Latest / I Am All In with Scott Patterson / Gilmore Girls Gazette: Parenthood: I’m Doing This For Mom (Season 3 E8 “In-Between”)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I am all in again.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Kiss You.
- 0:17Speaker 1: Yell More Girls Gazette with Amy Sugarman and Danielle Romo,
- 0:21Speaker 1: an iHeart radio podcast.
- 0:24Speaker 3: We are back for another episode of Parenthood and Amy Sugarman, I.
- 0:29Speaker 1: Your just have to start by saying it happened. It happened.
- 0:33Speaker 3: We knew it would, knew what would the kiss it happened,
- 0:41Speaker 3: and what I mean by it happened. I finally cried.
- 0:45Speaker 4: I cried, I.
- 0:47Speaker 3: Wept.
- 0:48Speaker 4: This is kind of an emotional episode. I've had a
- 0:51Speaker 4: lot of feelings too. I thought you were saying we
- 0:53Speaker 4: knew they were gonna kiss, and then then we did.
- 0:57Speaker 3: There's so much to talk about, but I didn't want
- 0:59Speaker 3: to start by saying it finally happened.
- 1:02Speaker 1: Three three seasons in What Made You Cross? The eighth episode,
- 1:06Speaker 1: all of Christina's stuff.
- 1:08Speaker 4: Oh and Joe, that's so I'm well, obviously because that's you.
- 1:15Speaker 3: You're right right, right, right right, and and obviously it's
- 1:19Speaker 3: just the It felt like they made a TV show
- 1:22Speaker 3: for my life right now.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was like total that was emotional.
- 1:28Speaker 4: I mean, I was emotional over all the Crosby you know,
- 1:33Speaker 4: right Ebe Woodside stuff. That's I don't know, his character
- 1:38Speaker 4: doctor Joe, Doctor j by D. B.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Woodside. Is that right?
- 1:41Speaker 4: Did I say that?
- 1:42Speaker 5: Right?
- 1:42Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:43Speaker 4: Right? And then I thought, oh that John Corbett. John
- 1:45Speaker 4: Corbett is a real good actor.
- 1:47Speaker 1: A real good actor. And Lauren Graham and.
- 1:49Speaker 4: Lauren m okay, can I tell you something that is
- 1:52Speaker 4: going to sound like the most obnoxious thing ever. I
- 1:56Speaker 4: don't even want to say it. It's too it's to
- 1:59Speaker 4: say it, it's too bananas to say it.
- 2:02Speaker 1: What was there one.
- 2:03Speaker 4: Scene, the one scene braggy, it's like too braggy. I
- 2:11Speaker 4: get it that she that I do not look like her,
- 2:15Speaker 4: but yet.
- 2:15Speaker 2: I use your.
- 2:18Speaker 4: There was one scene where I was like, I do
- 2:21Speaker 4: sort of look like that. Not right now. I'm not
- 2:25Speaker 4: in that video, you know, a couple.
- 2:27Speaker 1: Of days ago.
- 2:28Speaker 4: But if I'm at my best and she's at her worst,
- 2:32Speaker 4: that's what I would say. If I'm at my best,
- 2:35Speaker 4: I can ever do and she's at her worst.
- 2:38Speaker 3: Watching gil Mark Girls, not so much Parenthood, but gil
- 2:42Speaker 3: Mark Girl, Laura la reminds me so much.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Of you, so so much of you. That's way too nice.
- 2:49Speaker 4: Oh God, I hit the mic.
- 2:50Speaker 1: No, but it's true.
- 2:50Speaker 3: And also it doesn't it helps that Lauren Graham you have.
- 2:55Speaker 3: If you have to pick a dopple ganger, it is
- 2:57Speaker 3: Lauren Graham.
- 2:58Speaker 4: First of all, it's so far fetched, like we get it.
- 3:01Speaker 4: Everyone listening. We understand you're rolling your eyes and groaning
- 3:04Speaker 4: and going absolutely not. But again, think of it. If
- 3:07Speaker 4: I'm at my level ten best and she's at her
- 3:11Speaker 4: level one worst, then maybe there's some Oh.
- 3:16Speaker 3: It just reminded me of for all those that are listening,
- 3:19Speaker 3: the watch Love is Blind not This was maybe two seasons,
- 3:23Speaker 3: two seasons ago where against the rules, the guy asked
- 3:28Speaker 3: the girl, who do you like?
- 3:29Speaker 1: Who's your finger? And she has Megan Fox. She does
- 3:35Speaker 1: not look like Megan Fox.
- 3:36Speaker 4: First of all, she did, she did a little. She
- 3:39Speaker 4: did a little, but that's like what I'm doing right now.
- 3:43Speaker 3: But I would say, as your friend, I I I not.
- 3:47Speaker 3: I second it not in.
- 3:48Speaker 4: The lighting we had on the video, we posted a tiger.
- 3:52Speaker 4: We wanted to post it because we're like, the people
- 3:54Speaker 4: need to see the zebra tiger. But we were not
- 3:57Speaker 4: camera ready that day.
- 3:59Speaker 1: We're not came ready. I was locked out of my office.
- 4:01Speaker 1: I was it on my normal.
- 4:02Speaker 4: Setup and I had actually tried a new blush, and
- 4:07Speaker 4: admittedly it was like doing something weird, which I acknowledged
- 4:11Speaker 4: when we all joined. I was like, oh my god,
- 4:13Speaker 4: my highlighter didn't work because I didn't think we were
- 4:17Speaker 4: gonna be on camera. And then of course it's the
- 4:18Speaker 4: one time when we're like, oh, worry, there's a monster
- 4:21Speaker 4: in the back.
- 4:21Speaker 3: At one time that we come up with the funniest
- 4:24Speaker 3: social club where we actually had to show our faces.
- 4:26Speaker 1: We are a wreck.
- 4:27Speaker 4: We look gnarly, and you look good to my eyes,
- 4:31Speaker 4: but I could see how neither of us were like
- 4:34Speaker 4: prepared and professional.
