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386: 5 Things to Do When Everything is Going Wrong · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to flow without sacrificing results.
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Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello, and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we are here together, just the two of us, today.
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Nicole Laino: And I have a question for you.
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Nicole Laino: How you doing?
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Nicole Laino: I'm curious how everybody is doing right now, because quite honestly, June so far has felt kind of crazy over here, and it's caused me to kind of not questioning, but I had to lean on my tools a lot.
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Nicole Laino: I had to, you know, really ground myself.
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Nicole Laino: And this is the entrepreneur game, right?
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Nicole Laino: It's never like a flat surface where we're just, you know, we're just chugging along and everything's going great.
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Nicole Laino: We have periods of that.
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Nicole Laino: And as you get more and more experience, you have greater and greater success, and you build systems and things.
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Nicole Laino: You can have a lot longer stretches on flat road.
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Nicole Laino: It can feel comfortable, or it can feel, you know, like you're hitting your stride.
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Nicole Laino: But then inevitably, at some point, some things are gonna go wrong.
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Nicole Laino: And this month for me, it has felt like anything and everything that could go wrong did some really surprising stuff.
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Nicole Laino: I'm fine.
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Nicole Laino: Don't worry about me.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm sharing this at a time where I have processed my feelings around this.
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Nicole Laino: I'm not coming into this raw, but I am coming into it like, not everything is fixed yet.
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Nicole Laino: Not everything is done.
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Nicole Laino: There are not all the answers.
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Nicole Laino: And I wanted to share because I see this throw people off so often, you know, when we hit a rough patch, when.
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Nicole Laino: Or we hit a really rough patch, like, I just have.
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Nicole Laino: It can derail you, certainly in the beginning.
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Nicole Laino: And this is really.
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Nicole Laino: It's a test of your nervous system is really what we're doing.
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Nicole Laino: We're really taking the nervous system for a ride and saying, like, let's see how regulated and expanded you really are.
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Nicole Laino: I know you think you are, but let's just test that out, shall we?
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Nicole Laino: And.
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Nicole Laino: And sometimes we fail that test.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes the nervous system is like, I wasn't ready for all of this.
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Nicole Laino: This is too much.
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Nicole Laino: This is where that doomsday thinking comes from.
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Nicole Laino: This is where when you get stuck in, like, a spiral of, oh, my God, it's all coming apart.
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Nicole Laino: But here's the thing.
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Nicole Laino: If you get caught in, it's all falling apart more will fall apart.
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Nicole Laino: There's going to be.
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Nicole Laino: You can think about some of that as attraction and the law of attraction, you are attracting more of what you don't want.
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Nicole Laino: We don't want that.
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Nicole Laino: Absolutely see that.
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Nicole Laino: But then there's also a strategic element of that when you're caught up in the downward spiral of what else could go wrong?
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Nicole Laino: And oh, my God, it's all coming apart.
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Nicole Laino: And, oh, my God, how is this going to work?
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Nicole Laino: And how am I going to fix this and how am I going to right the ship?
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Nicole Laino: When you're in that space, one, you're not making great decisions strategically for your business, or two, sometimes you just flat out stop that.
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Nicole Laino: You're so consumed in the emotional part of the business that other things stop happening and you don't move them forward.
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Nicole Laino: And that causes further delay in you being able to fix things.
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Nicole Laino: Because on the material plane, we have to do stuff right?
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Nicole Laino: And then on the energetic plane, we have to be in the energetic vibration and an energetic match for the things that we want.
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Nicole Laino: So in this episode, what I wanted to do was I wanted to break down five things that I do when everything is going wrong to remind myself that every what to do.
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Nicole Laino: This is like a checklist.
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Nicole Laino: So you can write these down, have them someplace, put them in your phone, and the next time, I hope it doesn't happen to you.
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Nicole Laino: But.
