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377: 3 Steps To Your Next Quantum Leap · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated
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to helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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flow without sacrificing results.
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Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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according to your human design.
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I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design.
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I'm your host, Nicole Lano, and I wanna know, have you heard of Quantum leaping?
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You probably have, right?
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I. Probably it's a buzzword.
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It doesn't get thrown around quite as much as it used to,
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but it's definitely out there.
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I think we all have this idea of what quantum leaping is,
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what it feels like, how it will maybe solve all of our problems.
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And I want to break this down because I think that it can be a little bit
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esoteric, and that's what we do here on the show is we take things that
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are esoteric, difficult to understand, and we bring them down to earth.
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I try to make them practical so that you can see what actually is necessary
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for you to create the results that you're looking for, and not just hearing
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a bunch of hyperbolic language from, you know, people selling you things.
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Sometimes these messages get muddied and muddled, and what I wanna
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do is I wanna bring them down to something that becomes really clear.
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So let's first define a quantum leap.
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Okay?
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So I'm gonna do this just straight from the dictionary because I think that
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that helps us get our minds around like, what does this thing actually mean?
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So what it actually means is the textbook definition of a quantum
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leap is a huge, often sudden increase or advance in something.
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It's this idea that we hit the fast forward button, right?
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Which isn't that what we all wanna do?
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We wanna hit the fast forward button.
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If you're in the spiritual space, if you're a spiritual entrepreneur,
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a lot of times, you know, this is a human design show first.
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So we get a lot of people who are in this spiritual space looking for
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spiritual answers to 3D problems.
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And it's true.
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Bringing the spiritual into our 3D world is how we start to get outsized results.
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But if you're in this spiritual space, if you're listening to this show, you
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probably heard of quantum leaping.
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You probably want one.
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Maybe if you are like me, like I was a few years ago, I was wondering,
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you know, why mine hasn't happened yet or why I haven't had another one.
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I actually had quantum leaps and then I couldn't hold what came to me in those
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times, and that felt terrible as well.
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So we have these experiences, but how do we have the leap, have that big, fast
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forward, and then stay on that timeline.
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Rather than feeling like, you know, we get the thing but we can't hold it.
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A quantum leap is one that you can actually hold.
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That to me is when it's, it's truly, truly, it's an actual advancement, not
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a temporary shoot forward that suddenly you get yanked back to your old way.
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Right.
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So in this episode, what I'm gonna do is I wanna share the, the truth
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around what I know about quantum leaping, or big changes that happen,
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whatever you wanna call them, hitting that fast forward button, what that
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really looks like, how we achieve that.
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I'm gonna break it down into three steps.
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Now, there is a little bit of that.
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I'm doing this to make it simple for you so that you see that
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it is these three categories.
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It does not mean that like you do it in a day.
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These are three steps that have to be completed, have to be done in
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order to achieve a quantum leap in order to have that big, big change.
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I'm gonna break it down into the three pieces that are essential for this.
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We'll talk a little bit about what people don't wanna hear about
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them, what people often don't wanna hear about quantum leaping.
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And what I find is holding most people back.
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So before I get started, we are actually, if you're listening to
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this on the day that this episode drops, we are in the middle of the
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Authority Accelerator Masterclass.
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We just ended the full main week, but you can still catch up on
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the replays if you're actually interested in having a quantum leap.
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You could see my framework for helping business owners, entrepreneurs,
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specifically spiritual entrepreneurs, is who I help very often as the
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core of what I do, how spiritual entrepreneurs can actually get
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real results in their business.
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To build a human design first business, which is a business built around your
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purpose and around your unique alignment so that you can actually have joy and
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fulfillment as well as profitability.
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How you can become an aligned and profitable ceo.
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That workshop, all the replays are up.
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If you sign up on nicole o.com/masterclass or dm me the
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word masterclass on Instagram.
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I'm at Nicole Lano official.
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We will send you the link to the replays right away and you can
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get started catching up with us.
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And if you get that, if you get this, if you're listening the
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morning that this has dropped, I'm actually doing a bonus session today.
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You can get in on that bonus session where I'm actually talking
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very much about this topic.
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We're talking about money, manifestation, and human design.
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So that is our bonus session that's happening on Monday,
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so please join us for that.
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The replay will be available for that as well until Wednesday if you happen to
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be listening to this a little bit late.
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Okay, so we've got that covered.
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Now let's get into this episode.
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Okay.
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Let's start talking about the steps to creating a quantum
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leap and what this really means.
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So like we said, we're hitting the fast forward button we're saying.
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We're here right now.
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How do I go from where I am right now, which whatever my truth and my reality
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is, how do I hit that fast forward button?
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Well, the truth is, is that the first step to creating a quantum leap is claiming it.
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You need to know where you wanna go, and most entrepreneurs that I
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talk to do not have specific goals.
