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FULL SHOW: It's Ok To Be Friends With Your Ex! · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.
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  Speaker 2: Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 1: Seacrest. On air, on air, on.
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  Speaker 3: Air with Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 1: He's a fan. Let me grab King. This topic has
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  Speaker 1: come up a lot on this show, and that is
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  Speaker 1: whether or not you should be friends with your exes.
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  Speaker 1: I am a proponent. Sisney and Tanya are opponents of
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  Speaker 1: this idea. King, where do you weigh in?
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  Speaker 2: I actually land halfway in the middle because I've had
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  Speaker 2: both experiences. I've had friends that were exes and it
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  Speaker 2: went great. And then I've had friends that were exes
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  Speaker 2: and it was the worst thing I could ever think
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  Speaker 2: of doing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. But in a perfect world, which would you prefer?
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  Speaker 2: I prefer, honestly, staying friends because you never know if
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  Speaker 2: you're going to need someone in your life for something
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  Speaker 2: later on. I think I prefer to stay friends. I just,
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  Speaker 2: I've seen the good and bad in both. But I
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  Speaker 2: prefer to stay friends.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. And are you still really close with one of
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  Speaker 1: those exes? Like, do you check in with them? Do
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  Speaker 1: you wish them happy birthday? Do you check in on
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  Speaker 1: a holiday?
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  Speaker 2: Well, funny thing that you asked that. I am actually
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  Speaker 2: getting married and my ex-wife is coming to mine and
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  Speaker 2: my fiance's wedding. And I'm very close with her. I've
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  Speaker 2: known her for like 26 years.
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  Speaker 1: That's interesting. I've never gone down that path before. How
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  Speaker 1: does your fiance feel about your ex-wife coming?
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  Speaker 2: Well, not to call out a lot, but he's a
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  Speaker 2: trans man, and he looks at her, and they have
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  Speaker 2: great conversation, and now they talk about me behind my back,
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  Speaker 2: and it works out great.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever works out great is the path to take. I
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  Speaker 1: just love peace, happiness, and less... And so I'm happy
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  Speaker 1: that things, by the way, congratulations, things are going great.
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  Speaker 1: You're getting married and happy for you, King. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for listening to Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much. And I just want to say
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  Speaker 2: I love how you guys actually talk about issues that
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  Speaker 2: people need to hear. So I want to say keep
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  Speaker 2: up the great work. Ryan, I watch you all the time.
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  Speaker 2: I watch on everything that you're on and very impressed
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  Speaker 2: by just how much you really care about the community
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  Speaker 2: and people out there. So thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, King. Big hugs to you. Have a great weekend.
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  Speaker 1: You too. Okay, buddy. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Kat in Encino. How
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  Speaker 1: about this? So you have plans to go on a
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  Speaker 1: couple's trip, but the couple you're supposed to go with
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  Speaker 1: broke up?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: For the past like seven years, we've done the same
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  Speaker 4: annual couple's trip. It's like six couples, same vibe every year.
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  Speaker 4: We get a big house, like cook dinner together. It's
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  Speaker 4: been kind of a tradition.
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  Speaker 1: And what are the options now if they broke up?
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  Speaker 1: So you don't go on the trip? Or, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: they can't go separately as a couple.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, we have thought through everything.
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  Speaker 1: Well, what is the most likely scenario here? If it
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  Speaker 1: were me, can you just go on the trip? You
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  Speaker 1: and your significant other?
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  Speaker 5: Well, they're still friends with all of them, right? It's
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  Speaker 5: not like they broke up with you guys as friends.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 4: And it feels weird to just not.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like this happens on Summer House all the time.
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  Speaker 3: You know, and they figure it out.
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  Speaker 1: And they're being taped.
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  Speaker 3: This is not Summer House.
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  Speaker 1: This is Kat's life in Encino.
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  Speaker 5: Still.
