SUBTLE WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL PHONE IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY - PERFORMATIVE VS REAL RECOVERY
Are you really in recovery… or are you just performing it?
In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam tackle one of the most damaging patterns in affair recovery: performative recovery — also known as "phoning it in." There are obvious ways that most can see - this episode looks at the more subtle ways this can happen - even unconsciously - and brings them to the fore so that the unfaithful can see them and take action!
This is when the unfaithful appears to be doing the work — attending therapy, reading books, handing over passwords — but nothing actually changes internally.
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