Latest / Pastor John Piper's answers / Sorrows Surprised by Happiness
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- 0:04Speaker 1: An interesting question today from Agnishka, which I think is
- 0:07Speaker 1: the Polish form of Agnes, who writes in today about
- 0:11Speaker 1: the complexity of Christian emotions. Pastor John, I want to
- 0:15Speaker 1: begin by expressing my deep gratitude for the work that
- 0:18Speaker 1: you do and the impact you've had on the broader church.
- 0:20Speaker 1: Your teachings have been a source of encouragement in guidance
- 0:23Speaker 1: too many, including myself. I recently read your book Battling
- 0:27Speaker 1: on Belief, a book you published in two thousand and seven,
- 0:29Speaker 1: and a particular passage stood out to me. You wrote
- 0:32Speaker 1: this quote, Despondency is not a common word today, but
- 0:36Speaker 1: I think it captures what I mean. It is not
- 0:39Speaker 1: depression per se, because depression denotes a clinical condition in
- 0:43Speaker 1: our day, but it is more than simply having a
- 0:46Speaker 1: bad day and feeling temporarily gloomy in the evening. Between
- 0:49Speaker 1: those two, there is a broad terrain of unhappiness where
- 0:53Speaker 1: too many Christians live their lives. Beneath much of that
- 0:57Speaker 1: experience is unbelief in the future grace of God and
- 1:01Speaker 1: its foundation in the person and work of Christ. This
- 1:08Speaker 1: made me wonder if your views on this topic have evolved,
- 1:11Speaker 1: especially given your personal experiences I recall you mentioning a
- 1:14Speaker 1: season in your life when you were deeply affected by
- 1:17Speaker 1: an emotional state that was hard to understand, even to
- 1:20Speaker 1: the point of sobbing without a clear cause. Reflecting on
- 1:24Speaker 1: those experiences, have your thoughts on unhappiness, its roots, and
- 1:28Speaker 1: how Christians should approach it? Has it changed? Also? Looking
- 1:32Speaker 1: back at battling unbelief, do you still agree with the
- 1:35Speaker 1: perspectives you shared, or have your views shifted in lat
- 1:38Speaker 1: of more recent experiences or understanding. I greatly value your
- 1:42Speaker 1: insights and appreciate your time and considering these questions.
- 1:45Speaker 2: I have to admit that my memory is simply not
- 1:50Speaker 2: good enough to know all the ways I have changed
- 1:55Speaker 2: over the past fifty years in my thinking. So let
- 2:00Speaker 2: me mention a few ways that I think I have
- 2:03Speaker 2: changed in my thinking about happiness and unhappiness in the
- 2:07Speaker 2: Christian life, knowing that there may well be others that
- 2:11Speaker 2: I don't remember. I would mention one, I have changed
- 2:17Speaker 2: particular exegetical views about texts that I didn't get right.
- 2:25Speaker 2: Number two, I think my emphasis has changed in some regards.
- 2:32Speaker 2: And three, I think I've changed in talking a little
- 2:39Speaker 2: more with a little more complexity about that emphasis. So
- 2:47Speaker 2: here's here's an example of the first one. The particular
- 2:50Speaker 2: exegetical mistakes that I have made and had to correct
- 2:56Speaker 2: when I wrote Future Grace, which from which Battling Unbelief
- 3:01Speaker 2: was taken. Second Desaloni in two thirteen, I misinterpret in
- 3:08Speaker 2: the Book of Future Grace it goes like this, God
- 3:13Speaker 2: shows you as the first fruits to be saved through
- 3:18Speaker 2: sanctification by the Spirit and belief in the Truth. Now,
- 3:23Speaker 2: one of my main arguments in Future Grace and Battling
- 3:26Speaker 2: Unbelief is that belief in the truth, that is glad
- 3:32Speaker 2: trust in God's promises is an essential means of sanctification.
- 3:38Speaker 2: It's a central argument in the book, and I use
- 3:41Speaker 2: this verse to defend that position because it says we
- 3:45Speaker 2: are saved through sanctification by the Spirit and belief in
- 3:51Speaker 2: the truth.
- 3:54Speaker 1: But I was.
