Speaker 2: took me. But the journey is is what you know
- 27:53Speaker 2: creates and it modes, and you know, you'll be happy
- 27:56Speaker 2: with the final product. And I'm definitely happy with with
- 28:01Speaker 2: you know, who I came up to be as a man.
- 28:03Speaker 2: You know. So for anybody that's going through mental health issues,
- 28:06Speaker 2: in order for you to be the best version of yourself,
- 28:08Speaker 2: you need to be internally the best version of you
- 28:10Speaker 2: because what happens outside is just a reflection of what's
- 28:12Speaker 2: going on inside, you know. And so that's that's kind
- 28:17Speaker 2: of my piece on that.
- 28:20Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. But you never know,
- 28:24Speaker 1: you never know, Like even talking about it, bro who
- 28:27Speaker 1: you're affecting or you know, it feels like it's a
- 28:30Speaker 1: sermon at times, bro, Like that's just a message somebody
- 28:32Speaker 1: may need to hear, you know, in this in this
- 28:35Speaker 1: day and age, well, you know, we're starting to under
- 28:37Speaker 1: understand this EQ or this even like I call twenty
- 28:41Speaker 1: like I call twenty twenty im like the error to
- 28:43Speaker 1: be soft, right, and and I sort of chuckle about it.
- 28:46Speaker 1: But it's literally like, you know, everybody's worried about other
- 28:48Speaker 1: people's opinions. Everybody's worried about everybody's you know, how I
- 28:52Speaker 1: affecting the next person over? Or how are they affecting me?
- 28:55Speaker 1: Or social media does this and all in all these
- 28:58Speaker 1: other circumstances, it's like, bro, know who you are and
- 29:02Speaker 1: stand on it, you know, like like live live your truth,
- 29:05Speaker 1: live your life, and you know, be blessed. Like there's
- 29:08Speaker 1: so many ways it can go. Life can always be
- 29:10Speaker 1: worse and life can always be better. You know. It's
- 29:13Speaker 1: just like watching you after a game football film, you'd
- 29:16Speaker 1: be like, Bro, I played terrible game. Film is not
- 29:19Speaker 1: going to be as good as you think it is,
- 29:21Speaker 1: and you're not going to be as bad as you
- 29:23Speaker 1: think it is. Those games you're like, oh I killed them.
- 29:25Speaker 1: I half four sacks that couldn't touch me, and you
- 29:27Speaker 1: walk on like, dang I got locked up like three
- 29:29Speaker 1: or four times, bro, like that or are you close?
- 29:31Speaker 1: It could have been a seven sack game and all
- 29:33Speaker 1: I left was with three or four you know.
- 29:35Speaker 2: Like that's a great analogy. That is actually a great
- 29:38Speaker 2: analogy of of of how life is right, you know,
- 29:42Speaker 2: And like I never thought of that analogy, but now
- 29:44Speaker 2: that you put it that way, that's actually the perfect
- 29:46Speaker 2: analogy for it. It's never as bad as you think
- 29:48Speaker 2: it is, and it's never as great as you think
- 29:50Speaker 2: it is, you know. So like again, to stay grounded
- 29:53Speaker 2: in it all, to be grateful for it all, because
- 29:55Speaker 2: at the end of the day, like like life happens
- 29:58Speaker 2: for you, doesn't happen to you, you know, And so
- 30:00Speaker 2: you have the ability and the power to make life
- 30:03Speaker 2: what you need to make it. You know, you could
- 30:05Speaker 2: make it great. You could also make it a living hell,
- 30:08Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So you have that power
- 30:10Speaker 2: like people who let things happen to them and say, oh, man,
- 30:12Speaker 2: like I'm the victim, and I was like, no, bro,
- 30:14Speaker 2: you're the only You're only the victim of your decisions,
- 30:17Speaker 2: you know, because no matter what you do to me,
- 30:19Speaker 2: I still have the ability to filter it and perceive
- 30:22Speaker 2: it the way that I need to perceive it in
- 30:23Speaker 2: order for me to progress. Like I'm never gonna let
- 30:25Speaker 2: anybody do anything to me, say anything to me that's
- 30:28Speaker 2: going to cripple me, and you know, you know, stunt
- 30:31Speaker 2: my growth as a person. And the reason why I
- 30:33Speaker 2: know that is because I used to let that do it,
- 30:35Speaker 2: do it, do it to me, you know what I mean?
