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Your Past is Your Power Interview with Nadia Elmagrabi · Terri Messenger's Genius Zone

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Hey, hey, and welcome to Terry Messengers genius zone.
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So in case you haven't yet, worked it out.
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My superpower is really bringing out your Genius Zone and I am so
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passionate. So, dedicated about creating
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Gifted talented healers, leaders business people.
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And those who really have a big mission in the world, it is my
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it is my conviction to literally bring them out, launch them, and
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really change your life. So on my show, there is
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absolutely something for everyone because we know you Has
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a unique blueprint. There is one thing that none of
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us can avoid and that is the experience of both micro traumas
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and major traumas in our life. We carry this.
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Inside our bodies and quite often it will flare up as a
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trigger. But what I'm about to do is
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introduce you to a woman one who has over 20 years in therapy,
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who has the experience herself first hand to have gone back
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through generations and generations to discover that
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even hernia divorce and breakdown in marriage came from
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an experience, both in a past life and in, Her ancestral,
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lineage sound a little bit. We we, well, you better believe
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this because if you are finding yourself triggered or just
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sometimes feeling like, well, why am I feeling the feeling
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that I have? You may be very surprised to
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know that this is tucked away inside your body.
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This woman is absolutely incredible, her name.
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Is Nadia, she believes all people deserve to feel safe in
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their bodies and wow, why not? You only have one body, right?
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She believes in creating relationships and really letting
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go and releasing and peeling back.
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The years that have influenced the way you are showing up in
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your present relationships and she Knows how to tap people into
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their iconic superpower. She's definitely a woman after
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my own heart. She helps people to unpack and
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digest anything from the most potent, strongest and disability
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tating trauma right through to the very hardest grief, but
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what's important is underneath, With these layers is your super
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infinite power and she is going to show you how she gets to the
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seed of it and how she can step you into your authentic amazing
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life. So get yourself comfortable, get
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ready to listen to this week's episode on my podcast.
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Harry Messengers, genius. Zone and you are going to learn
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so much from this woman, and she is so generous, so gifted and so
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incredibly powerful in all that she does.
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So let's bring her ma her therapy in 20 years to the
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Forefront and let's help you to understand exactly.
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What is going on in your life and how to transmute those
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depths of blocks into your greatest power.
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Now there's a special at the end because this woman can also help
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you make a very long story, short, she does human design and
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you'll hear how by knowing my date of birth.
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When I was born where I was born, She was able to catch up
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my personality. And if I hadn't known this years
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and years and years ago, I could have understood myself so much
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better and, you know, this would help make better decisions.
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So whether you are a multi-millionaire ready to make
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a decision to go, to your next level or whether you are pushing
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through to the next level of your life.
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And you really know You have to uplevel your life, sit back, get
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yourself your favorite drink and let's meet the beautiful.
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Nadia. Hey hey hey Nadia.
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I am so excited to have you here.
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How are you on this fine day? I'm doing very well.
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Terry. Thank you so much.
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It's an honor to be here with you today.
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I'll thank you and whereabouts. Are you what city?
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I'm in Harbor Springs. Michigan, which is very north
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northern Michigan and there's snow on the ground here and
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we're expecting spring in the Month or so.
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I bet you can't wait, but I've never seen snow in my life.
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So there you go. Wow, you are really an
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incredible intuitive healer who really knows how to unpack
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people's patterns and traumas and, you know, really get to the
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cedar their grief. So, your motto.
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Do is to really have people safe in their bodies and in their
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communities. Can you talk me through, you
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know, what, the importance is of a person really feeling safe in
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their community and, you know, being able to listen to their
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body. Yes, it's of great importance
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because that's how we can be our authentic selves when we feel
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safe in our bodies when we can On to what our bodies are asking
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of us or telling us and not feel threatened from the outside.
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It's vital to us thriving and so, being able to be in
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relationships that we feel safe and able to enable to be in our
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community, where we feel safe to express ourselves, and to be
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ourselves, and to follow our own innate desires, our own innate,
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our own innate. You know what our body is
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telling us and how we want to be.
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I think it's vital and it's that's my mission.
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As what I want to be able to help others to feel so that
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they, you know, I think there's so many of us who have
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experienced over our lives, where we have feel threatened or
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we don't feel safe and it hinders our ability to just
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relax and to be ourselves. And so, that's what I want for.
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Everyone is just to be able to feel safe so that they can be
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who they are. That's amazing.
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So, I mean, there's obviously people out there that don't,
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that may not understand like you do of the concept of, you know,
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listening to their body. Have you got any tips for that
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person? That really needs to stop kind
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of like listening to their monkey mind or, you know,
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hearing all that, you know, the, the stories of old that are
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outdated and What they can do to actually come into their body.
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Great question. And I thank you.
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You hit on it. It's exactly that to stop
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listening to the monkey mind because the mind is not where we
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make decisions. Our mind is a tool that we can
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use for learning. It's a tool that we can use to
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help other people, but it is not how we make decisions.
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It is not the best way of how we can make decisions.
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And so when we learn how to tune into our bodies and to listen to
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our own, Own unique way that our body speaks to us because it's
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different for everybody. That's how we can really
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flourish and make decisions and move through the world.
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And so 24, everyone needs to find their own way that they
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hear themselves that they hear what their body is trying to
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tell them. And when they have a feeling,
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when they have an intuitive sense, that is the truth.
