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The Breakfast Club BEST OF - 2 Chainz Interview & Jess Hilarious Gives Co-Parenting Advice To Callers · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake you up, Wake up, wake up, program your alarm
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  Speaker 1: to power one oh five point one on IHEARTRADIOW.
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  Speaker 2: Is it your time to get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 3: Wait?
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  Speaker 2: Wait up, whether you're mad or black.
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  Speaker 3: Time to get up and get something call up.
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  Speaker 2: Now eight hundred and five eight five one O five one.
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  Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 4: Who's this?
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  Speaker 5: This is Rico Reco.
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  Speaker 3: What up?
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  Speaker 4: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 6: Rico?
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  Speaker 4: All right?
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  Speaker 7: So look I was checking out John ho'brien.
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  Speaker 8: Podcast, Money Well, Legend and now Here.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, can I can we get a drawing bomb
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  Speaker 9: Money and Well podcasts available on the Black Effact iHeart
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  Speaker 7: Yes, sir, But anyway, I was listening to podcast it's
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  Speaker 7: Charlotte Mane. Your ad popped up and I hear in
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  Speaker 7: a new wig for Laura Laro And why are you
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  Speaker 7: always on law and Head man? It's crazy?
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  Speaker 8: Are you know?
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  Speaker 9: First of all, I'm not I'm not all always on
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  Speaker 9: Lawrence head it's bad wigs that are always on Lauren's head.
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  Speaker 9: And it's an ad for Amazon, and I'm just talking
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  Speaker 9: about products like I'm talking about products you can get
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  Speaker 9: at a at a discounted price on Amazon.
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  Speaker 3: And I just don't even know.
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  Speaker 10: Why you will put my wig this koinnd of price
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  Speaker 10: and Amazon one sentence.
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  Speaker 7: Man, it's crazy. Lord, you gotta start shooting back.
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  Speaker 11: So there's a promo running around with him talking about
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  Speaker 11: your wig and that you get.
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  Speaker 10: It off of that sounds like defamation losses defamation crazy.
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  Speaker 9: Listen, I win that case so easily when we go
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  Speaker 9: to court and they see.
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  Speaker 8: Your wig.
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  Speaker 10: Looking in here now and she is that girl? Stop
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  Speaker 10: playing with her?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, who's there?
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  Speaker 3: What up?
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  Speaker 2: Hey?
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  Speaker 4: Jamal?
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  Speaker 11: You called at the perfect time because somebody needs some confidence.
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  Speaker 4: Go Jamal Gosh?
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  Speaker 12: I called it going ROSA check your d MS. Alright,
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  Speaker 12: I'm in there, baby girl.
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  Speaker 7: I'm single ready to mingle.
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  Speaker 13: I hope you are all right?
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  Speaker 11: He's single ready to mingle. What's your Instagram so she
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  Speaker 11: can see what you look like?
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  Speaker 4: F underscore bond d look at him?
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  Speaker 9: How old are you using phrases like single ready to mingle?
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  Speaker 14: Don't worry?
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  Speaker 15: Look, look, I been wanting to tell you about yourself
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  Speaker 15: for a long time, but I'm using my time right now.
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  Speaker 16: But no, get him, babe, Go ahead, get him, babe, babe.
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  Speaker 3: Nothing.
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  Speaker 17: D can't lose nothing.
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  Speaker 6: Dra can't lose nothing.
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  Speaker 8: All right, I know what Drake lost a lot of
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  Speaker 8: sleep for the last year.
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  Speaker 3: Has changed.
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  Speaker 18: Okay, Oh he didn't know, he didn't.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not arguing with you, all right.
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  Speaker 4: Well she's looking up. She don't see it.
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  Speaker 11: You better Instagram and what inn Underscore bond N d
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  Speaker 11: s f N Underscore Bonds.
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, I can't see anything. Yes, Like he's a private page.
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  Speaker 4: He's a private page.
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  Speaker 9: Oh yeah, hold on, let me genius here about the nigga.
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  Speaker 8: I'm private for you right now.
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  Speaker 16: About to make it.
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  Speaker 10: You did me on Friday, six thirty six am on
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  Speaker 10: Friday said he said, when you're gonna give up this single?
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  Speaker 10: He basically said, when I'm coming home, coming home, this.
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  Speaker 8: Might be your future and you're putting this business out
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  Speaker 8: there my bad.
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  Speaker 4: Well, we'll see, we'll see. We got to analyze you.
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  Speaker 4: Make sure you're not ready.
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  Speaker 16: Say she's telling me to check the d M. You know,
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  Speaker 16: the listeners want to hear what you had to say.
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  Speaker 9: Make sure you got a job, all right, man, I
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  Speaker 9: like the energy. I like the fact that he sent
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  Speaker 9: the message, but then he did a follow up phone
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  Speaker 9: call just to make sure you received said message. And
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  Speaker 9: he's willing to put himself out there over the air
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  Speaker 9: for everybody to express his his desires for you.
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  Speaker 2: Lord.
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  Speaker 8: I respect that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like the.
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  Speaker 4: Single ready to mingle like that. That seemed like he
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  Speaker 4: really our age.
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  Speaker 10: He does the electric slide for sure. He definitely does
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  Speaker 10: electrical without the class all.
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  Speaker 9: The electric slide is not an age thing. You too
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  Speaker 9: should know the electric slide what I do it.
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  Speaker 10: But y'all are doing it before they start doing the
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  Speaker 10: extra clack when it been over. That's a different agent
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  Speaker 10: electric clad.
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  Speaker 11: Get it off your chest eight, don't drink five eight
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  Speaker 11: five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 4: If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's
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  Speaker 4: the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 9: Good morning, Ray right Ray yo, Charla man Davy, What
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  Speaker 9: up are we lost?
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  Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 19: I got an indoor pool out pool.
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  Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Can get on the phone right now.
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  Speaker 4: He'll tell you what it is. Hello, who's this.
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  Speaker 20: Is a dam man pulling out a Pennsylvania what's up?
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  Speaker 4: Damon for Pennsylvania.
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  Speaker 7: Get it off your chest, Damon, Good morning to y'all.
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  Speaker 7: DJ Mvy, Charlamagne and.
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  Speaker 14: Just Hilarius, Good morning.
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  Speaker 20: I just wanted to give a shout out to my
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  Speaker 20: good Raiden. I just wanted to give a shout out
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  Speaker 20: to my ends jaalen Man, Raiden Man and Maya sains Man,
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  Speaker 20: those beautiful children.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 20: I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 7: Have a good one you too.
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  Speaker 4: Alrighty now, Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 3: Hey?
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  Speaker 7: I was going, all right, dom what up?
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  Speaker 4: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 5: Don uh.
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  Speaker 21: First, I'm gonna say good morning y'all.
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  Speaker 3: It's my first time morning morning.
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  Speaker 21: I'm from Florida, and I just want to get off
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  Speaker 21: my chest that uh, you know, it's been hard lately
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  Speaker 21: trying to be happy and go. I used to have
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  Speaker 21: a lot of suicide thoughts and a lot of depression
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  Speaker 21: going on, and I had to confront it recently before
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  Speaker 21: it got worse. And I honestly it's been a great
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  Speaker 21: journey that I have ever since confronting it. And I
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  Speaker 21: just want to tell everybody y'all just just take that
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  Speaker 21: first step. Don't don't wallow in your depression and anger.
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  Speaker 21: Talk to somebody, no matter who it is.
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  Speaker 3: Just talk to somebody totally.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, did you talk to a therapist or past or?
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  Speaker 6: I did have.
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  Speaker 21: I did have a therapist for a little bit, but
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  Speaker 21: it just wasn't for me. It wasn't working. I didn't
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  Speaker 21: think we were getting anywhere. So I had to talk
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  Speaker 21: to a mentor of mine, a spiritual mentor that I have,
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  Speaker 21: and she actually gave me some clarity.
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  Speaker 9: You know, I got both, brother, I got a therapy
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  Speaker 9: and I got a spiritual leader. You know, sometimes you
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  Speaker 9: just got to find a mentally competent therapist. I mean, therapy.
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  Speaker 9: Therapy isn't for everybody, but you know, I think you
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  Speaker 9: should probably give it another shot. Just try to find
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  Speaker 9: somebody who's culturally competent man that actually that you don't
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  Speaker 9: got to explain things to.
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  Speaker 22: Yeah, I agree with that.
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  Speaker 3: I just don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't feel like I wanted to.
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  Speaker 3: I don't.
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  Speaker 22: I don't want to go searching.
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  Speaker 21: Anymore down that route. I wanted to go back to
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  Speaker 21: the route and which is he dealing with my spirituality?
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  Speaker 9: I love that, you know, I say I believe in
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  Speaker 9: God and therapy. That's what I say all the time.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, brother, Well I'm glad you're doing better.
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  Speaker 9: Brother, and if you look at you, if you want,
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  Speaker 9: if you ever want to give therapy another shot, go
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  Speaker 9: to Mental Wealthlions dot org man and and go to
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  Speaker 9: go to the contact us segment on Mental Wealthlions dot
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  Speaker 9: org and and somebody will will get back to you.
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  Speaker 9: Tell them exactly what you're looking for and say say,
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  Speaker 9: I'm looking for a culturally competent therapist.
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  Speaker 2: That's it.
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  Speaker 21: Okay, all right, I'll get that a shot.
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  Speaker 4: All right, brother, have a good one, man, are you too?
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  Speaker 4: I don't get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 11: Eight undrink five eight five one oh five one if
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  Speaker 11: you need to vent here, this up now is the
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  Speaker 11: breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning, everybody's d j n V. Just hilarious. Charlamagne
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  Speaker 4: the guy. We are the breakfast club.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 11: If you're just joining us, we're talking about a call
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  Speaker 11: that called in yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: Don't get it off your chest. She was a big
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  Speaker 4: stud and she was mad.
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  Speaker 23: At her girlfriend said, don't disrespect stud like about he
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  Speaker 23: was a big stud. I know you, a big study,
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  Speaker 23: big stud energy like big like notorious, a big stud energy,
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  Speaker 23: big energy, big energy.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, she was like a big energy. Yeah yeah, I
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  Speaker 8: give you say she had big energy. What you're saying
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  Speaker 8: it's a big deal though.
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  Speaker 2: Energy.
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  Speaker 14: Damn.
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  Speaker 18: I like that.
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  Speaker 8: I'm like, I like big energy.
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  Speaker 4: Like that.
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  Speaker 8: Sound like somebody get an electric.
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  Speaker 16: As well?
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  Speaker 8: Say damn if you want to.
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  Speaker 16: Oh my god, you.
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  Speaker 4: All got to go to yeah play too much right,
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  Speaker 4: listen to the call.
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  Speaker 14: So I have a girlfriend I've been with for a
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  Speaker 14: year and alf we lived together.
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  Speaker 18: We got a cat.
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  Speaker 19: You know, real life yet.
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  Speaker 17: In the US.
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  Speaker 24: So she's a nurse. She's telling me.
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  Speaker 14: A few months ago she started getting close with some
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  Speaker 14: girl at work. The girl is her work wife. I
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  Speaker 14: tell her to nip it in the bus. She don't
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  Speaker 14: do it. Then I go through her phone on Christmas Day.
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  Speaker 14: I see her texting with the girl, and the girl's
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  Speaker 14: talking like what you wearing? I can't wait to see
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  Speaker 14: your type. Today we had a big fight. She turned
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  Speaker 14: her location off and she left the crib. I drive
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  Speaker 14: her through her ear pods. My dude, Wow, she has
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  Speaker 14: the Shorty's house, Yo, Damn crazy. I pulled up to
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  Speaker 14: the PRIs. I said, come outside. She said, you in
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  Speaker 14: the wrong place.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not here.
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  Speaker 24: I knock on the front door. I'm not tell me
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  Speaker 24: they're gonna quote the top and I'm like, no, y'all, you.
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  Speaker 11: Know, all right, So we're asking eight hundred five eight
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  Speaker 11: five one o five one, do you mind if you're
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  Speaker 11: a significant that has a house? Said the house work husband.
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  Speaker 9: Now I want the record to show what a normal
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  Speaker 9: show would have just said. Do you mind if your
• 9:08
  Speaker 9: significant other has a work wife or work husband? Actually
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  Speaker 9: the stud lesbian aspect of it has nothing to do
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  Speaker 9: with any of it. But that's what a conversation nothing
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  Speaker 9: to do with it.
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  Speaker 8: I really like that.
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  Speaker 11: It's an interesting story. It's an interesting story, but that's
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  Speaker 11: where the call came from. She said she doesn't want
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  Speaker 11: her wife to have her girlfriend.
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  Speaker 3: I have that.
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  Speaker 4: Let's start with you, would you mind if Chris.
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  Speaker 16: Had a work wife? I absolutely would would mind. Like
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  Speaker 16: I don't think the label is going too far when
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  Speaker 16: you say wife and husband. Why you just can't have
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  Speaker 16: a work friend, you know what I'm saying, or a
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  Speaker 16: coworker that you're really cool with, Like, why does it
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  Speaker 16: have to be Why does the term have to be
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  Speaker 16: work wife, work husband? I don't think it's appropriate. I
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  Speaker 16: don't like it sometimes now now, a lot of times
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  Speaker 16: it is platonic, you know what I mean. But a
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  Speaker 16: lot of times it's not right.
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  Speaker 4: So and you never know I want you either. We
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  Speaker 4: all friends, Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Like noah, Yeah, I don't like it. I don't like
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  Speaker 8: the term.
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  Speaker 9: Like I said, like, you shouldn't be calling nobody else
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  Speaker 9: your husband. You shouldn't be calling nobody else your wife.