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  Speaker 1: No, but the thing is, like, it changes the dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: So either they don't go and you go with your
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  Speaker 1: significant other, or you postpone this trip.
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  Speaker 7: What?
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  Speaker 1: Postpone this trip? Find another couple.
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  Speaker 3: Find another couple?
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, or we just invite her because we're closer
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  Speaker 4: to her, but then it feels like we're taking sides.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but guys don't care.
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  Speaker 1: We don't. And also, I don't know. Is this the
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  Speaker 1: trip where you take, I mean, she went through the breakup.
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  Speaker 1: I know you don't want to leave her alone, but
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  Speaker 1: is she's going to, it's not going to, now it's
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  Speaker 1: going to become a therapy session.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, she's not going to have anybody.
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  Speaker 1: I would kick the can on this trip, postpone this thing.
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  Speaker 1: Let's move on.
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 5: Just because this one couple couldn't figure out their lives.
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  Speaker 3: Now nobody can go have fun.
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  Speaker 1: You can't bring the person that got broken up with.
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  Speaker 1: That is a sad weekend.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's not mean i know that by the way it's
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  Speaker 1: not mean i've been that woman yeah aren't.
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  Speaker 3: You happy that your friends invite you out and keep
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  Speaker 3: you occupied and busy for.
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  Speaker 1: A night they'll take me with me on vacation all
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  Speaker 1: right cat good luck on this let.
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  Speaker 3: Us thank you i feel like we didn't help her
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  Speaker 3: at all.
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  Speaker 1: Yes we did well let's ask her quickly cat what's
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  Speaker 1: your decision what are you gonna do.
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  Speaker 4: I think we're, oh, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I think you're going to postpone it.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, we could do a not a couple strip.
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  Speaker 3: Invite some other people.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Invite some other singles.
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  Speaker 4: But it changes the whole dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: I know. Weird. You're not in the mood to go
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  Speaker 1: on a trip right now. I can tell. You don't
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  Speaker 1: want to go on a trip. You're not in the mood.
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  Speaker 1: You're not there. You're not doing it. Hold on. It's
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  Speaker 1: Kiss FM. free gas is next ryan sofia this isn't
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  Speaker 1: a tanya the back room now there are stories that
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  Speaker 1: certain casinos in vegas have banned this song because people
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  Speaker 1: were winning too much and it's got a certain frequency
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  Speaker 1: here's the song ring my bell old song so apparently
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  Speaker 1: that song there from the 70s By Anita Ward has
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  Speaker 1: some sort of abundant frequency that causes people to be
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  Speaker 1: lucky and get lucky. Come on. I'm just telling you
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  Speaker 1: what they told me. Now, there's also a story that
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  Speaker 1: says many casinos won't play that song because people win
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  Speaker 1: too much money from the house.
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  Speaker 8: Really?
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  Speaker 1: It's not true. It's not true. Casinos have not banned it.
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  Speaker 1: But the song does have what they call abundance frequency.
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  Speaker 1: And this is something scientific and real. I love it.
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  Speaker 1: This creates more luck in the universe because of the frequency.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, look that part up. But then I took
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  Speaker 1: the equation and I started looking for songs that have
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  Speaker 1: abundant frequencies that also will cause good mojo in the world.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And this one has it. Same as abundance. It has
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  Speaker 1: the scientific....
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  Speaker 5: It does make me feel good. I don't know if
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  Speaker 5: they make me feel lucky.
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  Speaker 1: Well, no, this generates luck. This is fact science. It's
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  Speaker 1: musically similar to that other ring the bell song. Here's
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  Speaker 1: another one. Abundant frequency here. Doja Cat. That's another one.
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  Speaker 1: Tate McRae's got one too. Listen to this. Now, all
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  Speaker 1: these songs make you feel good, but these actually inspire
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  Speaker 1: better luck in the universe because of their frequency levels. So,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Play them on loop and see if
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  Speaker 1: you get lucky.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: All right, three words right now. Kiss FM and a
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  Speaker 1: quote of the day. Three words you've got to use
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  Speaker 1: to describe yourself. They say if you want to get
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  Speaker 1: more matches on a dating app for women, you say,
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  Speaker 1: you're sweet, ambitious, and thoughtful. Do you like it?