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Nicole Laino: But, you know, if it does, where it feels like, oh, my God, I gotta hang on for dear life, that you pull out the little checklist and you say, these are the five things that Nicole said worked for her.
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Nicole Laino: Maybe I'll try these.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, so let's dive into this, shall we?
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Nicole Laino: And I will say that we have a workshop that I did a while back called Trust.
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Nicole Laino: There's a Trust masterclass.
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Nicole Laino: This is one of my favorite things that I've ever done.
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Nicole Laino: It very much goes with this episode.
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Nicole Laino: If you are experiencing that, anything to do with, you know, things falling apart, you feel like the Energetic game is off.
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Nicole Laino: This workshop, this masterclass that I did, like I said, it's one of my favorite things.
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Nicole Laino: It combines my two favorite modalities, human design and tapping.
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Nicole Laino: And I take you through the number one belief that I see keep entrepreneurs stuck and keep them from expanding and keep them from growing and keep them from their potential ultimately.
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Nicole Laino: And this is like a little sinister belief that's bubbling underneath the surface.
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Nicole Laino: If you want to get your hands on that.
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Nicole Laino: if you're interested in that, listen to the episode, see if this.
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Nicole Laino: If this resonates for you, if it Does.
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Nicole Laino: You'll love the what the masterclass.
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Nicole Laino: All you have to do to get it just.
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Nicole Laino: Just DM me the word trust on Instagram.
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Nicole Laino: I'm icoleno official.
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Nicole Laino: We'll send it to you there also, I believe on the Work with me page on my website.
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Nicole Laino: So just go to nicolelaino.com and we'll find it there and we'll link it up in the show notes for you.
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Nicole Laino: All right, so let's talk about this.
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Nicole Laino: Five steps.
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Nicole Laino: And you don't have to do all.
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Nicole Laino: There's no particular order to these.
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Nicole Laino: These are just things that you want to make sure that you're checking in with.
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Nicole Laino: This is to keep you.
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Nicole Laino: My favorite thing to say is like, we need to come off autopilot.
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Nicole Laino: Because sometimes when crisis hits, when, you know, for lack of a better term, when shit hits the fan, we.
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Nicole Laino: You know, when they say when.
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Nicole Laino: When emotions are high, intelligence is low.
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Nicole Laino: So when that happens, when the shit hits the fan, we suddenly become dumb and highly emotional and just start making really bad decisions automatically, we're on autopilot.
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Nicole Laino: Our autonomic nervous system is taking over.
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Nicole Laino: Our fight flight response is taking over.
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Nicole Laino: And now suddenly we're driving in a direction that we don't even know.
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Nicole Laino: We're blindfolded.
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Nicole Laino: We're just like, I don't know, I just gotta get in the car.
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Nicole Laino: I just gotta grab the wheel.
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Nicole Laino: Even though we can't see.
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Nicole Laino: So what we want to do is we want to take a pause before you get behind the wheel of that car, before you go just driving off in some direction.
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Nicole Laino: These five steps or these five things.
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Nicole Laino: If you do these, you will find yourself more grounded.
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Nicole Laino: And I promise you'll be able to unwind that situation and make better decisions through the crummy patch, and then hopefully get out of that crummy patch much faster than you would otherwise if you didn't do these things.
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Nicole Laino: So let's start with the first one.
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Nicole Laino: Let's kick it off the first one.
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Nicole Laino: I think that's really important is to remind yourself of your goals and what you've been asking for.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes we see turbulence.
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Nicole Laino: These.
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Nicole Laino: We have an idea of what things should be happening.
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Nicole Laino: And when something different happens, we get real upset.
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Nicole Laino: But here's the thing.
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Nicole Laino: If you think about the goals that you have, if you really were to search both, like, strategically, maybe you have goals written down someplace, which you should.
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Nicole Laino: If you journal and you talk about the life that you want to create for yourself, you're writing your story, you're saying, I want these things look at that.
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Nicole Laino: But then also search your soul of like, what am I kind of calling out for right now?
