Latest / The One Small Change Podcast / Letting Go to Level Up
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- 0:00Welcome to the One Small change. I am thrilled that you are
- 0:04here and you're ready to embark on this journey of exploration and
- 0:07transformation. And I'm your host, Yvonne McCoy. If you don't know,
- 0:11and I bring almost 30 years of entrepreneurial experience and I
- 0:14have an obsession with discovering growth through
- 0:18the power of seemingly small change. And each week I try to bring
- 0:22somebody into your, you know, your world that's going to help you to
- 0:26grow along this journey. And this week we are talking to
- 0:29Kathi Burns and she's going share with you. Hey,
- 0:33Kathi. She's going to share with you how a smaller, unexpected
- 0:37decision sparked a remarkable transformation
- 0:40in either her personal or her professional life. So,
- 0:44Kathi, thank you so much for spending your time. Thank you
- 0:48so much for sharing what you know because we need to know
- 0:52what it is you're going to be talking about and as we grow our
- 0:55business. So take it away, girl. Well, thank you
- 0:59for being having me as a guest on your show. I very much appreciate it.
- 1:03I'm super excited to talk about friction tax
- 1:07and things that we are not that we do that slow us
- 1:10down in moving our business forwards. We're going to talk a lot about
- 1:14the little stumbling blocks that we happen upon all the time
- 1:18and not even know that we're paying this tax in
- 1:22our time. And you and I, even before we even
- 1:26started this interview, we went into one of those
- 1:30topics. So later on I'm going to share that so that you know that I
- 1:33too have stumbling blocks and can do better at what I do.
- 1:38We all do. We all do. So how did you, how did you
- 1:42get into what you're doing and what makes you not
- 1:45just an expert, but the expert in this field?
- 1:50Well, I am a board certified professional organizer turned operational
- 1:53architect. I've been doing this work for 23
- 1:57years and I've been a serial entrepreneur pretty much all my
- 2:01life. And so I bring a lot of expertise.
- 2:04And how did I fail in my businesses before? How
- 2:08did I succeed in my businesses before? So as a serial entrepreneur, that's what
- 2:12we do. We try, we experiment, we do things,
- 2:16we see what works, what doesn't work, and we move forward. What makes me
- 2:20unique is that had varied experiences throughout
- 2:23the years. I started out as a 100 ton
- 2:27licensed boat captain and I was delivering yachts
- 2:31and that was the beginning of my journey. And what makes
- 2:35that exceptional? Well, it's so funny, you know, everything
- 2:39we do throughout our life leads to the next step. And I remember
- 2:42being in the Gulf Stream years ago thinking about
- 2:47everything in my life on shore at my house and realizing
- 2:50that none of it was significant. And I would go back
- 2:54to my apartment when I got to shore and I would purge. And
- 2:58I think that's what kind of started the whole professional
- 3:02organizer thing for me is like, I realized that things weren't that important.
- 3:06And as a serial entrepreneur, I've shifted into being
- 3:09a travel writer after that and living out of
- 3:13a suitcase 42 weeks a year and realizing that everything that I had back
- 3:17on back, you know, at my department wasn't important because I had everything I
- 3:20needed in a suitcase, basically. So I think that's what started the
- 3:24simplification process of my life and realizing that things didn't really
- 3:28matter that much. But also as a
- 3:31entrepreneur, I kind of moved that forward. Like, so I
- 3:35became a board certified professional organizer over, like, 23
- 3:39years ago. I was in the inaugural class of organizers.
- 3:43I've moved forward throughout the years. Now I actually help write and
- 3:47write the exam review questions for the bcpo. So I'm
- 3:50on. You know, I'm one of the old timers in the industry. But what's happened
- 3:54with me as we move and change is I've realized that
- 3:58as a small business owner, that has been this for so many years, that
- 4:02now I really have the tools to help other entrepreneurs
- 4:06grow and scale, because I've done all that. Right? So
- 4:09it started as organizing homes, into organizing
- 4:13businesses, into setting up structure for businesses so they can
- 4:16actually scale and thrive. And hence, now I'm an
- 4:20operational architect for businesses. I help them see what's
- 4:24missing in their business and where their stumbling rocks are.
