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Tamra and Eddie: Together Forever · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camera Judge.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to a new episode of Two Teas and a
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  Speaker 2: Pod with my self, Tamra Judge and my other half
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  Speaker 2: Eddie Judge.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome, Welcome.
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  Speaker 2: Now we are live from the iHeart Verbo Podcast House
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  Speaker 2: in Bottle Rock.
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  Speaker 3: And how beautiful is this house?
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  Speaker 4: This house is awesome and they don't get any ideas,
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  Speaker 4: like you want to buy a house here?
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  Speaker 1: Now?
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  Speaker 3: Now I know everywhere we go and I love it.
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  Speaker 3: I want to buy a house there. It's a problem.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 2: I've posted some pictures online. I have had people reach
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  Speaker 2: out to me on DMS and saying, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: my sister got.
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  Speaker 3: Married there, or we've been there before. It is the
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  Speaker 3: coolest house. So we're here today.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously we're going to Bottle Rock later on today, but
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  Speaker 2: Dolores and Polly are here, and Emily and Chane are here,
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  Speaker 2: and we're doing some podcasts and we're having a lot
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  Speaker 2: of fun. But one thing that we have never done
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  Speaker 2: on Two Tea's is just me and you, Like, I
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  Speaker 2: have some fan questions and we're just going to go
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  Speaker 2: over them.
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  Speaker 4: You know, this is a first for us.
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  Speaker 2: It really is I think we did a podcast together
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  Speaker 2: in San Francisco.
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  Speaker 3: Live with It was fed one and Teddy.
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  Speaker 2: It was four of us, and I was introducing your
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  Speaker 2: Ed's podcast, which is doing very well.
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  Speaker 3: And you you filmed one last night.
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  Speaker 4: Right I did. It was a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 3: And you had Polly and Shane.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a great conversation, talked about Father's Day,
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  Speaker 4: being a dad. It was awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's coming out around Father's Day. I assume, Okay, well,
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  Speaker 2: everybody needs to tune into that. So let's get into
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  Speaker 2: some of these fan questions.
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  Speaker 4: Fan question, So.
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  Speaker 3: What was your first impression of each other?
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  Speaker 4: My first impression of you was, holy cow, who is
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  Speaker 4: this beautiful girl? I mean at my front door. That's
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  Speaker 4: the first time I've ever met you saw you And
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  Speaker 4: I tell the story to everybody. I saw birds fly,
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  Speaker 4: I saw stars.
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  Speaker 2: It's take one of those weird things where you absolutely
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  Speaker 2: true for both of us. Now, I was married, you were,
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  Speaker 2: and it was at the tail end of my marriage
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  Speaker 2: and were we knew we were going to separate, and
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  Speaker 2: I was looking for houses. You were, and we were
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  Speaker 2: looking at your house, which happens to be the house
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  Speaker 2: that we now live in.
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  Speaker 3: Like just think about that for a minute.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, full circle.
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  Speaker 2: We were thinking you were thinking about running it out,
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  Speaker 2: and we're like, okay. So anyways, So I when I
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  Speaker 2: saw you, obviously there's cameras behind me, and I was
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  Speaker 2: with Marcos as our mutual friend.
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  Speaker 3: And I thought that you had no shirt on.
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  Speaker 4: You thought that.
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  Speaker 2: I thought that I saw you without a shirt when
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  Speaker 2: you answered the door and you had a shirt on.
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  Speaker 4: I had a shirt on.
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  Speaker 2: So I thought, oh my god, this guy is so hot.
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  Speaker 2: What did you guys fall for in each other?
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  Speaker 4: I think the thing I fall fell for and I
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  Speaker 4: still am falling for, is your ability to be glamorous
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  Speaker 4: when it's time, but just able to throw baseball cap
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  Speaker 4: on and go to dinner and just be chill, just
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  Speaker 4: be you know, down to earth and fun to hang
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  Speaker 4: out with, have normal conversations. You're not about the expensive
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  Speaker 4: everything glamour.
