Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #1199 - Why I Banned Reading Logs in My Home (And You Should Too)
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Reading locks for homework. Color it in, make sure you've
- 0:09Speaker 1: done the right amount of time. Is it a good
- 0:11Speaker 1: idea or is it a bad idea? I just sounded
- 0:14Speaker 1: a bit like our kids when they're mad at us.
- 0:16Speaker 1: I'm so ack very.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Ah.
- 0:19Speaker 1: Today we're going to discuss the question of reading logs
- 0:23Speaker 1: because it came up recently when a parent asked me
- 0:26Speaker 1: at a parent night, what's the deal? How do we
- 0:30Speaker 1: play this? I'm just not sure, but my child chafes
- 0:33Speaker 1: at the reading lock. Hello, welcome to the Happy Family Podcast,
- 0:37Speaker 1: Real Parenting Solutions every day on Australia's most downloaded parenting podcast.
- 0:42Speaker 1: We are Justin and Kylie Colson.
- 0:45Speaker 2: We love to read in our house. I would actually
- 0:47Speaker 2: say we are voracious readers.
- 0:52Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say ferocious for me.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Voracious is the right word. Yeah, someone must have been
- 0:57Speaker 1: reading big vocabulary. I love it.
- 0:59Speaker 2: We have six children and every single one of them
- 1:02Speaker 2: are bookworms, to the point where we've had I would say,
- 1:07Speaker 2: numerous children who've almost been run over hit vehicles by
- 1:11Speaker 2: vehicles as they've walked their way to school with their
- 1:14Speaker 2: nose in a book.
- 1:15Speaker 1: When we used to live in Wollongong, I know I'm
- 1:17Speaker 1: cutting you off. But we had this one daughter who
- 1:19Speaker 1: would read so much she would literally just read as
- 1:21Speaker 1: she walked and literally almost got hit by the bus
- 1:25Speaker 1: more than once because she'd just walked to school with
- 1:29Speaker 1: her nose in the book.
- 1:31Speaker 2: We've had multiple children with torches under the covers after
- 1:36Speaker 2: lights out all the time, and our biggest struggle has
- 1:40Speaker 2: actually been keeping them in books. In that We've got
- 1:45Speaker 2: a ten year old who's now reading books that are
- 1:47Speaker 2: five and six hundred pages long. Yeah, which means you're
- 1:51Speaker 2: often it's trying to find books that are appropriate for
- 1:54Speaker 2: her age and yet stimulate her reading level. It's a
- 1:59Speaker 2: really tricky place.
- 2:00Speaker 1: I'm not going to bury the lead. I'm going to
- 2:01Speaker 1: come out and say it right now at the top
- 2:03Speaker 1: of this podcast episode. None of our kids have ever
- 2:06Speaker 1: filled in a reading log. I have forbidden it. I'm
- 2:09Speaker 1: anti reading log And that's our conversation today. Number one,
- 2:13Speaker 1: what the problem with reading logs is? And number two,
- 2:17Speaker 1: how to get your kids still love reading, which is
- 2:19Speaker 1: something that we've done quite well.
- 2:22Speaker 2: Reading is the key skill to education. It's literally the
- 2:27Speaker 2: gateway to all other skills. And if we can get
- 2:30Speaker 2: this one thing right with our kids, they're going to
- 2:33Speaker 2: make it all right in the world.
- 2:34Speaker 1: I love the way that you said that. Let's go
- 2:35Speaker 1: through some stats. I think there's some relevance here. It's important.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Oxford University Press did some research in Australia with Ossie
- 2:43Speaker 1: families found that twenty five percent of parents only read
- 2:47Speaker 1: to their kids once a week or not at all.
- 2:49Speaker 1: That's a quarter of families and not reading their kids
- 2:52Speaker 1: in any meaningful way on a week to week basis.
- 2:55Speaker 1: Fifty six percent of parents were worried about their own
- 2:58Speaker 1: reading ability and therefore we're unlikely to read to the
- 3:01Speaker 1: kids because they don't like how they read.
- 3:05Speaker 2: That to me is staggering.
- 3:07Speaker 1: We have an issue in this country with people who
- 3:10Speaker 1: are barely functionally literate. This has been an ongoing issue.
