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- 0:01Speaker 1: The further we travel through the pages of Nehemiah, the
- 0:04Speaker 1: more we discover the value and relevance of its instruction for, well,
- 0:10Speaker 1: every level of leadership. Today, as we turn to Nehemiah
- 0:14Speaker 1: chapter 4, verses 9 through 23, we find Nehemiah's work
- 0:19Speaker 1: crew discouraged for the first time since the project of
- 0:23Speaker 1: rebuilding the walls around Jerusalem had begun. Though they were
- 0:28Speaker 1: at one time enthusiastic and energetic, very motivated, Nehemiah's workers
- 0:33Speaker 1: now grew weary and became discouraged. They lost their strength,
- 0:39Speaker 1: their vision, confidence, and even their security. But Nehemiah, overcoming
- 0:47Speaker 1: his own discouragement, took up the task of curing their
- 0:52Speaker 1: melancholy mood through a variety of God-directed means, and it's
- 0:57Speaker 1: that which interests us in our study today. From this passage,
- 1:01Speaker 1: we're going to learn that during times of discouragement, it's
- 1:05Speaker 1: important for us to do several things. First, to refocus
- 1:10Speaker 1: our attention on the Lord and on the goal. Second,
- 1:14Speaker 1: to maintain a healthy balance. Third, to return to a
- 1:19Speaker 1: rallying point. And fourth and finally, to re-energize our spirits
- 1:26Speaker 1: through ministry to others. So, with all four of those
- 1:30Speaker 1: in mind, let's read Nehemiah's story from chapter 4, beginning
- 1:35Speaker 1: at verse 9. But we prayed to our God, and
- 1:41Speaker 1: because of them we set up a guard against them
- 1:43Speaker 1: day and night. Thus in Judah it was said, The
- 1:49Speaker 1: strength of the burden-bearers is failings, yet there is much rubbish,
- 1:54Speaker 1: and we ourselves are unable to rebuild the wall. Our
- 1:59Speaker 1: enemies said, They will not know or see until we
- 2:03Speaker 1: come among them, kill them, and put a stop to
- 2:06Speaker 1: the work. When the Jews who lived near them came
- 2:10Speaker 1: and told us ten times, They will come up against
- 2:13Speaker 1: us from every place where you may turn, then I
- 2:17Speaker 1: stationed men in the lowest parts of the space behind
- 2:20Speaker 1: the wall, the exposed places, and I stationed the people
- 2:25Speaker 1: in families with their swords, spears, and bows. When I
- 2:30Speaker 1: saw their fear, I rose and spoke to the nobles,
- 2:33Speaker 1: the officials, and the rest of the people. Do not
- 2:36Speaker 1: be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great
- 2:40Speaker 1: and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters,
- 2:44Speaker 1: your wives, and your houses. When our enemies heard that
- 2:49Speaker 1: it was known to us and that God had frustrated
- 2:52Speaker 1: their plans, then all of us returned to the wall,
- 2:56Speaker 1: each one to his work. From that day on, half
- 3:01Speaker 1: of my servants carried on the work while half of
- 3:04Speaker 1: them held the spears, the shields, the bows, and the breastplates,
- 3:10Speaker 1: and the captains were behind the whole house of Judah.
- 3:14Speaker 1: Those who were rebuilding the wall and those who carried
- 3:16Speaker 1: burdens took their load with one hand doing the work,
- 3:21Speaker 1: and the other holding a weapon. As for the builders,
- 3:25Speaker 1: each wore his sword girded at his side as he built,
- 3:30Speaker 1: while the trumpeter stood near me. I said to the nobles,
- 3:35Speaker 1: the officials, and the rest of the people, The work
- 3:38Speaker 1: is great and extensive, and we are separated on the
- 3:41Speaker 1: wall far from one another. At whatever place you hear
- 3:46Speaker 1: the sound of the trumpet, rally to us there. Our
- 3:51Speaker 1: God will fight for us. So we carried on the work,
- 3:57Speaker 1: with half of them holding spears from dawn until the
- 4:01Speaker 1: stars appeared. At that time I also said to the people,
- 4:05Speaker 1: Let each man with his servant spend the night within Jerusalem,
- 4:09Speaker 1: so that they may be a guard for us by night,
- 4:12Speaker 1: and a laborer by day. So neither I, my brothers,
- 4:17Speaker 1: my servants, nor the men of the guard who followed me.
- 4:20Speaker 1: None of us removed our clothes. Each took his weapon,
- 4:25Speaker 1: even to the water.
- 4:28Speaker 2: Mrs. Monroe lives in Darlington, Maryland. She's the mother of
- 4:31Speaker 2: eight children. And except for a few interesting experiences, she's
- 4:35Speaker 2: just like any other mother across America. One experience was
- 4:39Speaker 2: so unique that John Haggai put it in his book,
- 4:43Speaker 2: How to Win Over Worry. She came home one afternoon,
- 4:48Speaker 2: from the grocery store and walked into her home and
- 4:51Speaker 2: everything looked pretty much the same, though it was a
- 4:54Speaker 2: little bit quieter than usual. She looked into the middle
- 4:58Speaker 2: of the living room and five of her darlings were
- 5:01Speaker 2: sitting around in a circle, exceedingly quiet, doing something with
- 5:07Speaker 2: something in the middle of the circle. And so she
- 5:11Speaker 2: put down the sacks of groceries and walked over closely
- 5:14Speaker 2: and looked and saw that they were playing with five
- 5:18Speaker 2: of the cutest skunks you can imagine. She was instantly terrified,
- 5:25Speaker 2: and she said, Run, children, run! And each child grabbed
- 5:30Speaker 2: a skunk and ran in five different directions. One went
- 5:35Speaker 2: to the bedroom, one went to the kitchen, one went
- 5:37Speaker 2: to the bathroom. Another stayed pretty close. And she was
- 5:43Speaker 2: beside herself and screamed louder, more frantically, with great gusto,
- 5:49Speaker 2: and it so scared the children that each one squeezed
- 5:53Speaker 2: his skunk. And as the writer put it, skunks don't
- 5:57Speaker 2: like to be squads. And when I read that story
- 6:02Speaker 2: that Haggai mentions in his book, I cannot help but
- 6:05Speaker 2: think of Nehemiah. You may wonder, why in the world
- 6:09Speaker 2: does that remind me of Nehemiah? I think Nehemiah is
- 6:13Speaker 2: just like Ms. Monroe. He took on a project that
- 6:17Speaker 2: had all the appearance of being harmless and innocent and
- 6:20Speaker 2: simple and quiet. I mean, what could be very exciting
- 6:24Speaker 2: about building a wall around a city? Every city ought
- 6:28Speaker 2: to have a wall, at least cities that were built
- 6:30Speaker 2: in that day. And it seemed as though he would
- 6:32Speaker 2: be able to go, and in the passing of just
- 6:35Speaker 2: a very few weeks, he'd have the wall built and
- 6:37Speaker 2: go back to the capital there in Persia and take
- 6:41Speaker 2: up where he left off, but not so. He looked
- 6:45Speaker 2: over the shoulders of those workmen, if you please, and
- 6:48Speaker 2: he found all of a sudden a can of worms,
- 6:52Speaker 2: or if I could press it, a real problem with
- 6:56Speaker 2: a stink. In fact, the deeper he tried to alleviate
- 7:01Speaker 2: the problem, the greater it became. First, there was sarcasm.