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  Speaker 3: It never happened.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So I definitely saw the real person in you.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean, don't get me wrong, I like nice things,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't do a lot of value on materialistic stuff.
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  Speaker 4: Right, That's my point. Yeah, Like I don't, you know,
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  Speaker 4: have to buy you an expensive Tiffany ring or something
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  Speaker 4: like that.
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  Speaker 2: Or I was never that girl that was like looking
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  Speaker 2: for the rich guy.
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  Speaker 4: And I mean, don't get me wrong, I have buy
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  Speaker 4: you some really expensive things that you really appreciate, because
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  Speaker 4: you do and that's why I do it. But it's
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  Speaker 4: not like I have to go out and try to
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  Speaker 4: overdo something I did last year, you know.
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  Speaker 3: No, not at all. And we're not actually very big
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  Speaker 3: gift givers.
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  Speaker 2: Like we'll have birthdays where we just don't Yeah, we
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  Speaker 2: don't buy each other.
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  Speaker 4: Anything, or we just go out and buy ourselves what
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  Speaker 4: we want.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're notorious at that. Oh it's my birthday, babe.
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  Speaker 2: I just bought myself a Harley, like you.
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  Speaker 3: Know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh, okay, all right, I'm glad that you could
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  Speaker 2: do that.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, it's a good system. We have a good system.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah for me. I just you were just such an honest, loyal,
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  Speaker 2: down to earth good looking but doesn't necessarily know you're
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  Speaker 2: good looking, you know what I mean? You know that
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  Speaker 2: guy that's like not douchey and all those things, so
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  Speaker 2: and smart and caring and you were good with my
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  Speaker 2: kids and all those things.
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  Speaker 3: So you are a full package in my eyes.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you bug me sometimes but yourself.
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  Speaker 2: It's just wanting to know, right, love languages, what is
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  Speaker 2: our So for me, I'm going to say I an
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  Speaker 2: act of service. I get so turned on when you
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  Speaker 2: were laying the turf in the backyard at Big Bear.
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  Speaker 4: Oh I figured that out. Yeah. Anytime I'm in pain
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  Speaker 4: and agony and busting my ass trying to do something,
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  Speaker 4: it makes you happy?
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  Speaker 3: It does?
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  Speaker 1: It does?
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  Speaker 3: I like?
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  Speaker 2: I like that, like, you know, doing things for me,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like you'll go put gas in my car
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  Speaker 2: and you'll wash my car, you know all those things.
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  Speaker 4: I like that, And I like taking care of you
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  Speaker 4: that way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm not like a super touchy lovey Yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: know you know that.
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  Speaker 3: And what's your love language?
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  Speaker 4: What's that when you give people praise, words of affirmation? Formation? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: when when you always tell me when I'm doing good,
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  Speaker 4: and you always you know, bring me up, and you
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  Speaker 4: know you you don't have to buy me stuff, you
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  Speaker 4: just tell me you love me, and yeah, that that
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  Speaker 4: kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So how do we handle conflict? That's totally different.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, I don't think that's something we have mastered,
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  Speaker 4: and I don't know that we ever will because it's
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  Speaker 4: an ongoing learning process, you know, because one time we
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  Speaker 4: might handle the conflict really easy, talk it through and
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  Speaker 4: it's over. Other times, you know, we'll yell at each
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  Speaker 4: other and get in a fight and then walk away
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  Speaker 4: because you know me, I can't deal with that. I
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  Speaker 4: have to calm down.
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  Speaker 2: It took me a long time to realize that you
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  Speaker 2: need to not be around me when you're mad at
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  Speaker 2: something like I just have to go okay, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: not like that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, in your face, give me.
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  Speaker 4: An answer now, right, right, So I've.
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  Speaker 3: Learned like, oh, if he's mad, I am just going
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  Speaker 3: to walk away.
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  Speaker 4: It's a learning process for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Who's more intense in the gym?
