Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Parents charged with child neglect for 6-year-old riding scooter alone
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- 0:00Speaker 1: It is the day you could show your twenty twenty
- 0:02Speaker 1: six addition. So a couple is charged with child, look
- 0:06Speaker 1: glad they let their six year old right four minutes
- 0:08Speaker 1: away to the park and skip. You made a great point,
- 0:11Speaker 1: uh New York. You see kids on the subway for
- 0:13Speaker 1: six yeah, four?
- 0:14Speaker 2: Yeah, by themselves or just you know one or two
- 0:17Speaker 2: about us. So they went all around the city by themselves.
- 0:21Speaker 1: Yeah, I know for us. You you you uh we
- 0:24Speaker 1: Junior said this, or you go to the store yep,
- 0:27Speaker 1: you would, you would? Can I go over? I mean
- 0:29Speaker 1: we had to. It was a big deal. When I
- 0:31Speaker 1: was six or seven years old. We used to let
- 0:33Speaker 1: us cross the street by ourself, right, yeah, like a
- 0:36Speaker 1: main street like that's you had to be old enough
- 0:38Speaker 1: to that. And I think I was six or seven
- 0:39Speaker 1: when that happened.
- 0:40Speaker 2: Yeah, we was, because you remember, we be out all
- 0:43Speaker 2: over the neighborhood and all of a sudden you hear
- 0:44Speaker 2: that hum oh street lights coming on. Yeah, and we
- 0:47Speaker 2: had you were way more than four minutes. That's why
- 0:49Speaker 2: we were all in shape back then, because that was
- 0:51Speaker 2: better than the peloton. We would just hey man, we
- 0:53Speaker 2: was flying trying to get back home. But you were
- 0:56Speaker 2: miles away from.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Now, and not to mention, we had to walk to
- 0:59Speaker 3: school and up that was way over a couple of holes,
- 1:02Speaker 3: you know.
- 1:02Speaker 1: So amen, that's why I stopped going. I'm like this walking.
- 1:08Speaker 2: My calves getting too big.
- 1:13Speaker 1: My last walk, Papa, I can I can't do it
- 1:17Speaker 1: no more. My pro kids is toe up. I can't
- 1:19Speaker 1: do this. You know what's funny. You talked about the
- 1:22Speaker 1: streetlights coming on and the people, the dudes who got
- 1:26Speaker 1: to stay past the street light. You know, you thought
- 1:27Speaker 1: they was cool, and the girl the dudes went to
- 1:30Speaker 1: jail and the girls got pregnant. You got to stay up.
- 1:33Speaker 1: I'm telling you. If you if you didn't have to
- 1:36Speaker 1: be home, Mama, I ain't got to be home. If
- 1:37Speaker 1: you didn't have to be home. The dudes all went
- 1:39Speaker 1: to jail, and the girls all got pregnant, and you
- 1:41Speaker 1: just got you got past that street home when I'm ready. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:45Speaker 1: my mama said, come on, yep, got locked up and
- 1:51Speaker 1: knocked up. That's what happened for Jo. But we're asking
- 1:55Speaker 1: a mother and father of a six year old charge
- 1:57Speaker 1: with because they let him ride scooter four minutes away.
- 2:00Speaker 1: It should there have been that's the question we're posing
- 2:02Speaker 1: to you eight seven seven two two six. I do
- 2:06Speaker 1: think I think that there were just as many things
- 2:08Speaker 1: that happened back then. I just think we didn't have
- 2:10Speaker 1: social media, we might not have the apparatus to kind
- 2:13Speaker 1: of talk about it all the time. But needless to say,
- 2:17Speaker 1: it wasn't unusual for a kid like hey, man, your
- 2:23Speaker 1: mother would leave you at home by yourself. And don't
- 2:25Speaker 1: you answer the door and cut the pilot light off?
- 2:27Speaker 1: That was all. No, don't answer the phone, don't answer
- 2:30Speaker 1: the door and leave it so off.
- 2:32Speaker 2: Don't let nobody in my house. Oh your little nasty
- 2:35Speaker 2: friend son.
- 2:36Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And when I call you, better pick up
- 2:37Speaker 1: the phone. Yep, Mama, what if the house case, if
- 2:40Speaker 1: I were you better burn up? You come back here?
- 2:46Speaker 1: You you be in hospital smoking the laces? Did I
- 2:49Speaker 1: tell you not to leave?
- 2:50Speaker 4: I told you to leave?
- 2:51Speaker 3: But one difference back then, you know, the whole neighborhood
- 2:54Speaker 3: was kind of like your mama. You know, so even
- 2:56Speaker 3: when your mama was gone, everybody watching the house just
- 2:59Speaker 3: to make sure that you you're beaten.
- 3:00Speaker 1: If you do open that door going out the house.
