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Romeo In The Morning 7-13-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It was going on. Everybody. It's Romeo. I hope you
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  Speaker 1: had a great weekend. We're back. We talked a little
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  Speaker 1: bit about marriage and whether marriage is the problem in
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  Speaker 1: your relationship or not. We'll get into that. We talked
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  Speaker 1: a little bit about AI and how that changes things,
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  Speaker 1: especially from a service job situation, where now you can
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  Speaker 1: just look up anything you want. And we talked a
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  Speaker 1: little bit about well, let's see what we talked about.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go all right. I gotta say this has never
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  Speaker 1: happened to me before. This is creepy. So I was
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  Speaker 1: just a couple hours ago. It was about three thirty
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  Speaker 1: in the morning, maybe three ish, and I was laying
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  Speaker 1: I was having this dream that I was in some
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  Speaker 1: sort of meeting, like I don't know if it was anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I was having this dream that I was with all
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  Speaker 1: these people, listening to somebody talking. We were in rows
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  Speaker 1: of chairs, right, and I was messing around on my
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  Speaker 1: phone and somebody was rubbing my back, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: massaging my back, softly massaging, and I could literally feel
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  Speaker 1: it like I felt it, and it was a dream.
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  Speaker 1: So I woke up and I was like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: my back feels pretty good. I was. It was pretty creepy,
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  Speaker 1: like I could. I don't know how to say it.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever was going on in my dream I could feel
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  Speaker 1: in real life, I guess. Is that the way I
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  Speaker 1: put it? I mean, it's all real life, but it was.
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  Speaker 1: I've never experienced anything like that before. Never. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I've had some dreams that seemed real right you wake up,
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  Speaker 1: but nothing that actually had a sensor, a sense to it,
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  Speaker 1: a sensory. How do you guys say? How would I
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  Speaker 1: say it? I don't know. It was kind of creepy.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I wasn't scary because it wasn't anything scary
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  Speaker 1: in the dream. It was just a bunch of people.
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  Speaker 1: We were, you know, doing something, and for some reason,
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  Speaker 1: the person behind me was rubbing my back in I
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  Speaker 1: could feel it. I could feel it, and I woke
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  Speaker 1: up and I was like, oh my god, I felt that,
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  Speaker 1: like it was really, like it was really happening to me,
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  Speaker 1: not in my dream, but really happened. Is that iminy
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  Speaker 1: makes sense? It's kind of creepy. Hung thirty four two five,
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  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Oh all right, Roam. There was
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  Speaker 1: this one time where I was asleep, but my girl
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  Speaker 1: was up and she said at one point, I put
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  Speaker 1: my arm straight up in the air pointing at something
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  Speaker 1: while I was asleep. She freaked out, freaked out and
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  Speaker 1: went to bed. Also took video. It looked pretty freaky. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: that's crazy, man. Yeah, I don't know, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it was. I mean, I think it's
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  Speaker 1: pretty common people have had this happen to them, where
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  Speaker 1: they feel like something's on top of them and they
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  Speaker 1: can't move. But a lot of people that have told
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  Speaker 1: me the stories about that before. I think you said
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  Speaker 1: you were you were awake when it happened. I can
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  Speaker 1: remember correctly, I get I remember specifically. I was in
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  Speaker 1: a dream when it happened, and it wasn't I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: afraid of it. I just thought it was kind of
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  Speaker 1: weird that I couldn't yell. And when I yelled, that's
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  Speaker 1: when I and I heard the yelling clearly in my ears,
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  Speaker 1: like like I was yelling in my dream, but I
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  Speaker 1: heard it in reality. That was the weird part about it.
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  Speaker 1: Gor How was going on?
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  Speaker 2: Big?
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  Speaker 3: This is big?
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  Speaker 2: Ball was going on me?
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  Speaker 1: Boy?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to know what you're drinking, bro,
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  Speaker 2: I want some of that.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't drinking anything.
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  Speaker 2: Dude, because man, I swear we did the same thing
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  Speaker 2: at the bars.
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  Speaker 4: Nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't drinking nothing. It was weird, man, It was
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  Speaker 1: the weirdest thing. It was weird.
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  Speaker 2: Man, you have a hard weekend. What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Nothing? I don't know what about was honest with you,
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  Speaker 1: no idea.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't do them drinking.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, roam. You had sleep paralysis. I mean I've heard
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  Speaker 1: about it. You guys have talked about that before me
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  Speaker 1: back conversations about you know, having those having dreams where
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  Speaker 1: you can't move you got But I wasn't awake. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think it was a crazy little dream man.
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  Speaker 4: It was.
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  Speaker 1: It was interesting to to not be You know what
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  Speaker 1: was funny was it wasn't the not being able to
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  Speaker 1: move part that freaked me out. It was the and
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  Speaker 1: it didn't even freak me out. It was the not
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  Speaker 1: being able to yell. I was trying to say help
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  Speaker 1: and I went It was it was that part that
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  Speaker 1: was kind of like, what's going on here? And that
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  Speaker 1: was the weird part to me, not the part that
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't move. Was so talking in your sleep. We're
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  Speaker 1: getting to talking in your sleep here in just a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Because there was this story about this woman who beat
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  Speaker 1: up her girlfriend because she was talking in her sleep
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  Speaker 1: about her axe. But I had this weird dream where
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  Speaker 1: I was like, it was a crazy dream. It was
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  Speaker 1: like my grandmother was there and she was like a person.
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  Speaker 1: I could see her popping in and out of doors
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  Speaker 1: and whenever. And then like my grandfather was holding me down.
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  Speaker 1: But it wasn't my grandfather. It was just some sort
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  Speaker 1: of entity or something. And I was I wasn't scared.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't. There was just no no stress or fear
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  Speaker 1: or nothing. But what happened was I couldn't move at
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  Speaker 1: one point. Then I thought, you know what, let me
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  Speaker 1: call for help, just so someone will help me. And
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  Speaker 1: I kept saying but in my mind, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: say help, but I can only get oh oh. And
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  Speaker 1: but the weird part about it was I was doing
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  Speaker 1: it in my dream, but it was almost like I
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  Speaker 1: could hear it in reality through my you know, my ears,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, this is weird. And then I
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  Speaker 1: woke up and I was like, what was that all about?
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  Speaker 1: That was just weird? Good morning? How what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: What was up Romeo?
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  Speaker 1: This is greater day?
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  Speaker 6: What up right?
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  Speaker 1: Dad?
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  Speaker 5: Hey did I got a story about the sleeping.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, what's up.
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  Speaker 5: So over the weekend, you know, me and my girl
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  Speaker 5: were a party and just me and her drinking and
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  Speaker 5: I was throwing some more delos. In the next morning,
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  Speaker 5: the first thing she does was she wakes up. She doesn't, babe,
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  Speaker 5: give me some eyes. And I'm thinking the worst. I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: maybe she fell, Maybe I was.
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  Speaker 6: Too rough with her.
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  Speaker 7: And she's like, I said, why, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 4: What do you do?
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  Speaker 5: She says, I was beating some gass in my dream.
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  Speaker 5: She got me, she got me wrong. I was off concerned,
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  Speaker 5: and she's like I would in her her hand did
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  Speaker 5: look like it was red.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how to explain that went. I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: well here put it. Put it can.
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  Speaker 6: But I gave her some.
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  Speaker 5: Frozen stuff to put on her hands.
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  Speaker 1: That's weird.
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  Speaker 6: Well yeah, it was weird though.
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  Speaker 5: But she said she was fighting in her dream and
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  Speaker 5: she woke up in her.
