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EP85: The Currency Exchange · Unpause Your Life

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You are listening to Unpause your Life with Doctor Kelly es Says and Master Coach
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Jenny Fontana, founders of the Life Coach method. Each one of our uplifting
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and prepare to be coached. Hey, guys, doctor Kellys is Unpause your
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Life and the Addictions Coach. Thank you for joining me on my podcast.
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I know we've had this podcast for a few years and I love coming on
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and giving you guys tips and tricks and talking about some cool stuff. Today,
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I want to talk about something unique and interesting and a different take on
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something. So you know, I'm always talking about manifestation and abundance and manifesting
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you know what you want and creating a life you desire. And we talk
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about money a lot. But a friend of mine mentioned something the other day.
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It was kind of interesting and it sparked my brain to think about a
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few things. And what he said was you have to worry more about time
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than money. Basically, so he said time is more important than money,
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meaning experiences are more important than money, and time is really short, so
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if you're always focusing on making money, you're losing time, which is true
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to a sense. But the problem with that is we talk about automation.
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Can I automate my job? Can I do something from travel wherever I am?
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I can? I knew at age fourteen I wanted to travel and work
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from anywhere. And that's back before cell phones and laptops. I didn't know
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how I was going to do it, but I knew I wanted to do
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that. So I created a company where I can do coaching and counseling from
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anywhere. Obviously, you know, zoom, what have you. But that's
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not enough. I need to make money while I sleep, right so I
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can travel and do fun things while money's coming in. So I created AI
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School, the Addictions Academy, where we offer classes for people to learn different
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things. Right now, we have forty classes on there. We're in thirty
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different countries, so people can go on take a self studied video course we
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created, get a certification, and go out and make money and help people.
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That I thought was really cool. Because I'm only one person, I
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can only help so many people in you know, in a day or a
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week or a month or year, why not train other people to help other
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people. So that's amazing. So that's making money while you sleep. So
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you all know, in the Unpausure Life brand, we have a certification coming
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out for life coaching. It's like nothing on the market. It is pretty
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in depths, got mental health, and it's got some addiction in it.
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It's got coaching. It's got a relationship coach course and a performance coaching course
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in there. So all those things are there to help other people make money
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too. So going back to time versus money, it's pretty interesting. So
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my friend that I'm telling you about makes joy and he makes beautiful Joey.
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And he showed me this piece of his Auntie mask that's in the shape of
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Coda from Why and I loved it. It's amazing, it's beautiful. Now
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I have options, Right, I can ask him to give it to me
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for free, which isn't really fair because it's one side of exchange. Or
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I can pay him for that, which is money, which is currency.
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Currency is also energy. Right, money is energy. Currency is energy.
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Money is called currency. Follow that, so money is an energetic exchange.
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Or I could do what we did. We borrow, we traded item for
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item. So I had a pair of Apple earbuds that I bought. Can't
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use mix. My head hurt. I'm old school. I have to have
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the phone with the cord attached to the ear pieces. So we tradeed.
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We use the currency of barter instead of money, so we traded item for
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item. Everybody was happy, nobody complained. No actual money changed hands,
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but item for item was still an exchange of currency or energy. So what
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I'm dealing with people who look at money as not necessary or money is the
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root of all evil. Our money is too much focused on that and not
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enough on time and experiences. I tell people to flip their mindset. Money
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is nothing more than an energetic exchange of goods and services. That's all it
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is. It's currency. It's time, but it's currency. You could do
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the same thing with offering your time for a hard good or barter. Looking
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at money as a conduit and not the endgame is how you have to look
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at something. Because money, currency, as we like to say, allows
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you freedom. Freedom is the ultimate endgame because freedom gives you time. So
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think about that for a second. If you go to work somewhere, your
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time is limited in your free time. Your freedom is limited because you work
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for someone else. In my career of working for people, I have worked
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my entire adult career for a total of two years for an employer. I
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don't have the mentality to be locked down like that. I don't have this
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spirit to be locked down like that, and I don't play well in the
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sandbox. So I've always worked for myself. I've always had a business.
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This is my sixth business. I've always done something for myself. Some were
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lucrative, some were not lucrative. But freedom, free time was more important
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to me my whole life than money until I learned how to leverage currency.
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So that's what I want to talk to you about. Leveraging currency allows you
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more free time, free time and freedom. So where does that come from?
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That comes from automation? And I know people talk about this and people
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say, well, you know, it's a lot of work. I don't
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know what to do. How do I do it? You have to come
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up with something that makes you money while you're not actively engaged in that activity
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of making money. So people talk about real estate. Right, you buy
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a house, you rent it out, if the house is paid off,
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you're actively making passive income once you hit the amount of money you spent.