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  Speaker 3: Those are strong, great words.
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  Speaker 1: For men, they say you're physically fit, spontaneous, and perceptive.
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  Speaker 1: I think physically fit sounds bragger.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd be so turned off.
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  Speaker 1: I would be too. I would not even, I cringe
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  Speaker 1: if I were to say it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I like to work out, but I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: say it.
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  Speaker 3: Imagine you had that in your dating profile.
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  Speaker 1: What is in my dating profile? Physically fit. I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a dating profile.
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  Speaker 3: What's in my profile?
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  Speaker 1: Spontaneous. I like it, but that'd be a lie if
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  Speaker 1: I said that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like perceptive either.
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  Speaker 1: What do we think about over planner? Perceptive? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: perceptive sounds businessy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Or it sounds judgy.
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  Speaker 3: It does. That's what it is. It sounds like cocky
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  Speaker 3: and judgy.
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  Speaker 1: That's a bunch of BS then. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think you'd crush it on a dating app.
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  Speaker 1: Please. Which one?
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  Speaker 3: Your lips to God's ears.
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  Speaker 1: What's with you being all so impatient about me?
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  Speaker 3: I would love to have you on a dating app.
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  Speaker 3: I could create your profile, pick your pictures.
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  Speaker 1: Guys, what dating app am I going to go on?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to be comfortable with that. Raya.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, Raya.
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  Speaker 6: Raya.
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  Speaker 5: Raya.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody can screenshot. You're protected.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you... This is the whole point. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want you engaged in my dating life.
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  Speaker 3: Well, maybe it's about time we are engaged.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It hasn't been going so well lately, has it?
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  Speaker 1: What do you know?
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Well, then spill it. What do you know?
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  Speaker 3: I think it's about time we get involved. Yeah, this
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  Speaker 3: is our intervention.
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  Speaker 5: Like becoming your dating coaches.
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  Speaker 3: We all just signed four more years, Ryan.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we did? All right, then somehow they're
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  Speaker 1: inevitably going to work their way into this, I have
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  Speaker 1: a feeling. All right, today's quote. The life you want
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  Speaker 1: begins the moment you stop apologizing for wanting it. Take
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  Speaker 1: that to heart, Ryan, Sisney, Tanya, whoever. Kiss FM. Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 1: So we played this lucky or unlucky scenario thing the
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  Speaker 1: other day, and I liked it. Yeah, me too. Sophia,
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  Speaker 1: our intern, she had a school credit assignment. She came
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  Speaker 1: up with this game. Hopefully you got points for it.
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  Speaker 3: Everything's points.
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's a scoring system. She gave us a scenario, and
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  Speaker 1: then we go, oh, lucky or unlucky. Yeah. This is interesting.
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  Speaker 1: If you find someone right, talk to them behind your back. Sophia,
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  Speaker 1: is that right?
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: What do you guys feel?
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  Speaker 11: Do you think it's unlucky or lucky if you hear
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  Speaker 11: that somebody you know is talking about you behind your back?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so, Sisney, what do you think?
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  Speaker 8: It's unlucky.
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  Speaker 5: I'd rather not know. Ignorance is bliss to me. Talk
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  Speaker 5: behind my back, but I just don't want to know
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  Speaker 5: about it because then I'm toxic towards you and then
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  Speaker 5: I'm not going to like you and then it's like
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  Speaker 5: it's like a ripple effect.
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  Speaker 1: See, you're wrong. This is all lucky because you need
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  Speaker 1: to know that people are two facing you and you
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  Speaker 1: need to know who's really being true to you. And
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  Speaker 1: the fact that they're talking behind your back, edit, they're gone.
