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Jen, Jeff, and Kitty - Truth Bombs and Public Hookups · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's cute. But what she's referring to this.
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  Speaker 3: As this girl was like kind of like pussy naive,
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  Speaker 3: like grow up.
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  Speaker 2: But maybe that's what.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, but I didn't think she was like that.
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  Speaker 4: I could feel this is gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: This is the Cat's in Pudding Podcast, a melting pot
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  Speaker 3: of and now here's Jen Putting.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody, Welcome to our episode. Cat get it right, Cats
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  Speaker 4: putting in, Kitty and Chaz and Jeffoy and Jeffoey and jeffoe.
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  Speaker 5: Nipples, Jeff It's cats and Putting and Kitty and jeff
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  Speaker 5: Where the ends?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and yeah, this is probably the last. This will
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  Speaker 3: get us canceled.
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  Speaker 4: Just kidding, so honestly. And the headlights are on.
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  Speaker 3: The headlights are on, We're here, totally Wow, your headlights
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  Speaker 3: on or no, I guess you're wearing a bra.
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  Speaker 4: The boobs do look good in that in that they do, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: they look nice.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, someone asked me this the other day, what is
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  Speaker 3: your favorite part about your body?
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  Speaker 4: My favorite part about me?
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  Speaker 2: Like what do you like?
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  Speaker 3: Look at and you're like, damn, like I look really good?
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm really proud of like this checking.
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  Speaker 4: Myself that much anymore? That way, I'm like, everything feels
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  Speaker 4: like it's falling apart really probably.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like your boobs are good, Like, is there.
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  Speaker 2: Anybody out there and your boobs are still up? Like
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  Speaker 2: you don't have saggy tits.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but that depends what they look like without the bra.
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  Speaker 4: Facts me too, this is this is what you don't
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  Speaker 4: have a bra?
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  Speaker 5: Then, you know what when you passed the me, you
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  Speaker 5: gotta be like, that's my bus is my ass?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say I think it's still a pretty
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  Speaker 4: good butt. It is, but yeah it's a good butt
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  Speaker 4: for Yeah, it's not bad. I don't take that pancake ass.
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  Speaker 4: That's it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was sculpted to perfection.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah it was.
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  Speaker 3: I would love to say Jen did so much squats
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  Speaker 3: and work on it, but it was.
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  Speaker 4: It was against she took the short cut.
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  Speaker 3: She did as the longest the longest plane ride of
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  Speaker 3: her life. I hear about it all the time, at
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  Speaker 3: least once a month about her horrible experience.
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  Speaker 4: It was a play right, it was a it was
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  Speaker 4: a carer.
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  Speaker 3: I heard from Gina that you had to sit somewhere
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  Speaker 3: like this because you couldn't anything.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I did.
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  Speaker 4: I couldn't sit and and the camera driver thought I
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  Speaker 4: was crazy, like where are you going?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, they probably thought you were giving someone a
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  Speaker 3: blowjob in the backseat, but nope.
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  Speaker 2: Just got my ass in check? Did no?
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  Speaker 4: Could I ask the question? After you get is it
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  Speaker 4: a what lift? Or no? It was? It was sculpted
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  Speaker 4: they took. I did like both, it's a fat so
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  Speaker 4: maybe you can't sit on your ass for a while.
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  Speaker 4: You can't, it hurts to sit on it. It's uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 4: And then how long it was it was uncomfortable for
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  Speaker 4: the worst discomfort was probably two weeks. But it took
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  Speaker 4: me about six months before I could sit on it
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  Speaker 4: because it's still bother me when I sat. I want
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  Speaker 4: to ask a dumb question, maybe was it worth it? No?
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  Speaker 5: When you get your fat taken out of your stomach
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  Speaker 5: and you put it in your ass, So now you
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  Speaker 5: got fat that wasn't there there?
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  Speaker 4: How does it adhere? And if you sit on it,
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  Speaker 4: could it squish and move around?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 4: That's what I was concerned about, is that stupid?
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  Speaker 5: No, it doesn't move like in other words, if I
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  Speaker 5: took the fat out of my belly and put it
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  Speaker 5: in my ass and I go sit down, it's not.
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  Speaker 4: Adhered and attach itself. Yet they put it in it
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  Speaker 4: like they put in a pocket and something. That's how
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  Speaker 4: it's explained to me. But that's why you really can't
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  Speaker 4: sit on it for a couple of weeks because you
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  Speaker 4: don't want to move it. So it's now then I
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  Speaker 4: guess it takes time to ed here and then, but
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  Speaker 4: then it's still uncomfortable because you remember when you get
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  Speaker 4: light boat, they are like shy, oh that hurts.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, weird question for you, do you ever regret any
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  Speaker 3: of the things you've gotten done, like maybe like your
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  Speaker 3: boob job or like getting your butt done? Like would
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  Speaker 3: you take anything back of like any of the work
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  Speaker 3: you've gotten.