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  Speaker 9: You know, those are like sacred titles, you know what
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  Speaker 9: I mean, those the titles that you earn.
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  Speaker 8: And you know you can be calling nobody your work
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  Speaker 8: husband work.
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  Speaker 9: And to me, it's like it's said, it applies other connotations,
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  Speaker 9: you know what I'm saying, Like why does that got
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  Speaker 9: to be your work husband a work wife?
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  Speaker 8: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like I don't like the term.
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  Speaker 9: That was funny me and m me do it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 9: like that's my work husband. But that's a joke exactly.
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  Speaker 16: Wives know each other, you know, you'll know too much.
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  Speaker 4: He played with me outside. We put me outside of work.
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  Speaker 4: He's still playing. I don't want to play whatever because.
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  Speaker 8: The screechs know the street not a screets. The screech
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  Speaker 8: know you my work bottom. You're actually my work bo bitch.
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  Speaker 8: That's the way I look at what.
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  Speaker 11: You go to This from Brooklyn from Brooklyn, talk to us,
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  Speaker 11: Jah what's your.
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  Speaker 5: Thoughts going on? My thoughts ain't no work wise, ain't
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  Speaker 5: no work husbands? You mean because you know Tuly should
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  Speaker 5: get a little attitude with me, should go to work,
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  Speaker 5: talk about you know, oh he not doing me right?
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  Speaker 5: Next thing, you know, a shoulder to cry on, become
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  Speaker 5: a meet with you?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 9: Damn you're right, And I ain't gonna front man. Something
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  Speaker 9: something happened on my algorithm one day. Well, I clicked
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  Speaker 9: on one video and then I just went down a
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  Speaker 9: whole thing of videos whereas these girls talking about this
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  Speaker 9: is how you take care of your friend, and it's
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  Speaker 9: like girls giving guys.
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  Speaker 15: Hell.
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  Speaker 8: Now, that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: It's like we just got to work from home.
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  Speaker 19: From home with me.
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  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, Ama done, gotta leave the package on
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  Speaker 5: the steps.
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  Speaker 3: Don't even ring the bell.
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  Speaker 4: Damn, hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 7: No off man?
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  Speaker 4: No, No, what's up?
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  Speaker 2: Talk to us?
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  Speaker 4: What's your daughters?
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  Speaker 3: Hey man?
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  Speaker 15: Good morning to y'all. Man, I listened to y'all live
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  Speaker 15: this morning.
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  Speaker 7: I want to start that out.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you, yeah sir, But yeah, I think these days now,
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  Speaker 6: being in a relationship, when you with a person and
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  Speaker 6: they at at a job site and they went to
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  Speaker 6: they see this work for nine, ten, twelve hours out
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  Speaker 6: the day.
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  Speaker 15: You know, they tend to go on lunch state, and
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  Speaker 15: you know that's that's gonna happen. And I think, you
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  Speaker 15: know you just gotta either accept it or leave it,
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  Speaker 15: because really that's.
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  Speaker 6: What goes on.
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  Speaker 4: You have a work, white, bro.
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  Speaker 15: No, I tried trug brother, I just started my own business.
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  Speaker 15: Cooler oodle express man.
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  Speaker 8: You gotta you gotta work a lot lizard.
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  Speaker 15: No, no, no, definitely don't.
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  Speaker 8: Is that is that one top on the route you
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  Speaker 8: be going?
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  Speaker 3: You gotta leave that man?
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  Speaker 8: No, dope?
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  Speaker 4: Hello da, what's up?
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  Speaker 8: Brother?
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  Speaker 4: Talk to us?
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  Speaker 16: What you're doing?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 18: Good morning? First of all, I love all of y'all.
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  Speaker 18: Everything y'all do I think I got are amazing.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 8: We appreciate you man, Thank you.
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  Speaker 18: I love to say I think the girl was insane
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  Speaker 18: for telling her girlfriend she got a work white. Yeah,
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  Speaker 18: I think that you gotta keep that to yourself. I've
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  Speaker 18: had plenty of work wife, that didn't lead to nothing
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  Speaker 18: at all. But it ain't like I told my granddad
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  Speaker 18: like I just kept.
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  Speaker 25: It to me.
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  Speaker 22: We just getting coffee and then doing stuff like that.
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  Speaker 18: We ain't doing something crazy.
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  Speaker 16: That's the thing. That's the reason why I thought it
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  Speaker 16: wasn't crazy that she told her girlfriend that she had
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  Speaker 16: a work wife. What made it crazy is that you
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  Speaker 16: really effing with your work wife. Like y'all getting intimate, y'all,
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  Speaker 16: y'all flirting and dealing with each other. She went in
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  Speaker 16: the phone, saw messages.
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  Speaker 8: And she cheat.
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  Speaker 16: She was cheating on her girlfriend with her work wife.
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  Speaker 16: That's where it went wrong. You got crazy.
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  Speaker 18: That's a whole nother conversation. Specifically, Hey, y'all saying that
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  Speaker 18: you can keep it to yourself, you always hold for that.
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  Speaker 18: I can't never about for.
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  Speaker 11: That now, Dion, answer, answer, answer the railway right. Have
• 13:43
  Speaker 11: you ever flirted with your work wife?
• 13:45
  Speaker 18: Of course that's my work wife.
• 13:47
  Speaker 24: But it ain't nothing happened.
• 13:49
  Speaker 9: No, but see, you shouldn't be flirting. See you know
• 13:51
  Speaker 9: your wife would not allow you to be flirting. Would
• 13:53
  Speaker 9: you tell your wife you was flirting with your work wife?
• 13:55
  Speaker 18: Of course, don't say that.
• 14:00
  Speaker 8: You Listen, My rule is you don't do nothing. You
• 14:03
  Speaker 8: can't tell your Wife's right. If you can't tell your
• 14:06
  Speaker 8: wife about it, you know you ain't got no business
• 14:07
  Speaker 8: doing it.
• 14:07
  Speaker 15: Now.
• 14:07
  Speaker 11: If you're just joining us, This conversation actually came from
• 14:11
  Speaker 11: a woman who called yesterday during Get It off your Chest.
• 14:14
  Speaker 4: Let's listen to the call.
• 14:15
  Speaker 14: So I have a girlfriend I've been with for a
• 14:18
  Speaker 14: year and a half, but we lived together.
• 14:20
  Speaker 18: We got a cat.
• 14:20
  Speaker 14: You know, real life.
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: Use to us.
• 14:26
  Speaker 24: So she's a nurse, she's telling me.
• 14:28
  Speaker 14: A few months ago she started getting close with some
• 14:31
  Speaker 14: girl at work. The girl is her work wife. I
• 14:34
  Speaker 14: tell her to knit it in the bus.
• 14:36
  Speaker 24: She don't do it.
• 14:37
  Speaker 14: Then I go through her phone on Christmas Day. I
• 14:41
  Speaker 14: see her texting with the girl, and the girl's talking
• 14:44
  Speaker 14: like what you wearing? I can't wait to see you
• 14:47
  Speaker 14: type Today we had a big fight. She turned her
• 14:51
  Speaker 14: location off and she left the cris. I drive her
• 14:55
  Speaker 14: through her ear pods.
• 14:56
  Speaker 24: My dude, Wow, she has the shorties.
• 14:59
  Speaker 8: High yo, damn crazy.
• 15:02
  Speaker 21: Hold up to the bread.
• 15:04
  Speaker 14: I said, come outside. She said, you're in the wrong place.
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: I'm not here.
• 15:08
  Speaker 24: I knock on the front door. I'm not caps and
• 15:13
  Speaker 24: I'm like, no, y'all.
• 15:15
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 15:15
  Speaker 11: So we're asking eight hundred and five eight five one
• 15:18
  Speaker 11: oh five one do you mind if your significant other
• 15:20
  Speaker 11: has a work husband or work wife?
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Hello? Who's this?
• 15:23
  Speaker 15: Hey?
• 15:23
  Speaker 16: This juicy hey, juicy, definitely somebody right, wife?
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: You fat?
• 15:29
  Speaker 8: I'm I'm how tall are you?
• 15:33
  Speaker 12: Oh?
• 15:33
  Speaker 19: My goodness, I'm five three two hundred pounds? Why okay?
• 15:44
  Speaker 19: Ask me the question?
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: Answer the question. Mom, I'm sorry.
• 15:49
  Speaker 8: Are you somebody's work wife?
• 15:51
  Speaker 19: She is, Oh, I'm the I'm somebody who's caught my
• 15:55
  Speaker 19: uh work wife. Happy y'all want to say?
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 15:58
  Speaker 19: So my my husband worked somewhere right, We used to
• 16:03
  Speaker 19: work together. I quit so I found like some placements
• 16:08
  Speaker 19: that didn't work out. So, you know, because I know,
• 16:10
  Speaker 19: like I know how the work white and stuff is.
• 16:13
  Speaker 19: My husband's on drive. I was taking him the work
• 16:16
  Speaker 19: and at the same time I was taking him the
• 16:18
  Speaker 19: word the work wife. She got a husband too, but
• 16:23
  Speaker 19: I didn't know this at the time because she just started.
• 16:26
  Speaker 19: So when I was leaving, I see her, I see
• 16:30
  Speaker 19: her husband like me mug in the mess out of
• 16:33
  Speaker 19: my mind. So I wanted to be like, what's up?
• 16:38
  Speaker 19: Why are you looking at him like that? Like, because
• 16:41
  Speaker 19: like it was something that didn't sit right with me.
• 16:44
  Speaker 19: So I made a middle note of this. So the
• 16:46
  Speaker 19: next time I went, it was she wasn't with her husband.
• 16:50
  Speaker 19: She was by herself, so she was looking at me
• 16:53
  Speaker 19: rock car Masu, I got real start shit. So you
• 16:56
  Speaker 19: can't see in there. I can see her, she can't
• 16:58
  Speaker 19: see me. She's just looking ugly as hell less. IM like, damn, stuph.
• 17:03
  Speaker 8: No, what kind of call you have? First of all,
• 17:05
  Speaker 8: what kind of call you?
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: A truck?
• 17:08
  Speaker 19: I'm right good?
• 17:09
  Speaker 24: This a BMW was forttendant.
• 17:12
  Speaker 8: But it is small.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: It is a truck.
• 17:20
  Speaker 8: It's a big truck. Is it's considered the biggest truck? Okay?
• 17:23
  Speaker 8: Got you wanted to make sure it wasn't the one
• 17:25
  Speaker 8: series dad go?
• 17:26
  Speaker 19: So uh okay, So long story short for the way
• 17:30
  Speaker 19: she looked at me, I said, oh, I said, I said,
• 17:33
  Speaker 19: let me go through this phone, because I go through
• 17:36
  Speaker 19: the phone like maybe every six or seven months, depending
• 17:38
  Speaker 19: on how I feel like.
• 17:39
  Speaker 24: I just go through the phone.
• 17:40
  Speaker 19: I normally don't be finding nothing, but so I go
• 17:44
  Speaker 19: right to her. Is this the same I called it
• 17:46
  Speaker 19: the same day? Only think I'm mad because I want
• 17:49
  Speaker 19: to see how farthers go go because I feel like
• 17:52
  Speaker 19: I stopped because I crashed out right way. Because when
• 17:56
  Speaker 19: I went through the phone and went to the message.
• 17:58
  Speaker 7: This person was like regular work stuff.
• 18:01
  Speaker 5: So then I.
• 18:02
  Speaker 19: Started seeing the more he kind of corny so I
• 18:04
  Speaker 19: know that's this way. I flirted so like, but he
• 18:08
  Speaker 19: talked a lot so uh so she gonna send a picture.
• 18:12
  Speaker 19: She said, three pictures and they and they was like
• 18:15
  Speaker 19: sexy pictures. But she weak. She she she they was
• 18:18
  Speaker 19: like some sexy pictures, something about some eyes.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: Contact.
• 18:23
  Speaker 9: Ma'am man, manam man, I need to tell you something
• 18:27
  Speaker 9: that they don't tell you at dinner.
• 18:28
  Speaker 8: Stop. Well you're going too long. Could you get to
• 18:31
  Speaker 8: the point, please make.
• 18:37
  Speaker 19: Okay? Okay? So I tried to she don't worked there
• 18:40
  Speaker 19: no more. I beat him out his sleep because I
• 18:44
  Speaker 19: wow him to do this. I told him to do this.
• 18:47
  Speaker 19: The thing was, he tried to be sneaking. Ain't tell
• 18:50
  Speaker 19: me like, oh he ain't tell me.
• 18:52
  Speaker 22: You know what I caught.
• 18:53
  Speaker 19: If he would have been like, oh man, now she's
• 18:55
  Speaker 19: buying back on what you told me to do. Only
• 18:57
  Speaker 19: reason I told him to play with her so she
• 19:00
  Speaker 19: can work for him and here so he can still
• 19:03
  Speaker 19: be I don't know.
• 19:03
  Speaker 9: I don't like any of this. You opened up the door,
• 19:06
  Speaker 9: you know what I mean. And I don't know why
• 19:07
  Speaker 9: you opened up Pandora's box like that. I do not
• 19:10
  Speaker 9: know why you did that. She said something, but you
• 19:13
  Speaker 9: gonna beat him up for telling him to do something that.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: Fall and then you beat him up. What size was
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: the girl?
• 19:21
  Speaker 19: She man, I'm old enough to be her, mam man
• 19:24
  Speaker 19: and I and that's her thing. She like, ain't you
• 19:26
  Speaker 19: stifty bitch? But if we next to each other, you
• 19:30
  Speaker 19: will be trying to figure out who's fifty?