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That is what is necessary for I'm to follow and sometimes what
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those hits are, you know, sometimes our body is telling us
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don't go in there or lets you know, stay away from the
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situation but you know maybe our mind is like oh don't be silly.
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Let me just go in anyway but then we are disregarding the
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body. We are disregarding what is true
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for us and at the body is telling us for a reason that we
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might not know and we might not be able to explain with our
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minds. Most likely we cannot explain
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the body has a different way of understanding And information
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than the Mind does. The mind is logical and
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sometimes the body most times, the body is not logical and so
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to be able to feel into what our bodies are telling us, is it's
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vital for our, for our success in the world.
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Mmm, it's that's amazing. Like, it's the body keeps the
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school like the book, right? Yeah.
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And I feel that, you know, it sounds like from what you're
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saying, I mean that if someone was inside of one of your
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containers, you would be leading them to learn how to listen to
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their their body. And do you think that that helps
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with their intuition? Is that connected?
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Do you feel absolutely? Absolutely.
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And yes, like you mentioned the book body, the body keeps a
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score and there is there's there's you know it's a
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fantastic book. It's about healing trauma.
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Mama. And it's about the trauma that
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lives in our bodies because we may experience things that were
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not even consciously aware of, but it's stored in our body, we
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may be consciously aware of and it still stored in our body.
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If we haven't gone through the process of tending to it and
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doing what we need to, you know, process it and so you know, in
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this can go for ancestral to its, you know, we have ancestral
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with And X. We now know that our ancestors
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fears and hopes and desires, and the trauma that they've
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experienced can also live in our bodies.
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And and so is, so it can be so under the surface, but we are
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reacting from that. And so if we can help to free
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that, then we are able to, you know, and to process it and to
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understand it, then we can create more freedom in our
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bodies and create more freedom. Us create more freedom in our
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lives. Wow, that's amazing.
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So, you know it's obviously you've had a lot of experience
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with yourself and I know we're going to find out you were going
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to go really deep here and we're going to actually learn about
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just how deep you went into your ancestral lineage past life and
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where your marriage nearly broke down and all of that was stored
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in the body. Be like I guess the nervous
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system. So really I guess the body is is
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is the very essence of, you know, our GPS almost isn't it?
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Like it's almost guiding us. And therefore would you say that
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if people did tap into their self and listen to their
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intuition, that there'd be a more likelihood that they would
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make better decisions? Yes. 100% because our intuition
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is going to guide us to what is in our highest good and what's
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best for else. And again, it's not explainable
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and it's not linear, it is what it is.
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And it's like our body knows, our body knows what we need and
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sometimes you know, if there is a lot of trauma and the body,
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our body needs to protect and it needs to go, be gentle, you
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know, and be tended to gently so that it and slowly open up to,
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what's there, you know, it can't necessarily if, you know, there
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might be something in the way of us, feeling our intuition, but
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just to feel, You know we can sometimes feel on the outside
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you know in Psychology we talk about resistance and so we might
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have resistance to exploring a certain part of ourselves or
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exploring you know, certain Shadow aspects of ourselves so
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that's okay because then we just work with the resistance like
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what is the risk? What is the resistance about?
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Let's move slowly before we go deep into whatever the trauma
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is, it's like sometimes we just need to like get to that place
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where We can feel safe having a conversation before, you know,
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and it's a gradual opening up before we actually uncover What
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the deeper trauma is different for everyone and it takes time.
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It's not it's not necessarily a fast process, but it can, it can
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be but it doesn't, you know, can also take the time necessary for
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each person. And and I guess true for those
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people that you know you he people that agonize over me.
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King decisions sometimes and procrastinate and they get stuck
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and they they're really like, they can't move forward and if
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only they could take a leaflet out of your book and just let it
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go and just let live and trust. But, you know, you've been a
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therapist for over 20 years and you do a lot of past life
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regression work and you've also discovered That with a lot of
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people, it doesn't matter what kind of spectrum, or where they
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are in the ladder. There's usually always a missing
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piece. Can you talk to me about this
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missing piece of their life? And, you know, traditionally how
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you find it? Or what happens when you do find
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it? Well, I'll just let you know.
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Like most of the clients, I see, have been they've been on the on
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the healing Ask for for many years, they've seen lots of
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therapists or, you know, a therapist or gone to lots of
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healings and they've been doing their work, even if it's their
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self-reflective and they, you know, they're going inward, you
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know. So most of my clients are
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already familiar with the inner landscape and they, there's
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something that they can't quite get to.
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They feel like this issue keeps coming up, whether it's a
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certain pattern of behavior. Whether it's a difficulty in a
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relationship, It's something that is like perpetuating them
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that they feel like there's there's no resolution because
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they've done everything and they can't they can't get to it.
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And so, through this process, we can find what the seed is of the
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of the core concern. And so, I have a way of prepping
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the client before we work to help them tap into.
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What is their core concern, what is that sentence?
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What is that phrase? That that that hits at a deep
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emotional? Level that depicts what it is
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that they are most concerned with, you know, and it's usually
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something, you know, we narrow it down.
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And this is, you know, this process, I go through a pretty
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intensive history with them about their early childhood and
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family life. And you know what, they know of
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their extended family to get to this phrase and it's usually
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something around, you know, I'm not safe.
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Or, you know, this is an example of those phrases.
