Latest / Recoded / Choosing Joy Over the Grind: Michelle's Next-Level Identity
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- 0:00SPEAKER_01: So welcome to the Recoded podcast.
- 0:04SPEAKER_01: Now today's conversation is a little bit different.
- 0:07SPEAKER_01: I'm bringing on one of my beautiful, beautiful former clients, Michelle.
- 0:13SPEAKER_01: Now Michelle has many, many hats.
- 0:16SPEAKER_01: She's an anagic distributor.
- 0:18SPEAKER_01: She's a businesswoman.
- 0:20SPEAKER_01: She's a life coach. She's a mom.
- 0:22SPEAKER_01: She's a nana.
- 0:24SPEAKER_01: And most of all, she's just an incredible, beautiful,
- 0:28SPEAKER_01: heart-centered woman doing so much work with so many amazing people around
- 0:33SPEAKER_01: the world. So Michelle, thank you so much for coming on today, my love.
- 0:38SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for having me on and such a beautiful opening for me. Thank you.
- 0:43SPEAKER_00: I appreciate that.
- 0:45SPEAKER_01: Oh, you're so, so welcome.
- 0:46SPEAKER_01: You deserve it all.
- 0:47SPEAKER_01: And I'm really excited to unpack the journey we went on together.
- 0:52SPEAKER_01: And I know it was almost like a year ago that we worked together one-on-one.
- 0:58SPEAKER_01: The time is really flowing.
- 1:01SPEAKER_00: Yes, isn't it?
- 1:03SPEAKER_01: And we're just going to like be unpacking that journey, seeing how it unfolded.
- 1:08SPEAKER_01: I know you've had time to reflect on what life was like back
- 1:12SPEAKER_01: then and how things shifted internally And, yeah,
- 1:15SPEAKER_01: I'm really excited for everyone to hear about your transformation,
- 1:21SPEAKER_01: not just externally, but, of course, internally, because this sort of work,
- 1:26SPEAKER_01: this subconscious reprogramming, it's all about becoming a new identity,
- 1:31SPEAKER_01: becoming the woman you always envisioned outside of the external results, like,
- 1:37SPEAKER_01: as we mentioned before, which is life-changing, right?
- 1:41SPEAKER_01: Certainly is. Yeah.
- 1:43SPEAKER_00: Certainly is. Beautiful.
- 1:45SPEAKER_01: So, I mean, you're a life coach, you have an object.
- 1:50SPEAKER_01: Tell us a little bit about your business, who you help specifically.
- 1:53SPEAKER_01: I'd love for the audience to hear about that.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: Well, I really want to support women that are feeling stuck where they are in their life.
- 2:05SPEAKER_00: They are looking towards the future with maybe a lack of hope, a lack of joy.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 2:14SPEAKER_00: Not even knowing whether they're going to be able to do things that they want to do in life.
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: So, you know, I think when you get into your 50s,
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: you start to realize how less of time you have to do the things that you want to do
- 2:28SPEAKER_00: in life.
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: And I had found that I had lost my joy.
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: I was on this rat wheel of life.
- 2:35SPEAKER_00: You know, I did all the degrees.
- 2:37SPEAKER_00: I got all the qualifications.
- 2:39SPEAKER_00: Worked Working full-time in high-level corporate roles while raising four children.
- 2:46SPEAKER_00: This is the wheel of life that I was on.
- 2:50SPEAKER_00: And I had that blessing moment where I was stuck down
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: from my job because of a health choice.
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: And the whole world just shifted and pivoted.
- 3:03SPEAKER_00: And that's when I realized that as women,
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: It's really powerful to have more than one option of income as security.
- 3:13SPEAKER_00: And I want to share with women that that's possible,
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: but to do it in a way that aligns with who you are.
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: It has to be an energetic exchange when you are stepping into anything that you do.
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: And that's what I really love about this online business that I'm doing
- 3:32SPEAKER_00: with Enagic is that it is about health.
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: It is about wealth.
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: It is about impact.
- 3:38SPEAKER_00: And it really aligns with everything that fills my soul up.
- 3:42SPEAKER_00: And so being able to share
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: that with other women is – it's actually – It fills my heart with joy
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: when I see other people go, there's a different way.
- 3:53SPEAKER_00: And, you know, I can do life differently.
- 3:57SPEAKER_00: It doesn't have to be the grind, the exhaustion, all that.
- 4:01SPEAKER_01: Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I love that. I love that.
- 4:05SPEAKER_01: And can so relate to having multiple streams of income.