- 4:28Because oftentimes, as you know, Yvonne, we don't know what's holding us
- 4:31back half the time. Right. That. That
- 4:35is. So I want to go back just a little bit because I know that
- 4:39there are people in the audience that are saying something like,
- 4:43you know, my clutter is my, you know, is the way
- 4:47that I am. Or. Or, you know, I don't want to have to follow
- 4:51this. I mean, it seems so boring. I would much rather do, you know, just
- 4:54take everything as it comes. Tell us, tell us what you say to
- 4:58people like that. Well, what I say is
- 5:03any. Any pile in your life is a symbol of things left
- 5:07undone. And if you have too many things left
- 5:10undone, you have all these open circuits in your brain that are
- 5:14trying to fire and remember everything. And memory is
- 5:17not a system, right? So you need systems.
- 5:21And a pile is not a system. It's just
- 5:25an open loop that will slow you down and stop
- 5:28you. So for those who love the clutter,
- 5:33especially as women. We can't ignore the clutter. It silently screams
- 5:36at us without us even doing anything. We know
- 5:40what's left undone. We know what needs to be addressed. And it
- 5:44muddies up. And what I call mucks up your life. My first book, how to
- 5:47master your mic. It's. It's muck that makes you stuck and un. To move forward.
- 5:52The thing that I find really interesting, not only in my
- 5:56business, but also in my private life, is that the
- 5:59clearer I am about where I'm going,
- 6:04the easier it is to let go of things. And
- 6:07I think part of what we. We. We do not.
- 6:11How can I say this? I don't think we realize that
- 6:15as we're growing, we shed stuff. And
- 6:19that can be clients, and it can be just stuff, right?
- 6:24And so there's.
- 6:27We've never been taught that letting go. I mean, my
- 6:31sister said probably one of the best things I ever heard. You know, years
- 6:34ago, she said, when I give things away, it makes me feel rich.
- 6:40Absolutely. Because we tend to hoard. It's like, I mean, you know, I may need
- 6:44this one day, or I'm on a. I'm gonna wear this on a special occasion.
- 6:48And I have to say that I can be incredib Guilty of this. I mean,
- 6:51I saved something. I bought an antique
- 6:55thing, right, That I saved, and then one day
- 6:59said. I mean, I had it for years and never had it out, and then
- 7:02said, one day, you know, I'm gonna put this out. And it turned
- 7:06out to be the same time we got a puppy who ran through the room
- 7:09and knocked it off the shelf.
- 7:13Thank you, puppy. It was like, oh, my God,
- 7:17I could have had years of enjoying this. So
- 7:21maybe I really didn't need it, you know? Well, and if it was put
- 7:24away, you didn't. I mean, you said something very interesting that, you know,
- 7:30you can move forward when you let go. And, you know, the more you let
- 7:33go, the more you're able to live forward. And I think that you have to
- 7:36have space in your life in order to thrive
- 7:40and get in. The more you let go, the more clarity you have,
- 7:44which means you can thrive, not just survive.
- 7:48Right. Surviving being stuck in a bunch of
- 7:52unfinished open loops. And. And, you know, and that's
- 7:56true with your business, too. I mean, one of the things that I try to
- 7:59get people to do is really focus. Get clarity and really focus on
- 8:03the thing that they do, because when they do that, they can put lots of
- 8:07energy into it. They can do it better. They can do it deeper. When you
- 8:10have a lot of things that are just really scattered around, you don't ever
- 8:14get good at any of them, right? So
- 8:19you had the amazing experience of
- 8:23living out of a suitcase for 42 years. So you
- 8:27obviously knew what you actually needed and didn't need.