- 4:37Speaker 1: You got good posture.
- 4:39Speaker 4: Right there, just to bright Aviator Nation pink shirt, which
- 4:44Speaker 4: brings me, I'm also wearing Aviator Nation today, shout out.
- 4:48Speaker 4: I think Amber May Whitman was the first person ever
- 4:52Speaker 4: to wear Aviator Nation. Did you see her spin shirt?
- 4:55Speaker 1: Notice that i't know.
- 4:56Speaker 4: I was like immediately noticed it because it for me.
- 4:59Speaker 4: It's so soft that I love their clothes. You love
- 5:04Speaker 4: it's so soft. You can't go wrong, you cannot go wrong,
- 5:07Speaker 4: it's so soft. So I'm watching, I'm like, she's wearing
- 5:11Speaker 4: an Aviator Nation sweatshirt. So I had to look up.
- 5:13Speaker 4: When did it get invented? Two thousand and six? What
- 5:16Speaker 4: year is it?
- 5:17Speaker 1: A twenty eleven.
- 5:18Speaker 4: You know that the little tidbit about Aviator Nation that
- 5:21Speaker 4: the sister of the Tom's Guy is Aviator Nation.
- 5:26Speaker 1: I did not know that.
- 5:27Speaker 3: I I also did not realize that Aviator Nation was
- 5:31Speaker 3: only twenty years old.
- 5:32Speaker 1: I thought this was like, Oh, I thought it was
- 5:34Speaker 1: ten years old.
- 5:35Speaker 4: I didn't even know it was that really. Oh you
- 5:37Speaker 4: thought it was like from the seventies.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Not from the seventies. I thought it's been around.
- 5:41Speaker 4: I mean, no, you were I had no idea it
- 5:44Speaker 4: was around in twenty zero six. How do you say that.
- 5:47Speaker 1: Two thousand and six? Twenty zero six? Are you okay?
- 5:55Speaker 1: As if you've never lived through the year before?
- 5:58Speaker 5: But I was like, what are they called the aunts
- 6:01Speaker 5: twenty six? Can you say twenty six six? Or do
- 6:06Speaker 5: you say two thousand and Oh?
- 6:08Speaker 4: Yeah, we're two thousand in late Oh.
- 6:12Speaker 3: Stop, stop, stop, this is not Fergie Fergy.
- 6:18Speaker 6: Okay, God, I gotta get the train back on the tracks.
- 6:21Speaker 3: Crazy, Okay, let me synop size. So this is season
- 6:24Speaker 3: three episode what is the lyric?
- 6:27Speaker 4: We're two thousand in late but there's a one before
- 6:30Speaker 4: two thousand.
- 6:32Speaker 1: You're two thousand and eight. We're two thousand in late. Oh, yes,
- 6:36Speaker 1: something like that. AnyWho.
- 6:38Speaker 3: So, in this episode of Parenthood, Seth gets released from
- 6:42Speaker 3: rehabit is staying a little too close to home.
- 6:44Speaker 1: Adam and Crosby getting new employee.
- 6:47Speaker 7: My god, Dario, I know smoking so good.
- 6:52Speaker 4: I'm three thousand and eight your two thousand late.
- 6:56Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right.
- 6:58Speaker 3: Okay and Crosby get any employee, which is surprised of
- 7:02Speaker 3: Christina and makes her insecure about reigniting the flame with Adam.
- 7:07Speaker 1: Do you get to be girlfriend? Officially?
- 7:09Speaker 3: Plus, Jabbar and doctor Joe are growing closer and Crosby
- 7:12Speaker 3: can't handle it.
- 7:13Speaker 4: We have to talk about Alexander Dadario first, because that
- 7:17Speaker 4: all those things were making me laugh so hard because she's.
- 7:20Speaker 7: All, thank you, sweet her when she brings her like
- 7:22Speaker 7: the water, and she totally and then she bends over
- 7:26Speaker 7: and Adam literally goes, that was unfortunate, Like and then what.
- 7:30Speaker 4: Does she say, like, I started leaking in front of
- 7:33Speaker 4: that supermodel you hired?
- 7:35Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I mean oh.
- 7:39Speaker 4: I need those lines. Can anyone pull all the funny
- 7:42Speaker 4: lines that they said with her?
- 7:44Speaker 1: Because and then he's like, we can't you like working
- 7:48Speaker 1: for my husband?
- 7:49Speaker 3: Do you know?
- 7:50Speaker 1: Like it was so good?
- 7:52Speaker 4: He's like, we can't not hire her. We can't not
- 7:55Speaker 4: hire pretty people.
- 7:56Speaker 1: That would be illegal. Is this our first job? That
- 8:01Speaker 1: is a great question. Thank you.
- 8:03Speaker 4: I always I like Alexander d Dario. She was in
- 8:06Speaker 4: that show like how to Murder My Husband or something.
- 8:09Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you, was like, I know exactly
- 8:11Speaker 1: who that is. I know her name, the.
- 8:12Speaker 4: Bay Watch movie? Why do I have Murder my Husband?
- 8:16Speaker 4: There was that? Really watch that show that Mark Cherry did,
- 8:19Speaker 4: the Desperate Housewives.
- 8:20Speaker 1: Guy, That's not how I know her.
- 8:22Speaker 4: I think you know her from something else, but she's like, well,
- 8:25Speaker 4: also the greatest movie ever about the earthquake with the rock. Oh,
- 8:29Speaker 4: she was in White Lotus too, But do you know
- 8:31Speaker 4: the earthquake.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Movie that I say Lotus? I know her.
- 8:36Speaker 4: I know her from San Andreas too.
- 8:38Speaker 1: I love and she was like a child. She was
- 8:42Speaker 1: like a.
- 8:42Speaker 4: Little but she was really cool in it. I love
- 8:46Speaker 4: that movie. I never saw the bay Watch movie. I'm
- 8:48Speaker 4: gonna wait for the Fox Baywatch reboot.