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  Speaker 4: I mean I only did I did my button, I
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  Speaker 4: did I tell me talk and my boobs? I mean
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  Speaker 4: I didn't do I didn't do I know I did
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  Speaker 4: down here too, but I didn't do major. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: I know people have done it like four or five times,
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  Speaker 4: which is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That is crazy.
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  Speaker 4: I would probably not say I would never do my
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  Speaker 4: butt again ever. Never what I do my boobs again
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  Speaker 4: and lift them in a couple of years if they
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  Speaker 4: saw it to say, aga, would.
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  Speaker 2: That seems normal? Though? Do you get your boobs done
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  Speaker 2: every like ten years or something?
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  Speaker 4: They say you should change You changed the empty plants
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  Speaker 4: twenty years, yeah, ten to twenty years. But they took
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  Speaker 4: my implants out and they tested them when I did
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  Speaker 4: when I did, because what happened was when I lost
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  Speaker 4: I lost so much weight when I got them. When
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  Speaker 4: the second time was I had to get them lifted
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  Speaker 4: that I was like, it was like I was like
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  Speaker 4: a g it was ridiculous what I was and I
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  Speaker 4: and yeah, it was like yeah, and I had, you know,
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  Speaker 4: I wanted to get my nipples done. So so when
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  Speaker 4: they took them out and they lifted them just to lift,
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  Speaker 4: they were fine. And they were like if they if
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  Speaker 4: your body did not reject them, put them back in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: So they tested them. They were fine. They were like
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  Speaker 4: they felt like the way they did when they first
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  Speaker 4: they first put the men so plastic starts to putting
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  Speaker 4: back in. So because that's where a lot of things happen,
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  Speaker 4: is if you.
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  Speaker 2: Is your body rejected, but if.
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  Speaker 4: It didn't do and if they're fine, they use me
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  Speaker 4: in plants again. And that was I think it was
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  Speaker 4: ten years later, No, eight years later. I did that,
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  Speaker 4: but this is the one, but I'm gonna probably have
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  Speaker 4: to do it. You are you single? I don't know
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  Speaker 4: what I am right now? You sing, yes, very single.
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  Speaker 3: I always try. I just fail. I think that's my
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  Speaker 3: biggest flaw is I don't know how to date.
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  Speaker 4: Why.
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  Speaker 3: I could tell you the worst dating stories. I've been
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  Speaker 3: on dates and they were like ten minutes into the day.
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  Speaker 3: A guy asked me if I was autistic. I've been
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  Speaker 3: on dates that I just like, I'm trying all these
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  Speaker 3: new things to try to work on my dating experience.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, do you.
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  Speaker 4: Think that you were at fault? Do you? Could you go? Like,
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  Speaker 4: I see what he why he thinks that.
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  Speaker 3: I think to certain people, I get viewed as like
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  Speaker 3: a cartoon character sometimes between like my habits, the way
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  Speaker 3: I present myself on social media. I think there's just
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  Speaker 3: a lot of different things that you could see of
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  Speaker 3: me that it is ish of me, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean. But it's not like every single part of me,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like you know me, like
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  Speaker 3: if you asked me to go to dinner, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like Jeff's little picky, like I probably shouldn't take him
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  Speaker 3: to Indian.
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  Speaker 2: Some new person who's asking me out on a date
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  Speaker 2: or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Be a turn off when they're trying to get to
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  Speaker 3: know you, when they're like, oh, I'm not signing up
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  Speaker 3: for this because there's a food restriction, or oh he
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  Speaker 3: posts this on the internet, or oh he has an
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  Speaker 3: only fan. There's like little things that people don't like.
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  Speaker 5: But don't you feel though I feel personally your little.
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  Speaker 4: Kinks, you're a little whatever you want to.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I may say if I was really into you,
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  Speaker 5: if I was a guy and I was into you,
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  Speaker 5: I would be like I love all his little little yeah,
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  Speaker 5: all his little idiosyncrasies. I think that's what you need
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  Speaker 5: to find, Like, you need to find somebody who's gonna.
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  Speaker 4: Love all those things about you and enhance it.
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  Speaker 2: That's the goal.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think you said it the best. It's how
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  Speaker 4: they define them. You can define them as ill ichy
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  Speaker 4: or an idiosyncrasy, yeah, or like a quirk or like that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, also things you know, like you value certain things,
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  Speaker 3: you value certain things. Right, So I can meet a
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  Speaker 3: guy and we think each other so attractive. But he
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  Speaker 3: might be like a huge foodie, and so being a
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  Speaker 3: foodie is a huge part of his life, where like
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  Speaker 3: for me that's not. So we might not be a
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  Speaker 3: good match because when we travel, he might want to
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  Speaker 3: go to like all these restaurants and try all these
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  Speaker 3: different foods and like pick at my plate.
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  Speaker 2: And for me, I don't want.
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  Speaker 3: You to touch my plate, I don't want to order
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  Speaker 3: apps for the table like I We've been at dinner,
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  Speaker 3: you know, like I like, I like my plate, I
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  Speaker 3: like my shit. You know, you have your drink, you
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  Speaker 3: have your play, and we're good.