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Nicole Laino: What's in my energy?
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Nicole Laino: Of like, where I want to be going?
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Nicole Laino: What's the vision I'm holding for myself?
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Nicole Laino: Because here's the thing, we get to ask for more.
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Nicole Laino: We get to ask for the.
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Nicole Laino: The vision.
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Nicole Laino: We get to say, universe, I want this thing.
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Nicole Laino: I want to be a speaker on stages, I want to write a book.
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Nicole Laino: I want to do this, I want to do that.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: We get to ask for more.
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Nicole Laino: But what we don't get to do is we don't get to decide how it shows up.
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Nicole Laino: And oftentimes, you know, they say, like, the rejection is the universe's protection.
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Nicole Laino: That is certainly true.
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Nicole Laino: And then sometimes the universe, we asked for something and it needs to rearrange things and move things around and create a new environment for us.
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Nicole Laino: And sometimes that means things falling away.
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Nicole Laino: And it can be really painful.
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Nicole Laino: People can fall away.
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Nicole Laino: So if you've been asking to be more loved in your relationship, well, maybe it's not this relationship.
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Nicole Laino: So we can see friendships, we can see romantic partners fall away in service to our highest good, in service to the vision that we have.
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Nicole Laino: But it's a painful thing that we couldn't have both things.
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Nicole Laino: We couldn't have the vision that we wanted in that relationship because the relationship was the thing that was holding us back.
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Nicole Laino: We can't have higher level clients if the same clients are around.
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Nicole Laino: So sometimes, maybe some clients need to fall away to make space for new ones.
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Nicole Laino: But when you're in the middle of that feeling and people are falling away and lovers are leaving you and breaking your heart, what it feels like, it doesn't feel good.
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Nicole Laino: It's hard to have that presence of mind, which is why you have to remind yourself to do this.
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Nicole Laino: What have I been asking for?
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Nicole Laino: How is this somehow serving me?
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Nicole Laino: How is this somehow serving my highest good?
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Nicole Laino: And what I have been asking for?
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Nicole Laino: It's a really valuable question to ask.
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Nicole Laino: Great journaling prompt right there.
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Nicole Laino: So that's the first one.
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Nicole Laino: The second thing that you want to do.
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Nicole Laino: This one sort of goes without saying, but I'm going to say it anyway.
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Nicole Laino: Regulate your nervous system.
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Nicole Laino: It is your business will only grow and your life will only grow to the level that you can grow your nervous system to hold and handle more.
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Nicole Laino: More turbulence, more chaos, but also more joy, more wealth, more of the things that we want.
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Nicole Laino: We have to expand and be able.
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Nicole Laino: Like this is the whole point of being unshakable, right?
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Nicole Laino: Unshakable means that you have grounded and solidified your nervous system and expanded it enough that you can take in more.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes I don't know if I really believe in like universal tests necessarily, but our ability to deal with a rocky situation and hold the vision for what we want, even when it looks like it's not going to happen, that's expansion, because that's our ability to say, no, I still get to have that.
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Nicole Laino: I'm still holding space for the joy, even though the pain is what's in front of me right now.
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Nicole Laino: So you have to regulate your nervous system.
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Nicole Laino: This should already be part of your daily routine.
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Nicole Laino: I don't often tell people what to do, but this one, I'm going to tell you what to do.
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Nicole Laino: If you're an entrepreneur and you're not regulating your nervous system and you are not making it part of your regular practice.
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Nicole Laino: Now, whatever tool you use, that is completely up to you.
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Nicole Laino: I have a whole smorgasbord of things that I like to lean on.
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Nicole Laino: But when you're in one of these funky places where things are really going wrong, double down on this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: Double down on breathwork, double down on eft, hypnosis, whatever your modality of choice is, lean into it hard without making it a total crutch.
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Nicole Laino: Because I have seen people kind of obsessively look to heal and you want to find that fine line of feeling like you've moved the energy and you've gotten in front of it.
