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- 0:00OK, good morning. We are continuing Helkos,
- 0:02Samila, the bracha section, Resh Samah a.
- 0:05We're in the middle. Of.
- 0:07Aleph Resh samahe the middle of Aleph.
- 0:12We're going to continue reading after the first.
- 0:15Haggah. Right, there's the Shokhanara,
- 0:17the Haggah, and then the Shokhanara starts up again.
- 0:21I'm just going to point out there is a Macaulkus.
- 0:23If a. Person says the bracha.
- 0:25For himself. There's a concept in halacha.
- 0:28We never change the mantebeya for coming.
- 0:30We don't want to change the NASA.
- 0:31For the bracha, but there is a question.
- 0:33If it's a little change, so some say the hotly hikanes Vivito Sha
- 0:39Abramovino. That's the that's.
- 0:41Quoted in the Shah, if the Nemo is is an adult and he's saying
- 0:45it for himself. If you're saying it for the
- 0:48child, then you say halachan is so, but that's a mahloka.
- 0:52Some say you. Should always say LA.
- 0:53Hakaniso, some say you. Switch.
- 0:55Depending on the situation we have.
- 0:58It some say. We're gonna.
- 1:01We might see it. If you have a.
- 1:03Couple children if you have you might say la Hakanis some that's
- 1:08another question some say and then.
- 1:11We actually. Have it lahalaka by Gomal Burkas
- 1:15Gomal. Just if you say.
- 1:16It for somebody else. There is such a.
- 1:19We see that in the Gumarum, but maybe about Kalium.
- 1:23Also OK. And I just wanted to share
- 1:27another example we spoke yesterday.
- 1:29About you say le or AL. We're going to have that again
- 1:34today, but just one great example is we're all familiar.
- 1:39I just wanted to share it with. Al Natilat.
- 1:43Lulav, right? That's the bracha that we say.
- 1:45So what's the reason that Gumara?
- 1:46Actually says this. There's another.
- 1:49This is another exception to the rule normally.
- 1:51We say O. Vera la siatan The reason why
- 1:54the the Gomara says why al natilas lulav sachem Zain is
- 1:59because sometimes. Or usually you first.
- 2:04Do the mitzvah and then you do the bracha whenever it's built
- 2:08in that you need to. Do the bracha.
- 2:09After the mitzvah then. You say al hatvila, it's
- 2:14l'hakila. We we do the bracha.
- 2:16Before. That's why you you don't.
- 2:19Want to do what's on the table 'cause then it's like before
- 2:21before. So the minnag is for Mahmir?
- 2:26To lift up the lulav, but. Not lift up the Hadassim.
- 2:31Or there's upside? Down whatever, that's not a
- 2:34little details. But but.
- 2:36The interesting thing though, is really Miyikar Adin.
- 2:39You can say the even if you. Pick up both.
- 2:43Dafka. 'Cause I'll say.
- 2:45Dafka by Natilas. Lulav, that's why the bracha is
- 2:48all. Because you can still say it
- 2:50after you pick it up. But.
- 2:52They say as soon as you pick it up, you already did the mitzvah.
- 2:54So that's. The the Ferish Kumar and some
- 2:58say. Especially before.
- 3:00You do the nanuim that's also a khelik in the mitzvah, so
- 3:03that's. Also a.
- 3:03Kiyum of Koverilaciata and one shorts famous story.
- 3:08Thanks. To Rudin is.
- 3:10Between with the Khafeitzkayim and with Rab El Khanan Wasserman
- 3:15of Alkhanan Wasserman when he was learning in in in the Cola
- 3:20Yeshiva of the Hafitzhaim so. He hits his.
- 3:25He was away from his wife in a different city and they had a
- 3:28baby. So.
- 3:30Rab al Khanan says to Rab, to the Hafitzhaim I, I think I need
- 3:33to go or. Should I go back to the?
- 3:36To my wife, to the baby for the. Breasts.
- 3:38The Hafitzhaim asked Why are you the mole?
- 3:41So it was. For the if you need to do the
- 3:44mitzvah, so then of course you. Should go, but just to be.