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  Speaker 1: Nus A d typical Raider fan.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: So this whole sleep thing, right, I was screaming in
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  Speaker 1: my sleep or yelling in my sleep in my dream,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I was yelling outside. I think you
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  Speaker 1: could hear it. But my uh my, my chick didn't
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  Speaker 1: wake me up, didn't do nothing. So maybe I maybe
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  Speaker 1: I was just I don't know. It was weird. It
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  Speaker 1: was weird. I don't know, talking in your sleep. I
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  Speaker 1: remember the story of this girl got beat up or
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  Speaker 1: something for talking in her sleep about her ex or
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  Speaker 1: something like that. Talking in your sleep? Though, have you
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  Speaker 1: ever slept with somebody. I've been sleeping with somebody and
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  Speaker 1: they started making noises or talking in their sleep, and
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  Speaker 1: don't you wake them up? She isn't that the first
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  Speaker 1: thing you should do? I mean, what, what?
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  Speaker 7: What?
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  Speaker 1: What do you do? Already?
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  Speaker 4: Four?
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  Speaker 1: Two by four or seven and seven eight romeo? Happens
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  Speaker 1: to me all the time, so I'm used to it.
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  Speaker 1: I just turn around and go back to sleep. It's
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  Speaker 1: been happening since I was a teenager. While know what's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 8: Good morning, morning Romeo?
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  Speaker 4: Right around here?
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  Speaker 2: What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Red Rob?
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  Speaker 8: Hey man, that's the same thing I'd be going through.
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  Speaker 8: But the thing is, though, the only reason why that
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  Speaker 8: happens to be is because I'm you know, I'm focused
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  Speaker 8: on something, I'm doing it, and then when I go
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  Speaker 8: to bed, I try to shut everything down.
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  Speaker 5: And I can't happen.
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  Speaker 2: And I noticed too that when I overeat at night shees,
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  Speaker 2: I open up fours and pass all kinds of weird dreams.
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  Speaker 1: See. Now, I have heard of people having in anxiety
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  Speaker 1: when they overeat, but I've never yeah, I've never. And
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  Speaker 1: I've heard people say that they can't move in their dreams,
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  Speaker 1: or they can't move and they wake up and they
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  Speaker 1: can't move, but I've never had that happen before. It
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  Speaker 1: was just weird.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's happened to me a couple of times. And
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  Speaker 2: I remember the reasons for all that is because back
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  Speaker 2: then I was in a stressful relationship. You know, we
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  Speaker 2: was always punching each other in our sheep supposedly really Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it was crazy because we go to bed mad and
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  Speaker 2: then we just like we'd forget about everything, but in
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  Speaker 2: our minds we were still mad. So we I feel
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  Speaker 2: myself moving and jumping, jerking, getting choked and punched.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Ray, Rob, you Raider fans even fight in your sleep.
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  Speaker 2: I'm chelling. You don't fight everybody, it's not from access.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome. Had this crazy dream where like I was
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  Speaker 1: being held down and I was trying to scream for help.
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  Speaker 1: But I wasn't like kind of fear. It wasn't. It
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  Speaker 1: was just help, right, And it says coming out as helper,
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  Speaker 1: like huh huh. And but I could hear myself saying
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  Speaker 1: it in the dream, but then it felt like I
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  Speaker 1: was hearing it in reality, that makes any sense. And
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  Speaker 1: then I just woke up because I thought that was
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  Speaker 1: weird already four two, five, four or seven and seven?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on? Yeah, what's up, guy?
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  Speaker 9: I was telling you regards to your dreams.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's going on?
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  Speaker 9: So I was remembering that, Like, so a couple of
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  Speaker 9: years ago, lucaid, like ten years ago with me and
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  Speaker 9: my husband first you know, were together and we have
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  Speaker 9: moved in together. He would have those dreams a.
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  Speaker 10: Lot where like he will talk about that he couldn't
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  Speaker 10: like wake up, that he was like not moving.
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  Speaker 9: And it would happen all the time. And I remember
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  Speaker 9: taking a course on like the state of mind and
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  Speaker 9: like the subconscious and stuff like that, okay, and it
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  Speaker 9: talks about like when you're about to sleep, there's like
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  Speaker 9: different stages of how your like body and mind like
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  Speaker 9: shut off and stuffy, and it talks about like that
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  Speaker 9: when you're like when you're having all the stressful days,
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  Speaker 9: so there's like a lot going on. Your body is
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  Speaker 9: like physically tired, and but your mind is still going.
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  Speaker 10: So at some point when you're about to sleep, your
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  Speaker 10: body's out, but your mind is still going. So like
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  Speaker 10: we're like reality and like what's not real kind of
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  Speaker 10: get like into like you know they make and that's
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  Speaker 10: how people.
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  Speaker 9: Start getting those dreams. When my husband was having those dreams,
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  Speaker 9: he were he was working like a warehouse, did you
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  Speaker 9: know where. He was sad and he was always tired.
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  Speaker 9: So when he came home he would like knock out,
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  Speaker 9: but he would like his mind was so going because
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  Speaker 9: he had so much like things to do. And then
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  Speaker 9: the next day, and so I think I think that's
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  Speaker 9: what's going on. Like there's probably you know, like things
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  Speaker 9: going on the mind and then the body.
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  Speaker 1: Just like you know what, I'm just out, gotcha, that
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  Speaker 1: would make some sense. I was exhausted that also, so
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  Speaker 1: maybe you're right. You might be right about that. All right, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for calling.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, we'll have a good day too.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I was exhausted. Hey, Rome, sounds like you
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  Speaker 1: were getting a long time A long time come and
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  Speaker 1: ask whooping from your grandparents. No, my grandparents would have
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  Speaker 1: never whooped my ass. I was the best grandchild ever.
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  Speaker 1: They loved me to death. And when did you ask me?
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  Speaker 1: Or someone just text me a question? Good Bard to Romeo.
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  Speaker 1: I have a question. My girl and I've been together
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  Speaker 1: for thirteen years with kids, but not married yet. We're
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  Speaker 1: happy together, but people tell us we should not get
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  Speaker 1: married because it's bad luck. What's your thought on that.
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  Speaker 4: My thought on.
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  Speaker 1: Marriage has always been the same. I think marriage is great.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with marriage. I think
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  Speaker 1: there are people out there that want to be married.
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  Speaker 1: I think there are people out there that are miserable people,
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  Speaker 1: and instead of blaming themselves and their own attitudes, they
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  Speaker 1: blame marriage because it failed. But no, I think I
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  Speaker 1: think marriage is the ultimate way to show somebody that
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  Speaker 1: you want to be with them. I don't think you
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  Speaker 1: can go any further than marriage. Because you've committed, you
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  Speaker 1: put it on paper, you go through a ceremony, you
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  Speaker 1: do all of these things. That is the last step
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  Speaker 1: to showing somebody how much you really care and want
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  Speaker 1: to be with them. Okay, So I think anybody that
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  Speaker 1: says marriage sucks or is bad luck, it's they're just
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  Speaker 1: blaming marriage for their own inadequacies when it comes to relationships.
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  Speaker 1: Already four two to five four or seven, that's seven.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody texted me this a few minutes ago. Hey, good morning,
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  Speaker 1: rome I have a question. My girl and I've been
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  Speaker 1: together for thirteen years with kids, but not married. Yet
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  Speaker 1: we are happy together. People tell us we should not
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  Speaker 1: get married because it's bad luck. With your thoughts on that,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, I want to say I told you.
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  Speaker 1: My thoughts are. I think marriage there is not the
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  Speaker 1: wrong marriage. I think marriage shows an ultimate commitment to someone.
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  Speaker 1: And then you can't go any further. You're offering up
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  Speaker 1: well half your stuff for the most part, especially if
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  Speaker 1: you get married in California. You're willing to give up
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  Speaker 1: half your stuff for this person, right, So how do
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  Speaker 1: you commit anymore? Already four two five four seven seven?