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Now, I know some of you will say, oh, well, I'm a non-specific
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manifester in human design.
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That doesn't matter.
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I am too, I still have specific goals.
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I just don't get attached to the details around them.
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There's a difference, and this is where the human design rules that are out there,
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because the way that we put things out on Instagram and the way that a lot of people
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are taking in human design information.
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It's more nuanced than we can get an Instagram carousel
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in a podcast episode even.
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You really have to be living this and the best way to do it is with a coach
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where they can tell you the nuance behind it as it comes up for you, where
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we can kind of tell you, well, for you it would sort of work like this.
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So we can't be so black and white with these things.
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And we're talking about spiritual stuff.
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This is, this is the gray area, so when we try to make it black and white,
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that's where people get screwed up.
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Certainly when we're talking about quantum leaps, people get screwed up here.
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So what does it mean to claim it?
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Where are you going?
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What is the future you wish to be true?
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Really be able to see that.
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And now notice I did not say, see it.
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I said Claim it.
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Claim it with your energy.
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That is me.
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That is mine.
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Now the game and the goal and the difficult thing.
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Is that you have to sit here and suspend reality a little bit.
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You have to be a little d Lulu in order to make this work
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when everything is going wrong.
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You have to still be connected to that truth, to that future
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energetically to say, I know that that possibility that that thing
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exists, I know that it exists for me.
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I know that I'm already there, even though right now everything in front
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of me is showing me the opposite.
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That is not the easiest thing to do, particularly if maybe you're
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at the beginning of your journey and you are maybe struggling a
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bit, and things are really hard.
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It's hard to see yourself as a millionaire when you don't have
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enough money to pay your bills.
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Now, the thing that a lot of people don't wanna hear, or the thing that
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people get wrong is that they think that it's like you live in fantasy land.
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And you don't deal with the things that are here.
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No.
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That's energetically bypassing and that's not at all what we're talking about.
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It's there is an identity that you have to take over of that future
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version of yourself who has the things that you want, who is them in
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that fast, fast-forwarded reality.
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You have to be able to put yourself there, and what you're doing is you're
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dealing with the reality that you are in.
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From that future self place and over time what happens is when you make that
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a practice that starts to feel more real, that starts to feel, you start to embody.
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This is where embodiment comes in.
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This is how human design can help because human design gets us to pay attention to
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different things and change our energy.
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When you change your energy, it's easier to change your identity
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and how you view yourself.
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It's easier to claim the thing that you want when things are starting
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to feel like you're attracting more.
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When you're starting to use energy, it's easier to believe in energy, but again,
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we can't put our, our heads in the sand about what's happening in our reality.
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We just deal with that differently.
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You don't pretend that the bills aren't coming in, but you start
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to use energy to try to take care of that, and you also do things.
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So step two is you remove anything energetically that is
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not in alignment with that truth.
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So.
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What happens and and step two and step three really go hand in.
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All of this goes hand in hand together, but this is an integrated process.
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But this second step of removing any, anything energetically that isn't
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aligned with that future self, that's where the energetic cleansing comes in.
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That's where you have to really take an honest look at yourself
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and say, where am I triggered?
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Where am I not believing that that could possibly be me?
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Where am I not able to energetically connect with that future self?
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Is it just too far out?
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If I'm broke and I have no money, is seeing myself as a millionaire
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maybe too far of a leap right now that I'm not able to hold that level
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energetically, I can't attach to it.
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What can I just attach to?
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Maybe all of my bills being paid and money coming in every month.
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That might be your next quantum leap.
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Sometimes what people don't wanna hear is that there are multiple leaps to
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the big one, and what you do is as you do this, you get better at holding the
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big one and then saying, but here's the one that I'm working on right now.
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I have multiple visions that I play with and they're at different timelines.
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I have a one year, I have a five year, I have a 10 year.
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Because when you put it way far out, there's almost nothing that we don't
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believe that we can make happen.
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10 years from now, I could probably make anything happen.
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I could wrap my mind around that, but I make sure that I put it out there.
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The one that I have for one year is far more incremental.
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It's still a huge leap, but it's far more incremental to where I am now.
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I. Because that's what energetically I can hang on to.
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When I start to get too far out, then I start to question, my energy
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starts to question it, and now it's not doing what it's supposed to do.
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I'm not attached to it.
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I'm not connected to it is more a word that I wanna use.
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I don't love the word attached, but I'm not connected to it and the
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way that I need to be to the point where it feels true and real to me.
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My energy starts to call bullshit, and that's that second part.
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We have to remove anything anywhere in your energy that's calling out bullshit.
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To remove anything in your energy that is saying it can't be this way for you.
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We have to remove anything in your energy that is saying, I don't deserve this.
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That can't happen to me.
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That's where the beliefs come in.
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We have to remove that.
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Most people know that part of this.
