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Haley Carbajal · Postcards to the Universe

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Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do you believe in magic?
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What if you were told that all you had to do was get a
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little creative and work a magic spell to bring anything you can imagine into your
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life. Here on Postcards to the Universe, we will share manifesting tips,
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postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity. Here's your host, Melissa Capria.
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Hey everybody, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating the
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life you crave. How are you guys doing today? On where I'm at
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this very wet Wednesday, It has been raining all day and apparently there's all
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these flood watches, so gratefully I didn't have to leave and go anywhere today.
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Yeah, it's that time of year, you know, South Florida,
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June. We're a hurricane season and the storms are starting, so we're all
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wet and rainy. But that's okay, you know, it's no big deal.
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I kind of like it when it rains outside. It cools everything down
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because, let me tell you, it is hot, hot, hot here.
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I'm sure you guys have heard me say that many times. Oh speaking
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of just FYI, so last week, we were doing the show live and
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we did get kicked off, going like to see you. I don't know
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if a lot of people realize if you are listening to my show for the
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first time, you're listening. If it is June twelfth at four pm Eastern
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time, you're listening to us live right now. So last week there happened
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to be a storm from in Brazil where my producers are, and they got
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kicked off the air, so we had to drop that show. But my
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guest, June Edward, is kind enough to come back and she's going to
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come back in July. So if you were trying to listen last week,
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that's what happened. But today I have a really cool guest, Hayley carbahal
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On, and she is a star Seed coach and mentor. So I'm excited
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to talk to her, and she's going to join me in just a couple
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of minutes because I want to hear what a star Seed coach and mentor is
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and what she does sounds really cool. So, like I said, if
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you're new to my show, welcome, you're listening to us live, but
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you can always we always put the shows up on a replay in the archives.
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You can find all of my previous shows on Home Times Radio in the
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archives section, and every show it tells you what it's about. And you
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can also find them on my website Postcards to the Universe dot com. I
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put them every show up under podcast so you can listen to the shows anytime
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you like, and I hope that you do. And if you don't know
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who I am, I am a photographer. I'm an author. I have
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a book titled Postcards to the Universe, Harness the Universe's power and manifest your
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dreams. And I talk all about manifesting in the book, and I photographed
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thirty contributors manifesting postcards, which is sort of like a minivision board, and
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when their manifestation showed up in their reality, I shared their story along with
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the photo that I took. Now, my book came out in twenty nineteen,
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right before COVID, like right at the end of the year, and
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then you know, the beginning of twenty twenty. That was fun. So
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it's coming up. I can't even believe it. At the end of this
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year, it'll be five years. So I decided probably over six months now,
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maybe even longer, to rephotograph the postcards that were in the book,
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and I've done that and I post them on Mondays. I call them my
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magical messages, so I post the postcard a little bit about the person's story.
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And I also started doing readings from the book on my social media's which
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you can find on TikTok, Instagram, LinkedIn YouTube. Everything is under postcards
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to the universe, so you can find you can find it there and you
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can follow. And I'm in the process of reading the book. I'm almost
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finished. I have a few more stories left to go. And I actually
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was going to do some recordings this week, but I had to have oral
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surgery last week. I had to get a bone graft done, and let
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me tell you, it's much more painful than they told me it was going
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to be. And it's been ten days and I'm stole in pain and I'm
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swollen, so I look like a chipmunk. So there hasn't been any live
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live videos until the swelling goes down. But you know, it's all good,
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right, It's all good. So let me out before I read about
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Hayley and let you know a little bit about her background and read you about
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her. I always ask people to send me manifesting postcards, so please do.
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My address to send him is on postcards to the universe dot com.
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How to create one is on the website. Also, if you have any
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questions and you need my help, please just reach out and all and I
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will help you. I love getting them. I love photographing them. There's
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a whole ritual I do when I photograph them. Check them out. Please
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send me more because they're fun to make. They really are so much fun
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and they work okay, So to get to my guest. Haley Carbajal is
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a star Seed coach and mentor and the creator of Five Steps to Alignment,
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a program that helps our seeds overcome fears, tachnation, and a lack of
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direction on their soul's journey to become vibrationally aligned with their soul's mission and purpose.