- 3:14Speaker 1: We've got a great education system, but too many kids
- 3:16Speaker 1: fall through the cracks and become adults who really struggle
- 3:19Speaker 1: to read, who don't enjoy reading it all. Happy to
- 3:21Speaker 1: listen to an audiobook, but don't want to pick one
- 3:23Speaker 1: up and read it. Wow. The other thing that came
- 3:27Speaker 1: out here is that only fifty percent of parents are
- 3:30Speaker 1: routinely reading to their young children. That drops to thirty
- 3:33Speaker 1: percent in lower income families. There is a relationship between
- 3:36Speaker 1: socioeconomic status and the amount that you read to your kids.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Something that's also fascinating to me is the relationship between
- 3:44Speaker 1: your education level and your income level and how many
- 3:46Speaker 1: books you've got in your house. So kids that come
- 3:50Speaker 1: from more educated families and wealthier families tend to be
- 3:54Speaker 1: around books a lot, and they reckon that. There's a
- 3:57Speaker 1: word gap between those who are surrounded by books and
- 4:00Speaker 1: those who aren't, those who are being raised in well
- 4:03Speaker 1: educated families and those who aren't. Up to maybe a
- 4:07Speaker 1: million words a year the kids in the lower socioeconomic
- 4:11Speaker 1: groups are missing out on. So if you're not getting
- 4:14Speaker 1: that extra million words a year across a lifespan or
- 4:17Speaker 1: across a decade of childhood, that adds up to an
- 4:21Speaker 1: enormous amount from a literacy point of view. And whatever
- 4:24Speaker 1: it was that you said before about reading being the
- 4:27Speaker 1: gateway to all education, reading is the foundational element of
- 4:31Speaker 1: helping our kids to thrive. You look at those stats
- 4:34Speaker 1: and it's clear, it's abundantly clear. If kids don't read,
- 4:40Speaker 1: then they're not going to become better readers, which means
- 4:42Speaker 1: that they're less likely to become leaders, they're less likely
- 4:45Speaker 1: to do well in any number of other domains doesn't
- 4:48Speaker 1: mean that they can't. It's just harder for them.
- 4:51Speaker 2: So what happened at your recent parent night that has
- 4:54Speaker 2: sparked this conversation.
- 4:55Speaker 1: Yeah. So I've made no secret of this, and I've
- 4:58Speaker 1: been making noise about it fifteen years. I'm not a
- 5:01Speaker 1: fan of homework in primary school. There's just there's not
- 5:04Speaker 1: a shred of credible evidence that supports its use What's
- 5:07Speaker 1: curious to me is when I'm at parent knights now
- 5:10Speaker 1: and I say it all the teachers. I always I
- 5:12Speaker 1: make a big deal that I'm like, oh, no, the
- 5:13Speaker 1: principles here. I hope I'm not going to get kicked out.
- 5:16Speaker 1: I hope that they'll have me back after I say this.
- 5:19Speaker 1: And then I'll talk about how in primary school there's
- 5:21Speaker 1: just no evidence to support its usefulness. And the teachers
- 5:24Speaker 1: all start applauding, but the parents look at me like
- 5:27Speaker 1: I've just swallowed poison in front of them. They can't
- 5:30Speaker 1: believe that I've done it, and they're saying, why would
- 5:33Speaker 1: you say this? Like homework, Homework's great, And so I
- 5:36Speaker 1: talk through all of the research around limited efficacy. Kids
- 5:41Speaker 1: who already know how to do it, it's boring for them.
- 5:43Speaker 1: Kids who can't do it, it's just frustrating, makes them
- 5:45Speaker 1: feel even more incompetent. And then I make a very
- 5:47Speaker 1: clear point. The one thing that is associated with great
- 5:51Speaker 1: academic outcomes in primary school is kids reading. But we
- 5:58Speaker 1: should not be telling our kids to fill in the
- 6:00Speaker 1: homework log, to color in the homework wheel, to show
- 6:03Speaker 1: that they've done their ten pages or their twenty minutes
- 6:06Speaker 1: or whatever they should read because they love it. That's
- 6:10Speaker 1: my emphasis. The principle is always applaud The teachers always say, oh,
- 6:14Speaker 1: thank goodness, because we hate assigning homework and having to
- 6:16Speaker 1: follow up on homework as well. But the reading log
- 6:20Speaker 1: thing really created a bit of a stir at this
- 6:22Speaker 1: parent night recently, and that's why I thought, doctor's desk,
- 6:25Speaker 1: let's do it well.
- 6:27Speaker 2: It wouldn't be a doctor's desk if you weren't referring
- 6:29Speaker 2: to a whole heap of numbers and stats and things
- 6:31Speaker 2: that hurt my brain. What is the research telling us
- 6:35Speaker 2: about reading locks?