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I'll never see them again. I'm responsible.
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You know, it's something that hits and as we go through the
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process of them feeling into like oh that's it.
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And so it's something usually clicks.
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And then that's how we step into the regression work is I'll take
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them through the relaxation and then ask them to repeat that
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phrase and from there almost invariably we go right to the
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life. That is the source of that
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concern. And we go through, we experience
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the full life. I'll, you know, I guide them.
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Them to go through the life and to the, the significant events
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in that life and to get to the understanding of what happened
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there, how it's related to this life.
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And then we go through that whole process of how it's
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connected to this life. What was different?
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Then what's different? Now, what needs to be healed?
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What are their conversations that needed to be had and we can
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have those conversations because at from the soul perspective,
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where they're able to go in and have those conversations that
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they want weren't able to have in that.
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Life, you know, whether it's yeah.
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So and so you know, and it's the whole thing about past lives is
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it a past life as it an ancestral life?
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You know, I feel like that's very kind of blurry and foggy
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and I, you know, I call it past life for, you know, to have
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something to call it but I don't know necessarily what it is but
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it's the healing that's necessary for that person to get
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to the source of what is most troubling them and then they're
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able to There then we can work through and see what needs to be
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healed. What needs to be processed?
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And they can bring all of that back with them.
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And a lot of times after these sessions people are like, oh I
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feel so much lighter. I feel so much, you know, I feel
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like this burden has been taken off of my shoulders.
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I'm in their core concern. You know, sometimes it can be so
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significant like I don't have that feeling anymore.
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It's gone, you know. So it's quite Spectacular, what
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can happen? And then it can continue to
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unwind afterward because when we do something so deep, it has
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this ripple effect on our lives and other people's lives.
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And, you know, generationally as well.
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Like you said, you talked about that Terry.
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Yeah, I've been generated lately back and seven generations
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forward. It's like we're unwinding the
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trauma, in the line in the, in our ancestral line and for our
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descendants as well. When we do this type of Work
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when we do any type of inner work.
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Hmm. And that's Legacy work.
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And I mean we'll talk more about that too in your program that
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you're offering. But the legacy is that with all
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of this, you know, obviously handed down by past Generations
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or having come back from so far and so long ago, even centuries
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ago, you know, obviously we're carrying Ugh, with us these,
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these elements. So when we're letting them go
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obviously, there is something very magical that happens in
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that moment and no wonder, they feel lighter?
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Like, Nadia, wow. Like if your clients are saying
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to you, or, you know, I feel so much lighter.
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They probably just let go of 100 years in one session with you.
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But, you know, you're not only a urine expert in the field
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because You know, you've got the twenty years of experience as a
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therapist but you know what? It's like to give your power
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away. And in fact you nearly lost your
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own marriage through something that was as a result of that
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ancestral lineage and past life, do you want to act go into that?
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So people understand? Yeah, yeah.
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So several several years ago, you know, and I'm a person who
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I've been doing my inner work and seeing therapists and, you
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know, for many years but through that, you know, so I thought I
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kind of had my stuff together but I had an experience several
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years ago where I decided to go into business with a friend of
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mine and we, you know, and I but the whole time when I was making
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the decision as to whether Should go into it or not.
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I was, I never got to the place where I felt good about it in my
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body. It was like in my mind, I liked
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the idea of about it and it was almost like a shiny object.
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You know, we talked about following the shiny objects and
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it was like, that's what I was doing because it felt good on an
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ego level, like it was like, oh, this is fun.
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Oh, this is exciting. Who, you know, I wanted to be
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around this, this person and, you know, and I wasn't
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listening. I wasn't tuning into what my
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body was saying, which my body was not telling me to go
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forward, and I was trying to make a decision from my mind,
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and I was ignoring what, my body was telling me.
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But so I ended up getting into this business, which was
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beautiful. We worked with crystals.
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We were, I mean, it was very appealing, we were doing healing
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sessions with people and it was very well received and, you
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know, it was nourishing on some levels, but But the problem was
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is that it was taking me away from my family and I was already
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working, you know, I was already had my, my one-to-one private
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practice. So I and it was so it was added
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on top of that. Where I was now taking away more
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time in the evenings and weekends from my family and that
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continued on until I went to the past life regression training
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and I experienced a past life, you know, my husband was getting
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frustrated with me at this point and we were Almost like ships
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passing through the night. You know, weren't really
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connecting very much and we weren't having it.
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We didn't have a lot of time to spend together because he was
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busy during the day and I was busy and the nights and
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weekends. And so, when I went to the
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training, you know, part of it is having a regression.
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And so, in my regression, I went to a life where I was married to
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a man who is very abusive, and what happened was that I was
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from a different culture than he was, it was and life in Egypt,
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actually. And I was from a nomadic culture
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and stop, we had stopped in this town and I married this man and
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stayed there while the tribe continued on.
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And in the end you know as a result he was very he became
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very abusive and you know, and we had children and he continued
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to be abusive and then when that tribe came back through I
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decided To leave and I went to go with them.
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Well, he came and found me before I left and there was a,
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and this is where I came into that life.
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It was an extremely like physically, abusive situation
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and so I had and I was actually crippled by it at that point and
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you know, and I continued on in that life staying there until he
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had died and I continued to stay there and I just at that point,
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I was close to one of my sons and He he helped take care of me
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and I had tended to my spiritual practice during that life.
