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The Breakfast Club REWIND ( Jasmine Guy and Kadeem Hardison, Ask Yee + More) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: My name w w p r F m HD one,
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  Speaker 1: New York, and I heard radio station year I love you,
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  Speaker 1: ratchet to sit down. Did you come to the most
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  Speaker 1: prominent form wait your ass up early in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: But they told me it was y'all. I said, hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting the small stage or smaller ship. Three people's choice.
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  Speaker 1: Actually I got people. I can't believe you guys are
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  Speaker 1: the basket? Did we know this breakfast club? I'm telling,
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling what you do. Call you. This is your
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  Speaker 1: time to get it off your chest, whether you're mad
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  Speaker 1: or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one.
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  Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this morning? My guy? My guy singing the numbers
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  Speaker 1: for me? Can't do three? Now. I have a new
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  Speaker 1: single out. It's called Isabella. I just wanted to give
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  Speaker 1: you a shout out if you guys can check it out. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't just shout it out. I want to hear it.
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  Speaker 1: Give me a little acapella version. Bro Okay. So it's
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  Speaker 1: more French Lingala English. So that's where you wind it
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  Speaker 1: up and down that in a middle you dumb on
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  Speaker 1: the set babetolable job. You're feeling driving my body. I
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  Speaker 1: can't even explain. Nah, yo, I want you by my
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  Speaker 1: oh well forty five, forty seven, forty a, forty nine.
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  Speaker 1: Can I see something I quick? Yes, sir, yes the end.
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  Speaker 1: I'm begging you right now and listen to right now
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  Speaker 1: if you can't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah, Uncle John,
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  Speaker 1: you mail my draft that chief fan that she looks
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  Speaker 1: up mess. We don't hear what you said, brother, but
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  Speaker 1: email Racardian tell your email. Yeah did the mvy. I've
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  Speaker 1: been sending you a bunch of emails and I know
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  Speaker 1: you're a busy guy, so he can't wait a m
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  Speaker 1: right now. I just want to make my chat. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: art artimate PLASTFM blessings Brother, blessings brother? All right, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? You know, the dominating dominique from Du Du?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? Good morning? Good morning, y'all. Wouldn't get
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  Speaker 1: off my chest, you'll shout up to my wife, man,
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  Speaker 1: she'd be busting her as all week long, cooking man,
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  Speaker 1: Hold y'all. Follow on Instagram, Matt does d A on
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  Speaker 1: the Score, Ferdie Brown on the Score, Show Okay, why
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  Speaker 1: she busting her ass? Cooking this week. You know she's
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  Speaker 1: a personal show, private show. Okay, let's correct, congratulate her, man, appreciate,
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  Speaker 1: appreciate it, y'all. A good morning, A brother, Hello, who's this? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? Um, this is play calling from North Carolina. Clay,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, get her off your chest. Yes, I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: really like to thank y'all. Well, first of all, I
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  Speaker 1: like to say good morning, dj MV, good morning Charlotte
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  Speaker 1: Mayne the guy, and good morning this my guy. How
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  Speaker 1: are you? I'm doing great less than highly favored, but
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  Speaker 1: I would. But I would like to say thank you
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  Speaker 1: to you guys, because you guys don't really know the
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  Speaker 1: impact of what you guys say and um on the
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  Speaker 1: way people listen to you. Because I just recently bought
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  Speaker 1: a house, um here and um. Every morning I used
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  Speaker 1: to listen to you guys, And when DJ Envy used
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  Speaker 1: to talk um about buying the house, I used to listen.
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  Speaker 1: I just told everybody in the car, shut up, shut up,
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  Speaker 1: shut up, I need to hear this and everything. And
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  Speaker 1: I never took one of your classes, but I used
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  Speaker 1: to listen. And one thing that you used to say
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  Speaker 1: about that credit, you got to get that credit right,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and um, I recently bought a house back
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  Speaker 1: in October, and um, I'm so happy. I'm so happy. Well,
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  Speaker 1: congratulations colations. We try to do, man, We try to
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  Speaker 1: encourage things that we learned outside of this world. We
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  Speaker 1: try to, you know, make sure that we teach our
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  Speaker 1: people and try to explain to our people. We don't
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  Speaker 1: know what the answers all the time, but we just
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  Speaker 1: try to point people in the right direction. Brother, But
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  Speaker 1: you guys really gotta impact. And miss um, you know
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  Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of these young girls are
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  Speaker 1: really listening to y'all. You know what I'm saying you so, um,
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  Speaker 1: just keep dol and Shall and I me personally, I
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  Speaker 1: thank you, We appreciate you. Love. Brother. Hello, who's this? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: This is ancious color from Virginia, but always ripping Dallas
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  Speaker 1: to one four? Okay, Dallas you home? You are you
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  Speaker 1: a Cowboys fan? I am? Let's go, Let's go. Good morning, Mama,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. I just wanted to get off
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  Speaker 1: my kids. Um my pots in the shop right now,
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  Speaker 1: and that feel like the dealerships just be fixing piece
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  Speaker 1: by piece just to get your becking this and spend
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  Speaker 1: more money. They're talking about now I got to pay
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  Speaker 1: two thousand dollars because something is wrong with the inside
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  Speaker 1: of my engine. Well, don't worry, because them them dealerships
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  Speaker 1: are gonna be about to be hitting a minute all
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  Speaker 1: those cars that they purchased over price. Those cars are
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  Speaker 1: coming down in price. They're gonna be upside down. So
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna they're gonna feel it in a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what they're probably feeling it now. So they're
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  Speaker 1: probably charging people for extra ishe the NV you feeling?
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  Speaker 1: But they ain't got nothing to do with your engine
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  Speaker 1: right now? I know, right? And then they said the
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  Speaker 1: party's only like five huntry and the lights fifteen hundred.
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  Speaker 1: I can golf. You can't do it yourself. How you
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  Speaker 1: know what this woman can do? She might want to
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  Speaker 1: trade school. Get I can tell you exactly what to do.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, all right, figure it out, boo. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: might you might have to do that to save some money.
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  Speaker 1: That's gonna take you probably three weeks to do that.
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  Speaker 1: What's wrong with the cars? Because right now my boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: helping me out, you know, with his car. Yes, please, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I want to shout out my boyfriend, uh Steven to
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  Speaker 1: safe He also has a podcast called Porch Stories on
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  Speaker 1: I'll make a platform YouTube as well, and TikTok and Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, good luck, mama, Thank y'all so much. If
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  Speaker 1: I was y'all put my cash ap out there just
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  Speaker 1: in case somebody feels, you know, you want to help
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  Speaker 1: y'all a little bit a baby two seven one seven
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  Speaker 1: if anybody want to help me because of my card.
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  Speaker 1: So the girl in the shop right now, all right, mama,
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  Speaker 1: I have to go on. Thank you you get it
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  Speaker 1: off your chests eight hundred five eight five one on
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  Speaker 1: five one. If you need to vent, hit this up now.
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  Speaker 1: It was the breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast club.
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  Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 1: Whether you're man flash take it from you on the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. But you got something on your mind, letting
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  Speaker 1: out hello, who's this yo? What on? What on? The
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  Speaker 1: man from Alanda was up map from Atlanta. Get it
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  Speaker 1: off your chests, handy hands and yees all a minute, man,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta take a beating brown that just don't beat.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to what you was drinking Greek man. I
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  Speaker 1: was drinking far off from Jack Davis. Then I had
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  Speaker 1: handed math on myself. But that's that's because you mixed
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  Speaker 1: Jack Daniels and Hennessy full. That ain't even bro, that's
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  Speaker 1: a whiskey and a kanyac two dark. That's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: straight when you go. You can't make white dark? And
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  Speaker 1: where did you pee on yourself? I was sitting in
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  Speaker 1: the park, I was sleeping ahead. Did you pull up?
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  Speaker 1: Did you pull it? Did you pee? Did you pull
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  Speaker 1: a pee? Okay on yourself? In your own call and
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  Speaker 1: my whole call, no count, Bro, you mixed whiskey with
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  Speaker 1: kanyak what you thought was gonna happen? Man, you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: tell nobody that story. Should just he was the best
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  Speaker 1: of night. Man. I get it off the chick. And
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  Speaker 1: that's the problem y'all looking at it and thinking it's
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  Speaker 1: all brown. It's not all brown. Jack Daniels is a whiskey,
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  Speaker 1: Hennessy as a Kanyac. You don't mix whiskeys and kanyaks, bro, Bro.