• 19:32
  Speaker 12: Like she you know, she's start.
• 19:34
  Speaker 19: My thing is that he didn't tell me what she did, Like,
• 19:38
  Speaker 19: I acpect everything that she did that she was going
• 19:41
  Speaker 19: to do, okay, but I had to I had to
• 19:44
  Speaker 19: go through the phone and side and he said he
• 19:46
  Speaker 19: was dying about it. Said he's like, no, like, don't
• 19:48
  Speaker 19: what what did.
• 19:49
  Speaker 26: You lying for?
• 19:50
  Speaker 8: I don't know.
• 19:51
  Speaker 9: I don't because you just as messy to you called
• 19:53
  Speaker 9: you caused a lot of this mess. You told that
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: man to flirt with that woman and there's no limit
• 19:58
  Speaker 9: to flirting.
• 19:59
  Speaker 8: Did you say, did you did you give him a limit?
• 20:01
  Speaker 17: Right?
• 20:02
  Speaker 19: But he was supposed to tell Yeah, the limit was
• 20:05
  Speaker 19: like if she back, you let me know, like and
• 20:08
  Speaker 19: then but he didn't. And then when I asked him, like,
• 20:12
  Speaker 19: I tried to wake him up, but he I tried
• 20:14
  Speaker 19: to wake him up, but he tried to fake sleep
• 20:16
  Speaker 19: when I had that phone in his face.
• 20:22
  Speaker 9: Mama, you are so messy, so messy, I mean juicy,
• 20:28
  Speaker 9: you are so messy.
• 20:30
  Speaker 19: I'm glad I ain't tell you all my real name,
• 20:32
  Speaker 19: but yeah, okay, just on nail when you were in Cleveland,
• 20:37
  Speaker 19: so hey, your real name?
• 20:39
  Speaker 9: So you picked you picked the song by Biggie Smalls
• 20:41
  Speaker 9: on perfect Wow, wowtall.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: Matter of fact, she didn't.
• 20:52
  Speaker 11: You know, we have called the Breakfast Club good Morning
• 20:54
  Speaker 11: more thing everybody's d J n V. Just hilarious, Charlamagne
• 20:58
  Speaker 11: the guy. We are the breakfast Club on the roses
• 21:00
  Speaker 11: here as well. We got a special guest in the bounty.
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: Indeed, what's up?
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Are y'all doing good money?
• 21:08
  Speaker 16: You and the family came ready to be cold.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Listen, you was just waiting on your little.
• 21:15
  Speaker 26: Because I watched the other view. You couldn't get one
• 21:18
  Speaker 26: in right. He was so serious the whole time. You know, Yeah,
• 21:21
  Speaker 26: I rock with your foolish I mean, yeah, we were.
• 21:26
  Speaker 26: We just left an AAU circuit with my son and
• 21:29
  Speaker 26: we was in Cincinnati and they said it was gonna
• 21:31
  Speaker 26: be cold there, but it wasn't freezing. But when we
• 21:33
  Speaker 26: came to New York it was cold.
• 21:35
  Speaker 11: The only day too because the rest of the week
• 21:37
  Speaker 11: were getting like sixty to seventy degrees.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: Today is the only day you can wear.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: That you because it's cold. It's my room. It's cool.
• 21:45
  Speaker 16: New book.
• 21:45
  Speaker 9: The voice in my head is God. I want to
• 21:47
  Speaker 9: ask what was the intention behind the outfit this morning?
• 21:49
  Speaker 9: Because in the Bury Me Inside the Louis Store chapter,
• 21:51
  Speaker 9: you say every outfit has an intention.
• 21:53
  Speaker 8: So what's what's the energy other than.
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: It was cold? That's the energy that And it's like,
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: where is can you wear like the hat in it?
• 22:01
  Speaker 26: And you know, I can't get this off in Atlanta,
• 22:03
  Speaker 26: so this would be the place. And I don't live
• 22:05
  Speaker 26: in Canada, so this would be the place. Tell you, man, the.
• 22:12
  Speaker 11: Voice in my head is God. New book that's out today.
• 22:15
  Speaker 11: Make sure you go get it if you haven't got
• 22:17
  Speaker 11: it yet. Why was it the time to write this book?
• 22:20
  Speaker 26: I just think that success without reflection is just noise.
• 22:24
  Speaker 26: You know what I'm saying, Success without giving back is noise.
• 22:27
  Speaker 26: So I'm feeling successful. I think when you live long
• 22:31
  Speaker 26: enough to experience scars and you won enough to have
• 22:37
  Speaker 26: the wisdom you know.
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: Then it's time to write a book. In my personal opinions, So.
• 22:43
  Speaker 26: Growth maturation me, you know, talking about God in this
• 22:47
  Speaker 26: book through my personal experiences. You know, I just felt like,
• 22:51
  Speaker 26: after you do for me, I've done the albums, I've
• 22:55
  Speaker 26: shot my short feem, and I'm just ready to take
• 22:58
  Speaker 26: more creative risks.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: And so this doesn't.
• 23:01
  Speaker 26: Feel like a risk because I feel like this could
• 23:03
  Speaker 26: motivate someone, that could help someone.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: It's not generic, it's not cliche. I hadn't seen any.
• 23:10
  Speaker 26: Other artists talk about, you know, intuition in the book space,
• 23:14
  Speaker 26: so just so much.
• 23:16
  Speaker 11: The biggest thing everybody takes a different part of what
• 23:18
  Speaker 11: they feel that they get out of the book.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 23:21
  Speaker 11: For myself is your relationship with your dad. And the
• 23:25
  Speaker 11: reason I say that is I have six kids, and
• 23:27
  Speaker 11: I'm always very intention to what I say to my kids, right,
• 23:31
  Speaker 11: because there's a line between being a dad and it's
• 23:34
  Speaker 11: a line with being a human being.
• 23:36
  Speaker 17: Right.
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: And I'll explain you.
• 23:37
  Speaker 11: So with that relationship with your dad, was there, I
• 23:41
  Speaker 11: know your dad moved in with you, was those tough
• 23:43
  Speaker 11: conversations to have from to start him being incarcerated to
• 23:47
  Speaker 11: even at one time when you know, when you got
• 23:50
  Speaker 11: into that incident in Alabama and your dad said, well
• 23:52
  Speaker 11: go get a gun and go handle yourself. You know,
• 23:55
  Speaker 11: how would those conversations had because I'm sure you wouldn't
• 23:57
  Speaker 11: tell your kids that scene, or would you.
• 24:01
  Speaker 26: That's a good question. You know, we all, I think
• 24:04
  Speaker 26: everybody in here have lived through different eras. And you know,
• 24:09
  Speaker 26: I'm from the Boys Don't Cry era.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I'm from the That's Week
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: that saw.
• 24:15
  Speaker 26: My dad would say numerous amount of times that he
• 24:18
  Speaker 26: don't think a woman could raise a man.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: But he wouldn't be there, you know what I'm saying,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: And I turned out to be.
• 24:25
  Speaker 26: I mean, I can't change oil, change tires and stuff
• 24:28
  Speaker 26: like that, you know what I'm saying. Like somebody might
• 24:30
  Speaker 26: consider some man stuff, but I've cut the grass and
• 24:32
  Speaker 26: done stuff like that, as y'all know recently. So I mean,
• 24:36
  Speaker 26: when I think about it's like he wasn't there to
• 24:38
  Speaker 26: teach me certain things that a man should know. And
• 24:41
  Speaker 26: I learned a lot of things on my own. And
• 24:44
  Speaker 26: you know, he was my first hero. He's my first
• 24:46
  Speaker 26: somebody you look up to, whether he was in constant
• 24:48
  Speaker 26: rat or just me hearing stories about him and me
• 24:51
  Speaker 26: just realizing that that DNA is inside of me. So
• 24:54
  Speaker 26: what I passed that. I think I broke that way
• 24:57
  Speaker 26: of thinking. I think it stopped with me. You know,
• 25:02
  Speaker 26: I'm not lenient to why. I'm like, man, you can
• 25:05
  Speaker 26: cry anytime you won't. But if my son needs to
• 25:08
  Speaker 26: cry about something that's bothered him or hurt and I'm
• 25:11
  Speaker 26: not like getting all loaf with him about it.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: So I think it's just timing and where we are
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: in life right now. I don't know how you are
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: with your kids.
• 25:18
  Speaker 26: But I'm a little bit more sensitive to my kids,
• 25:21
  Speaker 26: of course than my father was to me, because he
• 25:23
  Speaker 26: wanted me to be tough. He didn't I hear stories
• 25:26
  Speaker 26: my aynes tell me like if I would cry, he
• 25:28
  Speaker 26: didn't want nobody to pick me up. I don't have
• 25:31
  Speaker 26: Like it's some baby pictures, but like all my baby pictures,
• 25:34
  Speaker 26: I'm sitting somewhere my mom beside me. She's not like
• 25:36
  Speaker 26: holding me, like you know what I'm saying. Like one
• 25:39
  Speaker 26: of the pictures I remember is like at the beach,
• 25:40
  Speaker 26: I'm sitting on the hood of a car. I'm like,
• 25:42
  Speaker 26: I'm not even one, and my mom got on a
• 25:44
  Speaker 26: baby suit.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: She right beside me.
• 25:45
  Speaker 26: But it's not really like a picture someone colling me
• 25:48
  Speaker 26: or anything but I mean, I'm.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Okay with that.
• 25:50
  Speaker 10: What did you learn about your own feelings throughout the
• 25:53
  Speaker 10: whole experience with your dad, so being able to spend
• 25:55
  Speaker 10: time with him and him moving in with you to
• 25:58
  Speaker 10: his passing, because you talk about it very stoically at first,
• 26:01
  Speaker 10: and then you talk up and then you we actually
• 26:04
  Speaker 10: get to hear you talk about finally being able to
• 26:05
  Speaker 10: cry and being able to like kind of get in
• 26:07
  Speaker 10: tune with yourself a bit.
• 26:10
  Speaker 26: Well his last few years, like I like I talk
• 26:13
  Speaker 26: about it in the book. He's getting out of prison
• 26:16
  Speaker 26: and you know, he's in his late sixties, you know
• 26:18
  Speaker 26: what I'm saying, Like I don't know, they might have
• 26:20
  Speaker 26: been seventy something. So when I go get him, you know,
• 26:23
  Speaker 26: that's when I had a conversation like, man, you ought
• 26:24
  Speaker 26: to move with me, Like this is just crazy at
• 26:26
  Speaker 26: this point, you know what I'm saying. And the last
• 26:28
  Speaker 26: time he did time, he was probably two or three years,
• 26:30
  Speaker 26: but I just felt like it was time. I had
• 26:32
  Speaker 26: my first child and I had a house, and so
• 26:36
  Speaker 26: you know, I remember stopping and gett him. He wanted
• 26:38
  Speaker 26: to suit and then I remember stopping at a rise
• 26:41
  Speaker 26: and he wanted the phone and he had some money.
• 26:45
  Speaker 26: He had a little money put up, you know somewhere,
• 26:47
  Speaker 26: and we just talked and he he said that he would,
• 26:50
  Speaker 26: you know, he would you know, think about it. And
• 26:52
  Speaker 26: he ended up eventually just you know, staying with me,
• 26:54
  Speaker 26: which was really cool. It was like we we started
• 26:56
  Speaker 26: building that relationship. You know, I was so fond of
• 26:59
  Speaker 26: him from distance because you know, when I was young.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: We got separated.
• 27:03
  Speaker 26: So just being in the same house, me learning his
• 27:05
  Speaker 26: little crazy ways and his sarcasm and everything. And so,
• 27:10
  Speaker 26: you know, after he started getting sick, I was going
• 27:13
  Speaker 26: I was starting at like this was like twenty twelve.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: My dad died in twenty twelve. My first album came
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: out of twenty twelve.
• 27:18
  Speaker 26: I was just so hot at the time, and so
• 27:21
  Speaker 26: Keisha would tell me, like, man, you know your dad
• 27:24
  Speaker 26: didn't eat the day or you needn't do something.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: She just tell me, you know what I mean. And
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: he was.
• 27:28
  Speaker 26: Somebody that didn't want nobody to know he was sick.
• 27:30
  Speaker 26: He like such a man, he don't want you to
• 27:32
  Speaker 26: know he going through nothing, which is ridiculous. And he
• 27:36
  Speaker 26: went to the hospital one night. You know what I'm saying.
• 27:38
  Speaker 26: I end up going up there with him. I ended
• 27:39
  Speaker 26: up staying with him. I got it like, I just
• 27:41
  Speaker 26: stayed with him for like a week or two, you
• 27:42
  Speaker 26: know what I mean. And I have shows that I
• 27:44
  Speaker 26: end up counseling. But I had this one particular show
• 27:46
  Speaker 26: in Savannah, which is like, I don't know, a couple
• 27:49
  Speaker 26: of hours from Atlanta. And I'm talking to him and
• 27:52
  Speaker 26: I'm like, I got this show in Atlanta. You're gonna
• 27:54
  Speaker 26: be cool tonight. You're like, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna be cool.
• 27:55
  Speaker 26: And then he says, you know, dope man, my role model.
• 27:58
  Speaker 26: I had a song called Dope Man in my Room Ordel,
• 28:00
  Speaker 26: my mixtape. So he's so so I cast I'm like, bro,
• 28:03
  Speaker 26: you straight, you know what I'm saying. He gives me
• 28:05
  Speaker 26: a fist bomb and says, do it big Apps, that's
• 28:09
  Speaker 26: our last name. I said, okay, cool. I go to Savannah.
