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The Daily Mess Why Are People Always Late Plus Facing A Dooms Day Event · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: Hates me that question? Guy? You know the dude that's
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  Speaker 1: always asking questions because there's a lot of fun when
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  Speaker 1: you do the research. For instance, why is being late
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  Speaker 1: for work a party, funeral, or even a wedding accepted behavior? Plus,
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  Speaker 1: in this modern age of having so much technology, is
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  Speaker 1: the average person really ready for a doomsday event? Ooh,
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  Speaker 1: my name is Erro. I'm a daily writer, a solid wolf.
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  Speaker 1: I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
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  Speaker 1: then activate. I call it the daily Mess, a chronological
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  Speaker 1: as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We as people
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  Speaker 1: inside of me, it is time to dig in. It's
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  Speaker 1: still keeping that daily journal, but by doing the research,
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  Speaker 1: the picture is going to become clearer. This is the
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  Speaker 1: daily mess. And the question, of course, is why is
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  Speaker 1: being late for anything acceptable. We're talking schools, businesses, interviews.
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  Speaker 1: Late is what people seem to be doing. Well, here's
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  Speaker 1: the strange fun fact here. It's an American thing to
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  Speaker 1: be late. It is far, far, far from being universally accepted.
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  Speaker 1: But why are we this way in the United States. Well,
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  Speaker 1: there's four answers for you. People are over committed, fitting
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  Speaker 1: way too much into one day. Number two. Technology has
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  Speaker 1: created false confidence. Yeah, that GPS system, it's taught you
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  Speaker 1: one thing to lead home ten minutes later than what
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  Speaker 1: you normally did. Number three culture differences. Some cultures they
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  Speaker 1: don't mess around with time. You better be there on time.
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  Speaker 1: Number four social norms have shifted. Casual gatherings allow people
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  Speaker 1: to be late. But but but but if you suffer
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  Speaker 1: from chronic tardiness, the message you're pretty much sending out
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  Speaker 1: is my time is more valuable than yours. M Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're talking employers, doctors, airlines. They don't mess around with punctuality.
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  Speaker 1: There will be consequences in many places of business. But
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  Speaker 1: maybe not yours for right now. One question though, that
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  Speaker 1: came up was why are doctors always late? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: if we're breaking down on people who are late all
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  Speaker 1: the time, you gotta put doctors at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the list. Research clearly shows there's always going to be
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  Speaker 1: a moment or fifteen or twenty that it is going
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  Speaker 1: to be late. Maybe it's because their last patient needed
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  Speaker 1: more time, maybe there was an emergency, too many appointments
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  Speaker 1: and the paperwork. Oh my god, it has been proven
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  Speaker 1: that doctors spend way too much time receiving and reviewing
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  Speaker 1: test results and completing medical records. Oh, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: and if it is your choice to be late when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to me, you're never going to be accepted.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh ooh, ooh ooh. Coming up next, are people really
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  Speaker 1: ready for a doomsday event? Hey? Thanks for coming back
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  Speaker 1: to the daily mess. Are people ready for this thing
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  Speaker 1: called a dooms day event? Or is it just procrastination?
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  Speaker 1: You know, the invisible peacemaker. It's called how people cope
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  Speaker 1: with uncertain moments. Procrastinating creates invisible peace, but not preparedness.
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  Speaker 1: Research shows if people spend and every day expecting a disaster,
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  Speaker 1: they're not going to get any work done. What they're
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  Speaker 1: going to be doing is they're going to be sitting
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  Speaker 1: around worrying and blaming somebody from a misbalance in the
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  Speaker 1: family structure. Here's how real people think they know bad
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  Speaker 1: things can and will probably happen. People tend to put
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  Speaker 1: preparing aside because threat seems to be so damn far away.
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  Speaker 1: If a Doom's Day event did go into effect tomorrow,
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  Speaker 1: studies do show that many people would realize they were
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  Speaker 1: not prepared as they wish they would have been. This
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean someone's being careless with time. The actual reflection
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  Speaker 1: is a very human tendency to prioritize today's immediate scenes.
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  Speaker 1: And here's the thing. Future risks exist, but they're not
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  Speaker 1: pushing us in the direction of finding answers to questions
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  Speaker 1: that people have after the Doom's Day event. You know,
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  Speaker 1: there are some people in the mental health business that
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  Speaker 1: say that getting ready for a doomsday event is pretty
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  Speaker 1: much philosophical in the way of displaying safety first, it
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  Speaker 1: creates an illusion of being prepared or unprepared. Genuine peace
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  Speaker 1: will always come from acceptance, rather than avoiding the possibility
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  Speaker 1: of something happening altogether out of sight, out of mind.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't see it today, does it really exist? Ah?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe not a lot of deniers, too many of them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Eryl and that's the daily mess.