Latest / Recovering Out Loud / Is Addiction a Disease or a Choice? The Different Models That Explain Addiction
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- 0:00For decades, people have debated the question, is addiction,
- 0:04alcoholism a disease or is it a choice?
- 0:07What's going on here? Some people say addiction is a
- 0:10brain disease, others say it is learned behavior, some say it's
- 0:15trauma, coping, or even spiritual disconnection.
- 0:18Depending which model you believe, it completely changes
- 0:21how you think about recovery. So today I'm going to break down
- 0:26the disease model of addiction, other major models used in
- 0:29psychology and treatment, and why understanding these
- 0:32perspectives actually matters in recovery.
- 0:35Disclaimer here, I'm not a doctor or a scientist.
- 0:38This is all personal experience in the 10 years, 11 years I've
- 0:41been in addiction recovery and education.
- 0:45So first the disease model, probably the most widely known.
- 0:49It became especially especially influential through Alcoholics
- 0:53Anonymous medical research and addiction treatment programs.
- 0:58The basic idea is simple. Addiction is a chronic brain
- 1:01disease, just like diabetes or asthma, and it affects how the
- 1:05body functions. So in something like Alcoholics
- 1:08Anonymous and 12 step programs, they believe that addiction is a
- 1:12disease of the mind and body. So it's an allergy of the body
- 1:16and obsession of the mind. When I take that first drink, I
- 1:20can't stop. I need another one to satisfy
- 1:23the urge, the craving. Men and women essentially drink
- 1:26because they like the effect produced by alcohol and drugs,
- 1:29and they'll chase it into the depths of hell.
- 1:33They will go to any lengths to get that next drink or drug
- 1:36because it provides some sort of relief, ease and comfort for
- 1:39them that once I start, I can't stop.
- 1:42And when I'm stopped, I can't stay stopped.
- 1:44I'm constantly obsessing over the next drink or drug.
- 1:47So the disease model focuses on brain changes.
- 1:50Substances alter brain systems involved in reward.
- 1:54So it feels good when I when I get that dopamine hit.
- 1:57Motivation, memory, decision making, and impulse control,
- 2:02these are all factors that contribute to the fact that I
- 2:05have no choice in the matter. Repeated use changes the brain's
- 2:09wiring so that the substance becomes prioritized over
- 2:12everything else. Nothing else matters except for
- 2:14that first drink, that next drug.
- 2:16I will do whatever it takes to get money to achieve that.
- 2:20I will lie, cheat, manipulate, and steal so that I can get that
- 2:24ease and comfort with a few drinks.
- 2:27This is why addiction often involves cravings, compulsive
- 2:30behavior, and relapse when someone wants to stop.
- 2:33So we see people on the streets, for example, that don't have a
- 2:38choice in the matter. They're not enjoying themselves
- 2:40out there, a lot of them. I know for myself, I wasn't
- 2:43enjoying the depths towards the end of my addiction.
- 2:46It was fun in the beginning, and then it becomes about chasing
- 2:49relief. It becomes about just survival,
- 2:52really, my medicine. One important idea in the
- 2:55disease model is this loss of control.
- 2:58People with addiction may sincerely want to stop, but the
- 3:01brain's reward system has been altered.
- 3:04That's why addiction is described as chronic and
- 3:06relapsing. So it's progressive.
- 3:08You'll hear people say it's a progressive disease and it's
- 3:10getting worse, not better over time.
- 3:12That was evidenced in my life when I relapsed after 7 1/2
- 3:15years, I picked up way worse than I left off.
- 3:17I I really couldn't control it. I had no say in the matter and I
- 3:21felt like I needed to drink. So some strengths of the disease
- 3:25model. And again, there's no one way to
- 3:27look at this. This is a multi layered solution
- 3:30to a multi layered problem. There is a lot of different
- 3:33beliefs out there. There's not just one way.
- 3:35So whichever 1 you agree with you confide in, you resonate
- 3:39with, go with that one. So the strength of the disease
- 3:44model is there's big benefits to understanding addiction.
- 3:47First, it reduces stigma. Instead of seeing addiction as
- 3:50moral failure or weakness, it frames it as a medical
- 3:53condition. So it, it doesn't, the way I
- 3:55like to look at it, it doesn't shift blame.
- 3:59It reduces shame, right? We're not shifting blame and
- 4:02saying, oh, it's not up to me. So I'm gonna just do whatever I
- 4:05want. There's no point in all of this.
- 4:06No, it's not about that. It's about reducing shame so
- 4:09that I know that I am not just fucking up and I'm not just a,
- 4:13a, a failure in life. There's more to it than that.
- 4:16It's bigger than me. It's bigger than you.