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So it's very VIP event is extremely Vivid.
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Nadia? Yes, yeah, like it's almost like
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you're talking about 10 years ago, not, you know what I mean?
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And that's how it is for me and when it's actually, I don't see
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it so vividly, but I sense it. That's the thing.
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Everybody has a different way of experiencing a past life, I come
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in and I sense what's going on and then it does get a little
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bit visual but I just kind of like, no this is what's
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happening and so and it does it feels like it happened like it
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feels like I'm telling a story about my life because it's that
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cement that taught the memory works.
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It's like now it's in my conscious I almost think of it
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as you know we don't you know we're conscious of so much and
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this is just a It in perspective perspective, where I'm like
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turning. I just am turning my head to see
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something else that I didn't that was are always there.
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I just didn't see it before and so now I can see it and now it's
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always there, right? Like I so I kind of have the
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memory of that experience. Mmm.
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And of course if your marriage was like, ready to dissolve and
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you both were at the absolute end of your tether.
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Obviously, Must have. Did she just suddenly realized
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that this was this vision of what had happened in?
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You know, in that past life? Did that come up during the time
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that you were going through the breakdown?
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It was so yeah. Yeah.
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That that Vision happened while I was in, you know, having this
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hard difficult time with my husband and but I didn't really
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connect the Two right away. It wasn't until I came home.
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And I was telling him about the experience and he was like, you
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know what, I was, I felt so angry.
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I was feeling angry, like angry, and I realized that I was
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holding that anger. Like I had that anger even
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before I left it was like I had this constant anger toward him
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and he said something along the lines of like, your whole you're
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holding that anger toward me, and it was like this awful
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moment of like, it's About him. It's not this wasn't the same,
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man, it was somebody different. And I had been holding this
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anger and directing it toward my husband and pushing him away and
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feeling like he's trying to take something away from me.
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And then it was like, this aha moment that was like, I'm the
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one. I'm actually the one who has
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been pulling away and not upholding my side of the
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relationship so that would help me.
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How how prevalent Is that like that?
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How many people would be just listening to this right now, and
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whether it was even in their last marriage or in a
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relationship as a, in their youth.
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Because let's face it, we keep learning lessons, don't we?
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Until we learn the lesson, and these people keep showing up.
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So, obviously, when that anger, kind of Hit you in the face and
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you had that. Aha moment then like what
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happened after that between you and your husband?
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That's when we decided to get into therapy.
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And so we started working together with a therapist who I
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knew whose excellent and we were able to, you know, each have a
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voice, you know. And I think the turning point
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and that was when the therapist asked us on a scale from 1 to
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10. How motivated are you to make
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this work out? And we're was a 10 for both of
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us. Oh, that's that's amazing.
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And I think and for him, I think that was a surprise because what
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he saw was that I was not acting like I was in it.
29:10
Hmm, this thing that went away and so that's when everything
29:14
really started to shift and Weezer repair.
29:18
And that's when I realized like, okay, I need to step away from
29:22
that business because that's part of what was taking Away
29:25
from my family. That was a slow process that I
29:29
continue to work with my therapist and like a whole
29:32
puzzle. Isn't it like all suddenly just
29:35
making sense and, you know, for that listener out there that is
29:42
listening to your wealth of experience as a therapist as a
29:48
person who understands very much about grief and loss.
29:54
And You know, where you have gone through this whole, you
30:00
know, trans and dacian. If you like this whole unique
30:04
process, but it's not unique. Is it really?
30:07
No. I mean, it might be unique to
30:09
the person going. Oh, is this a past life?
30:12
Maybe it's a past pattern relationship.
30:15
Maybe it's a, maybe it is a great, great, great,
30:20
grandparents life, as well. That's being carried on through.
30:25
You need the DNA. So I wonder how many marriages
30:29
could actually be saved in the same way.
30:32
Yours was? Yes, yes.
30:34
I see it all the time. I just wonder, I wonder the same
30:38
thing. Terry.
30:39
I wonder because I see people ending their relationships
30:43
because I think it can't work out and I, you know, a lot of
30:46
times that that's that's what needs to happen and maybe that
30:48
is the best, but I think if we just, you know, sometimes if we
30:52
just dig a little deeper and we do, Do the hard things like
30:56
having those challenging conversations or going to
30:59
therapy, we can find the way and look at you know, we can find
31:05
the way to help that relationship or looking at
31:10
ourselves to and seeing how am I contributing to this situation?
31:14
And I think and I think that's the biggest thing because so
31:18
many, it's so easy to want to blame, you know, the other
31:22
person or they did this, and they did that.
31:24
And that might be True. But again, how am I contributing
31:27
to it? And that's the hard stuff.
31:30
That's the really hard stuff to do, especially when we are
31:33
feeling angry when we're feeling like, you know, I just want to
31:37
be done and it would be. Yeah, leave and I can see, I can
31:42
see a, you know, how, you know, Retreats can come out of this as
31:48
well for couples that are really wanting to save their marriage.
31:53
Even And, you know, with the program that you're currently
31:58
creating, and obviously it takes you through transformation of
32:05
past life therapy and ancestral lineage.
32:09
So what does that look like? For the the people that come
32:14
into that specific module? So when you're taking them
32:18
through that transformation, what is it like for them?