- 6:36Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt your brain. I'm going to
- 6:37Speaker 1: refer to one study, although there are more studies than
- 6:41Speaker 1: just this one. These studies really built out of what's
- 6:44Speaker 1: known as the motivation literature. Okay, so there's a whole
- 6:50Speaker 1: lot of other research that supports what this one study
- 6:53Speaker 1: is talking about. A lot of people say, well, anyone
- 6:54Speaker 1: can find one study that says one thing. So I'm
- 6:57Speaker 1: using this as an example of an entire research body
- 7:01Speaker 1: that underpins what I'm about to say. This is from
- 7:03Speaker 1: Princeton University, So we're talking about a very prestigious university
- 7:07Speaker 1: with excellent researchers. Somebody called Sarah Pack at Princeton did
- 7:13Speaker 1: this research paper looking at the effect of mandatory reading
- 7:16Speaker 1: logs on children's motivation to read. Got a whole bunch
- 7:21Speaker 1: of second and third grade students. They were assigned either
- 7:23Speaker 1: a mandatory log or a voluntary log. They were surveyed
- 7:26Speaker 1: about their motivation to read at baseline, and then two
- 7:29Speaker 1: months down the track once they've been keeping the log
- 7:31Speaker 1: for a couple of months. And here's what Sarah and
- 7:34Speaker 1: her colleagues found. Students with mandatory reading logs expressed declines
- 7:40Speaker 1: in both interest in reading and attitudes towards recreational reading
- 7:46Speaker 1: in comparison to peers with voluntary logs, and attitudes towards
- 7:51Speaker 1: academic reading decreased significantly from pre to post test across conditions.
- 7:57Speaker 1: In other words, by making a child feel in a
- 8:00Speaker 1: reading log, you essentially help them to see reading as
- 8:05Speaker 1: something that is not fun to do.
- 8:08Speaker 2: This reminds me of the conversation we had with healthy
- 8:10Speaker 2: Cone in relation to punishment by rewards, we're actually suggesting,
- 8:15Speaker 2: by putting a mandatory ceiling on it, whether it be
- 8:19Speaker 2: you read for ten minutes or you read ten pages
- 8:21Speaker 2: or whatever it is, that we actually have to give
- 8:26Speaker 2: them a reason to do it, because doing the task
- 8:29Speaker 2: in and of itself is not stimulating, is not worth
- 8:32Speaker 2: their time actually rewarding. And the devastation of that is
- 8:39Speaker 2: that this study recognizes that previous two having reading logs,
- 8:45Speaker 2: there was actually a level of motivation. It would have
- 8:47Speaker 2: varied from child to child, of course, but there was already.
- 8:51Speaker 2: We're born curious, right, We're born desiring to understand and
- 8:55Speaker 2: know the world around us, and reading is a wonderful
- 8:57Speaker 2: way that we can do that, and we've just literally
- 9:01Speaker 2: chopped it off at the legs.
- 9:02Speaker 1: Yeah, it's turning and reading into a chore. And like
- 9:04Speaker 1: you said, it puts a ceiling or a limit on it.
- 9:06Speaker 1: It's kind of like the whole hey, kids, you need
- 9:09Speaker 1: to go and practice the piano for thirty minutes. And
- 9:11Speaker 1: when my mum used to say that I procrastinated, I
- 9:14Speaker 1: fiddled around on the piano as long as I sat
- 9:16Speaker 1: at the piano for thirty minutes, and I watched the
- 9:18Speaker 1: clock the whole time, rather than looking at the music
- 9:20Speaker 1: or considering the music that I might produce. By having
- 9:23Speaker 1: to do it as a chore, it made it horrible
- 9:26Speaker 1: and I couldn't wait to quit the piano. It just
- 9:28Speaker 1: doesn't work. So after the break, let's talk about how
- 9:32Speaker 1: we can help our kids to love reading. Okay, Kylie,
- 9:42Speaker 1: we got to talk about how to help kids to
- 9:44Speaker 1: just fall in love with reading.