- 3:55Speaker 2: Careless, because it is perfectly clear in Greek that belief
- 3:59Speaker 2: in and the truth does not modify sanctification. It modifies
- 4:05Speaker 2: we are saved. It says we are saved through sanctification
- 4:11Speaker 2: by the Spirit, and we are saved through belief in
- 4:14Speaker 2: the truth. I didn't get it right. I was using
- 4:18Speaker 2: a text to say something true, and the text didn't
- 4:22Speaker 2: teach it. A student pointed that out to me.
- 4:25Speaker 3: Praise God for students, right, they said, but it's genitive,
- 4:31Speaker 3: Pastor John, and that goes with I looked at him
- 4:33Speaker 3: and said, oh my goodness. So when the second edition
- 4:38Speaker 3: of Future Grace came out, we fixed it. You won't
- 4:40Speaker 3: find that mistake in the newer editions. My view of
- 4:46Speaker 3: sanctification did not hang on that one verse. We are
- 4:50Speaker 3: indeed sanctified by belief in the truth. It says that
- 4:54Speaker 3: in Acts twenty six eighteen. And I didn't get that
- 4:56Speaker 3: one wrong. Everybody agrees there. But and that one verse
- 5:01Speaker 3: did not argue for my position, and it didn't argue
- 5:04Speaker 3: against it. It just didn't address the issue that I
- 5:08Speaker 3: was dealing with. So over the years I have had
- 5:11Speaker 3: to make some exegetical corrections. Then, besides that, there have
- 5:17Speaker 3: been changes in emphasis and complexity, and those two are
- 5:23Speaker 3: so interwoven that I think it would be helpful just
- 5:28Speaker 3: to take them together. I think it's fair to say
- 5:32Speaker 3: that the last couple of decades I have increasingly emphasized
- 5:39Speaker 3: suffering as part of the Christian life, especially as it
- 5:44Speaker 3: relates to happiness in Jesus, and I have increasingly called
- 5:50Speaker 3: attention to the complexity of our emotions, as suffering and
- 5:58Speaker 3: happiness go and in hand. I think that's an emphasis
- 6:04Speaker 3: that has increased. Emphasizing suffering as part of the Christian
- 6:11Speaker 3: life has meant drawing attention not only to Jesus being
- 6:15Speaker 3: a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief, but especially
- 6:20Speaker 3: to Paul's sorrow and anxiety and godly grief and despairing
- 6:27Speaker 3: of life and anguish of soul, and being afflicted and
- 6:31Speaker 3: crushed and persecuted and struck down and reviled and slandered
- 6:36Speaker 3: and beaten with rods and lashed one hundred and ninety
- 6:39Speaker 3: five times with whips and stoned, and going without food,
- 6:44Speaker 3: being cold, toiling late at night, experiencing sleeplessness. All of
- 6:49Speaker 3: those come straight out of his epistles. I didn't make
- 6:51Speaker 3: any of those up. They're just stunning, stunning descriptions of pain.
- 6:58Speaker 3: These sufferings are not what only objective states of physical pain,
- 7:05Speaker 3: which they most emphatically are, but are emotional states that
- 7:12Speaker 3: most people would consider incompatible with happiness or joy or
- 7:18Speaker 3: gladness or satisfaction or pleasure or contentment.
- 7:23Speaker 2: So most of us grew up. I surely did thinking
- 7:28Speaker 2: that emotional states of misery and emotional states of pleasure
- 7:35Speaker 2: happen sequentially. Weeping last for the night, joy comes in
- 7:41Speaker 2: the morning, first the one, then the other at Psalm thirty,
- 7:45Speaker 2: verse five. But what I have been emphasizing in recent
- 7:50Speaker 2: years is that both Jesus in Matthew five eleven and
- 7:55Speaker 2: twelve and Paul throughout his writings insist on the complexity
- 8:02Speaker 2: of simultaneous unhappiness and happiness. And it doesn't help to
- 8:10Speaker 2: try to say that the pain isn't the kind of unhappiness.
- 8:14Speaker 2: It doesn't help to say that the joy is not
- 8:18Speaker 2: a kind of happiness. They are. If you want a
- 8:21Speaker 2: contemporary witness to this reality, listen to these words. Listen
- 8:25Speaker 2: to these unbelievable words. And if they had been written
- 8:29Speaker 2: by a twenty year old, you'd say, well, wait till
- 8:32Speaker 2: she lives long enough. But if it's written by a
- 8:34Speaker 2: seventy two year old who's been paralyzed for fifty years.