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  Speaker 1: So you walked in the house with with peepe pens?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was. It was night time though they
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  Speaker 1: nobody know? Congrat What's what's in a Long Island iced tea?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, only drink though I feel like they
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  Speaker 1: mixed all kind of liquor in that, like five different ones.
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  Speaker 1: Oh hey man, y'all po be good man, y'all grow up?
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  Speaker 1: What let me see what a long guy? The next
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  Speaker 1: thing that I want to know vodka, tequila light rum
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  Speaker 1: triple set gin and a splash of cola. You shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be drinking at either. That's why I said, grow up?
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  Speaker 1: The hell do you drink voka and tequila rum gent? Why? Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? What? Listen with Nation from Columbus. Y'all good,
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  Speaker 1: We're good. How you feeling about? Listen? I'm low key
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  Speaker 1: mask for real through what happened? I want so last
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  Speaker 1: night right, me and my hus is chilled. We watched
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  Speaker 1: the two speed I want to accident. I fell to
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  Speaker 1: sleep at d o'clock. I woke up at four am
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  Speaker 1: looking stupid this morning, and then he sleeps and I
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  Speaker 1: don't like that. Well, it was four o'clock. I mean, look,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't want to worked about seven thirty eight,
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  Speaker 1: and so it's unnecessary for me to be awake that earth.
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  Speaker 1: I could have got two more hours more, but I'm oh,
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  Speaker 1: look around the house. I could do a load of
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  Speaker 1: clothes in now. I got all the lights on candles,
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  Speaker 1: popping whole house noon like glint at four am in
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  Speaker 1: the morning. I'm with the stupid right, why don't you
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  Speaker 1: wake your husband up and give him something? Hey, let
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  Speaker 1: him sleep. Sleep is more important, you write so, But
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  Speaker 1: I do got a question for envy, Yes, man, why
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  Speaker 1: are you always whining to Earth every morning talking about
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  Speaker 1: the mix is wine? It ain't mine. I'm glad you
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  Speaker 1: finally got on glad early thinking, Hey, you need to
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  Speaker 1: play the booty. Set it off, loose at the old goose.
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  Speaker 1: Wouldn't the big play the shoot? Let photo shoot? All right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna start to mix off a boot What about
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  Speaker 1: my shirt? Off? My shirt? Off, my shirt, off my shirt,
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  Speaker 1: take my shirt off and all oh, I breathe, man,
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  Speaker 1: I will get your guard. Don't start now. We'll go
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  Speaker 1: wake your husband up, give him something right fast before
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  Speaker 1: you go to work. And don't be adding the old
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  Speaker 1: end of my name. I ain't on Ninja Turtle when
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  Speaker 1: you ain't the Minican Lenardo older the end of everything.
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  Speaker 1: You know how to wake him out. We'll hide my work, musty.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on the line. I'm gonna tell you what to do,
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  Speaker 1: all right. I don't put nothing in that man, have
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  Speaker 1: a good morning. Not right, she said, playing this bunky,
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  Speaker 1: That's what she said. And you said, all right, oh
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  Speaker 1: oh oh, she said boosey. I thought she said playing
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  Speaker 1: his bunky fool, And you was like, all right, that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be tired around three. Hello, who's that? She goes
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  Speaker 1: all the time? Every trash? How you? I'm doing good?
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell I say something. No means no, right,
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna say that. No. I went and I've
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  Speaker 1: been talking to this guy for a little bit. We've
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  Speaker 1: been chilling, right, So I went and hill with him yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: And for some reason, when the guy's more maskling than me,
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  Speaker 1: they feel like they can just try to get my butt.
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  Speaker 1: So we're messing around and he just kept trying to
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  Speaker 1: touch my butt and I politely moved his hand and
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  Speaker 1: he just kept trying to do it. WHOA Can I
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: ask you a question, Trav, Are you gonna let him
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  Speaker 1: hit eventually? No? I don't, but I don't like him,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't like give my butt touch. And I
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  Speaker 1: was trying to explain that to him and he does
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  Speaker 1: not was not listening. Well do you like to do
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  Speaker 1: the butt touching you? Hey? Hey, don't ask him like that,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't ask him like that, ask him travel
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  Speaker 1: What do you, Trav? What do you like to get touched?
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  Speaker 1: Since you don't like it to be your butt not
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  Speaker 1: my butt, So don't even make that effort to try.
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  Speaker 1: I said, no, leave it alone, keep it moving. But
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  Speaker 1: I would like for you to explain this game thing,
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  Speaker 1: because that's what I thought it was all about traveling.
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  Speaker 1: You like to touch butts, but you don't want your
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: but Fine that he tried, But it was like once
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  Speaker 1: I move your hand and tell you I don't like that,
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  Speaker 1: and then you say okay, and then you try to
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  Speaker 1: do it again, like five minutes later now to turn off.
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  Speaker 1: I get it. I get what you're saying. So don't
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  Speaker 1: touch Travis. But how many times you're gonna say that?
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  Speaker 1: The man already said that. Jesus Christ listening, don't touch
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  Speaker 1: Traves all Jesus Christ. All right, Trav, you have a
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  Speaker 1: good all right. The breakfast Club the morning, the breakfast club,
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Your morning's will never be the same
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody's. DJ Envy Angeluee, Charlomagne, the guy we are
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast club. We got a special guest in the building.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't got so much money, and then you know
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  Speaker 1: she's about to be on season three Emmy nominated talk show,
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  Speaker 1: Emmy nominated. Miss Patti's heir, so glad to be bad.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, miss pat How are you? I'm fine? How
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  Speaker 1: you feel? How to success feel? It feels damn good. Well,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, congratulations on the Emmy nomination. Thank you,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. That came out of nowhere, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: that's the first season. BT has never been had a
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  Speaker 1: nomination for Emmy before, so that really can't they've never
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: been nominated. They don't even put themselves. I don't even
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: think they get out there like that, I guess, but
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: it was the first one for beam. I was listening
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: to your pat Down podcast and you saying how you
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: fall asleep when you go out all the time, And
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: you fell asleep at whom the normal leer's birthday party
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  Speaker 1: and he was he turned one hundred. I'm like, how
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  Speaker 1: the hell are you still away? It's nine thirty, man, man,
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  Speaker 1: I was so sleeping. Jordan kilt waking members like Pat
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  Speaker 1: the TVA. I said, I don't give a damn sleeping,
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: but I love to see all the six I be
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: talking about going to Emmy parties and actually going to
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  Speaker 1: the Emmy's and how incredible that was for you. I
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  Speaker 1: was just excited, your little old girl from the Waist
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  Speaker 1: Center allowance and I'm sitting here the damn Emmy. But
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: you know they was talking about me. I gotta said
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: something about you, something just talking about me. They said,
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: I look like the game of thrown cook in my
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: dress like the cook. I said, your ball head man
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  Speaker 1: and the past would received one hundred percent rating on
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  Speaker 1: Rotten Tomatoes. Yes, yes, people, people finally has a mama
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  Speaker 1: that's not perfect. Ain't nobody mama perfect? You know your
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: mama go home, remember back and tell you did your
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: mamma tell you the unbuckle her bra? No? What woman
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  Speaker 1: like me? No? People who mama got big? Old like?
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  Speaker 1: Why I take my braro da. I've been trying to
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  Speaker 1: get out of this today. I'm like my kids, I'm
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  Speaker 1: budding my bra. I can't get in my brother, myself,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a forty four age ain't. But you know what
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: about your should though, I will say this, You know,
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: while it is a comedy, it is some real issues
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: on there. And I know for you it's it's semi autobiographical,
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  Speaker 1: and so what are some things that you learned about
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  Speaker 1: yourself because sometimes you reflect on, you know, things that
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: happened when you were younger and your child, and you
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: didn't realize how much of an impact it has on
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: your life now. That show made me do a lot
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: of forgiving. There was a lot of stories that I
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: wanted to I thought I wanted to tell that. I
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  Speaker 1: thought I didn't have feelings behind it, like the Black
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: How episode. I don't know if you saw that that's there.
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  Speaker 1: On that one, I had my natural hair out and
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: it tuk a lot because I was like, Joe, don't
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: want what if I got them that bad as hell?
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  Speaker 1: But that was the whole point of saying, how is
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: so much pain behind black women hair? Because the first
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  Speaker 1: person to tell you your hairs for a lot of
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  Speaker 1: us is all, Mama, shut your nup hair ass down,
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  Speaker 1: and that it was just what was done to them.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: So you get in between it and they pull your
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  Speaker 1: hair and it's painful, and then they braided and the
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  Speaker 1: comb the hot comb, and a lot of pain was
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  Speaker 1: came through that black hair. So I wanted to do
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  Speaker 1: that and we did it, and so many women thanked
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  Speaker 1: me for it. Do you feel like you'll wear your
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: natural hair more often down. Hell, no, I'm timder headed.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't been wearing that. Then I got comb my ap.