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Nicole Laino: But you've also, you also have the ability to sit and hold space for what is happening.
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Nicole Laino: Because sometimes when we try, sometimes we're using a modality to get rid of a feeling and that doesn't work.
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Nicole Laino: That's not a sustainable fix because it's like a fancy, healthy looking way avoiding what's really there.
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Nicole Laino: And we don't want to be doing that.
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Nicole Laino: We don't want to be avoiding anything.
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Nicole Laino: We want to be facing everything head on.
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Nicole Laino: Which is why, you know, you're using these modalities to move the energy to see what is there, to kick some things up.
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Nicole Laino: And then you want to be able to sit with it and say, well, what am I feeling right now?
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Nicole Laino: Journal to clear your mind.
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Nicole Laino: Because a lot of times our minds will race in these spaces.
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Nicole Laino: So the feelings will create new thoughts that are usually not good.
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Nicole Laino: And the not good thoughts make us feel crummy and shittier.
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Nicole Laino: As, as the thoughts keep going now that creates more bad thoughts.
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Nicole Laino: And this is the downward spiral.
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Nicole Laino: And this is how you both start energetically Pulling in what you don't want.
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Nicole Laino: And you also, it's miserable.
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Nicole Laino: So.
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Nicole Laino: Journal to clear your mind.
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Nicole Laino: This is all part of the second tip of regulating your nervous system.
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Nicole Laino: Journal.
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Nicole Laino: Get the thoughts out of your mind.
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Nicole Laino: The echo chamber of your head is the most toxic place when things are going wrong.
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Nicole Laino: Get the thoughts out of your head.
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Nicole Laino: They appear as what they are when you write them down or when you say them out loud.
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Nicole Laino: Notice if you talk to somebody, it starts to make you feel better.
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Nicole Laino: Usually depends on who you talk to.
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Nicole Laino: But when you start to hear yourself, if you have a defined throat or if you have an open g, you might need to soundboard these things with people to get them out of your body, out of your mind.
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Nicole Laino: Because if they're in your mind, they start to feel very true.
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Nicole Laino: All of those what ifs feel like they're gonna happen, and that's not ultimately true.
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Nicole Laino: But when you write them down or you say them out loud, you're like, oh, yeah, that's not really gonna happen.
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Nicole Laino: It's like it loses its power.
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Nicole Laino: So take the power away, put it on the page, pour it out on the page and see what's there.
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Nicole Laino: You can read it back or don't.
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Nicole Laino: It doesn't really matter.
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Nicole Laino: That part is up to you.
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Nicole Laino: But get it out of your head, because no good comes of it living up there.
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Nicole Laino: The third thing you should do when everything feels like it's going wrong is support.
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Nicole Laino: I know that entrepreneurship can feel really lonely, but it doesn't have to be.
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Nicole Laino: We choose it to be so.
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Nicole Laino: So whether you have a coach, you have programs like Business by Design, we have our telegram chat for our entire group.
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Nicole Laino: We have hot seats.
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Nicole Laino: We have all of these ways that people can get support.
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Nicole Laino: So you can reach out to people like that or platforms like that.
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Nicole Laino: If you have a biz, bestie or something, you can absolutely reach out to them because they'll understand what you're going through.
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Nicole Laino: It's really important that you reach out to somebody who's actually going to receive what you have to say and isn't going to either make you feel worse about it or just really not get it.
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Nicole Laino: Because sharing, make sure you're sharing with the right people.
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Nicole Laino: But what you can do is if you have a spouse, if you have a partner, somebody in your life, close friends that maybe aren't in the business space where they get the journey, but you could just share how you're feeling, that you're really stressed, that you're really overwhelmed, that everything feels like it's going wrong and it just feels like so much.
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Nicole Laino: And you're seeking them, not for them to give you advice.