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  Speaker 2: Me?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, right now, it's you.
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  Speaker 2: I've this year's been super rough for me, and it's
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  Speaker 2: I'm back at the gym as of this week. But
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  Speaker 2: during filming and with you know, everything that want, with
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  Speaker 2: Teddy and the stress level, I just couldn't.
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  Speaker 3: My body just I couldn't. I couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 2: So now back at it and loving it. It was
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  Speaker 2: as long as I've went without working out three months. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm seeing it. What is the biggest misconception people
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  Speaker 2: have about our relationship?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know honestly, because I don't care what people
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  Speaker 4: think about our relationships. I don't really pay attention. And
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  Speaker 4: the only source I would have any information of that
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  Speaker 4: is the media. You know, the stupid Well there's somebody stupid.
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  Speaker 3: We'll get to that.
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  Speaker 2: But there's a lot of stupid articles out there, always
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  Speaker 2: saying more breaking up.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, I get the impression that
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  Speaker 4: all our real friends love our relationship. I get that
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  Speaker 4: from our friends all the time, like they always comment,
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  Speaker 4: I love your love for each other. So I don't
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  Speaker 4: know what misconception they might have.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think there's a lot now.
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  Speaker 2: I think in the very beginning, it was oh, it's fake,
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  Speaker 2: everything's fake. He wants to be on TV, and they
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  Speaker 2: quickly learned you didn't want to be on TV. There
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  Speaker 2: was stories back in the day that you were my
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  Speaker 2: ex's best friend.
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  Speaker 4: Well he put that up, he put that out there, but.
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  Speaker 2: There was a picture that he met you once or twice,
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  Speaker 2: and that's what he put out there.
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  Speaker 3: But over I mean, I would say not so many.
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  Speaker 2: Now, yeah, people more people if I post something about us,
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  Speaker 2: they're like, oh my god, I love you guys together,
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  Speaker 2: I love your relationship. I'm sure people have some shitty opinions,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't really care. Like you said, Okay, this
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  Speaker 2: is kind of a new trend and something we don't do.
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  Speaker 3: But do you ever sleep in separate bedrooms?
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  Speaker 4: Never? I hate sleeping away from you when you travel
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  Speaker 4: or when I travel and we're away. I don't like it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I put never, Yeah, never.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like sleeping away from you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. What's your go to date night when the cameras
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  Speaker 3: are off? Okay, so.
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  Speaker 2: This is I mean, we're not fancy like that, but
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  Speaker 2: we literally in sweats and baseball hats, will go to
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  Speaker 2: the local Thai restaurant or have or fa.
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  Speaker 3: Fah, we go have fa that's it.
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  Speaker 2: And I can like almost read your mind. We're like,
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  Speaker 2: we're you want to go eat? Yeah, And I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I know what he's going to say. Yeah, I know
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  Speaker 2: it's gonna say.
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  Speaker 3: I know where we're going to go. Yeah what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong. We do go do some nice things.
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  Speaker 4: Too, we do, but we'll find a fancy.
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  Speaker 2: We're not that couple that's like, oh, let's go walk
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  Speaker 2: a red carpet, Let's go to La, let's go out
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  Speaker 2: to you know, Newport beach to be seen, like let's
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  Speaker 2: go let's.
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  Speaker 4: Go to La to the fanciest restaurant and have the
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  Speaker 4: paparazzi take pictures of us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, it's just not our personality at all.
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  Speaker 2: I'd rather just be in sweats and a baseball hat
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  Speaker 2: and very little makeup and doing our thing. What traditions
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  Speaker 2: do you have as a couple. This is a tough
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  Speaker 2: one for me. I don't think we have like a
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  Speaker 2: ton of traditions. I know that going camping once a
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  Speaker 2: year was always something that we did together. When the
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  Speaker 2: kids were younger, they would go with us. Now they're like,
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  Speaker 2: I am not camping. I never want to camp again.