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  Speaker 1: Can you imagine me picking out a hair fro. I'll
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: be passing on myself, me yourself? Ain't that oldman? Being?
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: I had a lot cheers told years of my company.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you my you got them. You don't know
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  Speaker 1: no fitting you you got one of the homes. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna take the truth about it now that you that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to verage six grade. If John is closed,
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  Speaker 1: I don't need no type for John. That's when you
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  Speaker 1: not for you that for the hell, they ain't got
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: no man my home, take my slipping. We're going to
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: bed together. Sold on. Do you tell him that it's
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Pete or does he think he's really getting you this excited?
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: The Pete doing the day? What the wrong on you? Shot?
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  Speaker 1: You piss a little bit doing the day when your
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: coffin sneeze eyes wrong and you laugh a lot? So
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: now so yeah, I ping a lot. You don't help
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  Speaker 1: me change it? You I don't know, like a championship belt, Bucky,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: getting them depends I'm on you, Pat, I don't getta
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  Speaker 1: keep adding to him, I saw time and now I
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: know you said a certain episode you would get in
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  Speaker 1: your car and cry because it was very emotional for
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: you to unpack some things. What do you think was
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: the most emotional episode for you? So it was a
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Black Hair episode? Well, you know the first season, the
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: whole fight with me and Tammy at the end, that
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: was very tough. But they have one where I did
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: this year about my mom a boyfriend molested me and
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: to say his name and to relive those moments. That
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: was the night I rode home and I kind of
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: felt like I warned, like I did with the Baby
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Daddy episode, and just to let the world get to
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: see that. People really appreciate it. You know, I've never
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: seen that episode. Wow, but a lot of people write
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: me about that episode that in the Black Hair episodes.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Two of the most episode I get rolled aboutsode. Oh god,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I forgot about the bortion episode. The bortion episode is
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: because that was true to me too. Not quite to me,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: but I'm known women my age getting a bution. I've
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: had a few abortions, and people get abortion while they're married,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: whether because it was the hold it was before the
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: role versus way too to let you know. Just because
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I say I do don't mean you own my body.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: If I get pregnant, I don't want to have a baby.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: You should respect me, especially at an age of fifty.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: You know you older, you just can't. When I had
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: my first child, I'm gonna popped out like a kid. Good.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I was at school the next day. I can't have
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: no baby like that. It's difference when you buy right.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: So my baby walking down the street with me with
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: a bellic a car like a dog. So let you're
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: right about that, all right? We got more with comedian
• 18:47
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• 18:57
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• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still
• 19:03
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• 19:06
  Speaker 1: and that's funny. Yeah, and it's real. Yes, we can't
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: run from what's funny and what's real. Man. I think
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: it's good when people feel uncomfortable and we're not here
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: to preach. You know, you know us got a black showing.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: People want to show white Americas is no, We're just
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: a black family showing you what we went through and
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: hopefully you can relate to what we were, where we went,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: where we going through. I never grew up around a
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: perfect person in my life, and I never understood where
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: we got to this point in society where everybody got
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: to pretend to be perfect. That's not real. Ain't nobody perfect.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Like I tell people all the time, babies come out ugly.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: If it were perfect, then motherfuckers will be born beautiful.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: That's right. I mean, any of your kids was ugly.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: We don't say that because you gotta go, you know.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I say a couple came out looking like me, and
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I was concerned at first. I got two grandkids, one
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: of them more ugly. If he looked like he smoked weed.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: He looked like a George He ugly is five? Yeah,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: I mean when they was born, they was type that
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: you did not hang up their baby pictures. It's still
• 20:05
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• 20:08
  Speaker 1: But I'm lying, I don't know. I ain't ever seeing her. Well,
• 20:12
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• 20:14
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• 20:19
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• 20:21
  Speaker 1: was ugly. My son was so ugly he hairlines started
• 20:24
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• 20:29
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• 21:25
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• 21:57
  Speaker 1: So I'm kidding. Oh too. Let's get miss pat out
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: of here for she don't get a season four. Okay,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I get a season. I gotta get a season four.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I got you to do and you're back on the road.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I think I saw I think I saw you gonna
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: be at Caroline. I'm gonna be at Caroline here next month.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: You know, Jordan is going to Broadway with no going
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: to broad y'all gotta go see. I wouldn't gonna see
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: the Michael Jackson last night. That was so goddamn. I
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: got that. That was amazing. Man. I did not want
• 22:24
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• 22:26
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• 22:28
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• 22:30
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• 22:39
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• 22:56
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  Speaker 1: the black people on the plane. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: but it's on Broadway. Wow on the Broadway's huge deal.
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  Speaker 1: Damn Jordan coming up. That's good. I'm happy for both
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  Speaker 1: to shot them out on the breakfast. What is that party? Like? Oh,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I paid for everything. I invited four hundred and fifty
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• 23:36
  Speaker 1: That's dope. Man paid for every day. But she was
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a good time at my party. Yeah.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know this play gonna be, but y'all gonna
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: see Michael Jackson because it was. It was amazing. When
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: it was over last night, the Castle is like, hey,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Miss pat said, who are they talking to? Joe? He's like,
• 23:52
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• 24:03
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  Speaker 1: you ain't never came to see me. Come for the
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  Speaker 1: black female comedian and I'm gonna put you on spot.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: You ain't never came to see me, but you welcome
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• 24:16
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• 24:19
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• 24:22
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• 24:25
  Speaker 1: That was Tiffany had as you saw. She wasn't Jackie
• 24:28
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• 24:38
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• 25:07
  Speaker 1: You hear that. We gotta look like it's just a
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  Speaker 1: show now. I'm here that weekend. Okay, we'll starting Thursday,
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• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I'll be on Saturday because I don't work on Sunday,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: because I gotta see my falcon get their heads beat
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  Speaker 1: there you go. It's miss Pat, It's the Breakfast Club.
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• 25:53
  Speaker 1: about it morning. Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: we are the breakfast Club. We're talking about what your
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: love language? Mineus acts of service. Charlemagne said his is
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: acts of service. Angelia, you said yours is. I said
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: physical touch and acts of service and they say, like
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: the caller card. Last time, that's what we were talking
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: about last Natic Dennizouri was saying, how it goes both ways,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: so access service would be my love language, but that's
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: also what I like to receive from other people. Same thing,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: you know, words of affirmation. I need words of affirmation
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: from my family, especially my wife, my daughters. I need
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: those words of affirmation and I like to give those
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: as well, because that's something I didn't receive I feel
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: like enough when I was a child. Yeah, but acts
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: of service, like I said, for me, I like to
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: do for people like I'd like to do for my
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: wife and my family, for my friends, like I said,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: even when my daughter today it's a birthday. I like
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: to do the things that I just want to see
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: them smile. But when it turns around, I don't like
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: access service. Oh no, do I do it for everybody?
