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- 0:00SPEAKER_02: Where do I need more pleasure or creativity?
- 0:02SPEAKER_01: There's no way that we can continue on this trajectory without some huge disruption happening.
- 0:09SPEAKER_02: Where you're at today and can you do it until December?
- 0:13SPEAKER_02: That's actually a very important part of life.
- 0:17SPEAKER_02: You can give yourself permission to let it go.
- 0:21SPEAKER_01: Something that I've been asking for from the universe.
- 0:24SPEAKER_02: I think that's the reason why we are alive.
- 0:27[music]
- 0:45SPEAKER_01: What's up, roomies?
- 0:48SPEAKER_01: I've got my very lovely friend Nina Bavar here today.
- 0:51SPEAKER_01: We are doing a little bit of a special episode.
- 0:55SPEAKER_01: We're going to try a few of these for the rest of the year based around the full moon.
- 1:01SPEAKER_01: And if you listened to Nina's episode before,
- 1:03SPEAKER_01: you know that she is an empowerment coach and her business is The Awareness Effect
- 1:08SPEAKER_01: and that She and I have gotten really close since that episode,
- 1:11SPEAKER_01: and so we decided to just experiment, and here we are.
- 1:15SPEAKER_01: Nina, do you want to tell us about what full moon is coming up this week?
- 1:22SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 1:22SPEAKER_02: Hi.
- 1:22SPEAKER_02: Hi, everyone.
- 1:23SPEAKER_02: Hi, roomies.
- 1:24SPEAKER_02: Hi, roomies.
- 1:28SPEAKER_02: So yeah, I mean,
- 1:32SPEAKER_02: I think it's also a topic that we talk about in our first episode together about
- 1:39SPEAKER_02: the full moon and how we got excited about it and how I think it was a good idea
- 1:47SPEAKER_02: to empower a little bit more about that topic.
- 1:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:53SPEAKER_02: Because I'm into astrology, but also because I think it's an embrace our feminine energy.
- 1:58SPEAKER_02: It connects with Native, all the Native American, Hawaiian here.
- 2:04SPEAKER_02: They also work a lot about like they used to,
- 2:08SPEAKER_02: but are still looking at the full moon on how they're going to plant,
- 2:12SPEAKER_02: how they're going to rest because it's rainy season.
- 2:16SPEAKER_02: So all that felt like really cool to add up.
- 2:21SPEAKER_02: So this full moon is in Taurus, right?
- 2:24SPEAKER_02: And Taurus, I have some Taurus in my chart, but I'm not a Taurus.
- 2:32SPEAKER_02: I'm more like a Capricorn,
- 2:33SPEAKER_02: and they're a little different, and we have that in similarity, right?
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 2:40SPEAKER_01: I'm Capricorn rising.
- 2:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:43SPEAKER_01: And Virgo, Moon, and then Libra, Sun.
- 2:45SPEAKER_01: What are your big three?
- 2:46SPEAKER_02: I am Sun and Cancer, Rising Capricorn, and Libra.
- 2:51SPEAKER_01: That's right.
- 2:53SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 2:54SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 2:54SPEAKER_01: We do have so many things.
- 2:56SPEAKER_01: We're in sync, I feel like.
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: But yeah,
- 2:59SPEAKER_01: I want to know a little bit more about what you've learned
- 3:03SPEAKER_01: about this particular full moon and like what guidance maybe we could take away
- 3:09SPEAKER_01: from it as far as like How we should proceed with the energy that's coming up.
- 3:16SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 3:17SPEAKER_02: So the first thing,
- 3:18SPEAKER_02: Taurus, is about substance, stability, pleasure, but also patience and slowing down.
- 3:27SPEAKER_02: And it's like we were talking before, it feels really aligned with where we at.
- 3:33SPEAKER_02: And I think we are not the only one to be in that space right now.
- 3:38SPEAKER_02: So for me,
- 3:40SPEAKER_02: when I read that,
- 3:42SPEAKER_02: I felt like it gave me kind of a permission of like, oh, that's
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: what we do.
- 3:49SPEAKER_02: It sounds great.
- 3:50SPEAKER_02: It's also like acting on something that take roots, get crafts and you take care of it.
- 3:57SPEAKER_02: You're really taking intention.
- 4:00SPEAKER_02: It's not about go fast and have the biggest goal and And push yourself.
- 4:05SPEAKER_02: It's really more about taking the time to slow down and look at where you're at,
- 4:11SPEAKER_02: where you're coming from, and what do you want to root more?
- 4:16SPEAKER_02: Where do you need more patience, right?
- 4:19SPEAKER_02: Because that's also something that I think we're not used to.
- 4:24SPEAKER_02: It's always the speed thing of like, so what's next?
- 4:28SPEAKER_02: Oh, I'm done with this.
- 4:29SPEAKER_02: What's next?
- 4:29SPEAKER_02: What's next?
- 4:30SPEAKER_02: What's next?
- 4:31SPEAKER_02: And also plan on next year.
- 4:34SPEAKER_02: You know, like,
- 4:35SPEAKER_02: so this moment is the perfect time to stop and observe and decide,
- 4:42SPEAKER_02: okay, where do I need more of patience?
- 4:46SPEAKER_02: Where do I need more pleasure or creativity?
- 4:49SPEAKER_02: Or I'm being more stable with, right?
- 4:52SPEAKER_02: Where do I want to be more stable about?
- 4:53SPEAKER_02: It could be just me.
- 4:55SPEAKER_02: It can be very simple.
- 4:57SPEAKER_02: So, yeah.
- 4:59SPEAKER_01: This is...
- 5:01SPEAKER_01: I love that this is the first one we're doing because patience is not my strong suit.
- 5:05SPEAKER_01: And I'm so happy that this is calling that in.
- 5:09SPEAKER_01: I have been working diligently internally to try to become more patient.
- 5:16SPEAKER_01: But it is, especially as a Capricorn, anything.
- 5:20SPEAKER_01: It is a task because that's our inner CEO trying to lead everything.
- 5:26SPEAKER_01: And it's a little bit exhausting at some points.
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: Thanks.
- 5:31SPEAKER_01: Thanks, Mother Nature, for bringing in a requirement for patience this month.
- 5:38SPEAKER_02: I think it's also like we've been working so hard through the year and here it's
- 5:46SPEAKER_02: the winter's coming.
- 5:47SPEAKER_02: And in Hawaii, there is that belief that it's the season where we don't go to war.
- 5:54SPEAKER_02: We slow down.
- 5:55SPEAKER_02: We let the seeds grow in.
- 5:56SPEAKER_02: We see what we planted through the year.
- 5:59SPEAKER_02: And we need to be patient because it's also like the weather is forcing us to slow down.
- 6:06SPEAKER_02: You cannot be always outside doing things, right?
- 6:09SPEAKER_02: So it's thinking about that of how, hey, you did the work.
- 6:16SPEAKER_02: Even maybe you're limiting belief
- 6:19SPEAKER_02: and your mind is telling you you should be doing more or comparing yourself
- 6:25SPEAKER_02: and looking online and all that.
- 6:28SPEAKER_02: No, like observe, look at where you're at, what you did.
- 6:31SPEAKER_02: And
- 6:34SPEAKER_02: bring up also like being proud of yourself.
- 6:39SPEAKER_02: Like look at you, look at what you did, look at all those things that there's not small things.
- 6:46SPEAKER_02: Like it depends on who the person is looking at, right?
- 6:50SPEAKER_02: And I think that has so much value for So to like be happy about yourself
- 6:58SPEAKER_02: and be like, hey, I'm trusting.
- 7:00SPEAKER_02: I'm trusting what I put out there.
- 7:02SPEAKER_02: I'm trusting that things will like get good no matter what is what's happening outside.
- 7:09SPEAKER_02: I want to trust that what I put out there during the year will grow
- 7:16SPEAKER_02: and something going to come up, even though I would like that it happened now.
- 7:21SPEAKER_02: I don't want to wait.
- 7:25SPEAKER_01: We never really grow out of that part of our little kid self of just the kicking and screaming.
- 7:30SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 7:31SPEAKER_01: you actually said something to me a couple months ago where you asked of me to kind
- 7:39SPEAKER_01: of reflect back over the last year.
- 7:41SPEAKER_01: And that's something I've been doing a lot.
- 7:44SPEAKER_01: And I realized that I was not giving myself enough credit,
- 7:47SPEAKER_01: even though I didn't reach these like massive goals that I had in my mind.
- 7:54SPEAKER_01: I still did so many things and I learned so many things and I did a lot
- 7:59SPEAKER_01: of inner work and there were just a lot of accomplishments
- 8:06SPEAKER_01: that I was not giving myself credit for.