- 30:36Speaker 2: And so that's what you know for me? Mental health,
- 30:40Speaker 2: I think it's it's it's something that's important. I think
- 30:42Speaker 2: some people look at it as uh as a reason
- 30:45Speaker 2: to do the things they do. No, that's not what
- 30:47Speaker 2: mental health is, you know what I mean. Mental health
- 30:49Speaker 2: is you understanding who you are, the best version of yourself,
- 30:52Speaker 2: the best form of yourself, and you're doing all that
- 30:54Speaker 2: you can to get there. You know. It's not an
- 30:56Speaker 2: excuse to do stupid things, you know what I mean.
- 30:58Speaker 2: That's not what it is, you know what I mean.
- 30:59Speaker 2: Like I don't like when people say, oh no, no, no, bro,
- 31:02Speaker 2: that's not what this is. It's understanding where I'm at
- 31:05Speaker 2: and where I need to get to and the things
- 31:07Speaker 2: that I need to do in order to get there,
- 31:09Speaker 2: you know. And so that's that's what I that I
- 31:12Speaker 2: think mental health is. It's it's it's for me to
- 31:14Speaker 2: be the best version of me to do the most good.
- 31:18Speaker 2: You know what, what can I what version of me
- 31:20Speaker 2: brings out the most good? What what what version of
- 31:23Speaker 2: me brings out the most production? That's that's what I
- 31:26Speaker 2: need to do. That's that's the person to bless me?
- 31:28Speaker 1: How can I be a blessing to others?
- 31:30Speaker 2: Exactly?
- 31:31Speaker 1: Brother, I'm still breathing, I'm still standing. Bright you I said,
- 31:52Speaker 1: you're a fan of man. Now that you know, I
- 31:54Speaker 1: can't say like football is over because I don't think
- 31:55Speaker 1: football ever leaves the blood. Now, you've got a legacy
- 31:58Speaker 1: if you're own.
- 31:58Speaker 2: Bro.
- 31:59Speaker 1: But like I said, Mary, my dog got two kids. Now,
- 32:01Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Jit with the at the end,
- 32:04Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, what was it not? Because
- 32:06Speaker 1: there's no off season now? You know, like me, off season,
- 32:09Speaker 1: I'm flitting. I'm like, man, what else can I do?
- 32:11Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 32:12Speaker 1: What's what's next for you?
- 32:13Speaker 2: Bro? Like you?
- 32:14Speaker 1: Now, now you don't drop the documentary, you probably got
- 32:17Speaker 1: to executive produce your credit out of there, you ep things? Now,
- 32:20Speaker 1: what what what else is it in Utah for you?
- 32:23Speaker 2: You know? What's what was amazing was when when you know,
- 32:26Speaker 2: every parent will we'll understand this, when my kids came
- 32:29Speaker 2: into my life, especially with my son, when my daughter came,
- 32:32Speaker 2: like I went to the dad phase that dad bought
- 32:34Speaker 2: to gain a whole bunch of weight. And you know
- 32:37Speaker 2: I didn't realize that the baby girl, Yeah, my daughter's fault, bro.
- 32:42Speaker 2: Like you know, my princess softened me up, you know.
- 32:45Speaker 2: But then when my son came and with both of them,
- 32:49Speaker 2: immediately life took a turn from you. I immediately wanted
- 32:54Speaker 2: everything great in this world for my kids. I wanted
- 32:58Speaker 2: everything that was great in this world I wanted for them.