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So there's that, there's Airbnb. I have two of those. Does it
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help? Absolutely? Am I making money while I sleep? Yes? I'm
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running out a section of my mother in law suit while I live in the
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big house and allowing them to use the pool, in the hot tub and
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the grounds and come and go on the beach. Absolutely, I'm making money
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while I sleep. That needs to be your goal instead of thinking money is
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the root of all evil, or money is bad, or money ruins things,
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or money causes problems. You have to shift your mindset from money's the
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problem to money is just a conduit of energy, and currency means electricity.
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It means energy. That's all it is. Get yourself out of the mindset
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that money is bad and life isn't all about money. You're right, Life
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is not all about money. Life is about freedom, free time and experiences.
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How do you get there if you're not a trust fund baby? How
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do you get there? If you don't have an unlimited bank account? How
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do you get there? What is that path look like? And it can
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be investing in something, It can be playing the stock market, it can
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be anything, investing in a business investing in yourself. But you can create
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more freedom and free time if you simply shift how you view the conduit to
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get there. That's it. The conduit in your brain has to shift.
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Money is just energy, that's all it is. And it really is energy.
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And we're taking a living tree and chopping it down and putting ink on
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paper. That paper is still energy. It's still life force energy, and
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you're exchanging that for something, a good, a service, something. So
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when I work with clients on mindset and shifting mindset, I try to figure
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out what their goal is. What is your goal? What do you want
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to accomplish? You want more freedom? Okay, great, how do we
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get there? Well, if you have a nine to five job, and
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I say nine to five, that can be eleven to seven, two to
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ten, three to midnight, whatever. If you have a job where you
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go somewhere for a period of time and you do not set your own schedule,
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that has to shift immediately. You have to figure out how to shift
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that. If you can't shift that, you need a side hustle. That
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simple. You need a side hustle. And when I talk about side hustles,
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people say, oh, you're taking more of my freedom. I'm away
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more of my free time. Yes, in the beginning, you are.
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Unless you have the balls to do what I did, which is quit your
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job one day with three hundred bucks in your bank account, a rent payment
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of fifteen hundred, a car payment of four hundred. No, you can't
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pay either and create a company. You need a side hustle. Not everybody
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can fly without a safety knit like I can. I've done that. My
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whole life is something I know is an uncomfortable shore. But I can do
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it. So if you have that in you and you want to do it,
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do it. If you think in the back of your head what if
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I fail? You're not ready for that, So then create that side hustle
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and it can be anything. You can create a video online and sell it.
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You can create a how too, You can do pretty much anything.
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Do some investing. You can offer a cleaning company, clean people's houses,
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shovel snow. Any of those things brings in additional income, and you set
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your own schedule. If you're good at that side hustle and you like that
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side hustle and it nets you some money, which is energy, you can
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make this shift from full time job to side hustle, and in the beginning,
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maybe you need to dedicate more freedom and free time to the business.
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My company's now eleven years old. In the beginning, I put in fifteen
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sixteen hour days. I built my own website, I made my own business
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cards, I created my own courses. I taught my own courses. I
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called my own leads. I did all of that. Eleven years later,
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I have a full staff. I have a full time staff, and I
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have a part time staff that go out and service clients. I have a
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lot more free time and freedom today than I did eleven years ago. But
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I put that time and energy in to do it. The second piece of
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this where people get lost in translation, is when you make money, you
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cannot hoard it. Energy. Energy is flowing, right, you know,
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energy flows. You touch a tree, you feel energy. You walk barefoot
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on the grass, You're sucking up all that energy. Right, Those are
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positive resets you should be doing every day anyway. You should be resetting your
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energy because there is some energy draining motherfucker's on this planet, and if you
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come in contact with them, they will deplete you. So barefoot on the
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grass, hugging a tree very important. Do you ask permission to hug the
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tree first before you do it. Those are things you can do to reset,
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reply ish or place, because you cannot pour from an empty cup.
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Having said that, though, you have to understand the currency. Everything is
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energy, Everything you touch is energy. Everything is always in motion. So
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if you hoard your money, if you put it in a bank account and
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you don't use it, and you don't spread it around, number one,
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you're gonna be miserable. I see that every time number two, you may
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have an addiction. I see that you're not using the energy as as as
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it was intended. So every time I make money, I spread it around.