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  Speaker 4: I think the traditions that we have together have to
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  Speaker 4: do more with doing new things together like this, like
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  Speaker 4: this podcast we're doing. This is a new thing for us. Yea.
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  Speaker 4: The hard part is is that we've done so many
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  Speaker 4: things together, Like what do we do next together? That's
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  Speaker 4: a tradition. And I think if you define the tradition
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  Speaker 4: as we just like to experience things together for the
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  Speaker 4: first time, that's a tradition.
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  Speaker 2: What hobbies do you guys do together besides working out?
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  Speaker 2: And we do we work out, We don't necessarily always
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  Speaker 2: work out do the same workout we're at the gym,
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  Speaker 2: but we go together usually when we go.
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  Speaker 4: And housework, yard work.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know, motorcycle riding.
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  Speaker 4: So we did dirt bike together, dirt bike, electric bike together.
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  Speaker 4: We ride our Murf bikes to the beach. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we do that around Big Bear.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's one of the fun things about Big Bear
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  Speaker 2: is being able to We have electric bikes there and
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  Speaker 2: some in Orange County, and we ride our murf bikes
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  Speaker 2: around the lake and go look at houses.
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  Speaker 3: We love looking at houses.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. And I try to get you to ride
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  Speaker 4: more Harley with me, but I I understand you're you're
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  Speaker 4: afraid to be on the shoe.
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  Speaker 2: Older I get, the more fearful I get about Oh
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  Speaker 2: god if I fall, Yeah, you know, I.
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  Speaker 3: Love doing it.
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  Speaker 2: But then I'm getting to be a little bit of
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  Speaker 2: a scaredy cat as I get older.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I get it.
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  Speaker 3: If I break a hip, it's all over. It's all
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  Speaker 3: over for me.
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  Speaker 4: I might have to put you out, i know, like
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  Speaker 4: a horse, take you out in the field and.
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  Speaker 3: Make glue out of me. Do you guys get sick
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  Speaker 3: of all the crazy headlines about you?
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  Speaker 2: Too, like you two are breaking up or I broke
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  Speaker 2: Rugby's leg recently.
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  Speaker 3: This is hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: So guys, there's this whole thing going on on Facebook
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  Speaker 2: and it's AI generated. And all I know is if
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  Speaker 2: the link you click on the comments, there's all these
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  Speaker 2: headlines and there's just clickbait. But if you click on
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  Speaker 2: the comments, it's a story that comes from something that's
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  Speaker 2: is c a R the word c ar in it.
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  Speaker 2: When I see that, I go, oh, this is AI generated.
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  Speaker 2: They're all fake stories. The people that are posting are
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  Speaker 2: getting paid every time somebody clicks on this fake story.
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  Speaker 3: It's annoying.
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  Speaker 2: We talked to our attorneys about it, and they're not
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  Speaker 2: just doing it about us. They're doing it about a
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  Speaker 2: bunch of people, a bunch of people. And when I
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  Speaker 2: knew it wasn't you know, like this was bullshit? Is
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  Speaker 2: they ran the same stories with Emily and Shane saying
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  Speaker 2: Emily had a gambling addiction, and then you know, then
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  Speaker 2: they changed it to oh.
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  Speaker 3: Eddie has a gambling addiction.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm like, oh god, But just remember just because
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  Speaker 4: it's AI doesn't mean AI took it upon themselves to
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  Speaker 4: write the story. There is some scumbag behind, a scumbag
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  Speaker 4: behind it that puts these marketing stories out there to
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  Speaker 4: get clicks. And if you know, you know anybody in
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  Speaker 4: the marketing business that's a scumbag, that's them they're putting out.
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  Speaker 2: Well I heard if somebody overseas or something that's studs.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't really know like that. Even when we talk
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  Speaker 2: to our attorney about it, he's.
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  Speaker 4: Like, there's not a lot you could eat.
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  Speaker 2: You don't even know who to go after because it's
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  Speaker 2: all on Facebook.