- 8:51Speaker 3: What else.
- 8:51Speaker 4: Let's see if we can find her first job ever, first.
- 8:54Speaker 1: Job, Justice League. No, no, no, no, that.
- 8:57Speaker 4: Is this was two thousand and all my children, So
- 9:02Speaker 4: her first job was all my children, the Squid in
- 9:05Speaker 4: the Whale. She did one episode of Conviction, one episode
- 9:09Speaker 4: of The Sopranos. Pitch this is getting boring, so I'll stop.
- 9:13Speaker 4: Two episodes of Law and Order. Where's parenthood? I don't
- 9:18Speaker 4: even see parenthood on here?
- 9:20Speaker 1: Why? I mean, that was definitely her. Do you see
- 9:23Speaker 1: parenthood on here? Something is weird? That's definitely her. Parenthood
- 9:27Speaker 1: is five episodes and twenty eleven. Oh there, it is
- 9:30Speaker 1: five episodes. I think after a hall pass in white Collar.
- 9:34Speaker 4: I think something kind of shinky happens.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Oh white collar. Yeah, she's cool. This was not her
- 9:40Speaker 1: first job.
- 9:41Speaker 4: She first of all, how much would I love to
- 9:43Speaker 4: wear that outfit? The black jeans with the white shirt
- 9:46Speaker 4: open back. I was like, I'd like to wear that.
- 9:49Speaker 4: Can't wear that, especially if you saw that video for
- 9:54Speaker 4: last week, just like, do I need bangs?
- 9:59Speaker 1: What's I could not with you? You need to stop?
- 10:04Speaker 3: I just was like, God, wow, ages, Well that's how
- 10:10Speaker 3: Christina felt.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Let me tell you that we could rely.
- 10:13Speaker 4: I could relate because she's like, whoa, I'm next to
- 10:15Speaker 4: that smoke show.
- 10:16Speaker 1: Oh Daniel's coffin. You know, I've been sick for a
- 10:19Speaker 1: week and a half. I just cannot.
- 10:21Speaker 4: It was so fun to have that window behind you
- 10:23Speaker 4: and see that wild animal. Anyway, back to parenthood. What
- 10:26Speaker 4: else I want more funny lines, but that whole scenario.
- 10:31Speaker 4: It is good, it is good. Something bad is gonna happen.
- 10:34Speaker 1: I think something bad. I literally felt like Christina was me.
- 10:37Speaker 4: She was leaking.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I had that. I had that happen in the.
- 10:40Speaker 3: Middle of a kid's birthday party. Like I took my
- 10:43Speaker 3: son at like four weeks postpartum to a birthday party
- 10:48Speaker 3: and I just both boobs were just wet, wet. I
- 10:54Speaker 3: just and I I didn't even like god, I just
- 10:57Speaker 3: looked down and they were just wet.
- 10:58Speaker 4: So what do you go do about that? What do
- 11:00Speaker 4: you go do?
- 11:01Speaker 1: Change your shirt?
- 11:02Speaker 4: So, but how do you get it to stop?
- 11:04Speaker 3: You can't get it to stop. The only thing you
- 11:06Speaker 3: can do is pump is to get the milk. So
- 11:08Speaker 3: how do you pump at a birthday party? I mean
- 11:10Speaker 3: they have like portals or you just you lock yourself
- 11:13Speaker 3: up for a second.
- 11:14Speaker 4: But what do you if you go to the bathroom
- 11:15Speaker 4: and lock yourself up, what are you doing with it?
- 11:18Speaker 1: I mean people bring coolers so they can put it in.
- 11:22Speaker 4: Pretend you don't have the pump.
- 11:24Speaker 1: Okay, then what do you do? Then you have to
- 11:26Speaker 1: like self express. That's the thing I didn't do that.
- 11:31Speaker 3: What I did was I grabbed my son and said,
- 11:34Speaker 3: we are going home. Oh no, there's like thirty minutes
- 11:38Speaker 3: left to the party, but like, yeah, I totally just
- 11:40Speaker 3: leaked everywhere.
- 11:41Speaker 4: And obviously no one cared at the party because they're like, girl, we've.
- 11:44Speaker 1: Been everyone gets yeah.
- 11:45Speaker 3: I like went up to the mom and I was like,
- 11:48Speaker 3: so we gotta go, and I was like, look at
- 11:50Speaker 3: my shirt and.
- 11:51Speaker 1: She was like oh no, oh no, and I was like,
- 11:53Speaker 1: so we're leaving.
- 11:55Speaker 4: So I have another question. Obviously this is for the
- 11:57Speaker 4: people that have never breastfed. Does it just like start going.
- 12:01Speaker 4: I think it would be more of a slow roll.
- 12:04Speaker 1: It is more of a slow role. But then you
- 12:06Speaker 1: just when you notice it's too.
- 12:08Speaker 4: Late, and do you feel it or only I.
- 12:12Speaker 3: Mean, obviously I didn't feel in the scenario, but like
- 12:15Speaker 3: typically feel when you need to pump, like you are
- 12:18Speaker 3: like I need to pump now.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Because it hurts so bad.
- 12:21Speaker 4: Oh sounds like great.
- 12:23Speaker 1: It just feels like burning and like.
- 12:25Speaker 4: Oh oh burning too, so not just pressure burning.
- 12:28Speaker 3: Both all three of the aboves WO burning heavy pressure,
- 12:32Speaker 3: so good.
- 12:33Speaker 4: We need to do the menopause minute and the pregnancy
- 12:36Speaker 4: minute because guess what, what the hell?