- 8:08SPEAKER_01: And I realized that that happens a lot,
- 8:11SPEAKER_01: especially like you were saying,
- 8:12SPEAKER_01: you go online, you do the comparison game and that becomes very insidious.
- 8:18SPEAKER_01: And so right now,
- 8:21SPEAKER_01: as you're talking about the moon,
- 8:23SPEAKER_01: we're We're being asked to slow down and just honor what we have accomplished in
- 8:29SPEAKER_01: the last year.
- 8:31SPEAKER_01: And even sitting on your butt and doing nothing is an accomplishment because it's a rebellion.
- 8:37SPEAKER_01: I've been thinking about that too.
- 8:38SPEAKER_01: It's a rebellion against society, against what we're told we're supposed to be doing.
- 8:45SPEAKER_01: And I know, I mean,
- 8:45SPEAKER_01: you grew up in Europe and the approach
- 8:50SPEAKER_01: of not making work your identity is Is very foreign to most people who are from
- 8:55SPEAKER_01: the U.S.
- 8:56SPEAKER_01: But does that come easier for you just to be able to to have like a do nothing day?
- 9:02SPEAKER_02: I block days.
- 9:03SPEAKER_02: I always like also it come from that.
- 9:08SPEAKER_02: Weekends are precious where I'm coming from, like no one is sending you email emails.
- 9:14SPEAKER_02: Work on weekends.
- 9:16SPEAKER_02: It's weekend.
- 9:17SPEAKER_02: It's like Saturday.
- 9:18SPEAKER_02: You might socialize and do the thing you need to do.
- 9:20SPEAKER_02: And then Sunday it's resting.
- 9:22SPEAKER_02: And there is even law where you cannot do works in your house on Sunday.
- 9:28SPEAKER_02: You have to respect each other day of rest.
- 9:32SPEAKER_02: So that is what I grew up.
- 9:34SPEAKER_02: And it sometimes looks very tight.
- 9:37SPEAKER_02: But then if you look at it, it actually helps everyone.
- 9:42SPEAKER_02: The goal is that it's not about individuality.
- 9:46SPEAKER_02: It's about the group.
- 9:47SPEAKER_02: It's about, hey,
- 9:48SPEAKER_02: everyone today,
- 9:50SPEAKER_02: there is people obviously that work,
- 9:53SPEAKER_02: but that's the priority is it's a moment of resting and we made a law
- 9:58SPEAKER_02: so everybody's respecting each other's space.
- 10:02SPEAKER_02: Now, it's been almost nine years that I'm in the U.S. Yeah.
- 10:08SPEAKER_01: Your psyche's been infiltrated at this point.
- 10:11SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I'm married to an American person that is very, very, like,
- 10:18SPEAKER_02: grew up in the work mentality and it has been very challenging at the beginning
- 10:26SPEAKER_02: where I was like, yeah, I'm going to rest.
- 10:29SPEAKER_02: Yes, I need to rest.
- 10:30SPEAKER_02: And, like, it doesn't mean I'm not working when I need to work.
- 10:35SPEAKER_02: I can be very passionate and I love to work.
- 10:38SPEAKER_02: But there is, I need those boundaries.
- 10:40SPEAKER_02: I need to have things that are not work or doing things, right?
- 10:47SPEAKER_02: It's also that the thing is like there is this mentality that even if you are off,
- 10:53SPEAKER_02: you need to be doing something.
- 10:55SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 10:56SPEAKER_02: As like there is someone that you will have to say,
- 10:59SPEAKER_02: yeah, yeah, today was off, but look at what I did.
- 11:03SPEAKER_02: I still did all those things.
- 11:06SPEAKER_02: And it feels really stressful for me because now I'm in this between of like,
- 11:10SPEAKER_02: I know that, but at the same time, it's not natural.
- 11:15SPEAKER_02: So I'm trying to figure out how to like balance in it and still pushing
- 11:20SPEAKER_02: of what I really believe that it's possible.
- 11:24SPEAKER_02: We are like, when I hear people are like, oh, I don't need a vacation.
- 11:28SPEAKER_02: I made a life so that I don't never need a vacation.
- 11:32SPEAKER_02: And for me, it's kind of insane to hear that.
- 11:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 11:37SPEAKER_01: Well, yeah.
- 11:37SPEAKER_01: And when we're told that we're supposed to make everything we do marketable and
- 11:43SPEAKER_01: a hobby that we have can make us money,
- 11:46SPEAKER_01: the plot gets lost at that point because we need to do things that are simply
- 11:51SPEAKER_01: for pleasure sometimes or we're not going to put online,
- 11:56SPEAKER_01: we're not going to put up on TikTok and tell everyone about it.
- 12:00SPEAKER_01: It's got to just be for you.
- 12:03SPEAKER_01: And In the society that we're in,
- 12:09SPEAKER_01: that feels very counterproductive and feels like it's wasting time.
- 12:15SPEAKER_01: But part of the mission here is to help people understand that that's actually
- 12:22SPEAKER_01: a very important part of life, just to have things to do that are solely for you.
- 12:30SPEAKER_01: And I'm learning it.
- 12:31SPEAKER_01: It's definitely, it pushes against so much of who I am as a human being.
- 12:39SPEAKER_01: But it's funny because Curtis will talk about hobbies a lot.
- 12:43SPEAKER_01: And he's like, he's unabashed.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: He's just like, I'm going to be out in the driveway working with wood.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: He's just doing things all the time that bring him joy.
- 12:54SPEAKER_01: And I know that I've had a mentality at times where I'm like, well, that's good for you.
- 13:01SPEAKER_01: But I don't feel like I have that luxury.
- 13:02SPEAKER_01: And I realize that it's a choice.
- 13:05SPEAKER_01: But yeah,
- 13:06SPEAKER_01: being able to just have something that brings you joy without thinking
- 13:14SPEAKER_01: about marketing it is so integral.
- 13:16SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 13:16SPEAKER_02: And also like saying it's a luxury, right?
- 13:21SPEAKER_02: Pleasure, days off, me time, being with your friend, not using your phone.
- 13:28SPEAKER_02: It's a luxury, right?
- 13:30SPEAKER_02: Yep.
- 13:31SPEAKER_01: It's terrible.
- 13:32SPEAKER_02: Because in a world, and especially like in a country where there is no value, right?
- 13:40SPEAKER_02: It's just make money and then spend money.
- 13:43SPEAKER_02: Make money, spend money.
- 13:45SPEAKER_02: And obviously,
- 13:46SPEAKER_02: I understand that it's not that simple because right now everything is expensive
- 13:53SPEAKER_02: and obviously you need money.
- 13:55SPEAKER_02: So it can sound like a luxury to like take a nap.
- 13:59SPEAKER_02: I was like, hey,
- 14:01SPEAKER_02: I have an hour and then you're not able to fall asleep because you're anxious of all
- 14:08SPEAKER_02: the things you're not doing during that hour.
- 14:11SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's definitely where I think a lot of us are at the moment.
- 14:18SPEAKER_01: So do you feel like there are any Things that we can kind of put into practice
- 14:27SPEAKER_01: or something that you feel called to for this particular full moon to be able
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: to work through these things and surrender and rest and kind of call those things in
- 14:43SPEAKER_01: a little bit more.
- 14:44SPEAKER_02: I think what's come first is before act,
- 14:50SPEAKER_02: I think it's about like,
- 14:53SPEAKER_02: Awareness, right,
- 14:54SPEAKER_02: is about looking at and what we were talking about,
- 14:58SPEAKER_02: what's bringing the invisible to visible,
- 15:02SPEAKER_02: like really sit with ourself and observe what we have been maybe avoiding,
- 15:09SPEAKER_02: right, for X, Y reason, needs that you're like, huh.
- 15:15SPEAKER_02: I really need to rest more or I need to like spend more time with my friend
- 15:19SPEAKER_02: because I'm not having as much fun.
- 15:21SPEAKER_02: And especially with this stories in full moon, it's about pleasure of life.
- 15:28SPEAKER_02: What are you not doing enough that you enjoy doing and makes you feel alive?
- 15:34SPEAKER_02: Or maybe there is things that you want to let it go.
- 15:39SPEAKER_02: Maybe there is things that you're attached because you said you will do it.
- 15:43SPEAKER_02: I think there's something...
- 15:47SPEAKER_02: I talk very often with people that are like,
- 15:49SPEAKER_02: yeah, but I said I will do it and I need to do it because I said I will do it.