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  Speaker 1: They're out. Edit telling you, you want to know, you
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  Speaker 1: want to know those people are lying to you.
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  Speaker 3: If I know, then it's like, then you're done. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't know, they're pretending to be your friend
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  Speaker 1: and they're not. Get them out of my life.
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  Speaker 5: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Lucky or unlucky. What's next, Safiya?
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  Speaker 11: Your friend doesn't think the guy you're dating is cute.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's good news. I don't want my friend to
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  Speaker 1: think the person I'm dating is cute because they might
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  Speaker 1: try to hit on him and I'll lose him.
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  Speaker 11: But I feel like that's kind of unlucky because my
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  Speaker 11: friend is very honest and I don't want to be
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  Speaker 11: dating somebody.
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  Speaker 3: That maybe is like.
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  Speaker 1: Did your friend say Skeletor is not cute?
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  Speaker 3: She did.
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  Speaker 1: Yes or no? Yeah, she did. See, guys, I think
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  Speaker 1: this is lucky. You don't want someone that's so hot
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  Speaker 1: that your friends think they're hot and they're coming after them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you.
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  Speaker 10: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I would like to think that people think that the
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  Speaker 3: person you're with is a good-looking person.
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  Speaker 1: I don't need that. All right, what's next, Sophia? Lucky
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  Speaker 1: or unlucky?
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  Speaker 11: Your friend brings a surprise guest to your plans.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, unlucky.
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  Speaker 1: That's totally unlucky. I think we can agree to that one.
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  Speaker 1: That is rude. Am I a stranger at our intimate
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  Speaker 1: little thing? All right, one more. Lucky or unlucky?
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  Speaker 11: And how would you feel if your ex likes your
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  Speaker 11: photo from years ago?
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  Speaker 1: Great. I think that's fantastic. Why would you not want that?
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  Speaker 3: That would send you into a whirlwind.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you want your ex to still be into you?
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  Speaker 3: Unless you're not into them.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but even if you're not into them, don't you
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  Speaker 1: want to be distracting to them in a way?
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  Speaker 3: Like wanted?
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  Speaker 1: Interesting.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, you want to be wanted, don't you? That's so interesting.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, don't we all?
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  Speaker 3: Not from an ex. I don't care about an ex.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. I could be wanted from Mark. We
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  Speaker 1: had Jonas Brothers take us next. All right, let's get
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  Speaker 1: into this second date update. Have you ever been stood
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  Speaker 1: up on a date? I was, what do you call it? Gaslit?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but like I, this was,
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  Speaker 1: I asked her out and she said, I'll meet you
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  Speaker 1: at seven and seven 30. Let me shoot nine, then
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  Speaker 1: nine 30. Then I never heard from her. Wow.
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  Speaker 3: And you were there.
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  Speaker 1: I was there. I was sitting in a booth. I
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  Speaker 1: remember asking for a booth. I wanted a booth.
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  Speaker 3: That's so rude.
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  Speaker 1: I like a date with a booth.
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  Speaker 3: No, it must be a booth.
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  Speaker 1: No, you wouldn't want to be in a booth on
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  Speaker 1: a date. I get it, yeah. A booth is different
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  Speaker 1: than sitting. A Charlie booth is better than chairs.
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  Speaker 10: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: For sure.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so let's get into Olivia's situation here. Olivia
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  Speaker 1: reached out to us from West Covino for some help.
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  Speaker 1: This is not the first time it's happened. She said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sick of it. I got stood up on a
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  Speaker 1: first date with a guy I met on Bumble. So
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  Speaker 1: what happened, Olivia, in your mind? Or what did happen?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, so it was like any other date. Like you said,
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  Speaker 7: we met on Bumble. I think we hit it off
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  Speaker 7: like crazy.
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  Speaker 9: We had plans to go out.
