Latest / Something Extra / Leveraging Personalization to Drive True Loyalty w/ Shep Hyken
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- 1:44Lisa Nichols: I'm grateful to have Shep Hyken on the show today.
- 1:46Lisa Nichols: Shep is the chief amazement officer at Shepherd Presentations.
- 1:50Lisa Nichols: Well, Shep Hyken, I am so delighted today to have
- 1:54Lisa Nichols: you on the something extra podcast.
- 1:57Lisa Nichols: Thank you so much for making the time.
- 1:59Lisa Nichols: I know how busy you are.
- 2:01Shep Hyken: Well, thank you.
- 2:01Shep Hyken: It's a pleasure and honor to be here, and great to see you again
- 2:04Shep Hyken: after all these years.
- 2:06Lisa Nichols: I I think we figured it out.
- 2:07Lisa Nichols: It's probably been about twenty years.
- 2:09Lisa Nichols: So you and I first met, but we haven't aged,Shep .
- 2:13Lisa Nichols: That's the remarkable t thing.
- 2:14Shep Hyken: And guys like me without hair, you can't tell.
- 2:18Shep Hyken: It's is it gray?
- 2:18Shep Hyken: Is it not gray?
- 2:20Shep Hyken: Who knows?
- 2:20Shep Hyken: And then one day in the future, I will start to look old.
- 2:24Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 2:25Lisa Nichols: Well, you look great, but we did.
- 2:27Lisa Nichols: We met about twenty years ago, and, you were
- 2:31Lisa Nichols: speaking at a YPO event.
- 2:33Shep Hyken: Yep.
- 2:33Lisa Nichols: And that's why when you and I met.
- 2:35Lisa Nichols: And I've just kinda followed you and, thought, gosh, I wanna have Shep on
- 2:39Lisa Nichols: because you talk about stuff that's really near and dear to my heart in
- 2:42Lisa Nichols: customer service.
- 2:43Lisa Nichols: But, I'm just grateful to have you on the show today.
- 2:46Lisa Nichols: But, you know, let's kinda go back a little bit.
- 2:49Lisa Nichols: You're a Saint Louis guy, grew up in Saint Louis.
- 2:51Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 2:51Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 2:53Lisa Nichols: But I want to go back and just talk about your first paid
- 2:57Lisa Nichols: magic show.
- 2:58Lisa Nichols: That that's like my first
- 3:00Shep Hyken: paid gig in front of a live audience.
- 3:02Shep Hyken: I was twelve years old, and it was a birthday party magic show, and
- 3:06Shep Hyken: it's the toughest audience I've ever had.
- 3:08Shep Hyken: There were about twenty some odd screaming six year old kids.
- 3:12Shep Hyken: And, boy, that's a tough audience.
- 3:15Shep Hyken: There have been discerning audiences, but that was a tough audience.
- 3:18Lisa Nichols: That was a tough one.
- 3:19Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 3:19Shep Hyken: And I worked in comedy clubs as well, in high school and college.
- 3:23Shep Hyken: And even dealing with hecklers, nothing compared to those little kids.
- 3:27Lisa Nichols: Those little kids.
- 3:28Lisa Nichols: Well, what did that teach you about the customer experience?
- 3:33Shep Hyken: Well that's, you know what?
- 3:34Shep Hyken: It's funny.
- 3:34Shep Hyken: Most people wouldn't even think.
- 3:35Shep Hyken: What can a twelve year old kid learn in a birthday party magic show
- 3:39Shep Hyken: business?
- 3:40Shep Hyken: And I came home.
- 3:41Shep Hyken: And by the way, of course, on the way out, my mom picks me
- 3:44Shep Hyken: up at school, drops me off on the way out.
- 3:47Shep Hyken: I say thank you.
- 3:48Shep Hyken: They give me money.
- 3:50Shep Hyken: Sixteen dollars is what I earned that day.
- 3:52Shep Hyken: That was a long, long time ago.
- 3:54Shep Hyken: And, I I said thanks, and I thought that was it.
- 3:56Shep Hyken: My mom said, what are you gonna do after dinner?
- 3:59Shep Hyken: And I thought, homework, it's school night, but she said not till you write
- 4:02Shep Hyken: a thank you note.
- 4:03Shep Hyken: So that was a great lesson.
- 4:04Shep Hyken: You know, show appreciation, a little more than just the genuine thank you on
- 4:08Shep Hyken: the way out the door.
- 4:09Shep Hyken: And then my dad takes the step further and says, you know, that's a
- 4:13Shep Hyken: great idea, but why don't you take it to the next level?
- 4:15Shep Hyken: He was always trying to one up my mom, which is probably why they
- 4:18Shep Hyken: got divorced later that year, but that's another story.
- 4:21Shep Hyken: So the, he said, about a week after I send this thank you
- 4:25Shep Hyken: note, call up the parents who hired you and thank them again and
- 4:29Shep Hyken: ask them, how did you like the show?
- 4:32Shep Hyken: And you're gonna get feedback and get specific.
- 4:34Shep Hyken: You said ask what tricks they really like.
- 4:37Shep Hyken: And it's important to recognize over a period of time, you'll hear the same
- 4:40Shep Hyken: tricks.
- 4:41Shep Hyken: You'll notice they there's certain tricks people don't talk about.
- 4:44Shep Hyken: He said, get rid of those tricks, replace them with tricks they do talk
- 4:47Shep Hyken: about, and then you'll get a better show.
- 4:49Shep Hyken: Now little did I know, my parents were teaching me show appreciation,
- 4:54Shep Hyken: teaching me get feedback, and teaching me to operationalize
- 4:58Shep Hyken: the feedback to make a better product.
- 5:00Shep Hyken: In this case, it was a show.
- 5:01Shep Hyken: You know, when I talk to my clients today, I ask them, do you
- 5:04Shep Hyken: do that?
- 5:04Shep Hyken: And they go, oh, yeah.
- 5:05Shep Hyken: That's really important.
- 5:06Shep Hyken: Wow.
- 5:06Shep Hyken: Lessons that I learned when I was twelve.
- 5:09Shep Hyken: And this may be why I just, throughout my whole life, have been so
- 5:12Shep Hyken: passionate about taking care of customers, guests, clients,
- 5:17Shep Hyken: whatever you wanna call them.
- 5:18Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so good.
- 5:20Lisa Nichols: Well and I do believe in that too.
- 5:22Lisa Nichols: And I will even if we win a deal or if we lose
- 5:26Lisa Nichols: a deal, Shep, I will ask for the feedback.
- 5:28Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 5:29Lisa Nichols: Why did you choose us?
- 5:30Lisa Nichols: It it's so such a gift.
- 5:32Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 5:32Shep Hyken: Well, why didn't you choose us?
- 5:34Shep Hyken: And now like we said, you ask when you don't get the deal.
- 5:37Lisa Nichols: Either one.
- 5:37Lisa Nichols: Yep.
- 5:38Lisa Nichols: Either one.
- 5:38Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 5:39Lisa Nichols: And what could we have done better?
- 5:40Lisa Nichols: How could we have made the experience more amazing?
- 5:43Lisa Nichols: Because I know that's, like, one of the things that you talk about is
- 5:46Lisa Nichols: making the experience amazing.
- 5:49Lisa Nichols: You know, it was funny to me too because I can't remember.
- 5:52Lisa Nichols: I've I've got I've got a few of your books here.
- 5:55Lisa Nichols: Shep has written eight books.
- 5:56Lisa Nichols: He's coauthored five books.
- 5:59Lisa Nichols: Go out and find his books.
- 6:00Lisa Nichols: He's a New York Times best selling author.
- 6:02Lisa Nichols: Wall Street Journal, best selling author.
- 6:05Lisa Nichols: Great, great books.
- 6:06Lisa Nichols: I can't remember which one, but I remember,
- 6:09Lisa Nichols: one of your parents saying, well, what time are you gonna get there?
- 6:13Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 6:13Shep Hyken: That's in that book, Be Amazing or Go Home.
- 6:16Lisa Nichols: Be Amazing or Go Home.
- 6:18Lisa Nichols: And I thought this was so good.
- 6:20Lisa Nichols: They're like, oh, no.
- 6:21Lisa Nichols: You don't show up right when you're supposed to be there.
- 6:24Lisa Nichols: You get there early.
- 6:26Lisa Nichols: Because the parents are already a little nervous about this.
- 6:29Lisa Nichols: And if they're sitting there thinking, oh my goodness, our act, you know,
- 6:34Lisa Nichols: the the
- 6:34Shep Hyken: Is the magician gonna be here on time?