- 4:10SPEAKER_01: It's so important because we never know.
- 4:15SPEAKER_01: What's going to happen? Yeah.
- 4:17SPEAKER_01: And I know having multiple income streams, like back in 2020, that was a lifesaver for me.
- 4:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah. And I didn't.
- 4:25SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah. Yeah. I didn't.
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: I had one.
- 4:31SPEAKER_01: Yeah. Wow. Yeah.
- 4:33SPEAKER_01: So I absolutely love that. I love that.
- 4:35SPEAKER_01: How you're supporting women.
- 4:37SPEAKER_01: It's absolutely beautiful.
- 4:39SPEAKER_01: And what like, I mean, I think you kind of covered, right?
- 4:43SPEAKER_01: Like what inspired you to start this is to get that secondary income stream
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: and then realizing that you could support other women to do the same.
- 4:53SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: And the other thing I think that, you know,
- 4:56SPEAKER_00: what got me started was that I've always been on capped income and I got to a point
- 5:02SPEAKER_00: within my career that I couldn't really move And if I did,
- 5:08SPEAKER_00: it was going to put more stress on my life,
- 5:11SPEAKER_00: take more time away from the things that gave me joy,
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: which was my life coaching and my Reiki healing and my family and travel.
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: And I just saw the stress levels that were going to impact on my mind,
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: my body, my spirit.
- 5:29SPEAKER_00: And so I sort of stayed capped and I couldn't move.
- 5:33SPEAKER_00: Any more forward without that sacrifice
- 5:38SPEAKER_00: where when I saw this and I saw
- 5:40SPEAKER_00: the uncapped income and the amount of opportunity that was
- 5:46SPEAKER_00: within the business model, it was just a no -brainer.
- 5:49SPEAKER_00: I just went, I really have to do this. I love that. Yeah.
- 5:54SPEAKER_01: I love it. It's so, so beautiful. Beautiful. All right. Beautiful.
- 5:58SPEAKER_01: I absolutely love that. I love your heart. I love your vision.
- 6:01SPEAKER_01: I love what you're doing and what you're here to do.
- 6:04SPEAKER_01: It's such an important thing.
- 6:06SPEAKER_01: And so many women need what you have.
- 6:10SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
- 6:11SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
- 6:13SPEAKER_01: And I'd love to go back to now, like before we started working together a year ago.
- 6:19SPEAKER_01: Now, Of course, you did my one-on-one program, which is different to the quantum shift.
- 6:24SPEAKER_01: We did deep one-on-one timeline therapy together and we can talk about that, of course.
- 6:30SPEAKER_01: But what was life and your business like before we started working together?
- 6:37SPEAKER_01: Knowing that life and business and wealth and relationships, it's all relative.
- 6:43SPEAKER_01: It's all connected.
- 6:44SPEAKER_01: So what was happening for you back then?
- 6:48SPEAKER_00: Oh, look, I had a lot of blocks.
- 6:50SPEAKER_00: I had a lot of energetic blocks.
- 6:53SPEAKER_00: And it's interesting because being a Reiki master,
- 6:58SPEAKER_00: a life coach, we...
- 7:01SPEAKER_00: Tend to support others within their journey, but we can't do it alone.
- 7:07SPEAKER_00: We need to tap into other experts
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: in that field to support us to tap in,
- 7:15SPEAKER_00: to really unpack stuff because it's very easy to block ourselves.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: It's very easy to go, oh, no, no, that's okay.
- 7:22SPEAKER_00: And for me, I knew there were Energetic blocks, I knew there was mind blocks,
- 7:30SPEAKER_00: stuff that had, even though I thought I'd done a lot of the work,
- 7:34SPEAKER_00: it was still there and it would come up and it would come up
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: and it would make me self-doubt myself.
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: It would make me question my abilities.
- 7:48SPEAKER_00: Was I good enough?
- 7:49SPEAKER_00: The fear of judgment, putting myself out onto social media, speaking my truth.
- 7:56SPEAKER_00: What would people think?
- 7:57SPEAKER_00: There was a lot of that sort of stuff going on.
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: And I knew that it was buried deep within.
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: And I knew that myself, even with the work that I was doing, the mindset work,
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: It wasn't enough for me to shift it and I needed support and that's
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: where I reached out to you, Sheree, to go, hey, I need this one-on-one.
- 8:18SPEAKER_00: The group work was amazing and fantastic but that next level one-on-one was
- 8:22SPEAKER_00: so important for me to be able to really dig deep and unpack that to be able
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: to move forward.
