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- 0:00Well, good morning. While I get myself settled in here, if you will take your copy of God's Word and turn to Proverbs 4 and verse 23.
- 0:29In doing so, though, I want to make some introductory comments. First, I just want to take a brief moment to talk about our plans for Sunday morning preaching.
- 0:41It may not feel this way to you. I can't say how you might feel, but it feels to me like we are kind of off to a herky-jerky start this year.
- 0:53We do have plans, though, and I want you to know that initially our plan was to press through, kind of a hop-skip-jump through the life of David that Clay was presenting for us.
- 1:06You know, two weeks ago that Clay was sick with flu A, and so I picked up a little piece of this plan that I'm doing now because Clay was going to be out of town last week and then had a surgery.
- 1:21This week, he was hoping to be back this Sunday. Turned out that he wasn't able to be back this Sunday.
- 1:28So we've just been trying to figure it out as we've been stepping along, and I'm in the process of preparing to start us through a verse-by-verse exposition of the Gospel of John.
- 1:38So we're headed there. I feel like too often lately I've been saying that the regular habit of our church is verse-by-verse exposition.
- 1:48It just feels like we haven't been doing that much lately.
- 1:52We want to be so careful as God's people that we don't spend a lot of time isageting a text, pulling out of it what we want to see in it,
- 2:02and therefore we think it's really helpful that we simply go verse-by-verse, careful, word-for-word, through a text together.
- 2:12But at times, plans change. The Lord knows better than we do. We do the best that we can.
- 2:20And it's good for us to pick up topics occasionally and think more broadly about what the Bible may have to say about any given things.
- 2:29And so that's where we find ourselves. Please know that we haven't abandoned our love of verse-by-verse exposition, and I do hope we'll get back there here very soon.
- 2:41Second, I want to remind you of a little that we considered two weeks ago when I was with you and then had intended to get into it more last week,
- 2:50and then I was home sick, and boy, what a 10-day stint it has been.
- 2:56And Jordan prayed, as I'm recovering from a cold, I think it was actually the bird flu that I had and I'm recovering from,
- 3:03and I'm grateful for God's grace in the recovery of that.
- 3:07But, ugh, stay away from people with the flu. It's not a good one at all.
- 3:13But what we talked about two weeks ago was the divine attribute of impassibility.
- 3:18And when we speak of God's impassibility, in the simplest of terms we are saying that He does not suffer.
- 3:27He doesn't have passions. He does not suffer.
- 3:29But in broader terms we mean that God's emotions are not acted upon by outside forces.
- 3:38He is never overwhelmed, controlled, or altered by anything outside of Himself.
- 3:45Impassibility is a necessary implication of God's immutability, His unchangeable nature.
- 3:57If God were subject to emotional turmoil, He would be less than God.
- 4:04This is not a denial that God loves, rejoices, expresses wrath.
- 4:10He has emotions, but rather a declaration that these are not reactions forced upon Him.
- 4:19They are the perfect, eternal expressions of His unchanging nature.
- 4:26God is not becoming, He is being.
- 4:29You want to be very careful when anybody seems to be describing God
- 4:33as a thing that is becoming what it is meant to be,
- 4:38rather than it already being what it is.
- 4:43God is being.
- 4:46I mentioned that this is a good place for us to begin thinking about our own emotions.
- 4:53To be clear, we are not God in this way.
- 4:57This is not a communicable attribute.
- 4:59We are becoming.
- 5:04In the one sense, if you have repented of your sin,
- 5:08fled to the perfect work and sacrificial death
- 5:11and third day resurrection of Christ for the salvation of your soul,
- 5:15then you have, in one sense, already been made perfect.
- 5:21You are in Christ.
- 5:25You're found in Him.
- 5:26All that He is, is granted to you.
- 5:31Your old self has died with Him.
- 5:34You have been raised new.
- 5:38However, in another sense, you are being made perfect.
- 5:44This is the doctrine of sanctification.
- 5:47You are becoming perfect.
- 5:51A work that will only be completed when you leave your mortal flesh.
- 5:57So, why do I say all of this?
- 6:01Because it is important for us to recognize that
- 6:03while it is not wrong to have passions categorically,
- 6:09we will be affected by the circumstances in which we live,
- 6:14we're going to respond to the place in which we are,
- 6:18those passions can be sinful
- 6:21or they can be brought under the Lordship of Jesus Christ.
- 6:28Our emotions can be sinful
- 6:33or our emotions can serve God.
- 6:40Thirdly, we need to define some terms,
- 6:43as I did for you just a couple of weeks ago.
- 6:46Historically, careful distinctions have been made
- 6:49between the words emotions, passions, and affections.
- 6:54I really hope that you'll take up and read historical books.
- 7:00We have so much to glean from Christians who have gone before us.
- 7:05You'll be very confused if you use the words
- 7:08that I'm about to define for you synonymously.
- 7:10They should not be seen as synonymous.
- 7:13There's distinctions made.
- 7:16We tend to just lump them all together
- 7:18and use them without distinction in our day.
- 7:21In fact, I want to be careful this morning,
- 7:24but I just kind of doubt that I will.
- 7:26I probably will use a word in one place
- 7:28and I shouldn't have used it.
- 7:30We mix these words together to talk about our feelings.
- 7:34However, it's important to draw from the Bible
- 7:37a more nuanced understanding
- 7:39of how the soul interacts with truth and experience.
- 7:44So, just briefly in distinctions.
- 7:48Emotions, or I want to use feelings
- 7:51in the place of emotions at times,
- 7:54but I'm not talking about physical feeling.
- 7:58Like, this morning I feel low energy
- 8:01because I'm still recovering a bit from a sickness.
- 8:05I'm not talking about that kind of feeling.
- 8:06I'm talking about emotional feelings,
- 8:08if I say feelings.
- 8:11Emotions are the broadest category
- 8:14encompassing all of those human feelings,
- 8:19both the rational and the irrational,
- 8:21the fleeting and the enduring.
- 8:25They can either be governed by truth and grace
- 8:27or led astray by sin and the flesh.
- 8:31I think that we do well to use this term
- 8:34in this broad sense
- 8:36and to note that our emotions include
- 8:39our passions and our affections.
- 8:46So, our passions are the most instinctual, bodily,
- 8:52and can tend to be the most uncontrollable aspects
- 8:55of emotion.
- 8:56Passions are reactionary most often,
- 9:01often tied to the flesh
- 9:03and can easily lead to sin
- 9:05when not disciplined by the truth and grace.
- 9:09This is the knee-jerk reaction
- 9:12that we often feel to something happening to us,
- 9:15a word spoken, a thing witnessed.
- 9:19The word passion comes from the Latin word passio,
- 9:22which means to suffer.
- 9:25So, this is what we're talking about
- 9:26when God's impassibility.
- 9:28We are passible.
- 9:30That means we walk in a world
- 9:32in which things are happening to us
- 9:34and we respond emotionally to those things,
- 9:38those inputs into us.
- 9:41But again, not limited to the emotional association
- 9:45with grief or pain.
- 9:47We can have positive passions as well.
- 9:52So, affections are emotions of the will.
- 9:59They are rooted in the soul
- 10:00and directed by the truth and grace.
- 10:07The word affection comes from the Latin word afficere,
- 10:11which means to influence.