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: So sometimes I feel like I'll hear the lack one
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: thing I can I can handle. The reason I do
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: is because, like I feel like acts of service should
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: be contagious, you know what I'm saying. So I like
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: to see other people doing acts of service for other
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: people because that's to me, that's how you like when
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I always have these conversations about how we rely on
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: each other to keep each other safe, Like the only
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: thing we can rely on is human behavior. If all
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: of us were approached the world as if we were
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: in service to each other, oh my god, the world
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: will be a better place. And now he likes touch. Yes,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I like physical touch. I'm affectionate only with my man though. Hello,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: who's this? Hey, y'all? This is Lady Tee. How y'all
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: doing this morning? Lady Tan? How are you feeling? I'm
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: feeling a great, honey, I'm awakes. What's your love language, mama?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: My love language is touching and feeling. Okay, okay, And
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: it's very important that you have to learn yours and
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: your partners love language because Okay, for example, the person
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I'm dating now, his is gifting. His emotional status is
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: dead right, so it's hard for him to like he
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: doesn't like to be touched at north if he likes
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: to get it social just like the conflict. Yeah, your
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: love language and your partners, it could be a big
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: deal breaker. People don't realize that some people do think that, like,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: in place of affection and time and all of that,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: they can give you gifts. Yeah. Let's exactly how he
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: is too, because he's always saying they're just having a
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: place for them. The best gifts are the thoughtful ones. Correct,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. When a person remembers, you know,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: what your favorite color is, or when a person remembers
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: you know what your favorite Marvel character is like? Little
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: things like that is what makes those gifts extra special. Absolutely,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: you know why, You're right? And he is like that.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: He's very very thoughtful, and I think that's why we
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: feel going because I try to reframe myself back from
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: touching him when he doesn't. You know, I respect his
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: time and place aspect of things. But when he gives
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: me or whatever, it's very thoughtful. So I'm like, okay,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: all right, I still there with you. All right, now,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. You now, what is
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: it like. I'm looking at this like my love language
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: is right. I love to to access service. That's what
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I love to do. But receive I like. I like
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: kind of all of them. I like words of affirmation time,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: I like receiving gifts. That's that's the one that's saying.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I love acts as service and I like physical touch.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: You know. I will say this though, and this is
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Nick Cannon had a point about this. He was saying
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: quality time. That's a difficult one for him to be
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: able to do. Why and because he's really busy with
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: all his different jobs, and then he does have a
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: lot of different children and mothers of his kids and
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: his time is divided, but it's still quality time. And
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: they did say, according to the psychotherapist, that's the hardest one,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: you know, because so for him, I guess that's the
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: lowest on his his list of his love languages. But
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: you gotta think a lot of quality time to one
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: person might be different. Yeah, I don't know the person's say.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I don't even know a quality time means, because I
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: know I'm gonna be when I'm laying on the couch
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: with my kids. That's quality time. You know what I'm saying.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: What people might feel like, well, we need to go somewhere,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: we need to wean Our biggest quality pends on how
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: you guys are aligned when it comes to them. What's
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: my favorite thing to do? Lay in bed with my
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: wife and watching uh, just nonsense on television, Just cuddling
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: and talking. That's that's my favorite. That's why I got
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: in The Bachelor, Bachelorette and Norlam Stupid show because watch together.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I know some people who feel like, well, I'm home
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: all day taking care of this with the kids, and
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: then you come home and you're exhausted from working or
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: haven't been traveling or doing those things and now you
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: don't want to do anything. I don't want to just
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: lay in the house, and so for them that might
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: not be quality time. That's why sometimes things aren't aligned.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: That's the best thing television, and there's nothing better than
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: laying on the couch with your family watching it conto
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: for a thousand times. For me and you, that's what
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: mean you're like that, that's what that's for you, guys,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: but not for everybody. I love jo about what's a
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: great weekend. Yeah, I do my shows and our DJ
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: But laying on the couch or laying in that bed
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: with the kids, don't tell them stories about whatever. I
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: love planning a trip like I don't get a lot
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: of vacation time or time to do things other than work.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: And so for me it's like, Okay, if we know
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: we're going somewhere in July, that's really exciting for me.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: That's like real quality time for me because now we
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: can leave everything behind. I don't have to work, I
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: don't have to answer those emails. That's exciting. Everybody's version
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: of quality is different. All right, Well, what's what's the
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: moral of the story. If there's more, the more of
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the stories, you should you should find your love language.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: I found this conversation very fascinating. Last language. I mean,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: I've always heard about love languages, but we had a
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: really in depth conversation about it that at dinner last night.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Man and and you know, a happy boring data to
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  Speaker 1: the Homie Zoi Hall once again. The Breakfast Club. The
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be the same morning.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests in
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the belt. Come on, you gotta do better than that.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: You come on now, come on, come on now, come
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  Speaker 1: on now, come on now, come on now, turn it up.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Your husband start like this. Okay, this is a fun fact. Okay.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: The reason I went to Hampton University was because of
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: me watching a different world. How many times do y'all
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: hear that? At least half a dozen dozen a week?
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Did you graduate? You can go rest. My first celebrity
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: picture I ever took with was with Code Madison Tomorrow.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: We were in the airport. Thank thank you. I know
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: this might be an odd question, but do y'all know
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: what y'all mean to just people black becoming more and
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: more apparent as we get older at first. No, it's
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: very moving to me now. But at the time, um,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: both of us were you know, we were I'm New
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: York where you used to hustling. We had just done
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: school days. We were kind of like, now what now what?
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: And um, I don't know that we knew how the
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: show was resonating with our people because we were not.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I wasn't around my people. I was in la and
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I went from Melrose to the Valley and back to
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Melrose and the only people I hung out with them
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: because you know, so I wasn't hearing it. I wasn't
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: seeing it. And coming from theater, you know when you hit,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: when you land, you know when when you are having
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: a communication, and um, what has been amazing to me
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: is that, you know, we were always trying to make
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: things better, make things more believable, have more depth or content,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: so we weren't really looking at what was landing. I wasn't,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: you know, because when we talked actor to actor, Kuldeemon,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I really worked hard on that relationship because if you
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: look at the first season, in the second season, I
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: was like, I don't know why why Whitley were like Dwayne,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I was older. They had him playing the goofy guy,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: and now she's dreaming about him. I would have been
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: dreaming about some seniors that I would like to cast.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: But yea, how this input did you both have in
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: some of the topics and themes that were on a
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: different world, because you guys did cover a lot of
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: real life things that you didn't see anywhere else. The
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: first season, I was there to be the snotty bitch
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: and he was there to be the goofy dude. We
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: were very clear. You know what Debbie did. She made
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: our characters deeper and more realistic. She snatched all the
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: weaves out of my hand, even though I have one on.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: She was like, she came into the pitch, She's like, oh, darling,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: where's the hot sauce? Yeah? She made it because she
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: went to Howard And what is the difference of going
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: to a black college or you know, a big university.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Because you are loved, you are nurtured, you are part
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: of a neighborhood. They don't want you to fail. They're
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: not gonna let you fail, right, And that came through
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: in the way she worked with us, you know, and
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: she gave us a voice. We couldn't give notes that
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: first year. We were just worried about it. Are they
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: gonna college? They were firing people. Also, the show shifted though,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: because wasn't the show sitting around Lisa Bonne the first season,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: but then she didn't come back with the second season.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I'm sure that had that made all of y'all have
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: to be the stars now. Basically, yeah, well, I thought
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: that the show just wasn't gonna come back because she
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: is she is and was the star of that show,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: you know, and our characters at least was based on her.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: And I didn't understand that structural change and putting us
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: together when we really didn't have even that much to do.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: But we knew each other, and I said, you know,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: first of all like his big sister, So it felt
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: a little ancestuous. He had a crush on you that
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: when you first mentioned you don't have to you know,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I was young, I was born my ability. But the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: thing was we were friends and we did have good communication.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: We could talk. I had better communication with him than
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: most of my relationships. The pressure I was gonna have
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: was it difficult to stay on TV because at the time,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: it was nothing like this on television. I thought the
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: first season was difficult. I really took the job expecting
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: maybe we'd get six or eight episodes and then they
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: go back to New York, go back to New York,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Movie Star, Why did the Shower on hiatus? And it
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: just never came back. Yeah, I think it was. Once
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: we had Jesse, we were doing a lot of controversial
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: stuff the Riot Show, and yeah, there was some stuff
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: that maybe the network wasn't as thrilled about. It was
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of battles back and forth with Debbie and
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: trying to, you know, make it current and relevant, and
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: it was like, yeah, let's just have the you know,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: the romance and the chase and the every every deep
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: show that we did. She fought for. It was a
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: battle with the network. Then white boys did not care
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: about date rape up, our Tide, Riot HIV Okay, they
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: were like, just put with Lee and Dwayne and be funny. So,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: y'all don't even see it coming in I saw it coming.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: We saw it coming because you know, you're treating us
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: like monkeys and we're not monkeys. We're not doing your word,
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: we're doing our word. And the power that we had
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: they diminished. I felt diminished because They always said, but
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: you come between Cosby and Cheers. I said, but people
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: can change the channel, right, they don't have to watch
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: this show. Yeah. I just felt like we were always
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: on our own. I never felt a part of that
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Hollywood system. Like I would watch Roseanne Bard singing the
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: anthem at a Padre game. We got five singers in
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: our casto and we number two. Wow, that's crazy. So
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: I always felt the exclusion and I never felt a
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: part of that whole. You get emmies and never even
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: never got nominated, never invited to the show. Wow, that's okay.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: You can't put too much clout into that day any way.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: You gotta know who you are and where you belong.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: And that was my family, that was my company. But
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: you know, they used to ask me to do stuff
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: for NBC, like parades and say happy birthday to Cheers.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: I say, why am I saying happy birthday to the
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: black people on the Ever scared of Y're gonna be
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: stuck in character like that. Everybody always looked at you
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: as doing or you know, always looked at you as Whitley,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: you know, when you're ever scared of that? I knew
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: that as soon as it was over. Well, I thought
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: that I should have did four years and graduated and
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: maybe a fifth year to transition into new cast members,
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: new freshmen, and then they should have did four vive
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: in transit. So in my eyes, the shoe should never ended.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: It should still be on now not rerun. Oh yeah, yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: like it could be yea, it could just always go
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: on because they'll always be kids in college, you know'll
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: always be something to talk about. Everybody is DJ Envy,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we Are to Breakfast Club
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: were still kicking it with Kadem Harness and the Jasmine
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: Guy of course a Different World alumni. Ye what about
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Marissa tim Ay right, that's the one white character on
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: the show. Was that something that you feel like they
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: said we got to put a white person, you know
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: on the show, or well we came on after that,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: and I never understood it not being addressed. And I
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: actually wrote an episode and I brought it to Susan
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: and it was addressing. Well, she goes to a dance
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: and she asked us boy that you know, danced with her,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: and he was like, you know, I ain't dancing with
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: no white girl. Are you trying to you know. She
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: comes back and she says, I never thought about it.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: She said, well, why did you? Why did you? I'm
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: a helmet because they have the best journalism department in
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Virginia and they told me they're not addressing the white
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: person at the black school issue. Wow, why you know?