- 8:31For those of us who may be just starting this,
- 8:35how do we, you know, how do we do that? How do
- 8:38we start? First, becoming aware of it as
- 8:42entrepreneurs, what I find a big stall out
- 8:46is broken and duplicated systems. And
- 8:50this happens when you're scattered. So take, for instance, you'll start
- 8:53one contact database, and then you'll have one in the phone, and then
- 8:57you'll have another one that you bought somewhere, and then none of them
- 9:01are speaking to each other. And so you have all these broken and
- 9:04duplicated systems. And I think to start first is,
- 9:08you know, what is your main database? Is it all speaking
- 9:12to you? Is it the one, one thing? Like, let's just go database, right?
- 9:16Contact management. I mean, that's a simple, simplified version of
- 9:19this idea. Start there, right? See
- 9:23how many do you have that are doing the same thing? And
- 9:27then limit it down to one. Put everything into one bucket, you know,
- 9:30organizing one on one, like with like. So all your contacts
- 9:34need to be in one place. And that's just a real basic scenario. But you
- 9:38could do the same thing with everything. How many inboxes do you, how many
- 9:41times you have to log in and log out? Do you have one that you
- 9:45use only, right? Because, you know,
- 9:49in Client Notes and Google Docs, you know, we could talk about that. Your
- 9:52documents, right? How many document formats do you use?
- 9:57Are you using Word? Are you using Pages? Are you using Google
- 10:00Docs? Are you using pd? What the heck is it, right? And you know,
- 10:04we talked about this at the, at the beginning, it's like, choose
- 10:07one. And that's why I actually have a Google Workspace
- 10:11masterclass. I'm all about Google Docs now. Everything can be in a
- 10:15Google Doc and nothing should be anywhere else. That way I can
- 10:18find it. And I, and I have a protocol set up
- 10:22so that I can find things within five seconds, which is
- 10:26what you need to do. So, all right, we were talking
- 10:30about systems and this was one that someone had me
- 10:33do that I found really amazing. And that was
- 10:37just having a good naming system. Oh, yeah. So you can
- 10:41actually find things. It's like an amazing,
- 10:44an amazing thing to do. And you know,
- 10:48every once in a while, because I'm notorious for losing stuff, every once
- 10:52in a while I Will go in and search for things
- 10:56that basically, you know, had the parentheses
- 10:59like, you know, nine. That I have nine ver. You know, nine of these.
- 11:03And. And just delete them. You know, it's like if I have d. I
- 11:07don't need, you know, whatever. And,
- 11:11and I think the other part, I think if so many times,
- 11:14we don't think that the first step is
- 11:18really an insight and a mindset shift.
- 11:23Absolutely. And I think part of it has to do with
- 11:28information is everywhere. You don't actually
- 11:32need to keep lots of information because
- 11:36you can find it again. And so, you know, I have this thing
- 11:39called productivity ahead. And, and part of the step is put something
- 11:43on hold. But when you put it on hold, just put a link in.
- 11:47Don't put a whole article, just put a link, because
- 11:51you don't know if that article is even going to be relevant and up
- 11:55to date, you know, and. And I think that having that
- 11:58mindset is. Is one of the biggest things. I mean,
- 12:02one of the things that happened to me once is I decided
- 12:06when I, you know, this is like decades ago, and I had been in
- 12:10the adult education space
- 12:13after I, I came out of corporate and it was like, this
- 12:17is such good stuff. I mean, I.
- 12:21And so I found somebody who could actually use
- 12:25it. I mean, as I went through it, it was like, oh, I don't want
- 12:28to throw the, you know, and I must have had six boxes. Six,
- 12:32you know, those file boxes that I carted
- 12:35off. And it was like, oh, my God, I felt so relieved, you know,
- 12:39that I found it a home. And so I find that. That for me
- 12:43is if I can find a different life for
- 12:46something that somebody else can use. Like if I, you
- 12:50know, before I get rid of something, you know, it, you know, like information,
- 12:54I will say this might be interested to you, interesting to you, and I
- 12:58will email it to somebody and then I can get rid of it, because then
- 13:01I don't feel like I've just thrown it away. So,
- 13:05yeah, I think the mindset has. Even has more to do with
- 13:08it than the actual action. Yeah, I,
- 13:12I think you're right. It. I call it the letting go muscle.