- 10:13So, influence from the will.
- 10:16Affections are the highest form of human feeling.
- 10:22Not mere reactions,
- 10:24but deliberate inclinations of the heart.
- 10:29So, it's good for me to say
- 10:30that I am affectionate toward my wife.
- 10:34To find this way,
- 10:36I have made a decision,
- 10:37an intention of my will
- 10:40to care for Sam's highest good.
- 10:45And my passions follow my affections.
- 10:51That I have set myself to love her in this way
- 10:55means often, not always,
- 10:59but often that I feel impulsively,
- 11:02like I'm compulsive towards her
- 11:04in my passions.
- 11:07I care for her in that way.
- 11:12Sometimes Sam and I say,
- 11:13I don't always like you,
- 11:15but I'll always love you.
- 11:17But isn't it good when we both love and like
- 11:19the person that we're married to?
- 11:24All right.
- 11:24So, those distinctions,
- 11:25I'm not going to walk through those distinctions a lot.
- 11:27I'm just going to speak this morning
- 11:28in terms of emotions broadly.
- 11:31But I think we need to determine
- 11:33and distinguish these things
- 11:35as Christian thinkers
- 11:37about our emotions moving forward.
- 11:41So, with the groundwork in mind,
- 11:43let's spend a few minutes
- 11:44looking at the verse
- 11:45that I had you turn to
- 11:47and then I'll give you an outline
- 11:48and we'll press on this morning.
- 11:50So, this is Proverbs chapter 4
- 11:51and verse 23 where we read,
- 11:55Keep your heart with all vigilance,
- 11:58for from it flows the springs of life.
- 12:04The heart in this text refers
- 12:06to the inner self,
- 12:09that immaterial part of us.
- 12:13We believe that mankind,
- 12:15man is made up of two parts.
- 12:17We are body or we are soul, spirit, heart.
- 12:22Words are used interchangeably
- 12:23in the Scripture.
- 12:25So, not the flesh physical part of us,
- 12:29but that part that is immaterial in us.
- 12:33This includes our mind,
- 12:35our will,
- 12:37and our emotions.
- 12:41Proverbs 4 verse 23 teaches us
- 12:43that the way of wisdom
- 12:45is to vigilantly guard our hearts
- 12:50because our lives issue from our hearts.
- 12:57Who we are,
- 12:58the immaterial who we are,
- 13:00produces our thinking
- 13:03and our activity
- 13:04and the things we say
- 13:06comes out of us.
- 13:10Matthew Henry in his commentary
- 13:11on this verse wrote,
- 13:13In general,
- 13:15all the actions of the life
- 13:17flow from the heart
- 13:18and therefore keeping that
- 13:21is making the tree good
- 13:22and healing the springs.
- 13:25Our lives will be regular or irregular,
- 13:28comfortable or uncomfortable,
- 13:30according as our hearts
- 13:32are kept or neglected.
- 13:37So we should be diligent
- 13:39in this work of keeping our hearts,
- 13:43protecting our hearts.
- 13:45lest we think this is a task
- 13:48that doesn't require diligence.
- 13:51Jeremiah 17 verse 9 tells us
- 13:52that the heart is deceitful
- 13:55above all things.
- 13:58We are complicated creatures.
- 14:03I wish we were much more simple
- 14:05than we often are.
- 14:08Image bearers of an infinite God
- 14:10granted much,
- 14:11certainly not all,
- 14:12but much of his capacity
- 14:15for thought and feeling,
- 14:17but living in a cursed world
- 14:20are complicated.
- 14:23As people who have been saved by God,
- 14:26we desire to please him
- 14:28and to walk according to his ways.
- 14:31But if we are not careful,
- 14:33we may miss
- 14:34that this desire should extend
- 14:36into our emotional lives.
- 14:40God will have every bit of us.
- 14:45All of us is to be ordered by God.
- 14:52Emotions are a gift from God.
- 14:56Nobody this morning is making a case
- 14:58for us to not be emotional.
- 15:00We will necessarily be emotional.
- 15:04Emotions enable us to love,
- 15:06to grieve,
- 15:08to rejoice,
- 15:09and to respond appropriately
- 15:11to the world around us.
- 15:15However, our emotions
- 15:16can easily become disordered,
- 15:20leading us away from faithfulness
- 15:22to God's Word.
- 15:25You may not realize
- 15:27the great pressure
- 15:28that you are under every day
- 15:30to let your emotions
- 15:32rule the day.
- 15:34This is happening to you constantly.
- 15:39Our world is presently ruled
- 15:42by emotions.
- 15:44Epistemology is the theory of knowledge,
- 15:47and we have been
- 15:49on an epistemological slippery slope
- 15:51of great decline
- 15:53in these past decades.
- 15:57The modernists wanted to understand truth
- 15:59by empirical data.
- 16:01They say an objective truth
- 16:05should be established
- 16:06by repeatable experimentation.
- 16:10The postmodernists
- 16:11want to define the truth
- 16:12by their own experiences.
- 16:15They say,
- 16:16my truth is just as valid
- 16:17as your truth
- 16:18because I experience it
- 16:20to be true.
- 16:23The post-postmodernists
- 16:24isn't confident
- 16:26that any truth
- 16:27can exist.
- 16:29exist.
- 16:31How can we possibly know
- 16:33that anything
- 16:33is
- 16:34true?
- 16:36Therefore,
- 16:36they say,
- 16:37if I feel something
- 16:39to be good,
- 16:40then it must be good.
- 16:42And if I feel something
- 16:43to be bad,
- 16:44then it must be
- 16:46bad.
- 16:48More of you
- 16:49tend to process
- 16:51the world
- 16:51this final way
- 16:53than you realize.
- 16:56And I don't think
- 16:56any of us
- 16:57are immune
- 16:58to it.
- 16:59Beloved,
- 17:00this is not
- 17:01the way
- 17:01of the Christian.
- 17:04The Christian,
- 17:05by the grace
- 17:06of God,
- 17:08through the truth
- 17:09of God,
- 17:10is
- 17:11becoming
- 17:12all of our lives,
- 17:15including our
- 17:16emotional lives,
- 17:18are to be brought
- 17:19under
- 17:19the full authority
- 17:21of God's
- 17:22Word.
- 17:23God's
- 17:25emotions
- 17:25have a place
- 17:26in our life,
- 17:28but not the
- 17:28ruling
- 17:29place
- 17:30in our life.
- 17:33So here's our
- 17:34quick outline
- 17:35for this morning.
- 17:35I've got four points,
- 17:36and these are going
- 17:37to be short,
- 17:37so if you're already
- 17:39thinking,
- 17:39oh man,
- 17:40here we go.
- 17:41Number one,
- 17:43our emotions
- 17:43must not define
- 17:45the truth.
- 17:47Number two,
- 17:48our emotions
- 17:48must not
- 17:49control
- 17:50our decisions.
- 17:53Number three,
- 17:54our emotions
- 17:55must not
- 17:56direct
- 17:57our worship.
- 17:59And number four,
- 18:01our emotions
- 18:02must not
- 18:03excuse
- 18:04our sin.
- 18:06Number one,
- 18:08our emotions
- 18:09must not
- 18:10define
- 18:11the truth.
- 18:11And here I want
- 18:12to think in
- 18:12two categories.