- 9:46Speaker 2: So I actually don't have a single memory of my
- 9:50Speaker 2: parents reading to me, and I might be doing them
- 9:52Speaker 2: a disservice, but I don't remember at all being read
- 9:55Speaker 2: to as a child. What I do remember is my
- 9:58Speaker 2: dad used to tell me stories, so he would come
- 10:01Speaker 2: to my bedside and he would share stories with me
- 10:04Speaker 2: by my bedside. As opposed to reading, I don't feel
- 10:08Speaker 2: like as a child I had a great love of
- 10:10Speaker 2: books at all. I wasn't a particularly curious child and
- 10:14Speaker 2: wasn't until I got really, really sick as a fourteen
- 10:17Speaker 2: year old, and one of my leaders from church brought
- 10:22Speaker 2: me a book. I was stuck at home for three
- 10:24Speaker 2: months without being able to go to school. I wasn't
- 10:26Speaker 2: socializing and she handed me this book and I was like, yeah, whatever,
- 10:30Speaker 2: I'm never going to read that. And one day I
- 10:33Speaker 2: was so bored that I picked it up.
- 10:34Speaker 1: I was so bored.
- 10:37Speaker 2: And I picked it up and I devoured that book
- 10:40Speaker 2: from cover to cover within a couple of days. That
- 10:43Speaker 2: was the turning point for me. And so when I
- 10:46Speaker 2: think about this idea of how we go about creating
- 10:51Speaker 2: a love of reading, for me, having books accessible to
- 10:57Speaker 2: your kids is number one, hands down, such an important
- 11:03Speaker 2: part of that process.
- 11:04Speaker 1: So that ties in with our experience that we shard
- 11:06Speaker 1: on I'll do but it' tomorrow. A couple of weeks ago,
- 11:08Speaker 1: with our daughter, we left the that my gut friends.
- 11:12Speaker 1: I've got friends in my gut that helped me to
- 11:13Speaker 1: be healthy. Whatever that book was, we left it there
- 11:16Speaker 1: so that she would see it, and she walked past
- 11:18Speaker 1: it dozens of times before she finally picked up and
- 11:21Speaker 1: decided to read it. And all of a sudden, here's
- 11:23Speaker 1: this kid who's saying, I need to improve my diet.
- 11:25Speaker 1: I need to get this stuff into my belly because
- 11:27Speaker 1: I've got these gut friends that will do good things
- 11:29Speaker 1: for me if they get the right nutrition and nutrients.
- 11:31Speaker 1: So the accessibility of books is crucial, not.
- 11:36Speaker 2: Having them like you can't have them on the bookshelf
- 11:39Speaker 2: half the time, especially for younger kids.
- 11:41Speaker 1: Because they're just decorative.
- 11:43Speaker 2: That's right.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Yeah, they've got to be within arm's reach.
- 11:46Speaker 2: So recently Emily has loved playing with a lego, but
- 11:49Speaker 2: now that we've got a baby walking around the house,
- 11:52Speaker 2: we've had to put it away and she won't pull
- 11:54Speaker 2: it out because that's too much effort because it's not
- 11:57Speaker 2: in sight.
- 11:58Speaker 1: Reduce the friction, make make it the easy option. And
- 12:01Speaker 1: this is why people are looking at phones right Because
- 12:03Speaker 1: the phones are friction free and they're massively stimulating. You
- 12:07Speaker 1: don't have to do nearly as much work as you
- 12:09Speaker 1: do with other things. You know what, though, it's a
- 12:11Speaker 1: hollow reward compared to what you get from a book.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Let's talk about how to get your kids to love reading.
- 12:18Speaker 1: You don't remember your parents reading to you. From the
- 12:21Speaker 1: time I was born, my parents read and read and
- 12:24Speaker 1: read to me, and I knew my books so well
- 12:28Speaker 1: that if they tried to skip a line because they
- 12:30Speaker 1: were tired, and they were falling asleep on the floor
- 12:32Speaker 1: beside me while they read, I would rouse on them.
- 12:35Speaker 1: I'd get them in trouble and say, no, that's not
- 12:37Speaker 1: what it says, and then I would recite what the
- 12:39Speaker 1: words were on that page because I couldn't read, but
- 12:41Speaker 1: I knew that book inside and out. I know.
- 12:44Speaker 2: A few years after we got married, your mum sent
- 12:47Speaker 2: us a copy of the Little Golden Book, Donald Duck's
- 12:50Speaker 2: Toy Train.