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By connecting to the highest sources of light and consciousness, Haley find fully
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realizes her gift as a multi dimensional communicator, medium, and seer, allowing
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her to understand the human consciousness and how the vibrations within one's consciousness speaks to
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the universe. She perceives the psychological patterns and behaviors of an individual and receives
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channeled information of the source from which it stems, as well as how to
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shift it. That's so interesting and if you want to find out more about
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her, go to her website, which is www dot five Steps to Alignment
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dot com. That's five Steps to Alignment dot com. Welcome Haley, Thanks
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so much for being here with me today. Thank you so much for having
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me. I'm excited to talk to you. Okay, So I know a
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little bit, you know, because I always read about my guests and everything,
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and you know before you come on, and I know that I know,
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star Seed, I've heard this before. So why don't you share with
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us for those who are like, what are they talking about? What do
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they mean? She's a star seed? Like, what is that? So
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share with us? So, yeah, So this is a this is a
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kind of an out there concept. Take it if it resonates, But it
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is the idea that an extraterrestrial, multidimensional being that lives and exists in a
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higher dimension than us in a three D physical plane as impardonate in a human
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body to help raise the vibration of the human consciousness and liberate humanity from the
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three D constructs of the of the matrix of the elites of the program that
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keep us inferior here so that we can step into our fullness or oneness or
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divinity or unity and create a new Earth. Mmm. So how did you
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know that you are one? Is it something that you've known since childhood?
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Did you have a vision? Did you speak to a higher being that confirmed
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it for you? Like how would somebody you know know this about themselves?
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So for me specifically, I was raised around spirituality and so not specifically around
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ets and extraterrestrials, but channeling, being connected to the light of creation,
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understanding angels and demons and things like that. And then within it started slowly
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trickling through and just it's if it resonates, you can feel in your core
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that you know that there's something larger than just us in its universe or something
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more in our reality in this universe. And so my true awakening to who
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I truly was came to me July seventh of last year, and it was
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during a meditation during the seven seven seven Serious Alignment portal Serious as a socialstem,
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and that connected me to my Arturian self. And then from there more
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stuff has just come in about who I am what my purpose is here,
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and you know all of that Now for others, really you just have to
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trust what you're sensing and what you're feeling. So there's a lot of fear
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in uh, there's a lot of fear around this something other than humans right
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in this existence, in this reality. And a lot of people think of
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ets as like you know, like the movie ET or the very mysterious gray
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Aliens, and that's not actually the case. There are humanoid species of extraterrestrials
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that actually reflect us. We come from them, we were engineered from them.
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That's that's a long story. But really, for others who are curious
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about it, first of all, if you're still listening and you're curious,
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that's probably aside that you are one, because otherwise you would not have come
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into contact with this message. And also, if you have this connection to
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a higher self, that is a gateway for you to explore the option of
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being an extra terrestrial incarnate in a human body. But ultimately, even though
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that's a really fun niche creative idea of what I want everybody to leave with
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is that essentially we're all connected to the same source, to the same consciousness
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and through that the different densities or the different dimensions that we live in existence
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we are, our soul is kind of fragmented and then materialized in certain personality
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forms. So it's like going from a state of water to steam to being
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ice and being I'm sorry, going from steam from water to ice, and
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the ice that we are experiencing is our personality blueprints now. And I don't
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mean to go but I just want to explain the concepts concisely that everything is
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happening here and now we have parallel reality living in existing here and now all
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at once. And so being connected to your extraterrestrial self or your multi dimensional
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self just means that your soul, your consciousness, is connected to another form
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of life, another timeline that you have had, and so you're just connected
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to that other version of yourself essentially. Right. I understand that. I
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mean I understand that because especially from doing this show and the people that the
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people that I meet on a regular basis, right, And I do meet
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really interesting people who are living interesting lives. And when you first this is
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relatively new, so it happened last year for you, were you like a
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little at first freaked out? I mean, obviously, like you said,
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you grew up in around a lot of spirituality with the angels and a lot
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of this, so you are already open to to these things. But when
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that came to you, when when you got your star seed message, did
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you were you like what like did it did you feel like, no,
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that can't be real or any of those kind of any of those kind of
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feelings. Actually, I specifically did not, and I believed that because it
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was trickled out three times. But it wasn't just a you know that,
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but like a holy cow moment, right, And also it felt like it
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was like an aha moment. That is why proceiding differently than yeah, sens
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of it's energy and it just honestly, there was a knowingness within me that
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already knew that that was that it was just like somebody ringing a bell to
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remind me that that's who I was. But I know, yeah, others
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it don't have that experience like this can't be real, and they doubt themselves
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sure, And that's what I help them with, you know, well,
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yeah, and I know with me too, like when something rings true,
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you sort of know it. You don't have to ask, you don't have
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to ask it or you don't have to second guess it, like it feels
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like yes, okay, well that's why, like all of a sudden,
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now you're like everything kind of clicks into place and you're like, yep,
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that's why this has been this way and this way and this way my whole
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life because of this. So it makes sense. That's really really interesting.