• 28:12
  Speaker 26: I don't even get the room I come back when
• 28:13
  Speaker 26: I when I come back here on his breathing thing,
• 28:16
  Speaker 26: I see it like boom, but I see him he's
• 28:18
  Speaker 26: like looking at me. I feel like he's looking at me,
• 28:20
  Speaker 26: you know what I mean. Why he's on his breathing
• 28:22
  Speaker 26: thing and he keeps trying to take the two by
• 28:25
  Speaker 26: the throat, and they keep saying like if you if
• 28:27
  Speaker 26: he takes that out, he could he could die, you
• 28:30
  Speaker 26: know what I'm saying. So if he take that out,
• 28:32
  Speaker 26: he can die. Now now rewind this. I just got
• 28:34
  Speaker 26: my part from prison. So they're saying the only way
• 28:36
  Speaker 26: that he cannot take it out is if they handcuff
• 28:38
  Speaker 26: him to the bed, you know what I'm saying. So
• 28:41
  Speaker 26: I say, Okay, handcuff, and then I get to thinking
• 28:44
  Speaker 26: like something is telling me, like he don't want to
• 28:46
  Speaker 26: be handcuffed no more, you know what I'm saying.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: So he handcuffed the bed.
• 28:50
  Speaker 26: He looking at me and you know, his breathing, and
• 28:53
  Speaker 26: I said, all right, mana you know, take the handcuff.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: I'll take that and take it off. Man, he don't
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: want to be handcuffed.
• 28:57
  Speaker 26: But soon as the handcuff come off, he come to
• 28:59
  Speaker 26: try to take that, and they telling me if he
• 29:01
  Speaker 26: take it out, it could scratch his.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: Lawrence.
• 29:06
  Speaker 26: And so I swear to you, I do that four times. Okay,
• 29:10
  Speaker 26: put the handcuffs back on, take the handcuffs back off,
• 29:13
  Speaker 26: put the handcuffs back on it. And it's like he
• 29:16
  Speaker 26: just he's not looking straight home, looking to the side,
• 29:19
  Speaker 26: like this, you know what I mean. So I try
• 29:21
  Speaker 26: to hold his hands myself personally.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Like, you know what I'm saying, not chill, you know
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Just chill, he keep you know.
• 29:29
  Speaker 26: And then you know, a couple of days after that,
• 29:31
  Speaker 26: or not even a day after that, you know what
• 29:33
  Speaker 26: I'm saying, that the beets start going off.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 29:35
  Speaker 26: By me staying with them and the nurses, I'm able
• 29:37
  Speaker 26: to run, go, get the nurse. You know what I'm saying,
• 29:39
  Speaker 26: check it out. And they same thing. Four times. Boom
• 29:42
  Speaker 26: boom they hit them, bring them back.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: Thank you, nurse. They walk out the room. Man, look man,
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: don't you be doing.
• 29:51
  Speaker 26: Run out again? Boom do that the fourth time. Now
• 29:55
  Speaker 26: they put me out of the room. So I'm looking
• 29:56
  Speaker 26: through the little window. And so the fourth time, the
• 30:00
  Speaker 26: lady come out and she says, you know, I lost
• 30:02
  Speaker 26: my father too. If he come back now, he'll be
• 30:04
  Speaker 26: brain dead. We already broke two ribs. You just gotta
• 30:07
  Speaker 26: let it go. And I was like, that's easier said
• 30:08
  Speaker 26: than done, because he just told me.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: Now all he did.
• 30:12
  Speaker 26: He tell me do it big, he told me before
• 30:14
  Speaker 26: I went to Savannah. I'm not gonna die no time soon.
• 30:16
  Speaker 26: It came out of his mouth and a he never
• 30:18
  Speaker 26: told him a lot. So I'm like, what happened from
• 30:20
  Speaker 26: the time I went to Savanna came back. But anyway,
• 30:22
  Speaker 26: that's something that I wouldn't say hunted or traumatized me.
• 30:26
  Speaker 26: I know you're big on therapy or whatever, and like
• 30:28
  Speaker 26: this book is my therapy, Like certain things I do
• 30:30
  Speaker 26: is my therapy.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: I hadn't actually.
• 30:32
  Speaker 26: Sat down with someone, and I'm not against people who
• 30:34
  Speaker 26: who do or who have, But is it traumatic seeing
• 30:38
  Speaker 26: your father passed? It could be, yeah, But then like
• 30:43
  Speaker 26: a few years later, I had a son who reminds
• 30:45
  Speaker 26: me so much of like how he moves and his
• 30:48
  Speaker 26: sarcasm as well. So I got two questions based on
• 30:51
  Speaker 26: what you just said. Did reliving that for the book
• 30:53
  Speaker 26: make you cry again? Because you said that was the
• 30:55
  Speaker 26: first time you remember crying on that. Man, I cried
• 30:57
  Speaker 26: so hard when that happened, but not when I was
• 30:59
  Speaker 26: doing it in the book, because I'm just I didn't.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: I didn't.
• 31:02
  Speaker 26: I didn't cry while writing the book. I think because
• 31:07
  Speaker 26: I've relived that so many times. It wasn't like I
• 31:09
  Speaker 26: buried it and then just brought it back up like
• 31:11
  Speaker 26: I relived my pots passing in front of me.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: You know, I've done that a few times, so I
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: think we And then also I see now me talking about.
• 31:20
  Speaker 26: It, it just becomes easier to talk about me, you know
• 31:22
  Speaker 26: what I mean when you keep store boxing or whatever.
• 31:25
  Speaker 9: And when you said when Halo was born in the
• 31:28
  Speaker 9: book you I got to see the picture that.
• 31:30
  Speaker 8: I just got to see the picture. You said you
• 31:32
  Speaker 8: got the picture.
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm just trying to act show you.
• 31:34
  Speaker 8: I want to see the picture. You said it was
• 31:36
  Speaker 8: a picture of your father.
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: The alarm went off of that, all right, So don't
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: even tell the story.
• 31:40
  Speaker 8: I'm just show you.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: It's hard to discuss this book because it's so much
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: that you want people to read and see for themselves.
• 31:46
  Speaker 8: He just gave away a whole chapter, but it was
• 31:49
  Speaker 8: worth it.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: So this this picture, all right?
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: Explain all right?
• 31:54
  Speaker 26: So listen, My son, Halo was born ten fourteen fifteen.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: All right, Me and.
• 32:00
  Speaker 26: Keisha was in the hospital, and my mom and my
• 32:03
  Speaker 26: two daughters was at home and they were in our room,
• 32:06
  Speaker 26: in the mass of bedroom. The alarm went off at
• 32:10
  Speaker 26: home while Halo was coming. The alarm went off same time,
• 32:15
  Speaker 26: so why Keisha having Halo. The alarm going off, and
• 32:17
  Speaker 26: my mom is asking me, what's the past word to
• 32:20
  Speaker 26: tell the alarm people because it's saying motion in the
• 32:22
  Speaker 26: house or whatever. Now my mom is on the phone saying,
• 32:24
  Speaker 26: I swear, and I'm looking at the cameras and I
• 32:27
  Speaker 26: don't see anything coming.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Into the house. I don't see the doors. I'm looking
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: at all the doors.
• 32:32
  Speaker 26: My mom said, I hadn't left the room, so I
• 32:35
  Speaker 26: don't know why the motion going off. I teller the
• 32:37
  Speaker 26: code it goes off. We have halo, we come home
• 32:41
  Speaker 26: all right, We're getting our alarm updated. And then Keisha
• 32:45
  Speaker 26: looks at her email. And when you have motion, it
• 32:49
  Speaker 26: takes pictures, it takes snapshots or what the motion is. Okay,
• 32:53
  Speaker 26: when we looked at the motion, you could see you
• 32:56
  Speaker 26: could see somebody, you know what I'm saying, and it
• 32:58
  Speaker 26: was it was my father. Not my father left in
• 33:00
  Speaker 26: twenty twelve. This is twenty fifteen. You can see an image,
• 33:04
  Speaker 26: so wow, people that I'm close to a couple of
• 33:07
  Speaker 26: my friends.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: I'm close. So I showing the picture. I'm like, who there,
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: Like that's part right there.
• 33:11
  Speaker 26: I'm like look at the date and like my friends
• 33:13
  Speaker 26: begetting big old chill goosebumps or whatever.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 33:15
  Speaker 26: My father used to walk around the house like with
• 33:17
  Speaker 26: his shirt off. He was in good shape to be
• 33:19
  Speaker 26: seventy like. He wasn't like fat and slope. He was
• 33:21
  Speaker 26: in the army, so he had something. But I'm gonna
• 33:23
  Speaker 26: find so another thing about this. This is my personal opinion.
• 33:27
  Speaker 26: He's so sarcastic that when I used to try to
• 33:29
  Speaker 26: show people, I could not find a picture. So I
• 33:33
  Speaker 26: gave a picture to Keisha. I said, Keisha, when I
• 33:36
  Speaker 26: try to show people, that makes it sound like I'm crazy.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: I don't have a picture. Keep it from broth long.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: So we go to.
• 33:40
  Speaker 26: Florida one time. I'm not even looking back there. I
• 33:42
  Speaker 26: know she knows how talking about I go to Florida
• 33:44
  Speaker 26: one time. I only got the picture them. I can't
• 33:46
  Speaker 26: find it. What happened in Florida? Kes you remember.
• 33:53
  Speaker 16: Whatever?
• 33:58
  Speaker 26: Anyway, anyway one fell in there was she probably remember this?
• 34:02
  Speaker 26: What she does remember this when I said this, But
• 34:03
  Speaker 26: we was on the boat. We got off a boat
• 34:05
  Speaker 26: and then her phone down there fell in the water.
• 34:08
  Speaker 26: And when my phone fell in the water, I said, damn,
• 34:11
  Speaker 26: that's all I don't think about the context.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: I'm like, this is my proof. This is my proof
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: that Gold's a really whatever. You know what I mean. Boom.
• 34:19
  Speaker 26: Okay, So I get to looking because I know exactly
• 34:22
  Speaker 26: when the date was, because I know when Halo was born.
• 34:24
  Speaker 26: I pull up the picture again. So now I got it.
• 34:27
  Speaker 26: So I give it to my cousin. I'm always with
• 34:29
  Speaker 26: you outside Cat, I gave it the cat, like cat,
• 34:31
  Speaker 26: you keep this picture?
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: Boom. So this is crazy.
• 34:34
  Speaker 26: So I go over to the Ya house, right and
• 34:36
  Speaker 26: I'm telling him the same story, like, Bro, this has
• 34:39
  Speaker 26: happened to me. I'm trying to tell him what happened.
• 34:41
  Speaker 26: And this is man. You know, I'm the coolest player
• 34:43
  Speaker 26: in the world. Man, it's like food around.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: It's like lemonade, you know what I'm saying.
• 34:49
  Speaker 26: So I can't find a picture, so I say, cat,
• 34:51
  Speaker 26: cat with my tother come out, man, give me the
• 34:53
  Speaker 26: picture of Papus. That's I can show why he giving
• 34:55
  Speaker 26: me the picture. Bro, I'll knock over a big thing
• 34:58
  Speaker 26: of lemonade everywhere on everybody. Like you know what I'm saying.
• 35:00
  Speaker 26: I'm such a player. I ain't never done nothing like that.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. So in my mind, I'm like, bro,
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: this is how my dad is. He like to be on.
• 35:06
  Speaker 26: Some joking got me looking crazy here. I don't waste
• 35:09
  Speaker 26: lemonade on everybody at the tables. Ain't even nothing I do,
• 35:12
  Speaker 26: you know what I mean. But anyway, that's another the story.
• 35:14
  Speaker 26: Let me find a picture all right right here? Let
• 35:18
  Speaker 26: me see email myself.
• 35:21
  Speaker 11: Why he's looking Why he's looking up the picture?
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: The book on to change dot com a chance to
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: win courts.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: To change book.
• 35:29
  Speaker 26: To change book dot com, to change book, go to
• 35:32
  Speaker 26: to changebook dot com. I do got a sweepstakes for
• 35:34
  Speaker 26: people they can sit next to me at a Hawks game.
• 35:37
  Speaker 26: Yeah you know, uh course that. I'm very close. I
• 35:40
  Speaker 26: come in through the owner's lounge. It's a whole experience.
• 35:43
  Speaker 26: I do have this little side note, this disclaimer. Women,
• 35:47
  Speaker 26: I'm gonna be smelling good. I'm gonna be looking good.
• 35:50
  Speaker 26: If you have a crazy man at home, articulate that
• 35:53
  Speaker 26: to him. Men, I'm not gonna be talking through the
• 35:56
  Speaker 26: whole game. But I'm gonna really be watching the game.
• 36:02
  Speaker 8: I hope, but raffle with I hope somebody is trying
• 36:03
  Speaker 8: to make it.
• 36:05
  Speaker 16: Trying to like you sing all your songs the whole time.
• 36:10
  Speaker 26: Can you get that picture because you know I'm trying
• 36:12
  Speaker 26: to show them and you know what's going on.
• 36:14
  Speaker 9: Oh wow, that's the whole person.
• 36:18
  Speaker 16: Yes, I thought it was going to be like not,
• 36:21
  Speaker 16: that's how.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: You used to walk around, his shirt walking. That's him
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: walking through the kitchen. Wow.
• 36:25
  Speaker 10: So I know you saying the book too that you
• 36:27
  Speaker 10: feel like, until you had your son, your dad hadn't
• 36:30
  Speaker 10: like crossed over to the other side.
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: That's my assumption, right, Well, this is my mom.