- 15:53SPEAKER_02: And then I'm like, you know, you can also like realize that it's not working for you.
- 15:59SPEAKER_02: You can also realize it was too big or you need a break from it.
- 16:04SPEAKER_02: That is also part of the work.
- 16:08SPEAKER_02: It's not only like the end goal and the visible that you can show up to everyone
- 16:13SPEAKER_02: and say, I did it, right?
- 16:14SPEAKER_02: There is also like a You can give yourself permission to let it go,
- 16:20SPEAKER_02: to reassess, to maybe change shifts a little bit because actually it doesn't work.
- 16:28SPEAKER_02: Because maybe you are avoiding doing it because it makes you so anxious.
- 16:35SPEAKER_02: And at the end of the day,
- 16:36SPEAKER_02: you're like,
- 16:37SPEAKER_02: I'm feeling I'm not enough because I'm still not doing it and because I'm tired
- 16:41SPEAKER_02: and all those things that are real.
- 16:43SPEAKER_02: There are...
- 16:44SPEAKER_02: We call excuses,
- 16:45SPEAKER_02: but a lot in those excuses,
- 16:47SPEAKER_02: there is something that is important to listen to is that why you're not doing it
- 16:53SPEAKER_02: and being curious about that so that you can bring what you're hiding,
- 16:58SPEAKER_02: what is hidden to the visible and really look at it of like,
- 17:03SPEAKER_02: okay, I'm not doing it because X, Y reason.
- 17:06SPEAKER_02: I'm sure you have that experience too of like realizing,
- 17:10SPEAKER_02: oh, actually I'm not enjoying to do it anymore.
- 17:13SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 17:14SPEAKER_02: But I said I will do it.
- 17:16SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 17:17SPEAKER_02: And I feel guilty if I say that,
- 17:18SPEAKER_02: that I don't, I'm not enjoying it or that I said I will do all those things.
- 17:24SPEAKER_02: And then now I'm like, I don't really feel like it.
- 17:28SPEAKER_02: But there is this pressure and I hear a lot of people just push it.
- 17:32SPEAKER_02: It's going to be fine.
- 17:33SPEAKER_02: There's a lot of people are telling us like continue.
- 17:37SPEAKER_02: Well, maybe no, like look at it.
- 17:39SPEAKER_02: Take the time.
- 17:40SPEAKER_02: This full moon is the good time to stop.
- 17:43SPEAKER_02: And be honest with yourself with kindness and empathy.
- 17:48SPEAKER_02: And prioritize of if you have to let it go of people
- 17:53SPEAKER_02: because you said you will do something or whatever, talk to them.
- 17:58SPEAKER_02: They can understand too.
- 18:00SPEAKER_02: Or if they get upset, it is what it is.
- 18:04SPEAKER_02: But the priority,
- 18:06SPEAKER_02: especially in this world today that is overwhelming,
- 18:10SPEAKER_02: It's prioritizing you,
- 18:13SPEAKER_02: yourself,
- 18:13SPEAKER_02: but not in a selfish way,
- 18:15SPEAKER_02: but really in a way that's going to help you to continue your life
- 18:20SPEAKER_02: and enjoying your life because it's so important, right?
- 18:25SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 18:26SPEAKER_01: Well, and that's the way that you show up for other people too,
- 18:29SPEAKER_01: is if you show up for yourself first.
- 18:31SPEAKER_01: So like we were saying before,
- 18:35SPEAKER_01: rest is not a luxury and it's not The age of glorifying being very busy
- 18:44SPEAKER_01: and not getting enough sleep has,
- 18:47SPEAKER_01: there's still some people who say those things,
- 18:49SPEAKER_01: but I think that time has kind of passed.
- 18:52SPEAKER_01: And I'm really happy that we're moving out of that era.
- 18:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so I wonder if you have,
- 19:02SPEAKER_01: I kind of benefit from hearing examples or anything that Maybe somebody could say,
- 19:09SPEAKER_01: have their eureka moment and be like, oh, that's what you're talking about.
- 19:13SPEAKER_01: Because sometimes it's hard when you don't even understand,
- 19:16SPEAKER_01: like you don't have the awareness in the first place.
- 19:19SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
- 19:19SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 19:20SPEAKER_01: It's kind of hard to even know how to apply it to your life.
- 19:23SPEAKER_01: So if you're willing to share something from your life or something
- 19:28SPEAKER_01: that you just have heard from someone else,
- 19:31SPEAKER_01: I think it would be really helpful to get an example of exactly what you're talking
- 19:37SPEAKER_01: about with releasing something.
- 19:43SPEAKER_02: So I reflected on what we suggest today to do about releasing one thing and not a thousand of.
- 19:54SPEAKER_02: And I started to make a list because I couldn't.
- 20:00SPEAKER_02: The pressure of like finding one thing was too much.
- 20:03SPEAKER_02: So I was like,
- 20:04SPEAKER_02: let's just,
- 20:05SPEAKER_02: let me just start to write down what feels that I could release so that
- 20:11SPEAKER_02: then I have things come in.
- 20:14SPEAKER_02: I follow this three example that I had about self-image,
- 20:18SPEAKER_02: maintain true effort instead of comfort.
- 20:20SPEAKER_02: I find that it's a very common thing, not only for women, right?
- 20:27SPEAKER_02: For any gender.
- 20:29SPEAKER_02: Of like, I need to look a certain way or I need to take care of myself a certain way.
- 20:34SPEAKER_02: Am I doing it for myself or am I doing it for others?
- 20:38SPEAKER_02: Right?
- 20:39SPEAKER_02: I think that could be also like finding awareness of like,
- 20:43SPEAKER_02: maybe it worked for me to do it a certain way for a while,
- 20:46SPEAKER_02: but now it's by, again, you know, like think about, again, back to pleasure.
- 20:53SPEAKER_02: Am I having pleasure with myself with Taking care of myself a certain way or look
- 20:59SPEAKER_02: a certain way for others, like finding that reference in yourself.
- 21:05SPEAKER_02: I look into for myself about letting go the belief that it has to be complicated or
- 21:16SPEAKER_02: that I cannot do things like a healthy habit for myself.
- 21:23SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
- 21:24SPEAKER_02: And the belief that it has to be hard or that it's too complicated.
- 21:30SPEAKER_02: And to give an example is that I started to do yoga twice a week since two or three months.
- 21:37SPEAKER_02: I kind of lost the notion of time because of hurricanes.
- 21:42SPEAKER_02: The hurricanes also come on weekends.
- 21:45SPEAKER_02: And I have yoga on Saturdays, so I skip some.
- 21:48SPEAKER_02: I'm very proud that I'm back at it.
- 21:51SPEAKER_02: I'm very proud of myself to show up twice a week,
- 21:54SPEAKER_02: but there is also this desire of being able to do it on my own.
- 21:59SPEAKER_02: But when it comes to doing on my own, I'm like, ugh.
- 22:04SPEAKER_02: And I find an excuse, and I'm like, what I will do, and what I'm going to do.
- 22:08SPEAKER_02: Because our sessions are one hour and a half,
- 22:13SPEAKER_02: and I'm obviously thinking, I will have to do one hour.
- 22:16SPEAKER_01: It's a long class, yeah.
- 22:18SPEAKER_02: So then I don't do it.
- 22:20SPEAKER_02: I'm like, oh,
- 22:21SPEAKER_02: if it's doing alone,
- 22:22SPEAKER_02: what I'm going to do for an hour by myself,
- 22:25SPEAKER_02: yoga at home, I'm always like, you know, I'm thinking about the biggest goal.
- 22:30SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, that would be great.
- 22:32SPEAKER_02: But, you know, like maybe I could do 15 minutes just once a week.
- 22:39SPEAKER_02: Let's start with that.
- 22:40SPEAKER_02: So that's like releasing on my belief system that he has to look a certain way
- 22:47SPEAKER_02: and otherwise it's not like an accomplishment.
- 22:52SPEAKER_01: Like to be valid, yeah.
- 22:54SPEAKER_01: Yeah, right.
- 22:55SPEAKER_01: Like I have to do this.
- 22:57SPEAKER_02: No, if I do on Monday 15 minutes,
- 23:00SPEAKER_02: from my experience that do not want to do it alone because I like to be in group,
- 23:07SPEAKER_02: But also,
- 23:08SPEAKER_02: I know it would be cool if I do it alone, because then I could do it every day.
- 23:13SPEAKER_02: There is a deeper meaning to it.
- 23:15SPEAKER_02: And then I'm not doing it because in my mind,
- 23:18SPEAKER_02: it has to be one hour and every day and da-da-da-da.