- 12:39Speaker 3: I you know, I know it is crazy, but I
- 12:43Speaker 3: felt it because look, I mean, I am here almost
- 12:46Speaker 3: six months postpartum. I feel like I'm getting back into
- 12:49Speaker 3: my rhythm. But like, my clothes still don't fit by
- 12:56Speaker 3: it's falling out. It is falling out in clumps, like
- 12:58Speaker 3: it is. It is so like what Christine's dealing with
- 13:03Speaker 3: right now. Like, oh, if my husband at work had
- 13:06Speaker 3: this hot little supermodel dangling around him and putting her
- 13:09Speaker 3: little boobs in his face when she's on his computer,
- 13:13Speaker 3: I literally would die.
- 13:16Speaker 1: I would just be in a puddle on the ground.
- 13:19Speaker 1: Puddle on the ground.
- 13:20Speaker 3: But the part that made me cry was at the
- 13:24Speaker 3: very very end when Adam was like, I love you.
- 13:29Speaker 4: He was like a horn dog too.
- 13:31Speaker 5: You.
- 13:32Speaker 1: She's pretty cute too, Like she's great, right, but that's
- 13:36Speaker 1: all you want.
- 13:37Speaker 4: How great is Erica Christiansen?
- 13:39Speaker 3: By the way, did she get a haircut in this
- 13:41Speaker 3: or was her hair like in a weird I thought
- 13:43Speaker 3: her hair was up in a weird way.
- 13:44Speaker 4: But she's so awesome. There's something I just really like
- 13:49Speaker 4: about the character or her I'm not. I'm unclear which,
- 13:53Speaker 4: but I am obsessed with her. She's so nice. She's
- 13:57Speaker 4: such a great sister in law. She's such a great sister.
- 14:01Speaker 4: She's just a Joel and Julia. They're a couple of
- 14:05Speaker 4: the show. They don't get any of the credit.
- 14:08Speaker 1: They should any of the praise.
- 14:10Speaker 3: I thought it was hilarious when Julia told Christina, like,
- 14:13Speaker 3: you gotta kinda bring out the big guns, like you're
- 14:16Speaker 3: wearing that dress because your boobs are five times the
- 14:18Speaker 3: size that should be.
- 14:20Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. I wouldn't want it because I
- 14:24Speaker 4: am too weird about that. I don't like when they
- 14:27Speaker 4: get pushed up mine, do you know what I'm saying?
- 14:30Speaker 4: Like the dress that the Alexander d Daria had on.
- 14:32Speaker 3: Too, I'd rather wear really really short skirt than a
- 14:35Speaker 3: really low top.
- 14:37Speaker 1: I'll wear a low.
- 14:38Speaker 4: Top because I don't have, like, I don't know, boobs
- 14:39Speaker 4: like that. But here's my question for you. Do you
- 14:42Speaker 4: ever think when you see all those boobs that you're like, whoa,
- 14:45Speaker 4: what did standards and practices think of that? Like that's
- 14:47Speaker 4: my first thing where I'm like, this is cable, this
- 14:49Speaker 4: is like not cable.
- 14:51Speaker 1: TV.
- 14:51Speaker 4: This was on NBC, and it's very booby.
- 14:54Speaker 1: It's very booby.
- 14:55Speaker 3: There were butt shots, there was was full jeans though,
- 14:59Speaker 3: so that one I was like, that one probably got
- 15:00Speaker 3: by all the standards.
- 15:02Speaker 1: Fine, but yeah, I mean, I don't know what the
- 15:04Speaker 1: rule is.
- 15:04Speaker 4: How much I guess you know, like how much of
- 15:07Speaker 4: the boobs can you show on network television?
- 15:09Speaker 3: I think you can say anything as long as you
- 15:11Speaker 3: don't reveal the nip.
- 15:15Speaker 1: Think of it, Baywatch right.
- 15:17Speaker 4: Right, right, But it's an interesting question. This show is
- 15:21Speaker 4: like saucy, yeah, no, how cute or Drew and Amy,
- 15:25Speaker 4: Oh my.
- 15:26Speaker 1: God, they are very, very cute.
- 15:27Speaker 3: I'm happy that they are official now.
- 15:31Speaker 4: Zeke was iconic in this episode too.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Oh my god.
- 15:35Speaker 4: He wanted to go that party so bad and then
- 15:37Speaker 4: those girls blew him off and he was so stoked
- 15:39Speaker 4: to go back home to Camille and the grandkids. He
- 15:42Speaker 4: wanted to go that party so bad.
- 15:44Speaker 1: Though, and then he was dancing and making the kids dance.
- 15:47Speaker 4: So Cibby was like, oh wait, Jackie read this. Jackie's
- 15:50Speaker 4: got an update on how many how much of the
- 15:53Speaker 4: boobs you can.
- 15:53Speaker 1: Show so on AI overview.
- 15:56Speaker 4: Okay, it's not always correct, but it's a good source
- 15:59Speaker 4: for us.
- 16:00Speaker 8: I know on the United States network TV like ABC, CBS, NBC,
- 16:04Speaker 8: and sure, there's generally no authorized exposure of female nipples
- 16:08Speaker 8: or genitalia yep, regulated by the FCC, which prohibits airing
- 16:12Speaker 8: the episode.
- 16:12Speaker 1: So Danielle got it right.
- 16:13Speaker 4: You can just show everything, but but the nip.
- 16:15Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, no, for sure.
- 16:27Speaker 1: Okay, back to the show.
- 16:29Speaker 3: So back to so when Sidney when they were dancing,
- 16:32Speaker 3: and Sydney looks to Zeekee and she's like, no, Grandpa's
- 16:36Speaker 3: got the fever, like Uncle Adam.
- 16:39Speaker 1: That was a good call back. That was doing the
- 16:42Speaker 1: like what's it.
- 16:44Speaker 4: Called John Travolta, Oh my god, speaking of dancing. This
- 16:47Speaker 4: is a sidebar. Did anyone watch that video I sent
- 16:51Speaker 4: of not staturn to night Fever but staying alive? I
- 16:58Speaker 4: know this is aging me because it's as.
- 17:00Speaker 1: I never saw the minute of it. It was so cool.