- 8:30SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I love that. I love that.
- 8:32SPEAKER_01: And so many women that I chat to, they've done mindset work before.
- 8:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 8:39SPEAKER_01: Much like I had years ago, right?
- 8:41SPEAKER_01: I'd done the journaling, the mindset courses,
- 8:44SPEAKER_01: the Tony Robbins events, everything like that.
- 8:48SPEAKER_01: Even invested in like 20K masterminds to rewire my beliefs,
- 8:52SPEAKER_01: but it still didn't quite shift the needle for me.
- 8:57SPEAKER_01: So like what sort of work had you done before we got into the timeline therapy?
- 9:02SPEAKER_00: Oh, what hadn't I done? Yeah.
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: I had done a lot.
- 9:08SPEAKER_00: I was a Reiki master, Seishem master, Karuna master.
- 9:13SPEAKER_00: I'd done life coaching.
- 9:15SPEAKER_00: I had trained in women's circles.
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: You know, I'd done a lot of different things.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: Modalities to work through that and to unpack that as well.
- 9:31SPEAKER_00: And, you know, if there was any courses that were on, I was there trying to learn.
- 9:37SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 9:37SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 9:39SPEAKER_01: I can definitely resonate with the line of if there were any courses, I was there to learn.
- 9:44SPEAKER_01: Like, I was the same.
- 9:46SPEAKER_01: I was like a serial course enroller.
- 9:50SPEAKER_01: Always rolling into the next thing, the next thing.
- 9:53SPEAKER_01: But it wasn't quite shifting anything for me.
- 9:56SPEAKER_01: I'd get a bit of a motivational high and then it was like 10 steps backwards
- 10:02SPEAKER_01: a few weeks ago with the, similar to you, the self-doubt and the things coming up.
- 10:08SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 10:09SPEAKER_01: I love that. I love that.
- 10:10SPEAKER_01: And I know you mentioned that you knew you had like energetic blocks
- 10:16SPEAKER_01: and mindset blocks and And you felt a bit of this self-doubt, but like,
- 10:21SPEAKER_01: did you know exactly what the blocks were?
- 10:24SPEAKER_01: Because I find this so interesting because so many women are like,
- 10:27SPEAKER_01: I know there's a block, I just don't know what.
- 10:30SPEAKER_01: So did you know the specifics?
- 10:32SPEAKER_01: Like, could you hear yourself saying things to yourself?
- 10:35SPEAKER_01: Like, like I'm not good enough.
- 10:37SPEAKER_01: I mean, you shared I'm not good enough, but other ones like that.
- 10:41SPEAKER_00: Yeah, look, I certainly did, but there was,
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: When we went through the timeline therapy,
- 10:47SPEAKER_00: there was stuff that come up that I actually didn't realise
- 10:50SPEAKER_00: that I had actually suppressed and stored and locked away.
- 10:56SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, I knew those messages.
- 11:00SPEAKER_00: I thought that I could work through them, but they were there.
- 11:06SPEAKER_00: They were there.
- 11:07SPEAKER_00: And, you know, like sometimes I'd go to speak and I could feel it in my throat,
- 11:11SPEAKER_00: my throat chuckle, and I'd be like, oh, oh, you know, that whole judgment.
- 11:16SPEAKER_00: Or I'd go to post something and I'd look at it and go, oh, no, no, no.
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: No, no, I'm not going to post that.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: Well, now it's so different.
- 11:25SPEAKER_00: I post stuff and I'm really comfortable.
- 11:28SPEAKER_00: I've seen that whole shift in my confidence
- 11:32SPEAKER_00: and my belief in my voice, my message,
- 11:36SPEAKER_00: who I am, and those fears have shifted.
- 11:40SPEAKER_00: But, yeah, I did know those,
- 11:44SPEAKER_00: as you said, you know, not feeling good enough,
- 11:48SPEAKER_00: being judged, my self-worth.
- 11:52SPEAKER_00: We've been putting that in other people's hands.
- 11:56SPEAKER_00: You know, if we go, oh, no, no, I don't.
- 11:58SPEAKER_00: But we quite often, we do, we do.
- 12:02SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 12:03SPEAKER_01: And I absolutely love that you said that because I'm not worthy and lack
- 12:08SPEAKER_01: of self-worth is like 90% of the time doing this work for so many years
- 12:15SPEAKER_01: and the deep mindset work the last five, but of course been online for 14 years.
- 12:21SPEAKER_01: Is like lack of self-worth and I'm not worthy.