- 7:07Speaker 2: Then there was difficulty from without as far as mockery
- 7:10Speaker 2: is concerned. And that led to open opposition and criticism,
- 7:15Speaker 2: which finally led to a conspiracy, as we've already noted
- 7:19Speaker 2: in chapter 4 of Nehemiah. The conspiracy was so great
- 7:23Speaker 2: that before long, the inevitable took place. Discouragement set in.
- 7:30Speaker 2: And there is nothing quite like dealing with the problem
- 7:34Speaker 2: of discouragement if you are a leader. In other words,
- 7:38Speaker 2: no matter how hard he tried to correct the problems,
- 7:42Speaker 2: they just got worse. They multiplied and magnified as time
- 7:47Speaker 2: went on. I suppose all of us in some measure
- 7:51Speaker 2: have experienced something like Mrs. Monroe or something like Nehemiah
- 7:56Speaker 2: trying to solve a problem and have it only get
- 7:59Speaker 2: worse on your hands and before your own eyes. And
- 8:03Speaker 2: so we come this morning to the problem that has
- 8:06Speaker 2: plagued everyone here and perhaps is right now plaguing you.
- 8:12Speaker 2: The problem of discouragement. I don't know of anything that
- 8:18Speaker 2: will take the wind.
- 8:19Speaker 3: Out of your sails like discouragement.
- 8:24Speaker 2: It was as though Nehemiah could walk back into his
- 8:28Speaker 2: tent and say, well, walls just don't like to be built.
- 8:33Speaker 2: No matter how hard I try, it's getting worse as
- 8:37Speaker 2: time passes. I want us to notice before we get
- 8:42Speaker 2: into the causes and then the cure for discouragement. I
- 8:47Speaker 2: want to notice with you where the discouragement came from. Look,
- 8:53Speaker 2: if you will, at verse 10. We prayed to our God,
- 8:58Speaker 2: says verse 9, and because of the enemy we set
- 9:01Speaker 2: up a guard. And then verse 10 says, Thus in
- 9:08Speaker 2: Judah it was said. Now that may not mean very
- 9:14Speaker 2: much to you if you're not familiar with Judah. But
- 9:17Speaker 2: it means a whole lot to people that are serious
- 9:20Speaker 2: Bible students. Genesis 49 and verse 10 tells us something.
- 9:25Speaker 3: About Judah that is worth noting.
- 9:28Speaker 2: Hold your place here and look back at the next
- 9:30Speaker 2: to last chapter of the first book of your Bible.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Find verse 8 of Genesis 49. You will discover that
- 9:39Speaker 2: Judah was not just any kind of tribe among the
- 9:44Speaker 2: people of Israel.
- 9:46Speaker 3: Judah was the leader.
- 9:49Speaker 2: Genesis 49.8, Judah, your brothers shall praise you. Now these
- 9:57Speaker 2: are the words of Jacob according to verse 1. the
- 10:01Speaker 2: father of these sons and he is summoning his sons
- 10:06Speaker 2: before him and he's casting upon them blessings warnings predictions
- 10:12Speaker 2: encouragements and when he comes to Judah he says Judah
- 10:17Speaker 2: you're going to be a leader among the family Your
- 10:20Speaker 2: brothers will praise you. Verse 10, the scepter shall not
- 10:25Speaker 2: depart from Judah, nor the ruler's staff from between his
- 10:30Speaker 2: feet until Shiloh comes. You could in your own mind
- 10:36Speaker 2: imagine the word Shiloh to mean Messiah. Judah, you will
- 10:42Speaker 2: be the messianic tribe. Through your loins there will someday
- 10:47Speaker 2: be born Messiah. the Savior of the world, the Messiah,
- 10:53Speaker 2: the scepter will never depart from you. And to him,
- 10:58Speaker 2: that is unto Shiloh, shall be the obedience of the peoples. Now,
- 11:03Speaker 2: aside from the prophetic impact of this verse, there is
- 11:07Speaker 2: a practical factor. These people of Judah were to be
- 11:12Speaker 2: respected and Because they were the chosen ones through whom
- 11:17Speaker 2: the Lord Jesus someday would be born. But when you
- 11:21Speaker 2: get to Nehemiah 4, you find that it's Judah of
- 11:24Speaker 2: all the peoples who are bringing the words of discouragement
- 11:29Speaker 2: to the group. Not only were they coming from Judah,
- 11:35Speaker 2: but verse 12 tells us something else. Another source of discouragement.
- 11:43Speaker 2: It came about when the Jews who lived near them.
- 11:49Speaker 2: Near whom? Near the enemy. The ones who said in
- 11:53Speaker 2: verse 11, we will kill them. We will put a
- 11:57Speaker 2: stop to the work. Well, there were Jews who lived
- 12:02Speaker 2: near that information. And they kept having it bombard their
- 12:07Speaker 2: ears day after day. In fact... We read in verse
- 12:13Speaker 2: 12 that they came and told us ten times. The
- 12:19Speaker 2: handwriting is on the wall. It's just a matter of
- 12:22Speaker 2: time before we will be wiped off the face of
- 12:25Speaker 2: the earth. The information of discouragement came from people that
- 12:30Speaker 2: lived near it. You see, you cannot live around negativism
- 12:37Speaker 2: and not have some of it rub off on you.
- 12:40Speaker 2: Which is one of the whole points we want to
- 12:42Speaker 2: make this morning about discouragement. If you are given to discouragement,
- 12:48Speaker 2: you cannot run the risk of spending a lot of
- 12:52Speaker 2: your time with people that give constant discouraging information. It
- 12:58Speaker 2: happens on a mission field just like it happens here
- 13:01Speaker 2: in the States. It's true no matter what your status
- 13:05Speaker 2: in life may be. So first it came from Judah,
- 13:08Speaker 2: which was very surprising. And then it came from these
- 13:12Speaker 2: Jews that lived near the critics, which was very significant.
- 13:17Speaker 2: Let's notice the cause, aside from what we've mentioned. Let's
- 13:21Speaker 2: notice four causes for discouragement. And they are mentioned here,
- 13:25Speaker 2: beginning at verse 10. Verse 10 says, Judah said, the
- 13:33Speaker 2: strength of the burden bearers is failing. Reason number one,
- 13:40Speaker 2: In this passage for discouragement is a loss of strength.
- 13:46Speaker 2: A loss of energy.
- 13:49Speaker 3: They were tired.
- 13:51Speaker 2: You see the word failing? The strength is failing. The
- 13:56Speaker 2: original text says stumbling, tottering, staggering under the load. These people, Nehemiah,
- 14:08Speaker 2: have been working a long time and they're getting tired. Well,
- 14:15Speaker 2: how long had they been building this wall? That's quite important.