- 13:16And most of our letting go muscles are atrophied. We're not used
- 13:20to letting go. And when you start letting go and you start
- 13:23moving your good into the world, then you become more powerful and you have.
- 13:27And you realize how good it feels. Like you. You felt so good when you
- 13:31got rid of those two boxes to someone that needed them. It feels
- 13:34good. And you're like, let it go, let it go. Because you realize that the
- 13:38less you have to muck you up, so to speak, in your mindset, the
- 13:41easier it will be to move forward. And guess what? You can't have
- 13:45anything new come into your life unless there's space for it. And if
- 13:49there's no space, no good comes in. I mean, I know
- 13:52we're kind of in the change of seasons right now, and I
- 13:56am purposely, when I pull something out,
- 14:00if I go, I'm not going to wear that now. I go, but will I
- 14:03wear it ever? You know, if I'm not going to wear
- 14:07it now, do I really need it? Why
- 14:11would you wear it later? Yeah, it. And so it's like,
- 14:15you know, and I'm like, okay, but,
- 14:19you know, or, or the other thing that someone told me that was
- 14:22a really good thing was to put a trash can in your,
- 14:26like your vestibule or wherever your mail is. Don't even bring
- 14:30it in the house. You know, the junk mail and stuff like that. And that
- 14:34was a game changer. Oh, yeah. No, no, no. Never
- 14:37bring, never. I do the five finger mail sort. Never bring any of that crap
- 14:41into your house. If you have, if it's, you know, depending on where your
- 14:44mailbox is, hopefully none of you have them drop through the front door
- 14:48into your living room. That's like the worst. But wherever your
- 14:51mailbox is, you want to sort and get rid of the junk. Either
- 14:55have a shred or a trash bin right there. But, you know, as a
- 14:59personal stylist, I have to say that, you know, clothes are something that
- 15:03I work on all the time trying to get rid of the clothes. And, you
- 15:06know, if you're not going to wear it now, why would you wear it later?
- 15:10Well, for me, that's really hard. So what I have is a donation bag in
- 15:13my, in my master closet at all times. Yeah. If I
- 15:16pull something, I put it immediately in to donate. I don't look
- 15:20at it. It's a deep bag. Once the bag's full, it goes away. So I
- 15:24don't second guess myself. So having a donation station set up
- 15:27at various points in your house is a huge, huge, really good thing.
- 15:31I have one in, you know, one in my master, one downstairs. So if I
- 15:35find things like, what is this? I can just donate it immediately.
- 15:39Well, I, I have to tell you, when I was in the tax business, you
- 15:42had to keep records for seven years. And so they were always
- 15:45stored. And there was a date on it. Destroy at this date.
- 15:49And I actually, I actually did that in my house.
- 15:53It was like things that I felt like I couldn't part with.
- 15:57I would put them in a file box and then date them, seal
- 16:01them up, date them for like a year. And if I
- 16:04hadn't opened it in a year, I would say to my husband, don't ask me
- 16:08if it's okay to throw it out, just take it out. Yeah.
- 16:12Because I haven't looked at it in a year. I've gone through a whole 12
- 16:15month cycle and I haven't needed it. Just take it
- 16:19and let it go. Yeah, so. So those are just some,
- 16:24you know, general kinds of things. But in terms
- 16:27of entrepreneurs,
- 16:32I think the first thing is that
- 16:36it's really hard for us to organize ourselves by
- 16:40ourselves. And so I would think
- 16:44that the first thing that you should do is get
- 16:48somebody to take a look at what you're doing and your systems
- 16:51or whatever. I mean, I know my daughter is
- 16:55ruthless. I mean, just in terms of the personal stuff,
- 16:59she's like, mom, let me clean your office. And I'm like, oh my
- 17:02God, I'm like scared. Right.