• 36:33
  Speaker 26: My mom is super, super spiritual, right, so she was
• 36:36
  Speaker 26: probably like, you know, like he probably coming with me before,
• 36:39
  Speaker 26: you know what I mean, probably come over with me,
• 36:42
  Speaker 26: you know what I mean.
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: That's how she kicked the light before he left.
• 36:44
  Speaker 10: But so the voices that you were hearing there, because
• 36:46
  Speaker 10: I know you have been hearing voices in your head
• 36:48
  Speaker 10: and hearing God for a long time, do you do
• 36:49
  Speaker 10: you know which ones might have been your dad because
• 36:52
  Speaker 10: he was there with you, or it was the God
• 36:54
  Speaker 10: connection that you have you hear in God.
• 36:56
  Speaker 26: So this experience right here, when this happened, this would
• 37:01
  Speaker 26: have been twenty fifteen. I'm not even sure if I
• 37:05
  Speaker 26: was fully committed to just giving the voice. It's credit
• 37:12
  Speaker 26: for my success. Now, that's why I said when you
• 37:15
  Speaker 26: asked me when it's time to write a book. It's
• 37:17
  Speaker 26: like I've lived and had enough experience in trial and
• 37:20
  Speaker 26: error with listening not listening, moving through fear, moving through
• 37:24
  Speaker 26: ego to let you know, like this voice, it gotta
• 37:27
  Speaker 26: be God. The reason I call it the voice of
• 37:29
  Speaker 26: God because the voice would be like my intuition, it'll
• 37:32
  Speaker 26: be my.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: Alignment. You know what I'm saying.
• 37:36
  Speaker 26: That's what the voice. But when I say God, I
• 37:38
  Speaker 26: know everybody's not into God. But I had to give
• 37:41
  Speaker 26: the credit to somebody higher than myself, you know what
• 37:44
  Speaker 26: I'm saying, for this superpower, whatever the hell like for me,
• 37:48
  Speaker 26: I got a real picture of my dad three years
• 37:50
  Speaker 26: after he passed.
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: Like this is not something and I don't. It's my
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: first time.
• 37:53
  Speaker 26: Ever ever talking about it, feeling comfortable talking about it,
• 37:57
  Speaker 26: showing somebody that I feel like is understands like a
• 38:02
  Speaker 26: deeper mean of like spirits and everything, like because I
• 38:05
  Speaker 26: don't fully understand.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: My father.
• 38:09
  Speaker 26: You know, you see, they'd be like people come to
• 38:11
  Speaker 26: you in dreams, people you know, do stuff like that.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: I can't say that he did that.
• 38:16
  Speaker 26: You know what I'm saying, but I can tell you
• 38:18
  Speaker 26: that I do have a divine guidance in me that
• 38:22
  Speaker 26: helps me make decisions, whether it's business decisions, relationship decisions,
• 38:28
  Speaker 26: whatever it is. And it's a voice that could probably
• 38:32
  Speaker 26: be too noisy to certain people, but I welcome that voice.
• 38:36
  Speaker 26: So this book is I put this book together to
• 38:41
  Speaker 26: help somebody and to motivate somebody to shut down the
• 38:43
  Speaker 26: outside noise. And this is also for anybody who's ever said,
• 38:47
  Speaker 26: like something told me, like something told me to get
• 38:49
  Speaker 26: this or wear this hat or whatever it is. It's like,
• 38:53
  Speaker 26: it's that something told me thing.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 38:55
  Speaker 26: What I'm saying, is that or something told me don't
• 38:57
  Speaker 26: go to this place, and this happened, Something told me
• 38:59
  Speaker 26: don't whatever it is, you know. And we've all said
• 39:02
  Speaker 26: when we missed the flight, well that's God trying to
• 39:05
  Speaker 26: Maybe I wasn't supposed to get on it, you know
• 39:06
  Speaker 26: what I mean. So why can't that inner dialogue be
• 39:09
  Speaker 26: that why they say God is inside of you, and
• 39:13
  Speaker 26: why can't your blessings come from within on how you
• 39:16
  Speaker 26: are on the surface. You're a positive person on the surface,
• 39:19
  Speaker 26: and your blessings come with it. This is my experience,
• 39:22
  Speaker 26: This is my opinion.
• 39:22
  Speaker 9: If that voice in your head told you to walk
• 39:24
  Speaker 9: away from rap tomorrow.
• 39:27
  Speaker 8: Would you listen?
• 39:28
  Speaker 26: That's a great question because I love rap music so
• 39:31
  Speaker 26: much and I feel like, if you know I love it,
• 39:34
  Speaker 26: he wanted to do He wanted to do that.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I love it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 26: And one of the things I love about it is
• 39:40
  Speaker 26: that I still have good ideas, whether for me or
• 39:44
  Speaker 26: anybody else. And when I say ideas, not just in rap,
• 39:47
  Speaker 26: but after the wrap, the market and the title, the fonts,
• 39:52
  Speaker 26: shades like I'm into all like even this right here.
• 39:55
  Speaker 26: This is a black artist named the Reese. He's dope, man.
• 39:58
  Speaker 26: He's just like he not with a gallery anything to
• 40:01
  Speaker 26: Reeche Walker. I found him online. He does this little
• 40:04
  Speaker 26: like pastel dope.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: This is art. It's like he drew. He drew this
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: of me.
• 40:08
  Speaker 26: This is not a pitchure. He drew this whole thing.
• 40:11
  Speaker 26: And uh, I just like, I just like know curating
• 40:16
  Speaker 26: dope stuff. So and you still do that without wrap.
• 40:19
  Speaker 26: God said I want you to put that. If I
• 40:21
  Speaker 26: heard him as clear as you saying that, yeah, I
• 40:22
  Speaker 26: probably would because I feel like he got something bigger
• 40:24
  Speaker 26: for me. And so he wants me to probably start
• 40:26
  Speaker 26: going to sleep at night, getting up early or something
• 40:28
  Speaker 26: like that, which I haven't done. And since my father passed,
• 40:30
  Speaker 26: I sleep in the daytime home.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Did was sleep at night.
• 40:33
  Speaker 8: So the writing books.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: Now you got the podcast You and Me and Halo podcast.
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: Check that out.
• 40:41
  Speaker 16: What do you do at night? Then if you like,
• 40:43
  Speaker 16: what are you doing?
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: You just like, what are you doing? You do? I
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: sleep at night?
• 40:49
  Speaker 19: Y'all?
• 40:50
  Speaker 16: No?
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: What time I go to sleep?
• 40:53
  Speaker 27: Six seven?
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: I got kids yelling out what it is?
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: What it is?
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: Halo told me we was retiring this year.
• 41:11
  Speaker 26: I think he said on the podcast, like we had
• 41:13
  Speaker 26: to let it go or something for something.
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 41:18
  Speaker 26: Yeah, But I go to sleep around six, six or seven,
• 41:20
  Speaker 26: and then I get up around what time I get up?
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Twelve one?
• 41:25
  Speaker 10: Is that because of your music? Artists like cause a
• 41:27
  Speaker 10: lot of artists are like that too, where they're up.
• 41:29
  Speaker 26: I've been doing that ever since. The kids knowing me?
• 41:33
  Speaker 26: Harmony thirteen?
• 41:36
  Speaker 8: What are you doing?
• 41:36
  Speaker 16: Are you thinking?
• 41:37
  Speaker 25: Like?
• 41:37
  Speaker 16: Are you writing?
• 41:38
  Speaker 26: Are you I'm in I'm in a studio space when
• 41:41
  Speaker 26: I'm doing something ambitious to help my career go further,
• 41:46
  Speaker 26: and that is the time when all the noise is
• 41:48
  Speaker 26: shut off for me. All the people that I love
• 41:50
  Speaker 26: should be in the bed sleep. I don't receive phone
• 41:53
  Speaker 26: calls that laid nobody calling me saying they need I
• 41:56
  Speaker 26: can actually concentrate on the task at hand, whatever that is.
• 42:00
  Speaker 26: And those are my hours that I can just lock
• 42:02
  Speaker 26: in from probably twelve to six or something like that.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: I started working at night round eleven to twelve. From
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: twelve to.
• 42:07
  Speaker 26: Six is really just really really my time, really need time.
• 42:10
  Speaker 26: I don't have to worry about you know what I'm saying.
• 42:13
  Speaker 26: I mean, of course I worry about people, It's just
• 42:14
  Speaker 26: really my time. I don't have anything else on my
• 42:17
  Speaker 26: mind with me in the task at him.
• 42:19
  Speaker 16: And that's therapeutic for you.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: That's so therapy.
• 42:22
  Speaker 26: I wouldn't know what to do if, like Keisha hates
• 42:25
  Speaker 26: when I'm at home that in those times because she
• 42:29
  Speaker 26: trying to sleep.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm moving around up man.
• 42:33
  Speaker 26: Just the other day, I was just doing the most
• 42:35
  Speaker 26: craziestuff man because I had to be up at seven.
• 42:37
  Speaker 26: So I'm like, Man, do I go to sleep or
• 42:39
  Speaker 26: do I just stay up to seven? So I'm trying
• 42:42
  Speaker 26: to figure it out. She's like, what you're doing home?
• 42:44
  Speaker 9: This thing?
• 42:44
  Speaker 26: No?
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: She look at me.
• 42:46
  Speaker 26: I'm standing out the window like Malcolm X, I'm just
• 42:49
  Speaker 26: looking out the one you know what, I'm saying stuff
• 42:51
  Speaker 26: like this. I really need some asphalts so I can.
• 42:54
  Speaker 26: I'm just looking at stuff at the house. I'm just
• 42:56
  Speaker 26: looking at the driveway. I need to do this round
• 42:59
  Speaker 26: about over. I'm looking at the tennis court. We got
• 43:02
  Speaker 26: the light out there on the court. I'm looking.
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: I'm like, man, we should use this more often. We
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: just but my mind and my like, I'm not sleepy,
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: I'm not tired. I'm not young.
• 43:12
  Speaker 26: And because my body trained, I'm almost like a new born.
• 43:15
  Speaker 26: I'm trained to sleep from like seven to five. I mean,
• 43:19
  Speaker 26: I'm sorry, five hours, seven to twelve. I'm trying to
• 43:22
  Speaker 26: sleep like that long, but the longest, like literally since
• 43:26
  Speaker 26: twenty twice of my pop died, I hadn't really slept
• 43:29
  Speaker 26: at night.
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: Well, the book is out today.
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: Make sure this is the book?
• 43:34
  Speaker 9: Is God?
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: Are you looking at this? This is dope. It's a
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: ham some picture on the back as well.
• 43:39
  Speaker 26: Man, look if you open this up, this is something
• 43:40
  Speaker 26: to know. Something told me. So I'm gonna challenge y'all.
• 43:44
  Speaker 26: Go to two chains book dot com, enter the Sweet
• 43:47
  Speaker 26: States to sitting next to me at the hoss game.
• 43:49
  Speaker 26: You have to March eleventh to do that. But this
• 43:52
  Speaker 26: right here, tell me, what does something tell you before?
• 43:55
  Speaker 26: I guess something told you give me any time.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: Something told me to where. So what I'm saying, what
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: so you was pulling stuff? Tell me how to tell
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: me how that went?
• 44:04
  Speaker 16: So I woke up under this. It's crazy though, So
• 44:07
  Speaker 16: that yeah, because I was gonna wake up early and
• 44:09
  Speaker 16: do my little you know, my little curling joint. But
• 44:11
  Speaker 16: I ain't have enough time because I was I was
• 44:13
  Speaker 16: going to questions for my book. You know what I'm saying,
• 44:15
  Speaker 16: because I start pressing this week. So I got up.
• 44:17
  Speaker 16: I have enough time for that. So I was like,
• 44:19
  Speaker 16: you know what I'm gonna I'm gonna wear my hat.
• 44:22
  Speaker 26: Something told you to put I mean you got all
• 44:24
  Speaker 26: the hats though, ahead what made you get put that
• 44:27
  Speaker 26: one on?
• 44:28
  Speaker 24: Like?
• 44:28
  Speaker 16: The funny is I want to go with the little
• 44:30
  Speaker 16: suit and go with the you know, the body suit.
• 44:32
  Speaker 16: I just got these new nikes.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: I know they call cord. Okay, give me an example
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: of something told you.
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: I told them that today I'm learn how to ski today.
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: Something told you, like you just sitting there like man.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Know what it is?
• 44:47
  Speaker 11: My son's snowboards and I took them on the mountain
• 44:50
  Speaker 11: the other day, and I felt bad because I couldn't
• 44:52
  Speaker 11: go with him on the mounta because I don't know
• 44:54
  Speaker 11: how to score snowboard to ski. So I was like,
• 44:55
  Speaker 11: you know what, I'm gonna learn how to ski, so
• 44:57
  Speaker 11: next time we go, I can get on that mount
• 44:59
  Speaker 11: good father son time to get Absolutely.
• 45:02
  Speaker 10: Something told me I need to go back home this
• 45:03
  Speaker 10: weekend spender time with my family.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 45:07
  Speaker 9: Something told me that two Change had an amazing book
• 45:10
  Speaker 9: that he needed to get published, and that's why you're
• 45:13
  Speaker 9: in That's right.
• 45:16
  Speaker 10: Hold on, you knew you wanted to write a book,
• 45:18
  Speaker 10: But did you go to him and say, hey, it's
• 45:20
  Speaker 10: time or did how did that?
• 45:21
  Speaker 26: No, he just knew I'm a successful black dude, so
• 45:23
  Speaker 26: he tried to cap in on my success because he
• 45:25
  Speaker 26: know I'm a wanner.
• 45:26
  Speaker 16: What else would you.