- 14:20Speaker 2: Look up at verse 6. We built the wall and
- 14:25Speaker 2: the whole wall was joined together to half its height.
- 14:32Speaker 3: They were halfway through.
- 14:35Speaker 2: The newness... Had worn off. Let me make it even
- 14:39Speaker 2: more practical. You know when discouragement sets in? When you're halfway.
- 14:45Speaker 3: Through with a job.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Ever bought a new car? I'm sure we all have.
- 14:52Speaker 2: Or at least a used car that we call new.
- 14:55Speaker 2: You know when it got tiring? When we were halfway
- 14:57Speaker 2: through paying for it. That's when it got tiring. You
- 15:00Speaker 2: wore a cast on your leg. You know when that
- 15:02Speaker 2: gets tiring? When you're halfway through. the period of time
- 15:06Speaker 2: you've got to wear the cast. You've undertaken a difficult
- 15:10Speaker 2: project of redecorating your home. You know when's the most
- 15:13Speaker 2: discouraging time when the mess gets to be more than
- 15:16Speaker 2: you can handle? When you're halfway through redecorating your home.
- 15:22Speaker 2: Ever tried climbing a mountain? Isn't it amazing how you
- 15:25Speaker 2: can be fooled by a mountain? You look up and
- 15:28Speaker 2: you say, oh, maybe, maybe an hour. Oh, an hour
- 15:34Speaker 2: and 30 minutes at the most. Three hours later, when
- 15:37Speaker 2: you're halfway up, you look back down and you say, man,
- 15:43Speaker 2: I think the Lord's leading us to go back down
- 15:45Speaker 2: now that we've gone and seen this site because halfway
- 15:49Speaker 2: is discouraging. That's what had happened. We're getting tired, Nehemiah.
- 15:57Speaker 2: The strength of these that have been working is failing.
- 16:02Speaker 2: We'll get on to something in a moment on how
- 16:04Speaker 2: to handle that problem of tiredness, but one of the
- 16:07Speaker 2: most wonderful ways to handle it is to change the pace.
- 16:12Speaker 2: And that's what Nehemiah does, but we'll deal with that
- 16:14Speaker 2: in just a minute. Look at the second. There was
- 16:17Speaker 2: a loss of vision. You notice what Judah says? Yet
- 16:22Speaker 2: there is much rubbish. The word yet is significant because
- 16:29Speaker 2: it connects you with the previous statement. The strength of
- 16:32Speaker 2: the burden bearers, it's being expended and it's failing. Yet,
- 16:37Speaker 2: in spite of all the work, there's a lot of rubbish.
- 16:44Speaker 2: The Hebrew word means dry earth.
- 16:47Speaker 3: Debris.
- 16:49Speaker 2: It's the word for that. We look around Nehemiah and
- 16:53Speaker 2: all we can see is debris. Dirt. Broken stones. dried up, hard,
- 17:02Speaker 2: heavy mortar. It's getting tiring.
- 17:07Speaker 3: There's too much rubbish.
- 17:10Speaker 2: You know what they had lost? They had lost the
- 17:13Speaker 2: vision of the wall when it's completed. I think a
- 17:18Speaker 2: perfect illustration of this is a young mother with an
- 17:24Speaker 2: infant who has changed, oh, 50 years. 60 diapers today, okay?
- 17:34Speaker 2: And she looks at the situation and she says, there's
- 17:37Speaker 2: too much rubbish, too much mess, too many diapers, too
- 17:43Speaker 2: much work. And what does she lose? She loses the
- 17:46Speaker 2: vision of that growing child and the delight of introducing
- 17:51Speaker 2: him to society. She loses the whole role of motherhood
- 17:56Speaker 2: because of the rubbish. Some of you are involved in
- 18:00Speaker 2: jobs right now that are very demanding, even threatening. They're hard,
- 18:05Speaker 2: they're harsh, difficult people to work with. And you can
- 18:09Speaker 2: begin to lose the whole vision of.
- 18:13Speaker 3: Your work because of the rubbish.
- 18:16Speaker 2: I don't know of a musician that hasn't labored through
- 18:19Speaker 2: hours of practice to become perfect. Or an athlete. It
- 18:24Speaker 2: is in the work and the labor and practice where
- 18:27Speaker 2: nobody is around that a musician emerges. Or any artist
- 18:34Speaker 2: in the long demanding hours with the rubbish. That's what
- 18:40Speaker 2: had happened. There's too much rubbish. We can't see the
- 18:44Speaker 2: wall finished. And there's nothing like a loss of vision
- 18:48Speaker 2: to reduce enthusiasms. All you've got to do is move
- 18:53Speaker 2: into a new house to know how true that is.
- 18:55Speaker 2: I'm going to share with you something that's.
- 18:58Speaker 3: True in my life.
- 19:01Speaker 2: And I'm happy to report things are changing a little bit.
- 19:04Speaker 2: And if God can do it in my life, He
- 19:06Speaker 2: can do it in any life. I want to assure you.
- 19:08Speaker 2: For many, many years in our marriage, I wanted a
- 19:12Speaker 2: house that was immaculate. Okay? I wanted the home to
- 19:22Speaker 2: be just a picture. Every bed made, you know, you
- 19:29Speaker 2: can flip a coin, it'll bounce on it. Every bathroom cleaned,
- 19:34Speaker 2: every dish, every smudge, really nice. We had that for
- 19:40Speaker 2: six years in our home. And then God introduced to
- 19:46Speaker 2: us a reason that that could no longer be possible.
- 19:52Speaker 2: And he introduced it again and again and again. Well,
- 19:58Speaker 2: I thought he would never stop introducing reasons for the
- 20:02Speaker 2: home to be kept clean. You know, I felt at times,
- 20:13Speaker 2: you know, it would be nice to just hang a
- 20:15Speaker 2: little sign up that says disaster area, enter at your
- 20:18Speaker 2: own risk type of thing. And I was irked at that.
- 20:21Speaker 2: I was irritated about it. And what was my problem?
- 20:27Speaker 2: I was all involved in the rubbish. Because I saw
- 20:32Speaker 2: the rubbish and I saw no home.
- 20:36Speaker 3: Until today.
- 20:37Speaker 2: Finally, through some very difficult changes that had to take
- 20:42Speaker 2: place in my life, I began to realize we cannot
- 20:47Speaker 2: raise this family in a way that is free and
- 20:52Speaker 2: relaxed and delightful without having some mess in the process.
- 20:57Speaker 2: And you know what? When I lost the vision of
- 20:59Speaker 2: the rubbish and I gained the vision of the home, wow,
- 21:03Speaker 2: not only have I been happier, My wife is a
- 21:07Speaker 2: little bit happier too these days because now there is
- 21:11Speaker 2: a vision beyond the rubbish. You see, it is so
- 21:18Speaker 2: possible to be involved in the trees that you miss
- 21:21Speaker 2: the forest. Rubbish discourages you. Too much rubbish. There was also,
- 21:28Speaker 2: perhaps the worst of the four, a loss of confidence.
- 21:31Speaker 2: We ourselves are unable to rebuild the walls. When you
- 21:36Speaker 2: lose strength, when you lose vision, then you lose confidence.
