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- 0:46Over the weekend, Chapel Rhone shared an Instagram story
- 0:49addressing the internet's latest claims against her.
- 0:52The singer-songwriter was lying in bed, propped up on her side,
- 0:56her phone filming in selfie mode in hand.
- 0:58I'm just. Gonna tell my half of the story
- 1:02of what happened today with mother and child.
- 1:06The story in question is the allegations levelled against her
- 1:09by beloved Brazilian born soccer player Georginio Frello.
- 1:13On Saturday, Georginio took to Instagram stories to blast the
- 1:1628 year olds alleged behavior. His wife Catherine and his 11
- 1:20year old stepdaughter were visiting Sao Paulo to attend
- 1:23Lollapalooza, with Chapel slated as one of the headlining acts,
- 1:26but they also caught a glimpse of the star outside the festival
- 1:30grounds. Georginio stated that his family
- 1:32happened to be staying at the same hotel as Chapel and spotted
- 1:36her during breakfast. What could have just been a
- 1:38harmless interaction ended in tears with a man who appeared to
- 1:43be a member of Chapel security team being aggressive toward
- 1:46Catherine and her daughter. For better or worse, Georginio
- 1:49posted about it. His Instagram story prompted a
- 1:52wave of backlash against Chapel, emboldened by the seemingly
- 1:55never ending conversation around her decisive stance on privacy,
- 1:59paparazzi and fan interaction. We're involved with a security
- 2:03guard who is not my personal security.
- 2:06I didn't even see. I didn't even see a woman and a
- 2:10child like I did not. No one came up to me.
- 2:14No one bothered me. I did not ask the security guard
- 2:17to go up and talk to this mother and child.
- 2:21Chapel's video left the Internet divided.
- 2:23Some were reluctant to believe that a security guard would
- 2:26speak for her without her knowledge or consent.
- 2:29Others said that the constant backlash was disproportionate,
- 2:32likening it to a modern day witch hunt.
- 2:34But arguably the more interesting conversation to
- 2:37emerge from this back and forth is about accountability.
- 2:40Users have questioned whether Chapel took sufficient
- 2:43responsibility for what happened and whether her response was,
- 2:46quote UN quote, enough. It's a question the Internet
- 2:48asks constantly, and yet no one ever seems to ask the more
- 2:52important one. Can we even effectively enforce
- 2:55accountability online? From Centennial World, I'm
- 2:59Lauren Meisner and this is Infinite Scroll, a podcast about
- 3:02Internet culture, the creator economy, and how social media is
- 3:05shaping Gen. Z.
- 3:07Welcome back to Infinite Scroll, everyone, our third episode of
- 3:11the year. I'm so excited to be exploring
- 3:13the topic of accountability today.
- 3:14It is something that we explore so much here at Centennial
- 3:18World. We talk about all the time
- 3:20across all of our podcasts, but we've never done a proper deep
- 3:23dive into it. So that is what we're bringing
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- 3:45content every single month. Accountability is one of the
- 3:51internet's most prominent buzzwords.
- 3:53Click on virtually any apology video and there is a clear
- 3:56formula. The creator will first issue and
- 3:59I'm sorry before adding that it's time for them to be
- 4:02accountable for their actions now.
- 4:04The concept of accountability has been a significant part of
- 4:07Internet culture for years. The very advent of the Notes app
- 4:10Apology was an attempt for celebrities to take some
- 4:12responsibility for their wrongdoings in a more relatable,
- 4:16less formal PR kind of way. And for a time, this strategy
- 4:21was working. By 2019, the New York Times had
- 4:23characterized the Notes app apology as the medium for quote,
- 4:26How we apologize now. But less than two years later,
- 4:29Vanity Fair declared that the quote end of the iPhone Notes
- 4:33app apology era was upon us. These changes accelerated
- 4:36through COVID, when cancel culture truly hit its peak.
- 4:39Pandemic induced lockdowns left us inside and online, forced to
- 4:43reckon with a polarized digital space completely overrun with
- 4:47misinformation. We needed to know where our
- 4:49favorite influencer stood on the political spectrum and social
- 4:52issues. Users flooded comment sections
- 4:55and DMS demanding that creators speak out on these topics or
- 4:58face the consequences. At the same time, Internet
- 5:01culture enthusiasts came for creators who had been posting
- 5:04problematic content for years. During this period, cancel
- 5:07culture was omnipresent and absolute, but whether it was
- 5:10effective is another question. If you listen to this podcast
- 5:14regularly, you likely understand the nuances of cancel culture.