- 6:37Lisa Nichols: The person, yeah, are they gonna show up and take that angst off the
- 6:40Lisa Nichols: table?
- 6:41Lisa Nichols: And I thought that was so good.
- 6:42Lisa Nichols: So they taught you to get there early.
- 6:44Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 6:45Shep Hyken: So And my dad so I was booking, like, eight to ten magic shows
- 6:49Shep Hyken: a week, and it was so busy that my mom and dad had to
- 6:52Shep Hyken: hire me.
- 6:52Shep Hyken: And, actually, it was my mom because by that time, like I said, they
- 6:56Shep Hyken: were divorced.
- 6:57Shep Hyken: But my mom had to hire a high school kid to drive me around.
- 7:00Shep Hyken: We gave him five dollars for every show I did, which was back then,
- 7:03Shep Hyken: gas money was was nothing compared to what it is today, and they were
- 7:07Shep Hyken: happy to do it.
- 7:08Shep Hyken: And, I would just book them one right after the other, and I had
- 7:11Shep Hyken: my box of tricks.
- 7:13Shep Hyken: So if I opened up the box, the tricks were in exactly where they
- 7:16Shep Hyken: needed to be in the right order.
- 7:18Shep Hyken: And as I finished each trick, I put them right back getting ready for
- 7:21Shep Hyken: the next show.
- 7:22Shep Hyken: So I would show up maybe, you know, three, four, five minutes before it
- 7:25Shep Hyken: was time for me to perform.
- 7:27Shep Hyken: And my dad said, at what point do these parents start to worry about
- 7:31Shep Hyken: whether you're gonna show up or not?
- 7:33Shep Hyken: And I go, oh, wow.
- 7:34Shep Hyken: Maybe fifteen, twenty minutes before he goes, exactly.
- 7:38Shep Hyken: So you need to be there at least fifteen or twenty minutes before you're
- 7:41Shep Hyken: supposed to be there.
- 7:42Shep Hyken: And that was a great lesson.
- 7:44Shep Hyken: You know, there's that, old saying or it's called Lombardi time.
- 7:48Shep Hyken: Vince Lombardi talked to his football team and said that if you're
- 7:52Shep Hyken: on time, you're fifteen minutes late.
- 7:55Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 7:55Shep Hyken: So on and they actually have a clock in, Green
- 7:59Shep Hyken: Bay, at the stadium that's off by fifteen minutes.
- 8:03Shep Hyken: So when you know?
- 8:04Shep Hyken: And you're looking, why isn't the game started yet?
- 8:07Shep Hyken: Well, that clock's running fifteen minutes ahead of schedule.
- 8:10Lisa Nichols: Ahead of schedule.
- 8:11Lisa Nichols: Well, my dad said that all the time, chef, but he was a marine,
- 8:15Lisa Nichols: you know, and I always thought it came from his training in
- 8:19Lisa Nichols: military.
- 8:20Lisa Nichols: But he would say the same thing.
- 8:22Lisa Nichols: If you're, you know, fifteen minutes earlier, you're already late kinda thing.
- 8:26Lisa Nichols: So, but I have to say, I mean, as a child, I was
- 8:30Lisa Nichols: never late because I lived under his roof.
- 8:33Lisa Nichols: Sometimes now I'm late, but I try not to be.
- 8:35Shep Hyken: It drives my wife crazy.
- 8:37Shep Hyken: Why do we have to be why do we have to be there early?
- 8:40Shep Hyken: Because we're not going to be late.
- 8:42Shep Hyken: That's why.
- 8:43Shep Hyken: Now it's okay at a party to be fashionably late.
- 8:47Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 8:47Lisa Nichols: But Right.
- 8:48Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 8:48Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 8:48Lisa Nichols: Yep.
- 8:49Lisa Nichols: But not when you're the main act.
- 8:50Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 8:50Lisa Nichols: Not when you're the main act for sure.
- 8:52Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this because and we're gonna talk a lot about
- 8:55Lisa Nichols: this, but you are all about customer service today.
- 8:59Lisa Nichols: When did you first realize that customer service and not magic
- 9:03Lisa Nichols: was gonna be your lifelong calling?
- 9:05Shep Hyken: Well, great question.
- 9:07Shep Hyken: While in college, I did not know what I was gonna do for a
- 9:10Shep Hyken: living outside you know, and I graduated thinking, what am I gonna do?
- 9:13Shep Hyken: What am I gonna do?
- 9:14Shep Hyken: Went to work for my family business.
- 9:17Shep Hyken: That was, like, we graduated at the end of May in college.
- 9:21Shep Hyken: And so June one, whatever the first Monday of that week was, I
- 9:25Shep Hyken: start working for the company.
- 9:28Shep Hyken: In September, they announced they are selling the company.
- 9:32Shep Hyken: And so I'm going, what does that mean to me?
- 9:35Shep Hyken: You better go find a job.
- 9:36Shep Hyken: So but one of the things I learned so they own gas stations, and
- 9:40Shep Hyken: I worked in those gas stations from the time I was fourteen, helping people
- 9:44Shep Hyken: pump gas, collecting money on the drive.
- 9:47Shep Hyken: And one day, it was super duper cold in the St.
- 9:49Shep Hyken: Louis day.
- 9:50Shep Hyken: I'll never forget this.
- 9:51Shep Hyken: It was, like, one of the coldest days on record, and we did have
- 9:55Shep Hyken: to go outside to collect money.
- 9:57Shep Hyken: This was before the electronic digital
- 10:00Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 10:00Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 10:00Shep Hyken: You know, bath pumps.
- 10:02Shep Hyken: So, there was a lady, and she had to be eighty years old.
- 10:06Shep Hyken: And she went to get out of her car.
- 10:07Shep Hyken: I said, ma'am, let me take care of that for you.
- 10:10Shep Hyken: And I pumped the gas.
- 10:11Shep Hyken: And I came in.
- 10:12Shep Hyken: My manager said, what did you just do?
- 10:14Shep Hyken: And I thought about it.
- 10:15Shep Hyken: What did I do?
- 10:15Shep Hyken: Did I do something wrong?
- 10:17Shep Hyken: He goes, you pumped that lady's gas for her.
- 10:19Shep Hyken: And I go, well, yeah.
- 10:21Shep Hyken: She's like an older woman.
- 10:22Shep Hyken: I see her in here all the time, and I just thought it'd be
- 10:24Shep Hyken: a nice thing to do.
- 10:25Shep Hyken: He goes, now she's gonna expect it the next time.
- 10:28Shep Hyken: And I remember my response.
- 10:29Shep Hyken: It was a little flippant.
- 10:31Shep Hyken: I said, yeah.
- 10:33Shep Hyken: Maybe she will.
- 10:34Shep Hyken: But that means she's coming here and not to the gas station across the
- 10:37Shep Hyken: street or the one catty corner to us.
- 10:40Shep Hyken: And he got upset with me, walked out, slammed the door.
- 10:43Shep Hyken: And I thought, uh-oh.
- 10:44Shep Hyken: I'm done.
- 10:45Shep Hyken: By the way, you know, I'm you know, this is I'm just a kid.
- 10:48Shep Hyken: You know, I'm still in college, I guess, because I was working with them,
- 10:52Shep Hyken: that winter.
- 10:53Shep Hyken: And, anyway, I thought that's the way I live.
- 10:56Shep Hyken: That's the way I am.
- 10:57Shep Hyken: We wanna take care of the customer in the best way we know to
- 11:00Shep Hyken: get them to say.
- 11:02Shep Hyken: And the words of the famous philosopher Arnold Schwarzenegger, we want them
- 11:06Shep Hyken: to say, I'll be back.
- 11:10Shep Hyken: Exactly.
- 11:10Shep Hyken: Do it in the Austrian accent, but, you know, I wrote a book.
- 11:13Shep Hyken: That was actually one of the last books I wrote titled I'll be back,
- 11:16Shep Hyken: how to get customers to come back in again and again, which and when
- 11:19Shep Hyken: I started it, I wasn't even thinking about Arnold Schwarzenegger and the Terminator, but
- 11:23Shep Hyken: about three sentence in into the, outline, I go, oh my gosh.
- 11:26Shep Hyken: There's a guy that made this line famous.
- 11:28Shep Hyken: It has nothing to do with customer service, but let's play off it and
- 11:31Shep Hyken: riff off it a little bit.
- 11:33Shep Hyken: But here's the point.