- 21:41Speaker 2: And when you've lost your confidence, discouragement is winking at
- 21:46Speaker 2: you around the corner. Look up at verse 6.
- 21:50Speaker 3: We built the wall.
- 21:52Speaker 2: It was joined to half its height. Why? The people
- 21:56Speaker 2: had a heart to work, the Hebrew says. I'm suggesting
- 22:00Speaker 2: in verse 10 they lost their heart. When you lose
- 22:04Speaker 2: your confidence, you lose your heart. You lose your motivation.
- 22:10Speaker 2: A number of things.
- 22:11Speaker 3: Can cause that.
- 22:13Speaker 2: But there is this empty feeling, this overwhelming sense that
- 22:17Speaker 2: I am not ever going to catch up. Ever had
- 22:21Speaker 2: that feeling?
- 22:23Speaker 3: It just happens about every other day.
- 22:25Speaker 2: For you sometime, doesn't it? I'll never be able to
- 22:29Speaker 2: catch up. And my heart especially is touched by the student.
- 22:33Speaker 2: The student at this time of year is going through
- 22:36Speaker 2: terrible pains. You may hear them groan nearby as I
- 22:40Speaker 2: say that. Final time is around the corner. They're into it.
- 22:46Speaker 2: And it's easy to think only in terms of exams
- 22:49Speaker 2: and another year and another year, another postgraduate course, another area,
- 22:55Speaker 2: and to forget, you know, there's an education, there's a career,
- 22:58Speaker 2: there's a vision beyond this that's better than any of
- 23:01Speaker 2: these tests could ever make it. But you can lose
- 23:05Speaker 2: your confidence, lose your cool, lose your calm, and discouragement
- 23:10Speaker 2: just comes in like an enemy. You lose your heart. Fourth,
- 23:15Speaker 2: in their case, they lost their security. Our enemy said,
- 23:20Speaker 2: verse 11, they will not know or see until we
- 23:24Speaker 2: come among them and kill them and put a stop
- 23:28Speaker 2: to the work.
- 23:29Speaker 3: That's what I call a scare tactic.
- 23:32Speaker 2: The enemy said... We've got a plan. Oh, we're not
- 23:36Speaker 2: going to tell anybody what the plan is. But when
- 23:40Speaker 2: you aren't ready, we'll slip in. And that'll be it.
- 23:50Speaker 2: We'll handle it so fast and so efficiently, you'll never
- 23:54Speaker 2: know we were even there.
- 23:58Speaker 3: They lost their security.
- 24:03Speaker 2: You know, there are a lot of areas of security
- 24:05Speaker 2: that we hang on to for encouragement.
- 24:09Speaker 3: One is a good job.
- 24:13Speaker 2: If all of your security is wrapped up in your job,
- 24:16Speaker 2: then all you need to do is lose that job
- 24:21Speaker 2: and discouragement will swamp you. Let that job be threatened.
- 24:28Speaker 2: And you've lost an area of tangible security.
- 24:32Speaker 3: Let me name another one. A solid, happy home.
- 24:37Speaker 2: You can zing along and roll and sail from one
- 24:40Speaker 2: day to the next. And then suddenly one of the
- 24:44Speaker 2: partners comes or one of the children comes and says,
- 24:47Speaker 2: you know, let me tell you the truth about things.
- 24:52Speaker 2: And they just lay it out in front of you.
- 24:54Speaker 2: I've had husbands sitting in front of me when their
- 24:56Speaker 2: wives tell them the facts about their marriage. And I've
- 25:01Speaker 2: seen discouragement sweep across the thinking and the mind of
- 25:05Speaker 2: that man until he's useless. Because the security of that
- 25:11Speaker 2: home is threatened. And discouragement comes. Let me tell you
- 25:21Speaker 2: another one. A set of friends And familiar circumstances.
- 25:27Speaker 3: You know what threatens that?
- 25:29Speaker 2: A move. To some other part of the country. Let's
- 25:33Speaker 2: take for example that your husband comes home. Tomorrow afternoon
- 25:36Speaker 2: and says honey. The company wants to move us. To Bangor, Maine. Bangor, Maine.
- 25:46Speaker 2: What in the world is in Bangor, Maine? I mean
- 25:49Speaker 2: everything you know and love is in Southern California. You've
- 25:53Speaker 2: never been, you know, beyond eastern Arizona. The whole lifestyle
- 25:59Speaker 2: has been California. And all of the tangibles that you've
- 26:03Speaker 2: hung on to for security are threatened. And I'll tell you,
- 26:11Speaker 2: in an instant, discouragement can come.
- 26:15Speaker 3: You can just be finished.
- 26:18Speaker 2: Now you might think discouragement is only for those that
- 26:21Speaker 2: aren't walking with God. That's not true. If I may
- 26:25Speaker 2: quote from Charles Haddon Spurgeon, perhaps the greatest voice England
- 26:29Speaker 2: ever heard, at least in the Baptist movement, he was
- 26:34Speaker 2: a marvelous spokesman for God. In fact, you know, before
- 26:38Speaker 2: he was even 30, he was addressing over 5,000 people
- 26:43Speaker 2: in one sitting. They called him to the church, that
- 26:46Speaker 2: tabernacle church.
- 26:47Speaker 3: In London when he was 23. Here's Spurgeon's words.
- 26:53Speaker 2: Before any great achievement in my life, some measure of
- 26:57Speaker 2: depression is very usual. Such was my experience when I
- 27:03Speaker 2: first became a pastor in London. My success appalled me.
- 27:09Speaker 2: And the thought of that career which seemed to be
- 27:11Speaker 2: opening up so far from elating me cast me into
- 27:15Speaker 2: the lowest depths out of which I uttered my misery.
- 27:19Speaker 2: I found no room for a Gloria in excelsis. Who
- 27:24Speaker 2: was I that I should continue to lead so great
- 27:27Speaker 2: a multitude? I would slip away to my village obscurity.
- 27:34Speaker 2: Or prefer to emigrate to America and find a solitary
- 27:38Speaker 2: nest in the backwoods. You ever wanted that, by the way?
- 27:41Speaker 2: Pardon me, Spurgeon, for interrupting. But haven't you thought at
- 27:44Speaker 2: times saying to yourself, oh, if I could just get away.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Meaning what? Escape! Escape! Get away from the demands. Oh,
- 27:52Speaker 2: I thought about that solitary nest in the backwoods where
- 27:56Speaker 2: I might be sufficient for the things that were demanded
- 28:00Speaker 2: of me. It was just then, now listen, that the
- 28:03Speaker 2: curtain was rising on my greatest life's work, and I
- 28:09Speaker 2: dreaded what it might reveal to me. I hope I
- 28:13Speaker 2: was not faithless, but I was timorous and filled with
- 28:18Speaker 2: a sense of Of my own unfitness. This depression sweeps
- 28:24Speaker 2: over me. Whenever the Lord is preparing. A larger blessing.
- 28:30Speaker 2: For my life in ministry. I've had the same experience.
- 28:36Speaker 2: I'm not in that league. But I've had the same experience.