- 3:47There then. It's it's.
- 3:50Travel time and to to be there and everything it's.
- 3:54It's Spitzeltara. So it sounds like it was better
- 3:56not to the only question that. We had was.
- 3:59Who? Who should?
- 4:01Say the. Bracha the Hach.
- 4:03Niso so back. Then it was obviously it was
- 4:06impossible. If if you're not there, you're
- 4:08not there. Nowadays we have the IT could be
- 4:11Zoom, it could be phone or that. You can get texted exactly when
- 4:16is the shasmila, so that's food. For thought we should say the.
- 4:22Brafa. DA via Ben or.
- 4:23Or the sound OK. That's more from.
- 4:26Yesterday. Let's let's.
- 4:30Continue inside the Imayu Ahirim Omdin Sham Omrin Keshem, Sheikh
- 4:36Maselli. Breathe.
- 4:37Ken Takh. Miseo le Tara.
- 4:39Ulufa ulu maseem tovin. So again, a couple different.
- 4:43Nusaks husei takhmiseo hekh maseo.
- 4:49We'll say so we're more. Used to the the.
- 4:55Michel Panaras has Tara Khopol, Massim Tovin.
- 4:59The. Svarium will usually.
- 5:01Add the words. Ulen Mitzvault interesting
- 5:03enough. Yeah, we have been right.
- 5:06Avia Ben oham mohal O ehad mehan navare al.
- 5:11Hakos. Beret Priya Geffen.
- 5:14So then it's time to say the. Brafa.
- 5:16Right, the Mila. The cutting is all over.
- 5:18It's all. Finished and now.
- 5:21We say the Brafa Berea. Geffen so anyone?
- 5:23Can say it. OK, it could be one of them.
- 5:27It could be Muhammad, someone else.
- 5:29There's different minhagim, the Shah.
- 5:31Right. Likes the Nicnas because
- 5:32sometimes the father is not there.
- 5:34But anyways, it's a little. Plug, whatever.
- 5:37Whatever the minhag is, that's. What you do?
- 5:38Or it's not a big deal, whatever you do VH you know, Hagim, Leto,
- 5:42Hadas, Biado, Uma. Varik Allah Ulahariya.
- 5:46Now. So there's a.
- 5:47Custom. I believe this is only by.
- 5:49The the. Spartan is when?
- 5:52Right after. Beret, Priya Geffen.
- 5:54They say abraha. For something that smells,
- 5:57smells. Good.
- 5:58Usually it's Hadassim. Again, there's a.
- 6:00Coupled, well, let's just say out.
- 6:02A few reasons why why. There is such.
- 6:05A custom and if it could be anything or just hadassim.
- 6:11OK. Yeah, I mean, it could be
- 6:13anything, but there's a, there's a preference to Hadassim.
- 6:16So what is it? So the Le Bush.
- 6:19Says we smell it in order to help prevent us from from
- 6:23fainting from the watching the blood.
- 6:26Or or whatever it is. So that's one reason.
- 6:29Another reason that's given is because of.
- 6:32The Bersmila we get a. Tosefit Nishima everyone there
- 6:37so mitzvah to be there and you benefit from the in there.
- 6:40Everyone in the room gets ETA Safet, Neshama and.
- 6:44This is symbolized. By having bisami, you smelling
- 6:48it? OK, that's another reason.
- 6:51Another. Reason that's given this is.
- 6:54Midrash that's mentioned in Shibole.
- 6:55I like it. That when Avraham.
- 6:59Did the bursmila so he the oral is that they were there.
- 7:03At the time he made a mound and burned them and that that smell
- 7:08from the burnt Orlas that went up went up to to Shamain.
- 7:12And so Hashem smells. Kilo smells that that that the
- 7:19burning. I'm going to call it incense or
- 7:22whatever it is, but from. The to have.
- 7:25Rakamin for us in the future. So when we're doing the mitzvah,
- 7:29it's the time for to arouse rakamin from a Kaddish barku
- 7:32from Abraham Avenus. For Savos, it's a different.