- 5:17In theory, it can be a powerful way to hold influential people
- 5:20accountable and call out offensive behavior.
- 5:23But in practice, it can operate like a modern day witch hunt or
- 5:27a form of karmic retribution. Whatever your opinion on cancel
- 5:30culture, there's no denying that accountability is a major
- 5:33component where users are calling for D platforming and
- 5:37boycotting cancelled celebrities.
- 5:39True accountability involves taking ownership of harmful
- 5:41behaviors and decisions. It may include offering a
- 5:44genuine apology for wrongdoing. It might be accepting a mistake
- 5:47and following through on feedback from others.
- 5:50It may also be an admission of ignorance and a promise to learn
- 5:53more. Arguably, the black and white
- 5:55approach many Internet users take to cancel culture has
- 5:58perverted how we enforce accountability online.
- 6:01When we think about accountability, it is actually
- 6:04quite a personal phenomenon for both the person who needs to be
- 6:07held accountable and the person setting the standard.
- 6:10Video essayist Shane Spear made some interesting comments about
- 6:13this in a recent YouTube video. They grounded their analysis of
- 6:17accountability through an abolitionist view of retribution
- 6:20and justice. Accountability first and
- 6:22foremost is community based, meaning the person who was
- 6:26harmed is centered. And there are no outside jury
- 6:30members, just people in the community who personally know
- 6:33both parties. It rejects the violence of our
- 6:36prison system by avoiding shame tactics, harassment, isolation
- 6:40and abuse. It understands that penal based
- 6:42punishment seeks to inflict pain and only creates cycle of harm.
- 6:47Under true accountability, people who cause harm maintain
- 6:51their humanity and dignity, but to face consequences for their
- 6:54actions, they may have to be separated from those they have
- 6:58harmed, apologize for the harm they've caused, and enter a long
- 7:02term restorative process that includes education and behavior
- 7:07transformation. The victim, the person who has
- 7:10been harmed, is centered in the discussion.
- 7:13Sometimes they are even in charge of deciding the
- 7:16consequences. Accountability has to be
- 7:18voluntary, not coerced. This is obviously hard work.
- 7:22It's easier than done, and it plays out even trickier on the
- 7:26Internet. Those two way personal
- 7:28connections don't exist between celebrities and social media
- 7:31users, and it's hard to say if parasocial relationships really
- 7:34apply. Complicating this further is a
- 7:37coercive nature of these public apologies.
- 7:40Creators and celebrities who quote UN quote, take
- 7:42accountability are are often between a rock and a hard place,
- 7:45pressured to apologize and accept responsibility to protect
- 7:49their careers. In this way, accountability
- 7:51culture, if we can really call it that, has become a way to
- 7:55perform and police morality online.
- 7:58And we have fallen deeper into this mentality over the past six
- 8:01years, for better or worse. As TikTok democratized viral
- 8:05fame, it also democratized accountability.
- 8:08Where social media users once focused on holding influential
- 8:11people to account, these standards now extend to regular
- 8:14people as well. Sometimes this is valid.
- 8:17There are cases where a social media user might go viral for
- 8:20offensive, vile behavior and should be called out for that.
- 8:24But more often than not, we see people being held to account for
- 8:27something that they did in a 15 second video that has been taken
- 8:31out of context, blown out of proportion, or is simply none of
- 8:35our business. Couch Guy is a case in point.
- 8:38Yes, we are taking it back to 2021 in case you forgot this
- 8:41slightly insane viral moment. It all started when a TikTok
- 8:45user named Lauren uploaded a video of herself surprising her
- 8:48boyfriend at college. Captioned Robbie had no idea.
- 8:51The video showed Lauren walking into an apartment with a remix
- 8:54of Still Falling For You by Ellie Goulding playing in the
- 8:56background. Her boyfriend was sitting on a
- 8:58couch with three other girls before he got up to greet Lauren
- 9:01with a hug. Lauren's boyfriend was soon
- 9:03dubbed Couch Guy Lauren's TikTok may seem wholesome, but social
- 9:06media users were quick to call Robbie a big red flag, claiming
- 9:10that his reaction and body language were suspicious.
- 9:13Many TikTok users believed he was cheating on Lauren.