- 28:40Speaker 2: Just before the doors are open. All the way. I
- 28:45Speaker 2: seem to slump into a discouragement. And I'm hesitant to
- 28:50Speaker 2: move through. And God graciously boots me in the seat
- 28:54Speaker 2: of my pants. And I find myself on the other
- 28:57Speaker 2: side and I think, oh man, that's great. And I forget.
- 29:01Speaker 3: But I shouldn't.
- 29:03Speaker 2: Because some of you right now are just before the door.
- 29:07Speaker 2: You've lost your strength. You've lost your confidence. You've lost
- 29:11Speaker 2: your vision. You've lost your security. And there's that feeling,
- 29:15Speaker 2: oh man, it isn't worth it. And I want you
- 29:18Speaker 2: to know it's quite possible you are just about to
- 29:21Speaker 2: that place of worth where you cannot believe what's coming.
- 29:29Speaker 2: And so it was in the building of the wall. My,
- 29:34Speaker 2: what a challenge for Nehemiah. Now, he didn't ignore the discouragement.
- 29:39Speaker 2: You can't ignore discouragement. It's like ignoring a flat tire.
- 29:43Speaker 2: You can't ignore a flat tire. Pray all you want to,
- 29:46Speaker 2: drive all you want to, that thing never.
- 29:48Speaker 3: Will get air back in it.
- 29:50Speaker 2: You've got to fix it. And that's the way it
- 29:53Speaker 2: is with discouragement. Nehemiah rolled up his sleeves and says,
- 29:57Speaker 2: wait a minute. Hold it. Verse 13. The first thing
- 30:03Speaker 2: he did, he unified the people around the same goal.
- 30:08Speaker 3: That's the first thing he did.
- 30:11Speaker 2: Let's back off and take a long look at what
- 30:14Speaker 2: we're doing. He unified the people around the same goal.
- 30:20Speaker 2: I stationed men in the lowest parts of the space
- 30:24Speaker 2: behind the wall and the exposed places. Look carefully. I
- 30:30Speaker 2: stationed the people in families with their swords, spears and bows.
- 30:37Speaker 2: Now that's significant.
- 30:39Speaker 3: Where have they been?
- 30:40Speaker 2: They've been scattered all over Jerusalem. In the perimeter. Working
- 30:48Speaker 2: with stones, working with water and mortar, working together and
- 30:53Speaker 2: yet separated from families. He unified them according to families,
- 31:01Speaker 2: which tells me something.
- 31:02Speaker 3: The basic source.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Of encouragement ought to be the family, not the church.
- 31:13Speaker 3: Do you really believe that?
- 31:16Speaker 2: When your children come home to roost, is there encouragement?
- 31:22Speaker 2: Or is that when all hell breaks loose? When dad
- 31:27Speaker 2: comes home from work, does that bring encouragement or does
- 31:29Speaker 2: that add pressure? The home is a basic source, or
- 31:36Speaker 2: should be, of encouragement. They were discouraged. He says, come on,
- 31:41Speaker 2: let's get together. According to families, you folks sit there,
- 31:46Speaker 2: you're stationed there, you're there, and he forced them together
- 31:49Speaker 2: as a unit. You know what I noticed in the
- 31:53Speaker 2: process of doing it? He stopped the work. Sometime the
- 31:58Speaker 2: very best thing to do when you're discouraged is to
- 32:02Speaker 2: take some time off. There's an old Greek proverb that says,
- 32:08Speaker 2: you will break the bow if you keep it always stretched.
- 32:15Speaker 3: How tight is your bow?
- 32:19Speaker 2: You know, it took Ken a long time to tell
- 32:21Speaker 2: us he was going to Hawaii to have a good time.
- 32:24Speaker 2: I expected him to just stand up and say, we're
- 32:26Speaker 2: taking off to Hawaii to have a good time. But,
- 32:29Speaker 2: you know, he wanted to say it so that he
- 32:31Speaker 2: understood that it was all taken care of and whatever.
- 32:34Speaker 2: But basically, Ken, we want you to know that's the
- 32:38Speaker 2: greatest news we can hear. I just wish you needed
- 32:41Speaker 2: an interpreter for the process of time in Hawaii. Vance
- 32:46Speaker 2: Hafner says, if you don't come apart... you'll come apart.
- 32:52Speaker 2: When's the last time you got away? Pull the kids
- 32:55Speaker 2: out of school. A couple of three days because you
- 32:59Speaker 2: had to. The bow is tight long enough. You know,
- 33:04Speaker 2: when you talked about the ministry in Hawaii and all that,
- 33:07Speaker 2: I had a fellow in seminary.
- 33:09Speaker 3: Dave Nicholas was his name.
- 33:10Speaker 2: He used to always tell us that God was calling
- 33:13Speaker 2: him to be a missionary to the Jews in Miami Beach,
- 33:15Speaker 2: is what he had in mind. And he kept telling
- 33:18Speaker 2: us to pray that God would lead us. What's the
- 33:24Speaker 2: deal about being so uptight and intense and constant in
- 33:28Speaker 2: our work? I'll tell you, I take time off. If
- 33:33Speaker 2: I didn't take time off, I'd crack up. And I
- 33:37Speaker 2: ask of our men on this staff, they take time off,
- 33:40Speaker 2: at times demand it. And you need time away. Maybe
- 33:47Speaker 2: not long chunks of it. You can't afford that.
- 33:50Speaker 3: I got the sweetest letter.
- 33:51Speaker 2: From a member in our church just this past week.
- 33:53Speaker 2: He said, we just got back from the mountains. The
- 33:56Speaker 2: majesty of God was there. And while we were there,
- 34:00Speaker 2: we thought about you and we prayed. And how refreshed
- 34:03Speaker 2: we are these few days away. He stopped the work
- 34:09Speaker 2: and he says, wait, let's get together as a family.
- 34:16Speaker 2: That'll do a lot to stop discouragement. Now look at
- 34:19Speaker 2: the next step.
- 34:20Speaker 3: Verse 14.
- 34:23Speaker 2: He directed their attention to the Lord. Where were they looking?
- 34:28Speaker 2: At the rubbish. They needed to be looking at the Lord.
- 34:33Speaker 2: When I saw their fear, I rose.
- 34:35Speaker 3: Look at this.
- 34:37Speaker 2: He took charge. That's the job of the leader. He
- 34:40Speaker 2: took charge. He rose and spoke to them and he said,
- 34:44Speaker 2: do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord who
- 34:49Speaker 2: is great and awesome. Comes to my mind as I
- 34:56Speaker 2: read this, how do we remember the Lord? Don't you
- 35:00Speaker 2: wonder that when you read this verse, you think, remember
- 35:03Speaker 2: the Lord. That sounds so right and so good. How
- 35:06Speaker 2: do you do it? A couple of things hung in
- 35:11Speaker 2: my mind this week as I was thinking about the
- 35:13Speaker 2: process of remembering the Lord. First of all, you remember,
- 35:17Speaker 2: you call to mind some of the things the Lord
- 35:19Speaker 2: has said. You actually put in your mind some of
- 35:25Speaker 2: the words God has spoken. For example, thou will keep
- 35:34Speaker 2: him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on thee.