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  Speaker 4: So they do the same thing to try to get
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  Speaker 4: people to go buy their CBD gummies and CVD market arts. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: trask gummies and then it's a link to a different website.
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  Speaker 4: So we've sent letters, legal letters to those companies, you know,
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  Speaker 4: to stop them from doing that because that's obviously illegal.
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  Speaker 4: But from the beginning, remember when we first met, I
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  Speaker 4: want to say, it was the first year we were together.
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  Speaker 4: You had died in a CD jet ski accident in
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  Speaker 4: Saint Trepez. I'm like, hell, I wish we were in St. Trepez.
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  Speaker 2: But I literally had to like because my parents are
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  Speaker 2: on Facebook, so I literally had to like call my
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  Speaker 2: mom and dad and say.
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  Speaker 3: By the way I didn't die.
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  Speaker 4: I'm still here, still here.
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  Speaker 2: That was like another thing that was going around that
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  Speaker 2: was quite a while ago, let's see. And then also
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  Speaker 2: like reading the comments, because I do go on Facebook
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  Speaker 2: more now than I ever have, because Instagram is so nasty,
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  Speaker 2: dirty and mean and vile and just such lies, like
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  Speaker 2: it makes me really sad to go on there because.
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  Speaker 4: Well there's a lot of bots on there too.
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  Speaker 3: That are Germany, and I don't quite understand all.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I had bought to tack melast year, but
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  Speaker 2: don't understand how that works, Like somebody buys them and
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  Speaker 2: says say this about her.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's another marketing scam that people have been
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  Speaker 4: using to put to either deflect a story that's been
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  Speaker 4: posted on social media or to drive more eyes and
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  Speaker 4: ears and you know, and views to the story.
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  Speaker 3: They're just mean.
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  Speaker 2: So there's a lot of comments like I can't believe
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  Speaker 2: Tarma would break her dog's leg, and then somebody wrote
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  Speaker 2: I had to laugh about this one. They're like, I
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  Speaker 2: really think Tarma's going through menopause right now because the
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  Speaker 2: way she's acting is just not normal. And she's acting
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  Speaker 2: like this on TV too, And I'm like Oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: that ship has sailed. Yeah, I am well into my fifties. Yes, well,
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  Speaker 2: so lots about Rugby. Do you guys sleep with Rugby
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  Speaker 2: in your bed?
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  Speaker 4: We tried it once the first time at home. It
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  Speaker 4: was not comfortable. He moves, he snorts, he farts, he
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  Speaker 4: he just kind of like you. Yeah, but there's only
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  Speaker 4: room for one on our bed for that. Okay. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we did have to have him sleep with this when
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  Speaker 4: we went to go see your mom. Yeah, and he
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  Speaker 4: was perfect. He's slept the good, he didn't move. It
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  Speaker 4: was the only time that he's ever slept with us,
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  Speaker 4: and it was okay. But I can't sleep with the dogs.
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: I love him a lot so much. I cuddle with
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: him and kiss him all the time, but I just
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: cannot sleep with him.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: When you are out of town, which doesn't very often,
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: I'll let him sleep in bed with me. Oh really,
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: and he just puts his head on your pillow and
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: just lays there.
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: Oh, he's really good.
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: He likes to climb on top of me.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Well, that's because you have a weird relationship with your dog,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Like you're hugging him all the time. He's on top
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: of you and you wrastle around in the grass with him,
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: and he loves me. He's like the child you never had.
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: He is my little boy.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and somebody asked you ever get jealous of how
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: much Eddie loves Rugby. No, It's made my job so
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: much easier.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Let me just tell you.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: So, I'm an early riser, so I get up usually
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: before you. I'll go downstairs. He still sleeps in his crate.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: He loves sleeping in his crate, so he's I get
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: him out. He goes to the bathroom. I make my coffee,
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: and then I go back upstairs. He follows me up,
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: and he jumps in bed with you and lays next
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: to you, on top of you and just and I'm like, okay,
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: and it'll be fine for a while because I love
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: my peace and quiet in the morning and nobody talking
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: So it's like your ploy.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can go hang out with your dog.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: I'm on my computer shopping Amazon.