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  Speaker 5: But I thought you were perfect, didn't even so what
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  Speaker 5: you you did?
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  Speaker 4: You a thing, we did all the exactly walking together.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm saying, like some people that's a big thing.
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  Speaker 4: Like what I mean, like sharing food with you, just.
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  Speaker 3: Food in general, right, Like some people love food and
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  Speaker 3: they want to go do all these things like Haibachi
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  Speaker 3: Indian food, a Middle Eastern restaurant whatever it is, right,
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  Speaker 3: Like they want to go to more, they probably would
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  Speaker 3: rather date someone who is more into that stuff sets
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  Speaker 3: what they're into.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you want dating apps?
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  Speaker 2: All of them? Girl? Are you want dating apps?
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  Speaker 4: You wait, let's direct this.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like what dating apps are you going on?
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  Speaker 4: I'm single? We know you're a single. But when was
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  Speaker 4: the last real date you've been on?
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  Speaker 5: I want to say, uh, two months ago?
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  Speaker 4: Two months ago? And had that go? It went? Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Was they were they an actor? No?
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  Speaker 2: We should do it again.
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  Speaker 4: I was kind of bored, got it. I was filing
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  Speaker 4: my nails.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm joking, I was bored. I think I need
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  Speaker 5: another artist, not just an actor, Like, I need somebody
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  Speaker 5: who's like you're what you're saying. I need somebody who's quirky,
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  Speaker 5: is artistic, who's autistic a little bit maybe.
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  Speaker 2: Sighted.
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  Speaker 4: A perfect couple. I would compromise your food ship.
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  Speaker 5: No, but like I need somebody who's very just somebody artie.
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  Speaker 5: They could be a painter and musician, something like that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I don't know even somebody who.
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  Speaker 5: Builds houses as an artistic eye in decorating or building.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know something creative, and it's very hard to
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  Speaker 5: find at a certain age.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, that is true. You know you don't have the
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  Speaker 4: glass color rose.
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  Speaker 5: You don't colored glass rose glasses glasses.
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  Speaker 4: As you get older, you see people exactly what they are.
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  Speaker 3: But do you notice that, like you two obviously being
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  Speaker 3: close in age, do you notice a lot of your
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  Speaker 3: friends settling in relationships because they don't want to be alone?
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  Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like that?
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I know a few people who have. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I do. I think that. I think so. I think
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  Speaker 4: that a lot of people are still together that I
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  Speaker 4: know that probably should have been divorced a long time ago,
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  Speaker 4: that is still together just because worlds what else are
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  Speaker 4: they going to do?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: And I think it's just like I don't know, I
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  Speaker 4: see it like eating away at them every day like
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  Speaker 4: they I feel like they just become more complacent and
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  Speaker 4: they're just like I don't know, they're not. They don't
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  Speaker 4: like to go out anymore, they don't have to do
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  Speaker 4: anything anymore. Yeah, yeah, it's pretty sad, like it is sad,
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  Speaker 4: like you know, like Seah like me, and you like
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  Speaker 4: to do things, will like well, spar the moment, want
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  Speaker 4: to do something, we'll cool, Well, let's go, let's go
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  Speaker 4: do something. I feel like that these women that I
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  Speaker 4: used to be like that, they're just like it's just
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  Speaker 4: dragging them down. And I don't know if that's like
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  Speaker 4: I feel like like like Gene is getting that way.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry I'm talking about you.
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  Speaker 3: But you know what it is is I think as
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  Speaker 3: you grow up, it's so hard to like grow with
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  Speaker 3: a person.
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  Speaker 4: Not that I think you and Danny have to get divorced.
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  Speaker 4: I just think that I think that you're becoming complacent.
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  Speaker 4: You're talking to you actually do somebody Bushes did name drop, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but I would say a last name. I didn't say
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  Speaker 4: a last name.
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  Speaker 2: But we know who you're talking to, complete me, bleep her.
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  Speaker 4: Out, bleep that name out, so they don't know.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, but no, I think I think that there's
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people who when you start dating, you
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  Speaker 3: become that other person, if that makes sense, Like you
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  Speaker 3: ever see couples, then they start looking like siblings, Like
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  Speaker 3: you start dressing the same a little bit all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden, Like the girl also loves the Philadelphia Eagles
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  Speaker 3: and you're like, bitch, you never watch football in your life.
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  Speaker 3: You're just going like that type of ship. It's like
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  Speaker 3: I like going back to what you're saying. I think
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  Speaker 3: the pro of dating an equal creative It's like you
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  Speaker 3: have your ship, you have your friends, you have your career,
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  Speaker 3: you have exactly what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: He has his ship, he has his hobbies.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I think the ultimate goal is is I'm
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  Speaker 3: not looking into like a clone of me. I'm looking
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  Speaker 3: for someone who enjoys their own ship. I enjoy my ship.