• 45:29
  Speaker 8: Changed the plug? I wouldn't have Crystal franchises if it
• 45:32
  Speaker 8: wasn't food.
• 45:34
  Speaker 10: And people don't talk enough about you and your involvement
• 45:37
  Speaker 10: in the Crystal franchise.
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: Man. My envirolvement in the culture is crazy. You know
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying?
• 45:42
  Speaker 26: I am the pictures. I am the mood boy for
• 45:44
  Speaker 26: a lot of stuff going on. I'm humble and quiet
• 45:46
  Speaker 26: sometimes a lot of the time, but I could see
• 45:50
  Speaker 26: how what my influence has done for even my whole city.
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: Like man, listen Esco and the Esco franchise ten years.
• 45:58
  Speaker 26: I owned the dirt five years before I started running
• 46:00
  Speaker 26: the business on the vertical Candyland. There's no other person
• 46:05
  Speaker 26: my age, my democraphic, that owns my demographic, that owns
• 46:08
  Speaker 26: a adult entertainment. You to get a permit to be
• 46:11
  Speaker 26: nude and have alcohol, is they stop issuing.
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: Those in nineteen ninety three.
• 46:16
  Speaker 26: You have to buy those for an extremely high price
• 46:18
  Speaker 26: from somebody who sets it. A lot of the even
• 46:22
  Speaker 26: the G League team being connected to the line of Hawks,
• 46:25
  Speaker 26: you know what I'm saying, even having.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: An association with that.
• 46:30
  Speaker 26: It's just a lot of things that I see that
• 46:33
  Speaker 26: I try to open up like in this book and
• 46:35
  Speaker 26: let my peers know, like this is what's going on,
• 46:38
  Speaker 26: and this is how I'm even making these business decisions
• 46:42
  Speaker 26: based off Like of course I have a lawyer, I
• 46:44
  Speaker 26: have management, but I got this voice going on with
• 46:46
  Speaker 26: me too, and but I do have you know, the
• 46:48
  Speaker 26: Crystal situation shot the Jakthan just shot that. Everybody that
• 46:51
  Speaker 26: I became partners with, I think collaborating. Collaborating is a
• 46:55
  Speaker 26: good thing, not only a music but in business too.
• 46:58
  Speaker 26: And my secret to that is finding someone that's passionate
• 47:02
  Speaker 26: and whatever you're trying to do and collaborate with.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: And then you can have success in the field.
• 47:07
  Speaker 26: So I said to say that the person I'm collaborating
• 47:10
  Speaker 26: with the ESCO, they're passionate about the hospitality space. They
• 47:14
  Speaker 26: don't have a special seasoning or sauce. It's bigger than that.
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: You got to know this space.
• 47:19
  Speaker 26: The person that I'm in the strip club visit is
• 47:22
  Speaker 26: passionate about that business. So its just and Jonathan is
• 47:26
  Speaker 26: passionate about Christmas, and this man is passionate about giving
• 47:30
  Speaker 26: back to our community.
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: So that's how a lot of things line.
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: Get the book today.
• 47:36
  Speaker 8: Thank you, and it's the breakfast Club Good Morning.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: To make sure you're telling them to watch out for Florida.
• 47:40
  Speaker 9: Manor the craziest people in America come from the Bronx
• 47:45
  Speaker 9: in all of Florida.
• 47:47
  Speaker 8: Yes, you are a dolt.
• 47:50
  Speaker 25: A Florida man attacked an ATM for a very strange reason.
• 47:54
  Speaker 16: It gave him too much money.
• 47:55
  Speaker 25: Florida man is arrested after definitely stay he rigged the
• 47:57
  Speaker 25: door to his home and the attempt to.
• 47:59
  Speaker 16: Electric hit his present. Police arrested in Orlando man for.
• 48:02
  Speaker 8: Talking about me that the breakfast club.
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: Bitch.
• 48:04
  Speaker 9: You don't here the day with Charlam Hayne to God,
• 48:07
  Speaker 9: I don't know why y'all keep letting here get y'all
• 48:08
  Speaker 9: like this.
• 48:09
  Speaker 8: No, low duvall, it's not me. It's Florida. Okay.
• 48:12
  Speaker 9: Donkey of to Day goes to a forty eight year
• 48:14
  Speaker 9: old Florida man named Darius Davis. Okay, Darius Davis is
• 48:18
  Speaker 9: from Miami, Dave Florida.
• 48:20
  Speaker 8: Okay, drop on the close bombs from Miami Day.
• 48:22
  Speaker 9: All right, what does y'all y'all always say about the
• 48:25
  Speaker 9: great state of Florida?
• 48:26
  Speaker 8: Say it with me.
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
• 48:29
  Speaker 9: all of Florida, and today is no exception. Okay, slutor,
• 48:32
  Speaker 9: every black man out there who still has a hairline,
• 48:36
  Speaker 9: all right, God bless you all. I remember those days
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: of having one, and what bothers me the most is
• 48:41
  Speaker 9: I feel like I got cheated because back in the
• 48:44
  Speaker 9: day I got my wig pushed back by a whack barber. Okay,
• 48:47
  Speaker 9: you know, one of those barbers trying to get that
• 48:49
  Speaker 9: line sharp. But in the process of them trying to
• 48:52
  Speaker 9: get his sharp, they just keep pushing your hairline back
• 48:54
  Speaker 9: further and further. Okay, I really feel like that got
• 48:58
  Speaker 9: me started on the path the baldness.
• 49:01
  Speaker 8: Okay, that barbers snatched my edges, all right.
• 49:04
  Speaker 9: My hairline never fully recovered from the barber pushing my
• 49:07
  Speaker 9: hairline back.
• 49:07
  Speaker 8: Okay. Every black man out there knows.
• 49:09
  Speaker 9: The pain of getting your hairline pushed back and then finally,
• 49:12
  Speaker 9: at some point you just say effort, cut it all off. Okay,
• 49:16
  Speaker 9: we were forced to go bald because of barber pushed
• 49:19
  Speaker 9: our hairlines back.
• 49:19
  Speaker 8: All right? Hashtag tragic.
• 49:21
  Speaker 9: Now, Darius did something that a lot of men dream
• 49:24
  Speaker 9: about doing when their hairline gets pushed back, and that's
• 49:28
  Speaker 9: something is violence.
• 49:30
  Speaker 8: What do you mean violence, Uncle Charlotte. Well, let's go
• 49:32
  Speaker 8: to Local ten news for the report.
• 49:33
  Speaker 25: Police Darius Davis is in jail once again after police
• 49:36
  Speaker 25: spent a few days looking for him following a violent encounter.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: At a barber shop.
• 49:40
  Speaker 25: Security video from that day shows Davis walking back into
• 49:44
  Speaker 25: Square Viz with a gun and threatening the owner, Samuel Wilson.
• 49:48
  Speaker 21: Yes.
• 49:52
  Speaker 25: Wilson says this was all over an issue with Davis's hairline.
• 49:55
  Speaker 25: The barber says he's been doing Davis's hair for a
• 49:58
  Speaker 25: while and never had an issue before.
• 50:00
  Speaker 8: He wasn't a man tin.
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: He had that pistol in his head.
• 50:02
  Speaker 8: He spat me in the head. He choked me out.
• 50:04
  Speaker 8: You got it.
• 50:05
  Speaker 25: In the video you can see Davis forced Wilson to
• 50:07
  Speaker 25: the couch hit him with the gun. Newly obtained arrest
• 50:14
  Speaker 25: forms for Davis show police took him into custody a
• 50:16
  Speaker 25: few days later after a traffic stop. The forty eight
• 50:19
  Speaker 25: year old was booked into jail before appearing in bonb
• 50:21
  Speaker 25: Court over the weekend.
• 50:23
  Speaker 8: Multiple times.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: I did not think he was gonna come around here
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: and come back.
• 50:27
  Speaker 9: I thought we might have fished the cuff, but I
• 50:29
  Speaker 9: didn't think he was gonna come back with a fire arm.
• 50:31
  Speaker 8: I told him, man, have a good date.
• 50:33
  Speaker 25: Davids is facing several charges.
• 50:36
  Speaker 16: The judge said is bond ad about.
• 50:38
  Speaker 25: Thirty five thousand dollars.
• 50:39
  Speaker 16: Has since posted it.
• 50:42
  Speaker 9: First of all, before we continue the story, I want
• 50:44
  Speaker 9: to say, sleuth, all the barbers out there dropping the
• 50:46
  Speaker 9: clues bombs for every bar but that can hear my voice. Stay,
• 50:50
  Speaker 9: barbers are villas in the black community, my brothers, When
• 50:53
  Speaker 9: you really put it in perspective, there aren't too many people.
• 50:55
  Speaker 8: More important to the Black community.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 50:56
  Speaker 9: Some of y'all don't go to church, but you go
• 50:58
  Speaker 9: to a barber shop at least week, all right, So
• 51:00
  Speaker 9: the barber more important than your past.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 51:02
  Speaker 9: Some of y'all see your Bible more than you see
• 51:04
  Speaker 9: your doctor, which is a good thing because.
• 51:06
  Speaker 8: I guess you're healthy.
• 51:07
  Speaker 9: But once again, your barber is more important to you
• 51:09
  Speaker 9: than your doctor. Hell, some folks wouldn't even want to
• 51:12
  Speaker 9: go to the doctor without a haircutting.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 51:14
  Speaker 9: The moral of the story is we're gonna stop acting
• 51:16
  Speaker 9: like barber's aren't a part of our circle of life
• 51:19
  Speaker 9: for me as spiritual leaders, therapists, barber's doctor, dermatologists, personal trainer.
• 51:24
  Speaker 8: Okay, what is the moral of the story.
• 51:25
  Speaker 9: The moral of the story is barber should be given
• 51:27
  Speaker 9: the utmost respect at all times unless, and there is
• 51:31
  Speaker 9: an unless, unless.
• 51:32
  Speaker 8: They are a terrible barber.
• 51:34
  Speaker 9: Okay, no barber deserves violence unless, of course, they are terrible.
• 51:38
  Speaker 9: But even if they are terrible, even if there is
• 51:39
  Speaker 9: a barber malpractice. They don't deserve to get a gun
• 51:42
  Speaker 9: pulled on them, all right. There's levels to violence. Don't
• 51:45
  Speaker 9: like your fade, then ask for a faith, all right.
• 51:47
  Speaker 9: But pulling a gun that's too much, all right. Actually
• 51:50
  Speaker 9: asking for a fist fight our fisticuffs is too much.
• 51:54
  Speaker 8: Okay. You can just say he sucks.
• 51:55
  Speaker 9: That's worse than actually pulling a gun on someone or
• 51:58
  Speaker 9: fighting them. Because nobody wants to be the barber in
• 52:01
  Speaker 9: the shop that nobody goes to. That is one of
• 52:04
  Speaker 9: the most lonely men in the world, you hear me, okay,
• 52:06
  Speaker 9: And they always fat because they have nothing else to
• 52:09
  Speaker 9: do but sit there and eat while everybody else on
• 52:11
  Speaker 9: their feet all day because they got actual clients.
• 52:14
  Speaker 8: All right.
• 52:15
  Speaker 9: Now, for the record, most people wouldn't react to having
• 52:17
  Speaker 9: their headline push back in this way.
• 52:19
  Speaker 8: But you always have to know who you playing with.
• 52:21
  Speaker 9: Darius is a convicted fella, all right, and he is
• 52:24
  Speaker 9: a known violent offender. He had an arm robbery charge
• 52:27
  Speaker 9: in ninety three and ninety eight and burglary with assault
• 52:30
  Speaker 9: in ninety eight. He did prison time from ninety nine
• 52:32
  Speaker 9: to two thousand folk and from two thousand and six
• 52:34
  Speaker 9: to twenty seventeen. So clearly, Darius about all that action. Okay,
• 52:38
  Speaker 9: So anything can set him off. And I don't think
• 52:41
  Speaker 9: people understand what not having a hairline does to some men.
• 52:47
  Speaker 8: It can trigger violence, all right.
• 52:49
  Speaker 9: Some men don't have the head for a baldy, and
• 52:52
  Speaker 9: the thought of them having to get one is infuriating.
• 52:55
  Speaker 8: I thank god he gave.
• 52:56
  Speaker 9: Me the kind of skull that looks cool with a
• 52:58
  Speaker 9: bald Okay, because every everyone can't do it, and they
• 53:01
  Speaker 9: know it.
• 53:01
  Speaker 8: Everybody doesn't want to wear the man unit.
• 53:04
  Speaker 9: Okay, everybody doesn't want to do the painting on hairlines,
• 53:07
  Speaker 9: but they also know how ridiculous they could look with
• 53:10
  Speaker 9: a bald Think about you know how we had to
• 53:13
  Speaker 9: get used to.
• 53:13
  Speaker 8: Seeing Steve Harvey with a baldy.
• 53:16
  Speaker 9: Took some time for us to adjust, right, right, Remember
• 53:19
  Speaker 9: Miguel Army singer, Miguel when he first came out.
• 53:22
  Speaker 8: With a baldi, looked ridiculously.
• 53:25
  Speaker 9: Okay, Lebron James couldn't have a bald Okay, I could
• 53:29
  Speaker 9: tell by his head shape.
• 53:31
  Speaker 8: Yet another reason he will never be Michael Jordan. Okay,
• 53:35
  Speaker 8: more are.
• 53:35
  Speaker 9: Some other people who look ridiculous with a baldy? Jests
• 53:37
  Speaker 9: what do you think? Okay, okay, first of all, I'm
• 53:41
  Speaker 9: talking about all right anyway. I don't know how you've
• 53:46
  Speaker 9: been asking the morrow of the story when the only
• 53:48
  Speaker 9: thing sharper in the Clippers is your temple trim the attitude,
• 53:52
  Speaker 9: not the argument.
