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How to Manifest Your Dream Life: The Purpose Purge Method · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  If you feel really stuck in life but at the same time feel like
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  change is about to come, a big change, then this video is for
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  you. It will come to you when you're
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  so close to your breakthrough. You want to achieve your dream
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  life. You have taken steps towards it,
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  but you're not quite there yet and you're getting tired, You've
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  lost motivation, you're questioning yourself.
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  Part of you wants to give up, but another part knows that
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  you're close. And today I wanted to share a
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  transmission on how you go from where you are, feeling stuck but
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  being pretty close to taking that leap into your dream life,
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  into your abundance. Favorite career, best
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  relationship, whatever it is that vision is for you, your
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  dream life. Step one.
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  And this is so important. I talk a lot about this on my
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  channel. And that is that to achieve your
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  dream life, you need to declutter.
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  What you release makes room for what you desire.
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  Breakthroughs require space. So before something new enters
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  your life, clarity, purpose, aligned income, a relationship,
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  there is usually a stripping away.
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  So old identities loosen, certain friendships shift.
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  Old habits might feel heavy. For example, if you're addicted
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  to video games or scrolling on social media, drinking a bit too
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  much alcohol. The first thing that will happen
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  is that you will start to become more aware of them so that you
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  can let go of them. Anything that doesn't serve your
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  highest self. And I've noticed for a lot of my
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  friends, this is happening when it comes to their career, that
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  they have stuck with a career for a long time.
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  It's felt comfortable. It's what they studied for.
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  But now it's becoming really apparent to them that they can't
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  stay. It's not fulfilling them.
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  You basically start to feel really tired of your old life
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  and anything that doesn't serve your soul.
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  And it's a scary place to be for the ego because it like they're
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  familiar. And this is where many people
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  take two steps back and they go back to their old identities,
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  their old habits. But your soul will keep
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  screaming at you to make space. So really listen and journal
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  about what your soul wants. What is it trying to let go of
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  that only the ego liked before. In fact comment right now I
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  honor my soul. And when you start taking soul
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  aligned action in your life, it's going to change so quickly.
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  I remember 7 years ago when I was talking to my psychic and I
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  really wanted to manifest the love of my life and she said it
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  is destined, it will happen but you're just not at your core
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  frequency and your life is going to change so much.
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  The way you dress, your work, even your diet.
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  And I didn't believe it at the time, but it is all done like a
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  complete transformation. Like my life is so different
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  now. So I needed to come into soul
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  alignment before I could manifest my dream partner.
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  And as you might know if you've been following me for a long
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  time or if you follow our channel Twin Flame Guides, you
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  know that we've been together for almost 7 years now.
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  But this doesn't just apply if you want to partner, but
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  anything in your dream life. So that's the first homework of
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  this step is to follow your soul, not your ego.
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  And the second part of this homework is to declutter on all
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  levels. I call it a purpose purge.
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  And you can do this this weekend if you have time.
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  So on Saturday you can do a physical and relational detox
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  and on Sunday a digital and mental.
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  So for the physical and relational detox, you can start
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  with a physical. That's usually the easiest.
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  So literally look at all the items in your home, pick up each
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  object and ask would the future me who is living my purpose use
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  this? And then on a Saturday, also do
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  the relational one as well. So where you look at your
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  relationships in your life, you can even write them down, like
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  who are you friends with? Who are your family members?
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  And then see, OK, is anybody draining me?
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  Who lifts me up? Is it somebody I'm friends with
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  just because we've been friends for a long time, perhaps since
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  childhood, and you feel weird letting them go.
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  Having friends that are energy vampires is so draining.
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  So in my late 20s I had a big detox of friendships and in my
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  30s I'm only allowing friendships That lifts me up.
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  And of course with family this can get a bit tricky.
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  For example, my best friend, she comes from a culture where you
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  know you talk to your family daily.
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  You still have a room in their house even if you're in your
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  30s. If you have a really toxic
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  family then I recommend removing your stuff from their house so
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  you're not dependent on them and you don't have to see them and
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  talk to them every single day. You know, limit your
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  interactions for your own peace and then on the Sunday do the
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  digital detox. So look at your subscriptions.
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  Do you need a subscription to both Netflix, Amazon Prime,
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  Disney plus, Hulu? Maybe you just need one Look at
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  the folders in your in your Google Drive or your your
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  desktop. Is it all cluttered or is it
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  organized? For example, I have three
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  folders in my drive, so I have personal work and finance and
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  the last detox on the Sunday then is the mental detox.