- 11:34Shep Hyken: What are we doing?
- 11:35Shep Hyken: And if there's a lesson, there's lots of lessons we can share today, but
- 11:39Shep Hyken: one of the things I'd love to talk about is what is the I'll
- 11:41Shep Hyken: be back philosophy?
- 11:42Shep Hyken: And there's lots of things that you can do in the process, in the
- 11:46Shep Hyken: entire experience.
- 11:48Shep Hyken: But individually, one on one, we want everybody who's working for a brand that's
- 11:52Shep Hyken: customer focused to be thinking as they're interacting with the customer.
- 11:55Shep Hyken: What am I doing right now at this moment?
- 11:58Shep Hyken: Not to create a lifetime of loyalty, but to get them to come back
- 12:02Shep Hyken: the next time.
- 12:03Shep Hyken: That's all.
- 12:04Shep Hyken: Just the next time.
- 12:05Shep Hyken: And if you do that every time, it does turn into a lifetime.
- 12:08Lisa Nichols: Oh, I could not agree more.
- 12:10Lisa Nichols: And you want repeat customers.
- 12:12Lisa Nichols: It's so much easier, Risa.
- 12:14Lisa Nichols: Really, truly, taking that extra time to to have an amazing
- 12:18Lisa Nichols: experience, an amazing moment with that customer.
- 12:21Lisa Nichols: It's so much easier to do that than go out and get a brand
- 12:23Lisa Nichols: new customer too.
- 12:25Shep Hyken: Right.
- 12:25Shep Hyken: Now we need to define for your audience, we need to define the concept
- 12:29Shep Hyken: of what an amazing experience is.
- 12:31Shep Hyken: I don't know if that's on your list of questions.
- 12:33Lisa Nichols: Let's talk about that.
- 12:34Lisa Nichols: Let's talk about it.
- 12:35Shep Hyken: It's not what everybody thinks.
- 12:36Shep Hyken: When I say, oh, you you know, when people, oh, they're amazing.
- 12:39Shep Hyken: What does amazing mean?
- 12:41Shep Hyken: It might mean they go over the top and they did something super special,
- 12:46Shep Hyken: but most of the time, it means they did exactly what was expected.
- 12:51Shep Hyken: Customers say things like and by the way, I'm using that term customer.
- 12:54Shep Hyken: Could be client, guest, member, patient, whatever you wanna call the people who do
- 12:58Shep Hyken: business with you.
- 12:59Shep Hyken: But, you know, when when that customer says, I love doing business with them
- 13:03Shep Hyken: because and then they use the word always in front of something we want
- 13:07Shep Hyken: them to say.
- 13:08Shep Hyken: They're always so helpful.
- 13:10Shep Hyken: They always get back to me quickly.
- 13:12Shep Hyken: They're always knowledgeable.
- 13:14Shep Hyken: They're always nice or friendly.
- 13:16Shep Hyken: And even when there's a problem, I know I can always count on them.
- 13:19Shep Hyken: When that word always is used in that context, you're operating at
- 13:23Shep Hyken: the zone of amazement.
- 13:24Shep Hyken: When something falls in your lap, when there's an emergency or there's something
- 13:29Shep Hyken: for example, if you're a restaurant and a server overhears, oh, it's their ten
- 13:33Shep Hyken: year anniversary, I'll surprise them with a cake, you know, and a little piece
- 13:37Shep Hyken: of cake and a candle.
- 13:38Shep Hyken: You can't do that unless you know it, so don't count on it happening
- 13:41Shep Hyken: every day.
- 13:42Shep Hyken: But day in and day out, if you can meet the expectations that customers
- 13:46Shep Hyken: have, consistently and predictably, they think that you're amazing.
- 13:50Shep Hyken: And by the way, there's two ways I look at amazement.
- 13:55Shep Hyken: If what you do is the tiniest bit above average, that's
- 13:59Shep Hyken: a way of creating amazement.
- 14:00Shep Hyken: As long as you don't drop to mediocrity and average, it's just a consistent,
- 14:04Shep Hyken: predictable, little bit above ex average experience.
- 14:07Shep Hyken: I had a chance to work a number of times with Horst Scholz, who's
- 14:10Shep Hyken: the first president and cofounder of the Ritz Carlton organization.
- 14:14Shep Hyken: And we have same philosophy, a little better than average is what made his
- 14:18Shep Hyken: organization iconic throughout the world known for customer service experience
- 14:23Shep Hyken: or guest service as they call it.
- 14:25Shep Hyken: And I said, what does that look like?
- 14:27Shep Hyken: A little bit average.
- 14:28Shep Hyken: How much better do you have to be?
- 14:29Shep Hyken: He thought about it, and he goes, maybe ten percent better.
- 14:33Shep Hyken: I go, what does that look like in real life?
- 14:35Shep Hyken: I mean, it sounds like okay.
- 14:37Shep Hyken: There's a concept, but what's how does that operationalize?
- 14:40Shep Hyken: He goes, we use the guest name.
- 14:42Shep Hyken: We use it as often as possible in the right way.
- 14:45Shep Hyken: They show up at the door.
- 14:47Shep Hyken: We look at their luggage tag.
- 14:48Shep Hyken: Whoever's working the door says, are you mister Hiken?
- 14:50Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 14:51Shep Hyken: I am.
- 14:51Shep Hyken: Well, welcome to the Ritz.
- 14:52Shep Hyken: Have you been here before?
- 14:53Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 14:53Shep Hyken: Come on in.
- 14:54Shep Hyken: Let me take you to the check-in area.
- 14:56Shep Hyken: This is mister Hiken.
- 14:57Shep Hyken: He's here to check-in.
- 14:57Shep Hyken: He's been here before.
- 14:59Shep Hyken: So the next person says, well, welcome back.
- 15:01Shep Hyken: And they pull up my record without having to ask my name, which is
- 15:04Shep Hyken: in a sense using my name.
- 15:06Shep Hyken: And then later on, I walk through the lobby and one of these nice
- 15:09Shep Hyken: people say, hey, mister Huyken.
- 15:10Shep Hyken: How's your room?
- 15:11Shep Hyken: Everything going well?
- 15:12Shep Hyken: Whatever.
- 15:13Shep Hyken: They go, wow.
- 15:13Shep Hyken: They're using my name.
- 15:14Shep Hyken: They they, when I ask where's the bathroom, they don't say down there to
- 15:18Shep Hyken: the left, make another right, you'll see a sign.
- 15:20Shep Hyken: They actually take me there.
- 15:21Shep Hyken: They don't walk into the bathroom with me.
- 15:23Shep Hyken: They get that far, okay, and then they say you're on your own.
- 15:27Shep Hyken: But Right.
- 15:27Shep Hyken: The the point is most people would just say go down there and to
- 15:31Shep Hyken: the left.
- 15:32Shep Hyken: I work with Ace Hardware quite a bit over the years.
- 15:35Shep Hyken: I actually wrote a book where I use them as a case study throughout
- 15:38Shep Hyken: the book, and they talk about helpful versus friendly service.
- 15:42Shep Hyken: Anybody can deliver friendly service.
- 15:44Shep Hyken: They wanna be the helpful hardware place.
- 15:46Shep Hyken: And I tell me what that means.
- 15:48Shep Hyken: It means when you come in, we say, what can we help you find
- 15:51Shep Hyken: today?
- 15:52Shep Hyken: And when you tell us, we take you there.
- 15:54Shep Hyken: We don't tell you what aisle to go to.
- 15:57Shep Hyken: On the way, we might say, what are you using this for?
- 16:00Shep Hyken: And once we learn, we can make suggestions on how to better use the
- 16:03Shep Hyken: product and create an experience that's helpful, not just friendly.
- 16:08Shep Hyken: And I thought, wow.
- 16:09Shep Hyken: That is outstanding.
- 16:11Shep Hyken: By the way, I decided to use them as the case study because when
- 16:15Shep Hyken: I interviewed, one of the executives prior to a speech and
- 16:19Shep Hyken: he found out that I was getting ready to write this book, he says,
- 16:21Shep Hyken: write about us.
- 16:22Shep Hyken: I go, do you think you're one of the top iconic brands in customer
- 16:25Shep Hyken: service?
- 16:26Shep Hyken: He says, yes.
- 16:26Shep Hyken: I go prove it.
- 16:27Shep Hyken: If I walk down the street and I ask ten people, would they say
- 16:30Shep Hyken: Ace Hardware?
- 16:31Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 16:31Shep Hyken: They would.