- 12:52Speaker 1: Donald Duck's New Toy Train. Thank you very much. Yes, Donald,
- 12:56Speaker 1: I'm fifty years old this year. They were reading it
- 12:58Speaker 1: to me when I was three. I still remember the
- 13:00Speaker 1: first couple of pages. Donald Duck had a new Toy
- 13:03Speaker 1: Train and it was a beauty too, And then it
- 13:06Speaker 1: starts describing all the carriages to the little red caboos
- 13:09Speaker 1: on the back, like I still remember it. Like that's
- 13:12Speaker 1: the impact that reading has on you, You remember it
- 13:14Speaker 1: those years later. It bonds you with your kids. Read
- 13:17Speaker 1: Read number one. Read to your kids. Read slower than
- 13:21Speaker 1: you think you need to, so that their minds can
- 13:24Speaker 1: keep up with what you're saying, and use voices and expression.
- 13:30Speaker 1: Ask them questions about the pictures, ask them questions about
- 13:34Speaker 1: the characters, ask them questions about what they would do.
- 13:36Speaker 1: I remember reading The Magic Far Away Tree to the kids,
- 13:39Speaker 1: our kids, and saying things to them like, what would
- 13:42Speaker 1: you do if you were climbing up the tree and
- 13:44Speaker 1: this happened? How would it feel to go down the
- 13:47Speaker 1: slide with Moonbeam or mister sauceman Man or whatever it
- 13:51Speaker 1: is like? Asking them questions as you read, or going
- 13:53Speaker 1: through The Princess Bride and having them terrified about what's
- 13:57Speaker 1: about to happen. It makes the book come alive when
- 13:59Speaker 1: they see your love for it and they see your
- 14:01Speaker 1: interest in not just the book, but in their reactions
- 14:04Speaker 1: to the book. Oh, read to them.
- 14:07Speaker 2: So that's your number one tip.
- 14:09Speaker 1: Have I made that clear?
- 14:10Speaker 2: I think so.
- 14:10Speaker 1: I'm so passionate about this.
- 14:12Speaker 2: I think number two has to be we have to
- 14:16Speaker 2: model it. They have to see our love of books.
- 14:18Speaker 2: You do a pretty good job of it, because on
- 14:21Speaker 2: any given day there's about.
- 14:24Speaker 1: There are dozens of books. How many books. I'm usually
- 14:27Speaker 1: reading at least three books at a time.
- 14:29Speaker 2: You are, and they are so varied, there's no it's
- 14:33Speaker 2: there's such an eclectic array of genres and topics at
- 14:38Speaker 2: any given time.
- 14:39Speaker 1: I'm reading a book at the moment called How Infrastructure Works.
- 14:45Speaker 1: You just fell asleep when I said, why would you
- 14:48Speaker 1: read that?
- 14:49Speaker 2: Why would you read?
- 14:49Speaker 1: That's so incredible, it's fascinating, And I've got all my
- 14:52Speaker 1: psychology books. Anyway, make sure the kids see you reading
- 14:55Speaker 1: instead of staring at your phone. Model it, Model it,
- 14:59Speaker 1: model it. We're almost out of time. The third one,
- 15:01Speaker 1: the third key thing, and I want to share a
- 15:03Speaker 1: story here. We don't have time for it, so I'm
- 15:05Speaker 1: going to do it quickly. Is the importance of autonomy.
- 15:09Speaker 1: I'm a book snob. What I mean by that is
- 15:12Speaker 1: I like to read books that are either outstandingly good fiction,
- 15:16Speaker 1: and I don't read much of that, maybe a handful
- 15:18Speaker 1: of fiction books a year, or I like to read
- 15:21Speaker 1: books that are really intelligently written by really intelligent people
- 15:24Speaker 1: who are going to it's going to change the way
- 15:26Speaker 1: that I think. I like to read really provocative, thought
- 15:29Speaker 1: provoking books. I mean I like to read textbooks and
- 15:31Speaker 1: academic papers. So when we could not get our youngest
- 15:35Speaker 1: daughter to read, and she came home one day with
- 15:39Speaker 1: a graphic novel about dragons, called Wings of Fire. And
- 15:42Speaker 1: when I say this at Parent Knights, Kylie, everybody just
- 15:45Speaker 1: cracks up because everyone knows we's a fire. I was
- 15:48Speaker 1: in san so I'm like, you're not reading this. The
- 15:51Speaker 1: plot's pathetic, the characters are poorly developed, the illustrations aren't
- 15:56Speaker 1: even good, and it's so basic. And you looked at
- 16:00Speaker 1: me and said something like, hay, parenting expert, she wants
- 16:02Speaker 1: to read. Let's just let her read the graphic novel.