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So you talk about because I always talk about manifestation, and you talk about
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manifestation and what is it? What do we need to be doing because you
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know, I talk about a lot I talk about the affirmations, and you
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know, affirmations are great, and they are very helpful and they're a helpful
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tool, but it is more about raising our vibration. Right. We have
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to raise our vibrations to match what it is we want to bring in to
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our life, or it won't come no matter how much we wish it,
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you know, no matter how many affirmations, no matter how many postcards we
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make. Right, you have to vibration. We have to raise our consciousness.
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We have to raise our vibration. What do you tell people to do
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who want to who want to manifest maybe love or career, happiness or health
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in their life. Actually, what I tell them is to stop doing so.
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All of these amazing tools like affirmations, right, those are simply just
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what's the best, are just simply permission pless So they give us something that
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we resonate with and that it gives us permission to fully believe in something and
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use it as a tool to connect to fully who we are. Now,
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when you realize that everything that you already want is already yours and that there
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is absolutely nothing that you need to do in order to receive it or get
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it, it is really the fear of not having it that would prevent you
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from getting it, then you realize that you can live in ease and you
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don't have to do anything in order to receive what you want. You just
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follow that inspired action or those intuitive hits and follow the thread that will lead
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you to exactly what you want. Because what you seek is truly speaking you,
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and what you want does actually want you, and there's nothing that you
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have to do or try to become or try to alter within yourself in order
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to have it. Now there is the aspect of yes, you do have
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to be a vibrational alignment with it, But if you're so focused on using
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tools to get what you want. Understanding that the universe speaks in frequency.
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If you feel like you have to do affirmations or you have to do visualization
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in order to receive something, that ultimately what you're vibrating is lack. What
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you're vibrating is what you're vibrating. So if you realize that it will come
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to you in divine order and you can you should not have any insistence on
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the how or the when, and then it will come to you and as
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divine timing that it actually you streamline yourself to receive it master because you're just
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you. How do we or how do you help your clients people that come
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to you drop that fear because I think that's what is holding most of us
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back because obviously, in the world that we live in, if we all
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could do that so easily, it would look very different. We would all
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look very different in our lives for the things that we want. So we're
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all holding onto insecurities and fears, maybe feelings of not worthiness or you know,
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or not believing it. There's something there's a block. How do we
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shift that well? For to all of that is societal programming by people who
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don't want you to access your power, so you must release those truthss go
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because they are false truths or they are right truths. And so when I
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would all pain, all pain, all suffering is resisting the natural self.
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So when things like limiting beliefs or negative beliefs come up, we try to
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resist them because we're afraid that if we keep thinking them that we're going to
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manifest what we don't want. When in reality, the reason why these limiting
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beliefs the negative beliefs are coming forward is because you actually are beginning to align
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exactly with what you want, but these are holding you back. So if
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you just look at them, don't define negative beliefs negatively, don't put a
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value judge on them, just say thank you for coming forward. Because if
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you're not able to identify or locate the limiting belief that's holding you back,
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that is going to unconsciously continue to hold you back, and then you will
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have no awareness as to why you can't receive what you want. So what
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I help my clients do, or anybody who works as me do, is
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I help them find their natural plane, their natural currency or current in the
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universe so that they can and then learn how to intelligently release the limiting beliefs
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that intelligently release those self imposed blocks so that they can actually live in bliss
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and happiness, enjoy no matter the circumstances that they are in, and they
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can evolve into the person that they are meant to become. Because truthfully,
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the whole spiritual journey is simply in its simplest form, is just releasing all
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that you are not. So if you're releasing those truth those past truths of
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not being worthy, or that you have to use the law of attraction of
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management, you have to do this to get what you want, then we
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release that because it's not the truth that everything is already divinely in alignment with
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you. It's just the belief that you have to do something in order to
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get it that is preventing just just be, just be. So what is
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a good way to release, Like, let's say you discover, Okay,
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I have this limiting belief I just I realize You had your aha moment that
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said, I realize I believe I don't deserve to have happiness in my life.