• 16:25
  Speaker 4: You know. If you don't want me to see you
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: in the morning, just say so. I won't talk to you,
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: I won't acknowledge you. I'll go my way. I can
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: talk after you have your coffee.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Would we ever consider moving to Big bear full time.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: Well, we did consider it the first time we bought
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: the house up there, and we spent so much time
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: up there. I loved it so much. I remember I
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: wanted to sell the house in Orange County and buy
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: a bigger house up there. But I don't think I'm
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: ready to live up there full time. I love getting
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: away and just enjoying the time.
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: I think like maybe in ten years or so, maybe
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: maybe maybe even maybe.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Even like the peace and quiet, I like the environment,
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: like lowness of it nice. It's a great place to be,
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: you know, but we'll see. I mean ten years is
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: a long time from now. We might decide to go
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: live in Europe.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you never know.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: It's nice to have as a second house, and we
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: do spend a lot of time there, yeah, but probably
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: not full time. And if we did move there full time,
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: I would want a bigger house, Yeah, I not necessarily.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: I don't need it that much bigger.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I just want one on more of a because there's
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: residential straits we're very much on like Airbnb straight right
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: right where there's not hardly anybody there. You don't have
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: any neighbors, but there are areas where people live there
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: full time, and the neighborhood's kept up better, you know,
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: the yards are kept up better. How do we deal
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: with conflict in making up after each other? I think
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: we talked about this earlier, just worded differently. I think
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: that I know that if we get in a fight,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: which we don't fight very often, and it it's one
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: of those things like once every I always say this
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: once every six months or something.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: But the problem is the Housewive show.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Yes, I know.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: The problem is is that when you get in an
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: argument every six months, then you fight about everything that
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: happened for six months.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: You know, all the things that you did this and
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: you did that.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: But now I just six month period when you're filming
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: the House five show.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: Outside of that, because I get super stressed up, I.
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: Get along great. We talk about any potential issues we
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: you know, and.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Also like you let me do my thing and I
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: let you do your thing, and so there's not like
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: a lot of jealousy. There's a lot of respect between us.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: So neither one of us Like I don't worried about you.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: I'm not worried about you going and hooking up with
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: some girl. If you're out with your friends and I
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: would hope. You don't think, you know, worry about that
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: with me.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: No, yeah, I know you love me and I have
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: that connection with you and I don't have that insecurity,
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: and that's not an issue. But it's okay to be
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: away from each other once. Like I went on that
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: motorcycle trip while.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: You were in Amsterdam asterdam.
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it just happened to work out at
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: the same time. But I've gone to trips in Mexico
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: without you with my guys. Yeah, dirt bikes, Yeah, dirt
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: bike trip. I'm not there to go meet a girl
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: or look at girls. And the guys I hang out
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: with are so self respected they don't want to go
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: to strip clubs or stuff like that. We're there to
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: ride dirt bikes together.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: You're growing, Yeah, you're doing. If you can relive one
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: day of your marriage, what would it be? And I
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: think we both agree on this one.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: The wedding day was so amazing and magical and beautiful,
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: and I think that it was so special because we
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: were expecting it not to be special because it was televised.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: Well yeah, and put in other words, I was for
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: the bomb to drop because because it's reality to you
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: it's reality TV, but it was so real, so special
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: and did a great job. And I'm standing there on
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: the altar literally taking it all in and realized, holy shit,
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: this is for.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Real because, like little backstory, we were actually thinking of
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: doing the wedding on TV and then going away and
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: just getting married with the family, like something very casual,
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: beach bare barefoot. Yeah, and then the wedding was so
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: beautiful that we're like, no, we're good.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: We're good good. It was a beautiful, beautiful moment.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: What is the most ridiculous couple nicknames we have?