- 16:32Shep Hyken: Okay.
- 16:33Shep Hyken: And he showed me an article in BusinessWeek, and it listed the top twenty
- 16:36Shep Hyken: five brands worldwide known for great service.
- 16:39Shep Hyken: Number ten was the or no.
- 16:41Shep Hyken: I'm sorry.
- 16:41Shep Hyken: Number ten was was Ace Hardware.
- 16:43Shep Hyken: Number eleven was the Ritz Carlton.
- 16:45Shep Hyken: They beat the Ritz.
- 16:47Lisa Nichols: What which is just crazy, isn't it?
- 16:50Shep Hyken: I love it.
- 16:51Lisa Nichols: Gold standard.
- 16:53Lisa Nichols: Oh, I love so much about that story.
- 16:55Lisa Nichols: And, you know, as far as yeah.
- 16:58Lisa Nichols: I had horse on my, horse and chariot friends of ours and
- 17:02Lisa Nichols: had him on the podcast, and it was just honestly one of my most
- 17:06Lisa Nichols: favorite episodes ever.
- 17:07Lisa Nichols: He's just such a hoot.
- 17:09Lisa Nichols: And I think he's, what, eighty six now?
- 17:11Shep Hyken: Years and and still strong, man.
- 17:13Shep Hyken: He's still
- 17:14Lisa Nichols: Still strong.
- 17:15Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 17:15Shep Hyken: Consulting.
- 17:16Shep Hyken: He owns his own brand.
- 17:17Shep Hyken: I mean and and by the way, he left the Ritz to start.
- 17:20Shep Hyken: I believe it's called Capella.
- 17:22Shep Hyken: And I said, tell me about that.
- 17:23Shep Hyken: He goes, well, you take the nicest room at the Ritz, that's our worst
- 17:27Shep Hyken: room.
- 17:28Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 17:28Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 17:28Lisa Nichols: I think there's only twelve of them in the in the world, so that
- 17:32Lisa Nichols: kinda gives you a little bit of an indication.
- 17:34Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, he and Sherry are just incredible.
- 17:37Lisa Nichols: But, you know, I love the story that you told about the name because
- 17:41Lisa Nichols: really and I know you say this in your one of your books that
- 17:44Lisa Nichols: I've read.
- 17:45Lisa Nichols: I've got be amazing or go home, and I've got the cult of the
- 17:48Lisa Nichols: customer.
- 17:48Lisa Nichols: But, again, listeners, go out and get Shep's books.
- 17:51Lisa Nichols: They're Thank you.
- 17:52Lisa Nichols: Really incredible.
- 17:54Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, remember you saying in one of those, really, the most precious word
- 17:58Lisa Nichols: in the English language?
- 18:00Shep Hyken: It's it's sweetest yeah.
- 18:01Shep Hyken: It's a Dale Carnegie quote.
- 18:03Shep Hyken: Yep.
- 18:03Shep Hyken: It's using the customer's name or using anybody's name.
- 18:07Shep Hyken: Right.
- 18:07Shep Hyken: And I believe you're referring I I call it the cheers effect,
- 18:12Shep Hyken: where, you you know, cheers was the TV show, the sitcom, and
- 18:17Shep Hyken: the theme song was, you know, it's a place where everybody knows your name.
- 18:21Shep Hyken: And the power of of that personalization not
- 18:25Shep Hyken: abused and overused, but used the right way.
- 18:28Shep Hyken: You know, have you ever talked to that customer support person that uses your
- 18:32Shep Hyken: name again and again?
- 18:33Shep Hyken: Well, Shep, I'm very sorry.
- 18:35Shep Hyken: Well, like I said, Shep, I said it.
- 18:36Shep Hyken: You know, it's like Right.
- 18:38Shep Hyken: Okay.
- 18:38Shep Hyken: You can stop using my name.
- 18:40Lisa Nichols: Though.
- 18:40Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 18:41Shep Hyken: And stop apologizing for every single thing.
- 18:43Shep Hyken: I don't care about the apology the more you did it.
- 18:45Shep Hyken: Let's move on with what you're gonna do about it.
- 18:48Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 18:49Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 18:49Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 18:49Lisa Nichols: So so there is a balance there.
- 18:52Lisa Nichols: There is definitely a balance there in using it .
- 18:55Lisa Nichols: Well, I know, you know, and, Shep , this is cool because, you know, you
- 18:59Lisa Nichols: have a communications degree, from UMSL here in St.
- 19:03Lisa Nichols: Louis.
- 19:03Shep Hyken: University of Missouri St.
- 19:04Shep Hyken: Louis for those around the world who have no idea what UMSL means.
- 19:08Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 19:09Lisa Nichols: Very, very good education system, I
- 19:13Lisa Nichols: I will say.
- 19:14Lisa Nichols: But,
- 19:15Lisa Nichols: you know, so now you're speaking and writing and doing all kinds of things.
- 19:19Lisa Nichols: But I love, you know, that you went to
- 19:23Lisa Nichols: a seminar, I think, that Zig Ziglar was speaking at.
- 19:27Shep Hyken: That's where that's where the career started.
- 19:29Shep Hyken: You know?
- 19:29Shep Hyken: You you
- 19:29Lisa Nichols: That's where it started.
- 19:31Shep Hyken: So I knew and we're all the way back to one of the first
- 19:33Shep Hyken: questions you asked.
- 19:34Shep Hyken: Like, how did I get so interested in customer service?
- 19:37Shep Hyken: And I didn't have that job.
- 19:38Shep Hyken: Remember, my family business said September.
- 19:40Shep Hyken: You're and I I stayed with them a few more months.
- 19:43Shep Hyken: And they did give me the company car that I was driving, but it
- 19:46Shep Hyken: did have a hundred and seventy some odd thousand miles on it.
- 19:50Shep Hyken: And when I traded it in, I got four hundred dollars for the car.
- 19:54Shep Hyken: And I think the wheels were worth that, but the rest of the car
- 19:56Shep Hyken: was was junk.
- 19:58Shep Hyken: So, this is what happened.
- 20:00Shep Hyken: I thought, what am I gonna do?
- 20:02Shep Hyken: I don't wanna be a magician.
- 20:04Shep Hyken: I did that.
- 20:04Shep Hyken: I love the business.
- 20:06Shep Hyken: When I worked for the family business and thought one day I might actually
- 20:09Shep Hyken: run it, I was learning so much.
- 20:11Shep Hyken: I'm intrigued by business.
- 20:12Shep Hyken: I saw Zig Ziglar and Tom Hopkins.
- 20:15Shep Hyken: Zig Ziglar talked about goal setting.
- 20:17Shep Hyken: Tom talked about sales.
- 20:19Shep Hyken: And I bought a book from Tom, and I bought the audio cassette tapes,
- 20:23Shep Hyken: which a lot of the younger members go, what's that?
- 20:26Shep Hyken: Okay. Fo r the younger listeners.
- 20:27Shep Hyken: They don't know.
- 20:28Shep Hyken: Audio cassettes.
- 20:29Shep Hyken: It's kind kind of like a CD but with tape.
- 20:33Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 20:33Shep Hyken: And now it's all streaming.
- 20:35Shep Hyken: But, anyway, I listened to those, like, right away, and I read the book.
- 20:39Shep Hyken: And this is, like, not even a few months after, finding
- 20:43Shep Hyken: out I I wasn't gonna be working anymore.
- 20:45Shep Hyken: And I thought, wow.
- 20:47Shep Hyken: I could do that.
- 20:48Shep Hyken: I could do a speech.
- 20:50Shep Hyken: And I love, you know, the idea of the entertainment background supporting me,
- 20:54Shep Hyken: being comfortable to do that.
- 20:55Shep Hyken: Now what am I gonna talk about?
- 20:56Shep Hyken: I go to the bookstore, which at the time, the business book section
- 21:00Shep Hyken: might have had thirty books on the whole shelf, and I bought three books.
- 21:05Shep Hyken: One by Tom Hopkins, and, it was coauthored by him and another gentleman,
- 21:09Shep Hyken: and it was called In Search of Excellence.
- 21:11Shep Hyken: And it was a best
- 21:12Lisa Nichols: seller in nineteen yeah.
- 21:14Lisa Nichols: But back in the day, I love the book.
- 21:16Shep Hyken: And two other books by Ron Zemke and Kara Albrecht.
- 21:19Shep Hyken: All of them had to do with creating that experience, you know, the three
- 21:22Shep Hyken: books.
- 21:23Shep Hyken: And I said, this is what I'm going to talk about.