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  Speaker 1: Who are the people, by the way, that are telling
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  Speaker 1: you that marriage is bad luck? What are what's their
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  Speaker 1: relationship status? The people that are telling you you guys
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't get married, what is their relationship status? Text me that? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Already four two five four seven seven eight Romeo for
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  Speaker 1: the guy talking about marriage, Marriage is just a piece
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  Speaker 1: of paper. You're completely wrong about it. No, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: completely wrong about it. I'm completely right about it. You
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  Speaker 1: could love somebody, you can move in with somebody, you
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  Speaker 1: could have kids with somebody, you could share bills with somebody.
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  Speaker 1: You can think of all the things you can do
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  Speaker 1: with somebody. The ultimate commitment is marrying somebody, putting it
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  Speaker 1: down in paper, doing it in front of your friends
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  Speaker 1: and family, putting rings on each other's fingers, or however.
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  Speaker 1: You you know, that's you can't commit anymore. So I've
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  Speaker 1: always said this marriage is the ultimate commitment. And if
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  Speaker 1: you for those of you that think marriage is wrong
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  Speaker 1: or bad luck or just a piece of paper, you idiots,
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  Speaker 1: are you know, just trying to blame the sanctity of
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  Speaker 1: marriage for your bad relationships? Hey, wrong question about marriage?
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  Speaker 1: I had for let's see, I had to file for
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  Speaker 1: bankruptcy about six years ago. If we get married, will
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  Speaker 1: that reflect on her as far as credit goes? No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know when I became an expert on marriage
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  Speaker 1: and credit, but I don't think it does. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it does already. Four two five, four
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  Speaker 1: seven seven. Yeah. Do you guys that think marriage is bad?
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  Speaker 1: Marriage is just a piece of paper. Marriages bad luck.
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  Speaker 1: You guys really need to get therapy and work on
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  Speaker 1: yourselves to be in better relationships. So a guy was
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  Speaker 1: asking me. Him and his girl have been together for
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  Speaker 1: thirteen years. Right, they have a couple of kids together.
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  Speaker 1: They're not married, but people are telling him they shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: get married because whoever these people are are telling him
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  Speaker 1: they shouldn't get married because it's bad luck. And I
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  Speaker 1: think that that's horrible advice, horrible advice. I think marriage
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  Speaker 1: is great. If you want to, you're going to commit
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  Speaker 1: to somebody, and that's the ultimate commitment. It just there's
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  Speaker 1: nothing more you can do. And then somebody asked me
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  Speaker 1: about tax purposes. I guess some guy fall bankruptcy if
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  Speaker 1: he gets married. Does that affect his wife? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it will. I don't know. A Rome,
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  Speaker 1: don't get married, it will hurt you when tax season
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  Speaker 1: comes around. How I don't know how that does. But okay, ay, Rom.
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  Speaker 1: I've been with my wife, unmarried, with two kids for
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  Speaker 1: twenty two years. My grandma and step grandpa were together
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  Speaker 1: unmarried for almost fifty years. Love my woman and would
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  Speaker 1: love to finally tie the knot all in due time.
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  Speaker 1: Angel from Tilarry. Yeah, that's not saying that people can't
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  Speaker 1: be together, you know, for however many years twenty two
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  Speaker 1: or fifty not married. I'm just saying that anybody who
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  Speaker 1: says marriage is bad luck or marriage is just a
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  Speaker 1: piece of paper as an idiot. And no marriage shows
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  Speaker 1: that you're ultimately committing to somebody. That's what it shows.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: You go up in front of your friends and family,
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: you sign a piece of paper. You got to give
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: up half your stuff if it don't work out. Sometimes
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: you give up more than that, But that just shows
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: how much you're willing to commit to another person. And
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that. Okay, and it's time. I'm
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: glad Angel wants to tie the knot. But yeah, anybody
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: who talks bad about marriage is a miserable person to
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: begin with. And marriage has nothing to do with your
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: life being terrible. Okay. The sanctity or institution of marriage
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: had nothing to do with your failed marriage. It had
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: everything to do with you. And if you can't see that,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: you're an idiot. You're probably not in a great relationship now.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Already four to VORs seven to seven. All right, we're
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: talking about marriage. A little bit, and the fact that
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: some guys said, he's been with this girl for thirteen years,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: a couple of kids, or they have kids. People are
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: telling them they shouldn't get married. It's bad luck, which
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: is just bad advice. Really is just bad advice. There's
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with marriage a rom At twenty one, a
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: lot of friends told us. Let's see, a lot of
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: friends told us not to get married. H whit is
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: this a different scenario? Okay? Hold on. At twenty one,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of friends told us not to get married
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: because we were too young and still in college. But
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: now those friends are divorced. We're a multiple baby daddies
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: while my husband and I fourteen years, no kids, making
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: good money, traveling and part arding together. So glad we
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: didn't listen to anyone. You should never listen to any
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: anyone that says this is bottom line. Anyone that ever
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: says marriage is bad is a miserable person and horrible
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: at relationships. Okay, marriage is not bad, especially if you
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: find the right person to be married to. Okay, is
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with marriage at all. It's just these people
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: who don't know how to be in relationships and always
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: screw them up. They have to blame somebody because they're
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: not gonna blame themselves, right, I mean, how many people
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: do you know walk around and go, you know what,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: my marriage was so messed up and it was all
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: my fault. All I did was this, this and this. No,
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: it's the idea of marriage. Once you sign that paper,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: it's oh it's over with. Yeah, No, that's not true.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: ALRIGHTY four two five four seven seven. Good morning, Romeo.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: It's Paulina. Hey, Pauline is back. How was your weekend?
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Mine was good. Paulina, I'm about this marriage thing.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: Come.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I mean from a woman, a marriage only benefits a woman,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: not men, because that women can wake up one day
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: and just leave. Living here in California, you already know
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: that women take advantage of that. Besides, what can a
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: man get from a marriage he can't can't get from
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: just having a girlfriend. I'm not saying not getting married,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: but married without married, without including the state. Because a
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: man has everything to lose in a marriage. He lives
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: his livelihood, kids, money, assets. Yeah, you're right about that,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: but that's why I say. That's why I say, Paulina,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: that marriage is the ultimate commitment because if you're willing
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: to put all that stuff on the line for somebody.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: You can't commit to somebody any more than that. So
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: that's why I say when people say marriage is, you
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: know what marriage is. Marriage is the ultimate commitment. But
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: she is right about that other stuff. The guy sent
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: me a text Messa that he's been with this girl
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: for thirteen years with kids. They're not married, but people
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: keep telling them they shouldn't get married because it's bad luck.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: It's not bad luck. Those people don't know what they're
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: talking about. Are only four two five, four seven to seven? Good?
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: What's going on? What's going on?
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: Man? And man?
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: All that talking about med man?
• 20:19
  Speaker 8: You know, I just wanted to say so, man.
• 20:21
  Speaker 7: You know I've been with my jil closer like about
• 20:25
  Speaker 7: eight years.
• 20:25
  Speaker 8: Man, And and then you just say this, man. I
• 20:29
  Speaker 8: know one day I'm gonna get mad man, But.
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: It's gonna be when the rock woman comes along.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: You know I been here eight years.