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  Speaker 3: We have some similar interests. New stuff, Yeah it would
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  Speaker 3: be great.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like women and I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: but but it's it's different for people in our age group,
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  Speaker 4: especially women, because I think either men are intimidated by
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  Speaker 4: successful women and then oh they want to use this
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  Speaker 4: for something.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, I would say, that's an interesting just drop
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  Speaker 3: the bomb.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that's the truth.
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  Speaker 4: You just drop the truth bomb.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know older men like that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we need to sound effect, but we'll go like
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  Speaker 4: one the twin power. Yeah, but you'll say, is.
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  Speaker 5: Being gay a gay man and dating what your quirks?
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  Speaker 5: Is that kind of like not the norm and like
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  Speaker 5: like that is that why it's a little harder because I.
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  Speaker 3: Think no, I think it's because they alreadys think with
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  Speaker 3: their dick that's the big issue.
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  Speaker 2: So no one's it's all testosteria.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what it is.
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  Speaker 5: But there are some guys that just want a good
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  Speaker 5: good guys out there that are not like that, but
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  Speaker 5: of course they're going to have, you know, the urges
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  Speaker 5: and want to have.
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  Speaker 4: Sex guys guys.
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  Speaker 5: But there's some good guys out there too that want
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  Speaker 5: a real relationship.
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  Speaker 2: But I always think, like, I mean, you got were
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  Speaker 2: you ever married?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: So I feel like down the line, you know, after
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  Speaker 3: you've been faithful for X amount of time, I could
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  Speaker 3: see one off situations being acceptable. I would never want
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  Speaker 3: to open relationship. But like if a person I was
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  Speaker 3: with was, you know, on a bachelor party, living his
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  Speaker 3: life in he can knows, and he met some random
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  Speaker 3: guy and they hooked up, I'd be like, you're.
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  Speaker 2: On vacation for giving it, so would you just like
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to know, Like if you.
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  Speaker 4: Found out, because it always comes out, I.
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  Speaker 3: Think that would be fine as long as you didn't
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  Speaker 3: bring it home, you know what I mean, Like, go
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  Speaker 3: have an experience and like have fun, but I don't want.
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  Speaker 4: To madly love deeply madly.
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  Speaker 2: Once and I went psychopathic.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So if I think you're saying this now, maybe
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  Speaker 5: you're not madly madly.
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  Speaker 2: I have numerous friends that this works for though.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, but then they're not madly in love them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Every other day because it does only happen once. Once
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  Speaker 4: it happens, it off, right, it's a it's a thousand
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  Speaker 4: off twelve hundred, there's no one off and you can
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  Speaker 4: control yourself like I.
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  Speaker 3: Did want, but there's like swinger couples, Like you don't
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  Speaker 3: think that works?
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  Speaker 5: No, wait, listen, if it works for both, it works,
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  Speaker 5: But is that what you want?
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to be a swinger couple, but I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: like you want to get older.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't stop because then once you do it once
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: with them, they're gonna want to do it all the time.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: But that keeps a relationship interesting.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Like, not to be shady, but your divorce and your divorce,
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: like why did those relationships end? Because things didn't progress
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: or get interesting because.
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: My husband was an asshole and went to jail and
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: robbed everybody, including me and ship number two wanted. No,
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: I'm not name dropping. He knows who he is. He
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: knows who he is. He left his children left me,
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: abandoned me, abandoned his wife and his children. Wow, and
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: then got mad at me because I decided to be successful,
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: be successful strong with strong without him, He's not all
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: that in the banker chips and he does. And oh
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: and and the best is he said, he just said
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: to somebody recently, this is the funniest ship. And I
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: hope he's listening. I hope you're listening. Wow. Oh yeah
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: it does. She's successful and she has this shit. It
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: doesn't mean anything to me. Bullshit. I called bullshit for that.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: I called bullshit at that. Wait, he said he doesn't
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: care about No, he doesn't care about success and money anymore.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: Oh really, that's the reason why you went to j
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: l asshole, left your whole fucking family.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: But that's why he does so many things, and like
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: the public thing, trying.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: To be her on baddies, right, he tries to. I'm
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: letting it out now. He tries to be me, He does,
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: he does try to be me. He tries to not
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: even tries to be me. He hates that this is
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: what I become. Instead of saying that I took you,
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: took care of my children, you you stood there for me,
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: You you took them alone. I had no parents. No,
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: you know what I got. I got that. I'm this,
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: I'm not uh. I went to Ray came in the
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: picture like he swooped in and stole his family. No,
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: you lost your family, asshole. No, you set and if
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: you wanted your family, you should have fought for us
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: harder because guess what, Ray would have stepped aside.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: But there was also a time I feel like you
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: did give him an opportunity that you were like, we
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: can have discussions.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: You were open minded to maybe being somebody.
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: You know what, I wanted to do it for my children,
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: and I do love my in laws. I do love
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: them daily. But my problem is is with them. They
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: they enabled their son. They enabled their son for what
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: he's done. His in laws under the bus, they've enabled him,
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: enabled him under the bust, under the bus, because you
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: know what, I look at it this way because I
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: did not like that. I heard that, and I'm like, dude,
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: like you you should have kissed the grounds I walked
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: on because you'll never have any man.