- 9:16Video soon flooded the For You page, calling for Lauren to
- 9:19break up with him and for him to apologize for his lack of
- 9:23reaction. While Robbie's perceived
- 9:25indifference could be cause for concern, it also might not be.
- 9:29It was absolutely unfair for viewers to assume what an
- 9:32excited reaction from Robbie it should look like.
- 9:36Perhaps Robbie doesn't appreciate surprises.
- 9:38Maybe he was just caught off guard.
- 9:41The Internet did not know him personally, and because of this,
- 9:44trying to hold Robbie accountable for allegedly
- 9:47cheating on Lauren was completely inappropriate.
- 9:50Another infamous example of accountability culture was the
- 9:53reaction to the Coldplay CEO cheating scandal.
- 9:56Arguably, the internet's response was more legitimate
- 9:59than the couch guy phenomenon. However, the vitriol was still
- 10:02directed toward mostly private citizens.
- 10:04As a quick refresher, in July of last year, a man and a woman
- 10:08were caught in a romantic embrace in what appeared to be a
- 10:10suite at the Coldplay concert. When the Jumbotron panned to
- 10:13them, their reactions were immediate.
- 10:16The man ducked below the frame and the woman turned away,
- 10:18covering her face. Coldplay frontman Chris Martin
- 10:21clocked the reaction and commented on it all.
- 10:24Right. Come on.
- 10:25You're OK. Oh, what?
- 10:29Either they're having an affair or they're just very shy.
- 10:31Within hours of the footage being posted online, users had
- 10:34identified the man as Andy Byron, CEO of data engineering
- 10:38company Astronomer, and the woman as Kristen Cabot, the
- 10:41company's chief people officer. Both were married to other
- 10:44people. The video went super viral for
- 10:47two key reasons. The obvious one being the
- 10:50apparent infidelity, but the second was that Kristen Cabot,
- 10:54as Chief People Officer, was effectively the head of HR at
- 10:57the company where Andy Byron was CEO.
- 11:00The power dynamic and the professional implications pushed
- 11:02the story to a whole new level, where Internet users were
- 11:05calling on both Andy and Kristen to take some kind of
- 11:08accountability for their situation.
- 11:10And just days before I'm recording this, Kristen sat down
- 11:13for an interview with Oprah in which she opened up about the
- 11:16internet's reaction to this moment and how it blew up her
- 11:19life. These examples raise a central
- 11:21question, Why are social media users so obsessed with demanding
- 11:25accountability from literal strangers?
- 11:28While it may be harsh, A TikTok creator named Elise put this
- 11:31interest and accountability down to our obsession with public
- 11:34shame and humiliation, a form of punishment, and entertainment
- 11:38for that matter, that has lasted for centuries.
- 11:40In her video, Elise explains that true accountability should
- 11:44lead to change, and meaningful change takes time.
- 11:47But social media isn't willing to wait.
- 11:49Because Internet culture moves fast.
- 11:51We are all conditioned to expect instant gratification and public
- 11:55shaming delivers that someone does something quote UN quote
- 11:58bad. The pylon begins and we get the
- 12:01hit of excitement of participating in collective
- 12:03outrage long before any real change could occur.
- 12:07These conditions are not designed to foster
- 12:10accountability. Instead, it's mostly a form of
- 12:13punishment. And because the Internet is
- 12:15always moving like this, all we do when we talk about
- 12:19accountability online is bully, harass, shame docs.
- 12:23You're wrong, you're bad, you're you're a terrible person.
- 12:26Punish, punish, punish and then throw them away.
- 12:28There is no room and no time for actual growth.
- 12:31And that is very reminiscent of the carceral system as a whole,
- 12:34with the heavy focus on retribution versus.
- 12:37Rehabilitation. If we operate under Elise's
- 12:40analysis that accountability is synonymous with shame online,
- 12:44then we should also ask who bears the heaviest burden of
- 12:47that shame. Arguably, it's marginalized
- 12:49groups, especially women and gender diverse people.
- 12:53These groups are disproportionately targeted and
- 12:55that dictates who gets held quote UN quote accountable
- 12:58online. Intersectionality is essential
- 13:01to consider here. Marginalized groups, especially
- 13:04black women, are not afforded the same latitude when it comes
- 13:07to public accountability. The bar to appear accountable is
- 13:10set significantly higher for quote UN quote offenses that are
- 13:14far less egregious. This difference, of course, is a
- 13:18result of systemic racism and misogyny that continues to
- 13:21underpin culture, society, and politics.