32:23
What's the experience? Can Talk about the process at
32:26
all. Well, I have a four-month
32:28
container that I take people through and we generally start
32:32
with the past life regression and sometimes not, you know, if
32:35
somebody's not quite ready for that while do a few sessions
32:38
ahead of time. But what happens is that you
32:42
know, we get we get a lot out of that primary session with the
32:46
past life because then I understand the history.
32:48
I understand what they're struggling with and of course
32:51
you know even before that we get to you know, what it is that
32:54
they would like to This form during this period.
32:57
And so what they'll experience almost immediately is a sense of
33:03
relief and a sense of understanding themselves at a
33:06
deeper level and, and validation about themselves about knowing
33:11
who they are and about being okay with it.
33:15
Like, you know, it's okay that I'm like this because this,
33:19
there's a reason why, you know, a lot of times people look at
33:22
their lives and they're like, well I, there's no reason why I
33:25
should have these feelings. There's no reason why I
33:27
shouldn't be so angry salute laid, and they are trying to
33:32
find something from this life or this experience and it's just
33:35
not there. And so this helps them to get to
33:39
that. And feel like, oh, okay, that
33:41
makes sense. That once they have the
33:42
awareness of it, now, they can start making different choices
33:46
in their life and they can start, they can realize like
33:49
it's okay that I feel this way. It's valid.
33:52
So a lot of the work that I do is help Oops, them would that
33:55
validation. And then, and then, you know, I
33:59
support my clients to on communicating, you know, who,
34:04
you know, a lot of times the people that I work with, they
34:06
have some difficulty with a primary relationship and it's
34:10
not always a spouse, it could be a boss, it could be a mother, it
34:16
could be, you know, someone that is in their life.
34:19
Generally that they feel like they can't get away from or that
34:23
they have to be in a relationship.
34:24
Up with and so I can I help them see, you know, or I, you know, I
34:31
guide them to see what is their role in that relationship.
34:34
How is it serving them? What communication, how the
34:38
communication is, and how it could be?
34:41
And then support them as they are having those challenging,
34:44
sometimes, challenging communication or challenging
34:47
conversations with those people that are so close to them.
34:51
And, you know, the whole process to is people feel empowered.
34:56
They learn how to stand in their power.
34:58
They realized that what they think and feel is valid and
35:04
important and worthy of being heard, you know, they're worthy
35:08
of being heard and they're worthy of their needs being met.
35:12
And so that's some of the transformation that can happen
35:15
is. It's it's almost like, you know,
35:18
I'm thinking of several clients most recently that there was
35:22
just a lot of noise because they were so Rast about this
35:25
relationship that it permeated all of their other relationships
35:30
or their work and most clients. I work with are highly
35:34
successful people, so they've got it together in all these
35:38
different areas of their life and they just can't understand
35:40
like why is this one area challenging to me?
35:45
But we, you know, through the work together, we kind of get to
35:48
the bottom of that and see what's needed to be done to help
35:51
transform that. So that they feel empowered and
35:54
that they create the boundaries they need and they create, you
35:57
know, the relationship that serves them more.
36:02
That look of the work that we do together as well.
36:06
Yeah. And I mean I can really see by
36:10
taking them back. It's almost like well you know,
36:14
you're taking a back really to the Primitive, aren't you two
36:17
the very deepest Roots eat so you can kind of pull that out
36:23
and really weird it out. So it becomes something that is
36:30
so profound in there. And it has such a domino effect
36:34
and you know, and giving them that communication of excellence
36:38
and helping them to really understand.
36:43
You know why people are in their life, what they're teaching
36:47
them. I feel that that is just because
36:52
I know, I know that I have to remind myself constantly, you
36:55
know? I mean we all have problems
36:58
there's no perfect humans, right?
37:01
And, you know, it's all around communication and it's all about
37:05
relationships. But of course, you know, when
37:08
you're taking them back to that primitive space and then you
37:12
giving them that empowerment in communication.
37:16
Yeah, I can see how they then get to stand in their power and
37:21
become who they were really born to be and you take them through
37:25
self care practices to. So what kind of self care
37:30
practices? Do you?
37:31
Can mange? I recommend, you know, really
37:36
taking care of all of our body needs, right?
37:38
Like physically, making sure that we move ourselves drinking
37:41
enough water. I mean, some of just the most
37:43
basic things, but I do encourage a meditation, practice as well
37:48
and just whatever type of exercise suits the person.
37:52
And I can support my clients around nutrition as well.
37:55
And so, I sometimes bring that in, if that's something that
37:58
they are looking for, so, So really helping them understand
38:05
that the things that serve their bodies and serve their minds,
38:09
and their spirit is essential, and, and their emotional bodies,
38:14
like, how can they be, how can we be nourished on all of those
38:17
levels? And so, what is going to be
38:20
different for everyone? So, and, and to really take the
38:23
time to know that that's the most.
38:25
That's the most important relationship that we have is our
38:28
relationship with our self. Yeah.
38:31
That's very nice. That and giving ourself that
38:33
time and that love and that care that we deserve, you know?
38:37
Because if we don't have that relationship with ourself, how
38:41
can we have it with anybody else?
38:44
Absolutely, and I love that you are so supportive to your
38:48
clients and that you're really, you know, you're holding them in
38:53
that space and you doing that real deep inner work and you're
38:58
giving them, it's almost reminds it will Well I really really
39:04
ordained it because you know that for me I'm all about the
39:09
five master keys and and really these are what you've expressed.