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Nicole Laino: And you could tell them this straight up and you could just say, I just need a source of stability right now.
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Nicole Laino: Everything feels like it's on shaky ground.
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Nicole Laino: And this is like a somatic thing.
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Nicole Laino: When we feel unstable, our nervous system feels unstable.
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Nicole Laino: The inner message that's happening there is, we're on shaky ground.
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Nicole Laino: We can't trust anything.
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Nicole Laino: This is what I mean by the trust workshop.
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Nicole Laino: This is.
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Nicole Laino: It's so great.
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Nicole Laino: But we can't trust anything.
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Nicole Laino: So you need to find things that are solid that you can trust.
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Nicole Laino: Remind yourself, put yourself in physical space with someone or something that feels rock solid to you and physically touch them, hug them.
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Nicole Laino: I was going through stuff, I went into my husband, I'm like, I just need a hug right now.
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Nicole Laino: And he was like, yeah, come here.
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Nicole Laino: And I hugged my kid and I hugged my dog.
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Nicole Laino: And it's co regulation.
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Nicole Laino: That's what you're doing there.
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Nicole Laino: Don't try to do it all alone, because that just sets up more of the belief that you are alone.
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Nicole Laino: Show yourself that you are supported.
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Nicole Laino: Show yourself that you are not alone.
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Nicole Laino: Because you're not.
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Nicole Laino: You have more support than you probably realize.
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Nicole Laino: The fourth thing you should do when everything feels like it's falling apart, this is a human design one.
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Nicole Laino: Very specific and a little weird, but I forget to do this a lot of times and I.
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Nicole Laino: I'm like, I have to remind myself to do this whenever things don't feel good.
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Nicole Laino: Check the transits, go back to our monthly transit episode, or go and look them up yourself.
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Nicole Laino: If you have, you know, genetic matrix or one of the human design portals that gives you the transit information, look at the transits, see if you've got some crazy stuff happening.
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Nicole Laino: So all of this stuff has been happening in my life and in my world, but it really felt bad a week ago.
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Nicole Laino: And I looked and realized that this was the week that we all had the 1222 channel, the channel of openness, which is the manic depressive channel, the heartbeat wave of the emotional wave.
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Nicole Laino: So if you felt not so great during, what was it, the week of the 10th, like, that stretch, the week of the 12th of June.
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Nicole Laino: Then if you felt kind of like, oh, my God, I feel crazy, or I feel so emotional, I feel so overwhelmed by emotion right now.
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Nicole Laino: Things just feel so chaotic and so dark.
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Nicole Laino: I was only reminded of it because I have the 39th gate and gate 55 sits on the other side this is the same emotional wave as the channel that the.
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Nicole Laino: The channel of openness, the 1222 that we all experienced during that week that I'm talking about.
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Nicole Laino: I recognized it because when gate 55 is in the transit and that locks in and I get that wave, it's the only times I feel really, like, dark, and I understand how those people feel who carry it, how deep and really just challenging that particular wave is.
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Nicole Laino: So check the transits.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes people come to me in our group, in Business by Design, and they'll say something like, I've just felt like this and this.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, my God.
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Nicole Laino: I feel like the world is caving in on me, and I just.
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Nicole Laino: It just feels like there's no hope.
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Nicole Laino: And I go and I look at the transit and, like, you've got actually three emotional waves happening right now, and you're not emotional.
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Nicole Laino: Like, sometimes there's crazy stuff happening in somebody's chart or they get access to another couple of centers, and they're usually really open, and it's like, yeah, you're actually.
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Nicole Laino: You're driving a different vehicle these couple of days, and that might feel really rocky.
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Nicole Laino: Here are some things that might come up for you.
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Nicole Laino: So check the transits.
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Nicole Laino: See if Christine and I mentioned anything in the monthly call.
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Nicole Laino: That podcast episode is a really great resource for you.