- 35:39Speaker 3: Because he trusts in thee.
- 35:42Speaker 2: Isaiah 26. 4. 3 and 4. Philippians 4. 6. Do
- 35:51Speaker 2: not be bothered about anything. But in everything. By prayer
- 35:56Speaker 2: and supplication. With thanksgiving. Let your requests be made known
- 36:00Speaker 2: unto God. And the peace of God. That passes understanding.
- 36:04Speaker 2: Shall keep your hearts. And minds through Christ Jesus. You
- 36:10Speaker 2: remember the Lord by remembering what the Lord has said.
- 36:16Speaker 2: Could you call to mind right now five, six, eight,
- 36:19Speaker 2: ten good solid promises that you can claim beginning tomorrow morning?
- 36:24Speaker 2: Because believe me, the devil knows you're hearing this message.
- 36:29Speaker 2: And he will attack you in ways you cannot believe
- 36:31Speaker 2: with discouragement. Are you ready with the... The living darts
- 36:39Speaker 2: to shoot back. The sword of the spirit. To tell
- 36:43Speaker 2: yourself what God has said when you remember him. The
- 36:48Speaker 2: Christian must know.
- 36:49Speaker 3: What God has said.
- 36:50Speaker 2: There's another way to remember the Lord. That is to
- 36:56Speaker 2: call to mind who he is.
- 36:58Speaker 3: We often miss that.
- 37:02Speaker 2: When is the last time you reflected, perhaps laying flat
- 37:05Speaker 2: on your back looking up at the stars, or getting
- 37:08Speaker 2: all alone in a quiet place of the home, or
- 37:13Speaker 2: some area where you could get alone, even if you
- 37:15Speaker 2: had to drive to get there, and call to mind
- 37:20Speaker 2: the greatness of God? Nehemiah says you've got your eyes
- 37:28Speaker 2: on the rubbish, the rocks, the projects, Get your eyes
- 37:34Speaker 2: on the Lord. People that are discouraged are thinking mainly
- 37:39Speaker 2: about one thing.
- 37:41Speaker 3: Themselves.
- 37:44Speaker 2: And these people were no exception. So he unified them
- 37:49Speaker 2: around the same goal. That means he had to stop
- 37:53Speaker 2: the process of work to get them alone.
- 37:55Speaker 3: Second.
- 37:58Speaker 2: He put their eyes on the Lord. He directed them
- 38:01Speaker 2: to remember the Lord. What did he do thirdly? He
- 38:04Speaker 2: encouraged them to maintain a balance. Discouraged people usually are
- 38:11Speaker 2: in one of the swings of the pendulum. One extreme
- 38:14Speaker 2: or another. Nehemiah pulled the.
- 38:17Speaker 3: Pendulum back in balance. How did he do it?
- 38:22Speaker 2: Look at verse 15. Well, 14 concludes, fight for your brothers,
- 38:28Speaker 2: your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your houses. Now
- 38:33Speaker 2: you've got to fight. There's a job to be done.
- 38:36Speaker 2: Load the weapon. Verse 15, it happened when our enemies
- 38:41Speaker 2: heard that it was known to us that God.
- 38:44Speaker 3: Had frustrated their plan. Look at that.
- 38:49Speaker 2: Then all of us returned to the wall, each one
- 38:51Speaker 2: to his work. It came about, now watch the balance.
- 38:55Speaker 2: From that day on, half of the servants carried on
- 38:59Speaker 2: the work, but half of them held the spears and
- 39:03Speaker 2: the shields, the weapons for defense. Verse 17 says, those
- 39:10Speaker 2: who were rebuilding the wall and those who carried the
- 39:13Speaker 2: burdens took their load with one hand doing the work,
- 39:16Speaker 2: and with the other hand they held a weapon. That's
- 39:19Speaker 2: the Christian life. I'm really weary of the Christians today
- 39:24Speaker 2: who do nothing but fight. I'm also weary of the
- 39:28Speaker 2: Christian who says there's no reason ever to fight. I'm
- 39:33Speaker 2: greatly attracted to the Christian that says there's both building
- 39:38Speaker 2: and battle. Every saint that's done a job has been balanced.
- 39:45Speaker 2: Let me call to mind a couple of them. We
- 39:48Speaker 2: have an English Bible in our laps, humanly speaking, because
- 39:53Speaker 2: of John Wycliffe, who was known not only as a builder,
- 39:58Speaker 2: forging out the text of the English Bible, but as
- 40:02Speaker 2: one who did battle. So much so that when he died,
- 40:06Speaker 2: they martyred him. They burnt him and took the dust,
- 40:12Speaker 2: the ashes of his body, and sprinkled them over that
- 40:15Speaker 2: river that flows through London. And, you know, we're forever
- 40:20Speaker 2: worth rid of Wycliffe. Oh, yeah? There's an English Bible
- 40:25Speaker 2: that lives on because he did more than fight.
- 40:28Speaker 3: He stayed at the task.
- 40:30Speaker 2: Remember Bunyan? John Bunyan? Fighter? Builder? They threw him in prison.
- 40:39Speaker 3: That'll finish him off.
- 40:41Speaker 2: Oh, that's where he emerged. What did he do in
- 40:44Speaker 2: the prison? He wrote Pilgrim's Progress. You see, he could
- 40:48Speaker 2: do more than fight. He added by a personal investment
- 40:55Speaker 2: the truths of Pilgrim's Progress, the second loved book, most
- 40:59Speaker 2: loved book among Christians today. A balance. What a beautiful balance.
- 41:07Speaker 3: Let me say one more thing.
- 41:09Speaker 2: You be very careful about what you embrace concerning what
- 41:13Speaker 2: is passed off in some people's lives as the deeper
- 41:17Speaker 2: life Now I believe in the deeper life.
- 41:21Speaker 3: But be very careful about the passive. Message. That is
- 41:27Speaker 3: often given. Where you know we do nothing.
- 41:31Speaker 2: And therefore there's no battle. God does it all. I
- 41:38Speaker 2: have never.
- 41:39Speaker 3: Found that to be true. I question that.
- 41:46Speaker 2: In fact. I. I called to mind with a chuckle
- 41:49Speaker 2: the words of Harry Ironside. Wish I could have known
- 41:52Speaker 2: that great man. He said this, What is passed off
- 41:57Speaker 2: as the deeper life would be very good.
- 42:01Speaker 3: If we were rich and blind.
- 42:03Speaker 2: I could tell by your response you're not sure how
- 42:09Speaker 2: to take that, so let me clarify it. If you're rich,
- 42:12Speaker 2: you have no interruptions, no irritations. Just hire it done.
- 42:17Speaker 2: If you're blind, you have no temptations. There's no battle
- 42:19Speaker 2: with the flesh. What does a blind person know about
- 42:22Speaker 2: the lust of the flesh brought in by the eye gate?
- 42:27Speaker 2: But I want you to know if you've got sight,
- 42:30Speaker 2: and if you're struggling for a living, like the rest
- 42:32Speaker 2: of us, you've got a battle on your hands.