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: Man, It ain't man happening.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Alright? Hey, four two five, four seven to seven. Oh,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: this is the guy. He texted me again about the
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: third This guy started this thing thirteen years together, kids
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: not married. People are telling them marriage bad luck. He says,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: My two friends and brother in law. Oh my two friends. Oh,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I asked him. Who told him it was bad luck
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: his two friends brother in law because they told me
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: that they were happy before marriage, now they're now they divorced. Well, there,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: that relationship would have ended whether they got married or not.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know that, Okay. Anybody that
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: gets married and gets divorced and blames a marriage, it
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: was gonna it was gonna happen anyways. Marriage is not
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: the reason your relationship ended. You're just using that as
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: an excuse because you don't know how to be in
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: a good relationship already. Fourteen five four seven to seven.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: And if you're gonna listen to these clowns, I feel
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: bad for you because, well, I mean, and I'm not
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: saying you have to get married. I guess I shouldn't
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: say that. I'm not saying you have to get married.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is marriage is the ultimate commitment to someone.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: If you want to put a fine point a period
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: at the end of a relationship, get married, okay. And
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: if it falls apart, your relationship was gonna fall apart anyways.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Marriage had nothing to do with it, all right. So
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: a guy did text, and he was talking about how
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: he's been with his lady for a while, a couple
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: of kids, and everybody tells him not to get married.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: It's bad luck and you're just wrong. Marriage is not
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: bad luck, Okay, it really is. The marriage is just well,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: let me get to this text. Hold on a second, hey,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: rom Marriage is completely pointless. It doesn't benefit a guy
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: in any way, doesn't prove anything other than proof that
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: she's your property. Marriage is for possessive weirdos. Um No,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: it's not. Marriage is the last thing that you can
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: do as a per to show somebody you're gonna make
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: the ultimate sacrifice for them. It's not possession. What kind
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: of idiot are you? I mean, anybody that has anything
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: negative to say about marriage is just jaded because either
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: nobody wants to marry them or their marriage didn't work
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: out because they chose the wrong person. I mean, it happens. Okay,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: so you get jaded and then you tell everybody else
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: how you should never get married now and I don't
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: care if you get married or not. All I'm saying
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: is for someone to say marriage is bad luck or
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: marriage is pointless, that's just stupid. It's a commitment. It
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: shows you're committed to somebody on a level where you
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: have some skin in the game. You could sit there
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: and say, Romeo, well if you you could just stay
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: with somebody forever and that shows that you love them. Yeah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: but it does. But marriage shows that you actually have
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: skin in the game, that you've actually put something up
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and you've committed to somebody the ultimate commitment to them.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: That's all Marriage is, okay, and some people want that,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: some people don't. But for anyone to tell you that
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: it's pointless or it's bad luck, or don't ever do it,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: it's just a piece of paper. Those are all people
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: that nobody wanted to marry you. Or you've gone through
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: a bad marriage with the wrong person. But you can
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: also go through a bad relationship with the wrong person.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: How come And then you hear the people saying that, right,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: how many people do you go, I'll never you know,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: women sucker, men are terrible and blah blah blah. Yeah,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: you're mad because you've gone through bad relationships and you
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: haven't found the right person for you. So stop blaming
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: the relationship, Stop blaming the institution of marriage for your downfalls,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: for your mistakes. Already fourteen to five four or is
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: seven to seven.
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: It's a beautiful thing if you marry the right person.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you know, I don't.
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: Have no problem against marriage. And like you said, all
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: those people that are saying it's bad luck, they've just
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: been in toxic relationships. They haven't met somebody that they
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: can't live without.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Well, once you meet that person, okay, it.
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: Changes your perspective on everything.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Sure, I would agree with that.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna that that's ready. Days came put on this.
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: You know, it's not a bad thing, not for everybody,
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: but once you find it, it's like.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Well, relationships aren't for everybody either, if you're going to
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: look at that perspective. Also, a bad relationship is a
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: bad relationship just because you're you know, people still getting
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: bad relationships.
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, you got to be shuttled down and
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: you got to be ready to give up a lot
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: and sacrifice a lot. But it's good, it's worth it.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: See now I'm going to have to disagree with you
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: there too, just on that point. You don't have to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: give up a lot when you get married. If you're
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: with the right person and they you don't give up.
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: Anything marriage is about sacrifices. You know, you're gonna have
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: to give up those late night you know, drinking banjaes.
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: You're gonna have to give up those weekend vacation with
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: the guys. There's just things that you're gonna have to
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: give up.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, you really don't though. I mean, and that's
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: the thing about marriage. You want to blame marriage for
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: your relationship not working out, when the reality is it's you.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: You're the reason your relationship didn't work out. It wasn't marriage,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: it wasn't moving in together, it wasn't being exclusive to
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: each other. If your relationship doesn't work out, it's on you,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: not on whatever phase of the relationship you're in. You
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: don't blame You don't blame that. You don't just take
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: responsibility for your own bad relationships.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Hey, it was good morning, Romeo.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: How's it going.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: It's good. That's up.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Damn man. You want to call it and see that
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: those idiots are calling and said that marriage is not important. Yeah, hey,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: look I've been married for twenty one years. I got
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: married at eighteen years old, took my wife out of
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: the school and we went to bank yourself to get
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: married for a hundred bucks. We didn't have the money.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: Afterwards when we did our honeymoon, or we could call
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: it our honeymoon, we want to tuckle ball, and we
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: got a we got the family back. We didn't we
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: didn't have our marriage that I wanted to like, we
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: didn't have the money.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: We're dumb and young.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Right now, I'm driving my fifty year old of school
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: and we're hearing you.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Marriage is not just a paper, but does it.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: Does affect you in when you do a Texas and
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: will tear you up. Apart from that, you have whatever
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: you want, you have a woman.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: You get fat.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: We were early and get married.
• 27:56
  Speaker 7: So I've been married for twenty one years.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: Man for God bless every.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: That's great, that's great, all right, thanks, I'm a good
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: one hundred bucks and we went to Taco bell all
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: right before or seven and seven? Hey, Rome, if your
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: basic marriage off of money and tax issues, you've got
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: a problem. They've proven in each they've they've proven in
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: each other for thirteen years that they love each other
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: and if something was to happen to the other, she
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: or he will not have a right to their state
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: or their social security anything that they have. And if
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: they have an inheritance, the state will have the right
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: to your property. Oh very I guess you're right. There
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: are some positive implications as it can as it pertains
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: the money and marriage. I will tell you a crazy story.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: I know a couple that they ever really wanted to
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: get married or like, they wouldn't hurry to get married.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: They just together forever. Right, He had some medical issues
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: in the hospital. She tried to go back and see him,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: couldn't go see him. Guess what, they got married a
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: month later. I mean, there are some little things about
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: marriage if you look at it like that, like this
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: person just said. But I'm just saying. Anybody who says
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: marriage is negative has a negative attitude towards marriage. Either
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: nobody's ever wanted to marry you, or you've gone through
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a bad marriage. But that's not marriage's fault. Your bad
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: relationships are your own fault, Okay, not the institution of marriage.
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah, thirteen years you should have been married already. Sure
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: you got a thirteen year old too.
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: I mean, your children really appreciate you growing up, you know,
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: putting a ring on your wife and you know, having
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: a mom and dad they could count on.
• 29:56
  Speaker 7: Never beat that.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: That's never that's the one thing. You're right, that's one
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: thing that people don't think about them what it shows
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: to their children.
• 30:04
  Speaker 6: Yeah, well, it's just like it's just about most people
• 30:09
  Speaker 6: right now. It's about their world, not they don't even
• 30:12
  Speaker 6: think about their children. There's there's girls having kids because
• 30:15
  Speaker 6: they're lonely. I mean, I'm like, what, Yeah, they don't
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: even know the dad. They're just like I was lonely, and.
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I want I'm just like I work with these
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: kids that they're like.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I had never heard that before.
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: And they don't have no clue about you know, because
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: I was raising a broken home, so they don't know
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: like the damage they're going to go through, like, yeah,
• 30:45
  Speaker 6: what's my dad? Who's my dad?