- 17:06But as an entrepreneur, it's
- 17:10not like you're walking into somebody else's place.
- 17:13You can be as unorganized as you
- 17:17naturally are or whatever if you're working from home. So
- 17:21talk about the benefit of having somebody
- 17:24help you through this process and setting
- 17:28systems up. Well, I have a whole chapter in my first book about that.
- 17:32It's called Masters Hire Masters. All of the most successful
- 17:36people in the world will hire those to help them for things that they cannot
- 17:39do. And generally as entrepreneurs, we cannot see the forest through the
- 17:43trees. We don't know what systems are broken, what systems are duplicated.
- 17:47So, you know, I do audits all the time with small
- 17:51businesses to show them where their blind side is and
- 17:54where they have that, what I call friction tax. What are the
- 17:58taxes that they're paying that they don't know they're paying in their time? Because
- 18:02time is the one thing we can get, not get back. And time is the
- 18:05most valuable asset that we have in business. Right. We all say we don't have
- 18:08enough time for that. Well, we only have, we all have a certain amount of
- 18:11time. So how I work with clients is I
- 18:14identify very quickly. I have interviews and
- 18:18capacity audits or friction tax audits where I will help them
- 18:23see what they're not seeing and what is
- 18:27making them stuck. If they're looking to scale, why are they not scaling?
- 18:32What is it oftentimes for? You know, I have two
- 18:35basic Core web, two basic core groups. I have
- 18:39the struggling entrepreneur, the one who's making about, you
- 18:43know, anywhere from 100, $250,000 a year. And they don't know why they
- 18:47can't scale. And then I have the other clients, the scaling
- 18:50CEOs of 500 to 2 million clients who want to
- 18:54scale more. And it always comes down to
- 18:58what are they not seeing that's blocking them from moving them forward.
- 19:02For the smaller entrepreneurs, generally, paper, paper flow and
- 19:06document retention is a big, big, big thing
- 19:10that they're spinning their way. You know, the average entrepreneur of
- 19:14that capacity is spending four hours a week trying to
- 19:18find documents that they know that they have, that they cannot find. They don't know
- 19:21what they named them, where they hid them, where they're, how to find them, and
- 19:25they're wasting time. That four hours a week ends up being a month, a
- 19:29year that they're losing in productivity
- 19:33just trying to find things. You know, that the, the
- 19:36version nine of the document. That's why I like
- 19:40Google Documents. You know, what's that most latest, greatest version
- 19:44of the document that they're trying to send to someone?
- 19:47I found version 5 and 6, but that's not the one I need. I need
- 19:519, right? Where's that last version?
- 19:55You said something, and I kind of feel like
- 19:58it. It. We need to go back to it. Okay.
- 20:03You talked about the tax, right?
- 20:07And that sounds, I don't know, it doesn't sound scary
- 20:11enough. I don't, you know, I don't know. I don't know what the word I
- 20:14really want to use to define it, but I think what, what,
- 20:17what it doesn't emotionally evoke
- 20:21is, it is costing me
- 20:25so much. I mean, now the example that you gave, you know,
- 20:29that's four hours a week. But I think it's even
- 20:33more than the time and the money, which
- 20:36is obviously a big thing. It's also,
- 20:42I think, an emotional drain, you
- 20:46know? You know, it's like, I know I have this. Why
- 20:49can't I find it? You know, yada, yada, yada. Then I get sidetracked and I
- 20:53need to go back. It. It's taking away from your life and it's
- 20:57taking away from the things that you enjoy
- 21:00doing, right? And I think the other part
- 21:04to it is, I think it's
- 21:07demoralizing. I mean, you say to
- 21:10yourself, I'm a smart person. I should be
- 21:14able to do this. I should know where I can find this. How can I
- 21:18help other people if I can't even find this stupid Document.