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  Speaker 7: He seemed excited about it. But sitting there for 45 minutes,
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  Speaker 7: getting pitied by the waitstaff, and so I left. And
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  Speaker 7: then when I checked Bumble, he had unmatched me.
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  Speaker 10: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: So now, is this something that happened twice through a
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  Speaker 1: dating app? Is that right? Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like rude. I mean, if you can't go
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  Speaker 1: or you don't want to or you had to change
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  Speaker 1: your heart, it's not great, but just say that, right?
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Where's the courtesy? Where's the courtesy? I mean– It sounds
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  Speaker 1: much different when I say it in falsetto, doesn't it? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well, here's what we're going to do. I
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  Speaker 1: think we tracked him down. We're going to put him
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  Speaker 1: on the spot. We're going to find out what happened.
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  Speaker 1: But just, like, bro, just say. Like, I got nervous.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want it. Whatever. I have a girlfriend. Just say.
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  Speaker 1: Next kiss. Good morning. See Chris with you. This is Natanya.
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  Speaker 1: And we're in a second date update right now. That's
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  Speaker 1: what we're doing. Olivia reached out in West Covina and
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  Speaker 1: she met this guy on Bumble. It's happened to her twice.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever been stood up on a first date?
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  Speaker 1: It's not a good feeling. Do you want to see
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  Speaker 1: the guy again, even if he apologized or has a
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  Speaker 1: good excuse? Would you want to see him again, Olivia?
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  Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, not really. It speaks to character, but
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  Speaker 7: I just want to know why.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I would at this point. Don't
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  Speaker 1: even give him the air time. Don't even give him
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  Speaker 1: the attention time that you care. I kind of want
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  Speaker 1: to know why. Well, that's because we are not involved.
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  Speaker 1: We're on the outside looking in. She's in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of it. If it were me in the middle of it,
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  Speaker 1: I'd be like, you know what? You don't get my time.
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  Speaker 1: You don't get my attention. But she reached out to us.
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  Speaker 1: Jay is on the line. Olivia, be very quiet. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to talk to him here for a second. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: here we go.
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  Speaker 4: Jay.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest. Hey, Tanya. Hi, you're on the air
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: with us, and we're calling about Olivia. You met Olivia
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: on Bumble. We know some things. We know that you
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: guys were meant to go out on a date, and
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: then you stood her up. Can you just tell us why?
• 14:53
  Speaker 9: Yeah, it's a little embarrassing. I just kind of froze up,
• 15:01
  Speaker 9: if I'm being honest.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: You froze up? You got nervous?
• 15:04
  Speaker 11: Yes.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
• 15:06
  Speaker 9: I mean, I enjoyed talking to her, but then the
• 15:09
  Speaker 9: moment came to go in, and I just froze up.
• 15:13
  Speaker 7: Got it.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Is she on the line? Yes, she is on the line. So, Olivia,
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: what's your response to that from Jay?
• 15:22
  Speaker 7: Okay, I mean, I get it.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: I really do.
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: But if you were anxious enough to walk away, you
• 15:28
  Speaker 7: could have at least texted me.
• 15:30
  Speaker 9: I know it doesn't make sense, but texting felt like...
• 15:34
  Speaker 9: harder than walking away.
• 15:36
  Speaker 10: Okay.
• 15:37
  Speaker 7: But I mean, I get anxiety, but at some point
• 15:40
  Speaker 7: your anxiety becomes someone else's feelings.
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: Oh, Hey, that's fair.
• 15:45
  Speaker 9: You're, you're, you know, you're, you're totally right. I'm in
• 15:48
  Speaker 9: the wrong. I'm sorry.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: Wow. Well, what's our takeaway here? Just be upfront and
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: be honest. And Olivia, do you want to see him again?
• 15:57
  Speaker 7: Maybe, but I'd need way more communication.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Like a lot, a lot.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Why did you unmatch her bro? Why'd you unmatch her?
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: Oh, good question.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 16:08
  Speaker 9: I matched her, and I shouldn't have.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: But why?