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: I hate to say this to the man. I don't
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: think I can't say a man. I can't be generalize
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: everybody in one basket, But I would say it's I
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: think it's very hard for a man to have his
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: ex or even a man. That's why men have trouble
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: dating successful women, strong women. They want the denzil and distress.
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: They want the wilting daisy. I think most men like
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: the power of feeling like the the alpha dog. They're
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: the alpha dog in this situation because you were like,
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: oh you're gonna do that?
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: Watch this? Well, you know what he is. They want
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: to put me in the alpha dog situation. I didn't
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: want to be there. He put me there, you know what.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: This is his fault. He put me there because he
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: put me into this situation. So what did you expect
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: me to do? And now you're angry with me, and
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: and you're at me now and then I did all this. No, no,
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: but this is what I'm talking about.
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: Like I told our last guest, you have to be
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: a very strong, special person because the other woman what
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: would have just you were you were an r n
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: they would have stayed being a nurse and living there
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: nine to five, little life and said, Okay, I got
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: a good job, I can make ends meet. You will like, no,
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: I'm going to be that on steroids, and I'm going
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: to open my own business and I'm gonna open another business.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna open another business, and I'm gonna be a Badassay.
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: I'm a bad You could. I could, but I don't
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: know if I could fight anymore.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Not allowed to.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: Wes West a way a couple months. Do you feel
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: this way, Catherine? Do you feel that like men that
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: if you're too much more successful than them, they have
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: they have a problem with you, or they want something
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: from you. Do you don't you don't feel that way.
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: I feel that I've come across that quite a few times,
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: and I feel that are Steve Shirippa, who was on
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: Sopranos with me. He said to me, you have to
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: find somebody who is stronger, stronger than you, like stronger,
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: and somebody that can deal with you having a voice.
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: Me being me, you know, I'm voisterous.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: But not all the time.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: Sometimes I'm actually shock. I have many sides to me.
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: Sometimes I could be actually shock.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Whyt Yeah you may you may not.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: You You're not around me enough to see it. But
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: some of my friends are like, why are you so quiet? Now?
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Why are you doing this? Why? Like that? I have
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: different sides to me in different moods. But what when
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: I'm out.
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: I guess men are intimidated by strong women.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: They are and they put you down to make themselves
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: feel better. Like to me, it's like, you know what
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: if you I do I love a strong man. I
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: wish I had a strong man. I wish that they
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: could be be, you know, lead me. I will want
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: somebody to lead me a little bit too. I do
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: want that. I don't want to be the one who's
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: in the driver seat all the time. I really don't.
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: I really don't. I want a lot of women say this,
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: you know that you're a lot I hear this. I
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: don't want it. I was put in this situation that
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: I really didn't want to be. And I mean, listen,
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: I'm glad and I thank God every day that I
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: that I have that drive to that. But be But
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: you know what, as somebody who's with me, you should
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: be proud of me. You should say wow, you're amazing.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: Not be jealous or or resentful or angry. You know,
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: be proud, be say wow. You know that's what you
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: should be like.
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: But you're a reminder of somebody. You're a reminder of
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: a failure that they're not You're mirroring to them that
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: they're not successful.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: But don't you think you're looking at it from a
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: situation that you met him when you were how.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: Oled twenty six? But I know him from when I'm younger.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: But exactly so like at twenty six years old, thirty
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: years ago, Like you're not that same person.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: I'm not the same person.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: So I feel like you are so far past this
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: whole situation.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: So I feel like the fact that this is even
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: still remotely in your wheelhouse is like we just got
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: to like throw it away somehow, because I feel like
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: when you still keep it, you're.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: The unfortunate part is that he's still my kids fault
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: that he's connected to me.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: But your kids are adults now.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it doesn't matter. He's still connected to you
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: for the rest of your life. It's not like I
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: could just forget about it and say okay.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: But if I were you, I think I would like
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: unfollow him, unfollow the new girlfriend. I would like, oh
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: maybe not tough to like, I would just avoid him.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like you help him sometimes, right like industry
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: related you host a party if he hasn't, it helped
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: him or things like that where I feel like you
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: should really just avoid, you know, like you said, if
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: it's your kid's wedding, if there's a birthday party, whatever,
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: you're totally gonna have to see him. But I think
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: you do more by keeping your toes in a little
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: bit around him that you should not need.
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: I listen, I learned my lesson to keep my toes.
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: My toes are completely out of the water now, but
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: it's completely out of the wall.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: This is a new thing for you.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: Then this has been Yeah, this has been. Yeah, that's it.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: So I'm done with that. I'm done. I had to
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: pull myself out of it.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I think this will help you, like really really like
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: move on and figure out what you want.
• 24:24
  Speaker 5: Could we could we go into another kind of time? Yeah,
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: I want to talk about something that what is going
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: on in the world right now, all the craziness. I mean,
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: I know we don't want to dip into politics because
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: I don't, I don't need me. I'm talking about the technology.
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: What about all the flights that have been canceled?