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: Where is he at?
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: What?
• 30:49
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 30:49
  Speaker 6: And then there the mom's gonna usually just say bad things.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah it's yeah, thirteen years Broyeh.
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: It's time to get there. Put a ring on that
• 31:02
  Speaker 5: poor girl.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: You're not wrong. There's a lot. Marriage is a lot
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: more than there's a piece of paper. And there are
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: some negative aspects of marriage, absolutely, but there's more positive
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: than negative. And what it ultimately comes down to is
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: you have you'll have no negative if you choose the
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: right person to marry. So if you make a bad decision,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: of course you're gonna have a Your marriage isn't gonna
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: work out. Oh, this is a person who said marriage
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: is pointless. Any man that puts all it puts it
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: all on the line for the ultimate commitment is an idiot.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: And you know it's true. That's why you won't read
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: my text on the air. I just read your text
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: on the air, and I called you a moron for
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: saying that marriage is completely pointless. So what are you
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: talking about. You're the moron here. I mean, you're the idiot.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: You're the one that sounds like a dumbass. You sound
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: like you sound like nobody wants you. That's what you
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: sound like. If somebody wants you, then and yeah, they'll
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: marry you. If you're so jaded by marriage, why are
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: you that jaded? That's the point now already four two
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: five four seven to seven Rome. Marriage isn't bad luck,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: but marrying someone from Bakersfield is. If you want a
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: good partner, then hasn't been passed around town. Look somewhere
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: else nice. Sure, I'm sure the women of Bakersfield they're
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: gonna love that comment already four two, five, four or
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: seven to seven your rome Hey, you're right. Marriage is
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: not just a piece of paper. It's an entrapment. I
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: oughta know. I've been married for twenty seven years. Oh
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: and by the way, I have not been divorced. But
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: when she does threaten you with it, she gonna take
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: you for more than half. There's a word called alimony.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: I said up before, and I'll say it again. Get
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: get you a little bow. Wow, it's all you need. Okay,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know about that. Marriage is not the reason. Okay,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: it's you married the wrong person. Okay, you stop blaming
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: marriage for your faults in choosing who you're gonna get with. Okay,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: take some accountability. Already four teobot four or seven to
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: seven year rome Romeo. Marriage is beautiful? But how but
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: how it has? It's good? It has it's bad. I
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: only think that anything that changes when you're dating. Sex
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: is there all the time. As time goes it dies out.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: But most likely because now there's kids involved, mortgages, et cetera.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying you, whether you get married
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: or not, you know, sex is gonna die down. Marriage
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: is not the reason you don't have sex every night.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of other reasons. So take some accounity.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: You guys got to start taking accountability for your relationships.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, let's really be honest about it. How many
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: how many of you can honestly say you had no
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: idea who that person was that you married, you knew?
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think there's a very small
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: percentage of people that can go, you know, the person
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: I married is not who I thought they were. You know,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: you're just blinded by whatever you're blinded by. You know,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: you're blinded by love, You're blinded by the newness, you're
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: blinded by I mean, we all get blinded by stupidity
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: when we meet somebody new and it's exciting and it's fresh,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: and it's all that, and then a few years down
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: the road or ten years down the road, it's not
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: what you thought it was going to be, or it's
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: not the same as it was. You knew. You know
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: who you're marrying, you know who you're dating. You know,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I think most people are they just blame the fact
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that they just because it doesn't work out, they can't
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: take accountability for their actions, so they just blame the
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: other person and say it's all their fault. But you
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: have to take some accountability, I believe, for who you're dating.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: If you don't know who they are, then yeah, you're
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: not paying attention. I believe. I don't believe there are
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that wake up one day and realize,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: you know, they're married to an ex murderer. What was that?
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: There was some isn't there some show going around or
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: some article going around about some lady who's married to
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: an exberterer? You know, right? I mean, I just don't
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: think that. I just I just don't think that the
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: majority that most people wake up and go, oh my god,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I can't believe that this person was this person this
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: whole time, whatever that be, whatever that is you know
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: already four two five, four seven to seven. Hey, Rome,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I was listening to you earlier talking about taking accountability
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: for your relationship. But how can you do that when
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: people change? I got into a relationship with a guy
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: who was a totally different person by the time we
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: got married. He changed his whole attitude, he changed his
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: work ethic. It seemed like after we got married he
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: was just a different person. How am I supposed to
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: be accountable when I thought I was marrying one person
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: and he changed. Yeah, I understand what you're saying. I
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: just don't think that happens as much as you think
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: it does. You know, you have you know, I think
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: you just know people are gonna be a certain way,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: and when you look at it in retrospect, you go, oh,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: those were the signs. Oh that's why he was like that. Oh,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: this is where the red flags were. You just don't
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: see them because you're not looking for them. You know,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: you're going in, you're ready for the real relationship, and
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: you're not paying attention to some of the negative things
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: that could happen long term. That's what I mean by that.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I don't mean that you and some of you you
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: cause the person to change and won't take accountability for that.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: But I just don't think you wake up one day
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: and go, I had no idea this person was like this. Okay.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: They tend to have, you know, tendencies throughout the relationship.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: You just don't pay attention to them. That is partly
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: on you. You gotta pay attention to who you're gonna
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: be with and take some accountability for it. Now, of course,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: there are some people there are a percentage of you
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: out there that'll say, Romeo, I never saw those You
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: married a psychopath and you just never knew because psychopaths
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: are good at hiding who they really are. Con arners,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: they're good or hiding who they really are. But I
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: just don't think that happens the majority of the time.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: I think it's a small percentage. This is funny. This
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: cracks me up because I love this place. I don't know,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know who this guy is, but uh, raider
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Rob sent me something, and you have to tell me
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: who this guy is.
• 38:15
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: I guess you guys know touris catering, right, it was
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: that I've been telling you about tourist catering and the
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: best chiliverde in town for twenty plus years, if not longer, Yeah,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: twenty plus years. First they're at home Depot. Now they're
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: out in front of Loose and I'm getting they're getting
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: a lot of publicity. I guess now because people are
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: going there. These influencers that are on these youtubes and
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: and and reels are are doing are going out there,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: and they're getting a lot of getting a lot of
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of customers they're getting a
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: lot of publicity, which is great because they've been great forever.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: They're never just think it's funny. Oh and this is
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: You're not the first one Rader Rob that send me something,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: but people have been sending me these things saying, well,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Taurus Case, I said, yeah, I've been telling you got
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: it for over twenty years. I've been telling you guys
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: to go there. It's hilarious, but it's great.
• 39:07
  Speaker 5: They're great Romo.
• 39:08
  Speaker 7: I used to go up there and see him in
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: front of the home people on Goesdale, Yeah where he
• 39:13
  Speaker 7: used to be. Yeah, real good breakfast burritos. And for
• 39:17
  Speaker 7: a long time I've been trying to get him to
• 39:19
  Speaker 7: give me his recipe, come on to share it with me,
• 39:25
  Speaker 7: And Nope, Nope, you won't do it because everybody has
• 39:27
  Speaker 7: that one dish that they could throw down on and
• 39:30
  Speaker 7: they probably tell themselves.
• 39:32
  Speaker 5: I could tell this, people would buy this.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: You know there are Yeah, you're right. He does have
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: the best chili verde in town. And now apparently he
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: puts it in a potato and everybody loves it. And now.
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: For the I didn't care for the baked potato, but
• 39:49
  Speaker 7: I do like the breakfast burritos, the chili verde. There's
• 39:51
  Speaker 7: something about it. He has it down to the tea
• 39:54
  Speaker 7: where you know, it doesn't get no better than that,
• 39:56
  Speaker 7: So I agree.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he told me he's going to put the recipe
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: on his headstone when he died.