- 13:24Between name calling, cyberbullying, and more invasive
- 13:26harassment like doxing, deep fakes, and revenge porn, shaming
- 13:30marginalized groups is baked into the fabric of the digital
- 13:33world. Platforms have repeatedly failed
- 13:36to address it at scale, and in many cases they can make it
- 13:39worse. Laura Bates, a feminist activist
- 13:42who authored Men Who Hate Women, covers this closely in her work.
- 13:45In her most recent book, she explored how AI is introducing
- 13:49new ways to shame and exploit women.
- 13:51Most relevant here is her comparison of coercive control
- 13:54and image based sexual abuse. Specifically how intimate
- 13:57pictures spread without consent are used to weaponize women's
- 14:01sexuality against them. In these situations, the victim
- 14:04often becomes the one expected to answer for what was done to
- 14:07the them, showing us the fine line between shame and
- 14:10accountability online. The Fappening illustrates this
- 14:14point perfectly. We have touched on this before,
- 14:16but in 2014, Reddit users began posting naked pictures stolen
- 14:21from Apple iCloud accounts. Although these pictures
- 14:24originally appeared on 4 Chan, the R slash, the Fappening
- 14:27subreddit became the primary hub for sharing them.
- 14:29The women affected were almost pressured to take accountability
- 14:33for these pictures being leaked because they had taken them in
- 14:36the first place, but of course, they had absolutely nothing to
- 14:39be ashamed of. The people who stole and
- 14:41distributed those images face far less scrutiny than the
- 14:44victims. And what this goes to show is
- 14:46when we conflate shame and accountability online, it's
- 14:49rarely the people who caused harm that take responsibility
- 14:53for their actions. So we wanted to learn more about
- 14:56why social media users are so invested in keeping celebrities
- 14:59accountable. To do this, we spoke with Paula
- 15:01Gelman in a written interview to get a professionals perspective.
- 15:05Gelman is a self-proclaimed chronically online girlie as
- 15:08well as a licensed therapist with her own private practice in
- 15:11New York City. Over the past nine years, Gelman
- 15:13has worked specifically with Gen.
- 15:15Z and Millennial high achievers dealing with anxiety, depression
- 15:19and trauma histories. As she told us quote, it is
- 15:22human nature to want accountability from others.
- 15:24We can feel a sense of relief hearing someone apologize for
- 15:27something they've said or done that has hurt you.
- 15:30It also feels good to point the finger at someone else.
- 15:33It can relieve you, even momentarily from the mistakes
- 15:36that you have made by shining the light on someone else's
- 15:38wrongdoings. If you've ever wondered why it's
- 15:41so hard to stop playing the blame game, this is a big part
- 15:44of it. When we bring the Internet into
- 15:46this phenomenon, everything can get amplified.
- 15:48People feel emboldened when they're behind the shield of the
- 15:51Internet, even though it's not really a shield because
- 15:54anonymity barely exists anymore. It removes the person to person
- 15:57experience, which can delay any emotional reaction like guilt or
- 16:01shame just long enough for someone to post something they
- 16:04might regret later. The Internet can also take away
- 16:06empathy because we're simply looking at an avatar or words on
- 16:10a page rather than a full human being.
- 16:12This can fuel both sides saying something offensive or posting
- 16:16private video into the void and calling someone out for their
- 16:19behavior. No one likes to be others.
- 16:21We all want to be part of a group and we all want to be well
- 16:23liked. That's simply human nature.
- 16:25So part of the fascination with accountability culture is the
- 16:28desire to belong. What side are you on?
- 16:31Do you agree with the quote UN quote right side and what does
- 16:34that say about you? Now that we've explored the
- 16:37frequent targets of accountability culture, it's
- 16:39also worth discussing its enforcers.
- 16:42We have broken this down into 3 categories, the individual, the
- 16:46community slash audience, and what we will call the elites.
- 16:50Let's begin with the middle category, social media
- 16:53audiences. Academic research has examined
- 16:55which factors predict public forgiveness when transgressions
- 16:59come to light online. One paper by Andrew J Dawson,
- 17:03Sarah Williams, and Annie Wilson found that judgments of public
- 17:06figures who had made problematic comments were influenced by
- 17:09their age at the time and by how long ago the statements were
- 17:12made. The audience's political
- 17:14perspective also informed how these comments were taken.