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If you're in the spiritual space, you probably do a lot of work on the
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energetic clearing side of things.
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Here's the part.
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Step three is the one that nobody, particularly my spiritual
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girlies and men, what they don't wanna do is the third piece.
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Which is take action in alignment with number one, you've claimed that vision.
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Now you do the thing.
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And what I find is when we have spiritual people who were healing and energy work
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and you know, clearing out and going into the past and going into our stuff.
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Is your go-to and maybe you're really good at it, that can become a crutch
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and that can become the thing that is actually holding you back from your leap.
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And yes, you may be scared, we just had this in, in my business by design.
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I had a client who came in and she's like, you know, I'm trying to figure out, you
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know, from a human design perspective where this might be holding you back.
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What maybe I need to clear.
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And she is a spiritual master.
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She is an energetic like guru in her own right.
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She is a highly skilled energy worker.
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She doesn't need my help in that area.
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She's got that covered.
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I point things out, but I told her, I'm like, I think you
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just need to do the thing.
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I think that that's the part that you are holding back on and looking
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at, what do I have to do internally?
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Is not the thing.
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You wanna result in the material world, right?
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You wanna result here on this plane, you have to take action on this plane.
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You gotta meet the universe halfway when you are doing the energetic work.
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And this is what I mean.
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This is why I don't teach just an energy program and just a strategy program.
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I don't pick one because the way that we actually achieve a
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quantum leap, which is fast growth, which seems sudden, but it's not.
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It is little choices.
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It's every day choosing to be in alignment with that future that you've claimed,
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that future version of yourself to be so connected to her, even when things
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don't look at all like that's the truth.
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To be in that space to notice as you go to do something energetically,
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what comes up to kick down that wall in a therapeutic and progressive way.
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Not in a pushing through sort of way, but actually looking at it, saying,
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how am I standing in my way right now?
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Making that choice, being able to understand where your gas pedal is,
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where your brake is, how your vehicle moves, and that's what human design does.
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Human design gives you a lot of confidence in how you move through life, and you
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get a lot of very quick feedback of whether that is going well or not.
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You have your signature and your not self theme.
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You have lots of ways of understanding if things are working for you.
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The world is your mirror, and if you start looking at where you have difficulty,
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and instead of looking at it and saying, God, why is this happening to me?
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I don't understand why this is happened to me.
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If you could look at it and say, everything is working in my favor.
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Everything is given, being given to me in service to my number one goal.
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That identity and future that I've claimed, the universe said yes,
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and if I look at everything I get in my life as feedback to tell me
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what needs to be cleared, where do I need to move, where are there
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adjustments that need to be made, and I can be in that energetic openness,
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then you see amazing things happen.
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I have doubled revenue.
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I have paid off tens of thousands of dollars of debt in
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a matter of weeks, it seemed.
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Yes.
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It's like this is how Quantum leap works, that nobody really wants to talk about it.
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You know, they think that it's like, I did this one thing and it changed everything.
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No, it's very rarely that there's one thing maybe that pushed you over the edge.
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Right?
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And we're all looking for that one thing, which is keeping you
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from getting the real thing.
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Because it's a series of small changes and small choices every day, all day.
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Choosing yourself, choosing that future, you daring to look inside, breaking
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old patterns, taking action, doing the thing, showing up for yourself.
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Showing up as the best version of yourself, a little bit more every
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single day, and then the next thing you know, boom, it happens.
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But you know when it happens though, that boom.
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Always comes from you doing something, always comes from you doing something.
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You take some action and the action works and it looks like magic.
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But when it happens to you, you know, this was just, this has been
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cooking and brewing and happening for so long, but it finally, I was
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finally open enough to receive it and I showed up and I did the thing.
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So many people are not willing to do the thing.
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Consistently enough to see the result.
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And conversely, if you fall on the more strategic side of things,
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maybe you're just doing the thing all the time and you keep waiting
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for the thing to be the thing.
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You're not really looking at energetically the energy that you're bringing to it.
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We have people like that in my program as well, who came in really tight and
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really rigid, and they're so into the masculine energy and taking action.
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That's my job in the beginning.
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They come into the program and I look at them and I say, well,
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which side do they fall on?
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Are they hyper-masculine?
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Are they hyper-feminine?
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Usually they go one way or the other.
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Very few are perfectly balanced there, and I'm noticing, so with projectors,
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I have to work on them really getting into their feminine energy.
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Really like deconditioning.
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There's different ways that I work with different types, but I am looking
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at what way have you been operating?
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And if you're hyper masculine, then I need you to, I need to pull you over
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to the feminine, not to the point where you're not taking action, but where we are
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starting to break up some of that energy.
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'cause energetically you are in alignment with struggle, you're in alignment with.
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It has to be hard.
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So guess what?
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It will be.
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If you desire it to be easy, then energetically you have to be
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proving to yourself that it can be.