• 40:00
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to trying to get it from Just write
• 40:05
  Speaker 5: it down from me, and you won't do it.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: That's funny. Get out of here there. Yeah, it's funny
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: because you guys have been sending me a lot of videos.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: I guess there's influencers who on YouTube and out on
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: reels or TikTok or whatever they're they're going to tourist catering.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: So tourist catering is getting some good publicity, which I've
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: been telling you about them for twenty plus years, how
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: great they are. So good for them though, were a
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: four five, four seven to seven yo Roam. I saw
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: the video you're talking about about the catering truck. We
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: went and tried it out. It was pretty good. Actually,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: who do you follow on YouTube? I don't follow anybody
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: on YouTube, or you know, there's a couple of things
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I look at online A couple of uh I do
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I don't follow anybody but I do watch a couple
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: of videos, like I watched these golf videos. I think
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: there's some uh some of these uh what do they
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: call them? Content creators or whatever they are that do
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: golf YouTube golfers, that's what they call them. So I
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: watch a couple of them because I think they're funny.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: And I'm a big golf so I like playing golf,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: and I you know, so I'm a big golfer, so
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I like watching them. I think I don't follow anybody,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: but I do like to see. There's this uh videos
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: I watch about some dude who found a goat and
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: now he makes these videos about him and his goat.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: There's some lady who has like nine weenie dogs or
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: ten weenie dogs and a big old, you know, marmaduke
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: looking dog. I watch those videos because those cracked me up.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: But I don't really pay two close attention. I don't
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: follow anybody, but I don't really I don't know. I
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: do watch reels, but I don't really watch, you know,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: I don't really know on YouTube. I only watched the golfers,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: which they cracked me up. Sometimes they look like they're
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: having a great time. Yeah, I don't know. I've seen
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: a couple of videos around Bakersfield where some people have
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: talked bad about some restaurants that are not bad, they're wrong.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: So I don't know who to follow them. I don't
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: know how to It's like anything else, you got to
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: go try it yourself. So it is what it is. Hey,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: go on in Rome, headbutt Raider checking in. You don't
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: have to talk about this today, but I'm about to
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: turn forty five. Lately, I can't sleep when I do,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: I have absolute I have absolute nightmares. Last night I
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: felt myself come out of my body. I could see
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: myself asleep. I only got about three hours of sleep
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: a night. Been like this for several months. You think
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: it's my age or something else. It's been sober for
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: about three months now. Also, uh, probably so probably the soberness.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: But no, it's not your age. I mean, it could
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: be stressed, could be one hundred different things, but now
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: it's not. I would say it's not your age. Okay,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: unless you're stressed out about being forty five. He coming
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: to Rome. You should watch YouTube videos about golfers breaking
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: their clubs. It would, uh, it would gonna give you
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: a better reason to laugh. Last week when you broke yours. Yeah,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I know. I got my club fig by the way,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I got my club fixed, like all one of my deals.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: And he just went and took one of the clubs
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: out of his bag and cut it off and fixed mine.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: It was awesome. So we're back in business already. Four
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: two by four or seven to seven.
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: Ah.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Back to head butt Rader, No, I don't think. I
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: think if you got stress, head butt Rader, you got
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: some stress going on. I mean, you're anxious about something.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of reasons why you could have bad
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: dreams and not sleep. But and depending on what the
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: dream is actually about, could be the reason your stress.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: What'd you say you had a dream about out of
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: your body? What happens when you have a dream when
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: you dream that you're out of your body? That is
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: a very good question. Uh, what happens when you have
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: a dream that you're out of your body watching yourself sleep?
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: You know what we do? We go to AI and
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: see what they say about it. They say, hold on
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: floating outside your body and watching yourself sleep. Out of
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: body experience scientifically often stems from sleep paralysis or I
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: don't even know what that is. Yeah, I don't know
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: already four two, five, four seven seven, Hey Roam, when
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: you're talking about food, did you ever go try that
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: seafood boil out on Taft Highway. I actually did not
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: go try that one, but I did go to the
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: one down by what's the Maya Cinema, the one down
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: there by Maya Maya by the Maya, which was pretty
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: The food was pretty damn good. Yeah, so that was
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: a good one. But no, we'll get out. I'll get
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: out to the one at Tapped. I just I just
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: didn't get out to that one. I'll get out that,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: get out to that one.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: Though.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: I hear it's great, but I'll check it out.
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: Bromo, I think headbut Raider, it's all the crack just
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: leaving the system is.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Maybe okay, I mean.
• 45:09
  Speaker 5: Three months long enough he's gonna have to wait.
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Maybe here.
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: Well, it ain't got nothing to do with stress.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: I don't think no deal.
• 45:17
  Speaker 5: He's living with somebody, he ain't got no responsibility, and
• 45:20
  Speaker 5: he's tressing on nothing.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: Well, I think he's probably stressed about something. Everybody's stressed
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: about something, aren't they.
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: But we got two choices. We can do something about it.
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: That we could sit around and stress.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Well, some things are gonna stress about regardless, you know,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: especially for those of you that have kids, they're gonna
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: stress you out regardless. There's nothing you can do about that.
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: Say no the drugs, headbun Raiders, that's all I gotta say.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: All right, get out of here already four to seven
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: seven headbout Raider says he's turning forty five and he
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: can't sleep. He's only sleeping about three hours a night.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: So that's all I sleep. I only sleep about three
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: to four hours a night. So I don't think there's
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: anything wrong with it. Headbut Rader, I think you just
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: it's not your age. You just might be You know
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: what you got going on? How busy is your house?
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: You got dogs, you got cats, you got kids, You
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: got stresses on your mind. Everybody's got stresses, right, probably
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: just a little stressed about something. This has been going
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: on for about three months. I've been bad dreams. Right,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: you probably got some stress going on. I was gonna
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: talk a little bit about doing home renovations. You know,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: everybody thinks they can do it themselves. You know these
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: you watch these shows. But it got me to thinking
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: about some other stuff going on with YouTube and Instagram
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: and TikTok and the things that you see on there
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: to do to do it yourself.
• 46:38
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I was watching a couple of shows yesterday on HDTV,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: h g TV. Yeah that what was it? A renovation Aloha?
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: I was watching that or and I was, you know,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: you like to see people fix stuff because everybody wants
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: to do stuff around their house. Yeah, you know, update
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: things make it look better, and they make it look
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: so oh easy. I mean you go to TikTok or
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: you go to Instagram or YouTube, and they make it
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: look so easy for you, but it's not. He's still
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: got to have some capabilities of doing it. Like I'm
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: pretty capable of fixing things. I grew up poor. When
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: you grow up poor, you you have to learn to
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: fix things yourself when they break. And so we did,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: you know. And one of the things that was funny
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: was one of my neighbors he was having an issue
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: with his truck. So I walked over there and I said,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: what's going on? Because I was helping him out a
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: little bit. He just couldn't figure it out, so I
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: thought it'd help him out. Right, And this is what
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: made me think of YouTube, is what made me think
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: not just talking about home renovations is YouTube has ai YouTube?
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: They've kind of changed the game, or have they? You know?
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: I one time, I don't know if you guys know
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: what a stringer is. A stringer for stairs. I redid
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: my stairs, so I had to make a stringer to
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: go along the wall. I think it's called a stringer.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I messed it up three times, even watching a YouTube video.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: I messed it up three times before I figured out
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: what I was doing wrong. Right, And they're long boards.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: They're sixteen foot boards or whatever they were might have
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: been ten foot or something boards, right. So, but there's
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: also been times where I've looked at something how to
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: cut you know, I had to cut a granite countertop,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: had to cut some notches in it, right, because I
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: redid it some stuff, and I just went to YouTube
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: showed me how to do it. But they make it
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: look so easy, and sometimes you mess it up. But
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: my question, I guess for you guys out there, I
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: mean you guys that are do that, you plumbers, you
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: guys that do hvac, you guys that do electrical, you
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: guys that do work on cars, I mean, there's has
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: your business changed because of AI. Are you guys you contractors?