- 17:17Another useful factor to consider was put forth by Tiktok
- 17:20user TIF Chat, who explained what she describes as the quote
- 17:23accountability trap. She begins by noting the
- 17:26inconsistent expectations of social media audiences regarding
- 17:30accountability. For instance, audiences will be
- 17:32quick to hold a micro influencer to account but remain quiet when
- 17:36a corporation does the same thing.
- 17:38Of course, this comes down to the different assumptions and
- 17:40beliefs we hold about each entity.
- 17:42However, these perhaps out of proportion responses lead us
- 17:46down the quote UN quote accountability trap.
- 17:48The idea that people like to yell at those they think we'll
- 17:51listen, we'll like to yell. At who they think will listen.
- 17:54And so if a company is very obviously corporate and does not
- 17:59care, they're not going to get cancelled.
- 18:02Actually, it's going to be some random Etsy seller who is like
- 18:07super responsive to the Internet and has committed a minor sin
- 18:12that is more likely to provoke huge rage.
- 18:16Similarly, a creator who is obviously unsympathetic to the
- 18:19cause is actually not going to get attacked by supporters of
- 18:22that cause. Instead it's going to be someone
- 18:25that 80% agrees with the cause. But again, has committed 1 minor
- 18:30sin. It creates really messed up
- 18:32incentives because I think it means that the best way to be
- 18:36safe is to actually be a bigger villain.
- 18:39Both the TikTok and academic paper show that approaches and
- 18:42attitudes toward accountability culture are never really
- 18:45neutral. They differ across the board.
- 18:48How a public figure might choose to take accountability will
- 18:50depend on their industry allies, their broader influence, and
- 18:54their race and gender. As we have already mentioned,
- 18:56therefore, the way a social media user interprets
- 18:59accountability culture depends on factors like politics,
- 19:03biases, and even the online community they're part of.
- 19:06Arguably, the volatility of online communities indirectly
- 19:09effects how accountability culture is practiced.
- 19:12Building genuine communities on social media has always been a
- 19:15little bit unstable. If it's not collecting data or
- 19:18boosting revenue, it's not necessarily a priority for big
- 19:21tech. And this is where these
- 19:23communities often get caught in the crossfire.
- 19:26There is no guarantee a platform will protect the communities
- 19:28built within it, and we have seen that play out in real time.
- 19:32When TikTok briefly went dark in the United States in January
- 19:352025, communities built over the years suddenly vanished.
- 19:39When something can be taken away that quickly, it's only natural
- 19:43that people will try to hold on tighter, including the norms and
- 19:46expectations that to find their corner of the Internet.
- 19:49Accountability culture starts to make more sense through that
- 19:52lens. Holding a creator to account is
- 19:55not always about justice alone. It can serve as a way to assert
- 19:58and protect a communities values, almost like a form of
- 20:01collective policing. But collective policing is only
- 20:04part of it, because this external pressure is often also
- 20:07internalized. In other words, we don't always
- 20:10need an audience to hold us accountable online, because
- 20:13often we're already doing it ourselves.
- 20:15This brings us to the next group enforcing accountability
- 20:18culture, the individual. To fully understand this, it's
- 20:21helpful to consider the phenomenon of panoptic control.
- 20:24For those unfamiliar with this concept, the panopticon was an
- 20:27architectural prison design introduced by Jeremy Bentham in
- 20:31the late 18th century. The design featured a single
- 20:34observational tower that was surrounded by a ring of backlit
- 20:37cells. The idea was that guards could
- 20:39would monitor all inmates and that inmates wouldn't be able to
- 20:42tell when they were being monitored.
- 20:44It was a form of constant surveillance.
- 20:46French philosopher Michel Foucault used this panopticon as
- 20:50an analogy for the way modern society is organized around
- 20:54power and surveillance, as it's written in his 1975 book
- 20:57Discipline and Punish Quote the major effect of the panopticon
- 21:01to induce in the inmate a state of conscious and permanent
- 21:04visibility that assures the automatic functioning of power.
- 21:07Here, surveillance is permanent, disciplined, and self regulated,
- 21:12even when no one is watching. Many commentators and analysts
- 21:15have extended Fuko's understanding of panoptic
- 21:18surveillance to the digital world online.
- 21:21We are always on the brink of being visible, especially on
- 21:24TikTok, and most of us know that this level of awareness shapes
- 21:28our behavior over time, leading us to self censor, perform, and
- 21:32determine what we say based on an imagined audience, whether or
- 21:36not anyone is actually watching. With this, surveillance doesn't
- 21:39need to be active to be effective.