- 12:23SPEAKER_01: A lot of women don't see that playing out.
- 12:26SPEAKER_01: They don't hear themselves telling themselves that.
- 12:29SPEAKER_01: They don't notice that pattern.
- 12:32SPEAKER_01: But when we get into the coaching process,
- 12:34SPEAKER_01: whether it's like a discovery call or we start the coaching itself,
- 12:40SPEAKER_01: it's so fast that they're always so surprised when that comes out of their mouth.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: Like I'm not worthy.
- 12:47SPEAKER_01: So I love that you shared that because, yeah,
- 12:50SPEAKER_01: that is absolutely one of the most non-recognized patterns because it's
- 12:55SPEAKER_01: so deep underneath the surface.
- 13:00SPEAKER_00: And when it comes up, I felt that gut punch.
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: I felt it physically.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 13:06SPEAKER_00: So it wasn't just speaking that with you.
- 13:09SPEAKER_00: I could feel it within me.
- 13:12SPEAKER_00: It was like, oh, okay.
- 13:16SPEAKER_00: And those emotions would just come up and I'd be like,
- 13:20SPEAKER_00: I don't know if you can remember where the hell that comes from. That was big.
- 13:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 13:27SPEAKER_01: Yeah, absolutely.
- 13:29SPEAKER_01: Because I do remember.
- 13:30SPEAKER_01: And when you're so like in your body and you're so like self-conscious
- 13:35SPEAKER_01: and self-aware, it's easy to tap into the feelings.
- 13:40SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 13:41SPEAKER_01: Negative emotions, limiting beliefs, they do cause stress, pain, blockages in the body.
- 13:47SPEAKER_01: So it's so normal, like you were feeling in each session.
- 13:52SPEAKER_01: And yeah, I do remember that session in particular, you can feel it even more.
- 13:56SPEAKER_01: You feel it come up and you feel it release.
- 13:59SPEAKER_01: Like finally there's this, what would you call it, like space in your body.
- 14:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: And it's so interesting how when we hold this energy and...
- 14:12SPEAKER_00: We know the word dis-ease,
- 14:14SPEAKER_00: dis-ease in our body and how it causes illness within your body.
- 14:20SPEAKER_00: And we store it for so long that we don't even realise it.
- 14:26SPEAKER_00: And I can reflect now on some of the elements that I had was because of that stored,
- 14:33SPEAKER_00: suppressed energy, belief systems, thought patterns, guilt.
- 14:40SPEAKER_00: All, you know, grief, loss, all those different things of not good enough was stored
- 14:46SPEAKER_00: and my body was holding on to it and it was not allowing me
- 14:49SPEAKER_00: to be my full healthy self.
- 14:53SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 14:55SPEAKER_01: Yeah. I love that. That's a beautiful, Sheree. Absolutely love that.
- 14:58SPEAKER_00: Because, yeah, it does this kind of work.
- 15:01SPEAKER_01: A lot of people...
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: Okay. Yeah, we're going to release the lifts and yeah, cool.
- 15:07SPEAKER_01: I'm going to feel more confident.
- 15:09SPEAKER_01: Um, I'm gonna show up more.
- 15:11SPEAKER_01: Maybe I'll make some more money, whatever that is. Right?
- 15:15SPEAKER_01: But it's so much more than that.
- 15:17SPEAKER_01: And I love that you share that and I love to speak to this.
- 15:20SPEAKER_01: It's about the inner confidence, The inner feeling,
- 15:24SPEAKER_01: The inner world shifts So dramatically Because especially what we did In the space
- 15:31SPEAKER_01: with you one -on -one Maybe this will help give the audience a bit
- 15:34SPEAKER_01: of like context is we went through Michelle's full detailed personal history
- 15:42SPEAKER_01: and we tagged every significant emotional event from birth to now that still had
- 15:47SPEAKER_01: a charge. It still had a negative feeling on it.
- 15:51SPEAKER_01: And from those events, we got every single negative emotion and every single limiting belief.
- 15:57SPEAKER_01: And that's why the transformation is so huge because we're working together
- 16:03SPEAKER_01: On your full detailed history.
- 16:06SPEAKER_01: But of course, in the session, sometimes you can go back to past life,
- 16:10SPEAKER_01: past generation, and even in the womb.
- 16:15SPEAKER_01: Which is just incredible.
- 16:17SPEAKER_01: We're working on multiple lifetimes, which is insane.
- 16:20SPEAKER_01: And I love that you shared that memories came up that you didn't even remember.