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And if you are hyper-feminine, I have to get you to do some things.
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I have to get you out of your shell.
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And that is the thing that starts to break them out.
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This is how it works.
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And most people are not doing both of these things simultaneously.
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They're doing them in complete silos.
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I'm healing, then I go back to work and that's not really how it works.
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It's the work that determines what needs to be healed.
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You want a result that has to do with your work?
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Go do the work, get the feedback of what's not working, and then reflect on it.
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And that's where somebody like me can come in and say, like, ask you good questions,
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ask you the questions that maybe you can't see that you need to ask yourself.
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Give you the tools to start to unblock the areas where your energy is stopped up.
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Where it's keeping you from being able to take action in alignment with
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the truth that you want to be true, the future that you wanna be true.
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I hope that you're seeing how this works.
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It's a simple process.
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I don't mean to make it sound like it's easy, because it
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takes a lot of commitment.
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It's energetic commitment to be so aware of the way that you're
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operating and to understand that slowing down won't slow you down.
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That taking action won't mean that you are pushing to find real balance.
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This is what integration is.
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We're integrating.
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That's the next level.
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So if you've been healing on your own and you've been taking action
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separately, it's time for integration.
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That is what's gonna change things for you.
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And so many people just don't want to face that.
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And my goal is to help you see how integrating these
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two aspects in your life.
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This is how big outsized results are achieved.
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It's through these two avenues.
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We see a lot of people right now who have built really strategic businesses,
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seven figure eight figure businesses, and you hear how they're like pulling
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back slow mornings soft girl era.
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They're embracing this energetic side of things.
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And now people kind of hear that and they're like, oh, well I just need to
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get into nervous system regulation, and then my business will blossom too.
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Well, those people that have the seven or eight figure business,
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they were hyper masculine.
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That's why bringing in the feminine energy stuff.
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Blew the doors off for them.
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They made it happen.
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It's so much easier to hustle your way to success than it is
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to meditate your way to success.
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So people like that, you know, they have the strategy in
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place, they're doing the thing.
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So now they open up their energy, they lean back, they.
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Lean more on their team.
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They delegate more and now, yeah, their life is easier and they are
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shouting it from the rooftops.
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But that can be a little misleading to some people who hear that.
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That's the thing that changed everything for I doubled my profit because
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we leaned back and we simplified.
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That is wonderful for that person.
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But leaning back, if you're already leaning way back.
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Is probably not the answer.
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You have to do the thing.
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It doesn't matter how much I visualize being a bestselling auth author.
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If I ain't right in the book, there's no best seller in my future.
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I have to do the thing.
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If I wanna speak on stages, I'm gonna have to show people who I am, and I'm gonna
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have to have an expertise and I'm going to have to really claim that energetically.
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But I'm also probably gonna have to send out some pitches.
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I'm gonna have to meet some people.
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There might be some things that I need to do to make that thing easy for me.
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It doesn't have to be hard.
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I don't have to chase people.
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But I do have to maybe get to know people.
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Maybe I do have to put some feelers out.
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Maybe I do just have to tell people that that's what I'd like to do and have a
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really good story or something that I want to speak on to tell them about.
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I have to do things.
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So I hope that this inspired you to get into the energy, but also to do the thing.
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And if you don't know what to do, find somebody who can help you.
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Figure out what to do, what action to take that will drive results for you.
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Because the biggest question in our minds that holds us back is
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wondering, how am I gonna do it?
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It wastes so much time and nothing will take you out of the energy
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of possibility and potential.
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Like, how am I gonna do it?
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And feeling like you don't know the answer to that.
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So then you go frantically searching for answers.
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No.
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Find someplace, find someone.
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Seven figure eight figure entrepreneurs, people who are really successful.
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Or even at my level, multi six figure, we don't ask what can help me.
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We ask who can help me?
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Because that's how you move faster.
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That's how you save yourself years.
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Quantum leaping is about saving yourself time.
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So how do you hit that fast forward button?
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Maybe you ask somebody who's been there and you leverage somebody else's
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experience and their success so that you can create your own without having to
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maybe make the same mistakes they did.
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Or spend months, if not years toiling on what am I gonna do?
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How am I gonna do it?
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So I hope this inspired you.
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If you wanna join us for the Authority Accelerator Masterclass,
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catch up on the replays.
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Or as I said, if you are listening to this on the day, this episode's
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drops on Monday, you can join us for the bonus session where I'm talking
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at length about this very topic about money, manifestation and human design.
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So you can join us for that.
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We'll get you the link to that.
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If you get this in time, there will also be a replay for this one as well.
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So even if you get this before Wednesday at midnight, you can
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catch up on the replays then.
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Thanks so much for being here, for listening to this.
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I appreciate you.
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And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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first become an unshakeable human.
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So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design.
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We'll see you next time.
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