39:13
It's actually five major elements here in the Deep work,
39:20
they're doing in their relationships and Communications
39:23
and standing in their power in their self-care.
39:26
And their practices, which is really, you know, a lot of the
39:30
practical And of course, the last but definitely not least is
39:36
then assisting them to really leave their legacy life in what
39:41
they do in their career and everything.
39:45
So, isn't it interesting though? Nadia how when you kill someone
39:50
at such a deep level, how it has that profound ability to just
39:57
unravel in their lives and and lift them up and help them?
40:01
In their career, in their relationships, in their health.
40:06
It's it's really quite incredible, isn't it?
40:09
It is if yeah. So if you had any tips for
40:14
people, listening your people that are listening in right now
40:18
and obviously they may be at that Brink where they just feel
40:22
like they're at the end of their tether.
40:25
They don't know why they keep having this issue that's coming
40:30
up. What would you say to them?
40:33
Like if they had to do something right now, like just even if
40:38
they're suffering a little bit as they're listening to this,
40:41
or, you know, afterward what would you tell them to do first?
40:46
I would, I would want them to know that to tend to that part
40:50
of them, that is struggling is important and to give themselves
40:55
the time and the space to see what that is.
40:59
You know, what's there? That's, that's troubling you.
41:01
You. What's there?
41:02
That's that you're struggling with that.
41:04
Needs some attention because that's what it needs, is some
41:07
attention. And, you know, a lot of times
41:11
what is underneath that is? It's a loss or it's the grief
41:17
and we haven't really touched upon this so much.
41:20
That's a big part of the work I do is helping tend to the grief
41:25
and the grief, that's present the grief.
41:27
That's a cute, you know, like when somebody passes or but it's
41:31
also the If of things that we've lost in our lives, you know, it
41:35
might not be, it's more like hidden grief or things that we
41:38
don't even realize we've lost, and to give ourselves that time
41:43
and space to tend to that and to acknowledge it.
41:47
So maybe it's, you know, for me, you know, it's about my family
41:53
is an immigrant to the United States.
41:55
From we moved from England and my dad from Egypt here, and it
42:00
occurred to me recently. I like that's a huge loss, you
42:04
know, it's a huge loss to move from where your family is from,
42:09
and be transplanted in another place.
42:12
And to honor that for some, it's about, you know, maybe it's a
42:15
move, maybe it's something. Maybe, you know, even like other
42:19
losses in my life that I can think of is, like the my child
42:22
not being able to go to the school.
42:24
I thought would be good for him and there is grief in that for
42:28
me. There was grateful when we moved
42:30
in my children had to The school that they loved, you know, and
42:34
really give space and to honor the grief that yeah, loss.
42:40
And so I think that's something that we can all do.
42:43
I think, in our culture, our Western culture, we've really we
42:46
kind of want to gloss over loss and sorrow and say oh okay but
42:53
everything's fine now and every everything's better.
42:57
But no, it's like what is there? You know, I ran that group.
43:01
I told You about for some years around birth recovery, the birth
43:06
Recovery Group because for so many women.
43:10
They have challenging childbirth experiences and so many people's
43:15
well, tell them. Oh, but you have a beautiful
43:17
baby, so your you should be fine, you know?
43:20
But it's like it's two separate things.
43:23
Mmm, you separate things. It's like yes you're so grateful
43:27
and you love your baby and you're happy about having this
43:29
wonderful baby and You experienced a traumatic, you had
43:34
a very traumatic you know childbirth that needs to be
43:38
unpacked and tended to and the story needs to be heard so that
43:42
you can process and move through it.
43:44
You know, and I think there's so many like these are these are
43:47
all I think those are two good examples of the Hidden grief.
43:51
You know, the yeah. Or he's around birth and then
43:55
the stories of immigration, which, you know, everybody in
43:57
the United States and probably Australia to is an immigrant
44:00
somewhere down the line, right? Right, even the truth, even the
44:05
maid, you know, even the Native Americans here they've all been
44:08
transplanted. They've all been moved around
44:10
and shuffled around so it's like they have that grief as well.
44:14
You know, there's just so much and all the different things
44:17
that are here and so to honor that and to give space for that,
44:22
I think is something that we can all do and to know that it's
44:24
valid and important to do that and to give ourselves the time
44:28
and space to really to really, just With that and see what it
44:34
needs. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
44:37
So it sounds like, you know, the person that you are definitely
44:43
talking to is a very successful person.
44:46
There are very passionate person and yet they've got all these.
44:53
There's got these things that are going on behind closed doors
44:58
that they haven't been able to express.
45:01
They've got issues, Shoes in their relationships, their,
45:04
their suffering, as a result of triggers that are coming up
45:09
through their primitive background, and once they get to
45:15
the underlying factor of that, that's when everything can
45:20
change. But, you know, one of the things
45:23
that I love is that you can make a very long story, short, with
45:28
all of your clients here, and I'm really excited.
45:32
Did about this because I gave you my date of birth before, we
45:36
devote your show. And yeah, I gave you a, because
45:40
you are a human design person as well.
45:46
So you actually utilize this. So I understand that someone who
45:52
comes to see, you can get that whole personality chart and have
45:57
an understanding of them self, which is a huge eye-opener.