- 18:13Number one,
- 18:15just doctrine,
- 18:16Bible truth.
- 18:18Our emotions
- 18:19must not
- 18:19define
- 18:20doctrine.
- 18:23Paul writes
- 18:24to Timothy
- 18:25in 2 Timothy
- 18:26chapter 4,
- 18:27verse 3 and 4,
- 18:29for the time
- 18:29is coming
- 18:30when people
- 18:31will not
- 18:32endure
- 18:33sound teaching,
- 18:34but having
- 18:35itching ears,
- 18:37they will accumulate
- 18:37for themselves
- 18:38teachers
- 18:39to suit
- 18:40their own
- 18:42passions
- 18:43and will
- 18:44turn away
- 18:45from listening
- 18:45to the truth
- 18:46and wander
- 18:47off
- 18:48into myths.
- 18:50One of the
- 18:51greatest dangers
- 18:52in contemporary
- 18:53Christianity
- 18:53is allowing
- 18:54emotions
- 18:55to shape
- 18:56our theology
- 18:57rather than
- 18:58submitting
- 18:59our emotions
- 19:00to
- 19:01biblical
- 19:01truth.
- 19:04Many reject
- 19:05difficult doctrines
- 19:06simply because
- 19:08they feel
- 19:09uncomfortable.
- 19:10They say,
- 19:11that can't
- 19:12be true.
- 19:12It doesn't
- 19:12feel good
- 19:14for it
- 19:14to be
- 19:15true.
- 19:17Some examples
- 19:18of emotionally
- 19:20driven
- 19:21theology.
- 19:22Many people
- 19:23want to
- 19:23compromise
- 19:24on sin,
- 19:26deny clear
- 19:27biblical
- 19:28teachings because
- 19:29it makes them
- 19:29at odds
- 19:30with others,
- 19:31makes them
- 19:32feel judged
- 19:34or judgmental.
- 19:36So many
- 19:37churches
- 19:37churches
- 19:37these days
- 19:38don't
- 19:39practice
- 19:39church
- 19:40discipline
- 19:40because
- 19:41they would
- 19:41say,
- 19:42oh,
- 19:43how could
- 19:43we possibly,
- 19:45well,
- 19:45the Bible
- 19:45commands you
- 19:46to.
- 19:48Redefining
- 19:49God's
- 19:50love,
- 19:52many embrace
- 19:52a sentimental
- 19:54view of
- 19:55God's
- 19:55love
- 19:56that ignores
- 19:58His holiness
- 19:59and His
- 20:01justice,
- 20:03makes
- 20:03tiny
- 20:04God's
- 20:05wrath,
- 20:05maximizes
- 20:07God's
- 20:08love,
- 20:08and He
- 20:08is both
- 20:09things
- 20:10fully
- 20:10at all
- 20:12times.
- 20:15Many
- 20:15people will
- 20:16elevate their
- 20:17experience
- 20:18over the
- 20:19Bible.
- 20:21Seeing
- 20:22something to
- 20:22be true
- 20:22makes it
- 20:23necessarily
- 20:24true.
- 20:26Some
- 20:26prioritize
- 20:27spiritual
- 20:27experiences
- 20:28and feelings
- 20:29over the
- 20:30authority
- 20:31of God's
- 20:33Word.
- 20:34And this
- 20:34should not
- 20:35be true.
- 20:36Our
- 20:37feelings
- 20:38do not
- 20:39define
- 20:40the truth
- 20:41of the
- 20:42Bible.
- 20:44The right
- 20:44response,
- 20:46Proverbs 3,
- 20:465 says,
- 20:47trust the
- 20:47Lord.
- 20:49We must
- 20:50let
- 20:50Scripture,
- 20:52the black
- 20:53and white
- 20:53on the
- 20:54page,
- 20:54not
- 20:55emotions
- 20:56define
- 20:57what we
- 20:58believe.
- 21:00The
- 21:00wrestle
- 21:00with
- 21:01difficult
- 21:01things
- 21:02in the
- 21:04text
- 21:04and bring
- 21:05all of
- 21:05ourselves
- 21:06in
- 21:07submission
- 21:08to it.
- 21:10The second
- 21:11truth that
- 21:12our emotions
- 21:12must not
- 21:13define is
- 21:15situational
- 21:16perspective.
- 21:20And church,
- 21:20it is at
- 21:20this point,
- 21:21if you don't
- 21:21hear anything
- 21:22else said
- 21:23this morning,
- 21:25that I want
- 21:25your full
- 21:26attention.
- 21:26some of
- 21:28you allow
- 21:29your emotions
- 21:31to define
- 21:32others'
- 21:34intentions.
- 21:36Something
- 21:37happens
- 21:38or
- 21:38doesn't
- 21:39happen
- 21:40and your
- 21:41emotions
- 21:42get running
- 21:43out ahead.
- 21:45And rather
- 21:46than stopping,
- 21:48honestly
- 21:49assessing
- 21:50what can
- 21:51be known,
- 21:52you back
- 21:53fill your
- 21:54emotions to
- 21:55justify
- 21:56them,
- 21:56and you
- 21:57impute
- 21:58intentions
- 21:59onto others
- 22:00that are
- 22:01just
- 22:01unfair.
- 22:03You
- 22:03assume
- 22:04the worst
- 22:06of others
- 22:06because you
- 22:07have feelings
- 22:08and your
- 22:08feelings must
- 22:09be true.
- 22:11And so
- 22:12you make
- 22:12them true
- 22:13by filling
- 22:15in
- 22:15the blanks.
- 22:18If there
- 22:19is a
- 22:19single
- 22:20identifiable
- 22:21issue that
- 22:22most tears
- 22:23at the
- 22:24seams of
- 22:24unity,
- 22:25in a
- 22:26church,
- 22:27I think
- 22:28it is
- 22:28found
- 22:28here.
- 22:30We all
- 22:31feel,
- 22:32every one
- 22:33of us,
- 22:34at some
- 22:35point,
- 22:36negative
- 22:37emotions,
- 22:39relational,
- 22:41whether real
- 22:42or just
- 22:43felt.
- 22:46Let me
- 22:46give you a
- 22:46really simple
- 22:47example in
- 22:48my own
- 22:49life.
- 22:51Every year,
- 22:52for some
- 22:52years,
- 22:53members of
- 22:54our church
- 22:55have
- 22:55coordinated
- 22:56together a
- 22:57daddy-daughter
- 22:58dance.
- 22:59I think it
- 23:00is a precious
- 23:01thing.
- 23:01On the
- 23:01front end,
- 23:02let me
- 23:02say I'm
- 23:02so glad
- 23:03for all
- 23:03of the
- 23:04effort that
- 23:04goes into
- 23:04that.
- 23:05I'm not
- 23:05being negative
- 23:06about it
- 23:06for a
- 23:07moment.
- 23:08I think
- 23:08it's so
- 23:09good that
- 23:09you all
- 23:10do this
- 23:10together.
- 23:11It's good
- 23:12for the
- 23:12dads to
- 23:13get their
- 23:13daughters
- 23:14out,
- 23:14to dress
- 23:14up,
- 23:15and to
- 23:15dance
- 23:16with them.
- 23:16What a
- 23:16wonderful
- 23:17thing that
- 23:17you all
- 23:18do.