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: You know, one time I fixed I went to YouTube
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: because my AC wasn't working properly. I went to YouTube.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: It showed me there was some exhaust pipe or some
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: outlet that was probably clogged up, and I unclogged it
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: started working. Took me twenty minutes to do it. So
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just you know, but then again, there's all the
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: stories of it going wrong. Right you try to fix something,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: you guys have tried to you know, I learned a
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: tile by I followed taking the home depot class. I
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: didn't learn through YouTube. But now I just wonder, man,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I wonder how much life has changed for people, especially
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: people that don't businesses, that you can go to YouTube
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: and figure out how to do it. I just wonder
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: already four two, five, four seven at seven. So you
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: ever try to work on something that's where this whole
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: thing started. You ever try to work on something in
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: your house and it went wrong. They say that the
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: one of the biggest causes for fighting and divorce is
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: home improvements. Oh my god, Seahawk Lou's still talking about
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: last week. He said, uh, he said, hey, roam this
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Seahawk Lou headbutt raider needs to eat like a rack
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: of ribs if he really wants to go to sleep.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: For some reason, when I eat barbecue ribs, always go
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: to sleep. Uh, tell him to give it a shot.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: And then he sent me a video of his ribs.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Let me look at this video real quick and see
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: if those ribs look good or not. They look overcooked, Yeah,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Seahawk c Lou's ribs looked over cooked all right before two, five, four,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Yeah, they look over cooked. But that's
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: all right. Hey Romeo, Uh what did it say? Would
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: you send me here top for seven? Seven?
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: Hey?
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Rome that was your condensation line? Just blow it out
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: and you're good to go? Good you bro? Oh yeah right,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: it's exactly what it was. My condensation line was plugged
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: up on my But I just went to YouTube and
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: YouTube showed me exactly how to fix it and what
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: to look for. But it's I always wonder, man, with
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: this AI, you know, and with YouTube and Instagram, people,
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: are I think able to do a lot more of these?
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Like I had this condenser? Was it a condenser?
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: No?
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: Years ago? I had this Oh what's it going?
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: What was it?
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Let me think about it? I had it with my
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: a my air conditioner a capacitor, right, they would have
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: charged me four hundred bucks. I went online. They said
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: it was a capacitor at three wires and the capacitor
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: was only eight bucks. And I fixed it myself. I
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: was just kind of curious about some of the things
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: at what a rate of rob sam here, Yeah, your
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: startup capacitor exactly what it was, and it was my
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: fan wasn't kicking on, so I YouTube did and they
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: said try to spin it yourself. So I spun up
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: myself and clicked on and was a capascador, wasn't jumping
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: the motor and literally three hundred and fifty dollars is
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: what they wanted to charge me to come just look
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: at it and see what was that. I called my
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: buddy went on YouTube and say it says it's this.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: Eight bucks was what it cost me, and it was
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: like three wires or something. I don't even remember how
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: many wires it was. It was kind of funny though that,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: but it does make me wonder with YouTube and with
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: all these Instagram with AI, especially how many people are
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: doing things themselves now, you know, and what have you
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: used it for to fix? Already? Fourteen five four or
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Roam, I have a brother who's
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: a plumber down south and I needed some I had
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: some issues underneath the sync. I just video chatted him.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Oh you FaceTime him. You just face time him, and
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: he helped me fix it exactly. It's incredible the things
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: that people can do right now. Right It's just it's
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: it's crazy, man, already fourteen five four seven the seven
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: life has totally changed from when you got to work
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: on your house. Maybe you gotta work on a car,
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: maybe you got to work on something. And it's amazing
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: what AI does. And you can go to a YouTube
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: video and see it already four two five four seven
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: to seven year rom I just want to let you
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: know I am in the service industry, and you are
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: right to some extent. But what happens is you still
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: have to be mechanically inclined to even follow the video.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: A lot of these kids today don't know how to
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: change a light bulb, let alone change a starter. Okay,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: I don't even think I could change the starter, to
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: be honest with you, Hey, rom My garage door opener
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: went out and had already bought a new one, so
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: I called for a professional just to install it, and
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: they were going to charge me for bucks. So I
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: chat GPT it and I installed it easily. See that's
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: the thing. I wonder how much business these guys are
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: losing nowadays because of AI or because of YouTube. That's insane.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: The world is changing, especially with AI, right AI. You
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: can google AI how to fix anything, you can you
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: can YouTube anything to fix anything, how to build something.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's just incredible. Everything you can find nowadays.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: You don't have to go actually go out and hire
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: somebody to do it, which is I wonder if it's changed,
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: how much that's changed? All right, Hey Roam tell Seahawk Lou,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I'm on a strict star or a strict diet, but
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: on your subject on YouTube Rome YouTube University. I changed
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: my starter in a parking lot at the beach after
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: watching how to do it on YouTube. We were three
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: hours from home. I didn't want to pay a toe
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: for that distance and didn't trust LA mechanics, so I
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: YouTube did and did it myself. I mean, crazy, right,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: It's insane the things that you can learn how to
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: do now that you would actually have to call an
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: expert for. I don't I don't know how much that's
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: changing already. Four two five, four or seven to seven.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: What do you use YouTube for? What do you use
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: AI for? When it comes to like a home improvement
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: or maybe it comes to a to a car or something.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I fixed a computer app the other day.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: It wasn't working here by AI. Hey Rome, I just
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: came back from Europe for two weeks. Uh oh, from
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: Europe for two weeks, and I used AI to plan
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: my entire trip while over there. I used AI to
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: tell me which subway trains to take. It was very
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: accurate and made my trip a whole lot easier. It
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: knew exactly where I was coming from and what hotel
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: hell I was staying at. I mean, it's kind of wild,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: right if you really think about it. AI can literally
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: fix anything, can tell you what to do. What did
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: I do the other day? Yes, oh, I was having
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: problem with my stream my TV and I just stuck
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: it into AI this is not working and gave me
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: a step by step instructions on what to do, different
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: steps to take to fix it. It's it's insane already
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: four two five, four, seven to seven yo roam. Yeah,
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: I'm really motivated to work on my truck. That's why
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: it's still parked. But when someone shows up with money,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: I'll jump right in it and get their money. Maybe
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: I should, uh, but I don't even know what you're
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: talking about. But yeah, it's insane, right, I mean, I
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: wonder how much business some of these service industries, some
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: of these service guys are losing because of AI, or
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: because of YouTube or because of Netflix. I mean on Netflix,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: because of you know, pick your social media where you
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: can watch how to do something? You know, It's it's insane.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, what do you use it for? What have
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: you done around the house? What have you Uh? I
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: used chat to write up my paperwork. I was just
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: talking to a guy the other day that was telling
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: me he uses some something to make his emails look
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: good or something. It's crazy. Yeah, but what do you
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: use it for? What have you used it for?
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: Hey?
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: You have and cheese fan? Did the guy that went
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: to Europe? Did you go with his AI girlfriend? As
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: well as coal? Right there? That is straight cold all right?