- 4:19Second, it encourages people to seek treatment so that there is
- 4:23a, a treatment to it. There's not a, there is a
- 4:26solution, but there's not a, a cure.
- 4:29And in my experience, it's a daily reprieve contingent on the
- 4:31maintenance of my spiritual condition.
- 4:33That's me. And 3rd, it emphasizes long term
- 4:36management rather than quick fixes.
- 4:37So this is something that I'm going to be battling with,
- 4:40dealing with and it can lay dormant.
- 4:42It is not going to run my life, not going to drive the bus, but
- 4:46I do have to work on it every single day.
- 4:48It doesn't just go away. It doesn't just disappear when I
- 4:50stop taking substances. Just like other chronic
- 4:54conditions, recovery may involve ongoing support.
- 4:57So it's looking at people as being sick rather than being
- 5:01flawed or broken or beyond repair.
- 5:06They're just stupid, they're just having fun.
- 5:08They're just selfish. They're just making decisions
- 5:11and choices to do that. Some criticisms of the disease
- 5:16model 'cause there are criticisms for sure.
- 5:18There's a lot of scientists and neurologists that believe
- 5:22differently, and it's important to understand all of the
- 5:26perspectives here. That's what I'm trying to do in
- 5:28this episode. So at the same time, the disease
- 5:31model isn't perfect. Some critics say it makes people
- 5:33feel powerless. If addiction is purely a
- 5:36disease, some people interpret that as I have no control over
- 5:39this. Others argue that addiction is
- 5:42more complicated than just brain chemistry.
- 5:44It's multifaceted. Because addiction is also deeply
- 5:48connected to environment, trauma, social conditions,
- 5:52learning and behavior, there's more going on beneath the
- 5:54surface. I talked about that at length in
- 5:56the last episode. So while the disease model
- 6:00explains parts of the picture, many experts believe it doesn't
- 6:02explain the whole story. Next model.
- 6:06So the addiction being a behavioral and learning model,
- 6:11this is another major way of understanding addiction.
- 6:13It's called the learning model. Perspective says addiction
- 6:17develops through conditioning and reinforcement.
- 6:19So it happens over time, reinforced behavior, repeated
- 6:23behavior, repeated patterns or conditioning the brain.
- 6:27In simple terms, your brain learns the substances produce
- 6:30relief or pleasure from whatever you're dealing with.
- 6:33For example, I get stressed at work, I drink alcohol, I feel
- 6:36relief. I can relate to this one as well
- 6:40because for a long time, alcohol and drugs quieted the noise in
- 6:44my head. I always say that made me feel a
- 6:45part of it, made me feel connected.
- 6:47It made me feel like nothing else mattered in the world and I
- 6:50could escape reality for a moment.
- 6:53That illusory freedom. I didn't have to be an adult.
- 6:56So over time, the brain records that pattern and the next time
- 6:59stress appears, the brain says, use that thing that worked
- 7:01before. I know what'll work.
- 7:06Over time, this becomes a habit loop.
- 7:08Triggers start activating cravings automatically, so
- 7:10you're not even thinking about it.
- 7:11Subconscious. You're picking up the drink and
- 7:13you don't even realize you're picking up the drink.
- 7:15How did I get here? How did I get 7 deep already?
- 7:18Your brain has learned a predictable reward pattern.
- 7:21Predictable and deadly. The next model we have is the
- 7:25trauma or self medication model. So this this model focuses on
- 7:30emotional pain and trauma. You often hear Gabe or Mattei,
- 7:34the famous doctor on addiction. He goes on a lot of podcasts, he
- 7:37talks about trauma. This is all addiction is all
- 7:39about trauma and pain. So it's often called the self
- 7:42medication model. According to this view,
- 7:44substances are used to regulate difficult emotional states like
- 7:48anxiety, depression, trauma, shame, loneliness.
- 7:52I am regulated when I am on substances, so people aren't
- 7:56necessarily seeking pleasure, they're trying to reduce pain.
- 8:00I'm in so much pain from whatever happened in the past or
- 8:03whatever, it's usually in the past that this is my solution to
- 8:07that pain. For example, someone with severe
- 8:10anxiety might discover alcohol quite their nervous system.
- 8:13You hear that a lot. It calms me.
- 8:15Someone with trauma might use substances to numb intrusive
- 8:18memories. PTSD is another one.
- 8:21Over time the brain learns substance equals emotional
- 8:24regulation. This is why emotional sobriety
- 8:26is so important and regulating your emotions naturally,
- 8:29healthily, without substance, without mind altering drug.
- 8:34This model helps explain why addiction is so common among
- 8:38people who have experienced childhood trauma, chronic
- 8:41stress, emotional neglect, abandonment issues.
- 8:45The next model is the bio psychosocial model.