- 23:20SPEAKER_02: We're like, okay, let's break it smaller and what feels possible.
- 23:25SPEAKER_02: And I can write down what I could do for 15 minutes.
- 23:29SPEAKER_02: And then I can try.
- 23:30SPEAKER_02: And then I can decide it doesn't work for me.
- 23:34SPEAKER_02: I can give me permission that it can look Like every way possible.
- 23:39SPEAKER_02: It doesn't have to look, I'm a professional teacher.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 23:47SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 23:47SPEAKER_01: It's still an accomplishment.
- 23:49SPEAKER_01: Like anytime you come to your mat, it's an accomplishment.
- 23:53SPEAKER_02: But especially that we're all at a different level in our life.
- 23:57SPEAKER_02: Maybe for you, it will be easy.
- 23:59SPEAKER_02: You're like,
- 24:00SPEAKER_02: you've been doing it and You know what you will do,
- 24:03SPEAKER_02: your body remember the gesture of its session,
- 24:06SPEAKER_02: and you will look at me and be like, you cannot do 15 minutes, right?
- 24:10SPEAKER_02: And it's like, that's not healthy.
- 24:12SPEAKER_02: Like, no, no, let's don't go there.
- 24:15SPEAKER_02: Let's go on like, hey, yeah, the goal is one hour, but 15 minutes, if you do it, that's amazing.
- 24:23SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 24:23SPEAKER_02: Because you're not doing it.
- 24:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 24:26SPEAKER_02: Like finding and being honest of what you can do, really, you know?
- 24:32SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 24:33SPEAKER_01: I would never judge you, by the way, if you only did 15 minutes.
- 24:38SPEAKER_01: I would be very proud of you.
- 24:40SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it's funny, just as an aside, I'm like, I'll think about doing yoga by myself too.
- 24:45SPEAKER_01: And I have the exact same block where I'm like, I did a yoga teacher training.
- 24:50SPEAKER_01: I'm technically certified 200 hours, but...
- 24:53SPEAKER_01: I don't know what I'm going to do today.
- 24:54SPEAKER_01: I don't know what I'm going to do on the mat.
- 24:56SPEAKER_01: Sometimes I'm like, I'll just do 108 sun salutations.
- 24:59SPEAKER_02: And I don't know if you've ever done that, but it's very challenging.
- 25:04SPEAKER_01: 108, yes.
- 25:06SPEAKER_01: I did that in a group one time.
- 25:08SPEAKER_01: And I just remember my triceps were so pissed at me afterwards.
- 25:13SPEAKER_01: But it was really cool to do it with a bunch of people.
- 25:16SPEAKER_01: Anyway, I digress.
- 25:17SPEAKER_01: What about you?
- 25:19SPEAKER_02: No, you're good.
- 25:20SPEAKER_01: An example, let's see.
- 25:23SPEAKER_01: I'm very much like you are with like the hot and cold.
- 25:26SPEAKER_01: Like if I don't do something all the way, then it's not worth doing.
- 25:30SPEAKER_01: I've been like that with food too.
- 25:32SPEAKER_01: Like when I'm trying to,
- 25:34SPEAKER_01: I have a lot of a healthier mentality when it comes to my relationship with food
- 25:38SPEAKER_01: than I used to.
- 25:39SPEAKER_01: But I would feel very much...
- 25:46SPEAKER_01: It's all or nothing.
- 25:47SPEAKER_01: If I have a healthy food day, then I was good.
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: If I have like a cookie and incorporate that into my healthy food day,
- 25:55SPEAKER_01: then that means that I ruined the whole thing.
- 25:58SPEAKER_01: And I know.
- 26:00SPEAKER_01: And I'm not like that anymore.
- 26:01SPEAKER_01: There are times where I'm like, okay, I went a little overboard on the sugar.
- 26:04SPEAKER_01: I probably need to like pull it back again tomorrow.
- 26:07SPEAKER_01: But also maybe I'm on my period and my hormones have taken over.
- 26:12SPEAKER_01: But And I give myself grace with that because
- 26:18SPEAKER_01: you're a different version of yourself
- 26:20SPEAKER_01: in different times of the month and your body is craving different things,
- 26:24SPEAKER_01: you know, women's cycle.
- 26:29SPEAKER_01: But that's one thing that resonates with me really deeply.
- 26:31SPEAKER_01: We were talking about like all or nothing kind of.
- 26:36SPEAKER_01: I'm like, what's another example of
- 26:40SPEAKER_01: That all or nothing thing runs very deep for me.
- 26:44SPEAKER_01: It's like I've been working to break that down and be more gentle with myself.
- 26:51SPEAKER_01: If I go out for a walk with my dog and all I get for exercise that day is
- 26:58SPEAKER_01: a 30-minute walk with her, I mean,
- 27:00SPEAKER_01: I'd take her out three times if Curtis is on tour,
- 27:02SPEAKER_01: but if all I get is the walks with her and I'm not really getting my heart rate up
- 27:07SPEAKER_01: in the way that I I don't have to be so intense,
- 27:11SPEAKER_01: I think is really what I've discovered.
- 27:16SPEAKER_01: But that new jerk reaction still comes up sometimes.
- 27:21SPEAKER_01: So I have been trying to release that over the course of many,
- 27:28SPEAKER_01: many years because there's a wiring in there from childhood that's just persisted.
- 27:33SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 27:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I feel like I'm curious on who's the person, right,
- 27:38SPEAKER_02: that teach us that,
- 27:39SPEAKER_02: who teach us that pressure on like what's valuable,
- 27:45SPEAKER_02: like have value and what is not, what's like, and I know a part of it, right?
- 27:52SPEAKER_02: We have society and all that,
- 27:54SPEAKER_02: but there is still like,
- 27:56SPEAKER_02: who's that voice in us that is judging how we show up in the world?
- 28:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 28:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 28:04SPEAKER_01: I mean, I know that there was definitely some things that I picked up from the way
- 28:09SPEAKER_01: that my parents talked about themselves, maybe.
- 28:15SPEAKER_01: And then I relate it into some kind of language in my own mind that I need
- 28:21SPEAKER_01: to do things a certain way based off of the way that they see themselves.
- 28:27SPEAKER_01: So that's definitely one route for me.
- 28:31SPEAKER_01: I don't feel like I was getting a lot of fingers pointed at me or judgments directly at me.
- 28:39SPEAKER_01: It was more the interpretation that I was kind of going through hearing these things.
- 28:47SPEAKER_02: It might be also like hearing them talking about themselves out loud
- 28:53SPEAKER_02: and thinking that's a normal way of talking to yourself.
- 28:57SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 28:58SPEAKER_01: Of like, oh, today I didn't do
- 29:00SPEAKER_02: enough or today.
- 29:02SPEAKER_02: And then as a kid, you're like, oh, that's the way of how we talk to ourself.
- 29:07SPEAKER_02: Like it's never enough.
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 29:12SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 29:12SPEAKER_01: I've done a little diving into that,
- 29:14SPEAKER_01: like with self-hypnosis and I did an inner child self-hypnosis with
- 29:19SPEAKER_01: a practitioner one time.
- 29:21SPEAKER_01: It was just a past life regression therapist.
- 29:23SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 29:24SPEAKER_01: But we ended up working on Inner Child from This Life because she said,
- 29:30SPEAKER_01: basically,
- 29:30SPEAKER_01: unless you have certain patterns that are coming up that you can't really explain,
- 29:36SPEAKER_01: most likely you're not being pulled into a past life.
- 29:41SPEAKER_01: And I was like, damn, I just want to know about my past lives.
- 29:43SPEAKER_01: That's why I came here.
- 29:44SPEAKER_01: But okay, fine.
- 29:44SPEAKER_01: We can work on Inner Child from This Life.
- 29:46SPEAKER_01: I did feel, I will say, after that session...
- 29:50SPEAKER_01: It was like a,
- 29:51SPEAKER_01: I don't know if anybody or if you've done breath work or not,
- 29:54SPEAKER_01: but like,
- 29:56SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 29:56SPEAKER_01: like a breath,
- 29:57SPEAKER_01: like sometimes people think that breath work is just like what you do in yoga class,
- 30:01SPEAKER_01: but it's,
- 30:02SPEAKER_01: it's this very intense,
- 30:03SPEAKER_01: like three part breath and you start to feel like you're hyperventilating.
- 30:07SPEAKER_01: It sounds awful, but it was, it's absolutely wonderful.
- 30:11SPEAKER_01: The feeling that you have afterwards is this like beautiful euphoria,
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: lots of love and It's what I would expect kind of close to like
- 30:20SPEAKER_01: a near-death experience,
- 30:21SPEAKER_01: like this connection to the universe, at least in my experience.