- 7:36Ray off, obviously. But one is supposed to remind of
- 7:38the other. OK, as far as?
- 7:42There's another minhug. There was another minhug.
- 7:44That and I don't know exactly where and when, but there were.
- 7:49Jews who would use or brought. Down they would.
- 7:52Bring Hadas. Into the show, right?
- 7:55They didn't have WhatsApp or texting in those.
- 7:57Days or or blasts of emails. So they would.
- 8:00Go around, collect, you know, cut the Hadassen from the trees
- 8:04and put them in the Shoals. Or by the doors of the Shoals.
- 8:08When there's a bris in town. So this way.
- 8:11Everybody would know when you see Hadassen by the door of the
- 8:14of the Babe Knesset, you would know there's going to be a Mila
- 8:17that day, the next. Day, however, their.
- 8:19Their custom was, or at least people would ask.
- 8:21Once they saw the Hadassen they go, oh when's the bris?
- 8:23Mila, so this way people will know.
- 8:25To come. That's how they.
- 8:26Advertised. And then also.
- 8:29It's. Siddiqi Mark compared.
- 8:31To Hadassim also. Another reason is because
- 8:34Hadassim were already used for a mitzvah by Ntila Slulov so.
- 8:38You want to. Use.
- 8:39It's a common thing. Many times we like to reuse
- 8:42something for a mitzvah. We even mentioned that by what
- 8:45topic? What do you cut with?
- 8:47You cut with a stone. Do you cut with iron?
- 8:50So we. We know.
- 8:51That it's it's. It's a Jewish concept that you
- 8:54take. Something that's used has
- 8:57kedusha or used. For a mitzvah, when it's
- 8:59applicable. You use it.
- 9:01Again. Ted The.
- 9:04Villain Nagorn just has a nice smid rush rather that Moshe was
- 9:07the one who did the Mila and Aaron was the one who did the
- 9:11Priya. And you know, Shua was the one
- 9:13who gave the the Nemo baby or adult the the wine to drink.
- 9:19So so we're going to see that now in a SEC.
- 9:22The Omer, the Omer. Borochhatasha, Melkina, Malkina
- 9:25Lama. Sure kid He does.
- 9:27She did need that, Tim. So just.
- 9:31Can look at the taz. It just gives.
- 9:34Explains that. Who is?
- 9:35The Adid Nibetan. The precious dear.
- 9:40One from the stomach or the wound.
- 9:42That's either. Rashi says it refers to Yitzhak.
- 9:45Or Ben Uttam says it refers to. Avraham.
- 9:48And then the. Hulk Bisheiro.
- 9:50Keep reading the bracha. It's referring to Yitzhak that
- 9:52said Sabhatam. He engraved this in his
- 9:56descendants. That's referring to Yaakov.
- 10:00Idiot. Sherenu Zahana shama.
- 10:03This is the Nishama Shahat. To take us.
- 10:06To save us from the Shahat, That's Gyahanam when you see
- 10:09there. When?
- 10:09You read the. Whole Braha, you'll see.
- 10:12The Mennon also. Is if the the child?
- 10:16Is an orphan from one of the. Parents.
- 10:19So then you add again. See, you're a sitter, but
- 10:22basically you add the. Words begun, Aiden.
- 10:24You mention the parent, begun Aiden.
- 10:28See the Nasaka. Of your sitter, not that it.
- 10:32Should happen but. If it does, that's where it is.
- 10:35The No Hagim Kishimagiya little bit of Maya Khayin No 10
- 10:39Mehayan, but it's for. O.
- 10:42The Fiati nog. OK, so.
- 10:44Then here's the Mennon that's mentioned that when we.
- 10:47Say the Pasak. Bigamaya Khayi then the someone
- 10:52there tomorrow will take some of the wine from and and dip.
- 10:55It or put. You know, a drop in the mouth of
- 10:58the baby and the the Wil Nagorn. Says this is.
- 11:05Connected or because we had I was going to bring the homage.
- 11:09I don't know if we all. Realized but.
- 11:11When the heita maracna heita heit eggal?
- 11:15When Heit Eggal happened. So.