- 17:02Speaker 4: I mean, Dejandra Volta is such an awesome dancer and
- 17:07Speaker 4: kind of a hunky hottie. But what was this is
- 17:09Speaker 4: what I want? The reason I bring it up because
- 17:11Speaker 4: I'm watching this video and immediately there's a thought that
- 17:14Speaker 4: goes into my mind. So immediately, I go to the
- 17:17Speaker 4: comments to make sure that the thought in my mind
- 17:19Speaker 4: is the same thought everyone's having. The dad from the
- 17:22Speaker 4: seventies show was in Staying Alive.
- 17:25Speaker 1: Did you guys notice that that's above me?
- 17:27Speaker 4: Well, anyway, for those that if you know, you know, anyway.
- 17:33Speaker 1: Should we talk about Seth? Definitely?
- 17:35Speaker 4: Definitely, He's so cute, he's so tough.
- 17:38Speaker 1: There's a lot that goes into this because you see
- 17:40Speaker 1: the whole Sarah part of it, then you see how
- 17:42Speaker 1: it affects Amber, how excited she kind of got, but
- 17:45Speaker 1: then she realized, Na, she's got to cut it.
- 17:47Speaker 4: Yeah. When Amber was sitting outside the kitchen listening to
- 17:50Speaker 4: her grandma and her mom talk, what I couldn't tell
- 17:54Speaker 4: was is she happy, worried, or sad.
- 17:56Speaker 1: I think she's all the above because they think part
- 18:00Speaker 1: of her.
- 18:01Speaker 3: When she was talking to her mom, she was like, Okay,
- 18:05Speaker 3: maybe Dad is changing, Maybe Dad can come into my life.
- 18:09Speaker 3: Maybe Dad is going to do right by us. And
- 18:14Speaker 3: I think she had that, and I think she was
- 18:15Speaker 3: starting to set into that. That's why she gave him
- 18:18Speaker 3: the apartment.
- 18:19Speaker 4: Well, and I liked how she said, I'm doing this
- 18:20Speaker 4: for mom.
- 18:21Speaker 3: So you know, right, right, but she's also I think
- 18:24Speaker 3: accepting maybe she's okay to have her dad back in
- 18:27Speaker 3: her life. So I think this was like an olive
- 18:29Speaker 3: branch for her, and she was kind of ready to
- 18:32Speaker 3: explore that relationship.
- 18:34Speaker 1: And I think.
- 18:35Speaker 3: She realized that as much as she was maybe ready
- 18:39Speaker 3: for that, it wasn't a good idea and she and
- 18:42Speaker 3: it was very mature of her to see, like her
- 18:46Speaker 3: mom's so happy with this guy, and then to overhear
- 18:49Speaker 3: the conversation where Sarah's talking to Camille about how I
- 18:54Speaker 3: picture myself with Seth. I picture our family and her
- 18:58Speaker 3: mom her the Camille said, Honey, I think you're just
- 19:02Speaker 3: wanting the family. I think you're just picturing your family
- 19:06Speaker 3: together versus what it actually all means. And I think
- 19:10Speaker 3: that resonated with Amber. I think Amber was like, yes,
- 19:15Speaker 3: that that is what I want. My I was seeing
- 19:18Speaker 3: this picture family together and everyone happy, healthy, respectful dad,
- 19:24Speaker 3: sober dad here, maybe that's not realistic.
- 19:28Speaker 4: It's all jumbled up for these guys, right, because obviously
- 19:34Speaker 4: Sarah's really involved in Seth's healing, right, and she's drawn
- 19:40Speaker 4: to him, and we knew this was coming, like you
- 19:42Speaker 4: could tell this. They've been laying the groundwork for this.
- 19:44Speaker 4: We knew that kiss was coming and it was like,
- 19:46Speaker 4: oh man, and she totally kissed him back. Feel real
- 19:49Speaker 4: bad for Jason Ritter and the thing.
- 19:51Speaker 1: And he doesn't know yet.
- 19:53Speaker 4: I know.
- 19:53Speaker 1: I just don't tell him he moved. Seth moved to Tahoe.
- 19:56Speaker 1: I don't debate that.
- 19:58Speaker 4: Does she need to tell him? And look, I also
- 20:00Speaker 4: like the logistics that they're like Seth is moving to Tahoe,
- 20:03Speaker 4: not too far but far enough.
- 20:05Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, that's good, but only because of Amber.
- 20:09Speaker 4: Correct, because he really but finally he's doing the right thing.
- 20:14Speaker 4: Right now, Do I know that it's actually the right thing,
- 20:17Speaker 4: not necessarily because if he was able to stay sober.
- 20:22Speaker 4: I do think Sarah loves him. She does want the
- 20:25Speaker 4: family together. That would be her dream, but he's just
- 20:28Speaker 4: too early in his healing, Like right, he doesn't know.
- 20:32Speaker 4: It's too risky. What if he messes up again?
- 20:35Speaker 3: It's just too much, right, And I think when Amber
- 20:38Speaker 3: went up to Seth and was like, hey, mom's like
- 20:42Speaker 3: really happy, but she was.
- 20:44Speaker 1: Crying and like trembling a little bit when she was
- 20:47Speaker 1: saying it, well, he's.
- 20:48Speaker 3: Really happy, like I don't, And then he finished the
- 20:52Speaker 3: sentence like he says something along the lines of that
- 20:55Speaker 3: I'm getting in the way, and they both had this
- 20:58Speaker 3: mutual understanding. I feel like if I was like, I'm
- 21:01Speaker 3: over my dad, I still want him out, she would
- 21:03Speaker 3: waltz in there and be like, you gotta go, you
- 21:05Speaker 3: gotta go somewhere else, get away from my mom. But
- 21:08Speaker 3: she was so sad, and because I think her heart
- 21:10Speaker 3: was breaking in that too. For a second she thought
- 21:12Speaker 3: our family may be something and that is not going
- 21:16Speaker 3: to happen. I thought it was very very well played,
- 21:20Speaker 3: very well acted.