- 3:03Speaker 1: I saw you come running out. You know you remember,
- 3:06Speaker 1: remember you be talking to somebody out the window. Couldn't
- 3:08Speaker 1: go outside and stay next to the winner. Yeah, like
- 3:13Speaker 1: I was saying, my mama, go over here. But you
- 3:18Speaker 1: got away with because you wasn't out there. I wasn't
- 3:20Speaker 1: out the house, right. They would stand and talk to
- 3:22Speaker 1: you through the screen door. That was so stupid. Anything
- 3:25Speaker 1: to be close, you know what, it was a punishment
- 3:28Speaker 1: to if you if you had to stay in the house,
- 3:31Speaker 1: that was a punishment.
- 3:32Speaker 2: Now you can't get the kids leave the house.
- 3:35Speaker 1: Yeah, they fat invitedment. How are you seven years old
- 3:38Speaker 1: with diabetes? Fat ass? The question we're asking a the
- 3:44Speaker 1: the parents of a six year old or charged with
- 3:47Speaker 1: child because they let him ride a scooter four minutes
- 3:50Speaker 1: to to the park four minutes. Where do you think
- 3:52Speaker 1: they should have been going to write to the phones?
- 3:53Speaker 5: Honestly, I think that it's really absolutely careless to give
- 4:01Speaker 5: your child that much time to be unsupervised, because you
- 4:06Speaker 5: don't know who's lurking looking at your child. You know,
- 4:09Speaker 5: if your child is the most precious thing that you have,
- 4:13Speaker 5: it's your most precious commodity, so to speak, then you
- 4:16Speaker 5: need to guard it with your life. And by sending
- 4:20Speaker 5: your child out there without proper supervision puts them in
- 4:24Speaker 5: a place to be, you know, harmed. So you know,
- 4:28Speaker 5: if they did it once, that may be a warning.
- 4:31Speaker 5: But if this is you know, if you're a repeated offender,
- 4:35Speaker 5: because if you don't look out for your child and
- 4:38Speaker 5: somebody takes your child, then what are you going to do?
- 4:40Speaker 5: So charging their parents gives a message that, you know,
- 4:47Speaker 5: take more care with your child, don't be careless with
- 4:51Speaker 5: their wellbeing.
- 4:53Speaker 6: I think that is crave thee and they would actually
- 4:57Speaker 6: let you talking about well and let their child go. Well,
- 5:01Speaker 6: let me give you my answer. He tell me, I'm
- 5:04Speaker 6: curious to know if they're black or white. I know
- 5:06Speaker 6: me personally, I wouldn't do that. Not two daughters. Ain't
- 5:10Speaker 6: no way I'm letting my daughter, even if I had
- 5:14Speaker 6: a son to that foolish, that's crazy.
- 5:17Speaker 7: I would not allow. I have a five year old
- 5:19Speaker 7: he turned sixth September, and just looking at him, I
- 5:24Speaker 7: cannot afford to let him go outside by himself, unsupervised.
- 5:28Speaker 7: He's just too little. He doesn't even know so much
- 5:31Speaker 7: about like being outside. What's safety concerns? You know, maybe
- 5:35Speaker 7: there plus everything that's going on right now, but kidnappings
- 5:39Speaker 7: and all of that I would not let him go
- 5:41Speaker 7: outside when he when he's not able to defend himself.
- 5:47Speaker 8: Yeah, I think a low level charge neglect would be supicious.
- 5:53Speaker 8: It's not like it's when when I was coming up
- 5:57Speaker 8: in the seventies, late seventies and earlier, I could go
- 6:01Speaker 8: to the park by myself, kicking with my six years
- 6:03Speaker 8: sixty seven year old eight nineteen year old fridge and
- 6:06Speaker 8: come back home by myself. But you can't do that
- 6:08Speaker 8: these days because they will snatch your little crumb snatcher
- 6:12Speaker 8: and they're gonna be cryed. So yeah, I do think
- 6:15Speaker 8: some sort of punishments, legal consequences, probations is for that,
- 6:21Speaker 8: or anonishing, even a parenting class at end this day
- 6:26Speaker 8: and age.
- 6:26Speaker 7: That's how happened about.
- 6:27Speaker 9: That, Okay, So when I heard the question, immediately, I said,
- 6:31Speaker 9: six years old is young.
- 6:34Speaker 1: But then your discussion.
- 6:36Speaker 10: After about your childhood and what happened, and I'm.
- 6:41Speaker 11: Like, but that that happened to me.
- 6:43Speaker 9: That's what my parents did, Like seriously in summer.
- 6:47Speaker 10: You've just come back in August.
- 6:48Speaker 1: That was normal, do you know what I mean?
- 6:52Speaker 9: But you all had me cracking up when you said
- 6:55Speaker 9: about can you spell cool?
- 6:57Speaker 8: When you're referred to, so.
- 7:01Speaker 9: I survived my childhood of you learn to ride the bike,
- 7:06Speaker 9: go outside, you know, so I'm on the fence.
- 7:13Speaker 8: I'm on the fence.