- 42:37Speaker 3: And there are some.
- 42:37Speaker 2: Practical steps you can take to sweep away those tempting moments.
- 42:45Speaker 2: But you've got to take them.
- 42:49Speaker 3: And God comes in like a flood.
- 42:51Speaker 2: They held a weapon, but they kept building the wall.
- 42:55Speaker 2: I hope my life is characterized by one thing.
- 42:59Speaker 3: Balance. That's my goal for life.
- 43:03Speaker 2: God, keep me balanced. And I'm sure that was Nehemiah's
- 43:09Speaker 2: goal because he was. The fourth thing that Nehemiah did,
- 43:13Speaker 2: he provided a rallying point. That may not seem clear,
- 43:17Speaker 2: so let's clarify it. Verse 19, I said to the nobles,
- 43:22Speaker 2: the officials, and the rest of the people, the work
- 43:26Speaker 2: is great and extensive, and we are separated on the
- 43:31Speaker 2: wall from one another, far from one another. Now here's
- 43:36Speaker 2: the rallying point. Verse 20, I love this. At whatever
- 43:41Speaker 2: place you hear the sound of the trumpet.
- 43:44Speaker 3: Rally to us there. Our God will fight for us.
- 43:51Speaker 2: What was the rallying point? First of all, it was
- 43:53Speaker 2: a place. Second, it was a principle. The place was
- 43:59Speaker 2: wherever there was a gathering of people around the trumpet.
- 44:05Speaker 2: Then you were to go there. For example, Nehemiah walked
- 44:08Speaker 2: from place to place overseeing the building of the wall.
- 44:12Speaker 2: But at any time, the enemy could attack. So he
- 44:15Speaker 2: kept the trumpeter right by his side. He says, when
- 44:18Speaker 2: I nudge you, blow that bugle. Because they're coming. And people,
- 44:23Speaker 2: whenever you hear that trumpet sound, you come to where
- 44:26Speaker 2: the trumpet is. In other words, don't try to fight alone.
- 44:30Speaker 2: You know what that's saying to me? And saying to you?
- 44:36Speaker 2: That we need a rallying point. You know what that means?
- 44:43Speaker 3: A close friend.
- 44:47Speaker 2: Somebody That we can attach ourselves to when the attack comes.
- 44:53Speaker 2: Don't try to fight it alone. You say I don't
- 44:56Speaker 2: need anybody else.
- 44:57Speaker 3: Then you're sick.
- 45:02Speaker 2: You've got a warped idea of Christianity. The response of
- 45:07Speaker 2: the healthy child of God is. I can't possibly do
- 45:10Speaker 2: it alone.
- 45:13Speaker 3: But oh God.
- 45:14Speaker 2: If you will give me. Your strength.
- 45:19Speaker 3: Through your spirit.
- 45:20Speaker 2: And link me with a brother or a sister in
- 45:23Speaker 2: the family. That can encourage me. And I can encourage.
- 45:26Speaker 2: Oh God I'll rally around you. Till the last day
- 45:29Speaker 2: of that test. You say well let's hear scripture for it.
- 45:34Speaker 4: Oh.
- 45:37Speaker 2: When Elijah was at the bottom. Jezebel says you breathe
- 45:41Speaker 2: one more time. And I'll slice your throat so fast.
- 45:44Speaker 2: You won't know it till you sneeze. I'll finish you
- 45:48Speaker 2: off Elijah. So he ran under the juniper tree and
- 45:50Speaker 2: he said, Lord, take my life.
- 45:52Speaker 3: It's not worth it.
- 45:52Speaker 2: I'm all alone.
- 45:54Speaker 3: What did God do?
- 45:55Speaker 2: Well, he catered a meal for the first thing he did.
- 45:58Speaker 2: Brought in the food, you know. He went in the
- 46:01Speaker 2: strength of that food 40 days and 40 nights. Wouldn't
- 46:03Speaker 2: you love to have that recipe, mothers? 40 days and
- 46:06Speaker 2: 40 nights, the same meal held him over. The next
- 46:09Speaker 2: thing he did, said, Elijah, get up.
- 46:11Speaker 3: So he got up.
- 46:12Speaker 2: You're not alone, Elijah. And he gave him what? Elisha.
- 46:16Speaker 2: And the last verse of 1 Kings 19 says, Elisha
- 46:20Speaker 2: ministered to Elijah. And the beautiful part of it is
- 46:25Speaker 2: when he really began to make tracks.
- 46:27Speaker 3: He had a rallying point.
- 46:29Speaker 2: When David was under the gun of Saul, God gave
- 46:32Speaker 2: him Jonathan. And their souls were linked together like one.
- 46:36Speaker 2: They loved each other as they loved their own soul.
- 46:40Speaker 2: Because there was this marvelous bond, this rallying point. discouragement
- 46:46Speaker 2: couldn't find a wedge because of that friend. You've got
- 46:51Speaker 2: somebody like that? It goes back to the ministry and
- 46:54Speaker 2: messages on discipleship, doesn't it? Cultivate someone. Look, long for, pray.
- 47:05Speaker 2: Don't give up until you can link your soul with
- 47:08Speaker 2: another who has a kindred spirit, like-minded, who cares for
- 47:15Speaker 2: your soul and for your needs. Nehemiah says, when you
- 47:19Speaker 2: hear the battle cry, come to where the trumpet is.
- 47:23Speaker 2: That's where strength is. And what's the principle? Not to
- 47:26Speaker 2: come together to flatter each other. Come together for the
- 47:30Speaker 2: principle that says, our God will fight for us. We're
- 47:33Speaker 2: in it together. A real friend says, oh, that's your problem? Well,
- 47:37Speaker 2: let's see how I can pray for you and your problem. No,
- 47:41Speaker 2: a real friend says, that's our need. Let me come
- 47:45Speaker 2: into that with you. Let me enter that valley. I'm
- 47:52Speaker 2: touched by that need. The fifth and final thing that
- 47:56Speaker 2: he did, he occupied them in a ministry of service
- 48:01Speaker 2: to others. Verse 21. We carried on the work. We
- 48:08Speaker 2: carried on the work. Half holding spears and dawn until
- 48:12Speaker 2: the stars appeared. And I said to the people, let
- 48:15Speaker 2: each man with his servant spend the night in Jerusalem,
- 48:19Speaker 2: that they may be a guard for us by night
- 48:22Speaker 2: and a laborer by day. Hey, we need help. I'm
- 48:26Speaker 2: asking these to come in and to serve us. We
- 48:30Speaker 2: can't handle it alone. And in the process of time,
- 48:35Speaker 2: notice in verse 23, they didn't even have time to
- 48:39Speaker 2: change clothes when they went down For a drink of water,
- 48:44Speaker 2: perhaps it means a bath.
- 48:48Speaker 3: They took their weapon. They stayed at the task.
- 48:52Speaker 2: They ministered to one another in service and involvement. You
- 48:57Speaker 2: want to know how to be miserable? Live only unto yourself.
- 49:05Speaker 2: Use I, me, and my as often as possible. Think
- 49:10Speaker 2: only about your needs, your desires, your wants, your pleasures.