- 21:22Speaker 1: I thought the whole thing with the cards, I cried
- 21:26Speaker 1: with that to the birthday cards. That was really sweet.
- 21:30Speaker 4: And I liked her reaction and and I love I love.
- 21:34Speaker 1: The panoff that he gave them all the cards that he.
- 21:37Speaker 4: Had no look right now, Seth is great. Seth is
- 21:41Speaker 4: great right now.
- 21:42Speaker 1: But oh no, those eyes do not do.
- 21:46Speaker 4: No, no no. I actually would tell you I can't
- 21:49Speaker 4: remember everything, but.
- 21:51Speaker 1: It's just complicated, just complicated, right, So.
- 21:55Speaker 2: Where do you?
- 21:55Speaker 1: Where do you? Where do you stand on this? As
- 21:58Speaker 1: I know you've seen you before.
- 22:00Speaker 4: I don't think she should tell Jason Ridder I don't
- 22:03Speaker 4: remember enough, but I think she should just not tell
- 22:05Speaker 4: him because it's already way too sketchy, the whole thing,
- 22:09Speaker 4: and now Seth has moved. So it's just like, you
- 22:11Speaker 4: don't need to tell him.
- 22:13Speaker 3: It sucks because their relationship is so he is so
- 22:18Speaker 3: they've been so open about it, and he's been so
- 22:21Speaker 3: understanding of the whole thing.
- 22:23Speaker 4: But yet he's concerned. Yet he's concerned, Like Seth moved,
- 22:28Speaker 4: You don't need to tell him.
- 22:29Speaker 1: Would you tell? Would you tell? I would absolutely not. No, truce.
- 22:34Speaker 3: You have to if you have a shot at this
- 22:36Speaker 3: relationship being anything, you've got to be honest.
- 22:39Speaker 1: No, you can't just lie.
- 22:40Speaker 4: I'm not lying. If someone asked me, I'd be like, oh, yeah,
- 22:44Speaker 4: there was like a kiss in the kitchen, nothing to
- 22:45Speaker 4: worry about if no one else, I'm not telling. Nope. No,
- 22:50Speaker 4: why why hurt someone?
- 22:52Speaker 3: Stating Jason Ridder, you are Sarah Braverman in this situation,
- 22:55Speaker 3: Jason goes, is there any again?
- 22:58Speaker 1: This is after the kiss? Is there anything in need
- 23:00Speaker 1: to worry about?
- 23:00Speaker 4: Nope, because there's not. So I've moved to Tahoe. Okay,
- 23:04Speaker 4: let me, let's put it a different way. You're Jason
- 23:08Speaker 4: Ritter and John Moreno before you were married, kissed, I
- 23:13Speaker 4: don't know some ex girlfriend real quick meant nothing.
- 23:18Speaker 1: Okay, I ever want to know. No, you wouldn't do it.
- 23:22Speaker 4: That's such a thing. Girls say they want to know,
- 23:26Speaker 4: they don't. I will tell the truth for us, ladies.
- 23:29Speaker 3: I know that's not true. That is not true. You
- 23:32Speaker 3: speak able, have yourself.
- 23:33Speaker 1: Me me.
- 23:35Speaker 3: I have always told my husband, if you touch somebody else,
- 23:39Speaker 3: if you kiss somebody else, just tell me.
- 23:42Speaker 1: I want to know.
- 23:43Speaker 3: I do not want to be the person that is
- 23:46Speaker 3: in the dark and the only other human that doesn't know.
- 23:48Speaker 1: Well, no, but only okay, you cross that bridge when
- 23:51Speaker 1: it happens.
- 23:51Speaker 3: It depends on where you are in your life, what's happening.
- 23:54Speaker 3: If you want to stay, you want to stay. If
- 23:55Speaker 3: you want to go, you want to go. But my
- 23:58Speaker 3: rule has always been, like I got it.
- 24:00Speaker 4: Let's say I'm dating Brad Pitt. Let's just say I'm
- 24:03Speaker 4: dating Brad Pitt. And one random weekend, Brad Pitt and
- 24:08Speaker 4: Jennifer Aniston needed to clean out an old storage causet
- 24:13Speaker 4: and they accidentally kiss, and Jennifer Aniston's like, no, I
- 24:16Speaker 4: love my new guy. Mistake. Brad's like, mistake, I don't
- 24:21Speaker 4: need to know that. I don't need to know that.
- 24:23Speaker 1: I need to know that we're different on that we'll.
- 24:26Speaker 4: Agree to it will only hurt me. I will only
- 24:29Speaker 4: be sad, whereas I can just be happy. Ignorance is bliss.
- 24:33Speaker 4: People are going to they are going to have sides
- 24:35Speaker 4: on this, and they're going to take your side. I
- 24:37Speaker 4: know a lot of people are down in their core.
- 24:40Speaker 4: They're going to be like, oh maybe, Oh no.
- 24:43Speaker 1: No, there's not even a part of my innermost core.
- 24:46Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to know.
- 24:47Speaker 4: But then okay, So then John Moreno tells you he
- 24:50Speaker 4: kissed his ex girlfriend? Then what then?
- 24:52Speaker 1: Are you just like? No problem?
- 24:53Speaker 5: Bro?
- 24:53Speaker 1: What do you do?
- 24:54Speaker 3: Then?
- 24:54Speaker 1: I deal with it? Depending on how I feel, I
- 24:57Speaker 1: might be sad.
- 24:57Speaker 4: I am I going to feel like pooh poo?
- 25:00Speaker 3: Right?
- 25:00Speaker 1: Maybe maybe not?
- 25:02Speaker 4: Who knows?
- 25:03Speaker 3: Who knows, but it would make me feel more poopoo
- 25:06Speaker 3: if I didn't.
- 25:06Speaker 4: But then where do you think these two phrases come from?