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know why, guys, it was so obvious. The
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: weirdest thing to this day when I when I was
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: in him and it was white kids walking around campus,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: it was just weird. Like, you know, I wanted to
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: be like why they would be interesting to see what
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: that experience for them was like, They're, like you said,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: point way more, especially when we carrying eggs, eggs around babies.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, getting ready to drink. Yeah, we listen,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: we are celebrating, y'all. You see we got the balloons on.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm by the champagne they got. But we
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: don't know damn budget open yet really really with him,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: and we got we got him up there here. Thank you.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Got to give people their flowers, right, we're not giving
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: to them literally my flowers. I'm very embrassed by the champagne.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I can't believe they would do that. Well,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: let me try it. I'll let you know. Back to
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: you though you said you wrote that episode, you also
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: directed some episodes? Right? Did you direct episodes too? Because
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: I directed the episode Wow? So did they come to
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: you or were you? Did you guys do that? We
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: wanted to because I brushed my tea. I'm gonna drink it. Though,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: why would y'all do that to kill Speed? It didn't
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: need to be cool? Sure need to be cool. He's
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: trying to talk. Learned about Champagne had me nervous about
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: being on this show. I was like, is he like?
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Howard sterned like what is? Because I have seen you,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I've seen you interviewed, but I haven't seen you. I
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: hadn't seen the show. So I go on YouTube and
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I'm watching it and I'm friends with Amanda Seal. Yes
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: you know, and I was like, Okay, what's the problem, Like,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: what can we talk about that it's going to be
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: so horrible? Nothing? Nothing, So continue were talking about directing
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: and Devi Allen so directing. When it came to directing
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: and writing, Debbie made us put it in our contracts
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: that we had we got to direct. That's an episode
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: or two Wow writ Wow season how did she know that? Like,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: how did she know that's something that you want to do.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: The more you do, the less they can tell you
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: you can't do. How much of Willie Gilbert was really you?
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I know what wasn't me? I know politically I a
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: lot of issues with what I had to say, but
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I knew that there was somebody on this show that
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: was gonna say the right thing. When you're the only
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: black person in a white cast, you have to say
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: all the right things. But when when I was Whitley
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: and I have him and Charlie and Creed and Darrel,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: you know, I was like, with somebody, because this is
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: what I'm about to say. When when I said to
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: um Charnel Kimberly Reeese it was apartheide show and she
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: was gonna give up her scholarship because they were divesting,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I said, but I only know you. I don't even
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: know those paper My first scene with Lisa Bona in
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: the in the room, She's like, are you saying you
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: parked in the handicap? I said, why should I be punished?
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Because I can walk this bit as long as it's
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: funny mentioned a Tupac episode. I know both of you
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: guys well close with Tupac, cool with Tupacs. So how
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: did those relationships happen for me? I was just directing
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: them that week, Jasmine, that's the better one, Okay, cool?
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: All right? Real, I combed up come out with me.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not really understand great a little bit. Yeah, yeah,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I just got to direct them. I was fortunate Jada
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: said he wanted to do this show and he was excited.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: And I know MCS rappers and I know how they
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: go off some time. So I was real nervous, like
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: this is my first week direct and I was like,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: is he gonna show, like because I I've messed around
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: trying to do a video with Dirty and never showed
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Ye got your money? Yes, I remember that because yes.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: And then actually because I was working with them at
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: the time, he actually came and did a video that
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: he was on for Jess and they wouldn't let it
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: come out. The label weren't clear Dirty because he didn't
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: show up to his own video. Yes, I was down
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: there waiting sixty seven hours. So yeah, So I was
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: just nervous as my first directing gig, just like, okay,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: I just hope he's And once he came he was.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I always thought it's not a hot take, but I
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: always thought he was probably going to be a better
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: actor than Rapper. Yeah, I wanted to ask y'all, man.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: You know, I often feel spoiled because I'm forty four.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: So you know, like in the mid eighties, we saw
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: black sitcoms like The Jeffersons and Different Strokes, but then
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: you know, the Cosby's came in two, two sevens in
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: different worlds, and feel like all of that just came
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: to a abrupt end, like towards the end of the nineties,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Number one. Do you think that was the renaissance for
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: black TV? And do you think there was something bigger
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: at play all of those positive images of black people
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: on TV. It only seems now like if it walks
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: like a duck and it quacks like a duck. I
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: don't have any evidence to support it except for the optics.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I do think it was. Okay, our last
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: season number two, number one, sometimes Colby in a different
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: world for five, six, seven years. Okay, why would you
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: change your time slot and why would you put us
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: against Martin? Wow? I definitely checked that personally. You ain't
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: got but two black shows on the networks and you
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: put us at the same time against each other, and
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: what have we done? What have we done to deserve
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: this kind of disservice. You know, we're not competing with Martin.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: We come under eight thirty, they come on at eight.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: Why did you move us? That was detriment? That because
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Colby show ended and didn't they put you all up
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: at because Hobby was deleting. Okay, so that could have
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: been it strong enough. We weren't strong enough to hold
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: another time slot and not against Martin. Yeah, I feel
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: like we have the same audience and so what do
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: white people do divide? That's right, that's right. So, yes,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I do feel like it was deliberate. I feel like
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: it was racist. I know who was running NBC at
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: the time, and I don't feel we were respected. They
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: always said, y'all came between Cosby and Cheers, and that's
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: why you're number two. They said that to my face.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: So they thought it was because of the network that
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: these shows were having all the success, because as a
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: time slot between one and three, we gotta be two.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: We got more with KaDee Mahrnison and Jasmine Guy when
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: we come back. You know them, of course, from a
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: different world, So don't move. It's the Breakfast clubal Mornings,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: j Envy angela year Charlomagne, the guy we are to
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking away Kadeem Hardison and Jasmine
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Guy of course a different world alumni. Did they pay
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: y'all like y'allol wanted to? Did y'all get paid or
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: did you have to fight for that? We had to
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: fight for that. I went and white Man can't Jump?
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Can I have another champion? We give something good stuff?