- 33:01Speaker 2: But the person that the first thing that needed to
- 33:03Speaker 2: happen was I needed to be great. You know. I
- 33:05Speaker 2: needed to be the greatest version of me because my
- 33:08Speaker 2: kids aren't going to remember what I tell them, but
- 33:10Speaker 2: they're going to remember what they saw me do. They're
- 33:12Speaker 2: going to remember how they saw Daddy work, how he
- 33:14Speaker 2: saw how they saw me walk through this life. And
- 33:18Speaker 2: so it was I was two ninety five, Yeah, Jenny,
- 33:22Speaker 2: first that day teat that for I was yes, Yeah.
- 33:32Speaker 2: So my wife decided. She told me, she was like, hey,
- 33:35Speaker 2: when I'm done giving birth to this boy, I wanted
- 33:37Speaker 2: to do a fitness show. I said, okay, cool, she
- 33:40Speaker 2: did fitness shows before, so I was like, all right,
- 33:43Speaker 2: what a perfect what a perfect opportunity for me to
- 33:45Speaker 2: get back to shape. So she and I went on
- 33:47Speaker 2: this fitness journey and my goal was to get back
- 33:50Speaker 2: down to my plane with two thirty seven. I hit that,
- 33:53Speaker 2: and so it was all way of getting back to
- 33:57Speaker 2: the best version of me. Now. Throughout that process, doing
- 34:00Speaker 2: a lot of public speaking. Since the documentar came out,
- 34:05Speaker 2: I met with a lot of a lot of successful
- 34:08Speaker 2: people and they just happened to be in the private
- 34:10Speaker 2: equity world, and they're telling me like, why aren't you
- 34:14Speaker 2: doing what we're doing. He's like, there's no reason why
- 34:17Speaker 2: you shouldn't be doing what you know we're doing. You know,
- 34:19Speaker 2: you have the network, you have the abilities. You just
- 34:22Speaker 2: need to make those decisions for yourself. And I'm sitting
- 34:23Speaker 2: over here in Utah and I'm like, Okay, Like we're
- 34:26Speaker 2: living a comfortable life, but we're not living the off
- 34:28Speaker 2: season go to Spain life, like Cam, you know what,
- 34:30Speaker 2: I mean like I want to. I want to. I
- 34:33Speaker 2: want to give that to my kids, you know what
- 34:35Speaker 2: I mean. I know Tony is out here in Utah
- 34:38Speaker 2: and I watch him how he moves and it inspires me.
- 34:41Speaker 2: I'm like, man, he's on a private jet everywhere, you know.
- 34:43Speaker 2: I mean, he just came back from the F the
- 34:45Speaker 2: F one race over there and in Vegas. You know,
- 34:48Speaker 2: I'm like, man, I want to do that. You know,
- 34:49Speaker 2: how can I do that? Well? I started, I started
- 34:52Speaker 2: to contact a lot of people, talk to a lot
- 34:54Speaker 2: of people, and you know, so we're in the process
- 34:56Speaker 2: of getting into the private equity work world. And that's
- 34:59Speaker 2: that's where I know that I can do everything that
- 35:02Speaker 2: I want to do. One, I can be present in
- 35:04Speaker 2: my in my kid's life the way that I want to. Two,
- 35:06Speaker 2: I can be the example to them of what I
- 35:08Speaker 2: want life to be for them. And three I can
- 35:12Speaker 2: build generational wealth. I can I can introduce my children
- 35:16Speaker 2: and my children's children to a thinking and a mentality
- 35:20Speaker 2: and an approach to life that it's gonna get them
- 35:24Speaker 2: to a place you know where Okay, daddy got the
- 35:27Speaker 2: private jet. Now what you're gonna do? You know what
- 35:28Speaker 2: I mean? So that's different. You know what I'm saying.
- 35:32Speaker 2: But that's the envelope that I'm trying to push, you
- 35:34Speaker 2: know what I mean. Why not? Like why not? You
- 35:36Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like, it's all up to me,
- 35:38Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So it's up to me.