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Wherever that came from, from childhood, whatever, doesn't matter. How
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do you release it that limiting belief. Mm hmm. Well, if you
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if it's heavy, if it feels it's not yours to carry. So first
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of all, we have to remove this panic. And I know because I've
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done this thousands of when something like that comes up, we instantly want to
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like resist it, like let it go, let it go, let it
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go, go on this. But actually what we're doing is we're feeding it
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the fear that it will control us, and therefore it does. So this
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is where that higher intelligence of detachment comes in and curiosity. So don't don't
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The key is here is don't make it personal. So if you know that
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this belief of I'm not worthy of receiving this comes from your let's just say,
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for an example, your mom and you yourself. Do I really want
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to continue holding on to this away, then you can find a way to
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let it go. But I understand that sometimes it's not always that simple because
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emotions do come into play. There's there's a lot that goes into it,
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right, Like it's it's a facili you're feeling, and usually we gravitate towards
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what we're familiar with. Sometimes it's serving us somehow. So usually because the
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fu identify the limiting belief that is making us be held captive by this,
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you know, by this by the limiting belief. So a few questions to
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ask yourself, is you know, like one because again we want to be
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curious. We don't want to make it mean anything about ourselves. It's coming
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to the serface because it's already ready to be released. We just need to
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consciously agree to it. So asking yourself, what would I have to believe
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to be true about myself or my life in order for me to be experiencing
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this emotion right? Because the belief comes with an emotion. The next one
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is is how is this belief serving me? Right? And so I know
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a lot of people don't believe. Well, you know, if it's a
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negative belief, it's it's not serving me at all. Actually it is,
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otherwise you would not be holding on to it. And so let me give
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you an example to want me. Let's say that we're going with a belief
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that came from your mom that I don't deserve this, I'm not worthy of
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this, and y, how is this serving me? While it's either protecting
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you, keeping you safe, or keeping you connected to people somehow? So
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if you say, how is this serving me? And then if you have
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an honest conversation with yourself and you're willing to hear the truth, the answer
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it may be something like, oh, well, having this worthiness actually makes
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me work harder to make sure that I get what I want. So then
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you just reframe it and you say, okay, so I would like to
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know what it feels like to be able to feel worthy and deserving of what
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I want without having to work hard in order to do so. Let's see
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another example, right, So it keeps me connected to my mom because when
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Mom needs a lot to me, if I share this belief with her,
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then it's something that we can connect with. Okay, So I so like
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I like you could just say I command I download or whatever feel natural and
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organic to you. Noing died download myself with knowing what it feels like to
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be able to effortlessly and organically connect to my mom without holding onto the belief
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that I am unworthy or undeserving in order to do so. Right, in
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order to connect with your mom, you can so relieve that belief and be
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connected to her. So that is that clear? Yes? Yeah, yeah,
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I understand that. Yeah, Yes you did, thank you? Yes,
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that is very clear, and I think that for anybody listening, maybe
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a good question to ask yourself is, because we've all we all have them,
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So what is your limiting belief or one of your limiting beliefs Because we've
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we all have them. They stem from our experiences in you know, situations
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in childhoods, how we grew up, what messages were told us, Like
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you said, carrying somebody else's right, like if there, if you're if
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it was the mom who you got this belief from. The mom had this
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belief maybe from her mom, you know, and that's why things get passed
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down. So I would imagine the first big step to healing is finding out
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what our limiting beliefs are, right, yes, and then not making it
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personal, not making it mean something about you. Don't put a value judgment
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on yourself because you have it. Again, it's coming to the surface to
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be released. So that is a gift. It is a sign that you're
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getting what you want. It is a sign that you're aligning to what you
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want. So just say thank you. And that's interesting. I love that
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I've never heard of it stated in that way. If you're finding it and
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you're uncomfortab and it's coming up and it's painful. It's a sign that it's
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ready to be let go. And it's a gift instead of because usually what
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you like you said before, Oh no, I don't want to look at
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this, I don't want this, I don't want this, I don't want
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to deal with this anymore, like go away, go away, and we're
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not. We're not doing that, right, We're not making it go away.
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We're just burying it deeper and deeper. And then a lot of times
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that's when things manifest as a disease in our bodies because our bodies hold on
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to this pain, don't you think, Yeah, yes, absolutely absolutely.