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: I went and did white Man can't Jump? Body Harrelson
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: and he was doing cheers, and you know, he kind
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: of let me in on what he was making. I
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: was like, and y'all number three what But I'm confused
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: about that. Because you had Bill Cosby, who already had
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: so much success, Why wouldn't he give that game to
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: the spinoff show? The cast of the spin off show.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: He purposely had us shoot in California away from him.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I don't think he wanted to have to shoulder it. Yeah,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: he was running. He was running this this was it boom,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: y'all go over here and work that out. And then
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: when it wasn't working to the way I think we
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: all wanted called the Debbie and said miss thedn't getting
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: in with your broom and clean that up. It seemed
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: like she was a blessing though, absolutely, you know, no, no,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: she was the best thing that could have happened to us.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: You know, this show was dead, Yeah, that show was dead.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: Became on that show. You know she said, where's the
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: dark skinned people at this school? I don't know. I
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: just thought that first season, I already had called my parents.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, I've made up. I've made thirty
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars and I paid off Greg, and I'm paying
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: off my Amax and I'm going back to my apartment.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Because I thought that was Booty got paid during the
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: table y'all number one and number two off the first season.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: I made six thousand dollars a week. I mean that
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: was was like what it was at the Village game.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: I was. I didn't have any compleny games, but we
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: only had contracts for seven episode. You didn't know how
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: like it was gonna last. Oh no, and they were
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: firing people to sign six years before you that's yeah. No.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: But I went into the producers and I tried to
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: give my two weeks notice it's right. She tried. I said,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for this, and because that that first season,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it was whacked. And I didn't like
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: the way they were treat treating Lisa bon name just
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: do it, just pointing all up in her face, and
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, that's a sweet girl, because you're
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: not getting up on me like that. I didn't interfere
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: on set, but I was like, oh no, oh no,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: you're not treating her like that. She had to her security, really,
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: so that's why she quit. Probably no, because wanted her
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: to be on bet you didn't want to show black
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: girl pregnant in college that I thought it would have
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: been a great tool. It could inspire because it was
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: all inspiring, So why not, you know, because that's the
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: real thing. You can still get your education. As I've
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: heard so many rumors that I don't know where what
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: comes from. I've heard that he wanted to incorporate it
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: on the show on our show. I've also heard that
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Jesse wanted to um have a single mom because he's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: from a single mom that went through school. And then
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I've also heard that was a network that didn't want
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: to incorporate her wholesome whatever. But first of all, it
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: would have given her something to play, absolutely, because I
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: felt like they were always looking for Denise Hucks the ball.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: You're not using the meat that she comes from. You
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: don't know what you're looking at because you haven't seen
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: a little black girl like this before. And to give
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: her a baby? How did you end up getting the
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: more money After the conversation with Woody Housing, it was
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: hold out time for me, it was we held out
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah as a team. Boy, y'all did separately. No, we
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: should have done it together, but we did a separately.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: But y'all eventually got the money though. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: I mean got some We got the money. I mean
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: I got I got what wood he was making when
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: I talked to him up there. I want to ask
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: you about Black Love, right because Dwayne and Whitley set
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: the tone for Black Love for what seemed like that
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: whole generation show. No show, Yes, if he was on it,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: I love that show. I wish I had seen that
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: show before I got married. I want to ask about
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: that though, like playing those roles of Dwayne and Whilly,
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: teach y'all anything about your own relationships outside of the show. Wow,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: really good questions, Charlotte Man, there was some crossover. Sometimes
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I was having a better relationship that was scripted than
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: in my real life. You know, I got famous during
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: the relationship, too right, And I felt like he was
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: good with me as a dancer in the ensemble, but
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: not so good with me. And then and then that
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: I again was like, well, you weren't listening to me.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: You didn't know who I was. The insecurities so absolutely
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: when Joy and Whiley got married, I was breaking up
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend of five years. Wow, Wow, they gotta go, guys.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I know Y'll gotta go, but I gotta ask this.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: When you crashed away, you looked very since Like that's
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: why people feel like what who we was watching was
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: really you know what I mean? What did you do
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: to motivate yourself to get into that space to do that?
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't agree with the whole like we had done
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: so many real things on the show, so many things
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: that felt real. For me to crash this wedding like
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: this felt like a complete leap. And I read it
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: two weeks before. It was a two part episode, so
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I knew for two weeks that I was gonna have
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  Speaker 1: to get to that place where I had to break
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: up this wedding, and it was really hard. And one
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: thing I gave I gave myself was, as I'm coming
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: down the aisle, there's a dude on my left I
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: told him, I said, when you grab me, make sure
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: you get a good grip on my left arm because
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I want to struggle and try to get away. Wow.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: And as soon as I felt him go to grab me,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: I gave him a swim move and got out of it,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: and that propelled me forward and I lost the lyrics,
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Like I was so nervous about if I don't get
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  Speaker 1: it right the first time, it's gonna degrade, it's gonna
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: get worse, and it's gonna get worse because I'm really
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: having a hard time committing to all of these words. Wow.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: So once I you know, I was getting dragged out
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: and lost the lyric, I panicked and just yelled out,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: baby please, just because I was drowning. I was like, yeah, yeah,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: and it would never be like that. That was the
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: first and only take in front of that audience. That
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: audience lost it. Were you aware that he was drowning
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: at the time? How did you know I was standing there?
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Because the audience was screaming too, you know, and I
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: was like hold it, hold it, I said, baby, please,
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: And then the second please was like jazz. Yeah I knew.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: I knew that was jazz because please, baby please, from
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: from school day. Yeah. So I was like, wow, okay,
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: I got you, and we are not doing it again. Okay,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: got it that first day. Nothing magic. I gotta go guys. Okay,
• 57:05
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• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Donkey of the day goes to the over forty people
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: who got the scrapping in a golden corral. Last Friday
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: and Ben Salem. That's I pronouncing that, hey, Ben Salem,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: Ben Salem. Ben Salem is right outside of Philadelphia. First
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: things first, though, dropping the clues bombs from Golden Card. Okay,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: I was talking to our producer Taylor Taylor this morning.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: He's one of our producers. She's from Philly. I believe
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: she was involved in this situation. I was watching the videos. Listen.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: I was watching the video and I really think I
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: saw her. When I asked her about it, she didn't
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: deny being there. She just tried to throw me off
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: by saying, I don't like Golden Corral, You a damn lie.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: First of all, women from Philly love buffets, Okay, loved
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: him all right. Second of all, how can you not
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: love Golden KRL drop another clues bum for gold Kraald.
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  Speaker 1: It's people listening to me right now headed the Golden
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  Speaker 1: Kral for that buffet breakfast, Okay, might be the best
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  Speaker 1: buffet breakfast in the business as far as chain restaurants
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  Speaker 1: are concerned. Okay, I'm forty three years old. I had
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: an eight at them all, baby, all right, some of
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  Speaker 1: them don't even exist no more. From Ryan's the Shawnees,
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  Speaker 1: the Western sizzling, the sizzlers, old Country buffet all slaps, oh,
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  Speaker 1: old country buck. Come on now, come on now. I
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: don't know, but they all slapped at one point or another,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: but none of them touching Golden Koral. Okay, right now,
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: Golden Koral Omelet station still slaps, all right, the waffles,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: the cinnamon rolls, the biscuits, the pancakes, the French toast,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: the grilled corn beef. Hersh nigga, what is you talking?
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Wrote okay, assorted yogurts donuts. It's an elderly couple headed
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: the Golden Koral right now hearing me talk, and they saying,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: right on, okay, they got what you want at Golden
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: carl from healthy to and I'm high as hell. How
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: much meat loaf and mashed potatoes can I eat? Okay?
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: My fat Athan jumped at dinner? All right. You know
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: I'm transfat. I'm about one hundred and seventy eight pounds
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: right now, but I identify as someone on my six
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: hundred pound life. But let me stick to the story.
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  Speaker 1: There was a fight, okay at Golden Corral, a fight
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  Speaker 1: in all out brawl. I'm talking about forty people. It
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: really looked like the Royal rumbing in their chairs were flying,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: big bodies banging into each other. I swear I saw
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: Mark Henry going head up with Rakeishi and Golden Corral
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  Speaker 1: in his video. Bench McMahon would be proud. But what
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  Speaker 1: would make a brawl of forty people break out at
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: a Golden Corral? You probably already know the answer. Let's
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: go to CBS three News for the report. Please Boy
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: talked to a man who posted that video online. He
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: says he was told that fight broke out after the
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: buffet here ran out of steak. Video shared with iwness
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  Speaker 1: News shows punches being thrown and high chairs flying as
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  Speaker 1: a fight breaks out inside the Golden Corral and Ben
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  Speaker 1: Salem Fay evening. Ben Salem police confirmed the brawl may
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  Speaker 1: have involved more than forty people and happened following an
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  Speaker 1: argument among some customers. This man, who used to work
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: at the Ben Salem Golden Corral, says he was told
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  Speaker 1: by a current employee about the initial altercation. From what
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: I heard, it was over steak. Apparently somebody cut in line.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: His friend heard the same details. There was a shortage
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  Speaker 1: of steak. Take a close listen and a man can
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  Speaker 1: be heard saying all I wanted was some steak. All
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: he wanted was some steak. Man that all he wanted. Listen, listen,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: we got more eyewitnesses. Alexis Rios was an eyewitness. He
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: was on the line Go six ABC News. Alexis Rio
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  Speaker 1: says it started over a misunderstanding regarding a piece of steak.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, Rio says, the person in front of him
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: became angry with the cook because Rios received his steak first.
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  Speaker 1: He's trying to understand what you want. He's trying to
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  Speaker 1: give you what you want. I had a steak, which
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: is a lot faster to cook than a well done.
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  Speaker 1: Got my steak first. Next thing you know, he says,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: that misunderstanding erupted into an all out brawl. I grabbed
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: a chair to defend myself and then to the laters,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: that was it. Punches were gaining thrown, chances of gaining throne,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: you name it. You can call it, cups, glasses, everything,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: you name it. These folks got the fighting because the
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: buffet ran out of steak. Now, let me tell y'all something.