- 35:40Speaker 2: Then you know I'm gonna take it as far as
- 35:42Speaker 2: I can take it. And then, son, I taught you
- 35:45Speaker 2: everything that I could learn and everything that I've done.
- 35:48Speaker 2: Now you got to take it, you know.
- 35:50Speaker 1: What I mean. I can get you so far. Bro,
- 35:51Speaker 1: I took I took the Family of Spain, and Tank
- 35:54Speaker 1: was like, oh, we could do that again. No, no, no, baby,
- 35:56Speaker 1: I took you to Spain for a reason. We lived
- 35:58Speaker 1: out there this all season because one I want to
- 36:00Speaker 1: introduce you to a different world. Two I wanted I
- 36:03Speaker 1: want you to be inspired to learn Spanish, and three
- 36:06Speaker 1: I want you to understand when you talk to your friends,
- 36:08Speaker 1: not everybody gets to live in Spain for two and
- 36:10Speaker 1: a half three months, you know, Like when you like,
- 36:13Speaker 1: it takes it takes a certain way of working, take
- 36:15Speaker 1: a certain lifestyle to get to where you are. So
- 36:18Speaker 1: you can't just be like, oh, I'm just gonna live
- 36:20Speaker 1: off my dad. No, baby, Like when why spout turn off.
- 36:24Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what my daddy told me. Hey,
- 36:26Speaker 1: I'm doing okay. I don't know how you're gonna live,
- 36:31Speaker 1: but I'm always gonna live, like yes, and that's that's
- 36:35Speaker 1: me shout out to pops like Steve Steve Jordan. I
- 36:37Speaker 1: was like, I remember, bro I used to, you know,
- 36:39Speaker 1: have a TJ Max budget. I had a checking book
- 36:41Speaker 1: that I had to and I was like, I'm living
- 36:42Speaker 1: in a big house, you know, five six fifty three
- 36:45Speaker 1: fifty four hundred square feet, which is huge to me.
- 36:48Speaker 1: You know, I'm going to all my friends places and
- 36:50Speaker 1: they're sitting on you know, a thousand square feed or
- 36:52Speaker 1: twelve hundred square feet, tw twenty two hundredquare feet. I
- 36:54Speaker 1: don't know. I got a big house, you know what
- 36:56Speaker 1: I'm saying. And they're in Jay's and they're in you know,
- 36:58Speaker 1: Koogie back in the Gap and they rocking, you know.
- 37:01Speaker 1: Louis Batan felt, hey, like I'm over here. I came
- 37:05Speaker 1: to my dad at like twelve, thirteen years old, once
- 37:07Speaker 1: I understood what materials things were, and I was like, man,
- 37:10Speaker 1: are we broke? I was like, Dad, you play leave
- 37:12Speaker 1: for thirteen years? And he looked at me and was like, nah,
- 37:15Speaker 1: I'm doing really good.
- 37:16Speaker 2: Actually.
- 37:17Speaker 1: I was like, I'm an engineer. You know, I got
- 37:19Speaker 1: my degree from Brown. I'm still an engineer. I played
- 37:22Speaker 1: the lead for thirteen years, like I'm doing really well. Actually,
- 37:25Speaker 1: but you son, you're broke. And I was like, and
- 37:30Speaker 1: that stuck with me.
- 37:32Speaker 2: Bro But that's but that's the power of parenting, though,
- 37:35Speaker 2: you understand, because Dad could have took taken a totally
- 37:38Speaker 2: different way. He could have had you dressed to the
- 37:40Speaker 2: nicest things and enabled you. You know. And that's one
- 37:42Speaker 2: thing that I told my wife is I'll never do
- 37:44Speaker 2: is I'm never going to enable my kids like I'm
- 37:46Speaker 2: going to do with what you just said, Cam. I'm
- 37:48Speaker 2: going to take them around the world. I'm going to
- 37:50Speaker 2: give them those experiences. I'm going to open up their
- 37:53Speaker 2: eyes to see, like, hey, man, like your dreams. I'm
- 37:55Speaker 2: going to show you what your dream looks like. I'm
- 37:58Speaker 2: not just gonna tell you write it on a paper. No,
- 38:00Speaker 2: you want to do this, cool, I'm going to take
- 38:02Speaker 2: you over there so that you can be in the buildings,
- 38:04Speaker 2: you could see the environments, you could talk to the people,
- 38:06Speaker 2: you could smell, you could taste you could feel, you know,
- 38:08Speaker 2: because then it becomes a reality for you. Now it
- 38:10Speaker 2: becomes a goal. Now you know what it looks like.