- 21:41The threat of it is enough to keep us in line, where we
- 21:44essentially internalize the standards of the audience and
- 21:47begin policing ourselves. Perhaps the most obvious example
- 21:51of this kind of internal policing is virtue signaling.
- 21:54This might look like sharing an opinion on a political issue on
- 21:57your Instagram story to signal your values to followers without
- 22:01doing anything meaningful to support the 'cause it might also
- 22:04be jumping on a hashtag or reposting and infographic
- 22:07without genuinely engaging with the people affected by the issue
- 22:10at hand. Of course, there is nuance here.
- 22:13Raising awareness with your circle can genuinely be
- 22:16impactful. But when the primary motivation
- 22:18is how it will be perceived rather than the cause itself,
- 22:22that is self surveillance at work.
- 22:25It's a form of accountability culture in which users police
- 22:27their own image and hold themselves accountable before
- 22:30anyone else really has a chance because they think it's what
- 22:33looks best. Besides audience driven and
- 22:36individual policing, there was one last enforcer.
- 22:39And at the risk of sounding populist, we are calling them
- 22:42the elites for the purposes of this episode.
- 22:45That means the people who set and dissect culture for the
- 22:47masses. The media and industry often
- 22:50pull in opposite directions here.
- 22:51Journalism score function, in theory, is acting in the public
- 22:55interest, detecting wrongdoing, correcting the record and
- 22:59sharing hard, objective truths. That makes the press a natural
- 23:02enforcer of accountability culture.
- 23:05But the industry operates on money, and that means protecting
- 23:08the people who generate it, whether through silence, smear
- 23:11campaigns, or actively discrediting those who speak up.
- 23:15Mr. Beast is a useful case study.
- 23:17Despite allegations in 2024 of misogyny and sexism on the Beast
- 23:21game set, including reports that participants were being underfed
- 23:24and denied medical care, major partners like Amazon initially
- 23:28stayed quiet. When so much is riding on
- 23:30someone like Mr. Beast, public accountability becomes
- 23:34inconvenient. This tension between media
- 23:36scrutiny and industry protection is part of what makes
- 23:39accountability culture so difficult to enforce across the
- 23:42board. Which raises the question, is
- 23:45the Internet fighting a losing battle?
- 23:47Can people online ever truly be held accountable?
- 23:50In our interview, Gelman argues that while it may be possible to
- 23:54hold public figures accountable, it becomes unproductive when the
- 23:57call out leads to shaming, something we so often see happen
- 24:01within Internet culture dynamics quote it turns sour when holding
- 24:05someone accountable crosses into shaming them.
- 24:07Shaming is a destructive, ineffective emotion that focuses
- 24:10on someone's character and leads to fear, defensiveness and
- 24:13withdrawal. Shame says I am bad, whereas
- 24:16accountability says I made a mistake and here's how I can
- 24:18change moving forward. There needs to be a
- 24:21psychological safety in order for accountability to be
- 24:24achieved without feeling shameful.
- 24:26Without that safety, people feel fearful and tend to hide and
- 24:29their mistakes. The problem is, the Internet
- 24:32isn't exactly a psychologically safe place.
- 24:34Empathy and humility are often lost online, while shame gets
- 24:37amplified and spreads like wildfire through crass comments
- 24:40and opinions. That being said, when
- 24:42accountability crosses into shame, it can negatively affect
- 24:46mental health. No one likes being wrong, and it
- 24:48feels bad to be called out. But being publicly shamed,
- 24:51especially by the peanut gallery that is the Internet, is on
- 24:54another level. It can lead to anxiety,
- 24:57depression, and lasting distress.
- 24:59When you factor in gender and class, the impact can be even
- 25:02more severe. Now let's take a look at how the
- 25:04changing media landscape has influenced accountability
- 25:07culture. Financially, influencer culture
- 25:10has eaten into media budgets. Editorially, political
- 25:13polarization has pushed outlets toward catering to ideological
- 25:17right wing audiences rather than comprehensive reporting.
- 25:20And structurally, the rise of digital media has opened the
- 25:23door to citizen journalists, allowing stories overlooked by
- 25:26mainstream outlets to find an audience.
- 25:29While this is a good thing, it has its pitfalls.
