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Green Flags - She's a Keeper! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Today's video is for the men. Let's talk about what it takes
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  ladies to be considered a keeper.
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  Hang on. And I'm giving you these in no
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  particular order, OK? It's just as it comes into my
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  brain because I don't prepare. That's not how I roll.
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  It's like real from here to here.
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  It gets me in trouble sometimes. Hang on.
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  Oh, and I'm sure the men out there will have their own
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  opinions, so feel free, guys, to add your own in the comments.
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  Here we go. All right, so #1 again, no
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  particular order is a woman who is not demanding.
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  Not demanding. She's not expecting this, and
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  she's not expecting this because she's going to make your life
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  hell. If that's the case.
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  Hang on, #2A woman who wants to be a team player, OK, She's not
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  one of these women who are judging every move you make.
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  Just like ladies. You wouldn't want to be judge
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  him to be judging every move you make, you know?
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  So she's not hypercritical. She's not judging every move you
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  make. She's looks at it like we're in
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  it as a team. Hang on, I got more.
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  That's not to say, ladies, that I'm talking about a 5050
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  relationship. No, but I do know some women who
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  are like if a guy's coming to see you, for example, and he's
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  not familiar with your town, you think you can't offer any
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  suggestions to him and he should just figure it out?
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  No, that's not the right attitude at all, #3.
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  She has her own life and career, whatever it is.
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  She doesn't have to be killing it in business, but she can't be
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  circling the drain financially. She has to be self-sustaining.
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  All right, that's number three. Hang on, I got a few more for
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  you. She has a good attitude in
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  general. She can laugh at herself, she
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  can be self deprecating. She's not like, you know, so
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  prickly and sensitive about everything because you'll be
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  walking on egg shells, men, forever.
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  If that's the case, hang on one more.
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  I'll give you one more. Last but not least, she is truly
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  empathetic. She she can empathize with
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  others. She empathizes with you.
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  She's not somebody that's like a doormat that can be walked all
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  over, right? No, you don't want that.
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  I don't want that for you, ladies.
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  But you. She is somebody who is genuinely
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  caring of others. All right, so that's what I've
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  got for you today, I think. I think being a matchmaker for
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  15 years, over 15 years now have to keep remembering that time
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  flies, that I think that these are the things that make a woman
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  and other things, but I think these are the core things that
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  make a woman a keeper. All right, These are the basics.
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  I hope it helps.