- 16:05Speaker 1: And I reckon because it's so short. I mean it's
- 16:06Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty pages or whatever, but it's a
- 16:08Speaker 1: graphic novel. So she read it what four times in
- 16:10Speaker 1: two days? And you, in and of.
- 16:14Speaker 2: Itself, she read it four times in two days.
- 16:16Speaker 1: Which made me angry. You're saying this is great, and
- 16:19Speaker 1: I'm like, no, because it's rubbish, but you sort of
- 16:22Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like you went behind my back,
- 16:24Speaker 1: but you sneakly went down to the bookstore and purchased
- 16:26Speaker 1: the entire series. And she read the entire series what
- 16:30Speaker 1: eight times in a month or something. And then you
- 16:33Speaker 1: came to me and said, have you seen her devouring
- 16:35Speaker 1: these books? And I was frustrated and said they're rubbish.
- 16:38Speaker 1: They're rubbish. I'm not happy about it. Like a couple
- 16:40Speaker 1: of you spent money on graphic novels because I'm a
- 16:42Speaker 1: book snob, and you said, yeah, but she's reading, and
- 16:45Speaker 1: then you went and bought her the first novel. So
- 16:48Speaker 1: these graphic novels have been turned into one hundred and
- 16:51Speaker 1: fifty page books.
- 16:52Speaker 2: Well, they were actually books first.
- 16:53Speaker 1: Oh, is that right?
- 16:54Speaker 2: The graphic novels came after, and I brought her the novels,
- 16:58Speaker 2: but she wasn't interested.
- 17:00Speaker 1: Okay, so the novel was already there. Yes, So because
- 17:03Speaker 1: she's now read the entire set of graphic novels, she
- 17:06Speaker 1: picked up the first novel and she read it.
- 17:08Speaker 2: That's right.
- 17:09Speaker 1: And that's when I went, I still don't like that
- 17:11Speaker 1: she's reading this stuff, but she's reading real books now.
- 17:15Speaker 2: Well, the funny thing is we have gone past graphic novels.
- 17:18Speaker 2: Now she hardly picks them up at all, even though
- 17:20Speaker 2: they would be still considered some of her favorites. And
- 17:24Speaker 2: now we're on to five hundred and six hundred page novels.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Just because it's about finding whatever peaks their interest. So
- 17:32Speaker 2: maybe it's automotives, maybe it's dinosaurs, whatever it is. It
- 17:35Speaker 2: doesn't actually matter.
- 17:36Speaker 1: I don't care if it's a magazine, just song is
- 17:38Speaker 1: not online. Keep them offline because research shows that they
- 17:41Speaker 1: process it differently when they're holding paper in their hands.
- 17:43Speaker 1: So that's the only thing I'd say. I know that
- 17:45Speaker 1: some people will be upset about that, but I'm still
- 17:47Speaker 1: a bit of a purist and a little bit of
- 17:48Speaker 1: a snob, and the evidence is definitely in favor of
- 17:51Speaker 1: holding them one. Yeah.
- 17:52Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So it's a whole experience.
- 17:55Speaker 1: The amazing thing is Kylie, as you said, she's now
- 17:57Speaker 1: reading these huge books, and we are begging her to
- 18:01Speaker 1: close the book and go to bed, or close the
- 18:03Speaker 1: book and get in the car, or close the book
- 18:05Speaker 1: and come to dinner, or I mean, if she walked
- 18:08Speaker 1: to school, we'd probably have worries about her getting hit
- 18:11Speaker 1: by buses, like some of our other kids who have
- 18:12Speaker 1: almost had the same thing happen.
- 18:14Speaker 2: It's interesting. We've been to a few appointments lately and
- 18:18Speaker 2: she's been sitting in the reception area reading a book,
- 18:21Speaker 2: and when the doctor has come out to meet with.
- 18:25Speaker 1: Us, double take.
- 18:26Speaker 2: She's literally she's like, Wow, you don't see that very often?
- 18:29Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, yeah, you've never told me that that's beautiful. Well,
- 18:32Speaker 1: we really have. This solves the issue of reading logs.
- 18:35Speaker 1: They're just unnecessary. They put a ceiling on kids' motivation
- 18:37Speaker 1: and interest, and they feel like a chore. They make
- 18:40Speaker 1: reading feel like a chore. There are better ways to
- 18:43Speaker 1: get your kids to love reading. We hope that this
- 18:45Speaker 1: has been helpful. The Happy Families podcast is produced by
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