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: How about.
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: What three weeks ago we couldn't call each other. The
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: phone systems were down for Verse and Tea Mobile.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Where was that.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: A couple of weeks with you. This it just happened
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: last week. Last week it happened. You couldn't call anybody.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: The other night, my daughter couldn't come home from Florida
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: because they kept canceling the flight.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: But the flights. Oh, I think you're referring to androids.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: I have an iPhone.
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: Okay, I no, I haven't. I have an iPhone.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: It was the Android people. It's you need to pay
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: for an iPhone and then you won't have a problem
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: with technology.
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: Well, let me tell you this. Before an election, if
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: you notice, there's always going to be a shooting, and
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: there's always going to be something, something massive that that's
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: going to happen. It always happens all the time. Pray
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: for us, Pray for.
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: Us that were whoever wins this next election has all
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: of our backs, and we can unite as a left
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: and right and just unite and do.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: It's best for all of us.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: And you may not always get what you want, but
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: if you get a little bit of what you want
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: and they get a little bit of what they want,
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: we could meet somewhere in the middle. And I think
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: that's how life should be in every situation.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: That's fair, give and take.
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree. I can't have it all. No listening
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: to each nobody's going to be respect.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I think the basis should be just respect everybody, and
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: as long as everybody has rights and everyone respects each other,
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: then we're good.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: I think that needs to be like the basis. And
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I think right now that's not the basis.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: I'm absolutely right.
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: And you know what, people, the thing is we say,
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: you know, with the land of the Free and freedom
• 26:27
  Speaker 5: of speech and all that, I think it's true. See,
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: I don't have strong opinions, but can you say it
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: in a way that's not hateful?
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: Can you speak in a more.
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: Intelligent way that is not demeaning or putting somebody down
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: to make your point.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: I don't need to put you down to make my point.
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: I can just make my point respectfully.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but that goes back to like cancel culture for example,
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: because I think if somebody says something right like immediately
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: goes into like attack mode that like cancel them, lose
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: this partnership, lose this brand deal. Where it should be
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: more like, let's treat this like a learning experience, tell them, hey,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: you shouldn't have did this because whatever the situation is
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: and instead America is you say one wrong thing that
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: I think you know, you have opinions, you have, But
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: that's everybody, That's what I'm saying most people now it's
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: the land of the free speech.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Whatever.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: You can't say what you want anymore here because of
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: fear of getting eaten alive and canceled.
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: Right, you can't one hundred percent. But the problem is
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: is that that's that's one that is a group that
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: it's people that I'm sorry but too fought to the left,
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: and it is I'm in the middle, and I tell
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: everybody I'm in the middle. I'm for common sense and
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: I'm for for for for for thinking smart. But when
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: it becomes too crazy, if I can't have a conversation
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: with you and the way you're going to respond to
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: me is by yelling at me and stamping your feet
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: and throwing a tan trun or putting me down, then
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: that's a problem. In a democracy, there should be a flow,
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: a free flow of ideas, and and I should be
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: able to talk to my friend and say, well, you
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: know what, I don't agree with that because this, this, this,
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: and this, and my friend should come back to me
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: and say yeah, well I don't agree with this because
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: of this, this and this, and try to discuss it
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: and not. But well, if you don't believe this, that,
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: to me is not the idea right for.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: No one should do that.
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: No, nobody should you, nobody should give us, give me facts,
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: change my mind. How does that change my mind? If
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: you think that you're if you this is the way
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: you think, and this is the way you feel, and
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: maybe this maybe something I could change the way I
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: feel if you explained it to me, change my mind,
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: But change it calmly, don't change the way you're screaming
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: at me to get your point across media gave us
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: the uh.
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: Green light across the line in how we speak to
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: each other, like we crossed the line.
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: Now there's no more respect.
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: There's no more respect. Social media has set it up
• 29:08
  Speaker 5: that there's no respect. There used to be a time
• 29:11
  Speaker 5: in politics and life and whatever, like you're saying, cancel culture,
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: but there was still a line that you don't cross.
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: This is still a line in the way.
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: You speak to me. Don't hit me below the bell.
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: If I just make this fake scenario, I'm for Biden,
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: you're for Trump. Can we have a conversation where I'm not,
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: like I said before, putting your guy down in front
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: of you, like in a vicious way. Yeah, instead of
• 29:43
  Speaker 5: just saying, hey, Jeff, these are my beliefs. I think this,
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: this about more how about given the facts?
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Or I think this this But if I'm being honest,
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: I think the issue is is you'll never really know
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: the facts because we're not involved.
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: That's it.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: But I think my biggest issue with the government is
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: there's so many things we don't know about behind closed doors.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: And they've been in office for some of these people
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: seventy years, sixty years, Like why should that be allowed?
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: Like that?
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: It shouldn't be allowed. There should be term limits and
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: guess and guess who wanted to put install term limits?
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: Trump's Trump wanted.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: To, Well, can they happen?