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  Speaker 1: This isn't no golden karate commercial. I don't know anyone
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  Speaker 1: who works that works there This is something I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: out of the goodness of my heart and the fatness
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  Speaker 1: of my thoughts. There might not have been no steak left,
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  Speaker 1: but I can't sit here and say I go to
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  Speaker 1: Colden Koral for the steak. There's a lot of other proteins,
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  Speaker 1: and that dinner buffeted I thoroughly enjoy number one on
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: that list. I mentioned it before, that tasty earth meat loaf. Okay,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: with some mashed potatoes and coin. Now we're eating. Okay,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: there might not have been no steak left, but what
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: about those golden fried strips? Hi? Come on now, y'all
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: fighting over one protein out of buffety a buffet, Hey,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: golden corral. There's unlimited options for everybody. They got bourbon screech,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: they got fried chicken, they got fried fish, baked fish,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: pot rolls, they got carved voted in turkey pot pies,
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: golden graves pot pies. All right, there's too much there
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  Speaker 1: for y'all to choose from, for y'all to be fighting
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: over steaks. See, the problem is y'all didn't eat enough
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: yeast rolls before you went to work on the buffet.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: You have to eat at least one, no more than
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: two yeast rolls at the buffet and drink it with
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: a glass of water, because when you eat the yeast
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: roll and drink the water, it expands in your stomach
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: and keeps things like steak shortages from ruining your experience. Okay,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: it keeps things like that from happening because when your
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: stomach is full, okay, you won't eat as much. Now
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: I knew y'all might think I'm joking ninety five percent
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: of the time. Okay, but you have to understand what
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: places like Golden Corral mean to some individuals. Right now,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: I feel pure innocence thinking of Golden Corral. It makes
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: me feel warm inside because those are moments I remember
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: as a child with my family. Okay, Golden Corral offers
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: a sense of comfort, a sense of peace that I
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: don't want to see disturbed by a group of individuals
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: fighting over steak. I heard pain and that man's voice
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: during that fight. Listen, man, all he wanted was some steak. Okay,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: play one more time. Red. You know what I heard
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: when he said that, I heard all my life I
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: had to fight. Okay. That is a brother that is tired,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: exhausted life kicking his monkey ass, and all he wanted
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: was some steak. And yeah, he comes to this place
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: a comfort called Golden Corral and ends up in a
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: buffet fueled bra for what for what? He didn't even
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: get the opportunity to get to the saftsurf. Okay, we
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: don't even talk about the soft surf, the ice cream
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: cones with the vanilla and chocolate sauftsurf. Okay, they got
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: all kind of candy toppings and hot fudge. Oh my god, man,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: the carrot cake thesa in cookies, the cupcakes, but nana
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: putting the fudge brownies. Man, stop playing with Golden Corral
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: and stop playing in Golden Corral. Okay, learn the rules
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  Speaker 1: next time, or stay your ass home when you get there.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Eat a damn yea stro okay, depending on your size,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: eat three or four. Drink some water. Okay, so you
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: don't eat up all the food, all right, And every
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: Golden Corral Vett knows. The point of the buffet is variety, okay, assaultments.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: You don't go eating up Okay, one thing. You try
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: everything to say something for the next man. All right.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: The reality is they probably didn't have no steak because
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: beef is in short supply in a lot of places. Okay,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: supply change disruptions are real. But the moral of the
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: story is this. You know who's going through a lot
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: right now, literally everybody, So just be kind. Please give
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: those forty folks who got the banging in the Golden
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: corl the biggest he hall. I got a feeling. Taylor
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: was there the breakfast Club. Hello, the relationship advice, need
• 1:07:15
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• 1:07:19
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• 1:07:26
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• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: who's this Hi? This is Nicole. Hey, Nicole, what's your
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: question for easy? Um? So the situation is, um, I've
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: been in a relationship for maybe like seventeen years. It
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: just interns my relationship. He had like different sexual interests,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: and um, I thought, I'm like the doctor doctor Natures.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: I've really I like control in the bedroom, and he
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: seemed like he was into it. I'd like to turn
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: them out, but I don't really like when they're into it.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: So I I've been noticing more and more a where
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: they are mean he is like cooking his booty out
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: or because it's like hanging and I'm kind of not
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: interested in it no more. So I want to know
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: how do I bring up the conversation with him without
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: hurting his feelings or damasculating him because so wait, let
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: me So the problem is that you're a dominatrix, right,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: but he's enjoying it too much. I want to say, yeah,
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. Okay, you want him, you want him
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: to be like anymore? It's like, are you really now
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: like interested in bad or you know? Okay, so in
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: the beginning he wasn't enjoying it, no, he was. I like,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: when to say, I like to to turn him out?
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: So he was like he no, staying with that area?
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: What you think? This is kind of like okay, so
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: you mean with you know, like putting something in his Yeah, okay,
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: all right. Well, first of all, you said the goal
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: is to turn someone out. It worked, yeah it did,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: so now that you turned him out, your board. But
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: the thing is we are like partners and I don't
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: know if this is going to mess up our actual
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: relationship well as a dominatrix, maybe you need to find
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: something else to do to him next to turn him out.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: One I mean Okay, look, what other things do you
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: do as a dominatrix in this relationship, because I guess
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: the dynamic now is messed up. Right As a dominatrix,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: He's supposed to be like no, I don't want that,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: don't like that. He's resistant, But now he's like, yes,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: bring it, do it to me, peg me yes, and
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: that before I'm ready to actually take it. And I'm like,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: right now, this is now, this feels like something we
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: both enjoy and it wasn't supposed to be like that.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: So are there are? There are the things that you
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: do to him and in that situation, that relationship to
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: h you know, maybe there's something else you could do
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: where you're stepping on him with the high heels, maybe
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: a little light whipping anything like that. Yeah, we we
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: do little role plays of you know, I want to
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: say please or patient. We do like a little role plays.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: But like I said, it's just more of now like
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: we regularly doing regular sex. He's ready to out Okay,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: what if he used a bigger deal? Though? Why are
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: we doing this? Is so wrong? Why is it wrong? Men?
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Do not let women play in your butt unless they're
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: willing to make a real commitment to you. Okay, yeah,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: I mean he gave you the button. Now all of
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: a sudden, it's too far. This is okay, they're not married, right,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Actually we are married. What he gave you his button.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: Now you're saying it's too much. You gotta like it,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: you know that. But the problem is that you did
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: turn him out and got him to like something that
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: he was resistant to at first, and now you don't
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: like it anymore. So I mean, what can you do?
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: It works some suggestions, I's not like, I'm really like,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: I'm in a hard place because I don't want to
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: say to him I don't want to do it anymore.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: And like I said, I'm the one that started. Yeah,
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: but who maybe you could do it. Maybe you could
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: do the opposite now right and torture him by not
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: doing it what you don't do to another man's but
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: somebody else will. I mean, is it is it that
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: you don't want to peg him anymore at all? What
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: if he acted like he doesn't What if he acted
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: like he doesn't like it? Now? Moving forward and you
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: let him? Can I ask him to like just a
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: little bit more, Yeah, tell him like, tell him like, look,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: the dynamics of what this was is not what it
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  Speaker 1: is now, and this is what I need you to
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  Speaker 1: do for me to feel turned on. He might actually
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  Speaker 1: enjoy that too. That's not fair, mama. If he likes
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  Speaker 1: be a couple, you're supposed to enjoy each other. Well,
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  Speaker 1: she's not enjoying it, but he is right, but he
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  Speaker 1: might enjoy also doing the role playing, of acting like
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  Speaker 1: actually likes it? If he wants it, he might have
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  Speaker 1: to play along. You know why a lot of men
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  Speaker 1: don't like but play because they feel like it makes
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• 1:12:31
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• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: guess who turned me in one. I'm just saying, anyway,
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  Speaker 1: have you communicated any of this to him? But not
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  Speaker 1: very direct, saying all this is how I feel at
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: the current moment. How can you make a change? Well,
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  Speaker 1: this ain't fun for me no more. Where it was
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  Speaker 1: a resistant situation, you ain't want it. Now you tuting
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  Speaker 1: it up to dang up, daddy, make your role? What
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  Speaker 1: it seems like I have to take control of everything,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like, is that from the the way our
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  Speaker 1: to pull him bitching out because that's I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to downplay needs to be far from a female dog.
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  Speaker 1: But like he's revery now, sof or he's not taking
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  Speaker 1: patrol as I think that man in the houseful, So okay.