- 23:20I don't
- 23:20have a
- 23:21daughter,
- 23:22and I
- 23:23wish I
- 23:23did.
- 23:24That's a
- 23:25blessing that
- 23:26God has
- 23:26not seen
- 23:27fit to
- 23:27give to
- 23:28our
- 23:28family.
- 23:30Three
- 23:30precious
- 23:31sons,
- 23:32right?
- 23:32This does
- 23:33not minimize
- 23:33my thankfulness
- 23:34for them
- 23:34at all,
- 23:36but I
- 23:36do wish
- 23:37that I
- 23:38had a
- 23:39daughter,
- 23:40and God
- 23:40has not
- 23:41given me
- 23:41one.
- 23:42And every
- 23:43year,
- 23:44when it's
- 23:44announced,
- 23:45and it
- 23:45happens,
- 23:46and the
- 23:46adorable
- 23:46pictures
- 23:47are posted,
- 23:49I feel
- 23:49a twinge
- 23:50of sadness.
- 23:53Man,
- 23:54I wish I
- 23:54was going
- 23:55to the
- 23:55daddy-daughter
- 23:55dance,
- 23:56and had
- 23:56a daughter,
- 23:57to be
- 23:57clear,
- 23:57and had
- 23:57a daughter
- 23:58to bring.
- 24:01I know
- 24:02some of
- 24:02you are
- 24:02going to
- 24:03invite me
- 24:03after this
- 24:04to come,
- 24:05and brought
- 24:06my own
- 24:06daughter to
- 24:07the daddy-daughter
- 24:08dance,
- 24:10and what
- 24:11I could do
- 24:12with that
- 24:12emotion,
- 24:14is I
- 24:14could allow
- 24:15myself to
- 24:15feel excluded.
- 24:18Is everybody
- 24:18doing a
- 24:19thing for
- 24:19me that
- 24:19doesn't apply
- 24:20to me?
- 24:21They get
- 24:21to all
- 24:21have fun,
- 24:22and I
- 24:22don't get
- 24:22to have
- 24:23fun.
- 24:24I could
- 24:25begin to
- 24:26think that
- 24:26no one
- 24:27is sensitive
- 24:27to the
- 24:28fact that
- 24:28I don't
- 24:28have a
- 24:30daughter,
- 24:30and I
- 24:31could go,
- 24:31well,
- 24:31most of
- 24:32them don't
- 24:32know,
- 24:32but I
- 24:32have told
- 24:33some of
- 24:33you,
- 24:34we've
- 24:35had
- 24:35conversations,
- 24:36I have
- 24:37shared and
- 24:38expressed that
- 24:39I would
- 24:39like to
- 24:40have a
- 24:40daughter,
- 24:41have they
- 24:41just
- 24:41forgotten
- 24:41about my
- 24:42feelings about
- 24:43this?
- 24:43Why has
- 24:44nobody
- 24:44reached out
- 24:44and told
- 24:45me they're
- 24:45sorry I
- 24:45don't have
- 24:46a daughter,
- 24:47even though
- 24:47we're having
- 24:48the daddy-daughter
- 24:49dance?
- 24:50I could go
- 24:50through that
- 24:51whole process
- 24:51and I
- 24:52could justify
- 24:52that feeling,
- 24:55you guys are
- 24:57making me feel
- 24:58this way,
- 24:59or I could
- 25:00just stop
- 25:01for a moment
- 25:01and go,
- 25:03why is it
- 25:03that I feel
- 25:04sad?
- 25:06Oh,
- 25:06it's just a
- 25:06reminder of
- 25:08a good thing
- 25:09that I've
- 25:09desired in my
- 25:10life that God
- 25:11has decided
- 25:11not to
- 25:12give me.
- 25:13God is
- 25:14sovereign over
- 25:15our children,
- 25:16and I'm
- 25:17grateful for
- 25:18what he has
- 25:19given me,
- 25:20and if I
- 25:20take the
- 25:20time,
- 25:21I just
- 25:21find myself
- 25:22rejoicing in
- 25:22the fact that
- 25:23I have three
- 25:23wonderful,
- 25:25beautiful boys.
- 25:27I love them,
- 25:28and I love
- 25:28our house,
- 25:29and the
- 25:29dynamic of
- 25:30it,
- 25:30and the
- 25:30crazy that
- 25:31we get
- 25:31into together.
- 25:35I could
- 25:35assume the
- 25:36best of
- 25:37everybody.
- 25:37You're not
- 25:38doing this
- 25:39thing to
- 25:39hurt me,
- 25:39you're doing
- 25:40it to
- 25:40have fun,
- 25:41and rejoice,
- 25:42and enjoy
- 25:43your daughters,
- 25:45and then I
- 25:45can join you
- 25:46in that.
- 25:46I can rejoice
- 25:47with you in
- 25:48the process
- 25:49of doing
- 25:50that.
- 25:51You see?
- 25:53Bring those
- 25:54emotions under
- 25:56control.
- 25:57Get some
- 25:57clear situational
- 25:59perspective.
- 26:03Perhaps
- 26:04somebody says
- 26:06something to
- 26:07you that
- 26:07feels offensive,
- 26:09you're suffering
- 26:10a loss,
- 26:11and they
- 26:11say something
- 26:11that seems
- 26:12unkind.
- 26:15You could
- 26:16assume the
- 26:16worst of
- 26:17what they
- 26:17mean,
- 26:18or you
- 26:18could instead
- 26:19assume the
- 26:21best of
- 26:22them.
- 26:23I find when
- 26:24I assume the
- 26:24best,
- 26:25I'm never
- 26:25disappointed
- 26:26because often
- 26:27it's true,
- 26:28and if it's
- 26:30not,
- 26:30then at
- 26:31very least,
- 26:32I hoped
- 26:33that the
- 26:34best was
- 26:36true in a
- 26:37given situation.
- 26:38God's
- 26:40chosen ones,
- 26:45holy and
- 26:47beloved,
- 26:48compassionate
- 26:48hearts,
- 26:50kindness,
- 26:52humility,
- 26:53meekness,
- 26:55and patience,
- 26:57bearing with
- 26:59one another.
- 27:00Hear him
- 27:01there.
- 27:01He's saying
- 27:02people are
- 27:02going to make
- 27:03mistakes.
- 27:04If we're
- 27:04going to live
- 27:04in relationship
- 27:05with other
- 27:05people,
- 27:06it is
- 27:06inevitable
- 27:07that it's
- 27:08going to
- 27:09happen.
- 27:11And we're
- 27:11to bear
- 27:12with one
- 27:13another
- 27:13through that.
- 27:15If one
- 27:16has a
- 27:17complaint
- 27:17against
- 27:19another,
- 27:21forgiving
- 27:21each other,
- 27:23as the
- 27:23Lord has
- 27:24forgiven
- 27:24you,
- 27:26so you
- 27:26also
- 27:27must
- 27:28forgive.
- 27:29forgive.
- 27:31So rather
- 27:31than feeling
- 27:32something and
- 27:33then back
- 27:33filling it to
- 27:34justify the
- 27:35feeling,
- 27:37stop for a
- 27:37minute and
- 27:38know what's
- 27:39actually true
- 27:41and then
- 27:41think,
- 27:42do I need
- 27:43to go get
- 27:44the real
- 27:45information
- 27:45for the
- 27:47situation?