- 21:21Right. I mean, tax
- 21:25doesn't feel heavy enough for what it's actually costing you.
- 21:29So I think we needed to go back and talk about that. I mean, I
- 21:32think it. Part of it is that it. It
- 21:35requires a change, and we don't
- 21:38necessarily like change. Change makes us uncomfortable.
- 21:42Right. So there's that discomfort, but knowing that that's a
- 21:46temporary thing, versus keeping the system that
- 21:50you've got, which is going to be an everyday thing
- 21:53maybe a couple of times a day, and
- 21:57it's keeping you from fulfilling what you really want to
- 22:01do. I think
- 22:05I just had that. I don't know. I just had. No, I. I'm with you
- 22:08on that. I mean, that's just a phrase that I coined. It's overwhelm, it's
- 22:11exhaustion, it's overwhelmed, it's exhaustion, it's fatigue,
- 22:16it's not being able to sleep at night. I have several clients,
- 22:20many, many clients. When they first hire me, they can't sleep because
- 22:24they're doing checklists on the ceiling of everything that they didn't do that they
- 22:27need to do, that wasn't done, and then they're sleepless,
- 22:31sleep deprived. I think the other part to it is
- 22:37a lot of entrepreneurs feel like this is such a simple
- 22:40thing, I should be able to do it myself, you know,
- 22:44And. And I think, you know what, what I always say to people is there
- 22:47are things that you're going to be good at, naturally, and that's where you should,
- 22:51you know, your zone of genius or whatever.
- 22:55It doesn't make sense for you to put
- 22:59an expert. I mean, take your expertise and
- 23:03put it into something that you're not good at, because it'll take you two or
- 23:06three times longer than somebody who. That's their expertise,
- 23:11and they can simplify it for you. I mean, I think, you know, when I've
- 23:14worked with really good coaches and really good people, one of the things they've said
- 23:18to me is, you know, if I. Because I can be
- 23:22resistant to change just like everybody else, they'll say,
- 23:26how have you changed before? Or how have you done this beef? You
- 23:30know, so that they can kind of put it into the way that I'm willing
- 23:34to work so I can start to see some benefit of it. And then
- 23:37you go, oh, this really does work. I wrote more of this.
- 23:41Right? I mean, that's. That's me.
- 23:45So what would you say? What would you say are like three things
- 23:49that people could do or three questions even, that people
- 23:53should ask themselves to see if they need this kind of help?
- 23:58Well, are you. Are you making the
- 24:02amount of money that you want to make? That's question one. Do
- 24:06you have the time that you want for your personal life
- 24:11or are not. It's leading me. I'm thinking of one of my client
- 24:14stories. I can tell you about that. You know, her journey and,
- 24:19you know, are basically, are you moving forward
- 24:22with ease and grace and freedom? Do you have freedom in your company?
- 24:26If you feel, you know, we all become entrepreneurs because we want freedom
- 24:30and money. Right. We want a free. We want to do what we
- 24:34want to do, when we want to do it, how we want to do it,
- 24:37and make money doing it. And they always say, do what you
- 24:41want to do and the money will follow. Well, that's true
- 24:44if you have the system set up for yourself so that you can actually do
- 24:48what you want to do and then have the money follow. If
- 24:52you're. If you're doing. Can I tell you a quick client story? Do we have.
- 24:56Absolutely, absolutely. I'm thinking of my client, Elisa,
- 25:00and she was a very good
- 25:03entrepreneur. She was a personal stylist, and she also owned multiple
- 25:07rental units. And she had a very busy life. And all she
- 25:10wanted to do was have lunch with her girlfriends on
- 25:14Saturdays and have Sunday off for her family. And she was not
- 25:17able to do that because her schedule was overrunning her life.