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And also when we're doing that, that is us giving it more life than
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it actually has over you. You're we're getting it more control over us than
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it actually has over us, right, and then it unconsciously does control you,
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and then you manifest what you don't want. So just that by coming
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to the surface, it means that what you do want is trying to come
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through, but you must this thing first in order to receive it or get
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closer to it. So again, it's a gift. Just say thank you
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and let it go, because it's not yours. It means nothing about you,
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right yeah, And it takes practice. It takes practice to say thank
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you and look at it as a gift. It's not necessarily going to be
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so easy as if you're suffering for you just to say thank you. This
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is a gift. You know, you have to you have to give yourself
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a little credit and practice it. It's not an overnight thing. I mean,
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maybe it is, you know, like that could be a limiting belief
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I have, But for most from my own experience, it's not an overnight
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thing. It takes practice. All Right, We're going to stop here,
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so Haley, let's pause here because I have tons more questions for you.
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We're going to take our commercial break, and when we come back, we're
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the coolest guests, trailblazers, mystics and creatives who enrich our lives. Hey,
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guys, welcome back and if you're just joining me speaking with Haley Carbaholland.
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She is a star Seed coach and mentor and the creator of five Steps
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to Alignment. So, Haley, you say that you help star Seeds overcome
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fear stagnation and a lack of direction on their soul's journeys. So obviously there's
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a lot of star seeds that that are here on in on the planet right
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night, right now, helping to elevate elevate us. Correct. Is that
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is there something that you've been you've you've had confirmed for you? Okay?
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So is there is there something that's going on with people who are identify who
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are star seeds that are having a hard time? Is it? Is it
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that they're feeling lost? Is it that they just know that something's different or
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they don't fit in and they just can't find their like their way or something.
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Yes, So typically star seeds feel very alone and isolated. So there
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is a lot of us, but not compared. We're small fraction compared to
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the rest of humanity, and our light is specifically placed in different areas of
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the Earth so that we create this grid of light that is meant to be
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held and shared so that we can help the earth ascend. So a lot
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of the symptoms of being a paraceed is feeling that loneliness and that isolation,
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feeling like you know, the mundane stuff, like you know, like a
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nine to five job, or are you know, regular conversation things like the
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weather or celebrities or what's new in the news. None of that is stimulating.
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They usually have this longing to go to a place that's not here,
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so they feel like they don't belong. They feel like they're almost in a
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displaced in the world. So there are a lot of them, and so
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usually when I speak to people, sometimes they're not sure of their star seed
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origins. Sometimes they're not sure if they're a star seeds, and through working
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with me, we come to that realization. But normally they just have this
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hunger to do something great with their lives, and they really strumble with the
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systems that are in place and humanity right now, and it's really just overcoming
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the three D programming and finding that authenticity and that bravery so that they can
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truly step into their fullest power in remembering who they are and using their spiritual
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gifts, fields and abilities to help humanity. And sometimes that also means helping
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them facilitate and making money with that as well. Of course, of course,
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well from what you described, I could certainly be a star seed myself,
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because I feel exactly very similar to what you described. You know,
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like always, just like I always felt a little different. My thinking was
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always a little different, you know, could never relate to that, you
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know, plugging into that stuff, the news, the lives, like I
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don't care about that, Like I want these kinds of conversations, So I
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created a show so that I could have them. So I guess it works.
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It's working out. I guess. I guess I'm in alignment what I'm
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supposed to be doing. I love that. Yeah, I think more and
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more people are now. It doesn't necessarily mean that they're a star seed per
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se, but I do think more and more people are awakening into their own
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spirituality and their own paths to help elevate the planet, to bring us to
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the next level of our consciousness on our own journeys. Right, I really
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really do feel that that's happening more and more, the more people I talk
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to and the more things that I see. So I just love that.
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So you said something earlier before we took a break about pain. You know,
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pain being a gift and it's it's brought to the surface for us for
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a healing. Now do you do you think that that applies to a physical
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manifestation of pain? Also or are we just talking emotional. It's all encompassing.
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It's all encompassing. So I have this this you would call it a
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mantra, you could call it belief. But for every for every physical manifestation
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of something, whether it be a physical manifestation in the body, of physical
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manifestation in our reality, in our house and our care and our jobs and
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our anything, for every physical manifestation, there isn't ethereal reason. So that
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could be emotional, that could be spiritual, that could be meant fault.