- 21:25Shep Hyken: I wrote a speech.
- 21:27Shep Hyken: I I called it moments of magic.
- 21:29Shep Hyken: How you avoid moments of misery, create moments of magic, and, eventually,
- 21:33Shep Hyken: I blended into the idea of what does it take to create that amazing
- 21:36Shep Hyken: experience because some people think of magic as amazing.
- 21:40Shep Hyken: But, really, when I define the moment of magic, it's anything that's better than
- 21:43Shep Hyken: average.
- 21:44Shep Hyken: The tiniest bit, maybe ten percent, or maybe it's over the top.
- 21:48Shep Hyken: It doesn't matter.
- 21:49Shep Hyken: You avoid moments of misery, and those are complaints, problems, just
- 21:53Shep Hyken: bad experiences.
- 21:54Shep Hyken: And you definitely avoid mediocrity, average.
- 21:57Shep Hyken: Because when people, are having an average experience, they don't complain.
- 22:01Shep Hyken: They just disappear one day because somebody gave them a better one.
- 22:04Shep Hyken: And Right.
- 22:05Shep Hyken: I joke about the word fine.
- 22:07Shep Hyken: Like, how was everything?
- 22:08Shep Hyken: It was fine.
- 22:09Shep Hyken: And what does fine really mean?
- 22:12Shep Hyken: It doesn't mean it's fine.
- 22:14Shep Hyken: It means it's okay, average.
- 22:16Shep Hyken: Average.
- 22:17Shep Hyken: I I I made an acronym, f I n e, fake smile, insincere
- 22:21Shep Hyken: feedback because that's what that smile is.
- 22:24Shep Hyken: Never coming back and emotionless.
- 22:26Shep Hyken: So we stay away from the word fine.
- 22:28Shep Hyken: We want now if they use an adjective in front of it, like, your
- 22:31Shep Hyken: hair looks mighty fine today, then that's okay.
- 22:34Shep Hyken: You know?
- 22:35Shep Hyken: But when you so Yeah.
- 22:37Shep Hyken: Like, how's my hair look?
- 22:38Lisa Nichols: It's fine.
- 22:39Lisa Nichols: Fine.
- 22:39Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 22:40Lisa Nichols: And
- 22:40Shep Hyken: you're talking to your husband, and he notices something's amiss, and he
- 22:44Shep Hyken: says, is everything okay?
- 22:46Shep Hyken: And you say fine.
- 22:47Shep Hyken: You better follow-up with why fine is the answer.
- 22:50Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 22:51Lisa Nichols: I love I I'm just thinking, here kind of sidebar because
- 22:55Lisa Nichols: you and I talked a lot about sales
- 22:57Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 22:58Lisa Nichols: Before we even jumped on the podcast today.
- 23:01Lisa Nichols: And I love that, you know, Tom Hopkins was all
- 23:05Lisa Nichols: about sales, right, and the customer experience.
- 23:08Lisa Nichols: And so getting those two, you know, getting to to hear
- 23:12Lisa Nichols: from those two people.
- 23:13Shep Hyken: In one night.
- 23:15Lisa Nichols: In one night.
- 23:15Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 23:16Lisa Nichols: What a what a, treasure that was.
- 23:19Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 23:19Lisa Nichols: I remember reading both of Ziggs.
- 23:21Lisa Nichols: And then, this is kind of a sidebar too, but I remember when we
- 23:25Lisa Nichols: started having kids, I devoured,
- 23:29Lisa Nichols: Zig Ziglar's, book on raising positive kids.
- 23:34Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 23:35Lisa Nichols: You know, I would use all of his little tactics to try to make
- 23:38Lisa Nichols: sure I was raising positive kids.
- 23:40Lisa Nichols: But
- 23:41Shep Hyken: Well, here's something interesting.
- 23:43Shep Hyken: From Zig, now I realize I'm twenty two at the time.
- 23:47Shep Hyken: I graduated college, and the year I graduated, I turned twenty
- 23:51Shep Hyken: two.
- 23:52Shep Hyken: So this is less than a year later.
- 23:54Shep Hyken: I'm seeing these guys.
- 23:54Shep Hyken: I'm twenty two.
- 23:55Shep Hyken: I wrote a ten year business plan starting when I turned
- 24:00Shep Hyken: twenty three is when I got my first booking to do a speech, and
- 24:02Shep Hyken: I said, I'm gonna be a speaker and talk about customer service experience.
- 24:06Shep Hyken: Back then, it was just customer service that morphed into experience.
- 24:09Shep Hyken: And I wrote a ten year plan because that's what Zig told me to
- 24:12Shep Hyken: do.
- 24:13Shep Hyken: Very financially driven, x number of dollars I wanna make.
- 24:16Shep Hyken: I'm gonna do this many speeches.
- 24:18Shep Hyken: And then I took the Tom Hopkins book to determine how I was going
- 24:22Shep Hyken: to get these potential clients and eventually turn them into clients.
- 24:26Shep Hyken: And between those two books, I don't know if I needed anything else to
- 24:30Shep Hyken: I mean, I for the next and and then I eventually joined,
- 24:34Shep Hyken: the association, National Speakers Association, which is the industry
- 24:38Shep Hyken: that I was in, and that took me to a whole another level.
- 24:41Shep Hyken: I thought I was doing well till I went there and then, wow, so
- 24:44Shep Hyken: much.
- 24:45Shep Hyken: And then, of course, in the early nineties, I joined
- 24:49Shep Hyken: an organization, you're familiar with it, called EO, the Entrepreneurs Organization,
- 24:54Shep Hyken: which is kind of the cousin of YPO, the Young Presidents Organization.
- 24:58Shep Hyken: And I was so fortunate to be able to be in that environment to
- 25:02Shep Hyken: start learning about all kinds of different businesses.
- 25:05Shep Hyken: So it's just been a a great run, and I hope it continues.
- 25:09Shep Hyken: It would be really cool.
- 25:10Shep Hyken: I'm about year forty two in my business right now, maybe forty three.
- 25:15Shep Hyken: And wouldn't it be cool if on my fiftieth year, somebody still wants
- 25:19Shep Hyken: to hire me to do a speech?
- 25:21Lisa Nichols: Oh, I am sure they will.
- 25:22Lisa Nichols: I know.
- 25:24Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 25:25Lisa Nichols: And that just I you we're gonna take a quick break here.
- 25:28Lisa Nichols: But when we come back, let's talk about that.
- 25:30Lisa Nichols: I want to I wanna dig more into your books.
- 25:32Lisa Nichols: I wanna dig more into, you know, you've been inducted
- 25:36Lisa Nichols: now into the National Speaker Hall of Fame.
- 25:40Lisa Nichols: So I'm sure people are still gonna wanna hire you, Shep.
- 25:42Lisa Nichols: But That's cool.
- 25:43Lisa Nichols: We do need to take a quick break, and we'll be right back on
- 25:46Lisa Nichols: the Something Extra podcast with Shep Hyken.
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- 26:19Lisa Nichols: Well, welcome back everyone to something extra podcast with Shep Haikin.
- 26:23Lisa Nichols: We've been having so much fun.
- 26:25Lisa Nichols: But Shep, you know, I had mentioned that you've written eight books.
- 26:28Lisa Nichols: You've coauthored five.
- 26:29Lisa Nichols: I wanna just kind of talk about a few of these and maybe if
- 26:32Lisa Nichols: you can just give us a little nugget from each one of these.
- 26:35Lisa Nichols: Okay?
- 26:36Lisa Nichols: So, you and you talked about the I'll be back.
- 26:40Lisa Nichols: I love that.
- 26:41Lisa Nichols: I love that you use Arnold, and the Terminator for that.
- 26:44Lisa Nichols: But, you know, you talk about repeating repeat customers.
- 26:48Lisa Nichols: So what do you what do you think is the difference between repeat business
- 26:52Lisa Nichols: and true loyalty?
- 26:53Shep Hyken: Right.
- 26:53Shep Hyken: Well, repeat business, there's many reasons a customer comes back to you.
- 26:57Shep Hyken: What you wanna find out is why.
- 26:59Shep Hyken: And the reason behind that is maybe they come back simply because you're the
- 27:03Shep Hyken: lowest price.
- 27:04Shep Hyken: And if that is what they're interested in, the next company that has a
- 27:07Shep Hyken: lower price, you lose, they win.
- 27:10Shep Hyken: Maybe they come back to you because you're closer than a competitor
- 27:14Shep Hyken: in a retail environment, and they just want, convenience in that fact.