- 49:22Speaker 2: And as C.S. Lewis puts it in his book on
- 49:24Speaker 2: four loves, you'll be safe. Just as safe as a
- 49:31Speaker 2: corpse in a coffin. Motionless, dark, airless. No problem of risk.
- 49:42Speaker 2: In fact, your soul will become impenetrable. How involved are
- 49:49Speaker 2: you in others' lives? Honestly now, how involved are you
- 49:56Speaker 2: when you leave this church and we get back together
- 49:59Speaker 2: next Sunday? How much of your life will be spent
- 50:02Speaker 2: for others?
- 50:07Speaker 3: Or is it all wrapped up in yourself?
- 50:11Speaker 2: Every couple here this morning ought to examine their home
- 50:15Speaker 2: and ask themselves, are we living only unto ourselves?
- 50:21Speaker 3: Or are we serving?
- 50:23Speaker 2: You know how to keep from growing old when you retire?
- 50:27Speaker 2: Stay in touch with the needs of others. That's what
- 50:32Speaker 2: touches me deeply when I bury Alter on Tuesday. As
- 50:36Speaker 2: one of the girls in our office said to me,
- 50:39Speaker 2: the heartbreak is that Her breed is dying.
- 50:45Speaker 3: Her breed, her kind is dying. What do I mean?
- 50:50Speaker 2: Since she lost her husband, she's been so busy, you
- 50:52Speaker 2: could hardly find time to ask her to help. She
- 50:54Speaker 2: was one of the first ladies that worked in this
- 50:56Speaker 2: office when I came. Volunteer help, of course. So at
- 51:01Speaker 2: times we needed her a little bit more, so we'd
- 51:03Speaker 2: call her. She says, well, wait a minute, I'll check.
- 51:06Speaker 3: She's 70 then, about 73. She'd go through this book.
- 51:10Speaker 2: All the involvement.
- 51:11Speaker 3: She said, let's see, I could fit you.
- 51:12Speaker 2: In from 2 to 4.
- 51:15Speaker 3: No, 3.30. I could do it.
- 51:16Speaker 2: Well, what are you doing? Well, I'm wrapping bandages for
- 51:19Speaker 2: the Cancer Society. I'm in the ladies auxiliary over here
- 51:22Speaker 2: working for these. I'm doing some work at the hospital.
- 51:25Speaker 2: On and on and on. Involved in others' lives. And
- 51:29Speaker 2: you know what? She never got old.
- 51:34Speaker 3: Just like Caleb.
- 51:36Speaker 2: But retirement to us in America means... Do not bother me.
- 51:43Speaker 2: No time for others. Oh, I think of the manpower
- 51:50Speaker 2: shortage and what a ministry of encouragement God could give
- 51:54Speaker 2: you when he releases you from your workaday world. You
- 51:57Speaker 2: could build into others lives. Nehemiah says, let's don't sit
- 52:00Speaker 2: around and lick our wounds. We need your help.
- 52:04Speaker 3: Come in and help us. We'll go there and help you.
- 52:06Speaker 3: Let's serve.
- 52:07Speaker 2: Let's minister. Isn't that what Christianity is all about? Giving
- 52:12Speaker 2: up my rights? Saying no to myself? May God touch us.
- 52:25Speaker 2: For all I know, that's the reason you're discouraged today.
- 52:29Speaker 2: May He change us. Turn us around.
- 52:33Speaker 1: For a few moments now, let's be quiet before the Lord.
- 52:37Speaker 1: Let's sort of look back over the past few days.
- 52:43Speaker 1: There's something about discouragement and hearing words on discouragement that
- 52:48Speaker 1: sort of invade our lives. No one is immune to discouragement.
- 52:55Speaker 1: It is sort of like a plague that climbs into
- 53:01Speaker 1: our lives uninvited and unwanted and sort of clings to us.
- 53:08Speaker 1: My hope for you today is that you've heard enough
- 53:11Speaker 1: to know how to shake loose from that. The enemy
- 53:15Speaker 1: of our souls, the devil, loves to find us in
- 53:18Speaker 1: a discouraged frame of mind, and when he does, he
- 53:22Speaker 1: moves in like a flood. So let's not allow him
- 53:27Speaker 1: any space today. Lord, today I pray that you would
- 53:32Speaker 1: bring deliverance and relief to those who are swamped with
- 53:38Speaker 1: the ever-rising tide of discouragement. I pray for those who
- 53:43Speaker 1: are caught in the swampy backwash, the slimy waters of discouragement, depression,
- 53:49Speaker 1: the dark feelings that leave us hopeless, almost as if
- 53:55Speaker 1: things will never change. There's something about life going on
- 54:00Speaker 1: and on through times of discouragement that steals our joy.
- 54:07Speaker 1: So today, I pray that you will Give each one
- 54:10Speaker 1: of us a hope beyond the heartbreak that we're going through.
- 54:15Speaker 1: Thank you for strength that comes to us in weak moments.
- 54:22Speaker 1: I remember the words of the Apostle Peter that if
- 54:26Speaker 1: we humble ourselves before the mighty hand of God, you
- 54:30Speaker 1: will lift us up. You will exalt us at the
- 54:32Speaker 1: proper time. Something about being discouraged that keeps us humbled.
- 54:38Speaker 1: We're rarely proud and discouraged at the same time. So
- 54:42Speaker 1: in our humility, Father, we call upon you. We ask
- 54:46Speaker 1: you to help us to lift our spirits. Thank you
- 54:51Speaker 1: that Christ loves us and keeps on loving us. Thank
- 54:57Speaker 1: you that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
- 55:03Speaker 1: And there's nothing we can bring that would bring favor
- 55:05Speaker 1: to you outside of what Christ provides for us. So
- 55:11Speaker 1: I pray that we will remember today the value of
- 55:15Speaker 1: thinking on things that are true and honest and just,
- 55:18Speaker 1: pure and lovely and of good report. Help us to
- 55:21Speaker 1: fix our minds on those things rather than the things
- 55:24Speaker 1: that drag us down. Give us a rallying point around you,
- 55:30Speaker 1: dear Lord, as we, your children, need that. since times
- 55:37Speaker 1: are like they are. Our moods are so given to change. Lastly, Lord,
- 55:44Speaker 1: I pray for those who've never met your Son as
- 55:46Speaker 1: Savior and Lord. I pray that their discouragement will be
- 55:50Speaker 1: broken by the realization that your Son's death on the
- 55:55Speaker 1: cross paid the complete payment for their sins. So there's
- 56:00Speaker 1: nothing they need to do or promise or change or
- 56:03Speaker 1: give up or become in order to be accepted by you,
- 56:07Speaker 1: is simply to trust in your Son. May they do that.
- 56:12Speaker 1: Now unto him who was able to guard us from
- 56:14Speaker 1: stumbling and present us faultless before the presence of his
- 56:17Speaker 1: glory with exceeding joy, to the great God our Savior
- 56:22Speaker 1: be glory and majesty, dominion and power forever and ever
- 56:26Speaker 1: and ever and ever. In his great name we pray.
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