- 30:27SPEAKER_01: But I'm like, why did I say that?
- 30:30SPEAKER_01: I brought that up for a reason.
- 30:31SPEAKER_01: We were just talking about...
- 30:34SPEAKER_02: Inner child.
- 30:36SPEAKER_01: Yes, the self-hypnosis.
- 30:37SPEAKER_01: I felt that way after I did the hypnosis, the past-life regression therapy.
- 30:44SPEAKER_01: And it was I didn't do any of the breath work.
- 30:46SPEAKER_01: It just something like switched over.
- 30:49SPEAKER_01: And I and I loved her.
- 30:50SPEAKER_01: She had a very like gentle demeanor.
- 30:52SPEAKER_01: And that was a huge part of it, too, I think just the practitioner.
- 30:57SPEAKER_01: But if you have if it's available to find a past life regression therapist,
- 31:04SPEAKER_01: just do a session once just to see how it goes,
- 31:06SPEAKER_01: because it was very, very cool and kind of pivotal.
- 31:10SPEAKER_01: So.
- 31:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I would love to hear about it.
- 31:14SPEAKER_02: I never did any type of work like this other than maybe with Reiki,
- 31:20SPEAKER_02: figuring out what blockage they were coming from.
- 31:25SPEAKER_02: I think for me,
- 31:27SPEAKER_02: the big awareness last year was realizing that some of the trauma
- 31:36SPEAKER_02: that I had was not mine.
- 31:39SPEAKER_02: And they were like, I got traumatized by others.
- 31:43SPEAKER_02: And so realizing like, oh, but if I look where they are born, they're not born in me.
- 31:50SPEAKER_02: I don't have any memory where I got,
- 31:53SPEAKER_02: I could have learned that trauma or I could learn that fear
- 31:56SPEAKER_02: or I could learn all those things and be like, oh, it's not mine.
- 32:02SPEAKER_02: So I don't need to carry it.
- 32:04SPEAKER_02: Like I can just release it.
- 32:06SPEAKER_02: I can make peace with it.
- 32:08SPEAKER_02: Like You know, like,
- 32:10SPEAKER_02: I think that's such an important awareness, too, of, like,
- 32:15SPEAKER_02: realization on you don't, like,
- 32:18SPEAKER_02: it's important not to carry others' traumas,
- 32:23SPEAKER_02: even though there is some that,
- 32:27SPEAKER_02: and for a lot,
- 32:28SPEAKER_02: I think,
- 32:30SPEAKER_02: they are there first at breaking those trauma for their parents,
- 32:34SPEAKER_02: for their grandparents, and,
- 32:36SPEAKER_01: you know.
- 32:36SPEAKER_01: That generational trauma.
- 32:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 32:38SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
- 32:40SPEAKER_02: So there is that and plus your past life.
- 32:42SPEAKER_02: So that's making like an interesting cocktail.
- 32:46SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 32:47SPEAKER_02: Like realizing and it's why I think it's so important to finding awareness,
- 32:53SPEAKER_02: knowing yourself,
- 32:56SPEAKER_02: go into that no matter what you need to do to survive the world you are
- 33:01SPEAKER_02: in right now, having that awareness and Connection with yourself.
- 33:07SPEAKER_02: It's so important because that's what, I think that's the reason why we are alive.
- 33:13SPEAKER_02: It's not to work and make money, right?
- 33:17SPEAKER_02: It's to be with others,
- 33:18SPEAKER_02: it's to be creative,
- 33:19SPEAKER_02: to use our gift, to enjoy life, to have pleasure, to rest, to, you know, to leave.
- 33:28SPEAKER_01: Capitalist society is so new,
- 33:31SPEAKER_01: like in the whole scheme of things,
- 33:32SPEAKER_01: this idea that we have to Make money to be able to live.
- 33:37SPEAKER_01: And I mean,
- 33:39SPEAKER_01: it's only money in the form that we know it is only like,
- 33:44SPEAKER_01: what, 150 or 200 years old, something like that.
- 33:49SPEAKER_02: I don't know how old it is, but I know there was like exchange that I read or that.
- 33:55SPEAKER_02: I really like the exchange part of, I have this gift and you have that gift.
- 34:01SPEAKER_02: Maybe we could do an exchange and...
- 34:03SPEAKER_02: And it creates something that we kind of forget when we go to the market
- 34:10SPEAKER_02: and we buy some food that this money, we made it in a certain way.
- 34:16SPEAKER_02: Or this money is going and is going to help that person to leave too, right?
- 34:20SPEAKER_02: There's like this,
- 34:22SPEAKER_02: what's the value too of money other than what it is,
- 34:28SPEAKER_02: but it's actually also like energy and And we lost that.
- 34:35SPEAKER_02: It's all like you were saying is a lot of people are like, oh, you're good at this.
- 34:39SPEAKER_02: Maybe you could make money with it.
- 34:42SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 34:43SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 34:44SPEAKER_01: I actually,
- 34:45SPEAKER_01: my feeling,
- 34:46SPEAKER_01: and I've talked to a few very intuitive women about this,
- 34:50SPEAKER_01: and I think maybe you and I have touched on it a little bit,
- 34:53SPEAKER_01: but my feeling is that
- 34:57SPEAKER_01: money is Because of where we are now with these few people
- 35:02SPEAKER_01: with exorbitant amounts of wealth and everyone else at the bottom or just
- 35:08SPEAKER_01: below them even,
- 35:10SPEAKER_01: people who technically have a lot of money are even struggling right now.
- 35:16SPEAKER_01: And so there's no way that we can continue on this trajectory
- 35:21SPEAKER_01: without some huge disruption happening.
- 35:24SPEAKER_01: So I do feel like In some ways,
- 35:27SPEAKER_01: we're going to go back to the simplified version of the exchange and
- 35:32SPEAKER_01: the barter system.
- 35:33SPEAKER_01: And we're already seeing it like with the Buy Nothing groups,
- 35:36SPEAKER_01: which have been around for a little while, community gardens.
- 35:40SPEAKER_01: I mean, things where people are just kind of looking out for each other in new and inventive.
- 35:48SPEAKER_01: They're actually old ways, but to us now, they're new and inventive ways.
- 35:53SPEAKER_01: So I'm really curious to see I'm wondering if you have an opinion on that or
- 35:58SPEAKER_01: if you kind of have a vision of what you think that's going
- 36:01SPEAKER_01: to look like going forward.
- 36:05SPEAKER_01: But it feels like it kind of connects back to the awareness and also
- 36:09SPEAKER_01: the simplification that we're talking about specifically with this full moon.
- 36:15SPEAKER_01: Just going back to basics a little bit.
- 36:18SPEAKER_02: I think we are already doing it.
- 36:20SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 36:21SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 36:22SPEAKER_02: I think we are already doing it.
- 36:24SPEAKER_02: I know not everybody is doing it.
- 36:26SPEAKER_02: I have also awareness on some people get upset about it because they had goals
- 36:33SPEAKER_02: that are, and I'm not judging them because I understand.
- 36:37SPEAKER_02: Whereas they're like, yeah, but I'm like, I want money so I can do those things.
- 36:42SPEAKER_02: I could have access to those objects or pleasure or trips or whatever.
- 36:48SPEAKER_02: So when people like us come in and like, oh, let's simplify and money has no value.
- 36:57SPEAKER_02: Look at the world,
- 36:58SPEAKER_02: how we end up,
- 37:01SPEAKER_02: like
- 37:03SPEAKER_02: how this world that has built up on patriarchy and economy and money and power,
- 37:11SPEAKER_02: whereas all those topics are not interested.
- 37:14SPEAKER_02: I'm not interested about it, but I've been there.
- 37:17SPEAKER_02: I've been in that space when I was in Switzerland where,
- 37:21SPEAKER_02: yeah, I had a good job and I had money and I was buying stuff.
- 37:24SPEAKER_02: So I understand that some people are not there yet.
- 37:28SPEAKER_02: They still would like to enjoy life in a comfortable way that what money can get them, right?
- 37:36SPEAKER_02: Or even just not having to worry, right?
- 37:38SPEAKER_02: That's also like, it's a normal desire.
- 37:42SPEAKER_02: We should all be there.
- 37:43SPEAKER_02: We're You have time off where you don't have to work five jobs,
- 37:48SPEAKER_02: where you can spend time with your family and maybe also meet someone new.
- 37:54SPEAKER_02: Now it's so complicated, even to date, like the app or no one is meeting in person.