46:02
Ah, yeah, and that is really the greatest in road to take them
46:06
into your program. So I'm really excited.
46:10
I, I mean, everyone knows here. I'm in my 50s, I was born on the
46:15
24th of October and I'm on the cusp of a Scorpio and Libra, and
46:22
I think I was born at midnight. What can you tell me about
46:27
myself in all of that? That might be important.
46:30
Things that will pray Apps help me or the person out there
46:34
that's listening. Understand themselves.
46:38
Well, yeah, wonderful. So I just want to say to that
46:41
human design is part of how I learned how to listen to my body
46:47
because it teaches us that we're where we make our decisions from
46:52
and how we best make decisions. And so, it's really a process of
46:57
unlearning. What we've been conditioned to,
47:01
to be our entire Lives from society, from our families and
47:05
to really recondition ourselves to live more within our innate
47:09
design, which is how we were born and what's most natural for
47:12
us. So, it's really a tuning in
47:14
process to what how we work and and what I love about this.
47:18
And so I do this practice process with all of my clients.
47:21
It's a big part of what we do and we carry it through all of
47:25
the sessions, you know, because it's we always are coming back
47:29
to it because it has, it's a process, it's a process.
47:32
This of understanding about yourself.
47:35
And so for you Terry you might know that you're manifesting
47:40
generator and I'll just give a little.
47:43
I know Powerhouse the PowerHouse of the human design chart is a
47:46
manifesting generator. And so, 70% of all humans are
47:50
generator types, either their generator or there are
47:53
manifesting generator that 70% of humans.
47:56
I'm a generator, you're manifesting generator, and the
48:00
generator types have. A motor.
48:03
So we have the sacral defined when your generator type.
48:06
You have your sacral Center is defined and it is like a little
48:11
motor that can that helps you do the things that you need to do
48:14
or it's like, you know, moves you through your day and we need
48:19
to be busy all day long. Essentially not busy, but busy
48:24
doing the things that light us up and we have energy for the
48:29
things that light us up. So, we asked And the thing is,
48:34
with the generator type, if you're doing something that
48:37
doesn't let you up, guess what happens?
48:40
And I'll or tap. And so this is, I didn't even do
48:46
it anymore. Nadia, I don't even, I avoid,
48:50
like, the black plague. Anything I don't want to do, I'm
48:54
almost ignorant. That's what.
48:57
It's come to with me at this level.
48:59
Yes it's good. And that's living your sign
49:02
because you shouldn't be doing things that don't let you up
49:05
because you don't have the energy for it.
49:06
It's just going to sap your energy.
49:09
And so a manifesting generator is just multifaceted.
49:12
There are kind of their combination between generators
49:15
and manifest her so they get inspiration like a manifest or
49:18
wood but they have that that that power that that sacral
49:23
power of a generator. And so for manifesting
49:27
generators, my husband is one, so I see it in action all the
49:30
time. It's your very Mac.
49:32
And what you can do, you can switch your attention and do
49:35
something here. You can do something over here
49:37
and this like go throughout your day, just really doing whatever
49:41
at the thing. Is it kind of comes at you that
49:43
lights you up? And yes.
49:45
And so in a sense that's the PowerHouse like as a generator,
49:49
I'm more like I'm doing my thing and I'm doing doing doing my
49:52
thing. If something else comes at me,
49:53
I'm I'll be like, okay, I'll tend to that later, you know?
49:56
And I'm more of like, in my track whereas the manifesting
49:59
generator can just really flow. And And multi-dimensional
50:04
exactly month, multi-dimensional and do the thing as, and as long
50:08
as you're following what lights you up?
50:11
Yeah. To go now, so, for you, you have
50:15
a gut intuition which is your sacral intuition.
50:18
Some people have emotional like me, but your gut intuition tells
50:23
you in the now, if something is right for you or not.
50:28
So it will feel like an aha, alright?
50:32
Your body and so everybody has their own sort of sound that
50:36
they tune into. But you'll know like if I ask
50:39
you, hey Terry, do you want to go for a walk?
50:41
You know you'll know in the moment.
50:43
Yes or no. Do you want to go?
50:45
You know, and so it's like somebody can ask you a question
50:48
and you'll know that, yes, this is for me.
50:49
No, it's not for me. And that's one of the beauties
50:52
of having the sacral does that Mike is very black and white
50:56
because I am a very black and white person actually, well, it
51:00
does because I'll just tell Tell you as an emotional.
51:03
So 50% of people are emotional and 50% are non-emotional, and
51:08
there's other types of intuition that I won't get into right now.
51:11
But they're for generators, they're generally the gut
51:14
intuition, or their emotional intuition.
51:17
And so, for emotional intuition, I still have that sacral gut
51:21
response, but I have to listen to my emotions and go through
51:24
the wave of my emotions before I get to a yes or no, because I
51:29
might feel yes in the moment but tomorrow, Going to wake up and
51:32
be like, oh no, I don't want to do that.
51:37
So now I have to backtrack. So for me.
51:39
Yes. As to go through the emotion of
51:42
something and feel into the yeses or nose, and then when I
51:46
get to a neutral Place, make the decision of this is, yes, this
51:50
is a yes for me. And this is a no, for me.
51:52
And so that's what I wasn't listening to when I went into
51:56
that business, right? I wasn't listening to how I
52:00
wasn't at a. I wasn't clear.