- 25:09Speaker 4: Ignorance is bliss and what you don't know doesn't hurt you.
- 25:13Speaker 1: I get it.
- 25:14Speaker 3: I get it in every avenue of life.
- 25:17Speaker 4: Do you read the mean comments about us? Are only
- 25:19Speaker 4: the good ones? I don't read any comments that's right.
- 25:22Speaker 4: It's agreed. That is a great version of thank yous
- 25:26Speaker 4: is bliss.
- 25:26Speaker 1: That is fine. That is fine to be ignorant about.
- 25:29Speaker 1: I'm okay.
- 25:30Speaker 4: This is another thing. As we're opening up. Listen if
- 25:33Speaker 4: you want to. I'll read the comments that we're annoying
- 25:37Speaker 4: and dumb and say dumb stuff.
- 25:39Speaker 6: But please just don't tell I looked, because that one
- 25:44Speaker 6: guts me. But if you're like I disagree, I'll be
- 25:47Speaker 6: like respect. I'll read it and try and ingest it
- 25:49Speaker 6: and see if maybe I'm wrong. But like we know,
- 25:52Speaker 6: sometimes we don't.
- 25:53Speaker 4: Look like super We don't look like Alexander Nadaria.
- 25:57Speaker 3: You know, it's been three and a half years since
- 25:58Speaker 3: I got in botox in lines are showing, and you.
- 26:01Speaker 4: Know, Danny, I have to tell you the truth. They're not.
- 26:04Speaker 1: Oh you have no lines? Do you see that? I
- 26:07Speaker 1: can count one, two, three or four? How do you
- 26:09Speaker 1: do that?
- 26:09Speaker 4: How do you make that? Do I have that?
- 26:10Speaker 1: I don't think I have that?
- 26:11Speaker 2: Do I?
- 26:11Speaker 5: Look?
- 26:11Speaker 3: God, you got an excellent forehead with no botox?
- 26:16Speaker 4: I know, but what's happening here?
- 26:17Speaker 1: Amy? That is incredible? That again? Do that again? Oh
- 26:23Speaker 1: my god, you have no wrinkles, no bowtox.
- 26:27Speaker 4: Thank you, but I've got other problems. I've got so many.
- 26:31Speaker 4: I think part of listen if you want to is
- 26:33Speaker 4: going to be us going.
- 26:35Speaker 1: Sometimes I just look like Amy, I'm very impressed with
- 26:39Speaker 1: your forehead. I just have to.
- 26:40Speaker 3: Say so much, but but not so much here that
- 26:44Speaker 3: you look normal, But your forehead is you look great?
- 26:47Speaker 1: You look great too? Okay, well you're doing great therapy.
- 26:51Speaker 4: Shy Wait, Everyone's like, what is wrong with these two? Today?
- 26:54Speaker 4: They've literally talked about how cute or not cute they are,
- 26:57Speaker 4: and Amy thinks she looks like Lauren gre What.
- 27:00Speaker 1: The heath good over the place?
- 27:06Speaker 4: I can't wait till Gazette next week to by the way,
- 27:08Speaker 4: because Lauren Graham is pulling a milo and doing so
- 27:10Speaker 4: much press that we're going to have so much to
- 27:12Speaker 4: talk about.
- 27:13Speaker 1: Oh, I cannot wait.
- 27:23Speaker 3: I did really want to talk to you about Crosby
- 27:25Speaker 3: and Jabar because I feel like I don't have like
- 27:28Speaker 3: the boss on this because my parents are still together
- 27:30Speaker 3: that I know.
- 27:31Speaker 1: With you, you're separated.
- 27:33Speaker 4: It's not even my parents because my parents were like,
- 27:36Speaker 4: there's there's never been any issues like that. They get
- 27:40Speaker 4: along way too well and we do everything together.
- 27:42Speaker 1: But even when your dad dated somebody else. No, it's like,
- 27:46Speaker 1: I don't. Here's the thing.
- 27:47Speaker 4: My dad's married, and like my mom and my dad's
- 27:49Speaker 4: wife hang out all the time. Like I have one
- 27:52Speaker 4: of those families that everyone's like, I wish mine was
- 27:55Speaker 4: like yours, right, right. But as dating someone with kids
- 28:00Speaker 4: or having really really best friends who have gotten divorced
- 28:04Speaker 4: and see what they go through, I this is just me,
- 28:08Speaker 4: just me. Everybody can have their own feelings. I am
- 28:11Speaker 4: a believer in the mother and father come first. So
- 28:18Speaker 4: in this scenario, I think that doctor Joe did the
- 28:22Speaker 4: right thing by giving the tickets to Crosby, but he
- 28:26Speaker 4: actually never should have bought them in the first place.
- 28:28Speaker 4: Like that is just where I come from in it.
- 28:30Speaker 4: I'm always like, I defer to the mother because I've
- 28:34Speaker 4: dated people with kids, right, multiple times, I'm always like,
- 28:39Speaker 4: whatever the mom wants, whatever the mom wants, whatever the
- 28:41Speaker 4: mom wants, right, That's just how I've always done it.
- 28:45Speaker 4: But I know people where that's not the case, and
- 28:47Speaker 4: it can be really, really hurtful. And this is interesting
- 28:50Speaker 4: because it's flipped right. In a lot of cases, it's
- 28:53Speaker 4: the woman hurting the mother as opposed to the man
- 28:56Speaker 4: hurting the dad. So I think that's been really interesting
- 28:59Speaker 4: to analyze that it's flipped. But look right, huugh, I
- 29:03Speaker 4: mean Crosby's right. He is totally right. He's one hundred
- 29:07Speaker 4: percent totally right. And then I also understood what doctor
- 29:10Speaker 4: Joe's at the end, like I'm not going anywhere. I
- 29:13Speaker 4: also think you don't meet the kids for two over
- 29:16Speaker 4: a year to two.