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: A foros you bought for seven to seven. It's just
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: it's a game changer, man. I Mean, everybody's all scared
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: about AI taking over the world. And you know, but
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: think about what it's doing right now. You can fix anything.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: You can literally whatever is wrong with you if you
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: can figure out how to type it into AI. It'll
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: tell you step by step instructions what to check, how
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: to do it. You know, look at you know, you
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: know I I you look at some of the things
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: like tiling, or putting baseboards in, or putting floorine or
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: crown molding, or all the things that you want to
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: do to your house, putting in a new sync. I mean,
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: you can watch a video on how to do it.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: It's just life's different, man, it's wild as already four two, five, four,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Your room you had a TV problem?
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: You could have called me. I can't afford you, Paul.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: That's why I had to go AI. AI's free. Let's
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: see room. Whatuld Paul say? I haven't been losing any
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: business because of it. People will still need help purchasing
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: stuff and installing it because AI can't lift the TV
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: and put it on your wall and they can't run
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: it in your attic. So we've been okay, Yeah, Paul's
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: my video. He's a what is it? PS audio? Paul
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: does video and cameras and all that nonsense. But yeah,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: you can't. You're right about that. But I mean, if
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: you could do it yourself, right, you have the capabilities
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: of doing it because AI will tell you exactly how
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: to do it, or YouTube video will tell you exactly
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: how to do it. It's insanity, you know, roam because
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: the YouTube. I've already laid concrete on my RV parking,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: installed a car lift in my backyard, pulled carpet and
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: laid tile, painted in my house, built RV gate. I'm
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: damn near just opening my own business. It ain't easy work,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: but it ain't impossible. I agree with you. I learned
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: how to do a lot of things, you know, But
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: I learned to do a lot of things before AI.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: You know, all the stuff that you've done, I've done
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: before without AI. But that's because I knew people that
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: did it. But you're right, AI just makes it that
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: much easier. It's crazy. Keep in mind, I did this
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: under fifteen K. The quote for just tying my house
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: was twelve point five alone, twelve fifty square foot home.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: You know what's funny is I learned a tile. I
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: learned a tile from home depot And I don't know
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: if they still do it, but they used to have
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: a Saturday class every other Saturday or something. They used
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: to have classes home deeopo and Low's used to have classes.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: That's how I learned a tile. I learned to lay
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: wood floors like that. Yeah, but now you go to
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: AI and Instagram and YouTube. It's great.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: What's a wrong?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 5: Seaholu?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 8: I got some for you, man?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: What's s what's that?
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: For my birthday? I got some meta aiyeglasses and I
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 4: went in Yeah, I went into AI mode and you ask.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 5: You, hey, how do I fix my AC?
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: And it's looking at what you're looking at and it'll
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: be like, oh check this, oh check that?
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 6: Are you serious?
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: I swear, Oh my god, that sounds amazing.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really cool, like it does a lot. So anyways,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: I was like looking at it and I fixed my AC.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: It was a capacitor and I was like, damn, these
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: things are expensive.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: Well how came you kept wear them when you're burning
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: your meat on the grill?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: Ah, it doesn't help me with that. Man.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: All this happened a couple of weeks ago, and I
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask you about it because I, uh, how
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: do you handle it a lot of people. I mean
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: a lot of people. And I met a lot of
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: people over the years in Baker's Field, and I don't
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: remember them all. And some people get mad at me
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: when I don't remember him. But I meet a whole
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: bunch of people, and you meet me, So I'm rememberable.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: I'm the guy on the radio. I'm rememberable when I
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: meet you. It's not that I don't want to remember you.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: It's just I meet you know, a hundred people like you.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: So the other day, a friend of mine is funny.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: We're talking about service industry. A friend of mine, she says,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: she needs an electrician, right, and I have an electrician.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: I know my boy Art, but I can I don't
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: have his phone number, right, So I'm thinking, oh, I
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: know Art, but I don't know arts phone number. So
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: I call a couple other guys. Hey, you know Arts
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: phone number. Nobody knows Art phone number. So I go
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: on my phone and I just type in you know
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: you go to the search for your phone book and
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: I type an electrician. Guy comes up and I just
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: text him said, oh, I'm sorry, I don't remember how
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: how do we know each other? I apologize for not
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: remembering but electrician and it was kind of urgent. So
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: what he just text me back, this is how we
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: know each other. I went, oh, yeah, okay, and then
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: all came back to me. Right, no big deal. But
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: people will get mad when you don't remember them. How
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: do you handle that? What do you do when you
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: don't remember somebody? I mean, how do you handle that situation?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: I thought I handled it?
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 4: And the.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: Guy I'm talking about was great, helped out. My friend
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: did a great job, just great, no, very nice, very
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: understanding that I, you know, didn't remember him. But like
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: I said, what do you do when you run into
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: people that you don't remember?
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 4: What do you do?
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: How do you handle that? Some people get offended that
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: you don't remember them. I think a lot of people
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: don't care, you know. I've had people actually walk up
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: to me and their first words out of their mouth
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: were you don't remember remember me?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: Do you?
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: And I'll be like, well, no, I don't know, remind
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: me and then everything goes great, But some people get upset.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: What do you guys do? How do you handle it
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: when you don't remember somebody? What do you do?
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 4: All? Right? E?
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: Four? Two, five four or seven? Seven? Hey? Romeo? I
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: gotta tell you a funny story. It's not about not
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: remembering somebody, but it's about not seeing somebody. The other day,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: me and my girlfriends we went out to lunch. Well,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: my husband walked in and he didn't say anything to me.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: So I got upset. I texted him. I called him,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: what in the heck where are you at? What are
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: you doing? Why didn't you say hi to me? Well,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: you didn't see me. So I got upset, not because
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: he didn't remember me, but because he didn't see me
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: when he walked into the restaurant. Now, to be fair,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: we were at a big restaurant, so it was a
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: big oh okay, yeah, I had that happen. I had that.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: I actually had that happen over the weekend. I went
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: to our before the weekend last week, I was I
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: went out to a restaurant packed everywhere. I walked by
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: a guy who I'd known for twenty years, and I
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: just didn't see him. It wasn't he got a little
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: upset at me. I already poured two five, four, seven
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: to seven eight. If and chiefs fan, if I see
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: you in the streets room, I say hi, that's uh
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: that the oh the f and chief fan guy. I
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: would say hi to everybody, but I don't remember everybody.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: I've met so many people over my life over the
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: last thirty years in Bakersfield on the show, off the
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: show that I just I don't remember everybody. I have
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: a terrible memory. I already poured two five fours seven
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: to seven, and some people get mad. They actually get mad.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, for my buddy that I
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: ran into last week, and he said, why didn't I
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: say hi? Why didn't you say hi to me? Then
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: if you saw me? Because I didn't see you, So
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: why didn't you say hi to me?
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 5: Roam oh, lou go to work?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: God damn, get a job. What that?
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: That's why I'm calling.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: If your guys at goes out, give me a call.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: I have the AI glasses to fix it.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: That's how you beat the heat.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 5: Her chief too.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: All right, let me ask you a question. You use
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: these AI glasses to look at what exactly went out
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: on your AC unit that it told you how to
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: fix it.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: I was just telling it what's wrong with it, and
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: they're like, oh, check this, And I'm like where's that at?
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 4: They're like, oh, it should be right here.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: Open up this box.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 5: They like tell me exactly what to do.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: And where was what was the box? The fan outside
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: or the ac oh, I don't know, the A C
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: and the in the what.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: The A C is actually on the floor so it
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 4: was easy to access. And they told me just to
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 4: take off the little box on the side.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you see's on the floor. Are you talking about
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: outside or inside the house? Outside the house fan, not
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: the air conditioning unit? Yeah, okay, all right.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 4: Just hey, I got it fixed, and I got others
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 4: fixed with my glasses, so.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to get a job, you know what I mean, right.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: Busy?
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Oh see hw glu Oh. He's such a lovable idiot.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do with him.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 8: Throw me over the morning every morning morning four one