- 27:19Shep Hyken: And if somebody moves in closer, you lose.
- 27:21Shep Hyken: So if you find out the reason the customer loves you is because of
- 27:25Shep Hyken: something you're doing right, that you can maintain that
- 27:29Shep Hyken: that relationship, you get loyalty.
- 27:32Shep Hyken: So we wanna make price less relevant.
- 27:33Shep Hyken: It's always gonna be relevant at some level.
- 27:36Shep Hyken: And we wanna make sure that we offer, we wanna be competitive
- 27:40Shep Hyken: in every possible area.
- 27:42Shep Hyken: And that's what the focus on I'll Be Back.
- 27:44Shep Hyken: And there's a great conversation that's six questions, like, you know, why
- 27:48Shep Hyken: do business with us?
- 27:49Shep Hyken: Why are you doing business with the competitor?
- 27:51Shep Hyken: If what we learn from a competitor, can we do it in our business?
- 27:54Shep Hyken: Questions like that set you up for the the I'll be back conversation.
- 27:58Shep Hyken: So it's important to understand why customers love you or why they don't.
- 28:02Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 28:02Lisa Nichols: No.
- 28:03Lisa Nichols: That's really, really good.
- 28:05Lisa Nichols: What about, the convenience revolution?
- 28:08Shep Hyken: Ah, this is powerful.
- 28:10Shep Hyken: I still believe even though COVID forced companies to
- 28:14Shep Hyken: become more convenient, not enough companies think about the friction points
- 28:18Shep Hyken: they cause for customers.
- 28:20Shep Hyken: Convenience is a competitive differentiator.
- 28:23Shep Hyken: It's so important.
- 28:24Shep Hyken: Customers, fifty nine percent, basically six and ten, customers pay
- 28:29Shep Hyken: more for customer service, but they'll pay even more if the experience
- 28:33Shep Hyken: is convenient.
- 28:34Shep Hyken: Convenient trumps nice and friendly as well as general
- 28:38Shep Hyken: overall great service experiences.
- 28:40Shep Hyken: And by the way, convenience is a great service experience.
- 28:43Shep Hyken: So there's six convenience principles.
- 28:45Shep Hyken: You can either go on my website and look at my articles and learn
- 28:49Shep Hyken: about them or go buy the book through Amazon, The Convenience Revolution.
- 28:53Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 28:54Lisa Nichols: And I was thinking shameless plug.
- 28:55Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 28:56Lisa Nichols: Shameless plug.
- 28:57Lisa Nichols: It's good.
- 28:57Lisa Nichols: It's good.
- 28:58Lisa Nichols: And I was thinking about convenience
- 29:02Lisa Nichols: and somebody that does it real well, and you and you just mentioned
- 29:06Lisa Nichols: them as Amazon.
- 29:07Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 29:08Shep Hyken: They're the most convenient company on the planet.
- 29:10Lisa Nichols: Most convenient company.
- 29:12Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 29:12Lisa Nichols: And another one would be Instacart.
- 29:15Lisa Nichols: Love Instacart.
- 29:16Lisa Nichols: You know, that was developed by a woman.
- 29:19Lisa Nichols: That was her brainchild.
- 29:20Lisa Nichols: Now that that totally makes sense to me.
- 29:22Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, convenience and especially in today's world when we're moving
- 29:26Lisa Nichols: so fast.
- 29:27Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 29:27Lisa Nichols: What about this one?
- 29:28Lisa Nichols: Amazing or go home.
- 29:29Lisa Nichols: There's seven or go home.
- 29:31Lisa Nichols: Yep.
- 29:31Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 29:31Lisa Nichols: Be amazing or go home.
- 29:33Lisa Nichols: There's seven different habits.
- 29:34Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 29:35Shep Hyken: And it's interesting seven.
- 29:36Shep Hyken: That's a magic number.
- 29:38Shep Hyken: But there's actually, I think forty nine because within each of the seven, there's
- 29:42Shep Hyken: seven ways to deliver on each one of these that I came up with.
- 29:46Shep Hyken: And it my focus is always on creating a better experience, but these
- 29:50Shep Hyken: ideas are good for anybody in any business in any position that will
- 29:54Shep Hyken: help them create a better relationship with the people they do business with or
- 29:58Shep Hyken: work with.
- 29:59Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 30:00Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 30:01Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 30:02Lisa Nichols: Amaze every customer every time.
- 30:04Shep Hyken: Why not?
- 30:05Shep Hyken: Right?
- 30:06Shep Hyken: This is the book I mentioned earlier.
- 30:07Shep Hyken: I used Ace Hardware as a case study throughout the book.
- 30:11Shep Hyken: I interviewed almost I'm gonna say about
- 30:15Shep Hyken: eighty, ninety people, all their leadership team plus a number of the
- 30:19Shep Hyken: owners of Ace Hardware stores to get the information to find out how do
- 30:22Shep Hyken: you compete, not just with somebody that's a direct competitor, but how does David
- 30:26Shep Hyken: go up against Goliath when a little tiny hardware store gets, all
- 30:30Shep Hyken: of a sudden Home Depot or Lowe's or one of the big huge box
- 30:33Shep Hyken: stores moves in next door?
- 30:35Shep Hyken: And there are some great examples of how to be uber competitive
- 30:40Shep Hyken: using the experience as your competitive differentiator.
- 30:44Lisa Nichols: Good.
- 30:44Lisa Nichols: Good.
- 30:45Lisa Nichols: And another one that I have right here is cult of the customer.
- 30:48Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 30:49Shep Hyken: Cult is not a dirty word.
- 30:51Shep Hyken: I mean, a cult is we don't wanna be part of a cult.
- 30:53Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 30:53Shep Hyken: You do when it's this cult.
- 30:55Shep Hyken: And it's a a number of different ideas on how you can create,
- 31:00Shep Hyken: a customer focused culture and how you develop that, internal
- 31:05Shep Hyken: mantra that drives the experience.
- 31:07Shep Hyken: And within that, and I know in your great book that you have something
- 31:11Shep Hyken: extra, I believe it's called.
- 31:12Shep Hyken: Is that right?
- 31:12Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 31:13Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 31:13Shep Hyken: You have, at the end of every chapter, examples,
- 31:17Shep Hyken: exercises, conversation starters.
- 31:20Shep Hyken: I do that in almost all my books, but what I put in the
- 31:23Shep Hyken: back of this book are the same training exercises that our trainers
- 31:27Shep Hyken: when they hire us to go out.
- 31:29Shep Hyken: I have a team of trainers that go out and deliver my content in
- 31:32Shep Hyken: a training format, not necessarily a keynote speech, And it's the same exact
- 31:36Shep Hyken: exercises that we use.
- 31:37Shep Hyken: We put them in the back of the book for people to use.
- 31:40Lisa Nichols: Oh, I love that.
- 31:41Lisa Nichols: I love that.
- 31:42Lisa Nichols: Well, let's talk about let's kinda move into, you know, I mentioned
- 31:46Lisa Nichols: it right before our break that you were inducted into National Speaker Hall of
- 31:50Lisa Nichols: Fame.
- 31:51Lisa Nichols: You know, Shep is an amazing keynote speaker.
- 31:54Lisa Nichols: So if you're looking for somebody, make sure you reach out to him.
- 31:57Lisa Nichols: He's got lots of different things he can talk about.
- 32:00Lisa Nichols: But I wanna talk about this.
- 32:02Lisa Nichols: You, I don't know what year this was, but I just wanted you to
- 32:06Lisa Nichols: kinda just, like, touch on this, because this definitely taught you
- 32:10Lisa Nichols: a few things about leadership under fire.
- 32:12Lisa Nichols: And that is
- 32:14Shep Hyken: I don't know.
- 32:15Shep Hyken: Where did you get that?
- 32:16Shep Hyken: Because that's not I don't think in any of my books.
- 32:18Shep Hyken: Maybe
- 32:19Lisa Nichols: it is.
- 32:20Lisa Nichols: I don't know.
- 32:20Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 32:21Lisa Nichols: Just, found it somewhere.
- 32:23Lisa Nichols: So, the president of the National Speakers Association, you faced
- 32:27Lisa Nichols: a major crisis.
- 32:28Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 32:28Shep Hyken: So what what happened is I was president in two thousand fourteen,
- 32:32Shep Hyken: fifteen, and, great honor, traveled the world, and, you know,
- 32:36Shep Hyken: four thousand speakers think they're my best friend, and that they are.
- 32:39Shep Hyken: They are.