- 16:26SPEAKER_01: Because that happens so often too.
- 16:29SPEAKER_01: Sometimes women can come to me and they have,
- 16:32SPEAKER_01: And so I love that you mentioned some events
- 16:38SPEAKER_01: came up
- 16:40SPEAKER_01: that you
- 16:45SPEAKER_01: didn't remember
- 16:52SPEAKER_01: And so I love that you mentioned some events came up that you didn't remember
- 16:59SPEAKER_01: Because that's how it works when we start having the conversations.
- 17:04SPEAKER_00: Yeah. Yeah.
- 17:05SPEAKER_01: I love that.
- 17:06SPEAKER_00: And sometimes when we're blocked, you know,
- 17:09SPEAKER_00: that they were like sort of blank areas within my lifespan
- 17:14SPEAKER_00: that I hadn't even realized that I'd actually locked down and blocked.
- 17:19SPEAKER_00: And that was really surprising when they come up.
- 17:21SPEAKER_00: And even that past life, as you said, when...
- 17:24SPEAKER_00: You know, you'd ask me that question and was like, it's not even this lifetime.
- 17:29SPEAKER_00: I've carried this with me.
- 17:33SPEAKER_00: And it's embedded so strongly that I didn't even realise it was there until we did the work.
- 17:39SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
- 17:40SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because the conscious brain doesn't think,
- 17:44SPEAKER_01: like people listening now are probably like, no, there's nothing in my past life,
- 17:48SPEAKER_01: past generation or in the room
- 17:49SPEAKER_01: that's not possible.
- 17:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 17:52SPEAKER_01: And yeah, that's why we do this process.
- 17:55SPEAKER_01: That's when you're speaking to your subconscious, the subconscious always knows the answers.
- 18:01SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 18:03SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I love that you were able to go back to those past lifetimes and heal
- 18:10SPEAKER_01: at the root cause because that's the key.
- 18:14SPEAKER_01: When we're doing all this mindset work, whatever modality it is,
- 18:18SPEAKER_01: if you're not getting to the root cause,
- 18:21SPEAKER_01: you'll keep You'll keep experiencing the same results,
- 18:26SPEAKER_01: the same patterns like procrastination, overwhelm or I'm not good enough,
- 18:30SPEAKER_01: the self-doubt, the fear of judgment until you learn the lesson.
- 18:33SPEAKER_01: And you can only learn the lessons until you go to the root cause,
- 18:36SPEAKER_01: which is past life, past generation, this lifetime or in the world.
- 18:41SPEAKER_01: So I love, love, love that you shared that because it's such,
- 18:46SPEAKER_01: it's a thing that people, yeah, it's very outside of the mind.
- 18:50SPEAKER_01: It's outside of the logic.
- 18:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 18:53SPEAKER_01: So hearing someone's experience about it going beyond the logic mind is absolutely beautiful.
- 19:00SPEAKER_01: So thank you for adding that in.
- 19:02SPEAKER_01: I love that.
- 19:05SPEAKER_01: So let's talk about the woman you became and the woman you've become.
- 19:11SPEAKER_01: Knowing that we are, we're always upgrading our identity. Yeah.
- 19:15SPEAKER_01: Not from a place of always looking for something to fit,
- 19:18SPEAKER_01: but I think I can absolutely hand on heart,
- 19:22SPEAKER_01: say my identity has shifted a lot even this year.
- 19:25SPEAKER_01: I'm sure you can too and I'm sure a lot of people listening to this are like,
- 19:28SPEAKER_01: oh yeah, I'm going through the identity shift now or I've already had a couple
- 19:34SPEAKER_01: in the last month.
- 19:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 19:37SPEAKER_01: Thinking about back to then like who did you start to become
- 19:41SPEAKER_01: after and your transformation and much like many women I work with one-on-one,
- 19:46SPEAKER_01: the transformation starts even after a couple of sessions before we even start
- 19:52SPEAKER_01: the rewiring.
- 19:53SPEAKER_01: But thinking back to like the end of the 12 weeks we did,
- 19:58SPEAKER_01: how did your like inner world shift?
- 20:02SPEAKER_01: What was different?
- 20:05SPEAKER_00: I think –
- 20:08SPEAKER_00: How I saw things shifted,
- 20:12SPEAKER_00: for starters, I felt more clear.
- 20:19SPEAKER_00: Those blocks I felt had shifted and moved.
- 20:24SPEAKER_00: My thought patterns had shifted from going from...
- 20:33SPEAKER_00: Always trying to pull me back, pull me back.