- 8:39Speaker 2: Here's what Johnny Erickson says in page one ninety five
- 8:42Speaker 2: of the Practice of the Presence of Jesus. I cannot
- 8:45Speaker 2: make my heart feel grateful, but there are times when
- 8:49Speaker 2: I am lying in my bed in miserable pain, and
- 8:54Speaker 2: I look up and near tears, I whisper, God, I
- 8:58Speaker 2: am so happy? How is that possible? I do not
- 9:05Speaker 2: rejoice in my horrible pain. Far from it. I rejoice
- 9:11Speaker 2: in the abundant outpouring of grace that God gives in
- 9:15Speaker 2: response to that pain. He hears my plea, sees my
- 9:20Speaker 2: yawning need, and fills it with grace that is commensurate
- 9:24Speaker 2: to my pain. Actually, since He's so generous, he feels
- 9:29Speaker 2: my need to overflowing. The result is that I am
- 9:33Speaker 2: stunned and surprised by sheer happiness end of quote. So
- 9:42Speaker 2: sheer happiness in miserable pain, not just after it. In it,
- 9:51Speaker 2: she says. So, I would say that the effect of
- 9:55Speaker 2: this shift of emphasis and complexity has had for me
- 10:00Speaker 2: is one to make me pursue joy as something profound
- 10:05Speaker 2: and miraculous and real and deeply different from almost all
- 10:12Speaker 2: the silly, big smile kind of happiness you see in
- 10:15Speaker 2: entertainment and advertising, and tragically in many evangelical worship services. Second,
- 10:24Speaker 2: the change in emphasis has caused me to focus more
- 10:27Speaker 2: on the all satisfying glory of Jesus the way Paul
- 10:31Speaker 2: speaks about it and Philippins three eight and on the
- 10:35Speaker 2: fact of hope as a huge essential for Christian joy.
- 10:42Speaker 2: We rejoice in the hope of the glory of God
- 10:45Speaker 2: Romans five to two. And third, this change has caused
- 10:49Speaker 2: me to return again and again to the absolute sovereignty
- 10:53Speaker 2: of God, to split the red sea of hopelessness that
- 10:56Speaker 2: we see in front of us. Again and again. This
- 11:01Speaker 2: change in emphasis has caused me to see Christianity increasingly
- 11:07Speaker 2: as a very radical thing, and has made me more
- 11:13Speaker 2: than ever not want to play religious games as I
- 11:17Speaker 2: approach eternity.
- 11:20Speaker 1: Yeah, sorrow's surprised by happiness. Thank you, Pastor John and
- 11:25Speaker 1: thank you Johnny. I know Johnny listens to this podcast,
- 11:28Speaker 1: So thank you Johnny for your faithful testimony over these
- 11:31Speaker 1: many decades. I learn joy best from those who suffer most,
- 11:36Speaker 1: and so you are a very precious sister in Christ
- 11:39Speaker 1: who has taught me a lot about joy from your
- 11:42Speaker 1: words and from your life. Thank you, sorrowful yet always rejoicing.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Those are the words of Tewod Corinthians six' ten in The.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Bible we didn't talk explicitly about that Text Tewo corinthians six',
- 11:55Speaker 1: ten today but it's implied really throughout this, entire episode
- 11:58Speaker 1: sorrowful yet, always rejoice saying joy in. The sorrows if
- 12:02Speaker 1: this concept seems odd, to you or if it's new,
- 12:04Speaker 1: to you SEE the apg book on pages three ninety
- 12:07Speaker 1: one to three ninety four to learn more about how
- 12:09Speaker 1: that works In the, christian life including a Story From
- 12:12Speaker 1: pastor john's own life when tragedy struck him in nineteen.
- 12:17Speaker 1: SEVENTY four i don't want to. Miss, that well WHAT
- 12:21Speaker 1: if i told you that sexual purity is an act
- 12:24Speaker 1: of love? For? Others this. That's Next I'm. Tony rank
- 12:30Speaker 1: we'll see You. On monday