• 53:54
  Speaker 8: Okay, please give Darius Davis the sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.
• 54:02
  Speaker 28: Oh oh dad, Yeah.
• 54:17
  Speaker 16: That's crazy. Miguel head, it was crazy, ridiculous.
• 54:20
  Speaker 9: Go back and look at Miguel when he first came
• 54:22
  Speaker 9: out with the ball, and and he did it in
• 54:24
  Speaker 9: the reverse. Usually people start with him. Yeah, didn't go ball.
• 54:29
  Speaker 9: Miguel started off ball. Go back and look y'all. Don't
• 54:32
  Speaker 9: remember Miguel when he first came out, definitely, definitely. You
• 54:35
  Speaker 9: don't remember Miguel when you first came out and he
• 54:37
  Speaker 9: had the ball.
• 54:37
  Speaker 8: At that was different. That's that was That was all
• 54:40
  Speaker 8: I wanted you. Miguel.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: You're playing the.
• 54:43
  Speaker 8: Doing he had hair by doing.
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, nah, that was you.
• 54:49
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that's when he was boll Wow.
• 54:52
  Speaker 16: Yeah, I'm trying to tell you, getting real eggy around here,
• 54:55
  Speaker 16: you know.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: What I'm saying.
• 54:57
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, all right, all right, well thank you for that,
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: Donkey to day, sir.
• 55:03
  Speaker 9: You said one too many damns. We're looking at a man, right,
• 55:05
  Speaker 9: you looked at the man. You looked at Miguel for
• 55:08
  Speaker 9: thirty seconds and said seven damns. He ain't need no
• 55:12
  Speaker 9: seven damns because.
• 55:13
  Speaker 11: There are ones of different pictures. All right, anyway, thank
• 55:15
  Speaker 11: you for that. Donkey to day, sir.
• 55:17
  Speaker 8: Yep, Yes, which.
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: Guy's crazy morning?
• 55:22
  Speaker 11: Everybody is dj Envy Jess hilarious, charlamage the guy. We
• 55:26
  Speaker 11: are the breakfast Club. Now we got Danny on the line.
• 55:29
  Speaker 11: Danny is trying to get back with his axis, his
• 55:32
  Speaker 11: baby mama. It's a co parenting issue.
• 55:33
  Speaker 4: Of course.
• 55:34
  Speaker 11: Jess has a new book that comes out Eightril twenty eight. Yes,
• 55:37
  Speaker 11: and you could pre order it right now, right now?
• 55:39
  Speaker 11: Do we appearance?
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: Danny?
• 55:41
  Speaker 8: What's up?
• 55:42
  Speaker 16: Good morning?
• 55:43
  Speaker 17: What's up?
• 55:44
  Speaker 13: What's going on?
• 55:44
  Speaker 15: Guys?
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: What's up? Brother?
• 55:45
  Speaker 8: What's your question?
• 55:46
  Speaker 12: So?
• 55:47
  Speaker 13: I've been having issue with my baby mama.
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: Was there?
• 55:50
  Speaker 13: I was with her for like six years on and off,
• 55:53
  Speaker 13: break up for decisions. So she split up with me
• 55:57
  Speaker 13: now because she says she's trying to find herself, trying
• 56:00
  Speaker 13: to be happy and all that stuff. All she's really
• 56:02
  Speaker 13: doing is going out posting herself at the club.
• 56:05
  Speaker 17: The gym, and I get it. You know, you gotta
• 56:07
  Speaker 17: do something to be.
• 56:07
  Speaker 13: Happy, but I just know I don't know what to do.
• 56:09
  Speaker 17: I want to get back with it.
• 56:10
  Speaker 13: But we want to get back there.
• 56:11
  Speaker 16: Okay, so y'all not together right now, but you want
• 56:13
  Speaker 16: to get you do want to get back with her,
• 56:16
  Speaker 16: and she is saying to you, she wants to get
• 56:17
  Speaker 16: back with you too, but she needs a little bit
• 56:20
  Speaker 16: of a party animal.
• 56:22
  Speaker 13: She wants to get back right now. She says at
• 56:24
  Speaker 13: the moment, she doesn't want to get back together.
• 56:25
  Speaker 16: She said she doesn't. Yeah, okay, so you can't. Y'all can't.
• 56:30
  Speaker 16: If she's saying that she doesn't want to get back together,
• 56:34
  Speaker 16: what is she blaming that on. She says, she's trying
• 56:36
  Speaker 16: to find herself. You said, because you're going in and out,
• 56:38
  Speaker 16: I can't really hear you, correct, because it's noisy and
• 56:42
  Speaker 16: get back around a little bit. Yeah right, yeah, I
• 56:45
  Speaker 16: can hear you better now. So you said that she's
• 56:48
  Speaker 16: basically trying to find herself. She's trying to be happy
• 56:51
  Speaker 16: by herself.
• 56:51
  Speaker 17: Right, correct?
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: Correct?
• 56:53
  Speaker 16: And from your standpoint, you see it as just her
• 56:56
  Speaker 16: going out partying, not really doing anything with her her life.
• 57:00
  Speaker 16: I guess to better herself, Like you just see her
• 57:02
  Speaker 16: as a party animal, correct.
• 57:03
  Speaker 17: Yeah, Like I'm paying childs for for it. I'm trying
• 57:06
  Speaker 17: to be there as much as I can for my kids.
• 57:08
  Speaker 17: But she doesn't really make it easy for me.
• 57:09
  Speaker 16: How doesn't she make it easy for you? Because now
• 57:12
  Speaker 16: this is a new problem.
• 57:13
  Speaker 17: So, like every time I want to go see them,
• 57:15
  Speaker 17: it's always like, oh, no, I'm doing something or we're
• 57:17
  Speaker 17: not home and stuff like that. And I ask her
• 57:19
  Speaker 17: to send me pictures and call me on FaceTime to
• 57:20
  Speaker 17: see the kids, and she just she kind of blows
• 57:22
  Speaker 17: me off and doesn't even answer me.
• 57:24
  Speaker 16: When's the last time you saw your kids?
• 57:26
  Speaker 17: Well, I just had them last weekend. Obviously when it
• 57:28
  Speaker 17: was my weekend, I get to see them. But okay,
• 57:30
  Speaker 17: this weekend is the last time I saw him.
• 57:32
  Speaker 16: Okay. So y'all have assistants set up where you see
• 57:34
  Speaker 16: the kids every other.
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: Weekend, correct?
• 57:36
  Speaker 16: Okay? And has she ever have you ever missed a weekend.
• 57:39
  Speaker 17: On her account or never missed a weekend?
• 57:42
  Speaker 16: Okay? So what it sounds like is you do want
• 57:45
  Speaker 16: to get back with her, but she is not interested
• 57:47
  Speaker 16: in a relationship with you right now. Yeah, And you're
• 57:52
  Speaker 16: kind of projecting that onto you co parenting with her. Now,
• 57:59
  Speaker 16: she's not obligated to get back with you. Okay, I
• 58:03
  Speaker 16: know it made sure, Yeah, I know it hurts. You
• 58:05
  Speaker 16: know what I'm saying. But it could be what you
• 58:08
  Speaker 16: see her going out in the clubs and all that.
• 58:11
  Speaker 16: That could really be her outlet. Like has she was
• 58:13
  Speaker 16: she liked that before.
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: That's the thing. She wasn't like that.
• 58:16
  Speaker 16: Before, right, So that's the thing, you know, because she
• 58:18
  Speaker 16: was in a relationship and she was focused on being
• 58:20
  Speaker 16: faithful and you know what have you. But you know
• 58:22
  Speaker 16: how old is she?
• 58:23
  Speaker 17: She's twenty six, twenty six?
• 58:25
  Speaker 16: Well okay, yeah, so she's in her twenties. You know,
• 58:29
  Speaker 16: let her go out and let her have fun. If
• 58:30
  Speaker 16: she's not putting your kids in any danger, if she's
• 58:33
  Speaker 16: not putting herself in any danger, you know what I mean,
• 58:36
  Speaker 16: like to be taken away from the kids or anything
• 58:37
  Speaker 16: like that, and she's not, you know that. I think
• 58:41
  Speaker 16: she's fine. I think it's fine. Let her live her life.
• 58:43
  Speaker 16: I just think you're going through the motions of rejection
• 58:48
  Speaker 16: a little bit. She doesn't want to be with you,
• 58:50
  Speaker 16: but you want to be with her. Why did y'all
• 58:53
  Speaker 16: break up? I'm sorry.
• 58:54
  Speaker 17: So basically just because she said she wasn't happy with
• 58:58
  Speaker 17: herself and she felt like we were rooming. I was
• 59:00
  Speaker 17: the one providing. I was working and stuff. And this
• 59:03
  Speaker 17: always happens around the same time of the month, I mean,
• 59:05
  Speaker 17: at the same time of the year, at the six
• 59:07
  Speaker 17: years she's she hasn't been on faith fool. We always
• 59:09
  Speaker 17: break up because of you know, she wants to go
• 59:11
  Speaker 17: through herself.
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: But then she.
• 59:13
  Speaker 17: Comes crying back, and you know, I think he back
• 59:15
  Speaker 17: because I want to be with my family.
• 59:16
  Speaker 7: Mm.
• 59:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 59:18
  Speaker 16: It just sounds like, you know, she got some growing
• 59:21
  Speaker 16: up to do, you know, and you may have some
• 59:22
  Speaker 16: growing up to do too, because I know you're not
• 59:24
  Speaker 16: perfect either, you know. Yeah, absolutely, I think how many
• 59:29
  Speaker 16: kids y'all got to Yeah, I think she's just going
• 59:32
  Speaker 16: through a phase right now. Let her do that. Like
• 59:35
  Speaker 16: you said, this happens every every year or whatever. That
• 59:38
  Speaker 16: you take her back. It's no infidelity, nothing there. It's
• 59:42
  Speaker 16: just y'all got to sit down and come to a
• 59:44
  Speaker 16: resolve about it, you know, because obviously the kids are okay.
• 59:47
  Speaker 16: It sounds like the kids are okay. Y'all just need
• 59:50
  Speaker 16: to figure out how to move forward amicably. Like two
• 59:54
  Speaker 16: adults that's willing to raise the children together with no drama,
• 59:57
  Speaker 16: you know, And you can't do that if you feel
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 16: like she's playing games with your heart because she wants
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 16: you sometimes and sometimes she don't. And she can't do
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 16: that if you are pressuring her to be in a
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 16: relationship with her, you know what I'm saying. So y'all
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 16: just gotta sit down and figure that out. But y'all
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 16: both are young. Twenty six is not old at all,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 16: y'all is y'all got a few more years until y'all
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 16: actually do grow all the way up. But this is
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 16: not the worst. It's not the worst. You know, she
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 16: just don't want you right now. Gang, I'm sorry.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 17: No, I mean, at this point, I've accepted it. I
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 17: gotta do myself and just be there for my kids
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 17: as much as I can.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 16: Absolutely, that's what you gotta do. And if she's not
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 16: keeping them from you, I mean a little face timing
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 16: and she missing it or whatever, is she not responding,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 16: she don't send you pictures. That's okay to you. It's
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 16: all right. You know, you never missed a weekend. Keep
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 16: on doing what you're doing. She may try to come back,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 16: but you got to put those boundaries in place too.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 16: You need boundaries in a place too, Like, Look, you're
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 16: not gonna keep playing with me until you really figure
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 16: out if this is what you want. You know, you
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 16: do the work on yourself. You come back if I'm
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 16: still here, because it's not gonna I'm not gonna be
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 16: here waiting like your doormat. You know what I'm saying, Like,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 16: you really got to implement that into the conversations without
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 16: being rude. You know.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, good luck, bro, good luck. I appreciate it.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 8: Hello.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: Who's this?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 22: Pay this chantel from Columbia, South Carolina?
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 4: Hey, what's up there?
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 18: Girl?
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 16: How are you?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 9: Hi?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: Dress? I love you?
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 22: And da Charlamagne?
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 11: What's the.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 9: Girl?