- 38:01SPEAKER_02: There's this desire of connection,
- 38:03SPEAKER_02: but at the same time, there is the old program that we are fighting against.
- 38:07SPEAKER_02: We're like, yeah, of course, I would love to have some money.
- 38:11SPEAKER_02: Because the world has been built up on that.
- 38:14SPEAKER_02: And if I don't have that money, I'm not getting access to some stuff.
- 38:19SPEAKER_02: So I'm trying,
- 38:21SPEAKER_02: and where I'm at is like,
- 38:25SPEAKER_02: I try to act the way I would like the world to change, to evolve.
- 38:31SPEAKER_02: And not like, you need to do this.
- 38:33SPEAKER_02: This is what's going to happen.
- 38:35SPEAKER_02: I'm aware that it's such a complicated situation.
- 38:40SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 38:40SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 38:41SPEAKER_02: And I really hope that in the next years,
- 38:44SPEAKER_02: some people will not be in charge anywhere in this world,
- 38:49SPEAKER_02: that there is new generation and new energy that is going to come to work together
- 38:55SPEAKER_02: for real and really face where we're at and make decisions that are not based
- 39:01SPEAKER_02: on how much money or who I can bomb,
- 39:05SPEAKER_02: but how we can be responsible and help each other.
- 39:11SPEAKER_02: In the world and that everybody is getting a piece of it.
- 39:15SPEAKER_02: And there is no desire of I'm better than,
- 39:18SPEAKER_02: you know, that's that's my desire.
- 39:20SPEAKER_02: Do I see it?
- 39:22SPEAKER_02: I have like I'm trying not to go through in it because I'm also scared of inviting
- 39:29SPEAKER_02: the bad part of it.
- 39:30SPEAKER_02: I'm just trying to be realistic and and I'm aware of what I see.
- 39:35SPEAKER_02: But I'm also like, okay, I cannot do those things that are so far away.
- 39:40SPEAKER_02: What can I do here?
- 39:41SPEAKER_02: And it's why I like to help people through coaching.
- 39:45SPEAKER_02: Because I feel like if I help one person to embrace more what they really want
- 39:49SPEAKER_02: to be, what's their gift, what their dreams.
- 39:53SPEAKER_02: Then I'm helping in a way to change that world where they detach themselves
- 39:58SPEAKER_02: from what they thought they had to do,
- 40:00SPEAKER_02: what they learned that they needed to have a job with a certain salary and all that.
- 40:06SPEAKER_02: And then being so unhappy and not understanding because they did all the things
- 40:12SPEAKER_02: that was on the list that told us,
- 40:15SPEAKER_02: like, if you have this, if you have that, you will be successful and happy.
- 40:19SPEAKER_02: And they are miserable.
- 40:21SPEAKER_02: So that is where, that's my vision.
- 40:23SPEAKER_02: My vision is if I'm helping people to embrace who they are,
- 40:28SPEAKER_02: then that's the way of how I can change the world.
- 40:32SPEAKER_02: I can contribute to be in a world that is lighter and funnier and more nature and,
- 40:39SPEAKER_02: you know, like abundance of positive things for everyone.
- 40:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 40:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 40:46SPEAKER_01: I mean, and you certainly are doing that because you're helping a lot of women.
- 40:51SPEAKER_01: Have this awareness about themselves and understanding what's going on inside.
- 40:55SPEAKER_01: And then like we were talking about earlier on,
- 40:58SPEAKER_01: it's like if you heal yourself or you become this better version of yourself,
- 41:03SPEAKER_01: or I shouldn't say better, it's not black or white.
- 41:06SPEAKER_01: It's just a different version of yourself where you do have certain awarenesses
- 41:12SPEAKER_01: that maybe you didn't before.
- 41:14SPEAKER_01: Then you're able to go out into the world with that energy
- 41:18SPEAKER_01: where you You feel more calm and grounded in yourself and in who you are
- 41:24SPEAKER_01: and how you're showing up.
- 41:26SPEAKER_01: And it does improve the world because energy is everywhere.
- 41:30SPEAKER_01: And if it's negative, that permeates.
- 41:33SPEAKER_01: But the positive love energy is really what permeates even more than
- 41:40SPEAKER_01: that lower vibrational hate.
- 41:43SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 41:43SPEAKER_02: I think with this full moon could be also like about Releasing the negativity
- 41:53SPEAKER_02: of this constant looking at what's negative in the world.
- 41:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 41:59SPEAKER_02: I think that could be also an idea of it.
- 42:02SPEAKER_02: Because I talk with people and they are always talking about negative things.
- 42:10SPEAKER_02: They are real.
- 42:12SPEAKER_02: I'm not saying it's not real, but it's also being constantly...
- 42:18SPEAKER_02: And the negative mind is not like I believe in attraction.
- 42:22SPEAKER_02: I believe that if I'm talking about stuff more or like,
- 42:27SPEAKER_02: and I think that's also like aligned to fear.
- 42:29SPEAKER_02: If you're always living in your fear that it's something that could happen in
- 42:34SPEAKER_02: the worst scenario possible, then yeah, it will happen.
- 42:38SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you will go there.
- 42:40SPEAKER_02: And I think where we're at,
- 42:41SPEAKER_02: it's hard right now to like finding positivity in what we see in the world.
- 42:48SPEAKER_02: Politically, environmentally.
- 42:51SPEAKER_02: But at the same time, we are here.
- 42:55SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 42:56SPEAKER_02: Right?
- 42:57SPEAKER_02: We are living this world.
- 42:59SPEAKER_02: We are amazing people.
- 43:01SPEAKER_02: Everybody have a gift.
- 43:02SPEAKER_02: Everybody have something.
- 43:03SPEAKER_02: Everybody is here for a reason.
- 43:06SPEAKER_02: And that's the positive thing.
- 43:10SPEAKER_02: Connecting with others.
- 43:11SPEAKER_02: Get out of the online world and create things.
- 43:16SPEAKER_02: And also like looking back at the year and look at, hey,
- 43:22SPEAKER_02: I've been able to stay at that job that was like,
- 43:27SPEAKER_02: I didn't feel it, but I really need the money.
- 43:29SPEAKER_01: Big win.
- 43:31SPEAKER_02: Hey, I broke up with that person that was toxic.
- 43:36SPEAKER_02: I'm feeling like terrible right now, but I did it.
- 43:39SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 43:40SPEAKER_02: Positive, right?
- 43:41SPEAKER_02: It's like changing the lens of and finding maybe some little things of positive
- 43:47SPEAKER_02: that is around you.
- 43:48SPEAKER_02: I have friends that I can count on,
- 43:51SPEAKER_02: that I can text and if I'm like overwhelmed or whatever, this is positive.
- 43:56SPEAKER_02: Like bringing more positive in your life and releasing the negativity that is
- 44:03SPEAKER_02: in your mind and are polluting you.
- 44:06SPEAKER_02: It also changed the way of how you see the world if you're always in the negativity
- 44:13SPEAKER_02: because you are comparing.
- 44:15SPEAKER_02: That's not enough.
- 44:16SPEAKER_02: Oh, look at this.
- 44:21SPEAKER_02: Sometimes people say I'm negative, but I'm like, no, I'm realistic.
- 44:25SPEAKER_02: I think I'm realistic.
- 44:26SPEAKER_02: And because I'm realistic, I don't think it's the same than being negative.
- 44:29SPEAKER_02: It's just this is what I see.
- 44:31SPEAKER_02: But then I'm also like, so now we know.
- 44:36SPEAKER_02: This is what we have.
- 44:37SPEAKER_02: So what can we do with it?
- 44:40SPEAKER_02: Who am I?
- 44:43SPEAKER_02: What's my skills?
- 44:44SPEAKER_02: How can I handle that moment in a positive way?
- 44:49SPEAKER_02: So I'm not so anxious.
- 44:51SPEAKER_02: So I have support.
- 44:53SPEAKER_02: So I can ask my friend, hey, right now it's harder to be positive.
- 44:56SPEAKER_02: Can we interact more?
- 44:58SPEAKER_02: I need your support.
- 45:01SPEAKER_02: So it's also like releasing of the fact that you need to do everything alone.
- 45:07SPEAKER_01: That's such a good point to hit home.
- 45:13SPEAKER_01: It's funny you said that because I was thinking about how if you're looking
- 45:19SPEAKER_01: at social media and you're seeing all of the negative things
- 45:21SPEAKER_01: that are happening around the world, it's important to be informed.
- 45:25SPEAKER_01: Let's make sure that we hit that point home.
- 45:28SPEAKER_01: You should know what's happening in the world.