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  Look at your habits, your beliefs, what is no longer
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  serving you. Step 2 to get to your
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  breakthrough is to define your purpose.
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  Right before a breakthrough, your old motivations lose their
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  charge. So what used to impress you no
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  longer excites you. What used to drive you feels
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  flat and this is growth. So your soul should be in
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  charge, but for most people, it's their ego.
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  The ego chases approval, safety, status, and the soul chases
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  expansion, alignment, and truth. When you feel restless, it's
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  often because your inner standard has risen.
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  You can feel the gap between the life you're living and the life
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  your heart knows is possible. And that gap is sacred.
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  It's guidance. And this is where my formula
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  comes in, my Skip formula. And this is a really powerful
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  exercise to find what your life purpose is.
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  Skip stands for strengths, challenges, ideal activities and
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  passions. So bring out your journal and
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  start with strengths. What have people always thanked
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  you for? For challenges?
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  What pain have you survived that shaped you?
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  Ideal activities? What would you do even if you
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  had all the money in the world? And passions?
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  What topics light you up? And your purpose is the
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  intersection of these answers? Yeah.
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  And I know it can feel scary to know that you have a purpose.
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  Most people who are attracted to my channel, they have some sort
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  of purpose to help humanity or Earth in some way.
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  And we often feel imposter syndrome.
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  I've noticed that with all my students in NFA that there's a
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  lot of hesitancy when it comes to sharing your gifts,
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  especially when it's online but also in person.
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  But notice if you're seeing this, you are an old soul.
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  You have so much wisdom to share with the world and you only need
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  to be one step ahead of the people you're helping.
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  So this was just a little quick exercise on how to find your
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  purpose. But if you want to dive deeper,
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  I have a 2 hour exercise to get really, really crystal clear
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  that involves astrology and psychology and all that good
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  stuff. You can download my free purpose
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  guide in my description and when you download it, you'll also
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  join my newsletter. I post weekly and there will be
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  lots of good stuff, including when my new videos comes out.
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  Step 3. And this is not talked about
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  enough to achieve your dream life.
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  To get to that breakthrough that you know is coming, you need to
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  take messy action before you are ready.
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  And this is the part that most people resist.
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  The breakthrough doesn't arrive while you wait, it arrives while
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  you move. And I am super guilty of this,
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  to want things to be perfect. When I first started my
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  business, I was a drop shipping store.
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  I was tweaking fonts, endlessly, tweaking the website, and it
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  looked beautiful. But in the end, I never ended up
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  launching it because I was so scared of taking that action
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  step. It would have been better for
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  the store to look just OK and then launch, take messy action
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  and learn along the way in the name of my partner who is an
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  abundant business owner. And then I watched my boyfriend
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  launch projects when they were 90% ready.
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  And that was so scary to me. I didn't understand it.
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  There was a lot of resistance seeing that.
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  Like, Are you sure you don't want to complete it?
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  You don't need to proofread it. But he was earning way more
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  money than me. In fact, I wasn't earning any
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  money at that point. So that's when I learned you got
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  to take messy action. And I've done that ever since.
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  And it's been huge for my business and reaching my goals,
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  reaching my dream life. There's a framework that I teach
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  called the Action Compound Effect.
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  Progress equals imperfect action times consistency because truth
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  is small actions compound right before a breakthrough.
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  Fear gets louder. Your nervous system senses
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  expansion. Growth feels unfamiliar.
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  So take one imperfect step tomorrow.
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  Send the e-mail, outline the offer, record the first video,
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  have the honest conversation. Apply for the job.
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  And if you want more clarity around your business, your
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  niche, your purpose, because you want to build something aligned
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  where you can share your gifts and make money from it so you
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  don't have to rely on a nine to five job, then you can book a
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  free business clarity call link in the description.
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  On that call, you'll gain clarity on your direction and
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  learn more about Nomad Freedom Academy, which is like Harvard
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  for light workers at a fraction of the cost.
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  Now you've learned the inner work that you need to get to
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  this breakthrough to reach your dream life.
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  Finally, there is one final step to make this real.
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  You need the right vehicle inside.
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  A loan doesn't create income or freedom.
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  The structure you choose matters.
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  So if you do want to build a solar line business, you need to
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  know what business model to have.
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  So watch my next video Best Business Models for Spiritual
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  People. Let me know how this video
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  resonated. What are your takeaways?
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  Love you and see you in the next video.