- 7:14Speaker 7: I don't think they should be charged.
- 7:15Speaker 1: So a couple's charged with your neglect for letting their
- 7:19Speaker 1: six year old ride his scooter to the park form
- 7:21Speaker 1: as way, do you think they should have been? Okay,
- 7:24Speaker 1: what do you think?
- 7:25Speaker 11: I think that times have changed. I know when we
- 7:31Speaker 11: were coming up, we you know, six, seven, eight years old,
- 7:35Speaker 11: I was, you know, opening the door of a latch
- 7:38Speaker 11: key kid, and my kids were latch key kids. But
- 7:42Speaker 11: seems like this generation right here particularly, they just not
- 7:47Speaker 11: as responsible. And I don't know if that's because they're
- 7:51Speaker 11: always in front of you know, games and stuff like
- 7:55Speaker 11: that that they don't have the the wherewithal you don't
- 8:00Speaker 11: mean just you know, they don't know to shoot gum
- 8:04Speaker 11: and ride a bike at the same time. So there's
- 8:07Speaker 11: different kind of breedy kids. But when we were coming
- 8:11Speaker 11: up four minutes, I mean, we were gone forever at six.
- 8:16Speaker 11: So but I understand there's a lot of pedophiles, there's
- 8:19Speaker 11: a lot of kids being taken. We weren't you could
- 8:22Speaker 11: give us away when we were coming up so, but
- 8:26Speaker 11: I don't think they should have been charged with neglect.
- 8:30Speaker 11: You know, they're trying to be parents to help their
- 8:33Speaker 11: children be independent. That's how I see they probably was doing.
- 8:37Speaker 11: But they shouldn't have been charged with a crime.
- 8:41Speaker 12: I think that in all honestly, I think that the
- 8:43Speaker 12: child should be taken away, Like there's so much stuff
- 8:46Speaker 12: going on in the world today with kids and just
- 8:49Speaker 12: in general, and like why would you let your kid
- 8:52Speaker 12: ride to the six years old to the park by
- 8:54Speaker 12: themselves four minutes away, one minute away, Like it don't matter.
- 8:58Speaker 12: I think they definitely should have been charged.
- 9:00Speaker 4: I come to the generation next. While it was okay
- 9:03Speaker 4: back then, it's just not okay now. Children have been
- 9:05Speaker 4: snatched in less than four minutes before.
- 9:08Speaker 12: So while I wouldn't necessarily charge them or arrest them,
- 9:12Speaker 12: they definitely would.
- 9:13Speaker 4: Get us back on the risk and have to go
- 9:15Speaker 4: through the parents in class. Well, it was some person
- 9:18Speaker 4: that said that was like a historian or saying somebody
- 9:21Speaker 4: or president. They said, during good times we raised soft kids,
- 9:24Speaker 4: and hard times we raised strong kids. But at any rate,
- 9:28Speaker 4: when we were younger, and I'm from the seventies, it's
- 9:31Speaker 4: just like, you know, the age of both parents basically
- 9:34Speaker 4: having to work and all that. Yet kid had to
- 9:36Speaker 4: be made out of something and we're not really making
- 9:38Speaker 4: our kids responsible for themselves until they are about to
- 9:41Speaker 4: leave our households. So at six years old, man, I
- 9:45Speaker 4: was walking five to ten minutes to my bus stop
- 9:48Speaker 4: that was on a whole nother road and it won't
- 9:51Speaker 4: nowhere near the front of my house. So keep that
- 9:54Speaker 4: in mind.
- 9:54Speaker 12: Brother.
- 9:55Speaker 4: We raised this off kids on purpose, but we can't
- 9:57Speaker 4: be surprised when the government can look at it like
- 10:00Speaker 4: these kids cannot send.
- 10:01Speaker 10: For their song.
- 10:02Speaker 4: So big ups to the latch Key generation.
- 10:05Speaker 10: Yeah, they definitely a CDF.
- 10:06Speaker 4: Need to get the handle of that.
- 10:08Speaker 10: They need to take that child because I'm raising a
- 10:11Speaker 10: five year old and there's no way in God's greener
- 10:13Speaker 10: if I will leave another park by yourself to play.
- 10:16Speaker 10: I don't care who they think they are. We had
- 10:18Speaker 10: to get in for the lights went on. Definitely a
- 10:22Speaker 10: six year old. Even though they can talk and they
- 10:25Speaker 10: can talk slick, they can cuss, they're still six years old.
- 10:30Speaker 10: They can't defend themselves at all.
- 10:32Speaker 13: Y'all made a valid point when y'all said these kids
- 10:36Speaker 13: walking to school every day, their parents being charged when
- 10:39Speaker 13: Negli because we know if there's a school district in
- 10:42Speaker 13: the area four minutes away from walking from their school,
- 10:45Speaker 13: every parent that let their kids walk to school should
- 10:48Speaker 13: be charged when neglick to and from school.
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