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 4: What's your question for?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: Jess?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 22: Okay, so it's not the usual co parenting situation because
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 22: i'must think of mom four kids. But baby Daddy's already
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 22: got it through my head that you do have a
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 22: choice of taking care of kids or not. So okay,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 22: now I'm with my family, you know, sometimes I live
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 22: in my own place. Sometimes fall short has to move
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 22: back in with my my grandma and my mom. So
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 22: when I go back home, I'm having an issue kind
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 22: of coparing with my village. I understand I have to
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 22: respect my mom and my grandma because they raised me
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 22: and they know more than I do. But when it
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 22: comes to my kids, yes, that's right, these are my kids.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 22: If I tell my daughter no, then she run to
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 22: my mama or my grandma and they say, yeah, I'm
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 22: looking like, what the world do I not mad her?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 15: Do?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 22: My My discipline not matter. I'm just getting a little.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 16: In my house right right, b Yeah, but these my kids,
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 16: I cared them for not much.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 22: I trying to raise them, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 22: But they always say that their way is better because
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 22: they're older than me.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 14: They know me.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 22: But I don't want to raise my kids like how
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 22: I was raised. Like my mama was kind of strict,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 22: so I'm kind of more lenient. Like I don't really
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 22: whoop my kids and nothing like that. But I know
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 22: when I was coming up, my mama, she when she
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 22: got mad or I did something wrong.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 7: She throw shoes at me or whatever.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 22: But she's not doing that too my kids.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 16: Yeah, you know, it's different. It's different. When I was younger,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 16: it was the same way. I ain't never get no
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 16: damn shoot thrown at me. But you know my parents,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 16: they weren't that abusive. But no, my dad never ever
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 16: laid a finger on me. And my mom it was
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 16: a certain and sternness in her voice that would just
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 16: make me like get my ex together real quick, like
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 16: I would straighten up and get it together. But it
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 16: was a different level of discipline when I was younger,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 16: as opposed to now. My mom let my daughter run
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 16: wild even when I had my son. He's thirteen, am,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 16: But when he was a baby, my mother let him
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 16: get away with things that I could have never gotten
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 16: away with as a kid. So all right, so that's
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 16: one thing there. Okay, But you're saying she's more lenient,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 16: Your mom and your grandmother are more lenient with your babies.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 22: Yeah, well all four of them. Like well I only
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 22: got a five months, but even with my two year old,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 22: like he want to eat ice cream all day and
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 22: I say no, They'll give it to him. So I'm
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 22: trying to figure out how I can cope and better
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 22: with my village without beingful to my grandma and my mama.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 16: Right, Sore, It's no way that you can do that,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 16: especially if they're not receptive to just casual conversation to
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 16: you just just a directive. If they don't take you
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 16: serious and they can't respect you as a mother, then yes,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 16: there's no way that you can say it without force.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 16: You know what I'm saying, There's no way. You know, Now,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 16: listen real quick. You live with them or they live
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 16: with you.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 22: I live with them like it's my mama house, my grandma.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 22: She's older. So you know, when you get older, you
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 22: move back in with your kids so they can help
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 22: take care of you whatever. But I have fallen. I
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 22: got laid off my goods and I got four kids,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 22: so I'm enterprises of trying to find a new job
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 22: so I can get back on my feet again. So
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 22: now I live with them with my kids. So you
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 22: try to just.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 16: Sit down and talk to them, though, have you ever
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 16: tried to just sit at mom and Grandma? I love
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 16: y'all to death, yes I do, but these are my kids,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 16: and I want my kids to be raised a certain way,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 16: like how I want to raise them. I don't want
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 16: to tell them what you just told me. I don't
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 16: want to raise my kids the way y'all raise me.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 16: And I'm not trying to be disrespectful, but we're living
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 16: in different times now. Were living in different days I
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 16: want and and because that's what they're gonna try to
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 16: throw at you. I know, and I know they are
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 16: because you said they used to throw shoes and you listen,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 16: I know they're gonna come at.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 8: You with this.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 16: Well, if the father was in the guy damn life,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 16: then we wouldn't have to take care of your four children.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 16: They're gonna say that.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 22: I mean they are, but I mean they have a choice,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 22: like one live in a different state, the other in
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 22: the city, guy living.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 16: But and you know your grandmother is going to say,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 16: we got a choice too, and we can kick your
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 16: ass out or you're gonna let us raise these kids
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 16: the only way we know and the way we want to.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 16: You know what I'm saying, because.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 4: Later in somebody house is in sane.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 16: Yeah, And although I do understand, I do.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 11: Understand, But you in your mama house, and your mama
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 11: got a way of raising them kids, and there's nothing
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 11: you could do it.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 4: Like I say all the time, if.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 7: You don't everything, it don't matter.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 4: You're in their house. That's you in their house.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 16: That's their house, and you're paying for everything because it
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 16: is five five of y'all, it's four kids. Four kids,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 16: got FIDS, and her mother and her grandma. That's her village,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 16: her take care of. Yeah, yeah, native village leaders unfortunately,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 16: so you know they they leading that village. Even though
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 16: you are paying to stay there, You're you're paying for everything.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 16: You're paying your way, you're paying the way of you
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 16: and your full kids. You know that's that's a lot.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 16: But I will encourage you and tell you that you
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 16: are you're on the right thinking path and you are
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 16: right where you say. Guys, don't they do have a choice.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 16: We don't. They do have a choice, and sometimes that
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 16: is not right, but they do have a choice. And
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 16: whether or not they're gonna step up and be your father,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 16: that's just what it is. But yeah, you got to
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 16: get on your feet and get out of their home.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 4: Just thing, what do you want? What's her name?
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 17: Shan?
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 4: Tell one thing? Want condoms absolutely.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 22: Side after that sports one because.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 16: No girl get them clipped and burned because the sides
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 16: come loose, they come loose.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 22: So well, Jesff, I have taught to you before and
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 22: you told me to hit you up your DM for
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 22: a follow up. But this is a different part.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 7: But yeah, I don't want to say that.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 22: I'm still with the dude though unfortunately you.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 16: Would a dude. You got four kids and you live
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 16: with your mother and your grandmother, and you ain't living
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 16: with the.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 22: Dude because the last time you told me to let
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 22: him go, So why you didn't because he my baby
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 22: father and I love him. Everybody don't need to break up.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 22: Some people need to work through it. Look at Ivy
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 22: and Charlote Magne. I want to have long lasting marriages
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 22: like them. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 7: But if I give up on everybody, then.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 22: Who I'm gonna have?
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 16: They with your mother and your grandmother is dealing with
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 16: the girl you don't get off my damn phone. That's
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 16: why some people you can.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: I love you pre ordered the book Condoms. Condoms Condoms.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 16: God damn, that is crazy.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 11: You're gonna bring four kids into my house and then
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 11: tell me how I'm gonna help you raise them?
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 16: Gives and you still with this and you just said
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 16: that he don't do nothing for these kids and baby
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 16: daddy's got a choice, and you're still shacking up with
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 16: the news. That is crazy. That's why she need a
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 16: If she was I would throw a damn she at it.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 16: That's why my mother and my grandmother Trider like that.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 11: All right, just fix my mess eight hundred five five
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 11: one oh five, And don't be bringing me and Charlotte
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 11: into your mess now, don't people, don't don't people, I'm
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 11: trying to time, don't be bringing that about.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 16: But look, even when y'all, y'all was always taking care
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 16: of y'all damn kids, right, so don't, yeah, don't bring them.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 11: Don't bring me into your mess. Lloyd in the middle
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 11: of just fix my mess. And now we're doing some
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 11: co parents of questions. Don't forget her new book comes
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• 1:08:27
  Speaker 16: Hello?
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 3: Who's this?
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 7: Mariyah?
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: Mariyah Mariah? What's your question for Jess?
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 16: Good morning?
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 12: Good morning, Jess, Good morning, charlad morning. My question for
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 12: Jess is how do I coparent with with the father
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 12: of my child without coming off me or greed when
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 12: he wants to have small talk when it's not about
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 12: our child.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: M Okay, you still want them cheeks?
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, So what is the small What is the
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 16: small talk consists? Of like, what is it, mama talk?
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 16: Ain't that bad? Unless arte we don't like each other.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 12: It's not that I don't like him, but it's like,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 12: let's steak to the program. Like the program is us
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 12: co parenting and doing the best was saying for our child.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 16: You just want to strictly co parent. You don't want
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 16: no small talk. You don't even want him to say, oh,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 16: you look nice today, but you didn't even want to say.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 16: You don't want him to say, how's your mother? You
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 16: want him to say nothing like that.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 12: It is just I want to say none of that.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 12: Just it annoys so bad.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 16: What did he do?
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 12: And it's like he didn't do nothing. It's just like
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 12: like I don't know. I'm just don't I don't have time.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 12: I don't care for the small dog. I don't have
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 12: time and I don't care for it.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 16: I got you, I got you, but you it's something
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 16: you ain't telling me. It's that you say, I ain't
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 16: do nothing but this man, Oh my god, was he
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 16: a one night staying that that ended up?
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  Speaker 12: Okay? I wouldn't say that here one night stand? But
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 12: I liked him. We like each other. When I end
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 12: up getting pregnant I got pregnant in kind of a
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 12: tough time. My grandmother was like on the verge of
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 12: passing away. She passed in the passing away while I
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 12: was slugging.
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  Speaker 16: I'm sorry about that.
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  Speaker 12: Long story short. He didn't stick around like he didn't
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  Speaker 12: like like the trades. He just was like, not, I.
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  Speaker 16: Just experience with pregnancy. You you didn't feel.
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  Speaker 12: Like he wasn't there.
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, like you didn't have anybody to go through.
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  Speaker 12: That will now right, turn out he got somebody pregnant
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  Speaker 12: too much before.
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  Speaker 22: He got me stugging.
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  Speaker 16: Okay, okay, So it was just like.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah, buh, I don't I don't care.
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  Speaker 16: I get it. So that's why I say, you can't
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  Speaker 16: be telling me he ain't do nothing. And yes, you
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 16: are still hurt from how how is the baby?
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 12: She's one year ago? She's trying one on January twenty second, Oh.
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  Speaker 16: Little sticky booty, smooty booty. Okay, yes, well have you
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 16: been lated birthday, little mama. But yeah, so that's that's
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 16: what it was. I knew you was lying.
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  Speaker 8: Girl.
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  Speaker 16: You don't want to talk to that man because that
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  Speaker 16: man you got that I'm lying.
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  Speaker 12: I'm just saying like I don't care for like, You'll
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 12: be like, yeah, I'm doing good, though I'm doing good,
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  Speaker 12: and I'd be like, well, I was like, are you
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 12: am I supposed to ask you? How are you doing?
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 12: You were right? He was like, I mean it would
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 12: be nice, but I'm.
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  Speaker 16: Like and then, and then, what you want to say
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 16: is it would have been nice if you were with
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 16: me for that nine months I carried your daughter, but
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 16: you weren't right and I needed you. Not only was
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 16: I pregnant with your child because I can't get pregnant
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 16: by myself, I was losing my grandmother who ended up
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 16: passing away while I was pregnant, so I was very hormonal.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 16: I was stressed out, I was depressed, I was sad,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 16: and my pregnancy was not happy at all. My pregnancy
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 16: was not easy at all.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 12: Right, Well, I told him that though I let him know,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 12: like I didn't, my pregnancy was not what I it
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 12: to be, nothing like I wanted it to be.
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, And what did he say when you told him that?
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 12: He didn't say nothing, not.
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  Speaker 16: Even an apology, not even trying to. You know, because
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 16: he can't turn back the hands of time. You know,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 16: you can't go backward. But the only thing you can
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 16: do is is different actions going forward and show that
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 16: like he needs to take accountability. He hasn't taken accountability,
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 16: is what you're saying.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 12: Yes, say like I understand he's trying to do better.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 12: That's what he says.
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  Speaker 22: I'm trying.
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  Speaker 12: I'm trying to do better.
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  Speaker 16: You're just still hurt from that. You're just still hurt.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 12: From It's just like, I just want my child to
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 12: I grew up without a father. Yeah, I don't want
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 12: her to pull that void that I grew up feeling. Yeah,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 12: it looks like I'm done with the like the whole
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 12: little flooterfly thing, and it's over. Like that's been over.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 22: Like when I had.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 12: Her and I was like when I was crazy almost
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 12: by myself the whole nine much and I had her
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 12: and I was letting at hospital by myself for those
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 12: three days.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 16: Yes, oh my god, you were even in the hospital
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 16: by yourself the whole three days when you So he didn't.
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  Speaker 12: He came that first day. Yeah, he came that first
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 12: day when I had her, but he didn't think.
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, that's what it is. Yeah, it's I get it.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 16: It's your holding on to that and it's not It
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 16: hasn't even been that long ago. Your baby, y'all baby
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 16: just turn one, So I totally do understand it. There's
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 16: nothing wrong with keeping it short because you can't control
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 16: with him. You can't control him trying to keep having
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 16: small chalk. You can only control yourself. Do not respond
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 16: unless it's only about the child. But you can't make
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 16: him only speak to you about y'all baby girl, that's
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 16: what it is. You just have to be on your
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 16: big your big ignore game. You gotta that's it. You
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 16: gotta act like you don't see those text messages. You
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 16: can't block him because he still is an active father,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 16: am I right? Yeah, so that's all he needs to be. That,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 16: that's all he needs to be for you. Just just
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 16: don't respond unless it's about your child and hopefully you're
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 16: able to let that hurt go later. You know what
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 16: I'm saying, because it is still very recent. It is
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 16: very recent, and I would be crazy to tell you
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 16: to get over there right now that if you can't
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 16: do that, and that's hurt. You know, you lost, you
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 16: lost your feet and too. So yeah, just just still
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 16: allow for him to being your daughter's life, being your
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 16: daughter's life, being a dad. But you don't have you
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 16: don't have to respond to anything else that he says.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 16: Even if he calls you, you don't have to respond
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 16: to anything else unless it is about your child, and
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 16: that's it. Don't even don't act like.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 12: Half of the time, I don't come off me or wound.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 12: So I'm like, no, no, not getting it that. I
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 12: literally just wanted. I just want to be cordial.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 22: But that's the thing.
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  Speaker 16: You don't have to be rude about it. You don't
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 16: have to be rooted. You can just say respectfully that
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 16: that's we're not going there.
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  Speaker 8: Yep.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 16: So for baby Angelica, I mean, I know it's not
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 16: your daughter name, but you know, just for baby Angelica,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 16: like just let's just keep it here. Amaya for a Maya.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 16: Yes we can talk about Amaya all things a Maya,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 16: but respectfully, I have nothing else to say. Thank you,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 16: enjoy your day. It's nothing wrong with just being straight
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 16: to the point.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 4: Boom.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 16: He'll get it. He'll eventually fall off of that, and
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 16: if you don't, that's on him. You know, it's okay,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 16: you can you can only can throw you boo. It's
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 16: all right, you're right, yeah, no problem, I command that's
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  Speaker 16: a lot, all.
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• 1:15:50
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