- 20:39SPEAKER_00: That subconscious, yeah, no, you can't do that.
- 20:42SPEAKER_00: Oh, who do you think you are? You and I.
- 20:44SPEAKER_00: And those sorts of things where when I was going through it and when I've come
- 20:50SPEAKER_00: through the other end of doing those 12 weeks and even to now,
- 20:57SPEAKER_00: I feel more stronger mentally and
- 21:02SPEAKER_00: The blocks I feel have gone.
- 21:04SPEAKER_00: I'm also aware though that if something does come up because it's always continuous work.
- 21:11SPEAKER_00: It's not like, oh, everything's amazing.
- 21:13SPEAKER_00: Everything's wonderful.
- 21:14SPEAKER_00: It's all roses.
- 21:16SPEAKER_00: There will always be stuff that may come up
- 21:19SPEAKER_00: and I feel I have those tools now
- 21:23SPEAKER_00: and I do practice some of the stuff that we did in the session where, you know,
- 21:29SPEAKER_00: I really connect down to Into the earth and I go up and I start to go
- 21:34SPEAKER_00: through and those powerful tools
- 21:37SPEAKER_00: of looking differently at life events.
- 21:44SPEAKER_00: So I've now started to,
- 21:47SPEAKER_00: when something maybe negative happens in my life, instead of going...
- 21:52SPEAKER_00: Which was the programming of, oh, I'm not good enough.
- 21:57SPEAKER_00: What's wrong with me?
- 21:58SPEAKER_00: Blah, blah, blah.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: All that sort of stuff that we go through.
- 22:02SPEAKER_00: Immediately we reflect in, there's got to be something wrong with us.
- 22:07SPEAKER_00: I've shifted that now to...
- 22:09SPEAKER_00: Okay, so what are my learnings from this?
- 22:14SPEAKER_00: What is my part within this?
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: How do I see the positive side of what's happened through this and what can I learn
- 22:23SPEAKER_00: and what can I carry?
- 22:24SPEAKER_00: Forward and not living in that.
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: The event has happened, I honour the event,
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: I honour the emotions I feel through it
- 22:34SPEAKER_00: as it happens but I'm not living
- 22:39SPEAKER_00: in that whole stuck past life bringing
- 22:43SPEAKER_00: that into what is happening now Yeah,
- 22:47SPEAKER_01: I love that I love that And that's the thing.
- 22:52SPEAKER_01: I love, love, love that you mentioned this because What you're doing is
- 22:56SPEAKER_01: the embodiment of the work we did together.
- 23:00SPEAKER_01: Because it is. Things are going to come up in life, right?
- 23:04SPEAKER_01: You're going to get triggered.
- 23:05SPEAKER_01: You're going to notice judgment come up.
- 23:08SPEAKER_01: You might have your mindset waver for a second.
- 23:12SPEAKER_01: But when you've reprogrammed your identity
- 23:15SPEAKER_01: and you've reprogrammed your subconscious,
- 23:18SPEAKER_01: You know that you can break the pattern and remind yourself of the truth.
- 23:22SPEAKER_01: Remind yourself of your power.
- 23:24SPEAKER_01: Remind yourself of your self-trust.
- 23:27SPEAKER_01: Remind yourself of the woman you are.
- 23:30SPEAKER_01: Instead of getting pulled back,
- 23:32SPEAKER_01: having a bit of a mindset waver and getting pulled back into I'm not good enough,
- 23:36SPEAKER_01: I'm not worthy, fear of being judged because those patterns aren't there anymore.
- 23:41SPEAKER_01: I love that you mentioned this because it is.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: It's not a one and done thing.
- 23:47SPEAKER_01: It's yes, the beliefs are gone, the negative charge is gone,
- 23:50SPEAKER_01: the negative emotions are gone, but then you get to continue to embody that work,
- 23:56SPEAKER_01: embody this new identity.
- 23:59SPEAKER_01: The medicine, the work is almost outside of the program as much as it is inside
- 24:04SPEAKER_01: of the program too.
- 24:06SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
- 24:07SPEAKER_01: I love that you mentioned that and I absolutely love that you've been taking
- 24:11SPEAKER_01: the tools you learned from our one-on-one time together and using them to continue
- 24:17SPEAKER_01: to up-level and embody and remind yourself of your power and your truth
- 24:20SPEAKER_01: and it's showing in how you show up.
- 24:23SPEAKER_01: You know, showing up with the way you write content, the way that you speak.