- 32:40Shep Hyken: Okay?
- 32:40Shep Hyken: But we changed the name of the organization, and,
- 32:45Shep Hyken: we had no idea that people were so invested in the name of
- 32:49Shep Hyken: our organization.
- 32:50Shep Hyken: It was a nightmare.
- 32:52Shep Hyken: Within the period of about twenty four to thirty hours of announcing
- 32:57Shep Hyken: this, I received over seven hundred emails.
- 33:00Shep Hyken: And other than the ones that cussed me out, and they did, nasty
- 33:04Shep Hyken: words, I answered every single one, which was close to seven hundred.
- 33:08Shep Hyken: And I did it over a holiday weekend.
- 33:10Shep Hyken: It was that July fourth weekend.
- 33:11Shep Hyken: I said everybody's gonna get a response.
- 33:14Shep Hyken: And we talked to the
- 33:16Shep Hyken: the the executive, who runs our board or who runs the organization,
- 33:20Shep Hyken: the board.
- 33:21Shep Hyken: I was chairman or president of the board.
- 33:23Shep Hyken: And we said, what are we gonna do?
- 33:24Shep Hyken: We hired a crisis management company, and they said, you're gonna get through this.
- 33:28Shep Hyken: We're gonna show you how.
- 33:29Shep Hyken: I go, I'm gonna tell you how we get through it.
- 33:31Shep Hyken: We need to listen to our members, and we need to start over.
- 33:33Shep Hyken: We have to roll back the rollout of the new name and make sure
- 33:37Shep Hyken: the members buy in.
- 33:38Shep Hyken: What I learned is this.
- 33:40Shep Hyken: We're sitting up here in this office with, you know, a dozen other board
- 33:44Shep Hyken: members, and we think we know what thousands of people want.
- 33:49Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 33:49Lisa Nichols: We
- 33:49Shep Hyken: really thought we knew.
- 33:50Shep Hyken: We even asked past presidents.
- 33:52Shep Hyken: We brought in a few branding experts.
- 33:55Shep Hyken: We were dead wrong.
- 33:58Shep Hyken: And it was really an interesting process how he brought everybody around, and even
- 34:02Shep Hyken: the biggest naysayer finally agreed we need to change the name.
- 34:06Shep Hyken: Unfortunately, we couldn't come up with the right name.
- 34:09Shep Hyken: So what we did is we kept our name, and
- 34:13Shep Hyken: we made sure that each year, our annual conference was
- 34:18Shep Hyken: consistently named.
- 34:19Shep Hyken: And we came up with a great name for that, so which is influence
- 34:23Shep Hyken: because that's what we do.
- 34:24Shep Hyken: The spoken word, the written word, the platforms we use such
- 34:29Shep Hyken: as speaking from a stage, training, podcasts, that type of
- 34:33Shep Hyken: thing.
- 34:34Shep Hyken: This is all about creating influence in the right way.
- 34:37Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 34:38Lisa Nichols: I love that.
- 34:39Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 34:39Lisa Nichols: So because you just said that, I'm gonna pivot, and I'm gonna I'm gonna
- 34:43Lisa Nichols: ask you something totally different.
- 34:44Shep Hyken: Okay.
- 34:45Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 34:46Lisa Nichols: Influence.
- 34:46Lisa Nichols: How do you define influence?
- 34:49Shep Hyken: Wow.
- 34:50Shep Hyken: Influence, there's well, I'm a huge fan of,
- 34:54Shep Hyken: Robert Cialdini, who wrote the book, influence, which we were
- 34:58Shep Hyken: the first that year was the first year our conference was named influence, and
- 35:02Shep Hyken: we decided as a board that it would be moving on.
- 35:05Shep Hyken: And by the way, members didn't care what we called the conference, but it
- 35:09Shep Hyken: made total sense.
- 35:10Shep Hyken: And we gave everybody one of, doctor Cialdini's books.
- 35:14Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 35:14Shep Hyken: Which is, I, by the way, highly recommend the book.
- 35:17Shep Hyken: One of my favorites.
- 35:18Shep Hyken: So I believe influence is anytime, for the
- 35:22Shep Hyken: right reason, you get somebody to do things for the right
- 35:26Shep Hyken: reason.
- 35:27Shep Hyken: Influence could be, I want you to buy from me.
- 35:29Shep Hyken: How do I influence you to do that for the right reasons if it's
- 35:33Shep Hyken: the right product?
- 35:34Shep Hyken: If you're a leader, influence is how you influence and motivate
- 35:38Shep Hyken: your people to do the right thing for their customers.
- 35:42Shep Hyken: And I think it's so important that everybody be thinking about not just the
- 35:46Shep Hyken: job they have, especially leaders, your listeners.
- 35:50Shep Hyken: They need to think about where can I influence people for the right reasons
- 35:54Shep Hyken: at the right time?
- 35:55Shep Hyken: And, so I think it's a powerful powerful word.
- 35:58Shep Hyken: And It's
- 35:58Lisa Nichols: it is.
- 35:59Lisa Nichols: I don't know if you know, you may or because he's on the speaker
- 36:03Lisa Nichols: circuit too.
- 36:03Lisa Nichols: Tommy Spalding is a good friend of mine.
- 36:05Lisa Nichols: Yep.
- 36:05Lisa Nichols: Both the gift of influence Yep.
- 36:07Lisa Nichols: And another terrific book, but I'll get the one that you just
- 36:11Lisa Nichols: recommended too.
- 36:12Lisa Nichols: But,
- 36:14Lisa Nichols: you know, it's just really yeah.
- 36:16Lisa Nichols: But you can influence people for good or for bad.
- 36:18Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 36:19Lisa Nichols: We wanna be influenced For
- 36:20Shep Hyken: the right reasons.
- 36:21Shep Hyken: I I I made sure that was very clear.
- 36:23Lisa Nichols: Very, very important.
- 36:25Lisa Nichols: Very important.
- 36:27Lisa Nichols: Well, let me let me just do a few lightning round questions here, just
- 36:30Lisa Nichols: some fun stuff, and then we'll talk about something extra.
- 36:34Lisa Nichols: But, I know, Shep, that you read something like thirty
- 36:38Lisa Nichols: to forty books a year.
- 36:39Shep Hyken: I do.
- 36:40Shep Hyken: And A lot of airplane time.
- 36:42Lisa Nichols: A lot of airplane time.
- 36:43Lisa Nichols: You're a voracious reader.
- 36:44Lisa Nichols: I am too.
- 36:45Lisa Nichols: I've my whole you've got books behind me, but my whole wall here
- 36:49Lisa Nichols: is books.
- 36:50Lisa Nichols: So my my dream would be to have a library like
- 36:54Lisa Nichols: in Beauty and the Beast.
- 36:57Lisa Nichols: You need a big house.
- 36:59Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 36:59Lisa Nichols: That would be my dream though to to have that kind of library.
- 37:02Lisa Nichols: But, you know, you you say that that's truly been, you know,
- 37:06Lisa Nichols: one of your secrets to your success is just how much you've read,
- 37:11Lisa Nichols: one of your secrets to success.
- 37:13Lisa Nichols: But, you've already given us one, but can you give our listeners
- 37:18Lisa Nichols: one or two more, that you would highly recommend that it
- 37:22Shep Hyken: Sure.
- 37:23Shep Hyken: Sure.
- 37:23Shep Hyken: My favorite book of all time in well, I've told you doctor Cialdini's book
- 37:26Shep Hyken: influence is a great book.
- 37:28Shep Hyken: But, my personal favorite book of all time is The Experience Economy
- 37:32Shep Hyken: by Joe Pine and Jim Gilmore.
- 37:35Shep Hyken: And, the gist of it is Starbucks took a coffee bean and figured
- 37:39Shep Hyken: out how to charge five dollars for what everybody else was charging a dollar
- 37:43Shep Hyken: for.
- 37:44Shep Hyken: And I go, wow.
- 37:46Shep Hyken: This this book speaks to me, and it's exactly everything that I believe.
- 37:50Shep Hyken: I also mentioned Tom Hopkins' book for sales.
- 37:52Shep Hyken: And even though it's outdated, there are pretty very many, what
- 37:56Shep Hyken: I would call, basic principles that are not only were timely for me, but
- 38:00Shep Hyken: also became timeless, and I think they are.
- 38:03Shep Hyken: So
- 38:04Lisa Nichols: Oh, those are good.
- 38:05Lisa Nichols: And since we were talking about horse, you know, his book, Excellence Wins.