- 11:19What happened right afterwards? And Moshe found out what
- 11:22happened. He burnt and pulverized the
- 11:27bagel. And then what did he do?
- 11:30He. Threw it out.
- 11:33And then he, and then. Right.
- 11:35So that's. How we learned the Gomar
- 11:37discusses you learn from there, not learn from there.
- 11:39It's a Nevada Zara mandalit about getting rid of Isuri Hana.
- 11:43How to you just you know, you throw it in the wind for it to
- 11:46go by, but anyways, you learn from there or not, that's the.
- 11:48Discussion. But you.
- 11:50See it but the Gomara over there?
- 11:51Says that he sprayed. You know.
- 11:56Sprayed it, he threw it, scattered it.
- 11:58Into the. Water, that was.
- 12:00There in a little. River or whatever it was, I
- 12:03wouldn't. Say, I don't know, maybe a
- 12:04little thin little Wadi or. Brook, whatever.
- 12:06It was and then. The pasuk, says Vayash.
- 12:10To Aman, he gave it to the people to drink.
- 12:13So what did he do? So there it was to test.
- 12:17It it depends some of the people, unfortunately.
- 12:20If they did about Azaro with the.
- 12:22Eagle They got the death penalty.
- 12:24So some. Got had witnesses and were
- 12:26warned and some weren't. But for those.
- 12:29Who were there were no, there's no witnesses and they didn't.
- 12:31And there was no way to know who deserves the death penalty.
- 12:34So Hashanah Moshe gave that water to everyone to drink.
- 12:39And that water. Would test just like a.
- 12:41Soda and there's. If they were.
- 12:43Guilty. Then their stomachs would get
- 12:45bloated and they would die. So that was.
- 12:48So here it's. The.
- 12:50Opposite to this. This is the Dome of Mila, and it
- 12:53should be. For life.
- 12:57Hai and it. Should be.
- 12:59Lachine really OK. So that's that's.
- 13:03What symbolic. Yeah, yeah.
- 13:05It's symbolic Haggah. OK, Shimoa Mavarik.
- 13:09Braha Zoo. Rohates, Tehila.
- 13:11Yadav, the PF Kadeshi of Arachna.
- 13:13Kyut so if. The mobile's doing the brothas.
- 13:16He needs to wash his hands and just make sure that he doesn't
- 13:19have any. Blood all over or whatever,
- 13:22just. OK, it should be clean or.
- 13:24You know there's private or covered pot areas?
- 13:28When When does the drink from the cup?
- 13:33So when does the when does he drink?
- 13:35He drinks. After this is after this, after
- 13:41well, all this is happening at the Shahs.
- 13:43Of the Mila, the wine and the baby afterwards, we're going to
- 13:46say burpier Geffen. The Taj just says.
- 13:50That you say the demayakai. I mean, it's from the Pasak.
- 13:52We say it twice, but he says it also is.
- 13:55Symbolic of through the Mila. He should be.
- 14:00Zoka tekayyem both in Olam Haza and Olam Haba.
- 14:04So that's the double plasham. OK bet.
- 14:08I think we're on Tibet. See if bet IMA via Ben who
- 14:12mohalbat smol muvarik la mulla taben the data Rambam so this
- 14:19we. Discussed really yesterday.
- 14:21More. That is, do you say the?
- 14:24Bracha al Hamila or lamul ET haben.
- 14:27So the MENA for most, most Jews around the world is.
- 14:31Clearly we. Always say al Hamila la plouf.
- 14:35It's the Rambam who says lamul ET haben.
- 14:37It's a Mahloka. What the MENA gives for what
- 14:39should be done? By the.
- 14:41Sparta close scheme and they're showing him as well and so I'm
- 14:45not sure which. Which is the preference of the.
- 14:47Shalkhanar. I'll let you decide for
- 14:49yourself. It's a little.
- 14:50Bit ambiguous if you say. Which is better?
- 14:53So you want to know what I did? So I had. 2 Two of them I did my
- 14:58I cut myself and I don't remember for sure.
- 15:02What I did? What I did one of the times I
- 15:05know one of the times I was. Planning to say.