- 24:27SPEAKER_01: It's so different now and it's been such like
- 24:31SPEAKER_01: a joy and a privilege to watch
- 24:34SPEAKER_01: and to be a part of because it's shifted
- 24:38SPEAKER_01: so much and just not the external things
- 24:42SPEAKER_01: but like the energy as well, the way You Show Up, Your Posture,
- 24:48SPEAKER_01: everything like that.
- 24:49SPEAKER_01: It's so different and that is – That's what this work is about is shifting
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: the identity, getting back into your power,
- 24:57SPEAKER_01: getting back into your confidence and embodying and using the tools moving forward.
- 25:02SPEAKER_01: And you were like the pure embodiment of this work. Yeah. Right.
- 25:07SPEAKER_01: So really celebrating you, my love.
- 25:09SPEAKER_01: It's absolutely incredible.
- 25:11SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 25:13SPEAKER_00: And it's really nice because people around me, families, friends, even, you know,
- 25:19SPEAKER_00: women online that I connect with are actually commenting so that they've seen it.
- 25:25SPEAKER_00: It's not just me going, oh, I feel like, you know,
- 25:28SPEAKER_00: I'm actually getting people going, what's different?
- 25:33SPEAKER_00: What's shifted for you?
- 25:35SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love that. I love that.
- 25:37SPEAKER_01: That's so cool.
- 25:39SPEAKER_01: Very, very, very powerful.
- 25:41SPEAKER_01: Very powerful.
- 25:42SPEAKER_01: So, I mean,
- 25:44SPEAKER_01: you've shared so much about what shifted internally, you know, how did,
- 25:51SPEAKER_01: you know, how your internal world shifted, how you started showing up differently,
- 25:55SPEAKER_01: which I absolutely love.
- 25:57SPEAKER_01: I'm curious to know, like, what,
- 26:01SPEAKER_01: Now that you've done the work and you've embodied it and you've continued to use
- 26:05SPEAKER_01: the tools, what feels effortless now that used to feel difficult?
- 26:14SPEAKER_00: My content.
- 26:16SPEAKER_00: I just flow with it now.
- 26:18SPEAKER_00: Previously, I would...
- 26:24SPEAKER_00: sit for hours and hours and create it all and have it all scheduled,
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: like this whole control, control,
- 26:31SPEAKER_00: where now I feel that I just flow with the ease and I'm like, oh,
- 26:37SPEAKER_00: I really like this idea.
- 26:39SPEAKER_00: I really want to share this.
- 26:40SPEAKER_00: I really feel this is of value for someone and so it just seems
- 26:45SPEAKER_00: to flow more for me.
- 26:48SPEAKER_00: My conversations,
- 26:49SPEAKER_00: I think are flowing much nicer With all my relations,
- 26:56SPEAKER_00: not just within my business,
- 26:58SPEAKER_00: but with all the relations that I have with friends and family.
- 27:03SPEAKER_00: And I've actually strengthened some of those relations that I felt were...
- 27:12SPEAKER_00: Not as strong because of life events and we talked about that and how I felt
- 27:18SPEAKER_00: and how I felt judged and especially through that time
- 27:20SPEAKER_00: where I'd lost my six-figure job because of my health choice
- 27:26SPEAKER_00: and how I didn't feel supported and...
- 27:31SPEAKER_00: I was quite isolated, but I've built back some of those relations now
- 27:36SPEAKER_00: because I've been able to move forward.
- 27:39SPEAKER_00: So my communication is better,
- 27:41SPEAKER_00: my ability to speak my truth and do it in a way that is better.
- 27:50SPEAKER_00: Not impacting on somebody else, but how they choose to receive is up to them,
- 27:57SPEAKER_00: but I come from a place of love and heart, but I speak my truth now.
- 28:02SPEAKER_00: I'm not willing to sacrifice any more my
- 28:06SPEAKER_00: health, my values.
- 28:11SPEAKER_00: So I was in a really, really high-stress job back then, and I moved that.
- 28:16SPEAKER_00: I went, I don't...
- 28:18SPEAKER_00: want that in my life no more.
- 28:20SPEAKER_00: It's not bringing me value.
- 28:22SPEAKER_00: It's actually impacting and I've shifted into a new role that really truly aligns
- 28:29SPEAKER_00: with me and I'm honouring myself. Yes.
- 28:32SPEAKER_00: I'm not just doing for the sake of doing anymore.
- 28:34SPEAKER_00: I'm doing forthe sake
- 28:37SPEAKER_00: of fulfilling my bucket. Yeah.
