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Gaining an Unbiased Perspective in Judging One's Own Actions and the Actions of Others · Sri Aurobindo Studies

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  It is much easier to spot faults in others than in oneself.
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  The New Testament of the Bible relates A parable directly on
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  point quote. And why beholdest thou the mote
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  that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam
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  that is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out
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  the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou seek clearly
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  to cast out the mote that is in thy brother's eye.
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  End Quote. Matthew 7 three through 5.
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  We tend not to have a very clear and unbiased view of our own
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  issues and limitations. For the most part, our faults
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  remain invisible to us, and we tend to believe an inherent
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  rightness to what we think, say, and do.
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  However, there are also individuals who tend to obsess
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  over their own shortcomings to such a degree that they actually
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  overemphasize them and become somewhat paralyzed
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  psychologically due to the faults they perceive within
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  themselves. Both extremes are the result of
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  an internal bias in our perspective that needs to be
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  addressed. Additionally, when we try to
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  judge the actions of others, we are not always in possession of
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  all the facts and may actually be observing things from a
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  perspective that does not do justice to the entirety of the
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  situation. Our own biases and
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  preconceptions may creep in, and our mind may fill in missing
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  data with our own experience just making our judgment of
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  others even more suspect. It is a general truth of
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  psychology that as long as one is immersed in and within the
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  frame of a particular viewpoint or understanding, 1 cannot
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  actually see clearly the limits and terms of that frame.
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  In order to get a clearer view, the individual must be able to
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  step away from that identification and take the
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  standpoint of a neutral and unbiased witness to whatever
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  degree possible at any stage. Shriyuro Bindu observes quote.
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  To recognize one's weaknesses and false movements and draw
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  back from them is the way towards liberation.
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  Not to judge anyone but oneself until 1 can see things from a
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  calm mind, and a calm vital is an excellent rule.
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  Also, do not allow your mind to form hasty impressions on the
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  strength of some outward appearance, nor you're vital to
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  act upon them. There is a place in the inner
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  being where one can always remain calm, and from there look
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  with poise and judgment on the perturbations of the surface
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  consciousness and act upon it to change it.
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  If you can learn to live in that calm of the inner being, you
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  will have found your stable basis.
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  End Quote reference Srioro Bindo Bases of Yoga, Chapter 1 Calm,
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  Peace and Equality, page 12.