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: But this is how that will ever happen if the
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: people voting on it are all the people who would
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: lose their jobs.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: But nobody should be in power for that long, nobody,
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: no civil servant should be have a two hundred million
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: dollar bank account. None you work, we put you in office.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: There is no reason why you have that kind.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: I agree with that.
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: I am sorry they made their career out of that.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: They get paid by the Oli gods. They get paid
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: by the war, the war machine, because that's where ninety
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: percent of it comes from. And then who gets hurt
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: by it? But the common people get hurt? And then
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: we got to pay how I taxes we got to
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: pay First of all, it's unconstitution. Don't pay taxes in
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: the constitution. We should not be paying taxes.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Well, I think even the documents from seventeen seventy six
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: or whatever it is, I mean, it's twenty twenty four.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: I think there's a whole different world that things should
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: be that it makes no sense to me.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: There is a lot of things, but it's not the point.
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: The point is that we should not be putting money
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: into things that. Yes, we should be helping the veterans.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: We should be putting the money away for where well,
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: the schools. We should be putting money away for our citizens,
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: not a great people that don't live here. Six agreed,
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: you could in no other country can you cross the
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: border like you could cross the United States. If I
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: went into if I went into Europe and I went
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: into Germany, I couldn't walk across the border in Germany
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: without showing a pass boy, they wouldn't let me in.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: Why is it okay? And why do we And then
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: if we say something we're wrong, Oh, how do you
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: say no, you want to come here? Come here illegally.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: I think the other thing is those are the people
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: who take the jobs that regular Americans don't want to take.
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: And I think even for you, as like a business owner,
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: some people who are business owners or whatever, they would
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: prefer to hire these people because they're dollars and cents
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: for their time whatever they're trying to do work wise,
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: that if I were to pay you, it's going to
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: cost me thousands of dollars, you know what I mean.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: So these people are coming here and getting opportunities because
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: they're getting paid because there's a market for paying someone less.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: And I think being in America, people always try to
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: git people and save money and pay people less, and
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: that's what it is.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: So but they are taking jobs away from Americans.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: Maybe I think the biggest thing is if you are
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: going to take taxes out, I would love a healthcare
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: system that you know, everyone had proper health care. And
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: he was like, hey, like if you want to sleep,
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: and like you want to lay this way you could
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: sleep on my lap, and I was like stranger, stranger,
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: and also, okay, it's kind of hot, like nice, and
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: so I was like, I'm gonna take him up on them.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I'm fucking tired.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: So I like just went like this, and I'm like
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: laying on his lap and then I like feel his
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: dick at hard, like across my face to like laying
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: on his lap, and I was like, do I touch it?
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: Do I touch it?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: What do I do?
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Do? I act like, oh, I don't feel anything.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: But when you knew he was gay, because.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: I knew, Yeah, like I knew, I caught the vibe.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: And so then I like took my blanket and like
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: put over my head and like whipped it out and
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: like did my thing a little bit. And then we
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: didn't fuck on that plane. But then we got off
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: the plane and came back to my hotel and we
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: actually fucked after that.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: But we hooked up on that plane.
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, did you ever see any of these people again?
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: No, he doesn't. This this is what he was. I
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: should be a flight attendant. Maybe that's my problem.
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: Maybe you shouldn't be a flight attendant.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, So how many times on a plane
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: for some reason, my brain's telling me three, but maybe
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: it's only two.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: Now I feel like it's so much more than that.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I've done airports, so maybe I've told
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: you those stories. Sucks in the bathroom is Stanbul shower?
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: Wait? They have a shower in Istanbul airport?
• 34:29
  Speaker 5: Why no?
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: They don't? Do they?
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Why they do? Because he got.
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: You got well, I mean I went to not for
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: like the normal like it was in a lounge, like
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: I was in the airport lounge.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: I pulled up grinder.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: There was a hot guy and I was like, oh,
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go shower, and he came and met me,
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: and then we hooked up in the shower and it's
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: like private shower.
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: There's nobody else in the in the shower. In the bathroom, you.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Like rent the stall like you get it for like
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: thirty minutes or something to like freshen up on your hand,
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: and they let you go in with somebody else. We
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: could bring three guests to the lounge. So via the lounge,
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: I brought three well you know.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: Maybe because I was I was on that was because
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: I was on first class, so there was like you
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: would also like never do that, though I would never
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: do that in an airport shower, don't you say public
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: is hot? I had sex in a public parking lot
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: elevator once in a in a mall elevator.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: A parking garage elevator in the mall.
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: Oh I did that yesterday.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: It was just ride up and down like a camera
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: in the corner.
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: It was at the end of the night, the mall
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: was closing. It was like an elevator in the back
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: of the parking lot, and there was nobody parked there anymore.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: So basically everybody was cleared out for the most part.
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: I think it was like the last one or two
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: cars were left in there. Oh my god. We went
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: into the elevator the door.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: So you're saying the sex tape exists on whatever camera, say.
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: No, this was like thirty years ago. This didn't happen yesterday.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: They don't have cameras and elevators thirty years ago.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: Maybe somebody's watching it now still jerking off to it.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know, that's pos It could be Google elevator.