• 16:12
  Speaker 9: Honestly, I was embarrassed, and I just wanted to make
• 16:15
  Speaker 9: it all go away.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: He sounds like a nice guy. I know he kind
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: of does. So, look, Olivia, I don't know. You make...
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: I think this is not feeling right, if you want.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: You didn't ask, but if you want my opinion.
• 16:26
  Speaker 11: Okay.
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: I mean.
• 16:31
  Speaker 7: Are you willing to communicate better?
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: I guess like, yeah, yeah.
• 16:37
  Speaker 9: I would love to actually. And, um, yeah, that's something
• 16:44
  Speaker 9: I would love to do. And I, I promise to
• 16:47
  Speaker 9: show up unless I don't.
• 16:50
  Speaker 7: I'm kidding.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: Okay. There we go. That's just too much. All right.
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: Well, yeah.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: Olivia, I would say red, red, red wine. Flag.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Red, red, red flag.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I would say no, no, no. Jane Olivia, second date
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: update there. Right? That guy's just not.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: I kind of feel for him, though. I want him
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: to win. I want him to get over this fear
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: that he has.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's for.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Olivia.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest. How do you like saying
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: the word toxic anymore? You know, it's like, I don't
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: want to say, I do believe that when you use vocabulary,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: that comes back at you in life. So we need
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: to be careful when we're saying these words.
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: Okay. Right.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: Let's say weird. Or is it silly?
• 17:37
  Speaker 8: Or is it?
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: We can say it here because we're at work and
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: we want to, we want to, it's okay. But I'm
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: saying that we need to be aware of where, because
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: I'm convinced that the things that I say out loud,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: my brain says again, a hundred times inside. So anyway,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: just be aware of that. That's it. Lola Martinez, the
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: daughter of Tim Martinez, who has worked here forever, is
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: back in the back room. Now, Lola, so your question was,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: this is interesting. You're going on virtual tours of people's
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: apartments or homes before you meet them. Why?
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Just for fun.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: But who are these people?
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: Sometimes, like in the past, before I had a boyfriend,
• 18:17
  Speaker 6: I would do it on guys I'd be talking to
• 18:20
  Speaker 6: or if I'm going to a party or like those
• 18:23
  Speaker 6: kind of houses.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: I like to, I'm just curious. And then you know
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: where the bathroom is.
• 18:26
  Speaker 7: And things like that.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: You do this too, Susan? You go on virtual tours
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: of people's places before you see them or meet them?
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: I kind of do.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: Like if I get invited to a birthday party and
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: it's at someone's house, I will for sure Redfin or
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: Zillow your house and.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: See them on your tour. Yeah, I love it. I've
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: never done this.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: I've never done this either. And frankly, I don't want
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: anyone to do this or do this. That is, I
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: think it's a, I get like.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Everyone does this.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: No. Two people sit next to you. Do not.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: Anybody else do this?
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: The element of surprise. Sophia, do you do this at
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: your school? No.
• 18:59
  Speaker 11: The only thing I do is look on Zillow to
• 19:01
  Speaker 11: look at like million dollar mansions, just like thinking one
• 19:04
  Speaker 11: day I could buy them.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: People love to do that. I mean, that's something that
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: you do, but just to daydream, right?
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Or to dream or set goals. How do you get
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: their addresses, Lolo? Okay.
• 19:15
  Speaker 6: So basically on Snapchat, if you have your location on-
• 19:19
  Speaker 6: You can go on Snap Maps, click on their house.
• 19:23
  Speaker 6: get their address, put that in a Zillow, and you're there.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: You're home. But does it ever make you not want
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: to go out with somebody because you see their pad?
• 19:30
  Speaker 8: No.
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: No, I will never do it to, like, judge someone.
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: But I'm just very, I'm a curious girl.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: I got to know. Yeah, I'm curious. That's a version
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: of judging, FYI. No, it's not.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: It's not. It's curious. See, like, if they got a
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: good deal in their house, like, wow, that's really appreciated. Yeah,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: there you go.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: What happened to discovering stuff about.