- 27:48And if I
- 27:48do,
- 27:49then go to
- 27:50the brother
- 27:51or sister
- 27:51and talk
- 27:53to them.
- 27:55Ask them
- 27:55what they
- 27:56meant.
- 27:57did they
- 27:58mean to
- 27:59exclude you?
- 28:01Assume the
- 28:01best of
- 28:02them in
- 28:03the process
- 28:04and forgive
- 28:05them when
- 28:06they
- 28:06apologize.
- 28:09If not,
- 28:11just bear
- 28:12with them.
- 28:13We're all
- 28:13going to say
- 28:13stupid things
- 28:14and make
- 28:14mistakes and
- 28:15misinviting
- 28:16somebody to
- 28:17something when
- 28:17we should
- 28:17have invited
- 28:18them and
- 28:18we would
- 28:19have wanted
- 28:20to if we
- 28:21just didn't
- 28:21have so much
- 28:22going on.
- 28:24Right?
- 28:25Our emotions
- 28:26must not
- 28:28define
- 28:28the truth.
- 28:31The truth,
- 28:32the truth
- 28:32needs to
- 28:34stand
- 28:34on its
- 28:35own.
- 28:37Secondly,
- 28:38our emotions
- 28:39must not
- 28:41control
- 28:41our decisions.
- 28:44Proverbs 29
- 28:45and verse
- 28:4611 says,
- 28:47a fool
- 28:47gives full
- 28:48vent
- 28:49to a spirit,
- 28:51but a wise
- 28:51man
- 28:52quietly
- 28:53holds
- 28:54it back.
- 28:56A fool
- 28:57when he
- 28:57has emotions
- 28:58rushes off,
- 28:59right?
- 29:00Blows up,
- 29:02but a wise
- 29:03man is
- 29:03restraining.
- 29:06Many
- 29:06people
- 29:07make
- 29:08massive
- 29:08life-altering
- 29:09choices
- 29:10based on
- 29:11temporary
- 29:12emotions
- 29:13rather than
- 29:14on
- 29:15biblical
- 29:16wisdom.
- 29:18This is so
- 29:18dangerous
- 29:19because
- 29:19emotions
- 29:20fluctuate
- 29:22and easily
- 29:22mislead.
- 29:24I can
- 29:24feel
- 29:24one way
- 29:25about
- 29:25something
- 29:26one day
- 29:26and an
- 29:27entirely
- 29:27different
- 29:27way
- 29:27about
- 29:28it
- 29:28the next.
- 29:30You'll
- 29:31often hear
- 29:31things like,
- 29:32I just
- 29:32don't feel
- 29:33a piece
- 29:33about this
- 29:34or the
- 29:34opposite.
- 29:35I just
- 29:35feel
- 29:36a piece
- 29:37about it.
- 29:38Nowhere
- 29:38in the
- 29:39Bible
- 29:39are we
- 29:39told to
- 29:40make
- 29:40decisions
- 29:41based
- 29:41on
- 29:42our
- 29:42emotions.
- 29:43some
- 29:45examples
- 29:46of
- 29:46emotionally
- 29:47driven
- 29:48decisions.
- 29:50We can
- 29:50often
- 29:50react
- 29:51in
- 29:51anger.
- 29:53Moses
- 29:53struck
- 29:54the
- 29:54rock
- 29:54in
- 29:55frustration
- 29:55rather
- 29:57than
- 29:57obeying
- 29:57God's
- 29:58commands.
- 29:59Numbers
- 30:00chapter
- 30:0020
- 30:01and oh
- 30:01the
- 30:01trouble
- 30:02that
- 30:02ensued
- 30:03as a
- 30:04result.
- 30:06We do
- 30:07things
- 30:07often out
- 30:07of fear
- 30:08of man
- 30:09over
- 30:09the fear
- 30:10of God.
- 30:11King
- 30:11Saul
- 30:12disobeyed
- 30:12God
- 30:13because
- 30:13he
- 30:13feared
- 30:14people's
- 30:15opinions
- 30:15more than
- 30:17he feared
- 30:17the Lord.
- 30:191 Samuel
- 30:19chapter
- 30:2015
- 30:22Anxiety
- 30:25leading
- 30:25to
- 30:26unbelief
- 30:27instead
- 30:28of
- 30:28trusting
- 30:29God's
- 30:30provision.
- 30:32Many
- 30:32worry
- 30:33and make
- 30:33rash
- 30:35decisions.
- 30:37The
- 30:38right
- 30:38response
- 30:39to
- 30:40our
- 30:41emotions
- 30:42is that
- 30:42we must
- 30:42rule
- 30:43over
- 30:43them
- 30:43rather
- 30:44than
- 30:44allowing
- 30:44them
- 30:45to
- 30:45rule
- 30:46over
- 30:47us.
- 30:48We
- 30:49ourselves
- 30:49are not
- 30:50the
- 30:50authority
- 30:50by which
- 30:51we
- 30:51rule.
- 30:51We
- 30:51bring it
- 30:51under
- 30:52God's
- 30:52word.
- 30:54We
- 30:54say in
- 30:54our
- 30:54home
- 30:55all the
- 30:55time
- 30:56with a
- 30:56mantra
- 30:56in our
- 30:57house,
- 30:57do not
- 30:57let your
- 30:58emotions
- 30:58control
- 30:59you.
- 31:012 Corinthians
- 31:02chapter
- 31:0210
- 31:03verse 5
- 31:03calls us
- 31:04to take
- 31:04every
- 31:05thought
- 31:05captive
- 31:06to
- 31:07obey
- 31:08Christ.
- 31:10So
- 31:10making
- 31:11decisions
- 31:11we
- 31:11should
- 31:12seek
- 31:13wise
- 31:13counsel.
- 31:14Proverbs
- 31:1424
- 31:15verse 6
- 31:15tells us
- 31:16by wise
- 31:16guidance
- 31:17you can
- 31:18wage
- 31:18your
- 31:18war
- 31:19and
- 31:19in
- 31:19abundance
- 31:20of
- 31:20counselors
- 31:21there
- 31:22is
- 31:22victory.
- 31:23And
- 31:23if
- 31:23you
- 31:23seek
- 31:24counsel
- 31:24you
- 31:25should
- 31:25actually
- 31:26receive
- 31:26the
- 31:26counsel.
- 31:28Don't
- 31:28go to
- 31:28enough
- 31:29people
- 31:29and
- 31:29then
- 31:29one
- 31:30of
- 31:30them
- 31:30agrees
- 31:30with
- 31:30you
- 31:31the
- 31:31thing
- 31:32you
- 31:32already
- 31:32wanted
- 31:32to
- 31:33do
- 31:33and
- 31:33do
- 31:33!
- 31:33that
- 31:33thing
- 31:34right?
- 31:34What
- 31:34do
- 31:34many
- 31:35counselors
- 31:35have
- 31:36to
- 31:36say
- 31:36about
- 31:37the
- 31:37situation
- 31:38you're
- 31:38in?
- 31:39We
- 31:40should
- 31:40be
- 31:40sure
- 31:40to
- 31:41persist
- 31:41in
- 31:41the
- 31:42clear
- 31:42commands
- 31:43of
- 31:43God
- 31:44as
- 31:44we
- 31:44navigate
- 31:45the
- 31:46particulars
- 31:46of
- 31:47our
- 31:47lives.