- 45:32SPEAKER_01: But bombarding yourself?
- 45:34SPEAKER_01: Is a completely different arena.
- 45:37SPEAKER_01: The way that I kind of remember that there's good in the world is I go to my local coffee shop.
- 45:45SPEAKER_01: I hang out in community.
- 45:47SPEAKER_01: I go to my community garden across the street.
- 45:52SPEAKER_01: I just, I connect with other humans.
- 45:57SPEAKER_01: And I know that that's not necessarily of it.
- 45:58SPEAKER_01: Like some people live in very rural areas and maybe they don't have access to go
- 46:02SPEAKER_01: to do those things,
- 46:03SPEAKER_01: but If you do,
- 46:06SPEAKER_01: that's definitely one way to kind of restore your faith in humanity because
- 46:10SPEAKER_01: when you're meeting with people individually and more of on like a one-to-one basis,
- 46:16SPEAKER_01: it suddenly,
- 46:18SPEAKER_01: everything feels a little bit different than when you think
- 46:20SPEAKER_01: about this like bigger umbrella picture of all of the negative things
- 46:23SPEAKER_01: that are happening.
- 46:26SPEAKER_01: Because in general, people are innately good.
- 46:30SPEAKER_01: That's the way that I look at things.
- 46:32SPEAKER_01: I know that not everyone sees it that way,
- 46:33SPEAKER_01: but if we can connect with each other human to human,
- 46:37SPEAKER_01: then we can remember that a little bit more readily than just looking at our phone
- 46:40SPEAKER_01: and seeing all the bad news.
- 46:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think it's,
- 46:43SPEAKER_02: I listened to Trevor Noah's podcast,
- 46:45SPEAKER_02: and once he said, who said we need to listen to the news every day?
- 46:51SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
- 46:52SPEAKER_02: I was like, no one.
- 46:54SPEAKER_02: Obviously, no matter what, you will know what happened in the world.
- 47:00SPEAKER_02: And that is also like having a great boundary of like you don't need to know everything.
- 47:05SPEAKER_02: You don't need to know like if it like I am very disconnected to the news.
- 47:11SPEAKER_02: I intentionally go to it if like I feel I have a headspace to do it because I'm so sensitive.
- 47:20SPEAKER_02: But I know like some people comes to me and they're like, did you heard about this?
- 47:24SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, no.
- 47:26SPEAKER_02: And then I look into it.
- 47:27SPEAKER_02: But, you know, like there's a sense of like, We used to do like this, right?
- 47:32SPEAKER_02: Or you were buying the newspaper or you're like, maybe you had TV depending on the era.
- 47:38SPEAKER_02: And then you interact with people and people are like, did you heard about this?
- 47:42SPEAKER_02: And you talk about it, right?
- 47:44SPEAKER_02: And now it's like,
- 47:46SPEAKER_02: there's like so much,
- 47:48SPEAKER_02: you don't know to who you can talk about it because some people are going
- 47:51SPEAKER_02: to have their own belief around it.
- 47:53SPEAKER_02: And it started to be so heavy of like even talking about the news and like, okay, let's not.
- 48:00SPEAKER_02: Well, it's important.
- 48:02SPEAKER_02: It's important to interact and having different belief
- 48:04SPEAKER_02: and having different perception and have conversation about it.
- 48:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 48:14SPEAKER_01: Well, we're also so polarized because we're getting our information
- 48:17SPEAKER_01: from different sources sometimes.
- 48:20SPEAKER_01: And some of those sources are feeding us opinions and people don't even realize
- 48:27SPEAKER_01: that that's what's happening.
- 48:29SPEAKER_01: So...
- 48:30SPEAKER_01: They just think that they're getting the news and being informed,
- 48:32SPEAKER_01: but you're literally being told what to think from who you're listening to.
- 48:39SPEAKER_02: And it goes back to us, right?
- 48:42SPEAKER_02: It goes back to like, what's your parents teach you?
- 48:44SPEAKER_02: What your parents were saying to each other?
- 48:47SPEAKER_02: What's your grandparents were like,
- 48:49SPEAKER_02: maybe racist and they're saying some stuff that,
- 48:52SPEAKER_02: you know, then it becomes like something that you're not even questioning.
- 48:58SPEAKER_02: So it's why I think it's so important to go back to where my beliefs are from.
- 49:04SPEAKER_02: Why do I have that belief?
- 49:05SPEAKER_02: Does it serve me?
- 49:06SPEAKER_02: Does it heal me?
- 49:07SPEAKER_02: And that's also, again, another option.
- 49:12SPEAKER_02: Any belief that I find that it doesn't align with me anymore that I want to relieve.
- 49:18SPEAKER_02: This is the time.
- 49:19SPEAKER_01: Yes, this is the time.
- 49:21SPEAKER_01: What is,
- 49:21SPEAKER_01: I know we haven't said,
- 49:22SPEAKER_01: we haven't even said this yet,
- 49:23SPEAKER_01: but what is the date, the actual date of, and what moon, is this the hunter moon?
- 49:29SPEAKER_01: What moon is this?
- 49:29SPEAKER_02: Yes, it's the hunter moon because that was the season of hunting.
- 49:33SPEAKER_02: I feel like the name of the full moon are now like not very, we need new names.
- 49:40SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we do.
- 49:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it was the hunting.
- 49:43SPEAKER_02: There's still places, even here, they're hunting.
- 49:47SPEAKER_02: So that was the hunting moon.
- 49:51SPEAKER_02: Taurus, what else?
- 49:54SPEAKER_02: The 25th or the 26th?
- 49:56SPEAKER_02: It's the 25th.
- 49:57SPEAKER_02: I thought it was the 26th and I was like, oh, that's cool.
- 49:59SPEAKER_02: 26, 26.
- 50:00SPEAKER_02: But no, it's the 25th.
- 50:07SPEAKER_02: And obviously, depending on where you are on this Mother Earth, the time is different.
- 50:14SPEAKER_02: But yeah, like the classic thing that I've been doing for Full Moon is having my crystal out.
- 50:24SPEAKER_01: Yes, I'm a woo-woo person.
- 50:27SPEAKER_01: You're recharging your crystal, right?
- 50:28SPEAKER_01: How do you do that?
- 50:30SPEAKER_02: I have them by the window, but sometimes it happens that I just put them outside.
- 50:36SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 50:38SPEAKER_02: And I just leave them through the nights.
- 50:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 50:42SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 50:43SPEAKER_01: That's good to know because I always leave them in the same spot
- 50:46SPEAKER_01: and I should probably just put them in the sun.
- 50:50SPEAKER_01: As far as like physical takeaways for things that people can do,
- 51:02SPEAKER_01: what are some...
- 51:04SPEAKER_01: I know you wrote down a few things like...
- 51:07SPEAKER_01: Releasing certain things and you gave some bullet points and then there's also
- 51:10SPEAKER_01: a potential journal entry.
- 51:13SPEAKER_01: Can you kind of go through those things and maybe give people some takeaways?
- 51:18SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 51:19SPEAKER_02: So we were saying consciously release one thing, not five, just one thing.
- 51:29SPEAKER_02: And it's specifically because Venice is in retrograde,
- 51:33SPEAKER_02: so it's inviting us not to like overdoing it, just choosing specifically just one.
- 51:44SPEAKER_02: And one that you can still,
- 51:46SPEAKER_02: like what's important is being realistic on where you're at today and can you do it
- 51:53SPEAKER_02: until December.
- 51:55SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 51:55SPEAKER_02: It's not like, right, it's like no pressure.
- 52:00SPEAKER_02: Really like be honest with yourself.
- 52:02SPEAKER_02: What's something that feel like, yeah, I think it's the time that I can do it.
- 52:06SPEAKER_02: I can be gentle with it.
- 52:07SPEAKER_02: I can even like wherever, like it can be playful.
- 52:12SPEAKER_02: It can be like, oh, I know it's going to be hard for me.
- 52:16SPEAKER_02: Let's just like, let's do it and let's see what's come.
- 52:19SPEAKER_02: Because you can be playful, even with something where you're like, it's going to be a challenge.
- 52:23SPEAKER_02: Like me, we're like, okay, I'm going to have to do those 15 minutes on Monday.
- 52:30SPEAKER_02: And I'm going to have joy with it.
- 52:32SPEAKER_02: And I'm going to be like, I can make fun of myself.
- 52:35SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, you know, like, you know.
- 52:38SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 52:39SPEAKER_01: So I had a different
- 52:41SPEAKER_02: also like, yeah, like I talk about belief.