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: People no no i need to know i want to
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: know honestly now that i know you can do this
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: i feel like i would.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: See there you go i started a trend i'm gonna
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: do this too i'm gonna still tell you i don't
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: but i'm gonna start doing.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: This everyone does this.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: Um by tomorrow everyone here will be doing it all
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: right michaela appreciate your singleness So Michaela in the back
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: room is on all the dating apps, and she meets
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: these guys, and some of which are really good-looking, and
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: some have okay pickup lines. Then there are the others
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: that just– I don't– you wonder what dudes are thinking
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: when they throw these things out there to bait you, right,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: to respond. So should we start with the latest here?
• 20:26
  Speaker 9: Sure.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: All right, and we have some pictures. Take a look
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: at the pictures of everybody as well. All right, opening lines.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Let's start with the first one. This guy, not a
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: bad-looking guy, reminds me of– Who does he look like?
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: He looks like Burger from Sex and the City.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Okay, whoever that is. Sure. Go ahead. What's his line?
• 20:46
  Speaker 8: I bet I can tell you something about your profile
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: no one else on Hinge has noticed.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Now, I'm intrigued.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: I'm intrigued, too.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Have I done something wrong? Are you giving me a note?
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Should I fix it? I don't even know if I
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: want to go out with the guy. I just want
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: to know what he noticed.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: I kind of like this.
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it makes you want to message back.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: You can't not respond to that. Yeah, you have to.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: He's a contender.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: But is he your type?
• 21:11
  Speaker 8: No, but I think I can also just.
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: Wait, what?
• 21:14
  Speaker 8: I want to know.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: He's not my type for her. He's not my type
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: for her.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: He looks like he's giving a TED Talk.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Okay, what's next? These are real pickup lines that Michaela
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: is sifting through on dating apps.
• 21:24
  Speaker 8: Okay, number two. Is stepping with a wet sock worse
• 21:27
  Speaker 8: than stepping on a Lego?
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Okay, get out. Bye.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: That scares me.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: He's done.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Too nerdy.
• 21:34
  Speaker 8: Next one. I come with a golden retriever as well.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I like that. Is he holding two raw fish in
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: front of his car?
• 21:43
  Speaker 8: Yeah, with the golden retriever.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: And he's straddling his golden retriever.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: He's straddling his golden retriever and he's got two fish
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: he just caught in a pond in front of his truck.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's original. Yeah, exactly.
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: Don't hate it.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: All right, one more.
• 21:57
  Speaker 8: Last one. Quick question. Do you prefer being called babe, baby,
• 22:01
  Speaker 8: or future wife?
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Whoa. See, you know, that's the problem. That's cute minus
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: the future wife thing a little ways in. Like, what
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: do you like to be called? Now, what is a
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: good pickup line? Let me ask Chad. Hey, Chad, it's Ryan.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Based on what you know about me, what would be
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: a good pickup line I could use if I wanted
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: to have someone respond to me on a dating app?
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I'm not on a dating app, FYI, Chad, so don't
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: put that in your files. But what would I say?
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: If you were me, what would be a good, charming,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: clever pickup line? Chad says, try this, Ryan. Hey, you
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: strike me as someone who probably knows a great bar
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: with excellent lighting and terrible decisions. Am I right?
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, the terrible decisions part was me. I mean,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: that's what chat's on. Here's another one. Another option, Ryan.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: You seem interesting in a way that suggests good stories.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: What's one I should hear?
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Oh, okay. That's not horrible.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: It sounds chat GPT, though. All right. Any better?
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you're better than chat GPT.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Well, don't tell my chat. Then they'll get upset with
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: me and file that. The filing part. Yeah. Well, you know,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: our voice is being recorded. Everything we're asking is in there.