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Nicole Laino: You can go and listen to it at any time, but you can also go look it up and see if there's anything that's transiting that feels, you know, might be interacting with your chart and making you, in particular feel a little nutty at that time.
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Nicole Laino: Sometimes that happens, and you're just like, oh, okay, it's not me.
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Nicole Laino: That's the whole point of the transit episodes, by the way, is to show you what the weather is.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, the last one, the final step or final point of the five things to do whenever it feels like everything is falling apart is write down and focus on what you want to happen, not what you're afraid will happen.
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Nicole Laino: This is where the fork in the road is.
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Nicole Laino: We get to choose.
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Nicole Laino: And it is so important not to lose focus of this.
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Nicole Laino: Where attention goes, energy flows.
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Nicole Laino: And when you write and focus on what you want to happen, one, it starts to actually feel possible.
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Nicole Laino: You're reminding yourself that there's another possibility than, like, you know, your world ending.
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Nicole Laino: But you start to change your energy.
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Nicole Laino: Now you're in alignment with what you want, not what you don't want.
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Nicole Laino: If you are focusing on what you are so afraid will happen or what will happen again or will another thing happen like that or will you be okay?
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Nicole Laino: You're focused on what you don't want and you'll get more of what you don't want.
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Nicole Laino: Don't do that.
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Nicole Laino: So you really have to remind yourself to visualize the best case scenario.
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Nicole Laino: You have to go into life in the energy of if the worst case can happen, so can the best case.
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Nicole Laino: And the only difference between those two things, because neither has happened yet, is what I am choosing to invest my energy and my thoughts in right now.
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Nicole Laino: Always have a choice.
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Nicole Laino: We often forget that and I don't want that for you.
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Nicole Laino: So that's why it's one of these steps.
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Nicole Laino: Write these down.
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Nicole Laino: So to recap five things that you are going to do when you feel like everything is going wrong is one, you're going to remind yourself of your goals and what you've been asking for and ask yourself, how is this somehow serving me and my greater good?
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Nicole Laino: Number two, you're going to regulate your nervous system.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to double down on those tools that you have.
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Nicole Laino: Breath work, eft, hypnosis, whatever it is that you choose to do.
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Nicole Laino: Meditation, move the energy that's there and then journal to clean your mind, clear out your mind so you don't have a constant barrage of negative thoughts.
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Nicole Laino: Get them out on the page, get them out of your head.
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Nicole Laino: Number three, you're going to seek support.
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Nicole Laino: You're going to go find a coach, a biz, bestie, your best friend or somebody to either share the story with so that they can empathize with you, or you're going to just look for a source of stability from somebody.
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Nicole Laino: Someone you can hold, somebody who can hold you, someone that reminds you that you are not alone and that you are on stable ground on this earth.
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Nicole Laino: A walk outside grounding but co regulating with a person is really key.
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Nicole Laino: Number four, you're going to check the transits and you're going to make sure that you don't have something funky going on in your chart where something in the cosmos is connecting to your chart, giving you access or a little extra of something that you are not used to, which is causing you to feel crazy.
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Nicole Laino: And the last one you're going to write down and you're going to focus on what you want to happen, what is the story you wish to be true, what is that you would like to see happen, not what you are afraid will happen.
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Nicole Laino: Focus your energy on the best case scenario.
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Nicole Laino: A lot of times we don't even bother to consider it.
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Nicole Laino: We just think about the worst and that's such a automatic program that a lot of us have.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, I guess it's all gonna come down.
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Nicole Laino: This is the worst case scenario for me, and it doesn't have to be that way.
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Nicole Laino: So write it down.
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Nicole Laino: Write down the best case scenario.
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Nicole Laino: What's the possibility?
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Nicole Laino: All right.
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Nicole Laino: That's all I got for you today.
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Nicole Laino: I hope that you enjoyed this.
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Nicole Laino: I hope that this helped.
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Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being here.
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Nicole Laino: I appreciate you.
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Nicole Laino: Thank you so much.
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