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: I don't think that there was there was any There
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: was a guy, I know, like it was a.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Quickie before we pivot this. Have you ever had sex
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: in public, in an elevator and in public park.
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: I'm going to keep that one to myself.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: So that wasn't an l.
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question.
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: Being a guy meeting guys on grinder? Have you ever
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: can that ever be dangerous?
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Mmmm? I think if you're dumb. Sorry, But like for me,
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: I video chat you before I send my address.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: Like some of these people, like I was with a
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: friend and we traveled and he was one of those
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: people who like loved to just get railed anonymously. So
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: he would say, I'm in the room, the doors unlocked,
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: just come in. I'm bent over, And he didn't care
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: who they were. He just wanted someone to come fuck them.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: And I was like, bitch, we're all in the other
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: bedrooms and you're just letting these random people come in
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: and you're texting this address. So after that I've learned, Well,
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: there's prep and there's other things that you could be
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: on to not get that. But the point is that
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: when you're traveling with someone, when you're traveling and you
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: have random people who no offense, like you could be
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: behind the profile. Who's to say that it's not a
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: woman or someone trying or Jeffrey Dahmer or who the fuck.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Knows is on the other end of that.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: They could present as, oh, this is a cute face,
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: but you don't know who's going to show up, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: you're just sending this.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: Well if you're dumb, yes, well he's dumb.
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: Well how about this Jeffrey Dahma was good looking. Yes,
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: I could be on that video check on.
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, let's meet up and shake your ass, right, Yeah,
• 37:54
  Speaker 5: gotta be careful.
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: Be careful.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta be careful with everybody.
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: Like anything you do me up for sex, that's a
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: that's a that's a real being sexually charged.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Meeting somebody like that, Well, then you're vulnerable to.
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: The aggressive aggressor and then the one who's vulnerable.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Yes, especially if you're sending someone to your house.
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: No, no, didn't didn't you have this was some issue
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: that you have with someone and somebody had happened to
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: somebody you knew.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: Why, No, I would for me. The only weird thing
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: that recently happened.
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: Is somebody you knew that they came to the house
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: and they basically robbed them.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: Right, we're not gonna don't name him. I don't know,
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: I don't know long story shore. I have a friend
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: who lives in middle of America and he has money.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: And he said, oh, I he he flaunts his money,
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: you know when sometimes you're not you flown things. That's
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: going to attract peoplelauney and he has to yes, And
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: so he flaunted his money and he invited someone over
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: that he thought was cute, and the guy showed up alone.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: Initially went in the house. They I think we're about
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: to look up. But then he texted his friends saying, Hey,
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: I'm going to this guy's house meet me. And so
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: there's three people in a car in the driveway. And
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: then they went into the home with a gun and
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: robbed him blindly, tied him up, put him in the car,
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: and left him in the middle of a parking lot
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: in the snow. I think he had to walk a
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: mile home because he had no phone, no nothing. And
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: they took money, his rolexes, jewelry from the house and
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: they never got caught.
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: He never did that again. He doesn't show Wolf his
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: money anymore, I hope not.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: No, he's not on the app anymore.
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: I know that, but well, thank god.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: But I think that's like crazy stuff is like sometimes
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: when you're vulnerable, and whether it's your set and you
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: want attention or you're trying to have sex someone you
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: you know, red flags in your brain are like oh whatever,
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: like I'm fine, and then something like that happens and
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: you're like ship.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: But this is also what somebody who he was a
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: little bit older may be lonely.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: He's not older. He was like forty, well.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Was he was?
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: He divorced?
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: No?
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: I think just in general, like you know, people like,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: if you're really horny, sometimes you make some decisions.
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: I think you that at that age you shouldn't be
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: making bad decisions like that.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: You know, have you ever been so horny that you
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: like to do something stupid? Like it's almost like.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: There's something called some women are pretty fu Post not clarity?
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Do women get this post not not clarity? Have you
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: ever heard of No, it's I swear to thing, so
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: post not clarity.
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: Well you've heard of it? Did you ever have a
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: post not clarity?
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: So it's not clarity.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: It's like sometimes you make a questionable decision and like
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: maybe they're ugly, maybe the situation wasn't the smartest whatever
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: it is, and then once you come you're like, well
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: that was fucking horrible, never doing that again, or oh
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: they're gross, like and then you block the number and
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: you finally get this wave of you being like.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Why did I do this?
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: Like you got the gross wave?
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Do you call it a gross wave? Sometimes?
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: But it's like post not clarity, Like the minute you
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: come you know, your hormones, like everything changes and you're like, uh,
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do that one again.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: The girls, yeah, they say everything they could to get
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: the girl where they want them and then it's like done.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you're like, well, yeah, I'm not done,
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: and they're like I'm out. I don't care. I'm done.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: That's what they don't. They don't care.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: So post not clarity, yeah.
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: I could see that, but I do know it was
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: a good That's that's.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: A defined term. Wow, probably in dictionary dot com.
• 42:04
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• 42:08
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