- 38:12Speaker 2: Now you could picture yourself in those places, you know.
- 38:14Speaker 2: And I made a post a few months ago when
- 38:16Speaker 2: we was in in Vegas. We stayed at the Palms
- 38:21Speaker 2: at one of their huge suites, Bro that just overlooks everything,
- 38:25Speaker 2: and it was it was a humbling experience for me
- 38:28Speaker 2: because I remember my dad and my mom worked their
- 38:30Speaker 2: butts off. You know, we was one of those kids.
- 38:32Speaker 2: We grew up in the three bed, one bath house,
- 38:34Speaker 2: no A c you know what I mean. So when
- 38:36Speaker 2: dad would take us to the inn at at you know,
- 38:39Speaker 2: in our hometown, or we would be able to go
- 38:41Speaker 2: to one of the hotels in Waikiki, like, it was
- 38:44Speaker 2: a it was a huge solution for us, you know, like, oh,
- 38:47Speaker 2: smokes like we're here, well now a few months ago,
- 38:51Speaker 2: we're over there at in this executive suite, bro. Like
- 38:54Speaker 2: it was just stupid, bro like the amenities, you know
- 38:58Speaker 2: what I mean. We had a butler bro that bringing
- 38:59Speaker 2: us food. Like, and there was a picture that I
- 39:02Speaker 2: posted as my baby girl and she's looking out right
- 39:05Speaker 2: and I literally sat there, Bro just grateful. I was like,
- 39:09Speaker 2: and I made a post that saying, you know, grand Grandpa,
- 39:13Speaker 2: Grandpa got us to the hotel, Daddy got us to
- 39:15Speaker 2: the to the penthouse. Right now, what you're gonna do?
- 39:18Speaker 1: You know what I mean to take me to the
- 39:19Speaker 1: private jet? Come on, now, take that to the next level.
- 39:23Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what it's all about. For me. It
- 39:25Speaker 2: was like, you ask me, what's next, Well, what's next
- 39:27Speaker 2: is the top? Okay, now we get to this summit
- 39:30Speaker 2: of this mountain. Well, there's always another mountain to climb.
- 39:32Speaker 2: Let's get to the top of that one. There's always
- 39:35Speaker 2: you know, and it never stops. It never stops. And
- 39:38Speaker 2: I don't ever want it to stop from my kids,
- 39:41Speaker 2: and and I'm always going to learn from you. I'm
- 39:43Speaker 2: always gonna learn from your dad. You know, your dad's
- 39:44Speaker 2: one of the best humans I ever met. Man. Every
- 39:47Speaker 2: time he saw me, he always said what's up, always
- 39:49Speaker 2: asked how I was doing. And you never if you
- 39:52Speaker 2: ever ran into your dad, you never knew that he
- 39:55Speaker 2: played in the league as long as I had had
- 39:57Speaker 2: that success. You'll never know because he's just so down
- 39:59Speaker 2: to earth. And you meet you, You're like, oh makes sense,
- 40:03Speaker 2: you know it makes sense because you was raised by
- 40:04Speaker 2: that guy, you know what I mean? Like your you
- 40:07Speaker 2: run into The only way you would know that your
- 40:08Speaker 2: professional athlete is because you look like one. If you
- 40:11Speaker 2: talk to can't.
- 40:13Speaker 1: You can't hide these shoulders fail. I'm not even in
- 40:15Speaker 1: the camp camp frame now.