- 25:21So what we did was we parceled in doing her
- 25:25property management one day a week, which was easy
- 25:29when she knew that she had the day a week. She saw clients
- 25:33three days a week, and she had an administration day on
- 25:36Friday so they could wrap and finish, and then she had Saturdays and
- 25:40Sundays off. It worked beautifully. In fact, I
- 25:44met her six weeks after we had just stumbled upon each
- 25:48other after her training, and she goes, hey, guess what?
- 25:51I have decided that I'm going to see clients one Saturday a
- 25:55month on for nine to noon, because I have these male
- 25:59clients that can only fit me in on. On a weekend. And she's
- 26:03excited. She has her. Her. Her weekends off for her
- 26:06girlfriends. She even. Even on the Saturday that she's seeing Klein, she's
- 26:10booming, done at noon, and she has a girlfriend time and
- 26:13she also has family time on Sundays. So it
- 26:17worked out great. So it's all a matter of figuring out what do you. What
- 26:21do you have to do? And then the most important thing for her is what
- 26:24should she not be doing? Yes, you not be
- 26:27doing. Right. Yeah. And. And we
- 26:31do a lot of. I mean, at the beginning of my career, I was so
- 26:34busy. I thought busy meant that I was getting stuff done. I was
- 26:38not. I was stuck in busyness. Right. I wasn't getting down to business.
- 26:42I was just being busy for busy's sake. I would make lists
- 26:46and then I would. I would check something off that was even on my
- 26:49list, so I could put it on my list and check it off. Because I
- 26:51thought that I meant I was doing something. Yeah. So here's the other thing that
- 26:55I think is really interesting that I found, and that was
- 27:00the more time you give something, the more time it takes,
- 27:05you know, and so it was like, I want to have my calendar, you know,
- 27:08really open so people can find me, and you're just like,
- 27:12scattered all over the place. And so what I
- 27:15find is if you give yourself, you know,
- 27:20like, I love block. Yeah. I'm blocking. Right.
- 27:23And so. And the energy part is really important.
- 27:27So like you said, you have to have space to create and stuff. So one
- 27:30of the things I do is I have two hours every morning
- 27:34that, you know, that I do my deep thinking. And I used to do my
- 27:37clients in because I was like, I want to give them my best energy
- 27:41and I want to, you know, what I discovered was just working
- 27:45with them gave me energy, and I moved them to the afternoon, which is
- 27:49from my thinking perspective, or creating perspective
- 27:52was, like, really hard. Right. When I close
- 27:56down, how available, how much time I had available,
- 28:01it almost acts like a filter in the sense that if a client
- 28:05really wants to work with you, they will try to figure it out,
- 28:09you know, and so you have a way of kind of figuring out
- 28:13who really wants work, you know, are you, you know, people that you.
- 28:16The more you go out of your way to bend what you need,
- 28:21the more they will ask you to bend. Yeah. And then
- 28:24you'll get. You'll get all off the rails with your own business.
- 28:28Yeah, absolutely. And I
- 28:31think that also helps you to scale. Do you know,
- 28:35because, you know, you're not all over the place. You're not 100% available.
- 28:39Oh, my God. We're just kind of getting into the
- 28:42midi, you know, the meat and stuff like that. But you've
- 28:46given us some great questions to ask ourselves, and you've got a great gift.
- 28:50So tell us about that. Oh, yeah, I have the.
- 28:54It's called the From From Clerk to Captain
- 28:58Little PDF. It's how to architect your workspace and eliminate your
- 29:01distractions and reclaim your time. So this
- 29:05particular download is for those of you who have documents and paper
- 29:09challenges that you can't really find what you need to find
- 29:12quickly. This will Be a nice little blueprint for you to follow
- 29:16and it'll also remind you and give you some steps of what you can
- 29:20do to start moving your business forward. And
- 29:23I love what you said about time blocking again. Going back to Elise
- 29:27now that she only has project management on Mondays. Right.
- 29:31Her client said, oh, I need you on Saturday. She was able to
- 29:35delegate that little three hour block one day a month
- 29:39and she's now accommodated but kept her, her bearings.