- 25:32Without journalistic training or editorial standards, the
- 25:35mechanisms for holding people to account become weaker and less
- 25:39consistent. Take celebrity interviewing as
- 25:41an example. Alex Cooper as the host of Call
- 25:44Her Daddy is often used as an example.
- 25:46Here Alex has interviewed some of the most famous and
- 25:49influential people in the world. Kamala Harris, Michelle Obama,
- 25:53Kim Kardashian, Chapel, Roan, just to name a few.
- 25:55Though this level of access is an achievement in and of itself,
- 25:59many critics have argued that the more surface level and
- 26:01casual form, let's guess off the hook.
- 26:04Commentators like the Swiftologist and Kayla Says have
- 26:07made similar observations, noting that celebrity
- 26:10interviewers lack the curiosity, empathy, and intensity needed to
- 26:14actually challenge public figures.
- 26:16Whether you agree with the sentiment or not, it points to a
- 26:18broader issue. When the trendy interview format
- 26:21and interviewer seemingly prioritize comfort,
- 26:24accountability becomes harder to enforce.
- 26:26In practice, of course, this extends beyond the media.
- 26:29When we see powerful figures across the political, cultural
- 26:32and corporate worlds repeatedly escape consequences for their
- 26:35harmful actions, it sets a precedent.
- 26:38Accountability becomes something that happens to ordinary people
- 26:41and micro influencers because this is where we might see
- 26:43actual change, even if they aren't the group causing the
- 26:47most harm. This disconnect is most evident
- 26:50and how grifting has gone completely mainstream in the
- 26:53digital space. Living in an algorithmically
- 26:56driven landscape of short form video, stripped of context and
- 26:59increasingly shaped by AI has made it easier than ever to run
- 27:03a grift at scale. We should first note that the
- 27:05term grift has somewhat changed over time.
- 27:08According to the Cambridge Dictionary, a grifter is someone
- 27:11who quote gets money dishonestly by tricking people.
- 27:14But it's scope has widened for NZ, where it's now commonly used
- 27:17to describe anyone lying or running a con, and not
- 27:21necessarily a financial one. Writing for The Guardian, Anush
- 27:24Chaquilian has tracked how the word has exploded in usage, with
- 27:27the Oxford English Dictionary recording more than a doubling
- 27:31of written use since 2017. Politicians throw the label at
- 27:34opponents, publications use it to describe questionable public
- 27:38figures, and TikTok users love to drop the descriptor in
- 27:41comment sections. When it comes to the online
- 27:43world, specifically Chaquili and explains.
- 27:46When you search the term grifter on sites such as Reddit and
- 27:49TikTok, it's often used in relation to influencers,
- 27:52Wellness gurus, pickup artists, life coaches, crypto Bros.
- 27:56So many online subcultures now dabble in essentially the same
- 28:00business model, sewing insecurity and then charging
- 28:02people with the promise to rid them of it.
- 28:05Wherever the algorithm leads you, from sleep coaches for
- 28:08knackered new moms to gym rats for lonely boys, you are likely
- 28:11being exposed day in, day out to some form of grift.
- 28:15Ultimately, when you have creators selling fake horses,
- 28:18shilling products, or performing ideological positions that may
- 28:22not reflect what they actually believe, it becomes difficult to
- 28:25tell where these creators sit. And if you can't tell what
- 28:28someone genuinely stands for, holding them accountable for it
- 28:31becomes almost impossible. So is the Internet fighting a
- 28:35losing battle with accountability culture?
- 28:37Maybe there are moments where this mentality can provoke
- 28:41genuine change, and for that it cannot be fully dismissed.
- 28:45But if this episode has shown us anything, it's that
- 28:47accountability culture is flawed.
- 28:49It's often weaponized to police morality rather than deliver
- 28:52justice, and it's rather ineffective at holding the
- 28:55people who caused the most harm to account.
- 28:58Maybe we just have to accept that the most effective form of
- 29:01accountability was never going to happen in the comments
- 29:04section anyway. Infinite Scroll is a podcast
- 29:08produced, presented and Co written by me Lauren Meisner for
- 29:11Centennial World. This episode was researched and
- 29:14Co written by Annabelle Ben David.
- 29:16Thank you so much for listening. I love you guys and I will talk
- 29:18to you next week. Bye.
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- 29:23We would like to acknowledge the Gadigal of the Aura Nation, the
- 29:26traditional custodians of this land, and pay our respects to
- 29:29elders both past and present.