- 8:48This one is is probably one of the more popular ones in the
- 8:50science community. Scientific community is called
- 8:53the biosocial biosocial model. This approach combines multi
- 8:58multiple perspectives. It reduces it recognizes that
- 9:01addiction is influenced by three major factors, biological
- 9:05factors. So genetics and brain chemistry,
- 9:07which I talked about in the last episode.
- 9:08It can increase vulnerability. Some people are more
- 9:12biologically susceptible to addiction.
- 9:14I talked about this at length in Why Why do some people get
- 9:17addicted and others don't in that episode?
- 9:19Check it out. Two, we have psychological
- 9:22factors. So things like trauma, mental
- 9:25health conditions, personality traits, coping skills all
- 9:28influence how someone responds to substances.
- 9:31So you are predisposed to these things.
- 9:34You have more likely a chance to get addicted. 3 social factors.
- 9:39So environment, things like peer groups, family dynamic, the
- 9:42culture you grew up with, stress, access to substances, is
- 9:45it around? Are you hanging out with people
- 9:47that are using more often? They all shape the risk of
- 9:50addiction. The biosocial, biopsychosocial,
- 9:54I said that wrong in the beginning.
- 9:55Biopsychosocial model basically says addiction isn't caused by
- 9:59one thing, it's the interaction of many factors.
- 10:02Why these models matter in recovery.
- 10:04So why should we care? These models aren't just
- 10:07theoretical, they influence how treatment works.
- 10:09So how do we treat the illness the the problem at hand?
- 10:14For example, if you follow the disease model, treatment might
- 10:17emphasize abstinence. So completely going off
- 10:20substances, all minded, mood altering substances.
- 10:23Because just because I like the alcohol doesn't mean that I can
- 10:26safely use marijuana because I'm always the the pattern below it
- 10:29is deeper. I'm escaping something instead
- 10:32of coping with it in a healthy way.
- 10:35So the disease model might emphasize abstinence, ongoing
- 10:38recovery programs like 12 step model or SMART Recovery.
- 10:42I need to constantly work at this daily, like I said off the
- 10:45top, and then medical support, if you focus on the learning
- 10:49model, treatments may focus breaking habit loops,
- 10:52identifying triggers, right? These more practical approaches,
- 10:56building new coping strategies, actually writing out what my
- 10:59triggers are and how to combat them.
- 11:02CBT and DBTS, cognitive behavioral therapy and
- 11:05dialectical behavioral therapy. These are methods that are used
- 11:09to treat this sort of breaking these negative thought loops.
- 11:13If you focus on trauma model, treatment may involve therapy,
- 11:17trauma processing, and emotional regulation.
- 11:20So digging up that stuff and dealing with it, not just
- 11:22ignoring it. In reality, effective recovery
- 11:27often involves elements of all three.
- 11:29So it's a multi layered approach.
- 11:32Addiction is one of the most complex human conditions.
- 11:35A lot of people don't really understand it fully and that's
- 11:39why it's such a personal recovery, such a personal
- 11:41journey. It's not one single model
- 11:43explains everything. I used to think that abstinence
- 11:46was the only way to recovery, but I once heard somebody in
- 11:50harm reduction. The other day we were getting
- 11:51naloxone training at school. They talked about recovery being
- 11:56just progress, just wins, small wins, incremental.
- 11:59So if I was drinking 6 beers a day and now drinking three, that
- 12:03is recovery. That is a win.
- 12:04Some people believe that and I am more open minded to that.
- 12:07I do not believe one way my recovery is my recovery.
- 12:10However you practice your recovery is going to be
- 12:12different than the way I practice it and that is fine.
- 12:14It is accepted as long as we are moving towards a goal.
- 12:18What is the goal here? Do I want to get abstinent?
- 12:20Do I want to fix my life or do I want to just moderate?
- 12:23Do I want to control my drinking?
- 12:24In my experience, control is never an option.
- 12:26Moderation was never an option. I could never just take one and
- 12:30take it as prescribed. I never had benefits with that.
- 12:34That is evidenced by my reaction to nicotine.
- 12:37I got back on these damn zin pouches that I just, I, I can't
- 12:42just moderate it. I'm always thinking about it.
- 12:44And it's not something I, I'm proud of.
- 12:47It's not something that I, I want to do for the rest of my
- 12:49life. But you know, these are things
- 12:51that I just need to understand more about myself that I can't
- 12:54have one of anything. And that is OK.
- 12:57There's ways to live around that and to cope with that and to
- 12:59live successfully and happily and whole and be happy, joyous
- 13:02and free while also recognizing that there is work to be done.