52:02
I wasn't at a clear place and so my emotions I felt my emotions
52:05
but it wasn't like I didn't have a clear yes or no you know.
52:09
And so I asked before I was clear and that I think it's the
52:13
difficulty and that happened along the way.
52:15
I mean this this this could go a long way with multi-million
52:19
dollar decisions, you know Nadia like a person who is you know
52:26
entrepreneur who wants to really know their life path and they
52:32
They are blocked. I mean, how powerful would it be
52:36
for them to understand their human design and actually clear
52:42
all of that junk from their trunks, so to speak.
52:46
And then, you know, and then just move through into their
52:51
self-empowerment. I mean, that's that's got to be,
52:55
that's got to be pretty, that's going to be pretty lucrative.
53:02
Absolutely. Absolutely.
53:03
Because it's very validating because it's things that we
53:06
already know about ourselves but now we can just like rest assure
53:10
and rely on it. And so I was just at a retreat
53:13
weekend this past weekend and I did this for all of the women
53:16
that were there, there was five or six of us.
53:19
And so I did the everybody's human design and everyone, they
53:22
none of them really knew that much about it, but everyone was
53:24
like, that's so me. That's so mean that's so me, you
53:28
know, Tori. And when yeah, I've had that
53:31
moment just like and everything just adds up and it makes sense
53:36
and I feel that that kind of self-awareness to understand
53:40
yourself and even with what you were saying about you needing to
53:44
ride the emotions, compared to me, needing to listen to my gut.
53:49
And how many times I've overridden that and gone with
53:53
the monkey mind and then regretted it.
53:55
Yeah. So, you know it and that's how
53:58
powerful its really powerful. Phone.
54:01
And that's the experiment. That's the experiment.
54:03
It's not like you have to listen to what your gut says and do it.
54:07
But it's best to notice it like say like let's say you do
54:10
override it. You know you hear that got
54:12
response. You're like yes, but you're
54:13
like, I don't want to do that. So it's like, okay, don't do
54:16
that. But then look back.
54:18
And see how did that work out? You know.
54:21
Absolutely. You know, we can learn a lot and
54:23
so it's a process, you know, there's no right or wrong with
54:26
this and it's a guide. They got.
54:28
Yes, understand ourselves more. And that's we've just touched on
54:31
the on the real surface of it. But yes, something for just to
54:36
know about your, your strategy is good.
54:41
And this is for all generator types, is that we respond to
54:44
situations outside of ourselves or so.
54:47
We respond to things outside of ourselves.
54:48
So might have the idea like oh, I'd really love to go on
54:52
vacation, but it's when we have the idea, it's not necessary to
54:56
go and just like start making plans to go on vacation.
54:59
It's like, okay, I'd love to go on.
55:00
Asian and so now let's wait till we hear it in our environment so
55:05
we can respond to it. So maybe a friend like hey I was
55:08
thinking about going to Tahiti do you want to come?
55:10
And so now you're like yes I do and you're responding to
55:14
something outside but it could be as simple as listening to the
55:18
radio and you hear an advertisement for, you know,
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cheap tickets to Tahiti and you're like that's what I'm
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going to do. It's really interesting.
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You should say this Nadia because I am Feeling cold to an
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island at the moment and I won't go into it too deep.
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But it's very interesting that you intuitively or to say that
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because everything that is coming my way at the moment, I'm
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finding. Yeah, when you are making big
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changes in your life, usually there's confirmation, you know,
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things will come up, your He thinks just like what you said.
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So how is the best way for someone to get in contact with
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you and join your program and be in your container?
56:14
I mean, obviously we're going to put the link here, so anybody
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listening can definitely just go straight to that link.
56:23
Have you got any suggestions that you would like to point
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people into any specific Direction yourself?
56:30
Elf. Well, I'm on Instagram and
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Facebook and it's just my name that idea.
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I'll McGraw be so you can find me there and message me there.
56:38
If you want to connect, I'm in the process and it should be
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ready by the end of the week of having a recording of a
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regression so that can be signed up for on and I'll have a link
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that I will add to this. If it's not there, right away,
56:54
it will be there. Shortly, the people could do you
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know. And and and then I Text.
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Yeah, I have a taste and then they'll be Mike Allen Lee Link
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in there as well. If you're interested in getting
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more support because even doing the recording can things can
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come up and so I wouldn't mind if they want to learn more about
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me or learn about my programs and watch you thinking about
57:19
working together that they can sign up for, you know, a call on
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my calendar. And we'll just, we'll just have
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a chat about what's going on. So that's so I'll have To get
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you that link and we'll have to listen into that.
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Because that is that that is really exciting.
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So guys you're probably going to have that opportunity to click
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that link and experience this. Incredible little snippet that
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Nadia has got for your past life regression.
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And what that can mean and of course you know doing the work
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in going really deep. Nothing like it.
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I mean absolutely can save your marriage can save your
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relationships, can Empower your life and help you make
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multi-million dollar decisions the right way.
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Beautiful, thank you so much. This has been such a pleasure,
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you are absolutely welcome. And it is, you know, absolutely
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a pleasure from me. And I just want to thank you for
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just bringing so much. Gold to this podcast.
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And yeah, we can't wait to see you in the future and I can't
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wait to listen to your life past.
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Regression recording, awesome. Wonderful, thanks, everyone.
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