- 29:17Speaker 1: I agree with that too. He's met his kid way
- 29:20Speaker 1: too fast and it's taking them.
- 29:21Speaker 3: And the one thing I thought about I was like,
- 29:23Speaker 3: right now, when you're saying he shouldn't have bought the tickets,
- 29:26Speaker 3: I'm like, whoa?
- 29:28Speaker 1: And then I thought of it. There was only two tickets?
- 29:31Speaker 1: Why not three? Why not Jasmine?
- 29:33Speaker 4: Doctor Judge Boy Danielle something I didn't even you know
- 29:37Speaker 4: what I mean, like because it would be different story.
- 29:40Speaker 2: Maybe maybe oh so like first of all, I would
- 29:44Speaker 2: just never like that would be no, like you just
- 29:48Speaker 2: defer to the parents when you're the new person.
- 29:51Speaker 3: Does doctor Joe say, hey, uh, can I take jabarda
- 29:56Speaker 3: football game?
- 29:57Speaker 1: Like do they have to ask like that?
- 29:59Speaker 4: Like, well, he should talk to Jasmine about it and say, hey,
- 30:03Speaker 4: why don't you check with Crosby and see how he
- 30:05Speaker 4: feels about.
- 30:06Speaker 1: This, which we don't know if he did or did not.
- 30:08Speaker 4: However, it's pretty clear he did not.
- 30:11Speaker 1: Right, It's like you just to me, and this is
- 30:14Speaker 1: just to me.
- 30:14Speaker 4: There's I'm sure there's so many people out there who
- 30:17Speaker 4: have different feelings on it.
- 30:18Speaker 1: And also I totally.
- 30:19Speaker 4: Respect that because this is such a case by case
- 30:22Speaker 4: situation and say you date one dad that could be
- 30:29Speaker 4: really different than when you date a different dad. You
- 30:31Speaker 4: have to really base it in my opinion. This is
- 30:33Speaker 4: just totally my opinion on that particular situation. Yeah, each
- 30:40Speaker 4: one's different. Some people get along great. Sometimes the mom
- 30:43Speaker 4: is more chill, sometimes the mom is less chill, sometimes
- 30:46Speaker 4: the There's just so many scenarios, so you have to
- 30:50Speaker 4: really base it on each individual situation.
- 30:53Speaker 3: Man, that was tough to watch though, because I totally
- 30:57Speaker 3: got I totally got Crosby's point of view. I totally
- 31:00Speaker 3: get it. I totally like I would feel the same way.
- 31:03Speaker 3: I'm bringing my kid to his first football game. You're
- 31:06Speaker 3: not You sit on the bench, dude, like this is fine.
- 31:10Speaker 3: I'm in the game here, not you, Right.
- 31:12Speaker 4: And some people may be so comfortable and confident in
- 31:15Speaker 4: their relationship with their kid. Look, Crosby's got a difficult situation,
- 31:19Speaker 4: right because the first five years of his kid's life,
- 31:21Speaker 4: he didn't know his kid was. There could be a
- 31:23Speaker 4: dad that's like, bro, I'm good, Like you do what
- 31:26Speaker 4: you want to do with the kids and my their
- 31:28Speaker 4: and their mom, and I'll do Like it's just sow
- 31:31Speaker 4: case by case. I think in this particular case, I
- 31:34Speaker 4: happened to sort of think Crosby's right in a lot
- 31:37Speaker 4: of ways.
- 31:38Speaker 1: So okay, So then this is what I was thinking.
- 31:41Speaker 3: You are, Crosby. You just got the tickets from doctor Joe.
- 31:44Speaker 3: Do you take jabbar or do you buy your own?
- 31:47Speaker 1: No?
- 31:47Speaker 4: I think you go.
- 31:48Speaker 1: I think you go. I think you're like cool.
- 31:50Speaker 4: Thanks.
- 31:50Speaker 1: I would go to the game, but I would buy
- 31:52Speaker 1: my own tickets. I'd be like, and then you're just.
- 31:54Speaker 4: Gonna throway the fifty yard line tickets that doctor Joe bought.
- 31:58Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 31:59Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to stuff you take your stuff. I
- 32:02Speaker 3: don't want it. The whole thing's complicated.
- 32:05Speaker 4: I also have the problem that I know what happens
- 32:07Speaker 4: in this I actually remember, and so it's tricky for
- 32:11Speaker 4: me even more because I'm like, why did you what
- 32:15Speaker 4: like the kid is around Doctor Joe way too soon?
- 32:18Speaker 1: Right, Okay, so doctor Joe and Jason done last?
- 32:21Speaker 4: All right?
- 32:21Speaker 1: Noted?
- 32:22Speaker 4: All right, well did we forget anything?
- 32:25Speaker 1: Where was Joel? Where was Joel? Joel was only in
- 32:28Speaker 1: the scene at the party when they were talking to Ja.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Imagine this, though, Imagine you're working so hard and then
- 32:34Speaker 4: you're Joel and you get a call that You're like,
- 32:35Speaker 4: you're only in one scene, bro, but you just get
- 32:37Speaker 4: the same paycheck.
- 32:39Speaker 1: Sounds like a party. That sounds a great time.
- 32:42Speaker 4: God, I just think about how much I love Joel
- 32:44Speaker 4: in Handmaid's Tale. I love him in this pretty excited
- 32:47Speaker 4: about the Testaments we'll talk about in gazette. Remind me, okay,
- 32:52Speaker 4: how soon till listen if you want to.
- 32:54Speaker 1: I have been ghosted on email, so maybe I need
- 32:57Speaker 1: your help.
- 32:58Speaker 4: Can you bring it to the top?
- 32:59Speaker 1: Yes? All right, guys, braver Ben's out.
- 33:09Speaker 3: Last.
- 33:33Speaker 1: Hey everybody to forget.
- 33:35Speaker 3: Follow us on Instagram at I Am all In podcast
- 33:39Speaker 3: and email us at Gilmore at iHeartRadio dot com.