- 15:07La mulla taben like the ramba? I asked my Rebbe and.
- 15:11I think that's the opinion. Of the shalkhanar, but again
- 15:13it's. You can read it either way it.
- 15:16Can be the it's it seems like he.
- 15:18Doesn't he's fine either way and I was going to say La Mulla to
- 15:23Ben, but Al Hamila came out and it was done already, but I
- 15:28remember that for sure happening by 1 and the other one I'm not
- 15:31sure what happened anymore. Joseph he says the minute this
- 15:35just just all everyone says Al Hamila, but that's not it's not
- 15:42a clear sock one way or another. We haga Vyesh Hokin and some
- 15:48argue and say that they know again Shalola Khaliq and it is
- 15:53in the Minogue is not to make a. Distinction.
- 15:56Doesn't matter who the mole. Is we always say.
- 15:58Al Hamila Miu in birak Lamu but. If you said.
- 16:03Lamu or should or should Birak Birkatlak.
- 16:07Nisa, lahood, yatsa, it all works.
- 16:10If you only say Ashiki the shimla of Silano la Kaniso and
- 16:13you leave out la mulla de Ben. It was a good bracha.
- 16:17It was a good. Mila and that bracha.
- 16:19Also goes. On the Mila.
- 16:22It's 2 brachos. On the Mila.
- 16:24We have that a little bit. By citizens felon.
- 16:27But anyways, the point is. That the bracha.
- 16:31Does work and it counts as a bracha of the mitzvah.
- 16:33Again, depends if you hold it's a bracha of the mitzvah bracha.
- 16:36Of a shava, but OK, that's. This is a Rama and it doesn't
- 16:40matter bidyevit if you say allemila or la mulla taben,
- 16:43everyone agrees. You're you'd say.
- 16:47It's just a preference. He.
- 16:49Even the mole, even a mole would say the mulla taben.
- 16:53It seems clear to me from the Rama you'd be.
- 16:55You'd say Bedyevit well compares to be part of Perot.
- 16:58I think he means that if you say that right, because he also the.
- 17:05The the Gras points out he went in the Gras even by by.
- 17:09By Pesach. Is amidst we Paskin to say.
- 17:13Al. Be or Hamids, but it's a
- 17:15Mahlokin and the Gumar and the real the Hilhatah.
- 17:18Is we the the Gras? The Gras says it.
- 17:21It doesn't say the hilhatah, only al be or hamids.
- 17:25The hilhatah means we prefer al beer hamids but levaere
- 17:29certainly. Does work.
- 17:31So again, that seems to apply all brachas and mitzvos.
- 17:35Yeah, so this is what I said. Before that, la Genizo is a
- 17:38Tosefa's bracha on the Mila. Itself.
- 17:41That's just more appropriate for.
- 17:42The Father. And he?
- 17:43Says you should say. Yeah, he says.
- 17:46You say LA. Genizo.
- 17:48Before the bracha. Of Mila.
- 17:51And then he says, oh. There is this the brachas,
- 17:54peros, the. Colo the enocolo.
- 17:57I think the gross saying you should always say la genizo
- 17:59first. I think so yeah, that was
- 18:04yesterday's topic. I think so.
- 18:06But it but but the general rule it wasn't so clear from sofa is
- 18:10if the father is the mole, does he say 2 Bravos Lavandra if the.
- 18:13Father is the mole, he. Says 2 brachos.
- 18:16And then the then the question is, what's the minute which one
- 18:18to say first? Lam Gemma ger shimal Kodem
- 18:23Shinidgaya. So now you have a a convert and
- 18:26he was already circumcised. As a right, As a baby.
- 18:30A lot of non Jews get. Circumcised, Gary.
- 18:32Shamal called them Schengen and now he comes to convert, but
- 18:35he's already Mahu or Vikatan Shenola Keshu Mahu or a child
- 18:41who comes to to is born, a baby is born, a boy is born and he is
- 18:47already mahu. There's no Orla to remove.
- 18:50Right, we don't really see. This nowadays, but there's no.