- 31:48Our
- 31:48emotions
- 31:48must
- 31:49not
- 31:49control
- 31:50our
- 31:51decisions.
- 31:52Thirdly
- 31:53our
- 31:53emotions
- 31:54must
- 31:54not
- 31:54direct
- 31:55our
- 31:56corporate
- 31:57worship.
- 31:59Jesus
- 32:00says in
- 32:00John
- 32:00chapter 4
- 32:01verse
- 32:0123
- 32:02and 24
- 32:02but
- 32:03the
- 32:03hour
- 32:03is
- 32:03coming
- 32:03and
- 32:04is
- 32:04now
- 32:04here
- 32:05when
- 32:05the
- 32:05true
- 32:06worshipers
- 32:06will
- 32:06worship
- 32:07the
- 32:07father
- 32:08in
- 32:08spirit
- 32:09and
- 32:10truth.
- 32:11For
- 32:11the
- 32:12father
- 32:12is
- 32:12seeking
- 32:12such
- 32:13people
- 32:13to
- 32:13worship
- 32:13him.
- 32:14God
- 32:14is
- 32:15spirit
- 32:15and
- 32:15those
- 32:15who
- 32:16worship
- 32:16him
- 32:16must
- 32:17worship
- 32:18in
- 32:18spirit
- 32:19and
- 32:19truth.
- 32:20And
- 32:20he's
- 32:20not
- 32:20there
- 32:21saying
- 32:21in
- 32:21emotions
- 32:22and
- 32:22truth
- 32:23but
- 32:23he's
- 32:23saying
- 32:23in
- 32:23the
- 32:24inner
- 32:24man
- 32:25like
- 32:25all
- 32:25that
- 32:26is
- 32:26included
- 32:26in
- 32:27the
- 32:27inner
- 32:27man
- 32:27which
- 32:28is
- 32:28in
- 32:28part
- 32:29our
- 32:33equate
- 32:33true
- 32:34worship
- 32:35with
- 32:36emotional
- 32:36experience
- 32:37rather
- 32:38than
- 32:39a
- 32:39heart
- 32:40directed
- 32:40by
- 32:41truth.
- 32:43We
- 32:43want
- 32:44the
- 32:44truth
- 32:45to
- 32:45lead
- 32:46the
- 32:46charge
- 32:47in
- 32:47our
- 32:47gathered
- 32:48times
- 32:48together.
- 32:50So
- 32:51we will
- 32:51speak
- 32:52and
- 32:52pray
- 32:52and
- 32:53sing
- 32:53and
- 32:53preach
- 32:54and
- 32:55see
- 32:56and
- 32:56hear
- 32:57the
- 32:57truth
- 32:58and
- 32:59we
- 33:00will
- 33:00hope
- 33:00that
- 33:01our
- 33:01emotions
- 33:02catch
- 33:03up
- 33:03to
- 33:03the
- 33:05truth.
- 33:05This
- 33:06is
- 33:06what
- 33:06we're
- 33:06attempting
- 33:07to do
- 33:07together.
- 33:09This
- 33:09is
- 33:09why
- 33:09when
- 33:09we
- 33:10sing
- 33:10songs
- 33:11together
- 33:11they
- 33:12are
- 33:12wordy
- 33:13songs.
- 33:14True
- 33:14deep
- 33:15songs
- 33:16because
- 33:16we
- 33:16have
- 33:17a
- 33:17limited
- 33:17amount
- 33:17of
- 33:17time
- 33:18together
- 33:18and
- 33:18we
- 33:18want
- 33:19those
- 33:20songs
- 33:20to
- 33:20be
- 33:21true.
- 33:23We
- 33:23want
- 33:23it
- 33:23to
- 33:23be
- 33:24clear.
- 33:26Just
- 33:26last
- 33:26year
- 33:26I
- 33:27went
- 33:27to
- 33:27a
- 33:27large
- 33:27megachurch
- 33:28in
- 33:28our
- 33:28area
- 33:28when
- 33:29I
- 33:29was
- 33:29on
- 33:29sabbatical
- 33:30and
- 33:30they
- 33:31sang
- 33:32and
- 33:32there
- 33:32was
- 33:32a
- 33:33lot
- 33:33of
- 33:33emotion
- 33:34and
- 33:34the
- 33:34songs
- 33:35said
- 33:36nothing
- 33:37of
- 33:38any
- 33:38substance.
- 33:40The
- 33:41general
- 33:41theme
- 33:42of the
- 33:42songs
- 33:42is that
- 33:43we
- 33:43are
- 33:43victorious,
- 33:45that
- 33:46we
- 33:46are
- 33:46set
- 33:47free
- 33:48and
- 33:49that
- 33:49we
- 33:49are
- 33:49overcomers
- 33:51but
- 33:51never
- 33:52defined
- 33:53what
- 33:53we're
- 33:53victorious
- 33:54over,
- 33:55what
- 33:55we're
- 33:56set
- 33:56free
- 33:56from
- 33:57or
- 33:57what
- 33:58we
- 33:58have
- 33:58overcome.
- 33:59Never
- 34:00defined
- 34:01it.
- 34:02at
- 34:02all.
- 34:04Lots
- 34:05of
- 34:05emotion
- 34:05about
- 34:06this,
- 34:06but
- 34:06what
- 34:06were
- 34:06people
- 34:07filling
- 34:07in
- 34:07the
- 34:08blanks
- 34:08with
- 34:08as
- 34:10they
- 34:10were
- 34:10being
- 34:10so
- 34:11emotional?
- 34:12I
- 34:13couldn't
- 34:13tell you.
- 34:13I have
- 34:14no
- 34:14idea
- 34:14what
- 34:15was
- 34:15going
- 34:16on
- 34:16in
- 34:17that
- 34:18gathering.
- 34:19We
- 34:20are
- 34:20okay
- 34:21with
- 34:22emotional
- 34:23expressions
- 34:24during
- 34:24our
- 34:24time
- 34:25together.
- 34:25We
- 34:25tend
- 34:26to
- 34:26not
- 34:26be
- 34:26that
- 34:26kind
- 34:26of
- 34:27people.
- 34:28But
- 34:28we
- 34:28are
- 34:28okay
- 34:28with
- 34:29it.
- 34:29Your
- 34:30emotions
- 34:30can
- 34:31catch up
- 34:31to
- 34:32the
- 34:33truth.
- 34:34And we
- 34:34hope
- 34:35that it
- 34:35does.
- 34:38Examples
- 34:39of
- 34:39emotionally
- 34:40driven
- 34:40worship.
- 34:42I mentioned
- 34:42it already,
- 34:43but the
- 34:43idolatry
- 34:43of
- 34:43experience.
- 34:45Some
- 34:46seek an
- 34:46emotional
- 34:47high
- 34:48rather
- 34:49than
- 34:49deep
- 34:50engagement
- 34:50with
- 34:51God's
- 34:52truth.
- 34:53And
- 34:53emotional
- 34:53highs
- 34:54feel good.
- 34:55They'll
- 34:55carry you
- 34:56for a
- 34:56little
- 34:56while,
- 34:57love.