- 29:43So, you know, back to what you said before, Yvonne. You know, it's
- 29:47so very important to know what you shouldn't be doing and when you should be
- 29:50doing things. But yeah, the free download is a paper flow blueprint,
- 29:54how to architect your workspace and eliminate your distractions and
- 29:57reclaim your time. That is free. For you it's a value of
- 30:0147. But for your people, go ahead and download it for free. And
- 30:05you have the link in the show notes. I do believe I do. And the
- 30:08other thing is I want you to mention again the class that
- 30:12you have. Ah, I, I have the Google
- 30:15Workspace master class. And that is
- 30:20being. I've done it five times. It's now going to be an on demand
- 30:23product and just reach out to me and I can send you the link for
- 30:27that. Okay. Because that, that sounded like something that
- 30:30people should really look into. Okay,
- 30:34I don't want to have to stop, but I, we are going to have
- 30:38to cut this, you know, come to a close. So, you know,
- 30:42the, the last thing I want to ask you is when was the last time
- 30:44you did something new for the first time? Oh,
- 30:48well, last week on my birthday. I actually.
- 30:52Thank you. I was in Michigan and I know,
- 30:56here's the thing about me, I try to do one new thing every day.
- 31:00So I am always doing new things and I'm always trying new things.
- 31:04So this particular time I actually ordered whitefish, which
- 31:07I had never had. It' a Michigan thing. I'm like, oh, it's really
- 31:11good. So that's one of my latest, greatest,
- 31:14newest things. And also did a
- 31:18dune buggy tour over the dunes. The sand dunes, which I had never
- 31:22done. Well, I just find that doing new things
- 31:26keeps you sharp and you know, it keeps
- 31:29you a little bit of, gives you a little bit of a va va voom
- 31:33in your life. To do what? I mean. All right guys, time
- 31:36for the, you know, the commercial. So as, as you know, you've
- 31:40listened to this and you've gotten value. I hope you will subscribe and share
- 31:44and engage on social media about the podcast. And you know, the
- 31:48reason that I do this is it's my way of trying to give back and,
- 31:51and to build a vibrant community. And it's also to give you
- 31:55really useful information and practical
- 31:59things that you can do in your quest for growth. And so I hope you'll
- 32:03continue to join me for the one small change. And
- 32:07there are a couple of episodes in there if you haven't gone back. Every guest
- 32:10has given a very generous gift, and so it's a great place to go
- 32:14when you need something. And there are a couple episodes in there because I like
- 32:18to talk that I talked all on my own. And you
- 32:22can, you know, you can find them there. So, Kathi,
- 32:26what are your last words? What do you want us to take away?
- 32:32Wow, it's been a huge conversation for us. I'm trying to think of the most
- 32:36important thing, I think. Figure out what
- 32:39you shouldn't be doing in your business. Figure out what
- 32:43that busy stuff is that you should be delegating. And
- 32:47you know, it could be bookkeeping, right, Yvonne? It could be something you can be
- 32:51able to be. Might be able to do QuickBooks. But why the heck are you.
- 32:54If it's taking you too long, delegate that. Delegate what you
- 32:57hate, delegate what you cannot do, and
- 33:01delegate the things that are causing friction and
- 33:05costing you fatigue and overwhelm. Just
- 33:09figure out what you can delegate and get off your plate so that you can
- 33:12be in your full capacity as a leader
- 33:16and really give your gifts to the world that are yours to give.
- 33:20Absolutely. Absolutely. Okay, everybody, remember
- 33:25that change is simple, but it's not always easy. And it requires
- 33:28courage and resilience and a willingness to step outside your comfort
- 33:32zone. And so I hope that you will found something that's going to
- 33:36help you to grow your business and help you to change. And until the
- 33:40next time, stay very, very curious. Kathi,
- 33:43thank you so much. Thanks, Yvonne. This has been wonderful. I
- 33:47appreciate it. Thank you.