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  Speaker 1: He might think this is what you want, and if
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  Speaker 1: you haven't communicated that you don't like it, he might
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  Speaker 1: think this is the dynamic that you wanted. Charlomae did
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  Speaker 1: So he likes. You need to let him know that
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  Speaker 1: this is not working for you and this is not
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  Speaker 1: what your intention was, so he can take charge in
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: certain situations. Again, this is why men don't open up
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  Speaker 1: our hearts are all butts to people because the situations
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  Speaker 1: like this, all right, but the main thing is that
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  Speaker 1: you're not telling him what it is that you need.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta let him much. She wanted it at first,
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  Speaker 1: and he didn't want to do it at first, and
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  Speaker 1: he finally opened up and did it and got turned out,
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  Speaker 1: and you are doing that's all right, so listen, talk
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  Speaker 1: to him. Okay, I'm you gotta work through this. You
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  Speaker 1: you begged the playing my butt, and let you play
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  Speaker 1: in my butt. Now you look at me like I'm soft.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just keep that. This is crazy. This is this
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: is crazy. This is to what's his number? We need
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  Speaker 1: to call here? No, stop it, this is too yeah,
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  Speaker 1: don't do it? All right? All right, this is toxically.
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  Speaker 1: We have no problem answering any question opened up for her.
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  Speaker 1: He finally he enjoys it now and now she's just
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• 1:14:54
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  Speaker 1: you better stay away from that man. Hey that point? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that punch hurt everything? A bottom? Hey did that punch hurt? Nah?
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  Speaker 1: Don't lie, tell the truth, telling the truth? So why
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• 1:16:39
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• 1:16:41
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• 1:16:43
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• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: ain't he beat you up? Then he beat you up?
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: It's okay. So when you got back up what happened?
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: Literally he was gone, Like when you woke up, he
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: was doing that. Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: He ain't gonna stick around. You've been sleeping in minutes
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: and the words of Craig's Daddy and Friday, Okay, you
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: win something, you lose something, but you live to fight
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  Speaker 1: another day. Huh. Man, you ain't gonna do nothing, then stop?
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: But why do you want to retaliate alone? Leave with
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: you exactly? His head? How old are you? How old
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: are you? How old are you? How old are you? Well? Listen,
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  Speaker 1: I was born in nineteen hundred and seventy eight. I
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• 1:17:29
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• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: at that, Leave it alone, bro, Ain't that okay? Well
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: listen this. If you want to retaliate asking for a
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: fan one, then oh that's a I don't do that
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: because he bro think me, trust me, bro, he whipped
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• 1:17:48
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• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: like this. You retaliate, you do something, now you go
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: into jail. It's if it's a fair one. I'm cool
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: with that, though, as long as they ain't. No like
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: this wouldn't due put him to do and he's just
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: gonna get put in the dope feend again. You're gonna train,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: You're gonna train before the next fight. That look, it
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: ain't no training for it, ain't no training. You need train.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay, man, Listen, I listen I didn't got punched
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  Speaker 1: Can I get a drop? I ain't got no time
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: for retaliation. Who cans like we're too old? Let it go?
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: Let it go already, know you that's even worse. Exactly,
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: I got punched in the head and got seen by
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: millions of people. You think you think I'm sitting around here.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: You know, all the more reason for you to let
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: it go, sir, All the more reasons retaliate. No, why, okay, jail.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: You're gonna retaliate. You're gonna hurt him. You're gonna go
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: to jail. Is it worth it? No, we don't know
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna die. You're gonna hurt him. Now, Okay,
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: let imagine a question. If you go get a fair one,
• 1:18:46
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• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: you again, then what they gonna for the third time.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: gonna call him fight? Due? All right, I'm gonna tell
• 1:18:57
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• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: want to fight again and you want to press charges. Right, Oh,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: you just said you want to get a rescreen to
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  Speaker 1: get restrain or they got a press charges. Oh I
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  Speaker 1: want you to press charges? No, no, no, no, I'd
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a rescreen
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  Speaker 1: in order. You're about to lose your job and you're
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: about to go drive with doing something stupid and leave
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  Speaker 1: it alone. And man that man, that man then beat
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: you up so bad you want to get a rescreening order.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: So I don't know. Why are you acting all tough? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Let it go? Bro, have a good one, man, But no,
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  Speaker 1: don't hang up on this man. You don't want you
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: You're gonna let it go. Maybe do you have kids? Bro? Nah? Man,
• 1:19:35
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  Speaker 1: it go. Did your girl see you did your girls?
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: So you get beat up? Nah? I ain't then, so
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: let it go. Nobody saw. Nobody even know that. And
• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: does Yes, I ain't a Willsey, don't do nothing. Stupid bro.
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  Speaker 1: God bless you man. Goodness, gration, then you're healing energy man.
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  Speaker 1: He got knocked up out. The man then hit you
• 1:20:10
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• 1:20:12
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• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: he was said, should I get restraining order? All retaliate there,
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• 1:20:19
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  Speaker 1: Basically that's happened recently. I got scammed by someone clost
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  Speaker 1: father who came out of jail and ghosted. I scosted
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  Speaker 1: up and somehow scammed me because I just sent her
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: money and I got scammed for like one point two
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  Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, hold on one point two what okay? Okay,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: so twelve dollars. Now, explain how this scam worked. She
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  Speaker 1: asked you for money and you sent it. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: I said sharing. I'm probably like I didn't. I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: a suspicious to any things. So I said shared, and
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  Speaker 1: that they scamed pulled the money back and Chase that
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  Speaker 1: they couldn't do anything for me. So I took that
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  Speaker 1: out right. Okay, So you want to know what you
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: should do? Well, I don't think that she'll get arrested
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: over twelve hundred dollars, But you know, is that somebody
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  Speaker 1: that you want to continue to have in your life.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I don't know, Like honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I still I still I love her like a family member,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't have any negative shoe store, so I
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  Speaker 1: would forgive her, but I give my mind, I forgive her.
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  Speaker 1: You have to pick up my phone call, but I
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  Speaker 1: forgive her in my mind. I don't have any bad
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  Speaker 1: love her. I just want to just I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what to do. I don't want to think to the
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: college and that something happens to the kid, because I
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: don't want to grow up without a mom. Or I'll say, yeah, well,
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars, it's not gonna, you know, make her
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: get taken away from her children and all of those things.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: But um, you know the way that I am, I
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: don't know that I would press charges against somebody sometimes,
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: you know, those are expensive lessons in life where that
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: person can never come to you again for anything. And
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: that's how I look at it. Where you give somebody
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: money they do something foul like that, and you're like, okay,
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: well now you just don't have access to me anymore.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: And you also don't know what type of diet, your
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: situation she was in to make her do something like that.
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  Speaker 1: It feels like it's out of character. That's what I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking too. Maybe she was going through something that
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  Speaker 1: needed for a kid or whatever I got in conting
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: through her, through her, through her sister, and basically over
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: the hurt. Well, I promise you it's the type of
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: thing that's gonna hurt her more than it hurts you,
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: because now she can't ever come around you or anybody
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: in your circle and get anything. And this is the
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: type of thing that you let everybody know that she
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: did this, okay, so that they all know not to
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: let her scam them either, and she'll learn her lesson.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: But you know, I, like I said, she's I'm sure
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: she's going through something. If you've been friends with her
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: like family for a long time, we can't explain why
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: people do the things that we do. But what you
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: can do is let her know. I've forgiving you for this.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: I already know that you have no intention on paying
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: me back. I hope that everything is okay and good
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: in your life, and you know what, you are blessed
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: that you even had that money to be able to
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: give somebody and keep it moving, and God will bless
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: you a thousand times her. So cool, I hope, But
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: I just I really just wanted to conk her, But
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: I donna know why. Yeah, it's hurt fault. It's hurt fault.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: But that has nothing to do with you. That has
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: everything to do with her and the type of person
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: that she is and whatever is that she's going through,
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: you know, and you got to disconnect from things like that.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: And look, this is a lesson for in the future
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: when somebody asked you for something like that, you know,
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: you got to be more careful. And and like you said,
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: there was no reason that you should have thought anything
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: was suspicious. This is somebody you looked at like family,
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: and sometimes that makes us change the way that we move,
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: you know. But listen, there's people I've you know, given
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: money to lent money. They promised to pay me back,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: They've never done it, And I'll just never lend those
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: people money again, and they can't have that same type
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: of privilege. Definitely. Yeah, And God and God will bless
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: you and continue to bless you for being a great person.
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: You never want to let somebody like that not discourage
• 1:24:56
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• 1:24:58
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• 1:25:00
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