- 13:06I'm always in progress. I am always moving toward this
- 13:10power greater than myself, this connection with what I choose to
- 13:13call God. So no single model explains
- 13:16everything like I said. But most modern research will
- 13:19agree on this, that addiction involves changes in the brain,
- 13:23patterns of learning, emotional coping, and life circumstances.
- 13:28This it all involves. It's all-encompassing, and in
- 13:31order to recover, we need to focus on all of these areas.
- 13:36Understanding these models helps us move away from blame and
- 13:39toward compassion and effective recovery.
- 13:41So the better we understand addiction, the better we can
- 13:44help people heal. And this is all about empathy to
- 13:47me. The next time you see someone
- 13:49struggling with addiction in your life or on the street or
- 13:51whatever scenario you might run into, cause addiction is
- 13:54everywhere, Let's place it. If you don't think you have an
- 13:57addiction, rethink how your relationship is with your phone,
- 14:00your social media, your coffee. That is addiction.
- 14:04It's just not. The circumstances may not be
- 14:06harming you in the way they're harming other people.
- 14:09If we can understand and empathize with people instead of
- 14:13saying what's wrong with them, say what happened to them, what
- 14:16are they going through? Everybody is facing a battle
- 14:19that you know nothing about. Try to understand it from
- 14:23everything that is LED up. What happened to that person to
- 14:26make them need to escape it, to look for relief, to look for
- 14:32ease and comfort? What is driving that behavior?
- 14:35What is driving the need to seek pleasure or to whatever it is
- 14:41for that person? Understanding it can help us
- 14:44treat it can help us empathize with people more instead of
- 14:47sympathize and look down on people and realize that at the
- 14:52end of the day, this is not a choice.
- 14:53That that is the one thing that upsets me is when I hear people
- 14:57say, well, they're just choosing to to do that.
- 14:59They're choosing to live this way.
- 15:00They're choosing to separate themselves from society and
- 15:04isolate. I have spent a lot of time
- 15:06around recovering addicts and new people and new guys and
- 15:09worked with them one-on-one. If it was a choice, a lot of us
- 15:13wouldn't need recovery. We would just choose to change
- 15:16our life. And for some people, they can
- 15:17just do that. They can just change small
- 15:20things in their life and work out more and read more books and
- 15:23go to retreats and see a psychologist and they're fine.
- 15:27Go on a certain medication and they're OK.
- 15:30But at the end of the day, think of recovery like this.
- 15:33It is simply just improvements, progress, not perfection.
- 15:37We are moving toward a goal, and any small win is a win.
- 15:41If I stop doing heroin and I'm smoking weed now, that is a win.
- 15:44That is recovery. If I am California sober, which
- 15:47a lot of people disagree with, and I did for a long time, Try
- 15:50to open your mind to that concept that maybe that person
- 15:53doesn't need abstinence, maybe they don't want it ever.
- 15:57And I know certainly I was practicing harm reduction when I
- 15:59was in my relapse. I was looking for ways to safely
- 16:02use drugs. And I just found that I could
- 16:05never come to a happy, useful incorporation of drugs in my
- 16:10life, even ADHD medication. There was no benefit to me.
- 16:14It was just providing relief, providing illusory freedom.
- 16:17I didn't want to be an adult. I wanted to escape the moment.
- 16:20I had such a hard time, still have such a hard time being in
- 16:23the now and just being in my skin, being here and now.
- 16:29So meditation helps with that. All these other things help with
- 16:31that. But at the end of the day, try
- 16:34to open your mind to more different concepts.
- 16:36And there's not one way to recover.
- 16:38There's not one way to get this thing.
- 16:41It is multilayered, multifaceted.
- 16:43Have compassion towards those people because at the end of the
- 16:46day, I think we're all just trying to do better.
- 16:48And when I see the world that way, there are, I have no
- 16:52problems. There are no issues in the
- 16:54world. There are no discrepancies.
- 16:57I'm I'm seeing the world through a lens of acceptance through
- 17:00compassion, tolerance, love and tolerance of others is our code
- 17:04patience. I just need to accept that if I
- 17:08see somebody living in a way that I disagree with, I can
- 17:11simply say to myself, that person is simply not living in a
- 17:15way in which I would prefer. And when they see me, I am not
- 17:18living in a way I in which they would prefer.
- 17:21And that's OK. We can all coexist.
- 17:23I can be of service to those people.
- 17:27So is addiction a disease? I don't know.
- 17:31I believe today that there I just my brain is wired
- 17:34differently than other people and that it provides me with
- 17:37enough solace to work my recovery program that I know
- 17:41that I can never moderate anything.
- 17:42I could never just have one of anything, anything mood or mind
- 17:45altering. Even gambling, shopping.
- 17:48These are all things that I used to escape the present moment.
- 17:51I to escape myself. Thank you for listening today.
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