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Ditch Date Night: Why Scheduled Romance Won't Build Intimacy
We’ve been told that date night is the cure for everything.
Disconnected? Date night.
Not having sex? Date night.
Feeling like roommates? Definitely date night.
But what if date night isn’t the problem - and was never the solution?
In this episode we're going to talk about why a once a month night out isn't intimacy - it's performance, and performance doesn't build connection and never builds safety.
I break down:
Why scheduled romance can actually increase pressure
How “checking the box” slowly erodes real connection
The difference between shared experiences and actual intimacy
Why sex…
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