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I go out, I have dinner. I tip forty percent fifty percent
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of the check on purpose. I give homeless people money. Now, granted,
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if you look like you're doing drugs, I'm not giving you shit because
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that's my industry. I am not gonna help you kill yourself. But if
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you truly look homeless, I might buy you some food. Absolutely, So
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you can do that. You have to spread it around. You have to
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free will give it away. And I do that all the time. I
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tip well and make sure my staff are paid. All of my staff make
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thirty percent more than the industry because I want them to be happy, and
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if I have, they have. That's how it works. So that is
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the secret to getting out of your head head that money is bad, money
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is evil. It's very simple that money is energy that's meant to be spread
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around, and the more money you have, the more money you can spread
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around. You have to think of it that way. I have clients that
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can pay my rate, and I have clients that cannot. The clients that
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can pay my rate, those that can't, I do promona work for it.
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And that's not everybody. Not every client you know is a free client.
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But I do promona work. I also have a school, and there
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are people that can pay full price for the classes and they do, and
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there are people that cannot, and we do scholarships. Absolutely. The goal
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is those that can pay you due and those that can't you can give back
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freely. Two. That's how the energy of money works. And I think
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a lot of people get stuck on I can't make money because money is bad.
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If I make too much money, I'm greedy, I'm evil, I'm
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wrong. Get out of your head and start thinking about money as energy that
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transfers hands for more good look at the good of what you can do if
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you had more currency. The more currency you have, the more currency you
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can put back into humankind and into the universe to create more currency. I'm
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gonna take it one step further for you. If you own a lot of
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junk, and you hold on to stuff, furniture, clothes, baby,
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stuff, what have you, you cannot get more currency. Ever. Notice
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the poorer person has more junk on their front porch. There's a reason for
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that. The more stuff you hold on to, the less the universe gives
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you. You have to give things away. If you're not using it and
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it's sitting in your closet, get rid of it. Somebody else can be
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enjoying it. Even if in the back of your mind you go, oh
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my god, I don't want to part with that. It is. If
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you don't want to part with it, sell it on off or up sell
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it on Facebook, marketplace, give it to a friend. The more you
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do that, the more you get energetic currency without having to work for it.
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That's the law of attraction, it's the law of abundance, it's the
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law of one. We are all connected. If you put back out into
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the universe, energy you're going to get energy. And if money is the
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way you need it, it will come in that form. If it's help
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you need it will come in that form. Whatever it is you need will
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come in that form. Example, I'm trying to sell my house. I
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know nothing about visual representation or color palette or anything at all, roughly amauditory
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dominant. I just know I want it sold. Friend of mine's a builder,
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took a look at the house and he said, I know what you
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need to do to make this a higher selling property. I know how to
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do it, and here's my price. Okay, So he gave me a
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monetary price for his time, which he should do. I then put out
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to the universe, I've got to meet this price, or I want to
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meet this price because I know his work is good and I know it's a
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fair price. It's under market value, and I know he'll do a good
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job and I know he'll help me get the house sold. So I put
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out there that I need to meet a monetary currency. I then got a
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client that met that monetary currency. So the client I helped get sober that
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monetary currency comes to me. It flows through me to my friend, the
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builder. My friend the builder provides the service that which will help me sell
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my house. Follow that for a second. That's how you should be thinking.
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I need the service of getting this done, the service required and exchange
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of something this will be monetary currency. How do I get monetary currency?
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I do what I'm good at. I help people get sober. That's my
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job. I'm good at it, and that's my gift to humankind. My
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friend's gift to humankind is making esthetically pleasing spaces that make people happy. So
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I know he's gonna come here and make my house look badass, and then
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somebody will buy it that will want a badass house, that will say I
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love this house. I love the way it looks. It makes me happy.
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So what does my friend do? Does he build? No, he
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makes people happy through the art of building, and he loves what he does,
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so he should be compensated through the energetic portal of currency because that gets
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passed on to the buyer, who then appreciates the product. That's how the
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energy of the universe works right there. That is, in a nutshell,
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how law of attraction works. So when people tell me I can't manifest anything
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if you're standing in the mirror giving yourself ten positive affirmations. It doesn't work
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like that. You have to give to get. You have to freely give
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with the understanding and the trust that you will get. That's where people go
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wrong. They want it immediately. If I give you this, I expect
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something back. You can never expect something in return. You should always freely
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give. The universe will bring you the people you need and the money and
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currency you need to do the job you're here for. But you have to
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trust that process. You have to believe in that process, and you have
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to have the skill set to get there. So if you want more information,
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check out on pauseolife dot com. Give us a call if you want
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