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: I don't have a ridiculous.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: Name, Like, I don't refer to you hardly ever, as
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: like if I'm going to yell for you in the house,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: I'm like.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: Babe, babe.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Like I if I hear you go Tamra, I'm like,
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: oh shit, which you don't do.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: It's always babe.
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: Well, I only resort to Tamora when you don't answer.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't hear very well.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: Right, And it's because you're old, right, yeah.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're old too.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: We're the same age now that you're in your fifties,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: so we're five years apart. For people that are wondering, yes,
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: I'm five years older. Back in the day when we
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: first met, they're like, oh my god, people were thinking
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: like I was fifteen years older than you or something.
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: Crazy.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: What's one weird habit I have that secretly makes you
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: question my sanity.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I'll answer that one. First. You're chewing.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: It's not a habit. It's a normal thing.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: No, it's not.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: It's not normal.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: The habit is having the habit of always getting annoyed
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: because people around you chew. It's a normal thing. It's
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: like you're going to get to the point where you
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: can't breathe around me.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Oh so it's a my issue.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: It's a U issue. Okay, you know people chew all
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: the time.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Well, I have like weird sensory issues with chewing. Any
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: kind of noise, Sitting at a restaurant with people behind me,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: somebody talking in my ear, all those make me want
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: to punch somebody.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: In the throat.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: I can't even stick my tongue in your ear.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: Oh oh for me, I think it drives me crazy
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: that you can't do two things at once.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: It's not a problem. It's called focus.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: But this is it.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: You'll be in your office on your computer, and I'll
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: just come in and ask you, like a super simple question,
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: like you want to go to lunch. You're like, literally,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: I'll have to ask you three times. Then you literally
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: like turn your computer off, look at me, and go
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: what I go? Do you want to You don't have
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: to turn You.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Don't understand this because you've never been in the zone.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: When you're in the zone, No, I'm a woman.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I can do multiple things.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: You can't know. It's proved, scientifically proven that multitasking is
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: not a thing. It's stupid.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: God, would you get that on GPT chat GPT.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: Chat GPT right now and it'll tell me the same thing. No,
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: but I'm focused. When i'll focus, you have to say, hey,
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: get my attention, then ask the question. Otherwise I don't
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: know what the hell you just said. I'm in the zone.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: Okay. If you had to describe your love life with
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: a movie title. With the movie title, what.
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: Would it be.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: For me?
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Silence of the lamb minds, one flew.
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: Over the Cucka's nest. Oh god, you're going one day? No,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'll joking aside, that's just we usually go
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: for the humor.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. Under the Tuscan Son your favorite movie.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: That's kind of a fantasy for us to move to
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: Tuscany one day and ye have a house like that.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: That's beautiful.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know where was this the last one? Where
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: was the most random place you ever? Well, this is
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: made out but ever gotten.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Freaky and it was the one and last time because
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: you are so damn conservative. When we first met, we
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: were in Panama and I invited you on that trip,
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: flew you out. We were on an island and so you.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Were already in Panama doing something, and then I flew out,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: flew out because I had the kids. I had to
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: wait till it was his turn. Yep, so flew out
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: by myself, which I had never done anything like that.
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: You got your passport for the first time. That was
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: your first.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: I had a passport because I went to Mexico and
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: so basically, first it was in the bathroom at the
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: restaurant in Panama, and.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Then it was in the jungle.
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: In the jungle.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: Now I just the most random place the bedroom.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, not even our bathroom anymore.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: That I just yeah, you know, you get older, you
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: get tired, and it's like you're like, hey, I'll get
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: you tomorrow, yeah, the next day, whatever it is.
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: But yeah, that was it awesome.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: But thank you for being on the podcast for the
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: very first time.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: You. I feel privileged to be podcast, a successful podcast,
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: and I'm very proud of you.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Thanks guys for tuning in to another episode of to
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Teas and a Pod Twarts, You're a twat.