- 34:57But
- 34:57what you
- 34:57need
- 34:58across
- 34:58your
- 34:58life
- 34:59is
- 34:59substantive
- 35:00worship.
- 35:01We need
- 35:01to be
- 35:02together
- 35:02and we
- 35:03need
- 35:03to be
- 35:03reminded
- 35:04together
- 35:04of who
- 35:05God
- 35:05is
- 35:06and what
- 35:06he has
- 35:07promised
- 35:07for
- 35:08his
- 35:08people.
- 35:10The
- 35:10older
- 35:10you
- 35:11get,
- 35:11I
- 35:11promise,
- 35:12I'm
- 35:12speaking
- 35:12to a
- 35:13largely
- 35:14young
- 35:14group,
- 35:16the
- 35:16older
- 35:16you
- 35:16get,
- 35:17the
- 35:17more
- 35:17you
- 35:17will
- 35:18appreciate
- 35:18the
- 35:19week
- 35:19in
- 35:20and
- 35:20week
- 35:20out,
- 35:21gathering
- 35:21of
- 35:22God's
- 35:22people,
- 35:23opening
- 35:23his
- 35:23word,
- 35:24and being
- 35:24reminded
- 35:25of
- 35:25who
- 35:26he
- 35:26is
- 35:26and
- 35:27what
- 35:27he
- 35:27has
- 35:27promised
- 35:27to
- 35:28us.
- 35:29I
- 35:29guarantee
- 35:30this
- 35:31will
- 35:31be
- 35:31the
- 35:32case.
- 35:33Regular
- 35:33repetition,
- 35:35in and
- 35:36out of
- 35:36the
- 35:36truth
- 35:36together.
- 35:38I need
- 35:39this
- 35:39every
- 35:40single
- 35:40week.
- 35:41When
- 35:41I'm
- 35:42not
- 35:42here,
- 35:43I
- 35:43most
- 35:43deeply
- 35:44miss
- 35:45not
- 35:45being
- 35:45here,
- 35:46not
- 35:47because
- 35:47I
- 35:47love
- 35:47you
- 35:47guys,
- 35:48which
- 35:48I
- 35:48do,
- 35:48I
- 35:48like
- 35:49seeing
- 35:49your
- 35:49faces,
- 35:50I
- 35:50love
- 35:50seeing
- 35:50the
- 35:50kids
- 35:51running
- 35:51around,
- 35:52I
- 35:52miss
- 35:52all
- 35:52of
- 35:53the
- 35:53entrapments
- 35:54that
- 35:55are
- 35:55so
- 35:55wonderful
- 35:56about
- 35:57us
- 35:57together.
- 35:58What
- 35:58I
- 35:58most
- 35:59miss
- 36:00is
- 36:00opening
- 36:01the
- 36:02word
- 36:02with
- 36:03you
- 36:03guys.
- 36:04Declaring
- 36:04the
- 36:04truth
- 36:05together.
- 36:08I
- 36:08need
- 36:09quiet
- 36:10rooms
- 36:11of
- 36:11people
- 36:11with
- 36:11Bibles
- 36:12open
- 36:12in
- 36:12their
- 36:12laps.
- 36:13I
- 36:14get
- 36:15reminded
- 36:15of
- 36:15this
- 36:15when
- 36:16we
- 36:16gather
- 36:16together
- 36:16on
- 36:17Sunday
- 36:17morning.
- 36:17I
- 36:18need
- 36:18the
- 36:18word
- 36:18faithfully
- 36:19taught.
- 36:20Whether
- 36:20I'm
- 36:20in the
- 36:20role
- 36:20doing
- 36:21it
- 36:21or
- 36:21I'm
- 36:21sitting
- 36:21and
- 36:22listening
- 36:22to
- 36:22somebody
- 36:22else
- 36:23do it.
- 36:24I
- 36:25need
- 36:25to
- 36:25hear
- 36:25you
- 36:26sing
- 36:26and
- 36:27rejoice
- 36:27in
- 36:28God's
- 36:29truth
- 36:29for
- 36:30you.
- 36:31So
- 36:32important.
- 36:32So
- 36:33important.
- 36:33Drives
- 36:34us
- 36:34on.
- 36:37We
- 36:38also
- 36:38can be
- 36:40tempted
- 36:41towards
- 36:41empty
- 36:42formalism,
- 36:44a suppression
- 36:44of emotion
- 36:45when we
- 36:45gather
- 36:46together,
- 36:46so much
- 36:47that we're
- 36:48just
- 36:49lifeless.
- 36:49we see
- 36:51a high
- 36:52church
- 36:52formality
- 36:53at
- 36:53places
- 36:54in
- 36:54American
- 36:55Christianity.
- 36:56We
- 36:57also
- 36:57see
- 36:58often
- 36:58emotional
- 36:59manipulation
- 36:59in the
- 37:00life of
- 37:00churches,
- 37:01services
- 37:02that focus
- 37:02on creating
- 37:03responses
- 37:04that are
- 37:05emotionally
- 37:06driven
- 37:06rather than
- 37:07driven by
- 37:09sound
- 37:09doctrine.
- 37:12The
- 37:13right
- 37:13response
- 37:13is that
- 37:14biblical
- 37:14worship
- 37:14is
- 37:15heartfelt
- 37:16and rooted
- 37:18in
- 37:18truth.
- 37:21Number
- 37:22four,
- 37:22and lastly,
- 37:24our emotions
- 37:25must not
- 37:26excuse
- 37:27our
- 37:28sin.
- 37:30One of the
- 37:31greatest dangers
- 37:32of unchecked
- 37:32emotions is
- 37:33they are often
- 37:34used to
- 37:35justify
- 37:35sinful
- 37:36attitudes
- 37:37and actions.
- 37:39Well,
- 37:40of course
- 37:40I did
- 37:41this.
- 37:42He made
- 37:43me feel
- 37:43this way.
- 37:44James
- 37:47chapter
- 37:47four,
- 37:47verse
- 37:48one
- 37:48through
- 37:49three,
- 37:49James
- 37:50says,
- 37:50what
- 37:50causes
- 37:51quarrels
- 37:52and what
- 37:52causes
- 37:53fights
- 37:53among
- 37:54you?
- 37:55Is
- 37:55it
- 37:56not
- 37:56this?
- 37:57We
- 37:58all
- 37:58want
- 37:59James
- 37:59to
- 37:59say
- 38:00that
- 38:00people
- 38:01do
- 38:01things
- 38:01to
- 38:02you.
- 38:03They're
- 38:04not
- 38:04fair
- 38:05and
- 38:05they're
- 38:05not
- 38:06thoughtful.
- 38:08He
- 38:08says,
- 38:09is
- 38:09it
- 38:09not
- 38:09this
- 38:10that
- 38:10your
- 38:11passions
- 38:12are
- 38:13at
- 38:13war?
- 38:14Within
- 38:15you?
- 38:16You're
- 38:16an
- 38:16emotional
- 38:17mess,
- 38:18is what
- 38:18James
- 38:19says.
- 38:20That's
- 38:20why
- 38:21there
- 38:21are
- 38:21quarrels
- 38:22and
- 38:23fights
- 38:23amongst
- 38:24you.