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: It drives me.
- 28:43SPEAKER_00: It gives me heart.
- 28:44SPEAKER_00: It gives me joy.
- 28:46SPEAKER_00: And I think those are some of the things that have been really powerful for me.
- 28:50SPEAKER_00: I don't feel like I just have to do the grind for the sake of the grind anymore.
- 28:55SPEAKER_00: I'm like, actually, no, these are my boundaries.
- 28:57SPEAKER_00: This is how I want to live my life.
- 29:00SPEAKER_00: And I'm really honoring that as well.
- 29:05SPEAKER_00: Absolutely love that.
- 29:06SPEAKER_00: There's so much...
- 29:09SPEAKER_01: Yeah, there's so much in the gold that you shared in there,
- 29:12SPEAKER_01: especially I love being able to release control and allow the flow to happen.
- 29:18SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 29:19SPEAKER_01: That was hard.
- 29:21SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 29:24SPEAKER_01: I've been there through that journey myself, so I can really feel and hear you there.
- 29:29SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 29:31SPEAKER_01: What a beautiful place to be in where you have that self-trust.
- 29:35SPEAKER_01: I know so many women are just looking for that self-trust
- 29:40SPEAKER_01: to finally trust themselves, to trust their intuition and to allow things flow.
- 29:45SPEAKER_01: Of course, to be taking action because there gets to be some kind of action taking,
- 29:50SPEAKER_01: but not from a place of pushing, forcing or control.
- 29:53SPEAKER_01: And so I absolutely love Love, love that you shared that. Yeah.
- 29:58SPEAKER_01: And I absolutely love just how transformative your inner and outer journey has been.
- 30:05SPEAKER_01: It's just been incredible.
- 30:06SPEAKER_01: As I said, a true honor and a gift to witness.
- 30:10SPEAKER_01: I love that the people around you have also noticed the shift. Mm-hmm.
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: And I love that your relationships have shifted too because, yes,
- 30:20SPEAKER_01: we're working on the – before we're working on any of the exterior,
- 30:25SPEAKER_01: we're working on the woman.
- 30:28SPEAKER_01: We're working on the woman behind, the business, the relationships, the job, whatever it is.
- 30:34SPEAKER_01: We're working on the woman.
- 30:37SPEAKER_01: And then the exterior stuff follows.
- 30:39SPEAKER_01: So absolutely love that.
- 30:41SPEAKER_01: You've had such a powerful transformation.
- 30:46SPEAKER_01: And you're doing such beautiful work and helping so many people to shift
- 30:50SPEAKER_01: and change their lives.
- 30:52SPEAKER_01: And of course, because if you're listening or you're watching this,
- 30:55SPEAKER_01: like all of Michelle's details are going to be put in underneath this episode.
- 31:01SPEAKER_01: So you can feel free to connect with her via social media.
- 31:05SPEAKER_01: That would be the best, Michelle, the social media handles, Facebook, Instagram.
- 31:09SPEAKER_00: Yes, definitely. Yeah.
- 31:11SPEAKER_01: Beautiful.
- 31:11SPEAKER_01: We'll pop them in this episode so you can connect with her, give her a follow.
- 31:16SPEAKER_01: She's so inspirational.
- 31:19SPEAKER_01: And yeah, Michelle, once again, thank you so much for coming on, for sharing your journey.
- 31:25SPEAKER_01: And I just love that you're still embodying this work and using the tools
- 31:30SPEAKER_01: to continue to embody and up-level your identity.
- 31:33SPEAKER_01: And I can't wait to see, I mean, the transformation's been huge from last year to this year.
- 31:39SPEAKER_01: I can't wait to see You in a year's time and see and hear what you're doing
- 31:43SPEAKER_01: then and seeing the next level shifts too.
- 31:46SPEAKER_01: So thank you, thank you, thank you, my love.
- 31:49SPEAKER_00: And I just want to say that you deserve it as a woman.
- 31:53SPEAKER_00: You deserve to do this inner work,
- 31:59SPEAKER_00: to invest in yourself. I love that.
- 32:02SPEAKER_00: That's a beautiful share.
- 32:03SPEAKER_01: And you're right. It flows to every area.
- 32:07SPEAKER_01: It really does.
- 32:08SPEAKER_01: It really does.
- 32:09SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much again, my love.
- 32:12SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much for coming on and sharing a part of your journey.
- 32:15SPEAKER_01: And yeah, I can't wait to see where you're at a year from now because it's going
- 32:20SPEAKER_01: to be incredible.