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And so all pain, all pains, is resisting the natural self. So
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when we find ourselves in suffering, when we find ourselves in pain, that's
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because we're not in flow with the natural self. And it's pain is telling
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us something that is not in alignment, is showing us what not congruent with
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the organic natural self and the current that we are meant that our souls are
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meant to be upon. We're swimming upstream essentially. So you know, I
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love. I love the emotions of bliss, love, gratitude, joy,
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a thing. Actually we have a very sincere respect and appreciation for things like
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anger and frustration, brief because it is actually those beliefs that show me where
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I am not free. It shows me where I am limited, It shows
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me where I am resisting my natural self. And so when you look at
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it through that lens and you say, okay, anger is coming for I'm
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not an angry person and I'm experiencing this anger because something feels injust unjust what
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feels adjust to me right now? What is this anger telling me about myself
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right now? Because and then when you can identify that, because the answer
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will come to you. And here's the thing I want to mention about this.
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So doctor Joe just spends the says, very often you cannot you cannot
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think beyond what you feel. Right So, if you're in a state of
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anger and you're asking yourself these intelligent questions like what is this anger showing you
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about myself? You can't. Sometimes the answers do come to us right away,
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but more often than not, we have to let the question sit and
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just be when anger. Because if you can't think beyond what you feel,
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that you will not receive an answer outside of the vibration of anger, and
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that's not going to be the highest truth. So then when you're more in
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a state of bless you kind of move past it. You know, you're
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in a state of more bless more gratitude, more presence, then the answer
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will come to you and uh, and then you'll be able to move forward
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intelligently from there. So when you're asking these yourself, these questions, just
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know that sometimes it doesn't always come forward in that moment. If you're some
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grace and just allow the flow. Again, we don't need to force anything.
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We actually just need to stop and slow down. Nothing needs to be
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premeditated, pre calculated. It's all in divine orchestration. And when we follow
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that disgne orchestration and true faith, and really it's not even faith and true
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knowing this, then we have that useful, happy, fulfilled life that others
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talk about. But bringing it back, when those denser I like to call
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them denser emotions because they feel heavier with frustration, anger, confusion and all
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of that comes up, we observe it and respond to it intelligently, not
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absorb it. HM. Well, you know, it's really interesting that you're
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on my show and we're talking about this today because and the reason that I
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asked you about physical pain was so I had a bone graft ten days ago,
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and I am suffering pain and the pain is more significant, way more
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significant than I expected. And I'm still in pain, like I'm in pain
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right now talking to you, and I'm wondering why. There's more to it
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than just the physical pain, right, There's more to it than this.
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So it's like I'm getting a hit and listening to you talk about why this
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pain is radiating in my right my right jaw, that's where I had it.
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I had the bone grafted oral and my on the right side of my
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mouth. And it feels like I would never have thought this before. You
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know, the first few days, of course you're uncomfortable in pain and swelling,
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but the fact that it's still here and it's still so significant, I
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need to look at what's what's going on? Something else is keeping it there?
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Mm hmm. You. My question to you would be, are you
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maybe minorly resentful that the pain is still there? Well? Definitely, yes,
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I am very resentful that the pain is still there. Yeah, yeah,
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I have to be honest. You can you make that? Okay?
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Can you make that hay? Okay? So then what is the what?
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But then you know, the next question would be what is what are you.
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What is what are you resisting? That's what I need to think about.
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That's what I that's where that's where I need to go. What is
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it that I'm resisting? Because that I can't answer that off the top of
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my head. That one I have to meditate on. Yeah, that one
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I have to meditate on. But just having the conversation with you, I
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feel the pain easing up just a hair. Isn't that weird? Just easing,
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just easing, just a little Yeah, yeah, okay, that tells
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me that yeah, okay, all right, good, So now I know
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what work I need to do. Let's see, there's never any coincidences,
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do you know what I'm saying. There's We're always being led to what we
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need to look at go because of all the days that you could have come
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on my show to have this kind of conversation for me to have this surgery
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that I needed to have, Like it could have happened any other way,
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but it didn't. It came this way, and there was a reason because
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it's showing me something I needed to see and I could only see it this
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way by having you as my guest right right now. That's how you know
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that you're in alignment because of those synchronicities. Those synchronicities are breadcrumbs that show
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you that you are exactly in alignment in following the currents. Right. So
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people who are listening, think about those things in your own life and to
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show you that. That's what I always say. The universe always has your
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back, It's always leading you in the right direction. The problem is we
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humans, maybe star seats two humanoid stars needs get in our own way.
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We get in the way, right. Don't you think we don't allow things
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to flow? That is true, and that is because so now I'm going
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to if I may, I want to want to do this? Is that?