- 38:25You
- 38:25desire
- 38:26and
- 38:27do
- 38:27not
- 38:27have,
- 38:28so
- 38:29you
- 38:29murder.
- 38:31You
- 38:31covet
- 38:31and
- 38:31cannot
- 38:32obtain,
- 38:33so
- 38:33you
- 38:33fight
- 38:34and
- 38:34quarrel.
- 38:35You
- 38:35do
- 38:36not
- 38:36have
- 38:36because
- 38:36you
- 38:36do
- 38:37not
- 38:37ask,
- 38:37you
- 38:37ask
- 38:38and
- 38:38do
- 38:38not
- 38:38receive
- 38:39because
- 38:39you
- 38:39ask
- 38:40wrongly
- 38:41to
- 38:41spend
- 38:42it
- 38:42on
- 38:43your
- 38:45passions.
- 38:48Nobody
- 38:48can
- 38:50make
- 38:50you
- 38:51sin.
- 38:53Somebody
- 38:54doing
- 38:55something
- 38:55to you,
- 38:56saying
- 38:56something
- 38:57to you,
- 38:58cutting
- 38:59you off
- 38:59in
- 39:00traffic
- 39:00is not
- 39:02the cause
- 39:03of your
- 39:04sinful
- 39:04behavior.
- 39:05It
- 39:05comes from
- 39:07within
- 39:07you.
- 39:09It's your
- 39:10emotions
- 39:10not
- 39:11brought
- 39:11under
- 39:11the
- 39:12lordship
- 39:12of
- 39:13Jesus
- 39:13Christ.
- 39:14It's
- 39:14your
- 39:15sin.
- 39:17So
- 39:17you
- 39:17cannot
- 39:18use
- 39:18emotions
- 39:19to
- 39:19excuse
- 39:21your
- 39:22sin.
- 39:22I
- 39:23dare
- 39:23you
- 39:23to
- 39:24stand
- 39:24before
- 39:24the
- 39:24judgment
- 39:24and
- 39:25try
- 39:25to
- 39:25justify
- 39:26your
- 39:26sin
- 39:27by
- 39:27your
- 39:27emotions.
- 39:30People
- 39:31tend
- 39:31to want
- 39:31to
- 39:31justify
- 39:32their
- 39:32anger.
- 39:34Many
- 39:35want
- 39:35to
- 39:35believe
- 39:36that
- 39:36their
- 39:36anger
- 39:37is
- 39:37righteous
- 39:38so it
- 39:38gives
- 39:39them
- 39:39the
- 39:39right
- 39:39to
- 39:40speak
- 39:40or
- 39:41act
- 39:41sinfully.
- 39:44Many
- 39:45will
- 39:45allow
- 39:45their
- 39:46fear
- 39:46to
- 39:47paralyze
- 39:48obedience.
- 39:49Peter
- 39:49denying
- 39:50Christ
- 39:50because
- 39:51he
- 39:51was
- 39:51afraid.
- 39:55Many
- 39:55will
- 39:55disguise
- 39:56their
- 39:57lust
- 39:57as
- 39:58love.
- 40:00Think
- 40:00of David
- 40:00allowing
- 40:01a desire
- 40:01to lead
- 40:02him
- 40:02into
- 40:03grievous
- 40:03sin
- 40:03with
- 40:04Bathsheba
- 40:042 Samuel
- 40:06chapter.
- 40:0611.
- 40:10We
- 40:10must
- 40:11submit
- 40:11our
- 40:11emotions
- 40:12to
- 40:12Christ
- 40:13and
- 40:14we
- 40:14must
- 40:14exercise
- 40:15self
- 40:16control.
- 40:18Galatians
- 40:195
- 40:1922
- 40:21describes
- 40:21self
- 40:22control
- 40:22as
- 40:23a
- 40:23fruit
- 40:23of
- 40:24the
- 40:24spirit.
- 40:27But
- 40:28they
- 40:28must
- 40:29be
- 40:29sanctified
- 40:30by
- 40:31God's
- 40:31word.
- 40:33The
- 40:33key is
- 40:33not to
- 40:34suppress
- 40:34emotions.
- 40:35We're
- 40:35not
- 40:36looking
- 40:36to be
- 40:36emotionless.
- 40:38We
- 40:38are
- 40:38to
- 40:39have
- 40:39them
- 40:40but
- 40:41we
- 40:41should
- 40:41bring
- 40:41them
- 40:41under
- 40:42the
- 40:43control
- 40:43of
- 40:44Christ.
- 40:45We
- 40:46should
- 40:46be a
- 40:46people
- 40:46set
- 40:47apart
- 40:47in
- 40:48this
- 40:48way.
- 40:49We
- 40:50have
- 40:50to
- 40:50be
- 40:50so
- 40:50emotionally
- 40:52stable.
- 40:53We're
- 40:54going to
- 40:54react
- 40:54to the
- 40:55things
- 40:55of the
- 40:55world
- 40:55but
- 40:56we
- 40:56should
- 40:56react
- 40:56appropriately
- 40:57to
- 40:58the
- 40:58things
- 40:58of
- 40:59the
- 40:59world.
- 40:59Everything
- 41:00brought
- 41:00under
- 41:02the
- 41:03truth.
- 41:04So just
- 41:06briefly,
- 41:07practically
- 41:07to do
- 41:08this,
- 41:08we should
- 41:08be
- 41:08examining
- 41:09our
- 41:10hearts
- 41:11daily.
- 41:13Psalm
- 41:13139
- 41:1423
- 41:15says,
- 41:15Search me,
- 41:16O God,
- 41:17and know
- 41:18my heart.
- 41:20Try me
- 41:20and know
- 41:21my
- 41:22thoughts.
- 41:24That we
- 41:25would pray,
- 41:26God,
- 41:26help me to
- 41:27see the
- 41:28reality of
- 41:29my
- 41:29emotions.
- 41:31Help me to
- 41:32understand
- 41:32when they're
- 41:33consistent
- 41:33with the
- 41:34truth and
- 41:35when they're
- 41:36inconsistent
- 41:36with the
- 41:38truth.
- 41:40And train
- 41:41your emotions
- 41:41through the
- 41:43scripture.
- 41:44If you don't
- 41:44know the
- 41:45truth,
- 41:45you're going
- 41:45to have a
- 41:46very difficult
- 41:46time knowing
- 41:47if your
- 41:47emotions are
- 41:48consistent or
- 41:49inconsistent
- 41:50with that
- 41:51truth.
- 41:53Paul writes
- 41:53in Romans
- 41:5412 and
- 41:54verse 2
- 41:55that we
- 41:55are to
- 41:55be
- 41:56transformed
- 41:57by the
- 41:58renewal
- 41:59of
- 42:00our
- 42:01minds.
- 42:03We would
- 42:04know
- 42:05what is
- 42:05good and
- 42:06true
- 42:07and beautiful
- 42:08and that
- 42:09our emotions
- 42:10would be
- 42:10brought into
- 42:11conformity
- 42:13with that
- 42:14truth.
- 42:17And may
- 42:17we be a
- 42:18people who
- 42:19are not
- 42:19tossed about
- 42:20by emotional
- 42:21instability,
- 42:23but anchored
- 42:24in the
- 42:25unchanging
- 42:25truth of
- 42:27God's
- 42:28word.
- 42:29Let's pray
- 42:29together.