- 18:52Aurila to remove. Kisha Matif you remain with
- 18:55Dambrit. So the Allaha is what do you do?
- 18:57We learned you have to do. A tough as dambrit you have to.
- 19:00Take a prick of blood. From the.
- 19:03Right, the tissue. The soft tissue.
- 19:05You know below. The Kharids, the sulcus.
- 19:09Around there from where? It was cut originally so.
- 19:13Then enam srikhim bracha. So there's no.
- 19:16Bracha to make because there's no.
- 19:17Meela to do it's already there's no.
- 19:20OK, so that's that could be one reason, the other reason.
- 19:24Is it's it could be a Suffolk when you.
- 19:28Think he's born in Mahul. This goes on to the back to the
- 19:31Gemara. It's a Suffolk.
- 19:32If you have to do a toughest down brief.
- 19:34Swepaskan, you do have to. There's a Suffolk.
- 19:37Maybe. There's really Orla, but there
- 19:39you don't see it. So whatever it is.
- 19:42It has a din of. Suffolk.
- 19:45Any time we say anytime you have a baby.
- 19:48That you think? Is born Mahul and there's no.
- 19:51Orla whatsoever to. Remove so then we.
- 19:54Say it's a. Suffolk.
- 19:55Maybe you have to. Do something.
- 19:58Ikardin maybe not, and so it's not Doka.
- 20:00Shabbos and you don't say Abraha.
- 20:03The chain androgynous. You don't know if what it is a.
- 20:07Boy or a? Girl so on the.
- 20:09The aver. Right, the male.
- 20:13Has both. But you don't know if it's a
- 20:15male or female. You know what has both
- 20:16genitalia? There's a classic that includes
- 20:18them. It's called.
- 20:20Cold suffer and it goes. Out aim of arkin al mulatto
- 20:24nesha Eno. Zahar vadai.
- 20:27So you have to do it, but it's it's.
- 20:29It's medin Medin Suffolk and we never make a broccoli in general
- 20:33on a Suffolk. So all so all these cases.
- 20:36Are the grad. Points is.
- 20:38These are all cases of course suffix or at least.
- 20:41A second two haga. Aval Keisha.
- 20:45Hozrim alsitin Hama akvim hamila sarik lakhs machvina Tamila.
- 20:51Sarikh lakhsur levare call habrahos.
- 20:55Now what happens if you do the Mila and you realize?
- 20:58Oops, there's some foreskin. Left behind and the baby's not
- 21:02going to be Nemo. It's not going to be Mahu.
- 21:06It's not he's he's still in Ara. Me.
- 21:08Ikardin. So if it's in me, Ikardin, if
- 21:11it's a. Suffix.
- 21:12Are you doing extra you know to remove any tissue?
- 21:15Tags, whatever. So then you don't make the new
- 21:17bracha, but if. The baby's.
- 21:20Still not the Mila. Wasn't kosher.
- 21:22Wasn't done right. It's 100% for.
- 21:24Sure, Orla left. Behind that, it's Miake.
- 21:28But we learned what that is. Before already.
- 21:30So the in that. Case if you're.
- 21:33Still, right then and there, you're still doing the mitzvah.
- 21:35Just keep cutting it fine. But let's say you realize this.
- 21:385 minutes later you put the. Baby away you go back to check.
- 21:41The baby in the next room or you?
- 21:43You check. The baby tomorrow, whatever it
- 21:44is. And you see.
- 21:45But you finish the Mila. You had has a HADAS.
- 21:48You're done as soon. As that happens.
- 21:51It's Mamash. This baby, the case.
- 21:53Is his Mama should model he's he's not model.
- 21:56He's in RL still and even though you were moving a little.
- 21:59Bit it's just a little bit of CC back, it'll be.
- 22:02A A strand right that. Goes up rogue go.
- 22:04By most. Of the hype.
- 22:05So then you have to say that all the the brachos.
- 22:08Again, about a Lamar Kayama to yell at Azad, but you don't say.
- 22:11That because. For bracha mean and that you
- 22:14said already and that works. With the other cola bracha.
- 22:18Cola brachos, Yeah.