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Okay? So this is based off of Bashar's teachings, this is not
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my own. Okay. So we have essentially two minds. So we have
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our physical mind, which is the one we're most familiar with, and then
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we have our higher mind, which is usually connected or referred to as our
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higher self. Now, our physical mind is only meant to process what has
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happened and is not meant to process how things will happen. The higher mind
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is meant to do that. Design orchestrating is meant to do that. Precalculating
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is meant to do that pre planning. And when we use our physical mind
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to try and do the things that the higher mind is meant to do,
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that is when we create resistance. That is when we try to control the
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album and we get you know, we we we mess up in some way
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or you know, it's also essentially trying to force things and try to control
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the outcome. Again, our physical three D mind is only the processing system.
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It is only meant to process what has happened. And so that's why
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your higher self just give it to the higher mind, to the part of
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you that is connected to spirit, to that one missed consciousness, because they
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have that higher mind has the bigger picture. It knows the life play on
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blueprint. And so just allow yourself to follow again when the higher mind is
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talking to you, because it's non physical, it comes to you in the
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form of energy, and that energy is usually translated and excitement and passion.
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And so when we follow that excitement and when we follow that passion, and
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it doesn't have to be this big grip, be a thing. It could
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be I'd rather have, you know, make a I'd rather a blueberry sauce
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on my pad takes rather than syrup. Right, it doesn't have to be
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the grandiest thing, of course, But if we follow that threat of passion
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and excitement and just allow the higher mind to work out the details, then
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we don't come up against so much resistance because our physical mind is not wired
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to do everything. We have to use our whole mind, which is the
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three D anify D aspect of ourselves, the physical mind and the higher mind.
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That is when we can find that ease great in our lives and have
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us resistance. So how do we for those of us that are caught in
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that cycle of worry, worry, worry, always using our physical mind and
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trying to work problems out, how do we stop that and and use our
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higher minds? Because I for a lot of us, it's very difficult because
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we've never done that before. So it's like, you know, trying to
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speak almost another language. You know, how do we drop those old patterns?
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Well, it is a process, right, So start with something small.
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So let's say that you're at the grocery store and usually you have a
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sparagus and a vegetable that maybe carrots, are feeling a little bit more exciting,
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Follow that small instinct to get the carrots instead instead of driving the usual
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way home, follow that excitement, that that vision that comes into your head
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that says you don't take a different way, well this other way, but
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make it so like we're already communicating with our higher self anyway. That's the
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thing I would love for you all to know. And they're already doing it
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anyway. It comes to you again in the form of passion and excitement and
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anticipatient. So if you follow the emotions of passion, excitement, curiosity,
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like all of those things, then you are actually listening to your higher self.
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Then you are actually following and in communication with the higher self. And
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if you don't follow those things, you will find that you don't get more
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information, because it's not like you're cut off forever, but you will not
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receive more information until you act upon the thing that the higher minority gave you.
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Because that is just the next step that is from A to D or
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from B to C. Right, So the best way that actually start communicating
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with your higher self is just to follow that energy, that emotion of passion,
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excitement, desire, attraction, and then don't like literally and I know
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we've done that say thousand times over the wrong way. Don't try to figure
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out why, try to figure out why you take Main Street and then a
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third street. Don't try to figure out why you want parts instead of experience,
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because again, you're meant to process what has happened that right, grit.
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So just follow that threat of excitement and that should open up the gateway.
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Yeah, and it's good that you said, like, don't try to
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figure out why. And I find a lot of uh. I noticed a
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lot of people do this, especially in relationship to others. It doesn't matter
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what kind of relationship. They're always trying to figure out why somebody else does
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something that they're doing. And I always say, you're going down a rabbit
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hole you don't want to go down. You're never going to figure it out.
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It's not for you to figure it out why people do the things they
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do or say the things they do. That's not your journey. Your journey
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is to be where you are and how you're reacting to what other people are
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doing. That's where you need to worry because we can't figure it out,
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and we and so many of us waste our time trying to and it's it's
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just a it's it's it's not a good place to be in. You know,
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you get into that drama loop and you're not serving yourself, You're only
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hurting yourself. Yes, and worry, if I may worry, stem from
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doubt. And so here's the thing I want. I would love for everybody
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to take with us. Right, So we've been told, we've been told
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that doubt means that we're not trusting in something, when in reality, when
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we are doubting something, we are actually in full trust. We are just
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in full trust of the thing that we don't prefer. We are in in
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full trust of the thing that we fear. So you're already trusting in something
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anyway you're that you have to learn how to trust. You just have to
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choose what you want to trust in. A question I like to ask myself
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is if I could have it, if I could have it any way that
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I want it, how would I want it? And that I define that,
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and then I make my decisions based on where I'm going and what I
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want, with the knowing this that I will get the breadcrumbs that I require
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if I continue to follow that highest and passion and excitement, it will all
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be taken care of say that again, if you're in doubt, you're already
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trusting. But what you're trusting is in the thing that you don't want,
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yes, ring in the two that you don't prefer that you don't prefer.