• 23:24
  Speaker 11: All right.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Here's one more. They say this one's cool. You seem
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: like trouble in a very well-dressed way.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: You would never.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I kind of love it.
• 23:32
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: I love it too.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Back room.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Not bad.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: It's not bad, right?
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Please send that to somebody right now.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. All right, let's take a break. Chat,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: you are the best chatter. I'm not going to gronk
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: ever again. So, Cisney and Tanya, they share each other's locations.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: They keep trying to get me to do the same thing. No,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't want to share my location.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I don't think we should have that much awareness of
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: where we are when we're not here.
• 24:04
  Speaker 10: Why?
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: It's so convenient.
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: If we were sharing location, we could have easily seen
• 24:07
  Speaker 5: where we were when we were both at Disneyland the
• 24:09
  Speaker 5: same exact day.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: That would have been nice.
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: I share with Ronnie, and I saw that Ronnie was
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: at Disneyland that day, and we met up and had
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: a cocktail.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Well, I would share with Ronnie because I'd like to
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: see where Ronnie's going. What?
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: You would share with Ronnie over us?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Come on. Well, Ronnie would just be entertaining. I would
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: watch where he'd go. That guy was in a bikini
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: picture the other day here, walking around. Wasn't he just
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: wearing a bikini?
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: It was Speedo. Yeah, he's always wearing that when he's.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: At the beach. And he keeps telling me, have you
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: seen my photo? I'm like, yes, Ronnie, you brought the
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: photo into me. I saw it. Can't get it out
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: of my head. So anyway, Jordan in the back room. Now,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: what did you find out? Why should Sisney and Tiny
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: not be sharing their locations?
• 24:47
  Speaker 10: It just It takes one person to make you feel like,
• 24:50
  Speaker 10: all right, maybe I shouldn't be doing this often. One
• 24:54
  Speaker 10: of my friends, she's very interested with my life and
• 24:58
  Speaker 10: what goes on.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I love her.
• 25:00
  Speaker 10: She's like my best friend, but it's just doing too much,
• 25:04
  Speaker 10: like checking in, calling me, asking what I'm doing and
• 25:08
  Speaker 10: why I'm there.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: It's just very consistent.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: And do you sort of white lie to her?
• 25:15
  Speaker 10: I can't even do that. I have to turn it
• 25:18
  Speaker 10: off sometimes because if I'm going somewhere, I'm like, maybe
• 25:21
  Speaker 10: not today.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: I would not like to be hit a.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Little about where I'm going. Let's just back off this iOS.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: This is a lot of stuff. You guys already, you, you,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: there's already enough going on. You don't need to be
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: following each other when we're not even.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: We're not following each other. It's just like in the back.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: You don't even think about it.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Like you do, you would check, you would go, Oh, where,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: where is he right now? And then if I were,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: if it were at five 30, now we're at a restaurant, Tonya,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: who's he with?
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Well, that's Tonya. That's not me.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Is he driving slow or fast?
• 25:48
  Speaker 10: Yes. Yeah, the slowdown messages are crazy too. Hey, I
• 25:51
  Speaker 10: saw you like speeding going way too fast.
• 25:53
  Speaker 9: Yeah, exactly.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Leave me alone. iOS out of my life.
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: First of all, it's so nice that you have a
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: friend that cares so deeply about you that she is
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: wanting to know all of these things.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: What about a phone call?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with Jordan on this. All right, we're
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: going to back it down. iOS out a little bit.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: iOS out. By the way, I tried to get the
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: new iOS. Good luck on that for two days.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it keeps telling me it's going to update tonight
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: and then it doesn't. I don't know.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, two days of just my contacts went to phone numbers.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Panic for two days. Then all of a sudden the
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: names start trickling back in. Well, friends, that is going
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: to do it for the Friday broadcast for us. Monday morning,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: we're back with a Ryan's Roses. So make sure you
• 26:33
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• 26:37
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• 26:40
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• 26:44
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• 26:46
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