- 38:08Shep Hyken: Yes.
- 38:09Shep Hyken: Love the book.
- 38:10Lisa Nichols: Love the book.
- 38:10Shep Hyken: In in the hospitality mentality is what every business
- 38:15Shep Hyken: needs.
- 38:16Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 38:17Lisa Nichols: Could not agree more.
- 38:18Lisa Nichols: Well, what about this, morning routine?
- 38:21Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 38:21Lisa Nichols: I mean, there's so many studies out there.
- 38:24Lisa Nichols: Really successful people, you know, are not just haphazard.
- 38:27Shep Hyken: Yep.
- 38:27Lisa Nichols: Usually, they have a routine.
- 38:29Lisa Nichols: What is one habit, chef, that you do in the morning that you won't
- 38:33Lisa Nichols: compromise on?
- 38:34Shep Hyken: I wake up.
- 38:36Shep Hyken: Okay.
- 38:37Shep Hyken: Wake up, get out of bed, run the comb across my head, go down
- 38:40Shep Hyken: the stairs, get a cup.
- 38:41Shep Hyken: No.
- 38:41Shep Hyken: That's a Beatles song.
- 38:42Shep Hyken: Anyway and I don't have the hair to run across, the the the Coney
- 38:46Shep Hyken: River.
- 38:46Shep Hyken: But, no, my habit four days a week, if I'm in town so I
- 38:50Shep Hyken: believe when you get up, you have to really get up.
- 38:52Shep Hyken: You gotta get you gotta get your body going.
- 38:54Shep Hyken: You gotta do something.
- 38:55Shep Hyken: And there's no doubt that a little bit of physical activity actually helps reduce
- 39:00Shep Hyken: your age and the way you think.
- 39:02Shep Hyken: It makes you sharper.
- 39:03Shep Hyken: So if I'm in town, this is my morning.
- 39:06Shep Hyken: I did it this morning.
- 39:07Shep Hyken: I get up about five, five fifteen.
- 39:09Shep Hyken: I clean up.
- 39:10Shep Hyken: I stretch a little bit.
- 39:11Shep Hyken: I go to the office for about a half an hour, and then I
- 39:13Shep Hyken: go to the ice rink, and I play hockey with my buddies, which is
- 39:16Shep Hyken: not only a great workout, but what a fun way to start the day.
- 39:20Shep Hyken: And I am back in my office usually around, oh, somewhere around quarter
- 39:24Shep Hyken: to nine or so, but that's how my favorite morning start.
- 39:27Shep Hyken: I do that when I'm in town four days a week.
- 39:30Lisa Nichols: That is awesome.
- 39:32Lisa Nichols: I love that.
- 39:32Lisa Nichols: I thought you were gonna say you go to the gym or something, but
- 39:35Lisa Nichols: going to play hockey with your buddies, you're getting that that social interaction,
- 39:39Lisa Nichols: the relationship relational piece of that.
- 39:42Shep Hyken: It's so great.
- 39:42Shep Hyken: And by the way, I still, will go to the gym, you know, and
- 39:45Shep Hyken: I have a Peloton in our home, so I I do that.
- 39:48Shep Hyken: But I forgot to go to the gym the other day, which now that's
- 39:50Shep Hyken: three years I've been forgetting to go to the gym every day.
- 39:53Shep Hyken: No.
- 39:53Shep Hyken: I'm just kidding.
- 39:54Shep Hyken: But no.
- 39:55Shep Hyken: That's important to do.
- 39:56Shep Hyken: You know, I think if you can do four or five days of great
- 39:59Shep Hyken: physical activity, that's great.
- 40:01Shep Hyken: I like to do it early in the morning because that gets me going.
- 40:04Shep Hyken: For some people, it's hard to do that.
- 40:06Shep Hyken: So their routine may be getting that cup of coffee, watching the news, and
- 40:10Shep Hyken: starting the day out that way.
- 40:12Shep Hyken: I don't know how exciting and motivating watching the news can be.
- 40:15Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 40:16Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 40:16Lisa Nichols: Exactly.
- 40:17Lisa Nichols: Especially now.
- 40:19Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 40:19Lisa Nichols: But we won't go there.
- 40:20Lisa Nichols: We won't go there.
- 40:22Lisa Nichols: Alright.
- 40:22Lisa Nichols: Well, you know, do you have one personal habit
- 40:27Lisa Nichols: one personal habit where people walk away from you, Shep?
- 40:31Lisa Nichols: I could, like, surmise a few things.
- 40:33Lisa Nichols: I could put a few things in your brain, but I wanna hear from
- 40:35Lisa Nichols: you one habit that people walk away going, I'm so glad I met Shep.
- 40:40Lisa Nichols: That was an amazing experience.
- 40:42Shep Hyken: You know, I think,
- 40:45Shep Hyken: nobody's asked me this quite this way.
- 40:47Shep Hyken: I'm thinking a number of ideas, but I think I do what I say
- 40:49Shep Hyken: I'm gonna do.
- 40:50Shep Hyken: You can count on me.
- 40:51Shep Hyken: Yeah.
- 40:52Shep Hyken: I don't return a phone call, call nine one one.
- 40:54Shep Hyken: It means something really wrong.
- 40:56Lisa Nichols: It means something.
- 40:56Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's good.
- 40:57Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 40:58Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 40:58Lisa Nichols: And that's amazing.
- 40:59Lisa Nichols: Well, Shep, this is called something extra.
- 41:02Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 41:02Lisa Nichols: What do you believe is the something extra that every leader needs?
- 41:06Shep Hyken: Great.
- 41:07Shep Hyken: Well, you know, I I'm gonna tie to the customer experience thing.
- 41:11Shep Hyken: I believe that when it comes to creating a great experience in a company,
- 41:15Shep Hyken: it starts with the leader at the very top.
- 41:17Shep Hyken: I interviewed in one one time I interviewed three hundred some odd leaders of
- 41:21Shep Hyken: all size companies.
- 41:22Shep Hyken: You were in YPO, so number of YPO leaders all the way up to,
- 41:26Shep Hyken: CEOs of major Fortune one hundred organizations.
- 41:30Shep Hyken: And I asked them, what's the one thing, the most important thing that you
- 41:33Shep Hyken: do in your job as a leader?
- 41:36Shep Hyken: And one of them was so powerful because it was something I believed in
- 41:39Shep Hyken: when it comes to creating the culture of a customer first or customer obsessed
- 41:43Shep Hyken: or customer focused mindset.
- 41:45Shep Hyken: This is what this gentleman said.
- 41:47Shep Hyken: Big company.
- 41:47Shep Hyken: He said, my job you know, of course, there's deals to be made and
- 41:51Shep Hyken: that kind of thing, is to defend the culture of the
- 41:55Shep Hyken: company.
- 41:56Shep Hyken: What we created and what is working and what our customers want and expect
- 42:00Shep Hyken: and love about us.
- 42:01Shep Hyken: If I see a person, a region, a division, a group
- 42:06Shep Hyken: that's out of alignment, I have to defend our culture.
- 42:09Shep Hyken: That's part of my job, and it's probably the most important job.
- 42:11Shep Hyken: I went, wow.
- 42:12Shep Hyken: Oh.
- 42:12Shep Hyken: There you go.
- 42:14Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 42:15Lisa Nichols: That is really good.
- 42:16Lisa Nichols: That's gold right there.
- 42:17Lisa Nichols: Well, Shep, this has been so much fun.
- 42:19Lisa Nichols: Thank you so much for making
- 42:21Shep Hyken: Thank you.
- 42:21Lisa Nichols: What a a delight.
- 42:23Lisa Nichols: What a been a delight to be with you, and I just really encourage
- 42:27Lisa Nichols: our listeners to go out, follow Shep.
- 42:29Lisa Nichols: Go, he he writes for Forbes.
- 42:31Lisa Nichols: He, you know, has articles out there, but his books are great.
- 42:33Lisa Nichols: And, again, if you need a keynote speaker, he'd be a great one to
- 42:37Lisa Nichols: to bring on board for that.
- 42:38Lisa Nichols: So thanks so much for being with me today.
- 42:41Shep Hyken: Well, thank you.
- 42:42Shep Hyken: Can't wait to do it again.
- 42:43Shep Hyken: I'm gonna have you on my show next.
- 42:45Lisa Nichols: I know.
- 42:45Lisa Nichols: I'm excited about that too.
- 42:47Lisa Nichols: Alright.
- 42:48Lisa Nichols: Take care now.
- 42:48Shep Hyken: Thank you.
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