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That is really interesting. I had never thought about it like that before,
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but I really got that. That is so true if you really break it
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down and you think about it. That was an AHA moment for sure.
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Wow. Yeah, that's true. That's true. And it's interesting that you
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said that. You'll ask yourself the questions about what is it that I really
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prefer? And I find that if I have an option between two things,
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let's say, flipping a coin truthfully is very revealing because it will tell you
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a millisecond before what you prefer to land on, and that's your answer,
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you know, if you have like a choice between Yeah, it really does,
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because if you have heads is I want to go left and tails is
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I'm going to go right, and you flip it and for just that millisecond,
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your higher mind will say heads because that's what you really want, that's
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your answer, and it works every time, works every time. So it's
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really really interesting. So how is it that how can we find what our
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purpose is in our life, because we all have a purpose. What is
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some questions we should be asking ourselves? So first of all, take money
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out of it. Take money out of it because you know, because we're
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going we're automatically going to be default to well can I make money off of
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that? The money will come, money will come, So take money off
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the table and how it can in comes. So first of all, what
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are you naturally good at that you want to do? What is the thing
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that you could do all day effortlessly? And then that is your answer.
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Now we have multiple purposes, you know, were are multiple things here,
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But what is something that you are naturally good at all day that you also
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know is in service to others? Now that doesn't mean you have to go
52:09
out and be a therapist, it doesn't and be on the fence lines.
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But it could be that you really love picking up the trash on the beach
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that is in service of humanity and to earth. It could be that you're
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extremely good with technology and you could help support a radio show such as this
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right, So what are you naturally good at that you could do all day
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that contributes to something that is bigger than yourself? And therein as your answer
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and follow that. And as you evolved, as you grow, it can
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change, it can't upgrade along with you. And so the thing is not
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to hold on to the past and the way things used to be, so
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that you can receive the new as well. Yeah yeah, oh, and
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we're always evolving and it's always going to change. I mean, ten years
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ago, if you told me that I would be doing a radio show,
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I would tell you you're crazy, what are you talking about. You know,
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I'm a visual artist. I don't I'm not gonna be doing radio.
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And I love it, love it, absolutely love it because I meet I
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meet the most interesting people and and and and it. You know, I
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learned so much and I have a brain that constantly needs to be learning,
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and I'm totally open to new ideas and it's stimulating for me and it's and
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I love introducing new people to a new thought, a new way of looking
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at the world. You know. But I would have never known that,
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and I didn't take away. And I'm still doing my photography. I'm still
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photographing. I'm and that changes all the time too, the way I photograph
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and what I photograph. So yes, we are always evolving. Well,
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we only have Haley, We only have a couple of minutes left. So
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is there anything important that you want to a message that you want to leave,
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tell people the best way to find you, and a question and do
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you are you still working one on one with clients? Is that? Is
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that how you work with people? Yes, I have right now by website
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now, my updated website is Haleycarbahall dot com. Okay carbahall dot com and
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I have as I have a Patreon offering, so okay seven dollars at seventy
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seven cents a month. You can work with me in a group coaching with
54:27
your workshops, energy, dealings and life tonally nice and if you desire to
54:31
work with me more one to one, then you can also go to my
54:34
website Haleycarbahall dot com and you can book a consultation called to make sure that
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it's a good fit for both of us. Okay, and I'm also very
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active on Instagram. I'm at Haileycarbahall Official. I want the audience to leave
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with anything. Is that that detachment of what's the going on around you and
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within you? Then observation is the key to moving past whatever you're facing.
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And your external circumstances don't matter. They are only props to stimulate triggers where
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you are limited as in identifying those limitations and releasing them without judging them.
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There you can finally transcend what you're looking to transcend. So just detach,
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be the observer, have faith in yourself, put more faith into your higher
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mind, follow that passion and excitement, and allow things to unfall for you.
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Allow yourself to be surprised, allow the miracles. Thank you, Hayley,
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that was lovely. It was so interesting talking with you today. I
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thank you so much for coming on my show. All right, everybody check
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her out, and thanks for listening to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating
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the life you crave. I'm wishing everyone a wonderful week filled with joy,
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abundance and love. Peace,