- 52:43SPEAKER_02: Maybe there is like a belief that you find that is not aligned with yourself
- 52:51SPEAKER_02: or like you actually non-believe it.
- 52:57SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 52:57SPEAKER_02: You don't believe it.
- 52:58SPEAKER_02: You're like, how do I really believe that?
- 53:00SPEAKER_02: Do I really believe that I need to not eating and mourning?
- 53:05SPEAKER_02: Do I need to go for like,
- 53:09SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 53:09SPEAKER_02: like looking at something that actually like maybe is annoying right now for you.
- 53:15SPEAKER_02: It doesn't mean that you cannot bring it back.
- 53:17SPEAKER_02: But right now it's the idea is to like really be honest with yourself
- 53:23SPEAKER_02: and do something that's They'll work for you.
- 53:27SPEAKER_02: There's no one watching.
- 53:28SPEAKER_02: There's no one judging.
- 53:29SPEAKER_02: And if they do, whatever.
- 53:32SPEAKER_02: And then I had physical habits.
- 53:34SPEAKER_02: For me, that is changing.
- 53:37SPEAKER_02: And it's a mix, kind of.
- 53:40SPEAKER_02: The belief that I have that it has to be super big to be valuable.
- 53:45SPEAKER_02: I think I had...
- 53:50SPEAKER_01: Are you saying to release one from each of those categories?
- 53:53SPEAKER_01: Or are you just like, these are the three categories?
- 53:55SPEAKER_02: That's ideas.
- 53:56SPEAKER_02: One total.
- 53:56SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 53:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 53:57SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 53:58SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 53:58SPEAKER_02: That's helpful.
- 53:59SPEAKER_02: So I give ideas because for me,
- 54:01SPEAKER_02: when I started to do that for the full moon is that I started to feel pressure.
- 54:08SPEAKER_02: Like I wanted to do everything well.
- 54:14SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, that aspect that we have of like perfectionism.
- 54:19SPEAKER_02: Where I like, no,
- 54:20SPEAKER_02: let's just do,
- 54:21SPEAKER_02: I started to make a list and then I decided which one I'm going to release.
- 54:27SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 54:28SPEAKER_02: Maybe you will be like, no, I know this is the one and I don't need to make a list, right?
- 54:34SPEAKER_02: It's just I'm giving that option where it's like, let's not add pressure.
- 54:39SPEAKER_02: If you need one, maybe you need to look into and journaling about it.
- 54:43SPEAKER_02: And then you'll be like, this is the one, this is the one that I need to release today.
- 54:49SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, it is helpful to have the list because sometimes I don't even know where to start.
- 54:54SPEAKER_01: So it is nice.
- 54:56SPEAKER_01: And if you want to release more than one, you can, but just one.
- 54:59SPEAKER_01: One is all we're looking for.
- 55:01SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because there is the other full moon and there is also a new moon, right?
- 55:06SPEAKER_02: There is all the opportunity to do this.
- 55:09SPEAKER_02: So it's also like challenge yourself to embrace one thing that you want to release
- 55:15SPEAKER_02: because this is the time to be patient.
- 55:18SPEAKER_02: And grounded and calm is not the overproductive, this is the new year, new you.
- 55:24SPEAKER_02: No, it's like, that's slowing down, find one thing that you want to release.
- 55:30SPEAKER_02: Then there is also like,
- 55:32SPEAKER_02: I thought about journaling to look back at the past two weeks or so
- 55:38SPEAKER_02: and observe what needs to be rooted,
- 55:43SPEAKER_02: what needs to have a little bit more of patience.
- 55:48SPEAKER_02: There is so much value,
- 55:49SPEAKER_02: like you were talking before about looking back,
- 55:52SPEAKER_02: not to like be living in the past,
- 55:55SPEAKER_02: but looking at, okay, this is what I did in this past two weeks.
- 55:59SPEAKER_02: Do you remember what you did in this past two weeks?
- 56:03SPEAKER_01: Like, do I specifically right now?
- 56:05SPEAKER_02: I mean, your dog got sick.
- 56:08SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 56:09SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 56:09SPEAKER_01: I had a lot of things kind of come up that made me reevaluate and made me I kind of,
- 56:16SPEAKER_01: I feel like I got kind of propelled into this place of surrender.
- 56:22SPEAKER_01: Something that I've been asking for from the universe.
- 56:25SPEAKER_01: And it comes in mysterious ways.
- 56:27SPEAKER_01: It's like I genuinely thought that Zula had cancer or something
- 56:32SPEAKER_01: because she just was not getting better.
- 56:34SPEAKER_01: And it was like the thing that I needed to snap me out of whatever headspace I've been in.
- 56:43SPEAKER_01: Because now I'm like,
- 56:45SPEAKER_01: There's nothing more important than spending time with her because I realize,
- 56:49SPEAKER_01: like logically I've known for a long time that her life is going to be much shorter
- 56:54SPEAKER_01: than mine, most likely.
- 56:58SPEAKER_01: But I was taking it for granted, even though I logically knew that.
- 57:05SPEAKER_01: And so something needed to happen to change my perspective.
- 57:10SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 57:11SPEAKER_02: Or maybe like seeing what you thought, like, you know, like taking for granted.
- 57:18SPEAKER_02: We are so much in our life.
- 57:20SPEAKER_02: We're so busy with the things we need to do, etc.
- 57:24SPEAKER_02: Then we forget what's there, right?
- 57:29SPEAKER_02: And the value of the soul and the opportunity that we have.
- 57:34SPEAKER_02: And maybe we don't,
- 57:35SPEAKER_02: we are not fully enjoying the opportunity right now,
- 57:39SPEAKER_02: but it's still like Does it still bring us something?
- 57:43SPEAKER_02: Do we gain something from it?
- 57:45SPEAKER_02: And I think maybe that's what you got from the past two weeks is slowing down
- 57:52SPEAKER_02: to look at what's there.
- 57:55SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 57:55SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 57:57SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 57:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 57:58SPEAKER_01: And it's felt really good,
- 58:00SPEAKER_01: honestly,
- 58:01SPEAKER_01: to take some pressure off and to be in the flow of the process and trusting
- 58:08SPEAKER_01: that everything works.
- 58:10SPEAKER_01: Is happening in the way that it's meant to.
- 58:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so 10 out of 10 stars the last two weeks.
- 58:23SPEAKER_01: We will put those,
- 58:26SPEAKER_01: the bullet points that Nina mentioned in the journal entry prompt in the show notes
- 58:35SPEAKER_01: so that you don't have to go back and listen to it.
- 58:37SPEAKER_01: It'll be easy for you to find it.
- 58:40SPEAKER_02: I also have like the meditation that could help for journaling or even just
- 58:47SPEAKER_02: if you like feel a little bit overwhelmed by finding like finding what's not there
- 58:52SPEAKER_02: or you don't know how to find what's not there because that is also like a topic
- 58:56SPEAKER_02: of like I feel like I'm aware of everything.
- 59:01SPEAKER_02: And that's a possibility.
- 59:02SPEAKER_02: Or I'm overwhelmed.
- 59:04SPEAKER_02: I'm so tired.
- 59:05SPEAKER_02: I'm not able to connect.
- 59:07SPEAKER_02: I find that meditation helps.
- 59:11SPEAKER_02: It's just six minutes.
- 59:12SPEAKER_02: It's not even like an hour.
- 59:13SPEAKER_02: It's just six minutes to come back to yourself and finding answer.
- 59:18SPEAKER_02: And maybe that could be also a good way to help you to do your practice for this full moon.
- 59:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 59:27SPEAKER_01: Oh, I know.
- 59:28SPEAKER_01: I heard you put a little snippet of it on TikTok, I believe.
- 59:31SPEAKER_01: And I heard it and I was like, you have the perfect voice for this.
- 59:35SPEAKER_01: It's so good.
- 59:36SPEAKER_01: And I need to go and listen to it as well.
- 59:39SPEAKER_02: And you did it during the, it's the same that we had during the vision board lab with Anna.
- 59:46SPEAKER_02: So you had the experience and you give us like a really good feedback
- 59:50SPEAKER_02: on how you felt really relaxed after.
- 59:52SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I loved it.
- 59:55SPEAKER_01: I loved it.
- 59:56SPEAKER_01: It did.
- 59:56SPEAKER_01: It helped a lot.
- 59:57SPEAKER_01: It worked really, really well.
- 1:00:00SPEAKER_01: So you have a link that I can put in the show notes for that as well.
- 1:00:05SPEAKER_01: Okay, cool.
- 1:00:07SPEAKER_01: Well, happy full moon, everyone.
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