- 40:16Speaker 2: Yeah, either either know that or you know that camera
- 40:19Speaker 2: professional athlete because his big selfie coming out of the
- 40:22Speaker 2: small some small car sometimes, remember he was rolling the
- 40:25Speaker 2: suv sometimes and he was parking the parking lot you're
- 40:27Speaker 2: supposed to not park at. You know, I was the
- 40:29Speaker 2: only camp can park over there, you know what I mean?
- 40:32Speaker 2: But you know you never know, right, And that's what
- 40:34Speaker 2: I feel is the best thing that somebody could tell you, Like,
- 40:38Speaker 2: is my interactions with you was on a human level
- 40:42Speaker 2: one of the best interactions that I could ever have.
- 40:44Speaker 2: And they had nothing to do with your social status,
- 40:47Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And so all of those
- 40:48Speaker 2: people that I've met that's in this private equity world
- 40:51Speaker 2: that's pro billions, Like when I'm met a dude who
- 40:54Speaker 2: he runs a two hundred billion dollar firm, bro like
- 40:57Speaker 2: with a bee can walking in with Louis Bouton everything,
- 40:59Speaker 2: like I thought I was stunning with some Travis, some Trevors.
- 41:02Speaker 2: Scott's like, I was like a boy came in some
- 41:05Speaker 2: Louise left in a Lambeo truck. But like the conversations, bro,
- 41:10Speaker 2: human and human right, and he's just like, how can
- 41:12Speaker 2: I help you? How can well, man, Clay, I want
- 41:15Speaker 2: to do that, you know, I want to get to
- 41:16Speaker 2: that level so I can turn back around and say, hey, bro,
- 41:18Speaker 2: how can I help you? You know, how can I
- 41:21Speaker 2: get you here? You know what I mean? Because that's
- 41:23Speaker 2: that's what I want to see everybody win, bro, And
- 41:25Speaker 2: that's what you know, there's people that helped me to win.
- 41:28Speaker 2: I mean, I want to see everybody win. So yeah,
- 41:30Speaker 2: that's that's what's next. That's what we're working on. That's
- 41:33Speaker 2: what's current. You know. That's that's the current events for
- 41:35Speaker 2: the Tetle family right now. Future events. Hopefully my son
- 41:40Speaker 2: goes to Notre Dame. You know, he already got a
- 41:41Speaker 2: verbal offer this weekend, so he's ten months old, can't
- 41:45Speaker 2: you tens old? Coach Coach Freeman came over, He's like,
- 41:49Speaker 2: you have an offer. I was like, all right, coach,
- 41:50Speaker 2: I'm gonna make make sure he read now he ain't
- 41:52Speaker 2: gonna play linebacker. You gonna play quarterback because autumn autumn
- 41:56Speaker 2: rules and football right now, protecting that boy like you
- 41:59Speaker 2: can't land on You can't hit him above the shoulder.
- 42:01Speaker 2: You can hit them below the knees, and.
- 42:03Speaker 1: Once he releases, you better not touch them.
- 42:05Speaker 2: You better not touch them, said Sons, You're gonna play quarterback.
- 42:10Speaker 1: I appreciate you tapping in, Bro, I'm gonna get you
- 42:12Speaker 1: out of here. I try and keep it around thirty five,
- 42:15Speaker 1: but I love having great people on here. Bro. It's
- 42:20Speaker 1: been nothing but a pleasure keeping you on off the
- 42:22Speaker 1: edge with me. Bro, it's my ted tell you know
- 42:25Speaker 1: what I'm saying always, Bro, I appreciate you for everything
- 42:30Speaker 1: that you are.
- 42:31Speaker 2: Bro.
- 42:31Speaker 1: I'm gonna tap in shortly. I love you brother always.
- 42:43Speaker 1: So there you have it. It's a round. I just
- 42:45Speaker 1: want to say a huge thank you to all my
- 42:47Speaker 1: awesome listeners for rocking with me. I've got a whole
- 42:49Speaker 1: locker room full of my favorite interviews from season one
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